Speaker 1: Second date up date. We've done so many second dates
Speaker 1: I would say each one tends to fall into a
Speaker 1: certain category. Okay, yeah, Like there's the drunken one night stands,
Speaker 1: oh for sure, a lot of those. There's the blind
Speaker 1: date that was set up through friends, always a disaster.
Speaker 1: Sometimes we get a lick date for a couple of
Speaker 1: licks each other's faces for hours. So I wait, all, sorry, No,
Speaker 1: that was just a dog video I just watched. Oh
Speaker 1: what a really good one on YouTube. Must have still
Speaker 1: been in my head. But no, back to the second
Speaker 1: date update. One of my favorites is the old school
Speaker 1: high school crushed date, kind of like redemption after having
Speaker 1: a crush for so many years and then you finally
Speaker 1: get to go out yet today with one of our
Speaker 1: listeners named Noah, he's been looking to reunite with an
Speaker 1: old Classmah, Noah, you found me. I am ready for you.
Speaker 1: Are you calling about Jeffrey? Noah, Hey, guys, no, I'm
Speaker 1: not calling about Jeffrey, not this time. Okay Rich, Yeah
Speaker 1: he went to rich private school. I don't want you either, Noah, Okay,
Speaker 1: forget you. Who are you calling about? Who's this? Who's
Speaker 1: this person? That's so much better. Okay. So there's this
Speaker 1: girl that I've known forever and we went to high
Speaker 1: school together. Can I interrupt? Noah? Did she have a name.
Speaker 1: Her name is Anna? Okay, all right, Anna, So you
Speaker 1: went to high school Anna, Anna? Noah, I like the flow.
Speaker 1: So what how did you end up reconnecting with Anna? Well?
Speaker 1: I mean we you know, we did in high school
Speaker 1: and she moved away, she went to school. Oh, you
Speaker 1: guys actually dated in high school. It wasn't just a crush.
Speaker 1: I guess what I mean by date was more in
Speaker 1: my mind. Oh, it's not weird at all. Well it
Speaker 1: does count. No, it doesn't. Yeh was in high school
Speaker 1: at counts? Okay, don't you dare? Just credit USA, dude.
Speaker 1: I was a lonely girl in high school. I was
Speaker 1: trying to get anybody to make out with me, and
Speaker 1: it didn't count. Okay, she didn't count at all. All right, Well,
Speaker 1: so you didn't actually date in high school, but you
Speaker 1: were able to reconnect to years later. How did that happen?
Speaker 1: So she would come home, Like I said, she's in
Speaker 1: college pretty far away. She would come home for the holidays,
Speaker 1: and while she was home, you know, we would hang
Speaker 1: out and so One of the places that we actually
Speaker 1: met up one night was this local bar that a
Speaker 1: bunch of friends would always hang out at. Oh okay, okay,
Speaker 1: I mean this cell sounds typical. I think we've all
Speaker 1: lived this story, right, But this is your date that
Speaker 1: you're talking about? Or is this just how you reconnected?
Speaker 1: So this was the moment that we actually spent a
Speaker 1: lot of time together to reconnect? Was that time in
Speaker 1: the bar? Okay? Right? And so did you like ask
Speaker 1: her out on a date anyway, on a date later
Speaker 1: or you just made out that night? So there was
Speaker 1: a lot of flirting and a lot of hanging out,
Speaker 1: and yeah I did kiss her. Oh finally got the
Speaker 1: kiss after all these years? Was that was that I
Speaker 1: going to hometown bars and make out with guys from
Speaker 1: high school? Though? Yeah, because she's like twenty two, it's
Speaker 1: kind of fine. You're twenty two and she just hit
Speaker 1: the bar back, you know, not like that. When I
Speaker 1: went back home, I just think it wasn't for you,
Speaker 1: It was for everybody else. But no, what was this
Speaker 1: the first kiss you guys have ever shared? This was
Speaker 1: the first kiss? Yeah? Oh man, this was like a
Speaker 1: big moment for you. Then this was a huge moment
Speaker 1: for me. I mean it just rocked my world. Um.
Speaker 1: But unfortunately, the next morning she had to fly out,
Speaker 1: and there's where the airport scene comes in and everybody, no,
Speaker 1: don't really, yes, stay here, give up on all of
Speaker 1: your education just for me. So what happened next She
Speaker 1: didn't invite me to the airport, which kind of sucked. Okay, yeah,
Speaker 1: but out three weeks later I came to visit her.
