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Speaker 2: Yeah, you're always doing that, yeah, Janet Jackson, Yeah, don't

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Speaker 1: Stop touching.

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Speaker 2: Touch you there.

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Speaker 1: Hello, we're at mess. We are doing it. He said, Hello.

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Speaker 2: Tyler Perry, Tyler Perry, Tyler Perry. He's you know, he

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Speaker 2: always got something going on. There's always something going on.

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Speaker 2: It's never a dull moment with him. And I thank

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Speaker 2: him for that. Really, you're thinking, Tyler Perry, I don't

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Speaker 2: usually do that, but he does contribute to the mess.

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Speaker 2: And so since we're good at that here, we have to,

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Speaker 2: you know, uplift these people who provide for mess constantly.

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Speaker 1: This is true.

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Speaker 2: People have been providing for mess. I mean some of

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Speaker 2: People just like you know, they're just like, I'm gonna

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Speaker 2: do whatever. I think it's important. Well, hm, I think

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Speaker 2: sometimes the wrong people are doing whatever. I think certain

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Speaker 2: But I feel like you're a safe person to do whatever.

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Speaker 2: It's exciting, it's a story, it's exciting, but it's it'd

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Speaker 2: be a little bit unhinged at times. You know.

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Speaker 1: It's like you know it's it's not the most professional mess.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, you're a professional, a mess, a mess, But

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Speaker 2: what do you mean not professional?

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Speaker 1: Like do you have an example, sister? I don't have

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Speaker 2: Actually I don't my I feel like my mess now

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Speaker 2: is me trying to come up with like little cute scams,

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Speaker 2: you know what I'm saying. Okay, Like, so I ordered,

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Speaker 2: I told you I got this like storage bench, yes,

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Speaker 2: from Facebook marketplace. Right when I get there, this lady

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Speaker 1: Yes, nowhere in the post it.

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Speaker 2: To say she had dogs, but the thing was cute,

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Speaker 2: I bring it all the way home. The next day,

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Speaker 2: I'm like, what is that smell? And I feel like

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Speaker 2: I can smell the dogs on the bench.

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Speaker 1: Yes, you told this story right, Yes.

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Speaker 2: So I like I got for Breeze. I've been spraying

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Speaker 2: but the dog the smell is not going away. The

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Speaker 2: I was online yesterday and I was looking and I

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Speaker 2: And I was like, if I order it from Amazon

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Speaker 2: and then can I return this bench back to Amazon.

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Speaker 2: That's what I mean when I say little baby.

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Speaker 1: Scams, you're scaring the corporation.

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Speaker 2: I'm like, they will get the bench back. It's just

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Speaker 2: a home that dog smell free. I mean I don't.

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Speaker 2: The thing is is that you could try it. There's

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Speaker 2: nothing wrong with trying, but that feels like a lot

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Speaker 2: a the you've been on it, it's like two people,

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Speaker 2: two and a half people could sit on this bench.

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Speaker 2: Why don't you hit her up and be like, yo,

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Speaker 2: I've had this for a month and a half.

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Speaker 1: It smells like dog. What is she gonna say?

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Speaker 2: Okay, well it's out of my apartment and you already

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Speaker 2: paid for it, sister, can you run me my money

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Speaker 2: back or like, run me some money back? Because now

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Speaker 2: like you know, snoopy. So your solution thank you, Snoopy.

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Speaker 2: So your solution is you think I should hit this

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Speaker 2: for me to hit this lady up and be like, oh,

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Speaker 2: you deceived me. You and them smelly as dogs trick me.

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Speaker 2: I don't even know if I could find her contact.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, sometimes there's that they were transpired where you're like,

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Speaker 2: Fear now is because you know sometimes when you order

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Speaker 2: but keep it. My fear is'm gonna have two of

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Speaker 2: the same bench. I guess I could put one outside.

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Speaker 1: You could, there's all, there's all there, there's a will,

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Speaker 2: But I think that See that's the thing with Facebook Marketplace,

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Speaker 1: Like, oh yeah, this is this is bombed and you

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Speaker 2: And I think that and it's so hard to call

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Speaker 2: I'm a buy this, thank you.

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Speaker 1: But that's what I'm saying, like, so, I'm.

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Speaker 2: I think you should get another one friend because something

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Speaker 1: For believing dogs?

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Speaker 2: Ye, all dogs do go to heaven. Well, these dogs

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Speaker 2: went to the bathroom on this bench. All dogs pete

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Speaker 1: Yes, ma'am. So that's that's what I'm talking about. I'm

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Speaker 1: here for the small little scams by Reezi.

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Speaker 2: But then like everything is not a scam, but that

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Speaker 2: So I dropped off a bunch of clothing that I

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Speaker 2: got in Japan or for Japan at the drag cleaners.

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Speaker 2: One of the things that I got is this little

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Speaker 2: mini skirt that I got from Revolve that costs way

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Speaker 2: too much money.

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Speaker 1: I truly didn't.

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Speaker 2: Even know if I was gonna keep it because it

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Speaker 2: it costs how much? It was like a hundred and

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Speaker 1: But what made you get that skirt? Because I was like,

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Speaker 1: I'm living in abundance. It's like I got rid of

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Speaker 2: Fast fashion. Let me pay for something. Let me pay

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Speaker 2: Living in abundance, But the skirt is this The fabric

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Speaker 2: But but the budget for the skirt, I was like,

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Speaker 2: It looked good with some of the outfits and I

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Speaker 1: And like, I WoT the skirt one time. I brought

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Speaker 2: When I got back and when I went to pick

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Speaker 1: Like, we can't find the skirt. You lost the skirt?

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Speaker 2: I said, I wore that skirt one time. Do you

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Speaker 2: know how much that skirt costs? Hey call us tomorrow

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Speaker 2: or call us on a couple in a couple of days.

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Speaker 2: Were gonna see if the cleaners lost it, because they

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Speaker 2: send the stuff out. No, the daughter of the cleaners,

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Speaker 2: God damn skirt. She she she's out club Zuli right now,

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Speaker 1: I've been to this drag cleanness now like maybe five

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Speaker 2: They're like, oh yeah, we never found it. She put

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Speaker 1: He's like, listen, said does the receipt?

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Speaker 2: Yes, send a receipt. I never sent the receipt, he said,

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Speaker 2: I sent.

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Speaker 2: No response. I'm like, hello, no response. I sent the

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Speaker 1: No response.

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Speaker 2: Sis, pull up, you gotta pull I'm queen, pull up.

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Speaker 2: Don't wait for nobody.

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Speaker 1: I'm going to the clean up.

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Speaker 2: To the cleaner. The lady is like, well, we send

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Speaker 2: the stuff out. They must have lost it. And the

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Speaker 2: sent the receipts. Tough is now not I'll call him because.

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Speaker 1: I have his number. I'm gonna call him because I've

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Speaker 1: been texting. But what I'm gonna call it from? Do

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Speaker 2: And I'll be like, I'm your representative. A right, this

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Speaker 2: is on behalf of my client Washkowitz and Washington Legal Firm.

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Speaker 2: And uh, my client here says that you misplaced his skirt.

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Speaker 1: Was it five hundred dollars?

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Speaker 2: No, it was like one hundred and eighty dollars skirt,

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Speaker 2: which is in sustain with me.

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Speaker 1: Five hundred dollars. We're gonna need that money.

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Speaker 2: I can write it, and I, you know me, I'm

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Speaker 2: not spending that on a skirt. And then I spent

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Speaker 2: bring it back. And then I wore it in Japan

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Speaker 2: and I got back and I was like.

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Speaker 1: I'm just gonna keep it. Already worried I'm gonna keep it.

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Speaker 2: But I should have said, you're in this cold chip gut.

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Speaker 2: If I had sent it back, I wouldn't have had it.

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Speaker 2: I didn't send it back and now I still don't

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Speaker 2: have it.

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Speaker 1: Friend.

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Speaker 2: You know what that means. You gotta stop spending money.

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Speaker 2: That's where the root is. It's not a stop scanning.

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Speaker 2: Oh okay, my mess. My mess is that I'm you

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Speaker 2: know still on my fitness journey. I'm working out twice

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Speaker 2: a day. My body hurts, my back aches. It's a lot,

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Speaker 2: it's a lot. I don't have I don't have a

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Speaker 2: You also have to work out outside. Crazy crazy, So

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Speaker 2: we usually walk the track at night. That's cute, that's cute.

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Speaker 2: Today we said we're gonna switch it up. We're gonna

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Speaker 2: switch it up. We're gonna play basketball.

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Speaker 1: We're playing skin. We don't know how to play basketball.

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Speaker 2: But Dwyane bought a basketball that was small size.

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Speaker 1: It was not like a baby basketball.

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Speaker 2: I don't know, it's not a daven Buster's size, but

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Speaker 2: it's a next side.

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Speaker 1: Like a Bunba basketball. Don't do that. Don't do that.

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Speaker 2: Because we go to the park and there's all these

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Speaker 2: girls doing drills. What it's a whole team of high

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Speaker 2: school lady basketball player, eighty basketball players. We're doing drills,

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Speaker 2: working out. I don't know if it's a class or

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Speaker 2: a team. Whatever, they're doing it. They're killing it. They're

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Speaker 1: And me in tight biker shorts like.

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Speaker 2: How wipe the play love and hip hop, loving basketball,

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Speaker 2: all of that and so me and Dwyane are in

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Speaker 2: sunglasses basketball missing, missing the whop constantly.

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Speaker 1: And it's also a thousand degrees outside.

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Speaker 2: We're like for them, we're youtubing how to do the drills.

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Speaker 2: It's the gays are not doing it right when it

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Speaker 2: Also, we put sunscreen on. It's important.

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Speaker 2: So we're just trying to diversify our portfolio with our workouts.

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Speaker 2: There's different types of workout classes you can take. Talk

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Speaker 2: it's called tobata, not chibata. My bad, you've done that orange. Yeah, okay,

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Speaker 2: There's all these classes that will work very specific things

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Speaker 1: What I've lost.

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Speaker 2: No, you said in some living in abundance? Do I

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Speaker 2: want to give you a gin class?

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Speaker 2: I need a gin class. That's why don't you get

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Speaker 1: Am? I your man? Wooh, I don't have a man.

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Speaker 2: And thank God for our guests today. We we it's

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Speaker 2: that's going on for you. You're gonna be in Ironheart. Yes, Yes,

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Speaker 3: In the middling Hi, Sonya I call every time I

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Speaker 3: see it's it's noise at this point, like I just mean,

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Speaker 1: What does sonya mean?

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Speaker 2: Like, what's the what's the what's the definition?

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Speaker 1: It'll be like, oh, are you lie? So it's a

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Speaker 2: I have no oh ethnic, Yes, you can go with anything,

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Speaker 1: Yes, obey, obey, now obey. That's mess. It is not

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Speaker 2: So I feel like, yeah, they put it on seafood,

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Speaker 4: And that yellow thing, you know, the yellow stuff that's

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Speaker 1: You don't get that. I don't do the whole body

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Speaker 2: I think you'll be eating the crabs.

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Speaker 1: I do the legs. I do the legs, and it's

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Speaker 2: And it be mad like shell and you got a bier.

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Speaker 2: You're saying all this and y'all date men, okay, which

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Speaker 1: That's what I have no energy, no energy for to

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Speaker 2: I get what I need to get sitting here dating

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Speaker 1: Oh I can. So if I asked, I can.

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Speaker 4: Just your girlfriend's treating you know what you should get.

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Speaker 4: I was thinking when you all were talking class past,

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Speaker 4: fifty sixty credits. I got it for free. That's actually

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Speaker 1: I took whining. One on one did not recommend whining.

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Speaker 1: Who was teaching a lady.

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Speaker 4: No, a whole whiner, like a like a person from

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Speaker 2: I took a Haitian dance class one. I said, let's

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Speaker 2: It was somebody's like like old uncle. It was it

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Speaker 2: Oh now that it's so unsay for it? Girl, you laughing,

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Speaker 1: But okay they didn't have is it on class past? No? Okay,

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Speaker 4: Of pocket, but there are there's that on class past too.

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Speaker 4: Because I went to a second class. I was like,

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Speaker 1: No, it was you. It was you. I just can't

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Speaker 4: I can do like if you give me my brain.

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Speaker 4: My memory span is like this. But once he got

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Speaker 1: You're an actress and you you booked. That's my mind.

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Speaker 4: It's like the mind body connection, like my brain would

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Speaker 4: practice this by myself without y'all looking at me.

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Speaker 1: I can't do and I'll come back.

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Speaker 2: I watched them do it and I'm like, okay, yeah,

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Speaker 1: It and I'm like, how is you? I just did

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Speaker 2: So confusing in my like what I think? My body

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Speaker 1: Funny people who can dance, I know, Dwayne Wurkins, it

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Speaker 2: Some people got it something all but Sidney, I see

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Speaker 1: You can you can make it up just a little bit.

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Speaker 1: Absolutely not.

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Speaker 2: I mean the best time of my life is obviously

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Speaker 2: when I was on Mali and cocaine and liquor, you know,

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Speaker 2: And so it's kind of like this is a bad analogy,

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Speaker 2: So that's why a lot of time they don't die

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Speaker 2: head like this and looking like you know, it's also

441
00:19:26,000 --> 00:19:28,480
Speaker 2: just like where are you looking at?

442
00:19:28,600 --> 00:19:32,160
Speaker 1: What are you doing? The mirror is too much. See,

443
00:19:32,720 --> 00:19:34,520
Speaker 1: I don't like the mirror because it makes.

444
00:19:34,440 --> 00:19:36,760
Speaker 4: It worse because then, like you said, there's the disconnect.

445
00:19:36,880 --> 00:19:38,080
Speaker 1: You think, oh, I can do what he does, and

446
00:19:38,160 --> 00:19:39,160
Speaker 1: you see yourself You're like.

447
00:19:39,320 --> 00:19:41,560
Speaker 2: Hm, you need the mirror to be like, oh, actually

448
00:19:41,560 --> 00:19:43,639
Speaker 2: I'm not doing it. I like the mirror when I

449
00:19:43,680 --> 00:19:47,639
Speaker 2: do workout classes because or like you know, like the

450
00:19:47,680 --> 00:19:50,040
Speaker 2: instructors up there doing it and I'm I'm not even looking.

451
00:19:50,040 --> 00:19:53,440
Speaker 2: I'm like And then when I did ballet last year,

452
00:19:53,480 --> 00:19:59,080
Speaker 2: I like, yeah, the bar or like actual like the bar,

453
00:19:59,320 --> 00:20:00,879
Speaker 2: but we also did like floor stuff.

454
00:20:01,040 --> 00:20:03,320
Speaker 1: But you know, I'm I get it, Sidney.

455
00:20:03,480 --> 00:20:05,200
Speaker 2: Like all last year I was trying to like trick

456
00:20:05,280 --> 00:20:07,639
Speaker 2: myself into working out because going to the gym is

457
00:20:07,640 --> 00:20:10,159
Speaker 2: boring and expensive and once you join the gym, you

458
00:20:10,160 --> 00:20:11,360
Speaker 2: can't cancel that membership.

459
00:20:11,480 --> 00:20:13,000
Speaker 1: No, they make you do everything.

460
00:20:13,080 --> 00:20:15,800
Speaker 2: But you got an email corporate, you got to send

461
00:20:15,800 --> 00:20:18,159
Speaker 2: your left last for your social your mom got to

462
00:20:18,200 --> 00:20:20,040
Speaker 2: write a note, your doctor got to say you got

463
00:20:20,080 --> 00:20:20,600
Speaker 2: a bad back.

464
00:20:21,080 --> 00:20:21,600
Speaker 1: Is there a.

465
00:20:21,520 --> 00:20:24,600
Speaker 2: Bird here, like because you know what it is, so

466
00:20:24,680 --> 00:20:27,919
Speaker 2: many people quit things they started, they quit, they started,

467
00:20:27,920 --> 00:20:30,200
Speaker 2: they quit, and people said no, no, no, I fuck that,

468
00:20:30,320 --> 00:20:32,240
Speaker 2: And the gym is probably one of the biggest places

469
00:20:32,240 --> 00:20:34,479
Speaker 2: where people are like, you know what. At the beginning

470
00:20:34,520 --> 00:20:37,160
Speaker 2: of the year, I am gone, I get apps. I'm

471
00:20:37,160 --> 00:20:40,000
Speaker 2: going to be better than everyone to turn. I'm going

472
00:20:40,040 --> 00:20:42,840
Speaker 2: to make sure my exes are mad and miss me.

473
00:20:43,440 --> 00:20:48,240
Speaker 1: And then February they're like, you're actually I don't really

474
00:20:48,240 --> 00:20:48,440
Speaker 1: want to.

475
00:20:49,760 --> 00:20:53,640
Speaker 2: It's I've worked enough, you know, you know, I mean,

476
00:20:53,680 --> 00:20:56,480
Speaker 2: I get my uncle Charles died, Like I just can't

477
00:20:56,520 --> 00:20:59,520
Speaker 2: get there. So they're like, they're like, if you really

478
00:20:59,560 --> 00:21:02,199
Speaker 2: want to cancel, you're gonna have to really be about it.

479
00:21:02,280 --> 00:21:02,920
Speaker 1: You gotta move.

480
00:21:03,000 --> 00:21:05,359
Speaker 4: And I kind of they be like, you gotta Like

481
00:21:05,400 --> 00:21:07,080
Speaker 4: if I learned the contract once because I want to

482
00:21:07,080 --> 00:21:08,480
Speaker 4: get out of it, it was like, you need to

483
00:21:08,520 --> 00:21:10,639
Speaker 4: be at least one hundred miles away from here, period.

484
00:21:11,119 --> 00:21:14,280
Speaker 1: So how did you what gym is this Planet Fitness?

485
00:21:14,280 --> 00:21:14,520
Speaker 4: Oh?

486
00:21:14,640 --> 00:21:17,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, you got they really I will never I went

487
00:21:17,160 --> 00:21:21,160
Speaker 2: into colections with Planet Fitness for ten dollars a month.

488
00:21:21,560 --> 00:21:24,359
Speaker 1: Colection. Wait, how long did you not pay? Oh? I

489
00:21:24,400 --> 00:21:26,000
Speaker 1: wasn't paying, I said, I went there.

490
00:21:26,080 --> 00:21:29,720
Speaker 2: I said I'm canceling and they said, oh, okay, sure,

491
00:21:29,800 --> 00:21:31,560
Speaker 2: so sure they said.

492
00:21:31,320 --> 00:21:32,040
Speaker 1: That I canceled.

493
00:21:32,160 --> 00:21:34,840
Speaker 2: But then apparently you can't cancel inside the gym, but

494
00:21:34,840 --> 00:21:38,280
Speaker 2: they told me I did. So then I'm thinking I'm canceled,

495
00:21:38,280 --> 00:21:39,960
Speaker 2: but I was still getting charged.

496
00:21:39,960 --> 00:21:41,879
Speaker 1: But I had moved. I did have.

497
00:21:41,960 --> 00:21:44,520
Speaker 2: I did move, but I wasn't. I don't know if

498
00:21:44,520 --> 00:21:46,679
Speaker 2: I was one hundred miles because I don't know distance

499
00:21:47,960 --> 00:21:48,199
Speaker 2: I went.

500
00:21:48,960 --> 00:21:49,600
Speaker 1: This was evil.

501
00:21:49,640 --> 00:21:53,560
Speaker 2: They on Tuesdays to the gym, and like Bagel's on

502
00:21:53,640 --> 00:21:55,719
Speaker 2: Mondays and Fries on Friday.

503
00:21:55,800 --> 00:21:57,520
Speaker 1: Like every day they bring in something that you're like.

