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Speaker 1: Jebels second dat day. A listener named Justin is on
Speaker 1: the phone for a second date update today and his
Speaker 1: email said that the worst possible thing happened on his
Speaker 1: first date. So I'm assuming maybe he ordered a hot
Speaker 1: tea and they brought him an iced tea. That's you
Speaker 1: know how that goes. It gets so awkward after that,
Speaker 1: and then you get up and excuse yourself and go
Speaker 1: to the restroom to try to collect yourself, and on
Speaker 1: the way to the restroom, you end up going to
Speaker 1: the parking lot and grabbing your car and driving it
Speaker 1: through the front of the establishment. Whoa, it happens every time,
Speaker 1: and that is incredibly awkward. So I'm sorry that happened
Speaker 1: for you, Justin. No, it's actually worse, worse than worse
Speaker 1: than getting an iced tea when you ordered a hot tea. Wow,
Speaker 1: if you can believe it could possibly be worse than that.
Speaker 1: I guess we'll get to that in a second. First,
Speaker 1: tell us about the girl you want to call today?
Speaker 1: What's her name? Her name is Naomi. Where'd you meet her? Dating? Nap? Okay?
Speaker 1: And she's pretty pretty cute nose, cute nose, really like
Speaker 1: a tiny nose, like smaller than the normal small nose.
Speaker 1: Like I'm picturing somebody with barely a nose, just two
Speaker 1: nostrils on your face like a button. Sounds like you're
Speaker 1: really into the nose, man, Is that a normal thing
Speaker 1: that you look for in a lady? Yes, it is. Okay,
Speaker 1: you're you're a nose guy. Okay, Well, I'm a face guy,
Speaker 1: and the nose is sort of like the focal point
Speaker 1: of the face ties the whole thing together. Yeah, okay,
Speaker 1: all right, okay, So you liked your nose and you
Speaker 1: guys hit it off, and where'd you go on your date? Well?
Speaker 1: We we went to a nice restaurant, probably nicer than
Speaker 1: needed for a first date. Okay. Okay, So you into
Speaker 1: a real expensive, classy restaurant with a woman who has
Speaker 1: a button for a nose. Okay. And what was it
Speaker 1: like when you guys saw each other the first time?
Speaker 1: It just it couldn't have gone any better. And I
Speaker 1: was having the best time with her, the best date
Speaker 1: of my life. Whoa until the table next to us
Speaker 1: there was a couple having a romantic dinner themselves, and
Speaker 1: halfway through our dinner, this guy gets down on one
Speaker 1: knee and proposes to his fiancee. I can't believe you
Speaker 1: guys got to witness that? How cool? Oh oh oh,
Speaker 1: it gets better. But you don't sound like you're excited
Speaker 1: about it. You were upset. You thought you should have
Speaker 1: said no? Is that what it was? Stoned out? The
Speaker 1: restaurant was a plodding Everyone was, you know, clanging their
Speaker 1: glasses and with everyone looking at us, the guy leans
Speaker 1: over and he says, hey, this could be you too soon.
Speaker 1: Oh man, all right, so he didn't make it awkward
Speaker 1: for you guys. Why was the guy even comment to
Speaker 1: you guys? Well, so I tried to field it though
Speaker 1: I feeld in it, and I felt good about it.
Speaker 1: I had an impulse, so I went with it. Okay,
Speaker 1: what'd you do? So? I said, funny, you should mention that.
Speaker 1: Stand up out of my chair and kneel down and
Speaker 1: pretended to propose. Why why would you do that? Why
Speaker 1: is God's planet would make you do something like that?
