WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Hometown Surprise

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<v Speaker 1>Second date up date. We've done so many second dates

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<v Speaker 1>I would say each one tends to fall into a

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<v Speaker 1>certain category. Okay, yeah, Like there's the drunken one night stands,

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<v Speaker 1>oh for sure, a lot of those. There's the blind

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<v Speaker 1>date that was set up through friends, always a disaster.

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<v Speaker 1>Sometimes we get a lick date for a couple of

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<v Speaker 1>licks each other's faces for hours. So I wait, all, sorry, No,

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<v Speaker 1>that was just a dog video I just watched. Oh

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<v Speaker 1>what a really good one on YouTube. Must have still

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<v Speaker 1>been in my head. But no, back to the second

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<v Speaker 1>date update. One of my favorites is the old school

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<v Speaker 1>high school crushed date, kind of like redemption after having

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<v Speaker 1>a crush for so many years and then you finally

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<v Speaker 1>get to go out yet today with one of our

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<v Speaker 1>listeners named Noah, he's been looking to reunite with an

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<v Speaker 1>old Classmah, Noah, you found me. I am ready for you.

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<v Speaker 1>Are you calling about Jeffrey? Noah, Hey, guys, no, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not calling about Jeffrey, not this time. Okay Rich, Yeah

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<v Speaker 1>he went to rich private school. I don't want you either, Noah, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>forget you. Who are you calling about? Who's this? Who's

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<v Speaker 1>this person? That's so much better. Okay. So there's this

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<v Speaker 1>girl that I've known forever and we went to high

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<v Speaker 1>school together. Can I interrupt? Noah? Did she have a name.

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<v Speaker 1>Her name is Anna? Okay, all right, Anna, So you

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<v Speaker 1>went to high school Anna, Anna? Noah, I like the flow.

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<v Speaker 1>So what how did you end up reconnecting with Anna? Well?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean we you know, we did in high school

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<v Speaker 1>and she moved away, she went to school. Oh, you

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<v Speaker 1>guys actually dated in high school. It wasn't just a crush.

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<v Speaker 1>I guess what I mean by date was more in

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<v Speaker 1>my mind. Oh, it's not weird at all. Well it

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<v Speaker 1>does count. No, it doesn't. Yeh was in high school

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<v Speaker 1>at counts? Okay, don't you dare? Just credit USA, dude.

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<v Speaker 1>I was a lonely girl in high school. I was

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<v Speaker 1>trying to get anybody to make out with me, and

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<v Speaker 1>it didn't count. Okay, she didn't count at all. All right, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>so you didn't actually date in high school, but you

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<v Speaker 1>were able to reconnect to years later. How did that happen?

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<v Speaker 1>So she would come home, Like I said, she's in

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<v Speaker 1>college pretty far away. She would come home for the holidays,

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<v Speaker 1>and while she was home, you know, we would hang

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<v Speaker 1>out and so One of the places that we actually

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<v Speaker 1>met up one night was this local bar that a

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<v Speaker 1>bunch of friends would always hang out at. Oh okay, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean this cell sounds typical. I think we've all

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<v Speaker 1>lived this story, right, But this is your date that

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<v Speaker 1>you're talking about? Or is this just how you reconnected?

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<v Speaker 1>So this was the moment that we actually spent a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of time together to reconnect? Was that time in

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<v Speaker 1>the bar? Okay? Right? And so did you like ask

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<v Speaker 1>her out on a date anyway, on a date later

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<v Speaker 1>or you just made out that night? So there was

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of flirting and a lot of hanging out,

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<v Speaker 1>and yeah I did kiss her. Oh finally got the

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<v Speaker 1>kiss after all these years? Was that was that I

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<v Speaker 1>going to hometown bars and make out with guys from

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<v Speaker 1>high school? Though? Yeah, because she's like twenty two, it's

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<v Speaker 1>kind of fine. You're twenty two and she just hit

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<v Speaker 1>the bar back, you know, not like that. When I

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<v Speaker 1>went back home, I just think it wasn't for you,

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<v Speaker 1>It was for everybody else. But no, what was this

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<v Speaker 1>the first kiss you guys have ever shared? This was

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<v Speaker 1>the first kiss? Yeah? Oh man, this was like a

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<v Speaker 1>big moment for you. Then this was a huge moment

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<v Speaker 1>for me. I mean it just rocked my world. Um.

