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Speaker 1: giving them like theming buck bus things and it's not good.

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Speaker 1: Steve Hartley, I don't join jo. You gotta use that

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Speaker 1: morning everybody. You are listening to the voice. Come on

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Speaker 1: dig me now, one and all is Steve Harvey got

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Speaker 1: a radio show particular me this morning. Steve Harvey got

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Speaker 1: a radio show. Feel with nothing but joy and hope

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Speaker 1: It has a value attached to it, and I have

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Speaker 1: so much more than any amount of money you can make.

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Speaker 1: Peace and joy. I have not always had that. I

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Speaker 1: I wish I had arrived at this point sooner, but

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Speaker 1: We all have to have them. If you look back

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Speaker 1: at all the negative experiences you've had, all the things

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Speaker 1: Now does that happen for everybody like that? Now? But

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Speaker 1: So I wish that I had come to this arrival,

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Speaker 1: But then guess what I would not know what I know.

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Speaker 1: If you just say, Okay, I'm ready to hear your plan.

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Speaker 1: Why does it sound like a gospel song when you

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Speaker 1: Charlie Strawberry, Hey, good morning, Preacher Steve Harvey. Yeah, that

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Speaker 1: in advanced Christianity. Well, you've certainly leveled up since we

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Speaker 1: first met twenty years ago, sir. Oh phrase him Carler,

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Speaker 1: everybody doing this? My winding wonderful, beautiful beautiful? Well let's

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Speaker 1: get started. What y'all talking about? Well, um, we were

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Speaker 1: I mean we Bobbie Q. But you bet not hang

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Speaker 1: I'm trying to reach a patrician. Patrician, who is it

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Speaker 1: right yeah, okay, Now her name, her name is Dereka.

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Speaker 1: Did you change y'all? Y'all change y'all baby name at

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Speaker 1: this is? Nephew Tommy from the Steve Hobby Morning Show.

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Speaker 1: You just got pranked by your girlfriend. Good I would

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Speaker 1: Steve Hart, The Morning Show. I listen to y'all every morning, crazy,

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Speaker 1: y'all crazy, and not have mercy. Y'all got my blood

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Speaker 1: pressure this, but I love y'all. I listen to y'all

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Speaker 1: Can I share something? What you don't tell me? True? Sir?

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Speaker 1: All right, I'm thinking of you coming up at the

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Speaker 1: top of the yar. We'll have some entertainment in National

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Speaker 1: News right after this. You're listening. Well. Now that Cardie

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Speaker 1: B has revealed her pregnancy, she is also opening up

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Speaker 1: about her marriage and her family. She had an epic

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Speaker 1: maternity shoot and shared a couple of shots in the process,

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Speaker 1: and one Cardie is tastefully nude with offset draped around

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Speaker 1: her from the back, saying, we listen to each other, communicated, prayed,

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Speaker 1: and then God blessed us and our family with another

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Speaker 1: little blessing. That's what she said in the caption. And

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Speaker 1: then she said, our home feels so blissful and very busy,

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Speaker 1: but we are ready and oh happy. I like that.

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Speaker 1: That's sweet. That's sweet. Yeah, you know, growing up. She

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Speaker 1: did the reveal on the BT Awards. I saw a

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Speaker 1: lot of people on social media just trolling hers, saying

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Speaker 1: having a baby from him again, a young cheater. And

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Speaker 1: I'm like, if she's working it out with her husband

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Speaker 1: and they are together and she forgives them and their family,

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Speaker 1: just let them live, y'all. Yes, he said, we communicated

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Speaker 1: and prayed. Okay, people grow, they grow in relationship. The

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Speaker 1: trolls act like they ain't got problems that they own. Yeah, problems, true, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: because trolls don't have no life. You can't be that

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Speaker 1: concerned with somebody else and taking care of yours at

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Speaker 1: the same time. That's not possible. I don't know if

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Speaker 1: it's gonna go away anytime soon, because it seems like

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Speaker 1: it's getting worse. Trolling, the trolling. Yeah, yeah, no, no,

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Speaker 1: it's definitely not gonna go away. But you don't have

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Speaker 1: to be affected by it. They have no power over you, exactly,

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Speaker 1: unless you don't give them power. Who are there. They're

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Speaker 1: not shakers and movers, they're not powerbrokers, and they're not

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Speaker 1: decision makers. They ain't in none of the meetings at

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Speaker 1: your job. They ain't down at the bank. They not

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Speaker 1: in know that they're not in you and your family

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Speaker 1: discussions unless you drag them in. That's true, because you

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Speaker 1: know what I do. Half the time, you know, somebody

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Speaker 1: had to tell me something about me because I don't.

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Speaker 1: I don't know what you mean. I mean, you know,

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Speaker 1: somebody to go man, hey, man, you hear what they

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Speaker 1: said about you. That's almost ninety nine point nine percent

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Speaker 1: of the time to get ball to me because I

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Speaker 1: don't after I'm not sitting on nothing. I'm not googling me.

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Speaker 1: I'm not I'm not googling you. I ain't got no

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Speaker 1: search for what you're doing. You know, y'all tell me

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Speaker 1: something about somebody, say hey, send me a picture please,

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Speaker 1: And and y'all keep me informing about what's happening. If

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Speaker 1: it's not on seeing in and headline news, I don't

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Speaker 1: know none about it. And if I don't know what

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Speaker 1: take all right. Another entertainment news Contrary to popular belief,

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Speaker 1: Andrew Day is not dating Brad Pitt. In fact, she

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Speaker 1: doesn't even know him. She says, Andrew Day, Yeah, you know.

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Speaker 1: She was an Oscar nominee for her role as Billy

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Speaker 1: Holiday in the US versus Billy Holiday was asked about

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Speaker 1: their rumored romance on the red carpet at the Beet Awards.

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Speaker 1: After her strong denial, she added, it's hilarious. It was

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Speaker 1: thin air. Somebody was bored that day. All that being said,

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Speaker 1: she had nothing bad to say about Brad. He's great,

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Speaker 1: super talented and wonderful. All right, sleep better enough, you

478
00:32:56,880 --> 00:33:01,200
Speaker 1: were losing sleep. All right, we'll talk about the golf

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Speaker 1: tournament that Harvey. Yeah, ladies and gentlemen, Miss Anne Tripp, Okay,

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Speaker 1: thank you very much. Good morning everyone. I get to

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Speaker 1: the seriousness in Miami. Yesterday, more bad news about that

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Speaker 1: collass beach front condo building, delivered by Miami Dade County

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Speaker 1: Mayor Danielle Levin Kylie. One additional victim was recovered, so

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Speaker 1: the number of deceased is now at twelve. Mayor Levine

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Speaker 1: Cava says she would support a grand jury investigation to

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Speaker 1: all this. A letter day to April ninth on the

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Speaker 1: building's condo board to the residents describes deteriorating concrete pillars

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Speaker 1: and foundations for the building that had gotten worse since

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Speaker 1: twenty eighteen, and now three lawsuits had been filed. The

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Speaker 1: latest accusing the Condo Association of reckless and negligent conduct,

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Speaker 1: and yesterday's briefing, Surf Side residents also ask for additional

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Speaker 1: search and rescue help from the Feds. The White House

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Speaker 1: says that the President and the First Lady are scheduled

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Speaker 1: to arrive in Surfside to marl to see the damage

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Speaker 1: for themselves and to visit with the victims, families and

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Speaker 1: first responders. George Floyd's murderer, former Minneapolis cop Derek Chauvin,

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Speaker 1: reportedly close to working out a plea deal with federal

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Speaker 1: prosecutors about the civil rights charges he's gonna face. Officials

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Speaker 1: say the deal would involve Chauvin admitting a court in

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Speaker 1: front of everybody why he killed George Floyd, in exchange

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Speaker 1: for a twenty five year term to be served concurrently,

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Speaker 1: not consecutively with his twenty two and a half sentence

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Speaker 1: for murder, served in a federal also and not a

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Speaker 1: state prison. Get this. Donald Trump says that former NFL

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Speaker 1: player Herschel Walker remember Him, has told him. According to Donald,

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Speaker 1: that he plans to run for the US Senate seat

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Speaker 1: one last year by the Reverend Raphael Warnock in Georgia,

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Speaker 1: Essentially putting it back in Republican hands. The US Senate.

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Speaker 1: If herschel Walker decides to run, he would be the

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Speaker 1: presumed front runner, given his name, recognition, and endorsement by

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Speaker 1: Donald Trump for the Republicans. Anyway, again, herschel Walker may

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Speaker 1: be running to put the US Senate back in Republican hands.

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Speaker 1: Fox News has been slapped with a one million dollar

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Speaker 1: fine by the New York City Commission on Human Rights,

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Speaker 1: the largest penalty ever levied by that commission in its history,

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Speaker 1: because it says Fox violated laws against sexual harrassment and

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Speaker 1: job retaliation. Oh, here's one to crowded. You have talking

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Speaker 1: about the expressway right, really really crowded. Well, guess what.

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Speaker 1: For the first time in nearly thirty years, Los Angeles

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Speaker 1: has lost to its title as the most traffic congested

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Speaker 1: region in the country. New York Area now tops the list,

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Speaker 1: where the Transportation Institute says, motorists in New York City

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Speaker 1: in that area, on average, anyway, spend a collective four

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Speaker 1: hundred and ninety four thousand hours stuck in traffic last year.

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Speaker 1: That's a lot of traffic. Now back to the Steve

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Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show. You're listening to the string show. All right,

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Speaker 1: So Steve, you had your golf tournament yesterday. You're having

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Speaker 1: another round today, so tell us about it. Give us

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Speaker 1: a recap double tournament. That's I mean, bro, I had

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Speaker 1: to add a day because today loaded up so fast

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Speaker 1: that so many people wanted to play that I went

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Speaker 1: on and I added eighty players yesterday. So you know,

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Speaker 1: Chris Tucker came through yesterday, Vernon Maxwell Vernon to play

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Speaker 1: for Houston. My dude, man, we had a great conversation.

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Speaker 1: Lawrence Taylor, the greatest linebacker to ever play in the

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Speaker 1: National Football League. Matumbo not in my house. Yeah he

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Speaker 1: was there. We all took a picture together. And you

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Speaker 1: don't tell you something, man, I don't can high street.

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Speaker 1: You stand up. You have to put your hand around

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Speaker 1: uh Matumbo's ass. He's that talk, I'm talking. He had

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Speaker 1: his all around the top of my head. He was

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Speaker 1: holding the top of my head and all I could

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Speaker 1: do was hold his ass. I was very uncomfortable. I

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00:37:04,360 --> 00:37:06,640
Speaker 1: don't like when a man had me under their breast

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Speaker 1: and pull me in. You know, don't don't don't push

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Speaker 1: my head under your nipple. Dog dog. I'm who the

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Speaker 1: short person is. Nah, I guess where you do. Yeah. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I was up under his chip, up under his nipple.

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Speaker 1: Let's let me tell you where you would have been

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Speaker 1: about well, I think about about like third te feet talk. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: he felt like, man, such a cool dude. Man, he

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Speaker 1: was funny though. Here. So we're doing some great gifts

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Speaker 1: and stuff and h I did not I did not

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Speaker 1: give my shoes. I said, what what? What? What side

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Speaker 1: you got twenty two? I said, just do dog, We're

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Speaker 1: gonna take two elevens together and you wear that. I

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Speaker 1: don't know nobody gotten on twenty two. I looked down

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Speaker 1: at his foot and no one Jesus twenty two? What Man?

