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Speaker 1: I good marning everybody. You're listening to the voice, come

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Speaker 1: on dig me now, one it all. It's Steve Harvey

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Speaker 1: man oh Man got a radio show, yo. Trying to

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Speaker 1: Something funny my father taught me. He said, son, when

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Speaker 1: That used to bug me, man, when my father used

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Speaker 1: what amazes me, man about people sit up in here, man,

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Speaker 1: and gentlemen, this is it. The Steve Harvey Morning Show

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Speaker 1: is alive and well. We're in living color. It's a

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Speaker 1: Friday morning here man, all hands on deck. You know,

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Speaker 1: Ladies and gentlemen. Shirley Strawberry, Good morning, Steve, Happy Friday.

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Speaker 1: Colin Farrell, Good morning. It's the weekend. What's up? Crewe birthday? Baby?

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Speaker 1: Oh that's right show here. Wow, you're trimping you know what?

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Speaker 1: You know? What's can I'll tell you that in a minute.

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Speaker 1: Yes you do, Shirley. Let me see when what's the

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Speaker 1: next holiday my birthday? Shirley, you are not here on

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Speaker 1: your birthday. We're not saying happy brothday. You always take

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Speaker 1: Get ready for ask to ClOH We're celebrating Steve's birthday

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Speaker 1: today a happy birthday, any birthday, Happy birthday, bday. You're

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Speaker 1: listening to Steve Harvey Morning Show, Well today we gotta

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Speaker 1: say happy birthday to Steve Harvey. He is selling birthday. Hey, hey,

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Speaker 1: my birthday is Sunday the seventeenth. Though not try to

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Speaker 1: I don't want I've never seen anybody happy birthday. Shadow

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Speaker 1: All that is a shout out. There. Ain't nobody putting

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Speaker 1: quick rundown. Capital Riot aftermath headlines. The House Democrats call

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Speaker 1: the attack at the capital. Airbnb is taking things a

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Speaker 1: step further in canceling all reservations in the Washington DC

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Speaker 1: put me out of chair last. I'm trying to raise

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Speaker 1: the three kids. I barely got enough to pay this

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Speaker 1: money I give when I can't. Yeah, you know you

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Speaker 1: ain't give it enough. We're gonna put you out. Okay,

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Speaker 1: you need a church. I got one. It's every Monday,

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Speaker 1: Jack Point doing a joint of Jerusalem. God. I think

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Speaker 1: this is it though, twenty twenty one. I think this

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Speaker 1: is it for Shaw. Why do y'all want that? Just

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Speaker 1: to confirm because you said it ain't that I want it.

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Speaker 1: It ain't cause prediction mine. If I see y'all not

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Speaker 1: doing nothing, I promise you y'all coming up at the

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Speaker 1: top of the hour. She is here Vice President elect

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Speaker 1: Kamala Harris. Right after this, you're listening to show, right, everybody,

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Speaker 1: we're back, and we're back with a madame Vice president,

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Speaker 1: Madame vice Madame Vice President. I told you the last

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Speaker 1: time we talked, I said, the next time I will

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Speaker 1: be speaking to you, I will be saying, Madame Vice President, Indeed,

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Speaker 1: you did say that. You did say that. The Harvey

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Speaker 1: you are just you just have so many talents, including

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Speaker 1: seeing the future. Um, what a blessing. Let me just

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Speaker 1: start with it. How do you feel? Oh, that's so

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Speaker 1: kind of you to ask. You know, I feel a

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Speaker 1: combination of things and emotions. I feel a sense of purpose.

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Speaker 1: You know we're gonna be Um, we will have announced

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Speaker 1: that a whole COVID relief bills and package and trying

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Speaker 1: to deal with you know, hungry people that are trying

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Speaker 1: to feed their children. UM. I feel a great, incredible

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Speaker 1: sense of gratitude for all of those who you know,

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Speaker 1: made this possible. And I'm talking about the ancestors. I'm

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Speaker 1: talking about you know, Shirley Chism and Barbara Jordan and

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Speaker 1: all of them. Wow. And I'm I'm feeling a sense

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Speaker 1: of a certain excitement about the possibility and um, so

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Speaker 1: there's a mix of emotion to be sure, you know.

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Speaker 1: And you said that in one of your speeches. And

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Speaker 1: I was sitting there with my wife and we were

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Speaker 1: watching this speech and my wife was sitting there. First

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Speaker 1: of all, the suit the cream went to white suit.

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Speaker 1: Marjorie was off the hook, her and her girls was

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Speaker 1: on the phone. So you pad, you passed the litmus

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Speaker 1: test when it comes to fashion. Yeah, I'm so happy.

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Speaker 1: I to ask Old the sisters is with you on this.

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Speaker 1: I want to say also, congratulate. I want to say

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Speaker 1: a Happy Founders Day to you because you're a member

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Speaker 1: of Almighty Alpha Kappa Alpha Sorority Incorporated. So congratulations, Happy

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Speaker 1: Founders Day. All those people are you? You? You you?

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Speaker 1: You got us proud on so many levels. And I

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Speaker 1: just wanted to say, this is so great for all

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Speaker 1: of us here in America. So let's talk about that

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Speaker 1: for a minute. Because you mentioned the COVID relief package.

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Speaker 1: You got a new nine and nine hundred billion is

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Speaker 1: at it? Or what is it? It's one point nine

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Speaker 1: trillion and it's one point nine trillion, uh huh. And

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Speaker 1: we've named it the American Rescue plan, and it includes

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Speaker 1: a few a few things that are very important in

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Speaker 1: terms of immediate relief for folks. I mean, first of all,

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Speaker 1: it's gonna be on top of the six hundred dollars

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Speaker 1: that got went to direct X for folks in December,

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Speaker 1: we're going to do another fourteen hundred for a total

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Speaker 1: of two thousand, right, and so that's direct relief for folks.

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Speaker 1: We're looking at one hundred and seventy billion to help

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Speaker 1: reopen schools. And so you know, Steve, weren't when we're

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Speaker 1: talking about reopening schools. We're not going to be able

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Speaker 1: to go back to normal immediately. So helping schools will

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Speaker 1: be about reducing class sizes, right, and helping for the

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Speaker 1: schools to modify their spaces so that it can be

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Speaker 1: safe for the kids to go back to school. And

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Speaker 1: then twenty billions for community vaccination sites, because we want

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Speaker 1: to make sure that we have vaccinations places that are

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Speaker 1: in the community that are accessible to folks so they

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Speaker 1: can go and get vaccinated. And I want to encourage

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Speaker 1: everyone that when it's their turns, get your vaccination. It

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Speaker 1: is about saving life. I got mine and please get yours.

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Speaker 1: I think that's going to be critical. You know, you know,

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Speaker 1: you hear so much negative things coming out about the vaccine.

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Speaker 1: You know, people are skeptical and everything. What do you

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Speaker 1: say to people who are skeptical about it? Believe the scientists,

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Speaker 1: believe the science. Listen. The reality of it is that

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Speaker 1: you know it was a black woman who helped create

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Speaker 1: the vaccine. Wow. Yeah. And first of all, we have

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Speaker 1: to always speak truth and acknowledge the history of how

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Speaker 1: black people in America have been treated and the way

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Speaker 1: in terms of the years many many years and generations ago.

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Speaker 1: But how you know black folks retreated by the medical

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Speaker 1: community and even today right the work that we have

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Speaker 1: in terms of disparities that we need to deal with.

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Speaker 1: But on the vaccine, the scientists created the vaccine. The

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Speaker 1: scientists have reviewed it and they have and it's safe.

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Speaker 1: I wouldn't have taken it if it weren't. And we

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Speaker 1: have to save lives. Black folks are dying blackos or

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Speaker 1: twice likely to get COVID and three times it's likely

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Speaker 1: to die from it. Look at what's happening in terms

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Speaker 1: of our black line small businesses that are disproportionately closing

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Speaker 1: forever some of them, right, and what we need to

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Speaker 1: do to get ahold of this virus. So our small

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Speaker 1: business is snopen back up. There's so many things that

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Speaker 1: are at play right now, but this vaccine will save

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Speaker 1: your life. It will save the lives of the people

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Speaker 1: in your family, in your neighborhood, and your community. And

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Speaker 1: so let's trust the science. You know what. I think

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Speaker 1: it's refreshing for us to hear because the current administration

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Speaker 1: has just gone on absentee leave when it comes to

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Speaker 1: the stimulus package and especially this pandemic. I mean, we're

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Speaker 1: hearing nothing, nothing at all. So it's kind of refreshing

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Speaker 1: that you and President Biden have made this such a

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Speaker 1: priority in the first one hundred days. It has to be.

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Speaker 1: I mean, see people of stuff friend, and and and

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Speaker 1: and in food lines. You know, we're in the midst

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Speaker 1: of a hunger crisis in America. The last I look,

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Speaker 1: we have one in six adults are with children, are

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Speaker 1: saying their family is hungry. One in three is having

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Speaker 1: trouble paying their rent, one in four small businesses have closed.

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Speaker 1: People are struggling. And so you know, President like Biden

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Speaker 1: and I are saying, look, we need to have is

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Speaker 1: our first order of business to bring relief and to

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Speaker 1: rescue people. Um, and that's what that's what this feeling

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Speaker 1: is about. Yeah, Madame Vice President, I know you only

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Speaker 1: got this one break, but before we let you go,

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Speaker 1: can you hold on one second because I have one

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Speaker 1: more thing I want to discuss with you. We'll be

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Speaker 1: right back with more to Steve Harvey Morning Show right

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Speaker 1: after this. You're listening to show, right, everybody, we're back

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Speaker 1: and we're back with a Madame Vice President Kamala Harris,

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Speaker 1: who is with us this morning here on the Steve

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Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show. When you were sitting there and President

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Speaker 1: Biden said that he really appreciated the turnout in our communities.

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Speaker 1: As you were sitting there watching this unfold as it

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Speaker 1: did in Milwaukee and then Detroit and then Philly and

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Speaker 1: then Atlanto, I mean that had to be a sense

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Speaker 1: of like, wow, you know, we really have gotten it

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Speaker 1: together this time. Would you say? I would say that,

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Speaker 1: and I would say that it was a display of

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Speaker 1: our power. It was a display of our power. And

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Speaker 1: the thing that makes me so proud about it is that,

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Speaker 1: in spite us in so many of those places, efforts

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Speaker 1: by powerful people to try and make it difficult for

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Speaker 1: us to vote or confusing for us to vote or

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Speaker 1: to suppress the vote. Vote said, nope, I'm not going

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Speaker 1: to be silent. I'll stand in that line as long

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Speaker 1: as I need to. I will vote early, I'll make

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Speaker 1: a plan of vote. And that's what decided the outcome

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Speaker 1: of this election. We knew the power that we presents

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Speaker 1: and we exercised that power. Look what happened in Georgia,

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Speaker 1: yes January, the people of Georgia elected a black Baptist

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Speaker 1: preacher from Epony's, a black Fatsurches doctor king, and a

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Speaker 1: Jewish man out of the state of Georgia. Yeah, go

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Speaker 1: to the United States Senate. Come on, that's right, that's right.

