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Speaker 1: This is the Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous podcast

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Speaker 1: with her Radio. Hey, guys, welcome to the third Almost

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Speaker 1: Famous podcast without Ben Higgins. Sorry, guys, this will happen

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Speaker 1: with me. I hope you guys missed me in a

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Speaker 1: couple of weeks when Jared and I are away for

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Speaker 1: our wedding and our honeymoon. By the way, Jared's here

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Speaker 1: and I was just about to introduce you. I know,

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Speaker 1: I'm kind of ruining the surprise. I'm sorry that I'm

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Speaker 1: replacing Ben Higgins. I feel like Ben's like a Mercedes

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Speaker 1: and I'm kind of like a you know, like a

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Speaker 1: Toyota Corolla. I'll get you from A to B, but

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Speaker 1: I'm not going to be as sexy as Ben when

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Speaker 1: he does it. Jared, come on, now, maybe I'm not

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Speaker 1: giving myself credit, or maybe I'm overrating myself. Jared, you

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Speaker 1: are a Rolls Royce. Well you have to say that

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Speaker 1: you're marrying me. You don't want to marry a range Rover.

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Speaker 1: How about a land Rover Discovery. Jared prefers land Rovers

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Speaker 1: over range Rovers. This is his new car ever since

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Speaker 1: we Enterprise rentals. It is its goals. But I'm like,

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Speaker 1: I heard that these land rovers and ranger rovers don't

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Speaker 1: last very long. Yeah, which is quite miles. If you

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Speaker 1: guys are car experts out there, let us know. Well anyway,

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Speaker 1: the reason that we are recording this episode without okay,

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Speaker 1: moving on, we are doing this bonus episode because we

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Speaker 1: are having the most luxurious like most Hollywood, I feel

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Speaker 1: like I'm in I feel like I'm in big little

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Speaker 1: eyes right now. I'm currently drinking a glass of champagne

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Speaker 1: as we speak, because like it's so luxurious and so posh.

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Speaker 1: We're at this beautiful Jared and My Ultimate Decord house

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Speaker 1: right now. It's like our HDTV Dreams home heart reached

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Speaker 1: out perfection. I don't even know how to describe it.

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Speaker 1: It's just an overload of perfect It's all like Jared

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Speaker 1: and I want to make our house kind of like

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Speaker 1: crafts craftsmany modern but not like to modern, like clean

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Speaker 1: but warm. We have We're in this house where it's

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Speaker 1: got like, um, well it's called like what was called ceilings. No,

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Speaker 1: you're pointing up the wood things. Um, there's beams. It's

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Speaker 1: an odd shaped that. This house is awesome. It's got beams.

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Speaker 1: Beams are beautiful. Like there's also a fireplace, right there

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Speaker 1: that you didn't. That's not that, that's not super unique anyway,

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Speaker 1: Welcome to our lives. This is the Ashley and Jared Show,

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Speaker 1: and we're just talking the way that we talk on microff. Well,

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Speaker 1: we are talking about weddings. So should we just start like,

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Speaker 1: let me start kind of fresh right now and saying,

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Speaker 1: we're all gathered at this very beautiful Beverly Hills mansion

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Speaker 1: with a out of our bachelor friends right now because

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Speaker 1: Hulu has put together this amazing um we're calling it

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Speaker 1: a summer sooray souray for us in celebration of their

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Speaker 1: new rom com esque Mindy Kaling produced show, Four Weddings

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Speaker 1: and a Funeral. They thought, of all podcasts, who is like,

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Speaker 1: who's related? Who can relate to this show the most?