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Speaker 1: One of the coolest dudes though. Man, when I tell

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Speaker 1: you he's a cool dude. Yeah, I love his commercial.

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Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, the guy yeah congratulates, was spare and cool.

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Speaker 1: Everybody everybody was good. You know, those are most of

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Speaker 1: the celebrities. I was and the rest of them is like,

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Speaker 1: you know, brothers from one hundred black men. So what

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Speaker 1: we agreed to do was next year, we're gonna do

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Speaker 1: two out of the city events, one in the Bahamas

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Speaker 1: and one in Vegas. And I'm just gonna throw golf tournaments, man,

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Speaker 1: skip that, you know, parties, clubs, none of that. Just

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Speaker 1: go play golf. Care you asked your room all right?

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Speaker 1: Coming up at thirty four minutes after the hour. A

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Speaker 1: quick round of asked the cello with the Chief Love

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Speaker 1: Officer right after this, you're listening to show all right?

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Speaker 1: Time now for asking cello with Chief Love Officer Steve

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Speaker 1: Harvey into the building. This one is from Carlita and Richmond, Virginia.

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Speaker 1: Carlita writes, I'm in a marriage that's been over for years,

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Speaker 1: and my children constantly pressure me to leave their father.

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Speaker 1: It's a weekly struggle of me having to defend my

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Speaker 1: actions to them. They see their fathers stay out late

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Speaker 1: at night, ignore me when I'm talking, and not lift

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Speaker 1: a finger to help me around the house. They constantly

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Speaker 1: taught me by saying, if I don't leave, they're going

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Speaker 1: to run away. They're fifteen and thirteen. I don't have

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Speaker 1: any control over them or what my husband does. What

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Speaker 1: gives should I leave for my kid's sake? It seemed

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Speaker 1: to me like you will want to leave for your

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Speaker 1: own sake. Yeah, you have no dignity. You've allowed this

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Speaker 1: man to strip you of your dignity. He don't listen

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00:39:52,719 --> 00:39:55,359
Speaker 1: to you, He stay out when he wants to your

589
00:39:55,560 --> 00:39:58,479
Speaker 1: kids saying if you don't leave him, they don't run away.

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Speaker 1: They know they daddy ain't nothing. They're thirteen and fifteen.

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Speaker 1: The problem is you. You're trying to explain your actions

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Speaker 1: to them for what what you're trying to do is

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Speaker 1: you're trying to and you got to be careful the

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Speaker 1: message that you send to your children. You can't embed

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Speaker 1: in their heads that you should accept sub part behavior,

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Speaker 1: because they're gonna grow up and they're gonna see that,

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Speaker 1: and they're gonna see one of two things. They're gonna

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Speaker 1: see you accept sub part behavior, or they're gonna watch

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Speaker 1: your father be abusive, watch their father be abusive, and

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Speaker 1: they're gonna emulate one of those things. I promise you

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Speaker 1: they will. They are going to pick up one of

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Speaker 1: the traits. We are either going to be the abuser

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Speaker 1: in a relationship or we're gonna sit around and take

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Speaker 1: a bunch of abuse. And ain't neither one of them good.

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Speaker 1: I hope you're listening, Carlata to the CLO. You have

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Speaker 1: no reason in the state. Are you sad it's over?

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Speaker 1: Why are you still there? Yeah? Absolutely all right? Moving

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Speaker 1: on Schuler in Kansas City says, I'm planning a trip

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Speaker 1: to Jamaica for me, my son, and his wife, along

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Speaker 1: with the woman I'm dating. My son, nor my daughter

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Speaker 1: in law have any idea who I'm dating and bringing

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Speaker 1: on the trip with me. It's my son's wife's mother.

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Speaker 1: We've been keeping a secret for months, and we feel

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Speaker 1: like Jamaica is the best place to let them know.

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00:41:16,640 --> 00:41:19,359
Speaker 1: We know it's a little strange, but we couldn't deny

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Speaker 1: the connection we had. Do you think our kids will

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Speaker 1: be okay with it? Out of sight? Myself? That's really fly, man.

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Speaker 1: You know, I ain't guess what so bris that's crazy, Mamma.

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Speaker 1: Why is you're asking this hot time with us? Me

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Speaker 1: and Herbert? You know, it was just kicking it. I

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Speaker 1: think it's gonna be cool. I think I can't be

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Speaker 1: okay with it. Well, I mean if they ain't. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: your son's wife's mother. Damn, Pop. You ain't want to

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Speaker 1: say nothing to me? Mama? How could you you're dating

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Speaker 1: his son you're married to the son. Why? I mean,

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Speaker 1: that's not like they're not related. They're not. It's just

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Speaker 1: a little weird. Yeah, it's a little strange. In law

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Speaker 1: to in law. They're not related. It's the son and

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Speaker 1: the daughter. They they man and wife. They wasn't related.

630
00:42:23,960 --> 00:42:27,120
Speaker 1: Remember that the man that the mom and the daddy

631
00:42:27,320 --> 00:42:35,200
Speaker 1: really ain't related any anyway. It's like, yeah, that's y'all. Y'all,

632
00:42:35,640 --> 00:42:43,200
Speaker 1: it's a little strange. Strange if they want all right, so,

633
00:42:43,320 --> 00:42:47,239
Speaker 1: you know, I think it's gonna be dope. Man, they

634
00:42:47,320 --> 00:42:50,600
Speaker 1: have no idea who I'm bringing. Yeah, write us back

635
00:42:50,640 --> 00:42:54,400
Speaker 1: and let us know how it turns out. Please, Yeah, Okay,

636
00:42:54,920 --> 00:43:00,799
Speaker 1: when y'all at the first dinner, it's gonna be real tricky. Hey,

637
00:43:00,960 --> 00:43:03,120
Speaker 1: we've been in love for years and we just thought

638
00:43:03,160 --> 00:43:08,040
Speaker 1: we're going to tell you all. Oh my god, I

639
00:43:08,320 --> 00:43:12,399
Speaker 1: got this is so weird. Yes, oh, the first night

640
00:43:12,520 --> 00:43:15,200
Speaker 1: there would be no sex at the young couple's cottage.

641
00:43:16,560 --> 00:43:18,680
Speaker 1: They're gonna be up all nights. She's gonna be up

642
00:43:18,760 --> 00:43:21,400
Speaker 1: all night talking about this. You think they aren't let

643
00:43:21,480 --> 00:43:25,480
Speaker 1: doing it, especially day in the room next door? Say

644
00:43:25,520 --> 00:43:30,800
Speaker 1: an old store, rocking me like a bag of cotton,

645
00:43:38,200 --> 00:43:42,719
Speaker 1: spank me like a wet piece of spring. All right, up,

646
00:43:43,280 --> 00:43:48,280
Speaker 1: we gotta go. Coming up next, it is the nephew

647
00:43:48,560 --> 00:43:52,160
Speaker 1: with today's bring phone call. Right after this, you're listening

648
00:43:54,040 --> 00:43:57,359
Speaker 1: show coming up at the top of the hour, right

649
00:43:57,400 --> 00:44:00,640
Speaker 1: about four minutes after. You're not gonna believe the Strawberry

650
00:44:00,680 --> 00:44:03,680
Speaker 1: letter for today, the subject the ladies at the church

651
00:44:04,160 --> 00:44:08,239
Speaker 1: love me. We'll get into that in a little while,

652
00:44:08,320 --> 00:44:10,760
Speaker 1: but right now, the nephews in the building with today's

653
00:44:10,840 --> 00:44:14,480
Speaker 1: praying phone call. What you got for his nap Apartment

654
00:44:14,800 --> 00:44:22,840
Speaker 1: three sixteen, Apartment three sixteen, let's go cat down. Hello,

655
00:44:23,280 --> 00:44:25,080
Speaker 1: I'm trying to reach a deal. Yeah, this is deal.

656
00:44:25,280 --> 00:44:26,680
Speaker 1: Hey you deal? How are you doing? Man? My name

657
00:44:26,800 --> 00:44:29,640
Speaker 1: is Vaughn. Dude. Uh, you're living I'm trying to make

658
00:44:29,680 --> 00:44:31,640
Speaker 1: sure I got the right dude. Man, you're living Court

659
00:44:31,760 --> 00:44:35,480
Speaker 1: right apartments? Yeah, I live in going on Okay, you

660
00:44:35,640 --> 00:44:39,279
Speaker 1: live an apartment on three sixteen, right, Yeah, it's something

661
00:44:39,280 --> 00:44:41,560
Speaker 1: I need to be worried. What's going on my part?

662
00:44:41,800 --> 00:44:43,879
Speaker 1: Oh no, no, no, everything cool with your apartment? Man,

663
00:44:45,120 --> 00:44:47,759
Speaker 1: I got your number from lady at the at the

664
00:44:47,840 --> 00:44:52,280
Speaker 1: least in office regarding what's in? What's it in regards

665
00:44:52,360 --> 00:44:55,160
Speaker 1: to well, actually, what's going to happen me is I'm

666
00:44:55,200 --> 00:44:58,000
Speaker 1: going to move to Court and what I wanted to do,

667
00:44:58,400 --> 00:45:01,560
Speaker 1: you know, uh, see me in every apartment I've always

668
00:45:01,640 --> 00:45:05,920
Speaker 1: heard I've always lived in an apartment three sixteen, and

669
00:45:06,040 --> 00:45:08,840
Speaker 1: I know you in three sixteen, so they you know

670
00:45:09,120 --> 00:45:10,880
Speaker 1: the girl at the office game, you know, because I

671
00:45:10,960 --> 00:45:12,960
Speaker 1: don't want to move nowhere else where. I can't be

672
00:45:13,080 --> 00:45:15,680
Speaker 1: in room three sixteen. I gotta be you know. It's

673
00:45:15,680 --> 00:45:18,520
Speaker 1: just real superstitious, I know, but I kind of gotta

674
00:45:18,560 --> 00:45:22,600
Speaker 1: held you. Say your name Vaughn, Yeah, yeah, I'm right.

675
00:45:23,000 --> 00:45:25,480
Speaker 1: And who gave you my number? Again? One of the

676
00:45:25,560 --> 00:45:27,440
Speaker 1: ladies at the leasing officers when I was over there.

