WEBVTT - Ep. 4 "You in my business? Don’t do that" 0:00:03.040 --> 0:00:07.080 We're just too unapologetically black women with an opinion who 0:00:07.240 --> 0:00:14.880 talks back. Welcome back, everybody. Hey, y'all, it's me Tam 0:00:14.960 --> 0:00:19.480 Bawn and this is a J and this is episode four. Yep, 0:00:19.760 --> 0:00:26.000 have we talk back, bitches. I missed y'all so much. Ay, J, 0:00:26.360 --> 0:00:29.520 How was your weekend? Girl? My weekend was okay. I 0:00:29.520 --> 0:00:32.320 don't do much and nothing, just getting ready for vacation. 0:00:32.600 --> 0:00:35.960 Oh is it a Valentine's State Trump slash and babe 0:00:35.960 --> 0:00:41.040 birthday on the slash vacation slash fucking a Queries birthday. Oh, 0:00:41.320 --> 0:00:44.839 that's gonna be nice. I'm jealous. Well, I'm gonna have 0:00:44.880 --> 0:00:47.559 a fun feel weekend too. Guess what I'm gonna do 0:00:47.720 --> 0:00:51.960 what you're doing On Sunday. I'm going to watch a 0:00:52.159 --> 0:00:58.440 Snap marathon and then I'm gonna drink wine and cry. 0:00:58.520 --> 0:01:01.080 And then when all the wine is on, I'm gonna 0:01:01.160 --> 0:01:09.319 go nigga knocking twelve years old. I'll be thir why 0:01:09.319 --> 0:01:14.080 are you nigga knocking on Valentine's Day? Because I'm a hater, okay, 0:01:14.160 --> 0:01:16.039 And it just gives me like an a drenaline rush, 0:01:16.160 --> 0:01:19.679 so it's kind of fun. I'll be drunk and I'll 0:01:19.720 --> 0:01:22.800 just listen at someone's door now, just in my community, 0:01:22.840 --> 0:01:25.160 so I know it's like pretty safe. I'm not going, like, 0:01:25.360 --> 0:01:28.040 you know, anywhere outside of my immediate community. What if 0:01:28.080 --> 0:01:31.520 you fall, that's gonna be even more funny, bitch if 0:01:31.520 --> 0:01:35.280 I fall, But I'm gonna listen to that during If 0:01:35.319 --> 0:01:37.520 it sounds like something that is happening or like they're 0:01:37.520 --> 0:01:41.640 having a good, loving night, I'm gonna be like and 0:01:41.640 --> 0:01:44.560 then I'm gonna run as fast as I can't. That 0:01:44.600 --> 0:01:47.680 shouldn't be so much fun, bro, that's the way. How 0:01:47.680 --> 0:01:49.600 many years in the row even doing this um ship, 0:01:49.720 --> 0:01:51.800 This will be my fifth year, bitch. You need to 0:01:51.800 --> 0:01:54.280 get your ass it started. Let me tell you how 0:01:54.280 --> 0:01:57.840 I started. I lived over off of South Boulevard back 0:01:57.880 --> 0:02:00.000 then when I first moved to Charlotte, after I left 0:02:00.240 --> 0:02:02.880 the nigga I was with, and it was the first 0:02:02.960 --> 0:02:06.560 Valentine's Day alone and there was like playing some old 0:02:06.720 --> 0:02:10.959 Tai reason Joe downstairs. I was like, Oh, I got 0:02:10.960 --> 0:02:15.120 something for y'all with all that love music, bitch. So 0:02:15.200 --> 0:02:17.440 I went down there and I knocked on the fucking 0:02:17.440 --> 0:02:19.680 door and I took off running. I was like, boom, boom, boom, 0:02:19.720 --> 0:02:22.519 boom and I took off running as fast like held 0:02:22.560 --> 0:02:24.320 and I had so much fun with that ship that 0:02:24.360 --> 0:02:26.040 I just decided to do it every year that I 0:02:26.040 --> 0:02:32.560 don't have a nigger. So yeah, that's Sunday for me. Look, so, y'all, 0:02:32.600 --> 0:02:36.000 we're gonna do a for the Love of Tam Bam episode. 