1 00:00:00,040 --> 00:00:02,000 Speaker 1: We live in a world where we are supposed to 2 00:00:02,040 --> 00:00:06,240 Speaker 1: celebrate men who put lipstick on and call themselves women. 3 00:00:06,519 --> 00:00:09,119 Speaker 1: Doesn't make sense. I mean, how can a woman have 4 00:00:09,200 --> 00:00:12,239 Speaker 1: a panis? How can men give birth when they're not 5 00:00:12,360 --> 00:00:14,800 Speaker 1: wired that way? When God didn't make them that way. 6 00:00:14,960 --> 00:00:17,360 Speaker 1: But we're told to just shut up and accept this 7 00:00:17,400 --> 00:00:19,480 Speaker 1: clown world that we live in. You're a bigot if 8 00:00:19,480 --> 00:00:22,520 Speaker 1: you speak out, you're transphobic. If you speak out, shut up. 9 00:00:22,560 --> 00:00:27,680 Speaker 1: There's this intentional blurring of the lines between truth and lies, 10 00:00:27,760 --> 00:00:30,520 Speaker 1: a distortion of the facts, intentionally a blurring of the 11 00:00:30,560 --> 00:00:32,920 Speaker 1: lines between what's right and wrong. They want us to 12 00:00:32,960 --> 00:00:35,440 Speaker 1: live in a chaotic world where anything goes and anything 13 00:00:35,479 --> 00:00:38,559 Speaker 1: goes society, a society that allows evil to thrive in. 14 00:00:38,800 --> 00:00:41,800 Speaker 1: I won't accept it. I refuse. That's not the world 15 00:00:41,840 --> 00:00:43,120 Speaker 1: that I want to live in. That's not the world 16 00:00:43,159 --> 00:00:45,160 Speaker 1: I want to raise kids in. That's not a world 17 00:00:45,159 --> 00:00:48,040 Speaker 1: where that even allows for common sense to exist. And 18 00:00:48,080 --> 00:00:50,720 Speaker 1: we need more people who will speak out. We need 19 00:00:50,760 --> 00:00:53,199 Speaker 1: to celebrate people who are willing to speak out. And 20 00:00:53,240 --> 00:00:55,680 Speaker 1: one of those people is Riley Gaines. She's a former 21 00:00:55,800 --> 00:00:59,560 Speaker 1: University of Kentucky swimming star who was a twelve time 22 00:00:59,720 --> 00:01:03,560 Speaker 1: All American and a five time SEC champion. It's pretty incredible. 23 00:01:03,680 --> 00:01:06,240 Speaker 1: She had a swim against Leah Thomas, who's a man. 24 00:01:06,480 --> 00:01:08,840 Speaker 1: How is that fair and how is it brave to 25 00:01:09,000 --> 00:01:13,480 Speaker 1: celebrate a six foot one man competing against women in sports? 26 00:01:13,600 --> 00:01:16,360 Speaker 1: Where's the bravery in that? And why hasn't the NCAA 27 00:01:16,400 --> 00:01:19,720 Speaker 1: stood up for female athletes, where the older generation of 28 00:01:19,760 --> 00:01:22,959 Speaker 1: women athletes standing up for the younger generation. Why does 29 00:01:22,959 --> 00:01:25,000 Speaker 1: this twenty two year old have to do it. But 30 00:01:25,040 --> 00:01:27,760 Speaker 1: we're fortunate to have Riley Gaines on this show because 31 00:01:27,800 --> 00:01:31,480 Speaker 1: she is brave, she is courageous, and she is blazing 32 00:01:31,520 --> 00:01:34,640 Speaker 1: a path for younger generations to live in a fair 33 00:01:34,800 --> 00:01:45,880 Speaker 1: and just world with common sense. Stay tuned for Riley Gaines. Riley, 34 00:01:45,959 --> 00:01:48,600 Speaker 1: I really appreciate you joining the show. I think you're 35 00:01:48,720 --> 00:01:52,000 Speaker 1: tremendously brave, and you know, we need young people like 36 00:01:52,080 --> 00:01:55,960 Speaker 1: you speaking out because we need to have younger generations 37 00:01:56,040 --> 00:01:57,960 Speaker 1: influence and I think it's going to take young people 38 00:01:58,000 --> 00:01:59,720 Speaker 1: to do it. So I really appreciate what you're doing, 39 00:02:00,120 --> 00:02:02,400 Speaker 1: of course, and I totally agree with you, and just 40 00:02:02,560 --> 00:02:05,360 Speaker 1: thank you for giving me the opportunity and the platform 41 00:02:05,440 --> 00:02:08,480 Speaker 1: to continue speaking out. Are you ever just like, where 42 00:02:08,520 --> 00:02:10,440 Speaker 1: are the older people? You know? Why do I, as 43 00:02:10,440 --> 00:02:13,399 Speaker 1: a young person, have to take on this role? Absolutely? 44 00:02:14,360 --> 00:02:17,840 Speaker 1: When I first initially started speaking out last year after 45 00:02:17,880 --> 00:02:22,359 Speaker 1: our inc doable A Championships, I was truly looking for 46 00:02:22,440 --> 00:02:26,560 Speaker 1: a coach to say something, or someone with political power, 47 00:02:26,680 --> 00:02:29,520 Speaker 1: or someone within the NC double A. I thought it 48 00:02:29,560 --> 00:02:32,440 Speaker 1: needed to come from them, until it kind of hit 49 00:02:32,520 --> 00:02:35,840 Speaker 1: me that if we as female athletes aren't willing to 50 00:02:35,880 --> 00:02:38,639 Speaker 1: stick up for ourselves, how can we expect someone else 51 00:02:38,680 --> 00:02:41,359 Speaker 1: to stick up for us? And so I understand, I 52 00:02:41,480 --> 00:02:43,760 Speaker 1: understand that it has to come from female athletes, but 53 00:02:44,040 --> 00:02:47,480 Speaker 1: I think it's truly crazy. You know, I'm only twenty 54 00:02:47,480 --> 00:02:50,840 Speaker 1: two years old, and I've been exposed and thrust it 55 00:02:50,919 --> 00:02:54,920 Speaker 1: into this position where I never felt fully equipped for. 56 00:02:55,000 --> 00:02:57,880 Speaker 1: I still don't feel fully equipped for. And so it 57 00:02:58,040 --> 00:03:00,839 Speaker 1: is a bit mind boggling that one there's not more 58 00:03:00,840 --> 00:03:04,120 Speaker 1: people my age speaking out in two the older generation, 59 00:03:04,160 --> 00:03:07,600 Speaker 1: the generation that fought relentlessly for title nine, and of 60 00:03:07,639 --> 00:03:10,040 Speaker 1: course the Me Too movement. Where are all these people? 