WEBVTT - Orange Is The New Mess w/ Sonia Denis 

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<v Speaker 1>Oh you're listening a mess. Hello, the fake laugh coming

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<v Speaker 1>into it.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, you're always doing that, yeah, Janet Jackson, Yeah, don't

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<v Speaker 2>do that.

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<v Speaker 1>Stop touching.

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<v Speaker 2>Touch you there.

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<v Speaker 1>Hello, we're at mess. We are doing it. He said, Hello.

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<v Speaker 2>Tyler Perry, Tyler Perry, Tyler Perry. He's you know, he

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<v Speaker 2>always got something going on. There's always something going on.

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<v Speaker 2>It's never a dull moment with him. And I thank

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<v Speaker 2>him for that. Really, you're thinking, Tyler Perry, I don't

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<v Speaker 2>usually do that, but he does contribute to the mess.

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<v Speaker 2>And so since we're good at that here, we have to,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, uplift these people who provide for mess constantly.

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<v Speaker 1>This is true.

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<v Speaker 2>People have been providing for mess. I mean some of

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<v Speaker 2>twenty five.

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<v Speaker 1>I think a lot of.

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<v Speaker 2>People just like you know, they're just like, I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 2>do whatever. I think it's important. Well, hm, I think

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<v Speaker 2>sometimes the wrong people are doing whatever. I think certain

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<v Speaker 2>people should do whatever, and I trust them with their whateverness.

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<v Speaker 2>But I feel like you're a safe person to do whatever.

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<v Speaker 2>It's exciting, it's a story, it's exciting, but it's it'd

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<v Speaker 2>be a little bit unhinged at times. You know.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like you know it's it's not the most professional mess.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, you're a professional, a mess, a mess, But

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<v Speaker 2>what do you mean not professional?

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<v Speaker 1>Like do you have an example, sister? I don't have

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<v Speaker 1>an example.

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<v Speaker 2>Actually I don't my I feel like my mess now

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<v Speaker 2>is me trying to come up with like little cute scams,

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<v Speaker 2>you know what I'm saying. Okay, Like, so I ordered,

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<v Speaker 2>I told you I got this like storage bench, yes,

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<v Speaker 2>from Facebook marketplace. Right when I get there, this lady

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<v Speaker 2>had two little chihuahuas.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, nowhere in the post it.

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<v Speaker 2>To say she had dogs, but the thing was cute,

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<v Speaker 2>it was the right size, and so I got it.

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<v Speaker 1>Yep.

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<v Speaker 2>I bring it all the way home. The next day,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like, what is that smell? And I feel like

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<v Speaker 2>I can smell the dogs on the bench.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, you told this story right, Yes.

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<v Speaker 2>So I like I got for Breeze. I've been spraying

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<v Speaker 2>a crap out of it, and I'm like and I'm like,

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<v Speaker 2>so yesterday I was laying on it and I got

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<v Speaker 2>up because I can still smell it. I've had this

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<v Speaker 2>bench now for like a month and a half. Yes, so,

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<v Speaker 2>but the dog the smell is not going away. The

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<v Speaker 2>for Breeze is done. I sprayed the whole thing. So

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<v Speaker 2>I was online yesterday and I was looking and I

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<v Speaker 2>was like, oh my god, she got this bench from Amazon.

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<v Speaker 2>And I was like, if I order it from Amazon

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<v Speaker 2>and then can I return this bench back to Amazon.

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<v Speaker 2>That's what I mean when I say little baby.

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<v Speaker 1>Scams, you're scaring the corporation.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like, they will get the bench back. It's just

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<v Speaker 2>gonna be the dog bench. But then I'll be in

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<v Speaker 2>a home that dog smell free. I mean I don't.

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<v Speaker 2>The thing is is that you could try it. There's

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<v Speaker 2>nothing wrong with trying, but that feels like a lot

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<v Speaker 2>of work, right because now I gotta like, because it's

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<v Speaker 2>a the you've been on it, it's like two people,

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<v Speaker 2>two and a half people could sit on this bench.

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<v Speaker 2>Why don't you hit her up and be like, yo,

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<v Speaker 2>I've had this for a month and a half.

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<v Speaker 1>It smells like dog. What is she gonna say?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, well it's out of my apartment and you already

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<v Speaker 2>paid for it, sister, can you run me my money

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<v Speaker 2>back or like, run me some money back? Because now

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<v Speaker 2>I have to actually buy a bench that doesn't smell

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<v Speaker 2>like you know, snoopy. So your solution thank you, Snoopy.

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<v Speaker 2>So your solution is you think I should hit this

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<v Speaker 2>lady up. You don't think too much time has passed

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<v Speaker 2>for me to hit this lady up and be like, oh,

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<v Speaker 2>you deceived me. You and them smelly as dogs trick me.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't even know if I could find her contact.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh it's been that long.

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<v Speaker 2>It might I might have had this bench for like

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<v Speaker 2>two months.

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<v Speaker 1>Damns.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, sometimes there's that they were transpired where you're like,

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<v Speaker 2>you just got to take that l because smelling like

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<v Speaker 2>dog nothing since we don't have dogs, it's a no.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, did the dogs live in this? I think

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<v Speaker 1>so that might have been their spot, the spot on

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<v Speaker 1>it like it. The smell never went away. So are

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<v Speaker 1>you gonna get another bench? Because you know, my.

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<v Speaker 2>Fear now is because you know sometimes when you order

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<v Speaker 2>something on Amazon, they'd be like, we'll give you a refund,

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<v Speaker 2>but keep it. My fear is'm gonna have two of

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<v Speaker 2>the same bench. I guess I could put one outside.

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<v Speaker 1>You could, there's all, there's all there, there's a will,

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<v Speaker 1>there's a way.

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<v Speaker 2>But I think that See that's the thing with Facebook Marketplace,

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<v Speaker 2>its like and they always be taking these pictures and

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<v Speaker 2>lighting that you're.

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<v Speaker 1>Like, oh yeah, this is this is bombed and you

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<v Speaker 1>get there, you're like, this is broken down, this is ashy.

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<v Speaker 1>Did somebody die on this?

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<v Speaker 2>And I think that and it's so hard to call

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<v Speaker 2>people out on it after you be like, oh yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm a buy this, thank you.

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<v Speaker 1>But that's what I'm saying, like, so, I'm.

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<v Speaker 2>I think you should get another one friend because something

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<v Speaker 2>smell like dog. You don't even even care.

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<v Speaker 1>For believing dogs?

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<v Speaker 2>Ye, all dogs do go to heaven. Well, these dogs

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<v Speaker 2>went to the bathroom on this bench. All dogs pete

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<v Speaker 2>on his bench.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, ma'am. So that's that's what I'm talking about. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>here for the small little scams by Reezi.

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<v Speaker 2>But then like everything is not a scam, but that

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<v Speaker 2>a scam if she was not a scam, right, okay?

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<v Speaker 1>Boom.

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<v Speaker 2>So I dropped off a bunch of clothing that I

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<v Speaker 2>got in Japan or for Japan at the drag cleaners.

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<v Speaker 2>One of the things that I got is this little

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<v Speaker 2>mini skirt that I got from Revolve that costs way

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<v Speaker 2>too much money.

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<v Speaker 1>I truly didn't.

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<v Speaker 2>Even know if I was gonna keep it because it

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<v Speaker 2>was I was like, this is that much fabric and

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<v Speaker 2>it costs how much? It was like a hundred and

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<v Speaker 2>something done?

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<v Speaker 1>But what made you get that skirt? Because I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm living in abundance. It's like I got rid of

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<v Speaker 1>a bunch of stuff that are like low quality.

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<v Speaker 2>Fast fashion. Let me pay for something. Let me pay

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<v Speaker 2>this price for this thing and maybe it'll be quality.

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<v Speaker 2>Living in abundance, But the skirt is this The fabric

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<v Speaker 2>is not abundant.

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<v Speaker 1>Is that fabric is not abundant?

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<v Speaker 2>But but the budget for the skirt, I was like,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm living a bundantly. The skirt came, I tried it on.

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<v Speaker 2>It looked good with some of the outfits and I

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<v Speaker 2>was like, yeah, Japanese schoolgirl in Japan.

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<v Speaker 1>And like, I WoT the skirt one time. I brought

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<v Speaker 1>it to the drag cleaners.

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<v Speaker 2>When I got back and when I went to pick

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<v Speaker 2>up all my crap, they were.

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<v Speaker 1>Like, we can't find the skirt. You lost the skirt?

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<v Speaker 2>I said, I wore that skirt one time. Do you

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<v Speaker 2>know how much that skirt costs? Hey call us tomorrow

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<v Speaker 2>or call us on a couple in a couple of days.

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<v Speaker 2>Were gonna see if the cleaners lost it, because they

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<v Speaker 2>send the stuff out. No, the daughter of the cleaners,

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<v Speaker 2>God damn skirt. She she she's out club Zuli right now,

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<v Speaker 2>right now.

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<v Speaker 1>I've been to this drag cleanness now like maybe five

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<v Speaker 1>or six times. Skirt is gone.

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<v Speaker 2>They're like, oh yeah, we never found it. She put

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<v Speaker 2>me on the phone with the guy.

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<v Speaker 1>He's like, listen, said does the receipt?

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, send a receipt. I never sent the receipt, he said,

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<v Speaker 2>I sent.

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<v Speaker 1>I texted the receipt.

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<v Speaker 2>No response. I'm like, hello, no response. I sent the

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<v Speaker 2>screenshot of the email, me scrolling through so he can

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<v Speaker 2>see that. It's that's it's like legit, Like I'm not

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<v Speaker 2>scamming them.

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<v Speaker 1>No response.

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<v Speaker 2>Sis, pull up, you gotta pull I'm queen, pull up.

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<v Speaker 2>Don't wait for nobody.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm going to the clean up.

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<v Speaker 2>To the cleaner. The lady is like, well, we send

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<v Speaker 2>the stuff out. They must have lost it. And the

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<v Speaker 2>person that I'm talking to is the guy that I

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<v Speaker 2>sent the receipts. Tough is now not I'll call him because.

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<v Speaker 1>I have his number. I'm gonna call him because I've

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<v Speaker 1>been texting. But what I'm gonna call it from? Do

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<v Speaker 1>want you to call from a different number?

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<v Speaker 2>And I'll be like, I'm your representative. A right, this

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<v Speaker 2>is on behalf of my client Washkowitz and Washington Legal Firm.

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<v Speaker 2>And uh, my client here says that you misplaced his skirt.

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<v Speaker 1>Was it five hundred dollars?

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<v Speaker 2>No, it was like one hundred and eighty dollars skirt,

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<v Speaker 2>which is in sustain with me.

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<v Speaker 1>Five hundred dollars. We're gonna need that money.

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<v Speaker 2>I can write it, and I, you know me, I'm

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<v Speaker 2>not spending that on a skirt. And then I spent

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<v Speaker 2>it and I was like, I don't even know I'm

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<v Speaker 2>gonna keep this. Maybe I'll rerid in Japan and I'll

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<v Speaker 2>bring it back. And then I wore it in Japan

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<v Speaker 2>and I got back and I was like.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just gonna keep it. Already worried I'm gonna keep it.

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<v Speaker 2>But I should have said, you're in this cold chip gut.

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<v Speaker 2>If I had sent it back, I wouldn't have had it.

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<v Speaker 2>I didn't send it back and now I still don't

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<v Speaker 2>have it.

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<v Speaker 1>Friend.

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<v Speaker 2>You know what that means. You gotta stop spending money.

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<v Speaker 2>That's where the root is. It's not a stop scanning.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh okay, my mess. My mess is that I'm you

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<v Speaker 2>know still on my fitness journey. I'm working out twice

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<v Speaker 2>a day. My body hurts, my back aches. It's a lot,

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<v Speaker 2>it's a lot. I don't have I don't have a

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<v Speaker 2>gym unit. I don't have the hair for the gym.

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<v Speaker 2>You also have to work out outside. Crazy crazy, So

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<v Speaker 2>we usually walk the track at night. That's cute, that's cute.

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<v Speaker 2>Today we said we're gonna switch it up. We're gonna

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<v Speaker 2>switch it up. We're gonna play basketball.

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<v Speaker 1>We're playing skin. We don't know how to play basketball.

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<v Speaker 2>But Dwyane bought a basketball that was small size.

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<v Speaker 1>It was not like a baby basketball.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know, it's not a daven Buster's size, but

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<v Speaker 2>it's a next side.

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<v Speaker 1>Like a Bunba basketball. Don't do that. Don't do that.

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<v Speaker 2>Because we go to the park and there's all these

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<v Speaker 2>girls doing drills. What it's a whole team of high

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<v Speaker 2>school lady basketball player, eighty basketball players. We're doing drills,

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<v Speaker 2>working out. I don't know if it's a class or

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<v Speaker 2>a team. Whatever, they're doing it. They're killing it. They're

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<v Speaker 2>killing it.

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<v Speaker 1>And me in tight biker shorts like.

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<v Speaker 2>How wipe the play love and hip hop, loving basketball,

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<v Speaker 2>all of that and so me and Dwyane are in

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<v Speaker 2>sunglasses basketball missing, missing the whop constantly.

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<v Speaker 1>And it's also a thousand degrees outside.

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<v Speaker 2>When you say playing basketball, y'all playing a game or y'all.

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<v Speaker 1>Just shooting the ball. We're just shooting the ball. We're

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<v Speaker 1>just trying.

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<v Speaker 2>We're like for them, we're youtubing how to do the drills.

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<v Speaker 2>We're youtubing how to play basketball.

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<v Speaker 1>It's in barrel. It's two.

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<v Speaker 2>It's the gays are not doing it right when it

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<v Speaker 2>comes to this sport. And so these young girls are

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<v Speaker 2>watching us be so unserious in our life.

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<v Speaker 1>They're not gonna make it to the finals.

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<v Speaker 2>No, baby, we're not even in the practice. Don't even

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<v Speaker 2>put us in the game. And so first we go

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<v Speaker 2>up to they're like, can we use the other the

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<v Speaker 2>other court? They're like, for now, for now, we know,

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<v Speaker 2>we know you're not about not about nothing.

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<v Speaker 1>So we were going.

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<v Speaker 2>Also, we put sunscreen on. It's important.

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<v Speaker 1>We are cooking, cooking.

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<v Speaker 2>It's the white is coming down my face, his face,

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<v Speaker 2>the braids that are underneath, the braids that are underneath

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<v Speaker 2>sh they oh my god, it's so it's I honestly,

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<v Speaker 2>it's my fault. I should have just came in a

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<v Speaker 2>bonnet or a headscarf for something. I looked insane with it,

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<v Speaker 2>and it's it's shifting. It's shifting while I'm dribbling the ball,

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<v Speaker 2>and I'm holding onto the hair while I'm dribbling, and

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<v Speaker 2>then I'm trying to make the hoop, and it's please

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<v Speaker 2>show me how you shut the ball. I just want

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<v Speaker 2>to see because they looked like you gave us the no. No,

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<v Speaker 2>it's given me half a video. Well to do your

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<v Speaker 2>hand one more time? How did you shoot it? Wow,

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<v Speaker 2>that's the goods. Yeah, yeah, show us how you threw

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<v Speaker 2>it in. I'm doing it, but it's these nails and

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<v Speaker 2>nails are in the way. So we're trying to we're

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<v Speaker 2>trying to make we're doing like ten we need to

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<v Speaker 2>make ten shots ms.

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<v Speaker 1>I will. We're gonna put it in the dump that

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<v Speaker 1>it's so bad. Please.

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<v Speaker 2>So we're just trying to diversify our portfolio with our workouts.

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<v Speaker 2>And yeah, I don't know that I have. If you

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<v Speaker 2>guys can give me options for other things for workouts.

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<v Speaker 2>For workouts, well, now like activities. I don't want to

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<v Speaker 2>just be in the gym. I don't want to just

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<v Speaker 2>walk the track.

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<v Speaker 1>Girl, to just run.

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<v Speaker 2>There's different types of workout classes you can take. Talk

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<v Speaker 2>to me nice, you know, like a chabata fitness Chamata chabata,

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<v Speaker 2>it's called tobata, not chibata. My bad, you've done that orange. Yeah, okay,

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<v Speaker 2>you do orange theory. Okay, you can.

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<v Speaker 1>Do butts and guts, abs and ass.

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<v Speaker 2>There's all these classes that will work very specific things

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<v Speaker 2>of your body. You're living in an abundance. You want

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<v Speaker 2>to you want to get me a you want to

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<v Speaker 2>give me a class? Gnosis, I lost one hundred and

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<v Speaker 2>eighty Actually, if I had the price of the bench

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<v Speaker 2>to the to.

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<v Speaker 1>What I've lost.

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<v Speaker 2>No, you said in some living in abundance? Do I

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<v Speaker 2>want to give you a gin class?

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<v Speaker 1>Girl?

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<v Speaker 2>I need a gin class. That's why don't you get

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<v Speaker 2>us a gym?

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<v Speaker 1>Am? I your man? Wooh, I don't have a man.

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<v Speaker 1>I have a woman.

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<v Speaker 2>And thank God for our guests today. We we it's

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<v Speaker 2>we were losing things, but we're winning here today. We're

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<v Speaker 2>winning here with our Saptabulist guests. Fresh off of everything

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<v Speaker 2>that's going on for you. You're gonna be in Ironheart. Yes, Yes,

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<v Speaker 2>that's on Disney. Yes, can't wait to see it.

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<v Speaker 3>In the middling Hi, Sonya I call every time I

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<v Speaker 3>see it's it's noise at this point, like I just mean,

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<v Speaker 3>like so many people say it wrong, right, it just

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<v Speaker 3>I corrected everyone.

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<v Speaker 1>What does sonya mean?

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<v Speaker 2>Like, what's the what's the what's the definition?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 4>But what I do know is every time I get

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<v Speaker 4>in an uber or lyft, Russian will tell me it's Russian.

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<v Speaker 4>A person from South America told me a South American,

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<v Speaker 4>like somebody who was Indiana.

