1 00:00:00,800 --> 00:00:03,640 Speaker 1: This is the almost famous podcast with iHeartRadio. 2 00:00:04,800 --> 00:00:09,440 Speaker 2: Hello mister Guinea, Hello Trista Sutter Nae Wren. 3 00:00:09,920 --> 00:00:12,000 Speaker 1: I mean, seriously, can you please stop doing that? 4 00:00:12,720 --> 00:00:14,240 Speaker 2: Well, I get to say it again today, I get 5 00:00:14,240 --> 00:00:17,160 Speaker 2: to say Dean bell Ney Unglert. I even saw it 6 00:00:17,160 --> 00:00:18,720 Speaker 2: in the in the thing I read to day. It 7 00:00:18,800 --> 00:00:23,120 Speaker 2: was awesome. I'm like, hey, that's my thing. I always 8 00:00:23,120 --> 00:00:26,040 Speaker 2: say that about Trista. How have you been, Boddy? I 9 00:00:26,120 --> 00:00:26,640 Speaker 2: missed you. 10 00:00:27,400 --> 00:00:31,840 Speaker 1: Good. Life has been crazy. I can well worries he 11 00:00:33,479 --> 00:00:36,080 Speaker 1: Cooda is right in the background. I don't know if 12 00:00:36,080 --> 00:00:40,360 Speaker 1: you can see him glory, but I see something glory anyway. 13 00:00:40,560 --> 00:00:46,160 Speaker 1: Hobby life is like newborn life, you know. So it's 14 00:00:46,159 --> 00:00:49,800 Speaker 1: a lot of making sure that he is not chewing 15 00:00:49,840 --> 00:00:51,000 Speaker 1: on anything he shouldn't be. 16 00:00:52,240 --> 00:00:55,080 Speaker 2: I deal with that every day with Blake, right. 17 00:00:56,640 --> 00:01:00,200 Speaker 1: So yeah, it's a little crazy right now. So if 18 00:01:00,240 --> 00:01:04,080 Speaker 1: I seem distracted, that's what's going on because Ryan is 19 00:01:04,120 --> 00:01:06,279 Speaker 1: at work and the kids are at school. 20 00:01:06,360 --> 00:01:11,959 Speaker 2: So I understand I too. So I so my family. 21 00:01:11,959 --> 00:01:13,480 Speaker 2: We just got back from Mexico. We were on a 22 00:01:13,520 --> 00:01:16,520 Speaker 2: trip to Mexico. It was amazing, by the way, it 23 00:01:16,560 --> 00:01:19,120 Speaker 2: had a great time. Got home and then Canyon had 24 00:01:19,160 --> 00:01:21,200 Speaker 2: to hop on a plane to LA the very next day. 25 00:01:21,319 --> 00:01:24,480 Speaker 2: So I've been on daddy duty, uh, you know, with 26 00:01:24,600 --> 00:01:28,880 Speaker 2: very little assistants. And uh, both boys got sick, so 27 00:01:28,920 --> 00:01:33,759 Speaker 2: that's been Oh yeah, they're not there's a little headache, 28 00:01:33,800 --> 00:01:37,160 Speaker 2: little flush. So I'm just you know, trying to overly 29 00:01:37,280 --> 00:01:40,800 Speaker 2: hydrate them and you know, keeping an eye on the situation. 30 00:01:40,840 --> 00:01:42,399 Speaker 2: I watched a lot of er back in the day, 31 00:01:42,440 --> 00:01:45,000 Speaker 2: so I think I'm pretty good here. But yeah, yeah, 32 00:01:45,000 --> 00:01:47,000 Speaker 2: if I need a doctor's assistance, I'll just you know, 33 00:01:47,000 --> 00:01:48,960 Speaker 2: I'll give it to myself. I'll give myself. And I 34 00:01:48,960 --> 00:01:50,880 Speaker 2: stayed with the holiday in holiday and last night, so 35 00:01:50,880 --> 00:01:55,280 Speaker 2: I feel great. But yeah, no, it's going well, everything's great. 36 00:01:55,360 --> 00:01:58,240 Speaker 2: And you know I've missed I've missed my my co host, 37 00:01:58,280 --> 00:02:02,360 Speaker 2: my partner in crime. So I uh think you great 38 00:02:02,480 --> 00:02:04,160 Speaker 2: before you even say it. You look beautiful. 39 00:02:05,200 --> 00:02:10,040 Speaker 1: That yeah, you know, four finger forehead. I think I've 40 00:02:10,080 --> 00:02:12,640 Speaker 1: told you that story. Maybe it's a five finger forehead 41 00:02:12,680 --> 00:02:14,160 Speaker 1: now because maybe it's feeding. 42 00:02:14,320 --> 00:02:19,359 Speaker 2: I don't know. That was Ryan's version of a compliment once, 43 00:02:19,480 --> 00:02:25,600 Speaker 2: wasn't it. H No, that I thought that's what you said. 44 00:02:25,600 --> 00:02:26,400 Speaker 2: What was the forehead? 45 00:02:27,680 --> 00:02:30,799 Speaker 1: So this was in I think high school or college. 46 00:02:30,880 --> 00:02:33,160 Speaker 1: I went to the hairstylist and I was like, I 47 00:02:33,280 --> 00:02:35,680 Speaker 1: want to grow up my banks because I had banks 48 00:02:35,720 --> 00:02:37,800 Speaker 1: at the time. And she pulls up my banks and 49 00:02:37,840 --> 00:02:41,360 Speaker 1: she goes, no, four finger forehead, you should not grow. 50 00:02:45,560 --> 00:02:49,000 Speaker 2: Oh my god. I'd be like new hairstylist. Goodbye bull Ricks. 51 00:02:49,800 --> 00:02:51,799 Speaker 1: Yeah I didn't go back to her anymore. 52 00:02:53,840 --> 00:02:58,280 Speaker 2: Good Bye super Cuts. 53 00:02:58,040 --> 00:03:01,239 Speaker 1: Anyway. But yeah, life has been good. It has been. 54 00:03:01,960 --> 00:03:05,760 Speaker 1: It was a little crazy a few weeks ago. I 55 00:03:05,760 --> 00:03:08,560 Speaker 1: I don't know if you saw this story, Sokoto does 56 00:03:08,639 --> 00:03:14,000 Speaker 1: want to stay Hi, he's in my coda me. 57 00:03:14,080 --> 00:03:16,320 Speaker 2: I know. Oh he's cutie. 58 00:03:17,400 --> 00:03:20,680 Speaker 1: Yeah, he's getting big. Anyway. So I was at my 59 00:03:20,720 --> 00:03:25,360 Speaker 1: friends and I felt like my eye was droopy or 60 00:03:25,440 --> 00:03:28,360 Speaker 1: it was blurry or something was weird. And you know, 61 00:03:28,400 --> 00:03:31,040 Speaker 1: we had just got the puppy, and so I thought 62 00:03:31,160 --> 00:03:34,160 Speaker 1: maybe I have like one of his pairs in my eye. 63 00:03:34,320 --> 00:03:38,280 Speaker 1: And I'm a quick anyway, so I'm like, I'm gonna 64 00:03:38,280 --> 00:03:41,160 Speaker 1: get home and wash my face, so just put I 65 00:03:41,240 --> 00:03:44,160 Speaker 1: drops in whatever. So I get home and wash my 66 00:03:44,200 --> 00:03:47,600 Speaker 1: face and I'm looking in the mirror and my pupil 67 00:03:47,800 --> 00:03:50,280 Speaker 1: on my right side is dilated, not the left one. 68 00:03:50,440 --> 00:03:54,320 Speaker 1: Just the right one. I really dilated, and I thought, Okay, 69 00:03:54,360 --> 00:03:58,560 Speaker 1: that's really strange, Like you know, mister medical doctor who 70 00:03:58,640 --> 00:04:02,080 Speaker 1: got his degree from er Yes. 71 00:04:02,920 --> 00:04:09,080 Speaker 2: Ahead, I'm working on a diagnosis as we speak. 72 00:04:07,920 --> 00:04:13,360 Speaker 1: So so I just thought, you know, that's when when 73 00:04:13,480 --> 00:04:16,320 Speaker 1: the EMTs or paramedics come up and they shine a 74 00:04:16,360 --> 00:04:18,479 Speaker 1: light or doctors shine a light in your eye and 75 00:04:18,760 --> 00:04:21,279 Speaker 1: like try to figure out if they're equal and reactive 76 00:04:22,440 --> 00:04:26,640 Speaker 1: or equally reactive or whatever it is. And it was 77 00:04:26,680 --> 00:04:31,440 Speaker 1: definitely unequal. So Ryan called one of his EMT friends, 78 00:04:31,480 --> 00:04:34,000 Speaker 1: who supposedly is like one of the smartest guys he 79 00:04:34,080 --> 00:04:38,440 Speaker 1: knows in that world, and he was like, I wouldn't 80 00:04:38,440 --> 00:04:40,600 Speaker 1: worry about it unless she has other symptoms, and it 81 00:04:40,680 --> 00:04:43,080 Speaker 1: really didn't have anything else going on besides like a 82 00:04:43,120 --> 00:04:46,680 Speaker 1: minor headache. And then of course I go to doctor 83 00:04:46,720 --> 00:04:48,400 Speaker 1: Google because that's what I. 84 00:04:48,320 --> 00:04:50,280 Speaker 2: Do, and. 85 00:04:53,040 --> 00:04:58,640 Speaker 1: No I know, but in this case, like in all 86 00:04:58,680 --> 00:05:01,880 Speaker 1: of their cases, I feel like it's usually, well, this 87 00:05:01,920 --> 00:05:03,960 Speaker 1: could be wrong with you, or this could be wrong 88 00:05:04,000 --> 00:05:06,200 Speaker 1: with you, or whatever could be wrong with you. Right, 89 00:05:06,240 --> 00:05:08,159 Speaker 1: it has like a list of things could be wrong. 