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Speaker 1: We're just too unapologetically black women with an opinion who

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Speaker 1: talks back. Welcome back, everybody. Hey, y'all, it's me Tam

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Speaker 1: Bawn and this is a J and this is episode four. Yep,

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Speaker 1: have we talk back, bitches. I missed y'all so much. Ay, J,

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Speaker 1: How was your weekend? Girl? My weekend was okay. I

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Speaker 1: don't do much and nothing, just getting ready for vacation.

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Speaker 1: Oh is it a Valentine's State Trump slash and babe

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Speaker 1: birthday on the slash vacation slash fucking a Queries birthday. Oh,

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Speaker 1: that's gonna be nice. I'm jealous. Well, I'm gonna have

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Speaker 1: a fun feel weekend too. Guess what I'm gonna do

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Speaker 1: what you're doing On Sunday. I'm going to watch a

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Speaker 1: Snap marathon and then I'm gonna drink wine and cry.

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Speaker 1: And then when all the wine is on, I'm gonna

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Speaker 1: go nigga knocking twelve years old. I'll be thir why

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Speaker 1: are you nigga knocking on Valentine's Day? Because I'm a hater, okay,

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Speaker 1: And it just gives me like an a drenaline rush,

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Speaker 1: so it's kind of fun. I'll be drunk and I'll

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Speaker 1: just listen at someone's door now, just in my community,

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Speaker 1: so I know it's like pretty safe. I'm not going, like,

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Speaker 1: you know, anywhere outside of my immediate community. What if

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Speaker 1: you fall, that's gonna be even more funny, bitch if

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Speaker 1: I fall, But I'm gonna listen to that during If

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Speaker 1: it sounds like something that is happening or like they're

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Speaker 1: having a good, loving night, I'm gonna be like and

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Speaker 1: then I'm gonna run as fast as I can't. That

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Speaker 1: shouldn't be so much fun, bro, that's the way. How

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Speaker 1: many years in the row even doing this um ship,

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Speaker 1: This will be my fifth year, bitch. You need to

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Speaker 1: get your ass it started. Let me tell you how

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Speaker 1: I started. I lived over off of South Boulevard back

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Speaker 1: then when I first moved to Charlotte, after I left

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Speaker 1: the nigga I was with, and it was the first

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Speaker 1: Valentine's Day alone and there was like playing some old

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Speaker 1: Tai reason Joe downstairs. I was like, Oh, I got

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Speaker 1: something for y'all with all that love music, bitch. So

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Speaker 1: I went down there and I knocked on the fucking

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Speaker 1: door and I took off running. I was like, boom, boom, boom,

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Speaker 1: and I had so much fun with that ship that

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Speaker 1: I just decided to do it every year that I

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Speaker 1: don't have a nigger. So yeah, that's Sunday for me. Look, so, y'all,

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Speaker 1: we're gonna do a for the Love of Tam Bam episode.

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Speaker 1: We're gonna be about to find you a nigga shock

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Speaker 1: because we can't be doing this ship on the day

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Speaker 1: and Valentine's Day. I wanted nigga who go do it

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Speaker 1: with me on Valentine's Day calling all childish niggas but

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Speaker 1: a check period. So for the Love of Tam Bam

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Speaker 1: will be like where they calling on zoom and like

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Speaker 1: get ex questions and we're gonna make or something like No,

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Speaker 1: al right, is that like something that's required you to

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Speaker 1: see a dick first. I would like to see a

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Speaker 1: dick first. Camera phones literally save lives and body counts

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Speaker 1: because back in the day, man, you just gotta get

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Speaker 1: surprised by the little dick, like he this little whacker. No,

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Speaker 1: it's a pep, it's little. So back in the day,

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Speaker 1: like all you could do is do what they're like,

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Speaker 1: Oh no, I don't think we should I would like.

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Speaker 1: I know that's a bit much to ask, and I

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Speaker 1: don't want to like me to these niggas, So you

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Speaker 1: could keep your dick and your pants, okay. Respect. So,

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Speaker 1: in honor of Black History Month, we want to celebrate

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Speaker 1: a black batty who talked back, and today we are

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Speaker 1: celebrating Kathleen Clever. She was born May thirteen, nineteen. This

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Speaker 1: woman was supers is because she's still living, she's super bad.

