1 00:00:00,280 --> 00:00:03,920 Speaker 1: This is from Avery and Longview. Avery writes, I'm having 2 00:00:04,000 --> 00:00:07,119 Speaker 1: second thoughts about taking my girlfriend to my family reunion. 3 00:00:07,480 --> 00:00:10,680 Speaker 1: She was raised to speak her mind and that her 4 00:00:10,720 --> 00:00:14,520 Speaker 1: opinion matters. My parents, aunts and uncles don't play that. 5 00:00:14,960 --> 00:00:18,040 Speaker 1: How do I uninvite her and tell her it's for 6 00:00:18,120 --> 00:00:18,919 Speaker 1: her own good? 7 00:00:20,000 --> 00:00:22,439 Speaker 2: No, no, no, See, sometimes you got to take people. 8 00:00:23,200 --> 00:00:26,800 Speaker 2: Sometimes you just got to take people. Sometimes it's better 9 00:00:26,840 --> 00:00:29,680 Speaker 2: to show them than to tell them that how you 10 00:00:29,840 --> 00:00:32,959 Speaker 2: was raised to speak your own mind and your opinion 11 00:00:33,040 --> 00:00:37,400 Speaker 2: matters and all that beautiful. But listen, in the words 12 00:00:37,440 --> 00:00:40,120 Speaker 2: of my father in law, just because you can do 13 00:00:40,240 --> 00:00:44,000 Speaker 2: something don't mean you should do something. And you got 14 00:00:44,000 --> 00:00:46,720 Speaker 2: to learn that lesson. And I think now it's a 15 00:00:46,760 --> 00:00:49,599 Speaker 2: good time for her to learn that. Take her to 16 00:00:49,720 --> 00:00:53,880 Speaker 2: your family reunion, because all black people got a way 17 00:00:53,880 --> 00:00:58,280 Speaker 2: of making you feel real stink right. 18 00:00:58,200 --> 00:01:03,440 Speaker 3: Quick arguing with them with his family at three and 19 00:01:03,600 --> 00:01:08,920 Speaker 3: you're just arguing, please take her and write us back. 20 00:01:09,880 --> 00:01:14,400 Speaker 1: Yeah, all right. Coming up next, it is Nia in Southfield, 21 00:01:14,440 --> 00:01:19,399 Speaker 1: and Nea writes, my husband has developed a stench lately. 22 00:01:20,200 --> 00:01:21,759 Speaker 4: He showers before. 23 00:01:21,400 --> 00:01:24,679 Speaker 1: Bedtime and by early morning when we're having sex, the 24 00:01:24,760 --> 00:01:28,480 Speaker 1: sweaty smell is back. Is strong, and he acts like 25 00:01:28,520 --> 00:01:31,080 Speaker 1: he can't smell it should I would hold sex until 26 00:01:31,120 --> 00:01:32,640 Speaker 1: he stops stinking up the place. 27 00:01:33,000 --> 00:01:36,560 Speaker 2: Wow, well you gotta find out what the cause is. 28 00:01:37,120 --> 00:01:40,880 Speaker 2: You and your wife's a wives know he has developed 29 00:01:41,000 --> 00:01:45,600 Speaker 2: a stitch. Now that's different from stink. 30 00:01:46,000 --> 00:01:48,240 Speaker 4: Also, it's the three smell. 31 00:01:48,400 --> 00:01:52,880 Speaker 2: It's the three essays. You have a smell, you have 32 00:01:52,960 --> 00:01:58,480 Speaker 2: a stink, and you have a skitch. He is he 33 00:01:58,480 --> 00:02:03,520 Speaker 2: he is. Skin is like a third degree burn. You 34 00:02:03,560 --> 00:02:05,600 Speaker 2: know you can put your hand over soa water hot, 35 00:02:06,720 --> 00:02:07,640 Speaker 2: then you put over there. 36 00:02:07,720 --> 00:02:08,400 Speaker 4: Oh you burn me? 37 00:02:08,720 --> 00:02:14,320 Speaker 2: Oh now, third degree burn? Ain't no o? Third degree burn? 38 00:02:14,600 --> 00:02:20,960 Speaker 2: And you gotta go somewhere emergency third degree burned. You 39 00:02:20,960 --> 00:02:23,960 Speaker 2: gotta go. You gotta go somewhere. You got to go 40 00:02:24,080 --> 00:02:26,680 Speaker 2: find out what has caused a stitch. 41 00:02:28,520 --> 00:02:29,480 Speaker 1: But he's showering. 42 00:02:29,840 --> 00:02:34,440 Speaker 4: That's not it, huh he but we lay down. It's 43 00:02:34,480 --> 00:02:39,640 Speaker 4: something he eating. Now, ah, it's got something he eats. 44 00:02:39,720 --> 00:02:41,280 Speaker 1: What what could cause a stench? 45 00:02:42,320 --> 00:02:45,440 Speaker 2: Well, I in my life, I know several foods that 46 00:02:45,480 --> 00:02:46,560 Speaker 2: can cause a stitch. 47 00:02:46,600 --> 00:02:48,560 Speaker 4: Okay, what chittlings. 