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Speaker 1: Scrubbing in with Beatilly and Tanya Brad and iHeartRadio and

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Speaker 1: People's Choice Award winning.

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Speaker 2: Podcast, except it's not Beccatilly today.

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Speaker 1: Becca is out of town, so we have scrubbing in Bradgaski. Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: you grab that mic.

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Speaker 2: I am positioning. How you like it?

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Speaker 3: You don't work a mic?

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Speaker 2: That's right.

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Speaker 4: At Hi.

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Speaker 3: This is so great.

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Speaker 5: You can call me Brada today, Brada. Yeah, but I'm

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Speaker 5: because I'm Becca, but I'm Brad, So I'm Brada.

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Speaker 2: Oh wow, I like that.

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Speaker 3: You need me to put those pieces together for you.

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Speaker 2: I do. I'm in rare form today.

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Speaker 3: Because you were up at two am.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, two fifty five.

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Speaker 5: Did Berry's boot camp. You made your salary juice, you

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Speaker 5: like pray to the gods of motivation. You like touched

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Speaker 5: your vision board up sure and left the house. You

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Speaker 5: called Sophia Carson and you like texted Camila Cabeo, like

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Speaker 5: just checked in with all your girlfriends and came in

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Speaker 5: to work.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, and there's more. We have to tell you something

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Speaker 4: else that happened today. Okay, Sistany is talking about something

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Speaker 4: on the Seacrest Show tomorrow about how when people are

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Speaker 4: in the bathroom and they don't wash their hands. If

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Speaker 4: you then shake hands with them, it's okay because urine's

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Speaker 4: not going to make you sick. If they blew their nose,

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Speaker 4: that's more dangerous. It's going to make you sick. But

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Speaker 4: urine's not going to hurt anybody because you're in sterile.

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Speaker 4: You're making a face.

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Speaker 3: That's everyone should wash their hands.

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Speaker 4: So then we started talking in the meeting about that

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Speaker 4: and about Tanya would say things that she would drink

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Speaker 4: urine if she was trapped in an elevator by yourself,

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Speaker 4: you would drink her own you urine to survive.

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Speaker 1: Didn't you see that new story about that girl she

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Speaker 1: was like trapped an elevator for three days?

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, I was like, if I was trapped.

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Speaker 1: In an elevator, I would for sure drink my urine

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Speaker 1: because you need to survive.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, so it became a challenge. Oh no, oh, it.

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Speaker 2: Became a challenge. I tried and I gagged, And.

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Speaker 3: So you'd be you'd actually make more of a mess

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Speaker 3: in the elevation you need to be.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it would need to be like a survival survival

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Speaker 2: To have to do.

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Speaker 3: I think urine is like not good for you.

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Speaker 2: It's supposed to be really good for you.

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Speaker 5: But isn't like in your urines where all this comes. Yeah,

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Speaker 5: it was like salty, right.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it was not expecting that.

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Speaker 4: Don't ask me how I know that.

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Speaker 2: I really like that.

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Speaker 5: I was just asking like a my friends was wondering.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's funny because I'm like, I really just do

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Speaker 1: things for the show, you know what I mean. Like

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Speaker 1: I'm like I will just take something and I will

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Speaker 5: Oh really, you're like telling somebody who like really knows that,

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Speaker 5: so like anything above, Like you were that girl and

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Speaker 5: the student in school who was like going above and

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Speaker 5: be like they would ask for an essay and you

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Speaker 5: would make an essay plus like a visual.

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Speaker 2: Here's my essay and in case you.

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Speaker 1: Have a problem with my essay, I made you a

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Speaker 1: visual diorama for.

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Speaker 2: This so you can visually.

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Speaker 3: Yeah that was so you. That was so because you're

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Speaker 5: Yeah, like just like a little bit like like going

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Speaker 5: above what everybody else will do, yeah, or above what's required?

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Speaker 5: Has that ever backfired all the time? Oh okay, well

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Speaker 5: there you go.

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Speaker 4: She got a job here doing that. Send then shoes

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Speaker 4: to every radio station with a note saying, just trying

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Speaker 4: to get my foot in the door.

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Speaker 1: Little kids shoes. I never tell you this story. I

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Speaker 1: never told you this, like shoes from payless.

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Speaker 3: I'm so scary.

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Speaker 1: I made my own business card from Kinko's and I

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Speaker 1: put like adjectives on the shoe that described like my personality,

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Speaker 1: instead just trying to get my foot in the door.

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Speaker 2: I guess who called me?

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Speaker 3: Ryan See.

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Speaker 4: Put her on the street team and she's been climbing

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Speaker 3: That's so awesome. Yeah, but extra you major. Got your

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Speaker 2: Yeah, got my foot and my toe.

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Speaker 3: And your booty in the seat, putting the door, booty

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Speaker 4: So keep in mind that Tanya vomit had less than

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Speaker 4: an hour ago, and so this was this morning.

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Speaker 2: Did you not notice I look a little rough today?

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Speaker 4: No?

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Speaker 3: Really, you don't look rough? Thank you?

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Speaker 2: No, not at all, thank you. I feel rough.

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Speaker 3: Well, you know that's what happens when you drink your

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Speaker 3: own Duren for no reason.

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Speaker 1: We have exciting things to talk about as well, Oh

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Speaker 1: yes we do.

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Speaker 4: Why don't we hold that announcement? I know Devon Franklin's

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Speaker 4: calling it a minute, So why don't you talk about

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Speaker 4: him for a second? Okay, and how much he means

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Speaker 4: to you. But the fact that you two have a

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Speaker 4: big announcement is exciting.

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Speaker 3: We do well.

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Speaker 5: We I feel like we always have a big announcement,

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Speaker 5: even if it's not that big.

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Speaker 3: This is like coming, yeah, which we can't see it,

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Speaker 3: like I can't. I just can't.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, we have to do seven Rings.

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Speaker 3: We bombed on Friday.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, we've never.

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Speaker 1: Actually gotten together and to do a dance and like

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Speaker 3: I think we're gonna have to start bringing in choreographers.

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Speaker 1: No, we're just having an off day. Okay, I got

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Speaker 1: seven Rings down. Now, I got something good.

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Speaker 5: Actually, people were into it when I did the poll. Yeah,

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Speaker 5: they kind of like the sharp movements. Yeah, and that's

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Speaker 5: basically what everybody's doing to the song anyway.

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Speaker 4: You were right.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm sorry.

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Speaker 4: Devon Franklin is ready? Oh okay, inter him?

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Speaker 1: Okay, So Devon Franklin, I know him. I read his

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Speaker 1: book The Weight, that he wrote with his wife Meghan

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Speaker 1: Good and.

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Speaker 2: I was obsessed, obsessed, obsessed with the Weight.

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Speaker 1: We had him come on the radio show on Arth

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Speaker 1: Ryan Seacrest and he's honestly changed my life ever since.

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Speaker 2: So I'm obsessed with him and I got to read.

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Speaker 1: I got an advanced copy of his new book that

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Speaker 1: I was telling you about, Brad The Truth About Men. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: and that's what he is calling in to talk about today, Devon.

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Speaker 2: Are you there?

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I'm here.

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Speaker 3: Hello.

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Speaker 2: What are you good? Are you?

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Speaker 6: I'm great? I'm great. How have you been?

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Speaker 2: Like so great?

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Speaker 6: How have you been uh, you know, out here trying

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Speaker 6: to make it happen.

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Speaker 2: You're making it.

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Speaker 6: It's been good. I really I can't complain. It's been

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Speaker 6: a blessing. And you know, it's like a book is

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Speaker 6: like getting Burt. You know, it's very very hard and

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Speaker 6: take time, but it's enjoys.

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Speaker 2: On the rest, Well, I want to I want to

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Speaker 2: talk about the book. First of all.

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Speaker 1: I know you're on the phone and I'm very happy

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Speaker 1: to have you on the show today, but like you

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Speaker 1: need to come in studio because I think that you'd

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Speaker 1: be really great at some of our listener emails that

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Speaker 1: we get, because we get a lot of questions from people,

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Speaker 1: and I feel like you would have.

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Speaker 6: Would love that. Yeah, yes, yes, definitely, we have to

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Speaker 6: do it. You know, I think it was just schedule why,

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Speaker 6: you know, I know we were trying to make that happen,

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Speaker 6: but it just don't happen that. You know, I'm on

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Speaker 6: didn't sort it out. But I absolutely want to come

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Speaker 1: Yeah, because like you just you're just a solid, solid

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Speaker 1: human and I think you would just give some good advice.

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Speaker 1: But let's talk about the book, because this is a

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Speaker 1: really so I got to read this book, and I'm obsessed.

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Speaker 3: She's obsessed.

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Speaker 2: I gave Brad a copy.

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Speaker 3: I've got it. I can't wait to get into it.

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Speaker 1: But there's so much there's it's such a layered book,

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Speaker 1: and I feel like it was really courageous for you.

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Speaker 2: To come out and write a book like this.

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Speaker 1: So do you want to tell our listeners kind of

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Speaker 6: You know, I really wanted to write this book because

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Speaker 6: it's just time, you know, it's time that we as

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Speaker 6: then do our work. It's time that we you know,

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Speaker 6: you know the amount of pain that we inflict on others,

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Speaker 1: Basically break it down to every man, like every man

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Speaker 1: has a dog, like the dog, and it's whether you're

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Speaker 2: The master of the dog?

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Speaker 6: Yet yet you know, so I use this, you know, uh,

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Speaker 6: I get metaphors, so to speak, in order to articulate

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Speaker 6: the struggle of men. You know, so men are not dogs,

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Speaker 6: but I believe, you know, metaphor, every man has a dog.

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Speaker 6: And what I mean by that is that every man

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Speaker 6: struggles with luck. And that's a selfish impulse or perfectional personal, financial,

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Speaker 6: means are detrimental. And I use this dog as a

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Speaker 6: way to describe that, but I also say every man

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Speaker 6: also has love, and you know, love of self, love

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Speaker 6: of God, love of the woman in their life, love

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Speaker 6: that's when a man can really be who he wants

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Speaker 6: to be and was created to be. But when men don't,

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Speaker 1: lot of people think when they get married or they're

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Speaker 6: I totally Brad, I totally agree, Mary folks Man, Listen.

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Speaker 6: I'm sorry, Tanya. You know it's like we we would

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Speaker 1: Well, Devon and Brad, I will be married one day

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Speaker 2: How good is that?

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Speaker 1: I like, honestly, I want everybody. First of all, where

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Speaker 6: The book is out February fifth, Tuesday, February fifth, It's

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Speaker 1: I highly this book comes highly recommended from me. I'm obsessed.

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Speaker 1: Like I said, I highlighted a lot of my book,

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Speaker 1: And so I'm really yeah, of course I'm really happy

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Speaker 2: Of me and me.

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Speaker 1: Somebody was actually telling me because I told you, Brad.

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Speaker 6: being honest. You know, when you're out there and you're

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Speaker 6: just pursuing women just to pursue them, or for a woman,

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Speaker 6: if you're pursuing them just to pursue them and there

447
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Speaker 6: isn't the commission, and there isn't the care or the

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Speaker 6: trust or the love there, it does produce somewhat of

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Speaker 6: an enfeiny, right. So our spirit is kind of yearning

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Speaker 6: for peace, and I love the fact that you are

451
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Speaker 6: pursuing that and the result is how well you feel,

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Speaker 6: and you know, doing things differ me in a way

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Speaker 6: that is aligned with the piece that you have and

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Speaker 6: the piece you want to make saint. So I think

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Speaker 6: that's sanctastic.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, And I ultimately think it's going to bring the

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Speaker 2: right guy.

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Speaker 1: It's going to bring the guy that I'm supposed to

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Speaker 1: spend the rest of my life with to the forefront.

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Speaker 6: Yes, I do believe that's it.

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Speaker 5: Remember what I told you in November, Tanya, what you

462
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Speaker 5: needed to like put.

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Speaker 3: The brakes on.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, totally.

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Speaker 5: I was like, we need to clean how we need

466
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Speaker 5: to put the brakes on. We need to like go

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Speaker 5: inward and like let's just kind.

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Speaker 2: Of let let it happen.

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Speaker 3: Let it happen when.

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Speaker 5: It's going to happen, instead of trying to like go

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Speaker 5: for it and try this one out and that one

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Speaker 5: out and wait for the text from this person and

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Speaker 5: see if this person was coming to la or and

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Speaker 5: I was.

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Speaker 3: It was exhausting. I wasn't even I was in it.

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Speaker 3: This is a horrible.

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Speaker 1: It's actually really interesting because a lot of our I

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Speaker 1: get so many messages from our listeners, especially from this

479
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Speaker 1: podcast and from the morning show too, and they tell

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Speaker 1: me they're like, is it is it not like a

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Speaker 1: deal breaker? But do you feel insecure sharing that with

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Speaker 1: somebody that you're dating, that you're not going to sleep

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Speaker 1: with them? And I'm like, no, if anything like That's

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Speaker 1: just it's just like a part of it, you know

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Speaker 1: what I mean. Like that's how it is, and it's

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Speaker 1: actually taken. It's forced me to take things a lot

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Speaker 1: slower than I used to, and it's made me a

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Speaker 1: lot happier. So I'm just I'm so grateful, so greatful

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Speaker 1: to you. And I actually want to recommend I know

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Speaker 1: we're talking about the book The Truth about Men, but

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Speaker 1: I read all of your books, The Weight and the

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Speaker 1: Hollywood Commandments, and they're all really fantastic. So everybody's listening.

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Speaker 1: If you just buy all of them. To be honest,

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Speaker 1: if I get the whole live, the whole library, you

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Speaker 1: will not regret it.

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Speaker 6: You know. You know one thing that you just said

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Speaker 6: that struck court. So a couple weeks ago, I was

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Speaker 6: at an event and I think it may have been

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Speaker 6: a women's conference or something, and so I said kind

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Speaker 6: of to the amusing and now, just so much and

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Speaker 6: what you're what you just brought up? So I said

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Speaker 6: to them, I said, okay, so how many No, I

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Speaker 6: was at Facebook. This is where I was sorry, It

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Speaker 6: was a Facebook and the majority of people that came

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Speaker 6: were women, and so I said, I said, okay, how

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Speaker 6: many of you, after a month's time would give the

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Speaker 6: man your you're dating the code to your phone? And

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Speaker 6: then most of them said, oh no, no, no, that's

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Speaker 6: too soon. I said, okay, cool, I said, so in

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Speaker 6: that same month time, how many of you in the

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Speaker 6: pact may have given them a man your body? And

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Speaker 6: they audible gas? Right, And I said, if you don't

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Speaker 6: trust them enough to give them the code to your

514
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Speaker 6: phone in that period of time, how could you trust

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Speaker 6: them with your body?

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Speaker 2: So true, and.

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Speaker 6: So part of it is just thinking a little bit differently,

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Speaker 6: like you know what, I don't know this person to

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Speaker 6: that degree. There is no care there, there is no

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Speaker 6: love there. Yet we all get warny, we all have

521
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Speaker 6: a feelings. It doesn't mean that we have to live

522
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Speaker 6: less than what we know is possible, just because we

523
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Speaker 6: have an energy. Right. So I talk about a lot

524
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Speaker 6: of these things, you know, and the truth about men

525
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Speaker 6: as a way to give both men and women hope.

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Speaker 6: You know that it's not easy. We all struggle, but

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Speaker 6: there is a better and brighter day, and we can't

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Speaker 6: have self respect and love to they aren't mutually proved.

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Speaker 1: Amazing, You're the best. Thank you so much for taking

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Speaker 1: the time. I know you're so busy, but thank you again,

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Speaker 1: and of course talk to you soon.

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Speaker 6: Absolutely without a doubt, can't thank.

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Speaker 2: You all right Bye, Devon Bye, I.

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Speaker 5: Mean good stuff. That's good stuff. I love him, No

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Speaker 5: kidding me too.

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Speaker 3: Hello?

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Speaker 2: Are you going to read the book?

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Speaker 3: Of course?

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Speaker 1: It's really interesting because the way it's he talks about it,

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Speaker 1: and he's like, I go through these things soon. He's like,

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Speaker 1: it's hard to admit in a book that I got

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Speaker 1: married and I still had you know, I've still had

543
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Speaker 1: those feelings for another woman, not feelings, but that urge

544
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Speaker 1: or you know what I mean, Like everybody has it.

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Speaker 1: It's normal, but it's like it's you're committed to your

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Speaker 1: relationship and this is what you do. And it's like,

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Speaker 1: I thought it was really cool that he actually put

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Speaker 1: that in first person in the book.

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Speaker 4: You know, I also like you telling guys that you're

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Speaker 4: not going to sleep with them, because I do feel

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Speaker 4: like that's a major test of their character.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you know. Or you could not even wait twelve

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Speaker 3: hours like I did.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, totally seventeen years later, it worked out.

