WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Defensive Driving Drama 0:00:00.120 --> 0:00:02.240 Hey, it's Brook and Jeffrey and thank you so much 0:00:02.240 --> 0:00:03.760 for finding the second date update. 0:00:04.000 --> 0:00:06.720 What is this called podcast? Yep, this is a podcast. 0:00:06.760 --> 0:00:09.559 So yes, if you didn't realize we do run these, Hi, Jose, 0:00:09.720 --> 0:00:10.200 come on in. 0:00:10.800 --> 0:00:12.000 He just went and got coffee. 0:00:12.039 --> 0:00:15.160 We're talking second date update and we are getting inundated 0:00:15.280 --> 0:00:18.599 with text messages this morning that say this girl's nuts. Yeah, 0:00:18.640 --> 0:00:21.960 a lot of like insane run now dodged a bullet. 0:00:23.640 --> 0:00:26.040 You're about to find out for yourselves why they're saying that. 0:00:26.200 --> 0:00:28.200 I don't know what bullet he dodged. I think that 0:00:28.240 --> 0:00:31.800 he ran straight into the bullet. So yeah, you're in 0:00:31.920 --> 0:00:32.320 for one. 0:00:32.520 --> 0:00:35.040 Here it goes your brand new second date update starts 0:00:35.080 --> 0:00:38.400 right now, Brook and Jeffrey in the morning Second date Updates. 0:00:39.640 --> 0:00:43.640 Sometimes we talk about instant turnoffs that give women the ick, 0:00:44.400 --> 0:00:46.519 you know, like if the guy's the same name as 0:00:46.560 --> 0:00:50.400 your brother, oh, the same name as your dad, the 0:00:50.440 --> 0:00:51.840 same name as your stepdad. 0:00:52.120 --> 0:00:54.640 Oh well actually you could probably let that one. 0:00:54.520 --> 0:00:57.800 Slide, right, Alexis depends on how long you've known, right, yeah. 0:00:57.800 --> 0:01:02.200 Yeah, as long as your stepdad is hot, then you 0:01:02.240 --> 0:01:03.640 know you don't want to be too picky. But our 0:01:03.680 --> 0:01:07.520 listener Jay says his red flag was out loud and 0:01:07.640 --> 0:01:11.679 proud on his first date, but he survived it. So 0:01:11.920 --> 0:01:14.160 why isn't he getting a call back. We're going to 0:01:14.200 --> 0:01:15.040 try to find out. 0:01:15.160 --> 0:01:15.399 Jay. 0:01:15.840 --> 0:01:18.319 We'll get to your giant waving red flag in just 0:01:18.360 --> 0:01:20.000 a minute, but first tell us about the woman that 0:01:20.040 --> 0:01:20.959 we're going to be calling here. 0:01:21.680 --> 0:01:23.039 Hey, guys, how are you? 0:01:23.120 --> 0:01:23.440 Oh? 0:01:23.520 --> 0:01:24.440 I think better than you. 0:01:24.480 --> 0:01:26.440 I mean, Jeff said you survived it, but you're on 0:01:26.480 --> 0:01:29.360 the phone with us, so I don't know how working. 0:01:29.920 --> 0:01:30.160 Well. 0:01:30.880 --> 0:01:34.840 Listen, okay, I met this beautiful girl on a dating 0:01:34.840 --> 0:01:35.800 and app called Hinge. 0:01:35.920 --> 0:01:38.880 Her name was Ali Ali, and I. 0:01:38.800 --> 0:01:42.080 Love women with a beautiful smile and beautiful lips. And 0:01:42.160 --> 0:01:45.960 Ali had it all nice to little sluffy lips, great. 