0:02:36.000 --> 0:02:37.799 We're gonna be about to find you a nigga shock 0:02:37.800 --> 0:02:39.320 because we can't be doing this ship on the day 0:02:39.360 --> 0:02:41.560 and Valentine's Day. I wanted nigga who go do it 0:02:41.600 --> 0:02:48.200 with me on Valentine's Day calling all childish niggas but 0:02:48.320 --> 0:02:52.880 a check period. So for the Love of Tam Bam 0:02:52.960 --> 0:02:55.720 will be like where they calling on zoom and like 0:02:55.760 --> 0:03:00.280 get ex questions and we're gonna make or something like No, 0:03:00.520 --> 0:03:03.000 al right, is that like something that's required you to 0:03:03.040 --> 0:03:04.920 see a dick first. I would like to see a 0:03:04.960 --> 0:03:09.720 dick first. Camera phones literally save lives and body counts 0:03:09.760 --> 0:03:12.200 because back in the day, man, you just gotta get 0:03:12.240 --> 0:03:17.560 surprised by the little dick, like he this little whacker. No, 0:03:17.680 --> 0:03:20.640 it's a pep, it's little. So back in the day, 0:03:20.720 --> 0:03:22.360 like all you could do is do what they're like, 0:03:22.400 --> 0:03:25.880 Oh no, I don't think we should I would like. 0:03:26.000 --> 0:03:27.840 I know that's a bit much to ask, and I 0:03:27.880 --> 0:03:30.240 don't want to like me to these niggas, So you 0:03:30.280 --> 0:03:36.800 could keep your dick and your pants, okay. Respect. So, 0:03:37.360 --> 0:03:40.680 in honor of Black History Month, we want to celebrate 0:03:40.800 --> 0:03:44.440 a black batty who talked back, and today we are 0:03:44.480 --> 0:03:50.600 celebrating Kathleen Clever. She was born May thirteen, nineteen. This 0:03:50.640 --> 0:03:55.200 woman was supers is because she's still living, she's super bad. 0:03:55.360 --> 0:03:58.560 Let me tell you what she did. She married eld 0:03:58.600 --> 0:04:01.040 just Clever. She was is a member of the Black 0:04:01.080 --> 0:04:04.040 Panther Party. She was making the pamphlints. She was doing 0:04:04.120 --> 0:04:08.520 community service, she was organizing demonstrations. She was out in 0:04:08.600 --> 0:04:11.560 the forefront on TV in the face of oppression, not 0:04:11.680 --> 0:04:15.360 scared where her big afro, taking up space, taking names 0:04:15.360 --> 0:04:18.800 and kicking asses. This woman was bad and still is bad. 0:04:18.839 --> 0:04:22.080 She's a professor at Emory College right now, seventy five 0:04:22.160 --> 0:04:26.200 years old, still doing her thing. Kathleen Clever, we celebrate 0:04:26.240 --> 0:04:30.559 you since you are a batty who talks back. Yes, 0:04:30.920 --> 0:04:34.360 Mrs Cleaver. So I thought a good uh topic for 0:04:34.480 --> 0:04:38.920 us discussed would be should you disclose any of your 0:04:38.960 --> 0:04:44.040 sexual past or anything to your current booth. What past 0:04:44.440 --> 0:04:48.479 are you speaking of? You minding my business again? They'll 0:04:48.520 --> 0:04:52.080 do that. Are they privy to your sexual past whatever 0:04:52.120 --> 0:04:54.080 it may be? Even if they asked, like how many 0:04:54.080 --> 0:04:57.159 people you've been with? Should you answer that? What? Should 0:04:57.160 --> 0:05:00.840 you close anything today? As absolutely? And are you required 0:05:00.960 --> 0:05:06.760 to two niggas? That's it My first in you, That's 0:05:06.760 --> 0:05:10.039 all I got. And look, my rule is if I 0:05:10.080 --> 0:05:12.719 ain't come in, don't count, So don't ask me about 0:05:12.760 --> 0:05:14.719 no dumb ship like that. How many people have been 0:05:14.760 --> 0:05:17.039 when it's none of your goddamn business. If I didn't 0:05:17.040 --> 0:05:19.880 come in, don't count. If it happened before this current 0:05:19.920 --> 0:05:23.400 new year, isn't count when the clock's out over after 0:05:23.480 --> 0:05:27.919 midnight last night. And don't count on work. If it 0:05:28.000 --> 0:05:30.320 was a different zip code niggers, right, if I was 0:05:30.320 --> 0:05:36.120 on vacation, it don't count. It's like what Jaco said 0:05:36.760 --> 0:05:42.159 about three or four. You gotta by three, so niggas 0:05:42.240 --> 0:05:46.560 your automatically, No listen if I say five times by three, niggers. Now, 0:05:46.600 --> 0:05:48.880 it was a couple of years of my twenties though, okay, 0:05:48.920 --> 0:05:51.559 this is my thing. If you went to college, because 0:05:51.600 --> 0:05:53.400 I feel like that's when I had the most sex 0:05:53.520 --> 0:05:56.520 me too. It's in college. Those college years, like eighteen 0:05:56.920 --> 0:06:02.560 too would have been my whole stage, not even maybe 0:06:02.560 --> 0:06:07.040 not even eighteens. Maybe honestly, a woman is gonna lie 0:06:07.080 --> 0:06:10.120 about their body account unless it's really too But why 0:06:10.160 --> 0:06:12.080 do women feel they have to lie when many can 0:06:12.080 --> 0:06:13.680 tell us the truth and we're still gonna suck that 0:06:13.760 --> 0:06:15.880 whole ass dick? Right? A man be like, I don't 0:06:15.880 --> 0:06:19.560 even know, man, it's just I don't know. Hundreds hundreds. 