1 00:00:00,520 --> 00:00:03,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, they talk better than they say. 2 00:00:03,279 --> 00:00:04,160 Speaker 2: Tell me. 3 00:00:04,600 --> 00:00:08,200 Speaker 1: These are the radio blogs on the Thread show. Okay, 4 00:00:08,440 --> 00:00:10,520 Speaker 1: waiting by the phone from the Hall of Fame in 5 00:00:10,640 --> 00:00:13,160 Speaker 1: just a second, throwback thrown out oney, one hundred and 6 00:00:13,240 --> 00:00:18,639 Speaker 1: fifty bucks. Okky, if you don't lose between now and 7 00:00:18,760 --> 00:00:21,360 Speaker 1: next Friday, then you're gonna have like fifteen hundred bucks. 8 00:00:21,400 --> 00:00:24,520 Speaker 1: I need it. Let's see what happens. We'll playing in 9 00:00:24,560 --> 00:00:27,440 Speaker 1: a little bit our audio journals. We call them blogs, 10 00:00:27,440 --> 00:00:28,880 Speaker 1: like are writing in our diaries. I haven't done one 11 00:00:28,880 --> 00:00:31,240 Speaker 1: in a while. I'm gonna do one, dear blog. So 12 00:00:31,280 --> 00:00:35,960 Speaker 1: I have a friend who's transitioning industries and she is 13 00:00:36,080 --> 00:00:43,840 Speaker 1: now in the organization game. Okay, she's a professional organizer, 14 00:00:44,440 --> 00:00:49,239 Speaker 1: this person. Okay, Okay. Now, as you know, I've amassed 15 00:00:49,240 --> 00:00:52,200 Speaker 1: a bit of a collection of things in my home, 16 00:00:52,640 --> 00:00:56,360 Speaker 1: and I have the dreaded closet. I have the dreaded 17 00:00:56,400 --> 00:00:59,440 Speaker 1: closet that I've been talking about for years. I talk 18 00:00:59,480 --> 00:01:03,080 Speaker 1: about it in therapy even It's a closet that is 19 00:01:03,240 --> 00:01:05,559 Speaker 1: just full to the brim, and it's like a little 20 00:01:05,600 --> 00:01:07,480 Speaker 1: bit of a walk in like not much maybe like 21 00:01:07,640 --> 00:01:09,920 Speaker 1: four feet deep three feet deep by like four feet 22 00:01:10,000 --> 00:01:13,280 Speaker 1: like a little walking closet. You can't even open the door. Well, 23 00:01:13,360 --> 00:01:17,200 Speaker 1: you couldn't until I finally two weeks ago, went in 24 00:01:17,319 --> 00:01:20,640 Speaker 1: and took absolutely everything out of it and threw most 25 00:01:20,640 --> 00:01:22,600 Speaker 1: of it or donated most of it, threw most of 26 00:01:22,640 --> 00:01:24,320 Speaker 1: it away or donated because here's the thing, I had 27 00:01:24,360 --> 00:01:26,080 Speaker 1: to open it. I haven't been able to access that 28 00:01:26,200 --> 00:01:29,040 Speaker 1: room in years because I guess, you know, I move, 29 00:01:29,080 --> 00:01:31,120 Speaker 1: and I just anything I didn't know what to do 30 00:01:31,200 --> 00:01:32,920 Speaker 1: with or didn't want to deal with. I just put 31 00:01:32,920 --> 00:01:35,920 Speaker 1: in this closet closet, right, But it just became so 32 00:01:36,160 --> 00:01:38,520 Speaker 1: like even I mean, people come to the house like 33 00:01:38,560 --> 00:01:40,360 Speaker 1: let me see this thing because they've heard me talking 34 00:01:40,360 --> 00:01:41,640 Speaker 1: about it, Like let me see how bad it is. 35 00:01:41,680 --> 00:01:43,039 Speaker 1: I'm like, you can't see how bad it is because 36 00:01:43,040 --> 00:01:46,119 Speaker 1: you can't open it. So anyway, so I finally address that, 37 00:01:46,400 --> 00:01:49,320 Speaker 1: So now like talk about cleansing. You know, the closet 38 00:01:49,400 --> 00:01:53,120 Speaker 1: is now accessible. So this friend of mine is like, well, yeah, 39 00:01:53,120 --> 00:01:54,520 Speaker 1: that's what I'm doing now, because I caught up with 40 00:01:54,560 --> 00:01:55,840 Speaker 1: her the other day and she's like, that's what I'm 41 00:01:55,840 --> 00:01:58,559 Speaker 1: doing now. I'm organizing. I'm trying to start this business. 42 00:01:58,560 --> 00:02:00,240 Speaker 1: I was like, or I guess I said, I said 43 00:02:00,240 --> 00:02:01,680 Speaker 1: you used to start a business. I think she's working 44 00:02:01,720 --> 00:02:03,200 Speaker 1: for someone else. But anyway, I'm like, you know what, 45 00:02:04,880 --> 00:02:07,160 Speaker 1: I want you to come organize my house. You come 46 00:02:07,240 --> 00:02:10,640 Speaker 1: organize my house because you know whatever. So here's what 47 00:02:10,680 --> 00:02:13,840 Speaker 1: I'm doing next week. She's coming and doing my kitchen 48 00:02:13,960 --> 00:02:16,480 Speaker 1: and I'm not even gonna be there. I'm not even present. 