WEBVTT - Second Date Update PODCAST: Broken Dreams

0:00:00.360 --> 0:00:03.160
<v Speaker 1>Need Leasic trust the experienced team at the Leasic Center

0:00:03.200 --> 0:00:06.600
<v Speaker 1>at Evergreen Ice Center, no glasses, no contacts, no limits.

0:00:06.880 --> 0:00:13.399
<v Speaker 1>What will you do lesi at Evergreen dot com rooking

0:00:13.520 --> 0:00:18.160
<v Speaker 1>Jebels second dat day. A listener named Justin is on

0:00:18.200 --> 0:00:20.279
<v Speaker 1>the phone for a second date update today and his

0:00:20.400 --> 0:00:24.279
<v Speaker 1>email said that the worst possible thing happened on his

0:00:24.400 --> 0:00:29.080
<v Speaker 1>first date. So I'm assuming maybe he ordered a hot

0:00:29.120 --> 0:00:33.559
<v Speaker 1>tea and they brought him an iced tea. That's you

0:00:33.600 --> 0:00:37.639
<v Speaker 1>know how that goes. It gets so awkward after that,

0:00:37.720 --> 0:00:40.280
<v Speaker 1>and then you get up and excuse yourself and go

0:00:40.320 --> 0:00:42.360
<v Speaker 1>to the restroom to try to collect yourself, and on

0:00:42.400 --> 0:00:43.960
<v Speaker 1>the way to the restroom, you end up going to

0:00:43.960 --> 0:00:45.680
<v Speaker 1>the parking lot and grabbing your car and driving it

0:00:45.680 --> 0:00:49.400
<v Speaker 1>through the front of the establishment. Whoa, it happens every time,

0:00:49.520 --> 0:00:51.960
<v Speaker 1>and that is incredibly awkward. So I'm sorry that happened

0:00:52.000 --> 0:00:55.760
<v Speaker 1>for you, Justin. No, it's actually worse, worse than worse

0:00:55.760 --> 0:00:58.360
<v Speaker 1>than getting an iced tea when you ordered a hot tea. Wow,

0:00:58.400 --> 0:01:01.640
<v Speaker 1>if you can believe it could possibly be worse than that.

0:01:01.680 --> 0:01:04.200
<v Speaker 1>I guess we'll get to that in a second. First,

0:01:04.520 --> 0:01:06.040
<v Speaker 1>tell us about the girl you want to call today?

0:01:06.080 --> 0:01:11.679
<v Speaker 1>What's her name? Her name is Naomi. Where'd you meet her? Dating? Nap? Okay?

0:01:11.880 --> 0:01:17.720
<v Speaker 1>And she's pretty pretty cute nose, cute nose, really like

0:01:17.800 --> 0:01:21.479
<v Speaker 1>a tiny nose, like smaller than the normal small nose.

0:01:21.560 --> 0:01:25.120
<v Speaker 1>Like I'm picturing somebody with barely a nose, just two

0:01:25.160 --> 0:01:29.600
<v Speaker 1>nostrils on your face like a button. Sounds like you're

0:01:29.720 --> 0:01:32.920
<v Speaker 1>really into the nose, man, Is that a normal thing

0:01:32.959 --> 0:01:36.319
<v Speaker 1>that you look for in a lady? Yes, it is. Okay,

0:01:37.120 --> 0:01:40.240
<v Speaker 1>you're you're a nose guy. Okay, Well, I'm a face guy,

0:01:40.480 --> 0:01:43.200
<v Speaker 1>and the nose is sort of like the focal point

0:01:43.280 --> 0:01:46.360
<v Speaker 1>of the face ties the whole thing together. Yeah, okay,

0:01:46.400 --> 0:01:48.680
<v Speaker 1>all right, okay, So you liked your nose and you

0:01:48.720 --> 0:01:51.280
<v Speaker 1>guys hit it off, and where'd you go on your date? Well?

0:01:51.320 --> 0:01:54.320
<v Speaker 1>We we went to a nice restaurant, probably nicer than

0:01:54.840 --> 0:01:57.680
<v Speaker 1>needed for a first date. Okay. Okay, So you into

0:01:57.720 --> 0:02:00.760
<v Speaker 1>a real expensive, classy restaurant with a woman who has

0:02:00.760 --> 0:02:03.520
<v Speaker 1>a button for a nose. Okay. And what was it

0:02:03.600 --> 0:02:05.360
<v Speaker 1>like when you guys saw each other the first time?