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Speaker 3: I cast my magics.

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Speaker 1: Oh, I think the thing that like Devon totally hit

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Speaker 1: on the I remember when he came in and I

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Speaker 1: literally started crying because he said something.

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Speaker 2: That like totally struck me.

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Speaker 1: He was like, you're in this perpetual pattern of pain,

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Speaker 1: and it's true because for me, I can't have unattached sex.

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Speaker 1: And I tried to convince myself that I could, and

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Speaker 1: I was like, I can.

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Speaker 2: Totally do this. I can totally do this, and I

565
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Speaker 2: always get attached.

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Speaker 5: Well, maybe that's also why you were so incredibly uh

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Speaker 5: determined to make the people that you were like totally dating. Yes,

568
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Speaker 5: were a boyfriend or even like a husband because you

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Speaker 5: needed it to make you feel better about the way

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Speaker 5: you were acting. Totally, So you were expecting something from

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Speaker 5: them that they weren't willing to give because their expectation

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Speaker 5: was it was what it was, and your expectation was,

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Speaker 5: I'm doing this and this means a lot to me,

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Speaker 5: and therefore you're going to kind of reward.

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Speaker 3: Me with being my boyfriend.

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Speaker 2: Totally.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, am I writing a book? Wait, my dating expert?

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Speaker 5: All this could be?

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Speaker 2: You really could be. I mean seventeen years, that's like legit.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, eighteen in July.

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Speaker 5: Planning the twentieth anniversary. That means we're still together for

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Speaker 2: What are you guys gonna do for twenty Not sure yet.

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Speaker 5: We're gonna do like a big We met in Greece,

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Speaker 4: All right ready, Yes, it's time for your announcments.

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Speaker 1: Oh would you do the honors?

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Speaker 5: Well, ladies and gentlemen, the news has finally broken that

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Speaker 5: of Countdown to the Red Carpet Grammy's edition on e

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Speaker 5: So me, Tanya Rad, Genie Mai, and Nina Parker are

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Speaker 2: On the E channel. That's television people.

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00:31:17,400 --> 00:31:23,200
Speaker 5: Yes, now, cable cable television.

667
00:31:23,840 --> 00:31:29,240
Speaker 1: This is bananas bonkers dream come true and this is

668
00:31:29,280 --> 00:31:30,080
Speaker 1: like the crazy thing.

669
00:31:30,160 --> 00:31:32,760
Speaker 2: So Brad and I were actually like we did this.

670
00:31:32,760 --> 00:31:35,720
Speaker 1: Like chemistry test like last year. I don't remember when

671
00:31:35,760 --> 00:31:38,840
Speaker 1: we did it, maybe like October or something for some

672
00:31:38,880 --> 00:31:42,440
Speaker 1: show that we didn't get, but we had so much

673
00:31:42,480 --> 00:31:44,640
Speaker 1: fun doing the test together.

674
00:31:44,720 --> 00:31:46,360
Speaker 2: We were like, oh my gosh, like this.

675
00:31:46,320 --> 00:31:48,720
Speaker 1: Would be so fun to have a show together. And

676
00:31:48,760 --> 00:31:50,200
Speaker 1: so we've kind of been like putting it out in

677
00:31:50,240 --> 00:31:54,240
Speaker 1: the universe and like this isn't necessarily a show together,

678
00:31:54,360 --> 00:31:55,480
Speaker 1: but it's.

679
00:31:56,800 --> 00:31:57,360
Speaker 2: On the path.

680
00:31:57,440 --> 00:32:00,520
Speaker 5: Well, we're going to be on the television show together together. Yeah,

681
00:32:01,160 --> 00:32:02,120
Speaker 5: and you're so amp.

682
00:32:02,400 --> 00:32:02,840
Speaker 2: I'm so.

683
00:32:03,000 --> 00:32:05,680
Speaker 5: I mean, Tanya has been preparing since before she found out,

684
00:32:05,880 --> 00:32:06,480
Speaker 5: just in case.

685
00:32:09,800 --> 00:32:12,840
Speaker 1: I do every year, I do do the like I

686
00:32:13,040 --> 00:32:15,280
Speaker 1: listen to all the albums and I pick my favorite

687
00:32:15,280 --> 00:32:17,480
Speaker 1: because when I'm watching it's almost like my super Bowl,

688
00:32:17,520 --> 00:32:19,160
Speaker 1: Like I feel like, I'm like so invested.

689
00:32:19,240 --> 00:32:20,320
Speaker 4: How long have you been doing that?

690
00:32:21,240 --> 00:32:23,400
Speaker 2: I'd say probably the last like six years.

691
00:32:23,560 --> 00:32:25,720
Speaker 4: This is like you could almost argue that's a manifestation

692
00:32:25,800 --> 00:32:27,680
Speaker 4: in itself that you're listening to the album of the years.

693
00:32:27,680 --> 00:32:29,600
Speaker 4: You're prepping for a Grammy show that you weren't doing.

694
00:32:29,800 --> 00:32:30,400
Speaker 4: Now you're doing it.

695
00:32:31,240 --> 00:32:36,880
Speaker 5: Yeah, act as if fake it till you make it?

696
00:32:37,400 --> 00:32:39,160
Speaker 5: What does it get your foot in the door?

697
00:32:40,760 --> 00:32:42,480
Speaker 2: I remember Ryan would be like, why do you listen

698
00:32:42,480 --> 00:32:42,960
Speaker 2: to albums?

699
00:32:42,960 --> 00:32:44,360
Speaker 1: And I'm like, because how am I supposed to know

700
00:32:44,360 --> 00:32:45,880
Speaker 1: which one I like the best when they give the

701
00:32:45,920 --> 00:32:47,760
Speaker 1: Album of the Year if I haven't listened to every

702
00:32:47,800 --> 00:32:48,400
Speaker 1: single one of them.

703
00:32:48,400 --> 00:32:50,280
Speaker 4: I'm the only person in America that does that.

704
00:32:50,880 --> 00:32:52,840
Speaker 2: And they've got to be good if they're nominated for

705
00:32:52,920 --> 00:32:53,800
Speaker 2: Album of the Year.

706
00:32:54,000 --> 00:32:55,200
Speaker 4: And what was your favorite this year?

707
00:32:55,520 --> 00:32:59,120
Speaker 1: Uh, it's a tie. I really liked Casey Musgrave's Golden Hour.

708
00:32:59,200 --> 00:33:05,320
Speaker 1: It's in saying good like obsessed, but post Malone's beer

709
00:33:05,360 --> 00:33:06,840
Speaker 1: Bongs and Bentley's has to win?

710
00:33:06,920 --> 00:33:08,120
Speaker 3: Did you d m him?

711
00:33:08,280 --> 00:33:08,480
Speaker 2: Yes?

712
00:33:08,560 --> 00:33:08,840
Speaker 1: It did?

713
00:33:08,960 --> 00:33:10,560
Speaker 2: And no response.

714
00:33:12,120 --> 00:33:14,640
Speaker 1: Good to know, I'm like, is it super lame if

715
00:33:14,640 --> 00:33:16,720
Speaker 1: I like, send another one being like sorry for them,

716
00:33:18,880 --> 00:33:19,160
Speaker 1: just do.

717
00:33:19,160 --> 00:33:21,959
Speaker 5: It live on e sorry for we're going to take it.

718
00:33:22,320 --> 00:33:24,080
Speaker 5: We're going to take it to the next level. You

719
00:33:24,080 --> 00:33:27,040
Speaker 5: can just do it on camera, Okay.

720
00:33:26,640 --> 00:33:28,920
Speaker 2: For guys like Stalker City, which one was the.

721
00:33:28,840 --> 00:33:31,680
Speaker 4: Most challenging to get through because not everything's for everybody

722
00:33:31,880 --> 00:33:35,280
Speaker 4: to that negative not for Album of the Year.

723
00:33:35,400 --> 00:33:39,800
Speaker 2: Honestly, I really enjoyed most of them.

724
00:33:40,000 --> 00:33:42,520
Speaker 1: The only one I didn't love was Brandy Carlisle, but

725
00:33:42,560 --> 00:33:45,160
Speaker 1: she's also not super my music taste.

726
00:33:45,800 --> 00:33:48,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, so that one was a little together.

727
00:33:48,320 --> 00:33:50,240
Speaker 3: Can you imagine if Robin was nominated?

728
00:33:50,920 --> 00:33:53,840
Speaker 2: That would be that would really hard for you, really

729
00:33:53,880 --> 00:33:54,600
Speaker 2: hard for me. Yeah.

730
00:33:56,320 --> 00:33:58,520
Speaker 3: Robin's like a trigger word for Tanya.

731
00:33:58,240 --> 00:34:01,040
Speaker 1: Because Brad always wants to do it dance to Robin, yeah,

732
00:34:01,120 --> 00:34:03,520
Speaker 1: because it's dance music should be to Robin.

733
00:34:03,600 --> 00:34:06,080
Speaker 2: I'm like, we're not doing a dance to Robin. We

734
00:34:06,200 --> 00:34:08,280
Speaker 2: need to do pop mainstream music.

735
00:34:08,480 --> 00:34:12,680
Speaker 3: But I feel like people would really vibe on it, Honey.

736
00:34:13,200 --> 00:34:15,120
Speaker 4: All I've heard is great things about Robin, Like she's

737
00:34:15,239 --> 00:34:16,640
Speaker 4: massive in Europe, huge.

738
00:34:16,960 --> 00:34:19,040
Speaker 5: I mean, it'd be great for our European follower there

739
00:34:19,080 --> 00:34:21,040
Speaker 5: you go. We are international, We.

740
00:34:21,040 --> 00:34:23,359
Speaker 2: Are international ish.

741
00:34:23,440 --> 00:34:25,359
Speaker 3: Yeah, if I don't hear.

742
00:34:25,360 --> 00:34:27,880
Speaker 1: He's literally every single time. I think we could do

743
00:34:27,920 --> 00:34:31,440
Speaker 1: a Robinson this time. No, we always do Ariana Grande.

744
00:34:31,480 --> 00:34:33,600
Speaker 1: There's a new Ariana Grande song, So that's what.

745
00:34:33,560 --> 00:34:37,239
Speaker 5: We're doing and album on Friday. Yeah, just before the Grammys.

746
00:34:37,480 --> 00:34:40,160
Speaker 5: We'll have lots to talk about. I'm so excited you're

747
00:34:40,200 --> 00:34:42,520
Speaker 5: going to be on the show though, because it's it's

748
00:34:43,000 --> 00:34:46,040
Speaker 5: obviously something you're so passionate about. But I think that

749
00:34:46,120 --> 00:34:49,120
Speaker 5: you'll be super fun on it. And it's like, once

750
00:34:49,160 --> 00:34:52,520
Speaker 5: you get into the groove of it, it's honest, like

751
00:34:52,600 --> 00:34:55,640
Speaker 5: you'll I feel like you'll see that what you were

752
00:34:55,680 --> 00:34:59,440
Speaker 5: doing watching the Grammys and all the preparation you did, Like,

753
00:34:59,680 --> 00:35:01,600
Speaker 5: I think you'll have the best, like the most fun

754
00:35:01,640 --> 00:35:02,160
Speaker 5: of your life.

755
00:35:02,160 --> 00:35:03,560
Speaker 3: It's so fun.

756
00:35:03,840 --> 00:35:06,520
Speaker 1: I like, I just can't like the fact that I

757
00:35:06,520 --> 00:35:09,520
Speaker 1: get to do it with you is like a dream.

758
00:35:09,880 --> 00:35:10,399
Speaker 3: Gonna be good?

759
00:35:10,440 --> 00:35:11,520
Speaker 2: Do you understand that?

760
00:35:11,640 --> 00:35:14,359
Speaker 1: Like you are truly one of my favorite people in

761
00:35:14,400 --> 00:35:17,520
Speaker 1: my life. Oh, you really are, And I think it's

762
00:35:17,560 --> 00:35:18,760
Speaker 1: gonna be so fun.

763
00:35:18,920 --> 00:35:21,120
Speaker 3: Are we going to have an emotional moment on the

764
00:35:21,160 --> 00:35:21,880
Speaker 3: Grammy Show?

765
00:35:22,560 --> 00:35:22,640
Speaker 6: No?

766
00:35:23,520 --> 00:35:24,919
Speaker 2: Is that not cute. I probably will.

767
00:35:24,920 --> 00:35:27,400
Speaker 3: Probably we have so much stuff to talk about on it,

768
00:35:27,480 --> 00:35:27,959
Speaker 3: so much.

769
00:35:28,080 --> 00:35:30,759
Speaker 1: Yeah, I sent them all of our videos, by the way,

770
00:35:30,880 --> 00:35:31,960
Speaker 1: and she's like.

771
00:35:31,960 --> 00:35:34,399
Speaker 2: Wow, you guys did a lot of Ariana. I sent

772
00:35:34,520 --> 00:35:35,600
Speaker 2: like all the Ariana ones.

773
00:35:35,680 --> 00:35:36,480
Speaker 4: Too much? Ariana?

774
00:35:36,600 --> 00:35:39,920
Speaker 3: Is the message here too much? Is there ever too

775
00:35:39,960 --> 00:35:41,000
Speaker 3: much time for Robin?

776
00:35:41,560 --> 00:35:45,360
Speaker 4: Yes, thank you, you've already done the Ariana thing. Thank you.

777
00:35:45,800 --> 00:35:46,440
Speaker 4: We move on.

778
00:35:48,000 --> 00:35:48,440
Speaker 2: Wow.

779
00:35:48,640 --> 00:35:50,800
Speaker 3: Wow, that's very bold. That is bold.

780
00:35:51,239 --> 00:35:52,359
Speaker 2: He's just trying to get under my skin.

781
00:35:52,480 --> 00:35:54,440
Speaker 4: Yeah. Probably, But I do think it's amazing that you're

782
00:35:54,480 --> 00:35:55,920
Speaker 4: with him, Michael. If you get a gig like this,

783
00:35:55,960 --> 00:35:57,400
Speaker 4: most people get a gig like this and it's with

784
00:35:57,440 --> 00:35:59,440
Speaker 4: people you don't know, And does she hate me? Does

785
00:35:59,440 --> 00:36:00,920
Speaker 4: he hate me? Always? Worrid you get to do with

786
00:36:00,920 --> 00:36:02,240
Speaker 4: one of your best friends in the world.

787
00:36:02,400 --> 00:36:05,120
Speaker 2: I know, it's truly a dream come true. Like they can't.

788
00:36:05,239 --> 00:36:06,960
Speaker 2: I don't even know how I'm going to sleep until then.

789
00:36:07,040 --> 00:36:10,480
Speaker 5: But wait, you also get to pass off like Ryan

790
00:36:10,760 --> 00:36:14,160
Speaker 5: takes We leave the stage and Ryan goes on it.

791
00:36:14,239 --> 00:36:15,680
Speaker 1: That's what Brad was telling me. So he was like,

792
00:36:15,760 --> 00:36:18,400
Speaker 1: because I've been asking him, like, what's it like? Like,

793
00:36:18,440 --> 00:36:20,120
Speaker 1: I don't you don't even like I've watched it, but

794
00:36:20,200 --> 00:36:22,400
Speaker 1: you don't really like know what it's like. And he

795
00:36:22,520 --> 00:36:25,600
Speaker 1: was like, we're on the set, Ryan, we're his stages.

796
00:36:26,120 --> 00:36:28,919
Speaker 1: We go to commercial when we're done, and then back

797
00:36:28,920 --> 00:36:30,080
Speaker 1: from commercial is his show.

798
00:36:30,280 --> 00:36:32,319
Speaker 4: But there's no cross talk on the show with Ryan,

799
00:36:32,360 --> 00:36:33,480
Speaker 4: because that would be pretty great.

800
00:36:33,680 --> 00:36:35,560
Speaker 5: There might I mean there might be because of tea

801
00:36:35,680 --> 00:36:40,040
Speaker 5: rat not not typically. No, no, he you know, he's

802
00:36:40,080 --> 00:36:42,040
Speaker 5: got to come in and like you know, once we

803
00:36:43,040 --> 00:36:45,840
Speaker 5: uh finish our show, it literally starts live from the

804
00:36:45,880 --> 00:36:49,040
Speaker 5: red carpet, so it's so very very quick.

805
00:36:49,080 --> 00:36:49,440
Speaker 2: Crazy.

806
00:36:49,480 --> 00:36:51,759
Speaker 1: Are there any other like tips or tricks or like

807
00:36:52,239 --> 00:36:54,719
Speaker 1: just be yourself to drink a lot of water.

808
00:36:55,000 --> 00:36:56,719
Speaker 3: No, because then you have to go to the bathroom.

809
00:36:56,760 --> 00:36:57,640
Speaker 2: You don't have time to know.

