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Speaker 1: This is Mandy be Welcome to Selective Ignorance, a production

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Speaker 1: of the BLACKPEC Podcast Network and Iart Radio. Welcome back,

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Speaker 1: classmates to another episode of Selective Ignorance bonus style, Baby,

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Speaker 1: and we are doing another am I Ignorant? Now It's Friday,

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Speaker 1: which hopefully means Heyday for some of you. Nicholas. Now,

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Speaker 1: in my am I Ignorant rant this week, it's not

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Speaker 1: about me being ignorant, and it's also not about me

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Speaker 1: not wanting these people to get paid. But at this point,

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Speaker 1: speaking of payday, some of you do not deserve a check.

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Speaker 1: And I'm calling out the uber drivers of Atlanta. Now

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Speaker 1: this could be in other major cities as well. However,

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Speaker 1: I was just living in New York City and I

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Speaker 1: didn't seem to have this goddamn problem, the problem that

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Speaker 1: I'm having. And boy, I need y'all to tell me

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Speaker 1: if I'm overreacting or not, because Baby, the only ignorant

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Speaker 1: thought right now I have is how I'm ready for

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Speaker 1: the fucking robots to bring their asses on over way

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Speaker 1: more about to see way mo of me? Okay, if

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Speaker 1: I keep having this problem in Atlanta. So this is

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Speaker 1: something that has been brewing probably since I've moved here,

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Speaker 1: so I've been sitting on this for a fucking year,

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Speaker 1: and this week it happened in like four cars. So

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Speaker 1: here we are. Let me know if I am overreacting

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Speaker 1: to the fact that these uber drivers feel the need

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Speaker 1: to have full blown personal conversations when I'm in the vehicle.

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Speaker 1: Are you not on the clock? Are you not working?

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Speaker 1: Is it old school to have the mindset that when

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Speaker 1: you were doing a job that you shouldn't be taking

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Speaker 1: personal calls. Now here's the other problem with it, bitch,

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Speaker 1: I'm getting into the car and I got a call.

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Speaker 1: Why does it sound like I'm in the clurb shouting

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Speaker 1: over somebody else's conversation to have a conversation on my

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Speaker 1: phone when I am paying, When I am paying to

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Speaker 1: sit here in your paying school. Yes, the pause was

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Speaker 1: intentional because it just really grinded my gears. Make it

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Speaker 1: make sense. I don't know if I should start complaining.

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Speaker 1: I don't want niggas to like knock my stars down

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Speaker 1: for telling them to get off their motherfucking phones, because yes,

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Speaker 1: I'm also in their motherfucking car, But also, this is

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Speaker 1: a motherfucking job. What's happening here? And then that's the

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Speaker 1: other thing, these phone calls are not appropriate. WHOA, Yes

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Speaker 1: coming from me, I'm calling bro. I got on the

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Speaker 1: phone with this one girl and she talking to her

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Speaker 1: homegirl about a nigga that's playing. Where Why am I here? Bitch?

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Speaker 1: You just don't need to even be fucking with that

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Speaker 1: nigga no more because whoa and the curse words. So

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Speaker 1: we're on the phone and using profanity on the clock.

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Speaker 1: And I guess, because it's like a ten ninety nine

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Speaker 1: entrepreneurial kind of gig, there ain't really no HR. But

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Speaker 1: call me Karen, bitch, I'm about to be HR on now.

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Speaker 1: Next time I get in a motherfucking car and a

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Speaker 1: motherfucking uber driver decides to have a personal conversation, you

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Speaker 1: know what, I need y'all to join me on the discord.

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Speaker 1: Head on over to the discord if you haven't, y'all.

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Speaker 1: Discord access is granted to patrons, so if you haven't yet,

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Speaker 1: Now do I tell the driver to get off their phone?

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Speaker 1: Or do I just leave them overview one star and

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Speaker 1: write that they were on the phone, Like, which one

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Speaker 1: do you think I'll get? More? Like if I leave

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Speaker 1: enough one star reviews cause niggas is talking on the phone,

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Speaker 1: maybe it'll impact something. Maybe they don't get a bonus

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Speaker 1: for that week. I don't know, but I'm about to

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Speaker 1: start doing one or the other, because baby, get off

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Speaker 1: your phone. Anywo If y'all take ubers or lifts and

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Speaker 1: you're having the same problem, please tell me. I would

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Speaker 1: like to know. And also before I get into the

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Speaker 1: AMTI ignorant letters, if you haven't yet, send yours over

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Speaker 1: to Selective Ignorance Pod at gmail dot com so we

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Speaker 1: can talk about how ignorant you. Niglas is now really

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Speaker 1: excited about this first one because we are heading into

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Speaker 1: Christmas season, Christmas, Hanukah, Kwanza, whatever you celebrate. It's the

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Speaker 1: gift given time. And this first one I'm assuming is

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Speaker 1: a birthday gift. But wow, let's get into it. Did

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Speaker 1: I miss the mark? All right? So my best friend

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Speaker 1: has been on a huge healthy lifestyle kick, meal prepping,

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Speaker 1: gym classes, the whole thing. For her birthday, I got

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Speaker 1: always loved baking and making treats. I thought it would

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Speaker 1: be nostalgic in something she could enjoy on cheat days.