0:02:05.720 --> 0:02:07.800
<v Speaker 1>It just it couldn't have gone any better. And I

0:02:07.840 --> 0:02:10.519
<v Speaker 1>was having the best time with her, the best date

0:02:10.520 --> 0:02:15.200
<v Speaker 1>of my life. Whoa until the table next to us

0:02:15.600 --> 0:02:19.200
<v Speaker 1>there was a couple having a romantic dinner themselves, and

0:02:19.440 --> 0:02:22.760
<v Speaker 1>halfway through our dinner, this guy gets down on one

0:02:22.840 --> 0:02:27.640
<v Speaker 1>knee and proposes to his fiancee. I can't believe you

0:02:27.639 --> 0:02:31.880
<v Speaker 1>guys got to witness that? How cool? Oh oh oh,

0:02:31.880 --> 0:02:35.840
<v Speaker 1>it gets better. But you don't sound like you're excited

0:02:35.880 --> 0:02:37.920
<v Speaker 1>about it. You were upset. You thought you should have

0:02:37.919 --> 0:02:41.079
<v Speaker 1>said no? Is that what it was? Stoned out? The

0:02:41.200 --> 0:02:44.480
<v Speaker 1>restaurant was a plodding Everyone was, you know, clanging their

0:02:44.520 --> 0:02:48.600
<v Speaker 1>glasses and with everyone looking at us, the guy leans

0:02:48.639 --> 0:02:51.600
<v Speaker 1>over and he says, hey, this could be you too soon.

0:02:52.360 --> 0:02:55.160
<v Speaker 1>Oh man, all right, so he didn't make it awkward

0:02:55.160 --> 0:02:57.880
<v Speaker 1>for you guys. Why was the guy even comment to

0:02:57.960 --> 0:03:00.800
<v Speaker 1>you guys? Well, so I tried to field it though

0:03:01.040 --> 0:03:03.400
<v Speaker 1>I feeld in it, and I felt good about it.

0:03:03.440 --> 0:03:05.280
<v Speaker 1>I had an impulse, so I went with it. Okay,

0:03:05.400 --> 0:03:08.400
<v Speaker 1>what'd you do? So? I said, funny, you should mention that.

0:03:09.120 --> 0:03:12.280
<v Speaker 1>Stand up out of my chair and kneel down and

0:03:13.120 --> 0:03:18.200
<v Speaker 1>pretended to propose. Why why would you do that? Why

0:03:18.440 --> 0:03:21.800
<v Speaker 1>is God's planet would make you do something like that?

0:03:21.800 --> 0:03:24.640
<v Speaker 1>That is wrong on so many levels. I was just

0:03:24.720 --> 0:03:27.519
<v Speaker 1>trying to be funny. I thought it was really funny. Yeah,

0:03:27.639 --> 0:03:30.639
<v Speaker 1>real funny, like upstage the couple that just got engaged,

0:03:30.680 --> 0:03:33.720
<v Speaker 1>and then make it really awkward between you and your date. Well,

0:03:34.000 --> 0:03:36.560
<v Speaker 1>I don't think it would have been except I got

0:03:36.640 --> 0:03:40.200
<v Speaker 1>up and I said, sorry, guys, just kidding. We're actually

0:03:40.240 --> 0:03:43.160
<v Speaker 1>on a first date. Okay, so you admitted that you

0:03:43.160 --> 0:03:47.960
<v Speaker 1>weren't actually proposing. Didn't people all think that was funny? Yeah,

0:03:48.000 --> 0:03:50.880
<v Speaker 1>everyone thought it was funny. But now all of a sudden,

0:03:50.960 --> 0:03:54.240
<v Speaker 1>every eyeball in the restaurant was on us as a

0:03:54.320 --> 0:03:56.480
<v Speaker 1>first date in the middle of the room, next to

0:03:56.520 --> 0:03:59.520
<v Speaker 1>the couple who have just gotten engaged. Right, okay, look

0:03:59.640 --> 0:04:02.360
<v Speaker 1>at you? Was your date real awkward? After that, it

0:04:02.520 --> 0:04:05.680
<v Speaker 1>was excruciating because it really felt like everyone was paying

0:04:05.680 --> 0:04:08.840
<v Speaker 1>attention to us. The couple who just gotten engaged thought

0:04:08.880 --> 0:04:11.240
<v Speaker 1>that they should, like should pole around with us, and

0:04:11.240 --> 0:04:14.720
<v Speaker 1>they tried to buy us dessert. And at the end

0:04:14.720 --> 0:04:17.000
<v Speaker 1>of the dinner, the manager came over and he says, look,

0:04:17.040 --> 0:04:18.719
<v Speaker 1>if you ever want to come back to the spot

0:04:18.760 --> 0:04:22.160
<v Speaker 1>of your first date to propose, Yeah, yeah, but you're

0:04:22.200 --> 0:04:24.360
<v Speaker 1>acting like annoyed. You're the one that set yourself up