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<v Speaker 1>But unfortunately, the next morning she had to fly out,

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<v Speaker 1>and there's where the airport scene comes in and everybody, no,

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<v Speaker 1>don't really, yes, stay here, give up on all of

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<v Speaker 1>your education just for me. So what happened next She

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<v Speaker 1>didn't invite me to the airport, which kind of sucked. Okay, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>but out three weeks later I came to visit her.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh whoa an invitation or just you showed up. It

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<v Speaker 1>was kind of a little bit of both. She didn't

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<v Speaker 1>really invite me, but she said the door kind of

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<v Speaker 1>always open. Okay, I know what that's like. Or it's like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>we should totally hang out sometime. And you take that

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<v Speaker 1>as oh, I'm going to book my ticket now she's

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<v Speaker 1>so far away. Yeah, when I said that, there's like

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<v Speaker 1>the one percent chance they might come. Yeah, I mean

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<v Speaker 1>that's a big deal though, because that's like inviting her

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<v Speaker 1>old high school whatever into her new world. Yeah right.

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<v Speaker 1>I guess the best gauge is how did she react

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<v Speaker 1>when you showed up? I guess it was a little

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<v Speaker 1>a little weird because it was a more surprise and

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<v Speaker 1>so she didn't really know how to handle it, but

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<v Speaker 1>she was still excited to see me, for sure, And

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<v Speaker 1>unfortunately she had to work a lot of the time

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<v Speaker 1>that I was there. Well, you didn't tell you were coming, right, Yeah. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>we spent time together during the day, but that she

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<v Speaker 1>had to work. She worked for our catering business. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so I kind of hung out with her roommate while

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<v Speaker 1>she was working. But I don't know. There are a

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<v Speaker 1>couple things that just kind of made me feel like

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<v Speaker 1>there might be another guy in the picture with her.

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<v Speaker 1>So why do you think there's another guy? Just the

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<v Speaker 1>way her roommate was talking it just like she was

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<v Speaker 1>dropping some hints, but like you wouldn't actually talk about it.

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<v Speaker 1>This isn't really a second date update, though, you were

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<v Speaker 1>in a one sided relationship and we need to figure

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<v Speaker 1>out how she feels. Is that what you want? I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know. I disagree with you. I think that it

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<v Speaker 1>is more of a second date update because when I

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<v Speaker 1>was there, we walked around and held hands and talked

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<v Speaker 1>about the past in our lives and kind of like

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<v Speaker 1>our relationship we've had over the years. Oh okay, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>and you did get that kiss. I mean, you can't

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<v Speaker 1>put that aside. That's huge. I don't know. She wouldn't

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<v Speaker 1>hold hands in public on campus if she had another boyfriend,

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<v Speaker 1>unless her hands were cold, But I don't. Let's figure

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<v Speaker 1>this out. Okay, we're gonna play a song, we'll come back,

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<v Speaker 1>we'll call Anna for you, and we'll ask her. Do

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<v Speaker 1>you have a crush on Noah Circle, yes? Or kind of?

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<v Speaker 1>All right? All right, hold off if you're just tuning

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<v Speaker 1>in today's second date update is the kind of thing

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<v Speaker 1>that movies are made of. Yeah, for sure. High school

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<v Speaker 1>boy meets high school girl. Girl goes off to college.

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<v Speaker 1>Years later, she comes back to visit and makes out

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<v Speaker 1>with boy at a dive bar. Boy follows girl back

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<v Speaker 1>to college uninvited. Girls busy and has to work her

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<v Speaker 1>catering job, so boy mostly hangs out with girls. Roommate.