677
00:45:27,880 --> 00:45:34,359
Speaker 1: Who was it? I can't really remember her name? Man, Uttley, Well,

678
00:45:34,800 --> 00:45:36,960
Speaker 1: listen to and I'm gonna tell you like this, man,

679
00:45:37,000 --> 00:45:38,920
Speaker 1: don't call me for nothing like that. Man, Now, I

680
00:45:38,960 --> 00:45:41,040
Speaker 1: ain't moving out of my apartment. Man, I've been standing

681
00:45:41,120 --> 00:45:43,080
Speaker 1: up for four years when I moved out to the

682
00:45:43,160 --> 00:45:46,120
Speaker 1: partment and I moved in the house. You understanding all

683
00:45:46,200 --> 00:45:49,600
Speaker 1: this back gone with you? Which whatever it is, you're

684
00:45:49,640 --> 00:45:53,520
Speaker 1: three sixteen, one three two, that's on you. Man. It

685
00:45:53,560 --> 00:45:57,080
Speaker 1: ain't any one. I gotta stay in three sixteen, man,

686
00:45:57,360 --> 00:45:59,160
Speaker 1: See that, That's what I'm trying to say. I didn't

687
00:45:59,160 --> 00:46:02,160
Speaker 1: signed the least, so I'm stuck with it. I got

688
00:46:02,320 --> 00:46:04,560
Speaker 1: to get that apartment, so I'm gonna trying to tell

689
00:46:04,600 --> 00:46:06,960
Speaker 1: you would you like to what's your apartment? Would you

690
00:46:07,040 --> 00:46:09,239
Speaker 1: like to move to? And I don't get them to

691
00:46:09,320 --> 00:46:13,759
Speaker 1: move your stuff. Nothing ain't nothing moving on. Don't think

692
00:46:13,800 --> 00:46:16,200
Speaker 1: it's gonna move with them numbers. You can add them up,

693
00:46:16,480 --> 00:46:18,600
Speaker 1: divide them, do whatever you want to them. But I

694
00:46:18,640 --> 00:46:21,160
Speaker 1: ain't move. So you're gonna have to get that to

695
00:46:21,320 --> 00:46:23,800
Speaker 1: your head. Man. And really, I'm because I don't know.

696
00:46:23,880 --> 00:46:27,040
Speaker 1: I gave you my number, was like this, I meant

697
00:46:27,120 --> 00:46:30,840
Speaker 1: working called me because I don't even know no vaughn, No, no,

698
00:46:31,040 --> 00:46:33,320
Speaker 1: you don't know me that. I asked them who was

699
00:46:33,360 --> 00:46:35,960
Speaker 1: in three sixteen? They told me, none of your business

700
00:46:36,000 --> 00:46:38,719
Speaker 1: going three sixteen. Man, Hey listen, man, I'm trying to

701
00:46:38,760 --> 00:46:41,719
Speaker 1: do this as respectful as possible. You know, Like I said,

702
00:46:41,800 --> 00:46:45,520
Speaker 1: I really can't function unless I'm living in them. Disrespect

703
00:46:45,600 --> 00:46:48,279
Speaker 1: me then doing disrespects for then because I'm gonna show

704
00:46:48,440 --> 00:46:50,640
Speaker 1: do this for you. Called me was like this, I

705
00:46:50,680 --> 00:46:52,600
Speaker 1: don't get a favorite now, I don't care if there

706
00:46:52,680 --> 00:46:56,000
Speaker 1: was your favorite scripture. Okay, tell me with like that. Man.

707
00:46:56,160 --> 00:46:58,799
Speaker 1: See now you're gonna make this hard, okay, so let

708
00:46:58,840 --> 00:47:00,200
Speaker 1: me let me tell you this to you. And I'm

709
00:47:00,200 --> 00:47:01,920
Speaker 1: already told the lady I want to be in three

710
00:47:01,960 --> 00:47:05,200
Speaker 1: to sixteen. She told me I needed to deal with dale. Nah.

711
00:47:05,440 --> 00:47:07,839
Speaker 1: I'm trying to deal with you in a polightweight, okay,

712
00:47:07,840 --> 00:47:10,359
Speaker 1: because like I say, I can't function, man, I left

713
00:47:10,480 --> 00:47:12,879
Speaker 1: up an apartment three to sixteen. I can't. I can't

714
00:47:12,880 --> 00:47:15,240
Speaker 1: even get them go to work. I cannot function. Okay,

715
00:47:15,480 --> 00:47:18,440
Speaker 1: I have to have that apartment number. Right. It sounds

716
00:47:18,480 --> 00:47:20,680
Speaker 1: like you got a problem on your hands. Man, Whatever

717
00:47:20,760 --> 00:47:24,360
Speaker 1: your problem is, that's your problem. Ain't got you with me?

718
00:47:24,680 --> 00:47:27,279
Speaker 1: O coll You know like that? Like I say, I've

719
00:47:27,280 --> 00:47:29,960
Speaker 1: been staying in three to sixteen, I'm gonna stay in

720
00:47:30,040 --> 00:47:32,719
Speaker 1: three to sixteen until I moved to a house. You

721
00:47:32,800 --> 00:47:35,040
Speaker 1: need to find something else to do. And really I'm

722
00:47:35,440 --> 00:47:38,320
Speaker 1: starting that gave you my number to call me with

723
00:47:38,960 --> 00:47:42,719
Speaker 1: is I can't believes like the way you're talking to

724
00:47:42,800 --> 00:47:45,560
Speaker 1: you talking to me first to come at me with

725
00:47:46,200 --> 00:47:49,600
Speaker 1: come at me with a number, looked like you man,

726
00:47:49,800 --> 00:47:54,640
Speaker 1: three sixteen? What excuse me though, what you're saying You

727
00:47:54,719 --> 00:47:57,399
Speaker 1: called me with this? I tell you what, man, come

728
00:47:57,480 --> 00:48:00,440
Speaker 1: at me or come at my problem that you're gonna seed? Man,

729
00:48:00,600 --> 00:48:02,600
Speaker 1: you understand what I'm saying. Hey, man, I'm trying to

730
00:48:02,640 --> 00:48:06,279
Speaker 1: handle this respectively. Man, Okay, all right, I'm trying to

731
00:48:06,320 --> 00:48:09,080
Speaker 1: do listen to him. So I'm trying to tell you, honestly, dog,

732
00:48:09,280 --> 00:48:12,399
Speaker 1: I cannot function outside of them three numbers. I hamp

733
00:48:12,480 --> 00:48:15,600
Speaker 1: to live in apartment three sixteen. It ain't my business, man, Yo.

734
00:48:15,760 --> 00:48:18,320
Speaker 1: I don't want to come move, Yo, but I do it.

735
00:48:18,360 --> 00:48:20,600
Speaker 1: Hold on? What's running back? Which you say? I said

736
00:48:20,640 --> 00:48:24,439
Speaker 1: I don't want to have to move? Yo? Said it down?

737
00:48:25,000 --> 00:48:27,839
Speaker 1: Got me what You're gonna come move? I want? Hey,

738
00:48:28,000 --> 00:48:30,800
Speaker 1: matter of fact, come yeah, come on, come move three sixteen,

739
00:48:30,920 --> 00:48:33,799
Speaker 1: three sixteen. I had a three before you. Come on, man,

740
00:48:33,920 --> 00:48:37,520
Speaker 1: come on, come move my man, Come on two teen silence,

741
00:48:37,560 --> 00:48:40,239
Speaker 1: come on, move yet. I'll kind of going on the

742
00:48:40,280 --> 00:48:42,879
Speaker 1: world with number. They've got three under sixty five days.

743
00:48:44,000 --> 00:48:46,600
Speaker 1: I mean work you want. I'm on my nine to

744
00:48:46,719 --> 00:48:48,720
Speaker 1: five and you come in and you boy some three sixteen.

745
00:48:49,000 --> 00:48:51,520
Speaker 1: I'm gonna move somebody. That's all I got to say. Man,

746
00:48:51,719 --> 00:48:53,879
Speaker 1: it's gonna be you for I did fo. I deal

747
00:48:53,920 --> 00:48:55,600
Speaker 1: with you though I'm gonna get the least, and I

748
00:48:55,719 --> 00:48:59,480
Speaker 1: was even giving you my number days. Hey, man, I'm

749
00:48:59,680 --> 00:49:01,839
Speaker 1: I'm just trying to tell you I have to stay

750
00:49:02,000 --> 00:49:05,400
Speaker 1: under them numbers, man, I have to. I'm superstitious like that.

751
00:49:05,520 --> 00:49:07,239
Speaker 1: I know, I know everybody ain't like that, but I

752
00:49:07,320 --> 00:49:09,160
Speaker 1: just happen to be like that. You don't say nobody

753
00:49:09,160 --> 00:49:10,719
Speaker 1: ain't like that. Man, I ain't got time to be

754
00:49:10,840 --> 00:49:13,680
Speaker 1: dealing it. Really, everybody ain't got time. You sit up

755
00:49:13,719 --> 00:49:16,839
Speaker 1: listen like this, and you looked up with Christian other

756
00:49:16,880 --> 00:49:19,600
Speaker 1: than I've been out this job looking what what apartment

757
00:49:19,680 --> 00:49:21,719
Speaker 1: number did they give you? They gave me like three

758
00:49:21,880 --> 00:49:24,200
Speaker 1: twenty nine or something like that. I don't I can't

759
00:49:24,280 --> 00:49:26,440
Speaker 1: stay there, man, That's why I'm gonna meet you. Man,

760
00:49:26,760 --> 00:49:29,359
Speaker 1: me did it three twenty nine, six o'clock to night.

761
00:49:29,640 --> 00:49:32,640
Speaker 1: How about them numbers? Okay, okay, So how about these

762
00:49:32,719 --> 00:49:35,839
Speaker 1: numbers right here? They sell them, Sell them twenty nine,

763
00:49:35,960 --> 00:49:39,920
Speaker 1: Steve Man, they sell them, sell them pointy nine, Steve Eye,

764
00:49:39,920 --> 00:49:42,160
Speaker 1: sell them seven twenty nine. Sex. You ain't never heard

765
00:49:42,239 --> 00:49:46,560
Speaker 1: that number before? What it's soundful? Man's that's the number

766
00:49:46,600 --> 00:49:49,680
Speaker 1: to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Because this is nephew Tommy,

767
00:49:49,880 --> 00:49:53,759
Speaker 1: and you just got pranked by your coworker, limbito. I

768
00:49:54,040 --> 00:50:00,160
Speaker 1: me make that listen. It's it's just sounds crazy. I

769
00:50:00,360 --> 00:50:04,600
Speaker 1: believe it for us to had me rolling, got me

770
00:50:04,680 --> 00:50:06,640
Speaker 1: about to take off and go to the Lisa off

771
00:50:06,719 --> 00:50:09,960
Speaker 1: and call it height? Now who you say got me? Now?

772
00:50:10,520 --> 00:50:14,120
Speaker 1: Ain't you got a co worker at Linda? Linda acted

773
00:50:14,160 --> 00:50:18,880
Speaker 1: about Linda covering for Linda right now? I wonder what

774
00:50:19,160 --> 00:50:24,200
Speaker 1: else she takes so long she put here? Man, God, yeah,

775
00:50:24,200 --> 00:50:26,600
Speaker 1: I ain't going no, man, Hey, del I got one

776
00:50:26,640 --> 00:50:31,040
Speaker 1: more thing to ask you. Man, there you had worked

777
00:50:31,040 --> 00:50:35,200
Speaker 1: for real, ain't you? Yeah? Hey man? What's the bad

778
00:50:35,440 --> 00:50:38,319
Speaker 1: radio show in the land? Man? Steve rother Martin show?

