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Speaker 1: All right.

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Speaker 2: See this one is from Shaye and Nashville. Shay says,

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Speaker 2: I'm a twenty five year old single woman and I've

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Speaker 2: never had a real job. My dad said I'm his

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Speaker 2: responsibility until another man takes me off his hands. My

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Speaker 2: mom is nagging my dad about making me find a

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Speaker 2: job and move out of our home. She told me

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Speaker 2: that I need to be more independent. But she married

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Speaker 2: my dad when she was twenty two and he was

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Speaker 2: forty two and has not worked a day in her life.

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Speaker 2: Why is mom even in this? Well, she has for starters.

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Speaker 2: No for starters.

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Speaker 3: Your mama probably know you ain't got no prospects on

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Speaker 3: the board, huh. Ain't like y'all got a please line

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Speaker 3: up and you picking from it. Your mama has watched

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Speaker 3: you not have a choice, you don't like, you don't

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Speaker 3: have any suitable suitors and plus, ladies, there's nothing wrong

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Speaker 3: with learning how to take care of yourself in the

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Speaker 3: event that you have to take care of yourself. If

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Speaker 3: your whole goal is to be dependent on a man,

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Speaker 3: you've benna, get.

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Speaker 1: Used up a couple of times, get a new goal.

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Speaker 3: So no, I think, why is she in it? Because

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Speaker 3: she's trying to prepare you because life don't go the

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Speaker 3: way you want it to do. No, I mean life

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Speaker 3: don't go the where you want it to. Life just goes.

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Speaker 1: Life be there.

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Speaker 3: And if you don't know, and if you don't never

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Speaker 3: learn how to go with the flow, then you're gonna

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Speaker 3: be in some serious trouble.

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Speaker 1: So I think your mom is absolutely right.

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Speaker 3: Now you can sit there and not work and not

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Speaker 3: get in twenty five and you ain't never worked.

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Speaker 1: Okay, I ain't good.

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Speaker 2: But times are different now than when her mom was

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Speaker 2: twenty two.

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Speaker 1: Absolutely, Okay. Let me ask you a question.

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Speaker 3: Tell me the time period where you don't need no money?

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Speaker 1: Yeah? What that time? Man? Surely?

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Speaker 2: Oh there is no time when you don't need any money.

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Speaker 1: Okay, So she just been at the question.

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Speaker 2: Well, her dad said he she's his responsibility, so he

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Speaker 2: should take some.

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Speaker 3: No, she is his responsibility because he's made her his responsibility.

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Speaker 1: So therefore.

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Speaker 3: What she has done is she's taken advantage of it,

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Speaker 3: and the mama tied of it. Yeah for sure, you're

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Speaker 3: sitting up in here like the princess car.

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Speaker 1: Well yeah see right, yeah, well you need you need

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Speaker 1: a job car.

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Speaker 2: Okay, baby, you're my responsibility.

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Speaker 1: Daddy, I need a new bike. You damn show do

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Speaker 1: a bike?

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Speaker 2: All right, So you're saying that she needs to get

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Speaker 2: out and find her own job. You agree with the mom,

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Speaker 2: not the dad.

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Speaker 3: The dad, I don't know what You're sitting there waiting though,

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Speaker 3: faith with our works is dead.

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Speaker 2: Next question, all right, we do have time for another one, Steve.

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Speaker 2: This is from Antoinette and Meridian. Antoinette says, I've been

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Speaker 2: married four years and I still haven't met my in laws.

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Speaker 2: We talked on the phone maybe once a month, and

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Speaker 2: that's it now. When I finally asked my husband to

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Speaker 2: take me, he admitted that he was ashamed of where

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Speaker 2: he grew up. That's not good enough. That's not a

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Speaker 2: good enough excuse because he's already got me hooked and married.

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Speaker 2: So what could be so bad about his home and

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Speaker 2: his family? Is he hiding something from me?

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Speaker 1: Huh yeah? Yeah yeah? What is he hiding? Hiss that house?

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Speaker 1: What's wrong?

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Speaker 3: Wrong?

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Speaker 1: He know how they are? He? Okay, Yoda, you might

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Speaker 1: leave him after this? That bad? Is that bad? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Here's some people back at that high use. He didn't

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Speaker 1: come to the wedding. They didn't come to the wedding.

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Speaker 1: She said they came to the wedding.

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, yeah yeah, oh no, oh no, they just

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Speaker 3: got married. Yeah he didn't, he didn't invite them or nothing.

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Speaker 1: He knew then for four years.

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Speaker 2: She's never met them. That is crazy.

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Speaker 3: I know she should have, unless like one of Tommy's pranks.

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Speaker 3: He don't want to meet them because if you find out, uh,

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Speaker 3: Tina's real name, your wife, tina real name is Terrell,

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Speaker 3: then that might come out after.

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Speaker 1: That's one of Tommy's pranks. And now.

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Speaker 2: You know, we'll have more on the Steve Harvey Morning

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Speaker 2: Show coming up at twenty minutes after you're listening to

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Speaker 2: the Steve Harvey Morning Show