1 00:00:00,200 --> 00:00:02,880 Speaker 1: The Frend Show is on it Stay or Go? 2 00:00:03,560 --> 00:00:07,640 Speaker 2: All right, Tom is here for Stay or Go? 3 00:00:07,640 --> 00:00:12,720 Speaker 1: Good morning Tom? How you doing? Hey, good morning Tom. 4 00:00:12,880 --> 00:00:16,239 Speaker 2: Let's hear what's going on with Clara, your girlfriend? You 5 00:00:16,280 --> 00:00:19,480 Speaker 2: So you're gonna tell us your scenario and then we're 6 00:00:19,520 --> 00:00:21,720 Speaker 2: all gonna tell you how to live your life. Please, 7 00:00:23,079 --> 00:00:23,640 Speaker 2: I can't wait. 8 00:00:24,000 --> 00:00:27,960 Speaker 3: Well, So, she recently went on a bachelor ate weekend 9 00:00:28,400 --> 00:00:32,400 Speaker 3: for one of her best friends who's getting married, and 10 00:00:33,720 --> 00:00:37,240 Speaker 3: I didn't hear from her at all while she was gone, 11 00:00:37,440 --> 00:00:38,400 Speaker 3: which is kind of unusual. 12 00:00:38,479 --> 00:00:40,120 Speaker 4: And she also didn't really have much to say about her 13 00:00:40,120 --> 00:00:42,640 Speaker 4: trip when she got home, and when I asked to 14 00:00:42,640 --> 00:00:47,120 Speaker 4: see photos, she said she didn't have any because you know, 15 00:00:47,159 --> 00:00:49,120 Speaker 4: they all agreed to stay off their phones and try 16 00:00:49,120 --> 00:00:52,720 Speaker 4: to live in the moment. And you know, she hasn't 17 00:00:52,720 --> 00:00:55,560 Speaker 4: posted anything from that trip on social media, and her 18 00:00:55,600 --> 00:00:58,840 Speaker 4: friends haven't either that I've seen, And you know, I 19 00:00:58,880 --> 00:01:04,440 Speaker 4: asked about this, like it seems off, and you know, 20 00:01:04,520 --> 00:01:06,160 Speaker 4: she was like, oh, we haven't even seen each other 21 00:01:06,200 --> 00:01:08,399 Speaker 4: since college, and so we just, like, you know, we 22 00:01:08,440 --> 00:01:10,840 Speaker 4: all just wanted to be in the moment. But I 23 00:01:10,880 --> 00:01:13,640 Speaker 4: don't know, like, do you think that's shady or. 24 00:01:14,080 --> 00:01:14,640 Speaker 1: Or what well. 25 00:01:14,640 --> 00:01:18,200 Speaker 2: I mean, Tom, if Claria your girlfriend is like Kiki, 26 00:01:18,680 --> 00:01:20,080 Speaker 2: where every moment. 27 00:01:19,920 --> 00:01:21,839 Speaker 1: Of every day is documented and then. 28 00:01:21,760 --> 00:01:24,199 Speaker 2: Three days go by, I mean I would honestly send, 29 00:01:24,360 --> 00:01:27,520 Speaker 2: I would send the Coastguard right to find Kiki. I 30 00:01:27,560 --> 00:01:30,280 Speaker 2: would send the authorities because I would be very concerned 31 00:01:30,640 --> 00:01:33,960 Speaker 2: over her well being. I would think she probably wasn't alive. Frankly, 32 00:01:34,319 --> 00:01:36,360 Speaker 2: if you didn't post on social media for three days, 33 00:01:36,400 --> 00:01:39,280 Speaker 2: I mean, it's your girlfriend, Tom, is she is? She 34 00:01:39,360 --> 00:01:42,120 Speaker 2: obsessive about social media normally, and then for this, all 35 00:01:42,120 --> 00:01:44,000 Speaker 2: of a sudden, she went silent or what's the deal? 36 00:01:45,280 --> 00:01:47,120 Speaker 4: I mean, she posts a few times a week, like 37 00:01:47,160 --> 00:01:49,320 Speaker 4: you know, she's not like con you know, some people 38 00:01:49,360 --> 00:01:52,440 Speaker 4: are like constantly like you know, posting multiple times. 39 00:01:52,520 --> 00:01:52,840 Speaker 2: She's not. 40 00:01:53,560 --> 00:01:55,160 Speaker 4: You know, she's not like that. She does she is 41 00:01:55,200 --> 00:01:57,440 Speaker 4: pretty active on social media. So I mean, yeah, I did. 42 00:01:57,560 --> 00:01:58,680 Speaker 5: I thought it was strange. 43 00:01:59,200 --> 00:02:02,160 Speaker 2: Did her friends post and she didn't or did no 44 00:02:02,360 --> 00:02:05,560 Speaker 2: one post? Like was it truly what she said? 45 00:02:05,600 --> 00:02:07,480 Speaker 1: It was? Where everybody put their phone down? 46 00:02:08,280 --> 00:02:09,960 Speaker 4: I mean that's why I don't know, because I haven't 47 00:02:09,960 --> 00:02:13,200 Speaker 4: seen a single picture from any any of the friends. 