0:01:45.800 --> 0:01:47.400 Smile, nice. 0:01:47.440 --> 0:01:50.720 So she's got two big body, pillow sized red lips. 0:01:50.880 --> 0:01:54.080 What we said, well. 0:01:54.640 --> 0:01:56.480 Though, I kind of like it. I'm with you. 0:01:56.760 --> 0:01:58.600 That's what he likes, all right, and we're into it. 0:01:58.600 --> 0:02:00.680 And I also like a woman with a great search 0:02:00.720 --> 0:02:03.880 of human and a little bit spicy. And in her 0:02:03.920 --> 0:02:07.200 profile she said she was sugar and spice with just 0:02:07.240 --> 0:02:12.240 a little bit more spice. And you are. 0:02:12.680 --> 0:02:15.880 Okay, okay, So how did you and her kind of 0:02:15.919 --> 0:02:16.520 hit it off. 0:02:17.040 --> 0:02:20.200 I was smooth. I was smooth, you understand, And she's 0:02:20.240 --> 0:02:22.120 like the smoothness of the. 0:02:22.200 --> 0:02:24.280 J okay soon smooth to me. 0:02:24.800 --> 0:02:27.240 I feel right now you haven't given us the yet yet. 0:02:27.280 --> 0:02:28.880 I feel you're very smooth. 0:02:28.919 --> 0:02:29.239 My man. 0:02:29.600 --> 0:02:32.079 You're not very specific, but you are smooth about. 0:02:34.320 --> 0:02:35.560 I can't be too specific. 0:02:35.600 --> 0:02:37.959 I give lots of lines to lots of women, so 0:02:38.000 --> 0:02:39.880 I don't remember exactly what I said. 0:02:41.120 --> 0:02:44.280 Honest, I appreciate it. You mix up the line you used, 0:02:44.280 --> 0:02:45.280 not the same one every time. 0:02:47.240 --> 0:02:49.360 You can't be smooth and use the same line all 0:02:49.400 --> 0:02:49.760 the time. 0:02:49.840 --> 0:02:53.880 Yeah, you translated it into a date. 0:02:54.360 --> 0:02:56.320 Yes, we would scheduled to go out. 0:02:56.600 --> 0:02:59.359 Okay, okay, And you said in your email that your 0:02:59.400 --> 0:03:02.720 red flash I came up pretty much immediately. 0:03:02.520 --> 0:03:03.480 Right from the beginning. 0:03:03.800 --> 0:03:04.320 What is it? 0:03:04.919 --> 0:03:05.760 My red flag? 0:03:05.919 --> 0:03:09.520 Is that I don't drive? Oh? 0:03:09.880 --> 0:03:11.600 Okay? Is there a reason you don't drive? 0:03:11.720 --> 0:03:12.680 Like you don't have a car. 0:03:13.400 --> 0:03:16.359 I do have a car, but I don't have a license. 0:03:16.639 --> 0:03:19.840 Uh because of an issue with the law. 0:03:20.520 --> 0:03:23.440 No, no, no, nothing like that. It's just that where 0:03:23.520 --> 0:03:26.800 I work, I don't need a car. I can walk 0:03:26.960 --> 0:03:28.960 back and forth to where I need to go, and 0:03:29.000 --> 0:03:31.200 everything was convenient to where I was. 0:03:31.120 --> 0:03:34.000 And I didn't really you you never got around to 0:03:34.040 --> 0:03:34.920 getting your license. 0:03:35.000 --> 0:03:35.960 I never got around. 0:03:36.240 --> 0:03:38.360 I'm just busy working and doing other things. 0:03:38.640 --> 0:03:40.680 And you know, people who live in the city like 0:03:40.720 --> 0:03:43.520 you don't they don't mean it's pretty common. 0:03:44.760 --> 0:03:45.600 Yeah, all that kind. 0:03:45.480 --> 0:03:46.040 Of stuff too. 0:03:46.400 --> 0:03:48.120 But I'm working on it and I'm going to get 0:03:48.160 --> 0:03:48.480 it soon. 0:03:49.840 --> 0:03:52.920 How did Ali take that news? How she was cool 0:03:53.040 --> 0:03:53.360 with it? 0:03:53.600 --> 0:03:56.560 She came past, she picked me up, and we went 0:03:56.560 --> 0:03:57.560 out to have our date. 0:03:58.000 --> 0:04:01.800 Okay, all right, that's great. All right, so you got 0:04:01.840 --> 0:04:03.600 through that. I bet you were feeling pretty good. 0:04:04.160 --> 0:04:07.880 I was, and we went to a nice seafood restaurant. 