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Speaker 1: Let me tell you what she did. She married eld

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Speaker 1: just Clever. She was is a member of the Black

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Speaker 1: Panther Party. She was making the pamphlints. She was doing

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Speaker 1: community service, she was organizing demonstrations. She was out in

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Speaker 1: the forefront on TV in the face of oppression, not

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Speaker 1: scared where her big afro, taking up space, taking names

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Speaker 1: and kicking asses. This woman was bad and still is bad.

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Speaker 1: She's a professor at Emory College right now, seventy five

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Speaker 1: years old, still doing her thing. Kathleen Clever, we celebrate

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Speaker 1: you since you are a batty who talks back. Yes,

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Speaker 1: Mrs Cleaver. So I thought a good uh topic for

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Speaker 1: us discussed would be should you disclose any of your

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Speaker 1: sexual past or anything to your current booth. What past

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Speaker 1: are you speaking of? You minding my business again? They'll

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Speaker 1: people you've been with? Should you answer that? What? Should

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Speaker 1: you close anything today? As absolutely? And are you required

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Speaker 1: to two niggas? That's it My first in you, That's

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Speaker 1: all I got. And look, my rule is if I

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Speaker 1: no dumb ship like that. How many people have been

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Speaker 1: when it's none of your goddamn business. If I didn't

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Speaker 1: come in, don't count. If it happened before this current

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Speaker 1: new year, isn't count when the clock's out over after

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Speaker 1: was a different zip code niggers, right, if I was

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Speaker 1: on vacation, it don't count. It's like what Jaco said

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Speaker 1: about three or four. You gotta by three, so niggas

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Speaker 1: your automatically, No listen if I say five times by three, niggers. Now,

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Speaker 1: it was a couple of years of my twenties though, okay,

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Speaker 1: this is my thing. If you went to college, because

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Speaker 1: I feel like that's when I had the most sex

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Speaker 1: me too. It's in college. Those college years, like eighteen

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Speaker 1: too would have been my whole stage, not even maybe

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Speaker 1: not even eighteens. Maybe honestly, a woman is gonna lie

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Speaker 1: about their body account unless it's really too But why

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Speaker 1: tell us the truth and we're still gonna suck that

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Speaker 1: even know, man, it's just I don't know. Hundreds hundreds.

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Speaker 1: At what point do you think that you can just

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Speaker 1: woman that's ran through? But you think your mama and

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Speaker 1: your sister and your daughter is exempt from being ran

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Speaker 1: you think you deserve that? You know you deserve this

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Speaker 1: whole ass? What is wrong with you? Relaxed on clubhouse

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Speaker 1: a thousand women over it could be over a thousand women.

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Speaker 1: He said one month he has sex with a hundred bitches.

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Speaker 1: Why sport. The moderator was like, do you consider yourself

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Speaker 1: a good man? And he was like, yeah, you cannot

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Speaker 1: some wholesome ass woman that you can ask her, Hey,

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Speaker 1: how many people you've been winning? She'll be like, oh

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Speaker 1: five and really mean it. Yeah. I think once you

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Speaker 1: childish for what what difference does it make at this point?

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Speaker 1: I think it's man ego. For whatever reason, they want

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Speaker 1: how would you feel if you're a man if you

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Speaker 1: saw or your man presented to you that he had

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Speaker 1: been compounding a list of your sexual partners based off

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Speaker 1: of just general conversation with him, like yeah, my homeboy

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Speaker 1: type conversation, so he has like descriptive words listed. How

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Speaker 1: would you feel about that? Scared of my nigga a

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Speaker 1: little bit? You are really tripping Like the lists say, Okay,

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Speaker 1: there's John and I know you used to fuck him?

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Speaker 1: And then then Nigga with the Blue Jeese? Who did

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Speaker 1: It's the question like what does it do for you

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Speaker 1: to make that list? What is your So wait, yes,

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Speaker 1: that has happened to me and it was presented to you,

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Speaker 1: that ship? What the fund is wrong with you? Right?

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Speaker 1: Are you trying? I'm not counting up on many bitches

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Speaker 1: you've been winning. How many times? You're not telling me

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Speaker 1: you don't two bitches in a night? Like, I'm not

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Speaker 1: doing that because it doesn't matter to me. I don't care.

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Speaker 1: That's all that matters. That's it. But I'm an open book,

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Speaker 1: so it's kind of like nothing's really taboo for me.