48 00:02:13,240 --> 00:02:14,400 Speaker 6: You know, I follow some. 49 00:02:14,280 --> 00:02:16,960 Speaker 4: Of her friends on social media. Too on Instagram and 50 00:02:16,960 --> 00:02:19,000 Speaker 4: TikTok and stuff, and I haven't seen I haven't seen 51 00:02:19,040 --> 00:02:21,200 Speaker 4: anything because I could. 52 00:02:21,040 --> 00:02:22,919 Speaker 2: Buy that, I guys, I could buy that. I could 53 00:02:23,000 --> 00:02:26,280 Speaker 2: buy that a group of adult women, men whomever go 54 00:02:26,320 --> 00:02:27,680 Speaker 2: on a trip and say, you know what, let's put 55 00:02:27,680 --> 00:02:30,640 Speaker 2: the phones down, because you know, everyone can get wrapped up. 56 00:02:30,680 --> 00:02:32,680 Speaker 2: And trust me, I've been at a dinner table before 57 00:02:32,680 --> 00:02:35,440 Speaker 2: with four people, six people, and everyone's looking at their 58 00:02:35,480 --> 00:02:37,960 Speaker 2: phone and not talking to one another, and so I 59 00:02:37,960 --> 00:02:41,240 Speaker 2: can see this. If no one posted, and if no 60 00:02:41,280 --> 00:02:45,600 Speaker 2: one has pictures, then I could see it. I've being 61 00:02:45,639 --> 00:02:47,440 Speaker 2: on the flip side though. I could see that she 62 00:02:47,520 --> 00:02:49,239 Speaker 2: never went on a bachelorette party and she has a 63 00:02:49,280 --> 00:02:49,919 Speaker 2: secret husband. 64 00:02:50,080 --> 00:02:50,919 Speaker 1: I can see that too. 65 00:02:51,560 --> 00:02:53,280 Speaker 2: And then she went on a trip, you know, to 66 00:02:53,320 --> 00:02:56,120 Speaker 2: see another man, or that, because people are texting right 67 00:02:56,160 --> 00:02:58,120 Speaker 2: now at eighty five five five nine one one h 68 00:02:58,200 --> 00:03:01,160 Speaker 2: three five that she cheated, I have no know how 69 00:03:01,200 --> 00:03:03,000 Speaker 2: you can jump to that. I don't know how you 70 00:03:03,000 --> 00:03:06,480 Speaker 2: can trust me. Plenty of people post everything and still cheap, 71 00:03:06,919 --> 00:03:08,280 Speaker 2: so I don't know that. I think the fact that 72 00:03:08,320 --> 00:03:10,440 Speaker 2: she didn't post and her friends didn't post for a 73 00:03:10,480 --> 00:03:13,680 Speaker 2: weekend leads directly to infidelity. 74 00:03:13,840 --> 00:03:14,320 Speaker 1: I don't know that. 75 00:03:14,360 --> 00:03:17,400 Speaker 2: It means that maybe if she were by herself, I 76 00:03:17,400 --> 00:03:20,560 Speaker 2: could see she was trying to hide her location or 77 00:03:20,639 --> 00:03:22,959 Speaker 2: something like that, or that she was maybe being deceptive 78 00:03:22,960 --> 00:03:25,440 Speaker 2: about what she was really doing. But if a big 79 00:03:25,480 --> 00:03:29,280 Speaker 2: group of women all decided on a bachelorette party not 80 00:03:29,360 --> 00:03:33,840 Speaker 2: to document and no one did I buy it, don't 81 00:03:33,880 --> 00:03:34,280 Speaker 2: you guys? 82 00:03:34,639 --> 00:03:37,040 Speaker 7: Or did they hide him from their story? 83 00:03:39,360 --> 00:03:47,840 Speaker 2: Also everyone did post, but they made it so sorry, 84 00:03:50,240 --> 00:03:50,880 Speaker 2: I believe it. 85 00:03:51,720 --> 00:03:55,080 Speaker 6: I went on a bachelor party before and I didn't learn, 86 00:03:55,200 --> 00:03:57,960 Speaker 6: Like I didn't contact Just at all, like during the 87 00:03:58,040 --> 00:03:58,640 Speaker 6: like like. 88 00:04:00,520 --> 00:04:03,200 Speaker 1: I mean, I like all the other guys. 89 00:04:03,200 --> 00:04:05,440 Speaker 6: When I texted Just and she's like, oh, what do 90 00:04:05,480 --> 00:04:05,760 Speaker 6: you like? 91 00:04:05,800 --> 00:04:07,200 Speaker 1: She was like what do you text me for? 92 00:04:07,360 --> 00:04:07,440 Speaker 3: Like? 93 00:04:07,520 --> 00:04:10,200 Speaker 1: Go have fun? You know what I'm saying to check. 94 00:04:10,120 --> 00:04:10,800 Speaker 8: In, isn't it? 95 00:04:10,880 --> 00:04:12,280 Speaker 1: Or I mean, but like if it's. 96 00:04:12,080 --> 00:04:14,800 Speaker 6: If it's the thing, like if the bride's like, hey man, 97 00:04:14,800 --> 00:04:17,720 Speaker 6: we're not doing social media this weekend, or the groom's like, 98 00:04:17,760 --> 00:04:19,520 Speaker 6: we're not doing social media this weekend, you know what 99 00:04:19,520 --> 00:04:19,880 Speaker 6: I'm saying. 