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<v Speaker 1>It'll be like, oh, are you lie? So it's a

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<v Speaker 1>universal name.

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<v Speaker 2>I have no oh ethnic, Yes, you can go with anything,

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<v Speaker 2>right now, you're all that name.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, obey, obey, now obey. That's mess. It is not

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<v Speaker 1>all purpose. Albeit it's Maryland.

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<v Speaker 2>So I feel like, yeah, they put it on seafood,

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<v Speaker 2>they put it on vegetables, they put it on wings.

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<v Speaker 2>You put out that's mess seafood. It's not for the

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<v Speaker 2>meat crabs. I'm not a crab person. I know that's

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<v Speaker 2>going to like give me. It's just so bad, it's

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<v Speaker 2>so much work. I'm not really a crab person either.

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<v Speaker 4>And that yellow thing, you know, the yellow stuff that's

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<v Speaker 4>in crabs.

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<v Speaker 1>You don't get that. I don't do the whole body

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<v Speaker 1>in the body. I think, yeah, I think the can

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<v Speaker 1>I curse on that's it's ship, you know, ship crap ship.

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<v Speaker 2>I think you'll be eating the crabs.

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<v Speaker 1>I do the legs. I do the legs, and it's

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<v Speaker 1>so much work. You're cracking and you get but this

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<v Speaker 1>much total meat.

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<v Speaker 2>And it be mad like shell and you got a bier.

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<v Speaker 1>Bunk, gloves tools to get this much meat.

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<v Speaker 2>You're saying all this and y'all date men, okay, which

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<v Speaker 2>is a lot of work, and you get a little

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<v Speaker 2>out of that.

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<v Speaker 1>That's what I have no energy, no energy for to

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<v Speaker 1>stop the drama.

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<v Speaker 2>I get what I need to get sitting here dating

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<v Speaker 2>a woman and you can't get her to play for

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<v Speaker 2>the gym CA so.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh I can. So if I asked, I can.

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<v Speaker 4>Just your girlfriend's treating you know what you should get.

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<v Speaker 4>I was thinking when you all were talking class past,

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<v Speaker 4>have you heard class you can do? You get like

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<v Speaker 4>fifty sixty credits. I got it for free. That's actually

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<v Speaker 4>a free because I'll send you the link. You could

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<v Speaker 4>like you could find a link and it'll be like

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<v Speaker 4>Dermatologica or something like that, and it'll be like they

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<v Speaker 4>want you to get one month free. But I got

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<v Speaker 4>like I took a bunch of classes and I was

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<v Speaker 4>like back to back to back back. I took pilates,

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<v Speaker 4>I took spin class, I took a dance class.

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<v Speaker 1>I took whining. One on one did not recommend whining.

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<v Speaker 1>Who was teaching a lady.

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<v Speaker 4>No, a whole whiner, like a like a person from

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<v Speaker 4>the Caribbean. And she she was so but she would

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<v Speaker 4>be like, she wasn't teaching you how to do No.

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<v Speaker 1>She would be like her do it like I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know how I do it.

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<v Speaker 4>But and I'm like, and I gotta stiff back, which

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<v Speaker 4>I thought i'd be good.

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<v Speaker 1>I was not good. So when you have a stiff

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<v Speaker 1>up but you look so flexible.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean that day I was not. And she kept

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<v Speaker 4>there's a whole white woman next to me. Oh, she

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<v Speaker 4>was in there, but she wasn't doing it well. She

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<v Speaker 4>was she was doing something, and I think I feel

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<v Speaker 4>like I was being singled out because I.

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<v Speaker 1>Looked like I should be able to do it. But

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<v Speaker 1>I was like the hips from no Girl. I walked

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<v Speaker 1>out of there. I put my head down.

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<v Speaker 4>I said, I've never seen these people ever again in

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<v Speaker 4>my life, because.

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<v Speaker 1>At one point she gives us choreo.

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<v Speaker 4>I thought it was just gonna be like one two,

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<v Speaker 4>like you know, once you step like she's out here

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<v Speaker 4>like and I want and I too, and and then

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<v Speaker 4>and then she split the class up. She's like, all right,

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<v Speaker 4>one half is gonna watch y'all. My brain went blank.

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<v Speaker 4>I was in there like I'm out.

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<v Speaker 1>I took.

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<v Speaker 2>I took a Haitian dance class one. I said, let's

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<v Speaker 2>see what this is about.

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<v Speaker 1>First time.

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<v Speaker 2>It was somebody's like like old uncle. It was it

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<v Speaker 2>was a man teaching it. So I was like okay,

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<v Speaker 2>and he was like, and you do it like these

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<v Speaker 2>And I was like, no, I'm not. He wasn't teaching us.

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<v Speaker 1>It's the same thing. It's like, babe, what But.

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<v Speaker 2>It was funny. I had a good time like something

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<v Speaker 2>like that.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>I was in my head trying to be losing something

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<v Speaker 2>forty five minutes to an hour. I just need to

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<v Speaker 2>be sitting in my body. I wanna go back to

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<v Speaker 2>the Haitian disceclass with you. I would even pay for it.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh now that it's so unsay for it? Girl, you laughing,

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<v Speaker 2>because you know I'm gonna be bad at it. Girl,

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<v Speaker 2>we would be bad at it because but then and

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<v Speaker 2>then it was like he was like this and this

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<v Speaker 2>and yes and this, and I was like, I've never

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<v Speaker 2>seen my dad do this.

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<v Speaker 1>But okay they didn't have is it on class past? No? Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>pay out.

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<v Speaker 4>Of pocket, but there are there's that on class past too.

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<v Speaker 4>Because I went to a second class. I was like,

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<v Speaker 4>maybe it was a fluke.

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<v Speaker 1>No, it was you. It was you. I just can't

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<v Speaker 1>do corio.

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<v Speaker 4>I can do like if you give me my brain.

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<v Speaker 4>My memory span is like this. But once he got

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<v Speaker 4>through the third step, I'm like, but.

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<v Speaker 1>You're an actress and you you booked. That's my mind.

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<v Speaker 4>It's like the mind body connection, like my brain would

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<v Speaker 4>be like hold up, I need ten minutes to go

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<v Speaker 4>practice this by myself without y'all looking at me.

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<v Speaker 1>I can't do and I'll come back.

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<v Speaker 2>I watched them do it and I'm like, okay, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>and then they're like do.

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<v Speaker 1>It and I'm like, how is you? I just did

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<v Speaker 1>it one time?

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<v Speaker 2>So confusing in my like what I think? My body

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<v Speaker 2>is like yes, fully against it. Yes, It's like I'll

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<v Speaker 2>know it in my head. And then when I try

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<v Speaker 2>to actually do it, the body is like, let's do

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<v Speaker 2>the opposite of that, the signal does not go. And

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<v Speaker 2>then but that's why we're funny, Like I feel like

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<v Speaker 2>it's not. My friend was like, yo, you can't be

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<v Speaker 2>good at everything, girl.

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<v Speaker 1>Funny people who can dance, I know, Dwayne Wurkins, it

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<v Speaker 1>is so good.

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<v Speaker 2>Some people got it something all but Sidney, I see

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<v Speaker 2>your freestyle.

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<v Speaker 1>You can you can make it up just a little bit.

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<v Speaker 1>Absolutely not.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean the best time of my life is obviously

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<v Speaker 2>when I was on Mali and cocaine and liquor, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>because you're no inhibition, I'm just my body is loose.

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<v Speaker 2>And so it's kind of like this is a bad analogy,

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<v Speaker 2>but it's kind of like you know, drunk drivers when

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<v Speaker 2>they get an accident, their body is just going anyway.

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<v Speaker 2>So that's why a lot of time they don't die

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<v Speaker 2>because they're just going there. Yea, that's a bad example,

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<v Speaker 2>but a good bad example, good bad example. But for me, like,

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<v Speaker 2>because I'm so conscious of me dancing sober, it just

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<v Speaker 2>is I'm stopping myself every time. I'm not just letting

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<v Speaker 2>it go, you know what i mean. And then I'm

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<v Speaker 2>trying to remember on top of that, and like do

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<v Speaker 2>I look sexy? It's like I'm thinking, I'm moving my

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<v Speaker 2>head like this and looking like you know, it's also

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<v Speaker 2>just like where are you looking at?

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<v Speaker 1>What are you doing? The mirror is too much. See,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't like the mirror because it makes.

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<v Speaker 4>It worse because then, like you said, there's the disconnect.

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<v Speaker 1>You think, oh, I can do what he does, and

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<v Speaker 1>you see yourself You're like.

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<v Speaker 2>Hm, you need the mirror to be like, oh, actually

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not doing it. I like the mirror when I

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<v Speaker 2>do workout classes because or like you know, like the

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<v Speaker 2>instructors up there doing it and I'm I'm not even looking.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like And then when I did ballet last year,

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<v Speaker 2>I like, yeah, the bar or like actual like the bar,

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<v Speaker 2>but we also did like floor stuff.

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<v Speaker 1>But you know, I'm I get it, Sidney.

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<v Speaker 2>Like all last year I was trying to like trick

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<v Speaker 2>myself into working out because going to the gym is

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<v Speaker 2>boring and expensive and once you join the gym, you

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<v Speaker 2>can't cancel that membership.

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<v Speaker 1>No, they make you do everything.

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<v Speaker 2>But you got an email corporate, you got to send

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<v Speaker 2>your left last for your social your mom got to

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<v Speaker 2>write a note, your doctor got to say you got

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<v Speaker 2>a bad back.

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<v Speaker 1>Is there a.

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<v Speaker 2>Bird here, like because you know what it is, so

0:20:24.680 --> 0:20:27.919
<v Speaker 2>many people quit things they started, they quit, they started,

0:20:27.920 --> 0:20:30.200
<v Speaker 2>they quit, and people said no, no, no, I fuck that,

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<v Speaker 2>And the gym is probably one of the biggest places

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<v Speaker 2>where people are like, you know what. At the beginning

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<v Speaker 2>of the year, I am gone, I get apps. I'm

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<v Speaker 2>going to be better than everyone to turn. I'm going

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<v Speaker 2>to make sure my exes are mad and miss me.

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<v Speaker 1>And then February they're like, you're actually I don't really

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<v Speaker 1>want to.

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<v Speaker 2>It's I've worked enough, you know, you know, I mean,

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<v Speaker 2>I get my uncle Charles died, Like I just can't

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<v Speaker 2>get there. So they're like, they're like, if you really

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<v Speaker 2>want to cancel, you're gonna have to really be about it.

0:21:02.280 --> 0:21:02.920
<v Speaker 1>You gotta move.

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<v Speaker 4>And I kind of they be like, you gotta Like

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<v Speaker 4>if I learned the contract once because I want to

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<v Speaker 4>get out of it, it was like, you need to

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<v Speaker 4>be at least one hundred miles away from here, period.

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<v Speaker 1>So how did you what gym is this Planet Fitness?

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<v Speaker 4>Oh?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, you got they really I will never I went

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<v Speaker 2>into colections with Planet Fitness for ten dollars a month.

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<v Speaker 1>Colection. Wait, how long did you not pay? Oh? I

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't paying, I said, I went there.

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<v Speaker 2>I said I'm canceling and they said, oh, okay, sure,

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<v Speaker 2>so sure they said.

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<v Speaker 1>That I canceled.

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<v Speaker 2>But then apparently you can't cancel inside the gym, but

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<v Speaker 2>they told me I did. So then I'm thinking I'm canceled,

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<v Speaker 2>but I was still getting charged.

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<v Speaker 1>But I had moved. I did have.

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<v Speaker 2>I did move, but I wasn't. I don't know if

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<v Speaker 2>I was one hundred miles because I don't know distance

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<v Speaker 2>I went.

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<v Speaker 1>This was evil.

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<v Speaker 2>They on Tuesdays to the gym, and like Bagel's on

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<v Speaker 2>Mondays and Fries on Friday.

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<v Speaker 1>Like every day they bring in something that you're like.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think that.

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<v Speaker 2>People are like they want you to stay in planning,

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<v Speaker 2>will never want you to make you are mess, mess, adjourned, trash, trash. Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>so sonya, Yeah, what are you coming in here? What's

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<v Speaker 2>your mess?

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<v Speaker 1>What do you want to? Should I do both the

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<v Speaker 1>messes or one of you? And then we'll work our

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<v Speaker 1>way through it. Yeah, we'll probably do both.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, Okay, So I'll start with the more interesting one.

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<v Speaker 4>Maybe I moved to Flatbush, which I think people shouldn't

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<v Speaker 4>stop moving the flat Yes, there's enough people in Flatbush.

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<v Speaker 2>We're done too much loud to Indian people. But also

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<v Speaker 2>now a lot of white people with little dome. It's

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<v Speaker 2>the gentrification, gentrification of it all. Like I was walking

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<v Speaker 2>past the juice stand.

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<v Speaker 1>Here's a white lady with her dog. I'm like, what

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<v Speaker 1>is this? But that's not why so I moved to Flatbush.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm excited.

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<v Speaker 2>I used to live in Williamsburg, which was very like yes,

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<v Speaker 2>yea factory.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm a Flatbush Like, oh my god.

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<v Speaker 4>So I I was like, uh.

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<v Speaker 1>Just two years ago. So I'm like really like trying.

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<v Speaker 4>To I don't want to be on the apps, but

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<v Speaker 4>I'm like, I feel like I'm in the mood to

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<v Speaker 4>like meet somebody. And I had been like like, I'm

0:23:19.119 --> 0:23:21.800
<v Speaker 4>like a woo type person. I do terror. I have crystals.

0:23:22.080 --> 0:23:24.760
<v Speaker 4>And I started getting into like, yeah, I'm a crystal crystal.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah on you right now. I usually kept traveling with

0:23:29.320 --> 0:23:32.720
<v Speaker 1>a black obsidion. Oh what's that for? Calmness? Put it

0:23:32.760 --> 0:23:35.119
<v Speaker 1>on your third eye? Oh I need that.

0:23:35.800 --> 0:23:39.879
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, also antidepressants, anxiety medication zola.

0:23:40.200 --> 0:23:40.639
<v Speaker 1>It works.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, I get some black obsitian and just tape it

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<v Speaker 2>to my forehead.

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<v Speaker 1>You could.

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<v Speaker 2>I was on the train once stress about So I'm

0:23:47.040 --> 0:23:48.879
<v Speaker 2>like this, people are looking at me like and You're like,

0:23:48.960 --> 0:23:52.600
<v Speaker 2>I have anxiety.

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<v Speaker 4>So I started getting into hohodoo y'all. You know how

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<v Speaker 4>in centers, you know how in sinners? Uh, stack had

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<v Speaker 4>the mojo bag?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah that's Winnie, was it Winny? I think your name

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<v Speaker 1>is Whinny.

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<v Speaker 4>That may be the actress's name, but yeah, yes, she

0:24:09.600 --> 0:24:10.600
<v Speaker 4>gave him the mojo bag.

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<v Speaker 1>That's for protection.

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<v Speaker 4>So it's like in the realm of that, there's there's

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<v Speaker 4>a spell you there's spells you can do for love specifically.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, this on the secular sory appreciate it. So you

0:24:24.520 --> 0:24:26.919
<v Speaker 2>could do spells for for love.

0:24:26.880 --> 0:24:29.080
<v Speaker 4>Or love for okay. So there's like categories. So there's

0:24:29.160 --> 0:24:32.280
<v Speaker 4>like attract love and like things to me. There's all

0:24:32.320 --> 0:24:33.800
<v Speaker 4>types of stuff. You can do it for wealth protection

0:24:33.840 --> 0:24:39.119
<v Speaker 4>but for love specifically, attract someone to me, make someone specifically,

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<v Speaker 4>Like you can do a general I want to find someone.

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<v Speaker 4>You can do specifically some a specific person that you

0:24:43.800 --> 0:24:46.159
<v Speaker 4>are into. But that's a little creepy because go to

0:24:46.240 --> 0:24:48.800
<v Speaker 4>their doorstep and pour, like I forget what the waters

0:24:48.840 --> 0:24:50.000
<v Speaker 4>I haven't looked at in a while. But like you

0:24:50.040 --> 0:24:52.480
<v Speaker 4>have to pour something on their doorstep or like put

0:24:52.600 --> 0:24:55.640
<v Speaker 4>something in their path. And then there's a third one

0:24:56.000 --> 0:24:58.920
<v Speaker 4>that's like keep me on his mind, like make him

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<v Speaker 4>obsessed with me.

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<v Speaker 1>The third one. So you did the third one, No,

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<v Speaker 1>I did the person. I was a specific person.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know if I need the third one. But

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<v Speaker 2>the second one.

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<v Speaker 1>You already got that girl. Good for that. You got

0:25:10.359 --> 0:25:14.399
<v Speaker 1>a man obsessed with like abundance.

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<v Speaker 4>Yes, but see this is a cautionary tell I do

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<v Speaker 4>the first one where I'm like, I'm trying to attract energy.

0:25:20.280 --> 0:25:23.119
<v Speaker 4>I'm seeing all any before Caribbean man, not anybody, but

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<v Speaker 4>like what I want, I like.

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<v Speaker 1>For the streets you know is crazy.

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<v Speaker 4>No, of course, not anybody. Y'all look down the street.

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<v Speaker 4>Your man will talk to you too. No, No, I want,

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<v Speaker 4>I want it. I was trying to be specific. I

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<v Speaker 4>was like, I want someone I find attractive kind.

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<v Speaker 1>The risks I did. I did, but the list was

0:25:41.240 --> 0:25:43.879
<v Speaker 1>not thorough enough. What's the list? Tell us that everything

0:25:43.920 --> 0:25:46.679
<v Speaker 1>that was on the list black black. You don't have

0:25:46.720 --> 0:25:47.280
<v Speaker 1>to whisper it.

