WEBVTT - 2nd Date Update PODCAST: Einstein Is Gone

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<v Speaker 1>Second date update. You know a lot of people bring

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<v Speaker 1>things to a date, like flowers, candy, duct tape. Sometimes

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<v Speaker 1>it's good to bring a surprise for the person you're

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<v Speaker 1>going on a date with. Melanie, who's on the phone

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<v Speaker 1>for a second date update right now, got surprised with

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<v Speaker 1>something on her date that I'm not sure most people

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<v Speaker 1>would like. And I don't even really know if Melanie

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<v Speaker 1>liked it, but we'll find out what it is in

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<v Speaker 1>just a second. What's up, Melanie, How are you hey?

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<v Speaker 1>I'm good? How are you pretty good? So, first, tell

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<v Speaker 1>us about the guy that you went out with. What's

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<v Speaker 1>his name? His name is Anthony, and man, he's a

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<v Speaker 1>really really sweet guy. We met on a dating app

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<v Speaker 1>and we had chatted for a bit ahead of time,

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<v Speaker 1>and this is the first time we were going out.

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<v Speaker 1>What were you feeling leading up to your first in

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<v Speaker 1>person date with him? I was feeling really good. I

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<v Speaker 1>was feeling optimistic. He's scared. Well. I think that many

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<v Speaker 1>people who have dated has felt that too. Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't have any of that usual like trepidation. I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>He just seemed really kind, all right. And how did

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<v Speaker 1>the date go? Well, I would say it didn't go great,

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<v Speaker 1>but really it was kind of a disaster. It wasn't

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<v Speaker 1>his fault, it wasn't my fault. It was just kind

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<v Speaker 1>of what happened. What happened? Now, I'm so curious. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>we went to this like one of those Japanese hibachi restaurants,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, like where they like cook in front of you. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>So we met at the restaurant and he's like, let's

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<v Speaker 1>just like step outside for a second. And I was like, oh, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>and he said he had this surprise for me, and

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, oh boy, maybe I was wrong about

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<v Speaker 1>this not being weird. But we went outside and he

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<v Speaker 1>opens his jacket and on the inside of his jacket,

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<v Speaker 1>like sticking out of one of the inside pockets, there's

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<v Speaker 1>a hamster. What Yeah, wait, he brought a hamster to

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<v Speaker 1>a habachi restaurant. I know it sounds maybe like odd,

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<v Speaker 1>but it was actually really cute. So the hamster's name

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<v Speaker 1>is Einstein, and so I guess Einstein wasn't feeling well

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<v Speaker 1>earlier that day. So he was like, I didn't want

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<v Speaker 1>to cancel, but I felt bad leaving Einstein at home.

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<v Speaker 1>And it was just it was I don't even know.

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<v Speaker 1>If a hamster sick, you get little hamster pute. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know. He wasn't running in his little wheel like

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<v Speaker 1>he always does. That's what Anthony told me. And he's like,

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<v Speaker 1>he just looked so sad. And I was like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>that's so sweet that you, like, were so in tune

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<v Speaker 1>with your your little buddy. Okay, so sick hamster. Awesome

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<v Speaker 1>points for him, apparently, Yeah, he was just being thoughtful.

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<v Speaker 1>So also get a table at the restaurant. We maybe

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<v Speaker 1>kept him in the jacket. Yeah, rodents in restaurants usually

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<v Speaker 1>not a good mix. I don't know. So what happened,

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<v Speaker 1>Like you said, something terrible happened. Well, yeah, so we're

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<v Speaker 1>sitting down, we're eating dinner, we're just having a really

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<v Speaker 1>great time, really good conversation, great connection, and at one

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<v Speaker 1>point I just looked over and Anthony just looked really weird.

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<v Speaker 1>He looked like something was wrong. I didn't really know

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<v Speaker 1>what was happening, and he just leaned in and he

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<v Speaker 1>whispers in my ear that Einstein is gone, like he died.