49 00:02:16,880 --> 00:02:19,160 Speaker 1: Would you Here's why I'm going with this. Would you 50 00:02:19,240 --> 00:02:22,040 Speaker 1: allow someone to go through your stuff and organize it 51 00:02:22,560 --> 00:02:24,600 Speaker 1: when you weren't even there? And the reason I can't 52 00:02:24,639 --> 00:02:27,080 Speaker 1: be there or I can't be present for this is 53 00:02:27,080 --> 00:02:29,960 Speaker 1: because in order to do this properly, everything has to 54 00:02:29,960 --> 00:02:33,120 Speaker 1: come out, and I can't. My OCD will not allow that. 55 00:02:33,240 --> 00:02:35,959 Speaker 1: My anxiety. My anxiety will go nuts. And then the 56 00:02:36,000 --> 00:02:38,400 Speaker 1: next thing she's gonna do or the closets, and that 57 00:02:38,760 --> 00:02:41,760 Speaker 1: I'm physically leaving town for that. Like she's one of 58 00:02:41,800 --> 00:02:43,240 Speaker 1: the only people I trust. To give her a key 59 00:02:43,280 --> 00:02:44,839 Speaker 1: to my house and just be like, when I get back, 60 00:02:44,840 --> 00:02:47,600 Speaker 1: this will be done. Would you do it? Would you 61 00:02:47,680 --> 00:02:50,240 Speaker 1: let someone just go just start to finish, just go 62 00:02:50,280 --> 00:02:52,120 Speaker 1: through your stuff, because she's not going to throw anything 63 00:02:52,120 --> 00:02:55,280 Speaker 1: away per se or not without you know, asking me 64 00:02:55,280 --> 00:02:57,000 Speaker 1: if she could throw it away because I've done most 65 00:02:57,040 --> 00:02:59,080 Speaker 1: of the throwing away. Now I just need to figure 66 00:02:59,080 --> 00:03:01,799 Speaker 1: out how to make it if patiently fit, because I 67 00:03:01,840 --> 00:03:04,160 Speaker 1: don't really have any method of doing that, nor do 68 00:03:04,240 --> 00:03:07,560 Speaker 1: I have the desire. And so, you know, would you 69 00:03:07,639 --> 00:03:10,080 Speaker 1: let someone go through your stuff, organize it without you 70 00:03:10,160 --> 00:03:12,360 Speaker 1: even present, and then just walk back in and it's done. 71 00:03:12,560 --> 00:03:14,880 Speaker 3: I need this bad, like I need it bad now, 72 00:03:15,360 --> 00:03:17,200 Speaker 3: so I'm not the only one. So before I was like, 73 00:03:17,240 --> 00:03:19,320 Speaker 3: I could never nobody's going through my stuff. Right now, 74 00:03:19,520 --> 00:03:22,480 Speaker 3: I need this, Like, just come let her take the wheel. 75 00:03:22,880 --> 00:03:24,400 Speaker 1: Okay, well then you can be client number two. 76 00:03:24,440 --> 00:03:26,480 Speaker 3: Then I guess we'll be for real, depending on how 77 00:03:26,560 --> 00:03:28,840 Speaker 3: much she charged now right, well, you know, I've. 78 00:03:28,639 --> 00:03:30,360 Speaker 1: Looked into this before and I can't afford it. No, 79 00:03:30,400 --> 00:03:33,160 Speaker 1: I've looked into this before. It's very expensive. But this 80 00:03:33,200 --> 00:03:34,880 Speaker 1: friend of mine is willing to do it for me. Like, 81 00:03:35,000 --> 00:03:38,520 Speaker 1: you know, I pay her whatever because I think she's 82 00:03:39,040 --> 00:03:41,640 Speaker 1: relatively new to it. So it's like in whatever, so 83 00:03:41,640 --> 00:03:43,640 Speaker 1: I don't have to pay the mark up of my friend. 