504
00:21:57,560 --> 00:21:58,240
Speaker 1: I don't think that.

505
00:21:58,200 --> 00:22:00,320
Speaker 2: People are like they want you to stay in planning,

506
00:22:00,359 --> 00:22:25,520
Speaker 2: will never want you to make you are mess, mess, adjourned, trash, trash. Okay,

507
00:22:25,560 --> 00:22:28,280
Speaker 2: so sonya, Yeah, what are you coming in here? What's

508
00:22:28,320 --> 00:22:28,800
Speaker 2: your mess?

509
00:22:28,840 --> 00:22:30,439
Speaker 1: What do you want to? Should I do both the

510
00:22:30,480 --> 00:22:33,200
Speaker 1: messes or one of you? And then we'll work our

511
00:22:33,200 --> 00:22:35,440
Speaker 1: way through it. Yeah, we'll probably do both.

512
00:22:35,359 --> 00:22:39,160
Speaker 4: Okay, Okay, So I'll start with the more interesting one.

513
00:22:39,160 --> 00:22:42,520
Speaker 4: Maybe I moved to Flatbush, which I think people shouldn't

514
00:22:42,520 --> 00:22:44,960
Speaker 4: stop moving the flat Yes, there's enough people in Flatbush.

515
00:22:45,000 --> 00:22:47,160
Speaker 2: We're done too much loud to Indian people. But also

516
00:22:47,240 --> 00:22:50,160
Speaker 2: now a lot of white people with little dome. It's

517
00:22:50,200 --> 00:22:53,400
Speaker 2: the gentrification, gentrification of it all. Like I was walking

518
00:22:53,440 --> 00:22:54,359
Speaker 2: past the juice stand.

519
00:22:54,920 --> 00:22:56,679
Speaker 1: Here's a white lady with her dog. I'm like, what

520
00:22:56,840 --> 00:22:58,920
Speaker 1: is this? But that's not why so I moved to Flatbush.

521
00:22:58,960 --> 00:22:59,359
Speaker 1: I'm excited.

522
00:22:59,359 --> 00:23:02,000
Speaker 2: I used to live in Williamsburg, which was very like yes,

523
00:23:02,480 --> 00:23:04,360
Speaker 2: yea factory.

524
00:23:05,720 --> 00:23:07,560
Speaker 1: I'm a Flatbush Like, oh my god.

525
00:23:07,800 --> 00:23:10,480
Speaker 4: So I I was like, uh.

526
00:23:10,440 --> 00:23:13,000
Speaker 1: Just two years ago. So I'm like really like trying.

527
00:23:12,680 --> 00:23:14,520
Speaker 4: To I don't want to be on the apps, but

528
00:23:14,560 --> 00:23:16,359
Speaker 4: I'm like, I feel like I'm in the mood to

529
00:23:16,480 --> 00:23:19,040
Speaker 4: like meet somebody. And I had been like like, I'm

530
00:23:19,119 --> 00:23:21,800
Speaker 4: like a woo type person. I do terror. I have crystals.

531
00:23:22,080 --> 00:23:24,760
Speaker 4: And I started getting into like, yeah, I'm a crystal crystal.

532
00:23:24,920 --> 00:23:29,320
Speaker 1: Yeah on you right now. I usually kept traveling with

533
00:23:29,320 --> 00:23:32,720
Speaker 1: a black obsidion. Oh what's that for? Calmness? Put it

534
00:23:32,760 --> 00:23:35,119
Speaker 1: on your third eye? Oh I need that.

535
00:23:35,800 --> 00:23:39,879
Speaker 2: Yeah, also antidepressants, anxiety medication zola.

536
00:23:40,200 --> 00:23:40,639
Speaker 1: It works.

537
00:23:40,960 --> 00:23:43,600
Speaker 2: Okay, I get some black obsitian and just tape it

538
00:23:43,640 --> 00:23:44,320
Speaker 2: to my forehead.

539
00:23:44,760 --> 00:23:45,200
Speaker 1: You could.

540
00:23:45,359 --> 00:23:47,000
Speaker 2: I was on the train once stress about So I'm

541
00:23:47,040 --> 00:23:48,879
Speaker 2: like this, people are looking at me like and You're like,

542
00:23:48,960 --> 00:23:52,600
Speaker 2: I have anxiety.

543
00:23:52,920 --> 00:23:56,639
Speaker 4: So I started getting into hohodoo y'all. You know how

544
00:23:56,800 --> 00:24:01,840
Speaker 4: in centers, you know how in sinners? Uh, stack had

545
00:24:01,840 --> 00:24:02,680
Speaker 4: the mojo bag?

546
00:24:02,880 --> 00:24:05,800
Speaker 1: Yeah that's Winnie, was it Winny? I think your name

547
00:24:05,840 --> 00:24:06,160
Speaker 1: is Whinny.

548
00:24:06,720 --> 00:24:09,560
Speaker 4: That may be the actress's name, but yeah, yes, she

549
00:24:09,600 --> 00:24:10,600
Speaker 4: gave him the mojo bag.

550
00:24:10,640 --> 00:24:11,400
Speaker 1: That's for protection.

551
00:24:11,520 --> 00:24:13,359
Speaker 4: So it's like in the realm of that, there's there's

552
00:24:13,400 --> 00:24:16,480
Speaker 4: a spell you there's spells you can do for love specifically.

553
00:24:16,920 --> 00:24:24,520
Speaker 2: Okay, this on the secular sory appreciate it. So you

554
00:24:24,520 --> 00:24:26,919
Speaker 2: could do spells for for love.

555
00:24:26,880 --> 00:24:29,080
Speaker 4: Or love for okay. So there's like categories. So there's

556
00:24:29,160 --> 00:24:32,280
Speaker 4: like attract love and like things to me. There's all

557
00:24:32,320 --> 00:24:33,800
Speaker 4: types of stuff. You can do it for wealth protection

558
00:24:33,840 --> 00:24:39,119
Speaker 4: but for love specifically, attract someone to me, make someone specifically,

559
00:24:39,320 --> 00:24:41,040
Speaker 4: Like you can do a general I want to find someone.

560
00:24:41,040 --> 00:24:43,760
Speaker 4: You can do specifically some a specific person that you

561
00:24:43,800 --> 00:24:46,159
Speaker 4: are into. But that's a little creepy because go to

562
00:24:46,240 --> 00:24:48,800
Speaker 4: their doorstep and pour, like I forget what the waters

563
00:24:48,840 --> 00:24:50,000
Speaker 4: I haven't looked at in a while. But like you

564
00:24:50,040 --> 00:24:52,480
Speaker 4: have to pour something on their doorstep or like put

565
00:24:52,600 --> 00:24:55,640
Speaker 4: something in their path. And then there's a third one

566
00:24:56,000 --> 00:24:58,920
Speaker 4: that's like keep me on his mind, like make him

567
00:24:58,960 --> 00:24:59,760
Speaker 4: obsessed with me.

568
00:25:00,640 --> 00:25:02,840
Speaker 1: The third one. So you did the third one, No,

569
00:25:02,880 --> 00:25:04,600
Speaker 1: I did the person. I was a specific person.

570
00:25:04,600 --> 00:25:06,000
Speaker 2: I don't know if I need the third one. But

571
00:25:06,080 --> 00:25:06,760
Speaker 2: the second one.

572
00:25:06,800 --> 00:25:10,360
Speaker 1: You already got that girl. Good for that. You got

573
00:25:10,359 --> 00:25:14,399
Speaker 1: a man obsessed with like abundance.

574
00:25:14,640 --> 00:25:16,840
Speaker 4: Yes, but see this is a cautionary tell I do

575
00:25:16,920 --> 00:25:20,240
Speaker 4: the first one where I'm like, I'm trying to attract energy.

576
00:25:20,280 --> 00:25:23,119
Speaker 4: I'm seeing all any before Caribbean man, not anybody, but

577
00:25:23,160 --> 00:25:26,000
Speaker 4: like what I want, I like.

578
00:25:26,000 --> 00:25:29,560
Speaker 1: For the streets you know is crazy.

579
00:25:29,720 --> 00:25:31,920
Speaker 4: No, of course, not anybody. Y'all look down the street.

580
00:25:31,920 --> 00:25:33,720
Speaker 4: Your man will talk to you too. No, No, I want,

581
00:25:33,800 --> 00:25:35,560
Speaker 4: I want it. I was trying to be specific. I

582
00:25:35,600 --> 00:25:38,760
Speaker 4: was like, I want someone I find attractive kind.

583
00:25:38,680 --> 00:25:41,200
Speaker 1: The risks I did. I did, but the list was

584
00:25:41,240 --> 00:25:43,879
Speaker 1: not thorough enough. What's the list? Tell us that everything

585
00:25:43,920 --> 00:25:46,679
Speaker 1: that was on the list black black. You don't have

586
00:25:46,720 --> 00:25:47,280
Speaker 1: to whisper it.

587
00:25:48,080 --> 00:25:55,160
Speaker 4: Black kind, generous, open minded, not obsessed with gender. That's

588
00:25:55,240 --> 00:25:56,639
Speaker 4: that's I don't want to have to talk to you

589
00:25:56,640 --> 00:26:01,000
Speaker 4: about queer trends that you just not a man who's

590
00:26:01,000 --> 00:26:02,880
Speaker 4: going to be like pause when he needs a hot dog,

591
00:26:03,040 --> 00:26:03,840
Speaker 4: Like I don't.

592
00:26:05,840 --> 00:26:08,520
Speaker 2: Like, I gotta cut the popping before I like.

593
00:26:08,720 --> 00:26:09,480
Speaker 1: A nice.

594
00:26:12,000 --> 00:26:14,080
Speaker 4: Another that some man was like, oh and then my

595
00:26:14,160 --> 00:26:15,119
Speaker 4: doctor touched me pause.

596
00:26:15,160 --> 00:26:18,679
Speaker 2: I was like, touch your touch you? That's a pause.

597
00:26:19,040 --> 00:26:21,399
Speaker 2: What do I look like as a man letting another

598
00:26:21,480 --> 00:26:23,520
Speaker 2: man give me a prostate exam?

599
00:26:23,880 --> 00:26:26,960
Speaker 1: You look like a man needs a prostating cancer is

600
00:26:28,080 --> 00:26:28,440
Speaker 1: rote out?

601
00:26:29,000 --> 00:26:34,119
Speaker 2: As a man letting paper towel touch my button, wipe

602
00:26:34,160 --> 00:26:35,199
Speaker 2: your ass?

603
00:26:36,800 --> 00:26:38,600
Speaker 1: I really feel like they're in the shower.

604
00:26:40,840 --> 00:26:43,560
Speaker 2: As a man who would want a sheet over a

605
00:26:43,600 --> 00:26:45,879
Speaker 2: pillow to touch my face and be in my mouth.

606
00:26:46,320 --> 00:26:48,639
Speaker 1: How do I look as a man putting on lotion?

607
00:26:49,920 --> 00:26:51,639
Speaker 1: It's actually as masculinite.

608
00:26:51,880 --> 00:26:54,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, because that's feminine to be moisturized.

609
00:26:55,400 --> 00:26:57,160
Speaker 4: And also I feel like if a woman does it

610
00:26:57,200 --> 00:26:59,760
Speaker 4: to you, they really be like, it's not gay, you.

611
00:26:59,720 --> 00:27:03,879
Speaker 1: Know a woman, So take care of your skin. Yes,

612
00:27:04,359 --> 00:27:05,399
Speaker 1: so many men don't do that.

613
00:27:05,520 --> 00:27:09,439
Speaker 2: They need analonic acid on the balls on the balls.

614
00:27:10,280 --> 00:27:12,480
Speaker 4: On the ball on the balls, what you know about

615
00:27:12,520 --> 00:27:15,280
Speaker 4: the ball can be dangerous if you do too much.

616
00:27:15,280 --> 00:27:15,960
Speaker 4: So why the balls.

617
00:27:15,960 --> 00:27:20,560
Speaker 2: That's scary because smooth balls they always angry when I've

618
00:27:20,600 --> 00:27:21,080
Speaker 2: seen them.

619
00:27:22,119 --> 00:27:25,280
Speaker 1: When you saw some balls, yeah, balls, where's the last time?

620
00:27:25,680 --> 00:27:29,080
Speaker 1: Like two years and they were mad? They were mad.

621
00:27:29,119 --> 00:27:30,600
Speaker 1: But when I.

622
00:27:30,440 --> 00:27:33,080
Speaker 2: Was when I was in the the genre of ball,

623
00:27:33,640 --> 00:27:37,200
Speaker 2: whenever I've seen them double, they always looked like they

624
00:27:37,200 --> 00:27:42,159
Speaker 2: had an attitude and like they are like why, I like,

625
00:27:42,200 --> 00:27:44,240
Speaker 2: they don't they look so old?

626
00:27:45,000 --> 00:27:47,520
Speaker 1: They're like when they when they're they was probably he

627
00:27:47,600 --> 00:27:51,560
Speaker 1: was probably cold. Well, I think balls grow. The balls.

628
00:27:51,800 --> 00:27:55,000
Speaker 4: I think they shrinking. They like if they're cold, they

629
00:27:55,080 --> 00:27:55,880
Speaker 4: looks really.

630
00:27:55,720 --> 00:28:00,760
Speaker 2: Weirdles are wrinkly when it's cold, yeah, or when it's

631
00:28:01,359 --> 00:28:04,880
Speaker 2: it was or when they release, Yeah, when they when

632
00:28:04,880 --> 00:28:09,040
Speaker 2: they empty out looked. Then you ever had you ever

633
00:28:09,119 --> 00:28:11,600
Speaker 2: blow up a balloon and then it like it's all

634
00:28:11,640 --> 00:28:13,320
Speaker 2: stretched out and then it comes back.

635
00:28:13,359 --> 00:28:17,520
Speaker 1: And that's how I would two years ago. Balls you

636
00:28:17,600 --> 00:28:21,680
Speaker 1: got a lot of ball, ray a lot of ball.

637
00:28:21,720 --> 00:28:24,000
Speaker 1: All thoughts. That might be the title of the episode.

638
00:28:24,040 --> 00:28:29,360
Speaker 1: I'm back, baby, I'm back. You playing basketball the ball?

639
00:28:31,040 --> 00:28:31,280
Speaker 2: Yes?

640
00:28:33,320 --> 00:28:39,840
Speaker 1: What are we playing? For? My hunt my ball? I

641
00:28:39,920 --> 00:28:44,120
Speaker 1: just imagine you with your man putting kyaluronic and learn.

642
00:28:44,240 --> 00:28:45,920
Speaker 2: You know you got she's gonna put it in and

643
00:28:45,960 --> 00:28:46,680
Speaker 2: she's gonna.

644
00:28:46,400 --> 00:28:48,720
Speaker 1: Pat it on the ball. No, I wouldn't. I would

645
00:28:48,840 --> 00:28:57,600
Speaker 1: use the road milk serum. Yeah, facial balls just so.

646
00:28:57,520 --> 00:29:00,680
Speaker 2: They can look a little look the same.

647
00:29:00,720 --> 00:29:04,160
Speaker 1: You ain't like this man. You didn't like this man.

648
00:29:04,240 --> 00:29:07,400
Speaker 1: I don't like you met That's what it is. You

649
00:29:07,400 --> 00:29:08,160
Speaker 1: don't like none of them.

650
00:29:09,440 --> 00:29:11,320
Speaker 4: How did you find yourself? You were just like, let

651
00:29:11,320 --> 00:29:12,600
Speaker 4: me try it out. Let's see.

652
00:29:12,640 --> 00:29:16,080
Speaker 2: Maybe I'm not well. You know, we go through this

653
00:29:16,200 --> 00:29:20,360
Speaker 2: every other everyisode, no, every pride, every every other episode.

654
00:29:20,440 --> 00:29:23,760
Speaker 1: I was. I was down bad, I went through a

655
00:29:23,840 --> 00:29:24,280
Speaker 1: break up.

656
00:29:25,560 --> 00:29:31,480
Speaker 2: My money was low, my self esteem even lower, my

657
00:29:31,720 --> 00:29:33,680
Speaker 2: living situation just not right.

658
00:29:33,720 --> 00:29:38,400
Speaker 1: Everything. So I said, since I'm doing this bad, this

659
00:29:38,480 --> 00:29:40,680
Speaker 1: is the perfect time it. Yeah.

660
00:29:41,120 --> 00:29:48,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, we tipp this over getting with her man. I said,

661
00:29:48,520 --> 00:29:52,400
Speaker 2: I can't go to women being this like trash. But man,

662
00:29:52,560 --> 00:29:55,760
Speaker 2: this is rpy. He was like, you open up. You

663
00:29:56,720 --> 00:29:57,360
Speaker 2: shouldn't have.

664
00:29:57,560 --> 00:30:02,000
Speaker 1: He said, have you met my ball? Sure, I'm cold,

665
00:30:02,120 --> 00:30:08,400
Speaker 1: but maybe you can wave me a warm meals fix

666
00:30:08,440 --> 00:30:12,160
Speaker 1: your life with my ball? And did it get better?

667
00:30:12,240 --> 00:30:12,400
Speaker 2: Oh?

668
00:30:12,480 --> 00:30:14,720
Speaker 1: It got worse, got very much worse.

669
00:30:14,880 --> 00:30:16,800
Speaker 2: Or if you perspective that your life is not that bad.

670
00:30:18,600 --> 00:30:21,520
Speaker 1: Could you could be dating?

671
00:30:21,880 --> 00:30:23,640
Speaker 2: Let's talk about this love spell bad?

672
00:30:23,720 --> 00:30:26,640
Speaker 1: Yes? Okay, so the spell I did it.

673
00:30:26,640 --> 00:30:29,680
Speaker 4: It's like basically like you take you get an orange,

674
00:30:29,920 --> 00:30:32,640
Speaker 4: you get red thread, you get pins away.

675
00:30:33,160 --> 00:30:35,200
Speaker 2: Now should you be telling everybody because you know in

676
00:30:35,240 --> 00:30:36,560
Speaker 2: the wrong hand, Yeah.

677
00:30:36,520 --> 00:30:37,400
Speaker 1: Tell everybody.

678
00:30:37,560 --> 00:30:39,800
Speaker 4: Okay, Well it's this high level like you still got

679
00:30:39,840 --> 00:30:41,680
Speaker 4: to read up on it. But I'm not feeling you

680
00:30:41,880 --> 00:30:43,960
Speaker 4: don't read girl, I'm not telling you all about the

681
00:30:43,960 --> 00:30:46,360
Speaker 4: one where you make someone obsessed with. This is literally

682
00:30:46,440 --> 00:30:48,640
Speaker 4: I just want to attract energy.

683
00:30:48,920 --> 00:30:50,880
Speaker 1: Jack sittingy you cock blocking the listeners.

684
00:30:51,040 --> 00:30:54,280
Speaker 2: Sorry, I just I don't trust y'all. I see you'all

685
00:30:54,280 --> 00:30:55,520
Speaker 2: messages because.

686
00:30:55,280 --> 00:30:56,680
Speaker 1: There is a cautionary I read this book.

687
00:30:56,720 --> 00:30:58,160
Speaker 4: It was a cautionary so it was like, don't do

688
00:30:58,280 --> 00:31:00,640
Speaker 4: this first, Like you don't want to attract the energy.

689
00:31:00,840 --> 00:31:02,880
Speaker 4: So make sure if you're going to attract a specific

690
00:31:02,920 --> 00:31:03,800
Speaker 4: person that.

691
00:31:03,840 --> 00:31:07,080
Speaker 1: You know that this is what it should be. I'm

692
00:31:07,120 --> 00:31:10,560
Speaker 1: defined the fine print. That's me. So orange, red thread,

693
00:31:10,840 --> 00:31:11,320
Speaker 1: red thread.