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Speaker 1: And it is the almost famous podcast because four weddings

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Speaker 1: in a funeral. So it's kind of like every year

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Speaker 1: on The Bachelor, we get like four engagements and we

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Speaker 1: get well, we get more than one funeral, we get

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Speaker 1: a couple of funerals. Usually the funerals last in the

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Speaker 1: final four feels like a funeral. Oh, I was going

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Speaker 1: to say, like the ones that like continuously get out

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Speaker 1: of a show. Without a significant other, kind of like

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Speaker 1: The funerals are so well. I was gonna say, I

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Speaker 1: guess Nick would be the most polarizing one man. Big

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Speaker 1: is probably the ultimate funeral. It's really, it's really, it's yeah,

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Speaker 1: he's the bachelor funeral. No come up with another one another,

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Speaker 1: Oh god, analysis at the table behind us. I would say, oh, Annaly,

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Speaker 1: a bad way, just because is obviously a prominent name.

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Speaker 1: Right now, he's back on Paradise. He's after his retirement.

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Speaker 1: He did retire, he came out of retirement for this season.

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Speaker 1: He's kind of like Jordans come back with the four five, which,

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Speaker 1: if you guys don't remember, Jordan wore the number forty

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Speaker 1: nineties NBA basketball. Yeah, so we are here in celebration

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Speaker 1: of four weddings in the funeral again. It is a

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Speaker 1: Mindy Kayle produced TV show and it's on Hulu, and

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Speaker 1: you with this tail and we would like your feedback,

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Speaker 1: And if you have passionate feedback, you should email my

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Speaker 1: sister because she's the center of the problem. Pretty much

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Speaker 1: story goes, Ashley's sister, Lauren, is the maid of honor. Obviously,

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Speaker 1: One person tells somebody something and then it gets turned

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Speaker 1: But it's less I've actually find it less ner racking

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Speaker 1: just tell me it's good, even though if even if

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Speaker 1: Lauren's made of honor? Jared, That's that's the weirdest thing

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Speaker 1: That's like, I'm gonna cry. This thing you've ever said,

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Speaker 1: I'm just thrown out. This is you guys. If you

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Speaker 1: What if she wants me to be her maid of honor?

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Speaker 1: You know, like that Patrick Patrick Dempsey movie. Excuse me,

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Speaker 1: the wedding, we're just creating storylines right now. What if

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Speaker 1: Hello there, Hey guys. So we were talking about wedding

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Speaker 1: into it. Yeah, I did it before I did the

425
00:23:25,119 --> 00:23:27,359
Speaker 1: whole reality. I was going to say, like, can we

426
00:23:27,359 --> 00:23:29,520
Speaker 1: talk about growth? Here, you were the most nervous man

427
00:23:29,600 --> 00:23:31,320
Speaker 1: coming out of the limbo. Well, I wasn't good at

428
00:23:31,320 --> 00:23:38,480
Speaker 1: stand up, but well, I love the parts. I love

429
00:23:38,600 --> 00:23:42,040
Speaker 1: the wedding speeches. They're my favorite part of weddings. And

430
00:23:42,160 --> 00:23:44,560
Speaker 1: I don't understand why so many people are like, oh,

431
00:23:44,680 --> 00:23:48,120
Speaker 1: it's the speeches. Are they over yet? Like they're the

432
00:23:48,160 --> 00:23:51,919
Speaker 1: best part here, the whole fare backstory of everything, Like

433
00:23:51,960 --> 00:23:53,879
Speaker 1: that's the whole fairy tale that leads up to the

434
00:23:53,920 --> 00:23:57,399
Speaker 1: actual moment, Like that's very much worthy of time. Have

435
00:23:57,520 --> 00:24:01,120
Speaker 1: you guys planned out who would give speeches at your

436
00:24:02,040 --> 00:24:04,800
Speaker 1: you know, weddings in your head? Oh? Yeah, I would

437
00:24:04,800 --> 00:24:07,720
Speaker 1: have my sister hands down give a speech. But we

438
00:24:07,760 --> 00:24:10,840
Speaker 1: were talking about how my sister is too nervous to

439
00:24:10,880 --> 00:24:12,520
Speaker 1: give a speech and wants to do it at the