779
00:50:39,640 --> 00:50:41,359
Speaker 1: All right, man, get back to work, man, your phone

780
00:50:41,400 --> 00:50:48,160
Speaker 1: off the hook over there? All right? All right, right

781
00:50:48,239 --> 00:50:56,600
Speaker 1: back to numbers. Man, He was trying to meet you

782
00:50:56,800 --> 00:51:02,400
Speaker 1: right since fifteen? Meet me right there? How about how

783
00:51:02,440 --> 00:51:09,960
Speaker 1: the numbers work? That funny? You know? The thing about us,

784
00:51:10,080 --> 00:51:15,520
Speaker 1: man is and you know it's it's just a part

785
00:51:15,640 --> 00:51:19,760
Speaker 1: of it. If you're from the culture, this this culture

786
00:51:19,800 --> 00:51:22,840
Speaker 1: that we have to grow up in over of defending

787
00:51:22,920 --> 00:51:26,560
Speaker 1: yourself and and and scrapping and fighting, it's so many

788
00:51:26,680 --> 00:51:29,840
Speaker 1: people that are part of that culture. Even if you,

789
00:51:30,280 --> 00:51:33,600
Speaker 1: even if you've moved on from it, you can't put

790
00:51:33,960 --> 00:51:36,560
Speaker 1: you just can't put certain people that had it in

791
00:51:36,680 --> 00:51:43,040
Speaker 1: a background because it's gonna resurface. Man. Yeah, you know,

792
00:51:43,239 --> 00:51:46,640
Speaker 1: my mom used to say, we anticipate some bs all

793
00:51:46,719 --> 00:51:52,480
Speaker 1: the time, the black people. We are, right, that's what

794
00:51:52,719 --> 00:51:58,319
Speaker 1: I'm like said. The joke was I wish a blanketing blake. Yes,

795
00:52:00,040 --> 00:52:10,920
Speaker 1: I wish ready, I wish you wood ready said Okay, okay, okay,

796
00:52:11,040 --> 00:52:15,399
Speaker 1: that's what you want. Okay, cool, I got that for you. Plus,

797
00:52:15,440 --> 00:52:18,400
Speaker 1: so I got something you ain't counting on when you

798
00:52:18,520 --> 00:52:22,200
Speaker 1: want it. I know it's true with you, Steve everywhere.

799
00:52:24,239 --> 00:52:32,319
Speaker 1: Surely I'll be trying, I know, and like I'm gonna

800
00:52:32,320 --> 00:52:37,040
Speaker 1: tell y'all, Oh something something that happened at the golf course.

801
00:52:37,440 --> 00:52:44,799
Speaker 1: Seeing yeo jumped off at the court. That's a that's

802
00:52:44,960 --> 00:52:49,040
Speaker 1: that's a gentleman's game. Yeah, it wasn't possibly happened at

803
00:52:49,080 --> 00:52:54,239
Speaker 1: the golf course. All right, Well listen, Uh we'll be

804
00:52:54,400 --> 00:52:56,759
Speaker 1: back with more of the Sea Harvey Morning Show and

805
00:52:56,800 --> 00:52:59,080
Speaker 1: we'll get to the Strawberry Letter as well. Subject the

806
00:52:59,160 --> 00:53:02,200
Speaker 1: ladies at the church to love me. Right after this.

807
00:53:02,880 --> 00:53:06,960
Speaker 1: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Time now

808
00:53:07,040 --> 00:53:10,160
Speaker 1: for today's Strawberry Letter, and listen if you need advice

809
00:53:10,280 --> 00:53:14,600
Speaker 1: on relationships, dating, work, sex, parenting and more. Please submit

810
00:53:14,680 --> 00:53:17,799
Speaker 1: your Strawberry letter to Steve HARVEYFM dot com and click

811
00:53:17,880 --> 00:53:21,239
Speaker 1: submit Strawberry Letter. We could be reading your letter live

812
00:53:21,360 --> 00:53:23,000
Speaker 1: on the air, just like we're going to read this

813
00:53:23,080 --> 00:53:27,000
Speaker 1: one right here, right now. Buggle love and hold on tight.

814
00:53:27,040 --> 00:53:29,399
Speaker 1: We got it for you. Here. It is Strawberry letter.

815
00:53:29,880 --> 00:53:34,440
Speaker 1: Subject the ladies at the church love me. Dear Stephen Shirley.

816
00:53:34,880 --> 00:53:38,640
Speaker 1: I am an ordained minister and I've been a pastor

817
00:53:38,880 --> 00:53:42,880
Speaker 1: at my church for thirteen years. I've been married three times,

818
00:53:43,239 --> 00:53:46,520
Speaker 1: so I'm singled by choice now. The church had a

819
00:53:46,600 --> 00:53:50,320
Speaker 1: problem at first with a nice looking and swab single pastor,

820
00:53:50,640 --> 00:53:52,880
Speaker 1: but I managed to keep them out of my business

821
00:53:53,040 --> 00:53:56,720
Speaker 1: until recently. My first wife went public with the details

822
00:53:56,760 --> 00:53:59,920
Speaker 1: of our divorce about a month ago, and that's snowball

823
00:54:00,239 --> 00:54:04,040
Speaker 1: into an all out investigation into my dealings with other

824
00:54:04,160 --> 00:54:07,640
Speaker 1: women in our church. They try to sanction me and

825
00:54:07,800 --> 00:54:10,640
Speaker 1: give me a reduction in my duties, but none of

826
00:54:10,680 --> 00:54:13,080
Speaker 1: the women I was messing with were bothered enough to

827
00:54:13,160 --> 00:54:16,520
Speaker 1: speak out against me. That's because I handle them with

828
00:54:16,719 --> 00:54:21,000
Speaker 1: TLC and I'm good at what I do. I have

829
00:54:21,120 --> 00:54:23,759
Speaker 1: repented for cheating on my wives, and that's why I

830
00:54:23,880 --> 00:54:28,200
Speaker 1: will never get married again. I have a problem now though.

831
00:54:28,680 --> 00:54:30,600
Speaker 1: The ladies in the church are coming at me in

832
00:54:30,719 --> 00:54:34,280
Speaker 1: alarming numbers. I have notes slipped to me after service,

833
00:54:34,360 --> 00:54:37,239
Speaker 1: and I get note slid under my office door. I'm

834
00:54:37,280 --> 00:54:40,480
Speaker 1: not on social media and I don't check my email myself,

835
00:54:40,880 --> 00:54:44,560
Speaker 1: so they're getting to me by any means necessary. So

836
00:54:44,960 --> 00:54:47,120
Speaker 1: I have turned to you for advice on what to

837
00:54:47,280 --> 00:54:50,239
Speaker 1: do with my social life now that I'm single and

838
00:54:50,400 --> 00:54:52,600
Speaker 1: not trying to be in a scandal. At my age,

839
00:54:53,040 --> 00:54:56,000
Speaker 1: I do still have needs, and so many of the

840
00:54:56,120 --> 00:54:59,520
Speaker 1: ladies are in great physical shape. They say they just

841
00:54:59,719 --> 00:55:02,440
Speaker 1: need counseling, But I'm not good with being alone in

842
00:55:02,560 --> 00:55:05,680
Speaker 1: my office with a woman that needs counseling and comforting.

843
00:55:06,280 --> 00:55:09,600
Speaker 1: I pray that this spirit is removed from me, because

844
00:55:09,640 --> 00:55:12,400
Speaker 1: I know right from wrong, and my mind is moving

845
00:55:12,600 --> 00:55:16,560
Speaker 1: toward doing wrong. I often wonder if it's me that

846
00:55:16,719 --> 00:55:19,920
Speaker 1: the women are into, or is it the idea of me?

847
00:55:20,680 --> 00:55:24,880
Speaker 1: How can I resist these temptations? You heard it, You

848
00:55:25,480 --> 00:55:29,880
Speaker 1: heard it, and I got to ask you, mister minister,

849
00:55:31,160 --> 00:55:36,160
Speaker 1: why are you a preacher, a man of God asking

850
00:55:36,320 --> 00:55:39,239
Speaker 1: Steve and I about what to do about temptation? Why

851
00:55:39,560 --> 00:55:44,160
Speaker 1: did you rus you, sir, are a pastor of thirteen years.

852
00:55:44,400 --> 00:55:47,319
Speaker 1: Is right here in your letter, so you know way more,

853
00:55:47,800 --> 00:55:50,879
Speaker 1: way more about this subject than we do that both

854
00:55:50,920 --> 00:55:54,520
Speaker 1: of us combined. You even say you know right from wrong.

855
00:55:54,760 --> 00:55:56,840
Speaker 1: You set it right here in your letter too. But

856
00:55:56,960 --> 00:55:59,200
Speaker 1: I get it. Knowing what to do and actually doing

857
00:55:59,239 --> 00:56:02,640
Speaker 1: it or two highly different situations, we all fall short.

858
00:56:02,719 --> 00:56:05,759
Speaker 1: I get that. But you know the Bible says, you know,

859
00:56:06,080 --> 00:56:08,759
Speaker 1: flee from the very appearance of evil, and resist the

860
00:56:08,880 --> 00:56:11,360
Speaker 1: devil he will flee from you. You you already know

861
00:56:11,560 --> 00:56:15,160
Speaker 1: the word pastor, but you know the word So so

862
00:56:15,360 --> 00:56:18,239
Speaker 1: what is this letter? Because I ain't got none of that?

863
00:56:19,440 --> 00:56:22,000
Speaker 1: But wait, but what is this letter really about? Though?

864
00:56:22,080 --> 00:56:24,440
Speaker 1: That's what we want to get to. I think it's to,

865
00:56:24,760 --> 00:56:26,920
Speaker 1: you know, take a moment to tell us how sexy

866
00:56:27,000 --> 00:56:30,080
Speaker 1: and fine you are or something like that. You know,

867
00:56:30,320 --> 00:56:32,960
Speaker 1: all these church ladies are all over you. I mean,

868
00:56:33,040 --> 00:56:35,160
Speaker 1: why else would you tell us that you're nice looking

869
00:56:35,280 --> 00:56:38,400
Speaker 1: and just swab and you handle them with TLC and

870
00:56:38,520 --> 00:56:41,160
Speaker 1: you're good at what you do. We don't care about that.

871
00:56:41,880 --> 00:56:46,080
Speaker 1: The problem is you, mister, married and divorced three times

872
00:56:46,200 --> 00:56:51,080
Speaker 1: because of cheating. You say you've repented, but you haven't

873
00:56:51,160 --> 00:56:53,440
Speaker 1: changed your behavior. The only thing you plan to do

874
00:56:53,600 --> 00:56:56,440
Speaker 1: differently now, you say, is to get married again. You

875
00:56:56,520 --> 00:57:00,200
Speaker 1: say you still have needs and you're leaning toward doing wrong.

876
00:57:00,719 --> 00:57:03,359
Speaker 1: So what you're you're saying is that you know you're

877
00:57:03,400 --> 00:57:05,200
Speaker 1: gonna be sleeping with some of these ladies at the

878
00:57:05,280 --> 00:57:07,440
Speaker 1: church real soon. That's what it sounds like. We all

879
00:57:07,520 --> 00:57:10,360
Speaker 1: know it. What you really need to do, mister pastor,

880
00:57:10,560 --> 00:57:14,440
Speaker 1: mister minister of thirteen years, sit down, humble yourself and

881
00:57:14,680 --> 00:57:18,200
Speaker 1: try to get your life back on track with God.

882
00:57:18,640 --> 00:57:25,880
Speaker 1: Pastor Steve, the subject is the ladies at the church

883
00:57:26,040 --> 00:57:32,600
Speaker 1: loved you. My question is what Shirley proposed a little earlier.

