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Speaker 1: Paulina, you cut all your hair off? Yeah, and I did.

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Speaker 1: You're referring to this as the mom cut. Yeah, so

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Speaker 1: they called the mom chop. I didn't know I had

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Speaker 1: called the mom chop.

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Speaker 2: So when moms.

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Speaker 3: Give birth or they have kids, whatever, they just chop

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Speaker 3: off all their hair. It's a thing like the long

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Speaker 4: So what'd you cut off? Maybe six inches?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, right, a lot because my hair is not long

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Speaker 3: And they wear extensions, but I haven't had them in

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Speaker 3: a while, but I would say a good amount. When

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Speaker 3: I saw that video posted of me playing the Definitely

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Speaker 3: Gonna Be Paulina game, and I saw my hair and

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Speaker 3: you guys let me look like that.

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Speaker 2: I was so upset.

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Speaker 4: You looked fun. You look. What do you think that is?

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Speaker 4: I'm curious? Eight five five five three five What do

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Speaker 5: Like?

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Speaker 4: What's that about? What is it that you just get

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Speaker 4: tired of?

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Speaker 1: You're trying to simplify your life after you have a kid,

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Speaker 1: and it's just there's so much going on. You don't

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Speaker 1: have to wash your hair, mess with it, so you

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Speaker 1: just cut it off.

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Speaker 2: So our friend Ac I saw her over the weekend.

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Speaker 3: She told me that because she did it too, and

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Speaker 3: she's like, yeah, we just think it's easier, so we

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Speaker 3: just chop it off, you know, less time to like,

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Speaker 2: For me, it was more of like an identity thing.

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Speaker 2: I don't know.

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Speaker 3: I was just like, you know what, like, my hair

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Speaker 3: new era, right mom era was like, let's just do it.

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Speaker 2: I didn't know what.

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Speaker 3: It had a whole term and there was a whole

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Speaker 3: movement behind it. I just thought it was me cutting

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Speaker 3: my hair off. But people say they do it all

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Speaker 3: the time for that reason because they don't want to

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Speaker 3: get ready the baby. Also, when the baby has to

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Speaker 3: pull your hair, that's like a pain the ass because

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Speaker 3: oh really, yeah, my daughter hearings because she's doing the

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Speaker 3: reaching thing now, so like when I put her down,

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Speaker 3: it's me and the hair going down.

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Speaker 1: Because I've had like a mental breakdown before where I

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Speaker 4: I have shaved my beard.

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Speaker 1: Off because it just felt like it felt cleansing, like

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Speaker 1: I can't really describe it, but I never felt more

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Speaker 4: This was years ago, but.

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Speaker 1: Like, I don't know, I felt like I had to

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Speaker 4: I'm like, what am I gonna do? And I just

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Speaker 1: It felt like I needed to strip myself of all

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Speaker 1: It was random and I felt like in control, and

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Speaker 2: Maybe that's what.

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Speaker 3: I did in control thing because I didn't even plan it.

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Speaker 3: It was Thursday after after work and I hit up

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Speaker 2: Can I come in?

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Speaker 3: And she's like yeah. I walked in, sat down, like

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Speaker 3: what are we doing? And I was like, just chop

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Speaker 4: Whatever?

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Speaker 2: When I went blonde, I thought about this for weeks.

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Speaker 1: Well that's why I was asking was it a practical thing?

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Speaker 1: Was it an emotional thing?

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Speaker 3: I think it was emotional for it well, kind of

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Speaker 2: It was awful. Like, I know it's curly, but it

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Speaker 4: Hold on, Alyssa, you chopped all your hair off too,

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Speaker 6: Oh? Okay? So yes I did. I shaved my head.

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Speaker 6: Oh and people at people came to me and pulled

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Speaker 6: So yes, I chopped off my hair. It was a

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: It does feel like you're taking control over some thing

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Speaker 1: I guess is what it is? So how long was

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Speaker 6: So, so my hair was I don't know, let's say

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Speaker 6: it was probably it was passed my shoulders mid back.

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Speaker 4: Okay, this is drastic.

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Speaker 1: So you walked in with like mid back long hair

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Speaker 1: oh oh, I shaved.

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Speaker 6: I ended up doing well. I shaved, and then I

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Speaker 4: Wow.

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Speaker 1: Okay, So I can see why people might think that

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Speaker 6: They're like, they're like, are you having your Britney Spearson moment.

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Speaker 6: I'm like, okay, is it? Is it not okay for

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Speaker 6: don't have to have a mental disability, you know, to

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Speaker 4: Well I do, so it's fine. It's all good. Now.