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Speaker 1: But I'm going to probably lie. The questions that men

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Speaker 1: It can't come from a good place when you ask

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Speaker 1: a woman how many men have you slept with? Why

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Speaker 1: do you need that information? What are you gonna do

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Speaker 1: with it doesn't change who I am you right now.

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Speaker 1: They want you to be able to suck. They did good,

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Speaker 1: but they want to They want to virgin to never

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Speaker 1: need to know how. That's what I was telling my guy, Like,

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Speaker 1: I would expect my friend and telling me both of them. Well,

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Speaker 1: but somebody need to tell me. Somebody. If the man

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Speaker 1: the thing she was saying, like she wasn't sure about him.

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Speaker 1: I really like tried like I adn't like throw. I

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Speaker 1: I'll give you a little bit. Ship said that man

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Speaker 1: to me, all right, your services over and then when

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Speaker 1: CD like this, Uh, like it took all the power.

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Speaker 1: He's sold out to guy. He's a great guy. They

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Speaker 1: end up getting married. Beautiful. So do you feel like

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Speaker 1: if a guy had been with another man he should

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Speaker 1: tell you that? Absolutely? Would that be like a deal breaker? Absolutely?

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Speaker 1: for a year, right, And he's like, maybe something I

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Speaker 1: gotta tell you, And you know, I don't know how

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Speaker 1: I really don't want to lose you, and your relationship

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Speaker 1: is just great. But he fuck the dude and he

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Speaker 1: to him for himself, right, that's my liberal mon lie

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Speaker 1: if he decided, because you know, it's okay to experiment

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Speaker 1: with your clothes, don't you fucking Michael's. That's not the

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Speaker 1: this is all When I was young. Once I got

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Speaker 1: it's mostly men coming for Lorie Harvey because she's dated

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Speaker 1: And I was like, damn, it was that many? How many?

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00:22:22,720 --> 00:22:26,680
Speaker 1: Was it? Like? Four? Damn? Like four people? I mean

424
00:22:26,760 --> 00:22:29,199
Speaker 1: not everybody I was immediate friends with, but you know,

425
00:22:29,359 --> 00:22:32,160
Speaker 1: friends of friends, we hang out. But he had hit

426
00:22:32,240 --> 00:22:34,800
Speaker 1: a few people. I didn't judge him. It was funny.

427
00:22:35,000 --> 00:22:38,640
Speaker 1: We laughed about it. But had I been a woman saying, hey, yeah,

428
00:22:38,680 --> 00:22:41,280
Speaker 1: I used to work with him him him him him.

429
00:22:41,359 --> 00:22:44,280
Speaker 1: When I was living in Europe, I was dating this

430
00:22:44,359 --> 00:22:46,760
Speaker 1: guy and I had like we were all like all

431
00:22:46,800 --> 00:22:49,320
Speaker 1: Americans in Europe, so we kind of got real close

432
00:22:49,359 --> 00:22:52,280
Speaker 1: with each other as a group of us, and I

433
00:22:52,320 --> 00:22:54,399
Speaker 1: started working with him and we were like kicking it

434
00:22:54,440 --> 00:22:56,840
Speaker 1: like heavy. It wasn't just sex. We were like dating.

435
00:22:57,920 --> 00:23:01,040
Speaker 1: And I didn't find out till year years later that

436
00:23:01,240 --> 00:23:04,280
Speaker 1: half of the girls in my friend group had already

437
00:23:04,320 --> 00:23:06,639
Speaker 1: sucked him, like it all sucked him before me. But

438
00:23:06,680 --> 00:23:09,760
Speaker 1: they never said nothing because I was like dating him,

439
00:23:10,040 --> 00:23:12,159
Speaker 1: and I didn't find out till years after that I

440
00:23:12,240 --> 00:23:14,760
Speaker 1: stopped working with him like that that they had all

441
00:23:14,840 --> 00:23:17,000
Speaker 1: fucked him. Nobody told me nothing. That les to be

442
00:23:17,080 --> 00:23:19,760
Speaker 1: the culture over there when they were American. How long

443
00:23:19,800 --> 00:23:21,960
Speaker 1: had they been living over there for that to become regular?

444
00:23:22,040 --> 00:23:26,600
Speaker 1: Because if you are my friend, I am going to say, damn,

445
00:23:26,640 --> 00:23:28,640
Speaker 1: I haven't been with that dude before. I'm gonna tell

446
00:23:28,640 --> 00:23:31,240
Speaker 1: you I've told you that I didn't. I did that.