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<v Speaker 4>Black kind, generous, open minded, not obsessed with gender. That's

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<v Speaker 4>that's I don't want to have to talk to you

0:25:56.640 --> 0:26:01.000
<v Speaker 4>about queer trends that you just not a man who's

0:26:01.000 --> 0:26:02.880
<v Speaker 4>going to be like pause when he needs a hot dog,

0:26:03.040 --> 0:26:03.840
<v Speaker 4>Like I don't.

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<v Speaker 2>Like, I gotta cut the popping before I like.

0:26:08.720 --> 0:26:09.480
<v Speaker 1>A nice.

0:26:12.000 --> 0:26:14.080
<v Speaker 4>Another that some man was like, oh and then my

0:26:14.160 --> 0:26:15.119
<v Speaker 4>doctor touched me pause.

0:26:15.160 --> 0:26:18.679
<v Speaker 2>I was like, touch your touch you? That's a pause.

0:26:19.040 --> 0:26:21.399
<v Speaker 2>What do I look like as a man letting another

0:26:21.480 --> 0:26:23.520
<v Speaker 2>man give me a prostate exam?

0:26:23.880 --> 0:26:26.960
<v Speaker 1>You look like a man needs a prostating cancer is

0:26:28.080 --> 0:26:28.440
<v Speaker 1>rote out?

0:26:29.000 --> 0:26:34.119
<v Speaker 2>As a man letting paper towel touch my button, wipe

0:26:34.160 --> 0:26:35.199
<v Speaker 2>your ass?

0:26:36.800 --> 0:26:38.600
<v Speaker 1>I really feel like they're in the shower.

0:26:40.840 --> 0:26:43.560
<v Speaker 2>As a man who would want a sheet over a

0:26:43.600 --> 0:26:45.879
<v Speaker 2>pillow to touch my face and be in my mouth.

0:26:46.320 --> 0:26:48.639
<v Speaker 1>How do I look as a man putting on lotion?

0:26:49.920 --> 0:26:51.639
<v Speaker 1>It's actually as masculinite.

0:26:51.880 --> 0:26:54.640
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, okay, because that's feminine to be moisturized.

0:26:55.400 --> 0:26:57.160
<v Speaker 4>And also I feel like if a woman does it

0:26:57.200 --> 0:26:59.760
<v Speaker 4>to you, they really be like, it's not gay, you.

0:26:59.720 --> 0:27:03.879
<v Speaker 1>Know a woman, So take care of your skin. Yes,

0:27:04.359 --> 0:27:05.399
<v Speaker 1>so many men don't do that.

0:27:05.520 --> 0:27:09.439
<v Speaker 2>They need analonic acid on the balls on the balls.

0:27:10.280 --> 0:27:12.480
<v Speaker 4>On the ball on the balls, what you know about

0:27:12.520 --> 0:27:15.280
<v Speaker 4>the ball can be dangerous if you do too much.

0:27:15.280 --> 0:27:15.960
<v Speaker 4>So why the balls.

0:27:15.960 --> 0:27:20.560
<v Speaker 2>That's scary because smooth balls they always angry when I've

0:27:20.600 --> 0:27:21.080
<v Speaker 2>seen them.

0:27:22.119 --> 0:27:25.280
<v Speaker 1>When you saw some balls, yeah, balls, where's the last time?

0:27:25.680 --> 0:27:29.080
<v Speaker 1>Like two years and they were mad? They were mad.

0:27:29.119 --> 0:27:30.600
<v Speaker 1>But when I.

0:27:30.440 --> 0:27:33.080
<v Speaker 2>Was when I was in the the genre of ball,

0:27:33.640 --> 0:27:37.200
<v Speaker 2>whenever I've seen them double, they always looked like they

0:27:37.200 --> 0:27:42.159
<v Speaker 2>had an attitude and like they are like why, I like,

0:27:42.200 --> 0:27:44.240
<v Speaker 2>they don't they look so old?

0:27:45.000 --> 0:27:47.520
<v Speaker 1>They're like when they when they're they was probably he

0:27:47.600 --> 0:27:51.560
<v Speaker 1>was probably cold. Well, I think balls grow. The balls.

0:27:51.800 --> 0:27:55.000
<v Speaker 4>I think they shrinking. They like if they're cold, they

0:27:55.080 --> 0:27:55.880
<v Speaker 4>looks really.

0:27:55.720 --> 0:28:00.760
<v Speaker 2>Weirdles are wrinkly when it's cold, yeah, or when it's

0:28:01.359 --> 0:28:04.880
<v Speaker 2>it was or when they release, Yeah, when they when

0:28:04.880 --> 0:28:09.040
<v Speaker 2>they empty out looked. Then you ever had you ever

0:28:09.119 --> 0:28:11.600
<v Speaker 2>blow up a balloon and then it like it's all

0:28:11.640 --> 0:28:13.320
<v Speaker 2>stretched out and then it comes back.

0:28:13.359 --> 0:28:17.520
<v Speaker 1>And that's how I would two years ago. Balls you

0:28:17.600 --> 0:28:21.680
<v Speaker 1>got a lot of ball, ray a lot of ball.

0:28:21.720 --> 0:28:24.000
<v Speaker 1>All thoughts. That might be the title of the episode.

0:28:24.040 --> 0:28:29.360
<v Speaker 1>I'm back, baby, I'm back. You playing basketball the ball?

0:28:31.040 --> 0:28:31.280
<v Speaker 2>Yes?

0:28:33.320 --> 0:28:39.840
<v Speaker 1>What are we playing? For? My hunt my ball? I

0:28:39.920 --> 0:28:44.120
<v Speaker 1>just imagine you with your man putting kyaluronic and learn.

0:28:44.240 --> 0:28:45.920
<v Speaker 2>You know you got she's gonna put it in and

0:28:45.960 --> 0:28:46.680
<v Speaker 2>she's gonna.

0:28:46.400 --> 0:28:48.720
<v Speaker 1>Pat it on the ball. No, I wouldn't. I would

0:28:48.840 --> 0:28:57.600
<v Speaker 1>use the road milk serum. Yeah, facial balls just so.

0:28:57.520 --> 0:29:00.680
<v Speaker 2>They can look a little look the same.

0:29:00.720 --> 0:29:04.160
<v Speaker 1>You ain't like this man. You didn't like this man.

0:29:04.240 --> 0:29:07.400
<v Speaker 1>I don't like you met That's what it is. You

0:29:07.400 --> 0:29:08.160
<v Speaker 1>don't like none of them.

0:29:09.440 --> 0:29:11.320
<v Speaker 4>How did you find yourself? You were just like, let

0:29:11.320 --> 0:29:12.600
<v Speaker 4>me try it out. Let's see.

0:29:12.640 --> 0:29:16.080
<v Speaker 2>Maybe I'm not well. You know, we go through this

0:29:16.200 --> 0:29:20.360
<v Speaker 2>every other everyisode, no, every pride, every every other episode.

0:29:20.440 --> 0:29:23.760
<v Speaker 1>I was. I was down bad, I went through a

0:29:23.840 --> 0:29:24.280
<v Speaker 1>break up.

0:29:25.560 --> 0:29:31.480
<v Speaker 2>My money was low, my self esteem even lower, my

0:29:31.720 --> 0:29:33.680
<v Speaker 2>living situation just not right.

0:29:33.720 --> 0:29:38.400
<v Speaker 1>Everything. So I said, since I'm doing this bad, this

0:29:38.480 --> 0:29:40.680
<v Speaker 1>is the perfect time it. Yeah.

0:29:41.120 --> 0:29:48.200
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, we tipp this over getting with her man. I said,

0:29:48.520 --> 0:29:52.400
<v Speaker 2>I can't go to women being this like trash. But man,

0:29:52.560 --> 0:29:55.760
<v Speaker 2>this is rpy. He was like, you open up. You

0:29:56.720 --> 0:29:57.360
<v Speaker 2>shouldn't have.

0:29:57.560 --> 0:30:02.000
<v Speaker 1>He said, have you met my ball? Sure, I'm cold,

0:30:02.120 --> 0:30:08.400
<v Speaker 1>but maybe you can wave me a warm meals fix

0:30:08.440 --> 0:30:12.160
<v Speaker 1>your life with my ball? And did it get better?

0:30:12.240 --> 0:30:12.400
<v Speaker 2>Oh?

0:30:12.480 --> 0:30:14.720
<v Speaker 1>It got worse, got very much worse.

0:30:14.880 --> 0:30:16.800
<v Speaker 2>Or if you perspective that your life is not that bad.

0:30:18.600 --> 0:30:21.520
<v Speaker 1>Could you could be dating?

0:30:21.880 --> 0:30:23.640
<v Speaker 2>Let's talk about this love spell bad?

0:30:23.720 --> 0:30:26.640
<v Speaker 1>Yes? Okay, so the spell I did it.

0:30:26.640 --> 0:30:29.680
<v Speaker 4>It's like basically like you take you get an orange,

0:30:29.920 --> 0:30:32.640
<v Speaker 4>you get red thread, you get pins away.

0:30:33.160 --> 0:30:35.200
<v Speaker 2>Now should you be telling everybody because you know in

0:30:35.240 --> 0:30:36.560
<v Speaker 2>the wrong hand, Yeah.

0:30:36.520 --> 0:30:37.400
<v Speaker 1>Tell everybody.

0:30:37.560 --> 0:30:39.800
<v Speaker 4>Okay, Well it's this high level like you still got

0:30:39.840 --> 0:30:41.680
<v Speaker 4>to read up on it. But I'm not feeling you

0:30:41.880 --> 0:30:43.960
<v Speaker 4>don't read girl, I'm not telling you all about the

0:30:43.960 --> 0:30:46.360
<v Speaker 4>one where you make someone obsessed with. This is literally

0:30:46.440 --> 0:30:48.640
<v Speaker 4>I just want to attract energy.

0:30:48.920 --> 0:30:50.880
<v Speaker 1>Jack sittingy you cock blocking the listeners.

0:30:51.040 --> 0:30:54.280
<v Speaker 2>Sorry, I just I don't trust y'all. I see you'all

0:30:54.280 --> 0:30:55.520
<v Speaker 2>messages because.

0:30:55.280 --> 0:30:56.680
<v Speaker 1>There is a cautionary I read this book.

0:30:56.720 --> 0:30:58.160
<v Speaker 4>It was a cautionary so it was like, don't do

0:30:58.280 --> 0:31:00.640
<v Speaker 4>this first, Like you don't want to attract the energy.

0:31:00.840 --> 0:31:02.880
<v Speaker 4>So make sure if you're going to attract a specific

0:31:02.920 --> 0:31:03.800
<v Speaker 4>person that.

0:31:03.840 --> 0:31:07.080
<v Speaker 1>You know that this is what it should be. I'm

0:31:07.120 --> 0:31:10.560
<v Speaker 1>defined the fine print. That's me. So orange, red thread,

0:31:10.840 --> 0:31:11.320
<v Speaker 1>red thread.

0:31:11.600 --> 0:31:14.160
<v Speaker 4>Eight I forget how many eight pins, but you you

0:31:14.200 --> 0:31:17.800
<v Speaker 4>burrow a hole into the orange, you cut a piece

0:31:17.840 --> 0:31:21.200
<v Speaker 4>of your hair, you put it inside the orange, you

0:31:21.240 --> 0:31:22.080
<v Speaker 4>put the pins on that.

0:31:22.320 --> 0:31:24.840
<v Speaker 1>My real hair could be hair. That's no, you can't

0:31:24.880 --> 0:31:25.680
<v Speaker 1>do you can't do that.

0:31:25.800 --> 0:31:29.160
<v Speaker 4>You got you got a simple little bit, put it

0:31:29.200 --> 0:31:32.560
<v Speaker 4>in there and then you you like put the pins

0:31:32.560 --> 0:31:34.360
<v Speaker 4>on the side so you kind of like weave the

0:31:34.440 --> 0:31:37.080
<v Speaker 4>thread through it and then close it up and then

0:31:37.640 --> 0:31:39.320
<v Speaker 4>I might be forgetting some stuff, but you then you

0:31:39.360 --> 0:31:39.800
<v Speaker 4>bury it.

0:31:40.560 --> 0:31:41.800
<v Speaker 1>Use to bury it.

0:31:42.280 --> 0:31:43.920
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, but I don't live I live in an apartment,

0:31:43.960 --> 0:31:45.600
<v Speaker 4>so obviously this is for someone who. So I just

0:31:45.680 --> 0:31:47.320
<v Speaker 4>had a plant and I just put.

0:31:47.160 --> 0:31:49.800
<v Speaker 1>A bunch of dirt in the plant. That's why your spells.

0:31:50.320 --> 0:31:56.440
<v Speaker 2>You gotta have land, baby, that's what it is. You

0:31:56.480 --> 0:31:58.480
<v Speaker 2>need an estate to do this spell.

0:31:59.000 --> 0:32:02.040
<v Speaker 4>You're supposed to bury it your phone, near your phone,

0:32:02.200 --> 0:32:03.920
<v Speaker 4>I don't know, yeah, near your phone.

0:32:04.160 --> 0:32:09.000
<v Speaker 1>It's very modern, this list who do? It's up to

0:32:09.120 --> 0:32:09.880
<v Speaker 1>date for sure?

0:32:10.240 --> 0:32:10.400
<v Speaker 2>Yeah?

0:32:10.480 --> 0:32:12.440
<v Speaker 1>Yeah modern who yes? Yeah.

0:32:12.440 --> 0:32:14.800
<v Speaker 4>So then within a couple of weeks I was like,

0:32:14.960 --> 0:32:17.360
<v Speaker 4>you know, it's the regular people who are like, you know,

0:32:17.400 --> 0:32:20.240
<v Speaker 4>a man will talk to your socially in New York, Hey,

0:32:20.240 --> 0:32:24.640
<v Speaker 4>in Flatbush, especially in flat Do you really need somebody? No,

0:32:24.720 --> 0:32:26.640
<v Speaker 4>But that's what I'm saying. I was trying to attract

0:32:26.680 --> 0:32:28.720
<v Speaker 4>because I'm not on the apps. Also was going through

0:32:28.720 --> 0:32:31.760
<v Speaker 4>a depression period where I was not leaving my neighborhood. Okay,

0:32:31.960 --> 0:32:33.680
<v Speaker 4>so it was like, where am I going to meet

0:32:33.680 --> 0:32:35.120
<v Speaker 4>this man? I don't go to events.

0:32:35.160 --> 0:32:38.720
<v Speaker 1>I don't. I just am home sad like you. Like you,

0:32:38.840 --> 0:32:41.320
<v Speaker 1>I thought a man can fix this. He did. I

0:32:41.360 --> 0:32:43.360
<v Speaker 1>didn't say a man can fix it? And you said

0:32:43.440 --> 0:32:46.160
<v Speaker 1>you were like, I'm down back, I am trash.

0:32:46.840 --> 0:32:49.800
<v Speaker 2>I must be amongst it right now, so I'm not

0:32:50.040 --> 0:32:52.800
<v Speaker 2>messing up. You know the good women that are out there,

0:32:52.800 --> 0:32:53.720
<v Speaker 2>I see now.

0:32:53.840 --> 0:32:55.200
<v Speaker 1>Does it have to be an orange? Can to be

0:32:55.200 --> 0:32:57.800
<v Speaker 1>a tangerine? No, it's going to be an orange.

0:32:58.080 --> 0:32:59.560
<v Speaker 4>But you know what the thing about who do is

0:32:59.560 --> 0:33:02.080
<v Speaker 4>is because since it was created, uh, it was brought

0:33:02.080 --> 0:33:04.800
<v Speaker 4>over by like enslaved Africans. It's like you do what

0:33:04.880 --> 0:33:07.240
<v Speaker 4>you can, you know. So if you do only have

0:33:07.320 --> 0:33:08.360
<v Speaker 4>a tangerine, use what.

0:33:08.360 --> 0:33:17.040
<v Speaker 1>You have, I know, but somebody use yeah, and aren't

0:33:17.080 --> 0:33:19.920
<v Speaker 1>just big A tangerine is little orange. I feel like

0:33:20.000 --> 0:33:23.360
<v Speaker 1>that's a big man, smooth tiny balls. Though.

0:33:23.440 --> 0:33:27.320
<v Speaker 2>You know what if you can we use a clementine,

0:33:28.000 --> 0:33:30.080
<v Speaker 2>grapefruit a little bit.

0:33:30.960 --> 0:33:32.840
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, he's a sour man.

0:33:33.040 --> 0:33:35.440
<v Speaker 2>No, I don't want a sour man. What a sweet man.

0:33:35.600 --> 0:33:39.160
<v Speaker 4>Yes, yes, okay, so I do it. I and it's

0:33:39.160 --> 0:33:40.920
<v Speaker 4>like the regular ship. But now I'm starting I feel

0:33:40.920 --> 0:33:43.040
<v Speaker 4>like I'm starting to meet people that actually aren't in

0:33:43.080 --> 0:33:46.479
<v Speaker 4>the strain of man that I'm into what it was,

0:33:46.520 --> 0:33:52.000
<v Speaker 4>but like random like Cafe, Gym, Prospect Park, but like

0:33:52.240 --> 0:33:55.120
<v Speaker 4>none of these things are working out. Like first person

0:33:55.640 --> 0:33:57.600
<v Speaker 4>was like this dude, I met a Prospect Park. I

0:33:57.680 --> 0:34:00.600
<v Speaker 4>was like doing yoga and like I had seen him

0:34:00.600 --> 0:34:02.680
<v Speaker 4>there before, I will go to the same spot. He

0:34:02.840 --> 0:34:05.400
<v Speaker 4>kind of looked like like Andre three thousand ish and

0:34:05.400 --> 0:34:06.600
<v Speaker 4>that his style was.

0:34:06.600 --> 0:34:11.600
<v Speaker 1>Very sad thing okay something was like yeah, like he

0:34:11.719 --> 0:34:13.400
<v Speaker 1>had like his style and stuff.

0:34:13.400 --> 0:34:15.760
<v Speaker 2>So I was like, you know, so you're doing your

0:34:15.800 --> 0:34:18.240
<v Speaker 2>downward facing dog and he was like, not my steate queen.

