1 00:00:00,520 --> 00:00:04,600 Speaker 1: Time now for ask the clo with our chief love officer. 2 00:00:04,680 --> 00:00:07,440 Speaker 1: He knows all about love, Steve Harvey. 3 00:00:07,960 --> 00:00:10,760 Speaker 2: Here we go. This is from Jan and Pittsburgh. 4 00:00:10,880 --> 00:00:14,120 Speaker 1: Jan writes, I am a busty, thirty seven year old 5 00:00:14,240 --> 00:00:18,000 Speaker 1: single female dating a fifty five year old man, and 6 00:00:18,040 --> 00:00:21,599 Speaker 1: he keeps commenting about the size of my breast, as 7 00:00:21,640 --> 00:00:25,720 Speaker 1: if that's the only reason he's with me. When he drives, 8 00:00:25,960 --> 00:00:28,600 Speaker 1: his left hand is on my chest. 9 00:00:29,120 --> 00:00:31,120 Speaker 3: In left hand, he didn't reach cross. 10 00:00:31,480 --> 00:00:35,040 Speaker 1: They're in England, but she said Pittsburgh, So I don't know. 11 00:00:35,520 --> 00:00:39,720 Speaker 1: If we're sitting alone he's caressing my chest while we talk. 12 00:00:40,520 --> 00:00:42,920 Speaker 2: I don't feel like he's even paying attention to me. 13 00:00:43,400 --> 00:00:45,680 Speaker 1: How do I figure out if it's me or my 14 00:00:45,920 --> 00:00:47,960 Speaker 1: large breast that he likes? 15 00:00:48,159 --> 00:00:50,280 Speaker 3: Well, it's all three of y'all. I mean, you know 16 00:00:50,640 --> 00:00:53,320 Speaker 3: what is trying to figure out? You know? 17 00:00:54,200 --> 00:00:58,520 Speaker 4: Look, you know, I mean, you know is y'all? You 18 00:00:58,560 --> 00:01:01,000 Speaker 4: know it ain't just you. Stop said breaking yourself like 19 00:01:01,040 --> 00:01:05,720 Speaker 4: you not connected to him. Stop stop stop acting like 20 00:01:05,880 --> 00:01:07,960 Speaker 4: you don't know where they come from, you don't know 21 00:01:08,160 --> 00:01:11,280 Speaker 4: whose they are. Nothing like this, Stop acting like it's 22 00:01:11,319 --> 00:01:16,319 Speaker 4: two separate issues. He is infatuated with all three of y'all. 23 00:01:16,880 --> 00:01:20,360 Speaker 4: Now listen to me. The first thing you said was 24 00:01:20,560 --> 00:01:24,880 Speaker 4: I am a busty. Well, that's first thing you said. 25 00:01:24,959 --> 00:01:27,120 Speaker 4: Then you come talking about that's all he talked about. 26 00:01:27,120 --> 00:01:29,920 Speaker 4: That what you The first thing you mentioned, you didn't 27 00:01:29,920 --> 00:01:35,000 Speaker 4: say to us. You was lovely, a wonderful conversationalist, intelligent, 28 00:01:36,000 --> 00:01:40,400 Speaker 4: you know, fun, caring, loving to be around. Your description 29 00:01:41,000 --> 00:01:44,520 Speaker 4: of yourself was I'm a busty. 30 00:01:45,160 --> 00:01:45,640 Speaker 3: Femail. 