Speaker 1: Hey, it's Brook and Jeffrey and thank you so much
Speaker 1: for finding the second date update.
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Speaker 1: We're talking second date update and we are getting inundated
Speaker 1: with text messages this morning that say this girl's nuts. Yeah,
Speaker 1: a lot of like insane run now dodged a bullet.
Speaker 2: You're about to find out for yourselves why they're saying that.
Speaker 2: I don't know what bullet he dodged. I think that
Speaker 2: he ran straight into the bullet. So yeah, you're in
Speaker 2: for one.
Speaker 1: Here it goes your brand new second date update starts
Speaker 1: right now, Brook and Jeffrey in the morning Second date Updates.
Speaker 3: Sometimes we talk about instant turnoffs that give women the ick,
Speaker 3: you know, like if the guy's the same name as
Speaker 3: your brother, oh, the same name as your dad, the
Speaker 3: same name as your stepdad.
Speaker 4: Oh well actually you could probably let that one.
Speaker 1: Slide, right, Alexis depends on how long you've known, right, yeah.
Speaker 3: Yeah, as long as your stepdad is hot, then you
Speaker 3: know you don't want to be too picky. But our
Speaker 3: listener Jay says his red flag was out loud and
Speaker 3: proud on his first date, but he survived it. So
Speaker 3: why isn't he getting a call back. We're going to
Speaker 3: try to find out.
Speaker 4: Jay.
Speaker 3: We'll get to your giant waving red flag in just
Speaker 3: a minute, but first tell us about the woman that
Speaker 3: we're going to be calling here.
Speaker 5: Hey, guys, how are you?
Speaker 1: Oh?
Speaker 2: I think better than you.
Speaker 1: I mean, Jeff said you survived it, but you're on
Speaker 1: the phone with us, so I don't know how working.
Speaker 6: Well.
Speaker 5: Listen, okay, I met this beautiful girl on a dating
Speaker 5: and app called Hinge.
Speaker 4: Her name was Ali Ali, and I.
Speaker 5: Love women with a beautiful smile and beautiful lips. And
Speaker 5: Ali had it all nice to little sluffy lips, great.
Speaker 6: Smile, nice.
Speaker 3: So she's got two big body, pillow sized red lips.
Speaker 4: What we said, well.
Speaker 2: Though, I kind of like it. I'm with you.
Speaker 4: That's what he likes, all right, and we're into it.
Speaker 5: And I also like a woman with a great search
Speaker 5: of human and a little bit spicy. And in her
Speaker 5: profile she said she was sugar and spice with just
Speaker 5: a little bit more spice. And you are.
Speaker 1: Okay, okay, So how did you and her kind of
Speaker 1: hit it off.
Speaker 6: I was smooth. I was smooth, you understand, And she's
Speaker 6: like the smoothness of the.
Speaker 2: J okay soon smooth to me.
Speaker 4: I feel right now you haven't given us the yet yet.
Speaker 4: I feel you're very smooth.
Speaker 6: My man.
Speaker 4: You're not very specific, but you are smooth about.
Speaker 6: I can't be too specific.
Speaker 5: I give lots of lines to lots of women, so
Speaker 5: I don't remember exactly what I said.
Speaker 2: Honest, I appreciate it. You mix up the line you used,
Speaker 2: not the same one every time.
Speaker 6: You can't be smooth and use the same line all
Speaker 6: the time.
Speaker 2: Yeah, you translated it into a date.
Speaker 6: Yes, we would scheduled to go out.
Speaker 3: Okay, okay, And you said in your email that your
Speaker 3: red flash I came up pretty much immediately.
Speaker 5: Right from the beginning.
Speaker 4: What is it?
Speaker 7: My red flag?
Speaker 5: Is that I don't drive? Oh?
Speaker 2: Okay? Is there a reason you don't drive?
Speaker 4: Like you don't have a car.
Speaker 6: I do have a car, but I don't have a license.
Speaker 2: Uh because of an issue with the law.