440
00:24:12,560 --> 00:24:17,240
Speaker 1: rehearsal Dinners. It doesn't seem like a nervous person. That's

441
00:24:17,240 --> 00:24:19,640
Speaker 1: exactly why I said, she can't get away with it. Oh,

442
00:24:19,720 --> 00:24:21,760
Speaker 1: she she'll feel fine, though, I think once she gets

443
00:24:21,840 --> 00:24:24,160
Speaker 1: up there, it's yeah, hopefully she won't cry and shake

444
00:24:24,200 --> 00:24:26,639
Speaker 1: the entire time like the person Joe's time. She'll probably

445
00:24:26,640 --> 00:24:28,879
Speaker 1: be up there for twenty five minutes, just saying nonsense.

446
00:24:29,000 --> 00:24:33,320
Speaker 1: As she's crying. Uh, have you guys talked about it? Wait?

447
00:24:33,359 --> 00:24:34,920
Speaker 1: We didn't talk. Wait who do you want to give

448
00:24:34,960 --> 00:24:37,880
Speaker 1: us your wedding? I would have my brother. I only

449
00:24:37,920 --> 00:24:41,359
Speaker 1: have one sibling. So now we're really close. Yeah. Is

450
00:24:41,400 --> 00:24:45,280
Speaker 1: he still in Chicago? He is. He's a policeman. Policeman

451
00:24:45,320 --> 00:24:48,040
Speaker 1: in Chicago. It's a badass. Yeah, that's a tough, tough

452
00:24:48,720 --> 00:24:51,840
Speaker 1: right there. Um, all right, so you guys been together

453
00:24:51,880 --> 00:24:59,280
Speaker 1: for a year. Now, know what your anniversary is because

454
00:24:59,560 --> 00:25:03,200
Speaker 1: we did not. Yeah, we don't really know. I think August.

455
00:25:03,280 --> 00:25:05,480
Speaker 1: I think sometimes in August that's when we officially announced

456
00:25:05,480 --> 00:25:07,960
Speaker 1: that we were together. Yeah, I've known you for over

457
00:25:08,000 --> 00:25:11,760
Speaker 1: a year. Yeah, we've been living. We've basically I've been

458
00:25:11,800 --> 00:25:14,520
Speaker 1: living with her ever since. How is it is it?

459
00:25:14,800 --> 00:25:18,640
Speaker 1: How's living together? It's easy? I would just say it's easy.

460
00:25:18,880 --> 00:25:20,760
Speaker 1: I mean that's I think that's how you can tell

461
00:25:20,800 --> 00:25:23,080
Speaker 1: a relationship works, is when you live together you feel

462
00:25:23,160 --> 00:25:27,119
Speaker 1: like that's just fun, you know it is? Yeah, I

463
00:25:27,160 --> 00:25:30,359
Speaker 1: always find that with Ashley and I. One of the

464
00:25:30,359 --> 00:25:32,480
Speaker 1: best things about our relationship is that I never really

465
00:25:32,480 --> 00:25:35,639
Speaker 1: feel like I need time away from her. There's past

466
00:25:35,680 --> 00:25:38,119
Speaker 1: relationships where I just feel like I need to be

467
00:25:38,160 --> 00:25:40,440
Speaker 1: away from this person for a little while, just to

468
00:25:40,640 --> 00:25:44,160
Speaker 1: kind of get some air. But it never a lot

469
00:25:44,160 --> 00:25:46,119
Speaker 1: of the times when I'm with Ashley, there is this

470
00:25:46,240 --> 00:25:51,640
Speaker 1: sense of being alone but not it's weird. I can

471
00:25:51,680 --> 00:25:54,480
Speaker 1: understand that it's a great feeling, though, because there's there's

472
00:25:54,520 --> 00:25:56,600
Speaker 1: really has not been a moment yet where I've thought

473
00:25:56,920 --> 00:25:58,680
Speaker 1: I need to get out of the house. That's great.