90 00:05:10,920 --> 00:05:14,200 Speaker 1: On this one website, Cleveland Clinic that is like legit. 91 00:05:15,720 --> 00:05:19,160 Speaker 1: It said if you are experiencing and it's called anisochoria 92 00:05:19,200 --> 00:05:24,320 Speaker 1: when you have one dilated pupil. If you're experiening anasa chorea, 93 00:05:24,560 --> 00:05:28,279 Speaker 1: go to your primary or the emergency room right now. 94 00:05:28,560 --> 00:05:31,919 Speaker 1: You could be experiencing an aneurysm or a stroke. And 95 00:05:32,000 --> 00:05:35,640 Speaker 1: I was like, it's never doctor Google has never told 96 00:05:35,680 --> 00:05:38,400 Speaker 1: me to go to the emergency room. 97 00:05:38,360 --> 00:05:41,960 Speaker 2: Right now, right, I wouldn't even tell you to do that, right, 98 00:05:42,160 --> 00:05:43,040 Speaker 2: I mean, it. 99 00:05:42,920 --> 00:05:47,280 Speaker 1: Was like, oh gosh, what really is going on? Like I, 100 00:05:49,000 --> 00:05:51,080 Speaker 1: you know, usually it'll say, oh, but you could have 101 00:05:51,120 --> 00:05:52,800 Speaker 1: a brain tumor, or you could have this or that 102 00:05:52,960 --> 00:05:57,440 Speaker 1: or whatever. But in this instance, it said go to 103 00:05:57,480 --> 00:06:00,520 Speaker 1: the emergency room. And of course, once I knew that 104 00:06:01,000 --> 00:06:04,000 Speaker 1: and was writing that, neither of us could say we 105 00:06:04,040 --> 00:06:06,840 Speaker 1: can't go because then what if I really did have 106 00:06:06,880 --> 00:06:12,280 Speaker 1: an aneurism or a stroke? Right, So tell the kids 107 00:06:12,480 --> 00:06:14,600 Speaker 1: go to the emergency room. They did a cat scan 108 00:06:14,680 --> 00:06:17,560 Speaker 1: and they like kind of like painted my eyeball to 109 00:06:17,600 --> 00:06:20,040 Speaker 1: see if it was had an abrasion on it, and 110 00:06:20,080 --> 00:06:24,200 Speaker 1: then everything checked out, so I guess it was just 111 00:06:24,240 --> 00:06:28,640 Speaker 1: a fluke as per usual in my In my case, 112 00:06:28,760 --> 00:06:31,720 Speaker 1: I feel like everything I've ever experienced, I had that feature, 113 00:06:31,960 --> 00:06:35,960 Speaker 1: you know, years ago and all these other things. I 114 00:06:36,000 --> 00:06:40,000 Speaker 1: feel like I am always the rare person who you 115 00:06:40,120 --> 00:06:40,560 Speaker 1: just have. 116 00:06:40,720 --> 00:06:45,960 Speaker 2: No idea why just randomly happened. Yeah, well, thank god 117 00:06:46,000 --> 00:06:47,720 Speaker 2: it was just random, though, I mean that could have 118 00:06:47,800 --> 00:06:51,040 Speaker 2: been I mean, man, that's nothing to mess around about either, 119 00:06:51,080 --> 00:06:53,080 Speaker 2: So I get it. I would have been rushing myself 120 00:06:53,200 --> 00:06:54,520 Speaker 2: or whoever to the hospital too. 121 00:06:55,200 --> 00:06:57,560 Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, it can be scary. So I feel like, 122 00:06:58,200 --> 00:07:02,159 Speaker 1: just you know, word to anyone listening, just listen to 123 00:07:02,200 --> 00:07:04,360 Speaker 1: your body, and if it turns out to be nothing, 124 00:07:04,520 --> 00:07:07,279 Speaker 1: that's awesome. But if it turns out to be something, 125 00:07:07,320 --> 00:07:11,960 Speaker 1: because I did have someone reach out on Instagram afterwards 126 00:07:12,000 --> 00:07:14,360 Speaker 1: and they told me a story about how a friend 127 00:07:14,360 --> 00:07:18,520 Speaker 1: of theirs died from an aneurysm, and I think that 128 00:07:18,640 --> 00:07:21,080 Speaker 1: was the only symptom she had as well. So like, 129 00:07:21,360 --> 00:07:24,760 Speaker 1: just listen to your body because you never know exactly. 130 00:07:25,080 --> 00:07:27,200 Speaker 2: And if you're fortunate enough to have health insurance, which 131 00:07:27,240 --> 00:07:28,880 Speaker 2: I know you know you do and I do. It's 132 00:07:28,880 --> 00:07:32,120 Speaker 2: like it's so it's a little co I mean, it's 133 00:07:32,160 --> 00:07:34,720 Speaker 2: probably a decent or sizable copey to go to the er, 134 00:07:34,800 --> 00:07:36,720 Speaker 2: but it's better safe than sorry, you know what I mean. 135 00:07:36,760 --> 00:07:39,560 Speaker 2: It's definitely better, you know, to go there and just 136 00:07:39,640 --> 00:07:42,120 Speaker 2: get it checked out and feel comfortable, because I mean 137 00:07:42,120 --> 00:07:44,520 Speaker 2: that would be scary, especially if it was that discernible 138 00:07:44,520 --> 00:07:46,640 Speaker 2: of a difference. I would be stressed out the headache 139 00:07:46,720 --> 00:07:50,040 Speaker 2: through me. When you said it was a headache, I'm like, oh, man, okay, 140 00:07:50,120 --> 00:07:51,000 Speaker 2: now you got And. 141 00:07:50,960 --> 00:07:54,640 Speaker 1: They did say in the er, are you having a headache, 142 00:07:54,680 --> 00:07:56,960 Speaker 1: and I said, yeah, I've been havingache a headache for 143 00:07:57,040 --> 00:07:59,640 Speaker 1: a little while, but it's not that bad. And they 144 00:07:59,680 --> 00:08:01,880 Speaker 1: were like, okay, well, if it was the worst headache 145 00:08:01,920 --> 00:08:05,600 Speaker 1: of your life, that's when we really worry. But since 146 00:08:05,640 --> 00:08:10,040 Speaker 1: it's really nothing, then we're not going to worry. So anyway, 147 00:08:10,160 --> 00:08:14,240 Speaker 1: everything is good. We did have so I think after 148 00:08:14,280 --> 00:08:17,480 Speaker 1: that happened, I got this book in the mail. I 149 00:08:17,520 --> 00:08:20,280 Speaker 1: think it was after maybe it had been before. Molly 150 00:08:20,400 --> 00:08:23,080 Speaker 1: Mesnik and Desiree and I were sitting at the wedding 151 00:08:23,120 --> 00:08:26,560 Speaker 1: at the Golden Bachelor wedding just chatting, and we were 152 00:08:26,600 --> 00:08:29,280 Speaker 1: talking about how Molly found out about this book that 153 00:08:29,360 --> 00:08:33,280 Speaker 1: she wanted to order from Amazon to like put all 154 00:08:33,520 --> 00:08:36,439 Speaker 1: have Jason actually, because Jason handles all of their money 155 00:08:36,480 --> 00:08:40,240 Speaker 1: and their accounts and you know, like whatever the passwords 156 00:08:40,240 --> 00:08:41,520 Speaker 1: to everything, you know, all of that. 157 00:08:41,600 --> 00:08:43,240 Speaker 2: Yeah, And. 158 00:08:44,559 --> 00:08:46,560 Speaker 1: She's like, I need to I need to write all 159 00:08:46,559 --> 00:08:49,080 Speaker 1: this stuff down because what if something does happen to Jason? 