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Speaker 1: You mentioned and Paulina mentioned this too off the air,

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Speaker 1: but you mentioned Alysa that you didn't have a partner,

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Speaker 4: Paulina, No, yeah, I'm.

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Speaker 6: Not going ahead, not that I had that permission or anything,

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Speaker 6: but it was like, I you know, guys have preference,

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Speaker 6: I love your hair. I have. I have curly hair naturally,

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Speaker 6: and I was, you know, I'll sil it from time

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Speaker 6: I shaved it, and I got more compliments shaved than

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Speaker 4: Oh right, fair enough, Thank you, listen, have a good day.

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Speaker 1: So people were asking you, Paulina, if you asked hobby

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Speaker 3: No, he didn't even know I was going. He was

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Speaker 2: I mean I cut off a lot.

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Speaker 3: And he was just like, oh, And I sent a

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Speaker 3: so his short hair Queen is what he calls me. No, oh,

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Speaker 3: I know he likes it. He prefers it's a preference thing.

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Speaker 3: He prefers longer hair. But I did what I did.

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Speaker 3: But you don't have to ask. No, No, I have.

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Speaker 2: You met me. I'm not asking nobody if.

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Speaker 1: You were gonna, like, if you're gonna shave your head,

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Speaker 1: I guess I can see asking, but I mean cutting

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Speaker 1: But I mean, you know, if you're with someone and

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Speaker 1: they don't get the final say. But I mean, wouldn't

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Speaker 7: Yeah, this is a constant argument in my house because

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Speaker 7: I don't ask anybody anything. You know, I switch wigs

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Speaker 7: And so he's on this whole thing like I'm growing

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Speaker 7: I'm like, okay, I mean you want to go down

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Speaker 1: But he did well rhetorical question. He doesn't get a

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Speaker 1: He's not going to say anything to you because you

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Speaker 4: So it's not like it's permanent, but with him, it's permanent.

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Speaker 7: So that's why I'm like, you should talk to your partner,

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Speaker 4: I wanted to be attracted at least have a conversation.

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Speaker 1: Anyone who's like, do not do that, like I dump

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Speaker 1: you or something someone like that will buy Yeah, no,

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Speaker 1: you don't get to control me like that.

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Speaker 4: But I think it's considerate.

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Speaker 3: It was that bad for not asking or at least

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Speaker 3: world basically, no, you look cute.

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Speaker 1: It looks great, but it's nothing. It's not that direct,

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Speaker 1: what I'm thinking about doing, because that's a that is

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Speaker 1: a that you are changing the way you look fundamentally

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Speaker 1: correct at that case. In that case, Hey Ashley, hi bye,

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Speaker 1: good morning. So you're also a new mom. Cut all

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Speaker 1: your hair off?

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Speaker 6: Good morning?

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Speaker 3: Yes I did.

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Speaker 6: I kind of had to.

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Speaker 2: My son is going to be uh one.

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Speaker 5: In two weeks, and when he was four months old,

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Speaker 5: my hair started coming out.

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Speaker 6: The most part of hair loss was real.

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Speaker 1: I'm icy, okay, so then you just cut it short

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Speaker 1: to sort of I don't know, mitigate, Yes, I had.

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Speaker 6: It was just no loner serving me.

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Speaker 4: It had to go. Okay, So this was and I

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Speaker 4: loved it.

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Speaker 2: And they grab it.

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Speaker 6: They grabbed that hair.

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Speaker 4: Everything they did okay.

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Speaker 5: So for those it was.

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Speaker 6: Just it was time to go, and I love.

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Speaker 4: It all right, fair enough? They thank you, Ashley, You're welcome.

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Speaker 2: That's right, that's right, good morning morning.

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Speaker 2: So I got my hair cut.

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Speaker 5: you know, show everybody, hey, I'm a mama now.

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Speaker 2: So I changed my.

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Speaker 5: Look to reflect the way that I had changed inside.

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Speaker 1: So you don't think maybe you holding the kid was

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Speaker 1: She's a mom. And did you did you ask Linda?

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Speaker 5: I got a pixie cut and I came home and

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Speaker 5: he said, what the hell.

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Speaker 4: Did you do? I'm a mom? Now?

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Speaker 1: Did you tell him Linda, I'm a mom? Now? Give

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Speaker 1: my heads up? That's how he found out. Thank you Linda,

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Speaker 1: have a great day. You can't lets you blogs. Next

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Speaker 1: waiting by the phone is New Money was show by

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Speaker 1: Shelley All