810
00:36:57,760 --> 00:37:00,959
Speaker 5: I literally stop drinking water like an hour before the show.

811
00:37:01,560 --> 00:37:04,400
Speaker 5: I take like little sip throughout. Yeah, I have to

812
00:37:04,400 --> 00:37:06,680
Speaker 5: go pee right now? Like, how am I going to

813
00:37:06,760 --> 00:37:09,799
Speaker 5: do a live TV show? Once did the show by

814
00:37:09,840 --> 00:37:13,799
Speaker 5: the way, with the stomach flu. Wow, like three two

815
00:37:13,880 --> 00:37:16,960
Speaker 5: or three years ago. I was like horribly ill with

816
00:37:17,040 --> 00:37:19,160
Speaker 5: the stomach flu and I did the show.

817
00:37:20,040 --> 00:37:21,520
Speaker 2: It was just like the show goes on.

818
00:37:21,600 --> 00:37:25,760
Speaker 3: It was touchy, but no one knew because I'm a pro.

819
00:37:28,560 --> 00:37:30,440
Speaker 1: Wait what else give me the more behind the scenes,

820
00:37:30,480 --> 00:37:32,040
Speaker 1: so like, do you eat before you do it?

821
00:37:32,520 --> 00:37:35,000
Speaker 5: Well, yeah, because you got the menu like two weeks ago.

822
00:37:35,080 --> 00:37:37,640
Speaker 5: They make you pick your meal, which I have to

823
00:37:37,680 --> 00:37:43,320
Speaker 5: do after this. So the producers like while you're getting ready,

824
00:37:43,400 --> 00:37:46,000
Speaker 5: they obviously feed you and they ask you for your

825
00:37:46,120 --> 00:37:47,440
Speaker 5: order like two weeks.

826
00:37:47,120 --> 00:37:47,839
Speaker 3: Before the event.

827
00:37:47,920 --> 00:37:50,720
Speaker 1: I was like, I was like, I got the menu.

828
00:37:50,800 --> 00:37:52,799
Speaker 1: I was like, can't I disorder it? Like Saturday or.

829
00:37:52,719 --> 00:37:53,320
Speaker 2: The day before.

830
00:37:54,440 --> 00:37:56,920
Speaker 5: The lighting's really good. That's one thing you can always

831
00:37:56,960 --> 00:37:59,960
Speaker 5: count one. I'm always so happy when I see myself

832
00:38:00,040 --> 00:38:03,280
Speaker 5: in the lighting. And Jeanie and Nina are so fun.

833
00:38:03,960 --> 00:38:05,280
Speaker 5: They're most fun.

834
00:38:05,480 --> 00:38:08,480
Speaker 2: I cannot wait, Like, yeah, it's a good group, fully

835
00:38:08,560 --> 00:38:09,160
Speaker 2: freaking out.

836
00:38:09,239 --> 00:38:11,040
Speaker 3: It's good. What's your glamor going to be? Do you think?

837
00:38:11,400 --> 00:38:13,520
Speaker 2: I don't know? Leaving it in Haley's hands?

838
00:38:13,520 --> 00:38:15,560
Speaker 3: Interesting, I don't even know.

839
00:38:15,560 --> 00:38:16,120
Speaker 2: What I'm wearing it.

840
00:38:16,600 --> 00:38:22,560
Speaker 1: But we we had Miles, our imaging guy, put together

841
00:38:22,600 --> 00:38:26,000
Speaker 1: a compilation of the records of the year. So we

842
00:38:26,040 --> 00:38:28,520
Speaker 1: want to do a special dance on the car. I

843
00:38:28,560 --> 00:38:30,440
Speaker 1: think we need to do it Saturday after rehearsal.

844
00:38:31,320 --> 00:38:31,719
Speaker 3: I'm down.

845
00:38:31,760 --> 00:38:33,920
Speaker 2: We want to do it on the carpet and have

846
00:38:34,000 --> 00:38:35,720
Speaker 2: it be like it's like a minute.

847
00:38:35,840 --> 00:38:37,120
Speaker 3: It's such a good mash up.

848
00:38:37,160 --> 00:38:40,720
Speaker 1: It's such a good mass. So it's like the hooks

849
00:38:40,760 --> 00:38:43,279
Speaker 1: of all the big songs that are nominated.

850
00:38:43,600 --> 00:38:45,080
Speaker 4: Have you do you have an opinion as to what

851
00:38:45,080 --> 00:38:46,239
Speaker 4: should be Record of the Year.

852
00:38:47,800 --> 00:38:50,080
Speaker 2: I would actually be pretty happy with all most of them.

853
00:38:50,160 --> 00:38:52,040
Speaker 4: Really, even the Joke by Brandy Carlisle, because I know

854
00:38:52,080 --> 00:38:56,320
Speaker 4: you're not feeling it. I think that's a great song personally.

855
00:39:00,680 --> 00:39:03,400
Speaker 2: Well, okay, I would like to give it to All

856
00:39:03,400 --> 00:39:04,040
Speaker 2: the Stars.

857
00:39:04,600 --> 00:39:06,560
Speaker 4: All the Stars.

858
00:39:06,800 --> 00:39:07,799
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's such a good song.

859
00:39:07,880 --> 00:39:08,440
Speaker 4: That is a good one.

860
00:39:08,440 --> 00:39:09,919
Speaker 3: They're performing that at the Oscars too.

861
00:39:10,560 --> 00:39:13,239
Speaker 4: The nominees are I like it, Cardi B the joke,

862
00:39:13,280 --> 00:39:15,800
Speaker 4: as I mentioned, this is America Childish Gambino, which I

863
00:39:15,840 --> 00:39:16,960
Speaker 4: think that is the favorite.

864
00:39:17,239 --> 00:39:18,400
Speaker 3: Yeah, I think so too.

865
00:39:18,360 --> 00:39:21,280
Speaker 4: God's Planned Drake Shallow by Lady Gaga and Bradley Cooper,

866
00:39:21,280 --> 00:39:23,719
Speaker 4: All the Stars, rock Star by Post Malone, and The

867
00:39:23,760 --> 00:39:25,560
Speaker 4: Middle by zed Maren Morrison Gray.

868
00:39:26,200 --> 00:39:26,799
Speaker 2: What your pick?

869
00:39:26,880 --> 00:39:29,399
Speaker 5: The Middle is so good. I feel like it's either

870
00:39:29,400 --> 00:39:33,200
Speaker 5: going to go to Childish Gambino or Cardi B.

871
00:39:34,600 --> 00:39:36,439
Speaker 2: Yeah, how do you not do? I like it?

872
00:39:37,920 --> 00:39:39,440
Speaker 4: I don't know. They got some They got to make

873
00:39:39,480 --> 00:39:40,799
Speaker 4: it up to Kendrick a little bit. You know, they

874
00:39:40,920 --> 00:39:42,440
Speaker 4: kind of snubbed him in the past. So I think

875
00:39:42,480 --> 00:39:44,560
Speaker 4: he's gonna do really well this year because they owe

876
00:39:44,600 --> 00:39:45,480
Speaker 4: him a bit, right.

877
00:39:45,760 --> 00:39:48,880
Speaker 5: That's also, by the way, such a good song like

878
00:39:48,920 --> 00:39:51,440
Speaker 5: that song will be you know.

879
00:39:51,560 --> 00:39:52,120
Speaker 2: All the Stars?

880
00:39:52,239 --> 00:39:53,280
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, so good.

881
00:39:54,360 --> 00:39:55,239
Speaker 2: It's so good.

882
00:39:55,320 --> 00:39:58,160
Speaker 3: It's so good, the beat, the hook, all of it.

883
00:39:58,320 --> 00:39:58,800
Speaker 4: So good.

884
00:39:58,920 --> 00:40:00,480
Speaker 2: Okay, here's my next question.

885
00:40:00,560 --> 00:40:03,000
Speaker 1: So when we're doing this show, people aren't arriving yet,

886
00:40:03,080 --> 00:40:04,399
Speaker 1: right they are.

887
00:40:04,000 --> 00:40:04,960
Speaker 3: Oh my god.

888
00:40:05,000 --> 00:40:07,439
Speaker 5: There was one year maybe it was was it last

889
00:40:07,520 --> 00:40:09,360
Speaker 5: year in New York? I think it might have been

890
00:40:09,480 --> 00:40:13,799
Speaker 5: last year. We were live on air and it was

891
00:40:13,880 --> 00:40:16,200
Speaker 5: near that in the last fifteen minutes of the show

892
00:40:16,320 --> 00:40:21,280
Speaker 5: and Lady Gaga walked past us and I I maybe

893
00:40:21,280 --> 00:40:23,480
Speaker 5: we were on break. I screamed at the top of

894
00:40:23,520 --> 00:40:28,000
Speaker 5: my lungs. I went, lady like this, and she turned

895
00:40:28,040 --> 00:40:30,840
Speaker 5: and she waved at me, and I died.

896
00:40:30,960 --> 00:40:31,960
Speaker 2: Did they get it on camera?

897
00:40:32,520 --> 00:40:34,600
Speaker 5: No, they look for the footage, but there's a photo

898
00:40:34,760 --> 00:40:37,359
Speaker 5: of her on Getty waving at me like you can't

899
00:40:37,360 --> 00:40:39,120
Speaker 5: see me. But I know, I know that that was

900
00:40:39,160 --> 00:40:41,480
Speaker 5: the moment because it was ad during her arrival.

901
00:40:42,040 --> 00:40:44,480
Speaker 3: Ah, it was so good. I'm still living from it.

902
00:40:44,680 --> 00:40:46,319
Speaker 2: Wait, that sucks that they didn't get it on camp.

903
00:40:46,400 --> 00:40:49,480
Speaker 3: Yeah, people like walk people walk by. It's so fun. Oh,

904
00:40:49,640 --> 00:40:50,520
Speaker 3: it's like all of them.

905
00:40:50,560 --> 00:40:52,920
Speaker 5: Like at the Globes, we had like so many good

906
00:40:53,000 --> 00:40:58,040
Speaker 5: people arriving behind us. The oscars were like across the street,

907
00:40:58,120 --> 00:40:59,799
Speaker 5: so we don't see anybody.

908
00:41:01,080 --> 00:41:04,200
Speaker 3: I just got excited for like Juliana to arrive. Oh

909
00:41:04,280 --> 00:41:04,920
Speaker 3: my god.

910
00:41:05,040 --> 00:41:07,080
Speaker 5: Yeah, but the Grammys will see people go by. That's

911
00:41:07,120 --> 00:41:11,080
Speaker 5: the I get so like not cool, like obviously I was.

912
00:41:11,360 --> 00:41:14,239
Speaker 5: I screamed at her and like she heard me, because

913
00:41:14,280 --> 00:41:15,640
Speaker 5: what are we gonna do if we see Sean?

914
00:41:16,880 --> 00:41:17,520
Speaker 3: I'll be chill.

915
00:41:17,560 --> 00:41:19,480
Speaker 5: I'm not going up to him like you made me before.

916
00:41:19,640 --> 00:41:22,600
Speaker 5: I might tell that story on air. To tell that

917
00:41:22,760 --> 00:41:26,920
Speaker 5: story horrible. One of the lowest points of my twenty eighteen.

918
00:41:27,000 --> 00:41:32,280
Speaker 5: I think I had to go to therapy after that.

919
00:41:33,080 --> 00:41:36,720
Speaker 5: Destroyed by Shawn Mendes at the gym because with Tanya

920
00:41:36,800 --> 00:41:37,960
Speaker 5: cheerleading me, like go.

921
00:41:38,080 --> 00:41:38,600
Speaker 3: Up to him.

922
00:41:38,760 --> 00:41:43,120
Speaker 5: He loves me, he'll remember you.

923
00:41:43,160 --> 00:41:43,799
Speaker 3: No, he did not.

924
00:41:46,840 --> 00:41:48,439
Speaker 2: You probably didn't pitch it right.

925
00:41:48,520 --> 00:41:51,960
Speaker 3: Oh, I pitch it really well. I didn't pitch it, okay.

926
00:41:51,760 --> 00:41:54,440
Speaker 5: If the pitch was walking up to him while I

927
00:41:54,480 --> 00:41:57,000
Speaker 5: saw that he was on a break of working out

928
00:41:57,400 --> 00:42:01,160
Speaker 5: and then going, hey, Sean, it's Brad Gureski.

929
00:42:01,320 --> 00:42:03,759
Speaker 3: I'm really good friends with Tanya rad And he was like.

930
00:42:03,880 --> 00:42:08,800
Speaker 5: Uh huh, like there can't be a clearer pitch Tanya.

931
00:42:09,880 --> 00:42:12,040
Speaker 1: So Brad's texting me and he's like, I had Sewn

932
00:42:12,120 --> 00:42:14,520
Speaker 1: Mendes is at my workout in my gym or whatever.

933
00:42:14,320 --> 00:42:15,600
Speaker 2: And I was like, oh my gosh. I was like,

934
00:42:15,719 --> 00:42:19,240
Speaker 2: totally go up to him and say hi.

935
00:42:19,360 --> 00:42:21,600
Speaker 1: I was like, he totally knows me, like I've known

936
00:42:21,680 --> 00:42:23,520
Speaker 1: him since he was like fourteen.

937
00:42:23,520 --> 00:42:26,720
Speaker 4: But not personal like in a professional way.

938
00:42:26,880 --> 00:42:29,160
Speaker 1: And when I see him out in the wild, I

939
00:42:29,400 --> 00:42:31,400
Speaker 1: hundred percent go up to him and I'm like, hey, Sean,

940
00:42:31,560 --> 00:42:33,680
Speaker 1: like he knows me, he knows me. He fools me

941
00:42:33,719 --> 00:42:36,879
Speaker 1: on Instagram, Okay, okay, he knows me.

942
00:42:36,920 --> 00:42:39,359
Speaker 3: And hardcore creeps on your store and.

943
00:42:39,400 --> 00:42:41,960
Speaker 1: Watches my stories. So I told Brad, I said, go

944
00:42:42,040 --> 00:42:43,920
Speaker 1: up to Shawn Mendes and be like, hey, I'm friends

945
00:42:43,920 --> 00:42:45,600
Speaker 1: with Tanya, like and.

946
00:42:45,640 --> 00:42:49,040
Speaker 5: Also like I've met him, yeah, like numerous times, numerous times.

947
00:42:49,280 --> 00:42:49,520
Speaker 4: Yeah.

948
00:42:49,560 --> 00:42:52,440
Speaker 5: But I also get it too because when I'm at

949
00:42:52,480 --> 00:42:53,440
Speaker 5: the gym working out.

950
00:42:53,520 --> 00:42:55,080
Speaker 2: The gym was the wrong place.

951
00:42:55,120 --> 00:42:57,719
Speaker 5: I also, I just I don't like people, like even

952
00:42:57,719 --> 00:43:01,000
Speaker 5: people that I know, interrupting my flow alone, like somebody

953
00:43:01,000 --> 00:43:05,440
Speaker 5: who seems like like a forty year old crazed gay fan.

954
00:43:05,640 --> 00:43:09,080
Speaker 3: Like coming up to him. Well, he's just trying to

955
00:43:09,200 --> 00:43:10,400
Speaker 3: like do his arms.

956
00:43:10,520 --> 00:43:12,800
Speaker 5: Yeah, he's like just once a few minutes by himself,

957
00:43:12,840 --> 00:43:15,000
Speaker 5: and I'm like, my.

958
00:43:15,080 --> 00:43:18,160
Speaker 7: Friend Tanya said I should come up to you.

959
00:43:18,200 --> 00:43:21,200
Speaker 4: Never again. So now, but then, why did you What

960
00:43:21,239 --> 00:43:22,839
Speaker 4: were you hoping to gain from that? Just a fun

961
00:43:22,840 --> 00:43:23,600
Speaker 4: little interaction.

962
00:43:23,840 --> 00:43:27,200
Speaker 5: Yeah, even I guess you know, sometimes it becomes like

963
00:43:27,400 --> 00:43:30,560
Speaker 5: a little intoxicating when you we had just seen him

964
00:43:30,560 --> 00:43:31,680
Speaker 5: at the Grammy Museum.

965
00:43:32,120 --> 00:43:33,799
Speaker 3: Yeah, and I have like.

966
00:43:33,800 --> 00:43:36,920
Speaker 5: Talked to him on carpets and stuff before, like not interviewing,

967
00:43:36,960 --> 00:43:41,320
Speaker 5: but just like socially. So I don't know, I'll never

968
00:43:41,760 --> 00:43:43,759
Speaker 5: ever ever do it again.

969
00:43:43,840 --> 00:43:45,840
Speaker 4: So what did you say after? He said Okay?