0:06:19.760 --> 0:06:22.520 At what point do you think that you can just 0:06:22.640 --> 0:06:25.839 run through women your entire life and not get a 0:06:25.880 --> 0:06:29.200 woman that's ran through? But you think your mama and 0:06:29.320 --> 0:06:32.280 your sister and your daughter is exempt from being ran 0:06:32.400 --> 0:06:35.800 through by a nigga like you? At what point do 0:06:35.839 --> 0:06:37.760 you think you deserve that? You know you deserve this 0:06:37.800 --> 0:06:42.680 whole ass? What is wrong with you? Relaxed on clubhouse 0:06:42.800 --> 0:06:44.640 one nigga in the room said he has sex with 0:06:44.680 --> 0:06:48.000 a thousand women over it could be over a thousand women. 0:06:48.160 --> 0:06:50.320 He said one month he has sex with a hundred bitches. 0:06:50.600 --> 0:06:54.080 Why sport. The moderator was like, do you consider yourself 0:06:54.080 --> 0:06:56.240 a good man? And he was like, yeah, you cannot 0:06:56.279 --> 0:06:58.360 possibly be a good man if you're disturbing that many 0:06:58.360 --> 0:07:00.760 souls in the month. What makes you think you deserve 0:07:00.880 --> 0:07:03.560 some wholesome ass woman that you can ask her, Hey, 0:07:03.560 --> 0:07:05.400 how many people you've been winning? She'll be like, oh 0:07:05.440 --> 0:07:07.560 five and really mean it. Yeah. I think once you 0:07:07.600 --> 0:07:09.920 get to a certain age, those questions is just like 0:07:10.120 --> 0:07:13.400 childish for what what difference does it make at this point? 0:07:13.800 --> 0:07:16.720 I think it's man ego. For whatever reason, they want 0:07:16.840 --> 0:07:19.120 to believe that your whole life, your puss even on 0:07:19.200 --> 0:07:21.760 reserve for him and just let him think that how 0:07:21.880 --> 0:07:24.520 though life? What if? What? I just if you're gonna 0:07:24.520 --> 0:07:27.000 ask me a dumbass question like that, then I'm gonna 0:07:27.000 --> 0:07:29.080 give you a dumba ass answer to So tell me, 0:07:29.160 --> 0:07:31.080 how would you feel if you're a man if you 0:07:31.120 --> 0:07:33.360 saw or your man presented to you that he had 0:07:33.360 --> 0:07:37.160 been compounding a list of your sexual partners based off 0:07:37.200 --> 0:07:40.560 of just general conversation with him, like yeah, my homeboy 0:07:40.840 --> 0:07:43.160 or a friend of mine or this nigga, I know 0:07:43.560 --> 0:07:48.240 type conversation, so he has like descriptive words listed. How 0:07:48.280 --> 0:07:50.680 would you feel about that? Scared of my nigga a 0:07:50.760 --> 0:07:55.760 little bit? You are really tripping Like the lists say, Okay, 0:07:55.880 --> 0:07:58.320 there's John and I know you used to fuck him? 0:07:58.400 --> 0:08:02.040 And then then Nigga with the Blue Jeese? Who did 0:08:02.080 --> 0:08:03.520 they get with the Blue Jeese? Like, how are you 0:08:03.520 --> 0:08:05.920 coming up with this list? And why are you doing that? 0:08:05.960 --> 0:08:08.280 It's the question like what does it do for you 0:08:08.360 --> 0:08:13.200 to make that list? What is your So wait, yes, 0:08:13.280 --> 0:08:15.840 that has happened to me and it was presented to you, 0:08:16.640 --> 0:08:19.920 and I literally, you know, began going through it with 0:08:20.000 --> 0:08:22.080 him and then I was like, you know what, delete 0:08:22.120 --> 0:08:24.400 that ship? What the fund is wrong with you? Right? 