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<v Speaker 1>Boy leaves and calls a radio station because now he

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<v Speaker 1>has more questions than answer. Yeah. Classes starring Zac Efron

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<v Speaker 1>and Meryl Street. Yeah, Meryl Streep is a chicken pull

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<v Speaker 1>off a college student. But yes, one of our listeners

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<v Speaker 1>you know of reconnected with an old high school crush

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<v Speaker 1>named Anna. They have a little bit of a fling,

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<v Speaker 1>and when he went and visited her at her college.

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<v Speaker 1>She had to work a lot. Yeah, and you know,

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<v Speaker 1>he didn't tell her that she was coming. Yeah, that's

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<v Speaker 1>the first mistake of many that I think he made.

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<v Speaker 1>But he got the vibe that maybe something else was

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<v Speaker 1>going on with Anna. Maybe it's another guy. He's not

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<v Speaker 1>really sure. So we're going to call Ana and try

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<v Speaker 1>and figure out what's going on. That's right, man, I

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<v Speaker 1>just don't want her to slip away. Okay, So no,

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<v Speaker 1>I have a question. The one thing we didn't ask

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<v Speaker 1>is after you got back, have you and Anna still

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<v Speaker 1>been talking or is she just not answering any of

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<v Speaker 1>your phone calls? So this has been all of her

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<v Speaker 1>text and anytime I actually call her on the phone,

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<v Speaker 1>she doesn't pick up. Okay, Okay, it's not a good thing.

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<v Speaker 1>A lot of questions that you want to ask. What's

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<v Speaker 1>the number one question that you have for her? I

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<v Speaker 1>just want to know if she feels the same way

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<v Speaker 1>I do after all this time. Do you have a

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<v Speaker 1>maybe a better question that is more likely to get

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<v Speaker 1>a us The answer to that if you just give

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<v Speaker 1>me a chance to make this work, and I'll make

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<v Speaker 1>it work with all this distance. Okay, we're getting closer

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<v Speaker 1>to something. Might turn out. Well, but let's give this

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<v Speaker 1>a shot. Love, No, let's do it. We're gonna dial

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<v Speaker 1>Anna's phone number right now and we're gonna ask her

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<v Speaker 1>the question. You ready, well, a question hopefully. Yeah, I'm nervous.

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<v Speaker 1>Can you call it please? Okay, all right, you're gonna

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<v Speaker 1>be fine. Here we go. Hello, Hi, I'm looking to

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<v Speaker 1>speak with Anna. This is Anna. Hi Anna. My name's

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<v Speaker 1>Jeffrey from the radio show Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.

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<v Speaker 1>I was hoping you have a second to talk um

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<v Speaker 1>from the radio. I know it's kind of an antiquated device.

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<v Speaker 1>It's usually in cars. It's like Spotify in your whip. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>music comes out of it sometimes and sometimes people tell

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<v Speaker 1>she's not an idiot. Hi Anna, You sounded really confused. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>what what's going on? Well, we're a radio show called

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<v Speaker 1>Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning. We do a segment

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<v Speaker 1>called a second Date Update. That's where if you go

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<v Speaker 1>out with someone and afterwards, if they're not calling you back,

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<v Speaker 1>you can reach out to us and we'll call that

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<v Speaker 1>person for you to try and figure out the reason why. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>So one of our listeners reached out and wanted to

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<v Speaker 1>ask about you the guy's name is Noah. Oh my god,

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<v Speaker 1>Yea or Noah. I mean, it's not really a first

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<v Speaker 1>date you guys went on. It was like a whole

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<v Speaker 1>weekend thing we talked to know. He seems like a

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<v Speaker 1>really nice guy. Yeah, he's Noah is nice. Okay, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't I don't know what you want me to tell you. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>how about we tell you what we know and then

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<v Speaker 1>you can go off of our story. I mean, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't think it'll matter, but sure, okay, well let's give

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<v Speaker 1>it a shot. What do you say? Okay, So Noah

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<v Speaker 1>said that he knew you from high school. You guys

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<v Speaker 1>reconnected when you came back to visit at a bar.