Speaker 1: Oh whoa an invitation or just you showed up. It
Speaker 1: was kind of a little bit of both. She didn't
Speaker 1: really invite me, but she said the door kind of
Speaker 1: always open. Okay, I know what that's like. Or it's like, yeah,
Speaker 1: we should totally hang out sometime. And you take that
Speaker 1: as oh, I'm going to book my ticket now she's
Speaker 1: so far away. Yeah, when I said that, there's like
Speaker 1: the one percent chance they might come. Yeah, I mean
Speaker 1: that's a big deal though, because that's like inviting her
Speaker 1: old high school whatever into her new world. Yeah right.
Speaker 1: I guess the best gauge is how did she react
Speaker 1: when you showed up? I guess it was a little
Speaker 1: a little weird because it was a more surprise and
Speaker 1: so she didn't really know how to handle it, but
Speaker 1: she was still excited to see me, for sure, And
Speaker 1: unfortunately she had to work a lot of the time
Speaker 1: that I was there. Well, you didn't tell you were coming, right, Yeah. Yeah,
Speaker 1: we spent time together during the day, but that she
Speaker 1: had to work. She worked for our catering business. Okay,
Speaker 1: so I kind of hung out with her roommate while
Speaker 1: she was working. But I don't know. There are a
Speaker 1: couple things that just kind of made me feel like
Speaker 1: there might be another guy in the picture with her.
Speaker 1: So why do you think there's another guy? Just the
Speaker 1: way her roommate was talking it just like she was
Speaker 1: dropping some hints, but like you wouldn't actually talk about it.
Speaker 1: This isn't really a second date update, though, you were
Speaker 1: in a one sided relationship and we need to figure
Speaker 1: out how she feels. Is that what you want? I
Speaker 1: don't know. I disagree with you. I think that it
Speaker 1: is more of a second date update because when I
Speaker 1: was there, we walked around and held hands and talked
Speaker 1: about the past in our lives and kind of like
Speaker 1: our relationship we've had over the years. Oh okay, okay,
Speaker 1: and you did get that kiss. I mean, you can't
Speaker 1: put that aside. That's huge. I don't know. She wouldn't
Speaker 1: hold hands in public on campus if she had another boyfriend,
Speaker 1: unless her hands were cold, But I don't. Let's figure
Speaker 1: this out. Okay, we're gonna play a song, we'll come back,
Speaker 1: we'll call Anna for you, and we'll ask her. Do
Speaker 1: you have a crush on Noah Circle, yes? Or kind of?
Speaker 1: All right? All right, hold off if you're just tuning
Speaker 1: in today's second date update is the kind of thing
Speaker 1: that movies are made of. Yeah, for sure. High school
Speaker 1: boy meets high school girl. Girl goes off to college.
Speaker 1: Years later, she comes back to visit and makes out
Speaker 1: with boy at a dive bar. Boy follows girl back
Speaker 1: to college uninvited. Girls busy and has to work her
Speaker 1: catering job, so boy mostly hangs out with girls. Roommate.
Speaker 1: Boy leaves and calls a radio station because now he
Speaker 1: has more questions than answer. Yeah. Classes starring Zac Efron
Speaker 1: and Meryl Street. Yeah, Meryl Streep is a chicken pull
Speaker 1: off a college student. But yes, one of our listeners
Speaker 1: you know of reconnected with an old high school crush
Speaker 1: named Anna. They have a little bit of a fling,
Speaker 1: and when he went and visited her at her college.
Speaker 1: She had to work a lot. Yeah, and you know,
Speaker 1: he didn't tell her that she was coming. Yeah, that's
Speaker 1: the first mistake of many that I think he made.
Speaker 1: But he got the vibe that maybe something else was
Speaker 1: going on with Anna. Maybe it's another guy. He's not
Speaker 1: really sure. So we're going to call Ana and try
Speaker 1: and figure out what's going on. That's right, man, I
Speaker 1: just don't want her to slip away. Okay, So no,
Speaker 1: I have a question. The one thing we didn't ask
Speaker 1: is after you got back, have you and Anna still
Speaker 1: been talking or is she just not answering any of
Speaker 1: your phone calls? So this has been all of her
Speaker 1: text and anytime I actually call her on the phone,
Speaker 1: she doesn't pick up. Okay, Okay, it's not a good thing.
Speaker 1: A lot of questions that you want to ask. What's
Speaker 1: the number one question that you have for her? I
Speaker 1: just want to know if she feels the same way
Speaker 1: I do after all this time. Do you have a
Speaker 1: maybe a better question that is more likely to get
Speaker 1: a us The answer to that if you just give
Speaker 1: me a chance to make this work, and I'll make
Speaker 1: it work with all this distance. Okay, we're getting closer
Speaker 1: to something. Might turn out. Well, but let's give this
Speaker 1: a shot. Love, No, let's do it. We're gonna dial
Speaker 1: Anna's phone number right now and we're gonna ask her
Speaker 1: the question. You ready, well, a question hopefully. Yeah, I'm nervous.