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Speaker 1: That's the home base of the Steve Harvey more to show,

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Speaker 1: Steve Harvey is a resident of George Weaves grounding. You

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Speaker 1: made us so proud to go to the polls, not

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Speaker 1: only you, but so didn't President Biden. And look, it

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Speaker 1: wasn't just us. You know, you don't get almost eighty

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Speaker 1: million votes just cast black people vote, right, you know

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Speaker 1: it was it was a lot of good people out

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Speaker 1: there that voted for change, that wanted to see something

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Speaker 1: different in this country. And I think we we got

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Speaker 1: a chance. We know you all have some difficult times

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Speaker 1: ahead of you with this transition and everything, but I

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Speaker 1: want you to know, uh, Madame Vice President, that you

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Speaker 1: have a place to come, a friend to share your

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Speaker 1: thoughts and whatever you want us to know as a

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Speaker 1: community and the country. And and you always welcome on

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Speaker 1: this show. And you and you are making us feel

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Speaker 1: so much pride right now, and you wear it well.

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Speaker 1: And in the words of Marjorie the winter white cream outfit,

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Speaker 1: leak happy Birthday on Sunday. You know, I'm gonna have

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Speaker 1: to take that. I've been arguing with my team about that,

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Speaker 1: but since it's coming from you that I feel special now.

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Speaker 1: Thank you so much. You have a friend here at

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Speaker 1: the Steve Harvey Morning Show, Madame Vice President, Thank you

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Speaker 1: so much, and congratulations. Thank you Steve Harvey for all

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Speaker 1: you do. Thank you as absolutely thank you. Coming up

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Speaker 1: with thirty four minutes after the hour more of the

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Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning Show. Right after this, you're listening Steve

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Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show. Wow, Steve, that was really good. That's

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Speaker 1: how you interview. No, that's how you interview about to

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Speaker 1: her even more now it was good or even more? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I love all over again. Yeah, yeah, you can tell

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Speaker 1: that she cares. She truly cares. Yeah, you don't just

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Speaker 1: just hearing yeah, Steve, you asked, Yeah, you know what,

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Speaker 1: and and like you know, it's just refreshing to hear

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Speaker 1: somebody in a leadership capacity that has some type of

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Speaker 1: simbulance of caring for the common man. Who is the

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Speaker 1: voter out here? Look up in that stimulus package right

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Speaker 1: a way, that's big and getting these people vaccinated. Man,

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Speaker 1: this has to happen, man, this has got to happen. Now. Look,

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Speaker 1: I know it's a lot of people out there time

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Speaker 1: about now. I don't get the vaccine and all like that.

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Speaker 1: You can make that decision on your own. But in

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Speaker 1: the words of Chris Rock, I take Tyler al and

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Speaker 1: I don't know what's in that either, but hell, my

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Speaker 1: head stop hurt. Okay, at this point, let's get rid

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Speaker 1: of this. Let's go back living Jay. What if we

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Speaker 1: eat pig feed hawk malls and drink gin, we can

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Speaker 1: take that damn vaccine. I just think about half the stuff,

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Speaker 1: half stuff out and putting man or for dinner a meal.

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Speaker 1: I'm telling them looking at meat that's looking back at you. What. Yes,

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Speaker 1: I've been yeah at an apple in his mouth. But right,

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Speaker 1: but that's it. She was talking about what they're going

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Speaker 1: to do. You know, we've talked so much about Trump

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Speaker 1: and his foolishness and all of that, but now it's

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Speaker 1: time to go down to business, you know, and get

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Speaker 1: real administration right, pandemic all of that. He had the

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Speaker 1: opportunity to be the greatest president. But just do right.

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Speaker 1: You could see what people needed and all you had

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Speaker 1: to do was give that to us. And but man,

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Speaker 1: how did you blow that job? He wasn't going to

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Speaker 1: be the greatest all the way president are president? You

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Speaker 1: get all the way up there, the greatest job in

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Speaker 1: the world. Yeah, who could have been a great president?

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Speaker 1: That's what I don't chang. I think Trump could have

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Speaker 1: been a great president. That's what Jay. He just eft

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Speaker 1: it up. Now, he really eft up the don't get

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Speaker 1: me wrong. But he had an opportunity. We yes, yes, yeah,

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Speaker 1: you're not gonna say that. You stay him show ready.

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Speaker 1: I had double check, I hold up because I had

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Speaker 1: my mind had veered. Also all I had double check. Toture.

636
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Speaker 1: We okay, okay, we on, let me let me die

637
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Speaker 1: before you cuts me up. Let me let me let

638
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Speaker 1: me clarify, once you make it to the presidency, you

639
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Speaker 1: have an opportunity to be a good president. Okay, efted up,

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Speaker 1: I got I know exactly what you mean, Jay, I

641
00:42:49,200 --> 00:42:56,759
Speaker 1: got that. Yeah. I'm also but you weren't president from

642
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Speaker 1: the time he got here, from the time from the

643
00:43:00,280 --> 00:43:09,080
Speaker 1: time today. Yeah, ain't been realty much talk about you

644
00:43:09,160 --> 00:43:12,200
Speaker 1: know something. Man. For one moment though, when the when

645
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Speaker 1: the when the virus first hit America, and after he

646
00:43:15,719 --> 00:43:17,800
Speaker 1: had stopped saying it was a hoax, when he was

647
00:43:17,880 --> 00:43:20,239
Speaker 1: doing those daily briefings on how they was gonna deal

648
00:43:20,360 --> 00:43:22,600
Speaker 1: with it, you know, I thought, Okay, man, maybe this

649
00:43:22,719 --> 00:43:24,400
Speaker 1: dude got a plan to help us get out of this.

650
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Speaker 1: He didn't, no campaign shot for him. Yeah yeah, because

651
00:43:31,840 --> 00:43:36,200
Speaker 1: he knew the campaign was over he had lost. Yeah, yeah, yep.

652
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Speaker 1: So no he again, Yeah, and I don't want him

653
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Speaker 1: to overshadow what we have coming up, and that's you know,

654
00:43:43,840 --> 00:43:47,920
Speaker 1: a new administration Joe Biden and Kamala Harris and great interview,

655
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Speaker 1: great interview that I love her warm. All right, Uh,

656
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Speaker 1: coming up next, the nephew will be here with Today's

657
00:43:57,640 --> 00:44:00,600
Speaker 1: prank phone call. That's coming up right after this. You're

658
00:44:00,680 --> 00:44:05,799
Speaker 1: listening morning show coming up at the top of the hour,

659
00:44:06,000 --> 00:44:08,960
Speaker 1: right about four minutes after. It's my strawberry letter for today,

660
00:44:09,000 --> 00:44:13,080
Speaker 1: the subject I went from whop to hop. Wait till

661
00:44:13,120 --> 00:44:14,880
Speaker 1: you hear what that's all about. We'll get into it

662
00:44:14,960 --> 00:44:17,240
Speaker 1: in in a few minutes. But right now the nephew

663
00:44:17,480 --> 00:44:20,319
Speaker 1: is here with today's prank phone call what you got

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Speaker 1: for his nest? Baby? Wait? Oh baby wait? Are you okay? Baby? Wait? Baby?

665
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Speaker 1: Baby wait? Baby wait baby? He say jay baby wait,

666
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Speaker 1: that's the prank? Baby wait right there, I got your

667
00:44:37,680 --> 00:44:42,239
Speaker 1: w's I got him Okay, Okay, I'm gonna say baby,

668
00:44:42,320 --> 00:44:47,680
Speaker 1: you say second part? Baby wait? Got it? There we go. Now,

669
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Speaker 1: come on, teamwork, game work, baby. Hello, Hello, I'm trying

670
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Speaker 1: to reach a trainer. Please. Yeah, this is traina great

671
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Speaker 1: TRAINA money is Earnest Ernest Murphy down here at the

672
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Speaker 1: bus bard with the from the school district. Your son

673
00:45:05,440 --> 00:45:10,640
Speaker 1: is Devin, am I right? Yeah? Okay. Now he's in

674
00:45:10,719 --> 00:45:15,160
Speaker 1: the sixth grade, I think, yeah, yeah, everything is flying.

675
00:45:15,480 --> 00:45:19,080
Speaker 1: I think he's on he rides bus ninety Bus ninety three.

676
00:45:19,080 --> 00:45:24,800
Speaker 1: Does he ride US ninety three? Uh yeah, yeah he does. Okay,

677
00:45:25,160 --> 00:45:28,520
Speaker 1: So now the school board has implemented a new rule,

678
00:45:29,360 --> 00:45:33,200
Speaker 1: and um, we're having to call a lot of parents

679
00:45:33,239 --> 00:45:35,880
Speaker 1: and let him know about the new rule for us

680
00:45:36,160 --> 00:45:40,160
Speaker 1: as far as the buses are concerned. Now, from my understanding,

681
00:45:40,960 --> 00:45:43,560
Speaker 1: each child that gets on the bus has to weigh

682
00:45:43,760 --> 00:45:47,160
Speaker 1: less than one hundred and twenty five pounds. That's what

683
00:45:47,320 --> 00:45:53,160
Speaker 1: the new rule that is implemented by the board. Say

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00:45:53,200 --> 00:45:58,759
Speaker 1: that again, each child that gets on the bus has

685
00:45:58,800 --> 00:46:01,600
Speaker 1: to weigh less than one one hundred and twenty five parents,

686
00:46:02,480 --> 00:46:08,000
Speaker 1: I don't understand. I don't understand. What's okay? So what

687
00:46:08,080 --> 00:46:11,720
Speaker 1: does what does that mean? So starting on Monday, Starting

688
00:46:11,800 --> 00:46:14,120
Speaker 1: on Monday, what they're gonna do if they're gonna the

689
00:46:14,680 --> 00:46:17,640
Speaker 1: bus driver will have a scale and he will wait

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00:46:17,680 --> 00:46:21,920
Speaker 1: the kids they get on on the bus. I understand. Man,

691
00:46:22,040 --> 00:46:24,759
Speaker 1: the doctor, like I say, I'm calling, I'm calling every

692
00:46:24,840 --> 00:46:28,880
Speaker 1: patent that they say, you're gonna you're gonna waive my

693
00:46:29,200 --> 00:46:32,040
Speaker 1: child before he gets on the bus. That's that's what

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00:46:32,160 --> 00:46:34,040
Speaker 1: the new rule. That's what the new rules there. If

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00:46:34,080 --> 00:46:36,600
Speaker 1: he's over one twenty five, then he he'll either have

696
00:46:36,719 --> 00:46:38,640
Speaker 1: to walk or you have to take him to school.

697
00:46:39,120 --> 00:46:42,480
Speaker 1: But I have a job, Okay, I have a job.