61 00:03:10,520 --> 00:03:13,720 Speaker 1: Where are the men the coaches? Who is taking precedent 62 00:03:13,720 --> 00:03:18,440 Speaker 1: and acknowledging that the women's sporting category is at jeopardy? Here? Well, yeah, 63 00:03:18,480 --> 00:03:20,799 Speaker 1: I mean, what's the point of women's sports now, right? 64 00:03:20,919 --> 00:03:24,760 Speaker 1: I know, Well, it's interesting because there's so many obviously, 65 00:03:24,760 --> 00:03:27,799 Speaker 1: there's so many organizations like the IOC, which is the 66 00:03:27,840 --> 00:03:31,760 Speaker 1: Olympic Committee, and all these sports specific organizations that have 67 00:03:31,880 --> 00:03:36,400 Speaker 1: all of these strict policies for doping and performance enhancing drugs. 68 00:03:37,480 --> 00:03:41,000 Speaker 1: But now suddenly, when the trans issue is brought to light, 69 00:03:41,080 --> 00:03:45,520 Speaker 1: they say testosterone has no effect on performance. But if 70 00:03:45,520 --> 00:03:48,280 Speaker 1: that was the case, there would be no sporting categories. 71 00:03:48,320 --> 00:03:50,400 Speaker 1: We would just have one big free for all and 72 00:03:50,520 --> 00:03:53,440 Speaker 1: men compete against women and it would be relatively equal 73 00:03:53,960 --> 00:03:56,200 Speaker 1: and how it panned out, but that's not what we 74 00:03:56,200 --> 00:03:58,240 Speaker 1: would see. And we all know that if there was 75 00:03:58,280 --> 00:04:03,120 Speaker 1: no sporting or specific categories. May I have three brother as, 76 00:04:03,160 --> 00:04:05,520 Speaker 1: I have an older brother who used to beat me up, 77 00:04:05,560 --> 00:04:07,760 Speaker 1: as most older brothers do, and I can tell you 78 00:04:07,760 --> 00:04:10,880 Speaker 1: men have a competitive advantage, so I had to deal 79 00:04:10,880 --> 00:04:13,640 Speaker 1: with that absolutely, you know, at the tower point, Riley, 80 00:04:13,680 --> 00:04:15,400 Speaker 1: you know it's I mean, I do think it's important 81 00:04:15,400 --> 00:04:18,120 Speaker 1: for younger generations like yourself to speak because I think 82 00:04:18,160 --> 00:04:20,400 Speaker 1: you're going to have a better time influencing your peers 83 00:04:20,400 --> 00:04:24,080 Speaker 1: and younger generations. But adults should also be there protecting 84 00:04:24,120 --> 00:04:26,920 Speaker 1: people like you and standing up for you. And also 85 00:04:26,960 --> 00:04:30,320 Speaker 1: the nca A, I feel like as an obligation to 86 00:04:30,320 --> 00:04:32,320 Speaker 1: to stand up for its female athletes. But you know 87 00:04:32,360 --> 00:04:34,960 Speaker 1: where have they been, Well, they've been the ones perpetrating 88 00:04:35,000 --> 00:04:39,840 Speaker 1: all of this. They were the ones who explicitly subjected 89 00:04:39,920 --> 00:04:44,279 Speaker 1: us to undressing in front of a naked male, to 90 00:04:44,360 --> 00:04:46,320 Speaker 1: which these past couple of days, it's come out that 91 00:04:46,720 --> 00:04:48,760 Speaker 1: the naked male that we were in dressing in front 92 00:04:48,760 --> 00:04:54,240 Speaker 1: of really is just a part of the agpunity community, 93 00:04:54,279 --> 00:04:58,200 Speaker 1: which is the autogenophiliac, which means you're sexually aroused from 94 00:04:58,279 --> 00:05:02,000 Speaker 1: dressing as a woman. So the nc double A, rather 95 00:05:02,040 --> 00:05:06,600 Speaker 1: than protecting us as females, they put us in that situation. 96 00:05:06,600 --> 00:05:10,240 Speaker 1: It might I add, they never disclose to us, forewarned 97 00:05:10,320 --> 00:05:13,680 Speaker 1: us that we would be in that situation. They told us, 98 00:05:13,720 --> 00:05:16,760 Speaker 1: of course that we were competing against Thomas, but we 99 00:05:16,839 --> 00:05:19,680 Speaker 1: had no idea, nor did we give them our consent 100 00:05:20,320 --> 00:05:25,359 Speaker 1: to share a changing space with a biological man who 101 00:05:25,600 --> 00:05:28,760 Speaker 1: I might add is fully impact with male genitalia. So 102 00:05:29,200 --> 00:05:33,280 Speaker 1: obviously then he gets aroused by this and you're subjected 103 00:05:33,320 --> 00:05:35,479 Speaker 1: to it. I mean, the way I look at it 104 00:05:35,560 --> 00:05:39,160 Speaker 1: is you know that's a sexual harassment incident. Absolutely, and 105 00:05:39,279 --> 00:05:42,680 Speaker 1: that's that's what you would think. But it's it's almost 106 00:05:42,720 --> 00:05:48,599 Speaker 1: comical because now the Biden administration is actively trying to, 107 00:05:48,680 --> 00:05:52,560 Speaker 1: of course, rewrite Title nine to where it is not well, 108 00:05:52,600 --> 00:05:56,560 Speaker 1: I guess sex would now equate to gender identity. So 109 00:05:56,680 --> 00:06:00,800 Speaker 1: under Biden's new Title nine rewrite, it would actually be 110 00:06:00,920 --> 00:06:04,520 Speaker 1: sexual harassment if I missed gender Leah Thomas. But it 111 00:06:04,640 --> 00:06:08,560 Speaker 1: is not sexual harassment. For Leah Thomas to show his 112 00:06:08,720 --> 00:06:13,479 Speaker 1: body parts to us as we are undressing, that is 113 00:06:13,480 --> 00:06:17,359 Speaker 1: not sexual harassment. But me using the pronouns heat him, 114 00:06:17,480 --> 00:06:21,440 Speaker 1: now that that is so it's almost comical. Any sane 115 00:06:21,480 --> 00:06:25,200 Speaker 1: person would hear that and laugh, like, is this really 116 00:06:25,240 --> 00:06:29,719 Speaker 1: how far we've come as a country that this is 117 00:06:29,760 --> 00:06:33,800 Speaker 1: what we're defining a sexual harassment. I mean, I can't imagine, 118 00:06:34,040 --> 00:06:36,279 Speaker 1: you know, I've been in locker rooms, I played sports 119 00:06:36,279 --> 00:06:38,960 Speaker 1: growing up. I can't imagine being in a locker room 120 00:06:39,040 --> 00:06:41,520 Speaker 1: and then having a naked man staring at me and 121 00:06:41,680 --> 00:06:46,760 Speaker 1: just the level of intrusiveness, the level of violation, embarrassment 122 00:06:46,839 --> 00:06:50,760 Speaker 1: even of having to be subjected to that. Right, it's 123 00:06:50,920 --> 00:06:55,320 Speaker 1: a subconscious I mean, it's in a you feel uncomfortable 124 00:06:55,360 --> 00:06:57,120 Speaker 1: when you know a male gaze is in the room 125 00:06:57,160 --> 00:07:00,440 Speaker 1: while you're undressing, like you immediately want to cover, which 126 00:07:00,440 --> 00:07:02,160 Speaker 1: I want to add, a swimming locker room is not 127 00:07:02,200 --> 00:07:06,040 Speaker 1: a place of modesty. Generally, these suits you put on, 128 00:07:06,360 --> 00:07:10,080 Speaker 1: their skin tight. It takes about fifteen minutes to which 129 00:07:10,120 --> 00:07:15,240 Speaker 1: you're fully exposed putting these suits on. And not to 130 00:07:15,280 --> 00:07:19,880 Speaker 1: mention it's a distraction more than anything. We are supposed 131 00:07:19,920 --> 00:07:22,480 Speaker 1: to be there, supposed to be on our a game, 132 00:07:22,640 --> 00:07:25,280 Speaker 1: competing to the best of our ability. But let me 133 00:07:25,320 --> 00:07:29,400 Speaker 1: tell you, it is so hard to not let that 134 00:07:29,520 --> 00:07:35,480 Speaker 1: incident be a distraction, which of course inhibits your performance 135 00:07:35,520 --> 00:07:40,280 Speaker 1: capabilities and how well you perform when you're not mentally 136 00:07:40,360 --> 00:07:42,840 Speaker 1: all there. Swimming, of course, like most sports is, it's 137 00:07:43,320 --> 00:07:46,040 Speaker 1: extremely mental. Of course there's a lot of physical that 138 00:07:46,080 --> 00:07:50,360 Speaker 1: goes into it, but the mental toll it has on 139 00:07:50,440 --> 00:07:54,120 Speaker 1: you is huge, and so it was a distraction well. 140 00:07:54,120 --> 00:07:56,280 Speaker 1: And then of course the ironies. You mentioned the changes 141 00:07:56,360 --> 00:07:58,720 Speaker 1: that Biden's trying to make. But then when he chose 142 00:07:58,800 --> 00:08:01,120 Speaker 1: Kamala Harris as a VP, he one of the boxes 143 00:08:01,160 --> 00:08:03,160 Speaker 1: he wanted to check as the fact that she's a woman. 144 00:08:03,880 --> 00:08:06,640 Speaker 1: But if being a woman no longer matters, then what's 145 00:08:06,680 --> 00:08:08,880 Speaker 1: the point. You know, It's like, we just live in 146 00:08:08,920 --> 00:08:11,960 Speaker 1: such silly times, and you know, of course this doesn't 147 00:08:12,000 --> 00:08:16,200 Speaker 1: make sense. No, I know, Well, the thing is, truthfully, 148 00:08:17,080 --> 00:08:20,040 Speaker 1: I feel like it makes sense to ninety five percent 149 00:08:20,080 --> 00:08:24,760 Speaker 1: of people, if not more. Which same person would truthfully 150 00:08:25,360 --> 00:08:29,240 Speaker 1: say that men and women are athletically the same, No one, 151 00:08:29,480 --> 00:08:32,160 Speaker 1: at least if they are. I can't comprehend that. But 152 00:08:32,320 --> 00:08:36,679 Speaker 1: majority of the people, we know what's happening is wrong, 153 00:08:36,679 --> 00:08:41,080 Speaker 1: and this translates far beyond sports, just this whole gender 154 00:08:41,120 --> 00:08:46,240 Speaker 1: ideology propaganda, what's happening in elementary schools, what's happening within 155 00:08:46,360 --> 00:08:50,680 Speaker 1: prison systems in the US. I mean, we know that 156 00:08:50,720 --> 00:08:55,120 Speaker 1: this stuff is wrong, but people are terrified of being 157 00:08:55,200 --> 00:09:00,480 Speaker 1: labeled as transphobic, which at first I understood when I 158 00:09:00,480 --> 00:09:03,000 Speaker 1: first spoke out, I was scared of being called transphobic. 159 00:09:03,040 --> 00:09:07,120 Speaker 1: But now I've realized that it doesn't make me hateful, 160 00:09:07,160 --> 00:09:09,360 Speaker 1: it doesn't make me transphobic. It doesn't make me a 161 00:09:09,360 --> 00:09:14,000 Speaker 1: bigot to understand and publicly say that there are two sexes, 162 00:09:14,520 --> 00:09:17,959 Speaker 1: that you cannot change your sex, and that women deserve 163 00:09:18,080 --> 00:09:22,520 Speaker 1: respect and opportunities, again in sports, but far beyond sports 164 00:09:22,520 --> 00:09:25,040 Speaker 1: as well well. And how many times do you hear 165 00:09:25,120 --> 00:09:28,439 Speaker 1: about a man entering women's sports and then all of 166 00:09:28,480 --> 00:09:31,240 Speaker 1: a sudden, you know, they start breaking records when they 167 00:09:31,240 --> 00:09:33,720 Speaker 1: were not able to do that among other women, Right, 168 00:09:33,760 --> 00:09:36,199 Speaker 1: that doesn't You