474
00:25:58,760 --> 00:26:01,439
Speaker 1: Sometimes I feel like you are at that point, but

475
00:26:01,480 --> 00:26:03,080
Speaker 1: it's nice to know that you feel like we've never

476
00:26:03,119 --> 00:26:07,080
Speaker 1: gotten not out of the house, maybe out of the room. Yeah,

477
00:26:07,920 --> 00:26:10,040
Speaker 1: I never feel like I have to. Joe will literally

478
00:26:10,080 --> 00:26:11,879
Speaker 1: go on a fifteen minute run. I'm like, when are

479
00:26:11,880 --> 00:26:14,920
Speaker 1: you coming back? Like what happened today? And it did

480
00:26:14,920 --> 00:26:18,240
Speaker 1: happen today? Well, because I like jumped on a bed

481
00:26:18,280 --> 00:26:21,160
Speaker 1: and hurt my neck, So I haven't been let's talk

482
00:26:21,200 --> 00:26:26,720
Speaker 1: about that. She's jumping on Bedstill jump on the bed,

483
00:26:26,880 --> 00:26:29,320
Speaker 1: come on, hold on. So Joe went for a run

484
00:26:29,960 --> 00:26:32,439
Speaker 1: and you thought this is a great opportunity for me

485
00:26:32,480 --> 00:26:34,480
Speaker 1: to jump on the bed by myself. No, I jumped

486
00:26:34,480 --> 00:26:36,720
Speaker 1: on the bed previous to the run and I hurt

487
00:26:36,760 --> 00:26:38,600
Speaker 1: my neck, so I couldn't go on a run because

488
00:26:38,640 --> 00:26:40,919
Speaker 1: it irritated my neck too much. You're talking about like

489
00:26:41,119 --> 00:26:43,920
Speaker 1: mcaulay culkin and home alone, jumping on the bed trying

490
00:26:43,920 --> 00:26:47,840
Speaker 1: to video. She was getting that I wasn't jumping on

491
00:26:47,880 --> 00:26:49,480
Speaker 1: the bed, and then I tried to leap over the

492
00:26:49,520 --> 00:26:51,240
Speaker 1: table and jump on the bed and I almost broke

493
00:26:51,280 --> 00:26:53,679
Speaker 1: my head. What we do to freaking for freaking social media?

494
00:26:53,760 --> 00:26:55,800
Speaker 1: You know, we're putting our body at jeopardy. I kind

495
00:26:55,800 --> 00:26:57,120
Speaker 1: of want to be able to fly on the wall

496
00:26:57,119 --> 00:27:00,320
Speaker 1: in your household right now. It's a lot of fun.

497
00:27:00,359 --> 00:27:02,320
Speaker 1: It is a lot of pillows and jumping on beds

498
00:27:02,320 --> 00:27:05,920
Speaker 1: and pillows. You guys have a lot of pillow pillows. Yeah.

499
00:27:05,960 --> 00:27:08,560
Speaker 1: We Initially it was supposed to be a pillow fight,

500
00:27:08,600 --> 00:27:10,440
Speaker 1: and then it went from a pillow fight to jumping

501
00:27:10,520 --> 00:27:14,200
Speaker 1: on the bed. Then it turned to something else. Then

502
00:27:18,600 --> 00:27:20,920
Speaker 1: it was like Jared and I need to like start

503
00:27:20,960 --> 00:27:23,480
Speaker 1: getting like our hearts up more. Guys, it was a nap.