160 00:08:49,200 --> 00:08:50,960 Speaker 1: And I was thinking the same, like I do I 161 00:08:51,040 --> 00:08:53,680 Speaker 1: do pretty much all of that for our family, and 162 00:08:54,559 --> 00:08:57,839 Speaker 1: I feel like if I wasn't around Ryan, would you know. 163 00:08:58,400 --> 00:08:59,040 Speaker 2: Be sool? 164 00:08:59,480 --> 00:09:03,160 Speaker 1: So Molly told me about this book on Amazon and 165 00:09:03,200 --> 00:09:05,160 Speaker 1: I ordered it and it came and I had it 166 00:09:05,200 --> 00:09:09,040 Speaker 1: sitting on the kitchen island and Max came in and 167 00:09:09,120 --> 00:09:12,720 Speaker 1: kind of was looking around and he starts to go 168 00:09:12,800 --> 00:09:16,200 Speaker 1: down to his room and he was like, Mom, are 169 00:09:16,200 --> 00:09:19,719 Speaker 1: you okay? Like, is everything okay? Well, the title of 170 00:09:19,800 --> 00:09:23,079 Speaker 1: the book is I'm Dead. 171 00:09:23,400 --> 00:09:23,839 Speaker 2: Now what. 172 00:09:27,640 --> 00:09:30,320 Speaker 1: He was like, are you okay? 173 00:09:30,440 --> 00:09:30,520 Speaker 2: Like? 174 00:09:31,080 --> 00:09:33,000 Speaker 1: Is everything fine? Are you dying? 175 00:09:33,240 --> 00:09:33,400 Speaker 2: You know? 176 00:09:35,240 --> 00:09:38,360 Speaker 1: Anyway, he didn't say that until I realized that he 177 00:09:38,520 --> 00:09:40,440 Speaker 1: saw it, and so I went up to him and 178 00:09:40,440 --> 00:09:43,520 Speaker 1: I was like, dude, did you just see that book? 179 00:09:43,559 --> 00:09:46,000 Speaker 1: Are you freaking out because you think that like something's 180 00:09:46,040 --> 00:09:48,840 Speaker 1: happening to me? I promise nothing's happening. I'm really healthy. 181 00:09:49,679 --> 00:09:52,920 Speaker 2: That's funny. I'm surprised. I mean, you know, my experience 182 00:09:52,920 --> 00:09:55,400 Speaker 2: with Max was so I'm surprised. He reacted at all 183 00:09:55,559 --> 00:09:59,600 Speaker 2: given my my encounter with him. Right, here's hey Max, 184 00:09:59,640 --> 00:10:04,560 Speaker 2: this is my ex boyfriend. What's up? I got one 185 00:10:04,559 --> 00:10:06,960 Speaker 2: of these? Like any think I got it? What's up? 186 00:10:06,960 --> 00:10:07,319 Speaker 2: That's got? 187 00:10:12,160 --> 00:10:16,000 Speaker 1: Yeah he's better about talking these days, but yeah, it was. 188 00:10:16,800 --> 00:10:20,120 Speaker 1: It was pretty comical. So there are these books on Amazon. 189 00:10:20,160 --> 00:10:23,960 Speaker 1: They're all all different like covers, and it's just say 190 00:10:24,400 --> 00:10:27,040 Speaker 1: I'm dead now what So you have all of your information? 191 00:10:28,040 --> 00:10:30,280 Speaker 2: You know? You know, it's funny. That does make you think, though, 192 00:10:30,320 --> 00:10:32,920 Speaker 2: I mean I always try to, especially when it's like 193 00:10:32,920 --> 00:10:35,280 Speaker 2: you get such mixed signals from everything, so they're like, 194 00:10:35,320 --> 00:10:38,160 Speaker 2: you know, don't write your passwords down total there or 195 00:10:38,280 --> 00:10:40,360 Speaker 2: keep it near your computer because then blah blah blah. 196 00:10:40,400 --> 00:10:42,480 Speaker 2: So it's like, what the hell am I supposed to do? Then? 197 00:10:42,600 --> 00:10:45,280 Speaker 2: You know? So I literally do though I write everything down. 198 00:10:45,360 --> 00:10:48,640 Speaker 2: I do, so, yeah, i'd be the easiest, you know. 199 00:10:48,840 --> 00:10:50,400 Speaker 2: Guess I'm putting it out there for anyone listening to 200 00:10:50,400 --> 00:10:52,800 Speaker 2: the podcast. If you really want to rob someone and 201 00:10:52,920 --> 00:10:54,600 Speaker 2: have an easy go of it, come to my house 202 00:10:54,640 --> 00:10:59,439 Speaker 2: because I uh, all my passwords are right here. Just kidding, 203 00:11:00,040 --> 00:11:03,720 Speaker 2: I will hide them now, I'm just kidding. Yeah, I'm 204 00:11:03,760 --> 00:11:05,560 Speaker 2: not here there there over here. Don't take a picture 205 00:11:05,559 --> 00:11:12,439 Speaker 2: of it, right, yea, oh my god. But yeah, I 206 00:11:12,920 --> 00:11:15,240 Speaker 2: remember that at the wedding because at the Golden Wedding, 207 00:11:15,240 --> 00:11:17,319 Speaker 2: I remember that how fun it was at that table 208 00:11:17,360 --> 00:11:21,840 Speaker 2: that we were Oh wait, that's right. I wasn't invited. Rude. 209 00:11:23,360 --> 00:11:25,559 Speaker 2: I just read something and it was like and at 210 00:11:25,559 --> 00:11:29,079 Speaker 2: the wedding, we're you know, so many people from the 211 00:11:29,120 --> 00:11:32,880 Speaker 2: Bachelor Nation family were there, and I'm like, I thought 212 00:11:32,920 --> 00:11:36,160 Speaker 2: it was more exclusive, and that's why I wasn't invited. 213 00:11:36,800 --> 00:11:38,800 Speaker 2: So there was that many people there. I mean, there 214 00:11:38,800 --> 00:11:40,959 Speaker 2: are like randoms who were like the first ones voted 215 00:11:41,000 --> 00:11:45,920 Speaker 2: off on you know, Bachelor Winter Games in nineteen eighty four. 216 00:11:46,320 --> 00:11:47,439 Speaker 2: They're there, not me. 217 00:11:50,880 --> 00:11:54,360 Speaker 1: Thank you, sorry, I would have invited you if I could. 218 00:11:55,080 --> 00:11:57,640 Speaker 2: Thank you. Well, I did get to go to the 219 00:11:58,559 --> 00:12:01,040 Speaker 2: Bachelor wedding of all time, Trista and Ryan and. 220 00:12:02,640 --> 00:12:03,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, right exactly. 221 00:12:03,960 --> 00:12:06,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, And guess what, none of those people were at 222 00:12:06,360 --> 00:12:14,000 Speaker 2: that wedding. So there I was. You're the only one 223 00:12:14,000 --> 00:12:16,559 Speaker 2: in this conversation that they weren't even for you. But 224 00:12:16,640 --> 00:12:19,439 Speaker 2: that's okay, that's all right. They wouldn't have been invited 225 00:12:19,480 --> 00:12:21,680 Speaker 2: anyway because they had been babies and it was a 226 00:12:21,679 --> 00:12:25,840 Speaker 2: no kid wedding, So I'm just kidding. Well, I think 227 00:12:25,960 --> 00:12:27,600 Speaker 2: I think that's awesome. I love that you guys all 228 00:12:27,640 --> 00:12:28,760 Speaker 2: still have such a good friendship. 229 00:12:39,040 --> 00:12:41,160 Speaker 1: I guess in the headlines, if you want to switch 230 00:12:41,240 --> 00:12:43,920 Speaker 1: gears to the headlines, I guess there was something that 231 00:12:43,960 --> 00:12:48,240 Speaker 1: happened after the Sorry, I just had to check on 232 00:12:48,320 --> 00:12:52,640 Speaker 1: him after Golden wedding or during golden wedding. I hear 233 00:12:52,760 --> 00:13:00,520 Speaker 1: that Dean realized that Caitlin unfollowed him and because I 234 00:13:00,559 --> 00:13:03,760 Speaker 1: guess she tagged him in something, and then he looked 235 00:13:03,800 --> 00:13:07,520 Speaker 1: at her account just to see and he was like, oh, 236 00:13:08,240 --> 00:13:10,959 Speaker 1: she doesn't follow me, so I'm gonna unfollow her. 237 00:13:13,600 --> 00:13:15,720 Speaker 2: I think this is the modern day, Yes, the modern 238 00:13:15,760 --> 00:13:18,800 Speaker 2: day version of throwing shade. Yeah, you know. It's like 239 00:13:19,280 --> 00:13:21,960 Speaker 2: I laughed when we were talking about this earlier. I 240 00:13:21,960 --> 00:13:24,240 Speaker 2: wouldn't even know if someone had done followed me or not. 241 00:13:24,440 --> 00:13:27,640 Speaker 2: I'd be like, okay. And then I heard in that 242 00:13:28,040 --> 00:13:31,640 Speaker 2: same article he talks about muting, and I'm like, what 243 00:13:31,679 --> 00:13:33,760 Speaker 2: does that mean, I've never muted. 