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Speaker 1: It is time to ask Thanksgiving the clo. You won't

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Speaker 1: care about the super Bowl. I don't know that was

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Speaker 1: a thing. Half time Yeah, I think they're trying to

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Speaker 1: make it a thing now.

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Speaker 2: Yeah what halftime at it?

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Speaker 3: Thanksgiving?

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Speaker 1: With Thanksgiving?

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Speaker 3: Dames? Man, I don't care about that. When you go

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Speaker 3: get another plate?

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Speaker 1: All right? Ready, Coelo? Yes, all right? Angel and Philly Wrights.

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Speaker 1: I danced for six years and I met my husband

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Speaker 1: in the strip club. We've been married for twenty two years.

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Speaker 1: Our daughter turned twenty one and decided she wants to dance.

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Speaker 1: I think because it's glorified in movies, and she knows

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Speaker 1: that I fell in love with her daddy when I

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Speaker 1: was a dancer. How do I discourage her from doing

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Speaker 1: what I did?

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Speaker 2: Wow? Well, why don't you? Why don't you show her

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Speaker 2: the dark side of that business? Because it is a

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Speaker 2: dark side to that business. Know, it's a dark side

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Speaker 2: to that business. And she would know better, I mean

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Speaker 2: better than me. I ain't never been a stripper. But yeah,

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Speaker 2: it don't look man, it just don't look like No.

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Speaker 2: The a couple of times I went, it's not for

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Speaker 2: me now. Yeah, I enjoy myself, yes, but it's not for.

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Speaker 1: Me one more time. Did you enjoy yourself?

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Speaker 3: Yes, but it's not it ain't for me.

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Speaker 2: Because you know, it's sort of crazy, man, because I

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Speaker 2: be feeling sorry for the people, the women, because you

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Speaker 2: know why you got yourself out here like this for

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Speaker 2: some money?

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Speaker 3: You ain't. You ain't got no dreams, no visions. And

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Speaker 3: you see it.

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Speaker 2: Most women that come off the pole don't come off

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Speaker 2: the pole with a husband.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. Well she's angel and Philly did so.

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Speaker 3: Well.

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Speaker 2: Most people don't come off the pole with a husband.

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Speaker 2: So yeah, I just tell the dark side.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: And they make a lot of money, don't they don't.

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Speaker 3: They make a lot that your body is abused.

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Speaker 2: It ain't that much. And see all that money on

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Speaker 2: the floor, ain't yours? Yeah, yeah, this is a side.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's what it is. They see they see the money.

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Speaker 2: There's some pipping going on at some strip clubs. There's

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Speaker 2: some prostitution going on as some strip clubs. It's a

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Speaker 2: lot of drug abuse going on at the strip club.

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Speaker 2: It's all in him, not a bed of roses, you know, man,

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Speaker 2: it's some dark side, So teller.

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Speaker 1: All right, Moving on to Denise in Kansas City, Denise

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Speaker 1: writes early in our relationship. My new guy told me

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Speaker 1: that his deceased wife loved orchids. So yesterday when he

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Speaker 1: sent a big orchid to my job, I told him

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Speaker 1: to pick another flower next time. I heard his feelings.

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Speaker 1: Why would he think I wanted an orchid?

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Speaker 2: Well, he he just since it was a favorite, favorite flyer.

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Speaker 3: He thought maybe some women like orchids.

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Speaker 1: Women love orchids. Yeah, beautiful, but you know.

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Speaker 3: Well he tell her about the orchids from the past.

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Speaker 3: That that's the stupid part.

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Speaker 1: The man, I know what you're gonna say.

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Speaker 2: I already know what all honesty about?

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Speaker 3: What is?

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Speaker 1: What is? We?

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Speaker 2: He'll fall You're not gonna have nothing with all this?

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Speaker 1: Stop?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, get her right, stop pulling your heart out? Cut

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Speaker 3: What do you hear like?

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Speaker 1: Yeah? Some people do like honesty, though, Steve, some people.

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Speaker 3: That everybody like honesty? Hear what did you hear yourself?

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Speaker 1: You said, stop pouring your heart out?

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Speaker 3: Did you?

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Speaker 1: Well? All this?

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Speaker 3: Hey? Open communication is overrated. God, you gotta wait to

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Speaker 3: more stuff to yourself.

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Speaker 1: What what you just want to surface relationship? Nothing deep,

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Speaker 1: no honesty, no introtion.

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Speaker 2: You could tell some deep stuff when how you felt

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Speaker 2: when you lost your mama?

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Speaker 3: Now you got to go into that.

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Speaker 2: How you feel about children, the things you love about her,

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Speaker 2: You can go all that is good? Everything quick talking

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Speaker 2: about what your dead wife likes?

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Speaker 3: Now, what other plants could he buy? He could bought

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Speaker 3: some dandelions? What I mean?

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Speaker 2: He could?

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Speaker 3: Nobody want no dandelion? Probably the orcan? Had he not

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Speaker 3: told what orchid?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: You're topic like that plan. You hadn't a told the story?

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Speaker 1: Right?

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Speaker 3: Yes? That shut up?

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Speaker 1: Quick bringing up.

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Speaker 3: And stop that talking about your dead.

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Speaker 1: Okay, all right, moving on.

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Speaker 3: I don't know you are hurt, and I don't want

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Speaker 3: to hear about it.

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Speaker 1: Moving on to Maurice and Albany, Maurice writes, I was

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Speaker 1: out with my cousin and a woman came over and

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Speaker 1: bought me a drink. She said I was fine, and

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Speaker 1: I look like I'm a good lover. I'm married, but

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Speaker 1: I played along until she asked me to have sex

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Speaker 1: that same night. It's scared me, so I stopped talking

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Speaker 1: to her. Why are some women willing to degrade themselves

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Speaker 1: like this?

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Speaker 3: Hey, bro, bro, you need to stop.

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Speaker 1: What what's he lying about?

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Speaker 3: Bro? I played alone? She wanted to hair.

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Speaker 1: Six that night.

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Speaker 2: That's where he drew the line write a letter in

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Speaker 2: why do women degrade theyself?

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Speaker 3: Like that? She just told you she thought you was fine.

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Speaker 1: Fine, because you're fine baby, And that he looked like

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Speaker 1: he was a good lover. She said that too. Can

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Speaker 1: you tell that by looking at someone? Really? Perhaps? What

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Speaker 1: is that?

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Speaker 3: I'll tell you one thing? I thought it at least

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Speaker 3: ninety eight percent.

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Speaker 1: Is there one thing that you look for it?

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Speaker 2: Were you ever a woman I've ever dated or walked

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Speaker 2: up to? That's what I was thinking.

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Speaker 1: If not, I'll just make the most of it.

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Speaker 2: If she ain't, she gonna look good laying now.

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Speaker 1: But is there one thing that you you know, one

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Speaker 1: thing that makes you tell be able to tell if

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Speaker 1: somebody is a good lover? Because how do you know

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Speaker 1: by just looking at them?

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Speaker 3: I can't. I can't let that out.

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Speaker 1: We all feel your sure or your formula. You can.

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Speaker 3: I know you're looking at me and tell I know

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Speaker 3: you can look at what is this? What's all that?

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Speaker 3: I laugh? What is that?

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Speaker 2: Hard?

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Speaker 1: Laugh?

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Speaker 3: How you hard? You can't look at me? Into Tommy?

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Speaker 3: I'll tell you one thing. You know when I look

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Speaker 3: at you, I know right off you stupid?

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Speaker 1: Coming on some entertains for you onside laughing this show

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Speaker 1: is funny. You're listening Steve Hardy Morning Show