884
00:57:33,520 --> 00:57:38,760
Speaker 1: What the hell you come to me for? I mean, Pastor,

885
00:57:39,920 --> 00:57:44,200
Speaker 1: listen to me. I'm badly saying save like I'm saved,

886
00:57:44,240 --> 00:57:48,040
Speaker 1: but don't don't come over here with too much because

887
00:57:48,080 --> 00:57:52,680
Speaker 1: I'm I'm on constantly on the struggle. Yeah, now, boy, sir,

888
00:57:53,560 --> 00:57:57,160
Speaker 1: I'm an ordained minister. Now I have a question, Sherley,

889
00:57:57,160 --> 00:57:59,600
Speaker 1: because I don't know the answer to this. Is ordained

890
00:57:59,720 --> 00:58:04,000
Speaker 1: minister different from a minister that's called to the ministry

891
00:58:04,080 --> 00:58:07,880
Speaker 1: by God? Because I don't know what that difference is.

892
00:58:07,960 --> 00:58:11,120
Speaker 1: But I get to that I think the ordainment part

893
00:58:11,200 --> 00:58:13,520
Speaker 1: of it is Tommy, you can help me out. That's

894
00:58:13,560 --> 00:58:16,560
Speaker 1: the ritual to go through, yeah, because he was raising

895
00:58:16,600 --> 00:58:23,200
Speaker 1: the church as well. It's the ritual and the you know,

896
00:58:23,640 --> 00:58:26,200
Speaker 1: you know, Tommy knows stuff like this, but it's kind

897
00:58:26,200 --> 00:58:29,040
Speaker 1: of like the ritual and the ceremony that you go

898
00:58:29,360 --> 00:58:35,960
Speaker 1: to to say that you're okay. Skip anyway. Anyway, he's

899
00:58:36,000 --> 00:58:38,760
Speaker 1: what I'm saying, ordained a call. Maybe that's a difference.

900
00:58:39,280 --> 00:58:41,680
Speaker 1: I've been a pastor to church for thirteen years. I've

901
00:58:41,720 --> 00:58:45,280
Speaker 1: been married three times, and now that's why you call me.

902
00:58:46,920 --> 00:58:50,600
Speaker 1: Oh I see now, oh see. It didn't pop right

903
00:58:50,640 --> 00:58:54,040
Speaker 1: out into beginning. But maybe you thought since Steve been

904
00:58:54,080 --> 00:58:57,680
Speaker 1: at it three times, me and you could talk and well, pimp.

905
00:58:58,600 --> 00:59:03,080
Speaker 1: Here we go in and I say pimp with everything

906
00:59:03,280 --> 00:59:07,480
Speaker 1: in me because that's what I'm reading. Dog, I'm not

907
00:59:07,560 --> 00:59:10,960
Speaker 1: reading a letter from a pastor now, Pardner. I gotta

908
00:59:11,000 --> 00:59:13,560
Speaker 1: just be real. What you you call the wrong dude.

909
00:59:14,120 --> 00:59:16,600
Speaker 1: I'm finn to read your letter when we come back,

910
00:59:17,120 --> 00:59:19,560
Speaker 1: per line, and I'm gonna give you as I go

911
00:59:20,320 --> 00:59:24,480
Speaker 1: my exact feelings on it. Now, Pastor, this letter is

912
00:59:24,600 --> 00:59:28,400
Speaker 1: man to man, you know, I know so I don't

913
00:59:28,440 --> 00:59:30,680
Speaker 1: know why you write into me man and think now

914
00:59:30,720 --> 00:59:33,840
Speaker 1: I'm gonna talk to you real regular now. So when

915
00:59:33,880 --> 00:59:36,560
Speaker 1: we come back to the past, y'a't Finn talk to

916
00:59:36,640 --> 00:59:38,960
Speaker 1: the pastor real regular because he act like some dudes.

917
00:59:39,040 --> 00:59:42,600
Speaker 1: I know, I'm set pastoral behavior in him, So why

918
00:59:42,680 --> 00:59:45,280
Speaker 1: we got to talk as past All right? Cool? You

919
00:59:45,440 --> 00:59:48,360
Speaker 1: call the right place? All right. We'll have part two

920
00:59:48,400 --> 00:59:52,360
Speaker 1: of Thieves Response coming up at twenty three minutes after

921
00:59:52,440 --> 00:59:55,040
Speaker 1: the hour. Subject for today the ladies at the church

922
00:59:55,360 --> 00:59:57,560
Speaker 1: love me. We'll get back into it right after this.

923
00:59:58,400 --> 01:00:04,000
Speaker 1: You're listening show, all right, Come on, Steve, let's recap

924
01:00:04,080 --> 01:00:08,440
Speaker 1: today's strawberry letter. The subject is the ladies at church

925
01:00:08,960 --> 01:00:12,160
Speaker 1: love me? Love right, let's go. So now let's go

926
01:00:12,240 --> 01:00:15,000
Speaker 1: through the left. Don't leave nothing now, Steve Stephen Shelley.

927
01:00:15,040 --> 01:00:17,680
Speaker 1: I'm an ordained minister. I guess that's different from being

928
01:00:17,760 --> 01:00:20,240
Speaker 1: called I guess I've been a pastor my church for

929
01:00:20,360 --> 01:00:23,960
Speaker 1: thirteen years. I've been married three times, so I'm single

930
01:00:24,040 --> 01:00:26,760
Speaker 1: by choice. Now. I was wondering why I passed would

931
01:00:26,800 --> 01:00:29,320
Speaker 1: right in to us about his temptation and love life.

932
01:00:29,560 --> 01:00:31,520
Speaker 1: But I guess it's cause he thinks I've been married

933
01:00:31,600 --> 01:00:34,600
Speaker 1: three times. We got some in coming. Well, imp here

934
01:00:34,600 --> 01:00:37,800
Speaker 1: would go. The church had a problem at first with

935
01:00:37,960 --> 01:00:41,600
Speaker 1: a nice looking at suave single pastor, but I managed

936
01:00:41,640 --> 01:00:44,720
Speaker 1: to keep them out of my business until recently. Oh

937
01:00:44,920 --> 01:00:50,880
Speaker 1: so your description of yourself is suave single pastor. Okay,

938
01:00:51,240 --> 01:00:53,919
Speaker 1: you came in with with the swag in the game.

939
01:00:54,760 --> 01:00:58,240
Speaker 1: My first wife went public with the details of and

940
01:00:58,440 --> 01:01:00,800
Speaker 1: I've kept and I've managed to keep them out of

941
01:01:00,880 --> 01:01:04,600
Speaker 1: my business until recently. My first my wife went public

942
01:01:04,680 --> 01:01:07,040
Speaker 1: with the details of our divorce about a month ago,

943
01:01:07,440 --> 01:01:10,600
Speaker 1: and that's snowballed into an all out of investigation into

944
01:01:10,720 --> 01:01:16,400
Speaker 1: my dealings with other women in our church. Okay, pastor,

945
01:01:16,760 --> 01:01:19,880
Speaker 1: Now I watched this. They tried to sanction me and

946
01:01:20,040 --> 01:01:23,160
Speaker 1: give me a reduction in my duties, but none of

947
01:01:23,280 --> 01:01:26,240
Speaker 1: the women I was messing with were bothered enough to

948
01:01:26,320 --> 01:01:29,840
Speaker 1: speak out against me. That's because I handled them with

949
01:01:30,000 --> 01:01:34,000
Speaker 1: TLC and I'm good at what I do well, pimp.

950
01:01:34,280 --> 01:01:38,600
Speaker 1: Problem is game recognized game. See the problem pass it

951
01:01:38,720 --> 01:01:41,960
Speaker 1: is you forgot that you was married and you didn't

952
01:01:42,040 --> 01:01:46,960
Speaker 1: handle your three wives with TLC. So there's other talk

953
01:01:47,040 --> 01:01:49,600
Speaker 1: about these women didn't bother to come out against you

954
01:01:49,680 --> 01:01:52,760
Speaker 1: because you treated them with TLC, and you good at

955
01:01:52,800 --> 01:01:56,480
Speaker 1: what you do. It's the reason you have three formal wives.

956
01:01:56,800 --> 01:01:59,560
Speaker 1: It's because you forgot you was married and you didn't

957
01:01:59,640 --> 01:02:06,080
Speaker 1: treat your wives with TLC. Pimp. So let's scratch that.

958
01:02:06,280 --> 01:02:08,960
Speaker 1: You're good at what you do. Your ass is fitting

959
01:02:09,000 --> 01:02:17,080
Speaker 1: against sanction, So don how good are you? Everybody in

960
01:02:17,080 --> 01:02:19,560
Speaker 1: the church know your business. You're good at what you do,

961
01:02:20,120 --> 01:02:29,840
Speaker 1: what pastor? And I have repented for cheating on my wives,

962
01:02:30,240 --> 01:02:33,480
Speaker 1: and that's why I will never get married again. Oh,

963
01:02:34,200 --> 01:02:36,600
Speaker 1: because you're not gonna get married again because you have

964
01:02:36,760 --> 01:02:40,240
Speaker 1: to repent for cheating. Is that why you're not gonna

965
01:02:40,240 --> 01:02:45,400
Speaker 1: get married again? Because you've repented and now you've decided

966
01:02:45,480 --> 01:02:48,080
Speaker 1: you will never get married again. You know why, because

967
01:02:48,080 --> 01:02:50,200
Speaker 1: you're gonna cheat again and you don't like having to

968
01:02:50,320 --> 01:02:53,880
Speaker 1: ask for repentance for it. See, pimp, I see y'all

969
01:02:53,920 --> 01:02:57,360
Speaker 1: through this letter. Man. I got a problem now though.

970
01:02:57,640 --> 01:02:59,360
Speaker 1: The ladies in the church are coming at me in

971
01:02:59,440 --> 01:03:02,120
Speaker 1: alarming numbers. I got notes slipped to me after service.

972
01:03:02,160 --> 01:03:04,440
Speaker 1: I get notes under my dough so they getting down.

973
01:03:04,480 --> 01:03:07,200
Speaker 1: You ain't on social media, nick, and they check I

974
01:03:07,280 --> 01:03:09,720
Speaker 1: don't check my email myself, so they get into me

975
01:03:09,800 --> 01:03:12,880
Speaker 1: by any means necessary. So I've turned to you for

976
01:03:13,040 --> 01:03:16,880
Speaker 1: advice on what to do with my social life. Okay, passion.

977
01:03:17,400 --> 01:03:19,920
Speaker 1: Now that I'm single and not trying to be at

978
01:03:19,960 --> 01:03:23,400
Speaker 1: a scandal at my age, I do still have needs

979
01:03:23,720 --> 01:03:26,440
Speaker 1: and so many of the ladies are in great physical shape.

980
01:03:27,480 --> 01:03:33,920
Speaker 1: What yes, yea? So this is all about your sexual gratification.

981
01:03:34,480 --> 01:03:38,040
Speaker 1: That's all this is about, dude. They say they just

982
01:03:38,240 --> 01:03:41,080
Speaker 1: need counseling, but I'm not good with being alone in

983
01:03:41,200 --> 01:03:43,800
Speaker 1: my office with a woman that needs counseling and confidence.