0:04:24.400 --> 0:04:27.480
<v Speaker 1>for that. I didn't propose to the woman next to

0:04:27.520 --> 0:04:30.320
<v Speaker 1>me at the other table, He like back guard didn't. Yeah,

0:04:30.400 --> 0:04:32.479
<v Speaker 1>you didn't have to fake a proposal to your first

0:04:32.560 --> 0:04:36.400
<v Speaker 1>date exactly, but you weren't there. You had I had

0:04:36.440 --> 0:04:39.640
<v Speaker 1>to make the joke. I don't know, man, I could

0:04:39.680 --> 0:04:42.960
<v Speaker 1>just see if I was your date. You don't want

0:04:43.040 --> 0:04:45.760
<v Speaker 1>to see someone joke about that, even like the first

0:04:45.800 --> 0:04:48.039
<v Speaker 1>time you see a man get down on a knee,

0:04:48.200 --> 0:04:50.160
<v Speaker 1>you want it to be for real. Well, I just

0:04:50.440 --> 0:04:52.160
<v Speaker 1>I don't know if you get the sense of humor

0:04:52.240 --> 0:04:55.040
<v Speaker 1>in it. Okay, did your date get the sense of

0:04:55.120 --> 0:04:58.080
<v Speaker 1>human though? I think that's most important. I think she did.

0:04:58.200 --> 0:05:01.600
<v Speaker 1>She laughed la with everybody else. I think it was

0:05:01.720 --> 0:05:04.800
<v Speaker 1>me saying that it was our first date and that

0:05:04.920 --> 0:05:06.720
<v Speaker 1>it kind of put us under a microscope for the

0:05:06.760 --> 0:05:08.720
<v Speaker 1>rest of the evening. So why do you think all

0:05:08.760 --> 0:05:11.240
<v Speaker 1>the attention ruined your night? Because it was like it

0:05:11.320 --> 0:05:13.680
<v Speaker 1>felt like we were on display. I mean you could

0:05:13.720 --> 0:05:16.279
<v Speaker 1>see the people people would like lean over and whisper

0:05:16.360 --> 0:05:18.720
<v Speaker 1>to each other, like while making eye contact with me,

0:05:19.960 --> 0:05:21.880
<v Speaker 1>and I didn't feel good about the rest of the date,

0:05:21.920 --> 0:05:24.160
<v Speaker 1>and I think Naomi felt the same way. So how

0:05:24.200 --> 0:05:26.880
<v Speaker 1>did it all end with you and Naomi with an

0:05:27.000 --> 0:05:31.040
<v Speaker 1>awkward hug. Oh right, So everything went downhill after that

0:05:31.120 --> 0:05:34.560
<v Speaker 1>face ended with an awkward hug, and then I kind

0:05:34.600 --> 0:05:37.480
<v Speaker 1>of reapproached the joke. And this is where I think, Brooke,

0:05:37.560 --> 0:05:39.920
<v Speaker 1>You're probably right. I went too far because I said

0:05:40.600 --> 0:05:44.080
<v Speaker 1>maybe we'll come back one day. Oh man, you should

0:05:44.120 --> 0:05:46.000
<v Speaker 1>not have called back to that joke. You should have

0:05:46.040 --> 0:05:48.760
<v Speaker 1>pretended like it never happened. That just feels like it's

0:05:48.800 --> 0:05:50.920
<v Speaker 1>too sincere. Then I feel like that makes it then

0:05:51.000 --> 0:05:53.200
<v Speaker 1>not a joke. Well, that's where I'm thinking I screwed

0:05:53.200 --> 0:05:55.119
<v Speaker 1>it up. I mean, I thought it would be funny,

0:05:55.320 --> 0:05:58.440
<v Speaker 1>and you know, she didn't really even laugh. And we've

0:05:58.520 --> 0:06:01.120
<v Speaker 1>texted a little bit and it's it's sort of lukewarm.

0:06:01.200 --> 0:06:02.760
<v Speaker 1>When I asked her if she wants to do anything,

0:06:02.800 --> 0:06:05.440
<v Speaker 1>I don't really get a response. Okay, Well we'll play

0:06:05.480 --> 0:06:08.360
<v Speaker 1>a song, come back, and then call your fiance and

0:06:08.440 --> 0:06:16.320
<v Speaker 1>get your second date update. Okay, thank you, yeah, Brooking

0:06:16.440 --> 0:06:20.479
<v Speaker 1>jubil in the morning, Second d update and welcome back

0:06:20.640 --> 0:06:24.560
<v Speaker 1>to Dating Tips with Justin from today's Second Date update.

0:06:25.640 --> 0:06:30.440
<v Speaker 1>Always remember Justin's three rules for a successful first date.