694
00:31:11,600 --> 00:31:14,160
Speaker 4: Eight I forget how many eight pins, but you you

695
00:31:14,200 --> 00:31:17,800
Speaker 4: burrow a hole into the orange, you cut a piece

696
00:31:17,840 --> 00:31:21,200
Speaker 4: of your hair, you put it inside the orange, you

697
00:31:21,240 --> 00:31:22,080
Speaker 4: put the pins on that.

698
00:31:22,320 --> 00:31:24,840
Speaker 1: My real hair could be hair. That's no, you can't

699
00:31:24,880 --> 00:31:25,680
Speaker 1: do you can't do that.

700
00:31:25,800 --> 00:31:29,160
Speaker 4: You got you got a simple little bit, put it

701
00:31:29,200 --> 00:31:32,560
Speaker 4: in there and then you you like put the pins

702
00:31:32,560 --> 00:31:34,360
Speaker 4: on the side so you kind of like weave the

703
00:31:34,440 --> 00:31:37,080
Speaker 4: thread through it and then close it up and then

704
00:31:37,640 --> 00:31:39,320
Speaker 4: I might be forgetting some stuff, but you then you

705
00:31:39,360 --> 00:31:39,800
Speaker 4: bury it.

706
00:31:40,560 --> 00:31:41,800
Speaker 1: Use to bury it.

707
00:31:42,280 --> 00:31:43,920
Speaker 4: Yeah, but I don't live I live in an apartment,

708
00:31:43,960 --> 00:31:45,600
Speaker 4: so obviously this is for someone who. So I just

709
00:31:45,680 --> 00:31:47,320
Speaker 4: had a plant and I just put.

710
00:31:47,160 --> 00:31:49,800
Speaker 1: A bunch of dirt in the plant. That's why your spells.

711
00:31:50,320 --> 00:31:56,440
Speaker 2: You gotta have land, baby, that's what it is. You

712
00:31:56,480 --> 00:31:58,480
Speaker 2: need an estate to do this spell.

713
00:31:59,000 --> 00:32:02,040
Speaker 4: You're supposed to bury it your phone, near your phone,

714
00:32:02,200 --> 00:32:03,920
Speaker 4: I don't know, yeah, near your phone.

715
00:32:04,160 --> 00:32:09,000
Speaker 1: It's very modern, this list who do? It's up to

716
00:32:09,120 --> 00:32:09,880
Speaker 1: date for sure?

717
00:32:10,240 --> 00:32:10,400
Speaker 2: Yeah?

718
00:32:10,480 --> 00:32:12,440
Speaker 1: Yeah modern who yes? Yeah.

719
00:32:12,440 --> 00:32:14,800
Speaker 4: So then within a couple of weeks I was like,

720
00:32:14,960 --> 00:32:17,360
Speaker 4: you know, it's the regular people who are like, you know,

721
00:32:17,400 --> 00:32:20,240
Speaker 4: a man will talk to your socially in New York, Hey,

722
00:32:20,240 --> 00:32:24,640
Speaker 4: in Flatbush, especially in flat Do you really need somebody? No,

723
00:32:24,720 --> 00:32:26,640
Speaker 4: But that's what I'm saying. I was trying to attract

724
00:32:26,680 --> 00:32:28,720
Speaker 4: because I'm not on the apps. Also was going through

725
00:32:28,720 --> 00:32:31,760
Speaker 4: a depression period where I was not leaving my neighborhood. Okay,

726
00:32:31,960 --> 00:32:33,680
Speaker 4: so it was like, where am I going to meet

727
00:32:33,680 --> 00:32:35,120
Speaker 4: this man? I don't go to events.

728
00:32:35,160 --> 00:32:38,720
Speaker 1: I don't. I just am home sad like you. Like you,

729
00:32:38,840 --> 00:32:41,320
Speaker 1: I thought a man can fix this. He did. I

730
00:32:41,360 --> 00:32:43,360
Speaker 1: didn't say a man can fix it? And you said

731
00:32:43,440 --> 00:32:46,160
Speaker 1: you were like, I'm down back, I am trash.

732
00:32:46,840 --> 00:32:49,800
Speaker 2: I must be amongst it right now, so I'm not

733
00:32:50,040 --> 00:32:52,800
Speaker 2: messing up. You know the good women that are out there,

734
00:32:52,800 --> 00:32:53,720
Speaker 2: I see now.

735
00:32:53,840 --> 00:32:55,200
Speaker 1: Does it have to be an orange? Can to be

736
00:32:55,200 --> 00:32:57,800
Speaker 1: a tangerine? No, it's going to be an orange.

737
00:32:58,080 --> 00:32:59,560
Speaker 4: But you know what the thing about who do is

738
00:32:59,560 --> 00:33:02,080
Speaker 4: is because since it was created, uh, it was brought

739
00:33:02,080 --> 00:33:04,800
Speaker 4: over by like enslaved Africans. It's like you do what

740
00:33:04,880 --> 00:33:07,240
Speaker 4: you can, you know. So if you do only have

741
00:33:07,320 --> 00:33:08,360
Speaker 4: a tangerine, use what.

742
00:33:08,360 --> 00:33:17,040
Speaker 1: You have, I know, but somebody use yeah, and aren't

743
00:33:17,080 --> 00:33:19,920
Speaker 1: just big A tangerine is little orange. I feel like

744
00:33:20,000 --> 00:33:23,360
Speaker 1: that's a big man, smooth tiny balls. Though.

745
00:33:23,440 --> 00:33:27,320
Speaker 2: You know what if you can we use a clementine,

746
00:33:28,000 --> 00:33:30,080
Speaker 2: grapefruit a little bit.

747
00:33:30,960 --> 00:33:32,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, he's a sour man.

748
00:33:33,040 --> 00:33:35,440
Speaker 2: No, I don't want a sour man. What a sweet man.

749
00:33:35,600 --> 00:33:39,160
Speaker 4: Yes, yes, okay, so I do it. I and it's

750
00:33:39,160 --> 00:33:40,920
Speaker 4: like the regular ship. But now I'm starting I feel

751
00:33:40,920 --> 00:33:43,040
Speaker 4: like I'm starting to meet people that actually aren't in

752
00:33:43,080 --> 00:33:46,479
Speaker 4: the strain of man that I'm into what it was,

753
00:33:46,520 --> 00:33:52,000
Speaker 4: but like random like Cafe, Gym, Prospect Park, but like

754
00:33:52,240 --> 00:33:55,120
Speaker 4: none of these things are working out. Like first person

755
00:33:55,640 --> 00:33:57,600
Speaker 4: was like this dude, I met a Prospect Park. I

756
00:33:57,680 --> 00:34:00,600
Speaker 4: was like doing yoga and like I had seen him

757
00:34:00,600 --> 00:34:02,680
Speaker 4: there before, I will go to the same spot. He

758
00:34:02,840 --> 00:34:05,400
Speaker 4: kind of looked like like Andre three thousand ish and

759
00:34:05,400 --> 00:34:06,600
Speaker 4: that his style was.

760
00:34:06,600 --> 00:34:11,600
Speaker 1: Very sad thing okay something was like yeah, like he

761
00:34:11,719 --> 00:34:13,400
Speaker 1: had like his style and stuff.

762
00:34:13,400 --> 00:34:15,760
Speaker 2: So I was like, you know, so you're doing your

763
00:34:15,800 --> 00:34:18,240
Speaker 2: downward facing dog and he was like, not my steate queen.

764
00:34:18,400 --> 00:34:20,640
Speaker 4: He kept we like were walking around out around the

765
00:34:20,640 --> 00:34:23,720
Speaker 4: same time. He was like, hey, I like your something

766
00:34:23,760 --> 00:34:26,720
Speaker 4: something something or blah blah blah. We start talking about meditation.

767
00:34:26,840 --> 00:34:29,600
Speaker 4: Oh what he was doing. He was standing with his

768
00:34:29,840 --> 00:34:33,600
Speaker 4: feet and shoes off. He was grounding. So I was like, oh,

769
00:34:33,640 --> 00:34:35,160
Speaker 4: I saw you were you grounding?

770
00:34:35,239 --> 00:34:38,200
Speaker 2: So I was like, okay, this is yes, we're the

771
00:34:38,280 --> 00:34:40,080
Speaker 2: same thing, kindred spirits.

772
00:34:40,160 --> 00:34:44,040
Speaker 4: Yes, so I thought, so we exchanged. He's like, oh,

773
00:34:44,040 --> 00:34:45,560
Speaker 4: can I get your Instagram, which.

774
00:34:45,440 --> 00:34:48,920
Speaker 1: Is always like that that's what I'm not on there,

775
00:34:49,000 --> 00:34:50,760
Speaker 1: just the number that's a real fly, that's a reflac.

776
00:34:50,840 --> 00:34:52,319
Speaker 4: But I was like, but I was I was starting

777
00:34:52,360 --> 00:34:55,080
Speaker 4: to be like maybe like something was there was a

778
00:34:55,160 --> 00:34:56,680
Speaker 4: little something that was like I was like, Wow, this

779
00:34:56,680 --> 00:34:57,600
Speaker 4: person's really attractive.

780
00:34:57,600 --> 00:34:59,799
Speaker 1: I'm into them, but there was something I was like,

781
00:35:00,120 --> 00:35:02,239
Speaker 1: just take this, yeah, just take this.

782
00:35:02,800 --> 00:35:05,320
Speaker 4: So he hits me up. I see in the request.

783
00:35:05,320 --> 00:35:08,520
Speaker 4: I pull up his page. This man's a rapper.

784
00:35:08,800 --> 00:35:12,080
Speaker 2: Oh well you said Andre three thousands, so, but not

785
00:35:12,120 --> 00:35:12,800
Speaker 2: a good rapper.

786
00:35:14,200 --> 00:35:18,440
Speaker 4: And also he has a post couldn't movie my luck? Bro,

787
00:35:18,520 --> 00:35:21,960
Speaker 4: Like he has a post talking about how Candice Owens.

788
00:35:21,320 --> 00:35:24,720
Speaker 2: Oh no, no, throw it away.

789
00:35:26,040 --> 00:35:29,640
Speaker 4: Owens is making valid points like that.

790
00:35:29,880 --> 00:35:32,000
Speaker 1: It was like that strain of Kanye, like you know,

791
00:35:32,160 --> 00:35:33,000
Speaker 1: like people will be.

792
00:35:33,040 --> 00:35:36,400
Speaker 4: Like Kanye, Yes, that man who's so open that he

793
00:35:36,520 --> 00:35:40,240
Speaker 4: gets like right back around, like the white supremacy swoops

794
00:35:40,280 --> 00:35:43,040
Speaker 4: him back around. Like he's so like, nah, I don't

795
00:35:43,040 --> 00:35:45,160
Speaker 4: believe the governments like this. You're like, the government is

796
00:35:45,200 --> 00:35:47,120
Speaker 4: messed up. He's like, and also did it and you're

797
00:35:47,160 --> 00:35:48,719
Speaker 4: like that's true. And then he's like and the earth

798
00:35:48,800 --> 00:35:53,759
Speaker 4: is like like what he's like, and it was just

799
00:35:53,840 --> 00:35:56,960
Speaker 4: like I'm like scrolling and I'm like wow, like no

800
00:35:57,160 --> 00:35:59,839
Speaker 4: talent like the raps too.

801
00:36:00,120 --> 00:36:01,920
Speaker 1: I can't tell y'all his name because I don't want

802
00:36:01,960 --> 00:36:04,720
Speaker 1: him to find out, but it was a good rapper.

803
00:36:04,760 --> 00:36:08,840
Speaker 2: You're like, maybe not a can as no, no, Can's

804
00:36:08,840 --> 00:36:11,440
Speaker 2: always over at always like. But it was also like

805
00:36:11,880 --> 00:36:15,000
Speaker 2: I don't know if y'all felt like this, because I

806
00:36:15,000 --> 00:36:16,520
Speaker 2: hell know, but I don't know why I feel like this.

807
00:36:16,560 --> 00:36:17,239
Speaker 1: But I don't know if I.

808
00:36:17,239 --> 00:36:22,160
Speaker 4: Could like date someone who's like ambitions I can't support,

809
00:36:22,440 --> 00:36:25,120
Speaker 4: Like if you're a person, like if would you date

810
00:36:25,160 --> 00:36:27,120
Speaker 4: somebody if they were like I'm a musician, I'm an actor,

811
00:36:27,120 --> 00:36:29,480
Speaker 4: I'm a d but they're bad at it And then

812
00:36:29,520 --> 00:36:32,200
Speaker 4: you gotta like we pretend but maybe they're.

813
00:36:34,920 --> 00:36:37,200
Speaker 1: But he could you're at this level.

814
00:36:37,280 --> 00:36:40,520
Speaker 2: You want somebody at your level or better? Yeah, somebody

815
00:36:40,560 --> 00:36:43,640
Speaker 2: here that's still trying to figure who thinks it's good. Yeah,

816
00:36:43,800 --> 00:36:45,640
Speaker 2: we gotta wait for them to figure out that it's bad.

817
00:36:45,880 --> 00:36:49,279
Speaker 1: Yeah, get better. And it wasn't even like me. It

818
00:36:49,400 --> 00:36:51,680
Speaker 1: was like I was like, yo, turn this ship off.

819
00:36:54,680 --> 00:36:56,840
Speaker 2: He looked worse in the video, like he was shooting

820
00:36:56,840 --> 00:36:59,799
Speaker 2: the music video and I was like, shooting him music video?

821
00:37:00,080 --> 00:37:05,719
Speaker 1: What kind of camera? The galaxy? I was like, are

822
00:37:05,760 --> 00:37:07,799
Speaker 1: you uglier in the video? I showed it to my friend.

823
00:37:07,840 --> 00:37:09,840
Speaker 1: She was like, well you said on grade three thousand,

824
00:37:11,200 --> 00:37:14,319
Speaker 1: You're like what it was awful? I was like, Yo,

825
00:37:14,600 --> 00:37:15,080
Speaker 1: this is.

826
00:37:15,200 --> 00:37:19,719
Speaker 2: Your I'm sorry show at the end of it, I

827
00:37:19,719 --> 00:37:20,399
Speaker 2: will show y'all.

828
00:37:21,680 --> 00:37:25,239
Speaker 1: And the name crazy the name.

829
00:37:25,160 --> 00:37:29,719
Speaker 2: But I was like, name the chosen one worst. I

830
00:37:29,880 --> 00:37:34,640
Speaker 2: was worse than that, brother to the But then what's

831
00:37:34,680 --> 00:37:36,640
Speaker 2: bad about those next nag?

832
00:37:37,239 --> 00:37:37,839
Speaker 1: Yeah.

833
00:37:38,040 --> 00:37:41,839
Speaker 4: No, it's like one name and it's like, uh, it's

834
00:37:41,920 --> 00:37:44,560
Speaker 4: one It's one word, and it kind of it just

835
00:37:44,600 --> 00:37:46,160
Speaker 4: seems like how do I say.

836
00:37:46,000 --> 00:37:46,560
Speaker 1: What I was saying.

837
00:37:46,600 --> 00:37:49,239
Speaker 4: It's like it's like something like it's like a motion

838
00:37:49,400 --> 00:37:52,120
Speaker 4: you could do to somebody, but it's like one word.

839
00:37:52,200 --> 00:37:54,480
Speaker 4: And it also doesn't seem very much like rapper, Like

840
00:37:54,520 --> 00:37:58,120
Speaker 4: I don't think any rapper would choose this name something

841
00:37:58,160 --> 00:38:01,239
Speaker 4: like that wave worse but yeah, but it's like a

842
00:38:01,280 --> 00:38:03,680
Speaker 4: word where you're like, huh, wave to me is too cool.

843
00:38:04,080 --> 00:38:07,640
Speaker 1: It's like giving like hmm, yeah, yeah.

844
00:38:07,760 --> 00:38:10,279
Speaker 4: So the but the bad thing about this spell is

845
00:38:10,680 --> 00:38:12,719
Speaker 4: so I see this, he messages me. I look at

846
00:38:12,760 --> 00:38:15,279
Speaker 4: his page. I'm like, I don't know, but it's a dope. No,

847
00:38:15,440 --> 00:38:18,040
Speaker 4: forget it now, I gotta go to a different part

848
00:38:18,120 --> 00:38:18,560
Speaker 4: of the park.

849
00:38:18,920 --> 00:38:24,720
Speaker 2: But a month later, I'm on the phone with my friend.

850
00:38:25,360 --> 00:38:28,520
Speaker 1: I look down. I see somebody ride up with a bike.

851
00:38:28,640 --> 00:38:29,920
Speaker 1: I look up. It's him.

852
00:38:30,120 --> 00:38:36,400
Speaker 2: No, him, dangerous of dating someone in your neighborhood. I

853
00:38:36,400 --> 00:38:38,960
Speaker 2: couldn't believe because you you go get smoothie at the

854
00:38:39,000 --> 00:38:40,440
Speaker 2: same place and you don't want to know.

855
00:38:40,440 --> 00:38:43,000
Speaker 1: Mister Rogers ask dude yes. And I wasn't even near

856
00:38:43,040 --> 00:38:44,640
Speaker 1: the park. I was a whole different. I was like

857
00:38:44,760 --> 00:38:46,000
Speaker 1: a block down for my part.

858
00:38:46,040 --> 00:38:52,320
Speaker 2: You like, you gotta be joking, you gotta move.

859
00:38:52,440 --> 00:38:54,719
Speaker 4: So my landlord, I messed up and messed up, but

860
00:38:54,760 --> 00:38:57,640
Speaker 4: I was like, he was like, I've been looking for you.

861
00:38:58,160 --> 00:39:10,600
Speaker 1: I was like, yeah, yeah, please. I was like, and

862
00:39:10,640 --> 00:39:11,839
Speaker 1: he was like, YO, give me your.

863
00:39:11,800 --> 00:39:18,160
Speaker 2: Number, no before you got my I the fact that

864
00:39:18,360 --> 00:39:23,560
Speaker 2: you haven't got my number yet, that is the sign man.

865
00:39:24,160 --> 00:39:26,640
Speaker 1: Read between. I never accepted it. It just stayed as

866
00:39:26,640 --> 00:39:27,240
Speaker 1: a request.

867
00:39:27,640 --> 00:39:29,759
Speaker 4: And then but I did say to him, I was like,

868
00:39:29,840 --> 00:39:33,239
Speaker 4: can I be real, what's up with Candice owns.

869
00:39:33,960 --> 00:39:36,480
Speaker 1: And saying, this is why you don't want peace, because

870
00:39:36,520 --> 00:39:37,440
Speaker 1: why did you do that?

871
00:39:37,480 --> 00:39:39,959
Speaker 4: Because I'm like your cornery. I'm literally starting to open

872
00:39:40,000 --> 00:39:41,560
Speaker 4: my phone. I'm like, okay, I I can't.

873
00:39:41,600 --> 00:39:43,000
Speaker 1: But that's the thing. If I if I this was.

874
00:39:43,000 --> 00:39:44,880
Speaker 4: Somebody I just saw randomly and like, I don't know,

875
00:39:44,920 --> 00:39:49,080
Speaker 4: Bushwick whatever, I might never see you again. But sling

876
00:39:49,200 --> 00:39:52,200
Speaker 4: my business. I've gone to a different park. I'm changing

877
00:39:52,239 --> 00:39:54,360
Speaker 4: my life, not going to the same part of the park.

878
00:39:54,520 --> 00:39:57,440
Speaker 4: And I still ran into you and you're running up

879
00:39:57,440 --> 00:39:58,960
Speaker 4: on me, like I've been looking for you.

880
00:39:59,000 --> 00:40:04,640
Speaker 1: So girl. He also has a hoodoo bag, but.