970
00:43:46,880 --> 00:43:49,880
Speaker 5: I said, oh, we just saw it the Grammy Museum

971
00:43:50,000 --> 00:43:52,600
Speaker 5: and it was like such an incredible concert and you

972
00:43:52,680 --> 00:43:56,160
Speaker 5: were so you're so eloquent talking about the.

973
00:43:56,200 --> 00:44:00,000
Speaker 3: Industry and your music and you know, really blew us away.

974
00:44:00,040 --> 00:44:02,040
Speaker 5: And he was like thanks man, and I was like,

975
00:44:02,840 --> 00:44:05,120
Speaker 5: I was like, okay, so.

976
00:44:07,280 --> 00:44:09,279
Speaker 3: I'm gonna get a like a I guess I'll get

977
00:44:09,320 --> 00:44:10,240
Speaker 3: a protein shape.

978
00:44:11,800 --> 00:44:12,399
Speaker 4: You want one?

979
00:44:12,480 --> 00:44:13,879
Speaker 3: No, I didn't see that.

980
00:44:15,280 --> 00:44:15,799
Speaker 4: I don't know.

981
00:44:15,960 --> 00:44:18,480
Speaker 3: It's my own fault. I should know better. After living in.

982
00:44:18,520 --> 00:44:20,800
Speaker 2: LA for eighteen, I know what I was totally pushing

983
00:44:20,960 --> 00:44:21,080
Speaker 2: to do.

984
00:44:21,120 --> 00:44:23,680
Speaker 5: And I was like, go coo, I'm going to scroll

985
00:44:23,880 --> 00:44:28,719
Speaker 5: like really far back to like fine shapely cheerleading.

986
00:44:28,920 --> 00:44:29,359
Speaker 2: I was.

987
00:44:29,440 --> 00:44:32,120
Speaker 1: And so now it's like this joke where I can't

988
00:44:32,120 --> 00:44:36,799
Speaker 1: remember it was a Daniella Brad's. Brad's coworker was like,

989
00:44:36,880 --> 00:44:41,239
Speaker 1: I saw I see Beyonce at Soul Tanyaana told me

990
00:44:41,239 --> 00:44:46,600
Speaker 1: to go up and say hi, to say I know Tanya.

991
00:44:46,480 --> 00:44:49,080
Speaker 2: Might not work with Beyonce. I probably would not do that.

992
00:44:49,719 --> 00:44:53,480
Speaker 3: Yeah, but anyway, I'm willing to let it go, you

993
00:44:53,520 --> 00:44:54,880
Speaker 3: know if he okay.

994
00:44:54,920 --> 00:44:56,520
Speaker 1: So if he, this is my question to you. So

995
00:44:56,560 --> 00:44:58,640
Speaker 1: you're like in with these people. I don't want to

996
00:44:58,640 --> 00:45:02,759
Speaker 1: be like in with who people. I don't want to

997
00:45:02,760 --> 00:45:04,520
Speaker 1: be like the new girl that comes on and is

998
00:45:04,560 --> 00:45:07,319
Speaker 1: like if Shawn Mendes is like walking past us, can

999
00:45:07,360 --> 00:45:10,000
Speaker 1: I like throw my hands out and be like, Sean,

1000
00:45:10,120 --> 00:45:10,640
Speaker 1: come up.

1001
00:45:10,520 --> 00:45:12,080
Speaker 2: Here or would they be mad.

1002
00:45:12,200 --> 00:45:13,239
Speaker 3: I wouldn't do that move.

1003
00:45:13,360 --> 00:45:15,600
Speaker 5: Okay, Well that's just because that puts like him on

1004
00:45:15,680 --> 00:45:18,640
Speaker 5: the spot, right, and he I love doing that, and

1005
00:45:18,680 --> 00:45:21,560
Speaker 5: he'll probably have like a time to talk to Ryan

1006
00:45:21,600 --> 00:45:24,200
Speaker 5: at some point, right, So.

1007
00:45:24,360 --> 00:45:27,280
Speaker 3: I would wave and be like, oh my gosh, Sean.

1008
00:45:27,440 --> 00:45:30,080
Speaker 2: Yeah okay, but don't buy anybody up, yeah, because it's.

1009
00:45:29,960 --> 00:45:32,719
Speaker 5: Also just like an awkward position to put anybody in

1010
00:45:32,880 --> 00:45:35,960
Speaker 5: because all of that stuff is like timed out, right,

1011
00:45:36,080 --> 00:45:36,759
Speaker 5: So I mean.

1012
00:45:36,640 --> 00:45:38,279
Speaker 2: See this is good. I'm getting all this out.

1013
00:45:38,320 --> 00:45:40,719
Speaker 5: But also the producers are there too, like they know

1014
00:45:40,760 --> 00:45:43,200
Speaker 5: who's going to be early arrivals during our time, so

1015
00:45:43,239 --> 00:45:47,719
Speaker 5: they'll slot try to slot in early interviews or like

1016
00:45:48,080 --> 00:45:50,280
Speaker 5: you know, DJ Khaled came up on the stage.

1017
00:45:51,200 --> 00:45:53,920
Speaker 3: I think it was two years ago, went Rogue.

1018
00:45:54,160 --> 00:45:56,480
Speaker 5: Yeah, he came up and like, you know, did a

1019
00:45:56,520 --> 00:45:59,480
Speaker 5: whole like thing with us. What is it, secure the

1020
00:45:59,520 --> 00:46:01,879
Speaker 5: bag like major key, Like he did the whole thing.

1021
00:46:02,520 --> 00:46:04,200
Speaker 2: All I do is win.

1022
00:46:03,840 --> 00:46:09,120
Speaker 1: All I do is yeah, yeah, Wow, that sicks so good.

1023
00:46:09,239 --> 00:46:11,520
Speaker 1: You know, there's like there's a big party, Like it's

1024
00:46:11,560 --> 00:46:13,960
Speaker 1: a lot of parties happening, and I'm just trying to

1025
00:46:14,000 --> 00:46:16,440
Speaker 1: decide if it's worth it to go to the parties

1026
00:46:16,480 --> 00:46:18,440
Speaker 1: because I feel like it would be good fodder for

1027
00:46:18,880 --> 00:46:19,160
Speaker 1: they have.

1028
00:46:19,239 --> 00:46:22,879
Speaker 3: Four Yeah, I will make it.

1029
00:46:23,440 --> 00:46:25,200
Speaker 2: Or if I should like stay home and like get

1030
00:46:25,200 --> 00:46:25,760
Speaker 2: my rest.

1031
00:46:26,520 --> 00:46:26,960
Speaker 3: Mm hmm.

1032
00:46:27,719 --> 00:46:29,799
Speaker 5: It takes a lot of energy, I'm going to say,

1033
00:46:29,840 --> 00:46:32,000
Speaker 5: but you'll be like, you'll have a You're young too,

1034
00:46:32,000 --> 00:46:32,680
Speaker 5: You're fine.

1035
00:46:32,760 --> 00:46:33,200
Speaker 3: I can do it.

1036
00:46:33,239 --> 00:46:35,200
Speaker 2: You can do it. But you want to go to

1037
00:46:35,239 --> 00:46:36,560
Speaker 2: the party with me on Friday night, then.

1038
00:46:38,600 --> 00:46:41,040
Speaker 5: Maybe I might go because I might go to Duke

1039
00:46:41,200 --> 00:46:42,920
Speaker 5: Duke Dumont down downtown.

1040
00:46:43,080 --> 00:46:43,680
Speaker 2: Oh cute.

1041
00:46:43,680 --> 00:46:45,000
Speaker 3: Okay, do you like Duke Dumont.

1042
00:46:45,320 --> 00:46:46,160
Speaker 2: I've never heard of it?

1043
00:46:46,200 --> 00:46:49,240
Speaker 3: But no, really, no, what is that? He's a DJ?

1044
00:46:50,719 --> 00:46:53,200
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, You're going to a DJ show and one

1045
00:46:53,239 --> 00:46:55,279
Speaker 1: of my favorites ever, and you're going.

1046
00:46:55,280 --> 00:46:56,880
Speaker 2: To stay up till what time on Friday?

1047
00:46:57,480 --> 00:46:59,399
Speaker 3: I don't know. It depends like maybe two.

1048
00:46:59,560 --> 00:47:03,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, don't DJ started like midnight? This is not very Brad.

1049
00:47:03,880 --> 00:47:05,600
Speaker 3: Why it's so me?

1050
00:47:05,800 --> 00:47:09,279
Speaker 2: By the way, Jamas at like six pm on a

1051
00:47:09,280 --> 00:47:10,000
Speaker 2: Friday night.

1052
00:47:09,920 --> 00:47:11,600
Speaker 3: I could rally. I could go to the party with

1053
00:47:11,680 --> 00:47:13,320
Speaker 3: you before and then go to Duke Dumont.

1054
00:47:13,960 --> 00:47:16,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, so this is a little fun behind the scenes

1055
00:47:16,360 --> 00:47:19,399
Speaker 1: with Brad and I we love going to sleep early.

1056
00:47:19,440 --> 00:47:21,239
Speaker 2: We love being in our pjs with you.

1057
00:47:21,360 --> 00:47:22,239
Speaker 3: Yeah, way early.

1058
00:47:22,360 --> 00:47:25,280
Speaker 1: Yes, But there's always like that rogue time like moment

1059
00:47:25,400 --> 00:47:27,719
Speaker 1: where like I'll be out at something or he'll be

1060
00:47:27,800 --> 00:47:29,520
Speaker 1: out at something, and we'll be like posting on our

1061
00:47:29,560 --> 00:47:32,839
Speaker 1: instagrams at like one am. Every single time either one

1062
00:47:32,840 --> 00:47:34,799
Speaker 1: of us is out, we message the other person. We're

1063
00:47:34,800 --> 00:47:41,360
Speaker 1: like good for you or oh okay, okay, yeah.

1064
00:47:40,880 --> 00:47:43,080
Speaker 5: Just checking in. The last one was when I went

1065
00:47:43,160 --> 00:47:47,040
Speaker 5: to Hollie House for the Drag Show. Drag Show, Yeah,

1066
00:47:47,080 --> 00:47:48,160
Speaker 5: you were like, what are you doing?

1067
00:47:48,280 --> 00:47:50,960
Speaker 1: And then we timestamp everything because we want people to

1068
00:47:51,000 --> 00:47:51,960
Speaker 1: be like, yeah.

1069
00:47:51,920 --> 00:47:55,240
Speaker 3: We actually go out, We're wild.

1070
00:47:55,640 --> 00:47:56,920
Speaker 2: It's a one oh one am.

1071
00:47:57,120 --> 00:47:57,400
Speaker 4: Yeah.

1072
00:47:57,440 --> 00:47:59,680
Speaker 5: We could have a major Grammys party weekend too, and

1073
00:47:59,760 --> 00:48:01,120
Speaker 5: just everyone off kilter.

1074
00:48:02,000 --> 00:48:04,399
Speaker 4: Yeah, and you're working late after the Grammys, right.

1075
00:48:05,000 --> 00:48:07,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, so I'm gonna do their after party too.

1076
00:48:07,560 --> 00:48:09,120
Speaker 3: So fun, so fun?

1077
00:48:09,360 --> 00:48:11,759
Speaker 4: Yeah, But are hosting the on TV? Or is this sun?

1078
00:48:11,920 --> 00:48:12,320
Speaker 4: Where is it?

1079
00:48:12,440 --> 00:48:13,040
Speaker 2: This is on TV?

1080
00:48:13,120 --> 00:48:13,279
Speaker 1: Too?

1081
00:48:13,400 --> 00:48:15,120
Speaker 4: Okay? Two times on.

1082
00:48:15,080 --> 00:48:19,160
Speaker 2: TV from zero to two in one night. I'm basically

1083
00:48:19,200 --> 00:48:19,600
Speaker 2: a whore.

1084
00:48:21,840 --> 00:48:23,359
Speaker 3: Are you going to change? Yeah?

1085
00:48:23,400 --> 00:48:23,960
Speaker 2: I'm changing?

1086
00:48:24,440 --> 00:48:25,279
Speaker 4: Who are you with for that?

1087
00:48:26,800 --> 00:48:27,480
Speaker 2: I don't know?

1088
00:48:27,640 --> 00:48:33,239
Speaker 5: Actually, maybe Aaron Lamb. I don't know Morgan Stewart, that

1089
00:48:33,280 --> 00:48:34,440
Speaker 5: would be so fun.

1090
00:48:34,320 --> 00:48:36,919
Speaker 2: It probably I think, is Morgan so fun?

1091
00:48:36,960 --> 00:48:42,880
Speaker 3: I'm jealous. I love Morgan obviously for sure.

1092
00:48:43,000 --> 00:48:45,839
Speaker 5: After my weekend, come on, there's so much going on,

1093
00:48:46,360 --> 00:48:47,160
Speaker 5: so much going on.

1094
00:48:47,200 --> 00:48:48,960
Speaker 2: I know Brad has a lot going on. But it's

1095
00:48:49,000 --> 00:48:49,399
Speaker 2: all good.

1096
00:48:49,640 --> 00:48:50,320
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's fine.

1097
00:48:50,400 --> 00:48:50,800
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1098
00:48:51,239 --> 00:48:54,480
Speaker 5: I went from like, yeah, I just there's like a

1099
00:48:54,480 --> 00:48:57,840
Speaker 5: lot going you know, this is how it goes. Sometimes

1100
00:48:58,280 --> 00:49:01,160
Speaker 5: there are chunks of time where people want you nowhere,

1101
00:49:01,480 --> 00:49:05,560
Speaker 5: and there are chunks of time where people want you everywhere. Yeah,

1102
00:49:05,600 --> 00:49:07,279
Speaker 5: and I'm in an everywhere spot right now.

1103
00:49:07,320 --> 00:49:09,360
Speaker 1: You know what I would actually like we can do

1104
00:49:09,400 --> 00:49:12,000
Speaker 1: a couple spots and then to talk talk you should

1105
00:49:12,040 --> 00:49:15,000
Speaker 1: talk about because I feel like you're really relatable in

1106
00:49:15,040 --> 00:49:18,080
Speaker 1: that sense where you have a lot going on. People

1107
00:49:18,080 --> 00:49:20,879
Speaker 1: that look at your social media like you are top

1108
00:49:20,920 --> 00:49:23,160
Speaker 1: of your game in terms of like there's no better

1109
00:49:23,200 --> 00:49:25,279
Speaker 1: stylist than you, Like you are like the cream of

1110
00:49:25,280 --> 00:49:28,319
Speaker 1: the crop. You're funny, you have a great relationship, Like

1111
00:49:28,360 --> 00:49:30,480
Speaker 1: your life is really great. But there are moments where

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Speaker 1: you get really like you get really anxious about things.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and I think that's always But I.

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Speaker 1: Think that's really relatable for people to hear about, you know,

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Speaker 1: because I think a lot of times people don't think

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Speaker 1: like I think a lot of people feel alone when

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Speaker 1: they have these feelings, and I think it brings them

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Speaker 1: comfort to know somebody like you feels the same way.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 5: I mean, you know, all of my social media is

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Speaker 5: like timely, so it's like what's actually happening? Usually day

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Speaker 5: of I don't really post likew content, so what you

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Speaker 5: see on my social media is like what's happening.

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Speaker 3: And one of my friends, my friend Danielle said.

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Speaker 5: To me in real time real time, because she said,

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Speaker 5: I take too long to post my red carpet photos,

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Speaker 5: like I should be posting them as they're happening. She's

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Speaker 5: like real time, real time. So I'm trying to do

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Speaker 5: real real, real time, like as it's happening anyway.

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Speaker 3: But yeah, I mean, you know, when you're in.

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Speaker 5: An industry that's as competitive as styling, and also an

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Speaker 5: industry that's as competitive as TV, there are you know,

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00:50:31,960 --> 00:50:35,759
Speaker 5: moments where you have to let other people take the

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Speaker 5: spotlight and then hope that the spotlight comes back on you.

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Speaker 3: And that can be.

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Speaker 5: In reality or that can also just be in your mind,

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Speaker 5: which sometimes I know I'm guilty of building a script

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00:50:46,080 --> 00:50:48,040
Speaker 5: in my mind of things that I think are happening

1139
00:50:48,040 --> 00:50:53,520
Speaker 5: that aren't actually. But you know, this year, and we've

1140
00:50:53,520 --> 00:50:58,880
Speaker 5: talked about this, I am trying to make this the

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00:50:58,960 --> 00:51:01,440
Speaker 5: year of Yes, which means saying yes to opportunities that

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00:51:01,480 --> 00:51:04,719
Speaker 5: come my way, as opposed to I felt like last

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00:51:04,800 --> 00:51:06,560
Speaker 5: year I was kind of had my arms crossed a

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00:51:06,600 --> 00:51:08,200
Speaker 5: little bit and I was like, no, I don't want

1145
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Speaker 5: to do this, and I'm just trying to stay.