48 00:02:48,560 --> 00:02:52,320 Speaker 2: It's the number one predator stitch called. 49 00:02:56,000 --> 00:02:56,840 Speaker 4: What five? 50 00:02:56,919 --> 00:02:59,160 Speaker 2: You can do that because they got him already clean. 51 00:02:59,360 --> 00:03:02,000 Speaker 2: You can freeze or so it's people out there still 52 00:03:02,040 --> 00:03:05,040 Speaker 2: doing that. Here's another food that can cause a stitch, 53 00:03:05,080 --> 00:03:07,600 Speaker 2: and people are very unaware thatess spam. 54 00:03:07,880 --> 00:03:09,480 Speaker 4: Spam can cause a stitch. 55 00:03:10,240 --> 00:03:12,840 Speaker 2: If you eat enough of it late at night wrong time, 56 00:03:12,919 --> 00:03:15,040 Speaker 2: you can wake up in the morning and smell like 57 00:03:15,120 --> 00:03:16,160 Speaker 2: you ate something that died. 58 00:03:16,840 --> 00:03:20,600 Speaker 4: Those are the two that come to mind right away, 59 00:03:21,040 --> 00:03:21,440 Speaker 4: all right. 60 00:03:22,840 --> 00:03:26,680 Speaker 2: Another that causes a stitch if you are Muslim. If 61 00:03:26,720 --> 00:03:30,760 Speaker 2: you're Muslim and you want somewhere and accidentally ate some pork, 62 00:03:31,040 --> 00:03:32,440 Speaker 2: they not gonna do well on that. 63 00:03:32,560 --> 00:03:35,760 Speaker 4: I'm just gonna tell you that right now. They're not 64 00:03:35,800 --> 00:03:36,840 Speaker 4: gonna do well on that. 65 00:03:37,960 --> 00:03:41,200 Speaker 2: I avoid that at all costs, you know, And because 66 00:03:41,240 --> 00:03:43,480 Speaker 2: I have so many Muslim friends now, it's actually made 67 00:03:43,520 --> 00:03:48,480 Speaker 2: me rethink the whole thing with pork. So I've erased 68 00:03:48,520 --> 00:03:53,600 Speaker 2: that from my diet, except for barbecue, because barbecue, once 69 00:03:53,680 --> 00:03:57,280 Speaker 2: you put ribs on an open flame over charcoal, it 70 00:03:57,400 --> 00:03:59,400 Speaker 2: removes all pork properties. 71 00:04:00,880 --> 00:04:05,600 Speaker 1: I'm moving on to Cheyenne in Santa Monica. Cheyenne writes, 72 00:04:05,680 --> 00:04:07,880 Speaker 1: I was sitting in the parking lot at the mall, 73 00:04:08,280 --> 00:04:10,440 Speaker 1: and I watched a couple get in the backseat of 74 00:04:10,440 --> 00:04:13,960 Speaker 1: a car and have sex. I FaceTime my husband while 75 00:04:14,000 --> 00:04:16,520 Speaker 1: I watched them have sex, he said that we should 76 00:04:16,560 --> 00:04:18,720 Speaker 1: try it. We're both fifty three. 77 00:04:19,400 --> 00:04:20,880 Speaker 4: Are we too old to do it? 78 00:04:21,880 --> 00:04:21,920 Speaker 3: No? 79 00:04:22,400 --> 00:04:24,760 Speaker 4: Get old back there. But now let me tell you something. 80 00:04:24,839 --> 00:04:27,839 Speaker 2: You probably didn't feel, You didn't probably didn't film getting 81 00:04:27,880 --> 00:04:30,680 Speaker 2: back out that back seat. Now you should have completed 82 00:04:30,720 --> 00:04:35,240 Speaker 2: the process. And then you need to take into consideration 83 00:04:35,320 --> 00:04:36,960 Speaker 2: how old out. Now y'all can go back there, you 84 00:04:37,000 --> 00:04:38,440 Speaker 2: can get in the back say you could do it, 85 00:04:39,000 --> 00:04:42,160 Speaker 2: But I'm telling you right now, somebody, I'm just gonna 86 00:04:42,160 --> 00:04:43,640 Speaker 2: tell you, somebody gonna get hurt. 87 00:04:45,120 --> 00:04:53,080 Speaker 5: I can't Tykid's gonna be an injury, a cramp, some 88 00:04:53,120 --> 00:04:55,520 Speaker 5: sort of injury. 89 00:04:56,279 --> 00:04:59,160 Speaker 1: All right, So you are you're saying they are too 90 00:04:59,160 --> 00:05:01,320 Speaker 1: old to do it, Then now. 91 00:05:01,480 --> 00:05:04,279 Speaker 2: You ain't too old to do it. You just gotta 92 00:05:04,320 --> 00:05:06,240 Speaker 2: understand it's gonna come with a cost. 93 00:05:07,000 --> 00:05:07,560 Speaker 4: Listen, y'all. 94 00:05:08,320 --> 00:05:12,039 Speaker 2: Look, you can do anything at any age, but there's 95 00:05:12,080 --> 00:05:16,520 Speaker 2: a cost factor that has to be factored in. You 96 00:05:16,640 --> 00:05:19,760 Speaker 2: cannot assume that you could just do anything you want 97 00:05:19,760 --> 00:05:23,080 Speaker 2: to do because you used to do it. Yeah, me 98 00:05:23,120 --> 00:05:26,040 Speaker 2: and my wife was in the backyard last year shooting baskets. 