504
00:27:23,640 --> 00:27:28,240
Speaker 1: Do you think I'm talking about? Were very healthy? You know, baby,

505
00:27:30,119 --> 00:27:35,320
Speaker 1: we do? You know, we get it on. I want

506
00:27:35,320 --> 00:27:37,920
Speaker 1: to take the white away from this guy. I have

507
00:27:38,000 --> 00:27:40,840
Speaker 1: a drinking lemonade. I just want to keep I just

508
00:27:40,880 --> 00:27:44,280
Speaker 1: wanted Joe to keep talking, right now I'm gonna come

509
00:27:44,280 --> 00:27:46,880
Speaker 1: out next. Joe has really come out of his shell

510
00:27:46,960 --> 00:27:48,879
Speaker 1: since we met him. This is where. Yeah, it was

511
00:27:48,960 --> 00:27:51,000
Speaker 1: very hard. I remember when you first interviewed me. Oh

512
00:27:51,040 --> 00:27:52,560
Speaker 1: my god, it was you were the hardest interview I

513
00:27:52,560 --> 00:27:55,760
Speaker 1: ever had. I wasn't. I wasn't easy. But now it's

514
00:27:55,760 --> 00:27:58,240
Speaker 1: just now you can't get him to stop talking. I

515
00:27:58,320 --> 00:28:00,840
Speaker 1: like it. How was how was your time in the badchut?

516
00:28:01,240 --> 00:28:04,240
Speaker 1: Was cool? You know he met the love of my life.

517
00:28:05,440 --> 00:28:10,240
Speaker 1: Oh no, not bachelorette. That was Paradise. Paradise not even

518
00:28:10,280 --> 00:28:16,520
Speaker 1: meet the bachelorette did right there, and she said that

519
00:28:16,560 --> 00:28:18,399
Speaker 1: he was she was. He was so nervous that it

520
00:28:18,440 --> 00:28:20,399
Speaker 1: was like actually a turn off for her, which is

521
00:28:20,400 --> 00:28:22,520
Speaker 1: why I didn't get through that night. That's what she said.

522
00:28:25,000 --> 00:28:28,320
Speaker 1: I'll remember that one. Maybe I'm putting words into beccas.

523
00:28:28,640 --> 00:28:31,440
Speaker 1: It probably was probably a turn off, probably like if

524
00:28:31,480 --> 00:28:35,680
Speaker 1: we you know, it wasn't couldn't have an easy, flowey conversation.

525
00:28:35,680 --> 00:28:37,320
Speaker 1: I loved that Joe was nervous. I mean, I think

526
00:28:37,359 --> 00:28:40,160
Speaker 1: the first time we hung out in Paradise, he brought

527
00:28:40,200 --> 00:28:43,440
Speaker 1: me this whole plate of fruits and vegetables and started

528
00:28:43,440 --> 00:28:45,520
Speaker 1: like naming all the different fruits and vegetables, and he

529
00:28:45,600 --> 00:28:48,040
Speaker 1: was so sweat I was sweating and I and then

530
00:28:48,040 --> 00:28:49,560
Speaker 1: I knew that I was sweating, and she called me

531
00:28:49,560 --> 00:28:51,440
Speaker 1: out and it just kept coming and I'm like, oh

532
00:28:51,520 --> 00:28:54,720
Speaker 1: my god, I thought it was so cute. This guy's

533
00:28:54,760 --> 00:29:01,600
Speaker 1: well hydrated on the bach ret Rebecca's. I walked up

534
00:29:01,600 --> 00:29:05,880
Speaker 1: to him like, so, like, what's your pet peeve? And

535
00:29:05,880 --> 00:29:07,480
Speaker 1: then after I said, I'm like, oh my god, what

536
00:29:08,320 --> 00:29:10,760
Speaker 1: I felt like my grandmother right now. And she was

537
00:29:10,800 --> 00:29:14,560
Speaker 1: so confused, She's like, what what's your pet peeve? Um?