0:04:08.120 --> 0:04:08.360 Yeah. 0:04:08.680 --> 0:04:12.400 I love seafood, and listen, she loved seafood too. 0:04:12.440 --> 0:04:17.359 So we had a big seafood feast. And here's a 0:04:17.400 --> 0:04:17.960 crazy part. 0:04:18.240 --> 0:04:20.640 The juice from all the seafoods was sitting there on 0:04:20.760 --> 0:04:22.120 the big juicy. 0:04:22.880 --> 0:04:29.920 Oh see the word seafood juice just for you. 0:04:30.040 --> 0:04:31.520 Liked her juicy seafood lips? 0:04:32.040 --> 0:04:33.000 You just did? 0:04:33.320 --> 0:04:33.520 Yeah? 0:04:34.440 --> 0:04:35.840 Okay, did you get a kiss him? 0:04:35.880 --> 0:04:36.040 Ever? 0:04:37.040 --> 0:04:37.080 No? 0:04:37.160 --> 0:04:38.640 I didn't want to move too fast. 0:04:38.920 --> 0:04:40.719 Okay, okay, gentlemen. 0:04:40.960 --> 0:04:43.919 But everything was going well. So we made plans to 0:04:44.000 --> 0:04:44.560 have lunch. 0:04:44.920 --> 0:04:47.960 Yeah, is this you're making plans for your next day 0:04:48.120 --> 0:04:50.360 while you're still out on your first one, or this 0:04:50.400 --> 0:04:51.080 is afterwards. 0:04:51.360 --> 0:04:51.920 No, we was. 0:04:51.839 --> 0:04:53.920 Making plans for the next day while we were still 0:04:53.920 --> 0:04:54.480 on the first day. 0:04:56.480 --> 0:04:58.279 So you were going to go to lunch. What happened? 0:04:58.800 --> 0:04:59.640 I didn't have. 0:04:59.520 --> 0:05:01.919 Her pick me up because I figured it was so 0:05:02.080 --> 0:05:04.440 very close in the city, so I took the buzz there. 0:05:04.720 --> 0:05:06.080 Okay, so you met her there. 0:05:06.240 --> 0:05:09.680 That was the plan. But she didn't show up. 0:05:11.520 --> 0:05:12.960 Like no text or anything. 0:05:14.080 --> 0:05:19.120 She answer my text back, doesn't answer my calls. 0:05:19.160 --> 0:05:21.520 Not only did we have such a great time on 0:05:21.560 --> 0:05:24.320 our first date, but we talked numerous times on a 0:05:24.440 --> 0:05:25.760 phone leading up. 0:05:25.680 --> 0:05:27.320 To a date to the lunch date. 0:05:28.560 --> 0:05:30.120 That's so weird going on. 0:05:30.320 --> 0:05:31.840 Maybe she tried to take a bus too, Those are 0:05:31.839 --> 0:05:33.360 confusing the wrong route. 0:05:36.040 --> 0:05:36.799 What a bummer? 0:05:36.839 --> 0:05:39.120 Because you got so excited about seeing all the seafood 0:05:39.200 --> 0:05:40.600 juice on her lips, you didn't get to see the 0:05:40.640 --> 0:05:41.839 sandwich juice this time. 0:05:44.279 --> 0:05:46.280 You don't know how I was anticipated. 0:05:47.240 --> 0:05:50.080 Imagine where are you at now? Like, how are you? 0:05:50.200 --> 0:05:52.000 Are you mad or do you want to see her again? 0:05:52.480 --> 0:05:56.440 I'm not mad, I'm just confused and don't understand. Everything 0:05:56.560 --> 0:05:57.160 was going. 0:05:57.080 --> 0:05:59.960 So well, and I don't know what happened. You know, 0:06:00.279 --> 0:06:01.720 I was a gentleman the whole night. 0:06:01.800 --> 0:06:05.679 She was laughing, we was flirting with each other, and 0:06:06.160 --> 0:06:07.640 now nothing interesting. 0:06:07.720 --> 0:06:10.600 Yeah, it's weird to have phone conversations in between the 0:06:10.640 --> 0:06:12.080 two dates and then no show. 0:06:12.400 --> 0:06:14.080 That's the big weird, weird part. 0:06:14.160 --> 0:06:16.120 Yeah, if you were gonna know show, then you already 0:06:16.120 --> 0:06:18.440 start to kind of slip beforehand. 