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00:46:42,560 --> 00:46:44,200
Speaker 1: I thought it gonna take my kids in school, but

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00:46:44,880 --> 00:46:47,080
Speaker 1: I don't. That's what the bus explores. That's what my

700
00:46:47,200 --> 00:46:51,840
Speaker 1: tax dollars paid for us. Right, But what's the reasoning

701
00:46:51,920 --> 00:46:54,640
Speaker 1: the rationale behind this? Okay, let me tell you what's

702
00:46:54,680 --> 00:46:57,879
Speaker 1: going on. From what they're saying, the weight of these

703
00:46:58,080 --> 00:47:02,279
Speaker 1: children is wearing these transmissions on this bus. On these

704
00:47:02,360 --> 00:47:06,920
Speaker 1: buses transmission, the transmission cannot take all of that. So

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00:47:07,680 --> 00:47:10,680
Speaker 1: they are limiting the weight of each child. So now

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00:47:10,760 --> 00:47:15,960
Speaker 1: how much does that disma? I think that's discrimination, but

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Speaker 1: it definite over Is he over one hundred and twenty

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00:47:19,680 --> 00:47:25,719
Speaker 1: five pounds? He? Okay? He is? Okay? And you you're

709
00:47:25,760 --> 00:47:28,200
Speaker 1: probably gonna have to take your son to school? Are

710
00:47:28,239 --> 00:47:30,719
Speaker 1: you gonna have to walk? He probably needed to walk

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00:47:30,719 --> 00:47:33,320
Speaker 1: to school if he already or hunting twenty five pounds?

712
00:47:36,600 --> 00:47:43,040
Speaker 1: What as are you talking about? Man? All I'm saying.

713
00:47:43,440 --> 00:47:47,040
Speaker 1: All I'm saying is if your son is overweight one

714
00:47:47,160 --> 00:47:50,200
Speaker 1: hundred and twenty five, you know, maybe the exercise are

715
00:47:50,239 --> 00:47:52,600
Speaker 1: doing good? When like I said, the school is that

716
00:47:52,760 --> 00:47:57,080
Speaker 1: gonna allow him on the pus? But sure I will

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00:47:57,320 --> 00:48:00,239
Speaker 1: accept this. Who do I need to call? Is there

718
00:48:00,280 --> 00:48:03,120
Speaker 1: a manager? Is then a city it's council member? I mean,

719
00:48:03,200 --> 00:48:08,239
Speaker 1: this is seriously, the most ub discriminatory practice I've ever

720
00:48:08,320 --> 00:48:10,760
Speaker 1: heard of. It doesn't even make sense. You're talking about

721
00:48:10,760 --> 00:48:13,480
Speaker 1: a child, I understand, but we're talking about a child

722
00:48:13,520 --> 00:48:16,239
Speaker 1: a way more than a grown person. You're so I

723
00:48:16,320 --> 00:48:18,279
Speaker 1: need to get what is your name, sir? Tell me

724
00:48:18,360 --> 00:48:21,880
Speaker 1: your name again. My name is Ernest. I'm down here

725
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Speaker 1: at the bus ball. I would like to speak to

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00:48:24,120 --> 00:48:28,400
Speaker 1: the supervisor, like, now, what do you You do not

727
00:48:28,680 --> 00:48:30,680
Speaker 1: get to speak to my about my child that way?

728
00:48:30,920 --> 00:48:32,480
Speaker 1: You get to speak to any kid that way. You

729
00:48:32,520 --> 00:48:34,960
Speaker 1: should not be working at a school if that is

730
00:48:35,000 --> 00:48:37,680
Speaker 1: your attitude. I'm no, I don't work at the school.

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Speaker 1: I work at the bus ball. I'm down here at

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Speaker 1: the bus ball and they gave me your day right

733
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Speaker 1: because you're saying he's over behind in twenty five pack.

734
00:48:45,560 --> 00:48:52,120
Speaker 1: I am an absolute shock. This is so okay. So

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00:48:52,400 --> 00:48:55,240
Speaker 1: do you have a fantic? I mean, do you have scuba?

736
00:48:55,239 --> 00:48:57,640
Speaker 1: I'm so I do you have a big child? Listen

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00:48:57,920 --> 00:49:01,320
Speaker 1: what my child looks like? How much way? Is none

738
00:49:01,440 --> 00:49:04,520
Speaker 1: of your business. I'm going to call the school. They

739
00:49:04,600 --> 00:49:06,600
Speaker 1: can't be working with your company. If this is the

740
00:49:06,680 --> 00:49:10,320
Speaker 1: way that you treat people, and you talk about children

741
00:49:10,400 --> 00:49:15,040
Speaker 1: this way, doesn't matter with here. I guess what they're

742
00:49:15,080 --> 00:49:18,400
Speaker 1: doing is this is the way of them approaching obesity.

743
00:49:18,960 --> 00:49:24,399
Speaker 1: You know, whoever, whoever over one hundred twenty, they might

744
00:49:24,480 --> 00:49:28,320
Speaker 1: walk it all your start. Listen, listen. That is the

745
00:49:28,560 --> 00:49:32,480
Speaker 1: most ridiculous thing I've ever heard. Okay, I have to work.

746
00:49:32,840 --> 00:49:35,680
Speaker 1: My son is getting on that and I'm going to

747
00:49:35,719 --> 00:49:37,600
Speaker 1: call the schoolboard and should not be working with you.

748
00:49:38,080 --> 00:49:40,520
Speaker 1: Maybe another bust company, I don't know, but I'm calling

749
00:49:40,600 --> 00:49:43,200
Speaker 1: the city. I will call the members cited to call,

750
00:49:43,280 --> 00:49:46,040
Speaker 1: but you need to give me a supervisor's name. What now?

751
00:49:46,600 --> 00:49:49,440
Speaker 1: Right now? Do you think you need to start cooking

752
00:49:49,520 --> 00:49:53,120
Speaker 1: different post so divin don't have you know, maybe maybe

753
00:49:53,160 --> 00:49:58,480
Speaker 1: it's start us at home and what you feed me? Everybody,

754
00:49:58,600 --> 00:50:02,000
Speaker 1: you know, I am calling supervisor. I'm calling this the city.

755
00:50:02,080 --> 00:50:05,120
Speaker 1: I'm calling the school. I'm going to you so fired,

756
00:50:05,239 --> 00:50:07,480
Speaker 1: like I can't even believe that you're allowed to make

757
00:50:07,520 --> 00:50:09,719
Speaker 1: this call because like our other parents. Okay with this,

758
00:50:12,719 --> 00:50:15,360
Speaker 1: I'm called. When you on your way to work in

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00:50:15,440 --> 00:50:19,120
Speaker 1: the morning, TRAINA do you listen to the Steve Harvey

760
00:50:19,200 --> 00:50:27,120
Speaker 1: Morning Show? Oh my god, yes I do. From the

761
00:50:27,160 --> 00:50:32,560
Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning Show. Baby, Yes, your cousin Vicky got

762
00:50:32,640 --> 00:50:35,680
Speaker 1: me the prank polk call you baby. Oh my god,

763
00:50:35,719 --> 00:50:41,680
Speaker 1: I'm gonna yeah. I mean I was like, oh my god,

764
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Speaker 1: I love Harvey. I love you, Elisabeth had God, you

765
00:50:48,640 --> 00:50:51,960
Speaker 1: gotta tell me this baby traina what is the baddest

766
00:50:52,000 --> 00:50:55,040
Speaker 1: and I mean the baddest radio show in the lane?

767
00:50:56,160 --> 00:51:03,440
Speaker 1: Steve Harvey? You know I wasn't I wasn't mad if

768
00:51:03,480 --> 00:51:05,239
Speaker 1: that one? That was pretty good? When that right there?

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00:51:05,360 --> 00:51:08,279
Speaker 1: You know, I like thee Maybe a little son need

770
00:51:08,320 --> 00:51:14,120
Speaker 1: to run his little fat ass down to the He's right, right,

771
00:51:15,160 --> 00:51:20,360
Speaker 1: he's right, He's completely right. I mean he shouldn't be

772
00:51:20,440 --> 00:51:23,839
Speaker 1: mad and should be making some low carved meals for him.

773
00:51:23,920 --> 00:51:29,399
Speaker 1: Right now. You have some low carved meals, and don't

774
00:51:29,440 --> 00:51:32,920
Speaker 1: get mad about it. It's okay. Nobody's gonna say a

775
00:51:32,960 --> 00:51:37,560
Speaker 1: white girl named Trina, no one, that's what no one?

776
00:51:38,960 --> 00:51:47,040
Speaker 1: Just so many, so many levels. Huh. It starts at home,

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00:51:47,239 --> 00:51:49,560
Speaker 1: you know what I mean, It starts at That's where

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00:51:49,600 --> 00:51:53,840
Speaker 1: it starts. Man. All that fried food, let it go sometime.

779
00:51:54,080 --> 00:51:56,960
Speaker 1: You know, fried food, all that ice cream, all that

780
00:51:57,120 --> 00:51:59,400
Speaker 1: junk y'all got in there, and potato chips, all that

781
00:51:59,560 --> 00:52:02,359
Speaker 1: that's that's that's come on now, pull up. It's so good.

782
00:52:02,560 --> 00:52:06,560
Speaker 1: Though I know I'm missing. I ain't had it in

783
00:52:06,640 --> 00:52:09,839
Speaker 1: two weeks. I showed the missing. I saw it sat

784
00:52:09,960 --> 00:52:11,840
Speaker 1: eate a peanut butter and jellis right in front of

785
00:52:11,920 --> 00:52:14,520
Speaker 1: my face. Dad, you ought to taste it. It's really good.

786
00:52:15,800 --> 00:52:19,439
Speaker 1: You don't even that is the best sandwich in the world.

787
00:52:20,040 --> 00:52:26,560
Speaker 1: Peanut peanut butter. I don't like h you don't like oh,

788
00:52:27,160 --> 00:52:29,879
Speaker 1: just like peanut butter. You don't like jelly. You don't

789
00:52:29,920 --> 00:52:32,080
Speaker 1: like jelly, like yell. I don't like peanut butter and

790
00:52:32,160 --> 00:52:36,239
Speaker 1: jelly just like peanut butter, the peanut butter sandwich. Yes,

791
00:52:36,960 --> 00:52:40,120
Speaker 1: don't tell nobody else. You only do that when you

792
00:52:40,239 --> 00:52:44,040
Speaker 1: run out of jelly. What is wrong? We got jelly?

793
00:52:44,280 --> 00:52:46,239
Speaker 1: I just don't let me drop this right quick. I

794
00:52:46,400 --> 00:52:49,239
Speaker 1: am stupid in the morning time, but I got some

795
00:52:49,360 --> 00:52:53,040
Speaker 1: sense that night. Catch me tonight, Ready to Love Reunion.

796
00:52:53,520 --> 00:52:56,040
Speaker 1: That's right, Ready to love. Last resort the Reunion is

797
00:52:56,120 --> 00:52:59,279
Speaker 1: tonight on on nine eastern, eighth Central, only on on

798
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Speaker 1: You do not want to miss it. I got some

799
00:53:01,440 --> 00:53:03,920
Speaker 1: sense on fly kind of sexy on that check me out,

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00:53:04,000 --> 00:53:05,840
Speaker 1: Oh for real, check me out. I got you on

801
00:53:05,960 --> 00:53:08,239
Speaker 1: speed dial Carlos and we can watch it. You were

802
00:53:08,280 --> 00:53:10,680
Speaker 1: telling the truth right up to that last stake there.