538
00:29:14,920 --> 00:29:17,720
Speaker 1: When people stand in front of me at the airport

539
00:29:17,800 --> 00:29:23,360
Speaker 1: waiting for their luggage, what I do have me to

540
00:29:23,400 --> 00:29:25,240
Speaker 1: say about that? I hate when people walk right in

541
00:29:25,280 --> 00:29:27,400
Speaker 1: front of you when you're luggage. It's like, this is

542
00:29:27,440 --> 00:29:30,400
Speaker 1: my lane. I agree with you. You You had a guy,

543
00:29:30,560 --> 00:29:33,280
Speaker 1: he said the other day, like the bag dropped and

544
00:29:33,320 --> 00:29:35,480
Speaker 1: he goes, excuse me, my, that's my bag, and the

545
00:29:35,520 --> 00:29:38,280
Speaker 1: guy literally just kept standing there. I mean, it was

546
00:29:38,520 --> 00:29:40,640
Speaker 1: l a what did I expect him to be nice

547
00:29:40,640 --> 00:29:43,680
Speaker 1: to me? I'm in the wrong town, that's true. It's like,

548
00:29:43,760 --> 00:29:46,080
Speaker 1: my bag is faw superior to your back. That's a

549
00:29:46,120 --> 00:29:51,760
Speaker 1: weird pet peeve. That and people at Disneyland. They walk

550
00:29:51,840 --> 00:29:55,040
Speaker 1: really slow. Oh yeah, one things are bad. One thing

551
00:29:55,040 --> 00:29:56,920
Speaker 1: that Joe's had to learn about being in a relationship

552
00:29:56,920 --> 00:30:01,320
Speaker 1: with me is that my family goes. My dad works

553
00:30:01,320 --> 00:30:03,760
Speaker 1: for Disney, so we're always going to Disneyland. So we

554
00:30:03,800 --> 00:30:05,640
Speaker 1: had to deal with the slow walkers of Disneyland. We

555
00:30:05,640 --> 00:30:08,080
Speaker 1: had to have a serious conversation. We did actually have

556
00:30:08,080 --> 00:30:10,240
Speaker 1: a very fact that I told him, Like, listen, I

557
00:30:10,360 --> 00:30:14,240
Speaker 1: just I can't keep going to Disneyland, just like I'm

558
00:30:14,280 --> 00:30:17,840
Speaker 1: a grown adult. Reason why you U should go. Jared

559
00:30:17,880 --> 00:30:21,360
Speaker 1: wants to go to Disneyland and especially Universal Studios way

560
00:30:21,360 --> 00:30:25,280
Speaker 1: more than we do. Well, they just the Jurassic World

561
00:30:25,360 --> 00:30:29,440
Speaker 1: ride just open was technically Orlando. He doesn't want to

562
00:30:29,480 --> 00:30:31,160
Speaker 1: go around here. He wants to take a trip to

563
00:30:31,240 --> 00:30:33,640
Speaker 1: Orlando just for the well, Orlandos is far better. That

564
00:30:33,720 --> 00:30:37,520
Speaker 1: is way better. Also, Harry Potter, the Harry Potter Land

565
00:30:37,640 --> 00:30:39,240
Speaker 1: different is way better. I mean I haven't been, but

566
00:30:39,240 --> 00:30:44,160
Speaker 1: I've heard stories. The Different Bank is there. Yeah, you're missing.

567
00:30:44,600 --> 00:30:46,600
Speaker 1: The world is even way better than Disneyland. I'll just

568
00:30:46,640 --> 00:30:52,480
Speaker 1: say it. I think everyone's thinking it's massive better. There's

569
00:30:52,520 --> 00:30:56,280
Speaker 1: four different parks in disney World. Yeah, Disneyland. It's like

570
00:30:56,880 --> 00:30:59,040
Speaker 1: a little a puddle. I mean, they opened up Star

571
00:30:59,080 --> 00:31:05,120
Speaker 1: Wars Galaxy, which is really anyway, we don't talk about anyway.

572
00:31:06,440 --> 00:31:10,120
Speaker 1: Let's go back to your weddings. Well, well, okay, fine, Jared,

573
00:31:10,120 --> 00:31:11,880
Speaker 1: you asked the next question, then I have the next one.