447
00:23:31,400 --> 00:23:33,639
Speaker 1: I would not just let you with somebody for a

448
00:23:33,720 --> 00:23:36,640
Speaker 1: year year and well we didn't. It didn't last that long,

449
00:23:36,840 --> 00:23:39,399
Speaker 1: however long it lasted. I would not let you do

450
00:23:39,440 --> 00:23:42,200
Speaker 1: that without disclosure. I didn't find out till years after.

451
00:23:42,280 --> 00:23:47,280
Speaker 1: Like yeah, girl, y'all, girl, I'm like what community dick, Wait,

452
00:23:48,160 --> 00:23:50,359
Speaker 1: look you do look like the type would be cooking

453
00:23:50,400 --> 00:23:54,639
Speaker 1: for some community, dick, bitch. Yes, it's like I have

454
00:23:54,760 --> 00:24:04,160
Speaker 1: the brotherfucking shelter kitchen, the community kitchen, super kitchen kitchen

455
00:24:04,200 --> 00:24:06,439
Speaker 1: for these niggas for the community. Dick. I don't know.

456
00:24:06,520 --> 00:24:09,720
Speaker 1: I just the type of men who I usually like,

457
00:24:09,840 --> 00:24:13,480
Speaker 1: a very bright spirit and they be for everybody a

458
00:24:13,480 --> 00:24:20,320
Speaker 1: lot of time. I don't know, free spirited, free spirited dick. Yeah, Scar,

459
00:24:21,320 --> 00:24:24,280
Speaker 1: this was a few years ago. Um, right when I

460
00:24:24,320 --> 00:24:27,040
Speaker 1: got out of my last relationship. One of these guys

461
00:24:27,080 --> 00:24:29,919
Speaker 1: that I knew from high school. We reconnected over social

462
00:24:29,920 --> 00:24:32,720
Speaker 1: media and just like like he was so into me

463
00:24:32,960 --> 00:24:35,040
Speaker 1: and it was about to be Christmas. He sent me

464
00:24:35,080 --> 00:24:38,000
Speaker 1: a nice designer pair of shoes for Christmas, and so

465
00:24:38,040 --> 00:24:40,240
Speaker 1: I was like bragging on him to my sister. She

466
00:24:40,440 --> 00:24:42,880
Speaker 1: came to town and then she was like, ho, what'd

467
00:24:42,880 --> 00:24:46,160
Speaker 1: you say? Who? And I said his name and She's like, girl,

468
00:24:46,200 --> 00:24:49,840
Speaker 1: I fucked him, And now he knows his sisters, blood sisters.

469
00:24:49,920 --> 00:24:51,760
Speaker 1: We all went to high school together. Like what kind

470
00:24:51,800 --> 00:24:55,040
Speaker 1: of niggas? Same mama and daddy grew up in the

471
00:24:55,080 --> 00:24:58,159
Speaker 1: same house and you know that, So why would you

472
00:24:58,200 --> 00:25:01,480
Speaker 1: be trying to talk to me on that level? After

473
00:25:01,600 --> 00:25:04,200
Speaker 1: know when you suck my sister. That's a body count

474
00:25:04,200 --> 00:25:07,240
Speaker 1: that you're supposed to drop exactly. So is it like

475
00:25:07,280 --> 00:25:11,640
Speaker 1: a time limit on body counts? Like can you suck

476
00:25:11,720 --> 00:25:15,880
Speaker 1: your friend boyfriend or can you fuck your sister boyfriend? No? No, never,

477
00:25:16,040 --> 00:25:18,480
Speaker 1: there's no statue of limitations on that. He was trying

478
00:25:18,480 --> 00:25:24,840
Speaker 1: to the family. Yeah, he's trying to suck the whole family, Like, nigge,

479
00:25:24,880 --> 00:25:28,040
Speaker 1: you got me fucked up? Like no, he's like, I

480
00:25:28,119 --> 00:25:30,040
Speaker 1: was trying to find the best way to tell you.