881
00:40:07,880 --> 00:40:10,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, he was like, I just she's four, like she

882
00:40:10,600 --> 00:40:12,640
Speaker 2: she just has like good ideas on black people that

883
00:40:12,680 --> 00:40:14,319
Speaker 2: are like But he was like, listen, just text me

884
00:40:14,360 --> 00:40:17,120
Speaker 2: because I have to I have to skate, like blah

885
00:40:17,160 --> 00:40:19,360
Speaker 2: blah blah blah. He's like, for real, really like text me.

886
00:40:19,840 --> 00:40:22,080
Speaker 2: And I was like yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah yeah. So

887
00:40:22,160 --> 00:40:24,560
Speaker 2: you took his number down, took it. I was like,

888
00:40:24,640 --> 00:40:28,640
Speaker 2: uh HUHP three three, yeah, I got it.

889
00:40:29,560 --> 00:40:29,839
Speaker 1: My phone.

890
00:40:31,480 --> 00:40:34,840
Speaker 2: I've taken numbers people numbered and I'm just putting one, one,

891
00:40:35,200 --> 00:40:39,200
Speaker 2: two to ye. I'm just hitting numbers and there's nothing

892
00:40:39,200 --> 00:40:40,240
Speaker 2: getting said nothing.

893
00:40:40,800 --> 00:40:44,120
Speaker 1: You said, what's your name Derek with two rs? Nothing?

894
00:40:45,239 --> 00:40:45,920
Speaker 4: No K.

895
00:40:47,000 --> 00:40:49,880
Speaker 1: So then what's the next guy? Alkright? So then.

896
00:40:51,480 --> 00:40:53,120
Speaker 4: This is the most the one I just told you

897
00:40:53,160 --> 00:40:54,640
Speaker 4: I was the most recent one. The one before that

898
00:40:54,800 --> 00:40:56,960
Speaker 4: I was at the gym. I gotta stop working out

899
00:40:57,000 --> 00:40:58,760
Speaker 4: of me people. I think people who work out are toxic.

900
00:40:58,800 --> 00:41:00,799
Speaker 4: No disrespect to you. Should working twice a day, but

901
00:41:00,840 --> 00:41:02,520
Speaker 4: I'm like, this is not working out for me.

902
00:41:02,680 --> 00:41:04,600
Speaker 2: I'm been on that you think people who work out

903
00:41:04,600 --> 00:41:05,080
Speaker 2: are toxic.

904
00:41:05,160 --> 00:41:06,840
Speaker 4: I mean I work out too, but I'm like, this

905
00:41:07,040 --> 00:41:09,200
Speaker 4: keeps well. I just I think that I'm just meeting

906
00:41:09,239 --> 00:41:12,440
Speaker 4: people in workout settings. And this is gone for Tuniture.

907
00:41:12,360 --> 00:41:17,239
Speaker 1: Planet Fitness Bank now ba same thing. It is, same thing,

908
00:41:18,360 --> 00:41:21,600
Speaker 1: blinking a little a little bit. Yeah, you're not doing better.

909
00:41:21,719 --> 00:41:25,560
Speaker 4: It's like a month and a plus, maybe a C

910
00:41:25,680 --> 00:41:26,600
Speaker 4: minus and a C plus.

911
00:41:27,200 --> 00:41:30,479
Speaker 2: No Planet Fitness is a C yes.

912
00:41:30,800 --> 00:41:33,120
Speaker 1: Blink is a be yes.

913
00:41:33,120 --> 00:41:36,160
Speaker 4: Because they're not serving pizza blink and it's like newer

914
00:41:36,360 --> 00:41:37,440
Speaker 4: this episode.

915
00:41:37,320 --> 00:41:41,040
Speaker 2: Is it's sponsored by blank Blick Fitness.

916
00:41:41,280 --> 00:41:43,040
Speaker 4: I would love to get some free. It is very

917
00:41:43,120 --> 00:41:47,040
Speaker 4: cheap though, so that's probably part of it. But yeah,

918
00:41:47,080 --> 00:41:51,320
Speaker 4: so I'm like working out one day and like there's

919
00:41:51,360 --> 00:41:54,359
Speaker 4: this like I was like working out, there's this guy

920
00:41:54,400 --> 00:41:56,239
Speaker 4: who was like doing this like lift stuff, and I

921
00:41:56,280 --> 00:41:57,000
Speaker 4: was just really impressed.

922
00:41:57,040 --> 00:41:58,160
Speaker 1: Also like he was.

923
00:41:58,120 --> 00:42:00,319
Speaker 4: Like really my type and I was really like him,

924
00:42:00,360 --> 00:42:02,799
Speaker 4: like he looks really good. And then he caught me

925
00:42:02,840 --> 00:42:05,040
Speaker 4: looking at him in the mirror and then I looked away.

926
00:42:05,160 --> 00:42:08,840
Speaker 1: You was dreoling was your mouth? Oh you gotta stop

927
00:42:08,840 --> 00:42:11,800
Speaker 1: being so you gotta start wearing I really got a

928
00:42:11,880 --> 00:42:12,680
Speaker 1: date for personality.

929
00:42:12,719 --> 00:42:16,439
Speaker 2: You gotta start wearing glass gym so they can't see

930
00:42:16,440 --> 00:42:16,800
Speaker 2: your eyes.

931
00:42:17,000 --> 00:42:19,560
Speaker 1: Your eyes giving up.

932
00:42:19,840 --> 00:42:21,160
Speaker 4: You wear a low hat, but I don't wear a

933
00:42:21,160 --> 00:42:24,839
Speaker 4: little hair no, now I am Now, I would never,

934
00:42:25,320 --> 00:42:26,680
Speaker 4: never dape from the gym.

935
00:42:26,719 --> 00:42:27,720
Speaker 1: It's a mistake. Okay.

936
00:42:27,880 --> 00:42:30,359
Speaker 4: So that was one day and then I see him

937
00:42:30,360 --> 00:42:32,200
Speaker 4: the next day and then we like, you know, a

938
00:42:32,320 --> 00:42:34,799
Speaker 4: glass glass glance. I'm like, okay, I'm getting looked back

939
00:42:36,160 --> 00:42:40,800
Speaker 4: next week. Same another weekend. I'm walking. He walks past

940
00:42:40,840 --> 00:42:45,160
Speaker 4: me and he goes, hey, I forget. He says something

941
00:42:45,200 --> 00:42:46,640
Speaker 4: something something, and he was like, I would love to

942
00:42:46,640 --> 00:42:47,440
Speaker 4: take you out to dinner.

943
00:42:47,480 --> 00:42:50,080
Speaker 1: And I said, oh, you said, I eat off the rip.

944
00:42:50,680 --> 00:42:55,759
Speaker 2: Okay, okay, what's your number? Okay, okay, very tall that.

945
00:42:56,360 --> 00:42:57,920
Speaker 2: I'm like, this is great.

946
00:42:57,960 --> 00:43:02,440
Speaker 1: That night, that night night you had nothing to do. SI, okay,

947
00:43:02,640 --> 00:43:05,040
Speaker 1: my plans got canceled. He hit me up. He's like

948
00:43:05,480 --> 00:43:08,120
Speaker 1: up to I said, forget it. Yeah, it's some fun.

949
00:43:08,320 --> 00:43:11,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, the spells working out. Yeah we o bawlinge out

950
00:43:11,520 --> 00:43:14,120
Speaker 2: out to the Orange. Yes, yes, the Orange.

951
00:43:14,120 --> 00:43:15,319
Speaker 1: I threw the ship out after, but.

952
00:43:19,280 --> 00:43:22,280
Speaker 4: I didn't get it far away from me. I waited

953
00:43:22,280 --> 00:43:25,759
Speaker 4: for the trash man. I said, but yeah, I go

954
00:43:25,800 --> 00:43:27,839
Speaker 4: on this day. It's fun, it's cute. We hang out,

955
00:43:27,840 --> 00:43:30,200
Speaker 4: we hang out, we hang out. Then I start noticing,

956
00:43:30,360 --> 00:43:32,319
Speaker 4: like I feel like he was like it was like

957
00:43:32,480 --> 00:43:34,600
Speaker 4: he was like giving love bombing a little bit, like

958
00:43:34,680 --> 00:43:37,560
Speaker 4: it was very like every time, like wow, sis so

959
00:43:37,719 --> 00:43:41,800
Speaker 4: pretty d D. And then I started feeling like I

960
00:43:41,840 --> 00:43:45,120
Speaker 4: don't know about this, you know, it's feeling weird, Like

961
00:43:45,200 --> 00:43:47,120
Speaker 4: there was just like little things here and there that

962
00:43:47,160 --> 00:43:50,080
Speaker 4: I'm noticing. Had a conversation about trends things. He went

963
00:43:50,080 --> 00:43:52,400
Speaker 4: from being at I'm an ally, which also was like

964
00:43:52,440 --> 00:43:53,880
Speaker 4: a weird word to say, to one day we had

965
00:43:53,920 --> 00:43:55,440
Speaker 4: a whole conversation about it, and I was like, why

966
00:43:55,440 --> 00:43:57,080
Speaker 4: would he be in an airline? So I was like,

967
00:43:57,080 --> 00:43:59,600
Speaker 4: I feel like this person maybe like it's not fully

968
00:44:00,400 --> 00:44:02,640
Speaker 4: everything they saying. They're saying, and I'm kind of like

969
00:44:02,680 --> 00:44:05,560
Speaker 4: losing interest whatever. So I like send a message about

970
00:44:05,600 --> 00:44:09,439
Speaker 4: something and then he ignored it. I said, oh, okay, cool,

971
00:44:09,480 --> 00:44:13,480
Speaker 4: it's dead. Right. Then I'm at the gym one day,

972
00:44:13,920 --> 00:44:17,279
Speaker 4: see I see his his shoes, Like you know, first off,

973
00:44:17,280 --> 00:44:19,560
Speaker 4: I've seen him a few times too on that gym.

974
00:44:19,680 --> 00:44:21,399
Speaker 4: I'm like, I walk in. Now, i gotta go different

975
00:44:21,440 --> 00:44:24,080
Speaker 4: parts of the gym. I gotta walk around. I'm like

976
00:44:24,239 --> 00:44:26,200
Speaker 4: uncomfortable even though I ain't doing anything.

977
00:44:26,239 --> 00:44:29,160
Speaker 1: Tanya, you gotta stop shipping where you eat. This is

978
00:44:29,200 --> 00:44:30,400
Speaker 1: a problem.

979
00:44:32,480 --> 00:44:38,040
Speaker 2: I'm going, No, you're doing this great concert. It's perfect

980
00:44:38,080 --> 00:44:40,200
Speaker 2: for the pob. I'm saying it's bad for the way

981
00:44:40,280 --> 00:44:41,320
Speaker 2: that you're trying to live your.

982
00:44:41,200 --> 00:44:43,839
Speaker 1: Life, not for me doing great.

983
00:44:44,000 --> 00:44:45,480
Speaker 2: Now, i gotta go different times because I know he

984
00:44:45,520 --> 00:44:47,239
Speaker 2: goes on the weekend at such and such time.

985
00:44:47,320 --> 00:44:49,240
Speaker 1: So I'm going later, I'm going earlier.

986
00:44:49,960 --> 00:44:52,239
Speaker 4: I'm like going to different parts of the I'm going

987
00:44:52,280 --> 00:44:53,399
Speaker 4: downstairs in the leg area.

988
00:44:53,400 --> 00:44:54,200
Speaker 1: I never go down there.

989
00:44:54,239 --> 00:44:57,120
Speaker 2: You can't even do yoga in the park no more.

990
00:44:56,640 --> 00:45:00,799
Speaker 2: You you're dunking and dodging now, Okay, so h, I

991
00:45:00,840 --> 00:45:03,840
Speaker 2: look down, he tells me some story.

992
00:45:03,880 --> 00:45:06,720
Speaker 1: I'm also scared he's gonna see this. But are you scared?

993
00:45:09,000 --> 00:45:11,560
Speaker 4: There's a problem. You gotta see these people again. If

994
00:45:11,600 --> 00:45:13,279
Speaker 4: it was just a stranger.

995
00:45:13,160 --> 00:45:15,759
Speaker 1: You think he listened to this podcast? You're right, it's women,

996
00:45:15,880 --> 00:45:19,319
Speaker 1: so probably not. But I don't know.

997
00:45:19,960 --> 00:45:22,319
Speaker 4: But yeah, he had like a story about like his

998
00:45:22,480 --> 00:45:28,200
Speaker 4: ex girlfriend and like she deleted my number and did

999
00:45:28,239 --> 00:45:32,440
Speaker 4: she get his phone some like party that time and blah,

1000
00:45:32,480 --> 00:45:34,320
Speaker 4: I don't know, I'm just even liars.

1001
00:45:34,560 --> 00:45:38,359
Speaker 2: Ex girlfriend deleted your number, so that's why he didn't

1002
00:45:38,360 --> 00:45:39,640
Speaker 2: respond to your text.

1003
00:45:39,920 --> 00:45:42,400
Speaker 1: He can't also deleted the text.

1004
00:45:42,400 --> 00:45:46,880
Speaker 4: She she like like uh C, I a erased everything allegedly.

1005
00:45:46,400 --> 00:45:50,359
Speaker 2: She put it back to factory settings allegedly, and then

1006
00:45:50,400 --> 00:45:55,640
Speaker 2: they dated. So say that, how say your bow?

1007
00:45:55,800 --> 00:45:58,279
Speaker 1: Okay, well you hadn't seen him for months? Yeah, you

1008
00:45:58,360 --> 00:46:00,759
Speaker 1: could work out in peace for months for months, No,

1009
00:46:00,840 --> 00:46:02,080
Speaker 1: but then I started not seeing him.

1010
00:46:02,080 --> 00:46:03,880
Speaker 4: I would go different. I would go on different times

1011
00:46:03,920 --> 00:46:05,680
Speaker 4: and I was like, look at God. And then one

1012
00:46:05,719 --> 00:46:08,320
Speaker 4: time I did see him and then the eye contact

1013
00:46:08,360 --> 00:46:09,719
Speaker 4: was made and I was like, I don't have no beef.

1014
00:46:09,760 --> 00:46:11,280
Speaker 1: So I just went and it was fine.

1015
00:46:11,480 --> 00:46:16,000
Speaker 4: But then the conversation but I'm like, uh.

1016
00:46:15,280 --> 00:46:19,800
Speaker 1: Okay, like cool, cool, that's amazing.

1017
00:46:20,280 --> 00:46:22,480
Speaker 4: But even then it was like this is so weird,

1018
00:46:22,640 --> 00:46:25,160
Speaker 4: like what are we Are we supposed to like hang

1019
00:46:25,200 --> 00:46:28,239
Speaker 4: out again now we're supposed to Like no, I'm not thinking.

1020
00:46:28,239 --> 00:46:31,000
Speaker 4: I'm just like wondering, like why we're having this conversation right,

1021
00:46:32,160 --> 00:46:35,520
Speaker 4: like it's just going to like but even that now

1022
00:46:35,560 --> 00:46:37,480
Speaker 4: it's like okay, but I felt like he was kind

1023
00:46:37,480 --> 00:46:40,520
Speaker 4: of hitting it like if you if your bird ass

1024
00:46:40,560 --> 00:46:41,040
Speaker 4: is trying.

1025
00:46:40,840 --> 00:46:47,520
Speaker 1: To pop back in tweet tweet babe, and yeah. I

1026
00:46:47,560 --> 00:46:50,160
Speaker 1: was like okay, yeah, no that's crazy.

1027
00:46:50,440 --> 00:46:55,480
Speaker 2: So y'all never kissed or anything? Oh before yeah, yeah

1028
00:46:55,520 --> 00:46:57,160
Speaker 2: we kissed you.

1029
00:46:57,360 --> 00:47:00,279
Speaker 1: No, we didn't. We did not we kissed. He was hot,

1030
00:47:00,360 --> 00:47:00,960
Speaker 1: like he's honest.

1031
00:47:01,000 --> 00:47:03,799
Speaker 2: Even when as he's telling me these lies, I'm like, oh,

1032
00:47:05,040 --> 00:47:07,480
Speaker 2: it's a lot to me.

1033
00:47:07,600 --> 00:47:10,800
Speaker 1: Is like can I just do this for boredom? No,

1034
00:47:11,400 --> 00:47:12,000
Speaker 1: you cannot.

1035
00:47:12,360 --> 00:47:14,879
Speaker 2: You're gonna regret it link membership that you're not gonna

1036
00:47:14,880 --> 00:47:16,480
Speaker 2: be able to cancel exactly.

1037
00:47:16,560 --> 00:47:19,040
Speaker 4: Also, this is alleged girlfriend will come fight me. I

1038
00:47:19,120 --> 00:47:19,839
Speaker 4: was like, I'm not.

1039
00:47:19,920 --> 00:47:22,000
Speaker 1: Going to delete your number. She's going to leave your life.

1040
00:47:22,320 --> 00:47:24,200
Speaker 1: You don't want. I'm gonna be like, babe, take me out.

1041
00:47:24,239 --> 00:47:25,880
Speaker 1: I'm ready to go. But also I'm not fighting you

1042
00:47:25,880 --> 00:47:27,200
Speaker 1: over this man that I don't want.

1043
00:47:27,520 --> 00:47:32,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, I am people, sure, that's all you saw.

1044
00:47:33,040 --> 00:47:37,200
Speaker 4: You got him, he's yours in the final third guy

1045
00:47:37,440 --> 00:47:40,560
Speaker 4: their guy. There's a cafe, I guess used to at

1046
00:47:40,600 --> 00:47:40,959
Speaker 4: this point.

1047
00:47:42,400 --> 00:47:46,440
Speaker 2: Damn he running you at the cat cool you made

1048
00:47:46,840 --> 00:47:47,960
Speaker 2: You can't go to the park.

1049
00:47:48,880 --> 00:47:50,960
Speaker 1: Where can you go? We gotta go to church, you

1050
00:47:51,000 --> 00:47:53,640
Speaker 1: gotta go to bell Chase girl, where can you go?

1051
00:47:55,520 --> 00:47:55,600
Speaker 4: No?

1052
00:47:55,760 --> 00:47:57,399
Speaker 1: I go to this cafe. All the time.

1053
00:47:57,440 --> 00:47:59,319
Speaker 4: I was like writing, working on the script, like you know,

1054
00:47:59,680 --> 00:48:01,759
Speaker 4: trying to get out the house. And then like his

1055
00:48:01,800 --> 00:48:04,640
Speaker 4: friend one day was like I was like, because I'm

1056
00:48:04,640 --> 00:48:07,560
Speaker 4: in the in the cafe. Actually I went with another

1057
00:48:07,600 --> 00:48:08,799
Speaker 4: person that I used to date.

1058
00:48:09,520 --> 00:48:12,280
Speaker 1: Doesn't it's you? You are the mass.

1059
00:48:12,520 --> 00:48:16,040
Speaker 2: So everyone has exes though, Yeah, but okay, so you

1060
00:48:16,120 --> 00:48:16,399
Speaker 2: was with.

1061
00:48:16,400 --> 00:48:19,160
Speaker 1: Your ex at the cafe. Yes, but I wasn't expecting

1062
00:48:19,200 --> 00:48:20,000
Speaker 1: to meet nobody there.

1063
00:48:20,080 --> 00:48:23,359
Speaker 4: This was like again, actually, no, this person, this ex,

1064
00:48:23,800 --> 00:48:26,040
Speaker 4: I met him before I lived in Flatbush and he

1065
00:48:26,080 --> 00:48:27,160
Speaker 4: happened to live in Flatbush.