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00:53:12,640 --> 00:53:15,200
Speaker 1: Thank you, nev you coming up next. Strawberry Letter. My

804
00:53:15,360 --> 00:53:19,160
Speaker 1: man says, I went from whop to hop. We'll get

805
00:53:19,239 --> 00:53:22,680
Speaker 1: into it right after this. You're listening to the Steve

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00:53:22,840 --> 00:53:27,800
Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show. Time now for today's Strawberry Letter, and listen.

807
00:53:27,880 --> 00:53:35,240
Speaker 1: If you need advice on sex, on dating, on parenting, relationships, whatever,

808
00:53:35,640 --> 00:53:38,800
Speaker 1: write us okay and more. Submit your Strawberry letter to

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00:53:38,920 --> 00:53:42,719
Speaker 1: Steve Harvey FM and click submit Strawberry Letter. We'll try

810
00:53:42,800 --> 00:53:47,439
Speaker 1: to help you if we can. Can't help everybody. If

811
00:53:47,520 --> 00:53:51,319
Speaker 1: we can, we'll try, and we could be reading your

812
00:53:51,440 --> 00:53:56,319
Speaker 1: letter live, bitch like we're gonna read this one right here,

813
00:53:56,520 --> 00:53:59,320
Speaker 1: right now. Buggle up, hold on tight, we got it

814
00:53:59,400 --> 00:54:02,640
Speaker 1: for you. Here is the strong every letter subject. My

815
00:54:02,800 --> 00:54:07,799
Speaker 1: man says, I went from wop to hop. All right,

816
00:54:08,440 --> 00:54:11,200
Speaker 1: Dear Stephen Shirley, I'm a thirty year old mother with

817
00:54:11,400 --> 00:54:14,280
Speaker 1: three children. My children's father and I have been together

818
00:54:14,440 --> 00:54:16,840
Speaker 1: over ten years, So let me say this before you

819
00:54:17,000 --> 00:54:20,640
Speaker 1: bash me. He has asked me to marry him several times,

820
00:54:20,680 --> 00:54:23,920
Speaker 1: and I respectfully declined because we need to go to therapy.

821
00:54:24,040 --> 00:54:27,359
Speaker 1: Before we get married. Here's why my confidence is at

822
00:54:27,400 --> 00:54:30,440
Speaker 1: an all time low because my children's father has cheated

823
00:54:30,640 --> 00:54:34,399
Speaker 1: many times. Whenever I confront him, his exact words are,

824
00:54:34,800 --> 00:54:37,960
Speaker 1: your sex is very boring and you complain too much.

825
00:54:38,560 --> 00:54:41,439
Speaker 1: When the new Mega Stallion and Cardi B song came out,

826
00:54:41,560 --> 00:54:44,640
Speaker 1: he even joked that I've gone from wop to hop,

827
00:54:45,120 --> 00:54:51,560
Speaker 1: meaning I have horrible ap. My response was, well, I

828
00:54:51,719 --> 00:54:54,880
Speaker 1: was what you said in the letter was horrible ass

829
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Speaker 1: p You want to say as you got to read

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00:55:00,080 --> 00:55:02,680
Speaker 1: the letter we wrote the letting on him, You didn't.

831
00:55:03,640 --> 00:55:11,000
Speaker 1: You didn't write the letter ike anyway, all right, you

832
00:55:11,080 --> 00:55:14,280
Speaker 1: guys got the message. My response was, well, I wouldn't

833
00:55:14,320 --> 00:55:16,360
Speaker 1: complain as much and would do a better job in

834
00:55:16,400 --> 00:55:18,560
Speaker 1: the bedroom if you were half the man you used

835
00:55:18,560 --> 00:55:21,680
Speaker 1: to be. I'm often tired from work and running around

836
00:55:21,719 --> 00:55:24,440
Speaker 1: with three children, so he blames me for our lackluster

837
00:55:24,560 --> 00:55:29,399
Speaker 1: sex life and not ever being in the mood. I've

838
00:55:29,440 --> 00:55:32,200
Speaker 1: obliged him many nights and would just lie there trying

839
00:55:32,239 --> 00:55:35,080
Speaker 1: not to fall asleep until the sex was over. But

840
00:55:35,200 --> 00:55:37,799
Speaker 1: now years later and after all the cheating, it has

841
00:55:37,840 --> 00:55:41,120
Speaker 1: affected my ability to perform in the bedroom. I've heard

842
00:55:41,160 --> 00:55:43,759
Speaker 1: it's a mental thing, But I'm not sure why I

843
00:55:43,880 --> 00:55:46,480
Speaker 1: can't get excited or in the mood. I know that

844
00:55:46,600 --> 00:55:48,680
Speaker 1: if I can't please him, he's going to get it

845
00:55:48,800 --> 00:55:52,280
Speaker 1: somewhere else. Just recently, we got into a big argument

846
00:55:52,320 --> 00:55:56,400
Speaker 1: and he yelled out that I have some whack a kitty.

847
00:55:56,840 --> 00:56:01,080
Speaker 1: He apologized a few minutes later. But this is affecting

848
00:56:01,120 --> 00:56:04,120
Speaker 1: my confidence. He refuses to go to therapy, So should

849
00:56:04,160 --> 00:56:08,440
Speaker 1: I take my three children and leave him? Okay, listen,

850
00:56:08,760 --> 00:56:11,319
Speaker 1: you don't need therapy. You've mentioned therapy a few times

851
00:56:11,360 --> 00:56:13,920
Speaker 1: in this letter. You need a new man, that's what

852
00:56:14,080 --> 00:56:17,160
Speaker 1: you need. He's not deserving of you. I mean, what

853
00:56:17,280 --> 00:56:20,680
Speaker 1: does he do besides put you down and cheat? Ten

854
00:56:20,800 --> 00:56:24,160
Speaker 1: years of this, ten years of this you've been going through.

855
00:56:24,280 --> 00:56:28,960
Speaker 1: It has to be enough, that you know, just say enough.

856
00:56:29,200 --> 00:56:31,800
Speaker 1: This has to be enough for even the strongest and

857
00:56:32,000 --> 00:56:34,560
Speaker 1: the most confident woman wouldn't be able to deal with

858
00:56:34,680 --> 00:56:36,840
Speaker 1: this all the time. And here you are doing what

859
00:56:36,960 --> 00:56:41,239
Speaker 1: so many women do, blaming yourself. I mean, I just say,

860
00:56:41,360 --> 00:56:44,200
Speaker 1: life happens. Three kids in a full time job that's

861
00:56:44,280 --> 00:56:47,560
Speaker 1: not easy for anyone, and then he expects you to

862
00:56:47,640 --> 00:56:50,040
Speaker 1: perform and all of this and blah blah blah, when

863
00:56:50,080 --> 00:56:53,080
Speaker 1: your man is not right, sex is the last thing

864
00:56:53,239 --> 00:56:55,120
Speaker 1: on your mind. Let me tell you that the only

865
00:56:55,280 --> 00:56:57,680
Speaker 1: thing that you were to blame for in this is

866
00:56:57,960 --> 00:57:00,640
Speaker 1: staying with him, in my opinion, for ten years, and

867
00:57:00,760 --> 00:57:04,360
Speaker 1: for taking him back repeatedly when he cheats on you.

868
00:57:05,040 --> 00:57:08,040
Speaker 1: So you don't give him an incentive to stop cheating

869
00:57:08,120 --> 00:57:10,560
Speaker 1: or anything like that. So I say to you, first

870
00:57:10,600 --> 00:57:13,800
Speaker 1: things first, don't worry about from whop to hop and

871
00:57:13,960 --> 00:57:17,160
Speaker 1: all of that right now, forget all that you can

872
00:57:17,240 --> 00:57:20,240
Speaker 1: get that back. He doesn't appreciate it or deserve it anyway.

873
00:57:21,040 --> 00:57:23,240
Speaker 1: It's just time to get back to yourself. I think

874
00:57:23,280 --> 00:57:25,960
Speaker 1: you should do you boo right now. Start building up,

875
00:57:26,040 --> 00:57:29,439
Speaker 1: Start restoring what you have allowed him to tear down

876
00:57:29,560 --> 00:57:32,680
Speaker 1: in all these years. Fall in love with yourself again.

877
00:57:33,080 --> 00:57:37,080
Speaker 1: Start putting yourself first. Okay, yourself first, and watch him

878
00:57:37,120 --> 00:57:39,640
Speaker 1: take notice. If not, don't be afraid to get the

879
00:57:39,760 --> 00:57:44,640
Speaker 1: kids and move on or put his trifling behind out. Steve,

880
00:57:45,880 --> 00:57:49,760
Speaker 1: you don't surely I agree with every single thing you've said.

881
00:57:50,200 --> 00:57:55,040
Speaker 1: Great advice to this woman. Of course, my angle is

882
00:57:55,120 --> 00:57:58,080
Speaker 1: gonna be a little bit different. See, I know how

883
00:57:58,200 --> 00:58:01,720
Speaker 1: men operate, and what he is doing is the atypical

884
00:58:01,960 --> 00:58:05,280
Speaker 1: thing when a man get busted or something. Here comes

885
00:58:05,360 --> 00:58:11,240
Speaker 1: the reverse psychology. Here comes the why I did it?

886
00:58:12,160 --> 00:58:15,280
Speaker 1: You know, now as thirty year old mother three been

887
00:58:15,320 --> 00:58:19,200
Speaker 1: together ten years, he's asking the marry, but she's declined,

888
00:58:19,280 --> 00:58:21,400
Speaker 1: respectfully because she feels like they need to go to

889
00:58:21,520 --> 00:58:25,960
Speaker 1: counseling before they getting married, because my confidence is at

890
00:58:26,000 --> 00:58:30,120
Speaker 1: all time low because he's cheated on her many times.