481
00:25:30,680 --> 00:25:33,600
Speaker 1: There is no best way. You should have never slid

482
00:25:33,600 --> 00:25:36,360
Speaker 1: in my d m so exactly, dummy, Like I get

483
00:25:36,359 --> 00:25:38,080
Speaker 1: mad at that was years ago, and I get mad

484
00:25:38,119 --> 00:25:42,399
Speaker 1: about it right now. So in conclusion, stop asking women

485
00:25:42,600 --> 00:25:46,840
Speaker 1: fucking questions. We only ask for money. Stop your questions.

486
00:25:46,960 --> 00:25:49,960
Speaker 1: Stop asking all these then you don't even want the truth.

487
00:25:50,320 --> 00:25:54,960
Speaker 1: You can't handle the truth. What movies that a few

488
00:25:54,960 --> 00:25:59,360
Speaker 1: good men? You can't handle the truth? You don't want it. Yeah,

489
00:25:59,440 --> 00:26:02,960
Speaker 1: so maya fucking business. Um. Stop asking women when they're

490
00:26:02,960 --> 00:26:05,120
Speaker 1: going to have kids, Stop asking women why they don't

491
00:26:05,160 --> 00:26:09,120
Speaker 1: have a man, Stop asking women how many people they've

492
00:26:09,160 --> 00:26:11,960
Speaker 1: been with. Just fucking stop, because we all ask you'll

493
00:26:12,000 --> 00:26:14,840
Speaker 1: have that ship. Just concern yourself with the health of

494
00:26:14,880 --> 00:26:18,119
Speaker 1: your relationship at its current state. That's all you have

495
00:26:18,200 --> 00:26:23,440
Speaker 1: to care about, bottom line bitches, period. So look, before

496
00:26:23,440 --> 00:26:25,919
Speaker 1: we move on to the next segment, let's have a

497
00:26:25,960 --> 00:26:32,280
Speaker 1: word from our sponsors. So what we got. Do we

498
00:26:32,320 --> 00:26:37,359
Speaker 1: have a random sex back today? We do. You're learning

499
00:26:37,359 --> 00:26:43,359
Speaker 1: ship a cookie alright. So, with all the sickness going

500
00:26:43,400 --> 00:26:45,560
Speaker 1: on in the world today, I thought this sex fact

501
00:26:45,600 --> 00:26:47,960
Speaker 1: would be good for us all to know. And I

502
00:26:48,080 --> 00:26:50,719
Speaker 1: found out that sex can make you feel better when

503
00:26:50,760 --> 00:26:54,879
Speaker 1: you're sick. Studies show that arousal and orgasm boost your

504
00:26:54,880 --> 00:26:57,600
Speaker 1: immune system. And while this means sex could be good

505
00:26:57,600 --> 00:26:59,919
Speaker 1: for you when you're feeling a little under the weather,

506
00:27:00,400 --> 00:27:03,359
Speaker 1: definitely know when to offer some chicken soup and sleep

507
00:27:03,440 --> 00:27:06,080
Speaker 1: over a little sexual healing. So bitch, don't be calling

508
00:27:06,080 --> 00:27:08,440
Speaker 1: nobody over there about no COVID couch. You talking about

509
00:27:08,440 --> 00:27:10,800
Speaker 1: you trying to get better. You heard on we talked

510
00:27:10,800 --> 00:27:12,919
Speaker 1: back that this was the cure for your COVID. No

511
00:27:13,040 --> 00:27:16,119
Speaker 1: it's not. But if you're a little under the weather,

512
00:27:16,440 --> 00:27:19,960
Speaker 1: go ahead and just masturbate and having an orgasm and

513
00:27:20,040 --> 00:27:23,399
Speaker 1: that will help your immune system. And this is my

514
00:27:23,560 --> 00:27:26,880
Speaker 1: ted talk. Yeah, So guys, we also have our segment

515
00:27:26,960 --> 00:27:32,119
Speaker 1: asked a black friend, where any non black people can

516
00:27:32,520 --> 00:27:37,600
Speaker 1: hit us via email, Instagram, d M whatever and ask

517
00:27:37,760 --> 00:27:40,600
Speaker 1: us some things you've always been wanting to ask black people,

518
00:27:40,720 --> 00:27:48,800
Speaker 1: So here's your opportunity. So we did get a couple

519
00:27:48,800 --> 00:27:51,000
Speaker 1: of d m s this week. Bro. This person actually

520
00:27:51,080 --> 00:27:54,720
Speaker 1: used their name so it says, I'm the only white

