WEBVTT - Thou Shalt Prepare For Anything

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<v Speaker 1>Hi, and welcome to everywhere. I am your host, Daniel Shaffler.

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<v Speaker 1>The commandment for the week thou shalt be prepared for anything.

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<v Speaker 1>I have this theory about travel. If you prepare yourself

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<v Speaker 1>for just about anything, you can let go of pesky

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<v Speaker 1>expectations and you could just let everywhere unfold. And yes,

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<v Speaker 1>it does in my case, for better or for much better.

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<v Speaker 1>And this is how I felt in Burma, or with

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<v Speaker 1>some people call it these days Mainmar. I deliberately didn't

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<v Speaker 1>fill my schedule with too many activities. I try to

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<v Speaker 1>have no thoughts about this begealing place. I even re

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<v Speaker 1>sisted to think back to Burmese Days, one of my

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<v Speaker 1>favorite or Will books. I just wanted to be open

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<v Speaker 1>to this unexplored country and whatever it wanted to show me.

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<v Speaker 1>Some local food, perhaps hikes in the Grand Mountains, and

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<v Speaker 1>hopefully some pauses in between to meditate. With a recent

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<v Speaker 1>change of power and some very helpful international attention, Burma

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<v Speaker 1>is finding itself somewhere fascinatingly new, and perhaps it may

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<v Speaker 1>even be totally reborn. The country's hope is now riding

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<v Speaker 1>on its lauded hero and freedom fighter San Suki, recipient

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<v Speaker 1>of the Nobel Peace Prize. But of course this hope

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<v Speaker 1>is precarious, to say the least. Perhaps the State Counselor,

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<v Speaker 1>which is really a Prime Minister, Sansuki is now caught

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<v Speaker 1>in a wild crossfire where the facts aren't crystal Conceivably,

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<v Speaker 1>the world should be giving her the benefit of the doubt.

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<v Speaker 1>But then again, power does all kinds of crazy things

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<v Speaker 1>to people. Could she have done more? Almost certainly, it's

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<v Speaker 1>not really imaginable that she couldn't. But how much of

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<v Speaker 1>this genocide, as the United Nations dumped it was or

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<v Speaker 1>is out of her hands in control? And if she

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<v Speaker 1>takes a hard line, could she once again see the

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<v Speaker 1>country fall into military rule? I'm none the less of.

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<v Speaker 1>And then there's the persecution of the Hinga people in

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<v Speaker 1>the north who have been forced to flee to Bangladesh.

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<v Speaker 1>Burma at this very time is a complicated and partly

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<v Speaker 1>dark place, but so was South Africa when Nelson Mandela

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<v Speaker 1>came into power. And as I said, there is always hope.

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<v Speaker 1>Boma has erected their very own symbol of change. But

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<v Speaker 1>this adjustment has not come without a cost to many lives.

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<v Speaker 1>Into the heavily adjusted expectations of the improvement of a

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<v Speaker 1>growing economy. Pausing to think whether your political views should

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<v Speaker 1>dictate your holiday plans. Well, here's your prompt. How does

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<v Speaker 1>the LGBTQ community feel going to a country like Grune

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<v Speaker 1>where it's punishable by death to be gay? And what

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<v Speaker 1>about someone of a certain race or religion who no

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<v Speaker 1>longer feels welcome in America? How do they feel about

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<v Speaker 1>coming here? Hold onto that don't for just a minute

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<v Speaker 1>while I bring on my next interview with Shavo a

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<v Speaker 1>Digion the basis from the band System of a Down,

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<v Speaker 1>who also has the marijuana and CBD brand twenty two brand.

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<v Speaker 1>When I tour, I like, I used to hardly see

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<v Speaker 1>the place. It would be like, play this show, have

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<v Speaker 1>a quick day, and then you're out. It's just recently,

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<v Speaker 1>like the last maybe four years five years where I've

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<v Speaker 1>been touring, and I'm like, wow, I've been missing out

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<v Speaker 1>on like seeing these countries. So it's like I'll wake

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<v Speaker 1>up at six am. Before also, I had other issues.

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<v Speaker 1>I would be drinking, I'd be doing other stuff, so

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<v Speaker 1>I'd be falling sleep at four or five o'clock. By

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<v Speaker 1>the time I'm up by one or two, I'm already

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<v Speaker 1>you know, by over and there's a show. So now

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<v Speaker 1>you know I'm not doing any of that, so boom,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm up, let's go. I go work out first and

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<v Speaker 1>then I go see the city. That's the thing. Now

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<v Speaker 1>My rule is if I travel to whatever place for business,

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<v Speaker 1>I have to add a little playtime. Like it's the rule.

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<v Speaker 1>And sometimes when people are like, oh, there's no time,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm like, I wish I made that rule for

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<v Speaker 1>myself earlier. You know what I mean. I need to

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<v Speaker 1>do my great bro, any influence is good influence for me,

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<v Speaker 1>you know when it comes to like culture, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>gaining culture as I love that. How um, you were

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<v Speaker 1>born in Armenia and your family came over in seventy nights.

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<v Speaker 1>By forty year anniversary, we just had a family reunion

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<v Speaker 1>on Saturday where the clan on my dad's side mostly,

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<v Speaker 1>but I'm talking about my dad's cousins. Like everyone. There

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<v Speaker 1>was like thirty people that moved from but we moved.

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<v Speaker 1>The thing was like the borders were closed in seventy nights,

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<v Speaker 1>so we had to move to Green for the Moscow

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<v Speaker 1>then then Rome we were in room. I remember that

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<v Speaker 1>was five years old, so I was in Rome to

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<v Speaker 1>become as refugees become citizens, and then we were able

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<v Speaker 1>to come. We moved to Queens and I was gonna

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<v Speaker 1>be coaster, but then my mom's side kind of a

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<v Speaker 1>few people that came with my mom stayed in Queens

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<v Speaker 1>and I was in Queen's. My dad's side moved to

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<v Speaker 1>l A, so my dad had to go with his monks.

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<v Speaker 1>My dad dad passed away before I was born, so

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<v Speaker 1>he was the man of the house. I'm not gonna

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<v Speaker 1>leave his mom alone. So there was a gap for

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<v Speaker 1>like a couple of months, and then my mom moved

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<v Speaker 1>us there because I wasn't gonna be raised without a dad.

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<v Speaker 1>That was which God bless her for that, so I can.

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<v Speaker 1>I love my family. Yeah, so I was a Hollywood kid.

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<v Speaker 1>I thirteen thirty six Kingsley Drive, Boom. I'll never forget

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<v Speaker 1>that address because that's the first address I was actually

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<v Speaker 1>like representing, you know, like I mean, the lots of

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<v Speaker 1>Armenians in Los Angeles. It's like a big community. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>my friend Eliza, who's Armenian, talks about it all the time.

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<v Speaker 1>Huge at the time, though it wasn't so huge. And

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<v Speaker 1>it's funny that the street I grew up on is

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<v Speaker 1>now in a community called Little Armenia, But it wasn't

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<v Speaker 1>Little Arminia back then. It was just a little nothing,

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<v Speaker 1>little night. It was a little Hollywood boarded. My parents

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<v Speaker 1>worked over nine to five. It was like eight. My

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<v Speaker 1>dad drove a lunch truck, so he would get up

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<v Speaker 1>at like four am, be at work by five, so

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<v Speaker 1>you can get the breakfast hours. But isn't this this

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<v Speaker 1>is the immigrant experience, right, like this is the thing

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<v Speaker 1>that one bedroom apartment. Until I was fifteen or fourteen

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<v Speaker 1>and just grinding. I saw my parents grinding, and I

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<v Speaker 1>just grew. My Grandma raised me mostly there, you know when,

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<v Speaker 1>because she was the one watching me when my parents

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<v Speaker 1>went around. But I was in the street. Man, I

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<v Speaker 1>was skateboarding. I was skateboarding, and I grew up around

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<v Speaker 1>you know ms that gangster drown. My street was on

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<v Speaker 1>Kingsley and Fountain, so that's where it all started. So

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<v Speaker 1>I would see it and I was. I was inspired.

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<v Speaker 1>I was I wanted to be I swear to God,

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<v Speaker 1>I really at some point I wanted to be a

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<v Speaker 1>part of having a posse this. But they wouldn't. It

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<v Speaker 1>was like they knew I was that kid that was

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<v Speaker 1>a skater and that he wasn't a bad kid. I

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<v Speaker 1>was a good kid that kept me out. Like there

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<v Speaker 1>was brawls going and get involved, and they pushed me

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<v Speaker 1>aside and they would like take a knife or whatever

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<v Speaker 1>a bat and I would just would be why watching this,

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<v Speaker 1>I would see it. Thank God, knock on wood that

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<v Speaker 1>that happened. And so yeah, that's how it happened. And

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<v Speaker 1>I just got I learned, like you know, the Chop

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<v Speaker 1>Suey video was made at a motel that was down

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<v Speaker 1>the street from my street off of Sunset in Kingsley.

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<v Speaker 1>This is about toxicity. The whole album was about like

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<v Speaker 1>l A and all the like the bad things and

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<v Speaker 1>the good things and how people like learned and I

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<v Speaker 1>learned all that stuff. I saw homeless people for the

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<v Speaker 1>first time there. I saw drugs. I saw there. I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't do any but I saw it happened right right

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<v Speaker 1>in my I had a parking lot and there was

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<v Speaker 1>homeless people doing heroin and there I would see that,

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<v Speaker 1>you know. So we went back to that motel and

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<v Speaker 1>they gave it to us for a day and we

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<v Speaker 1>shot the Chop Suey video. Crazy right, So every time

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<v Speaker 1>I watched that video it's not just a video. It's

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<v Speaker 1>like nostalgia. We have to go back to the Armenian

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<v Speaker 1>pond as the child in Armenia. Tell me what that

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<v Speaker 1>was like. My memory is not as good as it

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<v Speaker 1>would because it was I was five years old. I

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<v Speaker 1>remember snow, a lot of snows that play in the

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<v Speaker 1>snow there, and it was snow in Armenia because we're

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<v Speaker 1>a mountain this area, you know. And I remember my family,

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<v Speaker 1>and I remember friends, and I remember where I lived

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<v Speaker 1>and when my grandma lived. Everything else I think I

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<v Speaker 1>know from pictures and then i'll like my mom will

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<v Speaker 1>show a picture and the memory of that picture would

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<v Speaker 1>come up, of like what happened before and after that picture.