891
00:58:30,840 --> 00:58:34,960
Speaker 1: Wait a minute, cheated on you many times? Why are

892
00:58:34,960 --> 00:58:39,560
Speaker 1: you still in the relationship? The marriage part, this ain't

893
00:58:39,600 --> 00:58:43,160
Speaker 1: even a discussion. If a man ain't gonna act right

894
00:58:43,240 --> 00:58:47,919
Speaker 1: before you get married, what makes you think? What thing

895
00:58:48,160 --> 00:58:52,280
Speaker 1: happens that makes you think that he gonna change after

896
00:58:52,400 --> 00:58:55,160
Speaker 1: you getting married? Remember, like I've said on this show

897
00:58:55,320 --> 00:58:59,280
Speaker 1: several times, a minister told me one time, when a

898
00:58:59,400 --> 00:59:03,080
Speaker 1: man gets married, the only thing that changes the day

899
00:59:03,160 --> 00:59:06,000
Speaker 1: after the wedding is the appearance of his left hand

900
00:59:06,200 --> 00:59:11,040
Speaker 1: third finger. That's if he is what he was before

901
00:59:11,160 --> 00:59:16,000
Speaker 1: you got married. Marriage doesn't change anything. Now, if a

902
00:59:16,120 --> 00:59:19,840
Speaker 1: person you either practice being married or you don't. You

903
00:59:19,920 --> 00:59:22,080
Speaker 1: either getting ready used to cut and cut your little

904
00:59:22,120 --> 00:59:24,360
Speaker 1: strings out there or you a little wild old sewan

905
00:59:24,640 --> 00:59:26,439
Speaker 1: get that out the way for you get married. That's

906
00:59:26,480 --> 00:59:29,640
Speaker 1: how you get married. You can't be cheating on this

907
00:59:29,800 --> 00:59:33,800
Speaker 1: woman repeatedly, steady asking her to marry you. Marry you

908
00:59:34,000 --> 00:59:38,080
Speaker 1: for what? Man, are you kidding me? And then every

909
00:59:38,160 --> 00:59:41,680
Speaker 1: time you bust him, his exact words are, your sex

910
00:59:41,880 --> 00:59:45,480
Speaker 1: is very boring and you complain too much. Wait a minute,

911
00:59:45,920 --> 00:59:49,680
Speaker 1: that's not why you're cheating on me. You're cheating on

912
00:59:49,840 --> 00:59:52,920
Speaker 1: me because your ass is a low life. That's why

913
00:59:53,080 --> 00:59:56,400
Speaker 1: you're doing it. Man. Now, when we come back, I

914
00:59:56,600 --> 00:59:59,640
Speaker 1: have my way that you should handle this all right,

915
00:59:59,720 --> 01:00:06,040
Speaker 1: co we'll have first staying. Okay, oh okay. At twenty

916
01:00:06,120 --> 01:00:09,600
Speaker 1: three after the hour, subject of my Strawberry letter for

917
01:00:09,760 --> 01:00:14,000
Speaker 1: today is my man says I went from wop to hop.

918
01:00:14,320 --> 01:00:19,600
Speaker 1: We'll get back into it right after this. You're listening show,

919
01:00:20,200 --> 01:00:22,959
Speaker 1: all right, Steve, come on, let's recap today's Strawberry Letters.

920
01:00:23,000 --> 01:00:26,680
Speaker 1: Subject my man says I went from wop to hop.

921
01:00:27,800 --> 01:00:30,600
Speaker 1: This letter right here kind of hurts. Shirley gave this

922
01:00:30,720 --> 01:00:34,200
Speaker 1: woman some spot on advice that I agree with thousand percent.

923
01:00:34,640 --> 01:00:37,400
Speaker 1: Thirty year old woman, three children. They've been together with

924
01:00:37,480 --> 01:00:40,880
Speaker 1: her man ten years, and she's asked he's asked her

925
01:00:40,920 --> 01:00:45,120
Speaker 1: to marry him several times. But she's respectfully declined. Why

926
01:00:45,200 --> 01:00:47,439
Speaker 1: you did it respectfully? I don't know because I found

927
01:00:47,480 --> 01:00:49,480
Speaker 1: out he wasn't treating you with no respect at all.

928
01:00:49,520 --> 01:00:52,440
Speaker 1: But you respectfully decline because you say you need to

929
01:00:52,480 --> 01:00:55,760
Speaker 1: go to therapy before you getting married, because your confidence

930
01:00:55,840 --> 01:00:58,920
Speaker 1: as an all time low, because he has cheated on

931
01:00:59,080 --> 01:01:04,320
Speaker 1: you many times. Now, here's the thing. When you confront him,

932
01:01:04,520 --> 01:01:09,240
Speaker 1: his exact words are, your sex is very boring and

933
01:01:09,480 --> 01:01:14,360
Speaker 1: you complain too much. Wait a minute, that that's why

934
01:01:15,920 --> 01:01:20,120
Speaker 1: he's cheated on you many times. But he stayed with

935
01:01:20,280 --> 01:01:25,200
Speaker 1: you for ten years, made three kids, and he's telling

936
01:01:25,240 --> 01:01:28,120
Speaker 1: you that your sex is very boring. He showed keep

937
01:01:28,160 --> 01:01:35,400
Speaker 1: coming over there a lot for this boring sex. Three kids. Now,

938
01:01:35,680 --> 01:01:38,880
Speaker 1: when the new Mad Stallion and Cardi B song came out,

939
01:01:39,080 --> 01:01:43,600
Speaker 1: he joked that I've gone from wob to a hop

940
01:01:44,560 --> 01:01:48,240
Speaker 1: hap and in the words of his latter meeting, I

941
01:01:48,400 --> 01:01:54,960
Speaker 1: have a horrible ass p Okay not dog. Really, this

942
01:01:55,160 --> 01:02:00,360
Speaker 1: is mental abuse. I understand the woman's confidence being shattered

943
01:02:00,400 --> 01:02:04,960
Speaker 1: to understand that, but dog, So you're gonna use reverse psychology.

944
01:02:05,360 --> 01:02:07,640
Speaker 1: So you're telling this woman the reason you cheating because

945
01:02:07,680 --> 01:02:10,360
Speaker 1: she got bad sex. Wait a minute, and then lady

946
01:02:10,440 --> 01:02:13,120
Speaker 1: now now you got close, lady, here's where I started

947
01:02:13,120 --> 01:02:16,360
Speaker 1: to have hope for you. My response was, well, I

948
01:02:16,400 --> 01:02:19,680
Speaker 1: wouldn't complain as much and would do a better job

949
01:02:19,760 --> 01:02:22,720
Speaker 1: in the bedroom if you were half the man you

950
01:02:23,040 --> 01:02:25,800
Speaker 1: used to be. Nine that's why I want to get

951
01:02:25,840 --> 01:02:29,960
Speaker 1: that in this letter. See, Oh, you stinging me talking

952
01:02:29,960 --> 01:02:32,880
Speaker 1: about it. I got a horrible pe. Let's talk about

953
01:02:32,960 --> 01:02:36,720
Speaker 1: choke pe. See right now, See if you're gonna talk

954
01:02:36,760 --> 01:02:40,919
Speaker 1: about my pe, then we need to talk about choke pe. See.

955
01:02:41,280 --> 01:02:44,840
Speaker 1: I might have a hop or horrible ass pe. But

956
01:02:45,080 --> 01:02:47,160
Speaker 1: but you got something wrong with you too, because you

957
01:02:47,360 --> 01:02:49,720
Speaker 1: just said he half the man he used to be.

958
01:02:50,040 --> 01:02:53,800
Speaker 1: That's a lot smaller. You're scaring me. Stick. So now

959
01:02:53,920 --> 01:02:56,840
Speaker 1: you gotta lap. See you gotta halp. You got a

960
01:02:56,920 --> 01:02:59,360
Speaker 1: horrible ass pete, and he got a lap. He got

961
01:02:59,400 --> 01:03:02,000
Speaker 1: a little ass. See what I'm laid. See then what

962
01:03:02,120 --> 01:03:04,520
Speaker 1: we got to do? We were we're doing initials. Now,

963
01:03:05,400 --> 01:03:09,760
Speaker 1: Oh I gotta help. You gotta laugh, you gotta p.

964
01:03:10,200 --> 01:03:12,600
Speaker 1: Now we're in here talking about each other. Pe. Let's

965
01:03:12,640 --> 01:03:16,840
Speaker 1: spread the pe round, make my funk the pe funk.

966
01:03:17,200 --> 01:03:20,240
Speaker 1: I want to get funked up. I want the bomb,

967
01:03:20,640 --> 01:03:24,320
Speaker 1: I want the pe funk. I want my funk funked up.

968
01:03:24,800 --> 01:03:28,000
Speaker 1: Make my funk the p funk. I want to get

969
01:03:28,120 --> 01:03:30,560
Speaker 1: funked up. That's what you want to play the next time,

970
01:03:30,640 --> 01:03:33,120
Speaker 1: y'all head to the bathroom and the head to the bedroom.

971
01:03:33,400 --> 01:03:36,160
Speaker 1: I want something to happen to me. But you ain't

972
01:03:36,360 --> 01:03:39,520
Speaker 1: half the man you used to be, cause you the

973
01:03:39,800 --> 01:03:44,560
Speaker 1: shrunk o. Your fat ass stomach is leaning over your belt.

974
01:03:44,680 --> 01:03:47,520
Speaker 1: I can't find it. You can't find it now you're

975
01:03:47,560 --> 01:03:51,240
Speaker 1: over here talking about mind horrible. It's cause you little.

976
01:03:52,000 --> 01:03:54,640
Speaker 1: Now we're doing or you can go, or you can

977
01:03:54,720 --> 01:03:58,760
Speaker 1: go LP. You gotta lives the old poker. See your

978
01:03:58,840 --> 01:04:03,160
Speaker 1: poker is livesy all. You can be a lap you

979
01:04:03,280 --> 01:04:06,200
Speaker 1: gotta you gotta live fast poker. See you can use

980
01:04:06,320 --> 01:04:12,040
Speaker 1: We could dose initials all day. See one thing about it, ladies.

981
01:04:12,560 --> 01:04:16,240
Speaker 1: You can bruise your man's ego or were in the

982
01:04:16,400 --> 01:04:21,800
Speaker 1: ego bruising business. Yeah, you ain't as exciting in the

983
01:04:21,880 --> 01:04:27,360
Speaker 1: bedroom no more, sister, because he don't excite you. No. Yeah,

984
01:04:27,480 --> 01:04:31,000
Speaker 1: you don't need therapy. You need it. Yeah, you need

985
01:04:31,080 --> 01:04:32,840
Speaker 1: to give it to him like he giving it to you.

986
01:04:33,840 --> 01:04:36,720
Speaker 1: It ain't what it was because you ain't what you was.

987
01:04:39,680 --> 01:04:42,000
Speaker 1: You don't know what color shoes you got on? What

988
01:04:42,120 --> 01:04:44,720
Speaker 1: color your shoes? You look straight down? What color your shoes?

989
01:04:45,760 --> 01:04:47,920
Speaker 1: You don't even know. I went through that when I

990
01:04:48,040 --> 01:04:50,960
Speaker 1: was pregnant. See you don't know that. See, but men,

991
01:04:51,320 --> 01:04:53,000
Speaker 1: see it's okay for a woman to do that when

992
01:04:53,000 --> 01:04:55,920
Speaker 1: she pregnant, y'all having baby in there. But some of

993
01:04:56,000 --> 01:04:58,280
Speaker 1: us can't look down because we ain't even got no baby.

994
01:04:58,320 --> 01:05:02,000
Speaker 1: We just look like we're in our second I missed. See,

995
01:05:02,040 --> 01:05:04,840
Speaker 1: you got to bring this up to him. You ain't

996
01:05:04,880 --> 01:05:07,200
Speaker 1: got to be the only one take a shot. And now,

997
01:05:07,440 --> 01:05:11,200
Speaker 1: years later, after all the cheating, it's affected your ability

998
01:05:11,200 --> 01:05:13,520
Speaker 1: to perform him in the bedroom. I've heard it's a

999
01:05:13,600 --> 01:05:16,400
Speaker 1: mental thing, but I'm not sure why I can't get

1000
01:05:16,480 --> 01:05:18,280
Speaker 1: excited or in the move. Well, let me help you.