Speaker 1: That is wrong on so many levels. I was just
Speaker 1: trying to be funny. I thought it was really funny. Yeah,
Speaker 1: real funny, like upstage the couple that just got engaged,
Speaker 1: and then make it really awkward between you and your date. Well,
Speaker 1: I don't think it would have been except I got
Speaker 1: up and I said, sorry, guys, just kidding. We're actually
Speaker 1: on a first date. Okay, so you admitted that you
Speaker 1: weren't actually proposing. Didn't people all think that was funny? Yeah,
Speaker 1: everyone thought it was funny. But now all of a sudden,
Speaker 1: every eyeball in the restaurant was on us as a
Speaker 1: first date in the middle of the room, next to
Speaker 1: the couple who have just gotten engaged. Right, okay, look
Speaker 1: at you? Was your date real awkward? After that, it
Speaker 1: was excruciating because it really felt like everyone was paying
Speaker 1: attention to us. The couple who just gotten engaged thought
Speaker 1: that they should, like should pole around with us, and
Speaker 1: they tried to buy us dessert. And at the end
Speaker 1: of the dinner, the manager came over and he says, look,
Speaker 1: if you ever want to come back to the spot
Speaker 1: of your first date to propose, Yeah, yeah, but you're
Speaker 1: acting like annoyed. You're the one that set yourself up
Speaker 1: for that. I didn't propose to the woman next to
Speaker 1: me at the other table, He like back guard didn't. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you didn't have to fake a proposal to your first
Speaker 1: date exactly, but you weren't there. You had I had
Speaker 1: to make the joke. I don't know, man, I could
Speaker 1: just see if I was your date. You don't want
Speaker 1: to see someone joke about that, even like the first
Speaker 1: time you see a man get down on a knee,
Speaker 1: you want it to be for real. Well, I just
Speaker 1: I don't know if you get the sense of humor
Speaker 1: in it. Okay, did your date get the sense of
Speaker 1: human though? I think that's most important. I think she did.
Speaker 1: She laughed la with everybody else. I think it was
Speaker 1: me saying that it was our first date and that
Speaker 1: it kind of put us under a microscope for the
Speaker 1: rest of the evening. So why do you think all
Speaker 1: the attention ruined your night? Because it was like it
Speaker 1: felt like we were on display. I mean you could
Speaker 1: see the people people would like lean over and whisper
Speaker 1: to each other, like while making eye contact with me,
Speaker 1: and I didn't feel good about the rest of the date,
Speaker 1: and I think Naomi felt the same way. So how
Speaker 1: did it all end with you and Naomi with an
Speaker 1: awkward hug. Oh right, So everything went downhill after that
Speaker 1: face ended with an awkward hug, and then I kind
Speaker 1: of reapproached the joke. And this is where I think, Brooke,
Speaker 1: You're probably right. I went too far because I said
Speaker 1: maybe we'll come back one day. Oh man, you should
Speaker 1: not have called back to that joke. You should have
Speaker 1: pretended like it never happened. That just feels like it's
Speaker 1: too sincere. Then I feel like that makes it then
Speaker 1: not a joke. Well, that's where I'm thinking I screwed
Speaker 1: it up. I mean, I thought it would be funny,
Speaker 1: and you know, she didn't really even laugh. And we've
Speaker 1: texted a little bit and it's it's sort of lukewarm.
Speaker 1: When I asked her if she wants to do anything,
Speaker 1: I don't really get a response. Okay, Well we'll play
Speaker 1: a song, come back, and then call your fiance and
Speaker 1: get your second date update. Okay, thank you, yeah, Brooking
Speaker 1: jubil in the morning, Second d update and welcome back
Speaker 1: to Dating Tips with Justin from today's Second Date update.
Speaker 1: Always remember Justin's three rules for a successful first date.
Speaker 1: One open all doors for your date. Two make sure
Speaker 1: you pay the Bill and three always fake a wedding proposal?