1066
00:48:27,200 --> 00:48:29,759
Speaker 1: Like there's a problem. It's Flatbush. I think No, it's

1067
00:48:29,800 --> 00:48:33,799
Speaker 1: the orange. It's you and the orange, or is.

1068
00:48:33,760 --> 00:48:37,000
Speaker 2: It Orange is the New Mess?

1069
00:48:37,239 --> 00:48:39,440
Speaker 1: Mess? I love that title. We're gonna go with that

1070
00:48:39,680 --> 00:48:42,480
Speaker 1: Orange is the New Mess. But yeah, so I'm in.

1071
00:48:42,800 --> 00:48:46,319
Speaker 4: That person leaves and then another there's another dude that

1072
00:48:46,360 --> 00:48:48,320
Speaker 4: works there, and then eyes I go to the bathroom.

1073
00:48:48,320 --> 00:48:48,759
Speaker 4: I come back.

1074
00:48:48,800 --> 00:48:52,080
Speaker 1: He's like, hey, like such and such has a crush

1075
00:48:52,120 --> 00:48:52,400
Speaker 1: on you.

1076
00:48:52,480 --> 00:48:55,080
Speaker 2: And I was like, huh, somebody who works at the cafe.

1077
00:48:55,239 --> 00:48:56,080
Speaker 1: He works at the cafe.

1078
00:48:56,160 --> 00:48:57,680
Speaker 4: And it was the dude I've seen at the cafe

1079
00:48:59,000 --> 00:49:01,640
Speaker 4: turn out like yeah, so he was like you should.

1080
00:49:01,440 --> 00:49:02,359
Speaker 1: Talk to him, blah blah.

1081
00:49:02,360 --> 00:49:04,719
Speaker 2: I was like, okay, Ce, sure, yeah, but this is

1082
00:49:04,800 --> 00:49:06,480
Speaker 2: such and such got a crush on you. Like if

1083
00:49:06,480 --> 00:49:09,080
Speaker 2: you can't come say with a like what are we doing?

1084
00:49:09,120 --> 00:49:10,799
Speaker 1: That's why I can't even look at her. I'm looking

1085
00:49:10,800 --> 00:49:14,680
Speaker 1: at you. Barista is your wingman. He owns it. Oh,

1086
00:49:14,960 --> 00:49:16,360
Speaker 1: now that's what you should have started with.

1087
00:49:16,560 --> 00:49:19,200
Speaker 2: Wait wait, wait, wait, hold on, hold on, the guy

1088
00:49:19,239 --> 00:49:20,960
Speaker 2: that has a crush owns it, or the person who

1089
00:49:21,000 --> 00:49:21,960
Speaker 2: came to talk to you owns it?

1090
00:49:22,560 --> 00:49:25,319
Speaker 1: Who has a crush owns it? Well, then he definite

1091
00:49:25,320 --> 00:49:29,880
Speaker 1: should he should have sent an ice t latte or whatever,

1092
00:49:30,040 --> 00:49:36,040
Speaker 1: like a golden latte to the team, extra sir, oat milk.

1093
00:49:36,600 --> 00:49:38,600
Speaker 2: But then in the house, but also if I was

1094
00:49:38,600 --> 00:49:40,320
Speaker 2: the owner or something, I was like, somebody do my

1095
00:49:40,440 --> 00:49:40,839
Speaker 2: light work.

1096
00:49:40,880 --> 00:49:41,439
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying.

1097
00:49:41,680 --> 00:49:44,560
Speaker 4: Yeah, Well he was like I can't believe he did that,

1098
00:49:45,000 --> 00:49:48,040
Speaker 4: blah blah blah. Like I just mentioned that I thought

1099
00:49:48,040 --> 00:49:50,160
Speaker 4: you were pretty for a while, like because you come

1100
00:49:50,160 --> 00:49:53,319
Speaker 4: in here, da da dah, you know, here's your number.

1101
00:49:53,160 --> 00:49:53,799
Speaker 1: Blah blah blah.

1102
00:49:53,840 --> 00:49:55,759
Speaker 4: But long story show with that, it was like more

1103
00:49:55,920 --> 00:49:58,320
Speaker 4: like I don't know, he's just like really busy running

1104
00:49:58,320 --> 00:49:59,120
Speaker 4: a whole cafe.

1105
00:49:59,680 --> 00:50:01,359
Speaker 1: You that this is this business man.

1106
00:50:01,440 --> 00:50:04,399
Speaker 4: No I live, but it's also can we go on

1107
00:50:04,520 --> 00:50:06,239
Speaker 4: like real dates? Oh?

1108
00:50:06,280 --> 00:50:08,040
Speaker 2: He would be like come to the shop, come to

1109
00:50:08,080 --> 00:50:08,480
Speaker 2: the cafe.

1110
00:50:09,320 --> 00:50:11,719
Speaker 1: Day, we're gonna go. We're gonna go somewhere after. But

1111
00:50:11,760 --> 00:50:14,400
Speaker 1: it was just like too, it was too.

1112
00:50:14,040 --> 00:50:18,480
Speaker 2: Like like like I'm busy all the time. And if

1113
00:50:18,640 --> 00:50:21,080
Speaker 2: it's like I don't know if if it's benefiting me personally,

1114
00:50:21,120 --> 00:50:23,080
Speaker 2: like this somebody you're married to in a relationship with,

1115
00:50:23,120 --> 00:50:25,319
Speaker 2: where like you know financially you are benefiting, then I

1116
00:50:25,360 --> 00:50:27,160
Speaker 2: support your dream, right.

1117
00:50:27,160 --> 00:50:30,360
Speaker 1: But if it's like every time.

1118
00:50:30,680 --> 00:50:33,960
Speaker 4: It's like, oh, or you could come to Taco Tuesday,

1119
00:50:34,320 --> 00:50:36,520
Speaker 4: or you could come to blah blah blah and then

1120
00:50:36,800 --> 00:50:38,839
Speaker 4: we'll go to such and such such such, or I'm

1121
00:50:38,920 --> 00:50:41,080
Speaker 4: running late because of work and blah blah blah.

1122
00:50:41,120 --> 00:50:43,120
Speaker 2: I was just like, yeah, I could see you being like,

1123
00:50:43,880 --> 00:50:45,160
Speaker 2: didn't really seem you.

1124
00:50:45,400 --> 00:50:49,200
Speaker 4: Hire somebody, hire some hire or hire. I mean that's

1125
00:50:49,200 --> 00:50:51,680
Speaker 4: the thing too, but it's like I can't because I

1126
00:50:51,719 --> 00:50:53,839
Speaker 4: gotta I get it, like I I that was an

1127
00:50:53,880 --> 00:50:56,680
Speaker 4: attractive thing to me, like your ambitious black owned da

1128
00:50:56,760 --> 00:51:03,920
Speaker 4: da da. It's like a really popping place, like oh yeah, how.

1129
00:51:03,880 --> 00:51:07,760
Speaker 2: Many outlets they got down? My laptop and work right.

1130
00:51:07,640 --> 00:51:08,239
Speaker 1: On over there.

1131
00:51:08,520 --> 00:51:10,520
Speaker 2: There's not a few people in there too, because I

1132
00:51:10,640 --> 00:51:15,359
Speaker 2: was really like in Flatbush and flap Bush. Okay, you're

1133
00:51:15,360 --> 00:51:18,239
Speaker 2: gonna edit that up, oh because it is, Yeah, but

1134
00:51:18,239 --> 00:51:19,000
Speaker 2: you're gonna edit out.

1135
00:51:19,160 --> 00:51:21,239
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, you edit it out. You gotta edit it.

1136
00:51:21,440 --> 00:51:25,840
Speaker 2: No, they didn't hear me, because they and I heard you.

1137
00:51:26,920 --> 00:51:30,920
Speaker 1: I heard you leave it out. Leave it out. We're

1138
00:51:30,920 --> 00:51:33,400
Speaker 1: gonna leave it out. Yeah, it is. You know that

1139
00:51:33,440 --> 00:51:38,480
Speaker 1: place is popping. Be cute over Why you ain't never

1140
00:51:38,640 --> 00:51:43,600
Speaker 1: write me there? That's some high people be cute there,

1141
00:51:43,680 --> 00:51:47,560
Speaker 1: and it'll be popping in there because I never to drinks.

1142
00:51:48,360 --> 00:51:50,120
Speaker 1: You're saying I'm too big for the cafe. You know.

1143
00:51:50,239 --> 00:51:53,000
Speaker 1: I didn't say that. It's just it's you have to

1144
00:51:53,040 --> 00:51:53,760
Speaker 1: get there early.

1145
00:51:53,880 --> 00:51:56,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, you gotta get to get see my But

1146
00:51:57,560 --> 00:51:58,120
Speaker 2: I used to be.

1147
00:51:58,040 --> 00:52:01,960
Speaker 1: In there, like you said early. She said, that's not early. No,

1148
00:52:02,080 --> 00:52:08,279
Speaker 1: it'd be their ginger lemonade. Is mm. They got good

1149
00:52:08,280 --> 00:52:09,880
Speaker 1: food too, and food.

1150
00:52:10,200 --> 00:52:13,920
Speaker 2: Not doing this with job? Okay, so should we go?

1151
00:52:15,160 --> 00:52:17,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, let's go. I don't want nobody, but.

1152
00:52:19,960 --> 00:52:29,319
Speaker 2: Let's you know.

1153
00:52:29,520 --> 00:52:31,719
Speaker 1: She's like, no, I don't. Mortal story is not my man.

1154
00:52:31,840 --> 00:52:33,520
Speaker 4: And then now when it felt when it fell off

1155
00:52:34,560 --> 00:52:38,239
Speaker 4: for reasons like it was just like I'm busy.

1156
00:52:38,280 --> 00:52:39,200
Speaker 1: I'm busy. I'm busy.

1157
00:52:40,080 --> 00:52:41,839
Speaker 4: I don't know if I could tell this story because

1158
00:52:41,880 --> 00:52:44,000
Speaker 4: this is a person that will actually like watch.

1159
00:52:43,800 --> 00:52:46,160
Speaker 1: This, you think, what do you mean?

1160
00:52:47,040 --> 00:52:51,359
Speaker 4: No, they're just they're just like an online person and

1161
00:52:49,239 --> 00:52:52,399
Speaker 4: they're so busy how.

1162
00:52:52,360 --> 00:52:55,520
Speaker 2: They are online clocking for me, sweetie.

1163
00:52:57,880 --> 00:53:01,400
Speaker 4: They're okay, their friend, Okay, I'm all the friend of

1164
00:53:01,480 --> 00:53:03,600
Speaker 4: the person, the friend who was like, hey, hey, hey,

1165
00:53:03,880 --> 00:53:06,480
Speaker 4: you gotta my friend has a question that or I

1166
00:53:06,560 --> 00:53:08,719
Speaker 4: so I'm dating this person for a little bit, right

1167
00:53:08,760 --> 00:53:10,640
Speaker 4: for months. I'm cool with the friends too, because I

1168
00:53:10,719 --> 00:53:13,040
Speaker 4: still coming into the cafe, get my little free matra.

1169
00:53:12,960 --> 00:53:15,279
Speaker 1: The love it. I have a question, Yes, how are

1170
00:53:15,320 --> 00:53:18,080
Speaker 1: you dating? If y'all not really seeing each other?

1171
00:53:18,160 --> 00:53:20,080
Speaker 4: No, we will see each other all the time too,

1172
00:53:20,320 --> 00:53:22,879
Speaker 4: like in the cafe and then the cafe. But also

1173
00:53:22,920 --> 00:53:25,080
Speaker 4: it would be like a date, Like it'd be like,

1174
00:53:25,400 --> 00:53:29,160
Speaker 4: why don't you come here? I come once and I'm like, like,

1175
00:53:29,239 --> 00:53:30,799
Speaker 4: for example, there'd be like a day where they have

1176
00:53:30,840 --> 00:53:33,480
Speaker 4: like stretch therapy. I come to stretch therapy. It's a

1177
00:53:33,520 --> 00:53:36,239
Speaker 4: free session. Blah blah blah. They have like events there.

1178
00:53:36,400 --> 00:53:40,160
Speaker 4: It sounds like convenience, but I mean like, I'm ambitious,

1179
00:53:40,200 --> 00:53:42,640
Speaker 4: I'm working, I'm this this dream I have and I'm

1180
00:53:42,640 --> 00:53:44,640
Speaker 4: trying to be supportive of. But then the next time

1181
00:53:44,680 --> 00:53:46,799
Speaker 4: we'll go to like bathouse, or we're going to a

1182
00:53:46,880 --> 00:53:50,359
Speaker 4: dinner somewhere, we'll do some stuff date we had since

1183
00:53:50,440 --> 00:53:52,600
Speaker 4: it was dating, No, we had dates, but it would

1184
00:53:52,600 --> 00:53:55,759
Speaker 4: be like if we go on five dates, three of

1185
00:53:55,800 --> 00:53:58,560
Speaker 4: them you're trying to make this thing or you're like, hey,

1186
00:53:58,680 --> 00:54:02,400
Speaker 4: like come through out after launch, or we'll go to

1187
00:54:03,120 --> 00:54:05,239
Speaker 4: dea which is a place that's around the corner from me.

1188
00:54:05,320 --> 00:54:07,640
Speaker 4: But come here first and then I come in, and

1189
00:54:07,680 --> 00:54:09,919
Speaker 4: you gotta go and work on this and do that.

1190
00:54:10,200 --> 00:54:12,440
Speaker 1: And I'm like, I could sit on the phone and

1191
00:54:12,520 --> 00:54:15,839
Speaker 1: wait in my own home. You know what I'm saying.

1192
00:54:15,960 --> 00:54:18,680
Speaker 4: Yeah, but if there's an expectation, I'm guessing. I was like, Yo,

1193
00:54:19,040 --> 00:54:20,400
Speaker 4: all the girlies they're.

1194
00:54:20,200 --> 00:54:21,400
Speaker 1: Just fine with this.

1195
00:54:21,920 --> 00:54:24,600
Speaker 2: They're just sitting around waiting on the couch. I'm like,

1196
00:54:24,840 --> 00:54:28,480
Speaker 2: I need to be an employee. You need to pat

1197
00:54:28,520 --> 00:54:29,120
Speaker 2: me on the payroll.

1198
00:54:29,160 --> 00:54:32,240
Speaker 1: I'm here, so you could have had you on the cashier.

1199
00:54:32,280 --> 00:54:36,920
Speaker 1: What's up? You ready? Maybe I can make a little No,

1200
00:54:37,040 --> 00:54:37,839
Speaker 1: I just wanted to sit.

1201
00:54:38,760 --> 00:54:41,359
Speaker 4: But yeah, so he his friend they would like tell

1202
00:54:41,400 --> 00:54:42,919
Speaker 4: inside jokes with me and blah blah blah.

1203
00:54:42,960 --> 00:54:43,400
Speaker 1: He sent me.

1204
00:54:43,760 --> 00:54:46,680
Speaker 4: He showed me a text that they a text threat

1205
00:54:46,719 --> 00:54:48,640
Speaker 4: they were and they were like making fun of something

1206
00:54:49,360 --> 00:54:52,080
Speaker 4: or whatever. And then he's like he has he let

1207
00:54:52,120 --> 00:54:54,480
Speaker 4: me hold this home. He's like, you can scroll. So

1208
00:54:54,520 --> 00:54:57,920
Speaker 4: I'm like, oh, I scroll and I see old boy

1209
00:54:58,680 --> 00:55:02,319
Speaker 4: talking out. I just bagged this this girl or something

1210
00:55:02,360 --> 00:55:05,040
Speaker 4: like that. Something bagged and there's an Instagram I g

1211
00:55:05,239 --> 00:55:06,839
Speaker 4: for this person and who is the.

1212
00:55:06,719 --> 00:55:12,160
Speaker 2: Person me, no, some like random girl.

1213
00:55:12,400 --> 00:55:14,279
Speaker 4: There's some random girl, but I don't know that shit

1214
00:55:14,360 --> 00:55:15,719
Speaker 4: like set me off because I was like, oh, so

1215
00:55:15,800 --> 00:55:17,760
Speaker 4: you're not like we weren't exclusive.

1216
00:55:17,760 --> 00:55:19,920
Speaker 1: But I was like, you're not that busy. You got

1217
00:55:19,960 --> 00:55:23,560
Speaker 1: time too, bag girls like what? But yeah. So I'm

1218
00:55:23,600 --> 00:55:24,280
Speaker 1: like oh.

1219
00:55:24,360 --> 00:55:26,760
Speaker 2: And then his friend's like, I can't believe you saw

1220
00:55:26,800 --> 00:55:30,879
Speaker 2: that he did lah you reacted to it, yeah, because

1221
00:55:30,880 --> 00:55:34,359
Speaker 2: I went oh oh, and he was like humh and

1222
00:55:34,400 --> 00:55:35,000
Speaker 2: he took his phone.

1223
00:55:35,040 --> 00:55:37,680
Speaker 4: He was like, fuck, I don't know, dude, just texted that.

1224
00:55:38,040 --> 00:55:39,759
Speaker 4: I just sent that in the threat. But you should

1225
00:55:39,800 --> 00:55:41,200
Speaker 4: have shown you should have missed with me that.

1226
00:55:41,200 --> 00:55:43,759
Speaker 1: Anyway, I wouldn't have done it. I'm not sure it's real.

1227
00:55:43,840 --> 00:55:49,560
Speaker 4: He was, Yeah, he said, go ahead and scroll messy.

1228
00:55:49,680 --> 00:55:51,560
Speaker 2: He did it on purpose. I'm trying to let you

1229
00:55:51,600 --> 00:55:54,840
Speaker 2: know he was trying to. He was like, why do Yeah,

1230
00:55:55,120 --> 00:55:56,799
Speaker 2: he was trying to. He was trying to be a

1231
00:55:56,840 --> 00:55:59,520
Speaker 2: bird and like, seeing you the message twee tweet tweet

1232
00:55:59,560 --> 00:56:05,000
Speaker 2: I received that said so I texted him and I

1233
00:56:05,120 --> 00:56:08,040
Speaker 2: was like, so I hear you out here knowing blah

1234
00:56:08,040 --> 00:56:08,760
Speaker 2: blah blah blah.

1235
00:56:08,800 --> 00:56:11,719
Speaker 4: So I think we're done. And it was like, what

1236
00:56:11,760 --> 00:56:14,000
Speaker 4: do you mean where did you see? What did you hear?

1237
00:56:14,120 --> 00:56:16,319
Speaker 4: But I didn't want to tell him a friend because

1238
00:56:16,320 --> 00:56:17,279
Speaker 4: I felt bad.

1239
00:56:17,040 --> 00:56:19,879
Speaker 1: Because Bro was like to tell him where you saw it?

1240
00:56:19,960 --> 00:56:22,840
Speaker 1: Yeah he knows, he said it. Yeah exactly.

1241
00:56:22,960 --> 00:56:26,279
Speaker 4: But then of course, like, so I the where this

1242
00:56:26,400 --> 00:56:28,719
Speaker 4: place is. If I go a certain way from the train,

1243
00:56:28,760 --> 00:56:29,640
Speaker 4: I'm gonna run into it.

1244
00:56:29,760 --> 00:56:32,160
Speaker 1: This is so messy, this is a girl.

1245
00:56:32,719 --> 00:56:36,120
Speaker 4: Yeah, I see him again And the first question is, yo,

1246
00:56:36,200 --> 00:56:37,280
Speaker 4: so what's that about?

1247
00:56:37,400 --> 00:56:40,360
Speaker 1: You really got to move from d D.

1248
00:56:40,760 --> 00:56:42,400
Speaker 4: So I did tell him in the n I rated

1249
00:56:42,400 --> 00:56:44,560
Speaker 4: the front out and then they had it back and forth.