0:06:18.560 --> 0:06:21.320 Yeah, please, please, you guys got to figure out this 0:06:21.480 --> 0:06:22.120 mystery for me. 0:06:22.440 --> 0:06:22.919 You have to. 0:06:23.080 --> 0:06:25.520 All right, we got you, Jay, Okay, we're on it. 0:06:25.600 --> 0:06:27.840 I do feel like there's something you're not telling us, though. 0:06:27.880 --> 0:06:29.960 There has to be a reason why she would cut 0:06:30.000 --> 0:06:32.000 it off already. 0:06:32.080 --> 0:06:33.919 Wow, we have cut her on the phone. 0:06:34.040 --> 0:06:36.520 Yeah, the truth is you're so smooth though. I could 0:06:36.520 --> 0:06:38.400 never figure out what the reason was. We have to 0:06:38.600 --> 0:06:43.279 call her and figure that out when we come back. Yeah, 0:06:43.360 --> 0:06:46.719 that's right, Talktor third person. 0:06:46.760 --> 0:06:47.880 Now, Okay, we'll come back. 0:06:48.040 --> 0:06:49.680 We will call Ali and try and get you your 0:06:49.680 --> 0:06:52.440 second date update right after this hold on man Brook and. 0:06:52.480 --> 0:06:54.839 Jeffrey in the morning. Second date update. 0:06:56.360 --> 0:07:01.440 It's nice when a man could admit his shortcomings. I 0:07:01.480 --> 0:07:02.120 have a lot of them. 0:07:02.279 --> 0:07:02.800 Oh, I. 0:07:04.760 --> 0:07:06.520 Thought that thought was the start where you were gonna 0:07:06.520 --> 0:07:07.240 start listening up. 0:07:07.360 --> 0:07:09.960 I have plenty, but our listener Jay is also no 0:07:10.040 --> 0:07:12.680 stranger to that. He's got a lot of self confidence, 0:07:13.000 --> 0:07:16.120 a lot of personality. One thing he doesn't have is 0:07:16.160 --> 0:07:20.520 a driver's license. Never got one, And he told us 0:07:20.560 --> 0:07:22.080 that in the very first minute that he was on 0:07:22.120 --> 0:07:24.720 the phone, which has been a problem for him with 0:07:24.920 --> 0:07:27.960 previous women he's dated, but not with the new lady 0:07:28.000 --> 0:07:31.000 he met, named Ali, and she actually agreed to pick 0:07:31.080 --> 0:07:33.640 him up for their seafood date, which went so well 0:07:33.680 --> 0:07:37.400 they immediately planned another meetup that she no showed to. 0:07:37.800 --> 0:07:40.920 Yeah. They even talked on the phone multiple times in 0:07:40.960 --> 0:07:42.520 between the two dates. 0:07:43.000 --> 0:07:46.440 Yeah, So what was said during those conversations and could 0:07:46.440 --> 0:07:48.680 it have affected why she decided not to show up? 0:07:48.920 --> 0:07:50.920 I mean, what was the last text you center? Were 0:07:50.920 --> 0:07:53.080 you angry at the no show? 0:07:53.880 --> 0:07:54.840 No? I wasn't angry. 0:07:54.880 --> 0:07:58.240 I just maybe something happened and the only thing that 0:07:58.360 --> 0:08:01.000 wasn't happened about Also, she would. 0:08:00.880 --> 0:08:02.880 Drive me home she didn't shown, so now I had 0:08:02.880 --> 0:08:04.000 to take the bunk back home. 0:08:04.160 --> 0:08:07.119 Oh yeah, then you held onto that transfer ticket? 