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Speaker 1: You don't know whether or not his feelings would be

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Speaker 1: I mean, Noah, do you want me to send you

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Speaker 1: Is he a frat boy? No, I'm not talking to

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Speaker 1: his pillow back to him. That is nice. I like that.

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Speaker 1: I'm going to send the pillow back, but I don't

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Speaker 1: for the very kind offer you. No, I think you're

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Speaker 1: I just wish I knew. I just feel like an idiot.

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