Speaker 5: No, no, no, nothing like that. It's just that where
Speaker 5: I work, I don't need a car. I can walk
Speaker 5: back and forth to where I need to go, and
Speaker 5: everything was convenient to where I was.
Speaker 3: And I didn't really you you never got around to
Speaker 3: getting your license.
Speaker 5: I never got around.
Speaker 6: I'm just busy working and doing other things.
Speaker 1: And you know, people who live in the city like
Speaker 1: you don't they don't mean it's pretty common.
Speaker 2: Yeah, all that kind.
Speaker 4: Of stuff too.
Speaker 6: But I'm working on it and I'm going to get
Speaker 6: it soon.
Speaker 4: How did Ali take that news? How she was cool
Speaker 4: with it?
Speaker 5: She came past, she picked me up, and we went
Speaker 5: out to have our date.
Speaker 2: Okay, all right, that's great. All right, so you got
Speaker 2: through that. I bet you were feeling pretty good.
Speaker 5: I was, and we went to a nice seafood restaurant.
Speaker 6: Yeah.
Speaker 5: I love seafood, and listen, she loved seafood too.
Speaker 6: So we had a big seafood feast. And here's a
Speaker 6: crazy part.
Speaker 5: The juice from all the seafoods was sitting there on
Speaker 5: the big juicy.
Speaker 1: Oh see the word seafood juice just for you.
Speaker 4: Liked her juicy seafood lips?
Speaker 5: You just did?
Speaker 6: Yeah?
Speaker 2: Okay, did you get a kiss him?
Speaker 3: Ever?
Speaker 2: No?
Speaker 6: I didn't want to move too fast.
Speaker 2: Okay, okay, gentlemen.
Speaker 6: But everything was going well. So we made plans to
Speaker 6: have lunch.
Speaker 3: Yeah, is this you're making plans for your next day
Speaker 3: while you're still out on your first one, or this
Speaker 3: is afterwards.
Speaker 5: No, we was.
Speaker 6: Making plans for the next day while we were still
Speaker 6: on the first day.
Speaker 2: So you were going to go to lunch. What happened?
Speaker 5: I didn't have.
Speaker 6: Her pick me up because I figured it was so
Speaker 6: very close in the city, so I took the buzz there.
Speaker 2: Okay, so you met her there.
Speaker 6: That was the plan. But she didn't show up.
Speaker 2: Like no text or anything.
Speaker 5: She answer my text back, doesn't answer my calls.
Speaker 6: Not only did we have such a great time on
Speaker 6: our first date, but we talked numerous times on a
Speaker 6: phone leading up.
Speaker 2: To a date to the lunch date.
Speaker 4: That's so weird going on.
Speaker 2: Maybe she tried to take a bus too, Those are
Speaker 2: confusing the wrong route.
Speaker 4: What a bummer?
Speaker 3: Because you got so excited about seeing all the seafood
Speaker 3: juice on her lips, you didn't get to see the
Speaker 3: sandwich juice this time.
Speaker 5: You don't know how I was anticipated.
Speaker 2: Imagine where are you at now? Like, how are you?
Speaker 2: Are you mad or do you want to see her again?
Speaker 5: I'm not mad, I'm just confused and don't understand. Everything
Speaker 5: was going.
Speaker 6: So well, and I don't know what happened. You know,
Speaker 6: I was a gentleman the whole night.
Speaker 5: She was laughing, we was flirting with each other, and
Speaker 5: now nothing interesting.
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's weird to have phone conversations in between the
Speaker 1: two dates and then no show.
Speaker 4: That's the big weird, weird part.
Speaker 1: Yeah, if you were gonna know show, then you already
Speaker 1: start to kind of slip beforehand.
Speaker 5: Yeah, please, please, you guys got to figure out this
Speaker 5: mystery for me.
Speaker 4: You have to.
Speaker 2: All right, we got you, Jay, Okay, we're on it.
Speaker 4: I do feel like there's something you're not telling us, though.
Speaker 3: There has to be a reason why she would cut
Speaker 3: it off already.
Speaker 2: Wow, we have cut her on the phone.