100 00:04:19,920 --> 00:04:21,040 Speaker 1: That's that's what it is now. 101 00:04:21,279 --> 00:04:25,400 Speaker 2: I mean, do you know do you know I assume 102 00:04:25,440 --> 00:04:28,960 Speaker 2: you know the woman whose Batchelorrett party. It was yeah, 103 00:04:29,600 --> 00:04:31,640 Speaker 2: And do you believe it happened? Like, do you believe 104 00:04:31,680 --> 00:04:33,720 Speaker 2: there was a Bachelorrett party? Do you believe that they 105 00:04:33,760 --> 00:04:36,720 Speaker 2: all went and did exactly what she said they were 106 00:04:36,760 --> 00:04:40,760 Speaker 2: going to do, or is there a possibility that does 107 00:04:40,760 --> 00:04:42,360 Speaker 2: Does the rest of it not check out to you? 108 00:04:42,520 --> 00:04:44,719 Speaker 2: Are there other things about it that are sus or 109 00:04:44,720 --> 00:04:47,440 Speaker 2: do you believe that it happened? You're just not sure 110 00:04:47,480 --> 00:04:48,760 Speaker 2: why no one posted anything. 111 00:04:49,800 --> 00:04:51,640 Speaker 4: I mean, I want to believe that it happened, but 112 00:04:51,720 --> 00:04:53,640 Speaker 4: it's like a bunch of girls and like they're you know, 113 00:04:53,680 --> 00:04:55,440 Speaker 4: they're dressed up and they're at a resort. 114 00:04:55,680 --> 00:04:57,840 Speaker 3: Like why wouldn't there be a single photo? 115 00:04:58,120 --> 00:04:59,479 Speaker 1: One photo exactly? 116 00:04:59,640 --> 00:05:01,719 Speaker 7: Just it's like a personal photo that you don't post. 117 00:05:01,760 --> 00:05:02,280 Speaker 5: That's what I'm saying. 118 00:05:02,320 --> 00:05:04,360 Speaker 1: My girl Kaylen just came back from a bachelor at trip. 119 00:05:04,400 --> 00:05:07,320 Speaker 8: There's a lot of ash shaken and bottle slip, the sipping, 120 00:05:07,400 --> 00:05:09,240 Speaker 8: you know, all this cool stuff. It's like, you're gonna 121 00:05:09,279 --> 00:05:11,800 Speaker 8: tell me that they didn't do one picture even if 122 00:05:11,800 --> 00:05:12,840 Speaker 8: it wasn't the fun stuff. 123 00:05:12,880 --> 00:05:15,240 Speaker 6: What if the bride maybe she's the one that has 124 00:05:15,279 --> 00:05:16,760 Speaker 6: all the photos. Maybe she's the one that only had 125 00:05:16,760 --> 00:05:17,480 Speaker 6: a phone. You know what I'm saying. 126 00:05:18,000 --> 00:05:23,640 Speaker 8: This is twenty twenty. You're not doing that, very sir. 127 00:05:23,279 --> 00:05:25,760 Speaker 1: Friends, this is a different group of friends. No, No, 128 00:05:25,839 --> 00:05:31,800 Speaker 1: she's got lame friends. Tom needs to talk to the fiance. 129 00:05:31,960 --> 00:05:33,599 Speaker 1: May do you are you friends with the dude? 130 00:05:33,839 --> 00:05:34,400 Speaker 8: You think? 131 00:05:34,560 --> 00:05:36,840 Speaker 1: Can you ask the guy Kiki here? 132 00:05:36,880 --> 00:05:41,240 Speaker 2: I am so thank you, thank you, Kiki, thank you 133 00:05:41,960 --> 00:05:42,600 Speaker 2: Jesus K. 134 00:05:42,880 --> 00:05:48,320 Speaker 1: What do you think? It's very yeah? Right, yeah, last time. 135 00:05:48,720 --> 00:05:50,400 Speaker 2: This is the last time I put him in That's 136 00:05:50,400 --> 00:05:53,080 Speaker 2: not true, but it's gonna be one of the last. 137 00:05:56,000 --> 00:05:58,520 Speaker 8: Had done this before for me, Tell that he's been 138 00:05:58,560 --> 00:06:01,359 Speaker 8: on a trip doing some sneaky yeah, and turn his 139 00:06:01,440 --> 00:06:05,480 Speaker 8: phone in location off because he's too passionate about this, sir, 140 00:06:06,120 --> 00:06:10,000 Speaker 8: as your very trusted friend here, this is very suspicious. Okay, 141 00:06:10,160 --> 00:06:12,960 Speaker 8: someone needs to show you a proof of a bachelorette 142 00:06:13,080 --> 00:06:15,880 Speaker 8: something before you can go any further with her, because 143 00:06:15,880 --> 00:06:17,520 Speaker 8: this is very suspicious. 