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Speaker 1: craziest true stories on Earth. I'm Sophia and Riley. What

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Speaker 2: Of an airport if the mom had like a scary

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Speaker 1: I think if I saw her and she had a

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Speaker 1: sign that said I'm coming for uopay like a gun. No. Yeah, well,

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Speaker 1: I mean I would run away, but no, I just

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Speaker 1: Road is Land one two three says I, a female

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Speaker 1: thirty don't have the best relationship with my husband's mom

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Speaker 1: since day one. She tried to make remarks and compare

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Speaker 2: Oh, here's some friendly family.

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Speaker 1: Friendly families, family family friendly.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I cook better than her. I feel like that's

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Speaker 1: She's like, oh, your your new wife better cook better

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Speaker 1: I did your laundry I did your laundry. She then

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Speaker 1: visit some places out of the country tourism and other words.

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Speaker 1: Thing is I was the one who saved up for

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Speaker 1: and arranged for the trip. My husband was responsible for

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Speaker 1: booking the tickets. Okay, my husband's mom wanted to come along, and,

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Speaker 2: This is insane. Yikes, you saved up for the strip.

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Speaker 1: No, she's crazy.

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Speaker 2: What is going on here?

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Speaker 1: She's like, you have to let me come or I'll

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Speaker 2: I'm doing something I'm doing.

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Speaker 1: He said he wouldn't go if she can't come, and

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Speaker 2: I know why, because she's this crazy. Just imagine what

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Speaker 1: Trying to turn him against the wife. I don't trust her.

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Speaker 1: divorce crazy, that's a crazy thing to do. I froze

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Speaker 1: Divorce this man. He's awful. He is controlling, and when

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Speaker 1: Like, he can't stand up to his mom and so

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Speaker 1: he's putting all of that on you, and that is

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Speaker 1: So for more details about my situation. I have to

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Speaker 1: Oh no, this affected his relationship with them and me

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Speaker 1: low contact has never been an option, Like he has

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Speaker 1: That's really a day. I don't, honestly I don't. It's

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Speaker 2: That's so crazy. Also the fact that like he's the

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Speaker 1: Not good, It looks like this. Most of his siblings

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Speaker 1: This is a divorce, Yeah, this is a divorce chance, Evartvarse.

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Speaker 1: This is tons of red flags all over the place,

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Speaker 1: All these people's opinions, advice, and concerns were like a spark,

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Speaker 1: the end of the story. I definitely think they should

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Speaker 1: He's victimizing his mom and himself and placing everything on

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Speaker 1: and then Op specifically had to state like, do not

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's really hard to lack of respect. It's really

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Speaker 1: An outside perspective, because when you're in that, you're like, oh, well,

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Speaker 1: red flocks, definitely get out there is especially if you're sorry,

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Speaker 4: Ah.

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Speaker 2: No, I really hate that you got this trip set

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Speaker 2: Just let them be sisters. They just want to be sisters.

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Speaker 1: Told our parents that we hate each other? Oh, you

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Speaker 2: Right, this is what you you gotta do. I'm gonna

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Speaker 1: Yeah, because no, we need to because oh my god,

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Speaker 1: You have stuck. I'm sorry.

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Speaker 2: Oh yes, an updates.

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Speaker 1: You better fix their freaking relationship.

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Speaker 2: Better, and like, honestly, if you guys are able to

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Speaker 1: And then you can parent trap this exactly.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna find you, and I'm gonna break up your

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Speaker 1: Have to date them, okay, son, It's just like that, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I'm glad they talked it out because that was your fault.

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Speaker 2: I hate that you guys like didn't do something cool

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Speaker 1: Yeah you should. You should have parent trapped that.

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Speaker 2: But this is probably the most mature things you could

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Speaker 4: that was a convenient omit from the original story.

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00:19:11,960 --> 00:19:12,400
Speaker 3: Yikes.

