1 00:00:03,880 --> 00:00:06,040 Speaker 1: We don't talk score with our kids. We don't. We 2 00:00:06,080 --> 00:00:08,720 Speaker 1: don't talk outcome measures. We asked them three questions before 3 00:00:08,760 --> 00:00:10,559 Speaker 1: and after every game and go do you believe in yourself? 4 00:00:10,680 --> 00:00:12,960 Speaker 1: That's mental attitude you want. Do you believe in yourself? 5 00:00:13,080 --> 00:00:14,520 Speaker 1: Do you believe in each other? Do you believe in 6 00:00:14,600 --> 00:00:16,600 Speaker 1: your team? And that's where we ask them and everything. 7 00:00:16,680 --> 00:00:20,560 Speaker 1: Let's go as a team. This is the Reformed Sports Project, 8 00:00:20,680 --> 00:00:24,120 Speaker 1: a podcast about restoring healthy balance and perspective in all 9 00:00:24,160 --> 00:00:28,240 Speaker 1: areas of sports through education and advocacy. Hi, this is 10 00:00:28,320 --> 00:00:31,600 Speaker 1: Nick Bonacore from the Reformed Sports Project podcast. Today, I'm 11 00:00:31,600 --> 00:00:34,559 Speaker 1: speaking with Dr Niro j Anthy, one of the country's 12 00:00:34,680 --> 00:00:38,440 Speaker 1: leading experts on youth sports health, injuries and sports training patterns, 13 00:00:38,640 --> 00:00:41,880 Speaker 1: and international leader in tennis medicine. Dr j Anthy runs 14 00:00:41,960 --> 00:00:44,879 Speaker 1: Emery's Tennis Medicine program and serves as the president of 15 00:00:44,920 --> 00:00:48,479 Speaker 1: the International Society for Tennis Medicine and Science. He's a volunteer, 16 00:00:48,520 --> 00:00:51,600 Speaker 1: a TP physician and a medical advisor for the w 17 00:00:51,760 --> 00:00:54,920 Speaker 1: t A Player Development panel. Highly regarded for his research 18 00:00:55,000 --> 00:00:58,240 Speaker 1: on early specialized training and overuse injuries and young athletes, 19 00:00:58,440 --> 00:01:00,640 Speaker 1: Dr j Anthy and I discuss how the culture has 20 00:01:00,720 --> 00:01:05,160 Speaker 1: changed from free play to organized sport. Why early specialization 21 00:01:05,240 --> 00:01:07,880 Speaker 1: often leads to short term success and the importance of 22 00:01:07,959 --> 00:01:11,520 Speaker 1: letting your child's passion for the sport happen organically. I 23 00:01:11,560 --> 00:01:14,240 Speaker 1: got another awesome guest. Tough to get ahold of this gentleman. 24 00:01:14,280 --> 00:01:17,280 Speaker 1: He's certainly, you know, out in the fight in many ways, 25 00:01:17,360 --> 00:01:21,280 Speaker 1: as you'll hear, coach and parenting. Certainly one of the 26 00:01:21,319 --> 00:01:24,640 Speaker 1: world's leaders in the country's leaders and youth sports health 27 00:01:25,000 --> 00:01:28,480 Speaker 1: injuries and sports training patterns, as well as an international 28 00:01:28,560 --> 00:01:33,480 Speaker 1: leader intense medicine. Doctor Nero Jayante. Dr Jayanti, thank you 29 00:01:33,520 --> 00:01:36,679 Speaker 1: so much for hopping on. It's a pleasure, sir. Yeah, thanks, 30 00:01:36,720 --> 00:01:38,679 Speaker 1: thanks Nick, And uh, I guess to add to that, 31 00:01:38,720 --> 00:01:40,840 Speaker 1: even a bigger project is being a dad to two 32 00:01:40,920 --> 00:01:44,760 Speaker 1: young uh multi sport kids, a couple of boys that 33 00:01:45,200 --> 00:01:47,640 Speaker 1: that I have to coach a lot. Well, yeah, I 34 00:01:47,680 --> 00:01:49,920 Speaker 1: see what you're doing. I mean, first and foremost, how 35 00:01:49,960 --> 00:01:52,600 Speaker 1: do you become I mean, I understand the path of 36 00:01:52,640 --> 00:01:55,960 Speaker 1: becoming a doctor. What made you want to get into 37 00:01:56,120 --> 00:01:58,320 Speaker 1: the whole youth sports? I mean becoming the leader in 38 00:01:58,360 --> 00:02:01,720 Speaker 1: youth sports nationally? Uh? Yeah, I stumbled on it, you know, 39 00:02:01,840 --> 00:02:05,200 Speaker 1: I um, I was you know, definitely different research studies. Uh, 40 00:02:05,520 --> 00:02:07,840 Speaker 1: this is probably like, I don't know, fifteen, eighteen, maybe 41 00:02:07,880 --> 00:02:11,120 Speaker 1: even twenty years ago. Um, And it was actually studies 42 00:02:11,160 --> 00:02:13,760 Speaker 1: on as you mentioned, a lot of high level tennis 43 00:02:13,760 --> 00:02:15,680 Speaker 1: players and trying to get an understanding of what what 44 00:02:15,720 --> 00:02:17,800 Speaker 1: they were doing, what their patterns were in And we 45 00:02:17,880 --> 00:02:20,839 Speaker 1: looked at cash it was over five hundred high level 46 00:02:21,080 --> 00:02:24,000 Speaker 1: tennis players and we just started to ask questions, for example, 47 00:02:24,040 --> 00:02:26,680 Speaker 1: about whether they played tennants or not. And I was 48 00:02:26,720 --> 00:02:29,000 Speaker 1: just you know, it was a curiosity question at that time. 49 00:02:29,040 --> 00:02:31,920 Speaker 1: And we found that, gosh, can you believe that, um, 50 00:02:32,040 --> 00:02:34,960 Speaker 1: the majority of them specialized and only played tennis at 51 00:02:35,000 --> 00:02:37,200 Speaker 1: an average age of ten. And we just found and 52 00:02:37,240 --> 00:02:39,360 Speaker 1: we published that, you know, most of those kids end 53 00:02:39,440 --> 00:02:41,160 Speaker 1: up getting hurt or pulling out of a tournament, and 54 00:02:41,200 --> 00:02:43,399 Speaker 1: their enjoyment satisfaction was a little lower. So we put 55 00:02:43,400 --> 00:02:45,960 Speaker 1: some of that stuff out and then it actually caught 56 00:02:45,960 --> 00:02:48,000 Speaker 1: fire because around that time, andre X he wrote his 57 00:02:48,040 --> 00:02:51,440 Speaker 1: book The Open about his miserable experience growing up as 58 00:02:51,440 --> 00:02:53,960 Speaker 1: a young tennis player kind of forced to do all. 59 00:02:54,320 --> 00:02:56,880 Speaker 1: So we got a lot of media attention for that. 60 00:02:57,040 --> 00:02:59,240 Speaker 1: People started asking, well is this true for every support 61 00:02:59,280 --> 00:03:01,560 Speaker 1: should you what kind of training pantterns should you do? 62 00:03:01,600 --> 00:03:03,359 Speaker 1: And I said, you know, to be honest as a researcher, 63 00:03:03,400 --> 00:03:05,560 Speaker 1: I don't know. I only did tenants. So then that's 64 00:03:05,600 --> 00:03:07,480 Speaker 1: kind of the car kind of got ahead of horse, 65 00:03:07,600 --> 00:03:10,080 Speaker 1: ahead of the car, and people already talking about this concept. 