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<v Speaker 1>He wasn't in his pocket anymore. Oh, I thought like

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<v Speaker 1>he knew that the hampster passed on in his jacket. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>so it broke my heart because like I obviously knew

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<v Speaker 1>how much Einstein met to Anthony. So he's terrified and

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<v Speaker 1>he's like freaking out, but liked to still be like

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<v Speaker 1>cool and just you know, oh my god, what did

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<v Speaker 1>you do? You tell the waiter? I'm sorry our pet

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<v Speaker 1>hamster got loose in here. We didn't tell anybody at first,

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<v Speaker 1>because like we figured maybe we could just find him

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<v Speaker 1>on our own, and like, yeah, you don't want to

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<v Speaker 1>tell everybody that there's a rodent running around in there

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<v Speaker 1>and having free Yeah, so we didn't want to like

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<v Speaker 1>let anybody know. So we kind of like started taking turns,

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<v Speaker 1>like kind of you know, casually peeking under chairs and

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<v Speaker 1>like wondering throughout the restaurant. Like we ordered to extra

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<v Speaker 1>desserts just to stay a little bit longer so we

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<v Speaker 1>could keep looking. Did you ever find Einstein? No, you

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<v Speaker 1>never found him. We never found him. I mean we

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<v Speaker 1>probably looked for over an hour, hour and a like

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<v Speaker 1>we were looking for a long time. What did he do.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, for a dude that would like his hampster

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<v Speaker 1>so much he'd take it into a restaurant if it

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<v Speaker 1>had the sniffles. I'm sure he was beside himself that

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<v Speaker 1>he couldn't find him. He looked so defeated, like it

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<v Speaker 1>was like the saddest thing I've ever heard. Yeah, he

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<v Speaker 1>lost his little buddy. Yeah, so how'd you guys end everything? Then?

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't really know what else to do for him,

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<v Speaker 1>so he just wanted to go home. So he left

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<v Speaker 1>and I left, and I just wow, Yeah, that was

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<v Speaker 1>just a little over a week ago now. And have

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<v Speaker 1>you gotten any update from him if he did in

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<v Speaker 1>fact called the restaurant or fine Einstein or I've been

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<v Speaker 1>trying to contact him and I texted him and he

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<v Speaker 1>just wrote back, no, just one word, no nothing, did

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<v Speaker 1>you respond to anything else? Or that's all you've heard

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<v Speaker 1>from was just the no. That's all that I've heard

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<v Speaker 1>from him. And I've tried to contact him again, Like

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<v Speaker 1>I just I want to be there for him because,

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<v Speaker 1>like I mean, even though I don't know him very well,

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<v Speaker 1>like we had such a great time leading up to

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<v Speaker 1>that point, and I mean it was I had never

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<v Speaker 1>experienced anything like that before. I mean, as cute as

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<v Speaker 1>it was, it was obviously different. I had never had

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<v Speaker 1>someone pull a hamster out of their pocket before. All right, well,

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<v Speaker 1>well we'll play a song and then come back and

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<v Speaker 1>call him and see if we get update on the

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<v Speaker 1>hamster and maybe get you a second date. Okay, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>thank you. Yeah, hang on frooking jubil in the morning,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm calling today's second date update. It's a curious case

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<v Speaker 1>of the missing Hamster. If you missed the first part.

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<v Speaker 1>Melanie is on the phone and she wants to call

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<v Speaker 1>a dude named Anthony. They went out to a restaurant

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<v Speaker 1>to eat, and he brought along his pet hamster. Yeah

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<v Speaker 1>you heard me right. Sounds weird, but she actually liked it.

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<v Speaker 1>But during dinner, the hamster escaped from his jacket and

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<v Speaker 1>they could not find him in the restaurant. So there's

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<v Speaker 1>a hamster name Einstein wandering around some Habachi restaurants somewhere,

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<v Speaker 1>probably eating great, way better than he was before. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I can more exciting you guys. And she hasn't really

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<v Speaker 1>heard from Anthony since that date, other than when she

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<v Speaker 1>texted him to ask if he found Einstein, and he

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<v Speaker 1>just responded no, and that's all she's heard from him.