0:08:07.200 --> 0:08:07.360 Yeah? 0:08:07.360 --> 0:08:10.600 Because absolutely you want us to ask her to refund 0:08:10.680 --> 0:08:11.400 you the bus fair. 0:08:11.480 --> 0:08:15.560 No, No, that's little Gate. I doesn't want to make 0:08:15.560 --> 0:08:16.360 sure she's a little Gate. 0:08:16.480 --> 0:08:18.640 All right, all right, that's very kind. Let's see if 0:08:18.680 --> 0:08:20.520 she even answers the phone for us. I'm gonna dial 0:08:20.600 --> 0:08:30.400 her right now. Here we go. Hello, Hey, we're going 0:08:30.440 --> 0:08:31.200 to speak with Ali. 0:08:32.480 --> 0:08:33.160 H this is she. 0:08:33.920 --> 0:08:36.599 Hey, Ali, you're on the radio right now with a 0:08:36.600 --> 0:08:38.120 show called Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning. 0:08:44.480 --> 0:08:50.080 Whoa, you're a close phone talker, like the radio? 0:08:50.120 --> 0:08:50.760 Can you hear me? 0:08:52.120 --> 0:08:52.960 I'm like, wow. 0:08:53.480 --> 0:08:55.440 The reason that we're calling you kind of out of 0:08:55.480 --> 0:08:58.040 the blue here is for a segment that we do 0:08:58.120 --> 0:08:58.600 on this show. 0:08:58.600 --> 0:08:59.959 It's called a second date update. 0:09:01.000 --> 0:09:06.679 Oh okay, have you heard those before? I have heard 0:09:07.000 --> 0:09:09.839 those before, but I'm not quite sure why you're calling me. 0:09:11.920 --> 0:09:12.760 A day recently. 0:09:14.760 --> 0:09:16.040 Yeah. 0:09:16.160 --> 0:09:20.360 And and we know that because that date reached out 0:09:20.360 --> 0:09:22.720 to us hoping that we could get a hold of you, 0:09:23.120 --> 0:09:24.160 a guy named Jay. 0:09:25.200 --> 0:09:30.800 Bus past Guy. 0:09:30.360 --> 0:09:31.320 Bus past guy. 0:09:31.559 --> 0:09:35.520 Yeah, okay, he doesn't have a license. 0:09:35.720 --> 0:09:38.199 He told us that, you know, showed at the last date. 0:09:38.320 --> 0:09:39.520 I mean, that's kind of messed up. 0:09:39.600 --> 0:09:40.120 What the heck? 0:09:41.000 --> 0:09:44.439 Okay, you know what, let me say this am my defense. 0:09:45.360 --> 0:09:49.200 I didn't realize that he was actually doing something shady 0:09:49.280 --> 0:09:50.480 behind my back. 0:09:52.360 --> 0:09:54.040 I don't think riding the bus is shady. 0:09:54.120 --> 0:09:57.800 I think people, so you know what I mean, because 0:09:57.800 --> 0:09:59.360 you got to check people out. You gotta check I mean, 0:09:59.400 --> 0:10:02.640 I've bet everything. So I'm following up on Instagram and 0:10:02.720 --> 0:10:05.760 I saw that he recently liked a woman's post. She 0:10:05.920 --> 0:10:09.000 was this blonde with a nice body, very very attractive woman. 0:10:09.040 --> 0:10:11.679 And I'm like, wait, okay, he just. 0:10:11.840 --> 0:10:15.040 Liked a person's post who was an attractive blonde. 0:10:15.440 --> 0:10:18.439 So no, I saw that he was commenting on her page. 0:10:18.720 --> 0:10:21.680 Uh huh, that was fun the other day, looking forward 0:10:21.760 --> 0:10:24.240 to getting to know you more. And I'm going what 0:10:25.960 --> 0:10:27.720 I mean? I thought like, what does that mean? 0:10:28.559 --> 0:10:28.920 Allie? 0:10:28.960 --> 0:10:31.800 How on you guys had gone on one date. That 0:10:31.840 --> 0:10:34.560 doesn't mean that he's exclusive to you. I'm sure you're 0:10:34.760 --> 0:10:35.880 talking to other people. 