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Speaker 1: Thank you, nephew. Subject, it was just a suggestion, okay,

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Speaker 1: Carla in the back of my head, saying that, Dear

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Speaker 1: Stephen Shirley, I'm married to a man that is always

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Speaker 1: Last week, things changed and my mouth got me in trouble.

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Speaker 1: I had a bad day and he came in with

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Speaker 1: I told him maybe he should be a man and

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Speaker 1: I want the pea word, yeah, she said, I used

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Speaker 1: was just a suggestion. He unloaded a few hurtful things

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Speaker 1: bothering him? Excuse you? You did not he did not

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Speaker 1: just unleash on you. How dare you call your man,

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Speaker 1: you hit me talking to you that can't cook? Nothing

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Speaker 1: but but but but but breakfast? You yo? Asked? You

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Speaker 1: something else. I promise you, mister Pee, got something for you.

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Speaker 1: Look like you've been a learner someone something. Damn where

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Speaker 1: you've been the learners where you've been? Now learners throw back.

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Speaker 1: It's a lot of story. Hey, this this, this is

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Speaker 1: You know what? You can't You can't do nothing right.

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Speaker 1: You didn't hurt this Peter. You have crushed a man's

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Speaker 1: I am one. That's what you try to tell me.

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Speaker 1: Now that's what I am. Okay, that's okay, Well we'll

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Speaker 1: not none, Yeah I'm not. Yeah. Yeah, he petted, that's

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Speaker 1: will it though? Will it fix it? Will it? Because

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