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<v Speaker 1>So we're about to get him on the phone and

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<v Speaker 1>find out if she can get another date. But more importantly,

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<v Speaker 1>no disrespect to you, but I just want to see

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<v Speaker 1>if Einstein has been found. If not, then I'm going

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<v Speaker 1>to start writing a new Netflix documentary. I hope that

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<v Speaker 1>he gets found as well. I hope that there's going

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<v Speaker 1>to be great news from Anthony. Well, don't you think.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, it's been a week. I understand that this

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<v Speaker 1>guy's upset, but I also feel like he should thank

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<v Speaker 1>you for all the time and effort you also put

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<v Speaker 1>into looking for this hamster. I'm just trying to think

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<v Speaker 1>about if it was me and you're grieving, you're upset,

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<v Speaker 1>So I'm just trying to like let him have his

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<v Speaker 1>space that he needs. But I just do want him

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<v Speaker 1>to know that I'm here to support him. Okay, all right,

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<v Speaker 1>here we go. Well I'm gonna die this one of

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<v Speaker 1>her right now. Okay, okay, maybe the hamster answers the phone.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, here we go. Hello, Hi, can I speak

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<v Speaker 1>to Anthony please speaking? Is this the Anthony that went

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<v Speaker 1>to Halbachi restaurant a little while ago, And who's hamster

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<v Speaker 1>got loose? A who is this first? I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>if this is the right Anthony. Well, can you tell

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<v Speaker 1>me who's calling? Please? Sure? This is Jewil from Brook

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<v Speaker 1>and Jewil in the Morning. It's a radio show. Okay, Hi, Hi,

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<v Speaker 1>how are you? I'm fine? Why are you calling about

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<v Speaker 1>my hamster? Do you know where he is? No? I don't.

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<v Speaker 1>I would love to find out, though. I'm actually calling

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<v Speaker 1>because we do a segment on a show called The

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<v Speaker 1>Second Date Update, and Melanie emailed us. She told us

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<v Speaker 1>about your date with your hamster Einstein, and said that

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<v Speaker 1>she's tried to start talking to you again, but you

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<v Speaker 1>haven't really been responding to anything. Yeah, yeah, I know, Melanie. Wow,

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<v Speaker 1>that sounds like you don't like Melanie. Well, she's the

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<v Speaker 1>reason why my hamster got loose in the first place,

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<v Speaker 1>So why is the reason? Because she said you took

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<v Speaker 1>the hamster in your coat pocket to a restaurant, it

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<v Speaker 1>sounds like maybe that decision is the reason. That is

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<v Speaker 1>not the reason. I have taken him plenty of places

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<v Speaker 1>before that, and he's always been fine. I was having

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<v Speaker 1>dinner with Melanie and she is actually a pretty floppy eater,

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<v Speaker 1>and food was like falling down in her lap. There

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<v Speaker 1>were crumbs and pieces of rice like falling onto the floor.

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<v Speaker 1>And Einstein, which is my hamster's name, Einstein loves that stuff.

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<v Speaker 1>I even said to her, I said, hey, be careful,

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<v Speaker 1>you know you're doing a lot. You're getting food all

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<v Speaker 1>over the place. He's like, oh, it's fine, don't worry

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<v Speaker 1>about it. Whatever. And suddenly I looked down and now

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<v Speaker 1>Einstein's gone, whoa. Okay again, if your hamster can't control

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<v Speaker 1>himself in a restaurant, then you probably shouldn't have brought

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<v Speaker 1>him in a restaurant. I don't think that that's her fault. Still,

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<v Speaker 1>So you blame her for your hamster being lost? Yeah, well,

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<v Speaker 1>she never took responsibility for it. She helped me look

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<v Speaker 1>for him, which was nice, but it was her fault

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<v Speaker 1>the whole time. He's never once said, oh, hey, i'm

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I'm sorry that I didn't I'm sorry that

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<v Speaker 1>I let your hamster get loose. But okay, wait, hold on,

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<v Speaker 1>if that's your theory. If that's your theory, the reason

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<v Speaker 1>why your hamster got loses because he saw Melanie spilled

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<v Speaker 1>food everywhere, Why wouldn't you be able to look down

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<v Speaker 1>and see the hamster then eating Melanie's food. I just

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<v Speaker 1>know that that's something that he likes, and you know

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<v Speaker 1>he'll go for that. But obviously he didn't because he

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't there, Like he was gone. He didn't go for that.

