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Speaker 1: Hey, it's Brook and Jeffrey and thank you so much

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Speaker 1: for finding the second date update.

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Speaker 2: What is this called podcast? Yep, this is a podcast.

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Speaker 1: So yes, if you didn't realize we do run these, Hi, Jose,

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Speaker 1: come on in.

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Speaker 2: He just went and got coffee.

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Speaker 1: We're talking second date update and we are getting inundated

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Speaker 1: with text messages this morning that say this girl's nuts. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: a lot of like insane run now dodged a bullet.

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Speaker 2: You're about to find out for yourselves why they're saying that.

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Speaker 2: I don't know what bullet he dodged. I think that

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Speaker 2: he ran straight into the bullet. So yeah, you're in

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Speaker 2: for one.

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Speaker 1: Here it goes your brand new second date update starts

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Speaker 1: right now, Brook and Jeffrey in the morning Second date Updates.

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Speaker 3: Sometimes we talk about instant turnoffs that give women the ick,

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Speaker 3: you know, like if the guy's the same name as

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Speaker 3: your brother, oh, the same name as your dad, the

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Speaker 3: same name as your stepdad.

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Speaker 4: Oh well actually you could probably let that one.

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Speaker 1: Slide, right, Alexis depends on how long you've known, right, yeah.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, as long as your stepdad is hot, then you

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Speaker 3: know you don't want to be too picky. But our

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Speaker 3: listener Jay says his red flag was out loud and

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Speaker 3: proud on his first date, but he survived it. So

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Speaker 3: why isn't he getting a call back. We're going to

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Speaker 3: try to find out.

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Speaker 4: Jay.

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Speaker 3: We'll get to your giant waving red flag in just

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Speaker 3: a minute, but first tell us about the woman that

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Speaker 3: we're going to be calling here.

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Speaker 5: Hey, guys, how are you?

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Speaker 1: Oh?

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Speaker 2: I think better than you.

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Speaker 1: I mean, Jeff said you survived it, but you're on

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Speaker 6: Well.

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Speaker 5: Listen, okay, I met this beautiful girl on a dating

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Speaker 5: and app called Hinge.

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Speaker 4: Her name was Ali Ali, and I.

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Speaker 5: Love women with a beautiful smile and beautiful lips. And

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Speaker 5: Ali had it all nice to little sluffy lips, great.

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Speaker 6: Smile, nice.

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Speaker 3: So she's got two big body, pillow sized red lips.

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Speaker 4: What we said, well.

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Speaker 2: Though, I kind of like it. I'm with you.

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Speaker 4: That's what he likes, all right, and we're into it.

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Speaker 5: And I also like a woman with a great search

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Speaker 1: Okay, okay, So how did you and her kind of

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Speaker 6: I was smooth. I was smooth, you understand, And she's

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Speaker 2: J okay soon smooth to me.

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Speaker 4: I feel right now you haven't given us the yet yet.

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Speaker 4: I feel you're very smooth.

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Speaker 6: My man.

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Speaker 4: You're not very specific, but you are smooth about.

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Speaker 6: I can't be too specific.

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Speaker 5: I give lots of lines to lots of women, so

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Speaker 5: I don't remember exactly what I said.

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Speaker 2: Honest, I appreciate it. You mix up the line you used,

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Speaker 6: You can't be smooth and use the same line all

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Speaker 6: the time.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you translated it into a date.

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Speaker 6: Yes, we would scheduled to go out.

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Speaker 3: Okay, okay, And you said in your email that your

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Speaker 5: Right from the beginning.

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Speaker 7: My red flag?

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Speaker 5: Is that I don't drive? Oh?

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Speaker 2: Okay? Is there a reason you don't drive?

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Speaker 4: Like you don't have a car.

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Speaker 5: No, no, no, nothing like that. It's just that where

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Speaker 6: I'm just busy working and doing other things.