574
00:31:12,040 --> 00:31:13,480
Speaker 1: All right. Well, I was just gonna say, we're talking

575
00:31:13,480 --> 00:31:16,600
Speaker 1: about who lose four weddings in the funeral? So we're

576
00:31:16,640 --> 00:31:19,240
Speaker 1: talking about weddings here. You guys have been together for

577
00:31:19,280 --> 00:31:22,440
Speaker 1: over a year. You're in the Bachelor World. Been together

578
00:31:22,480 --> 00:31:24,640
Speaker 1: for a year is pretty much like growing old together.

579
00:31:25,720 --> 00:31:32,240
Speaker 1: Is there an engagement? Have you guys talked about the future? Kids, engagement, marriage? Yeah,

580
00:31:32,240 --> 00:31:34,520
Speaker 1: we actually are. You guys just keep having pillow fights.

581
00:31:35,400 --> 00:31:37,720
Speaker 1: That's a part of the engage, which is a fantastic thing.

582
00:31:37,800 --> 00:31:40,240
Speaker 1: Not saying a bad thing. That's part of the engagement.

583
00:31:40,640 --> 00:31:42,200
Speaker 1: There's gonna be like a ring inside the pillow and

584
00:31:42,200 --> 00:31:43,760
Speaker 1: I'll like get hit in the head with it. Now.

585
00:31:44,960 --> 00:31:46,720
Speaker 1: But we I mean, we talked about I mean, I

586
00:31:46,720 --> 00:31:49,520
Speaker 1: guess I feel like since we've met, engagement has been

587
00:31:49,560 --> 00:31:55,040
Speaker 1: a part of the conversation, which is weird. It's Bachelor World,

588
00:31:55,080 --> 00:31:56,640
Speaker 1: you know. Yeah, And we've also I mean, I think

589
00:31:56,760 --> 00:31:59,600
Speaker 1: we're each other's longest relationship we've ever been in. So

590
00:32:00,160 --> 00:32:02,520
Speaker 1: really it's interesting for both of you. A year is

591
00:32:02,600 --> 00:32:05,760
Speaker 1: your longest. Yeah, yeah, a year is my longest too.

592
00:32:06,680 --> 00:32:08,760
Speaker 1: We've been together for a year, and we've been together

593
00:32:08,800 --> 00:32:10,600
Speaker 1: for a year and a half. Yeah, well, actually my

594
00:32:10,640 --> 00:32:12,960
Speaker 1: longest I was about say, your math made no sense.

595
00:32:12,960 --> 00:32:15,840
Speaker 1: They're my longest relationship is a year. We've been together

596
00:32:15,920 --> 00:32:19,760
Speaker 1: for a year and a half. My real, real relationship

597
00:32:19,880 --> 00:32:22,960
Speaker 1: that was beyond a few months. Yeah, my longest relationship

598
00:32:23,000 --> 00:32:25,280
Speaker 1: is four years. It was a big one. That's a

599
00:32:25,040 --> 00:32:30,120
Speaker 1: long long time ago. Early it was like ninety So

600
00:32:30,360 --> 00:32:32,760
Speaker 1: there will be an engagement in our future if we

601
00:32:32,840 --> 00:32:36,840
Speaker 1: last four years. For the four years I'm saying the

602
00:32:36,880 --> 00:32:41,280
Speaker 1: four years a timeline really, well, I mean for me,

603
00:32:41,400 --> 00:32:44,800
Speaker 1: I would definitely I wanted to be a surprise, so

604
00:32:44,960 --> 00:32:46,600
Speaker 1: I'm hoping to do it on the next season of

605
00:32:46,640 --> 00:32:50,880
Speaker 1: The Bachelor. But yeah, I mean I wanted to be

606
00:32:50,920 --> 00:32:53,520
Speaker 1: a surprise, and I feel like we are. I mean,

607
00:32:53,960 --> 00:32:56,200
Speaker 1: we are very much in love, and we have a

608
00:32:56,240 --> 00:32:59,800
Speaker 1: great time and we enjoyed living together. Comfortable with you