31 00:01:46,240 --> 00:01:48,840 Speaker 2: I haven't heard the term busty in quite some time. 32 00:01:50,120 --> 00:01:55,880 Speaker 4: So now when he driving, he got one hand on 33 00:01:56,000 --> 00:01:59,480 Speaker 4: your boy when y'all talking, he just touching them. 34 00:02:01,720 --> 00:02:02,520 Speaker 3: Now listen to me. 35 00:02:02,640 --> 00:02:06,880 Speaker 4: Yes, but I mean I understand that, you know, and really, 36 00:02:06,960 --> 00:02:10,120 Speaker 4: and we got people on this show who's had this 37 00:02:10,240 --> 00:02:14,920 Speaker 4: happen to them, and y'all, y'all know, y'all have Shirley 38 00:02:15,040 --> 00:02:19,000 Speaker 4: Aaron Carlin. Y'all know, y'all have had this happen to you. 39 00:02:19,040 --> 00:02:21,720 Speaker 4: Don't act brand new because day eight. 40 00:02:22,160 --> 00:02:23,240 Speaker 2: It's a brand new year. 41 00:02:26,880 --> 00:02:30,360 Speaker 3: How many times have you slapped your husband? Boys? 42 00:02:30,400 --> 00:02:37,160 Speaker 4: Stop, we're moving on, That's what I thought, Yes, Lizelle, 43 00:02:37,400 --> 00:02:38,320 Speaker 4: what does you tripping? 44 00:02:38,440 --> 00:02:38,919 Speaker 3: Folks? 45 00:02:39,120 --> 00:02:39,800 Speaker 2: We're moving on? 46 00:02:39,919 --> 00:02:44,799 Speaker 1: Carlo Lizelle and Startbridge says I paid two hundred and 47 00:02:44,880 --> 00:02:47,799 Speaker 1: seventy three dollars to get my aunt out of jail. 48 00:02:48,400 --> 00:02:50,880 Speaker 1: She got into a big fight with her boyfriend and 49 00:02:50,960 --> 00:02:54,240 Speaker 1: he called the police. She was mad because I picked 50 00:02:54,280 --> 00:02:57,480 Speaker 1: him up from work and she accused us of messing around. 51 00:02:58,040 --> 00:03:01,079 Speaker 1: Backstory is he and I have been friends since we 52 00:03:01,080 --> 00:03:04,080 Speaker 1: were eighteen, and she has a problem with it. She 53 00:03:04,200 --> 00:03:06,760 Speaker 1: told me she isn't paying me back and how do 54 00:03:06,840 --> 00:03:09,280 Speaker 1: I get my money without beating her tail? 55 00:03:10,080 --> 00:03:11,480 Speaker 3: Well, let me ask you a question. 56 00:03:11,960 --> 00:03:15,280 Speaker 4: Where y'all live, Where you can get out of jail 57 00:03:15,360 --> 00:03:16,679 Speaker 4: for two hundred seventy. 58 00:03:16,800 --> 00:03:21,080 Speaker 3: Come on, come on, I've heard of that type dog temmy, 59 00:03:21,120 --> 00:03:24,200 Speaker 3: I'm stuck. I'm just trying to figure out seventy three. 60 00:03:24,680 --> 00:03:26,560 Speaker 3: The parking tickets costs more than that. 61 00:03:28,000 --> 00:03:31,560 Speaker 4: If you speed in a school zone, it's two fifty. 62 00:03:32,639 --> 00:03:33,280 Speaker 3: You can whoop. 63 00:03:33,320 --> 00:03:36,560 Speaker 4: Somebody asked, police department come pick you up, or rest you? 64 00:03:36,720 --> 00:03:39,400 Speaker 3: Drive you down there, shaller you put. 65 00:03:39,240 --> 00:03:41,600 Speaker 4: You in some garments, give you a meal, dush you 66 00:03:41,680 --> 00:03:44,240 Speaker 4: with the lie, and now you can get out of 67 00:03:44,280 --> 00:03:46,280 Speaker 4: that for two hundred and seventy three dollars. 68 00:03:46,320 --> 00:03:52,000 Speaker 3: What county is your ass in? How many people asked? 