Speaker 1: Can you call it please? Okay, all right, you're gonna
Speaker 1: be fine. Here we go. Hello, Hi, I'm looking to
Speaker 1: speak with Anna. This is Anna. Hi Anna. My name's
Speaker 1: Jeffrey from the radio show Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.
Speaker 1: I was hoping you have a second to talk um
Speaker 1: from the radio. I know it's kind of an antiquated device.
Speaker 1: It's usually in cars. It's like Spotify in your whip. Yeah,
Speaker 1: music comes out of it sometimes and sometimes people tell
Speaker 1: she's not an idiot. Hi Anna, You sounded really confused. Yeah,
Speaker 1: what what's going on? Well, we're a radio show called
Speaker 1: Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning. We do a segment
Speaker 1: called a second Date Update. That's where if you go
Speaker 1: out with someone and afterwards, if they're not calling you back,
Speaker 1: you can reach out to us and we'll call that
Speaker 1: person for you to try and figure out the reason why. Okay,
Speaker 1: So one of our listeners reached out and wanted to
Speaker 1: ask about you the guy's name is Noah. Oh my god,
Speaker 1: Yea or Noah. I mean, it's not really a first
Speaker 1: date you guys went on. It was like a whole
Speaker 1: weekend thing we talked to know. He seems like a
Speaker 1: really nice guy. Yeah, he's Noah is nice. Okay, I
Speaker 1: don't I don't know what you want me to tell you. Well,
Speaker 1: how about we tell you what we know and then
Speaker 1: you can go off of our story. I mean, I
Speaker 1: don't think it'll matter, but sure, okay, well let's give
Speaker 1: it a shot. What do you say? Okay, So Noah
Speaker 1: said that he knew you from high school. You guys
Speaker 1: reconnected when you came back to visit at a bar.
Speaker 1: You had a little bit of a fling at the bar,
Speaker 1: a little kiss. He went to visit you at your college,
Speaker 1: but you weren't able to spend a lot of time
Speaker 1: with him because you had to work. I don't know
Speaker 1: why he's telling you all this. I don't why is
Speaker 1: he reaching out to you all. I never gave him
Speaker 1: permission to talk to somebody about this situation. It's really weird.
Speaker 1: I mean it's pretty generic information. Yeah, we don't like him,
Speaker 1: just say that, Hey, I don't like him, I'm not attracted.
Speaker 1: That's it, Like we just want to know. No judgment
Speaker 1: on you. Yeah, I mean I am engaged. Oh yeah,
Speaker 1: that's why you're so secret. That's not good. G Wait, no,
Speaker 1: why are you? Before I got engaged recently, it was
Speaker 1: kind of like unsure about what the status was with
Speaker 1: my fiance and I. We weren't like official at that point,
Speaker 1: and I guess I was just feeling like if I'm
Speaker 1: soon to be a married person, like kind of having
Speaker 1: some doubts. And No, I connected and we kissed at
Speaker 1: the bar. Noah didn't know that you were engaged. No,
Speaker 1: he did not. You didn't tell him, So I wasn't
Speaker 1: engaged when we kissed at the bar. And then he
Speaker 1: just he just randomly showed up at my doorstep at school.
Speaker 1: We didn't talk about it. He just like appeared, So okay,
Speaker 1: I don't ask, don't tell. No. There's so many red
Speaker 1: slaves with your engagement right now, Like one you weren't
Speaker 1: committed to the person right before you've got engaged, which
Speaker 1: seems like all over the place to be too. A
Speaker 1: guy shows up to your door and you don't even
Speaker 1: have the courage to tell him, Hey, I'm engaged. I mean,
Speaker 1: he's a friend. I didn't I didn't want to hurt
Speaker 1: his feelings. Yeah, but you're being engaged. Is it gonna
Speaker 1: hurt his feelings? It doesn't have anything to do with him. Well,
Speaker 1: well I know, but like he shouldn't have showed up
Speaker 1: but didn't give her time to plan alive. Why not
Speaker 1: just say I'm a gauge. Shouldn't you be celebrating? Shouldn't
Speaker 1: you be excited to tell everybody? I mean, it's a
Speaker 1: it's a legit reason why you can't date somebody Brook.