0:06:30.920 --> 0:06:35.320
<v Speaker 1>One open all doors for your date. Two make sure

0:06:35.360 --> 0:06:39.680
<v Speaker 1>you pay the Bill and three always fake a wedding proposal?

0:06:41.440 --> 0:06:44.880
<v Speaker 1>Sure to work? Man Never. Justin is on the phone

0:06:44.880 --> 0:06:46.640
<v Speaker 1>for a second date update, and today he wants to

0:06:46.680 --> 0:06:48.880
<v Speaker 1>call a girl named Naomi. They went out on a

0:06:49.040 --> 0:06:51.840
<v Speaker 1>date to a restaurant and the couple next to them

0:06:52.080 --> 0:06:55.240
<v Speaker 1>got engaged. The restaurant was all buzzing about it, and

0:06:55.400 --> 0:06:57.280
<v Speaker 1>so Justin thought he'd play a funny joke and then

0:06:57.320 --> 0:06:59.160
<v Speaker 1>stand up after them and go, we're getting engaged to

0:06:59.760 --> 0:07:02.280
<v Speaker 1>His joke wasn't as well received as he thought it

0:07:02.320 --> 0:07:04.800
<v Speaker 1>was going to be. Justin, are you ready to give

0:07:04.960 --> 0:07:08.840
<v Speaker 1>your former fiancee a call? I am, and you know,

0:07:08.920 --> 0:07:12.680
<v Speaker 1>I just she's just so cool, and so I guess

0:07:12.720 --> 0:07:14.640
<v Speaker 1>what I'm looking forward is like a we do just

0:07:15.080 --> 0:07:17.160
<v Speaker 1>a second chance? Yeah? I mean you said it was

0:07:17.440 --> 0:07:22.320
<v Speaker 1>up until that point the best day of your life. Yeah, So,

0:07:22.560 --> 0:07:30.360
<v Speaker 1>was there some sincerity behind your joke proposal? No? I

0:07:30.440 --> 0:07:32.200
<v Speaker 1>just want to make sure, because you know they say

0:07:32.320 --> 0:07:36.120
<v Speaker 1>there's always some truth to Yeah. I mean if she

0:07:36.240 --> 0:07:38.280
<v Speaker 1>just said yes, it would have turned into the worst

0:07:38.360 --> 0:07:41.080
<v Speaker 1>date ever. Yeah, Okay, I just want to make sure

0:07:41.080 --> 0:07:43.720
<v Speaker 1>you didn't secretly want that, all right? That could have

0:07:43.720 --> 0:07:46.680
<v Speaker 1>gone so bad for you If she's absolutely, I'd love to.

0:07:46.960 --> 0:07:48.800
<v Speaker 1>And then she calls her mom right then and there,

0:07:48.840 --> 0:07:51.520
<v Speaker 1>and now your all right, Well, I'm gonna dial her

0:07:51.520 --> 0:07:53.200
<v Speaker 1>phone number and see if we can get on the phone.

0:07:53.200 --> 0:08:07.240
<v Speaker 1>Here we go, Oh god, hello, Hi is this Naomi? Yeah?

0:08:07.360 --> 0:08:09.800
<v Speaker 1>This is her? Hey Naomi? How are you? This is

0:08:09.920 --> 0:08:12.320
<v Speaker 1>Jewbil from the radio show Brook and Jewil in the Morning.

0:08:15.720 --> 0:08:19.760
<v Speaker 1>What this is Jewbil from Brook and Jewil in the Morning.

0:08:20.960 --> 0:08:24.160
<v Speaker 1>What's going on? Not much? Just hanging out? What's going

0:08:24.160 --> 0:08:26.560
<v Speaker 1>on with you? How you doing? Man? What's you up

0:08:26.600 --> 0:08:29.280
<v Speaker 1>to to date? Girl? No? I mean like, why are

0:08:29.320 --> 0:08:33.000
<v Speaker 1>you guys calling me? Oh? Okay, I missed the point. Sorry,

0:08:33.480 --> 0:08:37.240
<v Speaker 1>we got an email about you from one of our listeners.

0:08:37.920 --> 0:08:40.360
<v Speaker 1>It's a dude who wants to do a second date update.

0:08:40.800 --> 0:08:42.880
<v Speaker 1>Do you have any idea who might have email us?