99 00:05:26,080 --> 00:05:30,120 Speaker 2: It had rained, so the net shrunk a little bit, 100 00:05:31,120 --> 00:05:33,880 Speaker 2: so she shot the ball and it went through the net, 101 00:05:33,920 --> 00:05:37,200 Speaker 2: but it didn't come down. She said, Steve, get the 102 00:05:37,240 --> 00:05:40,360 Speaker 2: ball the first attempt, because I hadn't done that in 103 00:05:40,360 --> 00:05:42,320 Speaker 2: a long time. I didn't even get to the net. 104 00:05:43,240 --> 00:05:45,040 Speaker 2: And then she said, oh you can't get it down, 105 00:05:45,160 --> 00:05:49,560 Speaker 2: we'll get one of the work somebody anything my egos involved. 106 00:05:49,600 --> 00:05:50,200 Speaker 4: Oh of course. 107 00:05:50,240 --> 00:05:52,640 Speaker 2: So I go back gathering myself, went over there and 108 00:05:52,760 --> 00:05:54,960 Speaker 2: jumped and hit the ball, knocked it out the net. 109 00:05:55,160 --> 00:05:59,040 Speaker 4: She said, wow, you can still get up there now. 110 00:05:59,120 --> 00:06:02,960 Speaker 4: When I came down, you see that old black man 111 00:06:03,040 --> 00:06:06,880 Speaker 4: on old man, I told him down that was me. 112 00:06:08,040 --> 00:06:12,640 Speaker 2: When I came down, that was me. And I was 113 00:06:12,680 --> 00:06:15,720 Speaker 2: in the house after one basket and I paid. They've 114 00:06:15,760 --> 00:06:16,679 Speaker 2: been back out there since. 115 00:06:18,240 --> 00:06:20,840 Speaker 4: He don't even go out there. I went, don't get 116 00:06:20,880 --> 00:06:22,480 Speaker 4: my golf clubs, go do what I could do. 117 00:06:25,960 --> 00:06:31,800 Speaker 1: A great story, Steve, all right, Moving on toes in 118 00:06:31,839 --> 00:06:35,880 Speaker 1: the Bronx is the last one. Steve Jess writes, my 119 00:06:35,960 --> 00:06:39,320 Speaker 1: boyfriend had a bag of gummies by his bed. I 120 00:06:39,520 --> 00:06:43,200 Speaker 1: ate two and didn't know they were edibles. My boyfriend 121 00:06:43,320 --> 00:06:46,719 Speaker 1: was not concerned that I mistakenly took drugs. He was 122 00:06:46,760 --> 00:06:50,279 Speaker 1: only mad that I ate them without asking him? Is 123 00:06:50,360 --> 00:06:53,560 Speaker 1: this a sign that he's not for me? Is this 124 00:06:53,680 --> 00:06:54,120 Speaker 1: a sign? 125 00:06:54,320 --> 00:06:57,560 Speaker 2: But see, had you asked him first, he would have 126 00:06:57,600 --> 00:06:58,760 Speaker 2: had the ability to. 127 00:06:58,720 --> 00:07:01,520 Speaker 4: Tell you, hey, there, ma ain't just gummies. 128 00:07:01,600 --> 00:07:05,599 Speaker 2: Now, So now he's right for being mad at you, 129 00:07:06,120 --> 00:07:09,520 Speaker 2: because this could have gone sideways. I think you're taking 130 00:07:09,560 --> 00:07:12,440 Speaker 2: it wrong in that he mad at me for not asking. 131 00:07:12,760 --> 00:07:16,080 Speaker 2: But I think you gotta look how men think. Damn baby, 132 00:07:15,880 --> 00:07:18,760 Speaker 2: why don't you ask me first? It could have saved 133 00:07:18,760 --> 00:07:21,840 Speaker 2: you the problem had you asked him so quick, thinking 134 00:07:21,880 --> 00:07:23,840 Speaker 2: that is he not right for me? Because he left 135 00:07:23,840 --> 00:07:26,200 Speaker 2: the gummy? Why are you eating stuff you don't know 136 00:07:26,240 --> 00:07:27,040 Speaker 2: where it comes from? 137 00:07:27,400 --> 00:07:27,760 Speaker 4: Right? 138 00:07:28,200 --> 00:07:28,240 Speaker 3: That? 139 00:07:28,320 --> 00:07:30,560 Speaker 4: Ain't no snack food at night? Gummies? 140 00:07:33,800 --> 00:07:35,440 Speaker 2: You let me ask you? Ques you ever had a 141 00:07:35,480 --> 00:07:37,240 Speaker 2: gummy at night before you went to bed? 142 00:07:37,600 --> 00:07:41,400 Speaker 4: Now? Hello, you're listening Harvey Morning Show.