144 00:06:17,560 --> 00:06:19,279 Speaker 2: I need to see a penis veil. I need to 145 00:06:19,279 --> 00:06:22,279 Speaker 2: see something. I need to see a blown up inflatable wang. 146 00:06:22,360 --> 00:06:25,240 Speaker 2: I got to show me something, bachelorette, immediately show me 147 00:06:25,320 --> 00:06:28,600 Speaker 2: matching shirts that say you know, bride'smaiden bride on it. 148 00:06:28,640 --> 00:06:31,520 Speaker 2: You know show me something, show me matching outfits, show 149 00:06:31,560 --> 00:06:34,919 Speaker 2: me show me something. Yeah, but I know, in not 150 00:06:34,960 --> 00:06:37,200 Speaker 2: all honesty, I think it's weird. 151 00:06:37,440 --> 00:06:38,120 Speaker 1: I wouldn't like it. 152 00:06:38,120 --> 00:06:40,240 Speaker 2: If I were in a relationship with somebody and she 153 00:06:40,320 --> 00:06:43,520 Speaker 2: were traveling, I would at least like to know that 154 00:06:43,560 --> 00:06:48,000 Speaker 2: she got there safely. I don't need a constant check in. 155 00:06:48,080 --> 00:06:49,280 Speaker 2: But I do think it's weird if you be in 156 00:06:49,320 --> 00:06:52,040 Speaker 2: a relationship with somebody for a while to not even 157 00:06:52,080 --> 00:06:53,200 Speaker 2: say like, hey, I'm here. 158 00:06:53,760 --> 00:06:54,640 Speaker 1: You know I made it. 159 00:06:54,640 --> 00:06:56,359 Speaker 2: We're here at the hotel, we're having a good time, 160 00:06:57,000 --> 00:06:59,680 Speaker 2: you know, just something so that you okay, Well she's 161 00:06:59,720 --> 00:07:03,440 Speaker 2: all right, Because if if that didn't happen, I might 162 00:07:03,480 --> 00:07:05,840 Speaker 2: be like, well, why didn't that happen? Like what, why 163 00:07:05,880 --> 00:07:08,279 Speaker 2: wouldn't you tell me? What do you think I'm gonna 164 00:07:08,600 --> 00:07:11,720 Speaker 2: trace the call or something like GEO tagging you or 165 00:07:12,080 --> 00:07:12,760 Speaker 2: I don't I don't know. 166 00:07:12,920 --> 00:07:13,720 Speaker 1: I guess I wouldn't. 167 00:07:13,760 --> 00:07:15,360 Speaker 2: That would be the part that would throw me off 168 00:07:15,520 --> 00:07:17,840 Speaker 2: is like you don't even care if I worry about 169 00:07:17,840 --> 00:07:20,560 Speaker 2: you all weekend, Like if you, I mean, were you 170 00:07:20,680 --> 00:07:23,000 Speaker 2: on the n H three seventy flight, did you disappear 171 00:07:23,040 --> 00:07:23,600 Speaker 2: into the ocean? 172 00:07:23,640 --> 00:07:25,680 Speaker 1: I mean I don't know what happened to you. I need, 173 00:07:25,800 --> 00:07:26,040 Speaker 1: I need. 174 00:07:26,120 --> 00:07:27,960 Speaker 2: I want to know that you're safe. I think that's 175 00:07:28,000 --> 00:07:30,560 Speaker 2: the least you could do for someone who loves you. 176 00:07:30,680 --> 00:07:33,680 Speaker 2: But I don't know if it means that she's cheating. 177 00:07:33,760 --> 00:07:35,440 Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't think all that. But like you said, 178 00:07:35,480 --> 00:07:37,440 Speaker 1: though too, like it is twenty twenty three, Rey Gigi, 179 00:07:37,600 --> 00:07:39,720 Speaker 1: So it's like we are we stay on our phones. 180 00:07:40,000 --> 00:07:44,480 Speaker 8: Aim in the story a Facebook check in at the restaurant. 181 00:07:44,440 --> 00:07:47,360 Speaker 1: Something like possible not to do anything? 182 00:07:47,720 --> 00:07:51,360 Speaker 6: How what do you mean you turn your phone off 183 00:07:51,400 --> 00:07:52,720 Speaker 6: and you just have a good weekend. 184 00:07:53,040 --> 00:07:54,640 Speaker 1: I don't be fine with that. 185 00:07:54,960 --> 00:07:57,760 Speaker 2: After I got the check in, tell me you got there, 186 00:07:57,920 --> 00:08:00,160 Speaker 2: and then the whole turning the phone off thing. Have 187 00:08:00,320 --> 00:08:03,080 Speaker 2: I admire the discipline, and I would be I would 188 00:08:03,080 --> 00:08:04,680 Speaker 2: be down to do that. I'd I would be down 189 00:08:04,760 --> 00:08:06,520 Speaker 2: to go on a trip with friends and say no 190 00:08:06,640 --> 00:08:07,920 Speaker 2: phones this weekend. I really would. 191 00:08:08,200 --> 00:08:10,000 Speaker 7: I mean, I leave my phone all the time, and 192 00:08:10,040 --> 00:08:11,480 Speaker 7: I stay off my phone. You guys know, I'll like 193 00:08:11,560 --> 00:08:13,560 Speaker 7: post stuff like like it's present day. 194 00:08:13,520 --> 00:08:15,080 Speaker 1: Later because I try to live in the moment. 