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<v Speaker 1>He ran away. Excuse me, who are you? Okay? I

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<v Speaker 1>just lost my hamster. You're putting me on glass right now.

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<v Speaker 1>I have to have that hamster for almost five years.

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<v Speaker 1>They say hamster's only lives to three and a half

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<v Speaker 1>and he's almost five. Wow, he's an old guy. I

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<v Speaker 1>know you're hurt. I just don't think that it's her fault.

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<v Speaker 1>That's all in. There's her fault, all right, and she

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<v Speaker 1>owes me. I've been through so many hard times that

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<v Speaker 1>Einstein has always been there for me. He's as an

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<v Speaker 1>elderly hamster, and I didn't want to take my eyes

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<v Speaker 1>off him. He was a little sick that night, so

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<v Speaker 1>I wanted to bring him in. Whatever. It's just it's

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<v Speaker 1>not fair. Not fair. Well, I'm sorry, it's not. Now

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<v Speaker 1>you're telling me it's my fault. Okay, I'm a bad

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<v Speaker 1>parent because I was the one who brought my hands

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<v Speaker 1>for someplace that I shouldn't have. It's definitely yeah, absolutely,

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<v Speaker 1>unless Melanie grabbed your hamster and like rolled it across

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<v Speaker 1>the floor. I don't see how it's really her fault.

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<v Speaker 1>Obviously she didn't purposefully do it, but it is her fault,

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<v Speaker 1>and I just wanted her to take responsibility for it

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<v Speaker 1>and say something. Oh, come on, why didn't you tell

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<v Speaker 1>her that? Then? If you're that passionate about her taking

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<v Speaker 1>the blame for this, why didn't you talk to her

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<v Speaker 1>about it? I was in grief. What am I supposed

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<v Speaker 1>to do? How to shouting at her at that time

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<v Speaker 1>make her not look for it? Yeah? Okay, So I

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<v Speaker 1>guess you've moved on. You're in a different stage of

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<v Speaker 1>grief now, and I guess you can shout at her

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<v Speaker 1>because she's actually on the other line listening and wants

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<v Speaker 1>to talk to you. Yep, Melanie, you still there? Are

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<v Speaker 1>you scared? Now? I'm here? Okay, I'm here. Wait, hold on,

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<v Speaker 1>you've been listening this whole time. Yeah? I heard you

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<v Speaker 1>say everything, And what do you have to say for

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<v Speaker 1>your else? I don't really understand why you think it's

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<v Speaker 1>appropriate for you to turn your anger to me. I

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<v Speaker 1>know that you're upset and you're hurting about losing Einstein.

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<v Speaker 1>I saw it that night. I stayed with you for

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<v Speaker 1>over an hour looking for him. Not because it was

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<v Speaker 1>my fault. I literally can't believe you would say such

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<v Speaker 1>a thing that you think because it was your fault.

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<v Speaker 1>I can't believe you're still saying it's not your fault.

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<v Speaker 1>All you had to do would say I'm sorry and

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<v Speaker 1>man up and say you know it's my fault. You

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<v Speaker 1>shouldn't have done these things. I'm sorry I did those things.

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<v Speaker 1>But Anthony, take a deep breath, because you're being you

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<v Speaker 1>sound crazy. So let's start there. This is not a

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<v Speaker 1>loss of family member. So what am I supposed to do? Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>you did. You're supposed to be angry that you lost

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<v Speaker 1>your family member, and you're not supposed to be blaming

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<v Speaker 1>me for something I didn't do. I thank you for

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<v Speaker 1>helping me find him, but you were just fixing a

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<v Speaker 1>situation that you caught and then you didn't even letter

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<v Speaker 1>and say I'm so sorry he's gone. You just said, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>did they find him yet? Yeah? And that was my tone.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you for putting my tone onto what I said,

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<v Speaker 1>because truly I wasn't tell surely I was texting you

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<v Speaker 1>with an attitude that's why I texted you. Oh my god,

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<v Speaker 1>if your friend's grandma dies, you just hext them and say, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>you find you called him and consoled him. Anthony, you

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<v Speaker 1>are not compared a missing hamster to a dead grandma.