244 00:13:35,520 --> 00:13:37,440 Speaker 1: We're having a bob and he leftin today. 245 00:13:38,080 --> 00:13:40,760 Speaker 2: We really are. I'm learning so much about my social 246 00:13:40,760 --> 00:13:41,520 Speaker 2: media accounts. 247 00:13:41,800 --> 00:13:46,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, no, you definitely can mute people. I most definitely 248 00:13:46,240 --> 00:13:50,360 Speaker 1: mute people if I'm just over what they're what they're posting, 249 00:13:50,559 --> 00:13:53,400 Speaker 1: not even people that are in the public eye, just 250 00:13:53,640 --> 00:13:57,360 Speaker 1: you know, friends and who I'm like, are you kidding? 251 00:13:57,559 --> 00:14:00,560 Speaker 1: Like could we just not talk about Paula Tics in 252 00:14:00,760 --> 00:14:04,920 Speaker 1: every single post? You know, Like I'm like, yeah, just 253 00:14:05,320 --> 00:14:07,760 Speaker 1: please come on or whatever. 254 00:14:08,600 --> 00:14:10,960 Speaker 2: I did this old fashioned thing. I had conversations with 255 00:14:11,000 --> 00:14:13,480 Speaker 2: people that were doing that, and I was like, can 256 00:14:13,520 --> 00:14:16,200 Speaker 2: we not have, you know, every post of yours be political, 257 00:14:16,200 --> 00:14:19,200 Speaker 2: because even though I may or may not agree with it, Yeah, 258 00:14:19,280 --> 00:14:21,280 Speaker 2: it really pigeonholes you. It makes you look like so 259 00:14:21,440 --> 00:14:25,280 Speaker 2: one dimensional. And it's like but it's always like, you know, 260 00:14:25,280 --> 00:14:28,120 Speaker 2: the thing that I always find interesting and I don't 261 00:14:28,160 --> 00:14:31,200 Speaker 2: really ever talk about my politics, but so everyone kind 262 00:14:31,240 --> 00:14:33,400 Speaker 2: of guesses what they think I am and they're always wrong. 263 00:14:33,920 --> 00:14:37,160 Speaker 2: But oh yeah, well because I I mean, I'll tell 264 00:14:37,160 --> 00:14:40,320 Speaker 2: you the secret later. But the secret is, oh I 265 00:14:40,320 --> 00:14:42,080 Speaker 2: can't tell you on this. I'll just we'll just keep 266 00:14:42,120 --> 00:14:44,920 Speaker 2: it between us and out. But no, they It's it's 267 00:14:44,920 --> 00:14:47,200 Speaker 2: funny because literally they'll they'll say, you know, well, for 268 00:14:47,280 --> 00:14:49,880 Speaker 2: all my right wing friends out there, for all my 269 00:14:49,960 --> 00:14:52,720 Speaker 2: left wing friends, out there. Yeah, and it's always something like, 270 00:14:52,800 --> 00:14:54,720 Speaker 2: you know, it's like when people open a sentence with, hey, 271 00:14:54,800 --> 00:14:58,800 Speaker 2: well no offense. I know, here comes an offense, right, 272 00:14:59,040 --> 00:15:00,600 Speaker 2: So it's like, come on, guy. I was like, let's 273 00:15:00,600 --> 00:15:03,280 Speaker 2: not even get that dialogue going. Let's just stop it, 274 00:15:03,400 --> 00:15:06,000 Speaker 2: let's shut it down, and let's just you know, let's 275 00:15:06,080 --> 00:15:08,800 Speaker 2: just let's just bring some kindness back into this world 276 00:15:08,800 --> 00:15:12,520 Speaker 2: and totally, you know, get somebody in office who can, 277 00:15:12,680 --> 00:15:14,680 Speaker 2: you know, make sure we're not going broke and going 278 00:15:14,680 --> 00:15:17,200 Speaker 2: to war and all that good stuff and everybody's being 279 00:15:17,200 --> 00:15:17,800 Speaker 2: treated well. 280 00:15:17,920 --> 00:15:20,080 Speaker 1: And I mean I wish there was a person out there. 281 00:15:20,160 --> 00:15:21,040 Speaker 1: I don't think there is. 282 00:15:22,760 --> 00:15:26,200 Speaker 2: Well, it's become such a tough gig. I mean, could 283 00:15:26,200 --> 00:15:29,960 Speaker 2: you imagine. I mean, I'm sure you know, I can't 284 00:15:29,960 --> 00:15:32,840 Speaker 2: even imagine the scrutiny that you go through, oh, running 285 00:15:32,840 --> 00:15:34,359 Speaker 2: for public office at this point. 286 00:15:34,440 --> 00:15:36,240 Speaker 1: No way. I don't know one wants to do it. 287 00:15:36,280 --> 00:15:36,840 Speaker 2: I wouldn't want. 288 00:15:36,960 --> 00:15:39,080 Speaker 1: I mean, not that I ever have wanted to do it, 289 00:15:39,160 --> 00:15:41,400 Speaker 1: but I feel like anyone in politics you've got to 290 00:15:41,440 --> 00:15:41,960 Speaker 1: be crazy. 291 00:15:42,120 --> 00:15:44,400 Speaker 2: I actually used to want to isn't that weird to do? 292 00:15:44,480 --> 00:15:47,240 Speaker 2: Like I actually, when I was much younger, I always thought, Yeah, 293 00:15:47,320 --> 00:15:49,600 Speaker 2: I think I could do some good because I like, 294 00:15:49,720 --> 00:15:51,840 Speaker 2: you know, when I have people who disagree on stuff, 295 00:15:52,320 --> 00:15:54,880 Speaker 2: I work really hard to make them find common ground. 296 00:15:54,960 --> 00:15:57,320 Speaker 2: Like it's just I've always been a people pleaser in 297 00:15:57,320 --> 00:15:59,560 Speaker 2: that regard. And but I my brother in law and 298 00:15:59,560 --> 00:16:02,600 Speaker 2: I actually when we were in Mexico had this conversation and 299 00:16:02,640 --> 00:16:04,160 Speaker 2: I was like, you know, I think it's become so 300 00:16:04,280 --> 00:16:07,920 Speaker 2: difficult because if you are someone who is more moderate, 301 00:16:08,600 --> 00:16:13,880 Speaker 2: you know, to you know, all the far reaching political spectrum. 302 00:16:13,920 --> 00:16:15,560 Speaker 2: If you're someone who's kind of a lot more moderate, 303 00:16:16,280 --> 00:16:18,320 Speaker 2: I don't know that you can get elected anymore because 304 00:16:18,360 --> 00:16:20,120 Speaker 2: I think at the end of the day, you almost 305 00:16:20,120 --> 00:16:22,280 Speaker 2: have to play to one side or the other to 306 00:16:22,320 --> 00:16:23,480 Speaker 2: get that support. You know. 307 00:16:24,480 --> 00:16:29,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, I wish there was somebody who who did have 308 00:16:29,160 --> 00:16:31,840 Speaker 1: a lot more common ground. Yeah, so that we can 309 00:16:31,920 --> 00:16:33,200 Speaker 1: be united. 