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<v Speaker 1>But like I said, most you know, you usually remember

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<v Speaker 1>after four or five years old better. And that's how

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<v Speaker 1>I kind of know if I was if it happened

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<v Speaker 1>to me before five, the yeah, I'm like in Armenia,

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<v Speaker 1>and then I'm not. And then I'm traveling at five

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<v Speaker 1>years old, I'm traveling from like one country to another,

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<v Speaker 1>not knowing the language. Memory. That's crazy. In therapy, they

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<v Speaker 1>tell you a move at a young age is the

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<v Speaker 1>second most traumatic thing that can happen to you. One

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<v Speaker 1>is death and two is a big move. Dude. I

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<v Speaker 1>move countries and not just one. I went from one

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<v Speaker 1>and then I got in Rome and then I at

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<v Speaker 1>that time year five years old, this is home now,

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<v Speaker 1>all sudden, No Queen's okay, this is home now, all

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<v Speaker 1>of a sudden, Hollywood, and that was home, that became home,

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<v Speaker 1>and that was you know that, that is my home.

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<v Speaker 1>How I see it because I learned a lot there. Right,

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<v Speaker 1>So it's trauma, but it's magic. It's magic because you're five.

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<v Speaker 1>So yes, it's traumatic traumatic magic. Great little friend, like

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<v Speaker 1>a traumatic magic. Someone forget magic realism. We're going on

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<v Speaker 1>traumatic magic realistic. Okay, we're gonna do something with that.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes we have so tap into that magic, like do

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<v Speaker 1>you bring it into your music? Do you bring it

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<v Speaker 1>into your life? I must have it, must have gotten

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<v Speaker 1>and it brings a lot out of imagine not knowing

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<v Speaker 1>a language and being put And I've never been away

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<v Speaker 1>from my parents because they've always been close, because I've

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<v Speaker 1>been traveling and so and I'm an only child. I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't have a brother or sister, and all of a sudden,

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<v Speaker 1>I have to go to a public kindergarten and I

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<v Speaker 1>remember talking to my mom and Arminia one second looking away,

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<v Speaker 1>my mom's gone, and there's this American lady going, come

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<v Speaker 1>have a seat, and I'm like, uh huh, what does

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<v Speaker 1>that mean? You know, totally not prepared and just having

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<v Speaker 1>the trauma of like being abandoned. That's how I felt

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<v Speaker 1>in kindergarten. I mean most kids probably feel that way

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<v Speaker 1>in the mom's leading like this is a kid that

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<v Speaker 1>is new to the country and new to the language,

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<v Speaker 1>new to the culture, new to the people, new to everything,

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<v Speaker 1>you know. And it was like jumping in an ocean

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<v Speaker 1>not knowing how to swim and go, okay, let me

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<v Speaker 1>start with the doggy paddle, and I think I'm by

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<v Speaker 1>six seven, I was doing the breaststroke. Look at me, now,

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<v Speaker 1>that's great. How did you like the Armenian genocide? Like,

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<v Speaker 1>how do you think about that? Well, here's what happened

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<v Speaker 1>after that. My parents did some thinking and there was

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<v Speaker 1>an Armenian school in Hollywood called alex Peleebo's and it

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<v Speaker 1>was pretty close to where we lived, where I grew up.

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<v Speaker 1>So they had made some money. They had gotten jobs,

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<v Speaker 1>so they and make some money. So they instead of

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<v Speaker 1>putting that money away for a house one day investment.

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<v Speaker 1>They invested in me and they put the money into schools.

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<v Speaker 1>It was more than the rent to go to a

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<v Speaker 1>private school, so I did that and it made it easier.

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<v Speaker 1>The Armenian school reminded me where I come from and

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<v Speaker 1>my culture and my past, and that's where I started

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<v Speaker 1>learning more about the army and genocide. My parents never

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<v Speaker 1>told me about the army and genocide. Got five years old,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, and so I'm like, you tell your kid,

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<v Speaker 1>by the way, you know, your people were destroyed less

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<v Speaker 1>than seventy years old, you know, ago here and and um,

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<v Speaker 1>that's why you don't know. You don't have a family tree,

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<v Speaker 1>you know. I I found out I don't have a

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<v Speaker 1>family tree because they were all destroyed. That's crazy, right,

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<v Speaker 1>So that became a thing that I always wanted to

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<v Speaker 1>tell people about. I just got lucky that I joined

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<v Speaker 1>a band and started a band with three other Armenians,

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<v Speaker 1>and that became a kind of a mission for a second,

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<v Speaker 1>because at the time, no one even knew what an

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<v Speaker 1>Armenian was, none less knowing about the genocide, right, but

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<v Speaker 1>it took four guys to talk about it. And yeah,

0:13:07.880 --> 0:13:11.680
<v Speaker 1>through the years growing up, every year nine fifteen was

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<v Speaker 1>brought up on every April and every other day around April,

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<v Speaker 1>and then there's the big marches in Hollywood, and that

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<v Speaker 1>was a part of that a lot of times. And

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<v Speaker 1>it made a thing part of my life. You know.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like imagine having a past like that and people

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<v Speaker 1>not recognizing that it is. It wasn't just the fact

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<v Speaker 1>that had happened. It was the fact that the world

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<v Speaker 1>didn't recognize it as a genocide, or as a holocaust,

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<v Speaker 1>or as anything they looked at as casualties of the war.

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<v Speaker 1>What were can night? Our army wasn't part of the war.

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<v Speaker 1>We weren't We weren't fighting anybody. They came and attacked

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<v Speaker 1>us and killed our people at night. They took the

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<v Speaker 1>the scholars and the men, the strong, the priests, the heads,

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<v Speaker 1>the politicians, took them and then told the women and

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<v Speaker 1>children were saving you. We're gonna take you away from this.

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<v Speaker 1>And as they walked, they rape and pillaged and murdered

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<v Speaker 1>and awful things. I don't even talk about it. So

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<v Speaker 1>this lee, learning this at a young age, it's instill

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<v Speaker 1>some craziness in you, right, like, wow, this occurred to

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<v Speaker 1>our people. My great grandma was in there. My great

0:14:13.080 --> 0:14:16.719
<v Speaker 1>grandpa's were in there. That happened to them insane. So

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<v Speaker 1>um fast forward the band. It was our when we

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<v Speaker 1>met up. It was something we all had in the

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<v Speaker 1>back of our minds. It's always there, it's always and

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<v Speaker 1>it was like, let's make it more of you know,

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<v Speaker 1>known to people that this happened to our people. Let's

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<v Speaker 1>just talk about it more. We wrote a song about it,

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<v Speaker 1>and when they asked about the song, we talked about

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<v Speaker 1>it and then we just kind of it became a thing.

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<v Speaker 1>Best reward was on our first tour, we were playing

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<v Speaker 1>Texas and we're in RV, so no security people could

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<v Speaker 1>come and knock on the r V door. Here you

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<v Speaker 1>So it was a kid and his dad. Kid was

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<v Speaker 1>I couldn't be older than thirteen or fourteen, and he

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<v Speaker 1>asked us to sign a history report that he wrote

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<v Speaker 1>on the army and genocide and it was because he

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<v Speaker 1>heard it happened. It was not in anywhere Indes textbooks,

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<v Speaker 1>and he learned of it from us from the song pluck,

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<v Speaker 1>and he went and he did research on it, find

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<v Speaker 1>out wrote this thing are a plus on it, and

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<v Speaker 1>his dad was proud of his dad brought him to us. Saying,

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<v Speaker 1>good for you guys to bring my awareness to my son,

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<v Speaker 1>who he would never have learned that if it wasn't

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<v Speaker 1>for you guys. We imagine that we did pictures with

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<v Speaker 1>the dad and it was like, but no amount of

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<v Speaker 1>Grammys concluding hell, that's the point. So for me, like,

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<v Speaker 1>the thing that I tap into on my show is

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<v Speaker 1>that only through travel are you able to really see

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<v Speaker 1>these things, because otherwise it's just in theory. You need

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<v Speaker 1>to go to Armania to feel what they're feelings, or

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<v Speaker 1>else you would know people here out of touch our

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<v Speaker 1>Meanians here don't know what's going on over there. They

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<v Speaker 1>only know what they're seeing on our mean and tell

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<v Speaker 1>on the Armenian channels or what they're reading on. But

0:15:51.080 --> 0:15:54.720
<v Speaker 1>you know, all that's skewed. Everything is skewed, all medious.

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<v Speaker 1>How crazy is the news outside of America? He is

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<v Speaker 1>totally different than when I'm there. I finally getting news

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<v Speaker 1>around the world. I find out what's happening here. I

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<v Speaker 1>find out what's happening there. People we would never countries

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<v Speaker 1>that we don't talk about in America are talked about

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<v Speaker 1>over there. There exists. There are people in the world

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<v Speaker 1>we only get told about specific countries, or this happening there,

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<v Speaker 1>this happened in Irand, this happened in Afghanistan, This happening

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<v Speaker 1>irand just happening. Okay, what about the rest of the world.

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<v Speaker 1>There's a lot of ship going on there too. You

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<v Speaker 1>could tell us about that too. I'm not saying don't

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<v Speaker 1>tell us abouty around and Afghanistan. There's a lot more

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<v Speaker 1>news out there that we don't hear about. So I

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<v Speaker 1>would love to inspire people to travel, not only to Paris, Italy, China.