521
00:27:54,720 --> 00:27:57,080
Speaker 1: girl working at a title on office and one of

522
00:27:57,080 --> 00:27:59,680
Speaker 1: my co workers gives me a hard time a lot,

523
00:28:00,200 --> 00:28:04,160
Speaker 1: and she's always calling me Felicia and saying by Felicia

524
00:28:05,960 --> 00:28:09,520
Speaker 1: when I asked a question, I'm confused because my name

525
00:28:09,560 --> 00:28:12,520
Speaker 1: is Kelsey and there's literally a sign of my desk

526
00:28:12,560 --> 00:28:16,320
Speaker 1: that says Kelsey, what the fund is up with that?

527
00:28:19,280 --> 00:28:21,760
Speaker 1: Oh girl? All right? First of all, how have you

528
00:28:21,840 --> 00:28:25,639
Speaker 1: not seen Friday? How like you should have seen it?

529
00:28:25,680 --> 00:28:27,439
Speaker 1: A people pole and see how many white people have

530
00:28:27,520 --> 00:28:30,959
Speaker 1: never watched Friday. It's impossible. It's like a yeah, cultural thing,

531
00:28:31,040 --> 00:28:38,520
Speaker 1: like everybody born between nineteen one and nine should have

532
00:28:38,520 --> 00:28:43,640
Speaker 1: seen it. Well basically, but you annoying you? She said,

533
00:28:43,680 --> 00:28:46,520
Speaker 1: Black girl is annoyed with your ass backing out my face,

534
00:28:46,560 --> 00:28:49,200
Speaker 1: with all the bullshit questions about we went through this

535
00:28:49,280 --> 00:28:54,200
Speaker 1: in training. She's just annoyed. With your ass, like you're

536
00:28:54,200 --> 00:28:57,160
Speaker 1: asking questions that you probably should already know the answer to,

537
00:28:57,960 --> 00:29:01,800
Speaker 1: and she's not sharing her week with you. By Felicia,

538
00:29:02,080 --> 00:29:08,040
Speaker 1: what y'all smoking on? So basically, like by Felicia's, it's

539
00:29:08,160 --> 00:29:12,280
Speaker 1: just a colloquialism um that black people have adopted within

540
00:29:12,320 --> 00:29:14,760
Speaker 1: the last I don't know what year or two, no,

541
00:29:15,000 --> 00:29:18,400
Speaker 1: twenty years, people people started saying that when the movie.

542
00:29:18,480 --> 00:29:20,360
Speaker 1: After the movie came out. Really, I didn't hear by

543
00:29:20,480 --> 00:29:23,640
Speaker 1: Felicia till last year, year before last. Really, you know

544
00:29:23,720 --> 00:29:27,360
Speaker 1: they've been saying it for twenty years, by Felicia, by Felicia,

545
00:29:27,800 --> 00:29:31,160
Speaker 1: by yes girls, since not that movie came out nineteen,

546
00:29:32,000 --> 00:29:36,000
Speaker 1: I have not been saying bye yes. So all right,

547
00:29:36,000 --> 00:29:38,240
Speaker 1: you gotta break it down in a way that's understandable.

548
00:29:38,520 --> 00:29:41,760
Speaker 1: There's a movie that came out with Ice Cube and

549
00:29:42,400 --> 00:29:47,760
Speaker 1: Chris Tucker in called Friday, So maybe you can check

550
00:29:47,800 --> 00:29:49,880
Speaker 1: it out when you get a chance. But there's a

551
00:29:49,920 --> 00:29:53,400
Speaker 1: scene where a woman who is on drugs name Felicia.

552
00:29:53,520 --> 00:29:56,760
Speaker 1: She comes over and she's asking to borrow things and

553
00:29:56,800 --> 00:30:00,560
Speaker 1: take things from them, and she's annoying. So they say

554
00:30:00,600 --> 00:30:04,800
Speaker 1: to her by Felicia, like get the funk on so

555
00:30:04,880 --> 00:30:06,840
Speaker 1: that's what the girl at your job is telling you.