Speaker 1: Sure to work? Man Never. Justin is on the phone
Speaker 1: for a second date update, and today he wants to
Speaker 1: call a girl named Naomi. They went out on a
Speaker 1: date to a restaurant and the couple next to them
Speaker 1: got engaged. The restaurant was all buzzing about it, and
Speaker 1: so Justin thought he'd play a funny joke and then
Speaker 1: stand up after them and go, we're getting engaged to
Speaker 1: His joke wasn't as well received as he thought it
Speaker 1: was going to be. Justin, are you ready to give
Speaker 1: your former fiancee a call? I am, and you know,
Speaker 1: I just she's just so cool, and so I guess
Speaker 1: what I'm looking forward is like a we do just
Speaker 1: a second chance? Yeah? I mean you said it was
Speaker 1: up until that point the best day of your life. Yeah, So,
Speaker 1: was there some sincerity behind your joke proposal? No? I
Speaker 1: just want to make sure, because you know they say
Speaker 1: there's always some truth to Yeah. I mean if she
Speaker 1: just said yes, it would have turned into the worst
Speaker 1: date ever. Yeah, Okay, I just want to make sure
Speaker 1: you didn't secretly want that, all right? That could have
Speaker 1: gone so bad for you If she's absolutely, I'd love to.
Speaker 1: And then she calls her mom right then and there,
Speaker 1: and now your all right, Well, I'm gonna dial her
Speaker 1: phone number and see if we can get on the phone.
Speaker 1: Here we go, Oh god, hello, Hi is this Naomi? Yeah?
Speaker 1: This is her? Hey Naomi? How are you? This is
Speaker 1: Jewbil from the radio show Brook and Jewil in the Morning.
Speaker 1: What this is Jewbil from Brook and Jewil in the Morning.
Speaker 1: What's going on? Not much? Just hanging out? What's going
Speaker 1: on with you? How you doing? Man? What's you up
Speaker 1: to to date? Girl? No? I mean like, why are
Speaker 1: you guys calling me? Oh? Okay, I missed the point. Sorry,
Speaker 1: we got an email about you from one of our listeners.
Speaker 1: It's a dude who wants to do a second date update.
Speaker 1: Do you have any idea who might have email us?
Speaker 1: I mean, I went on a date recently, but I
Speaker 1: don't know why he'd email a radio station. What was
Speaker 1: his name? Justin? That's it. Justin emailed us because he
Speaker 1: said he really enjoyed going out with you, but now
Speaker 1: you're not getting back to him. M Yeah, okay, so
Speaker 1: that's true. So I guess there's a reason it wasn't
Speaker 1: just like, oh, I let him know that I ran
Speaker 1: out of time. Uh No, there's there's definitely a reason there,
Speaker 1: is it because he proposed to you on the day.
Speaker 1: I mean, I'm just taking a wild guess. Okay, awkward?
Speaker 1: Yeah right? Did you think that was funny because he
Speaker 1: said he meant it as a joke and you were laughing,
Speaker 1: I mean at first, but then the whole restaurant kind
Speaker 1: of started looking at us, and it was it was
Speaker 1: not comfortable. Yeah, so you think it was just I mean,
Speaker 1: was that the moment that ruined the vibe before that?
Speaker 1: I honestly I was having a good time with him
Speaker 1: and he seems like a funny kind of guy. Okay,
Speaker 1: so the wedding proposal thing didn't completely kill it for you. Well,
Speaker 1: it's kind of complicated. Can you you mind explaining so
Speaker 1: we can tell him? Well, later that night I went
Speaker 1: home and I just I had this vivid dream and
Speaker 1: was wearing pants. When I wearing pants, she doesn't even
Speaker 1: know who you are, jubil not about you? Oh yeah,
Speaker 1: assuming again? Sorry, get back to your dream. What was
Speaker 1: your dream about? So Justin and I were actually getting
Speaker 1: married in my dream, and like it was really really vivid. Uh,
Speaker 1: and you know, we went through the whole ceremony. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean I could see I could see how you
Speaker 1: would have a dream about that, like the night after
Speaker 1: it happened, of course you meet top of mind. Yeah,
Speaker 1: but then afterwards it went straight to us in court
Speaker 1: getting divorced and did all your dream we dream dream? So,
Speaker 1: I mean, when I woke up, it was really unsettling,
Speaker 1: and I felt kind of weird, and I just I
Speaker 1: didn't know how I really felt about it. But the
Speaker 1: more I thought about that, that's definitely a sign from
Speaker 1: the universe, like I should not go out with him again.