1250
00:56:44,600 --> 00:56:48,040
Speaker 1: But like, that's what you're saying, that's your business. You

1251
00:56:48,120 --> 00:56:50,440
Speaker 1: got to save yourself. Yeah, that's how I look at it.

1252
00:56:51,680 --> 00:56:54,160
Speaker 1: So what you're gonna do? So the moral of the

1253
00:56:54,200 --> 00:56:58,880
Speaker 1: story is don't do it. Don't work. I mean, it works,

1254
00:56:59,000 --> 00:57:02,440
Speaker 1: but not not. I needed to be like really specific.

1255
00:57:02,600 --> 00:57:04,560
Speaker 1: I thought I was, but I was not. So you

1256
00:57:04,680 --> 00:57:08,359
Speaker 1: wanted ambitious, you got ambitious. It was that cafe, dude.

1257
00:57:08,680 --> 00:57:12,200
Speaker 1: You wanted the creative forever.

1258
00:57:13,000 --> 00:57:17,560
Speaker 2: You wanted fit and take care of themselves. If we

1259
00:57:17,600 --> 00:57:21,960
Speaker 2: can mix all of that together. And fourth guy, I

1260
00:57:22,040 --> 00:57:24,240
Speaker 2: think would be the one that he's going to be

1261
00:57:24,320 --> 00:57:27,200
Speaker 2: on your travels. You gotta go to like country, Yeah,

1262
00:57:27,360 --> 00:57:29,120
Speaker 2: you can't. Got to get out of I'm gonna put

1263
00:57:29,880 --> 00:57:30,960
Speaker 2: the neighborhood.

1264
00:57:33,440 --> 00:57:34,040
Speaker 1: Flat bush.

1265
00:57:34,160 --> 00:57:34,560
Speaker 2: I got to.

1266
00:57:36,360 --> 00:57:38,680
Speaker 1: Now I'm outside. Now I'm outside. I was going through

1267
00:57:38,720 --> 00:57:41,360
Speaker 1: I was going through a period of depression. So I

1268
00:57:41,520 --> 00:57:43,680
Speaker 1: was like, I could I could do this here, I could,

1269
00:57:43,720 --> 00:57:46,280
Speaker 1: I could go on a two mile radius. And it

1270
00:57:46,400 --> 00:57:50,160
Speaker 1: was like, no question for you. Do you think dating

1271
00:57:50,400 --> 00:57:53,120
Speaker 1: while depressed is productive?

1272
00:57:54,200 --> 00:57:56,640
Speaker 4: Because I think that's honestly, I think that's the energy

1273
00:57:56,680 --> 00:58:01,120
Speaker 4: I put into the orange, you know orange, Like I

1274
00:58:01,320 --> 00:58:04,680
Speaker 4: wasn't clear and my heart was heavy and I wasn't

1275
00:58:04,960 --> 00:58:06,680
Speaker 4: I think if I had done that spell from a

1276
00:58:06,760 --> 00:58:10,960
Speaker 4: place of like healed, comfortable, cozy, did you use the

1277
00:58:11,000 --> 00:58:11,600
Speaker 4: blood orange?

1278
00:58:11,720 --> 00:58:13,680
Speaker 1: It was giving blood orange, blood orange.

1279
00:58:13,920 --> 00:58:17,040
Speaker 4: He was giving blood perid blood orange. And that's why

1280
00:58:17,080 --> 00:58:18,200
Speaker 4: I got the energy I got.

1281
00:58:18,400 --> 00:58:21,040
Speaker 2: Now I am gonna go get an orange after the

1282
00:58:21,080 --> 00:58:21,440
Speaker 2: pod ma.

1283
00:58:23,120 --> 00:58:25,000
Speaker 1: Make sure you're in a good place. I'm in a

1284
00:58:25,120 --> 00:58:28,120
Speaker 1: great Yeah, okay, where the orange is gonna I gotta

1285
00:58:28,160 --> 00:58:31,280
Speaker 1: get like a whole foods orange. Like people, it wasn't

1286
00:58:31,280 --> 00:58:33,640
Speaker 1: an organic you should have got organic.

1287
00:58:33,440 --> 00:58:36,120
Speaker 2: The sides where you got it from one of those

1288
00:58:36,200 --> 00:58:40,000
Speaker 2: like corner corner places you know you ready got to do.

1289
00:58:40,160 --> 00:58:42,280
Speaker 2: You can't get the oranges in a bag. You gotta

1290
00:58:42,320 --> 00:58:44,120
Speaker 2: get an individual orange.

1291
00:58:45,640 --> 00:58:48,880
Speaker 1: Single. You gotta go to the food, the market, the

1292
00:58:48,960 --> 00:58:52,600
Speaker 1: farmer's market, armers market. I feel like I'm gonna get

1293
00:58:52,600 --> 00:58:57,240
Speaker 1: a white dude. Yeah, you're black on ones. Maybe I

1294
00:58:57,320 --> 00:58:57,840
Speaker 1: feel like if.

1295
00:58:57,760 --> 00:58:59,800
Speaker 2: I got a Farmer's market orange, it will be a

1296
00:59:00,360 --> 00:59:03,240
Speaker 2: white man that went birken stop yes and says things

1297
00:59:03,320 --> 00:59:04,520
Speaker 2: like I feel.

1298
00:59:06,520 --> 00:59:10,120
Speaker 1: And I don't want that. Yeah, I did not. I

1299
00:59:10,160 --> 00:59:11,000
Speaker 1: threw that ship away off.

1300
00:59:11,120 --> 00:59:13,360
Speaker 2: So now you're in a good place. How are you

1301
00:59:13,520 --> 00:59:16,000
Speaker 2: gonna unmass this dating situation?

1302
00:59:16,120 --> 00:59:19,600
Speaker 1: What are what are your plans? Yeah? What are you

1303
00:59:20,240 --> 00:59:22,640
Speaker 1: going out? Where are you going so that you can meet?

1304
00:59:23,440 --> 00:59:25,280
Speaker 1: So I've learned one, don't ship where you eat.

1305
00:59:26,040 --> 00:59:29,200
Speaker 4: When I'm at the gym, now, head down down, head

1306
00:59:29,280 --> 00:59:32,720
Speaker 4: down low like fabulous in two thousand and two.

1307
00:59:35,640 --> 00:59:41,680
Speaker 1: Yes, literally that's me. You can't see, no eyelash, nothing. Okay,

1308
00:59:42,520 --> 00:59:44,080
Speaker 1: I go in. I'll be bumping into things. But I

1309
00:59:44,120 --> 00:59:48,200
Speaker 1: was because because I'm bumping into trouble. Okay, bumping into trouble. Yes,

1310
00:59:48,400 --> 00:59:50,680
Speaker 1: at the cafe, I don't go to that cafe. No more,

1311
00:59:51,040 --> 00:59:54,800
Speaker 1: you don't go there. I get and then I for the.

1312
00:59:54,800 --> 00:59:56,800
Speaker 4: Prematchra It's cool, but I asked, so I work out

1313
00:59:57,040 --> 01:00:00,360
Speaker 4: I write at the library now quiet. I heard that

1314
01:00:00,560 --> 01:00:03,440
Speaker 4: when I find attractive. I've never seen nobody attractive in

1315
01:00:03,480 --> 01:00:06,240
Speaker 4: the library, but maybe there is. But it's harder because

1316
01:00:06,240 --> 01:00:08,520
Speaker 4: there's more people are like, people are not interested. It's

1317
01:00:08,520 --> 01:00:10,560
Speaker 4: not the people at this cafe are trying to be hot,

1318
01:00:10,680 --> 01:00:11,640
Speaker 4: but they just know they are.

1319
01:00:11,840 --> 01:00:14,320
Speaker 1: Definitely they're looking good.

1320
01:00:14,200 --> 01:00:18,040
Speaker 4: For this fantastic. But at the library it's graduate students.

1321
01:00:18,080 --> 01:00:19,840
Speaker 4: It's people who are just people trying to get their

1322
01:00:19,880 --> 01:00:23,400
Speaker 4: thesis to exactly. So you're not finding nobody at.

1323
01:00:23,440 --> 01:00:26,320
Speaker 1: A young doctor. They might be ugly.

1324
01:00:27,480 --> 01:00:29,640
Speaker 4: That's the thing I'm trying to unshallow, trying to get

1325
01:00:29,640 --> 01:00:31,240
Speaker 4: people to know people. I'm trying to be people in

1326
01:00:31,520 --> 01:00:32,680
Speaker 4: real life settings.

1327
01:00:32,800 --> 01:00:36,600
Speaker 1: Maybe you met somebody at the park that's real life

1328
01:00:37,200 --> 01:00:37,840
Speaker 1: and I've asked.

1329
01:00:37,920 --> 01:00:41,200
Speaker 2: I've asked you this off air, but I was like,

1330
01:00:41,480 --> 01:00:44,040
Speaker 2: what about women, And you're like, I'm sorry.

1331
01:00:44,520 --> 01:00:47,280
Speaker 4: The thing is I would be So I went to

1332
01:00:47,400 --> 01:00:51,560
Speaker 4: Magic City once, all right, and girl, you have to go,

1333
01:00:51,920 --> 01:00:54,480
Speaker 4: you said, so I went to the strip club, and

1334
01:00:54,840 --> 01:00:56,160
Speaker 4: that you went to you went.

1335
01:00:56,080 --> 01:00:57,640
Speaker 2: To the top strip club. So you went to medic

1336
01:00:57,680 --> 01:00:58,640
Speaker 2: City and what did you see?

1337
01:00:58,680 --> 01:00:59,080
Speaker 1: But we went.

1338
01:00:59,160 --> 01:01:01,200
Speaker 4: We went when it was a PM, so nobody because

1339
01:01:01,200 --> 01:01:02,880
Speaker 4: one of my friends that came with us, she used

1340
01:01:02,880 --> 01:01:04,360
Speaker 4: to dance, and she was like, you gotta go early

1341
01:01:04,400 --> 01:01:06,400
Speaker 4: when it's just like it's a couple, couple couples.

1342
01:01:06,800 --> 01:01:07,600
Speaker 1: The men are not there.

1343
01:01:07,840 --> 01:01:10,680
Speaker 4: It's just us four girls and we were throwing it

1344
01:01:11,000 --> 01:01:13,280
Speaker 4: and so like that was fun. But there was one.

1345
01:01:13,200 --> 01:01:16,760
Speaker 1: Girl was really hot. Okay, what she looked like.

1346
01:01:17,000 --> 01:01:20,600
Speaker 4: She looked like if I was in Atlanta. She had

1347
01:01:20,600 --> 01:01:23,800
Speaker 4: a little bikini. She was like a more demure demure.

1348
01:01:24,480 --> 01:01:26,920
Speaker 4: They had the top topless but kept the bottoms on,

1349
01:01:27,400 --> 01:01:29,640
Speaker 4: dropping the carrot. I was like showing everything.

1350
01:01:30,320 --> 01:01:32,600
Speaker 1: Yes, but it was like and that's what I'm saying.

1351
01:01:32,640 --> 01:01:34,680
Speaker 1: It's just this the last time I felt that way.

1352
01:01:34,720 --> 01:01:36,720
Speaker 4: But there are moments where I'm like, you know what

1353
01:01:37,560 --> 01:01:40,080
Speaker 4: I could pull up on you or or the opposite

1354
01:01:40,200 --> 01:01:42,000
Speaker 4: that was high fam I could do like maybe like

1355
01:01:42,080 --> 01:01:46,760
Speaker 4: a masculine like you know so but it's just like

1356
01:01:46,880 --> 01:01:53,680
Speaker 4: y'all know Natasha Cloud from The Liberty, she did go

1357
01:01:53,760 --> 01:01:54,200
Speaker 4: to a game.

1358
01:01:56,960 --> 01:02:05,000
Speaker 1: I was too busy, like taking videos the elephant dancing.

1359
01:02:05,640 --> 01:02:09,120
Speaker 1: I know who Natasha Cloud is. Yeah, I'm like, they're

1360
01:02:09,400 --> 01:02:11,240
Speaker 1: like cute, but I don't know.

1361
01:02:11,400 --> 01:02:14,240
Speaker 4: There's like I think, like, you know, I haven't been

1362
01:02:14,280 --> 01:02:16,880
Speaker 4: in a position or I have been in positions where

1363
01:02:16,880 --> 01:02:19,240
Speaker 4: I could and I never Yeah, she.

1364
01:02:19,360 --> 01:02:22,520
Speaker 1: Kind of looks like Coy Lauray if.

1365
01:02:22,400 --> 01:02:23,000
Speaker 2: She was brother.

1366
01:02:23,360 --> 01:02:27,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, brother. She is problematic.

1367
01:02:29,240 --> 01:02:32,440
Speaker 2: She's like, I think it was either her or she's like,

1368
01:02:32,560 --> 01:02:36,880
Speaker 2: oh the person she's dating who's isn't isn't another basketball player.

1369
01:02:36,920 --> 01:02:40,200
Speaker 1: Or she's like she's not really gay, she's just into me.

1370
01:02:40,560 --> 01:02:41,000
Speaker 1: Oh my god.

1371
01:02:41,040 --> 01:02:43,720
Speaker 4: I just had this conversation with my best friends. She's

1372
01:02:43,840 --> 01:02:46,720
Speaker 4: dating a woman and she self identifies as a straight woman,

1373
01:02:46,800 --> 01:02:47,360
Speaker 4: and she said that.

1374
01:02:47,400 --> 01:02:50,640
Speaker 2: People are mad. People are mad, that people are mad

1375
01:02:50,680 --> 01:02:54,360
Speaker 2: that that that like the people don't like get like,

1376
01:02:54,600 --> 01:02:55,640
Speaker 2: the community is not like that.

1377
01:02:56,640 --> 01:03:03,800
Speaker 1: And yet gay's love us straight person Yeah, a specific gay.

1378
01:03:04,080 --> 01:03:06,000
Speaker 1: Yeah that does that. You think it's toxic?

1379
01:03:06,360 --> 01:03:08,680
Speaker 2: I don't want it, Yeah, because what I don't like

1380
01:03:08,760 --> 01:03:12,080
Speaker 2: a chase. I actually don't want to work at all.

1381
01:03:13,240 --> 01:03:15,480
Speaker 2: Why would I be with somebody who's like you. It's

1382
01:03:15,560 --> 01:03:18,880
Speaker 2: clear that you're not really about this. And then those

1383
01:03:19,000 --> 01:03:23,560
Speaker 2: girls who are with somebody but they're like straight, they're

1384
01:03:23,600 --> 01:03:30,000
Speaker 2: not giving ahead. You gotta you gotta, you gotta get

1385
01:03:30,080 --> 01:03:35,480
Speaker 2: it heads.

1386
01:03:33,520 --> 01:03:38,640
Speaker 1: You gotta give. Some girls don't want it, though I

1387
01:03:38,920 --> 01:03:41,480
Speaker 1: want it? Why would I? Why would I be with

1388
01:03:41,560 --> 01:03:43,000
Speaker 1: somebody who don't want to do it? Right?

1389
01:03:43,160 --> 01:03:45,760
Speaker 2: But I feel like, haven't you dated people who didn't

1390
01:03:45,760 --> 01:03:47,880
Speaker 2: want you to do it to them? That's not That's

1391
01:03:47,920 --> 01:03:50,960
Speaker 2: what I'm saying some girls. No, no, no, wait, wait

1392
01:03:50,960 --> 01:03:53,360
Speaker 2: waitit no, no no, I've never been with somebody who

1393
01:03:53,360 --> 01:03:55,440
Speaker 2: didn't want to head. They definitely want to every it

1394
01:03:55,480 --> 01:03:57,600
Speaker 2: do't matter what gender you are. Everybody I've been with

1395
01:03:57,800 --> 01:03:58,240
Speaker 2: they wanted.

1396
01:03:58,480 --> 01:04:00,520
Speaker 4: I feel like there are people updated words, they like

1397
01:04:00,640 --> 01:04:02,840
Speaker 4: to give more than they like to receive. So maybe

1398
01:04:02,920 --> 01:04:04,920
Speaker 4: I did it a few times, but that's not our

1399
01:04:05,000 --> 01:04:05,720
Speaker 4: regular routine.

1400
01:04:05,800 --> 01:04:08,040
Speaker 1: Could you do that? If she like dipped down there

1401
01:04:08,040 --> 01:04:12,720
Speaker 1: and was like all right, that don't make me feel

1402
01:04:12,760 --> 01:04:14,560
Speaker 1: like so is it bad?

1403
01:04:14,760 --> 01:04:14,800
Speaker 4: Like?

1404
01:04:15,080 --> 01:04:20,280
Speaker 1: What does it taste like pennies? What's going on? Does it?

1405
01:04:20,640 --> 01:04:22,760
Speaker 1: Does it taste like a Susan b Anthony down there?

1406
01:04:25,600 --> 01:04:25,840
Speaker 4: Yeah?

1407
01:04:26,200 --> 01:04:32,440
Speaker 1: But like so so you're saying, Okay, you're saying you

1408
01:04:32,480 --> 01:04:34,440
Speaker 1: could do it or you couldn't do it? Could I

1409
01:04:34,520 --> 01:04:34,720
Speaker 1: do it?

1410
01:04:36,880 --> 01:04:39,800
Speaker 4: I feel like, I'm I want your study.

1411
01:04:42,080 --> 01:04:46,480
Speaker 2: You're studying one mass homophobic, homophobic study.

1412
01:04:47,440 --> 01:04:49,400
Speaker 1: I feel like I want, I want. I want to

1413
01:04:49,600 --> 01:04:51,760
Speaker 1: have a relationship where you don't want to do it,

1414
01:04:51,960 --> 01:04:52,640
Speaker 1: you don't want to do it.

1415
01:04:53,080 --> 01:04:54,840
Speaker 2: If I'm doing a relationship, I would want it to

1416
01:04:55,280 --> 01:04:57,720
Speaker 2: be like I would want it to be some equity

1417
01:04:57,760 --> 01:04:59,200
Speaker 2: and I wouldn't want the person to feel like you

1418
01:04:59,240 --> 01:05:00,680
Speaker 2: where they're like there, So you just.

1419
01:05:01,000 --> 01:05:03,000
Speaker 1: You're just never gonna do it. So you're saying you

1420
01:05:03,000 --> 01:05:04,800
Speaker 1: wouldn't do it, but you would get it. If I

1421
01:05:04,920 --> 01:05:07,680
Speaker 1: if I was to go into that you dry, you're l.

1422
01:05:11,800 --> 01:05:14,000
Speaker 2: No, I did, I would, I would try if I

1423
01:05:14,120 --> 01:05:15,240
Speaker 2: if I found a girl.

1424
01:05:15,160 --> 01:05:17,280
Speaker 1: Who was like, you know, we here, nobody wants you

1425
01:05:17,400 --> 01:05:20,600
Speaker 1: try in there if you want to be with a girl.

1426
01:05:20,840 --> 01:05:26,040
Speaker 1: The spell is instead of hair from your No, no,

1427
01:05:26,240 --> 01:05:27,880
Speaker 1: that's a different kind of spell. I heard.

1428
01:05:27,920 --> 01:05:30,760
Speaker 2: That's the spell that like get your get your man

1429
01:05:30,880 --> 01:05:33,520
Speaker 2: to be like obsessed or like that's that's a different

1430
01:05:33,560 --> 01:05:34,760
Speaker 2: type of so that's like a witchery.

1431
01:05:35,560 --> 01:05:38,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yep, they put I think I think that

1432
01:05:38,960 --> 01:05:43,400
Speaker 1: was in mids some more. I didn't see that it

1433
01:05:43,600 --> 01:05:44,040
Speaker 1: was there.