66 00:03:10,120 --> 00:03:13,240 Speaker 1: You're talking about specializing. So then you know, we did 67 00:03:13,280 --> 00:03:15,799 Speaker 1: a much larger study with about twelve hundred athletes over 68 00:03:16,000 --> 00:03:18,519 Speaker 1: I took about five years to do this study, and 69 00:03:18,600 --> 00:03:20,919 Speaker 1: that's all types of athletes. And as the clinical study 70 00:03:21,000 --> 00:03:24,280 Speaker 1: was probably what maybe the landmark study on identifying that 71 00:03:24,360 --> 00:03:27,839 Speaker 1: there were actually some pretty serious overuse injury patterns with 72 00:03:27,919 --> 00:03:31,000 Speaker 1: those that chose only one sport and and you know 73 00:03:31,160 --> 00:03:33,160 Speaker 1: this is across a lot of sports, and so that 74 00:03:33,240 --> 00:03:35,160 Speaker 1: led to a lot of other, um, you know, folks 75 00:03:35,360 --> 00:03:37,400 Speaker 1: very interest in this. It wasn't just medical people, as 76 00:03:37,560 --> 00:03:40,680 Speaker 1: many folks like yourself and Tom Ferry had asking institute 77 00:03:40,840 --> 00:03:43,640 Speaker 1: and you know, um national governing bodies and people wanted 78 00:03:43,680 --> 00:03:45,800 Speaker 1: to kind of start worshing working at a culture change 79 00:03:45,840 --> 00:03:48,200 Speaker 1: that that you're working on. So so then it kind 80 00:03:48,200 --> 00:03:51,200 Speaker 1: of just I can't stop. You know, like all our 81 00:03:51,240 --> 00:03:53,720 Speaker 1: projects are based, our studies based on that, all our 82 00:03:53,880 --> 00:03:56,600 Speaker 1: education is really based on use sport training, and it's 83 00:03:56,600 --> 00:03:58,760 Speaker 1: just you know, keeps growing. I have two boys that 84 00:03:58,760 --> 00:04:01,080 Speaker 1: are seven and nine and a half and I'm living 85 00:04:01,120 --> 00:04:03,360 Speaker 1: in so I don't think it's gonna stop for a while. 86 00:04:03,880 --> 00:04:06,000 Speaker 1: It's funny, as I'm listening to you, I'm thinking I 87 00:04:06,200 --> 00:04:08,840 Speaker 1: had the pleasure of interviewing David Epstein, right, who's you 88 00:04:08,880 --> 00:04:11,000 Speaker 1: know put out range and who covers the same time 89 00:04:11,040 --> 00:04:14,880 Speaker 1: as well. Yeah, so David um uh, he and I 90 00:04:14,880 --> 00:04:17,280 Speaker 1: connected earlier earlier on actually I think he put me 91 00:04:17,320 --> 00:04:20,120 Speaker 1: into his forward or wherever it is and somewhere earlier data. 92 00:04:20,200 --> 00:04:22,160 Speaker 1: So so yeah, we we've we've known each other and 93 00:04:22,200 --> 00:04:24,640 Speaker 1: we've spoken alongside and started not to runt bump into 94 00:04:24,640 --> 00:04:26,400 Speaker 1: people who who put a lot of stuff out there. 95 00:04:26,400 --> 00:04:29,880 Speaker 1: So absolutely, yes, he needs an amazing journalist and author 96 00:04:30,120 --> 00:04:32,640 Speaker 1: understands the stuff, the data. Well, so how do you 97 00:04:32,680 --> 00:04:35,400 Speaker 1: feel like you know, is it because because you're talking 98 00:04:35,440 --> 00:04:37,400 Speaker 1: about fifteen twenty years ago and I know it started 99 00:04:37,440 --> 00:04:39,520 Speaker 1: with tennis and you kind of uncovered it, right, but 100 00:04:39,839 --> 00:04:42,320 Speaker 1: is it almost like you mentioned, how it keeps growing? 101 00:04:42,360 --> 00:04:47,039 Speaker 1: I mean and coincidentally, you know the youth space market, right, 102 00:04:47,080 --> 00:04:49,200 Speaker 1: I read that like in the next five or six years. 103 00:04:49,200 --> 00:04:52,400 Speaker 1: They're estimated to be almost a thirty billion dollar industry. 104 00:04:52,480 --> 00:04:54,520 Speaker 1: I think the most recent number I saw it was nineteen, 105 00:04:54,560 --> 00:04:56,039 Speaker 1: but I think that's like a three year old. So 106 00:04:56,040 --> 00:04:58,919 Speaker 1: it's bigger than the NFL, NBA, Major League Baseball. Is 107 00:04:58,960 --> 00:05:00,679 Speaker 1: that just going to continue to oh in your opinion? 108 00:05:00,800 --> 00:05:04,080 Speaker 1: Is that why you see such interest? Yeah? You know, Um, 109 00:05:04,279 --> 00:05:05,880 Speaker 1: I've thought long and hard as you have on this 110 00:05:05,960 --> 00:05:08,120 Speaker 1: whole concept. And you know a couple of things that 111 00:05:08,200 --> 00:05:10,279 Speaker 1: really come to mind that are really pointed. You and 112 00:05:10,320 --> 00:05:12,200 Speaker 1: I grew in an era where we could we play 113 00:05:12,279 --> 00:05:13,880 Speaker 1: with our friends. We get out and do what's called 114 00:05:13,880 --> 00:05:15,960 Speaker 1: free plane to say, meet at the park and pick 115 00:05:16,040 --> 00:05:19,159 Speaker 1: up play baseball and football and basketball, and you name it, tennis, 116 00:05:19,240 --> 00:05:21,599 Speaker 1: whatever it was. Um, we looked at our data and 117 00:05:21,600 --> 00:05:24,480 Speaker 1: we found that ratio of organized sport to free play 118 00:05:24,560 --> 00:05:27,400 Speaker 1: with more than twice as much organized sport. And this 119 00:05:27,400 --> 00:05:29,240 Speaker 1: this data that's probably ten years old, and I don't 120 00:05:29,240 --> 00:05:32,159 Speaker 1: think that's changing anytime soon. Right, So the whole culture 121 00:05:32,200 --> 00:05:36,200 Speaker 1: has changed where it is an organized sport mentality. Okay. 122 00:05:36,240 --> 00:05:38,000 Speaker 1: And so as much as I can put out data 123 00:05:38,040 --> 00:05:39,960 Speaker 1: and tell people, hey, you have to be cautious and 124 00:05:40,440 --> 00:05:43,480 Speaker 1: it's it's gonna grow. There's too much financial investment. And 125 00:05:43,520 --> 00:05:46,200 Speaker 1: so I think I've come to the conclusion whether this 126 00:05:46,279 --> 00:05:48,000 Speaker 1: is a good or that is, we may not be 127 00:05:48,120 --> 00:05:51,400 Speaker 1: able to stop at the current um growth of what's 128 00:05:51,400 --> 00:05:53,520 Speaker 1: going to happen, but you have to figure out ways 129 00:05:53,520 --> 00:05:56,760 Speaker 1: to get better alternative. And if it's a okay that 130 00:05:56,960 --> 00:05:58,920 Speaker 1: we have a mission based, if it's okay to say 131 00:05:58,920 --> 00:06:01,480 Speaker 1: this my wife has a mission base, is very um, 132 00:06:01,520 --> 00:06:03,640 Speaker 1: I guess I can call company. We're trying to create 133 00:06:03,640 --> 00:06:05,840 Speaker 1: an app to just get your parents to meet up. 134 00:06:06,000 --> 00:06:08,640 Speaker 1: It's called pick Up Sports and and trust me asmission base, 135 00:06:08,680 --> 00:06:11,960 Speaker 1: we've made zero dollars, but if dollars of dollars, just 136 00:06:12,240 --> 00:06:14,960 Speaker 1: try to get kids to group parents in neighborhoods and 137 00:06:14,960 --> 00:06:17,040 Speaker 1: get neighborhood play back. And it's a simple that she's 138 00:06:17,080 --> 00:06:20,240 Speaker 1: actually getting this final app version worked out, and you know, 139 00:06:20,279 --> 00:06:22,080 Speaker 1: we're going to give it out to anyone and you know, 140 00:06:22,160 --> 00:06:24,120 Speaker 1: try to test out make sure it works. And and 141 00:06:24,160 --> 00:06:26,240 Speaker 1: the whole concept of is just to get kids to 142 00:06:26,279 --> 00:06:28,039 Speaker 1: play for fun and not have to say it has 143 00:06:28,040 --> 00:06:30,119 Speaker 1: to be three times a week at these exact times, 144 00:06:30,120 --> 00:06:32,840 Speaker 1: but he actually kind of group and make it a 145 00:06:32,920 --> 00:06:34,680 Speaker 1: meet up, and the point of at all is that 146 00:06:34,800 --> 00:06:37,880 Speaker 1: I think of coming in conclusions, we have to better alternatives. 