195 00:08:15,600 --> 00:08:16,680 Speaker 8: But I do take like. 196 00:08:16,800 --> 00:08:20,040 Speaker 7: Personal stupid photos of my friends. You know, there is 197 00:08:20,280 --> 00:08:23,200 Speaker 7: something and I also would say like you gotta check in. 198 00:08:23,360 --> 00:08:24,280 Speaker 1: That's just respect. 199 00:08:25,120 --> 00:08:27,200 Speaker 2: All right, let me take you some calls. Tom, have 200 00:08:27,320 --> 00:08:29,120 Speaker 2: the radio on. We'll see what people say about you 201 00:08:29,200 --> 00:08:31,440 Speaker 2: behind your back, and have an amazing day. Good luck 202 00:08:31,480 --> 00:08:32,000 Speaker 2: with this, okay. 203 00:08:33,120 --> 00:08:35,079 Speaker 1: I appreciate you and thank you for calling. 204 00:08:35,120 --> 00:08:37,240 Speaker 2: Thanks for listening. Eight five five five nine one one 205 00:08:37,440 --> 00:08:41,800 Speaker 2: three five jose, Hi, jose, Hey, how you doing? Morning? 206 00:08:42,400 --> 00:08:44,280 Speaker 1: Hey man, I'm doing okay. How you doing? 207 00:08:45,440 --> 00:08:46,240 Speaker 9: I'm doing good. 208 00:08:46,440 --> 00:08:49,040 Speaker 1: I think you took a pill and he beat them. Man, 209 00:08:50,720 --> 00:08:52,880 Speaker 1: she took a pill, any besa and what did she 210 00:08:53,000 --> 00:08:54,200 Speaker 1: do after she took that pill? 211 00:08:55,400 --> 00:08:58,240 Speaker 5: And she doesn't you know who knows what happened after that? 212 00:08:58,440 --> 00:09:02,679 Speaker 1: Maybe they all did and they don't remember any of it, right, 213 00:09:04,200 --> 00:09:07,920 Speaker 1: they just I'm thinking they did something and they you 214 00:09:07,960 --> 00:09:09,520 Speaker 1: know who knows. They tell you all hooked up and 215 00:09:09,600 --> 00:09:14,040 Speaker 1: they're just like we gotta It was just one big, 216 00:09:14,280 --> 00:09:19,960 Speaker 1: huge train murdered somebody and no pictures. 217 00:09:20,200 --> 00:09:23,199 Speaker 2: Wow, Jose, I kind of like your theory. Have a 218 00:09:23,240 --> 00:09:26,880 Speaker 2: good day, man. I'm glad you called. They took they 219 00:09:26,960 --> 00:09:29,440 Speaker 2: took a pill. They all just did. They just they 220 00:09:29,520 --> 00:09:31,240 Speaker 2: never left the room. It was a bunch of women 221 00:09:31,400 --> 00:09:34,559 Speaker 2: just doing you know who knows what, and my goodness, 222 00:09:35,080 --> 00:09:41,040 Speaker 2: we can't believe it. Hey Lisa, Hi Lisa, good morning. 223 00:09:41,080 --> 00:09:43,160 Speaker 2: What happened here? So, just to recap if you're just 224 00:09:43,240 --> 00:09:45,920 Speaker 2: tuning in, Tom is concerned because his girlfriend went on 225 00:09:46,000 --> 00:09:49,240 Speaker 2: a bachelorette party, a bachelorette weekend, and and she said 226 00:09:49,559 --> 00:09:52,240 Speaker 2: that they all decided no phone weekend. They're putting the 227 00:09:52,240 --> 00:09:55,280 Speaker 2: phones away and not calling, that texting, not posting pictures, 228 00:09:55,320 --> 00:09:58,160 Speaker 2: whatever else. And now she's back and he's like, that 229 00:09:58,320 --> 00:10:00,480 Speaker 2: was that was sus? Like, what was really going on? 230 00:10:00,640 --> 00:10:01,199 Speaker 1: What do you think? 231 00:10:02,640 --> 00:10:07,160 Speaker 5: I think it's totally suspicious. Girls love to take pictures 232 00:10:07,200 --> 00:10:10,199 Speaker 5: of themselves and dress up, and in this dand age, 233 00:10:10,320 --> 00:10:13,280 Speaker 5: there's no way that they would have went on the trip. 234 00:10:13,400 --> 00:10:17,199 Speaker 5: I know because I did that myself back in the 235 00:10:17,320 --> 00:10:19,520 Speaker 5: late nineties, early two thousands. 236 00:10:19,600 --> 00:10:20,320 Speaker 1: O the late. 237 00:10:23,160 --> 00:10:24,040 Speaker 7: I went away. 238 00:10:24,080 --> 00:10:25,880 Speaker 5: I had a boyfriend, but I went to see my 239 00:10:25,960 --> 00:10:30,200 Speaker 5: ex boyfriend and all way in California and didn't call 240 00:10:30,920 --> 00:10:32,959 Speaker 5: or let him know I was safe, never took a picture, 241 00:10:33,080 --> 00:10:36,280 Speaker 5: never talked about the trip, and in this dandage, that would. 