0:10:36.640 --> 0:10:40.560 I know where you're coming from. However, we were talking, 0:10:40.559 --> 0:10:42.920 we went out on the first date, we were actually 0:10:42.960 --> 0:10:44.880 planning on a second date. We had a lot of 0:10:44.880 --> 0:10:46.560 great conversations and everything. 0:10:46.760 --> 0:10:48.680 So why did you stand him up? Why didn't you 0:10:48.720 --> 0:10:51.479 meet him for lunch and just ask him all those questions? 0:10:51.800 --> 0:10:53.800 Because I just thought about it, and the more I 0:10:53.880 --> 0:10:56.920 thought about it. I'm like, I think Jase a player 0:10:56.960 --> 0:10:59.000 and he's trying to play me. Did you know some 0:10:59.080 --> 0:11:01.440 guys who don't have a car, they will do that? 0:11:01.640 --> 0:11:06.120 Okay, carless guy stereotype I haven't heard. 0:11:07.600 --> 0:11:11.520 Okay, if you saw this in a similar situation, a 0:11:11.600 --> 0:11:15.320 guy you were with was commenting on somebody else's beautiful page, 0:11:15.440 --> 0:11:17.640 would that like put some doubt into your mind? 0:11:17.760 --> 0:11:20.240 Well, of course, but I am not one to hold back, 0:11:20.280 --> 0:11:22.800 so I would definitely go the confrontation. 0:11:22.360 --> 0:11:26.360 Route long ago. Don't look at a guy's following. Yeah, okay, 0:11:26.440 --> 0:11:28.679 Alexis strategy is just completely. 0:11:29.760 --> 0:11:31.520 There can't be any red flags, you see, if you 0:11:31.520 --> 0:11:35.560 don't open your eyes and listen, Ali, I probably need 0:11:35.559 --> 0:11:39.400 to take full responsibility because we never asked him if 0:11:39.400 --> 0:11:42.520 he was liking other women's Instagram posts and commenting on 0:11:42.559 --> 0:11:43.760 them when we spoke. 0:11:43.559 --> 0:11:44.240 To him earlier. 0:11:44.679 --> 0:11:45.400 Maybe you should have. 0:11:47.240 --> 0:11:50.240 That good you know what we can know because Jay 0:11:50.320 --> 0:11:52.920 is on the phone already right now listening, waiting to 0:11:52.960 --> 0:11:53.400 talk to you. 0:11:54.160 --> 0:11:59.080 Oh yeah, how convenient. 0:11:58.679 --> 0:12:07.319 Jay, Jay, Hello, say, oh my god, this is insane. 0:12:09.559 --> 0:12:12.400 Yeah, what's the same that you lied to me? Oh 0:12:12.440 --> 0:12:13.559 what's the saying about that? 0:12:14.040 --> 0:12:17.440 Oh no, it's insane because you're getting jealous because I 0:12:17.480 --> 0:12:20.360 think my driving instructor or Instagram? 0:12:20.760 --> 0:12:22.920 What wait, what instructor? 0:12:23.960 --> 0:12:27.800 My driving instructor, the blonde woman is teaching you how 0:12:27.840 --> 0:12:28.280 to dass. 0:12:28.920 --> 0:12:33.000 Yes, I didn't know that that was an important detail. 0:12:33.200 --> 0:12:36.440 You never told me that you had a driving instructor 0:12:36.559 --> 0:12:37.920 or that she was a woman. 0:12:38.240 --> 0:12:40.000 Okay, okay, okay. 0:12:40.320 --> 0:12:43.280 He did mention to us he was working on getting 0:12:43.320 --> 0:12:47.079 his driver's license, so that actually checks out, Alli, Yeah, 0:12:47.080 --> 0:12:47.600 thank you. 0:12:47.679 --> 0:12:50.920 Yeah. Yeah, but listen, we were talking on the phone 0:12:51.080 --> 0:12:54.480 every night. You were saying that you were talking about 0:12:54.520 --> 0:12:58.440 taking lessons, but you never mentioned, Oh, by the way, 0:12:58.640 --> 0:13:02.400 my driving instructor that's next to me every day. It's 0:13:02.400 --> 0:13:05.720 this skanky how to track well with an incredible body 0:13:06.640 --> 0:13:14.920 you can't mention that dayliment but also kind of sweet people. 