don't hear a lot of women entering 169 00:09:36,200 --> 00:09:39,160 Speaker 1: men's sports and then they start breaking records where we 170 00:09:39,200 --> 00:09:43,400 Speaker 1: saw that with Leah Thomas. No, you don't, And I 171 00:09:43,440 --> 00:09:47,040 Speaker 1: think it's important to add last year at our instable 172 00:09:47,080 --> 00:09:49,679 Speaker 1: A Championships, where we had, of course Leah Thomas, who 173 00:09:49,760 --> 00:09:53,840 Speaker 1: is a male to female transitioner, at the same meat, 174 00:09:54,080 --> 00:10:00,679 Speaker 1: we had a female transitioning to male who had reassignment 175 00:10:00,679 --> 00:10:02,960 Speaker 1: surgery on the top, who had a double in sectomy, 176 00:10:03,000 --> 00:10:07,520 Speaker 1: who went by heat him name was now Isaac, but 177 00:10:07,600 --> 00:10:09,840 Speaker 1: of course was swimming with the women because this person 178 00:10:09,880 --> 00:10:14,240 Speaker 1: would have never qualified for NC double as a as 179 00:10:14,240 --> 00:10:17,960 Speaker 1: a male. So this proves that the women's category is 180 00:10:18,160 --> 00:10:22,520 Speaker 1: what's at jeopardy, not the men's category. This said swimmer, 181 00:10:22,559 --> 00:10:26,320 Speaker 1: who is now a trans man is competing with the 182 00:10:26,360 --> 00:10:29,360 Speaker 1: men and went from being an All American phenomenal female 183 00:10:29,400 --> 00:10:35,040 Speaker 1: swimmer to placing glass every time as a man. Actually 184 00:10:35,040 --> 00:10:37,280 Speaker 1: the other day got second to last and be a 185 00:10:37,320 --> 00:10:40,120 Speaker 1: man with one arm. So that's what we're looking at. 186 00:10:41,559 --> 00:10:45,319 Speaker 1: There's so much talk of trans women competing with women, 187 00:10:45,440 --> 00:10:49,200 Speaker 1: but hardly I mean crickets from trans men in the 188 00:10:49,200 --> 00:10:52,480 Speaker 1: men's category. How did Leah Thomas do when he was 189 00:10:52,920 --> 00:10:56,880 Speaker 1: swimming against other men? Leah the year before transitioning ranked 190 00:10:56,920 --> 00:11:00,400 Speaker 1: four hundred and sixty second at best in the men's category. 191 00:11:01,600 --> 00:11:04,960 Speaker 1: There's people who will say Leah was ranked six, Leah 192 00:11:05,000 --> 00:11:07,319 Speaker 1: was this. First of all, I'm a swimmer, I know 193 00:11:07,520 --> 00:11:09,679 Speaker 1: I know how to follow this stuff. That's not true. 194 00:11:10,280 --> 00:11:13,240 Speaker 1: Leah might have placed six at a conference meet or 195 00:11:13,280 --> 00:11:17,240 Speaker 1: at a duel meet, but Leah never even remotely qualified 196 00:11:17,360 --> 00:11:19,800 Speaker 1: for NC double as as a male. This was not 197 00:11:19,920 --> 00:11:23,240 Speaker 1: a lateral movement, which is why this conversation is necessary. 198 00:11:23,960 --> 00:11:27,200 Speaker 1: Had this have been a lateral movement and we had 199 00:11:27,320 --> 00:11:32,440 Speaker 1: science that could prove these hormone suppressors, which we know 200 00:11:32,559 --> 00:11:35,920 Speaker 1: would never I mean, even with hormone suppression, there's certain 201 00:11:36,000 --> 00:11:38,840 Speaker 1: advantages that would never be mitigated. But let's say in 202 00:11:39,040 --> 00:11:42,839 Speaker 1: theory they could. This could be potentially a different conversation. 203 00:11:42,920 --> 00:11:46,120 Speaker 1: But this is not a lateral movement. This isn't Leah 204 00:11:46,200 --> 00:11:49,320 Speaker 1: ranking five hundreds, placing five hundreds in the women's category. 205 00:11:49,679 --> 00:11:52,720 Speaker 1: This is Leah becoming the fastest woman in the entire country, 206 00:11:53,040 --> 00:11:55,840 Speaker 1: beating out Olympians, American record holders, and some of the 207 00:11:55,920 --> 00:12:00,199 Speaker 1: most impressive athletes, female athletes of really our time. What's 208 00:12:00,240 --> 00:12:02,720 Speaker 1: frustrating about that? So? I played field hockey and lacrosse 209 00:12:02,760 --> 00:12:05,240 Speaker 1: growing up. I almost played in college. I tore my 210 00:12:05,280 --> 00:12:07,920 Speaker 1: acl as I was getting recruited, and it was kind 211 00:12:07,920 --> 00:12:10,520 Speaker 1: of one of those situations where you know, all the 212 00:12:10,600 --> 00:12:12,280 Speaker 1: D one schools, we're like, yeah, I don't call us, 213 00:12:12,320 --> 00:12:15,800 Speaker 1: we'll call you. Okay, I got onofficial visits and stuff. 214 00:12:16,280 --> 00:12:18,319 Speaker 1: But you know, it all happens how it's supposed to. 215 00:12:18,480 --> 00:12:21,080 Speaker 1: But but the frustrating thing about this, especially in swimming, 216 00:12:21,080 --> 00:12:23,760 Speaker 1: I mean there's a level of dedication and hard work. 217 00:12:23,800 --> 00:12:26,000 Speaker 1: I mean you were busting your butt to get to 218 00:12:26,000 --> 00:12:29,360 Speaker 1: the level that you did, working incredibly hard, and then 219 00:12:29,440 --> 00:12:33,680 Speaker 1: to basically have this, you know, unfair competition. I can't 220 00:12:33,720 --> 00:12:38,160 Speaker 1: imagine how demoralizing and frustrating that is after sacrificing so 221 00:12:38,240 --> 00:12:41,079 Speaker 1: much to reach this level as you did. Right, And 222 00:12:41,160 --> 00:12:44,800 Speaker 1: you're exactly right by saying there were sacrifices made. I 223 00:12:45,000 --> 00:12:47,959 Speaker 1: swam like most swimmers at an elite level. I mean 224 00:12:48,080 --> 00:12:50,600 Speaker 1: essentially all swimmers. It's impossible to find a swimmer who 225 00:12:50,640 --> 00:12:53,800 Speaker 1: started swimming before or after the age of six. I mean, 226 00:12:53,840 --> 00:12:57,200 Speaker 1: I started swimming at four and it was every day, 227 00:12:57,400 --> 00:13:01,640 Speaker 1: which sounds crazy, but you dedicate your life to your sport. 