0:08:24.800 --> 0:08:26.640 Are you trying? I'm not counting up on many bitches 0:08:26.680 --> 0:08:28.680 you've been winning. How many times? You're not telling me 0:08:28.680 --> 0:08:30.720 you don't two bitches in a night? Like, I'm not 0:08:30.760 --> 0:08:33.280 doing that because it doesn't matter to me. I don't care. 0:08:33.600 --> 0:08:35.480 As long as you know sucking them right now, right, 0:08:35.520 --> 0:08:39.760 That's all that matters. That's it. But I'm an open book, 0:08:39.800 --> 0:08:42.480 so it's kind of like nothing's really taboo for me. 0:08:42.760 --> 0:08:45.920 But I'm going to probably lie. The questions that men 0:08:46.040 --> 0:08:48.920 asked definitely come from a place of ego and insecurity. 0:08:49.120 --> 0:08:51.040 It can't come from a good place when you ask 0:08:51.080 --> 0:08:53.520 a woman how many men have you slept with? Why 0:08:53.520 --> 0:08:55.320 do you need that information? What are you gonna do 0:08:55.360 --> 0:08:57.920 with it doesn't change who I am you right now. 0:08:58.240 --> 0:09:00.320 They want you to be able to suck. They did good, 0:09:00.400 --> 0:09:03.040 but they want to They want to virgin to never 0:09:03.080 --> 0:09:05.719 have sucked dick before. They want a virgin hole. They 0:09:05.760 --> 0:09:08.080 want the dick sucked on the handstand. They want you 0:09:08.120 --> 0:09:11.480 to twirl and do all the tricks. You never have 0:09:11.600 --> 0:09:15.320 done it to anybody exactly, and that's impossible. I don't 0:09:15.360 --> 0:09:19.160 need to know how. That's what I was telling my guy, Like, 0:09:19.280 --> 0:09:21.880 even if you sucked one of my friends before, if 0:09:21.880 --> 0:09:23.880 you one of my friends, yeah, I want to, Okay, 0:09:23.920 --> 0:09:26.600 I would expect my friend and telling me both of them. Well, 0:09:26.800 --> 0:09:29.880 he wasn't my name at the time when you sucked him, right, 0:09:30.120 --> 0:09:35.560 but somebody need to tell me. Somebody. If the man 0:09:35.640 --> 0:09:37.520 tells me and my home girl never mentioned it, I'm 0:09:37.559 --> 0:09:40.440 gonna be upset with that, right. I told one of 0:09:40.440 --> 0:09:42.520 my clients that I tried to suck her boyfriend, but 0:09:42.559 --> 0:09:45.960 I didn't know what's her boyfriend though current boyfriend, but 0:09:46.040 --> 0:09:47.920 I she was a new client and she showed me 0:09:47.960 --> 0:09:50.240 a picture and I was like, oh wow, But here's 0:09:50.240 --> 0:09:52.360 the thing she was saying, like she wasn't sure about him. 0:09:52.880 --> 0:09:55.080 I was like, no, he's good dude, does he fast? 0:09:55.920 --> 0:09:57.760 He was like, nah, I got a girlfriend. I can't 0:09:57.760 --> 0:10:00.920 do that with him and stuck. You can dig down. Yeah, 0:10:01.559 --> 0:10:03.959 I just I only told her because I wanted her to, like, 0:10:04.120 --> 0:10:10.640 you know, be happy in her relationship. Did you lie 0:10:10.679 --> 0:10:14.280 to her though? No? No, he really was professing. He 0:10:14.360 --> 0:10:16.800 was giving me a massage. She was a massage therapist. 0:10:16.880 --> 0:10:19.440 I really like tried like I adn't like throw. I 0:10:19.679 --> 0:10:28.360 insinuated that he can know you ain't doing that. Later, 0:10:30.600 --> 0:10:33.079 I'll give you a little bit. Ship said that man 0:10:33.160 --> 0:10:35.959 to me, all right, your services over and then when 0:10:36.000 --> 0:10:38.240 he's like, I'm ann step out, so you get a 0:10:38.320 --> 0:10:43.839 CD like this, Uh, like it took all the power. 0:10:43.960 --> 0:10:47.320 He's sold out to guy. He's a great guy. They 0:10:47.440 --> 0:10:51.760 end up getting married. Beautiful. So do you feel like 0:10:51.800 --> 0:10:54.440 if a guy had been with another man he should 0:10:54.520 --> 0:10:59.120 tell you that? Absolutely? Would that be like a deal breaker? Absolutely? 