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Speaker 1: And you know, people who live in the city like

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Speaker 2: Yeah, all that kind.

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Speaker 6: But I'm working on it and I'm going to get

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Speaker 4: How did Ali take that news? How she was cool

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Speaker 5: She came past, she picked me up, and we went

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Speaker 2: Okay, all right, that's great. All right, so you got

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Speaker 5: I was, and we went to a nice seafood restaurant.

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Speaker 6: Yeah.

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Speaker 5: I love seafood, and listen, she loved seafood too.

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Speaker 6: So we had a big seafood feast. And here's a

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Speaker 5: The juice from all the seafoods was sitting there on

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Speaker 5: the big juicy.

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Speaker 1: Oh see the word seafood juice just for you.

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Speaker 4: Liked her juicy seafood lips?

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Speaker 5: You just did?

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Speaker 6: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Okay, did you get a kiss him?

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Speaker 3: Ever?

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Speaker 2: No?

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Speaker 6: I didn't want to move too fast.

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Speaker 6: But everything was going well. So we made plans to

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Speaker 3: Yeah, is this you're making plans for your next day

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Speaker 5: No, we was.

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Speaker 6: Making plans for the next day while we were still

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Speaker 2: So you were going to go to lunch. What happened?

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Speaker 5: I didn't have.

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Speaker 2: Okay, so you met her there.

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Speaker 6: That was the plan. But she didn't show up.

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Speaker 2: Like no text or anything.

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Speaker 5: She answer my text back, doesn't answer my calls.

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Speaker 6: Not only did we have such a great time on

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Speaker 2: To a date to the lunch date.

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Speaker 4: That's so weird going on.

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Speaker 2: Maybe she tried to take a bus too, Those are

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Speaker 4: What a bummer?

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Speaker 3: Because you got so excited about seeing all the seafood

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Speaker 5: You don't know how I was anticipated.

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Speaker 2: Imagine where are you at now? Like, how are you?

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Speaker 2: Are you mad or do you want to see her again?

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Speaker 5: I'm not mad, I'm just confused and don't understand. Everything

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Speaker 6: So well, and I don't know what happened. You know,

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Speaker 6: I was a gentleman the whole night.

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Speaker 5: She was laughing, we was flirting with each other, and

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's weird to have phone conversations in between the

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Speaker 4: That's the big weird, weird part.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, if you were gonna know show, then you already

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Speaker 5: Yeah, please, please, you guys got to figure out this

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Speaker 4: You have to.

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Speaker 2: All right, we got you, Jay, Okay, we're on it.

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Speaker 4: I do feel like there's something you're not telling us, though.

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Speaker 3: There has to be a reason why she would cut

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Speaker 2: Wow, we have cut her on the phone.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, the truth is you're so smooth though. I could

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Speaker 3: never figure out what the reason was. We have to

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Speaker 3: call her and figure that out when we come back. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: that's right, Talktor third person.

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Speaker 4: Now, Okay, we'll come back.

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Speaker 3: We will call Ali and try and get you your

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Speaker 3: second date update right after this hold on man Brook and.

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Speaker 2: Jeffrey in the morning. Second date update.

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Speaker 4: It's nice when a man could admit his shortcomings. I

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Speaker 7: Oh, I.

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Speaker 1: Thought that thought was the start where you were gonna

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Speaker 3: I have plenty, but our listener Jay is also no

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Speaker 3: they immediately planned another meetup that she no showed to.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. They even talked on the phone multiple times in

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Speaker 3: Yeah, So what was said during those conversations and could

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Speaker 2: I mean, what was the last text you center? Were

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Speaker 6: No? I wasn't angry.

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Speaker 5: I just maybe something happened and the only thing that

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Speaker 6: Drive me home she didn't shown, so now I had

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, then you held onto that transfer ticket?

