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Speaker 1: Second date update. You know a lot of people bring

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Speaker 1: things to a date, like flowers, candy, duct tape. Sometimes

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Speaker 1: it's good to bring a surprise for the person you're

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Speaker 1: going on a date with. Melanie, who's on the phone

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Speaker 1: for a second date update right now, got surprised with

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Speaker 1: something on her date that I'm not sure most people

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Speaker 1: liked it, but we'll find out what it is in

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Speaker 1: just a second. What's up, Melanie, How are you hey?

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Speaker 1: I'm good? How are you pretty good? So, first, tell

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Speaker 1: us about the guy that you went out with. What's

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Speaker 1: his name? His name is Anthony, and man, he's a

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Speaker 1: of what happened. What happened? Now, I'm so curious. Well,

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Speaker 1: we went to this like one of those Japanese hibachi restaurants,

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Speaker 1: So we met at the restaurant and he's like, let's

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Speaker 1: And it was just it was I don't even know.

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Speaker 1: Like you said, something terrible happened. Well, yeah, so we're

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Speaker 1: a dude named Anthony. They went out to a restaurant

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Speaker 1: to be great news from Anthony. Well, don't you think.

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Speaker 1: All right, here we go. Hello, Hi, can I speak

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Speaker 1: if this is the right Anthony. Well, can you tell

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Speaker 1: me who's calling? Please? Sure? This is Jewil from Brook

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Speaker 1: and Jewil in the Morning. It's a radio show. Okay, Hi, Hi,

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Speaker 1: how are you? I'm fine? Why are you calling about

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Speaker 1: if that's your theory. If that's your theory, the reason

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Speaker 1: if your friend's grandma dies, you just hext them and say, hey,

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Speaker 1: you find you called him and consoled him. Anthony, you

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Speaker 1: We will pay for it hard path. I don't have

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