984
01:03:43,920 --> 01:03:46,280
Speaker 1: Have you ever thought about this, dog? Maybe you ain't

985
01:03:46,320 --> 01:03:49,920
Speaker 1: really passed the material, this ordained thing that you've got.

986
01:03:50,040 --> 01:03:53,840
Speaker 1: Maybe you ought to just get unordained because of your dog.

987
01:03:54,000 --> 01:03:57,200
Speaker 1: Maybe you ain't passed the material. If you can't comfort

988
01:03:57,280 --> 01:04:02,720
Speaker 1: and counsel people in a room by yourself, then your

989
01:04:02,840 --> 01:04:08,560
Speaker 1: ass ain't really pass the material. Damn dog. I pray

990
01:04:08,680 --> 01:04:11,080
Speaker 1: that this spirit is removed from me because I know

991
01:04:11,280 --> 01:04:14,360
Speaker 1: right from wrong and my mind is moving towards doing wrong. Dog,

992
01:04:14,400 --> 01:04:19,800
Speaker 1: you ain't praying about this. You're righting into a morning show. Okay,

993
01:04:19,960 --> 01:04:23,480
Speaker 1: so you're not. I pray that this spirit is removed

994
01:04:23,480 --> 01:04:25,080
Speaker 1: from me because I know right from wrong and my

995
01:04:25,160 --> 01:04:29,200
Speaker 1: mind is moving towards doing wrong. What I often wonder

996
01:04:29,240 --> 01:04:31,400
Speaker 1: if it's me that the women are into or is

997
01:04:31,440 --> 01:04:34,400
Speaker 1: it the idea of me? How can I resist these temptations?

998
01:04:34,840 --> 01:04:37,960
Speaker 1: Hold on, man, brother, you ain't really praying about this

999
01:04:38,040 --> 01:04:40,920
Speaker 1: because you're righting into the morning show. And then the

1000
01:04:41,040 --> 01:04:45,800
Speaker 1: next thing, you know, if you were called your problem

1001
01:04:46,000 --> 01:04:50,320
Speaker 1: is you answering too many callings? Can't nobody slip you

1002
01:04:50,360 --> 01:04:53,240
Speaker 1: a note? Can't nobody come in your office? Can't nobody

1003
01:04:53,280 --> 01:04:56,720
Speaker 1: getting no confident? Can't nobody getting no counseling? You can't

1004
01:04:56,760 --> 01:04:59,720
Speaker 1: get mad no more? You're repented from cheating you to

1005
01:04:59,840 --> 01:05:03,680
Speaker 1: hand at three wives, befolk. You suave, and you nice looking,

1006
01:05:03,720 --> 01:05:06,640
Speaker 1: and you dapple, and that's all it is. Pimp. So

1007
01:05:06,800 --> 01:05:09,320
Speaker 1: when you say I wonder if it's me that the

1008
01:05:09,440 --> 01:05:12,480
Speaker 1: women are into or is it the idea of me? Dog?

1009
01:05:13,120 --> 01:05:17,160
Speaker 1: You tell us? You tell us because I think you

1010
01:05:17,360 --> 01:05:19,960
Speaker 1: more in love with the idea of you than anybody else.

1011
01:05:21,880 --> 01:05:25,000
Speaker 1: You like the suave, nice looking past, and it walked

1012
01:05:25,040 --> 01:05:28,160
Speaker 1: in the door. Are you in the ministry for the

1013
01:05:28,360 --> 01:05:31,200
Speaker 1: right reasons? Is the question? Because it sounded to me

1014
01:05:31,320 --> 01:05:34,200
Speaker 1: like you in the ministry for the women because you

1015
01:05:34,320 --> 01:05:36,640
Speaker 1: don't do no counsel. So can anybody come in there

1016
01:05:36,640 --> 01:05:38,840
Speaker 1: and talk to you and set me in because of

1017
01:05:38,920 --> 01:05:41,240
Speaker 1: a woman coming there that's in good physical shape. You

1018
01:05:41,360 --> 01:05:47,120
Speaker 1: got needs yo. Man, you're not gonna marry again because

1019
01:05:47,200 --> 01:05:50,560
Speaker 1: you know you're gonna keep cheating, pimp. Let's be real.

1020
01:05:51,080 --> 01:05:55,400
Speaker 1: Booster Commins done Today's Strawberry Letter Steve HARVEFM and Instagram

1021
01:05:55,480 --> 01:05:59,840
Speaker 1: and Facebook. Check the Ministry podcast on demand coming up

1022
01:05:59,840 --> 01:06:02,760
Speaker 1: with play six minutes after Sports Talk with Junior right

1023
01:06:02,800 --> 01:06:08,880
Speaker 1: after this. You're listening, all right, guys, it is that

1024
01:06:09,080 --> 01:06:12,720
Speaker 1: time time for Sports Talk with Junior. What you got, Junior?

1025
01:06:13,240 --> 01:06:18,160
Speaker 1: Sad news out of Wimbledon. Everybody's sad news. Um Serena

1026
01:06:18,240 --> 01:06:21,800
Speaker 1: Williams had to withdraw to a leg injury from Wimbledon yesterday, man,

1027
01:06:22,200 --> 01:06:25,920
Speaker 1: um Man, she is out of Wimbledon. But you know

1028
01:06:26,040 --> 01:06:27,560
Speaker 1: what it was. It was just the fact that she

1029
01:06:27,720 --> 01:06:30,160
Speaker 1: tried to keep on playing even with the leg injury.

1030
01:06:30,560 --> 01:06:33,760
Speaker 1: She slipped on the grass. It was raining and she

1031
01:06:33,880 --> 01:06:36,800
Speaker 1: slipped trying to return to serve and tweaked the muscle

1032
01:06:36,840 --> 01:06:39,200
Speaker 1: in her in her leg. So she had to withdraw

1033
01:06:39,400 --> 01:06:41,160
Speaker 1: and she was hard a whole back tears. I mean,

1034
01:06:41,200 --> 01:06:43,280
Speaker 1: I know Wimbledon is a big event for her and

1035
01:06:43,400 --> 01:06:45,080
Speaker 1: I really wish she could, but they gave her a

1036
01:06:45,120 --> 01:06:48,680
Speaker 1: round standing ovation anyway as she left the court. That's

1037
01:06:48,720 --> 01:06:52,600
Speaker 1: how much people appreciate Serena Williams. Man. Serena Williams career

1038
01:06:52,880 --> 01:06:57,000
Speaker 1: is Hall of fame, right. That girl is the baddest

1039
01:06:57,080 --> 01:07:01,400
Speaker 1: of the baddest of all the lad tenness true transfer.

1040
01:07:01,560 --> 01:07:06,600
Speaker 1: She's surpassed Billy Jean King, She's surpassed Chrissy every She's

1041
01:07:07,000 --> 01:07:12,040
Speaker 1: to pass Martina, not LoVa, whatever her name is. That's

1042
01:07:12,280 --> 01:07:13,920
Speaker 1: that's we know what we're talking about. You know what

1043
01:07:14,040 --> 01:07:18,680
Speaker 1: I'm saying, Oh girl, old girl. I mean, she is

1044
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Speaker 1: the goat. She's to go to tennis. Tigers to go

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01:07:22,800 --> 01:07:27,440
Speaker 1: to golf. I don't care what nobody records. Is what

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Speaker 1: Tiger played golf better than anybody I ever saw. Now,

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01:07:30,680 --> 01:07:32,920
Speaker 1: you can roll out all the tapes of Jack Nicholas

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01:07:33,000 --> 01:07:34,880
Speaker 1: and Honor Palm and they're great and all like that,

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01:07:35,480 --> 01:07:39,040
Speaker 1: But when you play the tapes, Tiger Wood better near body,

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01:07:39,880 --> 01:07:43,120
Speaker 1: hands down, hands down. Also, man, we gotta give a

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01:07:43,160 --> 01:07:45,520
Speaker 1: big shout out. This is big, big shout out to

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Speaker 1: my man, Chauncey Billups. He is the new head coach

1053
01:07:48,520 --> 01:07:57,880
Speaker 1: of the Portland Trail Blazers coach in the NBA. Detroit. Yeah,

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01:07:58,800 --> 01:08:04,240
Speaker 1: world champ all time favorite city to perform in Detroit

1055
01:08:04,440 --> 01:08:08,560
Speaker 1: number one, Washington, DC number two. I didn't hear something else.

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01:08:08,560 --> 01:08:12,080
Speaker 1: I got to tell y'all about that. This disturbed me. Okay,

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01:08:12,240 --> 01:08:15,640
Speaker 1: surely the Espies are going to a July tenth on ABC.

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Speaker 1: Ok eSPI. The host is Anthony mackint Like, Uncle Steve

1059
01:08:20,680 --> 01:08:25,360
Speaker 1: ain't sitting right here. I'll be there. Anthony mack the

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01:08:25,520 --> 01:08:30,480
Speaker 1: falcon in the Marvel movies, Like, yeah, I like macintwo,

1061
01:08:30,600 --> 01:08:36,000
Speaker 1: but he ain't Anco Steve hosting the Junior I host

1062
01:08:36,240 --> 01:08:39,479
Speaker 1: NFL Honors. Baby, I know why the NBA don't see this?

1063
01:08:39,600 --> 01:08:46,559
Speaker 1: Thought is everything? Yeah, you can't see. I don't really

1064
01:08:46,600 --> 01:08:49,559
Speaker 1: care about sock and all that. They don't need, they

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01:08:49,600 --> 01:08:51,080
Speaker 1: don't need to bring him be down there. I don't

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Speaker 1: give a damn by lacrosse. Congratulations Anthony Mackie. Coming up

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Speaker 1: at the top of the hour, we'll talk about the

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01:08:58,360 --> 01:09:02,040
Speaker 1: lazy way to transform your life right after this what

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01:09:03,439 --> 01:09:10,519
Speaker 1: you're listening show, Well, guys, being lazy doesn't have to

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01:09:10,600 --> 01:09:13,519
Speaker 1: be a bad thing. M I never heard that before,

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01:09:14,200 --> 01:09:17,120
Speaker 1: and it can actually help you transform your life now.

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01:09:17,240 --> 01:09:21,080
Speaker 1: Polly Worum is a life coach and self proclaimed lazy girl.

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01:09:22,280 --> 01:09:25,640
Speaker 1: Polly says, you can lean into your lazy nature and

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01:09:25,880 --> 01:09:29,200
Speaker 1: use it to create a life filled with joy. So

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01:09:29,520 --> 01:09:32,880
Speaker 1: see if you agree, Steve. Okay, because you're completely again

1076
01:09:32,960 --> 01:09:35,920
Speaker 1: to this, I'm sure the premise. Anyway, here we go.

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01:09:36,640 --> 01:09:39,280
Speaker 1: She says, be lazy enough to relax and laugh a

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01:09:39,360 --> 01:09:42,479
Speaker 1: little at yourself. That is number one. She says. Don't

1079
01:09:42,560 --> 01:09:50,599
Speaker 1: take yourself so seriously. Okay, okay, okay, you agree, Okay,

1080
01:09:50,960 --> 01:09:54,080
Speaker 1: be lazy enough to relax and enjoy yourself a little bit,

1081
01:09:54,200 --> 01:09:58,080
Speaker 1: laugh at yourself. Don't take yourself so seriously. Yeah, I

1082
01:09:58,400 --> 01:10:01,240
Speaker 1: don't mind you laughing at yourself. Do that sometimes? And

1083
01:10:01,479 --> 01:10:04,799
Speaker 1: I don't, and I don't, and I stopped working to relax.