0:08:44.679 --> 0:08:47.959
<v Speaker 1>I mean, I went on a date recently, but I

0:08:48.040 --> 0:08:51.360
<v Speaker 1>don't know why he'd email a radio station. What was

0:08:51.400 --> 0:08:56.000
<v Speaker 1>his name? Justin? That's it. Justin emailed us because he

0:08:56.120 --> 0:08:58.720
<v Speaker 1>said he really enjoyed going out with you, but now

0:08:58.800 --> 0:09:03.480
<v Speaker 1>you're not getting back to him. M Yeah, okay, so

0:09:03.559 --> 0:09:06.560
<v Speaker 1>that's true. So I guess there's a reason it wasn't

0:09:06.600 --> 0:09:08.840
<v Speaker 1>just like, oh, I let him know that I ran

0:09:08.920 --> 0:09:13.600
<v Speaker 1>out of time. Uh No, there's there's definitely a reason there,

0:09:14.200 --> 0:09:16.800
<v Speaker 1>is it because he proposed to you on the day.

0:09:17.240 --> 0:09:21.920
<v Speaker 1>I mean, I'm just taking a wild guess. Okay, awkward?

0:09:22.440 --> 0:09:25.760
<v Speaker 1>Yeah right? Did you think that was funny because he

0:09:25.800 --> 0:09:28.160
<v Speaker 1>said he meant it as a joke and you were laughing,

0:09:28.640 --> 0:09:32.880
<v Speaker 1>I mean at first, but then the whole restaurant kind

0:09:32.920 --> 0:09:36.360
<v Speaker 1>of started looking at us, and it was it was

0:09:36.600 --> 0:09:41.320
<v Speaker 1>not comfortable. Yeah, so you think it was just I mean,

0:09:41.480 --> 0:09:45.040
<v Speaker 1>was that the moment that ruined the vibe before that?

0:09:45.240 --> 0:09:48.120
<v Speaker 1>I honestly I was having a good time with him

0:09:48.240 --> 0:09:52.120
<v Speaker 1>and he seems like a funny kind of guy. Okay,

0:09:52.160 --> 0:09:55.000
<v Speaker 1>so the wedding proposal thing didn't completely kill it for you. Well,

0:09:55.160 --> 0:09:59.199
<v Speaker 1>it's kind of complicated. Can you you mind explaining so

0:09:59.360 --> 0:10:03.120
<v Speaker 1>we can tell him? Well, later that night I went

0:10:03.240 --> 0:10:07.599
<v Speaker 1>home and I just I had this vivid dream and

0:10:08.040 --> 0:10:10.160
<v Speaker 1>was wearing pants. When I wearing pants, she doesn't even

0:10:10.240 --> 0:10:15.240
<v Speaker 1>know who you are, jubil not about you? Oh yeah,

0:10:16.840 --> 0:10:19.640
<v Speaker 1>assuming again? Sorry, get back to your dream. What was

0:10:19.679 --> 0:10:24.800
<v Speaker 1>your dream about? So Justin and I were actually getting

0:10:24.880 --> 0:10:31.240
<v Speaker 1>married in my dream, and like it was really really vivid. Uh,

0:10:31.520 --> 0:10:35.120
<v Speaker 1>and you know, we went through the whole ceremony. Yeah,

0:10:35.160 --> 0:10:37.400
<v Speaker 1>I mean I could see I could see how you

0:10:37.440 --> 0:10:39.319
<v Speaker 1>would have a dream about that, like the night after

0:10:39.400 --> 0:10:42.000
<v Speaker 1>it happened, of course you meet top of mind. Yeah,

0:10:42.679 --> 0:10:47.319
<v Speaker 1>but then afterwards it went straight to us in court

0:10:47.559 --> 0:10:54.839
<v Speaker 1>getting divorced and did all your dream we dream dream? So,

0:10:55.320 --> 0:10:58.160
<v Speaker 1>I mean, when I woke up, it was really unsettling,

0:10:58.280 --> 0:11:01.360
<v Speaker 1>and I felt kind of weird, and I just I

0:11:01.480 --> 0:11:04.800
<v Speaker 1>didn't know how I really felt about it. But the

0:11:04.960 --> 0:11:08.320
<v Speaker 1>more I thought about that, that's definitely a sign from

0:11:08.360 --> 0:11:11.560
<v Speaker 1>the universe, like I should not go out with him again.

0:11:11.679 --> 0:11:14.760
<v Speaker 1>Right Wait, hold on, whoa You dreamt that you got

0:11:14.840 --> 0:11:16.719
<v Speaker 1>married and divorced and you think that that's why you

0:11:16.760 --> 0:11:21.320
<v Speaker 1>shouldn't go out with him again? Oh definitely. Wait. Sorry,

0:11:21.320 --> 0:11:26.079
<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna hop in here. Wait what Yeah, Naomi, that's Justin.