Speaker 1: You don't know whether or not his feelings would be
Speaker 1: hurt finding out that she's engaged unless we asked Noah directly. Okay,
Speaker 1: well it's going to get weird. I need to tell
Speaker 1: you Anna that Noah's actually been on the other line
Speaker 1: listening this entire time, and he wants to talk to you.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, it's okay, Anna, Hey, uh, oh my god.
Speaker 1: I wish you could have told me right. It didn't
Speaker 1: really feel like there was an opening too, Noah, Um,
Speaker 1: what do you mean? I mean? I mean even even
Speaker 1: when we were like you know, when you came in
Speaker 1: counter for the holidays, like we walked around and I
Speaker 1: don't know. I've always really really like you. You've always
Speaker 1: been my dream girl. And I didn't want to tell
Speaker 1: you that because that makes it weird, I know, but
Speaker 1: I'm sorry. I have to tell you that now. And
Speaker 1: it destroys me to hear that you're engaged. Well, of
Speaker 1: course it does, but it also destroys him that you
Speaker 1: were honest with him. Annah. Why is it so hard
Speaker 1: to be honest these days? I don't understand then you
Speaker 1: shouldn't be engaged. If you were walking around campus. I
Speaker 1: didn't know what to do. Everything kind of happened really quickly.
Speaker 1: It took me by surprise, and I'm sorry. I'm sorry. No,
Speaker 1: I mean, Noah, do you want me to send you
Speaker 1: back the pillow? Can you not? Don't talk about that
Speaker 1: on the radio. You're the one who called the radio,
Speaker 1: so I think we know nothing about a pillow. Yeah, now,
Speaker 1: this is insanely embarrassing. Uh, Noah sent me a pillow
Speaker 1: of his fate? Oh? Sweet, Noah, Wow, I of it,
Speaker 1: So it's kind of funny, kind of sweet. No, you're
Speaker 1: a catch, I doin You're a catch, Noah, If that's
Speaker 1: your girlfriend, don't don't back on this guy, he's having
Speaker 1: a hard moment right now. What was going on in
Speaker 1: your mind when you sent her a pillow of your face?
Speaker 1: I mean I can't be there for her physically because
Speaker 1: of the distance, and so I thought it was something
Speaker 1: that she could at least like have remember with me
Speaker 1: and maybe even cuddle with That's maybe she's drunk, she's
Speaker 1: kiss it a little bit, Maybe do a little more
Speaker 1: with it. What are you doing with a pillow right now? Anna,
Speaker 1: Like you've a pillow of some dude's face at your
Speaker 1: house when your fiance comes over. It's just in my closet,
Speaker 1: and I just don't know what to do with it,
Speaker 1: so I didn't. It felt wrong to just throw it away.
Speaker 1: That's okay, I need to ask a question, but before
Speaker 1: I do, I want to know how serious is this
Speaker 1: fiance Anna. I've actually with Jeffrey on this one. I mean,
Speaker 1: it sounds like the switch is turning on and off
Speaker 1: it is, and like I feel like you're holding onto
Speaker 1: the things like his pillow or letting him stay without
Speaker 1: telling him because you actually do really like Noah. Still.
Speaker 1: I love my fiancee, and I've been honest with him
Speaker 1: about the situation with Noah. Yes, I should have told
Speaker 1: Noah I was engaged up front. I wasn't engaged, and
Speaker 1: I was home for the holidays, and like it was
Speaker 1: kind of freaking out a bit. So what are you saying?
Speaker 1: Is this guy premed? Is he rich like an athlete?
Speaker 1: Is he a frat boy? No, I'm not talking to
Speaker 1: you guys about this is it's not going to happen.
Speaker 1: I don't think marriage is going to happen. But well,
Speaker 1: I need to ask at this point, Anna, would you
Speaker 1: like to go out on another date with Noah. We'll
Speaker 1: pay for it him out or you know, or we'll
Speaker 1: at least pay for the postage for you to send
Speaker 1: his pillow back to him. That is nice. I like that.
Speaker 1: I'm going to send the pillow back, but I don't
Speaker 1: need you guys to pay for it than you though,
Speaker 1: for the very kind offer you. No, I think you're
Speaker 1: gonna be just fine. You're gonna bounce back, you know. Yeah.
Speaker 1: I just wish I knew. I just feel like an idiot.
Speaker 1: Well it's all right, buddy, it's not on you, man,
Speaker 1: you know. No, I feel bad. Why don't you when
Speaker 1: you get the pillow back, why don't you send it
Speaker 1: over to me? Okay, I'll try it out. I'll use
Speaker 1: it the right way. You'll use it the right way.
Speaker 1: You did not just do that. I'll do what you
Speaker 1: want me to do. No, thank you, Brook and Jeffrey
Speaker 1: in the morning,