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Speaker 3: More open and you know.

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Speaker 5: More welcoming to opportunities. And it's been like January was,

1148
00:51:21,040 --> 00:51:26,759
Speaker 5: it's been so wild, like the weirdest like opportunities have

1149
00:51:26,800 --> 00:51:29,880
Speaker 5: been coming, like so strange, like all of these really

1150
00:51:30,000 --> 00:51:32,520
Speaker 5: quick trips, like I mean literally all over the world

1151
00:51:32,600 --> 00:51:36,719
Speaker 5: up until April. It's just it's and work is so

1152
00:51:36,840 --> 00:51:40,360
Speaker 5: busy and all these all this TV stuff is happening,

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00:51:40,440 --> 00:51:44,520
Speaker 5: and there's it's like I feel like I got to

1154
00:51:44,560 --> 00:51:48,680
Speaker 5: a place where I worked through all of the feelings

1155
00:51:48,680 --> 00:51:51,680
Speaker 5: of maybe not feeling like I was, you know, doing

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00:51:51,719 --> 00:51:55,400
Speaker 5: the greatest, and then all of this like abundance came in.

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00:51:55,480 --> 00:51:57,520
Speaker 3: Like it's just been incredible.

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Speaker 5: So yeah, I mean I've been very honest with you

1159
00:52:00,360 --> 00:52:04,160
Speaker 5: and we talk about it too, like I'm not I'm

1160
00:52:04,239 --> 00:52:07,560
Speaker 5: not a depressed person, but there were moments last year

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00:52:07,600 --> 00:52:09,880
Speaker 5: where I was wondering if I was because I just

1162
00:52:10,520 --> 00:52:13,759
Speaker 5: didn't feel like I was even, you know, and I'm

1163
00:52:13,800 --> 00:52:16,200
Speaker 5: a pretty even person. So when I feel like I'm off,

1164
00:52:16,360 --> 00:52:19,080
Speaker 5: it gets very jarring for me. And then I start

1165
00:52:19,120 --> 00:52:21,160
Speaker 5: like freaking out that I'm like like do I need

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00:52:21,200 --> 00:52:23,120
Speaker 5: to go to a therapist? Do I need to go

1167
00:52:23,160 --> 00:52:25,759
Speaker 5: on medication? Do I need like all of these questions.

1168
00:52:26,280 --> 00:52:28,560
Speaker 5: And you know that's why I have good friends like you,

1169
00:52:28,800 --> 00:52:32,480
Speaker 5: I have my family, I have Gary, and you know,

1170
00:52:32,520 --> 00:52:35,080
Speaker 5: I just like talked through things and it's just like

1171
00:52:35,120 --> 00:52:38,440
Speaker 5: the ebb and flow of life, like things happen, and

1172
00:52:39,200 --> 00:52:41,359
Speaker 5: you know, there are different stresses that happen to us

1173
00:52:41,360 --> 00:52:45,239
Speaker 5: in our lives. But I'm just very I'm just like

1174
00:52:45,320 --> 00:52:48,520
Speaker 5: trying to focus on like gratitude and being super thankful

1175
00:52:48,560 --> 00:52:52,319
Speaker 5: for being able to I also sometimes forget, like you know,

1176
00:52:52,360 --> 00:52:53,759
Speaker 5: when I was a kid, and like you were talking

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00:52:53,760 --> 00:52:57,560
Speaker 5: about watching the Grammys and how that all came true,

1178
00:52:57,600 --> 00:53:00,560
Speaker 5: Like all of this came true for me from you know,

1179
00:53:00,600 --> 00:53:03,640
Speaker 5: being a little kid in Port Perry Ontario, Canada, watching

1180
00:53:03,680 --> 00:53:06,839
Speaker 5: the Oscars, Like I would VHS tape the Oscars Red

1181
00:53:06,880 --> 00:53:09,920
Speaker 5: Carpet and like rewatch it all the time, Like I

1182
00:53:09,960 --> 00:53:12,360
Speaker 5: was obsessed with that, like fantasy.

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00:53:12,200 --> 00:53:13,640
Speaker 2: And now you're like doing it.

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00:53:13,760 --> 00:53:15,920
Speaker 5: Yeah, And so like when I'm on the carpet and

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00:53:15,960 --> 00:53:19,440
Speaker 5: I'm also dressing people for the carpet, and then I

1186
00:53:19,440 --> 00:53:21,760
Speaker 5: would watch We had the show in Canada called Fashion

1187
00:53:21,800 --> 00:53:25,520
Speaker 5: TV that Genie Becker hosted, who is like an idol

1188
00:53:25,560 --> 00:53:28,640
Speaker 5: of mine who actually got to give her star on

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Speaker 5: the Canadian Walk of Fame. I was the one that

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00:53:30,680 --> 00:53:32,200
Speaker 5: gave it to her, which was also like one of

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00:53:32,280 --> 00:53:35,040
Speaker 5: those moments. She taught me everything about fashion through the TV,

1192
00:53:35,800 --> 00:53:38,160
Speaker 5: and then I got to have this huge honor of

1193
00:53:38,239 --> 00:53:41,040
Speaker 5: like giving a speech about her and it was amazing.

1194
00:53:41,080 --> 00:53:44,240
Speaker 5: But there was a show, Fashion TV that I would

1195
00:53:44,280 --> 00:53:46,840
Speaker 5: just like watch all the runway shows and interviews with

1196
00:53:46,880 --> 00:53:49,400
Speaker 5: designers and just be like how do I like, I

1197
00:53:49,440 --> 00:53:51,399
Speaker 5: love fashion so much, but how do I get there?

1198
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Speaker 5: And then my life has turned out where I get

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Speaker 5: to be in all of these different worlds that I

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Speaker 5: dreamed about when I was a kid. So I also

1201
00:54:00,640 --> 00:54:03,560
Speaker 5: tap into that, like wow, all of this actually happened

1202
00:54:03,600 --> 00:54:06,160
Speaker 5: for me. Then all of that other stuff just disappears,

1203
00:54:06,200 --> 00:54:09,160
Speaker 5: and I'm like, you know, almost ten years doing this

1204
00:54:09,239 --> 00:54:09,799
Speaker 5: on my own.

1205
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Speaker 3: It's kind of incredible. You used to like.

1206
00:54:12,080 --> 00:54:14,839
Speaker 2: Watch and want to do that, and now you're living it.

1207
00:54:15,440 --> 00:54:17,600
Speaker 2: The carpet that is so beautiful.

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Speaker 5: That's why when like I'm doing the show like the

1209
00:54:21,760 --> 00:54:25,319
Speaker 5: Countdown Show and Lady Gaga walks by in real life,

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00:54:25,400 --> 00:54:25,799
Speaker 5: I'm like.

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Speaker 7: Too many things are happening, Like I'm doing the thing

1212
00:54:31,200 --> 00:54:33,440
Speaker 7: that I used to watch, and I'm on TV, but

1213
00:54:33,520 --> 00:54:36,600
Speaker 7: the person that I'm obsessed with is like walking by me.

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Speaker 3: Like it's just I Sometimes I explode.

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00:54:39,239 --> 00:54:41,200
Speaker 1: You should have seen me when I met John Mayer

1216
00:54:41,280 --> 00:54:43,960
Speaker 1: for the first time. Oh, I literally like there's photos

1217
00:54:43,960 --> 00:54:47,640
Speaker 1: of you behind him, and I literally look like, oh,

1218
00:54:47,680 --> 00:54:48,200
Speaker 1: what's his name?

1219
00:54:48,280 --> 00:54:48,600
Speaker 2: Joe?

1220
00:54:48,640 --> 00:54:51,400
Speaker 1: From you, you know, like full on stalker with my

1221
00:54:51,440 --> 00:54:53,320
Speaker 1: eyes wide open because I'm like, I used to have

1222
00:54:53,360 --> 00:54:57,040
Speaker 1: a fan club about you, like in high school.

1223
00:54:57,120 --> 00:54:57,960
Speaker 2: We should have meetings.

1224
00:54:58,000 --> 00:54:59,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, I used to have meetings where we would analyze

1225
00:55:00,120 --> 00:55:03,120
Speaker 1: your lyrics. And now I'm sitting two feet behind you.

1226
00:55:03,200 --> 00:55:06,279
Speaker 1: I can physically touch you, and you're about to give

1227
00:55:06,280 --> 00:55:08,440
Speaker 1: me a guitar pick that I never got from the

1228
00:55:08,480 --> 00:55:10,480
Speaker 1: concert that I went to that you threw it out

1229
00:55:10,560 --> 00:55:12,879
Speaker 1: and like it was like one of those moments where

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Speaker 1: I was like, this is so banana.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, like cuckoo, cuckoo.

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Speaker 2: I want to Actually, we're going to do some spots

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Speaker 2: and then I wan which.

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Speaker 5: We have to get Mandy introduced to John Mayer at

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00:55:24,360 --> 00:55:26,640
Speaker 5: some point. But yeah, when he goes on tour, Mandy,

1236
00:55:27,520 --> 00:55:32,200
Speaker 5: that's your that's bred's my sister. Mandy is the head

1237
00:55:32,239 --> 00:55:34,520
Speaker 5: of the president of the Canadian chapter of the John

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Speaker 2: Yeah, like she would be in music Stener.

1240
00:55:37,080 --> 00:55:38,320
Speaker 3: It's like me and Ariana Grande.

1241
00:55:38,520 --> 00:55:41,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, really is. When he goes back on tour,

1242
00:55:41,640 --> 00:55:42,759
Speaker 1: we'll get her into a main greet.

1243
00:55:42,800 --> 00:55:43,279
Speaker 3: I've got to.

1244
00:55:43,440 --> 00:55:45,920
Speaker 5: Yeah, it's like my my life goal. That and getting

1245
00:55:45,960 --> 00:55:47,839
Speaker 5: my own photo with Ariana Grande.

1246
00:55:48,120 --> 00:55:50,400
Speaker 2: Which is like, can't I can't even believe.

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Speaker 1: Mari.

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Speaker 5: If you're listening stubbing in on my bucket list for

1249
00:55:54,200 --> 00:55:56,120
Speaker 5: twenty nineteen, it's just a selfie with you.

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Speaker 3: Can we make it happen? Any want I wanted.

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Speaker 2: Use the code Becca.

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Speaker 3: Okay, oh, so, now that I've had time to think

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Speaker 3: about it.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, now that you've had some kind of think about it,

1329
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Speaker 2: spill the beans.

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Speaker 5: Well, when I moved here, I was twenty three years

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00:59:55,920 --> 00:59:58,919
Speaker 5: old to la. I was living in Toronto at the time,

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00:59:59,040 --> 01:00:01,760
Speaker 5: and I was a at a restaurant call actually I

1333
01:00:01,760 --> 01:00:06,040
Speaker 5: was a bartender at a restaurant called five Doors North,

1334
01:00:06,200 --> 01:00:07,520
Speaker 5: and I was newly sober.

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Speaker 1: And yeah, and by the way, for those of you

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01:00:10,520 --> 01:00:13,880
Speaker 1: that are listening that maybe haven't listened to our podcast

1337
01:00:13,920 --> 01:00:16,360
Speaker 1: in the past, we've had We had brad On right

1338
01:00:16,400 --> 01:00:19,080
Speaker 1: after the Demi Levado overdose to talk about his share

1339
01:00:19,120 --> 01:00:21,240
Speaker 1: his story with addiction.

1340
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Speaker 2: And you are now how many are sober?

1341
01:00:23,800 --> 01:00:24,120
Speaker 5: Same?

1342
01:00:24,840 --> 01:00:27,080
Speaker 3: May third I'll be eighteen years.

1343
01:00:26,840 --> 01:00:27,840
Speaker 2: Eighteen years sober.

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01:00:28,000 --> 01:00:31,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's a really great episode and I suggest you

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01:00:31,720 --> 01:00:33,160
Speaker 1: guys go back and listen to it.

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Speaker 2: But that's a part of your story as well. Ye,

1347
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Speaker 2: really incredible.

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01:00:36,600 --> 01:00:38,360
Speaker 3: Yeah, So I was newly sober.

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01:00:38,560 --> 01:00:41,640
Speaker 5: I was I had just met Gary, and I was

1350
01:00:41,800 --> 01:00:44,160
Speaker 5: living in a new country.

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Speaker 4: As you know, anybody here, I'm sorry to interrupt, I

1352
01:00:47,240 --> 01:00:49,400
Speaker 4: grow people. Yeah, that's a that's a challenge. That's a

1353
01:00:49,400 --> 01:00:50,960
Speaker 4: tough thing. I moved out here with a friend of

1354
01:00:50,960 --> 01:00:52,680
Speaker 4: mine and we met friends out here that we already

1355
01:00:52,760 --> 01:00:54,960
Speaker 4: knew from prior, from before. I don't think I could

1356
01:00:54,960 --> 01:00:56,120
Speaker 4: do it by yourself. That's tough.

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Speaker 5: It was challenging, yeah, to say the least, because you know,

1358
01:01:02,000 --> 01:01:04,840
Speaker 5: I guess part of the good thing about being twenty

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01:01:04,880 --> 01:01:07,800
Speaker 5: three years old and doing that was that I didn't

1360
01:01:07,840 --> 01:01:13,680
Speaker 5: really have any expectations. I didn't really have any plan, Like,

1361
01:01:13,720 --> 01:01:16,360
Speaker 5: I was just kind of going by, flying by the

1362
01:01:16,360 --> 01:01:20,000
Speaker 5: seat of my pants. And you know, I was obviously

1363
01:01:20,160 --> 01:01:23,040
Speaker 5: super into Gary and wanted to make it work. So

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01:01:24,800 --> 01:01:27,000
Speaker 5: it took like a year for me to make friends

1365
01:01:27,720 --> 01:01:32,640
Speaker 5: and I found a lot of those in alcoholics anonymous,

1366
01:01:32,680 --> 01:01:35,720
Speaker 5: which was very helpful, and I started making like a

1367
01:01:35,920 --> 01:01:39,600
Speaker 5: little community of friends my age and had places to

1368
01:01:39,640 --> 01:01:43,600
Speaker 5: go and things to do. But getting my career started

1369
01:01:43,880 --> 01:01:49,080
Speaker 5: was challenging. I won't bore you with visa details, but

1370
01:01:49,120 --> 01:01:51,520
Speaker 5: because I'm an immigrant and I'm not from this country,

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01:01:51,560 --> 01:01:55,680
Speaker 5: it was a little difficult staying here. So I went

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01:01:55,720 --> 01:01:58,880
Speaker 5: back to school and I went to Santa Monica College

1373
01:01:58,880 --> 01:02:01,200
Speaker 5: and then I went to UC sorry USC and I

1374
01:02:01,280 --> 01:02:06,160
Speaker 5: graduated from USC with honors. And I only say that

1375
01:02:06,320 --> 01:02:09,800
Speaker 5: because I was put on academic probation when I went

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01:02:09,840 --> 01:02:13,800
Speaker 5: to school in Canada because of my using. So being

1377
01:02:13,840 --> 01:02:16,880
Speaker 5: sober and going back to school was an entirely different experience,

1378
01:02:17,040 --> 01:02:20,200
Speaker 5: and I like realized so many things about myself which

1379
01:02:20,240 --> 01:02:22,080
Speaker 5: were A, I was smarter than I.

1380
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Speaker 3: Thought be that I was.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I just really dedicated myself to it because it again,

1382
01:02:30,040 --> 01:02:32,720
Speaker 5: it was like an opportunity afforded to me to go

1383
01:02:32,760 --> 01:02:35,040
Speaker 5: back to school that I didn't want to really blow it.

1384
01:02:35,120 --> 01:02:37,720
Speaker 5: So I did all these things that they told me

1385
01:02:37,800 --> 01:02:40,800
Speaker 5: to do in AA, which was sit at the front

1386
01:02:40,840 --> 01:02:43,560
Speaker 5: of the class, ask questions, get help when you needed,

1387
01:02:43,840 --> 01:02:46,400
Speaker 5: all of the things that I didn't do my first round. Also,

1388
01:02:46,440 --> 01:02:49,640
Speaker 5: I didn't stay awake or show up, which also helps.