441
00:19:12,680 --> 00:19:17,720
Speaker 4: Well, let's let's see if maybe op gets revenge like

442
00:19:17,720 --> 00:19:20,399
Speaker 4: this as well. Me female thirty and my mother in

443
00:19:20,480 --> 00:19:23,520
Speaker 4: law do not have a close relationship. She stimbled towards me,

444
00:19:23,720 --> 00:19:26,080
Speaker 4: but can be a bit passive aggressive at times, and

445
00:19:26,119 --> 00:19:29,160
Speaker 4: we tend to disagree often. We live in a different state.

446
00:19:29,560 --> 00:19:32,119
Speaker 4: Father in law passed away suddenly, and my mother in

447
00:19:32,200 --> 00:19:34,720
Speaker 4: law told me and my husband to come attend the funeral.

448
00:19:34,760 --> 00:19:36,719
Speaker 4: She booked our tickets to fly over to them. But

449
00:19:36,800 --> 00:19:40,679
Speaker 4: the issue started when my husband told me that we

450
00:19:40,760 --> 00:19:44,399
Speaker 4: couldn't sit together on the plane. Why why not, mama,

451
00:19:44,560 --> 00:19:47,640
Speaker 4: because his mom had booked him first class.

452
00:19:48,160 --> 00:19:51,879
Speaker 3: Well, I am in economy like a pig.

453
00:19:52,280 --> 00:19:55,000
Speaker 5: Wait, but the mom is still paying for both tickets. Yeah,

454
00:19:55,040 --> 00:19:59,560
Speaker 5: she's buying your ticket, bro. Yeah. And also she's thirty one.

455
00:19:59,600 --> 00:20:01,679
Speaker 5: I don't think we don't know OPI's husband age, but

456
00:20:01,760 --> 00:20:06,320
Speaker 5: like I mean, thirty one, Like pay for your own.

457
00:20:06,160 --> 00:20:08,560
Speaker 4: Shit, pay for your ticket? I don't know, because it's like,

458
00:20:08,560 --> 00:20:11,000
Speaker 4: what is she going to pay for all the family?

459
00:20:11,080 --> 00:20:14,240
Speaker 5: Like that's great. I was dating Madison. I flew economy

460
00:20:14,359 --> 00:20:16,800
Speaker 5: when they flew first class. Oh, but then I like

461
00:20:16,880 --> 00:20:18,600
Speaker 5: they would switch and so I would like get to

462
00:20:18,640 --> 00:20:19,920
Speaker 5: go in first class.

463
00:20:19,600 --> 00:20:21,040
Speaker 3: For a little bit with her.

464
00:20:21,280 --> 00:20:22,960
Speaker 2: Oh, come on with it, economy.

465
00:20:23,040 --> 00:20:26,320
Speaker 5: I was just grateful to be on the plane, right, yeah, yeah, yeah,

466
00:20:26,320 --> 00:20:26,840
Speaker 5: like come on.

467
00:20:26,960 --> 00:20:32,200
Speaker 4: Yeah, honestly, I still enjoy, Like I'm still excited by flights. Yeah,

468
00:20:32,200 --> 00:20:34,840
Speaker 4: it's fun, it's cool, it's fun, and it's dude, you're

469
00:20:34,880 --> 00:20:36,719
Speaker 4: on going somewhere doing it.

470
00:20:36,840 --> 00:20:37,359
Speaker 3: I agree.

471
00:20:37,400 --> 00:20:39,800
Speaker 5: I agree, it's dope, and they're paying for it, like,

472
00:20:39,880 --> 00:20:43,440
Speaker 5: come on, economy, it's a plane ticket.

473
00:20:43,480 --> 00:20:43,760
Speaker 3: Still.

474
00:20:44,680 --> 00:20:48,679
Speaker 4: Now, I was flabbergasted by this. I tried asking him why,

475
00:20:48,880 --> 00:20:51,479
Speaker 4: but he urged me just suck it up, babe, and

476
00:20:51,520 --> 00:20:54,240
Speaker 4: we'll talk about it later. Just suck it up, babe.