1084
01:10:04,920 --> 01:10:08,479
Speaker 1: I'm not finding you see. It's hard for me to

1085
01:10:08,520 --> 01:10:13,679
Speaker 1: get a positive out of a negative because every lazy

1086
01:10:13,760 --> 01:10:20,080
Speaker 1: person I know is sorry. And my father narrative. No, well,

1087
01:10:20,200 --> 01:10:23,439
Speaker 1: you can't flip it on me. My father fifteen did

1088
01:10:23,560 --> 01:10:26,519
Speaker 1: something to me. Man, I was supposed to take out

1089
01:10:26,520 --> 01:10:30,880
Speaker 1: the trash every winsday and one and one win shore.

1090
01:10:31,960 --> 01:10:34,960
Speaker 1: I heard him dragging the garbage cans down the driveway.

1091
01:10:35,000 --> 01:10:38,959
Speaker 1: I'm upstair asleep. Mother went rolled black open. He came upstairs,

1092
01:10:39,280 --> 01:10:42,360
Speaker 1: sat on the edge of my bed, shifting. He said,

1093
01:10:42,439 --> 01:10:45,760
Speaker 1: you know something, Sun, I didn't raise you to be

1094
01:10:45,960 --> 01:10:49,560
Speaker 1: like this, but you one sorry rascal. You just a

1095
01:10:49,960 --> 01:10:53,519
Speaker 1: sorry rascal. He got up and walked out of that

1096
01:10:53,680 --> 01:10:57,160
Speaker 1: room and went to work. Man, he was disgusted. I

1097
01:10:57,240 --> 01:11:01,040
Speaker 1: set up in and my father had never done it

1098
01:11:01,200 --> 01:11:04,200
Speaker 1: like that. He just said, you were sorry, rascal. I

1099
01:11:04,280 --> 01:11:06,439
Speaker 1: didn't raise you to be like this, and this was

1100
01:11:06,520 --> 01:11:10,040
Speaker 1: just me missing taking the garbage out on Wednesdays, but

1101
01:11:10,200 --> 01:11:15,639
Speaker 1: that was his unacceptable nature for excuses and not doing

1102
01:11:15,720 --> 01:11:18,280
Speaker 1: what you're supposed to do. And my father walked out

1103
01:11:18,320 --> 01:11:22,200
Speaker 1: their room. Man, I was devastated. Do you know every

1104
01:11:22,439 --> 01:11:25,880
Speaker 1: sense that day I have been trying to prove to

1105
01:11:26,040 --> 01:11:30,560
Speaker 1: him that I'm not sorry, that I'm not lazy to

1106
01:11:31,000 --> 01:11:33,479
Speaker 1: my father died, I was That was my one thing

1107
01:11:33,600 --> 01:11:37,320
Speaker 1: to prove to him, and I was so happy when

1108
01:11:37,360 --> 01:11:39,559
Speaker 1: he said he was proud of me. Boy, you Scott.

1109
01:11:40,880 --> 01:11:48,200
Speaker 1: And so now this woman who hires her, Yeah, yeah,

1110
01:11:49,360 --> 01:11:50,920
Speaker 1: I get what I got out of it. I didn't

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01:11:50,960 --> 01:11:55,679
Speaker 1: get that part of she said, I think it's cool.

1112
01:11:55,800 --> 01:11:58,760
Speaker 1: What she's trying to say to let go a little bit.

1113
01:11:58,920 --> 01:12:01,080
Speaker 1: Yeah that we just didn't. Yeah, she just shouldn't have

1114
01:12:01,200 --> 01:12:03,040
Speaker 1: used the word lazy, and I think you would have

1115
01:12:03,120 --> 01:12:07,080
Speaker 1: been fine with it, Steve, She says, allow yourself to

1116
01:12:07,200 --> 01:12:11,280
Speaker 1: welcome change. You know, I agree with that. Yes, I

1117
01:12:11,360 --> 01:12:14,000
Speaker 1: agree with that. Okay, we'll say something. I agree with it.

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01:12:14,960 --> 01:12:17,559
Speaker 1: She says. One of the best parts of laziness, Steve,

1119
01:12:18,160 --> 01:12:22,519
Speaker 1: not wasting energy on fighting change. Let your lazy help

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01:12:22,560 --> 01:12:31,120
Speaker 1: you become a master of allowing. That's igniti again. Let

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01:12:31,240 --> 01:12:38,000
Speaker 1: your laziness allow you to master allow it. What. Yeah,

1122
01:12:38,520 --> 01:12:42,880
Speaker 1: it sounds crazy though, so Jesse, you sit around and

1123
01:12:43,160 --> 01:12:48,680
Speaker 1: watch it happening. See how I go? Man? Okay, all right,

1124
01:12:48,800 --> 01:12:54,439
Speaker 1: she says, pay attention to your ratio of hustle versus allowing. Okay,

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01:12:54,800 --> 01:12:57,479
Speaker 1: the rule of thumb is seventy percent work and thirty

1126
01:12:57,560 --> 01:13:02,400
Speaker 1: percent allowing. This means you do groundwork, let go of expectations,

1127
01:13:02,720 --> 01:13:06,680
Speaker 1: and allows the universe to deliver. That's her philosophy. I'm

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Speaker 1: the work. How much hustling are y'all doing? I got

1129
01:13:16,080 --> 01:13:20,599
Speaker 1: the hustle falsett wide. I think you're I think you're

1130
01:13:20,640 --> 01:13:22,880
Speaker 1: gonna really like this one, though, Steve. She says, listen

1131
01:13:22,960 --> 01:13:26,639
Speaker 1: to your gut, trust your intuition, and don't waste time

1132
01:13:26,680 --> 01:13:29,640
Speaker 1: and energy getting other people's views on what's going on

1133
01:13:29,920 --> 01:13:32,240
Speaker 1: in your life. I think she nailed that one. I

1134
01:13:32,360 --> 01:13:34,839
Speaker 1: agree with that. See, I think what's keeping her alive?

1135
01:13:35,640 --> 01:13:40,280
Speaker 1: She say a couple of things that just trips and

1136
01:13:40,560 --> 01:13:44,280
Speaker 1: she falls off. I agree. All right, We'll have more

1137
01:13:44,360 --> 01:13:46,400
Speaker 1: of the Steve Harvey Morning Show coming up in twenty

1138
01:13:46,439 --> 01:13:49,680
Speaker 1: minutes after the hour. Right after this, you're listening to

1139
01:13:50,080 --> 01:13:54,880
Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, guys, Carla is here

1140
01:13:54,920 --> 01:13:59,639
Speaker 1: with today's podcast Alert update. Carla, Thank you, Charlie. All right, guys,

1141
01:13:59,760 --> 01:14:04,040
Speaker 1: check this out the latest episode of Quest Love Supreme.

1142
01:14:04,200 --> 01:14:06,320
Speaker 1: You know, we love Quest Love from the roots. He

1143
01:14:06,560 --> 01:14:10,720
Speaker 1: has a podcast and it's called Quest Love Supreme. And

1144
01:14:10,880 --> 01:14:14,800
Speaker 1: then on this latest episode of the podcast, he is

1145
01:14:14,880 --> 01:14:19,639
Speaker 1: talking to the legends Marilyn McCoo and Billie Davis Junior

1146
01:14:19,880 --> 01:14:25,200
Speaker 1: Fifth Dimension. Yes, Quest is talking about their first Grammy nomination.

1147
01:14:25,840 --> 01:14:28,360
Speaker 1: And this is right on time with the release of

1148
01:14:28,640 --> 01:14:32,120
Speaker 1: this movie that Questlove is producing. We talked about it

1149
01:14:32,240 --> 01:14:35,640
Speaker 1: on the show Summer of Soul. You know, the documentary

1150
01:14:35,680 --> 01:14:40,479
Speaker 1: about the nineteen sixty nine Harlam Cultural Festival. So it's

1151
01:14:40,479 --> 01:14:43,880
Speaker 1: in theaters July second, so make sure you check out

1152
01:14:44,280 --> 01:14:48,759
Speaker 1: Quest Love Supreme's podcast podcast Alert. Check it out. Also

1153
01:14:49,040 --> 01:14:54,320
Speaker 1: another podcast Alert Jill dot Ill Jill Scott's podcast. I

1154
01:14:54,439 --> 01:14:58,240
Speaker 1: love the title Jill dot Ill. On the latest episode

1155
01:14:58,280 --> 01:15:02,000
Speaker 1: she's talking about black ChIL aldren in the education system,

1156
01:15:02,320 --> 01:15:05,760
Speaker 1: so make sure you check that out. Jill dot Ill.

1157
01:15:05,840 --> 01:15:09,680
Speaker 1: And this is Jill Scott's latest podcast. All of this

1158
01:15:09,880 --> 01:15:12,400
Speaker 1: is good stuff and you can check it out wherever

1159
01:15:12,840 --> 01:15:17,040
Speaker 1: you get your podcast, Questlove Supreme Jill dot Ill got

1160
01:15:17,120 --> 01:15:19,280
Speaker 1: it good. So that's the latest on the podcast we

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01:15:19,400 --> 01:15:22,800
Speaker 1: want you guys to check out. Thank you, Betty. All right,

1162
01:15:23,680 --> 01:15:26,240
Speaker 1: thank you Carla very much. Coming up, we'll have more

1163
01:15:26,320 --> 01:15:29,759
Speaker 1: of the Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, thank you Carla.

1164
01:15:30,000 --> 01:15:32,719
Speaker 1: Coming up, we'll have more of the Steve Harvey Morning

1165
01:15:32,800 --> 01:15:36,160
Speaker 1: Show at thirty three minutes after the hour. Right after this,

1166
01:15:36,920 --> 01:15:41,439
Speaker 1: you're listening to Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right. So Steve,

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01:15:41,640 --> 01:15:45,519
Speaker 1: you had your golf tournament yesterday. You're having another round today,

1168
01:15:45,760 --> 01:15:48,879
Speaker 1: so tell us about it. Give us a recap double tournament.

1169
01:15:50,520 --> 01:15:52,639
Speaker 1: I mean, bro, I had to add a day because

1170
01:15:53,920 --> 01:15:56,920
Speaker 1: today loaded up so fast that so many people wanted

1171
01:15:56,960 --> 01:16:00,479
Speaker 1: to play that I went on and I added eighty players. Yeah. Today,

1172
01:16:00,800 --> 01:16:06,280
Speaker 1: so you know, Chris Tucker came through yesterday. Oh, Vernie

1173
01:16:06,360 --> 01:16:13,080
Speaker 1: Maxwell vern used to play for Houston. My dude, man,

1174
01:16:13,920 --> 01:16:17,880
Speaker 1: we had a great conversation. Lawrence Taylor, the greatest linebacker

1175
01:16:17,960 --> 01:16:21,360
Speaker 1: to ever play in that in the National Football League.