0:11:26.160 --> 0:11:27.880
<v Speaker 1>He's actually been on the other line. Listen, I wants

0:11:27.880 --> 0:11:31.199
<v Speaker 1>to talk to you. Oh my god, wait, are you joking? No,

0:11:31.400 --> 0:11:35.040
<v Speaker 1>I say, look, I understand that this is a little extreme,

0:11:35.280 --> 0:11:38.360
<v Speaker 1>maybe a little overkilled to call in. Oh my gosh,

0:11:40.320 --> 0:11:41.920
<v Speaker 1>I just I just need to go back to what

0:11:42.080 --> 0:11:45.040
<v Speaker 1>you were saying. You had a dream that we got

0:11:45.200 --> 0:11:48.360
<v Speaker 1>married and divorced, and so now you don't want to

0:11:48.400 --> 0:11:51.160
<v Speaker 1>go on a date with me again. I mean, justin,

0:11:51.559 --> 0:11:56.199
<v Speaker 1>first off, this is crazy that you contacted me through

0:11:56.400 --> 0:12:01.160
<v Speaker 1>our radio station. So this is I think this is

0:12:01.240 --> 0:12:07.000
<v Speaker 1>almost maybe another sign that we shouldn't pursue this. But

0:12:07.320 --> 0:12:10.760
<v Speaker 1>that might mean you're saying that the reason that you

0:12:10.840 --> 0:12:13.280
<v Speaker 1>thought we shouldn't met together is because of a dream

0:12:13.760 --> 0:12:17.280
<v Speaker 1>that you had, Like I don't. I don't have a

0:12:17.440 --> 0:12:19.400
<v Speaker 1>dream that I get fired and then not go to

0:12:19.440 --> 0:12:23.640
<v Speaker 1>work the next day. Well, justin, I believe in signs.

0:12:24.000 --> 0:12:27.959
<v Speaker 1>I believe that our dreams do tell us the truth

0:12:28.040 --> 0:12:32.200
<v Speaker 1>about things. They reveal, you know, what is our path

0:12:32.360 --> 0:12:35.680
<v Speaker 1>or not our path in many ways, and I definitely

0:12:35.760 --> 0:12:38.080
<v Speaker 1>think that this is not the right path to take.

0:12:38.160 --> 0:12:41.920
<v Speaker 1>It would end in divorce. Naiomi, I'm sorry to interject,

0:12:42.000 --> 0:12:45.200
<v Speaker 1>he real quick, but I just don't think like I've

0:12:45.240 --> 0:12:48.800
<v Speaker 1>had dreams that my husband's cheated on me. And I mean,

0:12:48.840 --> 0:12:53.319
<v Speaker 1>as far as I know, I didn't wake up in

0:12:53.360 --> 0:12:55.040
<v Speaker 1>the morning and say, oh my god, we've got to

0:12:55.080 --> 0:12:57.600
<v Speaker 1>get divorced because what you did, like it's your your

0:12:57.640 --> 0:13:01.959
<v Speaker 1>subconscious it's not it's not from the universe. Yeah, but

0:13:02.440 --> 0:13:05.760
<v Speaker 1>it's not just a dream. I mean, we had had

0:13:05.840 --> 0:13:08.679
<v Speaker 1>the couple proposed next to us, then he did the

0:13:08.800 --> 0:13:12.080
<v Speaker 1>fake proposal. Then in my dream, we get married, then

0:13:12.120 --> 0:13:16.959
<v Speaker 1>we get divorced. It's just it's too much. I think

0:13:17.000 --> 0:13:19.560
<v Speaker 1>it's just a sign of an active imagination and there's

0:13:19.600 --> 0:13:23.040
<v Speaker 1>nothing wrong with that. But come on, Naobe, things don't

0:13:23.080 --> 0:13:27.160
<v Speaker 1>look good for us in the future. So you're convinced,

0:13:27.720 --> 0:13:31.280
<v Speaker 1>Naomi that you shouldn't date Justin because of this dream? Yeah,

0:13:31.480 --> 0:13:35.079
<v Speaker 1>I mean we got married and we got divorced. That's

0:13:35.440 --> 0:13:38.520
<v Speaker 1>as clear a sign as any in the universe that

0:13:38.800 --> 0:13:41.120
<v Speaker 1>we should not be together. I don't even know how

0:13:41.200 --> 0:13:44.000
<v Speaker 1>you battle that, Justin. It nailed me. I'm sorry, but

0:13:44.080 --> 0:13:46.480
<v Speaker 1>the sort of sounds crazy to me because it was

0:13:46.520 --> 0:13:50.480
<v Speaker 1>a dream. It was one dream. You can't make all

0:13:50.520 --> 0:13:52.800
<v Speaker 1>your decisions in life based on a dream. I mean,

0:13:53.160 --> 0:13:55.240
<v Speaker 1>obviously you would dream about that that we had the

0:13:55.360 --> 0:13:58.240
<v Speaker 1>proposal thing happened that night, and so you would be dreamed.