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<v Speaker 1>You had a little bit of a fling at the bar,

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<v Speaker 1>a little kiss. He went to visit you at your college,

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<v Speaker 1>but you weren't able to spend a lot of time

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<v Speaker 1>with him because you had to work. I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>why he's telling you all this. I don't why is

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<v Speaker 1>he reaching out to you all. I never gave him

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<v Speaker 1>permission to talk to somebody about this situation. It's really weird.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean it's pretty generic information. Yeah, we don't like him,

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<v Speaker 1>just say that, Hey, I don't like him, I'm not attracted.

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<v Speaker 1>That's it, Like we just want to know. No judgment

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<v Speaker 1>on you. Yeah, I mean I am engaged. Oh yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that's why you're so secret. That's not good. G Wait, no,

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<v Speaker 1>why are you? Before I got engaged recently, it was

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<v Speaker 1>kind of like unsure about what the status was with

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<v Speaker 1>my fiance and I. We weren't like official at that point,

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<v Speaker 1>and I guess I was just feeling like if I'm

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<v Speaker 1>soon to be a married person, like kind of having

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<v Speaker 1>some doubts. And No, I connected and we kissed at

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<v Speaker 1>the bar. Noah didn't know that you were engaged. No,

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<v Speaker 1>he did not. You didn't tell him, So I wasn't

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<v Speaker 1>engaged when we kissed at the bar. And then he

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<v Speaker 1>just he just randomly showed up at my doorstep at school.

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<v Speaker 1>We didn't talk about it. He just like appeared, So okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't ask, don't tell. No. There's so many red

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<v Speaker 1>slaves with your engagement right now, Like one you weren't

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<v Speaker 1>committed to the person right before you've got engaged, which

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<v Speaker 1>seems like all over the place to be too. A

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<v Speaker 1>guy shows up to your door and you don't even

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<v Speaker 1>have the courage to tell him, Hey, I'm engaged. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>he's a friend. I didn't I didn't want to hurt

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<v Speaker 1>his feelings. Yeah, but you're being engaged. Is it gonna

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<v Speaker 1>hurt his feelings? It doesn't have anything to do with him. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>well I know, but like he shouldn't have showed up

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<v Speaker 1>but didn't give her time to plan alive. Why not

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<v Speaker 1>just say I'm a gauge. Shouldn't you be celebrating? Shouldn't

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<v Speaker 1>you be excited to tell everybody? I mean, it's a

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<v Speaker 1>it's a legit reason why you can't date somebody Brook.

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<v Speaker 1>You don't know whether or not his feelings would be

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<v Speaker 1>hurt finding out that she's engaged unless we asked Noah directly. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>well it's going to get weird. I need to tell

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<v Speaker 1>you Anna that Noah's actually been on the other line

0:12:21.800 --> 0:12:24.240
<v Speaker 1>listening this entire time, and he wants to talk to you.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, it's okay, Anna, Hey, uh, oh my god.

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<v Speaker 1>I wish you could have told me right. It didn't

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<v Speaker 1>really feel like there was an opening too, Noah, Um,

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<v Speaker 1>what do you mean? I mean? I mean even even

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<v Speaker 1>when we were like you know, when you came in

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<v Speaker 1>counter for the holidays, like we walked around and I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know. I've always really really like you. You've always

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<v Speaker 1>been my dream girl. And I didn't want to tell

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<v Speaker 1>you that because that makes it weird, I know, but

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry. I have to tell you that now. And

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<v Speaker 1>it destroys me to hear that you're engaged. Well, of

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<v Speaker 1>course it does, but it also destroys him that you

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<v Speaker 1>were honest with him. Annah. Why is it so hard

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<v Speaker 1>to be honest these days? I don't understand then you

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<v Speaker 1>shouldn't be engaged. If you were walking around campus. I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't know what to do. Everything kind of happened really quickly.