310 00:16:33,560 --> 00:16:37,800 Speaker 2: I guess when with Guinea in twenty twenty six, just kidding, Yes, 311 00:16:38,680 --> 00:16:41,720 Speaker 2: that's my political college. But yeah, I uh to say, 312 00:16:41,760 --> 00:16:43,960 Speaker 2: I haven't I haven't learned to mute, but I'm gonna 313 00:16:43,960 --> 00:16:45,160 Speaker 2: I'm going to figure out how to do that, because 314 00:16:45,160 --> 00:16:47,520 Speaker 2: it looks like that's what Dean said was that he 315 00:16:47,600 --> 00:16:51,560 Speaker 2: was saying that he muted her or something like that. 316 00:16:52,160 --> 00:16:56,880 Speaker 1: No, he was saying. He actually said he muted Ashley 317 00:16:57,000 --> 00:17:01,680 Speaker 1: and she was like, what excuse me, because he was 318 00:17:01,720 --> 00:17:05,720 Speaker 1: doing his podcast with Jared talking and he said he 319 00:17:05,840 --> 00:17:10,720 Speaker 1: muted Ashley, which you know, he said, if you don't 320 00:17:10,800 --> 00:17:15,360 Speaker 1: mute certain people, then their content shows up before anybody else's, 321 00:17:15,960 --> 00:17:19,280 Speaker 1: like constantly. You can favorite someone or starve them. I 322 00:17:19,280 --> 00:17:22,520 Speaker 1: think I think I have like Ryan Favoriteed and my 323 00:17:22,640 --> 00:17:26,840 Speaker 1: kids and you know, my family or whatever. You of course, 324 00:17:27,080 --> 00:17:32,600 Speaker 1: of course, so so yeah, you can mute, you can favorite, 325 00:17:32,720 --> 00:17:36,400 Speaker 1: you can, but the algorithm is so freaking confusing, and 326 00:17:37,560 --> 00:17:40,679 Speaker 1: certain people just show up constantly for you if you 327 00:17:41,000 --> 00:17:43,880 Speaker 1: if you don't mute him. So I get that too. 328 00:17:44,160 --> 00:17:47,120 Speaker 1: I feel like sometimes I just need a break from 329 00:17:47,119 --> 00:17:47,800 Speaker 1: certain people. 330 00:17:48,280 --> 00:17:51,160 Speaker 2: Sure, sure, but you know it's interesting, is like some 331 00:17:51,200 --> 00:17:53,280 Speaker 2: people are so good at social media, Like Dean is 332 00:17:53,320 --> 00:17:55,760 Speaker 2: one of them. Dean and yeah, I'm sure, Caitlin and 333 00:17:55,760 --> 00:17:58,400 Speaker 2: and you know, to a degree, I mean I would 334 00:17:58,440 --> 00:18:01,879 Speaker 2: say probably ash They're all so good at that that 335 00:18:02,240 --> 00:18:06,560 Speaker 2: you know, they understand the nuances that you know, do 336 00:18:06,720 --> 00:18:10,280 Speaker 2: things and I mean clearly I don't. I mean I basically, 337 00:18:10,359 --> 00:18:14,359 Speaker 2: you know, I take videos of my kids and myself, 338 00:18:14,560 --> 00:18:17,520 Speaker 2: and uh, you know that's about it. There's no messaging 339 00:18:17,600 --> 00:18:18,240 Speaker 2: going on in there. 340 00:18:18,320 --> 00:18:22,359 Speaker 1: You know that's okay. That is okay. You can continue 341 00:18:22,400 --> 00:18:23,080 Speaker 1: to do that too. 342 00:18:23,240 --> 00:18:24,879 Speaker 2: I use it more like a photo album. 343 00:18:24,960 --> 00:18:28,840 Speaker 1: Oh yes, no, you should, especially as a dad. I 344 00:18:28,920 --> 00:18:31,119 Speaker 1: just feel like it kind of comes with the territory. 345 00:18:31,200 --> 00:18:35,320 Speaker 1: Like I don't know if there's like this unwritten pressure, 346 00:18:35,480 --> 00:18:39,359 Speaker 1: if you will, like peer pressure to follow people in 347 00:18:39,440 --> 00:18:42,840 Speaker 1: Bachelor Nation when you're part of Bachelor Nation, like if 348 00:18:42,840 --> 00:18:45,800 Speaker 1: you're disconnected from it, Like I know, Molly stepped away 349 00:18:45,800 --> 00:18:48,520 Speaker 1: from social media for a while, so and like she 350 00:18:48,560 --> 00:18:51,080 Speaker 1: went to the Golden Wedding, she was like, please tell 351 00:18:51,119 --> 00:18:53,800 Speaker 1: me who all these people are. I have no idea. 352 00:18:54,080 --> 00:18:54,399 Speaker 2: Yeah, so. 353 00:18:55,920 --> 00:18:58,679 Speaker 1: You know there are people who like step away, but 354 00:18:58,840 --> 00:19:01,359 Speaker 1: if you're if you're doing stuff with them, I feel 355 00:19:01,359 --> 00:19:04,520 Speaker 1: like there's kind of like this unwritten rule that you 356 00:19:04,680 --> 00:19:08,399 Speaker 1: kind of have to follow people. But I you know, 357 00:19:08,480 --> 00:19:10,639 Speaker 1: I'll get excited and I'll be like, oh, yeah, I 358 00:19:10,640 --> 00:19:12,560 Speaker 1: want to I want to follow so and so because 359 00:19:12,680 --> 00:19:16,240 Speaker 1: I love watching them, And then I'm like, you really 360 00:19:16,320 --> 00:19:20,960 Speaker 1: don't have anything in common, and yeah, highly doubt that 361 00:19:21,000 --> 00:19:23,080 Speaker 1: they're really excited to see my content too. 362 00:19:23,280 --> 00:19:28,439 Speaker 2: So yeah, yeah, I'm sure there's nobody out there clamoring to, 363 00:19:28,640 --> 00:19:30,840 Speaker 2: you know, to jump on the Bob Getna bandwagon on 364 00:19:31,080 --> 00:19:34,560 Speaker 2: Instagram by any stretch. But you know, it's funny. I 365 00:19:34,840 --> 00:19:36,600 Speaker 2: will say, like, I know what you mean. I mean, 366 00:19:36,600 --> 00:19:39,800 Speaker 2: I remember after Chris and Lauren's wedding, you know, and 367 00:19:39,800 --> 00:19:41,680 Speaker 2: that was the first time I was around a lot 368 00:19:41,720 --> 00:19:44,600 Speaker 2: of those people, and I really had such a wonderful time. 369 00:19:44,600 --> 00:19:46,760 Speaker 2: I mean, you and I've talked about it. It was like 370 00:19:47,080 --> 00:19:48,640 Speaker 2: such a great time, and it was such a great 371 00:19:48,680 --> 00:19:51,000 Speaker 2: group of people, such a great mix of people, and 372 00:19:51,080 --> 00:19:52,959 Speaker 2: I ended up following a ton of people that weekend 373 00:19:53,000 --> 00:19:55,879 Speaker 2: that you know, I just I hadn't met previously, and 374 00:19:55,920 --> 00:19:58,080 Speaker 2: so once I did, I'm like, hey, I knew best friends, 375 00:19:58,119 --> 00:20:00,160 Speaker 2: you know. And I loved it. I mean, and I 376 00:20:00,000 --> 00:20:02,640 Speaker 2: I really did. I really loved, you know, that experience. 377 00:20:02,720 --> 00:20:04,720 Speaker 2: And I've loved all the iHeart experiences where I've gotten 378 00:20:04,720 --> 00:20:07,720 Speaker 2: to know more people so much better. And you know, so, 379 00:20:07,760 --> 00:20:09,880 Speaker 2: I mean, from that perspective that you're right, I think 380 00:20:09,920 --> 00:20:12,160 Speaker 2: there is there is kind of like an unwritten rule, 381 00:20:12,240 --> 00:20:14,200 Speaker 2: but it's also from my perspective, it's also one of 382 00:20:14,200 --> 00:20:16,240 Speaker 2: those things where it's just like, man, I just spent 383 00:20:16,320 --> 00:20:18,000 Speaker 2: the weekend with these people and I had so much fun. 384 00:20:18,040 --> 00:20:20,520 Speaker 2: I just want to, you know, keep in touch with them. 385 00:20:20,840 --> 00:20:22,680 Speaker 2: And yes, it's a nice way to do it. It's 386 00:20:22,680 --> 00:20:24,200 Speaker 2: a nice way to keep in touch and just sort 387 00:20:24,200 --> 00:20:26,240 Speaker 2: of you know, scroll through and go, oh, that's what 388 00:20:26,320 --> 00:20:28,639 Speaker 2: Dean and Kaylen are doing. That's fine, you know, or 389 00:20:28,680 --> 00:20:31,359 Speaker 2: whatever it might be. So yeah, but I but I 390 00:20:31,359 --> 00:20:34,280 Speaker 2: can still say that, you know, I would. I think 391 00:20:34,280 --> 00:20:37,160 Speaker 2: it's really funny the topic of conversation there on that, 392 00:20:37,280 --> 00:20:39,240 Speaker 2: you know well, and I had a mute it anyway, 393 00:20:39,240 --> 00:20:42,760 Speaker 2: so I was like, okay, I just on follower. I 394 00:20:42,840 --> 00:20:45,400 Speaker 2: think that's just pretty funny. But Caitlin's in the news 395 00:20:45,440 --> 00:20:46,360 Speaker 2: a lot with us. 396 00:20:46,560 --> 00:20:48,760 Speaker 1: I don't think you can see that people have muted you. 397 00:20:49,080 --> 00:20:55,240 Speaker 1: I think he just told Jared that he had needed Ashley, yeah, 398 00:20:55,440 --> 00:20:58,320 Speaker 1: because then I don't think people would mute other people, 399 00:20:58,359 --> 00:21:01,879 Speaker 1: because then you could see that they muted you. You know, 400 00:21:02,000 --> 00:21:06,160 Speaker 1: some people instead of unfollowing, they'll do the muting thing 401 00:21:06,320 --> 00:21:08,359 Speaker 1: so that they don't get called out for unfollowing. 