1434
01:05:44,240 --> 01:05:48,760
Speaker 3: Yeah, yes, she put herubes in the pie yeah, nasty

1435
01:05:49,240 --> 01:05:50,160
Speaker 3: in the pie?

1436
01:05:50,440 --> 01:05:53,840
Speaker 1: What kind of pie? Some I think it's like a

1437
01:05:53,880 --> 01:05:57,480
Speaker 1: Swedish apple some something. You would do it apple like that,

1438
01:05:57,880 --> 01:06:03,800
Speaker 1: like strude so in the toaster.

1439
01:06:07,080 --> 01:06:07,640
Speaker 2: Not that.

1440
01:06:08,000 --> 01:06:10,600
Speaker 1: But then you're like, my god, let me take them

1441
01:06:10,600 --> 01:06:20,400
Speaker 1: clothes off, diving in you doing that? No, be my baby,

1442
01:06:20,520 --> 01:06:20,919
Speaker 1: all right.

1443
01:06:20,960 --> 01:06:30,280
Speaker 2: To nice to night, a little honey on and by

1444
01:06:30,320 --> 01:06:32,680
Speaker 2: the act as you could tell, these women are straight.

1445
01:06:33,080 --> 01:06:38,400
Speaker 2: Absolutely get my fingers, baby and I and the straight

1446
01:06:38,520 --> 01:06:39,080
Speaker 2: the whole time.

1447
01:06:39,160 --> 01:06:41,040
Speaker 1: This is improv they're they're just.

1448
01:06:43,800 --> 01:06:46,680
Speaker 2: When the lady comes up to me, I'm like, no, thanks, yes,

1449
01:06:46,800 --> 01:06:48,240
Speaker 2: and but no.

1450
01:06:48,480 --> 01:06:50,280
Speaker 1: Think I love your shoes.

1451
01:06:50,480 --> 01:06:55,560
Speaker 4: There's no version of a woman where you be like me, yeah,

1452
01:06:56,040 --> 01:06:58,080
Speaker 4: I feel like just a curiosity.

1453
01:06:58,600 --> 01:07:02,240
Speaker 1: Yeah maybe, but I don't know. I just I don't

1454
01:07:02,280 --> 01:07:06,160
Speaker 1: know what she would have to look. Excuse me, you

1455
01:07:06,240 --> 01:07:09,000
Speaker 1: ain't never said that. See yeah, because you could you

1456
01:07:09,120 --> 01:07:12,120
Speaker 1: popped into the dicks. Maybe she could pop into No

1457
01:07:12,200 --> 01:07:13,160
Speaker 1: no no no no no no no no no no

1458
01:07:13,240 --> 01:07:14,840
Speaker 1: no no no no no no no no no no

1459
01:07:14,920 --> 01:07:15,360
Speaker 1: no no no no.

1460
01:07:15,800 --> 01:07:18,640
Speaker 2: I don't I need to change the narrative. Don't change

1461
01:07:18,680 --> 01:07:20,920
Speaker 2: that narrative. You saw the man I was in the

1462
01:07:21,040 --> 01:07:23,720
Speaker 2: sunken place Okay, I didn't. I didn't pop in it.

1463
01:07:24,280 --> 01:07:27,000
Speaker 1: You pop in you sunk in, fell off the chair.

1464
01:07:27,080 --> 01:07:29,000
Speaker 1: Where'd you meet this man? I'm so curious.

1465
01:07:29,480 --> 01:07:32,240
Speaker 2: Oh god, there's so many I was on not so many,

1466
01:07:32,320 --> 01:07:35,160
Speaker 2: and it was I was on hinge, so you can

1467
01:07:35,240 --> 01:07:36,240
Speaker 2: put effort into me.

1468
01:07:36,800 --> 01:07:39,360
Speaker 1: I was like, it wasn't brought to you. It was

1469
01:07:39,360 --> 01:07:41,240
Speaker 1: a dark time. It was a dark time. I met

1470
01:07:41,280 --> 01:07:44,200
Speaker 1: the one with Marie. Yeah, yeah, we were out.

1471
01:07:45,400 --> 01:07:46,560
Speaker 2: I went to the bathroom. When I came back and

1472
01:07:46,600 --> 01:07:47,320
Speaker 2: Sydney was talking.

1473
01:07:47,200 --> 01:07:49,240
Speaker 1: To a home man. What but but I wasn't talking

1474
01:07:49,280 --> 01:07:51,919
Speaker 1: to him like talking. I was just like, he's still

1475
01:07:51,960 --> 01:07:55,400
Speaker 1: here shouting no, no, no, Sidney, don't do that, don't

1476
01:07:55,480 --> 01:07:58,840
Speaker 1: do that. Sidney is like Sidney is a flirt. Okay.

1477
01:07:59,280 --> 01:08:01,360
Speaker 1: She's like I was just to him. No, he was

1478
01:08:01,440 --> 01:08:04,320
Speaker 1: saying things and she was like, yeah, like they're going

1479
01:08:04,400 --> 01:08:08,680
Speaker 1: back and forth. It was going back, not putting this on.

1480
01:08:08,840 --> 01:08:11,760
Speaker 1: Tyler was on stage and was like, mages, So this

1481
01:08:11,920 --> 01:08:14,240
Speaker 1: was really No, it's like two years ago.

1482
01:08:14,320 --> 01:08:16,920
Speaker 2: Okay, I forget how long tylerman, but yeah, can't believe

1483
01:08:16,920 --> 01:08:18,640
Speaker 2: I'm putting my glasses because I didn't even believe MA

1484
01:08:18,960 --> 01:08:22,280
Speaker 2: say something like that. You love throwing me underneath the bus?

1485
01:08:22,560 --> 01:08:24,519
Speaker 2: Grol What how did I throw you under the bus?

1486
01:08:24,720 --> 01:08:26,439
Speaker 2: You were flirting with this dude.

1487
01:08:26,520 --> 01:08:28,160
Speaker 1: I didn't think I was flirting with him. I thought

1488
01:08:28,160 --> 01:08:30,240
Speaker 1: I was being totally chick, because are you doing this?

1489
01:08:30,960 --> 01:08:31,000
Speaker 2: No?

1490
01:08:31,160 --> 01:08:33,320
Speaker 1: She was standing and she wasn't leaning on anything.

1491
01:08:33,439 --> 01:08:36,680
Speaker 2: Okay, Sydney, you were absolutely y'all were flirting so much

1492
01:08:36,720 --> 01:08:38,680
Speaker 2: so and this is not me throw you under the bus.

1493
01:08:38,800 --> 01:08:45,320
Speaker 1: Y'all exchanged information in minigrams that counts now, instagrams that counts. No,

1494
01:08:45,560 --> 01:08:52,439
Speaker 1: that's information. I'm an influencer, that's he said. My numbers up? Yeah,

1495
01:08:52,640 --> 01:08:59,439
Speaker 1: out of a follow No, no, no, you gotta follow you. No,

1496
01:08:59,640 --> 01:09:01,599
Speaker 1: he was, he was cute. He was He's a very

1497
01:09:01,640 --> 01:09:03,840
Speaker 1: attractive guy. I didn't. I didn't.

1498
01:09:04,040 --> 01:09:08,720
Speaker 4: Nothing happened, Oh something happened. Oh wait, you offendshed. She

1499
01:09:08,720 --> 01:09:10,200
Speaker 4: says you were flirting, but something happened.

1500
01:09:10,240 --> 01:09:13,120
Speaker 1: But I wasn't flirting at t Do you understand. Yeah?

1501
01:09:13,280 --> 01:09:14,720
Speaker 1: I thought she was gonna be like, I didn't even

1502
01:09:15,000 --> 01:09:17,960
Speaker 1: but something happened. At first, I was like, Marie, look

1503
01:09:18,000 --> 01:09:20,840
Speaker 1: at this tall man for you. He wasn't looking at me.

1504
01:09:20,920 --> 01:09:24,439
Speaker 1: He was looking at c h. Yes, and then you y'all.

1505
01:09:25,880 --> 01:09:28,360
Speaker 1: M yeah, And then you met and we were we were,

1506
01:09:28,439 --> 01:09:31,679
Speaker 1: you know, just dming and then I'll show you. I'll

1507
01:09:31,680 --> 01:09:33,560
Speaker 1: show you to d M that. But it was it

1508
01:09:33,680 --> 01:09:36,640
Speaker 1: was very forward and I was like, oh oh he

1509
01:09:36,800 --> 01:09:43,040
Speaker 1: was like sexual. Yes, oh, and you said makes me sweat.

1510
01:09:43,400 --> 01:09:46,160
Speaker 1: But I threw her under the bus. Girl, you jumped

1511
01:09:46,160 --> 01:09:48,760
Speaker 1: on the Yeah, wait a minute, I thought it was

1512
01:09:48,840 --> 01:09:51,920
Speaker 1: a sea or talking to you in front of the bus.

1513
01:09:52,000 --> 01:09:54,639
Speaker 1: She put her hand out like I wouldn't. I wouldn't.

1514
01:09:55,360 --> 01:09:57,760
Speaker 2: It was does that do the tour around New York City?

1515
01:09:57,840 --> 01:09:59,600
Speaker 2: She was doing the tour of the bus. Let me

1516
01:09:59,680 --> 01:10:01,760
Speaker 2: tell you if I had, if I since I was

1517
01:10:01,840 --> 01:10:03,559
Speaker 2: going back around this time around, I.

1518
01:10:03,640 --> 01:10:05,400
Speaker 1: Was like, I would not be with no ugly dude

1519
01:10:05,400 --> 01:10:07,240
Speaker 1: if I was. I said, if I'm going to do this,

1520
01:10:07,360 --> 01:10:09,719
Speaker 1: they can't be ugly. I already did that. I already

1521
01:10:09,760 --> 01:10:12,280
Speaker 1: did that when I really like them through that, No

1522
01:10:13,200 --> 01:10:16,559
Speaker 1: way they have to. They at least look nice. Now

1523
01:10:16,680 --> 01:10:20,479
Speaker 1: is their bedding together? The betting it's gonna be dark

1524
01:10:20,600 --> 01:10:26,120
Speaker 1: navy sheets? You know it's green black? What's this frontal?

1525
01:10:26,280 --> 01:10:30,519
Speaker 1: And the straight man? Anti light sheets? It's because you

1526
01:10:30,880 --> 01:10:33,639
Speaker 1: are changing them. You gotta wash them. Oh, you dirty

1527
01:10:38,840 --> 01:10:40,760
Speaker 1: color the sheets on your bed right now?

1528
01:10:42,080 --> 01:10:42,280
Speaker 4: Oh?

1529
01:10:43,400 --> 01:10:51,679
Speaker 1: Do you change your sheets? He's well her white? Yeah,

1530
01:10:55,439 --> 01:10:58,720
Speaker 1: you got them for you? Exactly did you have them

1531
01:10:58,720 --> 01:11:02,240
Speaker 1: before you met her weight?

1532
01:11:04,240 --> 01:11:04,679
Speaker 2: She said?

1533
01:11:04,760 --> 01:11:10,240
Speaker 1: Let me let me upgrade. Let me let me upra

1534
01:11:11,439 --> 01:11:35,800
Speaker 1: upgrade Egyptian count. Wow? Should we should we do some mess?

1535
01:11:35,880 --> 01:11:36,040
Speaker 2: Yes?

1536
01:11:36,520 --> 01:11:36,800
Speaker 1: A mess.

1537
01:11:36,840 --> 01:11:39,720
Speaker 2: I'm gonna read a message. Okay, I am jealous of

1538
01:11:39,800 --> 01:11:42,400
Speaker 2: my husband's barber. Never thought I would see a title

1539
01:11:42,479 --> 01:11:45,599
Speaker 2: like this. This is crazy. Okay, such a huge fan

1540
01:11:45,720 --> 01:11:50,280
Speaker 2: of you guys. This is not a serious problem, but

1541
01:11:50,400 --> 01:11:53,120
Speaker 2: I'm curious what you two think. And thank you so

1542
01:11:53,240 --> 01:11:55,640
Speaker 2: much for writing this. My husband has been going to

1543
01:11:55,720 --> 01:11:58,439
Speaker 2: the same barber for years. He loves the way he

1544
01:11:58,760 --> 01:12:01,880
Speaker 2: hate Oh it's a one. He loves the way she

1545
01:12:02,160 --> 01:12:06,439
Speaker 2: does his curly hair. She's close to his job, she

1546
01:12:06,640 --> 01:12:11,640
Speaker 2: uses quality products, and apparently they have great conversation.

1547
01:12:11,920 --> 01:12:13,200
Speaker 1: And that's in quotation marks.

1548
01:12:13,760 --> 01:12:16,800
Speaker 2: He should be sat there silent, in my opinion, but

1549
01:12:18,160 --> 01:12:21,360
Speaker 2: I hear no, no, no, I can't stand the fact

1550
01:12:21,400 --> 01:12:23,360
Speaker 2: that he goes to a female barber.

1551
01:12:23,640 --> 01:12:26,240
Speaker 1: Now as a woman, you saying female barber, I don't

1552
01:12:26,320 --> 01:12:28,720
Speaker 1: like that either. That's very toxic of you. Yeah, well,

1553
01:12:28,800 --> 01:12:30,280
Speaker 1: how else is she supposed to describe her? It's a

1554
01:12:30,360 --> 01:12:35,439
Speaker 1: female barber, a lady barber, female, female barber. You don't

1555
01:12:35,479 --> 01:12:39,160
Speaker 1: call her a female. Yes, it's a female, a male

1556
01:12:39,320 --> 01:12:42,880
Speaker 1: bone when people say female male, But she's no, y'all

1557
01:12:42,920 --> 01:12:46,439
Speaker 1: read it into that. I don't agree. The female barber

1558
01:12:46,600 --> 01:12:49,040
Speaker 1: is just living, living, Okay.

1559
01:12:50,479 --> 01:12:52,920
Speaker 2: Every time he comes back from getting his haircut, I

1560
01:12:53,000 --> 01:12:56,519
Speaker 2: see a montage in my head of this woman running

1561
01:12:56,560 --> 01:13:00,320
Speaker 2: her fingers through his hair, massaging his head, touching his neck,

1562
01:13:00,439 --> 01:13:04,040
Speaker 2: et cetera. Well, I mean she's she's Is she a

1563
01:13:04,160 --> 01:13:07,200
Speaker 2: barber or is she like a hairstylist. She got a

1564
01:13:07,280 --> 01:13:09,040
Speaker 2: machere of the line a stray, you gotta know, But

1565
01:13:09,200 --> 01:13:09,800
Speaker 2: barber's you.

1566
01:13:09,960 --> 01:13:12,000
Speaker 1: They're not washing. People are coming in and they're just

1567
01:13:12,120 --> 01:13:15,560
Speaker 1: so they know they do facial stuff. Now they're upscale.

1568
01:13:15,680 --> 01:13:17,719
Speaker 2: So he's not going to like the bum ass barber

1569
01:13:17,840 --> 01:13:20,280
Speaker 2: in the neighborhoods. He's really he's really doing it.

1570
01:13:20,439 --> 01:13:25,280
Speaker 1: Okay. It doesn't help that she is very pretty straight

1571
01:13:25,439 --> 01:13:25,960
Speaker 1: and single.

1572
01:13:27,000 --> 01:13:30,960
Speaker 2: You've done research, and she followed him on Instagram to

1573
01:13:31,120 --> 01:13:32,480
Speaker 2: confirm their appointments.

1574
01:13:35,400 --> 01:13:39,519
Speaker 1: Even worse, he followed her back. Baby.

1575
01:13:40,439 --> 01:13:44,320
Speaker 2: Now, I really now, I don't really believe she's trying

1576
01:13:44,360 --> 01:13:48,240
Speaker 2: to seduce my husband. But he looks like if Joe

1577
01:13:48,360 --> 01:13:51,760
Speaker 2: Jonas was South Asian and tall enough to ride the

1578
01:13:51,880 --> 01:13:53,400
Speaker 2: roller coasters at six Flags.

1579
01:13:53,680 --> 01:14:03,599
Speaker 1: Well, that's not that tall, friend, don't you know that tall?

1580
01:14:03,960 --> 01:14:05,680
Speaker 1: So that's what I think she's trying to say. Joe

1581
01:14:05,760 --> 01:14:06,479
Speaker 1: Jonas is sure.

1582
01:14:08,800 --> 01:14:13,439
Speaker 2: Okay, so he okay, Oh he's tall enough to ride

1583
01:14:13,479 --> 01:14:15,560
Speaker 2: the roller CRD. Okay, so he's he's short. He's a

1584
01:14:15,600 --> 01:14:17,960
Speaker 2: short king here king. He also has a great job

1585
01:14:18,120 --> 01:14:19,400
Speaker 2: and a charming personality.

1586
01:14:19,960 --> 01:14:25,559
Speaker 1: I have to be vigilant. I have to be vigilant, girl,

1587
01:14:26,000 --> 01:14:28,360
Speaker 1: you're doing the work. Okay. My husband works in n

1588
01:14:28,439 --> 01:14:28,640
Speaker 1: y C.

1589
01:14:28,840 --> 01:14:32,760
Speaker 2: And I'm one hundred percent sure he can find a

1590
01:14:32,920 --> 01:14:36,320
Speaker 2: straight male barber who is near his job and a

1591
01:14:36,439 --> 01:14:39,680
Speaker 2: curly hair expert. I brought this up to him, and

1592
01:14:39,800 --> 01:14:42,160
Speaker 2: he says, I'm being ridiculous.

1593
01:14:42,520 --> 01:14:42,680
Speaker 1: Now.

1594
01:14:42,880 --> 01:14:47,720
Speaker 2: That is toxic saying ridiculous because you are now discrediting

1595
01:14:47,840 --> 01:14:51,400
Speaker 2: my my, my feelings. Okay, it is her job to

1596
01:14:51,560 --> 01:14:53,400
Speaker 2: touch him, so I shouldn't be jealous.

1597
01:14:53,800 --> 01:14:56,080
Speaker 1: Oh he really about her. Oh he will go to

1598
01:14:56,160 --> 01:14:58,000
Speaker 1: war for her. Well, I know what he said. He

1599
01:14:58,080 --> 01:14:58,360
Speaker 1: said that.

1600
01:14:58,800 --> 01:15:00,639
Speaker 2: I think a lot of people was they find somebody

1601
01:15:00,680 --> 01:15:02,679
Speaker 2: that does their hair how they like, they don't want

1602
01:15:02,720 --> 01:15:06,519
Speaker 2: to leave, and if he's not doing anything wrong. He's like, Babe,

1603
01:15:06,560 --> 01:15:07,559
Speaker 2: you are being ridiculous.

1604
01:15:07,600 --> 01:15:09,479
Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying. That's her job to me because

1605
01:15:09,479 --> 01:15:10,120
Speaker 1: she custs my hair.

1606
01:15:10,280 --> 01:15:10,400
Speaker 4: Ye.

1607
01:15:11,240 --> 01:15:13,559
Speaker 1: We talk to our friends about it, and they were split.

1608
01:15:14,000 --> 01:15:16,280
Speaker 1: M all the girls.

1609
01:15:16,479 --> 01:15:18,760
Speaker 2: On one hand, they made the point that it's less

1610
01:15:18,880 --> 01:15:21,560
Speaker 2: about whether it's possible to find another good stylist, but

1611
01:15:21,760 --> 01:15:24,200
Speaker 2: more about all the bad haircuts he might have to

1612
01:15:24,280 --> 01:15:25,240
Speaker 2: suffer through to.

1613
01:15:25,280 --> 01:15:27,760
Speaker 1: Find this new person to do his hair.