477
00:20:54,520 --> 00:20:57,199
Speaker 4: Suck it up, go an economy and cry. Yeah, make

478
00:20:57,240 --> 00:20:58,639
Speaker 4: sure to close the curtains so I don't hear your

479
00:20:58,680 --> 00:21:02,280
Speaker 4: screams economy, it's would I be over the there ever, No,

480
00:21:02,720 --> 00:21:05,639
Speaker 4: I'm not poor, not like you, babe. In that moment,

481
00:21:05,760 --> 00:21:09,840
Speaker 4: that particular moment, I felt so much humiliation and contempt,

482
00:21:09,920 --> 00:21:11,960
Speaker 4: I felt like she was treating me as less than

483
00:21:12,119 --> 00:21:15,919
Speaker 4: even in hard times. I decided to not go and

484
00:21:16,080 --> 00:21:17,200
Speaker 4: just stay back home.

485
00:21:17,359 --> 00:21:20,080
Speaker 3: She's paying for your drinket, bro, No more funeral. Wait,

486
00:21:20,119 --> 00:21:21,000
Speaker 3: it's for the funeral.

487
00:21:21,240 --> 00:21:23,240
Speaker 2: Yes, it's more than funeral.

488
00:21:23,640 --> 00:21:26,600
Speaker 5: If I don't five first class in my funeral, they

489
00:21:26,640 --> 00:21:29,520
Speaker 5: can go die without me. Hey, come on, I'd rather

490
00:21:29,640 --> 00:21:32,679
Speaker 5: be dead than go on in economy Again.

491
00:21:32,880 --> 00:21:36,080
Speaker 4: I can't mourn successfully if I don't have microwave chicken.

492
00:21:36,240 --> 00:21:36,840
Speaker 3: It's true.

493
00:21:37,000 --> 00:21:40,679
Speaker 5: Come on, I can't wipe up my tears unless I

494
00:21:40,760 --> 00:21:41,920
Speaker 5: got a hot towel.

495
00:21:42,040 --> 00:21:42,439
Speaker 2: Am I am?

496
00:21:42,480 --> 00:21:45,119
Speaker 4: I just gonna sit in economy and drink a cup

497
00:21:45,160 --> 00:21:46,080
Speaker 4: of apple juice.

498
00:21:46,480 --> 00:21:48,560
Speaker 3: Uh no, martini?

499
00:21:48,840 --> 00:21:49,159
Speaker 2: Yeah?

500
00:21:49,160 --> 00:21:49,520
Speaker 3: Come on.

501
00:21:50,040 --> 00:21:52,639
Speaker 4: My husband was shocked by my decision to go home

502
00:21:52,880 --> 00:21:56,440
Speaker 4: and try to convince me, but I just declined. Yo,

503
00:21:56,560 --> 00:21:59,520
Speaker 4: I'm shocked. It's kind of nuts. He went alone and

504
00:21:59,560 --> 00:22:03,680
Speaker 4: I ended up up completely missing the funeral. He was livid,

505
00:22:04,080 --> 00:22:07,520
Speaker 4: just calling me and texting me nasty things, calling me

506
00:22:07,640 --> 00:22:09,119
Speaker 4: petty and spoiled.

507
00:22:09,600 --> 00:22:10,200
Speaker 2: He said that.

508
00:22:10,560 --> 00:22:15,479
Speaker 3: Petty and spoiled very much fits. He called me nasty

509
00:22:15,560 --> 00:22:17,960
Speaker 3: things like spoiled. What I am?

510
00:22:18,119 --> 00:22:20,440
Speaker 4: He said that I should be grateful that his mom

511
00:22:20,520 --> 00:22:23,239
Speaker 4: paid for the ticket to begin with, yes, and that

512
00:22:23,280 --> 00:22:27,520
Speaker 4: she doesn't owe me. I got diggity damn thing. Yes,

513
00:22:27,920 --> 00:22:33,120
Speaker 4: but Sam, she says. I argued about how she could

514
00:22:33,119 --> 00:22:36,160
Speaker 4: have booked us both an economy if money was the issue,

515
00:22:36,520 --> 00:22:40,840
Speaker 4: but he called me pathetic for thinking about that when

516
00:22:40,880 --> 00:22:42,639
Speaker 4: his dad was dead.