402 00:21:09,000 --> 00:21:11,760 Speaker 2: I do remember, okay, I just realized I caught myself 403 00:21:11,800 --> 00:21:13,560 Speaker 2: in a little bit of a fib there. I do 404 00:21:13,680 --> 00:21:17,919 Speaker 2: recall finding out someone had blocked me. 405 00:21:18,600 --> 00:21:20,359 Speaker 1: Oh blocked you like that? 406 00:21:20,520 --> 00:21:24,880 Speaker 2: Yes? Oh yeah, next level. So it was a friend 407 00:21:24,920 --> 00:21:28,439 Speaker 2: of mine. No, no, not from the franchise. This is 408 00:21:28,520 --> 00:21:30,159 Speaker 2: years and years and years ago. But it was well, 409 00:21:30,200 --> 00:21:32,480 Speaker 2: not too many years ago, I guess, but I was 410 00:21:32,520 --> 00:21:36,040 Speaker 2: still living in La So it was probably like twenty twelve, 411 00:21:36,040 --> 00:21:38,840 Speaker 2: twenty thirteen, twenty fourteen, right when Instagram it's kind of 412 00:21:38,880 --> 00:21:40,480 Speaker 2: like a new thing. I guess that's when that was. 413 00:21:40,520 --> 00:21:44,000 Speaker 2: I don't even know when it began, but I remember 414 00:21:44,200 --> 00:21:50,399 Speaker 2: my buddy's girlfriend, Okay, he dumped her and she thought 415 00:21:50,480 --> 00:21:53,399 Speaker 2: it was because of my influence, I guess, And so 416 00:21:53,720 --> 00:21:56,440 Speaker 2: I was like, what she didn't know was I was 417 00:21:56,480 --> 00:22:00,640 Speaker 2: actually like trying to, you know, broke her some peace there. 418 00:22:00,720 --> 00:22:02,400 Speaker 2: Like I was like, you know, oh no, she's great. 419 00:22:02,480 --> 00:22:04,320 Speaker 2: Yeah she can be a little crazy, but you know 420 00:22:04,359 --> 00:22:07,199 Speaker 2: she's awesome or whatever. And uh, I like liked a 421 00:22:07,200 --> 00:22:11,320 Speaker 2: picture of hers on on Instagram and it wouldn't accept 422 00:22:11,359 --> 00:22:15,280 Speaker 2: my like oh would accept my heart. And I'm like, 423 00:22:15,640 --> 00:22:17,199 Speaker 2: I'm like, wait, what the hell is going on here? 424 00:22:17,200 --> 00:22:18,639 Speaker 2: And I must have I must have hit it like 425 00:22:18,680 --> 00:22:21,359 Speaker 2: ten times in the final I'm like, oh my god, 426 00:22:21,680 --> 00:22:23,920 Speaker 2: how am I the villain here. I didn't do anything wrong, 427 00:22:24,520 --> 00:22:26,760 Speaker 2: and I'll never forget it. So that's the one time 428 00:22:26,800 --> 00:22:30,960 Speaker 2: I remember knowing that moment that someone had either you know, 429 00:22:31,040 --> 00:22:32,840 Speaker 2: they had a beef with me, I guess on on 430 00:22:32,920 --> 00:22:37,520 Speaker 2: the on the Instagram there, and it just you I know, 431 00:22:37,840 --> 00:22:39,880 Speaker 2: I was so hurt by it, and then I felt 432 00:22:39,880 --> 00:22:42,840 Speaker 2: like I had to redeem myself somehow and validate that 433 00:22:42,960 --> 00:22:44,679 Speaker 2: it wasn't my fault. So I was like going out 434 00:22:44,760 --> 00:22:47,679 Speaker 2: of my way to figure out ways to you know, 435 00:22:48,200 --> 00:22:50,800 Speaker 2: get some type of content to this person to let 436 00:22:50,880 --> 00:22:52,879 Speaker 2: them know that I was I was on her side. 437 00:22:52,920 --> 00:22:53,159 Speaker 2: You know. 438 00:23:04,440 --> 00:23:07,960 Speaker 1: Another headline is Chris and Lauren just announce that they 439 00:23:07,960 --> 00:23:10,720 Speaker 1: have a new show coming up, which is great to 440 00:23:10,800 --> 00:23:13,240 Speaker 1: be I mean, I love it. I love that they've 441 00:23:13,280 --> 00:23:16,040 Speaker 1: got you know, all these what do you call them 442 00:23:16,080 --> 00:23:17,080 Speaker 1: irons in the fire. 443 00:23:18,000 --> 00:23:18,520 Speaker 2: Yeah. 444 00:23:18,920 --> 00:23:22,600 Speaker 1: And but what I want to know is he said 445 00:23:22,600 --> 00:23:25,080 Speaker 1: something about like I heard it was a morning show, 446 00:23:25,680 --> 00:23:27,960 Speaker 1: and then I heard it was a dating show, And 447 00:23:28,000 --> 00:23:31,560 Speaker 1: I'm like, really, don't you think that his contract would 448 00:23:31,560 --> 00:23:33,640 Speaker 1: have said, like you can't do dating. 449 00:23:33,359 --> 00:23:37,639 Speaker 2: Shows, you know, I mean, it sounds like it's not 450 00:23:37,760 --> 00:23:40,359 Speaker 2: it sounds like it's two separate shows, right, it sounds 451 00:23:40,400 --> 00:23:43,719 Speaker 2: like there's what I understand. Yeah, from what I understand, 452 00:23:43,760 --> 00:23:46,000 Speaker 2: there's one show like a talk show with Lauren and 453 00:23:46,080 --> 00:23:48,920 Speaker 2: Chris got It, and then the other show is a 454 00:23:49,000 --> 00:23:53,919 Speaker 2: spin on your conventional dating show. And so yeah, I 455 00:23:54,000 --> 00:23:56,240 Speaker 2: kind of I kind of knew a bunch of stuff 456 00:23:56,280 --> 00:23:58,200 Speaker 2: was percolating, but I didn't know where it was going 457 00:23:58,320 --> 00:24:01,200 Speaker 2: or what was happening. And and I thought the announcement 458 00:24:01,240 --> 00:24:03,880 Speaker 2: was pretty great, you know. I mean, you talk about 459 00:24:03,920 --> 00:24:07,520 Speaker 2: someone whose content is incredibly entertaining. I think Lauren Zima 460 00:24:07,560 --> 00:24:11,640 Speaker 2: to me is someone who I follow her and I 461 00:24:11,640 --> 00:24:13,800 Speaker 2: I will literally just sit there and just laugh at 462 00:24:14,000 --> 00:24:16,560 Speaker 2: like like sitting in my seat. My and Kenye'll say, 463 00:24:16,600 --> 00:24:18,280 Speaker 2: what are you laughing about? I'm like, Lauren posted this, 464 00:24:18,320 --> 00:24:20,959 Speaker 2: and we'll both watch it just laugh because because we 465 00:24:21,040 --> 00:24:22,800 Speaker 2: just love her so much. You know, She's just such 466 00:24:23,119 --> 00:24:27,120 Speaker 2: an adorable person and I just find her so funny, 467 00:24:27,160 --> 00:24:30,679 Speaker 2: and her takes on things are just you know, she 468 00:24:30,800 --> 00:24:33,240 Speaker 2: just has like kind of like no filter and just 469 00:24:33,280 --> 00:24:36,639 Speaker 2: this cute way of handling herself and I just adore it. 470 00:24:36,680 --> 00:24:39,880 Speaker 2: So I'm so happy for them, and I think it's 471 00:24:39,880 --> 00:24:43,240 Speaker 2: going to be awesome for them. And but yeah, you know, 472 00:24:43,240 --> 00:24:46,920 Speaker 2: it is interesting you you would you would guess uh that, 473 00:24:47,040 --> 00:24:48,959 Speaker 2: you know, but maybe the way things went down, you know, 474 00:24:49,080 --> 00:24:52,200 Speaker 2: they didn't have the ability to put that in there 475 00:24:52,280 --> 00:24:53,960 Speaker 2: for him. He could do whatever he wants, you know. 476 00:24:54,600 --> 00:24:57,960 Speaker 1: I'm sure, I mean, but I think it's awesome. I 477 00:24:58,000 --> 00:25:00,400 Speaker 1: agree with you about Lauren, and I think it's going 478 00:25:00,440 --> 00:25:02,960 