Speaker 1: Right Wait, hold on, whoa You dreamt that you got
Speaker 1: married and divorced and you think that that's why you
Speaker 1: shouldn't go out with him again? Oh definitely. Wait. Sorry,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna hop in here. Wait what Yeah, Naomi, that's Justin.
Speaker 1: He's actually been on the other line. Listen, I wants
Speaker 1: to talk to you. Oh my god, wait, are you joking? No,
Speaker 1: I say, look, I understand that this is a little extreme,
Speaker 1: maybe a little overkilled to call in. Oh my gosh,
Speaker 1: I just I just need to go back to what
Speaker 1: you were saying. You had a dream that we got
Speaker 1: married and divorced, and so now you don't want to
Speaker 1: go on a date with me again. I mean, justin,
Speaker 1: first off, this is crazy that you contacted me through
Speaker 1: our radio station. So this is I think this is
Speaker 1: almost maybe another sign that we shouldn't pursue this. But
Speaker 1: that might mean you're saying that the reason that you
Speaker 1: thought we shouldn't met together is because of a dream
Speaker 1: that you had, Like I don't. I don't have a
Speaker 1: dream that I get fired and then not go to
Speaker 1: work the next day. Well, justin, I believe in signs.
Speaker 1: I believe that our dreams do tell us the truth
Speaker 1: about things. They reveal, you know, what is our path
Speaker 1: or not our path in many ways, and I definitely
Speaker 1: think that this is not the right path to take.
Speaker 1: It would end in divorce. Naiomi, I'm sorry to interject,
Speaker 1: he real quick, but I just don't think like I've
Speaker 1: had dreams that my husband's cheated on me. And I mean,
Speaker 1: as far as I know, I didn't wake up in
Speaker 1: the morning and say, oh my god, we've got to
Speaker 1: get divorced because what you did, like it's your your
Speaker 1: subconscious it's not it's not from the universe. Yeah, but
Speaker 1: it's not just a dream. I mean, we had had
Speaker 1: the couple proposed next to us, then he did the
Speaker 1: fake proposal. Then in my dream, we get married, then
Speaker 1: we get divorced. It's just it's too much. I think
Speaker 1: it's just a sign of an active imagination and there's
Speaker 1: nothing wrong with that. But come on, Naobe, things don't
Speaker 1: look good for us in the future. So you're convinced,
Speaker 1: Naomi that you shouldn't date Justin because of this dream? Yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean we got married and we got divorced. That's
Speaker 1: as clear a sign as any in the universe that
Speaker 1: we should not be together. I don't even know how
Speaker 1: you battle that, Justin. It nailed me. I'm sorry, but
Speaker 1: the sort of sounds crazy to me because it was
Speaker 1: a dream. It was one dream. You can't make all
Speaker 1: your decisions in life based on a dream. I mean,
Speaker 1: obviously you would dream about that that we had the
Speaker 1: proposal thing happened that night, and so you would be dreamed.
Speaker 1: I mean we talked. I think we even talked about
Speaker 1: divorced at dinner that night. Jess, I don't like, I
Speaker 1: don't think you get it. Like I know plenty of people.
Speaker 1: For instance, my grandma, she had a dream where she
Speaker 1: got sick and she was sneezing, and then she got pneumonia.
Speaker 1: Whoa was it like the next day or like a
Speaker 1: year later. No, it was like wiz in a week. WHOA, Well,
Speaker 1: that probably means her body was already ill. Yeah. I
Speaker 1: don't know exactly exactly. You're starting to sell me on
Speaker 1: this whole dream things. I dreamt I was a wizard
Speaker 1: in a Harry Potter book once, but I wasn't yet.
Speaker 1: Are you sure about that? Maybe you got maybe somebody
Speaker 1: cast a spell on you now you don't even know
Speaker 1: you can do wizardry. Yeah, I know. Maybe it'll happen
Speaker 1: in the future. Oh, Jessin, you sound a little kind
Speaker 1: of angry at this point. Well, I am angry because
Speaker 1: this is ridiculous. The bottom line is, Naomi, I like you.