1001
01:05:18,440 --> 01:05:21,400
Speaker 1: You can't get excited because he ain't exciting you. He

1002
01:05:21,480 --> 01:05:24,680
Speaker 1: ain't doing nothing. And when he gets there, you're about

1003
01:05:24,720 --> 01:05:30,520
Speaker 1: to fall asleep. All these his kids, yeah, ain't his kids?

1004
01:05:30,600 --> 01:05:33,360
Speaker 1: Then it must have been good at some point, That's

1005
01:05:33,400 --> 01:05:35,920
Speaker 1: what I said. That's what I said, you know, And

1006
01:05:36,120 --> 01:05:40,280
Speaker 1: they all little kids because he because he loved and

1007
01:05:40,440 --> 01:05:46,160
Speaker 1: he may live kids. All his kids, real little undersized

1008
01:05:46,320 --> 01:05:48,560
Speaker 1: down there at the school. That's why I ain't none

1009
01:05:48,560 --> 01:05:53,200
Speaker 1: on him playing basketball, none of this. See, y'all gonna

1010
01:05:53,240 --> 01:05:55,640
Speaker 1: understand his ass. Now, y'all got in the big ass

1011
01:05:55,760 --> 01:05:58,080
Speaker 1: argument recently, he yelled out that he got some whack

1012
01:05:58,160 --> 01:06:01,480
Speaker 1: ass kitty. Then he gonna apologize a few minutes later.

1013
01:06:02,680 --> 01:06:08,320
Speaker 1: Were you, well, well you got a work as well.

1014
01:06:08,600 --> 01:06:12,160
Speaker 1: We can't look. I just said it. We're yours is

1015
01:06:12,200 --> 01:06:15,000
Speaker 1: whacked too, So we're just in here, just both serving

1016
01:06:15,120 --> 01:06:19,080
Speaker 1: up just bad six. Now where you're going, you gotta

1017
01:06:19,160 --> 01:06:21,560
Speaker 1: keep cheating because every time you cheat with somebody there

1018
01:06:21,560 --> 01:06:23,080
Speaker 1: don't want it no more. So you gotta go get

1019
01:06:23,160 --> 01:06:30,240
Speaker 1: somebody else. Everybody on today Strawberry Letter at Steve Harvey FM,

1020
01:06:30,320 --> 01:06:33,240
Speaker 1: on Instagram and Facebook. Check out the Strawberry Letter podcast

1021
01:06:33,360 --> 01:06:36,400
Speaker 1: on demand. Two coming up in forty six minutes after

1022
01:06:36,480 --> 01:06:38,880
Speaker 1: the hour. You know what time it is? Junior Sports

1023
01:06:38,960 --> 01:06:43,480
Speaker 1: Talk Right after this, you're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show.

1024
01:06:44,320 --> 01:06:46,720
Speaker 1: All right, here we are, Junior is here with what

1025
01:06:47,160 --> 01:06:50,080
Speaker 1: sports Talk? What you got for its? Junior? I told

1026
01:06:50,160 --> 01:06:52,840
Speaker 1: y'all yesterday that James Harden was traded to the Brooklyn

1027
01:06:53,000 --> 01:06:56,160
Speaker 1: next so you know we buy James were not not

1028
01:06:56,240 --> 01:06:58,960
Speaker 1: even gonna spend a lot of time on you, lady.

1029
01:06:59,720 --> 01:07:01,840
Speaker 1: He's good for eighty two games, but he's gonna come

1030
01:07:01,920 --> 01:07:03,880
Speaker 1: up missing in the playoffs. Just want to know that

1031
01:07:07,960 --> 01:07:11,400
Speaker 1: he was ya, but he good forded two games now

1032
01:07:11,640 --> 01:07:14,840
Speaker 1: round one, Player five, you're not gonna get a shot,

1033
01:07:15,400 --> 01:07:19,000
Speaker 1: So Joe Harris, DeAndre Hopkers, Jeff Green quit looking for shots.

1034
01:07:19,000 --> 01:07:21,120
Speaker 1: She's not gonna get him. And if he started dribbling,

1035
01:07:21,440 --> 01:07:23,200
Speaker 1: you're not gonna see the ball till point two on

1036
01:07:23,320 --> 01:07:28,240
Speaker 1: the clock. He made pay just y'all working with when

1037
01:07:28,280 --> 01:07:31,640
Speaker 1: you get him, just understand that. But that other than that, though,

1038
01:07:31,680 --> 01:07:35,760
Speaker 1: this weekend, man NFL playoff football, this weekend, you gotta

1039
01:07:35,800 --> 01:07:38,920
Speaker 1: be good. Uh what y'all think about? This game? Right here?

1040
01:07:39,000 --> 01:07:41,880
Speaker 1: Los Angeles Rams at the Green Bay Packers. Who y'all picking? Still?

1041
01:07:42,800 --> 01:07:50,880
Speaker 1: Rams o killin. I ain't even know they was playing?

1042
01:07:50,920 --> 01:07:53,920
Speaker 1: Go ahead? Who else you get? Baltimore Ravens, that Buffalo

1043
01:07:54,040 --> 01:07:58,680
Speaker 1: Bill don't really give him down? That's good, that's good.

1044
01:07:58,720 --> 01:08:06,400
Speaker 1: Whoever you're lamar? I want New Orleans Saints? What Brady?

1045
01:08:08,360 --> 01:08:11,400
Speaker 1: I'm really such a Saint fan? No Dogs, I really

1046
01:08:11,440 --> 01:08:15,560
Speaker 1: did thanks, but you know, once again, you know I

1047
01:08:15,760 --> 01:08:20,599
Speaker 1: really don't care, go ahead through. Okay, Well here going

1048
01:08:20,640 --> 01:08:25,160
Speaker 1: on for y'all. Come on, Cleveland Brown, Now, this is

1049
01:08:25,280 --> 01:08:31,320
Speaker 1: Friday Engineer. Dave is from Kansas City. I'm from Cleveland.

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01:08:31,400 --> 01:08:38,160
Speaker 1: Me and Dave ain't spoke all week. We haven't. Oh yes,

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01:08:38,280 --> 01:08:40,519
Speaker 1: it is call it. It's that shit. We ain't spoke

1052
01:08:40,800 --> 01:08:46,160
Speaker 1: and Day one of my favorite people, but not this week. Now,

1053
01:08:46,280 --> 01:08:49,800
Speaker 1: after the game, if Kansas City wins, it's gonna take

1054
01:08:49,840 --> 01:08:52,280
Speaker 1: me a couple of days to forgive him, and then

1055
01:08:52,360 --> 01:08:56,920
Speaker 1: we'll get back to I don't give a damn. You're

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01:08:56,960 --> 01:08:59,720
Speaker 1: from Kansas City. I got a problem with you right now.

1057
01:09:00,960 --> 01:09:04,320
Speaker 1: That's all this is. Yeah, well, in your gut, do

1058
01:09:04,479 --> 01:09:08,160
Speaker 1: you feel that Cleveland is going to win or lose? Yeah?

1059
01:09:08,200 --> 01:09:11,479
Speaker 1: I feel I feel like Cleveland gonna win. Why do

1060
01:09:11,560 --> 01:09:13,400
Speaker 1: you Why do you feel like that? I guess I

1061
01:09:13,400 --> 01:09:16,559
Speaker 1: don't want to feel nothing else. Oh yeah, you don't

1062
01:09:16,760 --> 01:09:19,559
Speaker 1: fee Why would I go in with a sick ass feeling?

1063
01:09:22,120 --> 01:09:26,320
Speaker 1: Speaking of sick, do y'all still hair COVID? How's that come? No? No, no, no,

1064
01:09:26,439 --> 01:09:28,800
Speaker 1: we're good. We whipped to steal his ass when didn't

1065
01:09:28,840 --> 01:09:31,080
Speaker 1: nobody think we was gonna Juju Smith and all of

1066
01:09:31,120 --> 01:09:33,840
Speaker 1: them talking that track being Rockenberger, all of them crying,

1067
01:09:34,240 --> 01:09:36,840
Speaker 1: and now, man, all I got to say is, you know,

1068
01:09:37,000 --> 01:09:40,160
Speaker 1: we can't stop Kansas City too much, but Kansas City

1069
01:09:40,280 --> 01:09:42,599
Speaker 1: might not be able to stop us. Man. And if

1070
01:09:42,680 --> 01:09:44,760
Speaker 1: we just get a couple of tip balls in there,

1071
01:09:44,880 --> 01:09:47,880
Speaker 1: you know, we catch a lot of tip interceptions. Now, man,

1072
01:09:48,320 --> 01:09:51,760
Speaker 1: let's go around. Yeah, come on around, Thank you, JU

1073
01:09:51,800 --> 01:09:53,200
Speaker 1: And you're coming up at the top of the hour.

1074
01:09:53,280 --> 01:09:55,479
Speaker 1: We'll get into the mind of Jay Anthony Brown. Right

1075
01:09:55,520 --> 01:10:02,040
Speaker 1: after this. You're listening to Harvey Morning Show. All right, Steve,

1076
01:10:02,200 --> 01:10:05,719
Speaker 1: come on to introduce your friend j Anthony Brown. Please, Well,

1077
01:10:05,840 --> 01:10:08,760
Speaker 1: ladies and gentlemen, you know, I once again, I ain't

1078
01:10:08,800 --> 01:10:10,639
Speaker 1: got to do this much, but when I do, it's

1079
01:10:10,720 --> 01:10:14,840
Speaker 1: kind of shop. Oh yeah, I ain't never seen nothing

1080
01:10:14,880 --> 01:10:16,960
Speaker 1: like this. I don't know what deal I cut with

1081
01:10:17,120 --> 01:10:26,840
Speaker 1: his as I want, James deal everything. It's called man,

1082
01:10:27,080 --> 01:10:30,960
Speaker 1: best friend, that's what it's called. I got the best

1083
01:10:31,040 --> 01:10:32,920
Speaker 1: friend deal that. Yeah, that had to woe out a

1084
01:10:32,920 --> 01:10:38,080
Speaker 1: little bit though. You know, ladies and gentlemen, Joy Anthony Brown,

1085
01:10:39,640 --> 01:10:43,080
Speaker 1: all right, when twenty twenty one talking to the men

1086
01:10:43,280 --> 01:10:47,800
Speaker 1: and the men only you're in a somewhat relationship. What

1087
01:10:48,080 --> 01:10:51,400
Speaker 1: you want to know is how to get out of

1088
01:10:51,560 --> 01:10:54,600
Speaker 1: the friend zone. And if you're in it, here we go.

1089
01:10:55,560 --> 01:10:58,519
Speaker 1: If you're in the friend zone. If you have taken

1090
01:10:58,640 --> 01:11:02,160
Speaker 1: her dog to the vet and the dog weighs under

1091
01:11:02,600 --> 01:11:08,360
Speaker 1: two pounds more than four times, you're in the friend zone. Okay.

1092
01:11:08,840 --> 01:11:14,760
Speaker 1: If you have put lotion on her back, dude, just

1093
01:11:15,040 --> 01:11:18,880
Speaker 1: her back, You and the friend zone, okay. If you have.