0:10:59.400 --> 0:11:01.800 So safe since you were in a relationship, would do 0:11:02.040 --> 0:11:04.679 for a year, right, And he's like, maybe something I 0:11:04.679 --> 0:11:06.360 gotta tell you, And you know, I don't know how 0:11:06.400 --> 0:11:08.440 to tell you. But back when I was in college, 0:11:08.720 --> 0:11:11.520 I experimented a little bit, and you know, I had 0:11:11.559 --> 0:11:13.440 a thing with a guy. It was like two days, 0:11:13.480 --> 0:11:15.600 two times, or maybe it was just one time. You know, 0:11:15.640 --> 0:11:17.800 I really don't want to lose you, and your relationship 0:11:17.880 --> 0:11:20.560 is just great. But he fuck the dude and he 0:11:20.679 --> 0:11:28.120 was the bottom. I like all right, in my in 0:11:28.200 --> 0:11:31.440 my liberal mind, i'd like to say I would accept 0:11:31.440 --> 0:11:33.959 to him for himself, right, that's my liberal mon lie 0:11:35.200 --> 0:11:38.640 if he decided, because you know, it's okay to experiment 0:11:38.720 --> 0:11:40.719 and figure out who you are, right, who am I 0:11:40.800 --> 0:11:43.160 the challenge that I did it? I do it, and 0:11:43.240 --> 0:11:45.280 we know as a double standard with that, okay, yes 0:11:45.320 --> 0:11:47.880 it is, but I'm for my own self, for my 0:11:47.920 --> 0:11:50.080 own thinking. I don't want to apply that double standard. 0:11:50.360 --> 0:11:52.520 Did you know you don't like it? Because it takes 0:11:52.559 --> 0:11:54.920 courage to come to somebody with that information, So I 0:11:54.960 --> 0:11:56.800 don't think you will start lying at that point. Did 0:11:56.800 --> 0:11:59.040 you discover that that's something that you didn't like? So 0:11:59.160 --> 0:12:00.959 in my mind, if I'm like truly in love and 0:12:01.040 --> 0:12:04.079 truly happy, I would want to stay like. I don't 0:12:04.120 --> 0:12:06.960 think I would allow that to keep me from my happiness. 0:12:07.040 --> 0:12:09.880 That's what my liberal mindset. With my hood, the hood 0:12:09.920 --> 0:12:12.960 bit in me is like, nigga, you gotta be fucked 0:12:13.000 --> 0:12:14.640 up and then when we get into a fight and 0:12:14.760 --> 0:12:17.040 be like, yeah, you'd be acting like an old dick 0:12:17.120 --> 0:12:23.720 in the booty shut your bit as so right, So 0:12:23.840 --> 0:12:27.400 I don't know because I don't know. I don't know 0:12:27.440 --> 0:12:29.560 how that would go. Because there's half of me that 0:12:29.640 --> 0:12:33.439 feels like I care and I was. I feel like 0:12:33.480 --> 0:12:35.559 that's a little bit deceitful because I feel like if 0:12:35.600 --> 0:12:38.800 I present myself as a hetero sexual woman who prefers 0:12:38.800 --> 0:12:42.559 a hetero sexual man, and I don't care what anybody thinks, 0:12:42.720 --> 0:12:45.520 if you are a man and you have slept to me, 0:12:45.600 --> 0:12:47.920 this is my opinion, and you have slept with a man, 0:12:48.440 --> 0:12:50.560 even just one time. You made that up in your 0:12:50.600 --> 0:12:52.840 mind first before you committed to the actual act of it, 0:12:53.040 --> 0:12:55.560 so I would feel like you could possibly do that again. 0:12:55.880 --> 0:12:57.680 So now not only do I have to worry about 0:12:57.679 --> 0:12:59.520 you cheating and sucking bitches, I have to worry about 0:12:59.520 --> 0:13:01.400 you cheating and sucking men. So if that's something that 0:13:01.440 --> 0:13:04.000 you into or have been into at some point, you 0:13:04.040 --> 0:13:06.920 should disclose that information. I agree you should disclose it. 0:13:07.080 --> 0:13:09.760 You know, like men, men have no problem asking women 0:13:09.840 --> 0:13:11.720 or you ever been with a woman before? Stop lying? 0:13:11.840 --> 0:13:13.360 But if I say here, you've been with a nigga 0:13:13.360 --> 0:13:16.520 before they get So if a man has been with 0:13:16.559 --> 0:13:19.040 a man, you'd expect to tell you that. Absolutely, please 0:13:19.040 --> 0:13:21.600 sell me. I need to know because that's not something 0:13:21.640 --> 0:13:24.360 I will sign up for me And the women are 0:13:24.360 --> 0:13:27.000 you're okay? What men who are bisexual? So? What are 0:13:27.040 --> 0:13:29.520 some things that you feel like should be disclosed to 0:13:29.640 --> 0:13:34.080 your partner? Diseases? Diseases? If you got you know, anything 0:13:34.120 --> 0:13:37.679 that you can give me, that's something you should definitely share. 