556
00:30:06,960 --> 00:30:12,360
Speaker 1: Get the funk on? Alright, So the next question we have, um,

557
00:30:12,840 --> 00:30:15,680
Speaker 1: they do say they want to be anonymous. So, um,

558
00:30:15,760 --> 00:30:19,400
Speaker 1: it says life feels really hard for me. How can

559
00:30:19,480 --> 00:30:22,920
Speaker 1: I have privilege when it doesn't feel that way. I

560
00:30:23,000 --> 00:30:28,120
Speaker 1: just recently lost my job due to COVID nineteen. Okay, well,

561
00:30:28,480 --> 00:30:30,640
Speaker 1: you didn't lose your job because you was black, and

562
00:30:30,680 --> 00:30:33,520
Speaker 1: that's why you have privilege. Obviously we're all going to

563
00:30:33,600 --> 00:30:36,960
Speaker 1: go through ship because that's the human experience. You're gonna

564
00:30:37,000 --> 00:30:40,640
Speaker 1: have problems, but your problems don't arise because of your color,

565
00:30:41,040 --> 00:30:47,120
Speaker 1: and that's where your privilege lies. Exactly, got it? Good? Yes,

566
00:30:47,400 --> 00:30:49,720
Speaker 1: COVID is why a lot of people are being laid

567
00:30:49,720 --> 00:30:54,080
Speaker 1: off right now, both black and white. Hispanic people aren't

568
00:30:54,120 --> 00:30:56,600
Speaker 1: losing their jobs or you you didn't lose your job

569
00:30:56,640 --> 00:30:59,920
Speaker 1: because you're a white person, or god didn't get hired

570
00:31:00,400 --> 00:31:03,040
Speaker 1: in the first damn place because you were white, And

571
00:31:03,040 --> 00:31:05,680
Speaker 1: you'll find another job. So everybody's having a tough time

572
00:31:06,000 --> 00:31:09,640
Speaker 1: and hanging there, girl, our guy hanging there. But just

573
00:31:09,800 --> 00:31:12,640
Speaker 1: I mean, use your privilege to the best of your ability.

574
00:31:14,840 --> 00:31:17,080
Speaker 1: And if you ain't using your privilege. I don't feel

575
00:31:17,080 --> 00:31:21,720
Speaker 1: bad for you, because if I had it, I'd be exactly.

576
00:31:23,040 --> 00:31:25,440
Speaker 1: I'd be the whitest damsel in distress. I could be

577
00:31:25,480 --> 00:31:30,880
Speaker 1: out this bitch for real. Oh man. So I'm happy

578
00:31:30,880 --> 00:31:33,320
Speaker 1: for those questions this week, and hopefully we get more

579
00:31:33,760 --> 00:31:35,640
Speaker 1: so you can keep this thing going because I'm sure

580
00:31:35,640 --> 00:31:38,680
Speaker 1: there's a lot of questions that need answers. No, we

581
00:31:38,720 --> 00:31:43,920
Speaker 1: don't need to answer ships. We want to help. We've

582
00:31:43,920 --> 00:31:46,200
Speaker 1: been given a safe space for them to not go

583
00:31:46,400 --> 00:31:50,200
Speaker 1: viral getting beat up in the streets because they need help.

584
00:31:50,880 --> 00:31:53,200
Speaker 1: If you want to send us ask a black friend.

585
00:31:53,240 --> 00:31:56,000
Speaker 1: This week, we didn't get any dumb bitch stories aside

586
00:31:56,000 --> 00:31:59,440
Speaker 1: from the dumb bitch who glued her goddamn here. Yeah man,

587
00:32:00,320 --> 00:32:02,360
Speaker 1: but listen, and she's really a dumb bit because she

588
00:32:02,520 --> 00:32:06,000
Speaker 1: leveling up, like she's getting all kinds of free stuff.

589
00:32:06,040 --> 00:32:10,080
Speaker 1: She's getting she got like seven hundred thousand followers now

590
00:32:10,160 --> 00:32:12,959
Speaker 1: on Instagram, and then she also lowyered up. So now

591
00:32:13,000 --> 00:32:16,400
Speaker 1: she's trying to sue gorilla glue because they don't have

592
00:32:16,480 --> 00:32:18,600
Speaker 1: on the label that's not supposed to be used on

593
00:32:18,880 --> 00:32:22,240
Speaker 1: the human body. But people saying that like that's stupid,

594
00:32:22,280 --> 00:32:24,480
Speaker 1: but think about it now, because how many years ago

595
00:32:24,600 --> 00:32:27,480
Speaker 1: when that woman sued McDonald's for the hot cup for