0:13:15.040 --> 0:13:20.479 But she's not stinky. 0:13:20.760 --> 0:13:25.280 But you don't know anything about that, literally nothing. 0:13:25.480 --> 0:13:27.280 Jay, Do you feel bad for not coming out with 0:13:27.320 --> 0:13:29.200 that information on your own? 0:13:29.280 --> 0:13:29.480 No? 0:13:30.440 --> 0:13:32.680 I didn't choose her, Ali, they peered me up with 0:13:32.720 --> 0:13:36.120 whoever they is, I guess available at that time. 0:13:36.360 --> 0:13:37.880 So what are you telling me that you're not going 0:13:37.960 --> 0:13:39.200 to take any more classes with her? 0:13:39.280 --> 0:13:39.439 Then? 0:13:39.600 --> 0:13:43.760 What are they going to get another driving instructor or what? 0:13:44.000 --> 0:13:45.680 Alli, are you really asking him that. 0:13:46.320 --> 0:13:48.760 I'm just saying you had ample time to tell me, 0:13:48.880 --> 0:13:50.160 and you didn't tell me, and I had to see 0:13:50.200 --> 0:13:50.960 it on Instagram. 0:13:51.320 --> 0:13:54.320 I didn't think it was that important. And plus I've 0:13:54.320 --> 0:13:56.439 already signed up for four more courses. 0:13:56.679 --> 0:14:01.640 Yes, oh, so you are going to to see her again, Allie? 0:14:01.840 --> 0:14:05.080 Okay, she's a driving instructor. 0:14:05.600 --> 0:14:08.360 Yeah, she's just teaching you how to drive, right, And 0:14:08.520 --> 0:14:11.240 that's how it starts. 0:14:11.720 --> 0:14:13.599 Have you had an affair with a driving. 0:14:15.200 --> 0:14:18.880 Stuff happens? I mean real, not Come on, guys, I. 0:14:18.840 --> 0:14:20.400 Mean it's a possibility. 0:14:20.960 --> 0:14:22.680 It's not like, if it's true, I want to sign 0:14:22.760 --> 0:14:25.760 up for that driving for sure. This obviously has ended 0:14:25.840 --> 0:14:27.840 up being way more contentious than we thought. 0:14:27.680 --> 0:14:28.560 It would be going. 0:14:29.680 --> 0:14:32.400 But the positive that's come out of it is at 0:14:32.480 --> 0:14:36.120 least now we've got clarity. It's not some mystery skank 0:14:36.440 --> 0:14:40.400 that Jay found online and started talking to. It's just 0:14:40.400 --> 0:14:45.520 some hot, skanky driving instructor Allie's words. 0:14:45.560 --> 0:14:45.880 Whatever. 0:14:46.120 --> 0:14:48.680 So with that said, Alie, what do you say we 0:14:48.760 --> 0:14:53.280 continue this healthy conversation during a second date dinner that 0:14:53.320 --> 0:14:54.160 we will pay for? 0:14:54.520 --> 0:14:56.320 Yeah, skanky Jeff will pay for it. 0:14:56.360 --> 0:14:57.040 Absolutely. 0:14:57.520 --> 0:15:00.880 I tell you guys, what, The only way I would 0:15:00.920 --> 0:15:03.960 ever go out with Jay again is if I get 0:15:04.000 --> 0:15:07.120 to go along on all of his driving class and 0:15:07.280 --> 0:15:08.680 I can see that energy for myself. 0:15:08.800 --> 0:15:09.160 Girl. 0:15:09.840 --> 0:15:12.640 Brother, it's compromise. 0:15:12.960 --> 0:15:16.480 It's not controlling or a big red flag or anything. 0:15:16.680 --> 0:15:18.120 That's relationships. 