0:13:37.920 --> 0:13:40.000 Grand And I was at this nigger house one time 0:13:40.200 --> 0:13:42.679 when I lived in Atlanta, and I went into this 0:13:42.760 --> 0:13:46.520 nigga's medicine cabinet and he had an unfinished bottle of 0:13:47.000 --> 0:13:49.439 dioxy cycling. I think that's how you pronounce it. I 0:13:50.360 --> 0:13:54.839 googled it. It's for gnarrhea or chlamydia. Unfinished, so let 0:13:54.880 --> 0:13:56.959 me either he stopped taking it because it's dick stopped. 0:13:58.120 --> 0:14:01.679 He saved there for the next time. Is dig st 0:14:02.080 --> 0:14:03.440 just so he ain't got to go back to the 0:14:04.480 --> 0:14:07.320 Either way, you're a nasty nigga. Why the funk am 0:14:07.400 --> 0:14:12.640 I hair? And it's like God, open that there medicine cabinet. 0:14:12.679 --> 0:14:16.120 See what this nigga dick got going on? Right? And 0:14:16.200 --> 0:14:20.800 I smash him and I so, yeah, she should definitely 0:14:20.840 --> 0:14:24.960 disclose sexual health history to people, right, I agree with that, 0:14:25.000 --> 0:14:26.960 But see Nigga's think like, as long as their girl 0:14:27.040 --> 0:14:30.520 ain't burning, they're not burning that girl. Don't got nothing. Yeah, 0:14:30.520 --> 0:14:34.240 they'd be cheating off a girl. Nigga, go get your 0:14:34.280 --> 0:14:36.320 own tests. Don't check off your girl chest around here 0:14:36.400 --> 0:14:38.400 saying you straight. No, you don't even know you straight. 0:14:38.440 --> 0:14:40.720 Maybe your girl eats a plant, please diet, and she's 0:14:40.800 --> 0:14:43.240 really sick and it's hard for her to just get 0:14:43.280 --> 0:14:45.880 shipped from other people, and you need McDonald's and you're 0:14:45.920 --> 0:14:49.480 gonna have what else? Some other things that people mental 0:14:49.520 --> 0:14:53.200 health trauma. I think that's important to share with each other. 0:14:53.280 --> 0:14:55.600 So what would that be like if you bust Nigga's 0:14:55.640 --> 0:14:57.520 windows out when you get mad and you tell people 0:14:57.560 --> 0:15:01.160 that maybe not maybe not. I us Nigga's windows out 0:15:01.160 --> 0:15:03.400 when they play with me. But like I have had 0:15:03.480 --> 0:15:06.600 in the history of behaving in a violent manner when 0:15:06.640 --> 0:15:10.240 I'm upset, but I am actively working on it, and 0:15:10.360 --> 0:15:12.720 I don't plan to do that with you. You ever 0:15:12.760 --> 0:15:15.840 bust somebody car windows out. I bust the windows out 0:15:15.880 --> 0:15:20.360 his ship. You didn't know I've never bust out anybody's windows, 0:15:20.360 --> 0:15:23.240 but I have bust some tires. But it was not 0:15:24.680 --> 0:15:26.640 I'd rather you bust my window out. It wasn't my 0:15:27.000 --> 0:15:29.720 free that's a free repair through the insurance tire has 0:15:29.800 --> 0:15:31.800 got a lot. It wasn't my nigga. It was my 0:15:31.880 --> 0:15:34.320 home girl nigga. And I was mad with her, and 0:15:34.360 --> 0:15:36.280 I was like, She's like, I'm scared, and I was like, 0:15:36.360 --> 0:15:40.000 I'll do it. Wait, I've heard this story. Hey girl, 0:15:41.640 --> 0:15:44.000 I'll do it, bitch, give it to me. And that 0:15:44.080 --> 0:15:46.600 nigger came up to the school because he was in college. 