69 00:03:52,200 --> 00:03:55,800 Speaker 3: We'll start whipping with two dogs look then, and the 70 00:03:55,960 --> 00:04:03,680 Speaker 3: name is a giveaway. The zeil. Where in the Deep South. 71 00:04:04,800 --> 00:04:09,000 Speaker 4: Is your ass can get arrested and get out two 72 00:04:09,120 --> 00:04:11,320 Speaker 4: hundred and seventy three dollars. 73 00:04:12,360 --> 00:04:16,520 Speaker 3: What is the processing feet at Cholle County Jail? 74 00:04:17,200 --> 00:04:21,560 Speaker 4: No, y'all's jail got to be connected to the mail's office. 75 00:04:21,880 --> 00:04:27,479 Speaker 4: City hall in the jail is the same building. This 76 00:04:27,560 --> 00:04:29,120 Speaker 4: is just the damn this thing I've ever heard. I 77 00:04:29,120 --> 00:04:31,640 Speaker 4: don't know how you gonna get your money back? Yeah, 78 00:04:31,640 --> 00:04:33,040 Speaker 4: I don't know. I don't know what to tell you. 79 00:04:33,080 --> 00:04:35,040 Speaker 4: Go ahead, shere the next question, Missy. 80 00:04:35,160 --> 00:04:37,599 Speaker 1: We're moving on, Missy, and Phoenix says, I'm a forty 81 00:04:37,680 --> 00:04:39,960 Speaker 1: nine year old married woman and I need to know 82 00:04:39,960 --> 00:04:42,520 Speaker 1: if my husband is cheating on me. I saw his 83 00:04:42,520 --> 00:04:45,560 Speaker 1: Stebit card transactions and he spent money at Bath and 84 00:04:45,640 --> 00:04:49,320 Speaker 1: body Works and Forever twenty one. I asked him why 85 00:04:49,320 --> 00:04:51,279 Speaker 1: he was in those stores, and he said he would 86 00:04:51,279 --> 00:04:54,520 Speaker 1: have to report those purchases as fraud. He went so 87 00:04:54,600 --> 00:04:57,080 Speaker 1: far as to cancel his depth card and request a 88 00:04:57,120 --> 00:04:57,680 Speaker 1: new one. 89 00:04:57,800 --> 00:04:59,880 Speaker 2: I think it's all a cover up. See a liar 90 00:05:00,120 --> 00:05:00,839 Speaker 2: and a cheater. 91 00:05:01,320 --> 00:05:04,040 Speaker 3: Hell no, hell no, he is what he was supposed 92 00:05:04,080 --> 00:05:04,440 Speaker 3: to do. 93 00:05:04,800 --> 00:05:08,280 Speaker 4: I want to take clap, clap, hands off to your homie. 94 00:05:08,880 --> 00:05:13,279 Speaker 4: Cancel the debit card reported as thefth something that hell 95 00:05:13,440 --> 00:05:14,280 Speaker 4: is going on? 96 00:05:14,839 --> 00:05:18,800 Speaker 3: Yes, sir, perfect hell, No, he isn't a liar. 97 00:05:19,640 --> 00:05:25,000 Speaker 4: No, no, because and I'm gonna tell you why, because y'all, 98 00:05:25,120 --> 00:05:30,240 Speaker 4: forty nine fifty year old men don't even know what 99 00:05:30,320 --> 00:05:31,760 Speaker 4: forever twenty one is. 100 00:05:33,480 --> 00:05:34,839 Speaker 3: I promise you he don't. 101 00:05:36,640 --> 00:05:40,919 Speaker 4: And bath and Bodyworks said that ain't a combination of 102 00:05:41,000 --> 00:05:45,840 Speaker 4: what we buy for a lover. That ain't that ain't 103 00:05:45,880 --> 00:05:50,920 Speaker 4: a mistress purchase. We don't buy bath and bodywork products. 104 00:05:51,200 --> 00:05:54,160 Speaker 4: We don't buy products like that for mistresses. 