1614
01:15:27,880 --> 01:15:31,479
Speaker 2: So well, Internally, I was like, even better, who is

1615
01:15:31,560 --> 01:15:34,880
Speaker 2: trying to impress with his hair? Oh?

1616
01:15:35,160 --> 01:15:37,920
Speaker 1: Damn, she just got you. Girl. Isn't he trying to

1617
01:15:37,920 --> 01:15:38,320
Speaker 1: impress you?

1618
01:15:38,439 --> 01:15:41,240
Speaker 2: If he really loves me, he'd bust it off when

1619
01:15:41,280 --> 01:15:43,640
Speaker 2: he leaves for work and girl way back when he

1620
01:15:43,760 --> 01:15:44,360
Speaker 2: comes home.

1621
01:15:45,080 --> 01:15:49,240
Speaker 1: Okay, Like, you are being ridiculous. You're men, not me

1622
01:15:49,360 --> 01:15:50,120
Speaker 1: siding with a man.

1623
01:15:50,280 --> 01:15:50,479
Speaker 4: Yeah.

1624
01:15:50,560 --> 01:15:52,000
Speaker 1: I know we don't do that here.

1625
01:15:52,560 --> 01:15:54,640
Speaker 2: But one of my friends made the point that just

1626
01:15:54,760 --> 01:15:57,439
Speaker 2: because it's someone's job doesn't mean it's not crossing a

1627
01:15:57,479 --> 01:16:00,920
Speaker 2: boundary in a relationship. She brought up massage and bikini

1628
01:16:01,000 --> 01:16:04,519
Speaker 2: waxes et cetera as examples. I thought this was very

1629
01:16:04,640 --> 01:16:07,960
Speaker 2: interesting because I've gotten massages before and my husband always

1630
01:16:08,000 --> 01:16:09,839
Speaker 2: asked me to request a female messuse.

1631
01:16:10,400 --> 01:16:12,320
Speaker 1: Not only that, my husband.

1632
01:16:12,080 --> 01:16:15,840
Speaker 2: Asked me to switch yoga studios because I mentioned offhand

1633
01:16:16,200 --> 01:16:18,920
Speaker 2: that the male instructor adjusted my form during the class.

1634
01:16:19,280 --> 01:16:23,880
Speaker 1: I'm sorry? Is that okay? I'm sorry you knocked the job.

1635
01:16:24,200 --> 01:16:27,479
Speaker 2: So I'm writing the mess experts for an objective opinion?

1636
01:16:27,680 --> 01:16:30,719
Speaker 2: Am I messive for being jealous of my husband?

1637
01:16:30,840 --> 01:16:31,160
Speaker 1: Barber?

1638
01:16:31,520 --> 01:16:36,000
Speaker 2: You answered your question friend, you are jealous. You're being

1639
01:16:36,080 --> 01:16:37,680
Speaker 2: jealousy but Sonia, But.

1640
01:16:38,000 --> 01:16:41,280
Speaker 4: I would say I was with him until he told

1641
01:16:41,360 --> 01:16:44,200
Speaker 4: you a yoga instructor adjusting you was too much. I

1642
01:16:44,240 --> 01:16:47,439
Speaker 4: feel like he's already said the precedent. Then we can't

1643
01:16:47,479 --> 01:16:49,679
Speaker 4: even be like y'all on the train.

1644
01:16:49,640 --> 01:16:52,000
Speaker 1: Not even make an eye contact with the other. Estopicis sex?

1645
01:16:52,040 --> 01:16:55,200
Speaker 4: It sounds like so like Before that though, I was like, girl,

1646
01:16:55,320 --> 01:16:58,479
Speaker 4: it's hair like he touches you if you can't I

1647
01:16:58,800 --> 01:16:59,960
Speaker 4: if somebody wants this cheat on you.

1648
01:17:00,040 --> 01:17:01,720
Speaker 1: If a man wants to cheat on you, there it is.

1649
01:17:01,840 --> 01:17:04,240
Speaker 1: They'll tell you he's going to church and pull up

1650
01:17:04,280 --> 01:17:07,720
Speaker 1: on somebody cheating in church. They do ye, cheat too,

1651
01:17:07,920 --> 01:17:10,879
Speaker 1: dude on the drum. We have a baby? Were Barbara

1652
01:17:10,960 --> 01:17:16,320
Speaker 1: in the in the therape, Yes he does. I got

1653
01:17:17,600 --> 01:17:18,040
Speaker 1: a soprano.

1654
01:17:18,160 --> 01:17:19,320
Speaker 2: Let me tell you what you gotta do. So is

1655
01:17:19,360 --> 01:17:21,559
Speaker 2: it messy or just living for her being jealous?

1656
01:17:21,880 --> 01:17:25,960
Speaker 4: I think it's I think it's living because oh no,

1657
01:17:26,160 --> 01:17:29,519
Speaker 4: I am only swayed. I think that he already said

1658
01:17:29,560 --> 01:17:32,120
Speaker 4: to her, you cannot have a male. I gotta switch

1659
01:17:32,200 --> 01:17:32,799
Speaker 4: my yoga.

1660
01:17:32,600 --> 01:17:35,200
Speaker 1: Studio, something where if you find a place you like,

1661
01:17:35,280 --> 01:17:37,560
Speaker 1: you like. If he had never said to her and

1662
01:17:37,640 --> 01:17:40,799
Speaker 1: said the president that we cannot that another sex touches

1663
01:17:40,920 --> 01:17:44,360
Speaker 1: or looks at you, I'm gonna crash out. Then I'd

1664
01:17:44,400 --> 01:17:46,439
Speaker 1: be like, girl, that's too much to me.

1665
01:17:46,560 --> 01:17:48,920
Speaker 4: I'd be like, okay, my man has a female Barbara, Okay,

1666
01:17:49,439 --> 01:17:50,880
Speaker 4: Like if he wants to cheat on me, he's gonna

1667
01:17:50,920 --> 01:17:53,040
Speaker 4: cheat on me. If he's touching my hair, like she

1668
01:17:53,160 --> 01:17:55,000
Speaker 4: wants this man to be baled so.

1669
01:17:55,080 --> 01:17:55,759
Speaker 1: That she said.

1670
01:17:57,320 --> 01:17:59,920
Speaker 4: In a nice hair cut he's been going for ye

1671
01:18:00,120 --> 01:18:03,320
Speaker 4: ye yeah, she's imagining that old girls like licking his

1672
01:18:03,479 --> 01:18:03,840
Speaker 4: head or.

1673
01:18:03,960 --> 01:18:06,360
Speaker 1: Like oh yeah yeah, yeah yeah, popping her cooch on

1674
01:18:06,479 --> 01:18:08,160
Speaker 1: his head and introduce.

1675
01:18:08,280 --> 01:18:10,559
Speaker 2: Go with him to his next appointment sit on his lap,

1676
01:18:11,520 --> 01:18:14,120
Speaker 2: his hair, straddle him, bust it.

1677
01:18:14,920 --> 01:18:16,479
Speaker 1: But it would be nice to meet her because then

1678
01:18:16,479 --> 01:18:17,360
Speaker 1: you can see the energy.

1679
01:18:17,439 --> 01:18:19,280
Speaker 2: I mean, if she's been he's been going there for years,

1680
01:18:19,360 --> 01:18:20,400
Speaker 2: she's probably met her.

1681
01:18:20,439 --> 01:18:23,080
Speaker 1: Yes, and all the stuff.

1682
01:18:23,920 --> 01:18:28,559
Speaker 2: I have a suggestion, girl, you need to learn how

1683
01:18:28,600 --> 01:18:31,040
Speaker 2: to do his hair, do his hair, become a barber.

1684
01:18:31,120 --> 01:18:33,559
Speaker 2: Become a barbera, and he needs to be a yoga

1685
01:18:33,640 --> 01:18:35,040
Speaker 2: instructor whatever.

1686
01:18:34,880 --> 01:18:37,880
Speaker 1: The things that y'all going out for outsourcing. Keep it

1687
01:18:37,960 --> 01:18:39,320
Speaker 1: in the house. Y'all gotta learn.

1688
01:18:40,160 --> 01:18:42,760
Speaker 2: If you're gonna be that jealous and weird, hey, then

1689
01:18:42,800 --> 01:18:45,000
Speaker 2: you're gonna If I was him, I'd be like, do

1690
01:18:45,120 --> 01:18:46,640
Speaker 2: you know how to line my shit up? Do you

1691
01:18:46,720 --> 01:18:48,160
Speaker 2: know how to make sure my girls are right?

1692
01:18:48,400 --> 01:18:50,600
Speaker 1: Yeah? But she might if she's a female barber, she

1693
01:18:50,720 --> 01:18:54,479
Speaker 1: might be gay. She says she's straight. Is she she

1694
01:18:54,560 --> 01:18:57,280
Speaker 1: says she's straight. Well, but also it's like just because

1695
01:18:57,320 --> 01:18:59,680
Speaker 1: she's straight on me, she wants your man. Yeah, it's

1696
01:19:00,000 --> 01:19:02,280
Speaker 1: that's another thing. Somebody, some of y'all, some of y'all

1697
01:19:02,800 --> 01:19:06,040
Speaker 1: with y'all partners or whoever you will, nobody want them.

1698
01:19:06,240 --> 01:19:08,760
Speaker 1: It's just you. And that is why they have That's

1699
01:19:08,760 --> 01:19:11,600
Speaker 1: why they want you. Okay, y'all have to ease up.

1700
01:19:11,840 --> 01:19:15,400
Speaker 2: Not everybody, because when I was waitressing these women swore

1701
01:19:15,680 --> 01:19:20,040
Speaker 2: I was talking to Jim and Todd and and and Thomas.

1702
01:19:20,160 --> 01:19:22,040
Speaker 2: I don't want any of these men. I just want

1703
01:19:22,080 --> 01:19:24,840
Speaker 2: that MX, give me that Max. I just want to

1704
01:19:24,880 --> 01:19:27,240
Speaker 2: spike his card and give me my fifty five percent

1705
01:19:27,320 --> 01:19:30,799
Speaker 2: because that's what I does. Yeah, okay, because because that's standard,

1706
01:19:31,160 --> 01:19:33,679
Speaker 2: and then all the other percentage because you know, racism

1707
01:19:34,120 --> 01:19:36,519
Speaker 2: and sexism and misogyny on top of that, so it's

1708
01:19:36,520 --> 01:19:37,240
Speaker 2: fifty five percent.

1709
01:19:37,520 --> 01:19:38,880
Speaker 1: Everybody doesn't want your man.

1710
01:19:39,280 --> 01:19:41,600
Speaker 2: Also, her description of him wasn't like I wasn't like,

1711
01:19:41,680 --> 01:19:44,960
Speaker 2: oh not jo Joe Jonas so tall enough to ride

1712
01:19:45,280 --> 01:19:49,479
Speaker 2: hand Joe Jonas, but talk Joe Jonas, y'all.

1713
01:19:49,920 --> 01:19:50,880
Speaker 1: Maybe 'all don't know which one is.

1714
01:19:52,120 --> 01:19:54,200
Speaker 2: But also, y'all be scared about these women take y'all

1715
01:19:54,240 --> 01:19:56,760
Speaker 2: in Some of these men could take y'all men. It

1716
01:19:56,800 --> 01:20:00,720
Speaker 2: could be a really yeah, what is some fine gay

1717
01:20:00,800 --> 01:20:02,960
Speaker 2: man is doing? Then what you're gonna pull up on

1718
01:20:03,040 --> 01:20:06,600
Speaker 2: him too? Oh yeah, Joe Jonas, that's not It's fine. No,

1719
01:20:07,000 --> 01:20:11,240
Speaker 2: But I'm not like, I'm not like he's not for me.

1720
01:20:11,360 --> 01:20:15,439
Speaker 1: But okay, cool, yeah, I think y'all need to reevaluate. Yeah,

1721
01:20:15,600 --> 01:20:17,320
Speaker 1: y'all might have to do some what starts with the

1722
01:20:17,400 --> 01:20:25,160
Speaker 1: t therapy stocking, follow her after work, see where she at,

1723
01:20:25,240 --> 01:20:30,439
Speaker 1: see what her lifestyle is, or she's with somebody, or

1724
01:20:30,560 --> 01:20:33,439
Speaker 1: she's you know, she dates people who look completely opposite

1725
01:20:33,479 --> 01:20:34,000
Speaker 1: your husband.

1726
01:20:34,880 --> 01:20:37,720
Speaker 4: Catfish her with a man that looks like your man,

1727
01:20:38,120 --> 01:20:40,040
Speaker 4: and see if she goes for that man.

1728
01:20:40,080 --> 01:20:41,400
Speaker 1: Then you know she's into man.

1729
01:20:41,560 --> 01:20:43,320
Speaker 2: Since if you're doing this, you got to get a job,

1730
01:20:43,439 --> 01:20:46,000
Speaker 2: because that sounds like you are very free and I

1731
01:20:46,000 --> 01:20:48,840
Speaker 2: don't want you doing that. Health and Chat GPT to

1732
01:20:49,200 --> 01:20:52,960
Speaker 2: give you a remixed Joe Jonas's face, make that the

1733
01:20:53,040 --> 01:20:57,439
Speaker 2: profile and then be like Eastern European instead of South Asian. Right,

1734
01:20:57,960 --> 01:21:01,519
Speaker 2: let's see what right, let's see what? Yeah, you know

1735
01:21:01,960 --> 01:21:04,080
Speaker 2: if he goes so we all wave you three different

1736
01:21:04,120 --> 01:21:07,639
Speaker 2: things that you could do. I said, you know, stalk

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01:21:07,800 --> 01:21:10,720
Speaker 2: and or show up at the appointment. Sidney said, learn

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01:21:10,760 --> 01:21:11,000
Speaker 2: how to.

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Speaker 4: Do his hair and sorry what you said, catfish, or

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01:21:14,600 --> 01:21:18,519
Speaker 4: like stop doing it like everybody y'all could anybody can cheat.

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01:21:19,160 --> 01:21:21,160
Speaker 4: You can't put like you live in a world where

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01:21:21,160 --> 01:21:22,800
Speaker 4: other people are going attracting you gotta trust that your

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01:21:22,880 --> 01:21:25,400
Speaker 4: man wants you and nobody else, and that if he

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01:21:25,439 --> 01:21:28,280
Speaker 4: does want somebody else, well he it just has to

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01:21:28,320 --> 01:21:28,719
Speaker 4: be the barber.

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01:21:28,800 --> 01:21:30,559
Speaker 1: What about I don't know if the secretary of work?

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01:21:30,800 --> 01:21:31,800
Speaker 1: What about his cash here?

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Speaker 2: I think realistically you did make a good point at

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01:21:34,720 --> 01:21:37,920
Speaker 2: the top. It's he made you switch yoga studios. You

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01:21:37,960 --> 01:21:39,240
Speaker 2: should just bring that back up.

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01:21:39,400 --> 01:21:41,599
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's actually what I would love in this place.

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01:21:42,280 --> 01:21:44,040
Speaker 2: And you told me I couldn't go here because this

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01:21:44,200 --> 01:21:47,200
Speaker 2: guy adjusted my form. And I'm telling you, I don't

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01:21:47,240 --> 01:21:49,320
Speaker 2: want this lady to have her tits on your back

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01:21:49,439 --> 01:21:51,400
Speaker 2: when she's cutting your hair, So.

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01:21:52,040 --> 01:21:53,960
Speaker 1: You can't have it both ways. Yeah, it's one or

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Speaker 1: the other. And I bet he's gonna be like, all right, fine,

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01:21:56,840 --> 01:21:57,680
Speaker 1: I guess I'll let her go.

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01:21:58,280 --> 01:21:59,800
Speaker 2: Are you cool with having a man that looks a

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01:21:59,800 --> 01:22:01,320
Speaker 2: litle little bit? You know, his hair gonna be a

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01:22:01,320 --> 01:22:01,920
Speaker 2: little lopsite and.

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01:22:02,000 --> 01:22:02,920
Speaker 1: Her hair is gonna be crazy?

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01:22:03,600 --> 01:22:06,519
Speaker 2: Say, oh, she's actually probably like so you're going to Greg,

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01:22:07,280 --> 01:22:08,639
Speaker 2: he's gonna be doing your hair now.

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01:22:08,800 --> 01:22:12,040
Speaker 1: We're seventy eight, needs to leave. Y'all should do like

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01:22:12,120 --> 01:22:16,800
Speaker 1: the Bachelor. But for Barber's shark tank, this I like this.

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01:22:17,000 --> 01:22:21,000
Speaker 1: America's next Top Barber America's Next Step show like that. Well,

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Speaker 1: I'm just saying, like, you gotta do it in house. Yeah,

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01:22:23,720 --> 01:22:26,240
Speaker 1: like every day, come to the house. He gotta regrow

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01:22:26,280 --> 01:22:28,840
Speaker 1: it after every week. Oh does you do house calls?

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01:22:28,920 --> 01:22:31,960
Speaker 1: Have her bring the kid to the house. Yes, and

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01:22:32,000 --> 01:22:36,840
Speaker 1: then you watch literally while you're holding your team. But

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01:22:37,000 --> 01:22:39,519
Speaker 1: then it's gonna look like so wait, if I was

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01:22:39,840 --> 01:22:41,360
Speaker 1: if I was the stylist of the bar, I was like,

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01:22:41,400 --> 01:22:45,000
Speaker 1: are they trying to they're looking forward? I would totally go, oh,

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01:22:45,080 --> 01:22:46,679
Speaker 1: this might be some poly pocket situation.

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01:22:49,200 --> 01:22:51,040
Speaker 4: But then if she wants the polypocket, you gotta get

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Speaker 4: her out of there, because that means she was interested.

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01:22:53,880 --> 01:22:57,840
Speaker 1: Maybe she wanted me. Oh and she was a gay

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01:22:57,960 --> 01:23:02,639
Speaker 1: and she was square. Okay, I'll come back to gay.

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01:23:04,800 --> 01:23:07,240
Speaker 1: This was amazing. You really did your things.

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01:23:07,560 --> 01:23:10,760
Speaker 2: Thank you for I mean I I thank I think

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01:23:11,200 --> 01:23:15,360
Speaker 2: she might be in the top tier of mess, top tier,

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01:23:15,560 --> 01:23:19,120
Speaker 2: top tier mess. So I started off like a compliment,

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01:23:19,160 --> 01:23:24,800
Speaker 2: but now doesn't doesn't. This was top shelf so like

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01:23:25,000 --> 01:23:29,920
Speaker 2: like a black label mess. Yeah, black label man aged

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01:23:29,960 --> 01:23:31,080
Speaker 2: at least twelve years.

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01:23:32,920 --> 01:23:40,200
Speaker 1: Maybe just age two two years in a cellar in Bushwick. Yeah,

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01:23:41,439 --> 01:23:44,200
Speaker 1: cellar in Bushwick. Oh, won't let you got out?

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01:23:44,479 --> 01:23:48,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, Sonya tell everybody.

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01:23:48,240 --> 01:23:50,000
Speaker 1: Where they can find you, and what you got going

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01:23:50,080 --> 01:23:50,920
Speaker 1: on and coming up.

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01:23:51,400 --> 01:23:54,040
Speaker 4: You find me Sonny Denny s O N I D

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01:23:54,320 --> 01:23:57,000
Speaker 4: and I on Everything, and I have a show called

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01:23:57,400 --> 01:24:01,120
Speaker 4: Minnchell called iron Heart on Plus coming out June's twenty four.

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Speaker 2: All right, if you're listening to this and you've made

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01:24:06,600 --> 01:24:08,479
Speaker 2: it this far, learn how to cut hair just in case.

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Speaker 1: That's all. Yep, yep. I keep leaving those reviews, baby,

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Speaker 1: Yep. Bye.

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