1176
01:16:23,200 --> 01:16:28,920
Speaker 1: Matumbo not in my house. Yeah, he was there. We

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01:16:29,000 --> 01:16:31,120
Speaker 1: all took a picture together. And you don't tell you something, man,

1178
01:16:31,160 --> 01:16:33,920
Speaker 1: I don't. I don't can high straight. You stand up.

1179
01:16:35,000 --> 01:16:38,880
Speaker 1: You have to put your hand around uh, Matumbo's ass.

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01:16:42,320 --> 01:16:46,320
Speaker 1: He's that talk. I'm talking. He had his arm around

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01:16:46,400 --> 01:16:48,760
Speaker 1: the top of my head. He was holding the top

1182
01:16:48,840 --> 01:16:50,880
Speaker 1: of my head, and all I could do was hold

1183
01:16:51,000 --> 01:16:53,840
Speaker 1: his ass. I was very uncomfortable. I don't like when

1184
01:16:53,840 --> 01:16:56,640
Speaker 1: a man had me under their breast and pull me in.

1185
01:16:56,840 --> 01:17:00,320
Speaker 1: You know, don't, don't don't push my head under your nipple.

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01:17:00,400 --> 01:17:05,679
Speaker 1: Dog dog, I'm who the short person. Nah, I guess

1187
01:17:05,760 --> 01:17:12,880
Speaker 1: where you're doing. Yeah? Yeah, I was off under his chip,

1188
01:17:13,040 --> 01:17:15,240
Speaker 1: up under his nipple. Let's let me tell you where

1189
01:17:15,320 --> 01:17:24,759
Speaker 1: you would have been about well, I think about about

1190
01:17:24,840 --> 01:17:30,840
Speaker 1: like thirteen feet talk. Yeah, it felt like man, such

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01:17:30,880 --> 01:17:33,800
Speaker 1: a cool dude, man. He was funny though here and

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01:17:33,920 --> 01:17:36,880
Speaker 1: we're doing some great gifts and stuff, and uh, I

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01:17:37,000 --> 01:17:40,160
Speaker 1: did not I did not give my shoes. I said,

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01:17:41,240 --> 01:17:44,320
Speaker 1: what what what? What side you got twenty two? I said,

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01:17:44,320 --> 01:17:47,679
Speaker 1: we just don't do dog. We're gonna take two elevens together,

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01:17:49,080 --> 01:17:52,560
Speaker 1: and you are that. I don't know nobody gotten on

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01:17:52,680 --> 01:17:54,200
Speaker 1: twenty two. I looked down at his foot and I

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01:17:54,280 --> 01:18:00,320
Speaker 1: went large, Jesus two man, one of the coolest us.

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Speaker 1: Don't man when I tell you he's a cool dude. Yeah.

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01:18:04,520 --> 01:18:08,880
Speaker 1: I love his commercial. Yeah yeah, the guy yeah, congratulates,

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01:18:09,040 --> 01:18:12,439
Speaker 1: was spare and cool. Everybody. Everybody was good. You know,

1202
01:18:12,640 --> 01:18:15,640
Speaker 1: those are most of the celebrities I was and the

1203
01:18:15,680 --> 01:18:17,680
Speaker 1: rest of them is like, you know, brothers from one

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01:18:17,760 --> 01:18:20,600
Speaker 1: hundred Black Men. So what we agreed to do was

1205
01:18:21,320 --> 01:18:24,799
Speaker 1: next year, we're gonna do two out of the city events,

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01:18:24,920 --> 01:18:27,280
Speaker 1: one in the Bahamas and one in Vegas. And I'm

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01:18:27,280 --> 01:18:31,200
Speaker 1: just gonna throw golf tournaments, man, skip that, you know, parties, clubs,

1208
01:18:31,280 --> 01:18:33,639
Speaker 1: none of that. Just go play golf. Care you ask

1209
01:18:33,720 --> 01:18:37,960
Speaker 1: your room. All right, coming up, it is our last

1210
01:18:38,120 --> 01:18:40,720
Speaker 1: break of the day, and of course we'll have some

1211
01:18:40,880 --> 01:18:44,920
Speaker 1: closing remarks or closing remark type story from The One

1212
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Speaker 1: and Only Are Fearless leader Steve Harvey at forty nine

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Speaker 1: minutes after right after this, you're listening to show? All right, guys,

1214
01:18:53,920 --> 01:18:57,479
Speaker 1: here we are our last break of the day. Who

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01:18:58,080 --> 01:19:02,280
Speaker 1: okay on this Wednesday. Yeah, it's been a show. It's

1216
01:19:02,360 --> 01:19:07,000
Speaker 1: been a show today. Thank you guys for a little

1217
01:19:07,040 --> 01:19:10,479
Speaker 1: hang out every day today. Oh yeah, you're going out there.

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01:19:11,360 --> 01:19:15,320
Speaker 1: You're coming out today. Yeah, and you don't play dad,

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01:19:16,360 --> 01:19:23,720
Speaker 1: Oh no, I'm gonna look like it though. Yea. Man.

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01:19:24,479 --> 01:19:26,639
Speaker 1: You know my stylist was talking to him, mister horn't

1221
01:19:26,680 --> 01:19:28,000
Speaker 1: want you to change the way you tress when you

1222
01:19:28,080 --> 01:19:31,040
Speaker 1: play golf, and said why He said, wants you to

1223
01:19:31,080 --> 01:19:34,960
Speaker 1: be more stylish. I said, look, man, maybe you don't

1224
01:19:34,960 --> 01:19:37,719
Speaker 1: know how golf go. I'm finning walk up in the woods.

1225
01:19:38,800 --> 01:19:43,240
Speaker 1: I'm finding to climb down and saying tramps. I gotta

1226
01:19:43,280 --> 01:19:45,400
Speaker 1: stick my club in the water pool and pull my

1227
01:19:45,479 --> 01:19:47,719
Speaker 1: ball out of water. I gotta, I gotta. I'm Damn'm

1228
01:19:47,760 --> 01:19:52,000
Speaker 1: damn fitning go to work. So all it pretty as

1229
01:19:52,080 --> 01:19:54,479
Speaker 1: outfits you trying to put me in. Mister haven't want

1230
01:19:54,479 --> 01:19:57,679
Speaker 1: you to wear white pants? I said, dog, it rained,

1231
01:19:58,680 --> 01:20:03,000
Speaker 1: it rained. If you dig that club into that mud

1232
01:20:03,320 --> 01:20:08,360
Speaker 1: one time. White. I said, bro, not on rainy day,

1233
01:20:09,680 --> 01:20:12,080
Speaker 1: mister Hervey. You shouldn't let things like that affect us.

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01:20:12,240 --> 01:20:14,800
Speaker 1: So he came out there yesterday. I'll show you how

1235
01:20:14,840 --> 01:20:17,439
Speaker 1: to dress on the golf course. You know, he little

1236
01:20:17,479 --> 01:20:21,880
Speaker 1: skinny in shape asst dude. Some black slacks, bail box,

1237
01:20:23,120 --> 01:20:26,920
Speaker 1: ain't spectators, some spectator shoes, black and white shoes, and

1238
01:20:27,080 --> 01:20:32,840
Speaker 1: a skin tight long sleeve, real knit like sweater shirty,

1239
01:20:33,920 --> 01:20:39,200
Speaker 1: but its skin tight arms, chest, stomach, everything, I said.

1240
01:20:39,360 --> 01:20:44,200
Speaker 1: And you're prepared to do what? Yeah, he said. I

1241
01:20:44,280 --> 01:20:46,040
Speaker 1: think they'll give me some clubs and I can come

1242
01:20:46,080 --> 01:20:49,120
Speaker 1: out here and play. I said, you've never played before.

1243
01:20:50,720 --> 01:20:53,000
Speaker 1: I'm looking at down. Ain't doing I'm but hitting the ball.

1244
01:20:53,120 --> 01:20:56,000
Speaker 1: That's okay, cool, Go get some clubs, Go get some

1245
01:20:57,400 --> 01:20:59,240
Speaker 1: Go out there and go over there in that little

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01:20:59,280 --> 01:21:01,479
Speaker 1: area over there where you see them little balls, and

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Speaker 1: see how far you can make that ball. Go. Just

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Speaker 1: go and then take and pick a spot and hit

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Speaker 1: the ball over to that area area. Yeah. Oh, another thing,

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Speaker 1: the ball has to fly in the air land now, yeah, oh,

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Speaker 1: mister hoody, it can't be that difficulty. What Yeah, and

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Speaker 1: Hawaiian I playing this on the weekends on Sunday on TV.

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Speaker 1: All right, but it's gonna be another great day to day. Man.

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Speaker 1: I really appreciate all the support man for people who

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Speaker 1: support the Stephen Marjorie Harvey Foundation. I want to send

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Speaker 1: a special shout out the Mississippi Monica who was out

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Speaker 1: there yesterday supporting. She's not even a member of the foundation,

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Speaker 1: but she comes out there every year and helps out

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Speaker 1: and just supports stuff. She was real nice. Oh you know,

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Speaker 1: you know, you know, I mean, just made a boss

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Speaker 1: a plate. Boss. You ain't got time getting the line

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Speaker 1: because I'm gonna go get in the line. No way,

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Speaker 1: Why I would I pay for something and then go

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Speaker 1: stand in line to get it. She takes a bunch

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Speaker 1: of pictures of herself and you know, she'll stop and

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Speaker 1: do a whole photos. Oh you're gonna be on the Instagram.

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Speaker 1: Oh you feel to be on the storyline. Oh you're

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Speaker 1: gonna be that this this Monica, this missing Monica. And

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Speaker 1: I was real nice in the story. No I'm not.

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Speaker 1: I'm frustrated. Yeah, yeah, but you know, well, you know

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Speaker 1: she got some followers now, so you know it kind

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Speaker 1: of got a little you knowing it. You know, I

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Speaker 1: didn't I didn't really like it when it was Foy follows,

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Speaker 1: but that was good. Always for a good cause, you're

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Speaker 1: always always giving bad. So we got a short week

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Speaker 1: coming up, I mean while long weekend, the holiday weekends

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Speaker 1: a little oh yeah, absolutely, yep, I ain't doing that.

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Speaker 1: Gonna be barbecue. No, we're taking the kids to the

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Speaker 1: to the Bahamas, Bahamas beautiful. My little girl told me,

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Speaker 1: haven't we done the Bahamas already? I mean, just something

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Speaker 1: else we can do. I was like, oh my god,

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Speaker 1: we done the Bahamas? Dad father ain't paying for a

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Speaker 1: soda pop all My son though, is daddy. They got

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Speaker 1: twenty four slides, were about to hit it. Yeah, he

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Speaker 1: just read he ready, it's twenty fourth slides. That's all

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Speaker 1: I need to know. And how long he's gonna take

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Speaker 1: us to get there? Right right, that's all he has

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Speaker 1: to worry about, not even packing. Yeah, I am grateful. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: like you all calling Tommy, y'all got kids where you

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Speaker 1: still you know you gotta you know, be active in

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Speaker 1: you know, participate go to games and all my dinner

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Speaker 1: I'm really grateful that's gone. You'll want to be mom

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Speaker 1: going to watch win and play basketball. Who was this boy?

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Speaker 1: I said, this isn't Can I tell you something good

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