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<v Speaker 1>I want you to go to places like Armenia, in

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<v Speaker 1>places like Wow, you're right though, that's crazy, but who

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<v Speaker 1>would But it's your life, you know. It's like most

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<v Speaker 1>people when they have the chance to travel there there Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>the majority of the world doesn't travel as much as

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<v Speaker 1>you do, so they don't get the opportunity or of

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<v Speaker 1>me to do that, because when they get the chance

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<v Speaker 1>to travel, they're like, Oh, we heard of this place

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<v Speaker 1>that's so popular and big, I'm gonna go there. Like

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<v Speaker 1>when I told Jicavo, You're like, I'm not gonna hold

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<v Speaker 1>that again. I get it, because there's so many better

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<v Speaker 1>places to be. What I feel is that travel is

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<v Speaker 1>the thing that taps you into humanity. It's such an

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<v Speaker 1>easy way in whether you're in Carbo you can do

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<v Speaker 1>it at the result, or whether you're going to Armania.

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<v Speaker 1>You can go to Carbo and speak to your barista,

0:17:22.720 --> 0:17:25.600
<v Speaker 1>the guy who's serving Mexican. You could speak to that

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<v Speaker 1>person and be like, oh wait, his a little way

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<v Speaker 1>into the country that I may not get in Carbo

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<v Speaker 1>because it's very commercial. Yeah, I mean it was the fireworks,

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<v Speaker 1>see what I mean. But I like, I really are

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<v Speaker 1>so right where you're people to travel with more of

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<v Speaker 1>that and speak and learn from people. That's what you're saying. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>but like I want to go to Armania and speak

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<v Speaker 1>to people and understand that experience because it's not on

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<v Speaker 1>the tourist hotspots right Like it's but there's the responsibility,

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<v Speaker 1>So let's use effort to do that. It's a gaining

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<v Speaker 1>culture from people, That's what it is. And it's like

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<v Speaker 1>but it's effort. And like I said before, most people

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<v Speaker 1>when they're traveling, they wanna you know, not everyone's thinking

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<v Speaker 1>to do that. Okay, So how do we inspire them

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<v Speaker 1>to make a little more by talking about places and

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<v Speaker 1>talking about like what you know and what you've seen

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<v Speaker 1>and that might make someone who's listening be like, Hey,

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<v Speaker 1>I want to go see that and do that, and

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<v Speaker 1>you are you're you're doing it by what we're doing

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<v Speaker 1>right now. This is what we're doing. Thanks, that's happening.

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<v Speaker 1>We're doing we're doing it right now. Because you can't

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<v Speaker 1>make someone do it, but you can make someone kind

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<v Speaker 1>of envious of you because you can't do it, and

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<v Speaker 1>then make me when they got the minute of they

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<v Speaker 1>if they have the dollar and they can totally go

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<v Speaker 1>because it takes money and time. That's it. You have

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<v Speaker 1>a little bit extra money, you have a little bit

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<v Speaker 1>extra time, you could do what you what you're saying,

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<v Speaker 1>which is so amazing though. I love that. I'm I'm

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<v Speaker 1>gonna be traveling soon, which I'm not gonna I can't

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<v Speaker 1>talk about yet, but I'm looking forward to doing that. Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I want to play, but I'm also looking forward those days.

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<v Speaker 1>You have to promise me that you will. Okay, are

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<v Speaker 1>you kidding me not? I'll send you to I'll call

0:19:05.240 --> 0:19:08.479
<v Speaker 1>your text you. I want to know a little bit

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<v Speaker 1>about travel with the band a little more. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>you've done how many countries, Like you've traveled everywhere a

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<v Speaker 1>lot I haven't counted how many we've been everywhere. Especially

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<v Speaker 1>in the beginning, we would go to the obscure places,

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<v Speaker 1>like when we went to Greece, we'd go to not

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<v Speaker 1>just Athens, we'd go not just to Milan. But we

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<v Speaker 1>hit up smaller regions where maybe the pay wasn't so much,

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<v Speaker 1>but we would still go to get the exposure. Now

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<v Speaker 1>it's more about hitting a mass you know where I

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<v Speaker 1>missed playing the little shows in those little cities instead

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<v Speaker 1>of playing the big ones. Um I remember getting lost

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<v Speaker 1>in Tokyo with my outfit on about to get on stage,

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<v Speaker 1>so I walked downstairs. Um I had just started djaying

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<v Speaker 1>at that time. It was and the club, you know

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<v Speaker 1>how in Tokyo and most of Japan, in the major

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<v Speaker 1>cities like Osaka, because there's no land, so it's built

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<v Speaker 1>like this, right, you know, up and down like a

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<v Speaker 1>mall is like in the building and you go in

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<v Speaker 1>the basement and then you go in like twenty stories up.

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<v Speaker 1>And the club was in a building like that, and

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<v Speaker 1>it was like offices a club stores. There was like

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<v Speaker 1>a hi fi shop downstairs that had to roll in

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<v Speaker 1>five oh five. They had it at a lot cheaper

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<v Speaker 1>than America, you know, and I still we hadn't made

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<v Speaker 1>money yet, you know. It was we haven't made a penny.

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<v Speaker 1>So I was like, guys, because we had we didn't

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<v Speaker 1>have a day off there either, so to play the

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<v Speaker 1>show and go to somewhere else. So I had put

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<v Speaker 1>on my clothes, like my outfit to get on stage.

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<v Speaker 1>At the time, we wore a lot of makeup and stuff.

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<v Speaker 1>And I went downstairs and I bought it. And I

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<v Speaker 1>remember I had to go because I didn't have my

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<v Speaker 1>passport to get the the duty free right. So I said, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna go to the hotel it was right down

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<v Speaker 1>the street, and gonna get the passport and I'm come

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<v Speaker 1>right back. Ran at the hotel, got out of the hotel,

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<v Speaker 1>didn't know this direction to go to, and it all

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<v Speaker 1>looks the same, and here I am. No one knows

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<v Speaker 1>I've left the building. They didn't know. I went back

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<v Speaker 1>to the hotel. And imagine this guy wearing red shirts

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<v Speaker 1>and a white beater, makeup on his face, bald with

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<v Speaker 1>a long go teare walking around the streets to Tokyo

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<v Speaker 1>where it's packed, and I'm asking people and everyone's avoiding me.

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<v Speaker 1>It was like Japanese. They're so polite, but they're like

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<v Speaker 1>they're getting the eye contact and then going like this

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<v Speaker 1>and walking away, you know, like help, help. And then

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<v Speaker 1>at some point I just sat down. I remember someone

0:21:21.680 --> 0:21:25.440
<v Speaker 1>from the club finding me and running me upstairs. That

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't the crazy story, but it's the story that's the

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<v Speaker 1>sweet story. Yeah. Well, thanks for spending at a time

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<v Speaker 1>with me in studio. My pleasure. Yeah, thank you for

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<v Speaker 1>having me. Let's take a break to hear from our

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<v Speaker 1>sponsors and we'll be right back with more travel from everywhere.

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<v Speaker 1>Thanks for sticking around. Let's hop back to Burma for

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<v Speaker 1>a moment. Bordering the brawny China, India and Thailand, it's

0:21:57.160 --> 0:22:00.560
<v Speaker 1>taken Burma an extensive time to start, like seeing some

0:22:00.760 --> 0:22:04.400
<v Speaker 1>of their muscles. With over a hundred and thirty five

0:22:04.520 --> 0:22:08.080
<v Speaker 1>ethnic groups, the Republic of the Union of Mainmar has

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<v Speaker 1>been a place of turmoil in the last few decades,

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<v Speaker 1>with its military rule, blocked bank sanctions from the US

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<v Speaker 1>and a serious halt on almost all tourism, but also

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<v Speaker 1>in the economic sphere, Mainmar sold itself short to its

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<v Speaker 1>neighboring markets and is now fired up to take back

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<v Speaker 1>the reins from manufacturing of machinery and equipment to the

0:22:29.320 --> 0:22:34.600
<v Speaker 1>thing I love most intelligent tourism. Now, with the country

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<v Speaker 1>finally making its debut, tourism is steadily increasing by as

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<v Speaker 1>much as eighteen percent according to the Ministry of Tourism

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<v Speaker 1>last year. Mainmar is writing on what the travel industry

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<v Speaker 1>loves to call in parentheses authentic experiences. And as much

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<v Speaker 1>as I roll my eyes at statements like that, Mainmar

0:22:56.600 --> 0:23:02.760
<v Speaker 1>is decidedly different. As you arrive, you meet locals that

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<v Speaker 1>somehow don't see you as a tourist, but actually as

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<v Speaker 1>a potential friend. Every street corner seemed to offer me that,

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<v Speaker 1>So perhaps I was onto something here. The country is

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<v Speaker 1>oddly receptive to just uncharted adventures, unspoiled, from the heritage

0:23:22.680 --> 0:23:26.080
<v Speaker 1>sites in the cities of Yangon in Mandalay to the

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<v Speaker 1>forest and hills in the north of the country where

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<v Speaker 1>I went on some slow hikes, and right down to

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<v Speaker 1>the white beaches that remain empty for miles and miles

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<v Speaker 1>in the south. The low cost airline industry has also

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<v Speaker 1>taken hold here, with six new airlines starting in the

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<v Speaker 1>last few years, and then, of course, the brand new

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<v Speaker 1>phone networks and semi solid internet connections aiding growth. For

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<v Speaker 1>the first time, cell phones are available to ordinary ARYUS

0:24:00.320 --> 0:24:05.000
<v Speaker 1>citizens to purchase, whereas previously it was reserved for commercial

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<v Speaker 1>use only. The endless posters from telecommunications companies are strewn

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<v Speaker 1>all over Yangon from the airport right into the city center.