0:13:58.280 --> 0:13:59.960
<v Speaker 1>I mean we talked. I think we even talked about

0:14:00.040 --> 0:14:03.439
<v Speaker 1>divorced at dinner that night. Jess, I don't like, I

0:14:03.520 --> 0:14:06.520
<v Speaker 1>don't think you get it. Like I know plenty of people.

0:14:06.559 --> 0:14:09.280
<v Speaker 1>For instance, my grandma, she had a dream where she

0:14:09.360 --> 0:14:11.960
<v Speaker 1>got sick and she was sneezing, and then she got pneumonia.

0:14:13.640 --> 0:14:15.760
<v Speaker 1>Whoa was it like the next day or like a

0:14:15.840 --> 0:14:20.400
<v Speaker 1>year later. No, it was like wiz in a week. WHOA, Well,

0:14:20.440 --> 0:14:23.400
<v Speaker 1>that probably means her body was already ill. Yeah. I

0:14:23.480 --> 0:14:28.120
<v Speaker 1>don't know exactly exactly. You're starting to sell me on

0:14:28.200 --> 0:14:32.000
<v Speaker 1>this whole dream things. I dreamt I was a wizard

0:14:32.120 --> 0:14:36.880
<v Speaker 1>in a Harry Potter book once, but I wasn't yet.

0:14:36.960 --> 0:14:39.080
<v Speaker 1>Are you sure about that? Maybe you got maybe somebody

0:14:39.120 --> 0:14:40.480
<v Speaker 1>cast a spell on you now you don't even know

0:14:40.520 --> 0:14:43.240
<v Speaker 1>you can do wizardry. Yeah, I know. Maybe it'll happen

0:14:43.320 --> 0:14:47.040
<v Speaker 1>in the future. Oh, Jessin, you sound a little kind

0:14:47.080 --> 0:14:50.120
<v Speaker 1>of angry at this point. Well, I am angry because

0:14:50.200 --> 0:14:53.640
<v Speaker 1>this is ridiculous. The bottom line is, Naomi, I like you.

0:14:53.800 --> 0:14:55.600
<v Speaker 1>I had a lot of fun with you. I think

0:14:55.640 --> 0:14:58.360
<v Speaker 1>we would continue to have fun together, and that bizarre

0:14:58.520 --> 0:15:00.720
<v Speaker 1>freak incident is not going to but every time we

0:15:00.800 --> 0:15:02.600
<v Speaker 1>go out, all right that being said, Nay, would you

0:15:02.640 --> 0:15:04.280
<v Speaker 1>like to go out with Justin on a second date?

0:15:04.320 --> 0:15:07.040
<v Speaker 1>We will pay for it. Yeah, you didn't dream that,

0:15:07.160 --> 0:15:10.000
<v Speaker 1>did you. Yeah, And Naomi, think of it. I feel

0:15:10.040 --> 0:15:11.720
<v Speaker 1>like you have to give him another chance, just one

0:15:11.840 --> 0:15:14.520
<v Speaker 1>more time, and if you have a similar dream, then

0:15:14.680 --> 0:15:18.320
<v Speaker 1>call it quits. I you, guys, I just I've got

0:15:18.400 --> 0:15:21.320
<v Speaker 1>a bad feeling about it. I just don't want to

0:15:21.680 --> 0:15:24.680
<v Speaker 1>tempt the universe with stuff like this because we'll end

0:15:24.760 --> 0:15:28.160
<v Speaker 1>up regretting it, and I don't want that. Justin, You're

0:15:28.200 --> 0:15:30.800
<v Speaker 1>a nice guy and I wish you the best of luck.

0:15:31.160 --> 0:15:34.840
<v Speaker 1>Oh wow, I really think you're making a mistake. I

0:15:35.560 --> 0:15:39.640
<v Speaker 1>cannot fathom that this is actually happening. But if this

0:15:39.800 --> 0:15:42.920
<v Speaker 1>is what you really want, Justin, it's not what I want.

0:15:43.080 --> 0:15:46.520
<v Speaker 1>It's what the universe is telling us. Is right, But

0:15:46.680 --> 0:15:52.320
<v Speaker 1>it's what you dreamed. Come on, and dreams are signs. Justin.

0:15:53.440 --> 0:15:55.320
<v Speaker 1>Either way, Justin, it doesn't sound like you're getting a

0:15:55.360 --> 0:15:58.680
<v Speaker 1>second date. I'm sorry many Thank you guys for trying. Yeah,

0:15:58.840 --> 0:16:01.240
<v Speaker 1>no problem, Naomi, thank you for your time. Appreciate it.

0:16:01.400 --> 0:16:04.960
<v Speaker 1>Before you go, could you do me one favor? What

0:16:05.200 --> 0:16:09.680
<v Speaker 1>is it? Can you dream about me winning a million dollars? Yeah?