0:34:18.400 --> 0:34:20.640
<v Speaker 4>He kept we like were walking around out around the

0:34:20.640 --> 0:34:23.720
<v Speaker 4>same time. He was like, hey, I like your something

0:34:23.760 --> 0:34:26.720
<v Speaker 4>something something or blah blah blah. We start talking about meditation.

0:34:26.840 --> 0:34:29.600
<v Speaker 4>Oh what he was doing. He was standing with his

0:34:29.840 --> 0:34:33.600
<v Speaker 4>feet and shoes off. He was grounding. So I was like, oh,

0:34:33.640 --> 0:34:35.160
<v Speaker 4>I saw you were you grounding?

0:34:35.239 --> 0:34:38.200
<v Speaker 2>So I was like, okay, this is yes, we're the

0:34:38.280 --> 0:34:40.080
<v Speaker 2>same thing, kindred spirits.

0:34:40.160 --> 0:34:44.040
<v Speaker 4>Yes, so I thought, so we exchanged. He's like, oh,

0:34:44.040 --> 0:34:45.560
<v Speaker 4>can I get your Instagram, which.

0:34:45.440 --> 0:34:48.920
<v Speaker 1>Is always like that that's what I'm not on there,

0:34:49.000 --> 0:34:50.760
<v Speaker 1>just the number that's a real fly, that's a reflac.

0:34:50.840 --> 0:34:52.319
<v Speaker 4>But I was like, but I was I was starting

0:34:52.360 --> 0:34:55.080
<v Speaker 4>to be like maybe like something was there was a

0:34:55.160 --> 0:34:56.680
<v Speaker 4>little something that was like I was like, Wow, this

0:34:56.680 --> 0:34:57.600
<v Speaker 4>person's really attractive.

0:34:57.600 --> 0:34:59.799
<v Speaker 1>I'm into them, but there was something I was like,

0:35:00.120 --> 0:35:02.239
<v Speaker 1>just take this, yeah, just take this.

0:35:02.800 --> 0:35:05.320
<v Speaker 4>So he hits me up. I see in the request.

0:35:05.320 --> 0:35:08.520
<v Speaker 4>I pull up his page. This man's a rapper.

0:35:08.800 --> 0:35:12.080
<v Speaker 2>Oh well you said Andre three thousands, so, but not

0:35:12.120 --> 0:35:12.800
<v Speaker 2>a good rapper.

0:35:14.200 --> 0:35:18.440
<v Speaker 4>And also he has a post couldn't movie my luck? Bro,

0:35:18.520 --> 0:35:21.960
<v Speaker 4>Like he has a post talking about how Candice Owens.

0:35:21.320 --> 0:35:24.720
<v Speaker 2>Oh no, no, throw it away.

0:35:26.040 --> 0:35:29.640
<v Speaker 4>Owens is making valid points like that.

0:35:29.880 --> 0:35:32.000
<v Speaker 1>It was like that strain of Kanye, like you know,

0:35:32.160 --> 0:35:33.000
<v Speaker 1>like people will be.

0:35:33.040 --> 0:35:36.400
<v Speaker 4>Like Kanye, Yes, that man who's so open that he

0:35:36.520 --> 0:35:40.240
<v Speaker 4>gets like right back around, like the white supremacy swoops

0:35:40.280 --> 0:35:43.040
<v Speaker 4>him back around. Like he's so like, nah, I don't

0:35:43.040 --> 0:35:45.160
<v Speaker 4>believe the governments like this. You're like, the government is

0:35:45.200 --> 0:35:47.120
<v Speaker 4>messed up. He's like, and also did it and you're

0:35:47.160 --> 0:35:48.719
<v Speaker 4>like that's true. And then he's like and the earth

0:35:48.800 --> 0:35:53.759
<v Speaker 4>is like like what he's like, and it was just

0:35:53.840 --> 0:35:56.960
<v Speaker 4>like I'm like scrolling and I'm like wow, like no

0:35:57.160 --> 0:35:59.839
<v Speaker 4>talent like the raps too.

0:36:00.120 --> 0:36:01.920
<v Speaker 1>I can't tell y'all his name because I don't want

0:36:01.960 --> 0:36:04.720
<v Speaker 1>him to find out, but it was a good rapper.

0:36:04.760 --> 0:36:08.840
<v Speaker 2>You're like, maybe not a can as no, no, Can's

0:36:08.840 --> 0:36:11.440
<v Speaker 2>always over at always like. But it was also like

0:36:11.880 --> 0:36:15.000
<v Speaker 2>I don't know if y'all felt like this, because I

0:36:15.000 --> 0:36:16.520
<v Speaker 2>hell know, but I don't know why I feel like this.

0:36:16.560 --> 0:36:17.239
<v Speaker 1>But I don't know if I.

0:36:17.239 --> 0:36:22.160
<v Speaker 4>Could like date someone who's like ambitions I can't support,

0:36:22.440 --> 0:36:25.120
<v Speaker 4>Like if you're a person, like if would you date

0:36:25.160 --> 0:36:27.120
<v Speaker 4>somebody if they were like I'm a musician, I'm an actor,

0:36:27.120 --> 0:36:29.480
<v Speaker 4>I'm a d but they're bad at it And then

0:36:29.520 --> 0:36:32.200
<v Speaker 4>you gotta like we pretend but maybe they're.

0:36:34.920 --> 0:36:37.200
<v Speaker 1>But he could you're at this level.

0:36:37.280 --> 0:36:40.520
<v Speaker 2>You want somebody at your level or better? Yeah, somebody

0:36:40.560 --> 0:36:43.640
<v Speaker 2>here that's still trying to figure who thinks it's good. Yeah,

0:36:43.800 --> 0:36:45.640
<v Speaker 2>we gotta wait for them to figure out that it's bad.

0:36:45.880 --> 0:36:49.279
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, get better. And it wasn't even like me. It

0:36:49.400 --> 0:36:51.680
<v Speaker 1>was like I was like, yo, turn this ship off.

0:36:54.680 --> 0:36:56.840
<v Speaker 2>He looked worse in the video, like he was shooting

0:36:56.840 --> 0:36:59.799
<v Speaker 2>the music video and I was like, shooting him music video?

0:37:00.080 --> 0:37:05.719
<v Speaker 1>What kind of camera? The galaxy? I was like, are

0:37:05.760 --> 0:37:07.799
<v Speaker 1>you uglier in the video? I showed it to my friend.

0:37:07.840 --> 0:37:09.840
<v Speaker 1>She was like, well you said on grade three thousand,

0:37:11.200 --> 0:37:14.319
<v Speaker 1>You're like what it was awful? I was like, Yo,

0:37:14.600 --> 0:37:15.080
<v Speaker 1>this is.

0:37:15.200 --> 0:37:19.719
<v Speaker 2>Your I'm sorry show at the end of it, I

0:37:19.719 --> 0:37:20.399
<v Speaker 2>will show y'all.

0:37:21.680 --> 0:37:25.239
<v Speaker 1>And the name crazy the name.

0:37:25.160 --> 0:37:29.719
<v Speaker 2>But I was like, name the chosen one worst. I

0:37:29.880 --> 0:37:34.640
<v Speaker 2>was worse than that, brother to the But then what's

0:37:34.680 --> 0:37:36.640
<v Speaker 2>bad about those next nag?

0:37:37.239 --> 0:37:37.839
<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

0:37:38.040 --> 0:37:41.839
<v Speaker 4>No, it's like one name and it's like, uh, it's

0:37:41.920 --> 0:37:44.560
<v Speaker 4>one It's one word, and it kind of it just

0:37:44.600 --> 0:37:46.160
<v Speaker 4>seems like how do I say.

0:37:46.000 --> 0:37:46.560
<v Speaker 1>What I was saying.

0:37:46.600 --> 0:37:49.239
<v Speaker 4>It's like it's like something like it's like a motion

0:37:49.400 --> 0:37:52.120
<v Speaker 4>you could do to somebody, but it's like one word.

0:37:52.200 --> 0:37:54.480
<v Speaker 4>And it also doesn't seem very much like rapper, Like

0:37:54.520 --> 0:37:58.120
<v Speaker 4>I don't think any rapper would choose this name something

0:37:58.160 --> 0:38:01.239
<v Speaker 4>like that wave worse but yeah, but it's like a

0:38:01.280 --> 0:38:03.680
<v Speaker 4>word where you're like, huh, wave to me is too cool.

0:38:04.080 --> 0:38:07.640
<v Speaker 1>It's like giving like hmm, yeah, yeah.

0:38:07.760 --> 0:38:10.279
<v Speaker 4>So the but the bad thing about this spell is

0:38:10.680 --> 0:38:12.719
<v Speaker 4>so I see this, he messages me. I look at

0:38:12.760 --> 0:38:15.279
<v Speaker 4>his page. I'm like, I don't know, but it's a dope. No,

0:38:15.440 --> 0:38:18.040
<v Speaker 4>forget it now, I gotta go to a different part

0:38:18.120 --> 0:38:18.560
<v Speaker 4>of the park.

0:38:18.920 --> 0:38:24.720
<v Speaker 2>But a month later, I'm on the phone with my friend.

0:38:25.360 --> 0:38:28.520
<v Speaker 1>I look down. I see somebody ride up with a bike.

0:38:28.640 --> 0:38:29.920
<v Speaker 1>I look up. It's him.

0:38:30.120 --> 0:38:36.400
<v Speaker 2>No, him, dangerous of dating someone in your neighborhood. I

0:38:36.400 --> 0:38:38.960
<v Speaker 2>couldn't believe because you you go get smoothie at the

0:38:39.000 --> 0:38:40.440
<v Speaker 2>same place and you don't want to know.

0:38:40.440 --> 0:38:43.000
<v Speaker 1>Mister Rogers ask dude yes. And I wasn't even near

0:38:43.040 --> 0:38:44.640
<v Speaker 1>the park. I was a whole different. I was like

0:38:44.760 --> 0:38:46.000
<v Speaker 1>a block down for my part.

0:38:46.040 --> 0:38:52.320
<v Speaker 2>You like, you gotta be joking, you gotta move.

0:38:52.440 --> 0:38:54.719
<v Speaker 4>So my landlord, I messed up and messed up, but

0:38:54.760 --> 0:38:57.640
<v Speaker 4>I was like, he was like, I've been looking for you.

0:38:58.160 --> 0:39:10.600
<v Speaker 1>I was like, yeah, yeah, please. I was like, and

0:39:10.640 --> 0:39:11.839
<v Speaker 1>he was like, YO, give me your.

0:39:11.800 --> 0:39:18.160
<v Speaker 2>Number, no before you got my I the fact that

0:39:18.360 --> 0:39:23.560
<v Speaker 2>you haven't got my number yet, that is the sign man.

0:39:24.160 --> 0:39:26.640
<v Speaker 1>Read between. I never accepted it. It just stayed as

0:39:26.640 --> 0:39:27.240
<v Speaker 1>a request.

0:39:27.640 --> 0:39:29.759
<v Speaker 4>And then but I did say to him, I was like,

0:39:29.840 --> 0:39:33.239
<v Speaker 4>can I be real, what's up with Candice owns.

0:39:33.960 --> 0:39:36.480
<v Speaker 1>And saying, this is why you don't want peace, because

0:39:36.520 --> 0:39:37.440
<v Speaker 1>why did you do that?

0:39:37.480 --> 0:39:39.959
<v Speaker 4>Because I'm like your cornery. I'm literally starting to open

0:39:40.000 --> 0:39:41.560
<v Speaker 4>my phone. I'm like, okay, I I can't.

0:39:41.600 --> 0:39:43.000
<v Speaker 1>But that's the thing. If I if I this was.

0:39:43.000 --> 0:39:44.880
<v Speaker 4>Somebody I just saw randomly and like, I don't know,

0:39:44.920 --> 0:39:49.080
<v Speaker 4>Bushwick whatever, I might never see you again. But sling

0:39:49.200 --> 0:39:52.200
<v Speaker 4>my business. I've gone to a different park. I'm changing

0:39:52.239 --> 0:39:54.360
<v Speaker 4>my life, not going to the same part of the park.

0:39:54.520 --> 0:39:57.440
<v Speaker 4>And I still ran into you and you're running up

0:39:57.440 --> 0:39:58.960
<v Speaker 4>on me, like I've been looking for you.

0:39:59.000 --> 0:40:04.640
<v Speaker 1>So girl. He also has a hoodoo bag, but.

0:40:07.880 --> 0:40:10.600
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, he was like, I just she's four, like she

0:40:10.600 --> 0:40:12.640
<v Speaker 2>she just has like good ideas on black people that

0:40:12.680 --> 0:40:14.319
<v Speaker 2>are like But he was like, listen, just text me

0:40:14.360 --> 0:40:17.120
<v Speaker 2>because I have to I have to skate, like blah

0:40:17.160 --> 0:40:19.360
<v Speaker 2>blah blah blah. He's like, for real, really like text me.

0:40:19.840 --> 0:40:22.080
<v Speaker 2>And I was like yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah yeah. So

0:40:22.160 --> 0:40:24.560
<v Speaker 2>you took his number down, took it. I was like,

0:40:24.640 --> 0:40:28.640
<v Speaker 2>uh HUHP three three, yeah, I got it.

0:40:29.560 --> 0:40:29.839
<v Speaker 1>My phone.

0:40:31.480 --> 0:40:34.840
<v Speaker 2>I've taken numbers people numbered and I'm just putting one, one,

0:40:35.200 --> 0:40:39.200
<v Speaker 2>two to ye. I'm just hitting numbers and there's nothing

0:40:39.200 --> 0:40:40.240
<v Speaker 2>getting said nothing.

0:40:40.800 --> 0:40:44.120
<v Speaker 1>You said, what's your name Derek with two rs? Nothing?

0:40:45.239 --> 0:40:45.920
<v Speaker 4>No K.

0:40:47.000 --> 0:40:49.880
<v Speaker 1>So then what's the next guy? Alkright? So then.

0:40:51.480 --> 0:40:53.120
<v Speaker 4>This is the most the one I just told you

0:40:53.160 --> 0:40:54.640
<v Speaker 4>I was the most recent one. The one before that

0:40:54.800 --> 0:40:56.960
<v Speaker 4>I was at the gym. I gotta stop working out

0:40:57.000 --> 0:40:58.760
<v Speaker 4>of me people. I think people who work out are toxic.

0:40:58.800 --> 0:41:00.799
<v Speaker 4>No disrespect to you. Should working twice a day, but

0:41:00.840 --> 0:41:02.520
<v Speaker 4>I'm like, this is not working out for me.

0:41:02.680 --> 0:41:04.600
<v Speaker 2>I'm been on that you think people who work out

0:41:04.600 --> 0:41:05.080
<v Speaker 2>are toxic.

0:41:05.160 --> 0:41:06.840
<v Speaker 4>I mean I work out too, but I'm like, this

0:41:07.040 --> 0:41:09.200
<v Speaker 4>keeps well. I just I think that I'm just meeting

0:41:09.239 --> 0:41:12.440
<v Speaker 4>people in workout settings. And this is gone for Tuniture.

0:41:12.360 --> 0:41:17.239
<v Speaker 1>Planet Fitness Bank now ba same thing. It is, same thing,

0:41:18.360 --> 0:41:21.600
<v Speaker 1>blinking a little a little bit. Yeah, you're not doing better.

0:41:21.719 --> 0:41:25.560
<v Speaker 4>It's like a month and a plus, maybe a C

0:41:25.680 --> 0:41:26.600
<v Speaker 4>minus and a C plus.

0:41:27.200 --> 0:41:30.479
<v Speaker 2>No Planet Fitness is a C yes.

0:41:30.800 --> 0:41:33.120
<v Speaker 1>Blink is a be yes.

0:41:33.120 --> 0:41:36.160
<v Speaker 4>Because they're not serving pizza blink and it's like newer

0:41:36.360 --> 0:41:37.440
<v Speaker 4>this episode.

0:41:37.320 --> 0:41:41.040
<v Speaker 2>Is it's sponsored by blank Blick Fitness.

0:41:41.280 --> 0:41:43.040
<v Speaker 4>I would love to get some free. It is very

0:41:43.120 --> 0:41:47.040
<v Speaker 4>cheap though, so that's probably part of it. But yeah,

0:41:47.080 --> 0:41:51.320
<v Speaker 4>so I'm like working out one day and like there's

0:41:51.360 --> 0:41:54.359
<v Speaker 4>this like I was like working out, there's this guy

0:41:54.400 --> 0:41:56.239
<v Speaker 4>who was like doing this like lift stuff, and I

0:41:56.280 --> 0:41:57.000
<v Speaker 4>was just really impressed.

0:41:57.040 --> 0:41:58.160
<v Speaker 1>Also like he was.

0:41:58.120 --> 0:42:00.319
<v Speaker 4>Like really my type and I was really like him,

0:42:00.360 --> 0:42:02.799
<v Speaker 4>like he looks really good. And then he caught me

0:42:02.840 --> 0:42:05.040
<v Speaker 4>looking at him in the mirror and then I looked away.

0:42:05.160 --> 0:42:08.840
<v Speaker 1>You was dreoling was your mouth? Oh you gotta stop

0:42:08.840 --> 0:42:11.800
<v Speaker 1>being so you gotta start wearing I really got a

0:42:11.880 --> 0:42:12.680
<v Speaker 1>date for personality.

0:42:12.719 --> 0:42:16.439
<v Speaker 2>You gotta start wearing glass gym so they can't see

0:42:16.440 --> 0:42:16.800
<v Speaker 2>your eyes.

0:42:17.000 --> 0:42:19.560
<v Speaker 1>Your eyes giving up.

0:42:19.840 --> 0:42:21.160
<v Speaker 4>You wear a low hat, but I don't wear a

0:42:21.160 --> 0:42:24.839
<v Speaker 4>little hair no, now I am Now, I would never,

0:42:25.320 --> 0:42:26.680
<v Speaker 4>never dape from the gym.

0:42:26.719 --> 0:42:27.720
<v Speaker 1>It's a mistake. Okay.