596
00:32:27,560 --> 00:32:31,360
Speaker 1: the hot coffee, and now cups have hot. We all

597
00:32:31,400 --> 00:32:33,400
Speaker 1: know who likes cold coffee, and I mean, you have

598
00:32:33,440 --> 00:32:36,040
Speaker 1: ice coffee, but who likes cold coffee? Right, you should

599
00:32:36,080 --> 00:32:38,720
Speaker 1: assume that it's hot exactly because they didn't have that

600
00:32:38,800 --> 00:32:41,600
Speaker 1: label on there. I'm about to go under my sink

601
00:32:41,680 --> 00:32:43,440
Speaker 1: when we get done, I'm about to go into my

602
00:32:43,520 --> 00:32:45,960
Speaker 1: sink and see what else don't say. I'm supposed to

603
00:32:46,000 --> 00:32:47,360
Speaker 1: use it in a way that I can use it

604
00:32:47,400 --> 00:32:52,680
Speaker 1: and not die, And I'm about to see somebody share

605
00:32:52,840 --> 00:32:55,080
Speaker 1: might as well. What was her name? I didn't even

606
00:32:55,120 --> 00:32:57,360
Speaker 1: know that girl's name. I know she's the old lady

607
00:32:57,920 --> 00:33:01,640
Speaker 1: something like that, the old lady on Instagram A the

608
00:33:01,800 --> 00:33:05,800
Speaker 1: old not old, oh l But I hope you get

609
00:33:05,800 --> 00:33:07,600
Speaker 1: it together to us. I can't wait to see, like,

610
00:33:07,640 --> 00:33:10,040
Speaker 1: what kind of new weeks. If you're smart, you're gonna

611
00:33:10,080 --> 00:33:13,160
Speaker 1: come out with a jail hair, jail line and shampoo line,

612
00:33:14,080 --> 00:33:16,840
Speaker 1: a wig line. You need to be coming out with

613
00:33:16,880 --> 00:33:19,480
Speaker 1: all this ship while you got seven hundred thousand followers

614
00:33:19,480 --> 00:33:23,240
Speaker 1: and people are still watching, because by next week, nobody's

615
00:33:23,280 --> 00:33:25,760
Speaker 1: gonna care. Once your ball face start to grow out

616
00:33:25,800 --> 00:33:28,640
Speaker 1: a little bit. Soon as we see what they she

617
00:33:28,800 --> 00:33:31,280
Speaker 1: doing it, everybody's gonna follow. Yeah, she has to come

618
00:33:31,280 --> 00:33:33,680
Speaker 1: out with a product. She gotta come out with something

619
00:33:33,720 --> 00:33:35,440
Speaker 1: to sell. She got to use the cloud for now

620
00:33:36,080 --> 00:33:39,960
Speaker 1: using get seven hundred thousand followers and don't sell nothing.

621
00:33:40,040 --> 00:33:43,560
Speaker 1: And that's all people are waiting to see. Right, I'm wait,

622
00:33:43,640 --> 00:33:45,160
Speaker 1: That's what I'm waiting. I wanting to see what her

623
00:33:45,160 --> 00:33:48,680
Speaker 1: hair about. The little life forever point. So that's how

624
00:33:48,760 --> 00:33:53,080
Speaker 1: dumb bit story for the day. Right. How about Danny

625
00:33:53,120 --> 00:33:58,680
Speaker 1: Lee though, that's another Yeah, another dumb bitch story. She's

626
00:33:58,680 --> 00:34:03,800
Speaker 1: such a cute little girl, but it m hmm. Black

627
00:34:03,800 --> 00:34:07,920
Speaker 1: Girls was mad at Daddy Lee boy for her. I

628
00:34:08,000 --> 00:34:10,200
Speaker 1: wasn't mad. I wasn't mad about this. I was mad

629
00:34:10,239 --> 00:34:12,560
Speaker 1: that the song was trash. I just I went mad

630
00:34:12,600 --> 00:34:15,399
Speaker 1: at the content. Like, if you want to celebrate light skin,

631
00:34:15,560 --> 00:34:18,600
Speaker 1: go ahead and celebrate light skin. I don't care about that, right,

632
00:34:18,960 --> 00:34:21,360
Speaker 1: but don't do it like this. He want to skin.

633
00:34:21,960 --> 00:34:25,360
Speaker 1: This is a night skin. Girl, sound like a goddam

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