Speaker 3: Yeah, the truth is you're so smooth though. I could
Speaker 3: never figure out what the reason was. We have to
Speaker 3: call her and figure that out when we come back. Yeah,
Speaker 3: that's right, Talktor third person.
Speaker 4: Now, Okay, we'll come back.
Speaker 3: We will call Ali and try and get you your
Speaker 3: second date update right after this hold on man Brook and.
Speaker 2: Jeffrey in the morning. Second date update.
Speaker 4: It's nice when a man could admit his shortcomings. I
Speaker 4: have a lot of them.
Speaker 7: Oh, I.
Speaker 1: Thought that thought was the start where you were gonna
Speaker 1: start listening up.
Speaker 3: I have plenty, but our listener Jay is also no
Speaker 3: stranger to that. He's got a lot of self confidence,
Speaker 3: a lot of personality. One thing he doesn't have is
Speaker 3: a driver's license. Never got one, And he told us
Speaker 3: that in the very first minute that he was on
Speaker 3: the phone, which has been a problem for him with
Speaker 3: previous women he's dated, but not with the new lady
Speaker 3: he met, named Ali, and she actually agreed to pick
Speaker 3: him up for their seafood date, which went so well
Speaker 3: they immediately planned another meetup that she no showed to.
Speaker 1: Yeah. They even talked on the phone multiple times in
Speaker 1: between the two dates.
Speaker 3: Yeah, So what was said during those conversations and could
Speaker 3: it have affected why she decided not to show up?
Speaker 2: I mean, what was the last text you center? Were
Speaker 2: you angry at the no show?
Speaker 6: No? I wasn't angry.
Speaker 5: I just maybe something happened and the only thing that
Speaker 5: wasn't happened about Also, she would.
Speaker 6: Drive me home she didn't shown, so now I had
Speaker 6: to take the bunk back home.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, then you held onto that transfer ticket?
Speaker 5: Yeah?
Speaker 3: Because absolutely you want us to ask her to refund
Speaker 3: you the bus fair.
Speaker 6: No, No, that's little Gate. I doesn't want to make
Speaker 6: sure she's a little Gate.
Speaker 4: All right, all right, that's very kind. Let's see if
Speaker 4: she even answers the phone for us. I'm gonna dial
Speaker 4: her right now. Here we go. Hello, Hey, we're going
Speaker 4: to speak with Ali.
Speaker 7: H this is she.
Speaker 3: Hey, Ali, you're on the radio right now with a
Speaker 3: show called Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.
Speaker 1: Whoa, you're a close phone talker, like the radio?
Speaker 4: Can you hear me?
Speaker 1: I'm like, wow.
Speaker 3: The reason that we're calling you kind of out of
Speaker 3: the blue here is for a segment that we do
Speaker 3: on this show.
Speaker 4: It's called a second date update.
Speaker 7: Oh okay, have you heard those before? I have heard
Speaker 7: those before, but I'm not quite sure why you're calling me.
Speaker 4: A day recently.
Speaker 7: Yeah.
Speaker 3: And and we know that because that date reached out
Speaker 3: to us hoping that we could get a hold of you,
Speaker 3: a guy named Jay.
Speaker 2: Bus past Guy.
Speaker 7: Bus past guy.
Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, he doesn't have a license.
Speaker 1: He told us that, you know, showed at the last date.
Speaker 2: I mean, that's kind of messed up.
Speaker 6: What the heck?
Speaker 7: Okay, you know what, let me say this am my defense.
Speaker 7: I didn't realize that he was actually doing something shady
Speaker 7: behind my back.
Speaker 4: I don't think riding the bus is shady.
Speaker 7: I think people, so you know what I mean, because
Speaker 7: you got to check people out. You gotta check I mean,
Speaker 7: I've bet everything. So I'm following up on Instagram and
Speaker 7: I saw that he recently liked a woman's post. She
Speaker 7: was this blonde with a nice body, very very attractive woman.
Speaker 7: And I'm like, wait, okay, he just.
Speaker 1: Liked a person's post who was an attractive blonde.
Speaker 7: So no, I saw that he was commenting on her page.