Speaker 1: I had a lot of fun with you. I think
Speaker 1: we would continue to have fun together, and that bizarre
Speaker 1: freak incident is not going to but every time we
Speaker 1: go out, all right that being said, Nay, would you
Speaker 1: like to go out with Justin on a second date?
Speaker 1: We will pay for it. Yeah, you didn't dream that,
Speaker 1: did you. Yeah, And Naomi, think of it. I feel
Speaker 1: like you have to give him another chance, just one
Speaker 1: more time, and if you have a similar dream, then
Speaker 1: call it quits. I you, guys, I just I've got
Speaker 1: a bad feeling about it. I just don't want to
Speaker 1: tempt the universe with stuff like this because we'll end
Speaker 1: up regretting it, and I don't want that. Justin, You're
Speaker 1: a nice guy and I wish you the best of luck.
Speaker 1: Oh wow, I really think you're making a mistake. I
Speaker 1: cannot fathom that this is actually happening. But if this
Speaker 1: is what you really want, Justin, it's not what I want.
Speaker 1: It's what the universe is telling us. Is right, But
Speaker 1: it's what you dreamed. Come on, and dreams are signs. Justin.
Speaker 1: Either way, Justin, it doesn't sound like you're getting a
Speaker 1: second date. I'm sorry many Thank you guys for trying. Yeah,
Speaker 1: no problem, Naomi, thank you for your time. Appreciate it.
Speaker 1: Before you go, could you do me one favor? What
Speaker 1: is it? Can you dream about me winning a million dollars? Yeah?
Speaker 1: All of us? That'd be dope. Text In at seven
Speaker 1: to eight five nine two says I had a dream
Speaker 1: once then my girlfriend dumped me. Sure enough next morning,
Speaker 1: she laughed. So okay, maybe sometimes you should believe your dreams.
Speaker 1: Working Jewel in the morning, talking about today's second date update,
Speaker 1: Justin wanted to call Naomi. They went out for dinner
Speaker 1: and there was an awkward moment when a couple got
Speaker 1: engaged next to them, so he thought it would be
Speaker 1: funny to fake an engagement. He thought she wasn't calling
Speaker 1: back because of that, because it was awkward, But really
Speaker 1: she wasn't calling him back because later that night she
Speaker 1: had a dream that they did get engaged. Yeah, and
Speaker 1: then they got married, and then they also got divorced.
Speaker 1: It's a long dream. That's a lot, ye man. Yeah,
Speaker 1: And I'm actually just shocked how many people are texting
Speaker 1: in that they agree with her. Like someone else said,
Speaker 1: the dream thing is real. I had a vivid dream
Speaker 1: of a car accident and it happened the very next
Speaker 1: day in the exact same way. Oh my god. Either
Speaker 1: that or you just ran your car into a pole
Speaker 1: because you dreamed about it the night before. I want
Speaker 1: my dreams to come true. They never come true, not
Speaker 1: if their car accidents. Just in general, my dreams have
Speaker 1: never come true. And why are the ones that always
Speaker 1: come true the bad ones? Dreams are bad? Dreams are bad. Divorce.
Speaker 1: Don't have dreams. I think that's what we learned from
Speaker 1: the second Dreams. Okay, everybody stopped dreaming. Yeah, dreams like
Speaker 1: ones that you sleep, you know, dreams when you're asleep,
Speaker 1: and then dreams in life they just never dreams goals. Yeah,
Speaker 1: they ruin everything. So the best way to I think,
Speaker 1: live a stress free life is to just not dream.
Speaker 1: There you go. Ever, remember, if you want to do
Speaker 1: a second day update, all you have to do is
Speaker 1: eat or they didn't go out, by the way, they
Speaker 1: decided not to go out because she trusted her dream.
Speaker 1: Texted seventy five nine two. Do you believe in your dreams?
Speaker 1: I'm curious how many people actually do live their life
Speaker 1: based on what they dream. And if you want to
Speaker 1: do it second day update, I have to do is
Speaker 1: email the show and we will call the person that
Speaker 1: didn't call you back. Removed at ninety two point five