517
00:22:42,960 --> 00:22:47,320
Speaker 5: Oh fuck, dude. The husband's dad die. Yes, the husband's

518
00:22:47,400 --> 00:22:48,040
Speaker 5: dad died.

519
00:22:48,280 --> 00:22:48,440
Speaker 2: Bro.

520
00:22:48,880 --> 00:22:53,120
Speaker 5: Of course he should be flying first. Bro, he's grieving. YO,

521
00:22:53,280 --> 00:22:54,359
Speaker 5: divorce this bitch.

522
00:22:56,480 --> 00:22:58,919
Speaker 4: He said that it was cool what I did and

523
00:22:58,960 --> 00:23:01,560
Speaker 4: that his mom and fam will never forget that I

524
00:23:01,720 --> 00:23:04,560
Speaker 4: missed the funeral over this ridiculous reason.

525
00:23:04,720 --> 00:23:08,200
Speaker 3: Fac Am I the a hole for going home over this? Yes?

526
00:23:08,640 --> 00:23:12,240
Speaker 5: Yes you are. You are absolutely, unequivocally the a hole.

527
00:23:13,240 --> 00:23:16,120
Speaker 5: Such a spoiled brat. You know, let's let's let's hear

528
00:23:16,119 --> 00:23:21,000
Speaker 5: her out here. Okay, she has to wait for five

529
00:23:21,080 --> 00:23:25,000
Speaker 5: other groups to board. Okay, dad is dead.

530
00:23:25,359 --> 00:23:29,159
Speaker 4: You know, you know what can happen, Sam, There's this

531
00:23:29,280 --> 00:23:31,400
Speaker 4: little thing called cabin storage.

532
00:23:32,200 --> 00:23:33,840
Speaker 3: They could everyone else that.

533
00:23:33,840 --> 00:23:35,320
Speaker 4: Goes in front of her, all of all of the

534
00:23:35,920 --> 00:23:38,960
Speaker 4: people that are enjoying their lives, could take the cabin space.

535
00:23:39,000 --> 00:23:40,879
Speaker 4: And she's true, she has to check her bag. She

536
00:23:41,000 --> 00:23:45,399
Speaker 4: might Okay, look, OPI lost the husband lost his father.

537
00:23:45,560 --> 00:23:47,600
Speaker 3: But where's she going to check her giant ego? She

538
00:23:47,760 --> 00:23:50,720
Speaker 3: might lose her luggage. It's true, it's a possibility.

539
00:23:50,880 --> 00:23:51,199
Speaker 2: It is.

540
00:23:52,840 --> 00:23:55,880
Speaker 5: I think those are equivalent like if you lose the Louis, Yep,

541
00:23:56,000 --> 00:23:58,120
Speaker 5: you're losing. Like it's equivalent to losing.

542
00:23:57,920 --> 00:24:00,720
Speaker 4: Exactly, and and they didn't even give her a Balnciaga

543
00:24:00,720 --> 00:24:02,760
Speaker 4: bag for Christmas. I to get for the Louis one,

544
00:24:02,760 --> 00:24:06,119
Speaker 4: which is like, that's you kidding me? Literally, yeah, I'm

545
00:24:06,119 --> 00:24:08,239
Speaker 4: a piece of trash. There is a small update. One

546
00:24:08,280 --> 00:24:10,439
Speaker 4: of the reasons I didn't settle for the economy ticket

547
00:24:10,520 --> 00:24:12,399
Speaker 4: was because I wanted to sit next to my husband

548
00:24:12,520 --> 00:24:13,480
Speaker 4: and support him.

549
00:24:13,600 --> 00:24:17,800
Speaker 3: He sobbed all of shit, bull fucking shit. Yeah that's that,

550
00:24:17,840 --> 00:24:18,760
Speaker 3: ain't it? That ain't it?