147 00:06:37,920 --> 00:06:40,679 Speaker 1: Because the the engine is so strong in one direction. 148 00:06:40,760 --> 00:06:42,800 Speaker 1: I don't know if you would need come out with 149 00:06:42,920 --> 00:06:45,039 Speaker 1: you know, a lot of other people could really kind 150 00:06:45,040 --> 00:06:47,200 Speaker 1: of change the course of that engine. But if other 151 00:06:47,240 --> 00:06:50,880 Speaker 1: alterns become better, I think parents and families may choose 152 00:06:51,120 --> 00:06:54,000 Speaker 1: better alternative because right now, I mean I think in 153 00:06:54,080 --> 00:06:56,200 Speaker 1: most neighbors, including our own, we don't have a lot 154 00:06:56,279 --> 00:06:58,000 Speaker 1: of all their alternatives. I'm caught in this too. I 155 00:06:58,240 --> 00:07:00,599 Speaker 1: have a six year old, he just turned seven. You know, 156 00:07:00,640 --> 00:07:02,760 Speaker 1: he has three games a week, three games in five 157 00:07:02,920 --> 00:07:05,080 Speaker 1: five days on the coach and I can't change it. 158 00:07:05,279 --> 00:07:08,559 Speaker 1: I'm a busy, busy physician, and I tell the league 159 00:07:08,600 --> 00:07:11,840 Speaker 1: every year and said, look, I can't My schedule is crazy. 160 00:07:11,880 --> 00:07:13,400 Speaker 1: How am I supposed to get these kids there? We 161 00:07:13,440 --> 00:07:16,560 Speaker 1: have five Friday night practices in addition, and you know 162 00:07:16,760 --> 00:07:19,640 Speaker 1: it's um but that's that's a system. They still get 163 00:07:19,680 --> 00:07:21,240 Speaker 1: all the kids because they don't know where else to go. 164 00:07:21,480 --> 00:07:23,560 Speaker 1: So we need to get a better alternative. You know, 165 00:07:23,720 --> 00:07:25,679 Speaker 1: I'm in the same boat as you. I've got six kids, 166 00:07:25,760 --> 00:07:27,920 Speaker 1: and you know, we have kids playing different sports and 167 00:07:28,120 --> 00:07:30,480 Speaker 1: it can become madness. But we've my wife and I 168 00:07:30,560 --> 00:07:32,320 Speaker 1: and family have kind of come to the conclusion, if 169 00:07:32,320 --> 00:07:34,560 Speaker 1: it's overwhelming to the point we can't control it, it's 170 00:07:34,600 --> 00:07:36,760 Speaker 1: causing stress and anxiety. Well, it's probably just too much 171 00:07:36,760 --> 00:07:38,760 Speaker 1: for our family, Like we're probably trying to do too much, 172 00:07:38,800 --> 00:07:40,520 Speaker 1: like we have to, you know, have some sort of 173 00:07:40,520 --> 00:07:42,880 Speaker 1: balance and cohesiveness in our life. So we just try 174 00:07:42,920 --> 00:07:45,240 Speaker 1: to juggle with the best we can. But you're absolutely right, 175 00:07:45,760 --> 00:07:48,200 Speaker 1: it's really really challenging. And to go back to the 176 00:07:48,200 --> 00:07:52,880 Speaker 1: point DOT of you mentioning UM the different varieties of sports. 177 00:07:52,880 --> 00:07:54,800 Speaker 1: It started with tennis, but that you saw the pattern 178 00:07:54,840 --> 00:07:57,040 Speaker 1: in all different sports. I first time I came across 179 00:07:57,160 --> 00:08:00,320 Speaker 1: your work was right after I think I started Reform 180 00:08:00,400 --> 00:08:04,320 Speaker 1: sports projects. Shortly thereafter, article came out in ESPN, which 181 00:08:04,320 --> 00:08:07,400 Speaker 1: I'm sure you remember talking about youth basketball called you 182 00:08:07,400 --> 00:08:10,240 Speaker 1: know these kids are taking time bombs, the threat of 183 00:08:10,320 --> 00:08:13,120 Speaker 1: youth basketball. I think it was talking about UM if 184 00:08:13,120 --> 00:08:15,239 Speaker 1: I remember exactly what it is, but it was talking 185 00:08:15,240 --> 00:08:19,680 Speaker 1: about UM loading, you know, the amount of time, yeah, 186 00:08:19,720 --> 00:08:21,880 Speaker 1: load management, talking about the amount of time kids are 187 00:08:21,880 --> 00:08:23,840 Speaker 1: playing and all this and your quote I'm gonna read 188 00:08:23,840 --> 00:08:26,200 Speaker 1: your quotes. I think it's so. I think it's great. 189 00:08:26,240 --> 00:08:29,400 Speaker 1: But in the article and you can look this up obviously, Um, 190 00:08:29,720 --> 00:08:32,440 Speaker 1: you're right. I have I have many kids who are 191 00:08:32,480 --> 00:08:36,360 Speaker 1: going to play in college next year, and this whole 192 00:08:36,480 --> 00:08:39,440 Speaker 1: year has just been about trying to get healthy so 193 00:08:39,480 --> 00:08:41,720 Speaker 1: they can step on that doorstep as a freshman and 194 00:08:41,760 --> 00:08:45,440 Speaker 1: actually have a chance to participate. Then you continue on 195 00:08:45,520 --> 00:08:47,959 Speaker 1: to say kids are broken by the time they get 196 00:08:48,000 --> 00:08:51,160 Speaker 1: to college. Now this is youth basketball in that article. 197 00:08:51,720 --> 00:08:55,200 Speaker 1: How do you manage this as a parent knowing the 198 00:08:55,280 --> 00:08:57,880 Speaker 1: dad is out there? Like, what did you discover when 199 00:08:57,920 --> 00:09:00,800 Speaker 1: going through the youth basketball article and the research about 200 00:09:00,800 --> 00:09:03,280 Speaker 1: these injuries and these over use injuries? Yeah? Well, so 201 00:09:03,360 --> 00:09:06,800 Speaker 1: back for Holmes, who's an amazing ESPN senior writers, spent 202 00:09:06,920 --> 00:09:09,240 Speaker 1: two years putting that stuff together. He has a two 203 00:09:09,280 --> 00:09:11,320 Speaker 1: part series. I think it was read more than one 204 00:09:11,360 --> 00:09:13,360 Speaker 1: million terms. Is by far the biggest trash and he's 205 00:09:13,400 --> 00:09:15,079 Speaker 1: ever got, which is great to hear there is that 206 00:09:15,160 --> 00:09:18,040 Speaker 1: much awareness. Our data is not about basketball only he 207 00:09:18,160 --> 00:09:21,040 Speaker 1: you know, he asked us in a basketball article, So 208 00:09:21,360 --> 00:09:23,640 Speaker 1: I'm talking about all sports. You know. Our data is 209 00:09:23,760 --> 00:09:27,240 Speaker 1: very clear. Uh, and my clinic is all athletes. So 210 00:09:27,920 --> 00:09:30,600 Speaker 1: you are very right, and that hasn't changed. And I 211 00:09:30,840 --> 00:09:32,960 Speaker 1: you know, I say it over and over again. You know, 212 00:09:33,040 --> 00:09:36,160 Speaker 1: by the time you know, most kids, not all, but 213 00:09:36,280 --> 00:09:39,080 Speaker 1: many kids are entering college, they've gone through the system. 214 00:09:39,080 --> 00:09:41,839 Speaker 1: They've advanced it by about four to five years, what 215 00:09:41,960 --> 00:09:45,600 Speaker 1: I estimates. In other words, people are now doing stuff. 