228 00:13:02,000 --> 00:13:04,760 Speaker 1: I missed out on proms, I missed out on vacations. 229 00:13:05,280 --> 00:13:08,760 Speaker 1: Every summer at college, we were forced to be at 230 00:13:08,760 --> 00:13:12,000 Speaker 1: school taking classes so we could train. I mean, there's 231 00:13:12,040 --> 00:13:15,440 Speaker 1: so much you give up, which I'm so grateful for. 232 00:13:15,559 --> 00:13:18,280 Speaker 1: I'm not sitting here winding about giving things up. I 233 00:13:18,360 --> 00:13:20,840 Speaker 1: was more than willing to give these things up. But 234 00:13:20,920 --> 00:13:24,000 Speaker 1: it's because I was dedicated to being the best that 235 00:13:24,080 --> 00:13:27,040 Speaker 1: I could be. But when you have a biological man 236 00:13:27,440 --> 00:13:31,520 Speaker 1: come in there and you have to race against each other, 237 00:13:31,920 --> 00:13:34,760 Speaker 1: it just feels like you're starting the race with your 238 00:13:34,760 --> 00:13:40,000 Speaker 1: hands behind your back. Like it's so just heartbreaking. I mean, 239 00:13:40,040 --> 00:13:44,280 Speaker 1: of course, Title nine was created to protect women's sports 240 00:13:44,360 --> 00:13:49,920 Speaker 1: and opportunities, and it just feels like this is regressive. 241 00:13:49,960 --> 00:13:52,320 Speaker 1: And the left likes to look at this as it's progressive. 242 00:13:52,600 --> 00:13:55,600 Speaker 1: We're moving forward, but this is taking us back fifty 243 00:13:55,640 --> 00:13:58,400 Speaker 1: years in time. This is not progressive. It's actually quite 244 00:13:58,400 --> 00:14:01,280 Speaker 1: the opposite you've had where I think you tied Leah 245 00:14:01,320 --> 00:14:04,000 Speaker 1: Thomas and they gave the trophy to him on the 246 00:14:04,040 --> 00:14:06,920 Speaker 1: podium because they wanted him to be in the photos 247 00:14:06,920 --> 00:14:09,760 Speaker 1: with the trophy. And then you were nominated by the 248 00:14:09,840 --> 00:14:13,120 Speaker 1: University of Kentucky as their nca Women of the Year. 249 00:14:13,200 --> 00:14:15,280 Speaker 1: But so was he, even though he's not a woman. 250 00:14:15,360 --> 00:14:20,160 Speaker 1: So it's like that that is just totally frustrating. Yes, 251 00:14:20,400 --> 00:14:24,680 Speaker 1: it felt like especially in the instance of when we 252 00:14:24,800 --> 00:14:27,800 Speaker 1: tied and they have one trophy and they give it 253 00:14:27,840 --> 00:14:29,840 Speaker 1: to Thomas, and when I questioned him, he was like, well, 254 00:14:29,880 --> 00:14:33,320 Speaker 1: Thomas has to have it for photo purposes. It just 255 00:14:33,440 --> 00:14:37,560 Speaker 1: felt like we as female athletes, were reduced to a 256 00:14:37,600 --> 00:14:41,080 Speaker 1: photo op to validate the identity of a man. And 257 00:14:41,120 --> 00:14:43,800 Speaker 1: that's truthfully what pushed me over the edge into speaking 258 00:14:43,840 --> 00:14:46,880 Speaker 1: out is when they told me Thomas had to have 259 00:14:46,920 --> 00:14:51,080 Speaker 1: the trophy for picture purposes, it was like it all 260 00:14:51,160 --> 00:14:53,560 Speaker 1: made sense to me, which of course it did before this. 261 00:14:53,720 --> 00:14:56,920 Speaker 1: But what the NCAA was trying to do was save face. 262 00:14:58,400 --> 00:15:01,600 Speaker 1: They're following the money, they're fall owing this loud minority 263 00:15:01,800 --> 00:15:04,320 Speaker 1: because they don't want to get in trouble. They don't 264 00:15:04,360 --> 00:15:07,800 Speaker 1: want to get sued they don't want to deal with backlash, 265 00:15:07,840 --> 00:15:10,760 Speaker 1: but I made it my goal for them to have 266 00:15:10,800 --> 00:15:14,360 Speaker 1: to deal with backlash when they put us through what 267 00:15:14,440 --> 00:15:18,120 Speaker 1: they put us through. Did any Upen swimmers stand up 268 00:15:18,160 --> 00:15:20,960 Speaker 1: and say this is wrong? Because of course he was nominated. 269 00:15:21,040 --> 00:15:23,400 Speaker 1: He was picked to be their NCAA Women of the 270 00:15:23,480 --> 00:15:27,320 Speaker 1: Year in competition there so did any Upen female swimmers 271 00:15:27,320 --> 00:15:32,720 Speaker 1: step up? Not publicly, they did some stuff anonymously. They 272 00:15:32,720 --> 00:15:38,200 Speaker 1: sent emails. I've talked with several of them over the 273 00:15:38,200 --> 00:15:42,640 Speaker 1: course of these past couple of months. One of them 274 00:15:43,360 --> 00:15:45,800 Speaker 1: has been kind of filling me in on all of 275 00:15:45,840 --> 00:15:49,440 Speaker 1: the silencing methods that their university has used to ensure 276 00:15:49,520 --> 00:15:53,080 Speaker 1: that they're quiet, which is heartbreaking because now not only 277 00:15:53,200 --> 00:15:55,280 Speaker 1: is this an issue, of course, with the fairness in 278 00:15:55,280 --> 00:15:58,160 Speaker 1: our sports, but this has become an issue with freedom 279 00:15:58,200 --> 00:16:03,320 Speaker 1: of speech. And their schools made them go to mandatory 280 00:16:03,480 --> 00:16:07,320 Speaker 1: LGBTQ meetings every week when they were concerned about the 281 00:16:07,360 --> 00:16:10,760 Speaker 1: locker room piece, and they reached out to their their university, 282 00:16:12,280 --> 00:16:14,680 Speaker 1: and I swear I have a screenshot of this. I 283 00:16:14,720 --> 00:16:17,960 Speaker 1: can't believe it's even in writing, but their university said, 284 00:16:18,760 --> 00:16:21,800 Speaker 1: if you feel uncomfortable seeing mel Genitalia. Here are some 285 00:16:21,840 --> 00:16:25,120 Speaker 1: counseling resources that you should seek, and then they were referred, 286 00:16:25,160 --> 00:16:29,560 Speaker 1: of course, the LGBTQ Education Center on campus to educate themselves. 