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Speaker 5: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Because absolutely you want us to ask her to refund

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Speaker 6: No, No, that's little Gate. I doesn't want to make

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Speaker 4: All right, all right, that's very kind. Let's see if

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Speaker 4: she even answers the phone for us. I'm gonna dial

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Speaker 4: her right now. Here we go. Hello, Hey, we're going

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Speaker 4: to speak with Ali.

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Speaker 7: H this is she.

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Speaker 3: Hey, Ali, you're on the radio right now with a

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Speaker 3: show called Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.

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Speaker 1: Whoa, you're a close phone talker, like the radio?

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Speaker 4: Can you hear me?

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Speaker 1: I'm like, wow.

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Speaker 3: The reason that we're calling you kind of out of

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Speaker 3: the blue here is for a segment that we do

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Speaker 4: It's called a second date update.

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Speaker 7: Oh okay, have you heard those before? I have heard

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Speaker 7: those before, but I'm not quite sure why you're calling me.

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Speaker 4: A day recently.

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Speaker 7: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: And and we know that because that date reached out

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Speaker 3: to us hoping that we could get a hold of you,

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Speaker 3: a guy named Jay.

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Speaker 2: Bus past Guy.

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Speaker 7: Bus past guy.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, he doesn't have a license.

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Speaker 1: He told us that, you know, showed at the last date.

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Speaker 2: I mean, that's kind of messed up.

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Speaker 6: What the heck?

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Speaker 7: Okay, you know what, let me say this am my defense.

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Speaker 7: I didn't realize that he was actually doing something shady

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Speaker 7: I think people, so you know what I mean, because

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Speaker 7: I've bet everything. So I'm following up on Instagram and

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Speaker 7: And I'm like, wait, okay, he just.

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Speaker 7: So no, I saw that he was commenting on her page.

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Speaker 7: Uh huh, that was fun the other day, looking forward

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Speaker 7: I mean? I thought like, what does that mean?

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Speaker 1: How on you guys had gone on one date. That

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Speaker 7: I know where you're coming from. However, we were talking,

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Speaker 7: we went out on the first date, we were actually

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Speaker 1: So why did you stand him up? Why didn't you

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Speaker 7: Because I just thought about it, and the more I

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Speaker 7: and he's trying to play me. Did you know some

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Speaker 7: guys who don't have a car, they will do that?

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Speaker 4: Okay, carless guy stereotype I haven't heard.

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Speaker 3: Okay, if you saw this in a similar situation, a

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Speaker 1: Well, of course, but I am not one to hold back,

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Speaker 4: Route long ago. Don't look at a guy's following. Yeah, okay,

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Speaker 4: Alexis strategy is just completely.

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Speaker 3: There can't be any red flags, you see, if you

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Speaker 4: To him earlier.

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Speaker 7: Maybe you should have.

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Speaker 3: That good you know what we can know because Jay

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Speaker 4: Oh yeah, how convenient.

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Speaker 5: Jay, Jay, Hello, say, oh my god, this is insane.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, what's the same that you lied to me? Oh

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Speaker 7: what's the saying about that?

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Speaker 5: Oh no, it's insane because you're getting jealous because I

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Speaker 4: What wait, what instructor?

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Speaker 3: My driving instructor, the blonde woman is teaching you how

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Speaker 5: Yes, I didn't know that that was an important detail.

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Speaker 7: You never told me that you had a driving instructor

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Speaker 2: Okay, okay, okay.

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Speaker 1: He did mention to us he was working on getting

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Speaker 7: Yeah. Yeah, but listen, we were talking on the phone

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Speaker 7: this skanky how to track well with an incredible body

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Speaker 6: But she's not stinky.

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Speaker 2: But you don't know anything about that, literally nothing.

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Speaker 3: Jay, Do you feel bad for not coming out with

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Speaker 4: No?

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Speaker 5: I didn't choose her, Ali, they peered me up with

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Speaker 7: So what are you telling me that you're not going

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Speaker 6: Then?

