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Speaker 1: Uh, I'm so ready. It's like I make a dollar more,

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Speaker 1: dear blog.

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Speaker 2: I don't know if you guys ever have this moment

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Speaker 2: where you kind of reflect and you want to apologize

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Speaker 2: to your parents. It happened to me over the weekend

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Speaker 2: because my family was over for single de Maaya. You know,

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Speaker 2: we do a big celebration, and while they were there,

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Speaker 2: they were pressuring me to have a baby, per usual

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Speaker 2: any time the family gets together. Nothing never mind anything.

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Speaker 2: I've accomplished this far, but you know I don't have

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Speaker 2: a child. So we got on that topic and I

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Speaker 2: started to think about it, like at this age, if

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Speaker 2: I had a kid, would I really be mentally strong

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Speaker 2: enough to do it, like to really raise a child.

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Speaker 3: Yes, the answers yes, I know that's rhetorical question, but

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Speaker 3: the answer, of course is yes.

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Speaker 1: Fred.

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Speaker 2: When I started thinking about this, you know, my sister

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Speaker 2: raised me, So I started thinking about the things that

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Speaker 2: she was going through and the age she was raising me.

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Speaker 2: I don't think I can handle that. Like I saw

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Speaker 2: it was like just thinking about how often are you

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Speaker 2: to call her at work and like bother her for

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Speaker 2: stupid stuff like hey, can I make chicken tenders?

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Speaker 4: Say?

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Speaker 1: Can I go outside like I, She'll do that. Can

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Speaker 1: you imagine that I'm forty three years old.

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Speaker 3: I still call my mom and ask her if I

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Speaker 3: can spend money on stuff and what should I have

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Speaker 3: for dinner?

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Speaker 1: Oh? Yeah, no, I still yeah, so she It never stops.

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Speaker 2: Exactly, That's my point. So I don't know if I

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Speaker 2: can handle that because I cannot imagine leaving this job,

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Speaker 2: going home.

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Speaker 1: There's somebody else that's home. There's somebody else that.

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Speaker 2: You have to pay for. Like, I just couldn't wrap

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Speaker 2: my mind around doing it. And then I started thinking

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Speaker 2: about like remember where your parents would call and say,

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Speaker 2: can you take the meat out the freezer. I'm going

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Speaker 2: to make that tonight, and you, as a child, you

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Speaker 2: have nothing else to do, that's your what responsibility? You

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Speaker 2: don't even take the meat out the freezer. I would

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Speaker 2: lose my mind if I got home and the meat

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Speaker 2: was not out.

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Speaker 1: Of the freezer.

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Speaker 2: I understand why parents get off work, go home and

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Speaker 2: close their door and don't want to talk to the

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Speaker 2: rest of the world. I completely understand. You know, it's

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Speaker 2: just like when you think about what parents go through

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Speaker 2: and rufie, I know you can feel this.

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Speaker 1: You probably just want to go how I play Xbox PlayStation,

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Speaker 1: but yeah, you still do.

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Speaker 2: It's just hard. So I don't know if anybody else

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Speaker 2: have the reflections of like how they used to bother

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Speaker 2: their parents and just they are the world's strongest soldiers.

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Speaker 1: Because I'm true, some.

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Speaker 3: Of the stuff I used to complain about her could

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Speaker 3: even complain about now about my childhood, I'm like, I

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Speaker 3: don't know that I could handle it. Yeah, I mean

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Speaker 3: the amount of money they spent on the private school

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Speaker 3: that I hated.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know.

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Speaker 3: All the basketball games they had to go to to

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Speaker 3: watch me lose. I was the worst player, and they

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Speaker 3: still came to everything. I mean, just like the overall commitment.

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Speaker 3: The craziest thing for me, Kiki, is that when my

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Speaker 3: mom was my age, I was nineteen, she had a

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Speaker 3: nineteen year old almost twenty in college. Like for me

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Speaker 3: like what the last twenty years would have looked like

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Speaker 3: in order for me to get I don't know that

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Speaker 3: the kid would still be alive. To be honest with you,

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Speaker 3: I'm barely alive. I can hardly keep my own self alive. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: it's no one's ever ready to your parent. But it

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Speaker 3: definitely is karma sometimes, like for me, like I was

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Speaker 3: a I was.

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Speaker 4: A dick as a kid, you know, like like like

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Speaker 4: like you're you're raising a mini you, and it's just

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Speaker 4: like why are you like this?

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Speaker 1: I'm like, oh, that's because of me. Everything. Then you

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Speaker 1: want to have more, you want to have more kids,

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Speaker 1: like it's it's so crazy. Now you're going to have

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Speaker 1: two of them. Yeah, I know too. Mini me's they do.

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Speaker 4: Say, like, don't have kids if you don't want to

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Speaker 4: argue with a mini versus yourself all day. Yeah, that's

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Speaker 4: terrifying the worst for Jess because it's like she deals

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Speaker 4: with me, she deals with and then she's gonna have

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Speaker 4: another like hopefully that one gets all the Jess's personality,

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Speaker 4: our second child.

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Speaker 1: But yeah, so this is why Rufio.

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Speaker 3: Comes in here and he is like he is to us,

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Speaker 3: because then he goes home and he gets served, he

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Speaker 3: gets roasty.

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Speaker 1: Yes, like two people, it's hard training.

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Speaker 4: When you get home, it's like it's like we're up early,

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Speaker 4: we do this show and then just like oh man,

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Speaker 4: I got more to.

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Speaker 1: Do, Like you can't just like I'm just gonna go

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Speaker 1: give a little less here and you know, for child rearing,

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Speaker 1: you can always tell.

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Speaker 3: I believe you can tell the people like at work

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Speaker 3: who try and dominate or like try and like flex

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Speaker 3: or walk around with their chest puffed out or whatever.

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Speaker 3: You can tell they're the ones to get their asses

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Speaker 3: kicked at home like that their wives just own them.

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Speaker 3: Like we've had a few suits around here over the

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Speaker 3: years that like they think they can come in here

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Speaker 3: and like be assertive, and you know, the second they

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Speaker 3: walk out of here, they just get you know, just

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Speaker 3: just like whipped, like physically assaulted by their because the

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Speaker 3: only the only time they get to exert any power

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Speaker 3: is what or feel like they get to exert any

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Speaker 3: power over anyone anyone is here because they go home

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Speaker 3: and they just get dominated. You can always tell, Yeah,

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Speaker 3: but you are fully worthy and capable.

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Speaker 2: Well thank you, I thank you for saying that. But

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Speaker 2: I do want to apologize to Helena if she's listening.

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Speaker 3: You have to put the TikTok down in order to

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Speaker 3: make the care Can you imagine that, No, like taking

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Speaker 3: taking five minutes just to put the TikTok tag in

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Speaker 3: order to just create the channel. Or I was talking

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Speaker 3: about making the kid that might be on TikTok now too,

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Speaker 3: I don't know you trying to save the damn platform.

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Speaker 3: So that's supposed to go on OnlyFans by the way,

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Speaker 3: Kiki that content.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Yeah, well yeah, I'm on TikTok.

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Speaker 1: I'm hungry, Mom, I'm in the middle of some.

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Speaker 2: I could never oh Fred be like order door dassn't

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Speaker 2: leave me alone.

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Speaker 1: You know the code.

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Speaker 3: I've been waiting for you for years so I can

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Speaker 3: order more and don't feel like a fat out.