216 00:09:45,720 --> 00:09:47,520 Speaker 1: For example, maybe you and I might say, right, well, 217 00:09:47,559 --> 00:09:49,839 Speaker 1: I'm really focused on maybe later in high school and 218 00:09:49,840 --> 00:09:51,680 Speaker 1: middle high school. I might say, I really want to 219 00:09:51,679 --> 00:09:53,920 Speaker 1: be a great tennis player, baseball player, whatever it is. 220 00:09:53,920 --> 00:09:55,880 Speaker 1: Now that's happening at nine and ten years old, where 221 00:09:55,880 --> 00:09:57,480 Speaker 1: they say, okay, I really want to just do this, 222 00:09:57,960 --> 00:10:00,520 Speaker 1: and you could danced the injury type as well too. 223 00:10:00,559 --> 00:10:03,640 Speaker 1: So we see stuff in twelve, thirteen, fourteen year olds 224 00:10:03,720 --> 00:10:05,960 Speaker 1: we never saw before, and now we see it rather 225 00:10:06,000 --> 00:10:08,320 Speaker 1: than maybe later in college. I mean bad tendon disease. 226 00:10:08,360 --> 00:10:11,760 Speaker 1: I mean I reluctantly have to inject playlists into fifteen 227 00:10:11,800 --> 00:10:14,360 Speaker 1: year old teller tenants that are already degenerative, like they 228 00:10:14,440 --> 00:10:17,520 Speaker 1: just played four years of college basketball. It's really fascinating 229 00:10:17,559 --> 00:10:21,040 Speaker 1: how the progression of diseases happened because of you know 230 00:10:21,120 --> 00:10:22,720 Speaker 1: what they're just what do you expect by time they 231 00:10:22,720 --> 00:10:25,320 Speaker 1: get to college. You're just basically packaging them up and 232 00:10:25,360 --> 00:10:28,080 Speaker 1: trying to make the power practage look as pretty as possible, 233 00:10:28,120 --> 00:10:29,920 Speaker 1: because by time they get there, it's gonna be a 234 00:10:29,920 --> 00:10:31,360 Speaker 1: tough you know, it's gonna be tough atal And I'm 235 00:10:31,360 --> 00:10:33,480 Speaker 1: also a college team position, and you know, I see 236 00:10:33,520 --> 00:10:35,280 Speaker 1: the other side of it at night. You know, I've 237 00:10:35,360 --> 00:10:37,920 Speaker 1: got that for many years, and and uh so, how 238 00:10:37,920 --> 00:10:41,079 Speaker 1: do you as a parent. It's it's actually easier because 239 00:10:41,120 --> 00:10:43,160 Speaker 1: I can control my environment, you know, just by my 240 00:10:43,200 --> 00:10:45,319 Speaker 1: busy schedule, and you may do the same thing. I 241 00:10:46,440 --> 00:10:49,240 Speaker 1: coach every sport that my kids play because I can 242 00:10:49,280 --> 00:10:52,120 Speaker 1: help control the environment and and speak sense, like the 243 00:10:52,160 --> 00:10:54,360 Speaker 1: simple things like my kid pitched team. I say, everyone, 244 00:10:54,440 --> 00:10:57,040 Speaker 1: every kids only pitching one inning, so every game that's it, 245 00:10:57,040 --> 00:11:00,320 Speaker 1: and they alternate. So I have six pictures out of 246 00:11:00,400 --> 00:11:03,800 Speaker 1: out of eleven or twelve kids, and they pitched basically 247 00:11:03,840 --> 00:11:05,920 Speaker 1: one time a week, one inning. And I know some 248 00:11:05,920 --> 00:11:07,640 Speaker 1: people look and say, how can you even developed? But 249 00:11:07,679 --> 00:11:10,080 Speaker 1: I think you and I both know that. You know, 250 00:11:10,120 --> 00:11:12,000 Speaker 1: the best baseball pitchers are the ones who I said, 251 00:11:12,000 --> 00:11:13,439 Speaker 1: you want to be a good baseball pitcher, don't pitch 252 00:11:13,520 --> 00:11:19,040 Speaker 1: until you're skeleton mature grand played shortstop at at Stetson. 253 00:11:19,080 --> 00:11:20,959 Speaker 1: Now he throws a hundred three and he's you know, 254 00:11:21,000 --> 00:11:24,280 Speaker 1: consider the go anyway, Yeah, I asked it minor league, 255 00:11:24,320 --> 00:11:26,439 Speaker 1: you know, and major league. Know. I helped with you 256 00:11:26,480 --> 00:11:28,760 Speaker 1: know a little bit with the Major League Baseball organization, 257 00:11:28,800 --> 00:11:30,760 Speaker 1: and uh, you know, I asked all the pictures when 258 00:11:30,760 --> 00:11:33,360 Speaker 1: you start pitching and pitching seriously, most of them have 259 00:11:33,440 --> 00:11:35,600 Speaker 1: thrown a ball. But you know, most of them, especially 260 00:11:35,720 --> 00:11:38,040 Speaker 1: like American you know, they actually the ones who make 261 00:11:38,120 --> 00:11:40,840 Speaker 1: it are just great athletes. And then they decided later 262 00:11:40,840 --> 00:11:42,960 Speaker 1: they were an outfielder, they were you know, first base 263 00:11:43,000 --> 00:11:46,280 Speaker 1: of anything. They said okay, hey, okay, so let's start pitching. 264 00:11:46,320 --> 00:11:49,160 Speaker 1: And then they become phenomenal pictures. The shorter time period 265 00:11:49,320 --> 00:11:52,280 Speaker 1: you know that they pitched. The shorter exposure period, um, 266 00:11:52,360 --> 00:11:55,360 Speaker 1: you know, the better chance to have. So so yes, 267 00:11:55,720 --> 00:11:58,160 Speaker 1: we've expelling things I think by about four or five years. 268 00:11:58,200 --> 00:12:00,600 Speaker 1: And so as a society, I think getting to change 269 00:12:00,679 --> 00:12:03,600 Speaker 1: the parents bunch easier. I can control my kids environment 270 00:12:03,760 --> 00:12:06,480 Speaker 1: in my world bunch easier. So what does it mean? 271 00:12:07,520 --> 00:12:11,320 Speaker 1: What does it mean to you to be a supportive parent? Right, 272 00:12:11,360 --> 00:12:14,000 Speaker 1: because the reason I'm asking that is a lot of 273 00:12:14,040 --> 00:12:16,560 Speaker 1: times kids will say, Hey, I want to do this 274 00:12:16,679 --> 00:12:18,840 Speaker 1: at this age? Right, I hear this all the time, Doc. 275 00:12:18,920 --> 00:12:20,920 Speaker 1: I hope people say, my kid all he wants to 276 00:12:20,960 --> 00:12:23,800 Speaker 1: do is play baseball, or play soccer, play tiddly winks, 277 00:12:23,840 --> 00:12:26,200 Speaker 1: whatever it is all year long. They don't want to 278 00:12:26,200 --> 00:12:28,280 Speaker 1: do anything else, Like I'm not gonna make them do something. 