0:15:46.640 --> 0:15:48.720 That thinker came up to the campus next day and 0:15:48.760 --> 0:15:51.320 he was like on level tim man, and I was 0:15:51.360 --> 0:15:53.400 so scared for my life, but he never found out 0:15:53.440 --> 0:15:57.320 it was me. Did he get acute of it, Yeah, 0:15:57.400 --> 0:16:01.240 yeah he did. He was when nobody should. I got ship. 0:16:01.720 --> 0:16:03.640 I'm not messing with your car because I don't want 0:16:03.640 --> 0:16:05.680 you coming back and messing on my car. I'm not 0:16:06.040 --> 0:16:09.520 with your clothes, don't you fucking Michael's. That's not the 0:16:09.560 --> 0:16:11.600 only time I tore up with nigger ship, though, But 0:16:12.000 --> 0:16:14.000 that was the only time I tore up somebody's ship 0:16:14.040 --> 0:16:21.040 that wasn't mine. So should you be tearing up like 0:16:21.040 --> 0:16:23.120 what else? You don't creating that nigga that you feel 0:16:23.160 --> 0:16:25.480 like needs to be disclosed to the next thing looking 0:16:25.480 --> 0:16:27.720 to give. You do this to me? This is well, 0:16:27.720 --> 0:16:29.680 this is all When I was young. Once I got 0:16:29.720 --> 0:16:32.520 became like a grown ass woman for real, then I 0:16:32.560 --> 0:16:35.560 just was like, okay, that's how we're playing. I don't 0:16:35.560 --> 0:16:37.800 have the energy to be tearing up stuff no more. 0:16:37.920 --> 0:16:40.200 When I was in my early twenties, I was a 0:16:40.240 --> 0:16:44.000 little scrappy, tear your ship up in a minute. I 0:16:44.080 --> 0:16:48.000 was putting PlayStations and busting up computers. And I took 0:16:48.000 --> 0:16:50.320 his PlayStation and put it in a tub and ran 0:16:50.400 --> 0:16:52.560 the water over that ship and just left the water run. 0:16:52.720 --> 0:16:55.160 I had a homegirl who went in her nigga house 0:16:55.240 --> 0:16:58.560 and cut the cords to every electronic. Yeah, she was 0:16:58.600 --> 0:17:03.000 with the ship. That's fucking Patty TVs, blenders, whatever had 0:17:03.040 --> 0:17:06.920 a fucking plug on, and she cut that ship. That's 0:17:07.000 --> 0:17:08.760 fuck it up. I don't do that no more. Like 0:17:08.880 --> 0:17:10.879 I haven't. I haven't been that person in a long 0:17:11.040 --> 0:17:12.639 time now. It's just like, I don't even have an 0:17:12.760 --> 0:17:14.600 energy to tear up your ship. I don't gonna say 0:17:14.600 --> 0:17:16.600 I don't have the energy. I just I'm such a 0:17:16.640 --> 0:17:18.760 real nigga, Like I don't want a nigga to be 0:17:18.800 --> 0:17:21.280 telling somebody I did some ship like that. My face 0:17:21.320 --> 0:17:24.720 car always gotta be clean, like yeah, actually she cool. Whatever. 0:17:25.840 --> 0:17:27.800 Now let me tell you what I do now. I 0:17:27.880 --> 0:17:30.600 went to a negat sleep and seeing myself some money 0:17:30.600 --> 0:17:37.240 from his cashap compensation for all the heartache. Nigga, you 0:17:37.280 --> 0:17:39.880 gotta pay me to be unhappy. I'm gonna cash myself. 0:17:42.200 --> 0:17:44.880 Hold on, before we get into anything else, Let's pay 0:17:44.920 --> 0:17:51.480 some bills real quick. You know you've seen on social 0:17:51.520 --> 0:17:54.359 media where people are like, especially men. I see that 0:17:54.400 --> 0:17:59.120 it's mostly men coming for Lorie Harvey because she's dated 0:17:59.480 --> 0:18:02.320 quite a few high profile guys and we get to 0:18:02.359 --> 0:18:04.879 see her go from one to the other and they 0:18:04.960 --> 0:18:07.080 calling her a hole. What do you think I've been 0:18:07.119 --> 0:18:08.920 seeing like a lot of niggas calling her a home. 0:18:09.000 --> 0:18:12.280 That's because they pass around and because they would still 0:18:12.600 --> 0:18:16.560 have sex with Loria Harvey, drink her bathwater, eat her ass. 0:18:16.680 --> 0:18:23.359 No condom behind all of these men, right right, But 0:18:23.440 --> 0:18:25.440 I guess her body count like I guess you get 0:18:25.480 --> 0:18:30.240 to see it visually like on the shape everybody, so 0:18:30.280 --> 0:18:32.320 it's nothing to hide, so she really get to be herself. 0:18:32.359 --> 0:18:35.080 She don't gotta lie about Ship said. She never actually 0:18:35.080 --> 0:18:38.040 even came out and said, Hey, I'm dealing with this person. 