287 00:16:30,600 --> 00:16:32,880 Speaker 1: They were told that their school has already made their 288 00:16:32,920 --> 00:16:35,920 Speaker 1: stance for them. They're told they're never they will never 289 00:16:35,960 --> 00:16:38,000 Speaker 1: get into grad school, they will lose friends, they will 290 00:16:38,040 --> 00:16:41,000 Speaker 1: never get a job if they speak out. One of 291 00:16:41,080 --> 00:16:47,040 Speaker 1: Leah's teammates actually was sexually assaulted in high school. She 292 00:16:47,120 --> 00:16:50,640 Speaker 1: was raped, and so she was dealing with all of 293 00:16:50,680 --> 00:16:54,240 Speaker 1: this trauma. And when Leah came out and transitioned, she 294 00:16:54,280 --> 00:16:57,840 Speaker 1: immediately sat with her coaches and said, Hey, like, this 295 00:16:57,920 --> 00:16:59,760 Speaker 1: is what I'm dealing with. This is my past. This 296 00:16:59,880 --> 00:17:03,160 Speaker 1: is really triggering to me and it causes me a 297 00:17:03,160 --> 00:17:05,000 Speaker 1: lot of anxiety. Is there something we can do? And 298 00:17:05,080 --> 00:17:08,879 Speaker 1: her coaches said, no, sorry, suck it up, which is 299 00:17:08,960 --> 00:17:11,600 Speaker 1: just to me. I mean, I'm fortunate enough I've never 300 00:17:11,640 --> 00:17:15,560 Speaker 1: had to go through anything like that necessarily, but I 301 00:17:16,000 --> 00:17:20,560 Speaker 1: just can't imagine feeling so hopeless and no one who 302 00:17:20,600 --> 00:17:23,919 Speaker 1: was there, who's there to protect you, doing anything to 303 00:17:24,359 --> 00:17:28,000 Speaker 1: actually protect you. Quick commercial break more with Riley Gains 304 00:17:28,040 --> 00:17:33,400 Speaker 1: on the other side. So obviously you're dealing with all 305 00:17:33,400 --> 00:17:36,320 Speaker 1: this stuff behind the scenes. At what point were you 306 00:17:36,400 --> 00:17:39,480 Speaker 1: just like, I need to speak out? You know? What 307 00:17:39,560 --> 00:17:43,679 Speaker 1: was it? Why did you decide to speak out? You know? I, truthfully, 308 00:17:44,560 --> 00:17:46,720 Speaker 1: like I said, I knew what was happening was wrong. 309 00:17:46,760 --> 00:17:49,760 Speaker 1: I knew the competition was wrong. I knew the locker 310 00:17:49,800 --> 00:17:54,640 Speaker 1: room situation was wrong. But it was when we were 311 00:17:54,760 --> 00:17:58,000 Speaker 1: sidelined so Lenda could have the trophy That's when it 312 00:17:58,080 --> 00:18:02,160 Speaker 1: occurred to me that someone has to do something. Because, 313 00:18:02,160 --> 00:18:04,600 Speaker 1: like I said, I was truthfully looking for someone else 314 00:18:04,640 --> 00:18:07,600 Speaker 1: to do it. I wanted some other swimmer to take 315 00:18:07,640 --> 00:18:12,080 Speaker 1: a stand and I could kind of follow quietly behind them. 316 00:18:12,960 --> 00:18:15,840 Speaker 1: But I started thinking of all of the warriors and 317 00:18:15,880 --> 00:18:19,920 Speaker 1: trailblazers who fought for Title nine. I started thinking of 318 00:18:20,040 --> 00:18:22,720 Speaker 1: one day I just got married. One day I hope 319 00:18:22,760 --> 00:18:25,960 Speaker 1: to have daughters, and I started to think of their future. 320 00:18:26,480 --> 00:18:29,120 Speaker 1: What if no one speaks up? What would that mean 321 00:18:29,160 --> 00:18:33,200 Speaker 1: for my daughter's Sports has given me so much and 322 00:18:34,520 --> 00:18:37,320 Speaker 1: so many skills, so many leadership skills, the confidence to 323 00:18:37,359 --> 00:18:40,960 Speaker 1: continue doing what I'm doing and not care about the backlash. 324 00:18:42,400 --> 00:18:45,240 Speaker 1: I want my daughters to have that opportunity of my sons. 325 00:18:45,240 --> 00:18:48,680 Speaker 1: If I'm fortunate to have sons. I can't imagine them 326 00:18:48,680 --> 00:18:52,640 Speaker 1: not having the same access and resources that I did. 327 00:18:54,080 --> 00:18:56,000 Speaker 1: And that's what pushed me over the edge. And so 328 00:18:56,040 --> 00:18:59,560 Speaker 1: I called my my athletic director at the University of Kentucky, 329 00:18:59,720 --> 00:19:02,760 Speaker 1: and he's an amazing and amazing person and we have 330 00:19:02,960 --> 00:19:06,439 Speaker 1: a good relationship, and so I called him and I said, Hey, 331 00:19:06,840 --> 00:19:10,480 Speaker 1: this is what happened. These are my convictions. How do 332 00:19:10,520 --> 00:19:13,119 Speaker 1: you feel about me taking a public stance And he said, 333 00:19:13,560 --> 00:19:17,160 Speaker 1: speak your heart. I will support you in anything you do, 334 00:19:17,440 --> 00:19:21,280 Speaker 1: which now I'm realizing God put me at the University 335 00:19:21,280 --> 