Speaker 7: Uh huh, that was fun the other day, looking forward
Speaker 7: to getting to know you more. And I'm going what
Speaker 7: I mean? I thought like, what does that mean?
Speaker 2: Allie?
Speaker 1: How on you guys had gone on one date. That
Speaker 1: doesn't mean that he's exclusive to you. I'm sure you're
Speaker 1: talking to other people.
Speaker 7: I know where you're coming from. However, we were talking,
Speaker 7: we went out on the first date, we were actually
Speaker 7: planning on a second date. We had a lot of
Speaker 7: great conversations and everything.
Speaker 1: So why did you stand him up? Why didn't you
Speaker 1: meet him for lunch and just ask him all those questions?
Speaker 7: Because I just thought about it, and the more I
Speaker 7: thought about it. I'm like, I think Jase a player
Speaker 7: and he's trying to play me. Did you know some
Speaker 7: guys who don't have a car, they will do that?
Speaker 4: Okay, carless guy stereotype I haven't heard.
Speaker 3: Okay, if you saw this in a similar situation, a
Speaker 3: guy you were with was commenting on somebody else's beautiful page,
Speaker 3: would that like put some doubt into your mind?
Speaker 1: Well, of course, but I am not one to hold back,
Speaker 1: so I would definitely go the confrontation.
Speaker 4: Route long ago. Don't look at a guy's following. Yeah, okay,
Speaker 4: Alexis strategy is just completely.
Speaker 3: There can't be any red flags, you see, if you
Speaker 3: don't open your eyes and listen, Ali, I probably need
Speaker 3: to take full responsibility because we never asked him if
Speaker 3: he was liking other women's Instagram posts and commenting on
Speaker 3: them when we spoke.
Speaker 4: To him earlier.
Speaker 7: Maybe you should have.
Speaker 3: That good you know what we can know because Jay
Speaker 3: is on the phone already right now listening, waiting to
Speaker 3: talk to you.
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, how convenient.
Speaker 5: Jay, Jay, Hello, say, oh my god, this is insane.
Speaker 7: Yeah, what's the same that you lied to me? Oh
Speaker 7: what's the saying about that?
Speaker 5: Oh no, it's insane because you're getting jealous because I
Speaker 5: think my driving instructor or Instagram?
Speaker 4: What wait, what instructor?
Speaker 3: My driving instructor, the blonde woman is teaching you how
Speaker 3: to dass.
Speaker 5: Yes, I didn't know that that was an important detail.
Speaker 7: You never told me that you had a driving instructor
Speaker 7: or that she was a woman.
Speaker 2: Okay, okay, okay.
Speaker 1: He did mention to us he was working on getting
Speaker 1: his driver's license, so that actually checks out, Alli, Yeah,
Speaker 1: thank you.
Speaker 7: Yeah. Yeah, but listen, we were talking on the phone
Speaker 7: every night. You were saying that you were talking about
Speaker 7: taking lessons, but you never mentioned, Oh, by the way,
Speaker 7: my driving instructor that's next to me every day. It's
Speaker 7: this skanky how to track well with an incredible body
Speaker 7: you can't mention that dayliment but also kind of sweet people.
Speaker 6: But she's not stinky.
Speaker 2: But you don't know anything about that, literally nothing.
Speaker 3: Jay, Do you feel bad for not coming out with
Speaker 3: that information on your own?
Speaker 4: No?
Speaker 5: I didn't choose her, Ali, they peered me up with
Speaker 5: whoever they is, I guess available at that time.
Speaker 7: So what are you telling me that you're not going
Speaker 7: to take any more classes with her?
Speaker 6: Then?
Speaker 7: What are they going to get another driving instructor or what?
Speaker 2: Alli, are you really asking him that.
Speaker 7: I'm just saying you had ample time to tell me,
Speaker 7: and you didn't tell me, and I had to see
Speaker 7: it on Instagram.
Speaker 5: I didn't think it was that important. And plus I've
Speaker 5: already signed up for four more courses.
Speaker 7: Yes, oh, so you are going to to see her again, Allie?