1094
01:11:19,360 --> 01:11:22,720
Speaker 1: If she has said to you, look at me and

1095
01:11:22,880 --> 01:11:26,920
Speaker 1: my pennies and bra do I look fat? And that's

1096
01:11:26,960 --> 01:11:30,559
Speaker 1: all you and the friend zone all right. If she says,

1097
01:11:30,920 --> 01:11:34,280
Speaker 1: come over here and sleep over with me in the

1098
01:11:34,400 --> 01:11:39,120
Speaker 1: bed because I'm scared, no sex. You in the friends zone, partner,

1099
01:11:39,160 --> 01:11:43,960
Speaker 1: all right. If you have listened to her complaint about

1100
01:11:44,080 --> 01:11:47,160
Speaker 1: her ex who ain't worth a damn you in the

1101
01:11:47,240 --> 01:11:53,639
Speaker 1: friends zone, partner, if you, if you, if she if

1102
01:11:54,240 --> 01:11:57,280
Speaker 1: if she has asked you, what do you think about

1103
01:11:57,400 --> 01:12:01,519
Speaker 1: the sweater I'm buying for another dude? Damn it? You

1104
01:12:02,200 --> 01:12:06,960
Speaker 1: in the friend's zone because he was stuttering and trying

1105
01:12:07,000 --> 01:12:10,720
Speaker 1: to get right. Yeah. If you have been over there

1106
01:12:11,160 --> 01:12:16,400
Speaker 1: just to move something heavy by yourself, damn it, you're

1107
01:12:16,600 --> 01:12:22,559
Speaker 1: in the friend's zone. Yeah. If she says I need

1108
01:12:22,640 --> 01:12:26,160
Speaker 1: you to come over here because another dude is coming

1109
01:12:26,240 --> 01:12:29,080
Speaker 1: over here and I want you to be here so

1110
01:12:29,560 --> 01:12:33,880
Speaker 1: nothing happens. Your ass is in the friend zone. Over

1111
01:12:36,320 --> 01:12:40,840
Speaker 1: and last, but not least, she called you up at

1112
01:12:40,920 --> 01:12:44,160
Speaker 1: two in the morning says I need you to take

1113
01:12:44,240 --> 01:12:48,280
Speaker 1: me to another dude's house and he wants to talk

1114
01:12:48,400 --> 01:12:54,200
Speaker 1: to me. Damn it, damn it, your ass is in

1115
01:12:54,640 --> 01:12:58,840
Speaker 1: the friends zone. Now, men, if you've done four or

1116
01:12:59,040 --> 01:13:07,280
Speaker 1: more these things, your ass is in the friends zone. Jake. Now,

1117
01:13:07,320 --> 01:13:08,920
Speaker 1: I want to comment on one of them. When you

1118
01:13:09,120 --> 01:13:12,320
Speaker 1: said what she called you. This is what you said

1119
01:13:12,400 --> 01:13:15,439
Speaker 1: if she called you to come over at two o'clock

1120
01:13:15,520 --> 01:13:18,960
Speaker 1: in the morning and sleep with her, but no sex

1121
01:13:19,040 --> 01:13:22,240
Speaker 1: because she's scared. I want you to know when I

1122
01:13:22,400 --> 01:13:28,120
Speaker 1: get that, you're gonna be scared twice. I do need

1123
01:13:28,200 --> 01:13:31,600
Speaker 1: you to know that in the friend zone. Yeah, but

1124
01:13:31,760 --> 01:13:40,559
Speaker 1: you're gonna be scared twice though. Yeah, why you ain't

1125
01:13:40,600 --> 01:13:42,800
Speaker 1: I don't know. But jam about him because I like

1126
01:13:42,960 --> 01:13:51,080
Speaker 1: to sleep like that. We're gonna try something on you

1127
01:13:51,200 --> 01:13:56,759
Speaker 1: over there, helping us clothes, uh, taking on your clothes.

1128
01:13:57,280 --> 01:14:02,320
Speaker 1: I can't. I can't sleep with no clothes like a dog.

1129
01:14:03,680 --> 01:14:05,320
Speaker 1: I'm gonna get in here and hold you. I'm gonna

1130
01:14:05,360 --> 01:14:13,280
Speaker 1: beatnket though. Yeah, man, you're gonna beat the yea. They

1131
01:14:13,320 --> 01:14:16,080
Speaker 1: don't man putting you in the friend zone after I'm

1132
01:14:16,120 --> 01:14:17,920
Speaker 1: going on, I'm going over there. I ain't even win

1133
01:14:17,960 --> 01:14:22,760
Speaker 1: on drawls over there than first. Jane, you're gonna be

1134
01:14:22,840 --> 01:14:27,040
Speaker 1: debating my friendship. Probably you're gonna have to look at

1135
01:14:27,080 --> 01:14:29,599
Speaker 1: me a whole another way, because I'm damn shung gonna

1136
01:14:29,640 --> 01:14:31,960
Speaker 1: look at you different. All Right, we got more of

1137
01:14:32,040 --> 01:14:34,880
Speaker 1: the Steve Harvey mor some trending stories coming up at

1138
01:14:34,920 --> 01:14:39,679
Speaker 1: twenty minutes after. Right after this, you're listening to morning show.

1139
01:14:41,840 --> 01:14:44,759
Speaker 1: All right, Well, guys, today is the day. We still

1140
01:14:44,920 --> 01:14:47,200
Speaker 1: have time. We still have time to buy tickets for

1141
01:14:47,360 --> 01:14:50,439
Speaker 1: tonight's Mega Millions jackpot. It is up to seven hundred

1142
01:14:50,479 --> 01:14:54,439
Speaker 1: and fifty million dollars. I know what I would do.

1143
01:14:54,760 --> 01:14:56,599
Speaker 1: I know. Yeah, that's what I's gonna ask. What are

1144
01:14:56,600 --> 01:14:58,599
Speaker 1: you gonna do with all that money? Rain? How much

1145
01:14:58,720 --> 01:15:01,519
Speaker 1: is it? Sure ain't got the money? You ain't coming

1146
01:15:01,560 --> 01:15:09,200
Speaker 1: to work? So go ahead, now? How much is it? Seven?

1147
01:15:10,680 --> 01:15:12,719
Speaker 1: I'm gonna get me a bunch of microphones and spread

1148
01:15:12,760 --> 01:15:15,040
Speaker 1: them all out, you know, because I make a speech

1149
01:15:15,200 --> 01:15:18,760
Speaker 1: and I'm gonna start like this. The following people can

1150
01:15:19,040 --> 01:15:29,240
Speaker 1: kiss my black who listen for your name? But Jake,

1151
01:15:29,320 --> 01:15:32,160
Speaker 1: But Jake, You're gonna be a while though. It's gonna

1152
01:15:32,200 --> 01:15:40,760
Speaker 1: be a listen. Is this something? The following people, the

1153
01:15:40,960 --> 01:15:48,479
Speaker 1: following people can kiss my black age Jay. And then

1154
01:15:48,640 --> 01:15:53,120
Speaker 1: after two hours name calling, you stepped back up to

1155
01:15:53,240 --> 01:15:55,519
Speaker 1: the micro say I'm gonna step away for a short lunch,

1156
01:15:55,920 --> 01:16:04,440
Speaker 1: but I will be back to resume. You got Powerball

1157
01:16:04,560 --> 01:16:07,719
Speaker 1: which is Saturday, six hundred and forty million and mega

1158
01:16:07,800 --> 01:16:16,320
Speaker 1: million tonight seven. I'll be back after lunch. They're gonna say,

1159
01:16:18,040 --> 01:16:20,599
Speaker 1: all right, thank you, Jay. More of the Steve Harvey

1160
01:16:20,640 --> 01:16:22,920
Speaker 1: Morning Show coming up at thirty three minutes after. Right

1161
01:16:22,960 --> 01:16:28,040
Speaker 1: after this, you're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right,

1162
01:16:28,080 --> 01:16:30,320
Speaker 1: here we go for Ask the Cello. This one is

1163
01:16:30,360 --> 01:16:34,120
Speaker 1: from Julio and de Soto, Texas. Julio says, I'm a

1164
01:16:34,160 --> 01:16:36,439
Speaker 1: forty seven year old man and I've never been married,

1165
01:16:36,479 --> 01:16:39,120
Speaker 1: and I don't have any children. My brother's got married

1166
01:16:39,120 --> 01:16:42,080
Speaker 1: in twenty eighteen and a double ceremony. I have a

1167
01:16:42,160 --> 01:16:45,640
Speaker 1: domestic partnership with a lady that I've been with for

1168
01:16:45,800 --> 01:16:48,680
Speaker 1: six years. She's never pressured me about a wedding. But

1169
01:16:48,880 --> 01:16:51,519
Speaker 1: she's told my mother she'd love to marry me. Should

1170
01:16:51,520 --> 01:16:53,800
Speaker 1: I stay quiet until she brings it up? Or should

1171
01:16:53,840 --> 01:16:57,040
Speaker 1: I reaffirm to her that I don't want to get married.

1172
01:16:57,320 --> 01:17:00,160
Speaker 1: I hate to be wasting her time? A man? Why

1173
01:17:00,160 --> 01:17:02,479
Speaker 1: don't you tell her that? There? Yeah? Why don't you

1174
01:17:02,560 --> 01:17:04,640
Speaker 1: tell her you don't want to be married? And you

1175
01:17:04,720 --> 01:17:08,360
Speaker 1: were just what he called it, domestic partnership partnership. Yeah,

1176
01:17:08,720 --> 01:17:10,640
Speaker 1: but she wants to be married, but you want a

1177
01:17:10,720 --> 01:17:13,680
Speaker 1: domestic partnership. That's why you ain't never been married and

1178
01:17:13,760 --> 01:17:16,680
Speaker 1: ain't gotten I don't feel I'll tell her. I'll tell

1179
01:17:16,720 --> 01:17:21,360
Speaker 1: her for your ass. I'll tell her better, man, I

1180
01:17:22,000 --> 01:17:24,920
Speaker 1: will tell her take a weight off of you. But

1181
01:17:25,120 --> 01:17:27,920
Speaker 1: you should have told her that six years ago too. Yeah,

1182
01:17:28,160 --> 01:17:31,280
Speaker 1: you are wasting her time, you know, for six years

1183
01:17:31,360 --> 01:17:33,280
Speaker 1: and she didn't told your mama she want to get married.

1184
01:17:33,360 --> 01:17:36,120
Speaker 1: I'm pretty sure she hadn't said that to you am

1185
01:17:36,120 --> 01:17:38,240
Speaker 1: a matter of fact, Julio, I can't imagine she would

1186
01:17:38,280 --> 01:17:40,160
Speaker 1: go to your mama with it and ain't saying it

1187
01:17:40,280 --> 01:17:43,320
Speaker 1: to you. I ain't got nothing for you, Julio. You

1188
01:17:43,360 --> 01:17:47,280
Speaker 1: ain't got no kids. What you want? He should know

1189
01:17:47,400 --> 01:17:58,240
Speaker 1: something man. Bye, Felicia. This one's from Felicia in New Orleans.