105 00:05:55,240 --> 00:05:56,800 Speaker 3: What do they buy for men? 106 00:05:57,000 --> 00:05:57,040 Speaker 1: Like? 107 00:05:59,440 --> 00:06:03,159 Speaker 4: Let's go on to the next damn so you know 108 00:06:03,240 --> 00:06:08,280 Speaker 4: we're talking. Listen to me. This lingerie is big. Airplane 109 00:06:08,320 --> 00:06:15,520 Speaker 4: tickets is big. Hotels is big. SPA treatments as big. Uh. 110 00:06:15,680 --> 00:06:18,840 Speaker 4: These are gifts that you buy, you know, stuff uh 111 00:06:19,120 --> 00:06:23,680 Speaker 4: uh GYM memberships, you know, stuff that has a lasting 112 00:06:23,720 --> 00:06:27,119 Speaker 4: effect that you can benefit from as the man, yester, 113 00:06:28,880 --> 00:06:30,680 Speaker 4: rent is huge. 114 00:06:31,720 --> 00:06:36,720 Speaker 3: And I'm not mad at that. You know, now, how 115 00:06:36,800 --> 00:06:39,120 Speaker 3: does how is he supposed to pay for this? So 116 00:06:39,160 --> 00:06:41,440 Speaker 3: that this card situation. 117 00:06:41,520 --> 00:06:47,880 Speaker 4: This to never go on a card ever purchase. This 118 00:06:48,040 --> 00:06:51,239 Speaker 4: is immediately go down and get your ass a cash 119 00:06:51,400 --> 00:06:58,200 Speaker 4: withdrawal and do all cash purchases and hand deliver all 120 00:06:58,240 --> 00:06:58,479 Speaker 4: of this. 121 00:06:58,720 --> 00:07:00,400 Speaker 3: Don't don't no paper trail. 122 00:07:02,120 --> 00:07:05,440 Speaker 1: So reason out of a not a joint account then, 123 00:07:05,560 --> 00:07:07,640 Speaker 1: because look at the money too. 124 00:07:08,680 --> 00:07:11,400 Speaker 4: Well, see even if it's a joint account, you got 125 00:07:11,400 --> 00:07:12,720 Speaker 4: to take the cash out. 126 00:07:12,840 --> 00:07:14,880 Speaker 3: What did you do with the cash? I spent it 127 00:07:15,560 --> 00:07:17,480 Speaker 3: on Steve? 128 00:07:17,680 --> 00:07:22,400 Speaker 2: Let me ask you this how how upset was he when? 129 00:07:22,440 --> 00:07:24,200 Speaker 3: Excuse me say it again because he was talking to 130 00:07:24,200 --> 00:07:24,680 Speaker 3: say it again. 131 00:07:24,720 --> 00:07:25,840 Speaker 2: Okay, I'm saying. 132 00:07:25,880 --> 00:07:29,200 Speaker 1: I'm asking you how upset was the husband when he 133 00:07:29,360 --> 00:07:31,360 Speaker 1: learned that it was fraud on his card? 134 00:07:32,640 --> 00:07:36,200 Speaker 2: Yes? I want to hear that. What're wow? 135 00:07:36,440 --> 00:07:40,080 Speaker 3: Hell no, not card? You know I've been hearing about 136 00:07:40,080 --> 00:07:43,160 Speaker 3: this right here. Hold on, what's the number? Baby, baby? 137 00:07:43,240 --> 00:07:47,640 Speaker 3: What is the number to the bank? Who the hell got? 138 00:07:48,000 --> 00:07:52,800 Speaker 4: What is forget your twenty one one? 139 00:07:53,040 --> 00:07:54,480 Speaker 3: Why just forget your twenty one? 140 00:07:54,640 --> 00:07:57,000 Speaker 4: It's forever twenty one? 141 00:07:59,520 --> 00:08:03,760 Speaker 2: Thank you, Clo. You're listening to the Dame Harvey Morning Show.