Speaker 1: Okay, she's a driving instructor.
Speaker 7: Yeah, she's just teaching you how to drive, right, And
Speaker 7: that's how it starts.
Speaker 2: Have you had an affair with a driving.
Speaker 7: Stuff happens? I mean real, not Come on, guys, I.
Speaker 4: Mean it's a possibility.
Speaker 3: It's not like, if it's true, I want to sign
Speaker 3: up for that driving for sure. This obviously has ended
Speaker 3: up being way more contentious than we thought.
Speaker 4: It would be going.
Speaker 3: But the positive that's come out of it is at
Speaker 3: least now we've got clarity. It's not some mystery skank
Speaker 3: that Jay found online and started talking to. It's just
Speaker 3: some hot, skanky driving instructor Allie's words.
Speaker 4: Whatever.
Speaker 3: So with that said, Alie, what do you say we
Speaker 3: continue this healthy conversation during a second date dinner that
Speaker 3: we will pay for?
Speaker 2: Yeah, skanky Jeff will pay for it.
Speaker 4: Absolutely.
Speaker 7: I tell you guys, what, The only way I would
Speaker 7: ever go out with Jay again is if I get
Speaker 7: to go along on all of his driving class and
Speaker 7: I can see that energy for myself.
Speaker 2: Girl.
Speaker 4: Brother, it's compromise.
Speaker 1: It's not controlling or a big red flag or anything.
Speaker 4: That's relationships.
Speaker 3: Bro.
Speaker 4: It's so we're running out of time here.
Speaker 3: So Jane, now that you've heard her caveat, she's willing
Speaker 3: to go out with you again if you do this
Speaker 3: for her. Are you still open to seeing her if
Speaker 3: she sits in the back seat of your driving lessons
Speaker 3: going forward?
Speaker 5: Wow, this whole thing is ridiculous, But I'm going to
Speaker 5: say yes.
Speaker 3: What's no?
Speaker 1: No?
Speaker 3: Not?
Speaker 2: Why would you do that to that poor driving instructure.
Speaker 3: I don't think we should allow them to go out, Jack,
Speaker 3: I'm going to do it for the plot.
Speaker 1: I think what it is is you don't have a
Speaker 1: lot of other matches on hands right.
Speaker 3: Now, and she's got he's got a ride.
Speaker 4: That's nice. Okay, Ali, You're still open to.
Speaker 7: It because I actually like you, Jay. I just that
Speaker 7: threw me off.
Speaker 4: This is gonna work.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, there's somebody for everybody.
Speaker 4: It's a success.
Speaker 3: You guys are going out again, and Ali just remember
Speaker 3: to put in your calendar six pm every Wednesday.
Speaker 4: Driving lessons with.
Speaker 7: Jay already put down.
Speaker 4: I have a bad feeling about this guy.
Speaker 1: I also feel like she's gonna be one of those
Speaker 1: people like screams in the backseat's.
Speaker 4: Only gonna learn faster that way.
Speaker 5: Good job, Ali Brook and Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 4: I mean, you can't be upset when we get a
Speaker 4: yes for a second date.
Speaker 2: I was, though, I mean, here's the thing.
Speaker 1: He is not allowed to complain about whatever happens next.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it is all out there who he's dealing with,
Speaker 2: and he is choosing it.
Speaker 3: Sure, even if yes, he did get a spiteful all
Speaker 3: show you kind of yes.
Speaker 4: It's a yes as a yes, and you gotta feel
Speaker 4: good about that.
Speaker 2: I don't.
Speaker 4: I do well regardless.
Speaker 3: I'm hoping that we get an update update from the
Speaker 3: two of them, because I need to know what happens
Speaker 3: inside that car.
Speaker 7: I don't know.
Speaker 2: I'm sure it's gonna be totally drama free. Jeff, we
Speaker 2: won't have anything to say.
Speaker 4: We don't hear about it on the show. We'll probably
Speaker 4: hear about it on the local news.
Speaker 3: It's like a box of fireworks and the matches already lit.
Speaker 4: I cannot wait.
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