0:42:27.880 --> 0:42:30.359
<v Speaker 4>So that was one day and then I see him

0:42:30.360 --> 0:42:32.200
<v Speaker 4>the next day and then we like, you know, a

0:42:32.320 --> 0:42:34.799
<v Speaker 4>glass glass glance. I'm like, okay, I'm getting looked back

0:42:36.160 --> 0:42:40.800
<v Speaker 4>next week. Same another weekend. I'm walking. He walks past

0:42:40.840 --> 0:42:45.160
<v Speaker 4>me and he goes, hey, I forget. He says something

0:42:45.200 --> 0:42:46.640
<v Speaker 4>something something, and he was like, I would love to

0:42:46.640 --> 0:42:47.440
<v Speaker 4>take you out to dinner.

0:42:47.480 --> 0:42:50.080
<v Speaker 1>And I said, oh, you said, I eat off the rip.

0:42:50.680 --> 0:42:55.759
<v Speaker 2>Okay, okay, what's your number? Okay, okay, very tall that.

0:42:56.360 --> 0:42:57.920
<v Speaker 2>I'm like, this is great.

0:42:57.960 --> 0:43:02.440
<v Speaker 1>That night, that night night you had nothing to do. SI, okay,

0:43:02.640 --> 0:43:05.040
<v Speaker 1>my plans got canceled. He hit me up. He's like

0:43:05.480 --> 0:43:08.120
<v Speaker 1>up to I said, forget it. Yeah, it's some fun.

0:43:08.320 --> 0:43:11.520
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, the spells working out. Yeah we o bawlinge out

0:43:11.520 --> 0:43:14.120
<v Speaker 2>out to the Orange. Yes, yes, the Orange.

0:43:14.120 --> 0:43:15.319
<v Speaker 1>I threw the ship out after, but.

0:43:19.280 --> 0:43:22.280
<v Speaker 4>I didn't get it far away from me. I waited

0:43:22.280 --> 0:43:25.759
<v Speaker 4>for the trash man. I said, but yeah, I go

0:43:25.800 --> 0:43:27.839
<v Speaker 4>on this day. It's fun, it's cute. We hang out,

0:43:27.840 --> 0:43:30.200
<v Speaker 4>we hang out, we hang out. Then I start noticing,

0:43:30.360 --> 0:43:32.319
<v Speaker 4>like I feel like he was like it was like

0:43:32.480 --> 0:43:34.600
<v Speaker 4>he was like giving love bombing a little bit, like

0:43:34.680 --> 0:43:37.560
<v Speaker 4>it was very like every time, like wow, sis so

0:43:37.719 --> 0:43:41.800
<v Speaker 4>pretty d D. And then I started feeling like I

0:43:41.840 --> 0:43:45.120
<v Speaker 4>don't know about this, you know, it's feeling weird, Like

0:43:45.200 --> 0:43:47.120
<v Speaker 4>there was just like little things here and there that

0:43:47.160 --> 0:43:50.080
<v Speaker 4>I'm noticing. Had a conversation about trends things. He went

0:43:50.080 --> 0:43:52.400
<v Speaker 4>from being at I'm an ally, which also was like

0:43:52.440 --> 0:43:53.880
<v Speaker 4>a weird word to say, to one day we had

0:43:53.920 --> 0:43:55.440
<v Speaker 4>a whole conversation about it, and I was like, why

0:43:55.440 --> 0:43:57.080
<v Speaker 4>would he be in an airline? So I was like,

0:43:57.080 --> 0:43:59.600
<v Speaker 4>I feel like this person maybe like it's not fully

0:44:00.400 --> 0:44:02.640
<v Speaker 4>everything they saying. They're saying, and I'm kind of like

0:44:02.680 --> 0:44:05.560
<v Speaker 4>losing interest whatever. So I like send a message about

0:44:05.600 --> 0:44:09.439
<v Speaker 4>something and then he ignored it. I said, oh, okay, cool,

0:44:09.480 --> 0:44:13.480
<v Speaker 4>it's dead. Right. Then I'm at the gym one day,

0:44:13.920 --> 0:44:17.279
<v Speaker 4>see I see his his shoes, Like you know, first off,

0:44:17.280 --> 0:44:19.560
<v Speaker 4>I've seen him a few times too on that gym.

0:44:19.680 --> 0:44:21.399
<v Speaker 4>I'm like, I walk in. Now, i gotta go different

0:44:21.440 --> 0:44:24.080
<v Speaker 4>parts of the gym. I gotta walk around. I'm like

0:44:24.239 --> 0:44:26.200
<v Speaker 4>uncomfortable even though I ain't doing anything.

0:44:26.239 --> 0:44:29.160
<v Speaker 1>Tanya, you gotta stop shipping where you eat. This is

0:44:29.200 --> 0:44:30.400
<v Speaker 1>a problem.

0:44:32.480 --> 0:44:38.040
<v Speaker 2>I'm going, No, you're doing this great concert. It's perfect

0:44:38.080 --> 0:44:40.200
<v Speaker 2>for the pob. I'm saying it's bad for the way

0:44:40.280 --> 0:44:41.320
<v Speaker 2>that you're trying to live your.

0:44:41.200 --> 0:44:43.839
<v Speaker 1>Life, not for me doing great.

0:44:44.000 --> 0:44:45.480
<v Speaker 2>Now, i gotta go different times because I know he

0:44:45.520 --> 0:44:47.239
<v Speaker 2>goes on the weekend at such and such time.

0:44:47.320 --> 0:44:49.240
<v Speaker 1>So I'm going later, I'm going earlier.

0:44:49.960 --> 0:44:52.239
<v Speaker 4>I'm like going to different parts of the I'm going

0:44:52.280 --> 0:44:53.399
<v Speaker 4>downstairs in the leg area.

0:44:53.400 --> 0:44:54.200
<v Speaker 1>I never go down there.

0:44:54.239 --> 0:44:57.120
<v Speaker 2>You can't even do yoga in the park no more.

0:44:56.640 --> 0:45:00.799
<v Speaker 2>You you're dunking and dodging now, Okay, so h, I

0:45:00.840 --> 0:45:03.840
<v Speaker 2>look down, he tells me some story.

0:45:03.880 --> 0:45:06.720
<v Speaker 1>I'm also scared he's gonna see this. But are you scared?

0:45:09.000 --> 0:45:11.560
<v Speaker 4>There's a problem. You gotta see these people again. If

0:45:11.600 --> 0:45:13.279
<v Speaker 4>it was just a stranger.

0:45:13.160 --> 0:45:15.759
<v Speaker 1>You think he listened to this podcast? You're right, it's women,

0:45:15.880 --> 0:45:19.319
<v Speaker 1>so probably not. But I don't know.

0:45:19.960 --> 0:45:22.319
<v Speaker 4>But yeah, he had like a story about like his

0:45:22.480 --> 0:45:28.200
<v Speaker 4>ex girlfriend and like she deleted my number and did

0:45:28.239 --> 0:45:32.440
<v Speaker 4>she get his phone some like party that time and blah,

0:45:32.480 --> 0:45:34.320
<v Speaker 4>I don't know, I'm just even liars.

0:45:34.560 --> 0:45:38.359
<v Speaker 2>Ex girlfriend deleted your number, so that's why he didn't

0:45:38.360 --> 0:45:39.640
<v Speaker 2>respond to your text.

0:45:39.920 --> 0:45:42.400
<v Speaker 1>He can't also deleted the text.

0:45:42.400 --> 0:45:46.880
<v Speaker 4>She she like like uh C, I a erased everything allegedly.

0:45:46.400 --> 0:45:50.359
<v Speaker 2>She put it back to factory settings allegedly, and then

0:45:50.400 --> 0:45:55.640
<v Speaker 2>they dated. So say that, how say your bow?

0:45:55.800 --> 0:45:58.279
<v Speaker 1>Okay, well you hadn't seen him for months? Yeah, you

0:45:58.360 --> 0:46:00.759
<v Speaker 1>could work out in peace for months for months, No,

0:46:00.840 --> 0:46:02.080
<v Speaker 1>but then I started not seeing him.

0:46:02.080 --> 0:46:03.880
<v Speaker 4>I would go different. I would go on different times

0:46:03.920 --> 0:46:05.680
<v Speaker 4>and I was like, look at God. And then one

0:46:05.719 --> 0:46:08.320
<v Speaker 4>time I did see him and then the eye contact

0:46:08.360 --> 0:46:09.719
<v Speaker 4>was made and I was like, I don't have no beef.

0:46:09.760 --> 0:46:11.280
<v Speaker 1>So I just went and it was fine.

0:46:11.480 --> 0:46:16.000
<v Speaker 4>But then the conversation but I'm like, uh.

0:46:15.280 --> 0:46:19.800
<v Speaker 1>Okay, like cool, cool, that's amazing.

0:46:20.280 --> 0:46:22.480
<v Speaker 4>But even then it was like this is so weird,

0:46:22.640 --> 0:46:25.160
<v Speaker 4>like what are we Are we supposed to like hang

0:46:25.200 --> 0:46:28.239
<v Speaker 4>out again now we're supposed to Like no, I'm not thinking.

0:46:28.239 --> 0:46:31.000
<v Speaker 4>I'm just like wondering, like why we're having this conversation right,

0:46:32.160 --> 0:46:35.520
<v Speaker 4>like it's just going to like but even that now

0:46:35.560 --> 0:46:37.480
<v Speaker 4>it's like okay, but I felt like he was kind

0:46:37.480 --> 0:46:40.520
<v Speaker 4>of hitting it like if you if your bird ass

0:46:40.560 --> 0:46:41.040
<v Speaker 4>is trying.

0:46:40.840 --> 0:46:47.520
<v Speaker 1>To pop back in tweet tweet babe, and yeah. I

0:46:47.560 --> 0:46:50.160
<v Speaker 1>was like okay, yeah, no that's crazy.

0:46:50.440 --> 0:46:55.480
<v Speaker 2>So y'all never kissed or anything? Oh before yeah, yeah

0:46:55.520 --> 0:46:57.160
<v Speaker 2>we kissed you.

0:46:57.360 --> 0:47:00.279
<v Speaker 1>No, we didn't. We did not we kissed. He was hot,

0:47:00.360 --> 0:47:00.960
<v Speaker 1>like he's honest.

0:47:01.000 --> 0:47:03.799
<v Speaker 2>Even when as he's telling me these lies, I'm like, oh,

0:47:05.040 --> 0:47:07.480
<v Speaker 2>it's a lot to me.

0:47:07.600 --> 0:47:10.800
<v Speaker 1>Is like can I just do this for boredom? No,

0:47:11.400 --> 0:47:12.000
<v Speaker 1>you cannot.

0:47:12.360 --> 0:47:14.879
<v Speaker 2>You're gonna regret it link membership that you're not gonna

0:47:14.880 --> 0:47:16.480
<v Speaker 2>be able to cancel exactly.

0:47:16.560 --> 0:47:19.040
<v Speaker 4>Also, this is alleged girlfriend will come fight me. I

0:47:19.120 --> 0:47:19.839
<v Speaker 4>was like, I'm not.

0:47:19.920 --> 0:47:22.000
<v Speaker 1>Going to delete your number. She's going to leave your life.

0:47:22.320 --> 0:47:24.200
<v Speaker 1>You don't want. I'm gonna be like, babe, take me out.

0:47:24.239 --> 0:47:25.880
<v Speaker 1>I'm ready to go. But also I'm not fighting you

0:47:25.880 --> 0:47:27.200
<v Speaker 1>over this man that I don't want.

0:47:27.520 --> 0:47:32.960
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I am people, sure, that's all you saw.

0:47:33.040 --> 0:47:37.200
<v Speaker 4>You got him, he's yours in the final third guy

0:47:37.440 --> 0:47:40.560
<v Speaker 4>their guy. There's a cafe, I guess used to at

0:47:40.600 --> 0:47:40.959
<v Speaker 4>this point.

0:47:42.400 --> 0:47:46.440
<v Speaker 2>Damn he running you at the cat cool you made

0:47:46.840 --> 0:47:47.960
<v Speaker 2>You can't go to the park.

0:47:48.880 --> 0:47:50.960
<v Speaker 1>Where can you go? We gotta go to church, you

0:47:51.000 --> 0:47:53.640
<v Speaker 1>gotta go to bell Chase girl, where can you go?

0:47:55.520 --> 0:47:55.600
<v Speaker 4>No?

0:47:55.760 --> 0:47:57.399
<v Speaker 1>I go to this cafe. All the time.

0:47:57.440 --> 0:47:59.319
<v Speaker 4>I was like writing, working on the script, like you know,

0:47:59.680 --> 0:48:01.759
<v Speaker 4>trying to get out the house. And then like his

0:48:01.800 --> 0:48:04.640
<v Speaker 4>friend one day was like I was like, because I'm

0:48:04.640 --> 0:48:07.560
<v Speaker 4>in the in the cafe. Actually I went with another

0:48:07.600 --> 0:48:08.799
<v Speaker 4>person that I used to date.

0:48:09.520 --> 0:48:12.280
<v Speaker 1>Doesn't it's you? You are the mass.

0:48:12.520 --> 0:48:16.040
<v Speaker 2>So everyone has exes though, Yeah, but okay, so you

0:48:16.120 --> 0:48:16.399
<v Speaker 2>was with.

0:48:16.400 --> 0:48:19.160
<v Speaker 1>Your ex at the cafe. Yes, but I wasn't expecting

0:48:19.200 --> 0:48:20.000
<v Speaker 1>to meet nobody there.

0:48:20.080 --> 0:48:23.359
<v Speaker 4>This was like again, actually, no, this person, this ex,

0:48:23.800 --> 0:48:26.040
<v Speaker 4>I met him before I lived in Flatbush and he

0:48:26.080 --> 0:48:27.160
<v Speaker 4>happened to live in Flatbush.

0:48:27.200 --> 0:48:29.759
<v Speaker 1>Like there's a problem. It's Flatbush. I think No, it's

0:48:29.800 --> 0:48:33.799
<v Speaker 1>the orange. It's you and the orange, or is.

0:48:33.760 --> 0:48:37.000
<v Speaker 2>It Orange is the New Mess?

0:48:37.239 --> 0:48:39.440
<v Speaker 1>Mess? I love that title. We're gonna go with that

0:48:39.680 --> 0:48:42.480
<v Speaker 1>Orange is the New Mess. But yeah, so I'm in.

0:48:42.800 --> 0:48:46.319
<v Speaker 4>That person leaves and then another there's another dude that

0:48:46.360 --> 0:48:48.320
<v Speaker 4>works there, and then eyes I go to the bathroom.

0:48:48.320 --> 0:48:48.759
<v Speaker 4>I come back.

0:48:48.800 --> 0:48:52.080
<v Speaker 1>He's like, hey, like such and such has a crush

0:48:52.120 --> 0:48:52.400
<v Speaker 1>on you.

0:48:52.480 --> 0:48:55.080
<v Speaker 2>And I was like, huh, somebody who works at the cafe.

0:48:55.239 --> 0:48:56.080
<v Speaker 1>He works at the cafe.

0:48:56.160 --> 0:48:57.680
<v Speaker 4>And it was the dude I've seen at the cafe

0:48:59.000 --> 0:49:01.640
<v Speaker 4>turn out like yeah, so he was like you should.

0:49:01.440 --> 0:49:02.359
<v Speaker 1>Talk to him, blah blah.

0:49:02.360 --> 0:49:04.719
<v Speaker 2>I was like, okay, Ce, sure, yeah, but this is

0:49:04.800 --> 0:49:06.480
<v Speaker 2>such and such got a crush on you. Like if

0:49:06.480 --> 0:49:09.080
<v Speaker 2>you can't come say with a like what are we doing?

0:49:09.120 --> 0:49:10.799
<v Speaker 1>That's why I can't even look at her. I'm looking

0:49:10.800 --> 0:49:14.680
<v Speaker 1>at you. Barista is your wingman. He owns it. Oh,

0:49:14.960 --> 0:49:16.360
<v Speaker 1>now that's what you should have started with.

0:49:16.560 --> 0:49:19.200
<v Speaker 2>Wait wait, wait, wait, hold on, hold on, the guy

0:49:19.239 --> 0:49:20.960
<v Speaker 2>that has a crush owns it, or the person who

0:49:21.000 --> 0:49:21.960
<v Speaker 2>came to talk to you owns it?

0:49:22.560 --> 0:49:25.319
<v Speaker 1>Who has a crush owns it? Well, then he definite

0:49:25.320 --> 0:49:29.880
<v Speaker 1>should he should have sent an ice t latte or whatever,

0:49:30.040 --> 0:49:36.040
<v Speaker 1>like a golden latte to the team, extra sir, oat milk.

0:49:36.600 --> 0:49:38.600
<v Speaker 2>But then in the house, but also if I was

0:49:38.600 --> 0:49:40.320
<v Speaker 2>the owner or something, I was like, somebody do my

0:49:40.440 --> 0:49:40.839
<v Speaker 2>light work.

0:49:40.880 --> 0:49:41.439
<v Speaker 1>You know what I'm saying.

0:49:41.680 --> 0:49:44.560
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, Well he was like I can't believe he did that,

0:49:45.000 --> 0:49:48.040
<v Speaker 4>blah blah blah. Like I just mentioned that I thought

0:49:48.040 --> 0:49:50.160
<v Speaker 4>you were pretty for a while, like because you come

0:49:50.160 --> 0:49:53.319
<v Speaker 4>in here, da da dah, you know, here's your number.

0:49:53.160 --> 0:49:53.799
<v Speaker 1>Blah blah blah.

0:49:53.840 --> 0:49:55.759
<v Speaker 4>But long story show with that, it was like more

0:49:55.920 --> 0:49:58.320
<v Speaker 4>like I don't know, he's just like really busy running

0:49:58.320 --> 0:49:59.120
<v Speaker 4>a whole cafe.

0:49:59.680 --> 0:50:01.359
<v Speaker 1>You that this is this business man.