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Speaker 7: What are they going to get another driving instructor or what?

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Speaker 2: Alli, are you really asking him that.

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Speaker 7: I'm just saying you had ample time to tell me,

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Speaker 5: I didn't think it was that important. And plus I've

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Speaker 7: Yes, oh, so you are going to to see her again, Allie?

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Speaker 1: Okay, she's a driving instructor.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, she's just teaching you how to drive, right, And

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Speaker 7: that's how it starts.

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Speaker 2: Have you had an affair with a driving.

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Speaker 7: Stuff happens? I mean real, not Come on, guys, I.

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Speaker 4: Mean it's a possibility.

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Speaker 3: It's not like, if it's true, I want to sign

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Speaker 3: up for that driving for sure. This obviously has ended

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Speaker 4: It would be going.

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Speaker 3: But the positive that's come out of it is at

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Speaker 3: least now we've got clarity. It's not some mystery skank

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Speaker 3: that Jay found online and started talking to. It's just

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Speaker 3: some hot, skanky driving instructor Allie's words.

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Speaker 4: Whatever.

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Speaker 3: So with that said, Alie, what do you say we

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Speaker 3: continue this healthy conversation during a second date dinner that

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Speaker 3: we will pay for?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, skanky Jeff will pay for it.

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Speaker 4: Absolutely.

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Speaker 7: I tell you guys, what, The only way I would

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Speaker 7: to go along on all of his driving class and

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Speaker 7: I can see that energy for myself.

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Speaker 2: Girl.

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Speaker 4: Brother, it's compromise.

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Speaker 1: It's not controlling or a big red flag or anything.

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Speaker 4: That's relationships.

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Speaker 3: Bro.

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Speaker 4: It's so we're running out of time here.

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Speaker 3: So Jane, now that you've heard her caveat, she's willing

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Speaker 5: Wow, this whole thing is ridiculous, But I'm going to

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Speaker 5: say yes.

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Speaker 3: What's no?

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Speaker 1: No?

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Speaker 3: Not?

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Speaker 2: Why would you do that to that poor driving instructure.

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Speaker 3: I don't think we should allow them to go out, Jack,

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Speaker 3: I'm going to do it for the plot.

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Speaker 1: I think what it is is you don't have a

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Speaker 3: Now, and she's got he's got a ride.

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Speaker 4: That's nice. Okay, Ali, You're still open to.

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Speaker 7: It because I actually like you, Jay. I just that

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Speaker 4: This is gonna work.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, there's somebody for everybody.

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Speaker 4: It's a success.

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Speaker 3: You guys are going out again, and Ali just remember

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Speaker 3: to put in your calendar six pm every Wednesday.

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Speaker 4: Driving lessons with.

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Speaker 7: Jay already put down.

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Speaker 4: I have a bad feeling about this guy.

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Speaker 1: I also feel like she's gonna be one of those

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Speaker 4: Only gonna learn faster that way.

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Speaker 5: Good job, Ali Brook and Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 4: I mean, you can't be upset when we get a

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Speaker 4: yes for a second date.

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Speaker 2: I was, though, I mean, here's the thing.

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Speaker 1: He is not allowed to complain about whatever happens next.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it is all out there who he's dealing with,

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Speaker 2: and he is choosing it.

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Speaker 3: Sure, even if yes, he did get a spiteful all

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Speaker 4: It's a yes as a yes, and you gotta feel

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Speaker 2: I don't.

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Speaker 4: I do well regardless.

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Speaker 3: I'm hoping that we get an update update from the

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Speaker 3: two of them, because I need to know what happens

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Speaker 3: inside that car.

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Speaker 7: I don't know.

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Speaker 2: I'm sure it's gonna be totally drama free. Jeff, we

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Speaker 4: We don't hear about it on the show. We'll probably

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Speaker 3: It's like a box of fireworks and the matches already lit.

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Speaker 4: I cannot wait.

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