1389
01:02:50,200 --> 01:02:53,360
Speaker 5: But I did my second go round and I graduated

1390
01:02:53,360 --> 01:02:56,080
Speaker 5: with honors, and it was great because my mom came

1391
01:02:56,120 --> 01:02:58,600
Speaker 5: and saw me graduate, and it was like just a

1392
01:02:58,640 --> 01:03:01,160
Speaker 5: really nice kind of way to pay back to my

1393
01:03:01,280 --> 01:03:04,520
Speaker 5: mom for kind of screwing up my first go around

1394
01:03:04,520 --> 01:03:10,520
Speaker 5: at school. But once I left there, my advice to

1395
01:03:10,640 --> 01:03:14,400
Speaker 5: people who are a little bit lost is, you know,

1396
01:03:14,480 --> 01:03:17,680
Speaker 5: you have to be willing. And I think it was different,

1397
01:03:18,600 --> 01:03:21,600
Speaker 5: you know, fifteen years ago or you know, fourteen years

1398
01:03:21,600 --> 01:03:25,000
Speaker 5: ago when I started looking for a job, because there

1399
01:03:25,040 --> 01:03:27,240
Speaker 5: was no social media and it didn't seem like people

1400
01:03:27,240 --> 01:03:29,760
Speaker 5: were just like creating, like no one was creating a

1401
01:03:29,760 --> 01:03:33,760
Speaker 5: brand back then. Nobody was like had like could measure

1402
01:03:33,840 --> 01:03:36,920
Speaker 5: their success if you do this by how many followers

1403
01:03:37,000 --> 01:03:41,120
Speaker 5: or likes you have or whatever. So I was willing

1404
01:03:41,160 --> 01:03:43,880
Speaker 5: to start at the bottom and work my way up,

1405
01:03:43,960 --> 01:03:46,160
Speaker 5: which I'm really happy that I did. And I know

1406
01:03:46,280 --> 01:03:50,840
Speaker 5: that my career trajectory seems like I just started at

1407
01:03:50,840 --> 01:03:53,680
Speaker 5: the top and just like blew up. But you know,

1408
01:03:53,880 --> 01:03:57,440
Speaker 5: I interned for two summers in New York. I interned

1409
01:03:57,480 --> 01:03:59,880
Speaker 5: at Vogue in New York and w Magazine in New York,

1410
01:03:59,920 --> 01:04:03,480
Speaker 5: and I did everything from carrying trays of jamba juice

1411
01:04:03,520 --> 01:04:08,640
Speaker 5: across Times Square, to emptying out garbages, to folding silk

1412
01:04:08,680 --> 01:04:13,120
Speaker 5: scarves that didn't want to stay folded, to organizing hosary

1413
01:04:13,280 --> 01:04:16,000
Speaker 5: and bras, and you know, I did everything that you

1414
01:04:16,040 --> 01:04:20,760
Speaker 5: can imagine. And I think that willingness and the willingness

1415
01:04:20,800 --> 01:04:25,840
Speaker 5: to just kind of contribute to helped me get into

1416
01:04:26,200 --> 01:04:29,960
Speaker 5: photo shoots eventually. And you know, I did that stuff

1417
01:04:30,040 --> 01:04:33,040
Speaker 5: that they talk about in the devilwares Prada, which is

1418
01:04:33,200 --> 01:04:36,160
Speaker 5: I called downstairs and got black cars, you know, the

1419
01:04:36,440 --> 01:04:41,240
Speaker 5: like a chauffeur driven car, and would go up to

1420
01:04:41,280 --> 01:04:43,360
Speaker 5: Harry Winston and pick up like a ten million dollar

1421
01:04:43,400 --> 01:04:45,320
Speaker 5: necklace and bring it back down to Vogue. Like I

1422
01:04:45,360 --> 01:04:49,520
Speaker 5: did all of those things, and you know, those were

1423
01:04:49,520 --> 01:04:53,320
Speaker 5: incredible experiences. And then I ended up getting a job

1424
01:04:53,520 --> 01:04:55,920
Speaker 5: at the West Coast office of Vogue. I was the

1425
01:04:55,920 --> 01:04:59,640
Speaker 5: assistant to the West Coast editor and it was very

1426
01:04:59,720 --> 01:05:02,960
Speaker 5: childlenging because I was the go between between the New

1427
01:05:03,040 --> 01:05:04,840
Speaker 5: York office and the LA office.

1428
01:05:04,880 --> 01:05:06,840
Speaker 2: When they mean, you're still Gary at this time, right,

1429
01:05:07,080 --> 01:05:08,680
Speaker 2: So did you do long distance.

1430
01:05:09,600 --> 01:05:12,960
Speaker 3: For the summers that I was interning? Yes? And then.

1431
01:05:14,280 --> 01:05:18,120
Speaker 5: Here I was, you know, responsible for millions of dollars

1432
01:05:18,160 --> 01:05:21,120
Speaker 5: worth of jewelry and you know, putting it in a

1433
01:05:21,200 --> 01:05:23,360
Speaker 5: safe and getting it to set, and it was like.

1434
01:05:23,560 --> 01:05:26,200
Speaker 3: Very stressful, like super super stressful.

1435
01:05:26,560 --> 01:05:29,440
Speaker 5: And then when I got during this time, I was

1436
01:05:29,440 --> 01:05:33,800
Speaker 5: pursuing a job with Rachel Zoe, and that all happened

1437
01:05:33,800 --> 01:05:36,640
Speaker 5: to come together. After a year of basically like checking

1438
01:05:36,640 --> 01:05:38,240
Speaker 5: in with her over and over again if there were

1439
01:05:38,240 --> 01:05:45,120
Speaker 5: any opportunities, she hired me. And one of the conditions

1440
01:05:45,280 --> 01:05:47,440
Speaker 5: for me getting the job was that I would have

1441
01:05:47,480 --> 01:05:49,760
Speaker 5: to be on her reality show, which I wasn't sure

1442
01:05:49,800 --> 01:05:53,040
Speaker 5: I wanted to be on because a reality TV had

1443
01:05:53,040 --> 01:05:57,040
Speaker 5: a weird stigma back then, and b I kind of

1444
01:05:57,080 --> 01:06:02,240
Speaker 5: wanted to be working in quote unquote serious fashion like

1445
01:06:02,320 --> 01:06:04,480
Speaker 5: at Vogue, and I didn't know how that would affect me,

1446
01:06:05,800 --> 01:06:09,120
Speaker 5: but I took the leap, and working with her and

1447
01:06:09,160 --> 01:06:11,360
Speaker 5: then being on that show like changed my life in

1448
01:06:11,440 --> 01:06:16,240
Speaker 5: ways that I could not have imagined. I learned basically

1449
01:06:16,280 --> 01:06:19,240
Speaker 5: the entire industry and working and styling from her, and

1450
01:06:19,480 --> 01:06:22,360
Speaker 5: I also had the benefit of being on a TV

1451
01:06:22,440 --> 01:06:25,760
Speaker 5: show and people recognizing me. And you know, I didn't

1452
01:06:25,840 --> 01:06:29,280
Speaker 5: know that I was I didn't know that I would

1453
01:06:29,360 --> 01:06:32,320
Speaker 5: like doing it, and I didn't know that I would

1454
01:06:32,400 --> 01:06:34,560
Speaker 5: become and Taylor and I didn't know that we would

1455
01:06:34,560 --> 01:06:39,320
Speaker 5: become recognizable faces from the show. And you know, now

1456
01:06:39,360 --> 01:06:42,200
Speaker 5: having my own business, after leaving Rachel and starting my

1457
01:06:42,240 --> 01:06:44,080
Speaker 5: own business and having my own TV show.

1458
01:06:44,120 --> 01:06:47,640
Speaker 3: I mean, it just like it's I don't know.

1459
01:06:47,760 --> 01:06:52,360
Speaker 5: I just feel like I kept pushing myself to just

1460
01:06:52,520 --> 01:06:56,160
Speaker 5: like do more and strike while the iron is hot

1461
01:06:56,200 --> 01:07:01,400
Speaker 5: and continue to be creative. And I I'm still not stopping,

1462
01:07:01,480 --> 01:07:05,040
Speaker 5: Like I feel like I'm constantly reinventing and I still

1463
01:07:05,080 --> 01:07:07,600
Speaker 5: want more and I'm still out there like hustling.

1464
01:07:07,960 --> 01:07:09,760
Speaker 3: You know, it doesn't ever.

1465
01:07:10,040 --> 01:07:14,360
Speaker 5: I think the biggest thing is people may see a

1466
01:07:14,480 --> 01:07:17,600
Speaker 5: level of success and you know, think that that's it,

1467
01:07:17,680 --> 01:07:20,160
Speaker 5: but there's I mean, I was up at like six

1468
01:07:20,200 --> 01:07:24,120
Speaker 5: am today just like firing off like emails, you know, And.

1469
01:07:24,360 --> 01:07:27,080
Speaker 1: What's a Kelty Knight from the Lady Gang always says

1470
01:07:27,200 --> 01:07:29,840
Speaker 1: it takes like eight years to be what if people

1471
01:07:29,880 --> 01:07:31,320
Speaker 1: think is like an overnight success.

1472
01:07:31,640 --> 01:07:36,200
Speaker 5: For sure, I agree, and I remember people, you know

1473
01:07:36,520 --> 01:07:40,560
Speaker 5: saying And I was afforded a lot of opportunities because

1474
01:07:40,600 --> 01:07:43,160
Speaker 5: the TV show allowed me to have a platform where

1475
01:07:43,200 --> 01:07:48,200
Speaker 5: I was like visibly recognizable, but you know, there's a

1476
01:07:48,320 --> 01:07:51,040
Speaker 5: lot of hard work. There's been as many yes is

1477
01:07:51,080 --> 01:07:53,360
Speaker 5: as it seems there have been, there's also been a

1478
01:07:53,400 --> 01:07:57,360
Speaker 5: lot of no's yeah, and you know, you just kind

1479
01:07:57,360 --> 01:07:59,520
Speaker 5: of have to keep soldiering on. But I love what

1480
01:07:59,600 --> 01:08:02,360
Speaker 5: I do. So that's also the other thing my mom

1481
01:08:02,400 --> 01:08:04,280
Speaker 5: said to me. When I was about twelve years old.

1482
01:08:04,320 --> 01:08:06,640
Speaker 5: My mom was kind of unhappy in her job my

1483
01:08:06,680 --> 01:08:09,480
Speaker 5: whole life. And my mom said to me, whatever you do,

1484
01:08:09,680 --> 01:08:12,160
Speaker 5: I don't whatever you decide to go into, just make

1485
01:08:12,200 --> 01:08:14,160
Speaker 5: sure it makes you happy, because you're gonna have to

1486
01:08:14,200 --> 01:08:16,519
Speaker 5: do it day after day, and if it's something that

1487
01:08:16,560 --> 01:08:19,479
Speaker 5: you're not happy doing, it becomes like misery. Like it's

1488
01:08:19,520 --> 01:08:21,559
Speaker 5: really bad to say it in those words. But that

1489
01:08:21,680 --> 01:08:23,920
Speaker 5: was like the gist of it, and that always stuck

1490
01:08:23,960 --> 01:08:27,040
Speaker 5: with me. So I always kind of made it a

1491
01:08:27,080 --> 01:08:29,479
Speaker 5: mission of mine to find something that I love doing.

1492
01:08:29,520 --> 01:08:31,519
Speaker 5: And I thought that that was going to be acting,

1493
01:08:31,560 --> 01:08:34,439
Speaker 5: which is when I went to school for before in Canada,

1494
01:08:34,760 --> 01:08:39,479
Speaker 5: and I did graduate from that program, but I hated

1495
01:08:39,520 --> 01:08:42,120
Speaker 5: auditioning and I was just like, I didn't like being

1496
01:08:42,120 --> 01:08:44,600
Speaker 5: in the room with all those other people, and I

1497
01:08:44,800 --> 01:08:49,200
Speaker 5: left so many auditions like freaked out and there's also

1498
01:08:49,280 --> 01:08:52,400
Speaker 5: another layer on it too, where you know, the whole

1499
01:08:52,840 --> 01:08:54,800
Speaker 5: like the gay layer kind of puts like a big

1500
01:08:54,880 --> 01:08:58,639
Speaker 5: damper on a lot of I didn't necessarily read as

1501
01:08:58,680 --> 01:09:01,559
Speaker 5: the leading man, and people thought that I looked like

1502
01:09:01,600 --> 01:09:03,640
Speaker 5: in leading man, but then when I came in, it

1503
01:09:03,640 --> 01:09:06,080
Speaker 5: didn't match up. And that was also I was interesting,

1504
01:09:06,200 --> 01:09:09,240
Speaker 5: this really sucks, like I can't actually be myself right

1505
01:09:09,280 --> 01:09:15,600
Speaker 5: and you know me, like I'm like, I'm like so yeah.

1506
01:09:15,640 --> 01:09:17,599
Speaker 5: But then the funny thing was that the thing that

1507
01:09:17,640 --> 01:09:20,360
Speaker 5: I became known for was being me. Yeah, you know,

1508
01:09:20,960 --> 01:09:25,519
Speaker 5: so thank god I didn't try to find ways to

1509
01:09:25,560 --> 01:09:29,519
Speaker 5: act like somebody else, because the thing that's actually given

1510
01:09:29,560 --> 01:09:31,880
Speaker 5: me so much success, I think is the fact that

1511
01:09:31,880 --> 01:09:34,759
Speaker 5: I'm all. I'm always me, you know, I don't really

1512
01:09:35,080 --> 01:09:37,760
Speaker 5: I'm not a character. I'm like a person, and you

1513
01:09:37,840 --> 01:09:41,360
Speaker 5: can attest like I'm kind of the same all you're the.

1514
01:09:41,400 --> 01:09:43,320
Speaker 2: Same person twenty four to seven.

1515
01:09:43,439 --> 01:09:43,799
Speaker 4: Yeah.

1516
01:09:43,840 --> 01:09:48,400
Speaker 1: It's really funny because when I was starting out here,

1517
01:09:48,600 --> 01:09:50,240
Speaker 1: I think my parents were kind of like my parents

1518
01:09:50,240 --> 01:09:53,479
Speaker 1: came from like Serbia, and my dad's a doctor and

1519
01:09:53,720 --> 01:09:57,479
Speaker 1: you know, like my parents just the radio was such

1520
01:09:57,520 --> 01:09:58,400
Speaker 1: like a weird thing.

1521
01:09:58,400 --> 01:09:59,640
Speaker 2: When I told them that I wanted to do this.

1522
01:09:59,680 --> 01:10:02,760
Speaker 1: They were okay, like it makes you have Like they

1523
01:10:02,760 --> 01:10:04,840
Speaker 1: were obviously so supportive, but like they just didn't really

1524
01:10:04,920 --> 01:10:08,200
Speaker 1: understand it, you know. And it's funny because my mentor

1525
01:10:08,240 --> 01:10:11,400
Speaker 1: at the time, he told me Scotty Fink, he was like,

1526
01:10:11,800 --> 01:10:13,880
Speaker 1: this is the point in your life where he's like,

1527
01:10:13,920 --> 01:10:16,120
Speaker 1: you don't have a family, you don't have anything, you

1528
01:10:16,120 --> 01:10:18,800
Speaker 1: don't have anybody to support other than yourself. You may

1529
01:10:18,880 --> 01:10:21,240
Speaker 1: want a two car garage, you don't need a two

1530
01:10:21,280 --> 01:10:23,760
Speaker 1: car garage. You might want a fancy car, you don't

1531
01:10:23,760 --> 01:10:25,360
Speaker 1: need a fancy car. So he was like, take the

1532
01:10:25,479 --> 01:10:28,519
Speaker 1: job that makes you happy, and the money will come

1533
01:10:29,240 --> 01:10:31,160
Speaker 1: when you need to, like when you have to start

1534
01:10:31,160 --> 01:10:33,280
Speaker 1: making those decisions because you have a family and things

1535
01:10:33,320 --> 01:10:34,640
Speaker 1: like that, then that's what you do.

1536
01:10:34,720 --> 01:10:36,040
Speaker 2: But right now you don't have to do that.

1537
01:10:36,080 --> 01:10:38,080
Speaker 1: And it's like I was when I started working here,

1538
01:10:38,160 --> 01:10:40,559
Speaker 1: I was making like nine dollars an hour or something

1539
01:10:40,600 --> 01:10:44,559
Speaker 1: like that, maybe less, maybe like eight dollars an hour,

1540
01:10:44,960 --> 01:10:46,080
Speaker 1: I'm not really sure.

1541
01:10:47,040 --> 01:10:50,200
Speaker 4: But whatever minimum wage was at the time, what you're.

1542
01:10:50,120 --> 01:10:54,360
Speaker 1: Making, Yeah, And it's crazy because it's like it's it

1543
01:10:54,400 --> 01:10:56,400
Speaker 1: wasn't making good money, but it's like It's true. It

1544
01:10:56,479 --> 01:10:58,479
Speaker 1: started to come and it was like I would just

1545
01:10:58,520 --> 01:11:01,280
Speaker 1: had to be myself and being an environment that I

1546
01:11:01,320 --> 01:11:03,559
Speaker 1: was happy in and then just like all sort of clicking.

1547
01:11:03,800 --> 01:11:04,200
Speaker 4: Yeah.