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Speaker 1: She politely thanked me, but later I heard from another

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Speaker 1: friend that she was disappointed because it felt like I

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Speaker 1: wasn't supporting her lifestyle change. I wasn't trying to undermine her.

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Speaker 1: I genuinely thought it would make her happy. Am I

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Speaker 1: ignorant for not realizing how my gift might clash with

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Speaker 1: her current goals? Now, bitch, you know what? The now

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Speaker 1: bitch may have to be the introduction to you know,

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Speaker 1: you an ignorant as motherfucker. And honestly, this made me

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Speaker 1: think you not really her friend. I ain't even gonna

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Speaker 1: hold you story time because I'm going to share with

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Speaker 1: you something that is completely unintentional and how I would

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Speaker 1: have never done it. And this is the scenario I

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Speaker 1: want you to sit in. Right, So when was it?

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Speaker 1: This was maybe like twenty fourteen, twenty fifteen. I actually

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Speaker 1: bought a gift for like my little booth thang. I'm

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Speaker 1: gonna call it my booth thang. It was a little situationship.

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Speaker 1: He was like my little nigga. He was my nigga

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Speaker 1: that basically wasn't going nowhere right, And we used to

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Speaker 1: get fucked up together. You hear me. We partied, we

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Speaker 1: were rock stars. We could kill a bottle by ourselves

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Speaker 1: falling out a little bit over something. So there were

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Speaker 1: a few months I didn't talk to him. We ended

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Speaker 1: up rekindling right around the time of his birthday. Okay,

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Speaker 1: So I sent a gift to his house. It's one

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Speaker 1: of them nice little kgnac sets again twenty fourteen, twenty fifteen.

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Speaker 1: Bitch's back when it bitch was drinking hennessy. Okay, so

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Speaker 1: I sent him this cute ass KGNAK sipping set with

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Speaker 1: and all that shit. He gets it, and I could

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Speaker 1: tell there was an awkward, polite thank you. But bitch,

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Speaker 1: I didn't know that this nigga was going sober and

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Speaker 1: had just got out of AA. My heart sunk because

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Speaker 1: imagine this here. Imagine you get a recovering alcoholic or

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Speaker 1: someone battling an addiction, the thing that they have to

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Speaker 1: the Nigga went to AA and I completely know how

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Speaker 1: inappropriate that gift would have been had I gotten this

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Speaker 1: information prior. You, bitch, know that your friend is on

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Speaker 1: a healthy lifestyle kick where they're going to gym classes,

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Speaker 1: me take these puffers up from under my eye. Not

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Speaker 1: only is you ignorant, not even selectively, bitch, you ignorant

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Speaker 1: If you intentionally get somebody something that goes against what

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Speaker 1: And at this point, you ignorant, and you kind of

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Speaker 1: an ain't shit person. I ain't even gonna hold you

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Speaker 1: because wow, because wow, I'm glad that you had another

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Speaker 1: friend that could come and let you know, but don't

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Speaker 1: do this shit again. And at this point, I actually

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Speaker 1: do think that you owe your friend not only an apology,

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Speaker 1: some get us some some classes. Get her a B

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Speaker 1: twelve shot, get her like an IV drip. I don't

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Speaker 1: need to get her something else in replacement of this

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Speaker 1: hope that you go into the new year a better

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Speaker 1: person and a better friend, because goddamn, goddamn, goddamn. All right,

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Speaker 1: let's see what else we have. Ooh, I like this one.

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Speaker 1: I like this one, especially around this time of year

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Speaker 1: as well, because baby, work life balance, work life balance

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Speaker 1: six seven sixty seven, you know, is it a thing?

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Speaker 1: All right? So the title for this email is work

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Speaker 1: life boundary blind spot question mark. All right, Hey, Mandy,

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Speaker 1: So I worked in a fast paced industry let's say

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Speaker 1: tech adjacent. But I've been really intentional about protecting my

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Speaker 1: evenings because I burned out horribly at my past job. Bitch,

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Speaker 1: is this internet? Let me find out internet? Right in?

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Speaker 1: Because this is what it sound like. So after five PM,

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Speaker 1: twenty or seven like many others. I thought I was

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Speaker 1: Am I ignorant about what's realistically expected in my field?

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Speaker 1: Or are they just too used to burn out culture?

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Speaker 1: back to my life. And here's why, Because people who

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Speaker 1: If it's not from their personal life experience, I'd be

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Speaker 1: wanting to know. But I actually had something very similar

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