551
00:24:18,800 --> 00:24:19,720
Speaker 2: Sweetheart. I'm sorry.

552
00:24:19,840 --> 00:24:21,679
Speaker 3: If you want to support him, you would go to

553
00:24:21,720 --> 00:24:22,440
Speaker 3: the fucking.

554
00:24:22,920 --> 00:24:26,000
Speaker 4: If that's what support looks like, good gravy. He sabbed

555
00:24:26,040 --> 00:24:29,000
Speaker 4: the whole ride to the airport, and I didn't want

556
00:24:29,040 --> 00:24:31,480
Speaker 4: to leave his side. I was shocked when he told

557
00:24:31,480 --> 00:24:33,600
Speaker 4: me we couldn't sit together, and how he said it,

558
00:24:33,640 --> 00:24:35,000
Speaker 4: like he had no issue with it.

559
00:24:35,320 --> 00:24:36,960
Speaker 3: Such a weak update.

560
00:24:37,160 --> 00:24:37,359
Speaker 2: You know.

561
00:24:37,400 --> 00:24:41,879
Speaker 4: It's funny though, so Sam always like, uh, like you

562
00:24:41,920 --> 00:24:45,000
Speaker 4: always say like people people are way too lenient, like

563
00:24:45,040 --> 00:24:47,320
Speaker 4: the person actually is the asshole. So on this one,

564
00:24:47,359 --> 00:24:51,000
Speaker 4: the rating is everyone sucks. So they wouldn't say only oh,

565
00:24:51,040 --> 00:24:54,640
Speaker 4: P's the asshole. They called the family the assholes as well. Basically,

566
00:24:55,280 --> 00:24:57,960
Speaker 4: what in what world read one of these comments. Yeah,

567
00:24:58,040 --> 00:25:02,080
Speaker 4: let's see, let's see, in what world is someone says,

568
00:25:02,119 --> 00:25:05,440
Speaker 4: I agree, but I'm including significant other in this. There's

569
00:25:05,480 --> 00:25:08,960
Speaker 4: no reason he couldn't go support his mom and sit

570
00:25:09,040 --> 00:25:11,600
Speaker 4: by his wife. Just sitting in economy with Opie.

571
00:25:12,000 --> 00:25:15,120
Speaker 3: He's fucking grieving the death of his.

572
00:25:15,200 --> 00:25:17,359
Speaker 4: Father in a normal like if they were going on

573
00:25:17,400 --> 00:25:19,760
Speaker 4: a family vacation, I would like, yeah, just just sit

574
00:25:19,800 --> 00:25:23,080
Speaker 4: in economy with her. But it's like, like that's such

575
00:25:23,119 --> 00:25:26,520
Speaker 4: a small issue in comparison, like it doesn't even deserve

576
00:25:26,920 --> 00:25:28,119
Speaker 4: the like, just like just go.

577
00:25:28,359 --> 00:25:31,000
Speaker 3: Just the mother is trying to do something nice for him.

578
00:25:31,160 --> 00:25:33,320
Speaker 4: Nice for him. Yeah, that's probably what it was born out.

579
00:25:33,320 --> 00:25:35,000
Speaker 4: And she's like, you know what, this is my son.

580
00:25:35,080 --> 00:25:37,320
Speaker 4: She probably had enough money. She's like, okay, let me

581
00:25:37,480 --> 00:25:40,680
Speaker 4: let me at least give my grieving son a nice flight.

582
00:25:40,760 --> 00:25:42,320
Speaker 4: I don't have all the money in the world. I'll

583
00:25:42,359 --> 00:25:44,680
Speaker 4: fly her out too, but economy as well. I mean,

584
00:25:44,720 --> 00:25:46,480
Speaker 4: like maybe the budget for the funeral is tight.

585
00:25:46,520 --> 00:25:46,879
Speaker 2: I don't know.

586
00:25:47,000 --> 00:25:52,520
Speaker 5: Fucking terrible bro. I'm livid. This is this lady. Yes,

587
00:25:52,720 --> 00:25:53,320
Speaker 5: piece of work.