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<v Speaker 1>On my first trip there, as I arrived, the country

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<v Speaker 1>received their first batch of SIM cards giving access to

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<v Speaker 1>the Internet. As I walked around town, people were lining

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<v Speaker 1>up to buy them. People were finding out for the

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<v Speaker 1>first time what Facebook was. I wondered, how good or

0:24:37.280 --> 0:24:42.840
<v Speaker 1>how terrible this will turn out for them. Some cards

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<v Speaker 1>used to be thousands of dollars, only the very rich

0:24:45.640 --> 0:24:49.040
<v Speaker 1>could afformed them and rent them. Now, finally some cards

0:24:49.080 --> 0:24:53.840
<v Speaker 1>are cheap, and with the simple world connections streaming, albeit slowly,

0:24:54.480 --> 0:24:57.800
<v Speaker 1>the country, with more than sixty million people, can finally

0:24:58.359 --> 0:25:08.280
<v Speaker 1>ask bigger questions about freedom of speech. With beautiful Buddhist

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<v Speaker 1>temples still fully intact and hundreds of solid gold pagodas

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<v Speaker 1>scattered across the country, the cultural richness invites tourists with

0:25:16.880 --> 0:25:21.359
<v Speaker 1>inexpensive prices from food to lodging. Can you believe the

0:25:21.520 --> 0:25:26.040
<v Speaker 1>insta scammers haven't descended on this place? Maybe we should

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<v Speaker 1>encourage them to approach this whole country differently. I'm open

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<v Speaker 1>to suggestions here. Tricking around Kyokemare, in the northeast of

0:25:36.920 --> 0:25:41.359
<v Speaker 1>the country, growth is evident, although there are no tourists.

0:25:41.680 --> 0:25:44.960
<v Speaker 1>The dirt flawned cafes are filled with locals reading the

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<v Speaker 1>regional newspapers and slowly watching YouTube videos on their brand

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<v Speaker 1>new smartphones. The sweet milky teas are passed along with

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<v Speaker 1>the phones around the cafe and the men, but they're

0:25:58.520 --> 0:26:03.240
<v Speaker 1>rouge beetle juice into the dusty streets. Hundreds of brand

0:26:03.280 --> 0:26:06.199
<v Speaker 1>new bikes shine as they speed through the little village,

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<v Speaker 1>an obvious sign of growth. And all this exciting new blood.

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<v Speaker 1>There was this one cafe that had a dozen computer monitors,

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<v Speaker 1>and at every single one of them sat a young monk,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe aged ten or so, clothed in pink robes, playing

0:26:23.480 --> 0:26:28.520
<v Speaker 1>computer games, watching YouTube videos, or befriending people from across

0:26:28.600 --> 0:26:33.520
<v Speaker 1>the planet on Instagram. The line snaked out of store fronts,

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<v Speaker 1>and people's excitement was washing down the streets, and I

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<v Speaker 1>was doing broth tastings from street vendor to street vendor,

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<v Speaker 1>each with a different family recipe. Watching this amazing thing

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<v Speaker 1>happened in the meantime, Bohmer quickly became my food heaven.

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<v Speaker 1>No photographs allowed set the street vendors. It made me

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<v Speaker 1>smile with such delight. So here's the menu. There was mohinga,

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<v Speaker 1>a fish broth with rice noodles, chickpeas and splashed with

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<v Speaker 1>turmeric and lemongrass, and to this day it is still

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<v Speaker 1>my great obsession. And then, of course the tea leaf

0:27:14.280 --> 0:27:20.639
<v Speaker 1>salad made with fermented tea leaves, nuts, lime cabbage. A

0:27:20.760 --> 0:27:25.399
<v Speaker 1>bitter smile of a dish. My guide Mosett told me

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<v Speaker 1>as he tucked into his bowl of tea leaf salad

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<v Speaker 1>that he thinks that people from rural areas are nicer

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<v Speaker 1>than the people from the cities. They are honest, he said,

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<v Speaker 1>and friendly, and they live away from greed, and that's

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<v Speaker 1>why they are so special. He takes a small number

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<v Speaker 1>of tourists into the wilderness near the village that he

0:27:46.640 --> 0:27:50.800
<v Speaker 1>was born in and encourages them to meditate whilst tracking.

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<v Speaker 1>Before becoming a guide, like so many Burmese boys, he

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<v Speaker 1>was a monk and received his free education and ink

0:28:00.320 --> 0:28:03.480
<v Speaker 1>language skills at a Buddhist center in the forest. He

0:28:03.600 --> 0:28:06.159
<v Speaker 1>told me that men Mars people remain religious in the

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<v Speaker 1>most charming and engaging way. Their temples are cozy, each

0:28:11.400 --> 0:28:15.159
<v Speaker 1>one almost like a little neighborhood onto itself. Buddhists go

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<v Speaker 1>to their temples not only to worship, but also for

0:28:18.320 --> 0:28:23.040
<v Speaker 1>afternoon naps and casual gatherings over tea. Of course, that

0:28:23.240 --> 0:28:26.840
<v Speaker 1>is exactly what I had in mind too, a new religion.

0:28:27.080 --> 0:28:31.280
<v Speaker 1>Perhaps the way of life for Meanmar people is hard,

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<v Speaker 1>it seems to me. They have to struggle each day

0:28:34.960 --> 0:28:39.520
<v Speaker 1>to survive. But somehow there seems to be a contentment.

0:28:40.640 --> 0:28:45.040
<v Speaker 1>Perhaps this hope their new prime minister has brought has

0:28:45.160 --> 0:28:49.440
<v Speaker 1>changed things. In the villages five hours walk from the

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<v Speaker 1>nearest town, life is uncomplicated for its inhabitants. Mornings start

0:28:55.000 --> 0:28:57.840
<v Speaker 1>at four am when the cattle are released and the

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<v Speaker 1>smells of open fire cooking start. They wafts from inside

0:29:01.920 --> 0:29:06.480
<v Speaker 1>their wooden homes. Locals cook their national dish La pete,

0:29:07.120 --> 0:29:11.400
<v Speaker 1>a mixture of pickled tea leaves, roasted nuts, green chilies,

0:29:11.880 --> 0:29:16.520
<v Speaker 1>sometimes dried shrimp, and beat a larva with vegetables. And

0:29:16.640 --> 0:29:20.360
<v Speaker 1>they topped this off with plenty of fresh lime. And

0:29:20.480 --> 0:29:22.920
<v Speaker 1>here the customers to share it with anyone that comes

0:29:22.960 --> 0:29:25.600
<v Speaker 1>into your home, which is of course what I did.

0:29:26.080 --> 0:29:30.040
<v Speaker 1>I went into everyone's homes. I slept on their sheepskin rugs,

0:29:30.680 --> 0:29:33.400
<v Speaker 1>and since I was unable to speak the language, I

0:29:33.560 --> 0:29:36.920
<v Speaker 1>just kept smiling from ear to ear all the time

0:29:37.480 --> 0:29:41.800
<v Speaker 1>like an idiot. As I was understanding more about the

0:29:41.920 --> 0:29:44.680
<v Speaker 1>gorgious country, I discovered that one of the government's plans

0:29:44.800 --> 0:29:48.480
<v Speaker 1>is to open up restricted areas and allow some selective

0:29:48.520 --> 0:29:52.120
<v Speaker 1>tourism to venture in. With the world hungry for new

0:29:52.240 --> 0:29:56.760
<v Speaker 1>destinations and explorers wanting to find this new frontier as

0:29:56.840 --> 0:30:00.480
<v Speaker 1>we should with the madness of over tourism, it is

0:30:00.560 --> 0:30:06.080
<v Speaker 1>perhaps Burma that holds the right golden key, with the

0:30:06.160 --> 0:30:09.840
<v Speaker 1>correct attitude, who wants tourism a high quality approach and

0:30:09.960 --> 0:30:13.440
<v Speaker 1>not allowing for a destruction of all this beauty. Burma

0:30:13.520 --> 0:30:16.840
<v Speaker 1>might be the next paradise. Let's see what the very

0:30:16.960 --> 0:30:22.640
<v Speaker 1>near future holds. It's funny. I put down my smartphone

0:30:22.720 --> 0:30:27.680
<v Speaker 1>and prepared myself for just about anything and everything as

0:30:27.760 --> 0:30:32.320
<v Speaker 1>the country was picking up their smartphone one at a time.

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<v Speaker 1>That's kiss Smith. I'm in Toronto, the great city of Canada,

0:30:45.360 --> 0:30:48.760
<v Speaker 1>and I'm with my new friends Aaron and Katie, who

0:30:48.880 --> 0:30:53.680
<v Speaker 1>also have a podcast called al Packing My Bags. We

0:30:53.840 --> 0:30:58.160
<v Speaker 1>talk about ideas of bringing attention to the border and

0:30:58.280 --> 0:31:04.560
<v Speaker 1>how you really can almost not prepare for anything. I

0:31:04.680 --> 0:31:08.760
<v Speaker 1>just flew in from New York. We're in Toronto. We're

0:31:08.880 --> 0:31:12.320
<v Speaker 1>at the gorgeous library downtown, and I'm with my new

0:31:12.480 --> 0:31:16.760
<v Speaker 1>friend Aaron, who has an amazing show called I'll Pack

0:31:16.840 --> 0:31:20.520
<v Speaker 1>in My Bags. Yes, I flew to Toronto to come

0:31:20.560 --> 0:31:22.840
<v Speaker 1>and hang out with you because I love your show

0:31:23.160 --> 0:31:26.120
<v Speaker 1>and because I thank your super smart and very nice,

0:31:26.320 --> 0:31:28.400
<v Speaker 1>and I love the Canucks. So what can I say?