279 00:12:28,559 --> 00:12:31,439 Speaker 1: So like am I being a supportive parent by going 280 00:12:31,480 --> 00:12:33,880 Speaker 1: along with whatever my kid wants to do? Or am 281 00:12:33,880 --> 00:12:36,800 Speaker 1: I being a supportive parent by guiding you know? And 282 00:12:36,920 --> 00:12:39,800 Speaker 1: all those things? How do you interpret that? Well? You know, 283 00:12:39,840 --> 00:12:41,839 Speaker 1: it's a really good point. I've actually kind of given 284 00:12:41,920 --> 00:12:46,679 Speaker 1: balanced opinion. I may suggest that most kids are specialized later, 285 00:12:47,400 --> 00:12:49,480 Speaker 1: but I know that you know, one third of kids 286 00:12:49,480 --> 00:12:51,280 Speaker 1: if you look at our data and others choose a 287 00:12:51,360 --> 00:12:54,680 Speaker 1: highly specialized and probably an early ages. We published reason 288 00:12:54,800 --> 00:12:58,200 Speaker 1: articles guiding people and you know it's medical articles, but 289 00:12:58,240 --> 00:13:00,719 Speaker 1: we can give it to our families about how to 290 00:13:00,760 --> 00:13:04,640 Speaker 1: train uh specialized athletes and follow guidelines there because we 291 00:13:04,679 --> 00:13:07,920 Speaker 1: can't change everyone that you know, that was we try. Um. 292 00:13:08,200 --> 00:13:11,000 Speaker 1: I think the best play at it is is I'm 293 00:13:11,040 --> 00:13:13,400 Speaker 1: actually writing a talk. I'm going to Boston Children's Harvard 294 00:13:13,440 --> 00:13:15,360 Speaker 1: and I call it. You know, there's l T A D, 295 00:13:15,480 --> 00:13:18,480 Speaker 1: there's long term athlete development, and there's data that shows 296 00:13:18,960 --> 00:13:21,839 Speaker 1: it's short term at lot development and and I actually 297 00:13:21,880 --> 00:13:23,920 Speaker 1: call it STD, so it's short term development of people. 298 00:13:24,000 --> 00:13:27,280 Speaker 1: Really remember that there is data that I do specialized 299 00:13:27,280 --> 00:13:29,280 Speaker 1: and you started your kids doing stuff at eight nine 300 00:13:29,840 --> 00:13:32,640 Speaker 1: and only doing that sport, you'll have short term success. 301 00:13:33,280 --> 00:13:35,520 Speaker 1: And it's hard to come back because you know those 302 00:13:35,559 --> 00:13:38,640 Speaker 1: kids are getting better faster, and the parents get excited 303 00:13:38,679 --> 00:13:41,400 Speaker 1: about it, and it's true you you will have that success. 304 00:13:41,679 --> 00:13:43,840 Speaker 1: Your exposure and your risks and all these things are 305 00:13:43,840 --> 00:13:46,680 Speaker 1: the things that developed later before you know, much later. 306 00:13:46,840 --> 00:13:49,200 Speaker 1: And that's includes burnout and injury and all the other 307 00:13:49,400 --> 00:13:51,560 Speaker 1: negative things that you know that may happen. So it's 308 00:13:51,600 --> 00:13:53,439 Speaker 1: a it's a big risk that the parents need to 309 00:13:53,440 --> 00:13:56,360 Speaker 1: be willing to take. If we can start demonstrating more 310 00:13:56,400 --> 00:14:01,319 Speaker 1: the performance benefits, especially at the younger ages, that I think, um, 311 00:14:01,360 --> 00:14:03,120 Speaker 1: we have a better shot. So we do have some 312 00:14:03,200 --> 00:14:06,839 Speaker 1: performance data out there, and we published one uh systematic 313 00:14:06,880 --> 00:14:10,439 Speaker 1: review that shows in eighteen articles, not one article demonstrated 314 00:14:10,480 --> 00:14:15,280 Speaker 1: is a superior benefit specializing. So right now, so that's 315 00:14:15,320 --> 00:14:16,840 Speaker 1: the messaging we have to get out and that's the 316 00:14:16,960 --> 00:14:19,040 Speaker 1: you know, the largest systematic review done in the world 317 00:14:19,080 --> 00:14:21,560 Speaker 1: so far. So we we just don't have a performance then, 318 00:14:21,600 --> 00:14:24,920 Speaker 1: but those that do specialize at least call some guidelines, 319 00:14:24,960 --> 00:14:27,080 Speaker 1: have a have a good environment. Um. In other words, 320 00:14:27,080 --> 00:14:29,960 Speaker 1: you have to have a supportive environment. UM. You have 321 00:14:30,040 --> 00:14:33,520 Speaker 1: to have early access to medical triage. You can have 322 00:14:33,560 --> 00:14:35,680 Speaker 1: a focus on winning pill you can train, you know, 323 00:14:35,720 --> 00:14:37,360 Speaker 1: but you can't have the focus on winning. Those kids 324 00:14:37,400 --> 00:14:39,280 Speaker 1: actually have better quality life with the parents are like 325 00:14:39,640 --> 00:14:43,440 Speaker 1: hands up my capuses driving the bush. And then you 326 00:14:43,440 --> 00:14:45,400 Speaker 1: know and uh, and we have simple rules like you 327 00:14:45,440 --> 00:14:48,240 Speaker 1: train lest hours per weeks in your age, you have 328 00:14:48,480 --> 00:14:51,160 Speaker 1: some breaks during the year, you know about two months 329 00:14:51,240 --> 00:14:54,560 Speaker 1: one month at different times of the year. Um. And 330 00:14:54,560 --> 00:14:56,880 Speaker 1: and you actually introduce free plane. You have to do 331 00:14:56,960 --> 00:15:00,280 Speaker 1: some off cord or off you know condition the injury prevention. Again. 332 00:15:00,400 --> 00:15:03,520 Speaker 1: So so we do we support and work with many academies, 333 00:15:03,560 --> 00:15:05,840 Speaker 1: you know, private academies that you know do a lot 334 00:15:05,880 --> 00:15:08,600 Speaker 1: of stuff. Maybe we we may not want them to do, 335 00:15:09,080 --> 00:15:11,840 Speaker 1: but um, but I don't size like if the family 336 00:15:11,880 --> 00:15:13,960 Speaker 1: decides to go for it, and I'm they're helping treat them, 337 00:15:14,240 --> 00:15:16,480 Speaker 1: will give them the right tools to be successful in 338 00:15:16,520 --> 00:15:19,400 Speaker 1: that environment. When we come back, Dr j Anthony and 339 00:15:19,440 --> 00:15:22,480 Speaker 1: I discussed why children should train less hours per week 340 00:15:22,680 --> 00:15:32,520 Speaker 1: than their age. Welcome back where we left off, Dr 341 00:15:32,600 --> 00:15:35,120 Speaker 1: Jenny Anthy and I discussed the importance of understanding your 342 00:15:35,200 --> 00:15:40,840 Speaker 1: child's physical mental resilience. You mentioned the hours right, because 343 00:15:40,880 --> 00:15:43,120 Speaker 1: I think people would love to hear you know a 344 00:15:43,280 --> 00:15:45,800 Speaker 1: number of hours. I've heard like the number of hours 345 00:15:45,800 --> 00:15:48,600 Speaker 1: not even exceeding the age or you know, per week. 346 00:15:48,760 --> 00:15:51,800 Speaker 1: What are some real good guidelines people can look and say, okay, 347 00:15:51,840 --> 00:15:53,760 Speaker 1: you know my kids eight years old, they shouldn't do 348 00:15:54,080 --> 00:15:56,840 Speaker 1: this many hours a week of spit exactly. Yeah. Yeah, 349 00:15:56,840 --> 00:15:59,360 Speaker 1: I'm gonna give credit called the Ali Stephen's real because 350 00:15:59,360 --> 00:16:01,880 Speaker 1: one of my very good former friends that um he 351 00:16:01,960 --> 00:16:04,520 Speaker 1: unfortunate passed away to do a couple of cancers. He 352 00:16:04,600 --> 00:16:07,000 Speaker 1: was a really great tennis coach and we were about 353 00:16:07,000 --> 00:16:09,320 Speaker 1: to give a talk like gosh this fifteen eighteen years 354 00:16:09,320 --> 00:16:11,600 Speaker 1: ago to a bunch of tennis parents, and um I 355 00:16:11,760 --> 00:16:13,160 Speaker 1: asked him, I said, how how much do you like 356 00:16:13,200 --> 00:16:14,680 Speaker 1: the kids at Trainey said, I just told him do 357 00:16:14,760 --> 00:16:17,320 Speaker 1: less hours per week than their age. He just casually 358 00:16:17,320 --> 00:16:19,720 Speaker 1: set it. So then I actually researched until at athletes, 359 00:16:19,720 --> 00:16:22,560 Speaker 1: and we found that he was exactly right. Actually, if 360 00:16:22,680 --> 00:16:24,960 Speaker 1: you exceeded that, you were much more likely to get 361 00:16:24,960 --> 00:16:27,200 Speaker 1: a series over your senior, not just a regular every center, 362 00:16:27,240 --> 00:16:28,760 Speaker 1: but the series one to keep you out a bad 363 00:16:28,800 --> 00:16:31,520 Speaker 1: stress fractures and keep you out for one month or longer. 