0:15:18.120 --> 0:15:18.240 Bro. 0:15:18.400 --> 0:15:20.760 It's so we're running out of time here. 0:15:20.800 --> 0:15:24.400 So Jane, now that you've heard her caveat, she's willing 0:15:24.440 --> 0:15:26.600 to go out with you again if you do this 0:15:26.760 --> 0:15:29.840 for her. Are you still open to seeing her if 0:15:29.840 --> 0:15:32.320 she sits in the back seat of your driving lessons 0:15:32.320 --> 0:15:32.920 going forward? 0:15:33.160 --> 0:15:37.280 Wow, this whole thing is ridiculous, But I'm going to 0:15:37.360 --> 0:15:37.840 say yes. 0:15:37.960 --> 0:15:38.760 What's no? 0:15:38.760 --> 0:15:39.200 No? 0:15:39.240 --> 0:15:39.440 Not? 0:15:42.160 --> 0:15:44.600 Why would you do that to that poor driving instructure. 0:15:44.720 --> 0:15:46.720 I don't think we should allow them to go out, Jack, 0:15:46.840 --> 0:15:48.240 I'm going to do it for the plot. 0:15:50.080 --> 0:15:51.360 I think what it is is you don't have a 0:15:51.360 --> 0:15:53.160 lot of other matches on hands right. 0:15:53.080 --> 0:15:56.000 Now, and she's got he's got a ride. 0:15:56.160 --> 0:15:59.360 That's nice. Okay, Ali, You're still open to. 0:15:59.320 --> 0:16:02.360 It because I actually like you, Jay. I just that 0:16:02.520 --> 0:16:03.120 threw me off. 0:16:04.400 --> 0:16:05.480 This is gonna work. 0:16:05.800 --> 0:16:09.720 Oh my god, there's somebody for everybody. 0:16:09.800 --> 0:16:10.520 It's a success. 0:16:10.600 --> 0:16:13.320 You guys are going out again, and Ali just remember 0:16:13.680 --> 0:16:17.000 to put in your calendar six pm every Wednesday. 0:16:17.520 --> 0:16:18.640 Driving lessons with. 0:16:18.680 --> 0:16:21.120 Jay already put down. 0:16:21.360 --> 0:16:23.120 I have a bad feeling about this guy. 0:16:23.840 --> 0:16:25.160 I also feel like she's gonna be one of those 0:16:25.200 --> 0:16:34.960 people like screams in the backseat's. 0:16:30.640 --> 0:16:32.000 Only gonna learn faster that way. 0:16:32.040 --> 0:16:36.479 Good job, Ali Brook and Jeffrey in the morning. 0:16:36.920 --> 0:16:38.600 I mean, you can't be upset when we get a 0:16:38.720 --> 0:16:40.120 yes for a second date. 0:16:40.320 --> 0:16:42.520 I was, though, I mean, here's the thing. 0:16:42.560 --> 0:16:45.200 He is not allowed to complain about whatever happens next. 0:16:45.760 --> 0:16:49.360 Yeah, it is all out there who he's dealing with, 0:16:49.480 --> 0:16:50.600 and he is choosing it. 0:16:50.720 --> 0:16:53.200 Sure, even if yes, he did get a spiteful all 0:16:53.320 --> 0:16:54.920 show you kind of yes. 0:16:55.280 --> 0:16:57.240 It's a yes as a yes, and you gotta feel 0:16:57.240 --> 0:16:57.800 good about that. 0:16:58.680 --> 0:16:59.160 I don't. 0:16:59.360 --> 0:17:02.080 I do well regardless. 0:17:02.120 --> 0:17:04.000 I'm hoping that we get an update update from the 0:17:04.000 --> 0:17:06.080 two of them, because I need to know what happens 0:17:06.080 --> 0:17:07.000 inside that car. 0:17:07.200 --> 0:17:07.639 I don't know. 0:17:07.760 --> 0:17:12.200 I'm sure it's gonna be totally drama free. Jeff, we 0:17:12.280 --> 0:17:13.440 won't have anything to say. 0:17:13.920 --> 0:17:15.560 We don't hear about it on the show. We'll probably 0:17:15.600 --> 0:17:17.360 hear about it on the local news. 0:17:17.920 --> 0:17:20.920 It's like a box of fireworks and the matches already lit. 0:17:21.000 --> 0:17:22.080