0:31:29.440 --> 0:31:32.400
<v Speaker 1>The feeling is very, very mutual. So thanks for having me,

0:31:33.040 --> 0:31:36.080
<v Speaker 1>Thanks for having me. I think we need to stop

0:31:36.120 --> 0:31:38.800
<v Speaker 1>by giving people a little idea of what you do

0:31:39.760 --> 0:31:44.440
<v Speaker 1>and how you do travel differently. Sure, I have been

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<v Speaker 1>traveling since I was really young, and I would say

0:31:48.120 --> 0:31:53.040
<v Speaker 1>that it's been a journey in learning about myself travel.

0:31:53.440 --> 0:31:56.040
<v Speaker 1>As much as it's been like literally a journey around

0:31:56.040 --> 0:31:59.280
<v Speaker 1>the world, it's also been a journey and learning who

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<v Speaker 1>I am, gaining confidence in myself, and becoming empowered in

0:32:03.480 --> 0:32:06.400
<v Speaker 1>a way that I definitely wasn't when I was younger.

0:32:06.880 --> 0:32:09.520
<v Speaker 1>And so the way that I've thought about travel has

0:32:09.560 --> 0:32:12.800
<v Speaker 1>really evolved the more that I've traveled, and I think

0:32:12.960 --> 0:32:16.800
<v Speaker 1>in my later age, I became more critical of travel

0:32:17.240 --> 0:32:20.040
<v Speaker 1>and the way that we travel, and I've in recent

0:32:20.160 --> 0:32:23.280
<v Speaker 1>years been trying to challenge that in a way that

0:32:23.360 --> 0:32:25.040
<v Speaker 1>I didn't when I was younger. When I was younger,

0:32:25.080 --> 0:32:27.440
<v Speaker 1>I was really into the like oh yes, let's stay

0:32:27.440 --> 0:32:30.040
<v Speaker 1>in the party hostel and like go up for beers

0:32:30.120 --> 0:32:32.680
<v Speaker 1>till four in the morning. And now I'm more about

0:32:33.240 --> 0:32:37.560
<v Speaker 1>slow travel two places that aren't on top ten lists.

0:32:38.160 --> 0:32:42.800
<v Speaker 1>And I like to observe and think about identity a

0:32:42.920 --> 0:32:45.640
<v Speaker 1>lot as I travel, and that's a lot of what

0:32:45.760 --> 0:32:49.320
<v Speaker 1>the podcast that we host is about. It's about challenging

0:32:49.440 --> 0:32:52.480
<v Speaker 1>people to think about the world through a lens that

0:32:52.600 --> 0:32:55.840
<v Speaker 1>isn't their own. So, for example, like I live the

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<v Speaker 1>world as assist gender white woman, and that impact the

0:33:00.240 --> 0:33:02.600
<v Speaker 1>way that I travel in the the experiences that I

0:33:02.680 --> 0:33:05.640
<v Speaker 1>have as I travel, And through this podcast, we try

0:33:05.720 --> 0:33:08.600
<v Speaker 1>to talk to people to find out how our experiences

0:33:08.720 --> 0:33:11.880
<v Speaker 1>differ from theirs. This is why we're friends, this is why.

0:33:12.000 --> 0:33:15.600
<v Speaker 1>This is the exact reason why I adored you from

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<v Speaker 1>first listen. I'm so glad. I'm always looking for people

0:33:20.160 --> 0:33:22.880
<v Speaker 1>that are doing things differently. They are staying away from

0:33:22.920 --> 0:33:26.040
<v Speaker 1>the list that appeals to me in a way that

0:33:26.360 --> 0:33:29.800
<v Speaker 1>that sits deep in my heart. Your belief system and

0:33:29.880 --> 0:33:33.680
<v Speaker 1>my belief system touch each other, and I think the

0:33:33.840 --> 0:33:37.000
<v Speaker 1>tricky part about that is it does form part of

0:33:37.080 --> 0:33:39.960
<v Speaker 1>a little bubble that you and I are in. We

0:33:40.120 --> 0:33:44.040
<v Speaker 1>live in in a tiny little existence where you try

0:33:44.240 --> 0:33:49.680
<v Speaker 1>and reaffirm your beliefs around every corner, and travel has

0:33:49.720 --> 0:33:53.080
<v Speaker 1>this amazing ability to take you out of that, to

0:33:53.240 --> 0:33:57.240
<v Speaker 1>show you, Oh, let me challenge my beliefs, let me

0:33:57.600 --> 0:34:01.200
<v Speaker 1>throw out these ideas and start again. And sometimes you

0:34:01.360 --> 0:34:04.080
<v Speaker 1>end up at the same place, but then you know

0:34:04.200 --> 0:34:07.280
<v Speaker 1>it's true because you've erased it and redrawn it in

0:34:07.400 --> 0:34:10.640
<v Speaker 1>exactly the same way. Yeah. Absolutely, And you're right. It's

0:34:10.680 --> 0:34:12.920
<v Speaker 1>so easy to get caught up in this echo chamber

0:34:13.000 --> 0:34:15.000
<v Speaker 1>where it's just the same kind of media that you're

0:34:15.000 --> 0:34:18.439
<v Speaker 1>consuming at all times. The minute I knew I really

0:34:18.520 --> 0:34:20.520
<v Speaker 1>liked you is when I heard you speak on your

0:34:20.600 --> 0:34:24.160
<v Speaker 1>podcast about how you feel about travel influencers, and that,

0:34:24.320 --> 0:34:26.960
<v Speaker 1>to me is the prime example of an echo chamber

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<v Speaker 1>within the travel industry, because these influencers are portraying a

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<v Speaker 1>very very specific and inaccessible experience of travel that shows

0:34:36.680 --> 0:34:41.480
<v Speaker 1>one side of a very very complicated experience, and it

0:34:41.760 --> 0:34:46.880
<v Speaker 1>quite infuriates me right. Well, the classic insta scamma photo

0:34:47.600 --> 0:34:54.279
<v Speaker 1>is the Maldives over water bungalow with set person or

0:34:54.440 --> 0:34:58.479
<v Speaker 1>persons doing some activity, and people like that, and people

0:34:58.560 --> 0:35:02.040
<v Speaker 1>like to live in the glossy world. But I think

0:35:02.480 --> 0:35:05.600
<v Speaker 1>my job is to remind people that, yes, travel is

0:35:05.640 --> 0:35:08.560
<v Speaker 1>glamorous and fabulous, and who doesn't love a hotel the

0:35:08.760 --> 0:35:13.680
<v Speaker 1>fabulous result. But I need to know more than just

0:35:14.200 --> 0:35:17.160
<v Speaker 1>the surface ship and travel doesn't want to do that.

0:35:17.320 --> 0:35:22.040
<v Speaker 1>Travel is caught in an aspirational place, and I'd like

0:35:22.160 --> 0:35:24.480
<v Speaker 1>to challenge us to get out of that. The problem

0:35:24.520 --> 0:35:26.399
<v Speaker 1>is I sound preachy. The thing is like, I don't

0:35:26.400 --> 0:35:28.920
<v Speaker 1>want to sound preachy, like I just want to build

0:35:29.080 --> 0:35:31.960
<v Speaker 1>something better than me, something that's more than me. Right,

0:35:32.040 --> 0:35:34.680
<v Speaker 1>you understand this, I totally understand. I think as soon

0:35:34.760 --> 0:35:37.520
<v Speaker 1>as you share an opinion, you're right to be considered

0:35:37.760 --> 0:35:40.839
<v Speaker 1>a preacher. No matter what you're talking about, no matter

0:35:41.440 --> 0:35:45.080
<v Speaker 1>who is listening, there's always someone who will hear what

0:35:45.200 --> 0:35:49.040
<v Speaker 1>you're saying as preaching because it goes against their own belief.

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<v Speaker 1>This has been my experience. Well, I love to think

0:35:52.520 --> 0:35:55.360
<v Speaker 1>that my opinion is wrong, so I love to like

0:35:56.000 --> 0:35:58.920
<v Speaker 1>give my opinion and then be shown that my opinion

0:35:59.080 --> 0:36:01.640
<v Speaker 1>was wrong. It's my favorite thing. My husband does it

0:36:01.760 --> 0:36:03.879
<v Speaker 1>to me all the time. I'll say something and you'll

0:36:03.920 --> 0:36:07.080
<v Speaker 1>be like, god, Daniel, have you really thought about this?

0:36:07.239 --> 0:36:10.880
<v Speaker 1>This is such emotional crap. And he'll unpack it for

0:36:11.000 --> 0:36:14.239
<v Speaker 1>me and I'll go, oh, yeah, my opinion is totally wrong. Great,

0:36:14.400 --> 0:36:17.640
<v Speaker 1>thank you, And I ad just because maybe we spend

0:36:17.719 --> 0:36:20.960
<v Speaker 1>too much of our time trying to tell our story

0:36:21.320 --> 0:36:25.400
<v Speaker 1>opposed to receiving the story. And this is what I

0:36:25.440 --> 0:36:28.719
<v Speaker 1>want to inspire people to travel, right, And I think

0:36:28.760 --> 0:36:30.319
<v Speaker 1>you make a really good point, and this is something

0:36:30.400 --> 0:36:34.400
<v Speaker 1>we've discussed on I'll packet before. Travel is about listening

0:36:34.480 --> 0:36:38.400
<v Speaker 1>and learning, and while you're traveling, the best way to

0:36:38.719 --> 0:36:41.719
<v Speaker 1>learn is by listening to the people around you, whether

0:36:41.840 --> 0:36:45.120
<v Speaker 1>that's another traveler that you meet in a hostel, or

0:36:45.440 --> 0:36:48.600
<v Speaker 1>a cab driver or someone who's sitting next to you

0:36:48.840 --> 0:36:52.640
<v Speaker 1>on a bus. I've learned the most incredible things about

0:36:53.080 --> 0:36:56.520
<v Speaker 1>countries that I've visited just by listening while I'm there.