364 00:16:31,560 --> 00:16:33,960 Speaker 1: And so that's been popularized. I'm very happy of all 365 00:16:33,960 --> 00:16:36,240 Speaker 1: the data that we've done, even more than the specialization research, 366 00:16:36,320 --> 00:16:38,720 Speaker 1: the actual age versus hour's rule. I hear, I see 367 00:16:38,720 --> 00:16:40,480 Speaker 1: it everywhere, and I'm really proud to say that you 368 00:16:40,520 --> 00:16:42,360 Speaker 1: know that came from a casual convers was one of 369 00:16:42,400 --> 00:16:45,280 Speaker 1: the coach and the data into mass media and people 370 00:16:45,320 --> 00:16:47,520 Speaker 1: are utilizing. So yes, if you're twelve years old, tried 371 00:16:47,520 --> 00:16:49,240 Speaker 1: to do less than twelve hours a week of total 372 00:16:49,280 --> 00:16:53,320 Speaker 1: workload and and we we've actually um put out We 373 00:16:53,360 --> 00:16:55,520 Speaker 1: honestually just did a blog through our Emory Healthcare to 374 00:16:55,600 --> 00:16:57,960 Speaker 1: kind of keep guidelines through different growth period. So the 375 00:16:58,000 --> 00:16:59,920 Speaker 1: thing is, and you and I know this have to 376 00:17:00,120 --> 00:17:02,440 Speaker 1: kind of categorized by where you're on your stage of development. 377 00:17:02,520 --> 00:17:03,880 Speaker 1: What you and I are talking about is try and 378 00:17:03,920 --> 00:17:06,440 Speaker 1: emphasize this in the pre adolescent athlete, where you play 379 00:17:06,480 --> 00:17:08,520 Speaker 1: all sorts of sport. You don't do anything year around 380 00:17:09,119 --> 00:17:11,840 Speaker 1: and just have fun. But the second phase you have 381 00:17:11,920 --> 00:17:14,480 Speaker 1: to u um, you're grothsburg. You have to be a 382 00:17:14,520 --> 00:17:16,920 Speaker 1: little more cautious then, but you might increase some load. 383 00:17:17,000 --> 00:17:19,000 Speaker 1: If that would you say like not enough? You would 384 00:17:19,000 --> 00:17:23,320 Speaker 1: you say like, that's pre puberty versus puberty. Correct correct, Yeah, right, 385 00:17:23,400 --> 00:17:26,640 Speaker 1: pre adolescents of pre puberty before your growth. And then 386 00:17:26,840 --> 00:17:29,119 Speaker 1: um in the last days is laid adolescents, where it 387 00:17:29,200 --> 00:17:31,119 Speaker 1: is okay to specialize that. You might have a thirteen 388 00:17:31,160 --> 00:17:33,439 Speaker 1: year old girl who is already in laid adolescents and 389 00:17:33,480 --> 00:17:35,560 Speaker 1: it's okay. She may say, I'm only playing tennis, I 390 00:17:35,560 --> 00:17:38,080 Speaker 1: want to get a college scholarship, and I'm actually a 391 00:17:38,119 --> 00:17:41,000 Speaker 1: scaled limit store and done with my growth. And that 392 00:17:41,119 --> 00:17:43,199 Speaker 1: is so much. You should train intensely and we might 393 00:17:43,280 --> 00:17:44,679 Speaker 1: ramp it up and they may be able toll rate 394 00:17:44,760 --> 00:17:47,200 Speaker 1: higher workload. So I think when we get really when 395 00:17:47,200 --> 00:17:49,680 Speaker 1: we kind of share a coach's vision and say, look 396 00:17:49,680 --> 00:17:52,520 Speaker 1: at this isn't the same exact rule for everyone's pretty individualized, 397 00:17:52,560 --> 00:17:54,199 Speaker 1: and you look at your kids and see where they 398 00:17:54,200 --> 00:17:55,760 Speaker 1: are in their stage of development. And a big one 399 00:17:55,760 --> 00:17:58,119 Speaker 1: I forgot to add is everyone who needs understand their 400 00:17:58,160 --> 00:18:04,040 Speaker 1: child's resilience. Resilience is two things. They're physical and mentally. Physically, um, 401 00:18:04,119 --> 00:18:07,920 Speaker 1: some kids can tolerate high loads. Some kids cannot, even 402 00:18:08,080 --> 00:18:11,760 Speaker 1: during growth periods or not. Mentally, there's kids. UM. I 403 00:18:11,800 --> 00:18:14,480 Speaker 1: have one kid who no matter what he can lose, 404 00:18:14,520 --> 00:18:16,119 Speaker 1: he can you know, it could be the worst day. 405 00:18:16,200 --> 00:18:18,600 Speaker 1: He will get up, the younger one and just do whatever, 406 00:18:18,640 --> 00:18:20,000 Speaker 1: you know, go right back to it. He just loves. 407 00:18:20,040 --> 00:18:22,000 Speaker 1: And the other one, you know, if he doesn't have 408 00:18:22,040 --> 00:18:24,840 Speaker 1: a good outcome, he may not be resilient and he'll 409 00:18:25,000 --> 00:18:27,760 Speaker 1: just quit. And so you've understand the child's resilience physically 410 00:18:27,760 --> 00:18:30,760 Speaker 1: and mentally, and and you know it's a very individual approach. 411 00:18:30,840 --> 00:18:33,440 Speaker 1: I think do you think that there's a direct correlation, 412 00:18:33,560 --> 00:18:37,879 Speaker 1: like because I've interviewed like for instance, UM, George Mumford, UM, 413 00:18:37,880 --> 00:18:40,560 Speaker 1: I've I've interviewed Seth Pepper. You know many others who 414 00:18:40,560 --> 00:18:43,399 Speaker 1: are you know mindfulness or mind performance coaches. How the 415 00:18:43,440 --> 00:18:45,840 Speaker 1: mind affects the body. How much of that can you 416 00:18:45,880 --> 00:18:48,679 Speaker 1: see from your medical side, where you know, braining the 417 00:18:48,760 --> 00:18:53,120 Speaker 1: mind or having that resilience right experience and how much 418 00:18:53,160 --> 00:18:57,320 Speaker 1: does your mind impact the body from your position? Well, 419 00:18:57,359 --> 00:19:00,560 Speaker 1: I think it's a it's a huge component the mindset. 420 00:19:00,600 --> 00:19:03,199 Speaker 1: I'm very big on that. But we're we're taking out 421 00:19:03,240 --> 00:19:06,200 Speaker 1: to slice. I think that's got its best opportunity in 422 00:19:06,280 --> 00:19:09,479 Speaker 1: high level athletics, right, high performance athletics. And I think 423 00:19:09,520 --> 00:19:11,639 Speaker 1: there's a there's a really big part of it. And 424 00:19:11,720 --> 00:19:13,480 Speaker 1: you know we see every day. I mean, you watch 425 00:19:13,520 --> 00:19:15,479 Speaker 1: the US Open and Carlos alcros a new number one 426 00:19:15,480 --> 00:19:18,560 Speaker 1: player in the world is mental resilience. It's like no weather. 427 00:19:18,800 --> 00:19:21,520 Speaker 1: That's what Niddal and all these elite, elite level athletes. 428 00:19:21,720 --> 00:19:24,640 Speaker 1: You see that early on. But um, you know, most 429 00:19:24,720 --> 00:19:26,800 Speaker 1: kids are not gonna be that type of mental resultence. 