0:50:01.440 --> 0:50:04.399
<v Speaker 4>No I live, but it's also can we go on

0:50:04.520 --> 0:50:06.239
<v Speaker 4>like real dates? Oh?

0:50:06.280 --> 0:50:08.040
<v Speaker 2>He would be like come to the shop, come to

0:50:08.080 --> 0:50:08.480
<v Speaker 2>the cafe.

0:50:09.320 --> 0:50:11.719
<v Speaker 1>Day, we're gonna go. We're gonna go somewhere after. But

0:50:11.760 --> 0:50:14.400
<v Speaker 1>it was just like too, it was too.

0:50:14.040 --> 0:50:18.480
<v Speaker 2>Like like like I'm busy all the time. And if

0:50:18.640 --> 0:50:21.080
<v Speaker 2>it's like I don't know if if it's benefiting me personally,

0:50:21.120 --> 0:50:23.080
<v Speaker 2>like this somebody you're married to in a relationship with,

0:50:23.120 --> 0:50:25.319
<v Speaker 2>where like you know financially you are benefiting, then I

0:50:25.360 --> 0:50:27.160
<v Speaker 2>support your dream, right.

0:50:27.160 --> 0:50:30.360
<v Speaker 1>But if it's like every time.

0:50:30.680 --> 0:50:33.960
<v Speaker 4>It's like, oh, or you could come to Taco Tuesday,

0:50:34.320 --> 0:50:36.520
<v Speaker 4>or you could come to blah blah blah and then

0:50:36.800 --> 0:50:38.839
<v Speaker 4>we'll go to such and such such such, or I'm

0:50:38.920 --> 0:50:41.080
<v Speaker 4>running late because of work and blah blah blah.

0:50:41.120 --> 0:50:43.120
<v Speaker 2>I was just like, yeah, I could see you being like,

0:50:43.880 --> 0:50:45.160
<v Speaker 2>didn't really seem you.

0:50:45.400 --> 0:50:49.200
<v Speaker 4>Hire somebody, hire some hire or hire. I mean that's

0:50:49.200 --> 0:50:51.680
<v Speaker 4>the thing too, but it's like I can't because I

0:50:51.719 --> 0:50:53.839
<v Speaker 4>gotta I get it, like I I that was an

0:50:53.880 --> 0:50:56.680
<v Speaker 4>attractive thing to me, like your ambitious black owned da

0:50:56.760 --> 0:51:03.920
<v Speaker 4>da da. It's like a really popping place, like oh yeah, how.

0:51:03.880 --> 0:51:07.760
<v Speaker 2>Many outlets they got down? My laptop and work right.

0:51:07.640 --> 0:51:08.239
<v Speaker 1>On over there.

0:51:08.520 --> 0:51:10.520
<v Speaker 2>There's not a few people in there too, because I

0:51:10.640 --> 0:51:15.359
<v Speaker 2>was really like in Flatbush and flap Bush. Okay, you're

0:51:15.360 --> 0:51:18.239
<v Speaker 2>gonna edit that up, oh because it is, Yeah, but

0:51:18.239 --> 0:51:19.000
<v Speaker 2>you're gonna edit out.

0:51:19.160 --> 0:51:21.239
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, yeah, you edit it out. You gotta edit it.

0:51:21.440 --> 0:51:25.840
<v Speaker 2>No, they didn't hear me, because they and I heard you.

0:51:26.920 --> 0:51:30.920
<v Speaker 1>I heard you leave it out. Leave it out. We're

0:51:30.920 --> 0:51:33.400
<v Speaker 1>gonna leave it out. Yeah, it is. You know that

0:51:33.440 --> 0:51:38.480
<v Speaker 1>place is popping. Be cute over Why you ain't never

0:51:38.640 --> 0:51:43.600
<v Speaker 1>write me there? That's some high people be cute there,

0:51:43.680 --> 0:51:47.560
<v Speaker 1>and it'll be popping in there because I never to drinks.

0:51:48.360 --> 0:51:50.120
<v Speaker 1>You're saying I'm too big for the cafe. You know.

0:51:50.239 --> 0:51:53.000
<v Speaker 1>I didn't say that. It's just it's you have to

0:51:53.040 --> 0:51:53.760
<v Speaker 1>get there early.

0:51:53.880 --> 0:51:56.600
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, you gotta get to get see my But

0:51:57.560 --> 0:51:58.120
<v Speaker 2>I used to be.

0:51:58.040 --> 0:52:01.960
<v Speaker 1>In there, like you said early. She said, that's not early. No,

0:52:02.080 --> 0:52:08.279
<v Speaker 1>it'd be their ginger lemonade. Is mm. They got good

0:52:08.280 --> 0:52:09.880
<v Speaker 1>food too, and food.

0:52:10.200 --> 0:52:13.920
<v Speaker 2>Not doing this with job? Okay, so should we go?

0:52:15.160 --> 0:52:17.560
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, let's go. I don't want nobody, but.

0:52:19.960 --> 0:52:29.319
<v Speaker 2>Let's you know.

0:52:29.520 --> 0:52:31.719
<v Speaker 1>She's like, no, I don't. Mortal story is not my man.

0:52:31.840 --> 0:52:33.520
<v Speaker 4>And then now when it felt when it fell off

0:52:34.560 --> 0:52:38.239
<v Speaker 4>for reasons like it was just like I'm busy.

0:52:38.280 --> 0:52:39.200
<v Speaker 1>I'm busy. I'm busy.

0:52:40.080 --> 0:52:41.839
<v Speaker 4>I don't know if I could tell this story because

0:52:41.880 --> 0:52:44.000
<v Speaker 4>this is a person that will actually like watch.

0:52:43.800 --> 0:52:46.160
<v Speaker 1>This, you think, what do you mean?

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<v Speaker 4>No, they're just they're just like an online person and

0:52:49.239 --> 0:52:52.399
<v Speaker 4>they're so busy how.

0:52:52.360 --> 0:52:55.520
<v Speaker 2>They are online clocking for me, sweetie.

0:52:57.880 --> 0:53:01.400
<v Speaker 4>They're okay, their friend, Okay, I'm all the friend of

0:53:01.480 --> 0:53:03.600
<v Speaker 4>the person, the friend who was like, hey, hey, hey,

0:53:03.880 --> 0:53:06.480
<v Speaker 4>you gotta my friend has a question that or I

0:53:06.560 --> 0:53:08.719
<v Speaker 4>so I'm dating this person for a little bit, right

0:53:08.760 --> 0:53:10.640
<v Speaker 4>for months. I'm cool with the friends too, because I

0:53:10.719 --> 0:53:13.040
<v Speaker 4>still coming into the cafe, get my little free matra.

0:53:12.960 --> 0:53:15.279
<v Speaker 1>The love it. I have a question, Yes, how are

0:53:15.320 --> 0:53:18.080
<v Speaker 1>you dating? If y'all not really seeing each other?

0:53:18.160 --> 0:53:20.080
<v Speaker 4>No, we will see each other all the time too,

0:53:20.320 --> 0:53:22.879
<v Speaker 4>like in the cafe and then the cafe. But also

0:53:22.920 --> 0:53:25.080
<v Speaker 4>it would be like a date, Like it'd be like,

0:53:25.400 --> 0:53:29.160
<v Speaker 4>why don't you come here? I come once and I'm like, like,

0:53:29.239 --> 0:53:30.799
<v Speaker 4>for example, there'd be like a day where they have

0:53:30.840 --> 0:53:33.480
<v Speaker 4>like stretch therapy. I come to stretch therapy. It's a

0:53:33.520 --> 0:53:36.239
<v Speaker 4>free session. Blah blah blah. They have like events there.

0:53:36.400 --> 0:53:40.160
<v Speaker 4>It sounds like convenience, but I mean like, I'm ambitious,

0:53:40.200 --> 0:53:42.640
<v Speaker 4>I'm working, I'm this this dream I have and I'm

0:53:42.640 --> 0:53:44.640
<v Speaker 4>trying to be supportive of. But then the next time

0:53:44.680 --> 0:53:46.799
<v Speaker 4>we'll go to like bathouse, or we're going to a

0:53:46.880 --> 0:53:50.359
<v Speaker 4>dinner somewhere, we'll do some stuff date we had since

0:53:50.440 --> 0:53:52.600
<v Speaker 4>it was dating, No, we had dates, but it would

0:53:52.600 --> 0:53:55.759
<v Speaker 4>be like if we go on five dates, three of

0:53:55.800 --> 0:53:58.560
<v Speaker 4>them you're trying to make this thing or you're like, hey,

0:53:58.680 --> 0:54:02.400
<v Speaker 4>like come through out after launch, or we'll go to

0:54:03.120 --> 0:54:05.239
<v Speaker 4>dea which is a place that's around the corner from me.

0:54:05.320 --> 0:54:07.640
<v Speaker 4>But come here first and then I come in, and

0:54:07.680 --> 0:54:09.919
<v Speaker 4>you gotta go and work on this and do that.

0:54:10.200 --> 0:54:12.440
<v Speaker 1>And I'm like, I could sit on the phone and

0:54:12.520 --> 0:54:15.839
<v Speaker 1>wait in my own home. You know what I'm saying.

0:54:15.960 --> 0:54:18.680
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, but if there's an expectation, I'm guessing. I was like, Yo,

0:54:19.040 --> 0:54:20.400
<v Speaker 4>all the girlies they're.

0:54:20.200 --> 0:54:21.400
<v Speaker 1>Just fine with this.

0:54:21.920 --> 0:54:24.600
<v Speaker 2>They're just sitting around waiting on the couch. I'm like,

0:54:24.840 --> 0:54:28.480
<v Speaker 2>I need to be an employee. You need to pat

0:54:28.520 --> 0:54:29.120
<v Speaker 2>me on the payroll.

0:54:29.160 --> 0:54:32.240
<v Speaker 1>I'm here, so you could have had you on the cashier.

0:54:32.280 --> 0:54:36.920
<v Speaker 1>What's up? You ready? Maybe I can make a little No,

0:54:37.040 --> 0:54:37.839
<v Speaker 1>I just wanted to sit.

0:54:38.760 --> 0:54:41.359
<v Speaker 4>But yeah, so he his friend they would like tell

0:54:41.400 --> 0:54:42.919
<v Speaker 4>inside jokes with me and blah blah blah.

0:54:42.960 --> 0:54:43.400
<v Speaker 1>He sent me.

0:54:43.760 --> 0:54:46.680
<v Speaker 4>He showed me a text that they a text threat

0:54:46.719 --> 0:54:48.640
<v Speaker 4>they were and they were like making fun of something

0:54:49.360 --> 0:54:52.080
<v Speaker 4>or whatever. And then he's like he has he let

0:54:52.120 --> 0:54:54.480
<v Speaker 4>me hold this home. He's like, you can scroll. So

0:54:54.520 --> 0:54:57.920
<v Speaker 4>I'm like, oh, I scroll and I see old boy

0:54:58.680 --> 0:55:02.319
<v Speaker 4>talking out. I just bagged this this girl or something

0:55:02.360 --> 0:55:05.040
<v Speaker 4>like that. Something bagged and there's an Instagram I g

0:55:05.239 --> 0:55:06.839
<v Speaker 4>for this person and who is the.

0:55:06.719 --> 0:55:12.160
<v Speaker 2>Person me, no, some like random girl.

0:55:12.400 --> 0:55:14.279
<v Speaker 4>There's some random girl, but I don't know that shit

0:55:14.360 --> 0:55:15.719
<v Speaker 4>like set me off because I was like, oh, so

0:55:15.800 --> 0:55:17.760
<v Speaker 4>you're not like we weren't exclusive.

0:55:17.760 --> 0:55:19.920
<v Speaker 1>But I was like, you're not that busy. You got

0:55:19.960 --> 0:55:23.560
<v Speaker 1>time too, bag girls like what? But yeah. So I'm

0:55:23.600 --> 0:55:24.280
<v Speaker 1>like oh.

0:55:24.360 --> 0:55:26.760
<v Speaker 2>And then his friend's like, I can't believe you saw

0:55:26.800 --> 0:55:30.879
<v Speaker 2>that he did lah you reacted to it, yeah, because

0:55:30.880 --> 0:55:34.359
<v Speaker 2>I went oh oh, and he was like humh and

0:55:34.400 --> 0:55:35.000
<v Speaker 2>he took his phone.

0:55:35.040 --> 0:55:37.680
<v Speaker 4>He was like, fuck, I don't know, dude, just texted that.

0:55:38.040 --> 0:55:39.759
<v Speaker 4>I just sent that in the threat. But you should

0:55:39.800 --> 0:55:41.200
<v Speaker 4>have shown you should have missed with me that.

0:55:41.200 --> 0:55:43.759
<v Speaker 1>Anyway, I wouldn't have done it. I'm not sure it's real.

0:55:43.840 --> 0:55:49.560
<v Speaker 4>He was, Yeah, he said, go ahead and scroll messy.

0:55:49.680 --> 0:55:51.560
<v Speaker 2>He did it on purpose. I'm trying to let you

0:55:51.600 --> 0:55:54.840
<v Speaker 2>know he was trying to. He was like, why do Yeah,

0:55:55.120 --> 0:55:56.799
<v Speaker 2>he was trying to. He was trying to be a

0:55:56.840 --> 0:55:59.520
<v Speaker 2>bird and like, seeing you the message twee tweet tweet

0:55:59.560 --> 0:56:05.000
<v Speaker 2>I received that said so I texted him and I

0:56:05.120 --> 0:56:08.040
<v Speaker 2>was like, so I hear you out here knowing blah

0:56:08.040 --> 0:56:08.760
<v Speaker 2>blah blah blah.

0:56:08.800 --> 0:56:11.719
<v Speaker 4>So I think we're done. And it was like, what

0:56:11.760 --> 0:56:14.000
<v Speaker 4>do you mean where did you see? What did you hear?

0:56:14.120 --> 0:56:16.319
<v Speaker 4>But I didn't want to tell him a friend because

0:56:16.320 --> 0:56:17.279
<v Speaker 4>I felt bad.

0:56:17.040 --> 0:56:19.879
<v Speaker 1>Because Bro was like to tell him where you saw it?

0:56:19.960 --> 0:56:22.840
<v Speaker 1>Yeah he knows, he said it. Yeah exactly.

0:56:22.960 --> 0:56:26.279
<v Speaker 4>But then of course, like, so I the where this

0:56:26.400 --> 0:56:28.719
<v Speaker 4>place is. If I go a certain way from the train,

0:56:28.760 --> 0:56:29.640
<v Speaker 4>I'm gonna run into it.

0:56:29.760 --> 0:56:32.160
<v Speaker 1>This is so messy, this is a girl.

0:56:32.719 --> 0:56:36.120
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I see him again And the first question is, yo,

0:56:36.200 --> 0:56:37.280
<v Speaker 4>so what's that about?

0:56:37.400 --> 0:56:40.360
<v Speaker 1>You really got to move from d D.

0:56:40.760 --> 0:56:42.400
<v Speaker 4>So I did tell him in the n I rated

0:56:42.400 --> 0:56:44.560
<v Speaker 4>the front out and then they had it back and forth.

0:56:44.600 --> 0:56:48.040
<v Speaker 1>But like, that's what you're saying, that's your business. You

0:56:48.120 --> 0:56:50.440
<v Speaker 1>got to save yourself. Yeah, that's how I look at it.

0:56:51.680 --> 0:56:54.160
<v Speaker 1>So what you're gonna do? So the moral of the

0:56:54.200 --> 0:56:58.880
<v Speaker 1>story is don't do it. Don't work. I mean, it works,

0:56:59.000 --> 0:57:02.440
<v Speaker 1>but not not. I needed to be like really specific.

0:57:02.600 --> 0:57:04.560
<v Speaker 1>I thought I was, but I was not. So you

0:57:04.680 --> 0:57:08.359
<v Speaker 1>wanted ambitious, you got ambitious. It was that cafe, dude.

0:57:08.680 --> 0:57:12.200
<v Speaker 1>You wanted the creative forever.

0:57:13.000 --> 0:57:17.560
<v Speaker 2>You wanted fit and take care of themselves. If we

0:57:17.600 --> 0:57:21.960
<v Speaker 2>can mix all of that together. And fourth guy, I

0:57:22.040 --> 0:57:24.240
<v Speaker 2>think would be the one that he's going to be

0:57:24.320 --> 0:57:27.200
<v Speaker 2>on your travels. You gotta go to like country, Yeah,

0:57:27.360 --> 0:57:29.120
<v Speaker 2>you can't. Got to get out of I'm gonna put

0:57:29.880 --> 0:57:30.960
<v Speaker 2>the neighborhood.

0:57:33.440 --> 0:57:34.040
<v Speaker 1>Flat bush.

0:57:34.160 --> 0:57:34.560
<v Speaker 2>I got to.

0:57:36.360 --> 0:57:38.680
<v Speaker 1>Now I'm outside. Now I'm outside. I was going through

0:57:38.720 --> 0:57:41.360
<v Speaker 1>I was going through a period of depression. So I

0:57:41.520 --> 0:57:43.680
<v Speaker 1>was like, I could I could do this here, I could,

0:57:43.720 --> 0:57:46.280
<v Speaker 1>I could go on a two mile radius. And it

0:57:46.400 --> 0:57:50.160
<v Speaker 1>was like, no question for you. Do you think dating

0:57:50.400 --> 0:57:53.120
<v Speaker 1>while depressed is productive?

0:57:54.200 --> 0:57:56.640
<v Speaker 4>Because I think that's honestly, I think that's the energy

0:57:56.680 --> 0:58:01.120
<v Speaker 4>I put into the orange, you know orange, Like I

0:58:01.320 --> 0:58:04.680
<v Speaker 4>wasn't clear and my heart was heavy and I wasn't

0:58:04.960 --> 0:58:06.680
<v Speaker 4>I think if I had done that spell from a

0:58:06.760 --> 0:58:10.960
<v Speaker 4>place of like healed, comfortable, cozy, did you use the

0:58:11.000 --> 0:58:11.600
<v Speaker 4>blood orange?