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<v Speaker 1>It's not the same. I had hamsters, they both died.

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<v Speaker 1>You get over it. I mean, I don't mean to

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<v Speaker 1>be idea. Yes, boy, you have to be like life.

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<v Speaker 1>It has an end for everyone. And your hamster live

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<v Speaker 1>long well pastor we don't even know that I sign

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<v Speaker 1>is dead. You just got loosen the best life ever.

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<v Speaker 1>What have you done to actually find him? Did you

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<v Speaker 1>go back to the restaurant? Have you talked to the

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<v Speaker 1>stat I'm going to that restaurant editor day for lunch,

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<v Speaker 1>and I've called them and tried to explain it anonymously.

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<v Speaker 1>There's a bit of a language barrier, but every time

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<v Speaker 1>they tell them they think I let Luther Rath in there,

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<v Speaker 1>and I keep trying to tell them The'm like, no,

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<v Speaker 1>it's a pet mine. Like now you just round like racist,

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<v Speaker 1>so like, that's all my ram. We're working at the

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<v Speaker 1>front of the restaurant, spoke perfect English. You're just trying

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<v Speaker 1>to put the blame on everyone. Else, they don't understand you.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm making a mess. You made just this many crumbs

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<v Speaker 1>we were eating at a table together, Melanie. You know what,

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<v Speaker 1>I hear you saying a lot of stuff right now,

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<v Speaker 1>But the one thing I don't hear you saying is

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry. It's my fault. Oh my god, Wow, Anthony,

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like you're really missing out on a girl

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<v Speaker 1>who has been understanding, who's been compassionate, who didn't think

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<v Speaker 1>you were a total freak for bringing the hamster in

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<v Speaker 1>the first place on a first date. Why would I

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<v Speaker 1>be a freak for bringing a sick family member? Dude,

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<v Speaker 1>you brought a sick rodent in your pocket on a date.

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<v Speaker 1>That's weird. Dan, So what people bring dogs places all

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<v Speaker 1>the time? How is that any different? Answers are way

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<v Speaker 1>cleaner than dog. I don't know if that's true. I

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<v Speaker 1>will argue with you on that one, but I'm with

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<v Speaker 1>you on the dog thing. I guess that's your pat

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<v Speaker 1>and you want to take it out. But still, I

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<v Speaker 1>think you shouldn't blame Melanie for the entire thing. Oh really, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so you're on her side too, that's fine, that's fine.

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<v Speaker 1>I guess everybody's against you, Anthony. Yeah, everybody's against me.

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<v Speaker 1>You and my therapist should team up and say I'm

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<v Speaker 1>wrong all the time. You're in therapy too. Huh, learned

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<v Speaker 1>a lesson? Maybe you learned a lesson that you shouldn't

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<v Speaker 1>be bringing a hamster into a restaurant. Maybe next time

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<v Speaker 1>I'll just be with a clean eater and we'll be fine.

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<v Speaker 1>Nor Anthony, well you'll be eating alone a lot. Wait wait, wait, wait,

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<v Speaker 1>we got to get an official answer, Anthony, would you

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<v Speaker 1>like to go out with Melanie again on a second date?

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<v Speaker 1>We will pay for it hard path. I don't have

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<v Speaker 1>any more hamsers I can afford to loose, Melanie. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>guessing you're not heartbroken about that now, Oh, no, where

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<v Speaker 1>I'm good. I'm glad we cleared this up because wow,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, you'll never forget this though, momy no, not

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<v Speaker 1>for a very long time. Well, thank you both for

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<v Speaker 1>your time, And if anybody knows the hamster's whereabouts, please

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<v Speaker 1>send him away, please, I'm serious. If you see Einstein,

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<v Speaker 1>he's mostly white, a little bit of brown, auburn's hats

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<v Speaker 1>towards his head, and he's very sassy. Sassy little hamster

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<v Speaker 1>run around town. Make sure you snatch him up and

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<v Speaker 1>send him to the radio stations. Broken Jupil in the morning,