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01:11:04,280 --> 01:11:08,840
Speaker 5: I think also too, like you, you know, you can

1549
01:11:08,880 --> 01:11:11,320
Speaker 5: be yourself, but I also think you and I know

1550
01:11:11,400 --> 01:11:14,880
Speaker 5: that you're really good at this as well of being

1551
01:11:14,920 --> 01:11:19,040
Speaker 5: yourself but also knowing like what the appropriate behavior is, right,

1552
01:11:19,080 --> 01:11:19,680
Speaker 5: do you know what I mean?

1553
01:11:19,760 --> 01:11:20,040
Speaker 3: Yeah?

1554
01:11:20,040 --> 01:11:22,160
Speaker 1: Like, and the other thing I wanted to say about you,

1555
01:11:22,600 --> 01:11:25,519
Speaker 1: Brad is like you treat everybody in a room the same,

1556
01:11:26,080 --> 01:11:29,960
Speaker 1: Like you are so kind to everybody, and that's like rare.

1557
01:11:30,040 --> 01:11:31,840
Speaker 2: I know that you don't. I don't know if you

1558
01:11:32,080 --> 01:11:34,360
Speaker 2: know that, but like that's really rare.

1559
01:11:34,840 --> 01:11:40,879
Speaker 5: I try, I'm you know, I I.

1560
01:11:39,160 --> 01:11:39,559
Speaker 3: I don't know.

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01:11:39,640 --> 01:11:41,639
Speaker 5: I just I think it's also like such a gift,

1562
01:11:41,640 --> 01:11:44,599
Speaker 5: Like there's no reason why people should recognize me, there's

1563
01:11:44,600 --> 01:11:47,200
Speaker 5: no reason why. I always think it's such a nice

1564
01:11:47,280 --> 01:11:51,479
Speaker 5: thing when people come up to me and say whatever

1565
01:11:51,520 --> 01:11:53,680
Speaker 5: it is that they watched me on Rachel Show or

1566
01:11:53,680 --> 01:11:55,559
Speaker 5: they watch my show or like me on E or

1567
01:11:55,600 --> 01:12:00,160
Speaker 5: like whatever it is. I like that, Like, I think

1568
01:12:00,160 --> 01:12:02,240
Speaker 5: it's like such a nice thing to be able to

1569
01:12:02,280 --> 01:12:06,040
Speaker 5: connect with people in some way. You know, it's it's

1570
01:12:06,920 --> 01:12:10,080
Speaker 5: doing this thing and like being on TV is I

1571
01:12:10,160 --> 01:12:13,280
Speaker 5: like to entertain people, like I like to make people laugh.

1572
01:12:13,439 --> 01:12:16,080
Speaker 5: I like, you know, I remember when I was really

1573
01:12:16,120 --> 01:12:18,920
Speaker 5: nervous about I think it was my show coming out,

1574
01:12:19,080 --> 01:12:21,200
Speaker 5: Brad Brad World, or it was like my one of

1575
01:12:21,200 --> 01:12:23,719
Speaker 5: my first times doing a countdown to the Red carpet

1576
01:12:23,840 --> 01:12:25,760
Speaker 5: or doing the Red carpet. One of my friends said,

1577
01:12:26,840 --> 01:12:29,760
Speaker 5: just like communicate your gift. That's all you have to do.

1578
01:12:30,040 --> 01:12:33,000
Speaker 5: Just like, just like allow the gift that like God

1579
01:12:33,120 --> 01:12:36,160
Speaker 5: or the universe gave you to make people feel comfortable,

1580
01:12:36,320 --> 01:12:39,400
Speaker 5: Like exercise that and you'll be totally fine. And that

1581
01:12:39,560 --> 01:12:41,599
Speaker 5: was the truth, you know, And that's how I felt

1582
01:12:41,600 --> 01:12:44,920
Speaker 5: when I was actually interviewing people on the carpet. You know,

1583
01:12:45,040 --> 01:12:47,799
Speaker 5: they it's a little nerve racking when they're like Leonardo

1584
01:12:47,840 --> 01:12:50,479
Speaker 5: DiCaprio is on the way up to your station, I'm like,

1585
01:12:50,560 --> 01:12:54,200
Speaker 5: oh my god. But the thing is is like they're

1586
01:12:54,400 --> 01:12:58,160
Speaker 5: usually just as nervous as you are, So your job

1587
01:12:58,200 --> 01:13:00,519
Speaker 5: as a host is to make them feel comfortable. And

1588
01:13:00,560 --> 01:13:03,559
Speaker 5: that's what I feel like I try to do as

1589
01:13:03,600 --> 01:13:06,240
Speaker 5: well with other people. Is just I just want people

1590
01:13:06,240 --> 01:13:09,360
Speaker 5: to feel like comfortable around me because I know I've

1591
01:13:09,520 --> 01:13:13,320
Speaker 5: I've spent and I spent many years and you know,

1592
01:13:13,640 --> 01:13:16,400
Speaker 5: like also I spent so many years hiding away, hiding

1593
01:13:16,400 --> 01:13:20,320
Speaker 5: who I was, doing all kinds of things that are

1594
01:13:20,360 --> 01:13:21,360
Speaker 5: not good for your soul.

1595
01:13:21,439 --> 01:13:23,040
Speaker 3: That now I just feel.

1596
01:13:22,760 --> 01:13:25,479
Speaker 1: Like, you know, I know I was told I was

1597
01:13:25,520 --> 01:13:28,080
Speaker 1: told that as a character that I was like, I

1598
01:13:28,080 --> 01:13:30,840
Speaker 1: mean all the things. Yeah, And it's like I am like,

1599
01:13:30,920 --> 01:13:34,560
Speaker 1: I'm totally extra, Like that's just my personality, you know

1600
01:13:34,600 --> 01:13:37,000
Speaker 1: what I mean, Like I can't change that, right, It

1601
01:13:37,160 --> 01:13:40,000
Speaker 1: just it is what it is, and I'm not going

1602
01:13:40,080 --> 01:13:41,600
Speaker 1: to change that now, you know.

1603
01:13:42,000 --> 01:13:42,200
Speaker 4: Right.

1604
01:13:42,560 --> 01:13:44,760
Speaker 5: Well, it's like when people ask like why do you

1605
01:13:44,800 --> 01:13:48,440
Speaker 5: do those dancing videos, I'm like, because they're fun? Yeah,

1606
01:13:48,479 --> 01:13:51,559
Speaker 5: Like why are you doing that show with with drag Queens?

1607
01:13:51,560 --> 01:13:54,200
Speaker 5: I'm like, because it's fun. Like I don't know, there's

1608
01:13:54,280 --> 01:13:57,320
Speaker 5: no real I don't have like a dissertation on it.

1609
01:13:57,400 --> 01:13:59,519
Speaker 5: It's just like fun in the moment and it's like

1610
01:13:59,560 --> 01:14:03,599
Speaker 5: it brings us joy, it makes me laugh. I don't know,

1611
01:14:03,920 --> 01:14:06,400
Speaker 5: like there's no real reason totally.

1612
01:14:06,479 --> 01:14:08,879
Speaker 4: Or are you doing a podcast with Tanya Rad.

1613
01:14:08,760 --> 01:14:09,679
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's fun.

1614
01:14:10,840 --> 01:14:14,280
Speaker 5: Yeah, there's like I don't know I just yeah, I

1615
01:14:14,280 --> 01:14:17,800
Speaker 5: guess that when you spend a lot of time, you know.

1616
01:14:18,520 --> 01:14:20,639
Speaker 5: Like I really did feel like there was this weird

1617
01:14:20,640 --> 01:14:22,280
Speaker 5: thing happening when I was a kid because I did

1618
01:14:22,320 --> 01:14:24,960
Speaker 5: so much community theater that I was always like out

1619
01:14:25,000 --> 01:14:27,400
Speaker 5: in the in like I was in the paper, and

1620
01:14:27,439 --> 01:14:29,439
Speaker 5: I was like always out where people could see me.

1621
01:14:29,520 --> 01:14:32,040
Speaker 5: But there was also like a major part of me

1622
01:14:32,080 --> 01:14:34,360
Speaker 5: where I just wanted to disappear and I like didn't

1623
01:14:34,360 --> 01:14:35,160
Speaker 5: want anybody to see me.

1624
01:14:35,160 --> 01:14:36,479
Speaker 3: I didn't want anybody to make fun of me.

1625
01:14:36,720 --> 01:14:38,720
Speaker 5: But I just had these like it's like you with

1626
01:14:38,800 --> 01:14:41,360
Speaker 5: being extra, Like I just had these I needed to

1627
01:14:41,400 --> 01:14:46,439
Speaker 5: fulfill myself creatively so badly that I was willing to

1628
01:14:46,520 --> 01:14:50,320
Speaker 5: pay the price for doing that. Yeah, you know, And

1629
01:14:50,400 --> 01:14:53,880
Speaker 5: I think in a way that kind of served me

1630
01:14:54,040 --> 01:14:57,880
Speaker 5: really well because it it's made me, like, you know,

1631
01:14:58,240 --> 01:15:01,160
Speaker 5: obviously I have my fears and fear of failure, fear

1632
01:15:01,200 --> 01:15:03,559
Speaker 5: of disappointment, all of those things, but I also think

1633
01:15:03,600 --> 01:15:09,400
Speaker 5: I have this overwhelming desire to please myself or prove

1634
01:15:09,479 --> 01:15:12,000
Speaker 5: something to myself that it kind of trumps that after

1635
01:15:12,080 --> 01:15:15,280
Speaker 5: I work through it, right, you know, because I'll naturally

1636
01:15:15,360 --> 01:15:17,040
Speaker 5: start and you know this for me, we'll be like,

1637
01:15:17,040 --> 01:15:19,160
Speaker 5: but what if it doesn't work out totally? Yeah, the

1638
01:15:19,240 --> 01:15:22,240
Speaker 5: dark place, Yeah, the dark place. It's been better recently though,

1639
01:15:22,320 --> 01:15:23,000
Speaker 5: it's been really good.

1640
01:15:23,080 --> 01:15:24,479
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's been super super good.

1641
01:15:24,560 --> 01:15:26,719
Speaker 1: The thing that I cherish so much about your friendship

1642
01:15:26,840 --> 01:15:28,880
Speaker 1: is that, like I at any point in the day,

1643
01:15:29,040 --> 01:15:32,240
Speaker 1: like I know that you will always get like your

1644
01:15:33,120 --> 01:15:36,759
Speaker 1: advice and your opinion are always like for my best interest,

1645
01:15:36,920 --> 01:15:39,280
Speaker 1: and you're always like an outsider looking in and you

1646
01:15:39,320 --> 01:15:43,439
Speaker 1: can always talk me down in any situation, and like,

1647
01:15:43,479 --> 01:15:45,760
Speaker 1: I'm so grateful to.

1648
01:15:45,720 --> 01:15:46,639
Speaker 2: Have you in my life.

1649
01:15:46,840 --> 01:15:51,200
Speaker 5: Likewise, I will never if anybody ever solicits my advice.

1650
01:15:51,920 --> 01:15:55,839
Speaker 5: I do not beat around the bush. Yeah. I remember

1651
01:15:55,960 --> 01:15:59,320
Speaker 5: when my sister broke up with a boyfriend of hers

1652
01:15:59,320 --> 01:16:01,719
Speaker 5: from like ages ago, and she was like talking about

1653
01:16:01,760 --> 01:16:03,960
Speaker 5: like this was when she was in university, and I

1654
01:16:04,040 --> 01:16:06,000
Speaker 5: must have been in high school, I guess, or maybe

1655
01:16:06,000 --> 01:16:09,759
Speaker 5: I was just starting university, and she was like coming

1656
01:16:09,760 --> 01:16:11,479
Speaker 5: and hying about like they thought they were going to

1657
01:16:11,520 --> 01:16:13,479
Speaker 5: get back together. And I remember I was driving and

1658
01:16:13,479 --> 01:16:15,200
Speaker 5: she was in the passenger seat and there was a

1659
01:16:15,240 --> 01:16:17,320
Speaker 5: break in her story and I just said, flat out,

1660
01:16:17,400 --> 01:16:20,080
Speaker 5: he's never coming back, So you need to like start

1661
01:16:20,080 --> 01:16:23,920
Speaker 5: wrapping your head around that and stop like creating this

1662
01:16:24,120 --> 01:16:27,000
Speaker 5: like dialogue for yourself of like it's going to continue

1663
01:16:27,000 --> 01:16:28,160
Speaker 5: because he's never coming back.

1664
01:16:28,800 --> 01:16:31,920
Speaker 3: And she was just like WHOA like it was.

1665
01:16:32,000 --> 01:16:34,320
Speaker 5: I've always just been the person that will tell you

1666
01:16:34,600 --> 01:16:35,240
Speaker 5: straight shooter.

1667
01:16:35,520 --> 01:16:37,040
Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, why not?

1668
01:16:38,280 --> 01:16:41,360
Speaker 5: Time is money, baby, Like I don't want people to

1669
01:16:41,360 --> 01:16:45,080
Speaker 5: to be sitting on stuff that can be like squash squash.

1670
01:16:45,200 --> 01:16:45,400
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1671
01:16:45,400 --> 01:16:47,920
Speaker 5: You know, I know for myself that I can waste

1672
01:16:47,960 --> 01:16:50,320
Speaker 5: a lot of time in the downward spiral.

1673
01:16:50,360 --> 01:16:51,200
Speaker 3: And then I look to you.

1674
01:16:52,720 --> 01:16:55,040
Speaker 5: I know you've said to me on many occasions like

1675
01:16:55,280 --> 01:16:59,839
Speaker 5: this is not happening, Like it's not real what you're seeing.

1676
01:17:00,120 --> 01:17:02,680
Speaker 5: It's just like not what's happening. Like there's all of

1677
01:17:02,760 --> 01:17:04,719
Speaker 5: their all of these good things happening.

1678
01:17:04,800 --> 01:17:07,320
Speaker 2: So you need your friends to pull you out.

1679
01:17:07,360 --> 01:17:10,719
Speaker 5: Yeah, or go to a concert or like totally everything

1680
01:17:10,760 --> 01:17:12,880
Speaker 5: that we do is like I mean, we have a

1681
01:17:12,920 --> 01:17:15,280
Speaker 5: lot of times where we you know, when we need

1682
01:17:15,320 --> 01:17:18,760
Speaker 5: each other, and we're very quick to say like I

1683
01:17:18,840 --> 01:17:20,640
Speaker 5: need to talk to you, or I need like a

1684
01:17:20,640 --> 01:17:22,680
Speaker 5: real moment, or I need advice or I need to

1685
01:17:22,720 --> 01:17:24,720
Speaker 5: get this off my chest. But we also go and

1686
01:17:24,840 --> 01:17:28,080
Speaker 5: do so many fun things together. Yeah, tons of fun things.

1687
01:17:28,240 --> 01:17:28,759
Speaker 2: It's true.

1688
01:17:28,960 --> 01:17:31,200
Speaker 4: Yeah, we are running out of time. I want to

1689
01:17:31,240 --> 01:17:33,960
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1690
01:17:34,000 --> 01:17:36,120
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1691
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1692
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Speaker 2: I do I really need this? ADT? Can you help

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I literally don't have curtains. People can see in

1716
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Speaker 2: my house.

1717
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Speaker 4: As you watched aroun all the clothes on it. It's

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, you're gonna want to.

1720
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Speaker 1: You know.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm all about the securities.

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Speaker 6: I know.

1723
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Speaker 2: I know.

1724
01:19:05,160 --> 01:19:07,439
Speaker 4: This is from Brehanna. She's feeling defeated. This kind of

1725
01:19:07,439 --> 01:19:08,760
Speaker 4: goes back to what you guys were talking about, So

1726
01:19:08,800 --> 01:19:10,400
Speaker 4: I think you could probably help herchass. My life in

1727
01:19:10,400 --> 01:19:12,280
Speaker 4: New Jersey is great, but what I don't have is

1728
01:19:12,280 --> 01:19:14,599
Speaker 4: a steady career. I'm twenty five and I've been through

1729
01:19:14,640 --> 01:19:16,639
Speaker 4: two jobs in the last three years. I was let

1730
01:19:16,640 --> 01:19:19,160
Speaker 4: go back in June of eighteen. Fast forward to now,

1731
01:19:19,280 --> 01:19:21,679
Speaker 4: I've had a million and one interviews, but nothing is stuck.

1732
01:19:21,960 --> 01:19:24,160
Speaker 4: The company either went a different direction and picked someone

1733
01:19:24,200 --> 01:19:26,679
Speaker 4: that's a better fit, or I'm overqualified for the position.

1734
01:19:27,040 --> 01:19:28,840
Speaker 4: I am starting to lose hope, and that's unlike me.

