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Speaker 1: Ever been left waiting by the phone.

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Speaker 2: It's the Fred Show, Doug. How you doing, Good morning,

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Speaker 2: There you go, it's up.

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Speaker 1: Welcome to the program. We're happy to have you here

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Speaker 1: waiting by the phone. This is what we're trying to

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Speaker 1: figure out if you have been ghosted by this woman, Kayley.

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Speaker 1: So we have to know the backstory. How did you meet?

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Speaker 1: Tell us about any dates that you've been on it,

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Speaker 1: and kind of where things are now.

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Speaker 3: Well, I met her on bumble and you know, we

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Speaker 3: matched an enemy, spoke for a.

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Speaker 2: While, and then you know, we had a vibe.

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Speaker 3: I felt the vibe come, you know, so I felt

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Speaker 3: like it was time that, you know, I planned something.

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Speaker 3: So I took her out on one date, this one

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Speaker 3: and that date was and let me tell you, she

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Speaker 3: looked better in person than her pictures. Okay to say that.

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Speaker 2: All right, that's good.

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Speaker 1: I mean because a lot of times it goes the

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Speaker 1: other way, where people lie about their height, or they

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Speaker 1: use old pictures or they you know, they're filtered or whatever.

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Speaker 1: And so this woman exceeded your expectations in person.

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, she is a sight to behold. Let's just

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Speaker 3: sort of that.

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Speaker 2: Did you hear that breath of it. Wow, all right.

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Speaker 1: So but but now I take it, after that date,

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Speaker 1: you've reached out and you have not heard. She hasn't

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Speaker 1: responded to you, She hasn't called you back, she hasn't

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Speaker 1: reached out to you on her own.

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Speaker 3: Nothing well, nothing known because everything ended great. I mean,

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Speaker 3: she even took me back to her place, you know.

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Speaker 1: Oh so it was like there was a really good

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Speaker 1: date then oh yeah, hooked up twice. Okay, So that's

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Speaker 1: odd because that means she was.

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Speaker 4: In Okay, congrats on the side.

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Speaker 2: Round two.

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Speaker 1: Sounds like three, right, Okay, so that's good. So for

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Speaker 1: all that to happen, you're right over there.

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Speaker 2: I'm sorry, that's sure.

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Speaker 1: If it doesn't work out, you're looking for three feet

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Speaker 1: over here. Kiky looks better than her pictures too. I

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Speaker 1: gotta tell you, thank you. But this isn't about me, okay,

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Speaker 1: this is about Doug. So this is all good. But

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Speaker 1: you have not heard from her since the three peete

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Speaker 1: and you want to know why? Oh yeah, okay, yeah,

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Speaker 1: I mean I would imagine I would want to know

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Speaker 1: why too after that. So, I mean, because honestly, if

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Speaker 1: you if you're hooking up with somebody twice, spending the

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Speaker 1: night and going for another round. I mean, come on,

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Speaker 1: come on, that's usually I mean that you don't have

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Speaker 1: to go. You don't, we don't have to do all that.

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Speaker 1: If you don't like somebody, you kick him out before that. Yeah, okay,

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Speaker 1: So let's I'm gonna play one song.

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Speaker 2: Comeback.

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Speaker 1: Well, Kaylee, you'll be on the phone. We'll ask some

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Speaker 1: questions and hopefully we can straighten things out and set

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Speaker 1: you guys up on another date that.

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Speaker 2: We pay for. Sound good.

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Speaker 1: Let's see what happens next Part two of waiting by

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Speaker 1: the phone. After Jojah Cat EANs two minutes, we're back

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Speaker 1: on the Fred Show. Jojah Kat the Fred Show. He

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Speaker 1: is commercial free. It's Friday. We're so glad you're here. Hey, Doug. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: all right, let's call Kaylee. You guys you met on

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Speaker 1: I guess one of the apps or something, and went

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Speaker 1: on a date, had a great time, went back to

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Speaker 1: And now you're being ghost and we're all kind of

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Speaker 1: wondering how that happened.

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Speaker 2: All right, Well, let's call her now. Good luck?

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Speaker 4: Doug.

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Speaker 1: Hello, Hi, is this Kaylee, Hi, Kyley, good morning.

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Speaker 2: My name is Fred and the whole cruis here.

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Speaker 1: We're calling from the Fred Show, the Morning radio Show,

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Speaker 1: and I have to tell you that we are on

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Speaker 1: the radio right now and I would need your permission

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Speaker 1: to continue with the calls. That okay if we chat

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Speaker 1: for just a minute. I know it's a little bit

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Speaker 1: a little bit strange, but I'll get right to it.

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Speaker 1: We're calling on behalf of a guy named Doug. I

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Speaker 1: guess you met him recently and you went on a

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Speaker 1: date and what he describes as a very successful date

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Speaker 1: by most people's definition. Do you remember this guy?

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Speaker 2: I do.

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Speaker 4: Actually I kind of figured that this is like the

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Speaker 4: kind of story that would actually end up.

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Speaker 1: Okay, Okay, so you know a little bit about this.

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Speaker 1: So what happened with this guy? Because he told us

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Speaker 1: all about the date, said that he thought you were

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Speaker 1: really attractive. He said that there was some intimacy several rounds.

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Speaker 1: You's still a little excited about it, Yeah, except you

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Speaker 1: apparently haven't responded to him for a second date and

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Speaker 1: it's bothering him.