Speaker 1: back to social media like she is one that never 479 00:25:03,040 --> 00:25:06,280 Speaker 1: pops up for me, even though I like any like 480 00:25:06,359 --> 00:25:10,560 Speaker 1: anytime Chris will, I'm following her and Chris will post 481 00:25:10,560 --> 00:25:12,800 Speaker 1: something or repost something from her, and I'll go look 482 00:25:12,800 --> 00:25:15,080 Speaker 1: at it and be like, why didn't this show up? 483 00:25:15,200 --> 00:25:17,639 Speaker 1: Like I don't understand why she doesn't show up for me, 484 00:25:17,960 --> 00:25:22,320 Speaker 1: But it's just the stupid algorithm. I need to like out, 485 00:25:22,440 --> 00:25:27,320 Speaker 1: like go actually look at her stuff actively because She're right, 486 00:25:27,520 --> 00:25:31,679 Speaker 1: she is freaking hysterical. But I'm really excited about the show. 487 00:25:32,680 --> 00:25:36,200 Speaker 1: They are such a good team and I mean they 488 00:25:36,200 --> 00:25:39,280 Speaker 1: can banter, they can you know, be supportive, they can 489 00:25:39,560 --> 00:25:41,600 Speaker 1: do all the things. I think it's going to be 490 00:25:41,640 --> 00:25:42,720 Speaker 1: a huge success. 491 00:25:43,119 --> 00:25:46,600 Speaker 2: I think so too, And I definitely I'm if I 492 00:25:46,600 --> 00:25:49,359 Speaker 2: can send positive vibes, I'm sending them. It's like I 493 00:25:49,400 --> 00:25:51,760 Speaker 2: wanted to be I want it to be a huge success. 494 00:25:51,760 --> 00:25:54,840 Speaker 2: And I think, you know, partnering up with a fellow 495 00:25:54,920 --> 00:25:58,359 Speaker 2: textan doesn't hurt Chris at all either, Right, He's partnering 496 00:25:58,400 --> 00:26:02,680 Speaker 2: up with doctor Phil and you know, Merit Media, and yeah, yep, 497 00:26:02,840 --> 00:26:06,000 Speaker 2: that's pretty huge. So good for them. Man. I was 498 00:26:06,080 --> 00:26:06,919 Speaker 2: very happy to read that. 499 00:26:07,840 --> 00:26:10,200 Speaker 1: It's funny because when I don't know if I was 500 00:26:10,240 --> 00:26:13,840 Speaker 1: sitting with Blakesley when it was posted, but she was like, wait, 501 00:26:13,880 --> 00:26:16,520 Speaker 1: why is Chris Harrison with doctor Phil Is? Isn't he 502 00:26:16,640 --> 00:26:19,320 Speaker 1: like a psychiatrist or something? And I was like, oh, no, 503 00:26:19,440 --> 00:26:22,040 Speaker 1: he's not, like going on doctor Phil showed. 504 00:26:23,600 --> 00:26:26,960 Speaker 2: You're like, well, he's partnering with doctor Phil, yes exactly. 505 00:26:27,040 --> 00:26:29,679 Speaker 1: I'm like doctor Phil is, like you know, has a 506 00:26:29,720 --> 00:26:32,159 Speaker 1: big media company from what I understand. 507 00:26:31,720 --> 00:26:35,119 Speaker 2: So I'm sure. And Chris is also sort of a 508 00:26:35,119 --> 00:26:38,480 Speaker 2: psychotherapist as well. I mean, over the years to most 509 00:26:38,520 --> 00:26:41,600 Speaker 2: of us at one point or another, I'm sure, provided 510 00:26:42,400 --> 00:26:46,280 Speaker 2: you know mental health and counsel. So yeah, there you got. 511 00:26:46,760 --> 00:26:48,359 Speaker 1: Lots of that, that's for sure. 512 00:26:49,000 --> 00:26:50,800 Speaker 2: I think I told you this story once, but it's 513 00:26:50,840 --> 00:26:52,960 Speaker 2: one of my favorite stories about doctor Phil. Well actually 514 00:26:53,040 --> 00:26:55,120 Speaker 2: just one of my favorite stories in general. So this 515 00:26:55,200 --> 00:26:59,240 Speaker 2: is a very very very long time ago. You had 516 00:26:59,280 --> 00:27:02,080 Speaker 2: just gotten well, you were married. I don't know if 517 00:27:02,080 --> 00:27:03,520 Speaker 2: you're pregnant at the time or not, but it was 518 00:27:03,640 --> 00:27:05,520 Speaker 2: right after. I don't think you were yet because you 519 00:27:05,560 --> 00:27:07,840 Speaker 2: didn't have How long after you guys got married, did 520 00:27:07,840 --> 00:27:08,520 Speaker 2: you guys have Max? 521 00:27:10,560 --> 00:27:13,560 Speaker 1: It took us two years, so I think three years after. 522 00:27:13,960 --> 00:27:16,200 Speaker 1: Well he was born in two seven, so we got pregnant. 523 00:27:16,280 --> 00:27:19,480 Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, yeah. So I had just come off The 524 00:27:19,480 --> 00:27:23,240 Speaker 2: Bachelor and it was Oprah's fiftieth birthday party and I 525 00:27:23,280 --> 00:27:25,560 Speaker 2: got invited and I was all excited to go, and 526 00:27:25,640 --> 00:27:29,240 Speaker 2: I go and the first and I was shocked again 527 00:27:29,280 --> 00:27:32,040 Speaker 2: to be there. I'm like, I'm standing Jefferson Anderston and 528 00:27:32,040 --> 00:27:35,000 Speaker 2: Brad Pittord right here, I'm sitting, you know, I'm with 529 00:27:35,160 --> 00:27:37,879 Speaker 2: like you know, and there's doctor Phil And this is 530 00:27:38,040 --> 00:27:40,320 Speaker 2: to date myself. This goes back to the day when 531 00:27:40,359 --> 00:27:45,680 Speaker 2: the blue blackberries were what everyone had, remember those y 532 00:27:45,960 --> 00:27:48,600 Speaker 2: And so I'm online doctor Phil. I was like, I 533 00:27:48,600 --> 00:27:50,520 Speaker 2: don't even know what I was doing, probably just like 534 00:27:50,600 --> 00:27:54,119 Speaker 2: nervous energy because I'm around all these huge celebrities and 535 00:27:54,160 --> 00:27:56,600 Speaker 2: doctor Phil's standing right next to me. He goes, boul 536 00:27:57,240 --> 00:27:59,359 Speaker 2: do you know how to make the font bigger on 537 00:27:59,400 --> 00:28:02,760 Speaker 2: this thing. And I'm like, yes, I do, doctor Phil. 538 00:28:04,119 --> 00:28:06,080 Speaker 2: First of all, I'm like, how the hell's he knowing? 539 00:28:06,119 --> 00:28:09,760 Speaker 2: I didn't even introduced myself yet, and so I was like, sure, 540 00:28:09,800 --> 00:28:12,320 Speaker 2: doctor Phil. And so I remember, I like helped him 541 00:28:12,320 --> 00:28:15,000 Speaker 2: get his font size bigger on there. And it was 542 00:28:15,040 --> 00:28:16,600 Speaker 2: just like one of those moments when in my life, 543 00:28:16,640 --> 00:28:19,359 Speaker 2: in my in my head, I was like, yeah, here again. 544 00:28:19,680 --> 00:28:23,040 Speaker 2: You know, mister, I never take pictures of anything, you know, 545 00:28:23,240 --> 00:28:26,119 Speaker 2: is my Like Kenyon says to me, She's like, the 546 00:28:26,160 --> 00:28:29,440 Speaker 2: pictures you could have had. I mean, you know, I'm like, seriously, 547 00:28:30,000 --> 00:28:31,840 Speaker 2: I wasn't going to pull out my camera and be like, hey, 548 00:28:31,840 --> 00:28:34,879 Speaker 2: doctor Phil, yeah, let me hould up your blueberry or 549 00:28:34,880 --> 00:28:39,200 Speaker 2: whatever the things they're called, so, you know, BlackBerry. So 550 00:28:39,320 --> 00:28:41,200 Speaker 2: I didn't. I didn't do that at the time, but 551 00:28:41,240 --> 00:28:42,720 Speaker 2: you know, it's kind of funny. I always think of 552 00:28:42,760 --> 00:28:46,120 Speaker 2: him because he was so nice. He was just such 553 00:28:46,120 --> 00:28:48,800 Speaker 2: a nice guy, and it was like a normal guy 554 00:28:48,960 --> 00:28:51,040 Speaker 2: Like it was like, you know, this damn font thing, 555 00:28:51,120 --> 00:28:53,520 Speaker 2: and you know, it's like things that you know, I 556 00:28:53,520 --> 00:28:55,240 Speaker 2: don't know. I just always think of that as just 557 00:28:55,600 --> 00:28:56,880 Speaker 2: kind of a pretty telling moment. 