1735
01:19:28,960 --> 01:19:30,840
Speaker 4: I'm trying so hard. I know I'm smart, I deserve

1736
01:19:30,840 --> 01:19:33,599
Speaker 4: a job that I love. But it's been seven months

1737
01:19:33,600 --> 01:19:36,280
Speaker 4: and anxiety is getting to me, I have loans and bills.

1738
01:19:36,320 --> 01:19:37,880
Speaker 4: I need to keep up with what am I doing wrong?

1739
01:19:37,920 --> 01:19:39,000
Speaker 4: How do I stay positive?

1740
01:19:39,760 --> 01:19:44,760
Speaker 5: Girl, I've been there, Like, yeah, well, first of all,

1741
01:19:44,800 --> 01:19:47,879
Speaker 5: I didn't actually start my career until I was thirty,

1742
01:19:48,000 --> 01:19:51,240
Speaker 5: So twenty five is like, I mean, I couldn't really

1743
01:19:51,320 --> 01:19:52,960
Speaker 5: I was like a I couldn't hold down a job,

1744
01:19:53,000 --> 01:19:54,559
Speaker 5: like I didn't have like a job job.

1745
01:19:55,160 --> 01:19:59,800
Speaker 3: So you're already doing better, you know, you've got it.

1746
01:20:01,160 --> 01:20:04,040
Speaker 5: Allow yourself to be honest, which it sounds like you are,

1747
01:20:04,120 --> 01:20:08,280
Speaker 5: about how you're feeling. But don't let the feelings of anxiety,

1748
01:20:09,680 --> 01:20:12,439
Speaker 5: you know, if it helps you to have somebody, I

1749
01:20:12,479 --> 01:20:15,479
Speaker 5: call it like doing like bookend phone calls or like

1750
01:20:15,520 --> 01:20:20,160
Speaker 5: bookend emails where you will make yourself I make myself

1751
01:20:20,200 --> 01:20:22,360
Speaker 5: like a list of people that I want to reach

1752
01:20:22,400 --> 01:20:25,000
Speaker 5: out to. If I'm having like anxiety about like actually

1753
01:20:25,000 --> 01:20:28,000
Speaker 5: pulling the trigger, I'll like call a friend or like

1754
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Speaker 5: my sister and be like, hey, I'm going to call

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01:20:31,280 --> 01:20:34,679
Speaker 5: you when I'm finished sending these emails. So like, sometimes

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01:20:34,680 --> 01:20:37,520
Speaker 5: just being into action can really help with the anxiety.

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01:20:38,040 --> 01:20:41,600
Speaker 5: And I think also believing too, as hard as this

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01:20:41,840 --> 01:20:44,599
Speaker 5: is to do, believing that the right thing will come

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01:20:44,600 --> 01:20:48,600
Speaker 5: along if you keep that kind of close to you

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01:20:48,720 --> 01:20:51,679
Speaker 5: and try to work on other things in this time

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01:20:51,720 --> 01:20:55,040
Speaker 5: where things are like, you know, a little bit more chill,

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01:20:55,080 --> 01:20:58,320
Speaker 5: because I actually believe that the universe like takes care

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01:20:58,520 --> 01:21:01,080
Speaker 5: of us and our needs ways that we don't know.

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01:21:01,800 --> 01:21:05,479
Speaker 5: So there, you might have a greater purpose outside of

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01:21:05,520 --> 01:21:08,960
Speaker 5: your job right now than you realize. Does that make sense?

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01:21:09,040 --> 01:21:11,360
Speaker 5: Is that too like hoity toity like flufy flufy?

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Speaker 4: No?

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Speaker 1: I mean I'm about to get more hoity toity flu

1769
01:21:13,880 --> 01:21:17,920
Speaker 1: because I honestly something that really helps me with my

1770
01:21:18,000 --> 01:21:22,799
Speaker 1: anxiety is prayer. Like I know it sounds super cliche,

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01:21:23,040 --> 01:21:26,920
Speaker 1: but like prayer really really helps me with anxiety, and

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01:21:27,200 --> 01:21:29,839
Speaker 1: like having a bigger picture of faith that like things

1773
01:21:29,880 --> 01:21:31,960
Speaker 1: do happen the way that they happen for a reason.

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01:21:32,040 --> 01:21:33,679
Speaker 1: Like look, I mean I was about to like quit

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01:21:33,720 --> 01:21:37,720
Speaker 1: my job with Ryan and move to Arizona, and I

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01:21:37,720 --> 01:21:40,800
Speaker 1: wouldn't be here for sure, Like I don't know what

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01:21:40,840 --> 01:21:45,080
Speaker 1: I would be doing right now, girl, but that was

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01:21:45,120 --> 01:21:47,240
Speaker 1: the way of like my life falling into place. Like

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01:21:47,320 --> 01:21:51,519
Speaker 1: he broke up with me, I was devastated, like the

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01:21:51,560 --> 01:21:54,160
Speaker 1: worst I've ever been, but like it was supposed to

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01:21:54,200 --> 01:21:56,719
Speaker 1: be that way because I was supposed to be doing this, truly.

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Speaker 5: That's like seconds in inches, right, mm hmm, Like in

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01:21:59,240 --> 01:22:02,639
Speaker 5: that second you made another decision. That's like the same

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01:22:02,720 --> 01:22:06,559
Speaker 5: thing when when Rachel Zoe offered me the job and

1785
01:22:06,720 --> 01:22:09,920
Speaker 5: told me about her show, I was going to turn

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01:22:09,960 --> 01:22:11,400
Speaker 5: it down because I didn't want to be on the

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01:22:11,400 --> 01:22:14,439
Speaker 5: TV show. And Gary said to me, how will you

1788
01:22:14,560 --> 01:22:18,719
Speaker 5: feel if you turn on the TV to watch the show,

1789
01:22:18,920 --> 01:22:20,559
Speaker 5: like when it comes on the air, Like, how will

1790
01:22:20,560 --> 01:22:22,280
Speaker 5: you feel even if you see a preview? And I'm like,

1791
01:22:22,360 --> 01:22:25,479
Speaker 5: I'll feel like really bad, like I wish i'd done it.

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01:22:25,520 --> 01:22:26,720
Speaker 5: And he was like, then you need to do it,

1793
01:22:26,760 --> 01:22:27,639
Speaker 5: and like take the resk.

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01:22:29,960 --> 01:22:32,600
Speaker 4: Those jobs weren't your jobs, right, those jobs that you

1795
01:22:32,600 --> 01:22:35,080
Speaker 4: didn't get, they weren't for you, right, yep. And you're

1796
01:22:35,120 --> 01:22:38,040
Speaker 4: on your path, that's right. Fate's got your back or

1797
01:22:38,040 --> 01:22:39,760
Speaker 4: God's got your back, or wherever you want to look

1798
01:22:39,800 --> 01:22:42,400
Speaker 4: at it, everything's going to work out great. We've all

1799
01:22:42,400 --> 01:22:45,800
Speaker 4: been unemployed, We've all had rough patches, right. I was

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Speaker 4: down eight months when I was like twenty four years old,

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Speaker 4: and it was miserable, miserable, and I'll never lay it

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01:22:50,280 --> 01:22:50,880
Speaker 4: up those times.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, right before college graduation.

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01:22:55,120 --> 01:22:57,240
Speaker 4: It's going to be all right, Brianna, hang in there.

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01:22:57,800 --> 01:22:59,600
Speaker 4: One more from Anonymous. My boyfriend and I will have

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01:22:59,640 --> 01:23:01,800
Speaker 4: been together five years this coming March, and we moved

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01:23:01,800 --> 01:23:04,840
Speaker 4: in together in July of eighteen. My friend hold on,

1808
01:23:05,160 --> 01:23:07,200
Speaker 4: My family was four hours away, and I gave up

1809
01:23:07,200 --> 01:23:08,840
Speaker 4: a job that I love to move in with him

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01:23:08,840 --> 01:23:11,080
Speaker 4: to figure things out. He does so much good for me,

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01:23:11,120 --> 01:23:13,759
Speaker 4: and it's always been faithful. I don't see a future

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01:23:13,760 --> 01:23:16,360
Speaker 4: with him. He's jealous and doesn't like me hanging out

1813
01:23:16,400 --> 01:23:18,320
Speaker 4: with certain friends if they're single, and I've caught him

1814
01:23:18,360 --> 01:23:20,679
Speaker 4: trying to look through my phone multiple times while I'm asleep.

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01:23:21,840 --> 01:23:24,200
Speaker 4: If there is that much insecurity and relationship, though he

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01:23:24,200 --> 01:23:26,439
Speaker 4: says he loves me, if this was someone you had

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01:23:26,479 --> 01:23:29,160
Speaker 4: been with and it was going to somewhat blindside them,

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01:23:29,200 --> 01:23:32,000
Speaker 4: how would you go about breaking up with them when

1819
01:23:32,040 --> 01:23:33,960
Speaker 4: this happens. As to move all of my stuff four

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01:23:33,960 --> 01:23:35,800
Speaker 4: hours away to my parents, I have to quit my

1821
01:23:35,880 --> 01:23:37,720
Speaker 4: job two weeks before that, and it kind of has

1822
01:23:37,760 --> 01:23:39,400
Speaker 4: to be planned out perfectly. Help.

1823
01:23:39,520 --> 01:23:44,679
Speaker 5: Oh gosh, anything is possible.

1824
01:23:44,800 --> 01:23:47,240
Speaker 3: First of all, okay, it is.

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01:23:47,439 --> 01:23:49,920
Speaker 5: I mean, you know, it's just gonna have to be

1826
01:23:50,040 --> 01:23:52,200
Speaker 5: kind of like a little bit of an operation to

1827
01:23:52,280 --> 01:23:55,280
Speaker 5: do it. You know, I this for me, The signs

1828
01:23:55,320 --> 01:23:57,600
Speaker 5: are all there, like that doesn't sound like love to

1829
01:23:57,720 --> 01:24:00,720
Speaker 5: me personally, Like that doesn't sound those actions do not

1830
01:24:00,840 --> 01:24:04,160
Speaker 5: sound loving. So you know you have to do what

1831
01:24:04,200 --> 01:24:06,040
Speaker 5: you have to do to take care of yourself. And

1832
01:24:06,080 --> 01:24:09,479
Speaker 5: I think just being honest and get getting out of

1833
01:24:09,520 --> 01:24:12,240
Speaker 5: there and at least you have somewhere to go four

1834
01:24:12,240 --> 01:24:14,719
Speaker 5: hours away, Like I would just be plotting my escape.

1835
01:24:15,080 --> 01:24:16,439
Speaker 3: Who wouldn't you?

1836
01:24:16,600 --> 01:24:18,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, I know this is bad.

1837
01:24:20,160 --> 01:24:24,360
Speaker 5: The jealousy, The jealousy thing I can't handle. Like if

1838
01:24:24,439 --> 01:24:26,479
Speaker 5: if Gary was asking me who I was out with

1839
01:24:26,600 --> 01:24:29,000
Speaker 5: all the time, Like he's just asking me who I'm

1840
01:24:29,040 --> 01:24:32,240
Speaker 5: out with because he's forgotten after I told him, Like

1841
01:24:32,320 --> 01:24:36,320
Speaker 5: I'm going out with Tanya and it's three pm and

1842
01:24:37,040 --> 01:24:37,800
Speaker 5: by six point thirty.

1843
01:24:38,680 --> 01:24:40,639
Speaker 4: I mean, it doesn't really matter how you do it, right,

1844
01:24:40,960 --> 01:24:42,840
Speaker 4: you're going to do it. Your dad said, you've made

1845
01:24:42,880 --> 01:24:44,800
Speaker 4: up your mind. It sounds like it's the right move.

1846
01:24:45,200 --> 01:24:48,000
Speaker 4: I don't think it matters, do it. Yeah, just rip

1847
01:24:48,040 --> 01:24:50,280
Speaker 4: off the band aid, right. I mean, I know you've

1848
01:24:50,320 --> 01:24:52,599
Speaker 4: got some personal logistic stuff, but he doesn't care about

1849
01:24:52,600 --> 01:24:53,400
Speaker 4: any of that stuff.

1850
01:24:53,600 --> 01:24:56,120
Speaker 5: Trying to figure out the perfect way to do it

1851
01:24:56,160 --> 01:25:00,679
Speaker 5: is just a way to allow yourself to stay stuck. Yeah,

1852
01:25:00,720 --> 01:25:03,760
Speaker 5: like that's not actually like trying to do anything about it.

1853
01:25:03,800 --> 01:25:05,360
Speaker 5: Like if you want to do something about it, then

1854
01:25:05,400 --> 01:25:07,160
Speaker 5: do it. And if you don't, then you're just going

1855
01:25:07,240 --> 01:25:10,440
Speaker 5: to stay. And every day you don't, you're acting, you're pretending.

1856
01:25:10,600 --> 01:25:12,280
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's all bad, it's all bad.

1857
01:25:12,439 --> 01:25:15,679
Speaker 4: Do it tonight, tonight, tomorrow, do it now. Worry about

1858
01:25:15,720 --> 01:25:16,639
Speaker 4: the other stuff later.

1859
01:25:16,920 --> 01:25:20,240
Speaker 3: Exactly, we need to thank some people.

1860
01:25:20,280 --> 01:25:21,040
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, before we do.

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01:25:21,080 --> 01:25:22,840
Speaker 1: They sent me the actual official stuff so we can

1862
01:25:22,880 --> 01:25:26,680
Speaker 1: plug plug plug. We would really appreciate it if you

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01:25:26,680 --> 01:25:30,639
Speaker 1: guys all watched the show. It kicks off at four

1864
01:25:30,680 --> 01:25:34,479
Speaker 1: pm Easter and one pm Pacific. The E count under

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01:25:34,479 --> 01:25:38,120
Speaker 1: the red carpet and we had all the information correct.

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Speaker 2: So watch that on.

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01:25:40,280 --> 01:25:43,120
Speaker 3: E on Sunday February.

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01:25:43,240 --> 01:25:46,760
Speaker 1: Tweet us if you could tweet us, that would be great.

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01:25:46,920 --> 01:25:50,080
Speaker 1: Instagram is whatever you can. Did We love a DM

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01:25:50,120 --> 01:25:52,160
Speaker 1: but also to like the E network so that they

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01:25:52,360 --> 01:25:53,760
Speaker 1: write do we want the E network to.

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Speaker 3: Be like yeah, I think the hashtags like E red

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Speaker 3: carpet or something.

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01:25:57,040 --> 01:25:59,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, so follow us and we'll be like posting all

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01:25:59,160 --> 01:26:02,280
Speaker 1: that and then I'm doing the show with Morgan Stewart,

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01:26:02,439 --> 01:26:04,479
Speaker 1: Nina Parker, and Justin Sylvester.

1877
01:26:04,800 --> 01:26:06,759
Speaker 3: So cute. What a good lineup.

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01:26:06,920 --> 01:26:08,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, so that'll be really fun.

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01:26:08,520 --> 01:26:12,040
Speaker 3: That's gonna be good. Morgan is wild. You know she's

1880
01:26:12,080 --> 01:26:13,759
Speaker 3: been on the podcast. Yeah, she's amazing.

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Speaker 4: And that's one o'clock Pacific on Sunday. Yeah, four o'clock

1882
01:26:17,479 --> 01:26:20,080
Speaker 4: in the Eastern time zone, three o'clock in the Midwest,

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01:26:20,120 --> 01:26:21,599
Speaker 4: then two o'clock in the mountains.

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Speaker 5: Yeah.

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01:26:21,920 --> 01:26:22,760
Speaker 2: So watch it.

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Speaker 1: Take photos, Tweet the photos, Tag all the executives.

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Speaker 3: I love, that's the extra more.

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Speaker 5: Don't tag the executive You know what I love when

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Speaker 5: people take like a video of the screen of the TV.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, take all the videos. Do you think they're gonna

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Speaker 2: sit us next to each other?

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Speaker 3: Let's see, it's usually Genie me. Yeah, probably all.

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Speaker 1: Right.

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Speaker 4: That's why I looked at Easton and nodded at me.

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Speaker 4: Why did you have to.

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Speaker 2: Say, oh three, okay, cool, anyway.

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Speaker 4: Get those in because we have emails and we love

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Speaker 4: to read your emails, and we're always here for you.

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Speaker 1: Yes, and thank you Brod for taking the time to

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Speaker 1: be of course. Oh see you Sunday.

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Speaker 3: No, no, Saturday, we have to rehearse.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, that's right. Oh do you want to call

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Speaker 2: time of death?

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, twelve thirty eight. Oh four, Wow.

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Speaker 1: You'm down to the second. Oh way, you're like, uh,

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Speaker 1: you're like, uh, make dreamy. He was always very precise. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: he's A brain surgeon can't mess wrong with that rip.