242 00:10:36,040 --> 00:10:36,839 Speaker 9: Be impossible to do. 243 00:10:37,440 --> 00:10:42,560 Speaker 2: So yeah, I mean, I will say, if he knows 244 00:10:42,640 --> 00:10:46,080 Speaker 2: her friends, then at some point he's going to come up, right, 245 00:10:46,200 --> 00:10:48,560 Speaker 2: It'll come up, like about the party and if everyone 246 00:10:48,640 --> 00:10:51,239 Speaker 2: else is if no one else talks about this bachelorette 247 00:10:51,240 --> 00:10:54,440 Speaker 2: party and she's the only one that then and then 248 00:10:54,480 --> 00:10:56,400 Speaker 2: I might be like, huh, what's going on? 249 00:10:56,679 --> 00:10:57,240 Speaker 1: You know what I mean? 250 00:10:57,320 --> 00:11:00,240 Speaker 2: Like maybe maybe there wasn't a bachelorette party, and I 251 00:11:00,320 --> 00:11:02,160 Speaker 2: have a feeling it's going to come up. And they 252 00:11:02,240 --> 00:11:05,120 Speaker 2: all went and just didn't stay, just didn't text all weekend. 253 00:11:07,000 --> 00:11:07,439 Speaker 5: I don't know. 254 00:11:09,600 --> 00:11:12,760 Speaker 6: You need to talk to the dudes, any other boyfriend 255 00:11:12,880 --> 00:11:15,199 Speaker 6: or the fiance that was in the that's you know, 256 00:11:15,280 --> 00:11:16,120 Speaker 6: in the relationship. 257 00:11:16,440 --> 00:11:19,199 Speaker 2: He get his answer that way, Lisa, thank you a 258 00:11:19,240 --> 00:11:23,080 Speaker 2: good day. Okay you No, I appreciate you. Uh yeah, 259 00:11:23,400 --> 00:11:25,839 Speaker 2: he could do that, I guess. I mean, I assume 260 00:11:25,880 --> 00:11:27,959 Speaker 2: he's friends with some of the other men in the 261 00:11:28,240 --> 00:11:29,000 Speaker 2: in the friend group. 262 00:11:29,080 --> 00:11:29,679 Speaker 1: I mean, you're right. 263 00:11:30,360 --> 00:11:33,360 Speaker 2: What did he call one of the other dudes like, hey, 264 00:11:33,360 --> 00:11:35,160 Speaker 2: you want to hang out this weekend? No, I'm hanging 265 00:11:35,200 --> 00:11:39,280 Speaker 2: out with my girlfriend this weekend. Like well sworn she 266 00:11:39,440 --> 00:11:43,880 Speaker 2: was in visa old girl Clara over here. But I 267 00:11:43,920 --> 00:11:47,079 Speaker 2: think Clara is an a visa with somebody else. Kendall 268 00:11:48,480 --> 00:11:50,559 Speaker 2: hy good morning, Hi Kendall. 269 00:11:50,320 --> 00:11:51,840 Speaker 1: Good morning. What do you think is going on? Stay 270 00:11:51,880 --> 00:11:52,640 Speaker 1: or go? By the way? 271 00:11:52,800 --> 00:11:56,920 Speaker 9: Okay, okay, So first off, love you guys every day. Second, 272 00:11:56,960 --> 00:12:01,240 Speaker 9: thank you. It does a little suspicious. But at my 273 00:12:01,400 --> 00:12:03,719 Speaker 9: vaster at party last year, so this was last year, 274 00:12:03,800 --> 00:12:07,720 Speaker 9: everyone has phones, TikTok whatnot? I asked the same thing. 275 00:12:08,160 --> 00:12:11,000 Speaker 9: It's not like I had any shippers or anything inappropriate, 276 00:12:11,080 --> 00:12:12,880 Speaker 9: but I hadn't seen some of the girls. I had 277 00:12:12,920 --> 00:12:16,199 Speaker 9: a friend from Australia and I just genuinely wanted to 278 00:12:16,320 --> 00:12:18,920 Speaker 9: spend time and be in the moment with my girls. 279 00:12:19,520 --> 00:12:22,719 Speaker 9: And the only person that took pictures and videos was 280 00:12:22,800 --> 00:12:24,920 Speaker 9: my mother, And I told her, since we were doing 281 00:12:25,040 --> 00:12:29,240 Speaker 9: drag paining karaoke, I didn't want them posted a lot 282 00:12:29,280 --> 00:12:31,719 Speaker 9: of respect to the drag queen and she asked that 283 00:12:31,840 --> 00:12:34,040 Speaker 9: as well. So we were like, that's fine, but nothing 284 00:12:34,080 --> 00:12:38,760 Speaker 9: inappropriate happened, you know, it just was a really fun time. 285 00:12:39,040 --> 00:12:41,839 Speaker 9: So I mean, it is a little strange not a 286 00:12:42,080 --> 00:12:45,240 Speaker 9: group photo was taken, but I also get that there 287 00:12:45,320 --> 00:12:46,959 Speaker 9: are times I just want to be with your girls, 288 00:12:47,200 --> 00:12:49,400 Speaker 9: Like it's okay to not have your. 289 00:12:49,360 --> 00:12:52,160 Speaker 2: Phone on you all the time, but with you about 290 00:12:52,160 --> 00:12:53,959 Speaker 2: the group photo, I would have thought there would have 291 00:12:53,960 --> 00:12:58,079 Speaker 2: been at least one group photo taken to commemorated. 