00:19:24,160 Speaker 1: of Kentucky. He put me in the position to where 336 00:19:24,240 --> 00:19:29,360 Speaker 1: Leah Thomas and I tied because there's no other athletic 337 00:19:29,400 --> 00:19:32,600 Speaker 1: director in the NC double A who's a supportive of 338 00:19:33,560 --> 00:19:38,439 Speaker 1: their athletes and their true convictions as Mitch Barnhart was 339 00:19:38,480 --> 00:19:42,639 Speaker 1: to me. So I'm so grateful for my university and 340 00:19:42,640 --> 00:19:46,359 Speaker 1: my coaches. I never dealt. Dealt was silencing, which is 341 00:19:46,640 --> 00:19:49,440 Speaker 1: one hundred percent an anomaly, you know, and then what's 342 00:19:49,480 --> 00:19:51,320 Speaker 1: been you know, obviously you've had the support of the 343 00:19:51,400 --> 00:19:54,119 Speaker 1: University of Kentucky, which is beautiful to hear that. You know, 344 00:19:54,119 --> 00:19:56,600 Speaker 1: there's still places of sanity out there on all of this. 345 00:19:56,800 --> 00:19:59,679 Speaker 1: What's been the public response? Like, you know, how has 346 00:19:59,720 --> 00:20:02,920 Speaker 1: that been for you? You You know, at first, it was 347 00:20:02,960 --> 00:20:06,040 Speaker 1: hard for me to handle all the negative comments, all 348 00:20:06,080 --> 00:20:09,920 Speaker 1: the death threats, all of the comments about my appearance, 349 00:20:10,000 --> 00:20:13,120 Speaker 1: and so many people telling me that this isn't what 350 00:20:13,200 --> 00:20:15,920 Speaker 1: christ would do, You're not a Christian. That was hard 351 00:20:15,960 --> 00:20:21,000 Speaker 1: for me to hear. But now, oh my gosh, the 352 00:20:21,119 --> 00:20:25,639 Speaker 1: support is tenfold. I mean, there is so much more support, 353 00:20:25,800 --> 00:20:29,280 Speaker 1: especially as people get more comfortable and more instances happen 354 00:20:29,400 --> 00:20:34,239 Speaker 1: similar to the Leah Thomas one again in prisons, I 355 00:20:34,240 --> 00:20:37,200 Speaker 1: mean just all over where women are essentially getting erased, 356 00:20:37,720 --> 00:20:40,760 Speaker 1: people are becoming more vocal, and people are providing support, 357 00:20:40,800 --> 00:20:45,320 Speaker 1: and it has been so so much more support than 358 00:20:45,359 --> 00:20:49,479 Speaker 1: anything negative. And now I'm so secure with myself and 359 00:20:49,520 --> 00:20:52,760 Speaker 1: I stand so firm that the negative comments go in 360 00:20:52,880 --> 00:20:56,360 Speaker 1: one ear and out of the other. I know I'm 361 00:20:56,359 --> 00:20:59,080 Speaker 1: not transphobic. I think that word is socially I'm not 362 00:20:59,200 --> 00:21:02,960 Speaker 1: scared of trans people. I do think trans people should 363 00:21:03,000 --> 00:21:06,120 Speaker 1: have rights. I think no one should be denied athletic opportunity, 364 00:21:06,400 --> 00:21:10,840 Speaker 1: but we should all compete fairly. What makes one person's 365 00:21:11,040 --> 00:21:15,359 Speaker 1: identity and mental health and feelings more valuable over a 366 00:21:15,520 --> 00:21:20,840 Speaker 1: whole other groups, their mental health, what about their feelings? 367 00:21:20,960 --> 00:21:25,080 Speaker 1: Of course, no one's asking that about us and us 368 00:21:25,119 --> 00:21:30,800 Speaker 1: as female athletes, so but there's been so much more 369 00:21:30,840 --> 00:21:33,720 Speaker 1: support than anything negative. Well, if you've noticed, you know, 370 00:21:33,800 --> 00:21:36,520 Speaker 1: it's a tactic of the left to label people names. 371 00:21:36,640 --> 00:21:39,000 Speaker 1: You know, for instance, you don't get the vaccine, you're 372 00:21:39,040 --> 00:21:41,600 Speaker 1: an anti vaxx. You know, it's like there's always a 373 00:21:41,720 --> 00:21:45,440 Speaker 1: label to try to, you know, put the societal shame 374 00:21:45,520 --> 00:21:48,080 Speaker 1: on people that they want to shut up. And it's unfortunate, 375 00:21:48,119 --> 00:21:49,919 Speaker 1: but to your point, you just have to know, you 376 00:21:49,920 --> 00:21:51,560 Speaker 1: know what they're going to do this anyways, and I 377 00:21:51,600 --> 00:21:54,440 Speaker 1: know what I'm doing is right. I've had so many 378 00:21:54,440 --> 00:21:59,359 Speaker 1: conversations with my family, with my friends, lots of prayer, 379 00:21:59,560 --> 00:22:03,720 Speaker 1: and I know my true heart, I know my true 380 00:22:03,760 --> 00:22:06,560 Speaker 1: intentions and my true intentions or not to advance myself 381 00:22:06,600 --> 00:22:12,320 Speaker 1: personally throughout this matter. But it's to make changes both 382 00:22:12,320 --> 00:22:14,320 Speaker 1: at the state and federal levels. So this doesn't have 383 00:22:14,359 --> 00:22:17,320 Speaker 1: to happen to any girl. Again, no girls should compare 384 00:22:17,320 --> 00:22:19,159 Speaker 1: themselves to a man. Is that where you get your 385 00:22:19,200 --> 00:22:22,600 Speaker 1: strength from through your faith? Definitely, it's a huge part 386 00:22:22,600 --> 00:22:27,280 Speaker 1: of me and here recently, I feel like I don't 387 00:22:27,280 --> 00:22:30,680 Speaker 1: know if I was just naive before, but I just 388 00:22:30,840 --> 00:22:33,920 Speaker 1: feel like with everything happening in our society, I mean, 389 00:22:34,359 --> 00:22:37,040 Speaker 1: look at what's happening, what happened at the Grammys where 390 00:22:37,040 --> 00:22:40,320 Speaker 1: we have someone dressing