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<v Speaker 1>More so than what I can google before I find

0:37:00.560 --> 0:37:02.920
<v Speaker 1>what I learned while I'm actually living, the experience is

0:37:02.960 --> 0:37:06.480
<v Speaker 1>so much more insightful and interesting. I'm gonna pause this

0:37:06.680 --> 0:37:09.520
<v Speaker 1>right here for a moment for our sponsors to weigh in,

0:37:10.360 --> 0:37:13.080
<v Speaker 1>but do come back to hear more about where I've

0:37:13.160 --> 0:37:16.560
<v Speaker 1>been scooting around this week. The time has come for

0:37:16.719 --> 0:37:20.360
<v Speaker 1>more of everywhere and now back to Alpaca My Bags,

0:37:20.719 --> 0:37:24.840
<v Speaker 1>the podcast from Canada. What is one of the greatest

0:37:25.040 --> 0:37:30.759
<v Speaker 1>lessons you've learned whilst on the road? Um, One of

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<v Speaker 1>the greatest things that I've learned traveling is that you

0:37:34.600 --> 0:37:38.440
<v Speaker 1>can only prepare to be unprepared. And by that I

0:37:38.560 --> 0:37:42.799
<v Speaker 1>mean you can never know what you will encounter, who

0:37:42.880 --> 0:37:46.800
<v Speaker 1>you will encounter, what things will go wrong while you're traveling.

0:37:47.280 --> 0:37:50.600
<v Speaker 1>And so I think I've learned, and it's through a

0:37:50.719 --> 0:37:53.560
<v Speaker 1>number of experiences that have taught me that it's about

0:37:53.600 --> 0:37:57.520
<v Speaker 1>your mental state and going into a trip or a

0:37:57.680 --> 0:38:01.400
<v Speaker 1>place knowing that you have no clue what will happen.

0:38:01.560 --> 0:38:06.320
<v Speaker 1>You can plan to no end, but plans change. I

0:38:06.440 --> 0:38:09.800
<v Speaker 1>love that very quickly, about that feeling. I think about

0:38:09.840 --> 0:38:14.400
<v Speaker 1>those moments even in like Bolivia, on a train, on

0:38:14.600 --> 0:38:19.000
<v Speaker 1>a bus, on an alpaca. You know, I think like,

0:38:19.920 --> 0:38:23.320
<v Speaker 1>what magic is here? Let me just see? And I

0:38:23.480 --> 0:38:27.400
<v Speaker 1>do obviously plan stuff, but I find that when I

0:38:27.560 --> 0:38:31.359
<v Speaker 1>stop the planning, all this stuff starts to happen, which

0:38:31.480 --> 0:38:34.960
<v Speaker 1>you just can't foresee. I am so grateful that I

0:38:35.040 --> 0:38:37.480
<v Speaker 1>have this in my life because I have friends in

0:38:37.600 --> 0:38:40.920
<v Speaker 1>every city because I'm just open making friends. Come on,

0:38:41.400 --> 0:38:43.919
<v Speaker 1>bring it and some of duds. It's true, Michael says

0:38:43.920 --> 0:38:46.560
<v Speaker 1>to me, I have to, like, you know, weave through

0:38:46.640 --> 0:38:48.879
<v Speaker 1>some of these crazy people you pick up along the way,

0:38:49.440 --> 0:38:52.759
<v Speaker 1>but for the most part, like I mean, such wonderful

0:38:53.600 --> 0:38:57.200
<v Speaker 1>humans that are willing to challenge me. This morning, I

0:38:57.320 --> 0:39:00.920
<v Speaker 1>walked l on the trail up in west Chester and

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<v Speaker 1>I meant the loveliest woman and we talked and I

0:39:03.680 --> 0:39:06.840
<v Speaker 1>walked with her and she's looking after her son's dog

0:39:06.960 --> 0:39:09.480
<v Speaker 1>and we just chatted and I gave her my number

0:39:10.200 --> 0:39:12.040
<v Speaker 1>and she texted me early and she was like, what

0:39:12.160 --> 0:39:17.960
<v Speaker 1>a delight, And I was like, ah, kiss meat. It's beautiful. Yes,

0:39:18.120 --> 0:39:19.759
<v Speaker 1>I think this is why I fell in love with

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<v Speaker 1>hostels so much. I know you have mentioned hostels, but

0:39:23.320 --> 0:39:27.600
<v Speaker 1>I know, and it's funny because I don't financially need

0:39:27.760 --> 0:39:30.480
<v Speaker 1>to stay in hostles anymore. I can't afford a hotel,

0:39:30.920 --> 0:39:34.080
<v Speaker 1>but I often choose to stay in a hostel, and

0:39:34.160 --> 0:39:38.200
<v Speaker 1>the reason is because I meet such incredible people. Some

0:39:38.400 --> 0:39:41.040
<v Speaker 1>of the greatest friends that I have. I have met

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<v Speaker 1>in a hostel and known for a brief amount of time,

0:39:45.120 --> 0:39:47.920
<v Speaker 1>and we have continued to stay in touch over the years.

0:39:48.440 --> 0:39:50.600
<v Speaker 1>And like you, I have friends all over the planet

0:39:50.840 --> 0:39:53.640
<v Speaker 1>that I've known for a little snippet of time. We

0:39:53.760 --> 0:39:56.759
<v Speaker 1>shared some beautiful moments together in a foreign city, and

0:39:56.880 --> 0:40:00.319
<v Speaker 1>we continue to be close. That's so funny. My friend

0:40:00.400 --> 0:40:04.879
<v Speaker 1>Maggie Castella is texting us right now. I'm free. Come

0:40:04.920 --> 0:40:10.719
<v Speaker 1>where I am. We shall, we shall come to you shantly. Well,

0:40:11.160 --> 0:40:13.560
<v Speaker 1>just to go back to the hostile thing? Should I

0:40:13.600 --> 0:40:17.239
<v Speaker 1>admit this? I never stayed at all, you have not,

0:40:18.120 --> 0:40:20.320
<v Speaker 1>so I guess I'll have to. Now I'm going to

0:40:20.400 --> 0:40:22.799
<v Speaker 1>make sure you do. You and I we have a plan. Okay.

0:40:22.800 --> 0:40:25.879
<v Speaker 1>I'll come stay at a hostel with you anyway you want, well,

0:40:26.120 --> 0:40:28.120
<v Speaker 1>random city in the world, and I'll pick the hostel.

0:40:29.080 --> 0:40:32.640
<v Speaker 1>I'll pick the city, you pick the hostel. I like

0:40:32.800 --> 0:40:34.919
<v Speaker 1>that idea. I mean, as a travel right, I often

0:40:34.960 --> 0:40:38.200
<v Speaker 1>talk about how one should do everything and not stay.

0:40:38.320 --> 0:40:41.319
<v Speaker 1>No one's ever invited me to a hostel, so that's

0:40:41.360 --> 0:40:44.320
<v Speaker 1>probably why I haven't been. Is your official invitation? Thank you?

0:40:44.719 --> 0:40:47.160
<v Speaker 1>Am I getting one in the mail? Guess I can

0:40:47.239 --> 0:40:51.440
<v Speaker 1>arrange that I feel like, um, I never say no,

0:40:51.920 --> 0:40:56.240
<v Speaker 1>like cruise shiving okay, river rafting in the Amazon okay,

0:40:57.200 --> 0:40:59.680
<v Speaker 1>and some of the stuff. When I tell Michael that

0:40:59.719 --> 0:41:02.480
<v Speaker 1>I'm an to do that, He's like, you're insane. You're insane,

0:41:02.520 --> 0:41:04.360
<v Speaker 1>that's crazy. I would never do that. You know, like

0:41:04.480 --> 0:41:10.040
<v Speaker 1>ten days horse riding across the step of Mongolia s insanity.

0:41:10.360 --> 0:41:14.279
<v Speaker 1>It's fabulous. Do you feel that you were like this

0:41:14.520 --> 0:41:17.279
<v Speaker 1>always or is this something that you've become better at

0:41:17.320 --> 0:41:20.439
<v Speaker 1>the more that you've traveled. I would like to think

0:41:20.480 --> 0:41:22.920
<v Speaker 1>that I've always been like that, but the truth is

0:41:23.040 --> 0:41:26.080
<v Speaker 1>that I probably have become better because you see that

0:41:26.200 --> 0:41:29.040
<v Speaker 1>it works, so you keep wanting more. I mean, I'm

0:41:29.080 --> 0:41:31.920
<v Speaker 1>an addict, right Like, I'm a total addict, but I'm

0:41:31.920 --> 0:41:36.400
<v Speaker 1>okay with that. I try to change my addictional travel

0:41:36.640 --> 0:41:41.560
<v Speaker 1>and turn it into something positive and show that there's

0:41:41.560 --> 0:41:44.880
<v Speaker 1>a self care element here. What it really is is

0:41:45.280 --> 0:41:48.960
<v Speaker 1>a desire to challenge myself because I want to. I

0:41:49.080 --> 0:41:50.840
<v Speaker 1>want to be better in this world. I want to

0:41:50.920 --> 0:41:53.240
<v Speaker 1>contribute more. I want to be able to make a change.