0:58:11.720 --> 0:58:13.680
<v Speaker 1>It was giving blood orange, blood orange.

0:58:13.920 --> 0:58:17.040
<v Speaker 4>He was giving blood perid blood orange. And that's why

0:58:17.080 --> 0:58:18.200
<v Speaker 4>I got the energy I got.

0:58:18.400 --> 0:58:21.040
<v Speaker 2>Now I am gonna go get an orange after the

0:58:21.080 --> 0:58:21.440
<v Speaker 2>pod ma.

0:58:23.120 --> 0:58:25.000
<v Speaker 1>Make sure you're in a good place. I'm in a

0:58:25.120 --> 0:58:28.120
<v Speaker 1>great Yeah, okay, where the orange is gonna I gotta

0:58:28.160 --> 0:58:31.280
<v Speaker 1>get like a whole foods orange. Like people, it wasn't

0:58:31.280 --> 0:58:33.640
<v Speaker 1>an organic you should have got organic.

0:58:33.440 --> 0:58:36.120
<v Speaker 2>The sides where you got it from one of those

0:58:36.200 --> 0:58:40.000
<v Speaker 2>like corner corner places you know you ready got to do.

0:58:40.160 --> 0:58:42.280
<v Speaker 2>You can't get the oranges in a bag. You gotta

0:58:42.320 --> 0:58:44.120
<v Speaker 2>get an individual orange.

0:58:45.640 --> 0:58:48.880
<v Speaker 1>Single. You gotta go to the food, the market, the

0:58:48.960 --> 0:58:52.600
<v Speaker 1>farmer's market, armers market. I feel like I'm gonna get

0:58:52.600 --> 0:58:57.240
<v Speaker 1>a white dude. Yeah, you're black on ones. Maybe I

0:58:57.320 --> 0:58:57.840
<v Speaker 1>feel like if.

0:58:57.760 --> 0:58:59.800
<v Speaker 2>I got a Farmer's market orange, it will be a

0:59:00.360 --> 0:59:03.240
<v Speaker 2>white man that went birken stop yes and says things

0:59:03.320 --> 0:59:04.520
<v Speaker 2>like I feel.

0:59:06.520 --> 0:59:10.120
<v Speaker 1>And I don't want that. Yeah, I did not. I

0:59:10.160 --> 0:59:11.000
<v Speaker 1>threw that ship away off.

0:59:11.120 --> 0:59:13.360
<v Speaker 2>So now you're in a good place. How are you

0:59:13.520 --> 0:59:16.000
<v Speaker 2>gonna unmass this dating situation?

0:59:16.120 --> 0:59:19.600
<v Speaker 1>What are what are your plans? Yeah? What are you

0:59:20.240 --> 0:59:22.640
<v Speaker 1>going out? Where are you going so that you can meet?

0:59:23.440 --> 0:59:25.280
<v Speaker 1>So I've learned one, don't ship where you eat.

0:59:26.040 --> 0:59:29.200
<v Speaker 4>When I'm at the gym, now, head down down, head

0:59:29.280 --> 0:59:32.720
<v Speaker 4>down low like fabulous in two thousand and two.

0:59:35.640 --> 0:59:41.680
<v Speaker 1>Yes, literally that's me. You can't see, no eyelash, nothing. Okay,

0:59:42.520 --> 0:59:44.080
<v Speaker 1>I go in. I'll be bumping into things. But I

0:59:44.120 --> 0:59:48.200
<v Speaker 1>was because because I'm bumping into trouble. Okay, bumping into trouble. Yes,

0:59:48.400 --> 0:59:50.680
<v Speaker 1>at the cafe, I don't go to that cafe. No more,

0:59:51.040 --> 0:59:54.800
<v Speaker 1>you don't go there. I get and then I for the.

0:59:54.800 --> 0:59:56.800
<v Speaker 4>Prematchra It's cool, but I asked, so I work out

0:59:57.040 --> 1:00:00.360
<v Speaker 4>I write at the library now quiet. I heard that

1:00:00.560 --> 1:00:03.440
<v Speaker 4>when I find attractive. I've never seen nobody attractive in

1:00:03.480 --> 1:00:06.240
<v Speaker 4>the library, but maybe there is. But it's harder because

1:00:06.240 --> 1:00:08.520
<v Speaker 4>there's more people are like, people are not interested. It's

1:00:08.520 --> 1:00:10.560
<v Speaker 4>not the people at this cafe are trying to be hot,

1:00:10.680 --> 1:00:11.640
<v Speaker 4>but they just know they are.

1:00:11.840 --> 1:00:14.320
<v Speaker 1>Definitely they're looking good.

1:00:14.200 --> 1:00:18.040
<v Speaker 4>For this fantastic. But at the library it's graduate students.

1:00:18.080 --> 1:00:19.840
<v Speaker 4>It's people who are just people trying to get their

1:00:19.880 --> 1:00:23.400
<v Speaker 4>thesis to exactly. So you're not finding nobody at.

1:00:23.440 --> 1:00:26.320
<v Speaker 1>A young doctor. They might be ugly.

1:00:27.480 --> 1:00:29.640
<v Speaker 4>That's the thing I'm trying to unshallow, trying to get

1:00:29.640 --> 1:00:31.240
<v Speaker 4>people to know people. I'm trying to be people in

1:00:31.520 --> 1:00:32.680
<v Speaker 4>real life settings.

1:00:32.800 --> 1:00:36.600
<v Speaker 1>Maybe you met somebody at the park that's real life

1:00:37.200 --> 1:00:37.840
<v Speaker 1>and I've asked.

1:00:37.920 --> 1:00:41.200
<v Speaker 2>I've asked you this off air, but I was like,

1:00:41.480 --> 1:00:44.040
<v Speaker 2>what about women, And you're like, I'm sorry.

1:00:44.520 --> 1:00:47.280
<v Speaker 4>The thing is I would be So I went to

1:00:47.400 --> 1:00:51.560
<v Speaker 4>Magic City once, all right, and girl, you have to go,

1:00:51.920 --> 1:00:54.480
<v Speaker 4>you said, so I went to the strip club, and

1:00:54.840 --> 1:00:56.160
<v Speaker 4>that you went to you went.

1:00:56.080 --> 1:00:57.640
<v Speaker 2>To the top strip club. So you went to medic

1:00:57.680 --> 1:00:58.640
<v Speaker 2>City and what did you see?

1:00:58.680 --> 1:00:59.080
<v Speaker 1>But we went.

1:00:59.160 --> 1:01:01.200
<v Speaker 4>We went when it was a PM, so nobody because

1:01:01.200 --> 1:01:02.880
<v Speaker 4>one of my friends that came with us, she used

1:01:02.880 --> 1:01:04.360
<v Speaker 4>to dance, and she was like, you gotta go early

1:01:04.400 --> 1:01:06.400
<v Speaker 4>when it's just like it's a couple, couple couples.

1:01:06.800 --> 1:01:07.600
<v Speaker 1>The men are not there.

1:01:07.840 --> 1:01:10.680
<v Speaker 4>It's just us four girls and we were throwing it

1:01:11.000 --> 1:01:13.280
<v Speaker 4>and so like that was fun. But there was one.

1:01:13.200 --> 1:01:16.760
<v Speaker 1>Girl was really hot. Okay, what she looked like.

1:01:17.000 --> 1:01:20.600
<v Speaker 4>She looked like if I was in Atlanta. She had

1:01:20.600 --> 1:01:23.800
<v Speaker 4>a little bikini. She was like a more demure demure.

1:01:24.480 --> 1:01:26.920
<v Speaker 4>They had the top topless but kept the bottoms on,

1:01:27.400 --> 1:01:29.640
<v Speaker 4>dropping the carrot. I was like showing everything.

1:01:30.320 --> 1:01:32.600
<v Speaker 1>Yes, but it was like and that's what I'm saying.

1:01:32.640 --> 1:01:34.680
<v Speaker 1>It's just this the last time I felt that way.

1:01:34.720 --> 1:01:36.720
<v Speaker 4>But there are moments where I'm like, you know what

1:01:37.560 --> 1:01:40.080
<v Speaker 4>I could pull up on you or or the opposite

1:01:40.200 --> 1:01:42.000
<v Speaker 4>that was high fam I could do like maybe like

1:01:42.080 --> 1:01:46.760
<v Speaker 4>a masculine like you know so but it's just like

1:01:46.880 --> 1:01:53.680
<v Speaker 4>y'all know Natasha Cloud from The Liberty, she did go

1:01:53.760 --> 1:01:54.200
<v Speaker 4>to a game.

1:01:56.960 --> 1:02:05.000
<v Speaker 1>I was too busy, like taking videos the elephant dancing.

1:02:05.640 --> 1:02:09.120
<v Speaker 1>I know who Natasha Cloud is. Yeah, I'm like, they're

1:02:09.400 --> 1:02:11.240
<v Speaker 1>like cute, but I don't know.

1:02:11.400 --> 1:02:14.240
<v Speaker 4>There's like I think, like, you know, I haven't been

1:02:14.280 --> 1:02:16.880
<v Speaker 4>in a position or I have been in positions where

1:02:16.880 --> 1:02:19.240
<v Speaker 4>I could and I never Yeah, she.

1:02:19.360 --> 1:02:22.520
<v Speaker 1>Kind of looks like Coy Lauray if.

1:02:22.400 --> 1:02:23.000
<v Speaker 2>She was brother.

1:02:23.360 --> 1:02:27.320
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, brother. She is problematic.

1:02:29.240 --> 1:02:32.440
<v Speaker 2>She's like, I think it was either her or she's like,

1:02:32.560 --> 1:02:36.880
<v Speaker 2>oh the person she's dating who's isn't isn't another basketball player.

1:02:36.920 --> 1:02:40.200
<v Speaker 1>Or she's like she's not really gay, she's just into me.

1:02:40.560 --> 1:02:41.000
<v Speaker 1>Oh my god.

1:02:41.040 --> 1:02:43.720
<v Speaker 4>I just had this conversation with my best friends. She's

1:02:43.840 --> 1:02:46.720
<v Speaker 4>dating a woman and she self identifies as a straight woman,

1:02:46.800 --> 1:02:47.360
<v Speaker 4>and she said that.

1:02:47.400 --> 1:02:50.640
<v Speaker 2>People are mad. People are mad, that people are mad

1:02:50.680 --> 1:02:54.360
<v Speaker 2>that that that like the people don't like get like,

1:02:54.600 --> 1:02:55.640
<v Speaker 2>the community is not like that.

1:02:56.640 --> 1:03:03.800
<v Speaker 1>And yet gay's love us straight person Yeah, a specific gay.

1:03:04.080 --> 1:03:06.000
<v Speaker 1>Yeah that does that. You think it's toxic?

1:03:06.360 --> 1:03:08.680
<v Speaker 2>I don't want it, Yeah, because what I don't like

1:03:08.760 --> 1:03:12.080
<v Speaker 2>a chase. I actually don't want to work at all.

1:03:13.240 --> 1:03:15.480
<v Speaker 2>Why would I be with somebody who's like you. It's

1:03:15.560 --> 1:03:18.880
<v Speaker 2>clear that you're not really about this. And then those

1:03:19.000 --> 1:03:23.560
<v Speaker 2>girls who are with somebody but they're like straight, they're

1:03:23.600 --> 1:03:30.000
<v Speaker 2>not giving ahead. You gotta you gotta, you gotta get

1:03:30.080 --> 1:03:35.480
<v Speaker 2>it heads.

1:03:33.520 --> 1:03:38.640
<v Speaker 1>You gotta give. Some girls don't want it, though I

1:03:38.920 --> 1:03:41.480
<v Speaker 1>want it? Why would I? Why would I be with

1:03:41.560 --> 1:03:43.000
<v Speaker 1>somebody who don't want to do it? Right?

1:03:43.160 --> 1:03:45.760
<v Speaker 2>But I feel like, haven't you dated people who didn't

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<v Speaker 2>want you to do it to them? That's not That's

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<v Speaker 2>what I'm saying some girls. No, no, no, wait, wait

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<v Speaker 2>waitit no, no no, I've never been with somebody who

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<v Speaker 2>didn't want to head. They definitely want to every it

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<v Speaker 2>do't matter what gender you are. Everybody I've been with

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<v Speaker 2>they wanted.

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<v Speaker 4>I feel like there are people updated words, they like

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<v Speaker 4>to give more than they like to receive. So maybe

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<v Speaker 4>I did it a few times, but that's not our

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<v Speaker 4>regular routine.

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<v Speaker 1>Could you do that? If she like dipped down there

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<v Speaker 1>and was like all right, that don't make me feel

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<v Speaker 1>like so is it bad?

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<v Speaker 4>Like?

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<v Speaker 1>What does it taste like pennies? What's going on? Does it?

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<v Speaker 1>Does it taste like a Susan b Anthony down there?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>But like so so you're saying, Okay, you're saying you

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<v Speaker 1>could do it or you couldn't do it? Could I

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<v Speaker 1>do it?

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<v Speaker 4>I feel like, I'm I want your study.

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<v Speaker 2>You're studying one mass homophobic, homophobic study.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like I want, I want. I want to

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<v Speaker 1>have a relationship where you don't want to do it,

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<v Speaker 1>you don't want to do it.

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<v Speaker 2>If I'm doing a relationship, I would want it to

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<v Speaker 2>be like I would want it to be some equity

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<v Speaker 2>and I wouldn't want the person to feel like you

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<v Speaker 2>where they're like there, So you just.

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<v Speaker 1>You're just never gonna do it. So you're saying you

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<v Speaker 1>wouldn't do it, but you would get it. If I

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<v Speaker 1>if I was to go into that you dry, you're l.

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<v Speaker 2>No, I did, I would, I would try if I

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<v Speaker 2>if I found a girl.

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<v Speaker 1>Who was like, you know, we here, nobody wants you

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<v Speaker 1>try in there if you want to be with a girl.

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<v Speaker 1>The spell is instead of hair from your No, no,

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<v Speaker 1>that's a different kind of spell. I heard.

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<v Speaker 2>That's the spell that like get your get your man

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<v Speaker 2>to be like obsessed or like that's that's a different

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<v Speaker 2>type of so that's like a witchery.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, yeah, yep, they put I think I think that

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<v Speaker 1>was in mids some more. I didn't see that it

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<v Speaker 1>was there.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, yes, she put herubes in the pie yeah, nasty

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<v Speaker 3>in the pie?

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<v Speaker 1>What kind of pie? Some I think it's like a

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<v Speaker 1>Swedish apple some something. You would do it apple like that,

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<v Speaker 1>like strude so in the toaster.

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<v Speaker 2>Not that.

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<v Speaker 1>But then you're like, my god, let me take them

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<v Speaker 1>clothes off, diving in you doing that? No, be my baby,

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<v Speaker 1>all right.

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<v Speaker 2>To nice to night, a little honey on and by

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<v Speaker 2>the act as you could tell, these women are straight.

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<v Speaker 2>Absolutely get my fingers, baby and I and the straight

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<v Speaker 2>the whole time.

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<v Speaker 1>This is improv they're they're just.

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<v Speaker 2>When the lady comes up to me, I'm like, no, thanks, yes,

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<v Speaker 2>and but no.

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<v Speaker 1>Think I love your shoes.

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<v Speaker 4>There's no version of a woman where you be like me, yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>I feel like just a curiosity.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah maybe, but I don't know. I just I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know what she would have to look. Excuse me, you

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<v Speaker 1>ain't never said that. See yeah, because you could you

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<v Speaker 1>popped into the dicks. Maybe she could pop into No

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<v Speaker 1>no no no no no no no no no no

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<v Speaker 1>no no no no no no no no no no

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<v Speaker 1>no no no no.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't I need to change the narrative. Don't change

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<v Speaker 2>that narrative. You saw the man I was in the

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<v Speaker 2>sunken place Okay, I didn't. I didn't pop in it.

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<v Speaker 1>You pop in you sunk in, fell off the chair.

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<v Speaker 1>Where'd you meet this man? I'm so curious.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh god, there's so many I was on not so many,

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<v Speaker 2>and it was I was on hinge, so you can

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<v Speaker 2>put effort into me.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, it wasn't brought to you. It was

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<v Speaker 1>a dark time. It was a dark time. I met

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<v Speaker 1>the one with Marie. Yeah, yeah, we were out.

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<v Speaker 2>I went to the bathroom. When I came back and

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<v Speaker 2>Sydney was talking.

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<v Speaker 1>To a home man. What but but I wasn't talking

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<v Speaker 1>to him like talking. I was just like, he's still

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<v Speaker 1>here shouting no, no, no, Sidney, don't do that, don't

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<v Speaker 1>do that. Sidney is like Sidney is a flirt. Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>She's like I was just to him. No, he was

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<v Speaker 1>saying things and she was like, yeah, like they're going

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<v Speaker 1>back and forth. It was going back, not putting this on.

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<v Speaker 1>Tyler was on stage and was like, mages, So this

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<v Speaker 1>was really No, it's like two years ago.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, I forget how long tylerman, but yeah, can't believe

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<v Speaker 2>I'm putting my glasses because I didn't even believe MA

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<v Speaker 2>say something like that. You love throwing me underneath the bus?

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<v Speaker 2>Grol What how did I throw you under the bus?

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<v Speaker 2>You were flirting with this dude.

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't think I was flirting with him. I thought

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<v Speaker 1>I was being totally chick, because are you doing this?

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<v Speaker 2>No?

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<v Speaker 1>She was standing and she wasn't leaning on anything.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, Sydney, you were absolutely y'all were flirting so much

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<v Speaker 2>so and this is not me throw you under the bus.

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<v Speaker 1>Y'all exchanged information in minigrams that counts now, instagrams that counts. No,

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<v Speaker 1>that's information. I'm an influencer, that's he said. My numbers up? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>out of a follow No, no, no, you gotta follow you. No,

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<v Speaker 1>he was, he was cute. He was He's a very

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<v Speaker 1>attractive guy. I didn't. I didn't.

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<v Speaker 4>Nothing happened, Oh something happened. Oh wait, you offendshed. She

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<v Speaker 4>says you were flirting, but something happened.