0:16:09.720 --> 0:16:12.600
<v Speaker 1>All of us? That'd be dope. Text In at seven

0:16:12.600 --> 0:16:14.480
<v Speaker 1>to eight five nine two says I had a dream

0:16:14.520 --> 0:16:17.360
<v Speaker 1>once then my girlfriend dumped me. Sure enough next morning,

0:16:17.480 --> 0:16:21.800
<v Speaker 1>she laughed. So okay, maybe sometimes you should believe your dreams.

0:16:22.640 --> 0:16:26.240
<v Speaker 1>Working Jewel in the morning, talking about today's second date update,

0:16:26.640 --> 0:16:29.440
<v Speaker 1>Justin wanted to call Naomi. They went out for dinner

0:16:29.760 --> 0:16:31.600
<v Speaker 1>and there was an awkward moment when a couple got

0:16:31.680 --> 0:16:33.760
<v Speaker 1>engaged next to them, so he thought it would be

0:16:33.800 --> 0:16:36.760
<v Speaker 1>funny to fake an engagement. He thought she wasn't calling

0:16:36.840 --> 0:16:39.360
<v Speaker 1>back because of that, because it was awkward, But really

0:16:39.600 --> 0:16:41.960
<v Speaker 1>she wasn't calling him back because later that night she

0:16:42.080 --> 0:16:44.280
<v Speaker 1>had a dream that they did get engaged. Yeah, and

0:16:44.360 --> 0:16:47.960
<v Speaker 1>then they got married, and then they also got divorced.

0:16:48.040 --> 0:16:51.720
<v Speaker 1>It's a long dream. That's a lot, ye man. Yeah,

0:16:52.240 --> 0:16:55.240
<v Speaker 1>And I'm actually just shocked how many people are texting

0:16:55.400 --> 0:16:58.520
<v Speaker 1>in that they agree with her. Like someone else said,

0:16:58.520 --> 0:17:00.840
<v Speaker 1>the dream thing is real. I had a vivid dream

0:17:00.840 --> 0:17:03.200
<v Speaker 1>of a car accident and it happened the very next

0:17:03.320 --> 0:17:06.320
<v Speaker 1>day in the exact same way. Oh my god. Either

0:17:06.440 --> 0:17:09.400
<v Speaker 1>that or you just ran your car into a pole

0:17:09.400 --> 0:17:11.480
<v Speaker 1>because you dreamed about it the night before. I want

0:17:11.520 --> 0:17:14.000
<v Speaker 1>my dreams to come true. They never come true, not

0:17:14.080 --> 0:17:16.960
<v Speaker 1>if their car accidents. Just in general, my dreams have

0:17:17.119 --> 0:17:19.080
<v Speaker 1>never come true. And why are the ones that always

0:17:19.119 --> 0:17:23.320
<v Speaker 1>come true the bad ones? Dreams are bad? Dreams are bad. Divorce.

0:17:24.320 --> 0:17:27.159
<v Speaker 1>Don't have dreams. I think that's what we learned from

0:17:27.160 --> 0:17:30.840
<v Speaker 1>the second Dreams. Okay, everybody stopped dreaming. Yeah, dreams like

0:17:31.320 --> 0:17:33.600
<v Speaker 1>ones that you sleep, you know, dreams when you're asleep,

0:17:33.680 --> 0:17:36.720
<v Speaker 1>and then dreams in life they just never dreams goals. Yeah,

0:17:36.840 --> 0:17:40.680
<v Speaker 1>they ruin everything. So the best way to I think,

0:17:40.960 --> 0:17:43.359
<v Speaker 1>live a stress free life is to just not dream.

0:17:43.600 --> 0:17:46.920
<v Speaker 1>There you go. Ever, remember, if you want to do

0:17:46.960 --> 0:17:48.720
<v Speaker 1>a second day update, all you have to do is

0:17:48.880 --> 0:17:50.560
<v Speaker 1>eat or they didn't go out, by the way, they

0:17:50.600 --> 0:17:52.640
<v Speaker 1>decided not to go out because she trusted her dream.

0:17:52.680 --> 0:17:55.320
<v Speaker 1>Texted seventy five nine two. Do you believe in your dreams?

0:17:55.440 --> 0:17:58.120
<v Speaker 1>I'm curious how many people actually do live their life

0:17:58.160 --> 0:17:59.760
<v Speaker 1>based on what they dream. And if you want to

0:17:59.800 --> 0:18:01.080
<v Speaker 1>do it second day update, I have to do is

0:18:01.160 --> 0:18:03.639
<v Speaker 1>email the show and we will call the person that

0:18:03.760 --> 0:18:06.640
<v Speaker 1>didn't call you back. Removed at ninety two point five