292 00:12:58,679 --> 00:13:03,599 Speaker 9: Yeah, So, I mean I'd wait it out for a 293 00:13:03,679 --> 00:13:05,439 Speaker 9: little bit and then, you know, if you don't see 294 00:13:05,480 --> 00:13:07,440 Speaker 9: a photo in like a week or two, then I'd 295 00:13:07,440 --> 00:13:09,000 Speaker 9: probably bring it up again and be like, Okay, this 296 00:13:09,120 --> 00:13:11,960 Speaker 9: is really suspicious. You know, have that conversation. 297 00:13:12,520 --> 00:13:13,160 Speaker 5: There's got to be. 298 00:13:13,280 --> 00:13:14,280 Speaker 9: One group photo. 299 00:13:15,080 --> 00:13:17,640 Speaker 1: Yeah, all right, I want to see thank you. I 300 00:13:17,720 --> 00:13:20,360 Speaker 1: want to see what's on there. I have a good 301 00:13:20,440 --> 00:13:20,760 Speaker 1: jay ken. 302 00:13:20,960 --> 00:13:23,319 Speaker 7: I mean, if one of my friends tries to give 303 00:13:23,360 --> 00:13:26,000 Speaker 7: me a rule like I I she could ask. But 304 00:13:26,080 --> 00:13:28,199 Speaker 7: if someone tells me that I can't have my phone, 305 00:13:28,200 --> 00:13:30,920 Speaker 7: I would not like that red flag. I just think 306 00:13:31,160 --> 00:13:33,880 Speaker 7: you can't tell your adult friends like what they have 307 00:13:34,120 --> 00:13:34,319 Speaker 7: to do. 308 00:13:35,520 --> 00:13:38,839 Speaker 6: You can say your things at weddings investment parties, so 309 00:13:39,360 --> 00:13:43,120 Speaker 6: really yeah, like brides and they you know, make all 310 00:13:43,160 --> 00:13:44,120 Speaker 6: the rules and stuff like this. 311 00:13:44,280 --> 00:13:44,760 Speaker 1: So I don't know. 312 00:13:44,920 --> 00:13:47,839 Speaker 2: Well, on the flip side, if you were and I 313 00:13:47,920 --> 00:13:50,160 Speaker 2: don't know because I honestly have never cheated, but if 314 00:13:50,200 --> 00:13:53,559 Speaker 2: I were cheating and going out of town and concocting 315 00:13:53,640 --> 00:13:56,680 Speaker 2: this whole story about a bachelorette party, but whatever else, 316 00:13:56,760 --> 00:13:59,200 Speaker 2: I feel like I would try extra hard to communicate, 317 00:13:59,679 --> 00:14:01,320 Speaker 2: like to to cover my tracks. 318 00:14:01,400 --> 00:14:02,120 Speaker 1: I feel like I would. 319 00:14:02,160 --> 00:14:03,880 Speaker 2: If I were up to something, I would I would 320 00:14:04,280 --> 00:14:06,920 Speaker 2: go out of my way to make it look like 321 00:14:06,960 --> 00:14:08,840 Speaker 2: I wasn't, you know what I mean, Like if I were, 322 00:14:09,040 --> 00:14:10,599 Speaker 2: if I were not up to something, you know what 323 00:14:10,600 --> 00:14:13,720 Speaker 2: I mean, Because you got to know if you say, hey, honey, 324 00:14:13,760 --> 00:14:15,199 Speaker 2: I'm going on this trip and I'm not gonna have 325 00:14:15,280 --> 00:14:17,079 Speaker 2: my phone with me for the weekend, you got to 326 00:14:17,120 --> 00:14:19,680 Speaker 2: know that's going to raise suspicions in itself, even if 327 00:14:19,680 --> 00:14:22,240 Speaker 2: you're not doing anything as it did. So I feel 328 00:14:22,240 --> 00:14:25,040 Speaker 2: like if I were, you know, going on a trip 329 00:14:25,080 --> 00:14:28,280 Speaker 2: and I was trying to hide something, I wouldn't say anything, 330 00:14:28,560 --> 00:14:30,200 Speaker 2: you know what I mean. I wouldn't do anything different. 