430 00:19:26,880 --> 00:19:29,040 Speaker 1: You can't. I don't think you can teach a eleven 431 00:19:29,119 --> 00:19:31,320 Speaker 1: or twelve year old and mental resilience that it requires 432 00:19:31,320 --> 00:19:34,760 Speaker 1: to be at that level. Um. But but having said that, 433 00:19:34,800 --> 00:19:36,840 Speaker 1: each tell is different and you nurture that. When you 434 00:19:36,840 --> 00:19:39,720 Speaker 1: get to late audolescens, I think you can devolve that further. 435 00:19:39,800 --> 00:19:41,919 Speaker 1: But you know, I was at a big meeting during 436 00:19:41,960 --> 00:19:43,399 Speaker 1: the US Open. I talked to, you know, one of 437 00:19:43,400 --> 00:19:45,800 Speaker 1: our w t A sports psychologists, and I said, what 438 00:19:45,880 --> 00:19:48,439 Speaker 1: have thoughts on parents, you know, getting sports psychologists, you 439 00:19:48,440 --> 00:19:49,760 Speaker 1: know for a twelve year old and he said, well, 440 00:19:49,800 --> 00:19:51,840 Speaker 1: most of those meetings are just talking to the parents 441 00:19:52,160 --> 00:19:54,600 Speaker 1: because here doesn't really need to be in a meeting 442 00:19:54,800 --> 00:19:57,520 Speaker 1: about you know, mental ford toe. That's for you know, 443 00:19:57,560 --> 00:20:01,920 Speaker 1: elite athletes as they get older, college, professional, Um, that's 444 00:20:01,960 --> 00:20:04,359 Speaker 1: how I feel. That's a great you know what. And 445 00:20:04,680 --> 00:20:07,280 Speaker 1: that's such a great point because I've heard many times 446 00:20:07,320 --> 00:20:09,680 Speaker 1: people say, you know, I've heard literally people that are 447 00:20:09,680 --> 00:20:12,680 Speaker 1: in you know, whether they own a training facility or 448 00:20:12,720 --> 00:20:16,040 Speaker 1: whatever the cases, you know, you'd have people go to them. 449 00:20:16,040 --> 00:20:18,040 Speaker 1: And these are these are folks that may work with 450 00:20:18,119 --> 00:20:21,880 Speaker 1: professional and college age athletes as well as youth. And 451 00:20:21,920 --> 00:20:24,040 Speaker 1: they say they get asked at times like hey, what 452 00:20:24,119 --> 00:20:25,679 Speaker 1: do you you know? The parent may have a ten 453 00:20:25,760 --> 00:20:27,360 Speaker 1: year old and they say, hey, what did you do 454 00:20:27,480 --> 00:20:30,719 Speaker 1: with X y Z pro athlete? I want to incorporate 455 00:20:30,760 --> 00:20:32,600 Speaker 1: that with my ten year old? And and a lot 456 00:20:32,600 --> 00:20:35,080 Speaker 1: of times you hear these these trainers will say, like, dude, 457 00:20:35,080 --> 00:20:36,960 Speaker 1: when this pro athlete was ten, he was hanging out 458 00:20:37,000 --> 00:20:39,320 Speaker 1: with his friends and the neighbor playing like different sports, 459 00:20:39,320 --> 00:20:42,359 Speaker 1: having a good time like that. The best athletes weren't 460 00:20:42,359 --> 00:20:44,920 Speaker 1: locked in when they were so I mean to your 461 00:20:45,000 --> 00:20:48,159 Speaker 1: point of doing things from a mental performance standpoint that 462 00:20:48,160 --> 00:20:49,720 Speaker 1: you may need to do at a professional level. I 463 00:20:49,760 --> 00:20:51,320 Speaker 1: think it kind of goes hand in hand. And we 464 00:20:51,400 --> 00:20:54,399 Speaker 1: lose that right because you said there is an advantage 465 00:20:54,440 --> 00:20:57,119 Speaker 1: early on if you go all in and all that. 466 00:20:57,160 --> 00:20:59,639 Speaker 1: But let's cut the chase here. Could we be stripping 467 00:20:59,680 --> 00:21:03,720 Speaker 1: kids are day childhood at times? Yes? Yes, oh my gosh, absolutely. 468 00:21:03,840 --> 00:21:05,560 Speaker 1: I have three you know, I say this to each 469 00:21:05,600 --> 00:21:07,679 Speaker 1: my teams, like coach here, here's the three things. We 470 00:21:07,720 --> 00:21:10,280 Speaker 1: don't talk score with our kids. We don't we don't 471 00:21:10,320 --> 00:21:13,119 Speaker 1: talk outcome measures. We asked them three questions before and 472 00:21:13,160 --> 00:21:15,200 Speaker 1: after every game, and go, do believe in yourself? That's 473 00:21:15,280 --> 00:21:17,439 Speaker 1: mental attitude you want. Do you believe in yourself? Do 474 00:21:17,440 --> 00:21:19,359 Speaker 1: you believe in each other? Do you believe in your team? 475 00:21:19,680 --> 00:21:21,359 Speaker 1: And that's what we ask them and everything. Let's go 476 00:21:21,480 --> 00:21:23,560 Speaker 1: as a team. And so we never let a kid 477 00:21:23,640 --> 00:21:26,000 Speaker 1: get down. But I see it every day at the park, 478 00:21:26,119 --> 00:21:28,280 Speaker 1: like we can do that with our team. But there 479 00:21:28,320 --> 00:21:32,000 Speaker 1: are many many other teams. Many of their coaches volunteer coaches, 480 00:21:32,000 --> 00:21:34,320 Speaker 1: as you know, many of them are not trained with 481 00:21:34,760 --> 00:21:37,439 Speaker 1: youth athletes. And it's happened to be the most available 482 00:21:37,600 --> 00:21:41,280 Speaker 1: data around um who aren't preaching that the experience is 483 00:21:41,359 --> 00:21:44,600 Speaker 1: very different, and in fact, you know this is the experience. 484 00:21:44,600 --> 00:21:47,920 Speaker 1: We're trying to remind people that most experiences of youth 485 00:21:48,000 --> 00:21:51,719 Speaker 1: athletes are either with volunteer parents who may not have 486 00:21:51,760 --> 00:21:55,240 Speaker 1: a lot of experience with youth athletes, or a private model, 487 00:21:55,560 --> 00:21:58,360 Speaker 1: where like you have mentioned, there may be a secondary 488 00:21:58,400 --> 00:22:01,320 Speaker 1: game to help guide the athlete on what their athletes 489 00:22:01,359 --> 00:22:03,600 Speaker 1: de alowment is. In other ways, there's a potential for 490 00:22:03,640 --> 00:22:06,800 Speaker 1: financial gain of you know, having them be at your 491 00:22:06,840 --> 00:22:09,240 Speaker 1: accounting more often. I'm not saying there's many, many, many 492 00:22:09,240 --> 00:22:11,160 Speaker 1: great coaches, but you and I both know that they're 493 00:22:11,160 --> 00:22:15,280 Speaker 1: certainly designed to get more athletes participating more often younger 494 00:22:15,320 --> 00:22:19,840 Speaker 1: ages um because of a financial benefit. We could probably 495 00:22:19,880 --> 00:22:22,240 Speaker 1: talk about that, like for another hour and a half 496 00:22:22,240 --> 00:22:24,280 Speaker 1: of Dr jayanthing. I want to finish up with this 497 00:22:24,359 --> 00:22:26,520 Speaker 1: if you could. I know you give these talks a 498 00:22:26,520 --> 00:22:29,199 Speaker 1: lot and and and this is your profession, but what 499 00:22:29,280 --> 00:22:31,960 Speaker 1: would you say from your medical background, your experience as 500 00:22:32,000 --> 00:22:34,640 Speaker 1: a parent. You know, people are struggling to figure out 501 00:22:34,640 --> 00:22:36,960 Speaker 1: the balance. Right where do I draw the line? They're 502 00:22:36,960 --> 00:22:39,160 Speaker 1: being pulled in a million directions. They want to see 503 00:22:39,160 --> 00:22:41,240 Speaker 1: their kids perform, right, They want to see their kids 504 00:22:41,280 --> 00:22:44,119 Speaker 1: have fun and stay involved. I have success, but also 505 00:22:44,280 --> 00:22:45,919 Speaker 1: it's a tug of war, like I want to make 506 00:22:45,920 --> 00:22:47,560 Speaker 1: sure my kid wants to stay in the sport like 507 00:22:47,600 --> 00:22:50,160 Speaker 1: I don't want to. It's easy to get dragged down 508 00:22:50,240 --> 00:22:52,400 Speaker 1: the wrong path and you you burn your kid out. 509 00:22:52,600 --> 00:22:55,919 Speaker 1: What's the best way to maintain balance? Yeah, you know, 510 00:22:56,160 --> 00:22:58,879 Speaker 1: And I struggle the same way as any other parent would, 511 00:22:58,920 --> 00:23:01,320 Speaker 1: but you know, I you know, I think the best 512 00:23:01,359 --> 00:23:03,200 Speaker 1: thing to do is if you can take a deep breath, 513 00:23:03,280 --> 00:23:06,240 Speaker 1: which is not easy, and say, if you had your choice, 514 00:23:06,280 --> 00:23:09,960 Speaker 1: would you want your exercising and having a positive relationship 515 00:23:10,000 --> 00:23:13,040 Speaker 1: with sport when they're an adult as well. And if 516 00:23:13,080 --> 00:23:14,600 Speaker 1: you kind of take a deep breath and you think 517 00:23:14,640 --> 00:23:17,320 Speaker 1: about how that works, then you then you actually get 518 00:23:17,359 --> 00:23:19,920 Speaker 1: away from this STD or the short term development plan 519 00:23:20,520 --> 00:23:22,919 Speaker 1: and get caught up. And trust me, it's just very easy. 520 00:23:22,960 --> 00:23:25,400 Speaker 1: I get it. Like I I know that my kids 521 00:23:25,440 --> 00:23:27,160 Speaker 1: could do much better and each of their sports, since 522 00:23:27,160 --> 00:23:29,800 Speaker 1: they play a different sport every season, when they go on, 523 00:23:29,960 --> 00:23:31,560 Speaker 1: you know, they're just not playing that sport and they 524 00:23:31,600 --> 00:23:34,119 Speaker 1: take a while to catch up. Very easy to feel 525 00:23:34,160 --> 00:23:37,080 Speaker 1: discouraged for your child, But if you de emphasize all 526 00:23:37,160 --> 00:23:41,359 Speaker 1: the short term result aspects of it and focus on 527 00:23:41,600 --> 00:23:45,120 Speaker 1: the chance that they will actually play and positive relationship 528 00:23:45,119 --> 00:23:47,320 Speaker 1: with sport later on. That's what Michael is for my 529 00:23:47,320 --> 00:23:49,280 Speaker 1: get I want to play with you when i'm when 530 00:23:49,280 --> 00:23:51,120 Speaker 1: you get older and i'm you know, I'm on vacation 531 00:23:51,240 --> 00:23:53,560 Speaker 1: or and then in that they find their own and 532 00:23:53,640 --> 00:23:56,000 Speaker 1: joy and if they find their passion through it, it 533 00:23:56,040 --> 00:23:58,760 Speaker 1: will happen organically. And then as they come to you 534 00:23:58,920 --> 00:24:00,760 Speaker 1: then they may say, hey, look, really want to get 535 00:24:00,760 --> 00:24:03,000 Speaker 1: good at X, Y or Z. And I think if 536 00:24:03,040 --> 00:24:06,600 Speaker 1: we can kind of focus on this longer term approach, 537 00:24:06,640 --> 00:24:09,000 Speaker 1: and and I ask every kid and I give talks, 538 00:24:09,080 --> 00:24:11,359 Speaker 1: they say, look, can you just promise me if I 539 00:24:11,400 --> 00:24:13,200 Speaker 1: talk to a tennis academy that your goal you play 540 00:24:13,240 --> 00:24:16,080 Speaker 1: tennis as an adult. And it's a lot actually harder 541 00:24:16,080 --> 00:24:19,080 Speaker 1: than it sounds. They're all thinking about what their ranking 542 00:24:19,080 --> 00:24:21,840 Speaker 1: will be at twelves and fourteens and sixteens and the 543 00:24:21,920 --> 00:24:24,360 Speaker 1: kind of getting into college. But focusing on that part 544 00:24:24,560 --> 00:24:26,760 Speaker 1: is one of the biggest things for me for our kids. 545 00:24:27,240 --> 00:24:29,880 Speaker 1: Dr ny Rude j Anty, I cannot thank you enough. 546 00:24:30,119 --> 00:24:32,719 Speaker 1: You got so much content out there. Where can they 547 00:24:32,760 --> 00:24:34,800 Speaker 1: find you? Is there any place in particular with people 548 00:24:34,920 --> 00:24:37,720 Speaker 1: go and find more about me. Yeah, I think you know. 549 00:24:37,840 --> 00:24:40,800 Speaker 1: I'm uh, you know, actually I'm working because I get 550 00:24:40,800 --> 00:24:43,200 Speaker 1: a lot of quests about our content. We're actually working 551 00:24:43,200 --> 00:24:45,200 Speaker 1: on creating a web you'ven search me new routine and 552 00:24:45,240 --> 00:24:47,800 Speaker 1: we've had probably about a hundred fifty media releases that 553 00:24:47,960 --> 00:24:49,560 Speaker 1: put out a lot of our training guidelines. I'm at 554 00:24:49,600 --> 00:24:52,439 Speaker 1: Emory Healthcare, so you can go to Emory Healthcare and 555 00:24:52,440 --> 00:24:54,120 Speaker 1: and find it as well there just search my name 556 00:24:54,160 --> 00:24:57,720 Speaker 1: ne Rougine and and follow me on Twitter actually, because 557 00:24:57,760 --> 00:24:59,320 Speaker 1: I do put out a lot of content as you 558 00:24:59,320 --> 00:25:02,720 Speaker 1: know on Twitter at any and E are you j 559 00:25:02,880 --> 00:25:05,639 Speaker 1: A y A N T h I And whatever we 560 00:25:05,760 --> 00:25:07,600 Speaker 1: publish or put out something good, we try to get 561 00:25:07,600 --> 00:25:11,120 Speaker 1: out there to the mainstream. Doc. I cannot thank you enough. Man. 562 00:25:11,280 --> 00:25:13,800 Speaker 1: Always a pleasure to get back to work and keep 563 00:25:13,840 --> 00:25:16,360 Speaker 1: fighting your fight. We all appreciate everything you do. Keep 564 00:25:16,359 --> 00:25:18,160 Speaker 1: it up, Nick, and you too as well. You're getting 565 00:25:18,160 --> 00:25:20,320 Speaker 1: the messaging out is nine percent the battle of the 566 00:25:20,359 --> 00:25:21,960 Speaker 1: research side, and the other side we do is like 567 00:25:22,000 --> 00:25:24,040 Speaker 1: ten percent of the work. And that's the easy part. 568 00:25:24,080 --> 00:25:26,920 Speaker 1: What you're doing is is is so immensely helpful. That's 569 00:25:27,040 --> 00:25:31,240 Speaker 1: Dr niro J Anthony Emery, Tennis Medicine program Director. Thanks 570 00:25:31,240 --> 00:25:34,680 Speaker 1: for listening to the Reform Sports Project podcast. Dominic Booncourt 571 00:25:34,760 --> 00:25:36,720 Speaker 1: and Our goal is to restore a healthy balance and 572 00:25:36,760 --> 00:25:40,600 Speaker 1: perspective in all areas of sports through education and advocacy. 573 00:25:40,760 --> 00:25:44,280 Speaker 1: For updates, please follow us on Facebook, Twitter, and Instagram, 574 00:25:44,400 --> 00:25:46,679 Speaker 1: or check out our website by searching for the Reform 575 00:25:46,720 --> 00:25:47,560 Speaker 1: Sports Project