1190
01:17:58,320 --> 01:18:00,040
Speaker 1: She says, I'm a newly wed and my husband and

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01:18:00,240 --> 01:18:02,720
Speaker 1: I moved to his hometown recently, where he has three

1192
01:18:02,840 --> 01:18:06,479
Speaker 1: female friends that he's known since childhood. I got along

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01:18:06,560 --> 01:18:09,000
Speaker 1: with them, but I need him to set some boundaries

1194
01:18:09,040 --> 01:18:11,040
Speaker 1: with them. One of them is a chef, and she

1195
01:18:11,200 --> 01:18:13,479
Speaker 1: insists that he comes over at least once a week

1196
01:18:13,560 --> 01:18:16,240
Speaker 1: to pick up a plate. He loves to rave about

1197
01:18:16,320 --> 01:18:19,040
Speaker 1: how good her food is. My husband will meet up

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01:18:19,040 --> 01:18:21,080
Speaker 1: with the women for drinks, and I find out about

1199
01:18:21,080 --> 01:18:24,000
Speaker 1: it after the fact. He says they're like sisters and

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01:18:24,120 --> 01:18:26,720
Speaker 1: I have nothing to worry about. He doesn't get it.

1201
01:18:27,040 --> 01:18:30,400
Speaker 1: So should I talk to these ladies directly? No? See,

1202
01:18:30,439 --> 01:18:34,160
Speaker 1: you didn't marry the ladies. You married your husband. You

1203
01:18:34,240 --> 01:18:36,840
Speaker 1: and your husband took the vials to leave all others

1204
01:18:36,880 --> 01:18:40,880
Speaker 1: and cleave only unto you. That was his vows. Now,

1205
01:18:41,040 --> 01:18:43,839
Speaker 1: before you got married, did he tell you, yeah, these girlfriends,

1206
01:18:43,920 --> 01:18:46,479
Speaker 1: he wasn't gonna cut them loose and you married him anyway?

1207
01:18:46,680 --> 01:18:48,960
Speaker 1: Or did you discover the three girlfriends when you move

1208
01:18:49,080 --> 01:18:53,880
Speaker 1: back to his hometown coming over to the house cooking.

1209
01:18:53,920 --> 01:18:55,600
Speaker 1: I can't there's no way in hell, I can go

1210
01:18:55,760 --> 01:18:58,639
Speaker 1: in and tell Madre I'm going over this girl's house

1211
01:18:58,680 --> 01:19:05,920
Speaker 1: for dinner. We're friends for him to be that you

1212
01:19:09,760 --> 01:19:14,400
Speaker 1: you know, that's the next thing coming up in there's

1213
01:19:14,439 --> 01:19:16,680
Speaker 1: our last break of the day, our last break of

1214
01:19:16,880 --> 01:19:21,960
Speaker 1: the week. Yo man yo yo dog yo yo limb day. Listen,

1215
01:19:22,280 --> 01:19:25,639
Speaker 1: listen the last Brave Man look ahead, listening to the body.

1216
01:19:27,600 --> 01:19:29,320
Speaker 1: We only got to hear this last break of the

1217
01:19:29,400 --> 01:19:37,080
Speaker 1: day joke twice a month. You hired him, all right,

1218
01:19:37,240 --> 01:19:39,920
Speaker 1: and we'll have, of course, some closing remarks from the

1219
01:19:40,040 --> 01:19:43,920
Speaker 1: one and only Steve Harvey at forty nine minutes after

1220
01:19:44,120 --> 01:19:49,040
Speaker 1: right after this, you're listening to Steve Morning Show. Okay,

1221
01:19:49,120 --> 01:19:52,200
Speaker 1: here we are our last break of the day and week, Steve.

1222
01:19:52,280 --> 01:19:54,360
Speaker 1: Before we got to your clothing, we got to say

1223
01:19:54,400 --> 01:19:59,160
Speaker 1: a big thank you to Vice President elect Kamala s

1224
01:20:01,439 --> 01:20:04,960
Speaker 1: really great. She was our special guest this morning, of course.

1225
01:20:05,840 --> 01:20:10,439
Speaker 1: And we're looking forward to the inauguration next week. That's right, Sherlan,

1226
01:20:11,120 --> 01:20:18,160
Speaker 1: we are. I'm so excited. Yeah, man, Trump is gonna

1227
01:20:18,160 --> 01:20:21,439
Speaker 1: be on all the televisions. But maybe that's fake news.

1228
01:20:21,640 --> 01:20:24,680
Speaker 1: Maybe that's fake Yeah, Hey, you know something, man, you

1229
01:20:24,760 --> 01:20:32,720
Speaker 1: ain't heard fake news and why have you ain't got

1230
01:20:32,800 --> 01:20:38,439
Speaker 1: a tweet either, ain't n I'm really enjoying him not

1231
01:20:38,640 --> 01:20:41,720
Speaker 1: having a Twitter because it keeps a lot of this

1232
01:20:42,000 --> 01:20:45,080
Speaker 1: rhetoric that he would be doing right now further fueling.

1233
01:20:45,880 --> 01:20:48,280
Speaker 1: And you know what, man, it's sort of crazy, because

1234
01:20:49,400 --> 01:20:52,640
Speaker 1: all Republicans aren't bad people, that's not what this is.

1235
01:20:53,920 --> 01:20:59,560
Speaker 1: But there's a segment of his base that's really a

1236
01:20:59,680 --> 01:21:03,280
Speaker 1: demand minted group of people because they come out of

1237
01:21:03,360 --> 01:21:06,840
Speaker 1: the murk and the dirt, and they've always been here,

1238
01:21:07,600 --> 01:21:11,800
Speaker 1: but they've been embrazen to feel more powerful because of him.

1239
01:21:12,600 --> 01:21:16,360
Speaker 1: And I've just watched this group. Now there's a statistic

1240
01:21:16,439 --> 01:21:19,599
Speaker 1: out that says seventy percent of Republicans feel as though

1241
01:21:19,640 --> 01:21:23,680
Speaker 1: the election was tampered with or stolen. Now that right

1242
01:21:23,760 --> 01:21:28,200
Speaker 1: there is just the group of people pouting because the election.

1243
01:21:28,680 --> 01:21:32,639
Speaker 1: If you go back, they did one thing. They played

1244
01:21:33,080 --> 01:21:38,200
Speaker 1: everything Fox said about the Democrats and the liberals when

1245
01:21:38,280 --> 01:21:45,000
Speaker 1: Trump won. They're sore losers, they won't admit defeat. Why

1246
01:21:45,040 --> 01:21:48,760
Speaker 1: don't they stop all this ignorant protesting. The man is

1247
01:21:48,800 --> 01:21:52,320
Speaker 1: the president. It was a fair election. They did they

1248
01:21:52,400 --> 01:21:56,320
Speaker 1: did a fifteen minute collage of everything they said about

1249
01:21:56,680 --> 01:22:02,720
Speaker 1: liberals and Democrats when Trump beat Hillary Clinton. Now the

1250
01:22:02,880 --> 01:22:08,320
Speaker 1: exact same number, the exact same electorals have been flipped.

1251
01:22:08,479 --> 01:22:10,360
Speaker 1: Now all of a sudden, it's a rigged election, and

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Speaker 1: it's stolen simply because he said it was. Now, the

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Speaker 1: part that's troubling is the Republican politicians who know that

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Speaker 1: this is not true. Wait, first of all, y'all, have

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Speaker 1: you thought about this. How do you rig an election

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Speaker 1: when there are so many people on both parties involved

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Speaker 1: in the count, in the election, in the balloting, in

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Speaker 1: the machinery, all of that. It would have to be

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Speaker 1: a massive bipartisan corruption that would have to occur for

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Speaker 1: this to even happen on a small scale, let loan

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Speaker 1: the scale that he needs to overturn this election. But

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Speaker 1: these politicians who are afraid of Donald Trump have just

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Speaker 1: sat here in calf feeding, and the sad part these

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Speaker 1: people still feeding it. Well, here's what ideally I would

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Speaker 1: love to see happen. I would love to see him

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Speaker 1: get impeached. But now I don't think that's gonna happen.

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Speaker 1: But I think there's a part that even without impeachment,

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Speaker 1: that can be of passing according to just a minority

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Speaker 1: that he can never run for office again. That's all

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Speaker 1: I need. I need Twitter and everybody to keep his

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Speaker 1: account quiet so he can't resurface and give this chance

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Speaker 1: to give this stuff a chance to crawl back into

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Speaker 1: the hole that it crawled out of, because they've been

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Speaker 1: coming out of this hole for four years, these militia groups,

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Speaker 1: white supremacists, the old hateful man on the screen with

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Speaker 1: the Ashwitch camp t shirt, I mean man walking through

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Speaker 1: that with the Confederate flag. They don't like nobody that

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Speaker 1: ain't like them, But can I share something with them?

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Speaker 1: We don't really like you either. I think, really you're

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Speaker 1: the scum of the earth. I really do, because you're

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Speaker 1: basing your superiority on the fact that you think that

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Speaker 1: you're superior to someone else and you're not. You're actually beneath.

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Speaker 1: But it's amazing, man, how I think I sent something

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Speaker 1: to you all that LBJ said once. I want to

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Speaker 1: read it. Who can pull it up and read that

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Speaker 1: for me? Because I want you all to see what

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Speaker 1: this man knew about this type of rhetoric years ago

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Speaker 1: in the nineteen sixties. You found the Tommy alright, read

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Speaker 1: it from me, Timmy Lyndon Bain Johnson, all Right, here

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Speaker 1: he is on LBJ. Was once asked why poor white

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Speaker 1: Republicans repeatedly vote against their own best interest, and this

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Speaker 1: was his response. If you can convince the lowest white

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Speaker 1: man he's better than the best colored man, he won't

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Speaker 1: know you're picking his pocket. Hell, give him something to

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Speaker 1: look down on, and he'll empty his pockets for you.

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Speaker 1: That's that's the roost that's been played with these people.

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Speaker 1: They make you think, in your lowness of life that

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Speaker 1: you are still better than any person of color. Now

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Speaker 1: they use colored back then in the sixties. I'm old enough.

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Speaker 1: I've been called colored before and referred to ourselves as

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Speaker 1: colored people. I've been Negroes before, I went through the

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Speaker 1: black and the African American. I've been all of it.

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Speaker 1: That's what's determined. They found that to be true in

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Speaker 1: the sixties, that they've convinced these low life people that

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Speaker 1: they're better than the best of us and give us

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Speaker 1: money so we can keep proving that for you. And

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Speaker 1: that's how they support them system. That's a sad statement, man,

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Speaker 1: But you know what that statement and all I guess

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Speaker 1: what the people that you hate that you think you're

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Speaker 1: better than they did a very American thing. They voted,

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Speaker 1: and they voted, and now your leaders out in Black

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Speaker 1: lives matter, whether you believe it or not, and don't

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Speaker 1: come over here with that mess because we ain't have

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Speaker 1: it it no more. Have a great weekend, Happy birthday,

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Speaker 1: Steve didn't see it. Happy change the game. Yeah, ain't

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Speaker 1: got jiggerhead to sit up, you know. For all Steve

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Speaker 1: Harvey contests, no purchase necessary, void where prohibited. Participants must

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