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<v Speaker 1>It took me by surprise, and I'm sorry. I'm sorry. No,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, Noah, do you want me to send you

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<v Speaker 1>back the pillow? Can you not? Don't talk about that

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<v Speaker 1>on the radio. You're the one who called the radio,

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<v Speaker 1>so I think we know nothing about a pillow. Yeah, now,

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<v Speaker 1>this is insanely embarrassing. Uh, Noah sent me a pillow

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<v Speaker 1>of his fate? Oh? Sweet, Noah, Wow, I of it,

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<v Speaker 1>So it's kind of funny, kind of sweet. No, you're

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<v Speaker 1>a catch, I doin You're a catch, Noah, If that's

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<v Speaker 1>your girlfriend, don't don't back on this guy, he's having

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<v Speaker 1>a hard moment right now. What was going on in

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<v Speaker 1>your mind when you sent her a pillow of your face?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I can't be there for her physically because

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<v Speaker 1>of the distance, and so I thought it was something

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<v Speaker 1>that she could at least like have remember with me

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<v Speaker 1>and maybe even cuddle with That's maybe she's drunk, she's

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<v Speaker 1>kiss it a little bit, Maybe do a little more

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<v Speaker 1>with it. What are you doing with a pillow right now? Anna,

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<v Speaker 1>Like you've a pillow of some dude's face at your

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<v Speaker 1>house when your fiance comes over. It's just in my closet,

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<v Speaker 1>and I just don't know what to do with it,

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<v Speaker 1>so I didn't. It felt wrong to just throw it away.

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<v Speaker 1>That's okay, I need to ask a question, but before

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<v Speaker 1>I do, I want to know how serious is this

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<v Speaker 1>fiance Anna. I've actually with Jeffrey on this one. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>it sounds like the switch is turning on and off

0:14:57.800 --> 0:14:59.840
<v Speaker 1>it is, and like I feel like you're holding onto

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<v Speaker 1>the things like his pillow or letting him stay without

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<v Speaker 1>telling him because you actually do really like Noah. Still.

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<v Speaker 1>I love my fiancee, and I've been honest with him

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<v Speaker 1>about the situation with Noah. Yes, I should have told

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<v Speaker 1>Noah I was engaged up front. I wasn't engaged, and

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<v Speaker 1>I was home for the holidays, and like it was

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<v Speaker 1>kind of freaking out a bit. So what are you saying?

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<v Speaker 1>Is this guy premed? Is he rich like an athlete?

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<v Speaker 1>Is he a frat boy? No, I'm not talking to

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<v Speaker 1>you guys about this is it's not going to happen.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think marriage is going to happen. But well,

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<v Speaker 1>I need to ask at this point, Anna, would you

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<v Speaker 1>like to go out on another date with Noah. We'll

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<v Speaker 1>pay for it him out or you know, or we'll

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<v Speaker 1>at least pay for the postage for you to send

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<v Speaker 1>his pillow back to him. That is nice. I like that.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm going to send the pillow back, but I don't

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<v Speaker 1>need you guys to pay for it than you though,

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<v Speaker 1>for the very kind offer you. No, I think you're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna be just fine. You're gonna bounce back, you know. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I just wish I knew. I just feel like an idiot.

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<v Speaker 1>Well it's all right, buddy, it's not on you, man,

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<v Speaker 1>you know. No, I feel bad. Why don't you when

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<v Speaker 1>you get the pillow back, why don't you send it

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<v Speaker 1>over to me? Okay, I'll try it out. I'll use

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<v Speaker 1>it the right way. You'll use it the right way.

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<v Speaker 1>You did not just do that. I'll do what you

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<v Speaker 1>want me to do. No, thank you, Brook and Jeffrey

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<v Speaker 1>in the morning,