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Speaker 2: So why is that?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, Well, we had gone out on like a really

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Speaker 4: good date, Like I was really attracted to Doug, I

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Speaker 4: really liked hanging out with him, and like you know,

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Speaker 4: like when you're at a date, you're like learning about

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Speaker 4: each other. And since he was telling me that he

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Speaker 4: was an aspiring coke golper and that like he had

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Speaker 4: recently played in some qualifying tournaments for like the PGA

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Speaker 4: and I don't know this like minor league golf thing,

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Speaker 4: like I don't even I don't remember the exact name.

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Speaker 4: It's kind of like sounded like corn Corn something I

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Speaker 4: don't know, and that he was like recently in the

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Speaker 1: And also he's in the Corn Fairy thing. He's in

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Speaker 1: the like the minor League of Corn and he played

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Speaker 1: in the Masters.

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Speaker 2: Wow, that's what he was said.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, so I was like super impressed.

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Speaker 1: And I was like, oh, okay, that's cool, okay, aspiring pro

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Speaker 4: So yeah, so I like I was like really impressed,

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Speaker 4: like let's go home, and as you said, we have

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Speaker 4: a really fun time and then I will I woke

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Speaker 4: bit of anxiety about like him being a little too

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Speaker 4: good to be true and his story, and so I

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Speaker 4: know nothing, I like truly know nothing.

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Speaker 2: About golf, and.

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Speaker 4: So I googled him, like I think anybody would want

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Speaker 4: to do when you know somebody hadn't been excited about them.

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Speaker 2: And so, uh, nowhere is.

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Speaker 4: Anything listed on any official golf website that he is

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Speaker 4: that he's a customer service that Top Golf. Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 4: I know, as somebody who doesn't know golf.

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Speaker 2: That this is that that's not like pro golfing. That's

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Speaker 4: Professional, yeah, and so like his job is that he

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Speaker 4: takes the food to people. And then I mean, like

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Speaker 4: I saw his Instagram and it says like he went

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Speaker 2: Was a waiter at Top Golf.

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Speaker 1: And so then Rea, there's do you attended the Masters

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Speaker 1: and you work at a golf amusement?

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Speaker 2: My god, this man, what is your story? Dude?

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Speaker 3: I do I mean, I'm not denying that I work

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Speaker 2: So at Top.

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Speaker 1: You know what you're doing. You knew exactly what you

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Speaker 3: I well, I never said I played at the Masters.

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Speaker 3: I don't know where she got that idea. And she

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Speaker 4: Okay, But like you inated that you were like a golfer,

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Speaker 4: so like you know.

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Speaker 3: What I mean, Yes, I played golf and I'm good, okay.

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Speaker 2: But that's not you.

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Speaker 1: You said you're on like the minor league PGA, you

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Speaker 1: and qualifying stuff. None of that checked out.

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Speaker 3: I will you will know she's looking at and she's not.

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Speaker 3: She wants to finish the product. That's what she wants.

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Speaker 2: But that's so this is her fault.

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Speaker 1: So you told her that you're a pro golfer to

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Speaker 2: Yet, and she's gonna regret it. Oh, she's gonna regret Wow.

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Speaker 2: You know she's thinking about that third round.

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Speaker 1: But Doug Lie, I mean, you have to know, this

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Speaker 1: is all google a ball. If you play on a

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Speaker 1: if you're in a league or something, then that's all

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Speaker 1: going to be verifiable. If you played in the Masters,

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Speaker 1: they got a website. Well, we know you didn't play

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Speaker 1: the Masters. You went there and got a hat. I mean,

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Speaker 1: I'm not dogging you, but I'd like to go to

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Speaker 1: You can't do that. How did you not think that

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Speaker 3: Well, I pray at a pro level.

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Speaker 2: So he plays.

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Speaker 3: Raking in millions?

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Speaker 2: Wait, who's raking in millions? I will? You will? Okay,

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Speaker 2: all right, but that's a whole different thing.

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Speaker 1: She was into you, So maybe if you had just

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Speaker 2: What were you going to do? Then?

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Speaker 3: Listen, this isn't this shouldn't follow on me. Okay, she's

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Speaker 4: Oh my, oh my god, are you you're you're out

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Speaker 2: Why this is awful? You're such a jersey. I mean, yes, clearly,

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Speaker 2: look at me. You're such a chaser.

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Speaker 4: Oh my god, I really clearly love Kakis so I'm

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Speaker 4: really going for my wy all.

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Speaker 1: Right, So he he was not straightforward, you know, maybe

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Speaker 1: you kind of went for the allure of the pro

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Speaker 1: golfer thing a little bit. But I mean, is there

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Speaker 1: any way we straighten this out? I mean, you obviously

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Speaker 1: liked him enough for thirty six holes, so okay, I mean.

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Speaker 2: Would you give no? Absolutely not like.

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Speaker 4: I mean, like like a found relationship is built on

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Speaker 4: a foundation of trust, and this is not at all

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Speaker 4: somebody that I can trust in any way, and clearly

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Speaker 4: in some ways like no offense. You're a little delusional

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Speaker 4: and I don't need to lesion in my life. So no,

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Speaker 4: good luck, Doug. I hope you make the Masters, and

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Speaker 4: I will watch you on TV and say, look at

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Speaker 4: that person. He is full of I don't even I

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Speaker 4: don't even know.

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Speaker 3: Well, you'll see me on Sunday, well, okay, Champion Championship Sunday.

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Speaker 1: She won't order some chicken fingers and he's going to

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Speaker 1: bring them, so that Hey, nothing wrong with that man,

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Speaker 1: Nothing wrong with that guys.

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Speaker 2: I'm sorry, it's not a match. Good luck to both

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Speaker 2: of you, especially you Doug about this. Okay, all right, Doug,

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Speaker 2: good luck