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Speaker 1: Jebels second dat day. A listener named Justin is on

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Speaker 1: the phone for a second date update today and his

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Speaker 1: email said that the worst possible thing happened on his

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Speaker 1: first date. So I'm assuming maybe he ordered a hot

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Speaker 1: tea and they brought him an iced tea. That's you

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Speaker 1: know how that goes. It gets so awkward after that,

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Speaker 1: through the front of the establishment. Whoa, it happens every time,

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Speaker 1: and that is incredibly awkward. So I'm sorry that happened

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Speaker 1: for you, Justin. No, it's actually worse, worse than worse

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Speaker 1: than getting an iced tea when you ordered a hot tea. Wow,

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Speaker 1: What's her name? Her name is Naomi. Where'd you meet her? Dating? Nap? Okay?

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Speaker 1: And she's pretty pretty cute nose, cute nose, really like

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Speaker 1: We we went to a nice restaurant, probably nicer than

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Speaker 1: needed for a first date. Okay. Okay, So you into

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Speaker 1: It just it couldn't have gone any better. And I

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Speaker 1: guys got to witness that? How cool? Oh oh oh,

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Speaker 1: it gets better. But you don't sound like you're excited

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Speaker 1: Oh man, all right, so he didn't make it awkward

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Speaker 1: what'd you do? So? I said, funny, you should mention that.

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Speaker 1: jubil in the morning, Second d update and welcome back

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Speaker 1: to Dating Tips with Justin from today's Second Date update.

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Speaker 1: Always remember Justin's three rules for a successful first date.

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Speaker 1: One open all doors for your date. Two make sure

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Speaker 1: you pay the Bill and three always fake a wedding proposal?

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Speaker 1: Sure to work? Man Never. Justin is on the phone

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Speaker 1: for a second date update, and today he wants to

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Speaker 1: call a girl named Naomi. They went out on a

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Speaker 1: His joke wasn't as well received as he thought it

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Speaker 1: I just she's just so cool, and so I guess

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Speaker 1: what I'm looking forward is like a we do just

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Speaker 1: a second chance? Yeah? I mean you said it was

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Speaker 1: And then she calls her mom right then and there,

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Speaker 1: Here we go, Oh god, hello, Hi is this Naomi? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: This is her? Hey Naomi? How are you? This is

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Speaker 1: Jewbil from the radio show Brook and Jewil in the Morning.

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Speaker 1: What this is Jewbil from Brook and Jewil in the Morning.

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Speaker 1: What's going on? Not much? Just hanging out? What's going

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Speaker 1: on with you? How you doing? Man? What's you up

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Speaker 1: to to date? Girl? No? I mean like, why are

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Speaker 1: you guys calling me? Oh? Okay, I missed the point. Sorry,

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Speaker 1: we got an email about you from one of our listeners.

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Speaker 1: It's a dude who wants to do a second date update.

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Speaker 1: Do you have any idea who might have email us?

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Speaker 1: I mean, I went on a date recently, but I

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Speaker 1: don't know why he'd email a radio station. What was

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Speaker 1: his name? Justin? That's it. Justin emailed us because he

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Speaker 1: said he really enjoyed going out with you, but now

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Speaker 1: assuming again? Sorry, get back to your dream. What was

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Speaker 1: but then afterwards it went straight to us in court

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Speaker 1: I mean, when I woke up, it was really unsettling,

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Speaker 1: Right Wait, hold on, whoa You dreamt that you got

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna hop in here. Wait what Yeah, Naomi, that's Justin.

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Speaker 1: He's actually been on the other line. Listen, I wants

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Speaker 1: to talk to you. Oh my god, wait, are you joking? No,

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Speaker 1: We will pay for it. Yeah, you didn't dream that,

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