0:41:53.880 --> 0:41:56.799
<v Speaker 1>I want to inspire people to get off the list

0:41:57.360 --> 0:41:59.640
<v Speaker 1>and to think about travel as a way to find

0:41:59.719 --> 0:42:04.200
<v Speaker 1>them else because it's free. Basically, you could travel to

0:42:04.360 --> 0:42:08.239
<v Speaker 1>Prince Edward County an hour two hours from here and

0:42:08.360 --> 0:42:10.960
<v Speaker 1>have the most magical time of your life. I've been

0:42:11.040 --> 0:42:14.160
<v Speaker 1>to Drake on the Lake that's right here. Anyone can

0:42:14.200 --> 0:42:16.120
<v Speaker 1>do that. You can hop on a train and go

0:42:16.280 --> 0:42:18.640
<v Speaker 1>do it for basically no money. You can go camp

0:42:18.719 --> 0:42:20.279
<v Speaker 1>out that like, I think that you could do it

0:42:20.360 --> 0:42:22.160
<v Speaker 1>for a weekend for less than a hundred dollars if

0:42:22.200 --> 0:42:25.160
<v Speaker 1>you can't doubt that, right, So, like, it's not about

0:42:25.160 --> 0:42:28.000
<v Speaker 1>the money, it's about are you willing to go and

0:42:28.160 --> 0:42:32.320
<v Speaker 1>do that uncover yourself. Yeah. A good example of that,

0:42:32.440 --> 0:42:35.560
<v Speaker 1>I think is if we're going to talk specifically about Toronto.

0:42:36.160 --> 0:42:38.880
<v Speaker 1>I have lived in Toronto for so many years and

0:42:39.120 --> 0:42:42.320
<v Speaker 1>had always heard about this place. It's called the Scarborough

0:42:42.520 --> 0:42:47.920
<v Speaker 1>Bluffs and it's very instagram able location actually because it

0:42:48.040 --> 0:42:51.560
<v Speaker 1>doesn't look like Toronto. It has these beautiful white cliffs

0:42:52.080 --> 0:42:55.759
<v Speaker 1>that overlook the lake and it truly looks like you

0:42:56.239 --> 0:42:59.680
<v Speaker 1>are on the ocean. And I had heard about this

0:42:59.760 --> 0:43:02.279
<v Speaker 1>place so often and it was always in the back

0:43:02.360 --> 0:43:05.520
<v Speaker 1>of my mind that I should go. Because it takes

0:43:05.560 --> 0:43:08.440
<v Speaker 1>an hour to get there on the subway, it's so

0:43:08.600 --> 0:43:11.480
<v Speaker 1>easy to get there, so I had to really put

0:43:11.560 --> 0:43:14.319
<v Speaker 1>effort into it. One day I thought like, twirl, I'm

0:43:14.400 --> 0:43:17.640
<v Speaker 1>going to Scarborough Bluffs. And I told my partner tomorrow morning,

0:43:17.719 --> 0:43:20.320
<v Speaker 1>we're getting up, we're not sleeping in, We're going to

0:43:20.400 --> 0:43:23.000
<v Speaker 1>the subway and we're going to go to Scarborough Bluffs.

0:43:23.200 --> 0:43:26.840
<v Speaker 1>And he was like, that sounds absurd. It's so far away.

0:43:27.239 --> 0:43:29.719
<v Speaker 1>And I told him, Lucas like, it's an hour, it's

0:43:29.800 --> 0:43:33.279
<v Speaker 1>not that far. We've never been. It looks incredible, it's

0:43:33.400 --> 0:43:36.440
<v Speaker 1>right in our backyard. Let's go. And we made the

0:43:36.560 --> 0:43:39.080
<v Speaker 1>journey and it was very long, and we did get

0:43:39.160 --> 0:43:41.919
<v Speaker 1>lost along the way, but it cost us three dollars there,

0:43:42.239 --> 0:43:45.000
<v Speaker 1>three dollars back, and it was well worth it. Wow.

0:43:45.400 --> 0:43:50.880
<v Speaker 1>I guess who in Scarborough Bluffs. Maggie, Maggie Casilla. You know,

0:43:51.520 --> 0:43:55.200
<v Speaker 1>it's funny, like she's become a sort of my filt

0:43:55.280 --> 0:43:59.640
<v Speaker 1>of Canada. Is her like an open minded, hysterically funny human.

0:44:00.000 --> 0:44:01.920
<v Speaker 1>And then I'm like, that's what the Canadians are like,

0:44:02.120 --> 0:44:04.040
<v Speaker 1>you know, they're like so funny and polite and lovely.

0:44:05.320 --> 0:44:08.520
<v Speaker 1>It's true, but I will say it's a stereo type.

0:44:08.560 --> 0:44:12.400
<v Speaker 1>I get it, it is, but it's also I'll admit

0:44:12.480 --> 0:44:15.560
<v Speaker 1>I find it problematic sometimes because often when I travel,

0:44:15.680 --> 0:44:18.960
<v Speaker 1>people say to me, oh, you're from Canada. Canada is

0:44:19.000 --> 0:44:22.160
<v Speaker 1>so amazing, you have an amazing prime minister, you are

0:44:22.239 --> 0:44:25.279
<v Speaker 1>so great to people, You're so open minded. But the

0:44:25.360 --> 0:44:29.200
<v Speaker 1>reality is that it is true, especially in cities, but

0:44:29.360 --> 0:44:32.680
<v Speaker 1>we do have our issues. So it almost feels like

0:44:32.840 --> 0:44:37.200
<v Speaker 1>people they're washing it away, thinking like they are no issues,

0:44:37.280 --> 0:44:40.719
<v Speaker 1>look at trade. It's so that they glorify. I think

0:44:40.760 --> 0:44:43.200
<v Speaker 1>that Canada is often glorified, and I think it could

0:44:43.239 --> 0:44:46.319
<v Speaker 1>be because in comparison to what's happening south of US,

0:44:46.719 --> 0:44:48.640
<v Speaker 1>we do look really great. But that doesn't mean that

0:44:48.719 --> 0:44:52.160
<v Speaker 1>we don't have immigration problems here as well problems. I mean,

0:44:52.200 --> 0:44:54.480
<v Speaker 1>you've done it so much better than most other countries,

0:44:54.560 --> 0:44:58.920
<v Speaker 1>but they are still problems. I mean, from the outside in,

0:45:00.080 --> 0:45:02.800
<v Speaker 1>it does feel like I was leaving gilly Head this

0:45:03.000 --> 0:45:08.960
<v Speaker 1>morning and I was reading something fascinating this morning. It

0:45:09.160 --> 0:45:11.840
<v Speaker 1>was like, maybe we were all too busy thinking we

0:45:11.960 --> 0:45:20.120
<v Speaker 1>are handmaids when we are actually aunts. Fuck that flawed me.

0:45:21.040 --> 0:45:24.480
<v Speaker 1>I nearly lost my balance when I read that in

0:45:24.520 --> 0:45:27.720
<v Speaker 1>The New Yorker. It was the review of Margaret Atwood's

0:45:27.719 --> 0:45:30.279
<v Speaker 1>new book I'm gonna have to sit with that for

0:45:30.320 --> 0:45:32.479
<v Speaker 1>a little bit to think about it. So I haven't

0:45:32.560 --> 0:45:36.319
<v Speaker 1>really processed all of that, but it did feel very

0:45:36.480 --> 0:45:39.759
<v Speaker 1>good to uncover that, to stop thinking about that. And

0:45:39.840 --> 0:45:41.680
<v Speaker 1>of course at that moment, it was the perfect moment

0:45:41.719 --> 0:45:44.799
<v Speaker 1>to read it because I was flying from gilly Head

0:45:45.200 --> 0:45:51.040
<v Speaker 1>into Canada and I was wondering about immigration and how

0:45:51.760 --> 0:45:54.320
<v Speaker 1>this is not new. What's happening at the border, the

0:45:54.400 --> 0:45:58.520
<v Speaker 1>southern border of America is not new. It's happened for centuries,

0:45:59.120 --> 0:46:03.680
<v Speaker 1>and it opened in Asia, happen in Europe, happen Africa

0:46:04.000 --> 0:46:08.439
<v Speaker 1>to African tribes. It's human nature. So instead of trying

0:46:08.480 --> 0:46:11.560
<v Speaker 1>to fight human nature, we have to find a way. Two.

0:46:12.480 --> 0:46:14.279
<v Speaker 1>I don't know what are we supposed to do. We're

0:46:14.320 --> 0:46:16.920
<v Speaker 1>supposed to bring awareness to it. So should we go

0:46:17.080 --> 0:46:19.600
<v Speaker 1>travel to the board and see bring awareness to it,

0:46:19.800 --> 0:46:22.839
<v Speaker 1>make that a travel destination. I don't know. I can't tell,

0:46:23.320 --> 0:46:25.320
<v Speaker 1>but to me, it's like I would ratherther go and

0:46:25.480 --> 0:46:29.680
<v Speaker 1>see and understand what's happening then have the media tell

0:46:29.760 --> 0:46:32.920
<v Speaker 1>me like AOC went down there and she spent time

0:46:33.000 --> 0:46:36.279
<v Speaker 1>there and they vilified her, and I think she's a congresswoman.

0:46:36.360 --> 0:46:38.880
<v Speaker 1>She should go down there. I can't understand well. And

0:46:39.040 --> 0:46:41.400
<v Speaker 1>you raise a good point, because it's quite okay for

0:46:41.480 --> 0:46:44.240
<v Speaker 1>people to travel to other countries and visit refugee camps

0:46:44.320 --> 0:46:47.080
<v Speaker 1>or to visit slums in India, So why aren't we

0:46:47.200 --> 0:46:51.320
<v Speaker 1>visiting places in our own country that are dark. I

0:46:51.440 --> 0:46:53.320
<v Speaker 1>think that it says a lot that we're willing to

0:46:53.440 --> 0:46:56.840
<v Speaker 1>go somewhere else on the planet and watch as an outsider,

0:46:57.239 --> 0:47:00.160
<v Speaker 1>because it speaks to our complicity and our unwillingness us

0:47:00.239 --> 0:47:05.480
<v Speaker 1>to examine ourselves and what's happening at home. Fuck. I

0:47:05.560 --> 0:47:08.080
<v Speaker 1>think we've uncovered something that's kind of hard to even

0:47:08.760 --> 0:47:13.719
<v Speaker 1>fully chew on. Because if you and I go to

0:47:13.840 --> 0:47:17.399
<v Speaker 1>the border and we just work on some empathy at

0:47:17.440 --> 0:47:21.240
<v Speaker 1>the border, maybe that makes a difference. Maybe then appeals

0:47:22.160 --> 0:47:24.440
<v Speaker 1>on a greater level, because I'm not going there in

0:47:24.520 --> 0:47:27.560
<v Speaker 1>a political way. I mean, in some ways everything is political.