331 00:14:30,280 --> 00:14:32,240 Speaker 2: I'd be like, Okay, I'm going on this thing and 332 00:14:32,360 --> 00:14:34,040 Speaker 2: I'll talk to you later or whatever, and I'd check 333 00:14:34,120 --> 00:14:36,000 Speaker 2: in and i'd text and whatever else. 334 00:14:36,400 --> 00:14:37,840 Speaker 1: Yep, you know, to cover up. 335 00:14:38,920 --> 00:14:41,440 Speaker 8: She was out with her side man, living her best 336 00:14:41,520 --> 00:14:43,760 Speaker 8: life on a trip, and what he needs to do 337 00:14:43,920 --> 00:14:48,080 Speaker 8: is leave and internal Whennie Houston Heartbreak Hotel because that 338 00:14:48,280 --> 00:14:49,200 Speaker 8: song he can relate to. 339 00:14:49,440 --> 00:14:54,400 Speaker 2: That's all I gotta say. Man's that's wow. Emily Hi, 340 00:14:54,480 --> 00:14:59,560 Speaker 2: Emily Kiky over here, just just wrecking houses. Man, she 341 00:14:59,760 --> 00:15:02,720 Speaker 2: just tearing the whole thing down. This poor girl, This 342 00:15:02,880 --> 00:15:05,040 Speaker 2: poor girl went out to cankuon and she wanted to 343 00:15:05,080 --> 00:15:09,600 Speaker 2: go to Senior Frogs in peace, you know, So what 344 00:15:09,720 --> 00:15:10,480 Speaker 2: do you think, Emily? 345 00:15:10,560 --> 00:15:11,240 Speaker 1: What's going on here? 346 00:15:12,840 --> 00:15:14,960 Speaker 9: So I'm like twenty seven dresses over here. 347 00:15:15,160 --> 00:15:18,160 Speaker 5: I've been every wedding you can think of as a bridesmaid, 348 00:15:18,720 --> 00:15:21,760 Speaker 5: and there has not been one that's rappe party that 349 00:15:21,840 --> 00:15:24,200 Speaker 5: I've gone on where we haven't taken one picture. 350 00:15:24,600 --> 00:15:26,960 Speaker 9: Because you think it's going to be the hopefully the. 351 00:15:27,040 --> 00:15:29,040 Speaker 5: Bride only that's her up party. 352 00:15:29,120 --> 00:15:32,160 Speaker 9: So she's definitely gonna want some sort of memories to 353 00:15:32,240 --> 00:15:35,720 Speaker 9: look back on, something to see with all her friends. 354 00:15:35,760 --> 00:15:38,640 Speaker 9: So there's no way that there was no pictures taken. 355 00:15:39,480 --> 00:15:42,080 Speaker 5: So there's definitely something suspicious going on. 356 00:15:42,200 --> 00:15:46,520 Speaker 1: I'd say, huh okay, Emily, thank you, have a good day. 357 00:15:47,360 --> 00:15:50,920 Speaker 2: Well you too, buye uh. Lisa, Lisa, Hey, Lisa, you've 358 00:15:50,920 --> 00:15:54,000 Speaker 2: been married for twenty five years. Congratulations, that's amazing. 359 00:15:55,640 --> 00:15:59,480 Speaker 4: Okay, here's my twist, So yeah, married for twenty five years. 360 00:16:00,120 --> 00:16:02,920 Speaker 5: Sun back to college this weekend, got the text are 361 00:16:02,960 --> 00:16:03,360 Speaker 5: you there? 362 00:16:04,080 --> 00:16:06,800 Speaker 4: Twenty five years, I'm still getting a text to Jamaic It. 363 00:16:07,680 --> 00:16:08,960 Speaker 8: I immediately think. 364 00:16:09,200 --> 00:16:10,360 Speaker 5: This brick cheats on me. 365 00:16:12,640 --> 00:16:14,920 Speaker 2: Oh, because he wants to know if you're there so 366 00:16:15,040 --> 00:16:17,480 Speaker 2: he can get down to his other business. 367 00:16:17,640 --> 00:16:18,920 Speaker 1: Is what you're saying, right. 368 00:16:19,400 --> 00:16:22,360 Speaker 5: It's definitely a three hour plus drive to the college. 369 00:16:22,560 --> 00:16:25,640 Speaker 5: So that's what I thought. After twenty five. 370 00:16:25,520 --> 00:16:27,640 Speaker 9: Years, I'm still thinking it. Maybe I'll be here next 371 00:16:27,680 --> 00:16:28,560 Speaker 9: Week's say. 372 00:16:28,440 --> 00:16:31,000 Speaker 2: You're going damn, but little did he know you were 373 00:16:31,200 --> 00:16:33,160 Speaker 2: just around the corner looking at the house. 374 00:16:33,440 --> 00:16:34,680 Speaker 1: That's what he didn't know. 375 00:16:36,320 --> 00:16:39,720 Speaker 8: Right right right, Checkabreen Camra girl. 376 00:16:42,960 --> 00:16:46,480 Speaker 2: Thank you, Lisa, have a good day. That guy has 377 00:16:46,560 --> 00:16:49,800 Speaker 2: not cheated one you twenty five years. Man, No, he 378 00:16:49,880 --> 00:16:54,760 Speaker 2: probably yes, Yeah, honestly, he's pulling a big team. He's 379 00:16:54,800 --> 00:16:57,040 Speaker 2: over at Beggar's Pizza right now. He's not doing anything. 380 00:16:58,560 --> 00:17:03,320 Speaker 1: I love how Ki he's cheating. Lock him up, throw 381 00:17:03,360 --> 00:17:03,880 Speaker 1: away the King. 382 00:17:04,119 --> 00:17:04,320 Speaker 7: Yes,