up as Satan. I mean, I mean, 391 00:22:40,440 --> 00:22:43,800 Speaker 1: I just feel like we live in this godless society, 392 00:22:43,840 --> 00:22:47,119 Speaker 1: and I feel like that's kind of why we've taken 393 00:22:47,200 --> 00:22:52,680 Speaker 1: this spiral down to which I think everyone can agree on. 394 00:22:53,800 --> 00:22:56,200 Speaker 1: Look at what's happening. I mean, there's so many different 395 00:22:56,520 --> 00:22:59,640 Speaker 1: assets that I'm not even just sports, this is far 396 00:22:59,680 --> 00:23:05,640 Speaker 1: beyond that are just plummeting. And so I feel like 397 00:23:05,720 --> 00:23:10,520 Speaker 1: we just live in this godless society where we've lost 398 00:23:10,560 --> 00:23:14,879 Speaker 1: our morals, We've lost our sense of common sense, like 399 00:23:14,920 --> 00:23:18,800 Speaker 1: our common sense, our understanding of truth and reality and 400 00:23:18,880 --> 00:23:22,680 Speaker 1: logic and how that's crucial. We have people who deny 401 00:23:22,760 --> 00:23:25,480 Speaker 1: truth till they're blue in the face, and it's really 402 00:23:25,640 --> 00:23:29,480 Speaker 1: heartbreaking to see and to hear. I totally agree with you. 403 00:23:29,520 --> 00:23:31,679 Speaker 1: I mean, I think there's been a total blurring of 404 00:23:31,720 --> 00:23:34,480 Speaker 1: the lines of what's right and wrong and an intentional 405 00:23:34,560 --> 00:23:38,639 Speaker 1: chaos that they're creating and defying of the truth intentionally, 406 00:23:38,680 --> 00:23:41,359 Speaker 1: because a lot can thrive in chaos, right, It creates 407 00:23:41,359 --> 00:23:44,320 Speaker 1: and anything goes society, and it seems like that's the 408 00:23:44,320 --> 00:23:46,560 Speaker 1: whole intention of this, and also why they have such 409 00:23:46,560 --> 00:23:49,359 Speaker 1: a problem with people like you standing up for what 410 00:23:49,480 --> 00:23:51,680 Speaker 1: is right and standing up for what is true. There's 411 00:23:51,720 --> 00:23:56,280 Speaker 1: no open dialogue anymore either, and I know you kind 412 00:23:56,280 --> 00:23:58,080 Speaker 1: of touched on this. If someone doesn't agree with you, 413 00:23:58,160 --> 00:24:02,400 Speaker 1: it's just labeled them as something. There's no conversation, which 414 00:24:02,480 --> 00:24:04,400 Speaker 1: is what I wanted to engage. And I've reached out 415 00:24:04,400 --> 00:24:08,879 Speaker 1: to CNN and left wing sites and media outlets numerous 416 00:24:08,920 --> 00:24:11,000 Speaker 1: times to have me on because I want to spread 417 00:24:11,040 --> 00:24:13,920 Speaker 1: the message to more than just conservatives, because I think 418 00:24:13,960 --> 00:24:17,280 Speaker 1: this is something that matters and should matter to more 419 00:24:17,280 --> 00:24:20,760 Speaker 1: than just conservatives. But they're unwilling to even have me 420 00:24:20,800 --> 00:24:23,800 Speaker 1: on to talk about it, which is sad because I 421 00:24:23,840 --> 00:24:26,800 Speaker 1: think this is something that we should conversation, that we 422 00:24:26,800 --> 00:24:31,640 Speaker 1: should embrace with open open hearts, open minds. But that's 423 00:24:31,800 --> 00:24:34,440 Speaker 1: of course not the way this and so many other 424 00:24:34,480 --> 00:24:37,320 Speaker 1: issues are going. I do believe that bravery leads to 425 00:24:37,359 --> 00:24:40,639 Speaker 1: other bravery, and I think you sort of setting a 426 00:24:40,680 --> 00:24:43,760 Speaker 1: path and standing up will eventually lead to other people 427 00:24:43,840 --> 00:24:46,639 Speaker 1: doing the same. So I deeply respect you. I'll give 428 00:24:46,680 --> 00:24:48,520 Speaker 1: you myself if you ever want to talk. I'm here. 429 00:24:48,560 --> 00:24:50,800 Speaker 1: I've worked in the media. See, you get used to 430 00:24:50,840 --> 00:24:57,800 Speaker 1: being called things, so it's a sunfortunate but I sympathize 431 00:24:57,800 --> 00:25:00,879 Speaker 1: and empathize with you. So Riley gay, and you're a 432 00:25:00,920 --> 00:25:03,640 Speaker 1: heck of a woman. Very proud of you. Tons of respect. 433 00:25:03,840 --> 00:25:06,280 Speaker 1: Thank you for doing what you're doing well. I appreciate 434 00:25:06,320 --> 00:25:08,600 Speaker 1: that so so much, and I thank you for everything 435 00:25:08,640 --> 00:25:12,840 Speaker 1: that you do. Truly, it's just inspiring. So thank you 436 00:25:18,560 --> 00:25:22,520 Speaker 1: those Riley Gains speaking out on some of this transgender 437 00:25:22,600 --> 00:25:26,000 Speaker 1: craziness that we live in, this crazy society that we 438 00:25:26,040 --> 00:25:29,400 Speaker 1: live in, standing bravely for the truth. So she mentioned 439 00:25:29,400 --> 00:25:31,720 Speaker 1: twenty two years old, very young to have that much 440 00:25:31,760 --> 00:25:34,400 Speaker 1: wisdom and to have that much bravery and strength. So 441 00:25:34,560 --> 00:25:36,480 Speaker 1: I appreciate her coming on the show. I want to 442 00:25:36,520 --> 00:25:39,320 Speaker 1: thank you guys at home for listening every Monday and Thursday, 443 00:25:39,320 --> 00:25:41,159 Speaker 1: but you can listen throughout the week. I want to 444 00:25:41,160 --> 00:25:43,679 Speaker 1: thank my producer, John Cassio for putting the show together. 445 00:25:44,080 --> 00:25:46,640 Speaker 1: Leave us a rating or review on Apple Podcasts Until 446 00:25:46,720 --> 00:25:47,160 Speaker 1: next time.