0:47:27.680 --> 0:47:29.640
<v Speaker 1>But I think that you and I, as travelers, should

0:47:29.719 --> 0:47:32.880
<v Speaker 1>instead of insta scamming and being like, hey, look at

0:47:33.000 --> 0:47:38.120
<v Speaker 1>us in a heart shaped swan bed floating above like

0:47:38.239 --> 0:47:41.320
<v Speaker 1>doing a yoga pose on top of the roof of

0:47:41.440 --> 0:47:45.400
<v Speaker 1>a over the water bungalow in the Maldives, maybe we

0:47:45.440 --> 0:47:47.520
<v Speaker 1>should go to the border and be like, hey, like,

0:47:47.680 --> 0:47:50.640
<v Speaker 1>let's sit up like a burning man at the border.

0:47:51.719 --> 0:47:53.920
<v Speaker 1>And I'm sure someone's going to tell me this is offensive,

0:47:54.040 --> 0:47:55.960
<v Speaker 1>but I want to know why it's offensive, and then

0:47:56.000 --> 0:47:57.960
<v Speaker 1>I want to tweak this and figure it out and

0:47:58.080 --> 0:48:01.080
<v Speaker 1>make it a way that's not offensive and does actually help.

0:48:01.400 --> 0:48:04.080
<v Speaker 1>Does that seem okay? It seems okay to me, And

0:48:04.600 --> 0:48:08.120
<v Speaker 1>I think that the way to activate it into something

0:48:08.200 --> 0:48:11.000
<v Speaker 1>that can actually promote changes to use it to amplify

0:48:11.080 --> 0:48:14.879
<v Speaker 1>a message, amplify a message about what is actually happening there,

0:48:14.960 --> 0:48:19.439
<v Speaker 1>because we do rely on media outlets, and let's be frank,

0:48:19.480 --> 0:48:22.279
<v Speaker 1>they're not that reliable. And so I think that when

0:48:22.360 --> 0:48:24.719
<v Speaker 1>people receive a message from someone like you and I

0:48:24.880 --> 0:48:29.320
<v Speaker 1>who aren't directly associated with like Fox or CBC News,

0:48:29.640 --> 0:48:32.800
<v Speaker 1>it's a lot more reliable. People are more willing to

0:48:32.880 --> 0:48:36.440
<v Speaker 1>accept that message than they are from a large newshouse.

0:48:36.960 --> 0:48:39.279
<v Speaker 1>I would say. So is the tricky part of this

0:48:39.440 --> 0:48:41.760
<v Speaker 1>that we need a celebrity to come with us because

0:48:41.800 --> 0:48:44.280
<v Speaker 1>they have voice, and they have audience and they have numbers.

0:48:45.080 --> 0:48:49.640
<v Speaker 1>It's not really disgusting. And here's the thing. I'll tell

0:48:49.719 --> 0:48:53.600
<v Speaker 1>you about an experience I had in India. I wanted

0:48:53.719 --> 0:48:57.680
<v Speaker 1>to see. You've seen the movie Slumtop Millionaire. I think

0:48:57.719 --> 0:49:01.840
<v Speaker 1>everyone has. It was shot in a particular slum in Mumbai,

0:49:02.360 --> 0:49:05.120
<v Speaker 1>and my partner and I really wanted to see it,

0:49:05.800 --> 0:49:09.040
<v Speaker 1>and we talked it over and we understood that there

0:49:09.160 --> 0:49:12.080
<v Speaker 1>was a problematic element to this, that it was in

0:49:12.160 --> 0:49:15.359
<v Speaker 1>a way poverty tourism. That we wanted to just see

0:49:15.960 --> 0:49:19.600
<v Speaker 1>how bad the slum was. And I went into it

0:49:19.719 --> 0:49:23.080
<v Speaker 1>assuming that it would be really bad. When we got

0:49:23.160 --> 0:49:25.759
<v Speaker 1>to the slum, it wasn't at all what we expected.

0:49:26.200 --> 0:49:29.800
<v Speaker 1>It was really like a community and it completely shattered

0:49:29.920 --> 0:49:34.120
<v Speaker 1>everything we had assumed that the sum would be beautiful,

0:49:34.320 --> 0:49:37.960
<v Speaker 1>But we didn't take pictures, We didn't share that we

0:49:38.040 --> 0:49:41.040
<v Speaker 1>have been there. We accepted the experiences something that was

0:49:41.160 --> 0:49:43.920
<v Speaker 1>for us to learn through. We didn't use it to

0:49:44.320 --> 0:49:47.120
<v Speaker 1>promote ourselves as like, oh look at us, like we've

0:49:47.160 --> 0:49:49.040
<v Speaker 1>gone to check out the slum that everyone says it

0:49:49.080 --> 0:49:51.800
<v Speaker 1>is dangerous, that you shouldn't go too. We use the

0:49:51.880 --> 0:49:55.480
<v Speaker 1>experience just to prove to ourselves that as hard as

0:49:55.520 --> 0:49:59.680
<v Speaker 1>we try not to go into travel experiences with assumptions

0:50:00.080 --> 0:50:04.080
<v Speaker 1>or stereotypes in mind, it's impossible not to because we're

0:50:04.120 --> 0:50:07.839
<v Speaker 1>constantly influenced like just by influencers on Instagram, but also

0:50:07.880 --> 0:50:11.840
<v Speaker 1>about like every form of media that we're exposed to

0:50:12.040 --> 0:50:14.640
<v Speaker 1>is influencing the way that we feel about something. And

0:50:14.840 --> 0:50:17.360
<v Speaker 1>so the only real way to know was to go

0:50:17.520 --> 0:50:19.920
<v Speaker 1>to the slum and see it for ourselves. And so

0:50:20.040 --> 0:50:23.680
<v Speaker 1>what I'm saying is that that experience was fulfilling in

0:50:23.800 --> 0:50:27.040
<v Speaker 1>that it changed how I felt and what I knew

0:50:27.239 --> 0:50:30.000
<v Speaker 1>about India and about that slum and about what it

0:50:30.120 --> 0:50:32.160
<v Speaker 1>means to grow up in the slum or to live

0:50:32.200 --> 0:50:35.239
<v Speaker 1>in the slum. And that was very valuable to me.

0:50:36.719 --> 0:50:40.239
<v Speaker 1>I um I could spend the rest of the day

0:50:40.440 --> 0:50:44.320
<v Speaker 1>just talking to you and and kind of uncovering the stuff,

0:50:44.320 --> 0:50:48.000
<v Speaker 1>which I I love because I feel like I don't

0:50:48.040 --> 0:50:50.520
<v Speaker 1>have the answers. You and I are figuring the stuff out,

0:50:50.640 --> 0:50:52.719
<v Speaker 1>like a thing about the border. I think we should

0:50:52.760 --> 0:50:55.879
<v Speaker 1>brainstorm this, figure this out, and let our listeners help

0:50:55.960 --> 0:50:59.160
<v Speaker 1>us figure this out, because half my listeners will be

0:50:59.320 --> 0:51:01.600
<v Speaker 1>pissed that I even say something like this, and the

0:51:01.680 --> 0:51:05.280
<v Speaker 1>other half will be like, we have ideas, this is great,

0:51:05.719 --> 0:51:08.120
<v Speaker 1>So okay, let me pursue off and let me throw you.

0:51:08.719 --> 0:51:12.400
<v Speaker 1>But somewhere in that we'll figure this out and travel

0:51:12.600 --> 0:51:15.759
<v Speaker 1>is that it's not perfect and you can't get it

0:51:15.920 --> 0:51:19.480
<v Speaker 1>right every time, because the point is that in that

0:51:19.800 --> 0:51:24.600
<v Speaker 1>mess you aiding yourself to be a better human and

0:51:24.719 --> 0:51:28.680
<v Speaker 1>you're finding not only your own humanity, but humanity and others.

0:51:29.239 --> 0:51:31.160
<v Speaker 1>That's the point. That's why I got on the plane

0:51:31.200 --> 0:51:36.040
<v Speaker 1>this morning to come here. Absolutely, from Gilliad to Canada.

0:51:36.680 --> 0:51:39.520
<v Speaker 1>The world will continue. Do you know they shoot it

0:51:39.640 --> 0:51:43.480
<v Speaker 1>here in Toronto, right under his eye. Thank you so

0:51:43.640 --> 0:51:47.840
<v Speaker 1>much for spending your Saturday afternoon with me. This is wonderful.

0:51:48.000 --> 0:51:51.239
<v Speaker 1>It was such a pleasure. If anybody would like to

0:51:51.320 --> 0:51:54.440
<v Speaker 1>get your podcast, please tell them where to go. The

0:51:54.640 --> 0:51:57.919
<v Speaker 1>podcast is called I'll Pack My Bag. You can find

0:51:58.000 --> 0:52:01.400
<v Speaker 1>it wherever you listen to your podcast, so that's Spotify, Google,

0:52:02.120 --> 0:52:04.520
<v Speaker 1>literally anywhere. And we also have a website which is

0:52:04.760 --> 0:52:08.440
<v Speaker 1>www dot I'll Pack in my Banks dot c A.

0:52:14.000 --> 0:52:17.359
<v Speaker 1>Thanks for hanging out. Connect with us on Twitter at

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0:52:22.440 --> 0:52:27.759
<v Speaker 1>at everywhere podcast dot com. I'm Daniel Scheffler. I'll be

0:52:27.840 --> 0:52:28.840
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