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<v Speaker 1>But I wasn't flirting at t Do you understand. Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>I thought she was gonna be like, I didn't even

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<v Speaker 1>but something happened. At first, I was like, Marie, look

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<v Speaker 1>at this tall man for you. He wasn't looking at me.

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<v Speaker 1>He was looking at c h. Yes, and then you y'all.

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<v Speaker 1>M yeah, And then you met and we were we were,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, just dming and then I'll show you. I'll

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<v Speaker 1>show you to d M that. But it was it

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<v Speaker 1>was very forward and I was like, oh oh he

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<v Speaker 1>was like sexual. Yes, oh, and you said makes me sweat.

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<v Speaker 1>But I threw her under the bus. Girl, you jumped

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<v Speaker 1>on the Yeah, wait a minute, I thought it was

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<v Speaker 1>a sea or talking to you in front of the bus.

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<v Speaker 1>She put her hand out like I wouldn't. I wouldn't.

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<v Speaker 2>It was does that do the tour around New York City?

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<v Speaker 2>She was doing the tour of the bus. Let me

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<v Speaker 2>tell you if I had, if I since I was

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<v Speaker 2>going back around this time around, I.

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<v Speaker 1>Was like, I would not be with no ugly dude

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<v Speaker 1>if I was. I said, if I'm going to do this,

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<v Speaker 1>they can't be ugly. I already did that. I already

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<v Speaker 1>did that when I really like them through that, No

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<v Speaker 1>way they have to. They at least look nice. Now

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<v Speaker 1>is their bedding together? The betting it's gonna be dark

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<v Speaker 1>navy sheets? You know it's green black? What's this frontal?

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<v Speaker 1>And the straight man? Anti light sheets? It's because you

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<v Speaker 1>are changing them. You gotta wash them. Oh, you dirty

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<v Speaker 1>color the sheets on your bed right now?

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<v Speaker 4>Oh?

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<v Speaker 1>Do you change your sheets? He's well her white? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you got them for you? Exactly did you have them

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<v Speaker 1>before you met her weight?

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<v Speaker 2>She said?

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<v Speaker 1>Let me let me upgrade. Let me let me upra

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<v Speaker 1>upgrade Egyptian count. Wow? Should we should we do some mess?

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<v Speaker 2>Yes?

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<v Speaker 1>A mess.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm gonna read a message. Okay, I am jealous of

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<v Speaker 2>my husband's barber. Never thought I would see a title

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<v Speaker 2>like this. This is crazy. Okay, such a huge fan

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<v Speaker 2>of you guys. This is not a serious problem, but

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<v Speaker 2>I'm curious what you two think. And thank you so

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<v Speaker 2>much for writing this. My husband has been going to

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<v Speaker 2>the same barber for years. He loves the way he

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<v Speaker 2>hate Oh it's a one. He loves the way she

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<v Speaker 2>does his curly hair. She's close to his job, she

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<v Speaker 2>uses quality products, and apparently they have great conversation.

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<v Speaker 1>And that's in quotation marks.

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<v Speaker 2>He should be sat there silent, in my opinion, but

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<v Speaker 2>I hear no, no, no, I can't stand the fact

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<v Speaker 2>that he goes to a female barber.

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<v Speaker 1>Now as a woman, you saying female barber, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>like that either. That's very toxic of you. Yeah, well,

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<v Speaker 1>how else is she supposed to describe her? It's a

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<v Speaker 1>female barber, a lady barber, female, female barber. You don't

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<v Speaker 1>call her a female. Yes, it's a female, a male

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<v Speaker 1>bone when people say female male, But she's no, y'all

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<v Speaker 1>read it into that. I don't agree. The female barber

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<v Speaker 1>is just living, living, Okay.

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<v Speaker 2>Every time he comes back from getting his haircut, I

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<v Speaker 2>see a montage in my head of this woman running

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<v Speaker 2>her fingers through his hair, massaging his head, touching his neck,

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<v Speaker 2>et cetera. Well, I mean she's she's Is she a

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<v Speaker 2>barber or is she like a hairstylist. She got a

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<v Speaker 2>machere of the line a stray, you gotta know, But

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<v Speaker 2>barber's you.

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<v Speaker 1>They're not washing. People are coming in and they're just

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<v Speaker 1>so they know they do facial stuff. Now they're upscale.

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<v Speaker 2>So he's not going to like the bum ass barber

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<v Speaker 2>in the neighborhoods. He's really he's really doing it.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay. It doesn't help that she is very pretty straight

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<v Speaker 1>and single.

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<v Speaker 2>You've done research, and she followed him on Instagram to

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<v Speaker 2>confirm their appointments.

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<v Speaker 1>Even worse, he followed her back. Baby.

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<v Speaker 2>Now, I really now, I don't really believe she's trying

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<v Speaker 2>to seduce my husband. But he looks like if Joe

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<v Speaker 2>Jonas was South Asian and tall enough to ride the

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<v Speaker 2>roller coasters at six Flags.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, that's not that tall, friend, don't you know that tall?

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<v Speaker 1>So that's what I think she's trying to say. Joe

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<v Speaker 1>Jonas is sure.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, so he okay, Oh he's tall enough to ride

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<v Speaker 2>the roller CRD. Okay, so he's he's short. He's a

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<v Speaker 2>short king here king. He also has a great job

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<v Speaker 2>and a charming personality.

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<v Speaker 1>I have to be vigilant. I have to be vigilant, girl,

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<v Speaker 1>you're doing the work. Okay. My husband works in n

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<v Speaker 1>y C.

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<v Speaker 2>And I'm one hundred percent sure he can find a

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<v Speaker 2>straight male barber who is near his job and a

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<v Speaker 2>curly hair expert. I brought this up to him, and

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<v Speaker 2>he says, I'm being ridiculous.

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<v Speaker 1>Now.

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<v Speaker 2>That is toxic saying ridiculous because you are now discrediting

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<v Speaker 2>my my, my feelings. Okay, it is her job to

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<v Speaker 2>touch him, so I shouldn't be jealous.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh he really about her. Oh he will go to

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<v Speaker 1>war for her. Well, I know what he said. He

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<v Speaker 1>said that.

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<v Speaker 2>I think a lot of people was they find somebody

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<v Speaker 2>that does their hair how they like, they don't want

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<v Speaker 2>to leave, and if he's not doing anything wrong. He's like, Babe,

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<v Speaker 2>you are being ridiculous.

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<v Speaker 1>That's what I'm saying. That's her job to me because

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<v Speaker 1>she custs my hair.

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<v Speaker 4>Ye.

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<v Speaker 1>We talk to our friends about it, and they were split.

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<v Speaker 1>M all the girls.

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<v Speaker 2>On one hand, they made the point that it's less

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<v Speaker 2>about whether it's possible to find another good stylist, but

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<v Speaker 2>more about all the bad haircuts he might have to

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<v Speaker 2>suffer through to.

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<v Speaker 1>Find this new person to do his hair.

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<v Speaker 2>So well, Internally, I was like, even better, who is

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<v Speaker 2>trying to impress with his hair? Oh?

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<v Speaker 1>Damn, she just got you. Girl. Isn't he trying to

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<v Speaker 1>impress you?

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<v Speaker 2>If he really loves me, he'd bust it off when

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<v Speaker 2>he leaves for work and girl way back when he

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<v Speaker 2>comes home.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, Like, you are being ridiculous. You're men, not me

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<v Speaker 1>siding with a man.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I know we don't do that here.

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<v Speaker 2>But one of my friends made the point that just

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<v Speaker 2>because it's someone's job doesn't mean it's not crossing a

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<v Speaker 2>boundary in a relationship. She brought up massage and bikini

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<v Speaker 2>waxes et cetera as examples. I thought this was very

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<v Speaker 2>interesting because I've gotten massages before and my husband always

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<v Speaker 2>asked me to request a female messuse.

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<v Speaker 1>Not only that, my husband.

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<v Speaker 2>Asked me to switch yoga studios because I mentioned offhand

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<v Speaker 2>that the male instructor adjusted my form during the class.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry? Is that okay? I'm sorry you knocked the job.

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<v Speaker 2>So I'm writing the mess experts for an objective opinion?

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<v Speaker 2>Am I messive for being jealous of my husband?

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<v Speaker 1>Barber?

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<v Speaker 2>You answered your question friend, you are jealous. You're being

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<v Speaker 2>jealousy but Sonia, But.

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<v Speaker 4>I would say I was with him until he told

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<v Speaker 4>you a yoga instructor adjusting you was too much. I

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<v Speaker 4>feel like he's already said the precedent. Then we can't

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<v Speaker 4>even be like y'all on the train.

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<v Speaker 1>Not even make an eye contact with the other. Estopicis sex?

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<v Speaker 4>It sounds like so like Before that though, I was like, girl,

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<v Speaker 4>it's hair like he touches you if you can't I

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<v Speaker 4>if somebody wants this cheat on you.

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<v Speaker 1>If a man wants to cheat on you, there it is.

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<v Speaker 1>They'll tell you he's going to church and pull up

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<v Speaker 1>on somebody cheating in church. They do ye, cheat too,

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<v Speaker 1>dude on the drum. We have a baby? Were Barbara

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<v Speaker 1>in the in the therape, Yes he does. I got

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<v Speaker 1>a soprano.

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<v Speaker 2>Let me tell you what you gotta do. So is

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<v Speaker 2>it messy or just living for her being jealous?

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<v Speaker 4>I think it's I think it's living because oh no,

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<v Speaker 4>I am only swayed. I think that he already said

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<v Speaker 4>to her, you cannot have a male. I gotta switch

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<v Speaker 4>my yoga.

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<v Speaker 1>Studio, something where if you find a place you like,

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<v Speaker 1>you like. If he had never said to her and

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<v Speaker 1>said the president that we cannot that another sex touches

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<v Speaker 1>or looks at you, I'm gonna crash out. Then I'd

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<v Speaker 1>be like, girl, that's too much to me.

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<v Speaker 4>I'd be like, okay, my man has a female Barbara, Okay,

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<v Speaker 4>Like if he wants to cheat on me, he's gonna

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<v Speaker 4>cheat on me. If he's touching my hair, like she

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<v Speaker 4>wants this man to be baled so.

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<v Speaker 1>That she said.

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<v Speaker 4>In a nice hair cut he's been going for ye

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<v Speaker 4>ye yeah, she's imagining that old girls like licking his

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<v Speaker 4>head or.

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<v Speaker 1>Like oh yeah yeah, yeah yeah, popping her cooch on

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<v Speaker 1>his head and introduce.

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<v Speaker 2>Go with him to his next appointment sit on his lap,

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<v Speaker 2>his hair, straddle him, bust it.

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<v Speaker 1>But it would be nice to meet her because then

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<v Speaker 1>you can see the energy.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, if she's been he's been going there for years,

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<v Speaker 2>she's probably met her.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, and all the stuff.

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<v Speaker 2>I have a suggestion, girl, you need to learn how

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<v Speaker 2>to do his hair, do his hair, become a barber.

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<v Speaker 2>Become a barbera, and he needs to be a yoga

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<v Speaker 2>instructor whatever.

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<v Speaker 1>The things that y'all going out for outsourcing. Keep it

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<v Speaker 1>in the house. Y'all gotta learn.

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<v Speaker 2>If you're gonna be that jealous and weird, hey, then

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<v Speaker 2>you're gonna If I was him, I'd be like, do

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<v Speaker 2>you know how to line my shit up? Do you

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<v Speaker 2>know how to make sure my girls are right?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah? But she might if she's a female barber, she

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<v Speaker 1>might be gay. She says she's straight. Is she she

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<v Speaker 1>says she's straight. Well, but also it's like just because

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<v Speaker 1>she's straight on me, she wants your man. Yeah, it's

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<v Speaker 1>that's another thing. Somebody, some of y'all, some of y'all

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<v Speaker 1>with y'all partners or whoever you will, nobody want them.

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<v Speaker 1>It's just you. And that is why they have That's

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<v Speaker 1>why they want you. Okay, y'all have to ease up.

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<v Speaker 2>Not everybody, because when I was waitressing these women swore

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<v Speaker 2>I was talking to Jim and Todd and and and Thomas.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't want any of these men. I just want

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<v Speaker 2>that MX, give me that Max. I just want to

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<v Speaker 2>spike his card and give me my fifty five percent

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<v Speaker 2>because that's what I does. Yeah, okay, because because that's standard,

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<v Speaker 2>and then all the other percentage because you know, racism

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<v Speaker 2>and sexism and misogyny on top of that, so it's

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<v Speaker 2>fifty five percent.

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<v Speaker 1>Everybody doesn't want your man.

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<v Speaker 2>Also, her description of him wasn't like I wasn't like,

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<v Speaker 2>oh not jo Joe Jonas so tall enough to ride

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<v Speaker 2>hand Joe Jonas, but talk Joe Jonas, y'all.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe 'all don't know which one is.

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<v Speaker 2>But also, y'all be scared about these women take y'all

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<v Speaker 2>in Some of these men could take y'all men. It

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<v Speaker 2>could be a really yeah, what is some fine gay

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<v Speaker 2>man is doing? Then what you're gonna pull up on

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<v Speaker 2>him too? Oh yeah, Joe Jonas, that's not It's fine. No,

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<v Speaker 2>But I'm not like, I'm not like he's not for me.

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<v Speaker 1>But okay, cool, yeah, I think y'all need to reevaluate. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>y'all might have to do some what starts with the

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<v Speaker 1>t therapy stocking, follow her after work, see where she at,

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<v Speaker 1>see what her lifestyle is, or she's with somebody, or

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<v Speaker 1>she's you know, she dates people who look completely opposite

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<v Speaker 1>your husband.

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<v Speaker 4>Catfish her with a man that looks like your man,

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<v Speaker 4>and see if she goes for that man.

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<v Speaker 1>Then you know she's into man.

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<v Speaker 2>Since if you're doing this, you got to get a job,

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<v Speaker 2>because that sounds like you are very free and I

1:20:46.000 --> 1:20:48.840
<v Speaker 2>don't want you doing that. Health and Chat GPT to

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<v Speaker 2>give you a remixed Joe Jonas's face, make that the

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<v Speaker 2>profile and then be like Eastern European instead of South Asian. Right,

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<v Speaker 2>let's see what right, let's see what? Yeah, you know

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<v Speaker 2>if he goes so we all wave you three different

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<v Speaker 2>things that you could do. I said, you know, stalk

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<v Speaker 2>and or show up at the appointment. Sidney said, learn

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<v Speaker 2>how to.

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<v Speaker 4>Do his hair and sorry what you said, catfish, or

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<v Speaker 4>like stop doing it like everybody y'all could anybody can cheat.

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<v Speaker 4>You can't put like you live in a world where

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<v Speaker 4>other people are going attracting you gotta trust that your

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<v Speaker 4>man wants you and nobody else, and that if he

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<v Speaker 4>does want somebody else, well he it just has to

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<v Speaker 4>be the barber.

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<v Speaker 1>What about I don't know if the secretary of work?

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<v Speaker 1>What about his cash here?

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<v Speaker 2>I think realistically you did make a good point at

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<v Speaker 2>the top. It's he made you switch yoga studios. You

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<v Speaker 2>should just bring that back up.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that's actually what I would love in this place.

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<v Speaker 2>And you told me I couldn't go here because this

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<v Speaker 2>guy adjusted my form. And I'm telling you, I don't

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<v Speaker 2>want this lady to have her tits on your back

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<v Speaker 2>when she's cutting your hair, So.

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<v Speaker 1>You can't have it both ways. Yeah, it's one or

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<v Speaker 1>the other. And I bet he's gonna be like, all right, fine,

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<v Speaker 1>I guess I'll let her go.

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<v Speaker 2>Are you cool with having a man that looks a

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<v Speaker 2>litle little bit? You know, his hair gonna be a

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<v Speaker 2>little lopsite and.

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<v Speaker 1>Her hair is gonna be crazy?

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<v Speaker 2>Say, oh, she's actually probably like so you're going to Greg,

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<v Speaker 2>he's gonna be doing your hair now.

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<v Speaker 1>We're seventy eight, needs to leave. Y'all should do like

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<v Speaker 1>the Bachelor. But for Barber's shark tank, this I like this.

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<v Speaker 1>America's next Top Barber America's Next Step show like that. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just saying, like, you gotta do it in house. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>like every day, come to the house. He gotta regrow

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<v Speaker 1>it after every week. Oh does you do house calls?

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<v Speaker 1>Have her bring the kid to the house. Yes, and

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<v Speaker 1>then you watch literally while you're holding your team. But

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<v Speaker 1>then it's gonna look like so wait, if I was

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<v Speaker 1>if I was the stylist of the bar, I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>are they trying to they're looking forward? I would totally go, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>this might be some poly pocket situation.

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<v Speaker 4>But then if she wants the polypocket, you gotta get

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<v Speaker 4>her out of there, because that means she was interested.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe she wanted me. Oh and she was a gay

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<v Speaker 1>and she was square. Okay, I'll come back to gay.

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<v Speaker 1>This was amazing. You really did your things.

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<v Speaker 2>Thank you for I mean I I thank I think

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<v Speaker 2>she might be in the top tier of mess, top tier,

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<v Speaker 2>top tier mess. So I started off like a compliment,

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<v Speaker 2>but now doesn't doesn't. This was top shelf so like

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<v Speaker 2>like a black label mess. Yeah, black label man aged

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<v Speaker 2>at least twelve years.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe just age two two years in a cellar in Bushwick. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>cellar in Bushwick. Oh, won't let you got out?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, Sonya tell everybody.

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<v Speaker 1>Where they can find you, and what you got going

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<v Speaker 4>You find me Sonny Denny s O N I D

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<v Speaker 4>and I on Everything, and I have a show called

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<v Speaker 4>Minnchell called iron Heart on Plus coming out June's twenty four.

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<v Speaker 2>All right, if you're listening to this and you've made

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<v Speaker 2>it this far, learn how to cut hair just in case.

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