558 00:28:57,440 --> 00:29:00,520 Speaker 1: It's just like a like an everyday moment. It just 559 00:29:00,560 --> 00:29:03,120 Speaker 1: so happened to be happening with doctor Phil exactly. 560 00:29:03,280 --> 00:29:06,480 Speaker 2: Yeah, you know, as I'm in a you know, tux 561 00:29:06,480 --> 00:29:08,360 Speaker 2: said Oprah's fifty right exactly. 562 00:29:09,280 --> 00:29:10,080 Speaker 1: Celebrities. 563 00:29:10,360 --> 00:29:14,280 Speaker 2: Yeah, oh my god, that party in and of itself. 564 00:29:14,320 --> 00:29:16,320 Speaker 2: I remember another awesome thing that happened to me there, 565 00:29:16,360 --> 00:29:18,920 Speaker 2: and this is why why Tom Hanks is one of 566 00:29:18,960 --> 00:29:22,440 Speaker 2: my very favorite celebrities of all time. And I was 567 00:29:22,960 --> 00:29:27,480 Speaker 2: I was standing there and I'll never i mean literally 568 00:29:27,520 --> 00:29:29,480 Speaker 2: just looking around this room, I'm like, oh my gosh. 569 00:29:29,480 --> 00:29:32,640 Speaker 2: You know, it's just the star studded ensemble of people. 570 00:29:33,360 --> 00:29:36,120 Speaker 2: And someone was like, you know, do you see anyone 571 00:29:36,120 --> 00:29:37,680 Speaker 2: that you want to meet? And I go, oh my god, 572 00:29:37,440 --> 00:29:39,800 Speaker 2: I'd love to. I'd love to meet Tom Hanks. He's 573 00:29:39,800 --> 00:29:42,320 Speaker 2: like my favorite actor. Okay, well, let's walk over. So 574 00:29:42,360 --> 00:29:45,240 Speaker 2: as we're walking over, and it was Alan Racketten actually, 575 00:29:45,280 --> 00:29:48,320 Speaker 2: who was executive sort of Oprah at the time. Let's 576 00:29:48,320 --> 00:29:51,440 Speaker 2: go walk over. And as we're walking over, she goes, Tom, 577 00:29:51,600 --> 00:29:55,720 Speaker 2: I want you to meet and he goes Bob, Bob, 578 00:29:56,240 --> 00:29:58,960 Speaker 2: Oh my god, and I'm like I literally could have 579 00:29:59,000 --> 00:30:01,920 Speaker 2: like passed out. And what was incredible was I sat 580 00:30:01,920 --> 00:30:03,760 Speaker 2: and talked to him for like half an hour. He 581 00:30:03,760 --> 00:30:06,920 Speaker 2: and Rita and I just loved them. But I've run 582 00:30:06,960 --> 00:30:11,720 Speaker 2: into him probably maybe six times seven times over the 583 00:30:11,760 --> 00:30:14,480 Speaker 2: course of the last several years. And every time I do, 584 00:30:15,280 --> 00:30:18,880 Speaker 2: I'm always the guy that doesn't want to bug him, 585 00:30:19,240 --> 00:30:21,880 Speaker 2: you know, like the situation as such, and so I'll 586 00:30:21,920 --> 00:30:24,280 Speaker 2: just like, you know, like many times on the Today Show, 587 00:30:24,320 --> 00:30:25,480 Speaker 2: you know, when I used to do the Today's show 588 00:30:25,480 --> 00:30:27,920 Speaker 2: Man panel, and he would be there doing something for 589 00:30:27,960 --> 00:30:30,040 Speaker 2: a new movie or whatever, and I'd see him and 590 00:30:30,080 --> 00:30:31,360 Speaker 2: I'd be kind of on the other side of the room, 591 00:30:31,360 --> 00:30:32,400 Speaker 2: and so I'd just be like, oh, I'm not gonna 592 00:30:32,400 --> 00:30:34,520 Speaker 2: bug him, you know, and he probably doesn't remember me anyway, 593 00:30:34,560 --> 00:30:37,760 Speaker 2: and he would figure out a way and this is 594 00:30:37,840 --> 00:30:40,320 Speaker 2: just Tom Hanks, man, I'm telling you. He would figure 595 00:30:40,320 --> 00:30:42,640 Speaker 2: out a way to come by, and as he'd be 596 00:30:42,680 --> 00:30:45,920 Speaker 2: like walking past me, he would go, oh, oh my gosh, 597 00:30:45,960 --> 00:30:48,120 Speaker 2: it's my old buddy Bob who's too cool to say 598 00:30:48,200 --> 00:30:51,000 Speaker 2: hi to his friend Tom. That's awesome, and I'd be like, no, no, 599 00:30:51,040 --> 00:30:53,280 Speaker 2: that's not what I'm doing. I swear. It was like 600 00:30:53,440 --> 00:30:55,440 Speaker 2: so funny. It just like always one of those things 601 00:30:55,440 --> 00:30:57,600 Speaker 2: where the way he would do it was such a 602 00:30:57,640 --> 00:31:00,240 Speaker 2: way that was like, I don't know, it just took 603 00:31:00,280 --> 00:31:04,240 Speaker 2: the steam out of it in like a great way. Yeah. 604 00:31:04,480 --> 00:31:06,920 Speaker 2: Oh he's so he'd be like, oh yeah, just too 605 00:31:06,920 --> 00:31:08,320 Speaker 2: cool to say hi to your old friend Tom. I 606 00:31:08,320 --> 00:31:10,240 Speaker 2: get it, And I'm like, no, dude, I just didn't 607 00:31:10,240 --> 00:31:12,200 Speaker 2: want to bug you. You know, you're so busy, you're 608 00:31:12,240 --> 00:31:14,000 Speaker 2: you know, surrounded by a bunch of people or whatever. 609 00:31:14,040 --> 00:31:16,360 Speaker 2: And I love him for that though. You know, he's 610 00:31:16,400 --> 00:31:18,280 Speaker 2: just such a kind person. 611 00:31:18,720 --> 00:31:19,960 Speaker 1: Yeah, I love that. 612 00:31:20,000 --> 00:31:21,480 Speaker 2: I digress. I don't even know how we got stuck 613 00:31:21,480 --> 00:31:24,440 Speaker 2: on that topic there, but oh, doctor Phil, Doctor Phil. Yep. 614 00:31:25,400 --> 00:31:28,680 Speaker 1: Well you know what, Coda sitting here whining at me. 615 00:31:28,880 --> 00:31:31,040 Speaker 1: I'm I'm thinking he might need to go outside because 616 00:31:31,040 --> 00:31:35,320 Speaker 1: he's in this room like accidentally, So I take him 617 00:31:35,320 --> 00:31:36,480 Speaker 1: out for a party. 618 00:31:36,160 --> 00:31:39,000 Speaker 2: Break there you go. Well, make sure you get a 619 00:31:39,040 --> 00:31:41,120 Speaker 2: little needle and thread for that sweater because Coda is 620 00:31:41,120 --> 00:31:42,560 Speaker 2: going to use it as a cheety again. 621 00:31:42,400 --> 00:31:45,080 Speaker 1: If you're not caring for It's one of my favorites too, 622 00:31:45,200 --> 00:31:48,400 Speaker 1: But it's fine. It just comes with the territory. At 623 00:31:48,480 --> 00:31:50,440 Speaker 1: least it wasn't like a big hole in my hand 624 00:31:50,480 --> 00:31:53,840 Speaker 1: although have scratches all over the place, but it was 625 00:31:53,880 --> 00:31:56,560 Speaker 1: so good to talk to you again, and I know 626 00:31:57,160 --> 00:32:01,960 Speaker 1: got out there. I wish we could do it more frequently, 627 00:32:02,000 --> 00:32:04,360 Speaker 1: but I know during the season it's just, you know, 628 00:32:04,640 --> 00:32:07,120 Speaker 1: Ashley and Ben have their thing, and so we'll just 629 00:32:07,480 --> 00:32:08,240 Speaker 1: wait patiently. 630 00:32:08,960 --> 00:32:11,040 Speaker 2: We'll be waiting to plug and play when you need us. Guys, 631 00:32:11,320 --> 00:32:14,479 Speaker 2: just make sure you keep on Instagram and texting and 632 00:32:14,520 --> 00:32:17,440 Speaker 2: computerizing and letting people know that you love the ogs, 633 00:32:17,480 --> 00:32:19,240 Speaker 2: so that so that we can keep coming on and 634 00:32:19,240 --> 00:32:22,520 Speaker 2: talking to you. Follow the Ben and Ashley I Almost 635 00:32:22,600 --> 00:32:26,880 Speaker 2: Famous podcasts on iHeartRadio or subscribe wherever you listen to podcasts.