84 00:03:43,680 --> 00:03:45,200 Speaker 1: So I was like, let me throw you some here, 85 00:03:45,240 --> 00:03:47,520 Speaker 1: do some work. I would love it, and everybody wins 86 00:03:47,800 --> 00:03:48,280 Speaker 1: with this. 87 00:03:48,520 --> 00:03:51,320 Speaker 2: She's able to pretty much toss anything and you can't 88 00:03:51,320 --> 00:03:52,920 Speaker 2: say nothing about it, Like she want to come in. 89 00:03:53,000 --> 00:03:55,560 Speaker 1: She's not gonna throwing away without like sending a picture 90 00:03:55,640 --> 00:03:57,040 Speaker 1: of it to me and being like can I throw 91 00:03:57,080 --> 00:03:58,600 Speaker 1: this away or whatever? But yeah, I mean, I'm sure 92 00:03:58,600 --> 00:04:00,240 Speaker 1: stuff WI get thrown away, but shes gonna findtuff I 93 00:04:00,240 --> 00:04:00,880 Speaker 1: didn't even know I had. 94 00:04:00,960 --> 00:04:02,400 Speaker 2: I was going to say, like, maybe it's better you're 95 00:04:02,400 --> 00:04:04,320 Speaker 2: not there, because you're gonna find like t shirts from 96 00:04:04,400 --> 00:04:06,480 Speaker 2: you know, two thousand and five, some remote you did 97 00:04:06,560 --> 00:04:09,000 Speaker 2: or something right with the radio station. I have found 98 00:04:09,000 --> 00:04:10,880 Speaker 2: that side, and you're gonna find excuse to keep it though, 99 00:04:10,920 --> 00:04:13,560 Speaker 2: and we don't want that anymore. That's what's me urge. 100 00:04:13,560 --> 00:04:15,560 Speaker 2: The let her come in, don't even have her text 101 00:04:15,600 --> 00:04:17,240 Speaker 2: to you. I don't like that, just put it. 102 00:04:17,279 --> 00:04:19,599 Speaker 1: I don't know that I want her just throwing things away. 103 00:04:19,920 --> 00:04:22,279 Speaker 1: I mean, just in case she doesn't know what it is, 104 00:04:22,480 --> 00:04:25,359 Speaker 1: because you inevitably you're gonna stumble upon something that you know. 105 00:04:25,400 --> 00:04:27,440 Speaker 1: I have my grandfather not in the kitchen, but I 106 00:04:27,440 --> 00:04:30,320 Speaker 1: have my grandfather's old aviation logbooks, like when he was 107 00:04:30,320 --> 00:04:32,240 Speaker 1: a pilot and stuff. You might look at that and 108 00:04:32,279 --> 00:04:34,039 Speaker 1: not know what that is and be like I don't 109 00:04:34,040 --> 00:04:36,120 Speaker 1: know what this is, and so I don't need anyone 110 00:04:36,160 --> 00:04:38,880 Speaker 1: making executive decisions I want to throw away. But I'm 111 00:04:38,960 --> 00:04:41,200 Speaker 1: all for this strong encouragement that like, hey, you don't 112 00:04:41,240 --> 00:04:43,359 Speaker 1: need this anymore. But the thing for me, though, is 113 00:04:43,400 --> 00:04:46,640 Speaker 1: that is the trust. That's the thing for me because 114 00:04:46,640 --> 00:04:48,400 Speaker 1: I know myself and I know that it would it's 115 00:04:48,440 --> 00:04:50,520 Speaker 1: going to make me so uncomfortable to be there with 116 00:04:50,640 --> 00:04:53,240 Speaker 1: all my stuff all over everywhere. So I'm just saying, 117 00:04:53,360 --> 00:04:54,320 Speaker 1: Jesus take the wheel. 118 00:04:54,760 --> 00:04:57,560 Speaker 2: Can just do it anyone else in your apartment before, 119 00:04:57,839 --> 00:05:01,080 Speaker 2: like for a long period of time without you there. No, Okay, 120 00:05:01,240 --> 00:05:03,280 Speaker 2: So it's a big deal that you trust. 121 00:05:03,080 --> 00:05:04,600 Speaker 1: Her, But I think that's the only way to do 122 00:05:04,640 --> 00:05:07,120 Speaker 1: this because the closets are gonna be stuff every I 123 00:05:07,120 --> 00:05:09,000 Speaker 1: don't have a very big house. It's a very like 124 00:05:09,000 --> 00:05:11,760 Speaker 1: it's a two bedroom condo. It's not big, so there's 125 00:05:11,760 --> 00:05:14,200 Speaker 1: gonna be stuff everywhere. I can't live like this, No 126 00:05:14,279 --> 00:05:17,440 Speaker 1: you can't. But it's gonna be so nice when it's done. Yes, 127 00:05:17,680 --> 00:05:19,520 Speaker 1: it's gonna be so nice when it's done. It's like 128 00:05:19,640 --> 00:05:22,680 Speaker 1: it's like name your price, lady, Like I mean, you 129 00:05:22,760 --> 00:05:23,240 Speaker 1: know what I mean. 130 00:05:23,320 --> 00:05:27,080 Speaker 3: You're gonna feel lighter. Your house is gonna feel clean, right, yeah, 131 00:05:27,080 --> 00:05:28,880 Speaker 3: I feel sexy, and credit score are gonna go. 132 00:05:29,440 --> 00:05:32,039 Speaker 1: Yes, my credit score is. You're gonna find credit in 133 00:05:32,080 --> 00:05:35,960 Speaker 1: the closet existed. Now I'm not gonna know where anything 134 00:05:36,000 --> 00:05:41,440 Speaker 1: is for a while, but that's okay. More Fred Show 135 00:05:41,600 --> 00:05:42,680 Speaker 1: next here.