0:18:38.119 --> 0:18:42.880 People make assumptions. She could be fucking round just hanging out, 0:18:42.080 --> 0:18:46.720 and it's a body according to the world. You see 0:18:46.720 --> 0:18:49.000 her out with tred Songs and now she didn't collected 0:18:49.080 --> 0:18:52.160 him in her body count. She probably did. I'm just saying, 0:18:52.200 --> 0:18:54.600 did you see Tredy Songs? And then in their video 0:18:54.720 --> 0:18:57.360 last week? Boy, I didn't want I did not want 0:18:57.359 --> 0:18:59.760 to believe it with him because I don't know. I 0:18:59.800 --> 0:19:01.960 just couldn't imagine that dick on him. Do you see 0:19:02.000 --> 0:19:04.520 him with like a smaller duck, just a regular dick? 0:19:04.960 --> 0:19:07.640 He said? And now I see why he's a devo. Yeah, 0:19:07.680 --> 0:19:09.600 he said. The neighbors know his name, and he looked 0:19:09.640 --> 0:19:12.320 like they do. Who was the girl sucking it? I 0:19:12.320 --> 0:19:14.120 don't know. She wasn't doing that great of a job. 0:19:14.160 --> 0:19:17.600 I know that, Yeah, she was. I comfas balls baby, 0:19:19.240 --> 0:19:22.760 comfass balls baby, make sure they're safe and woolb in 0:19:22.880 --> 0:19:31.480 your wet hands. We discussed about some men liking dry heads. No, 0:19:31.560 --> 0:19:33.720 I'm sure she did a magnificent job. We only saw 0:19:33.760 --> 0:19:36.320 a very small snippet of it. So like Kim Kardashian, 0:19:36.359 --> 0:19:39.280 like everybody, oh claimed the fame because she did pouring whatever. Okay, 0:19:39.320 --> 0:19:42.080 we can literally count how many people that we know 0:19:42.200 --> 0:19:44.760 of that Kim Kardashian has been with, But how many 0:19:44.960 --> 0:19:48.760 of average women with natural hair, praeces and glasses have 0:19:48.960 --> 0:19:52.480 been with I've been with. They don't know how many 0:19:52.480 --> 0:19:54.639 men they have been with. Double yeah, And they're probably 0:19:54.720 --> 0:19:57.200 the main ones in comments calling somebody at home just 0:19:57.240 --> 0:19:59.719 because we don't know you personally. It's always the air 0:19:59.800 --> 0:20:04.720 for bitches when we started, like if we got fronds underneath, 0:20:09.760 --> 0:20:11.960 Like I think the only time I would disclose to 0:20:12.000 --> 0:20:14.560 a guy like hey, I've been with this particular person. 0:20:14.880 --> 0:20:17.480 Like say, for instance, we are at a party or 0:20:17.480 --> 0:20:21.159 something and I realized my guy knows somebody else in 0:20:21.240 --> 0:20:23.440 this party that I've been with, I would tell him 0:20:23.480 --> 0:20:27.320 immediately because one thing I hate. Yes, I'm gonna tell 0:20:27.359 --> 0:20:29.760 him right then, because I don't want somebody coming back, 0:20:29.840 --> 0:20:33.520 or the guy telling another mutual friend like yeah, I 0:20:33.600 --> 0:20:36.200 used to funk with a j this, and the third 0:20:36.240 --> 0:20:38.000 I'd rather tell him myself, like yeah, I used to 0:20:38.000 --> 0:20:39.639 work with that guy what if you go to a 0:20:39.680 --> 0:20:47.040 party that has never happened. It's never happened to me there. 0:20:47.119 --> 0:20:48.960 Look look how you looking at me, bitch? No it 0:20:49.040 --> 0:20:55.399 has not like it has. I have literally jumped in 0:20:55.560 --> 0:20:58.840 the car of a man that I slept with with 0:20:58.920 --> 0:21:02.119 my current boyfriend, and my friend and his now wife 0:21:02.280 --> 0:21:05.480 jumped in the car. The drivers. Nah. So we had 0:21:05.520 --> 0:21:08.399 caught ober to like a party from a restaurant was 0:21:08.440 --> 0:21:10.720 at and we were just going to get a ride 0:21:10.720 --> 0:21:13.840 back from them because we knew them. Well evidently I 0:21:13.920 --> 0:21:16.200 knew him and then everybody else in the group did 0:21:16.240 --> 0:21:18.400 too somehow, so whatever, So we hopped in this car. 0:21:18.480 --> 0:21:20.159 He took us back to our car. So when we 0:21:20.200 --> 0:21:22.920