609
00:32:59,880 --> 00:33:02,600
Speaker 1: idea of engagement, I would say, I mean, you know,

610
00:33:02,640 --> 00:33:05,080
Speaker 1: it could come any day now. But it's going to

611
00:33:05,120 --> 00:33:11,000
Speaker 1: be a little bit. Is it happening right now? He's

612
00:33:11,040 --> 00:33:16,240
Speaker 1: getting something from his pocket. My last question for you

613
00:33:16,240 --> 00:33:19,920
Speaker 1: guys kind of well, in this in this Hulu show

614
00:33:20,000 --> 00:33:23,600
Speaker 1: for weddings, in the Funeral, the groom is kind of

615
00:33:23,640 --> 00:33:29,120
Speaker 1: in love with the bride's best friend and there's like

616
00:33:29,160 --> 00:33:31,240
Speaker 1: a lot of awkwardness at their wedding that you see

617
00:33:31,280 --> 00:33:34,920
Speaker 1: at the end of the first episode, and I'm thinking

618
00:33:35,960 --> 00:33:38,680
Speaker 1: that would have been one of the circumstances. Oh, that's

619
00:33:38,720 --> 00:33:41,120
Speaker 1: kind of that's kind of how it is. Um, he

620
00:33:41,320 --> 00:33:45,360
Speaker 1: was like, I don't do like. I'm not doing. I'm

621
00:33:45,400 --> 00:33:48,640
Speaker 1: not going to marry you. How have you ever been

622
00:33:48,720 --> 00:33:52,280
Speaker 1: to a wedding where does anybody know what? He don't do?

623
00:33:52,800 --> 00:33:55,960
Speaker 1: Not like? I do like I do, not do I

624
00:33:56,000 --> 00:33:59,720
Speaker 1: do I do? Jared, I don't I do I do

625
00:34:00,160 --> 00:34:02,440
Speaker 1: no like. I backed out and he says, I don't

626
00:34:02,480 --> 00:34:08,440
Speaker 1: do He just didn't actually say that I don't want

627
00:34:08,440 --> 00:34:10,919
Speaker 1: to marry alight. I don't love you. I love your sister, guy.

628
00:34:11,640 --> 00:34:14,440
Speaker 1: I have a twin sister. So yeah, that's true. This

629
00:34:15,320 --> 00:34:20,480
Speaker 1: is well, that's a whole conversation. Have you guys ever

630
00:34:20,520 --> 00:34:24,279
Speaker 1: been to a wedding or heard stories where somebody either

631
00:34:24,320 --> 00:34:28,080
Speaker 1: says I don't they back out the day of or

632
00:34:29,000 --> 00:34:32,080
Speaker 1: somebody who says I object I actually did a whole

633
00:34:32,120 --> 00:34:34,640
Speaker 1: podcast episode, and if you're really interested, you go to

634
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Speaker 1: my other podcast and in search it. But we did

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Speaker 1: a whole episode of people um with objections at the

636
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Speaker 1: altar and there were surprisingly, we got enough stories for

637
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Speaker 1: a whole podcast episode. Joe's nodding his head over here.

638
00:34:48,440 --> 00:34:50,680
Speaker 1: I have a great one. Okay, good for you. I

639
00:34:50,719 --> 00:34:53,600
Speaker 1: personally don't know the guy, but I heard this. Okay.

640
00:34:53,760 --> 00:34:57,360
Speaker 1: So the day of the wedding, he found out, like

641
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Speaker 1: a week before the wedding that she was sleeping with

642
00:35:00,000 --> 00:35:02,960
Speaker 1: someone else. This is usually how it is, okay. So

643
00:35:03,000 --> 00:35:06,600
Speaker 1: what he did was and he got he had pictures

644
00:35:07,280 --> 00:35:10,279
Speaker 1: of them together, like sleeping together. So he printed out

645
00:35:10,280 --> 00:35:13,000
Speaker 1: a bunch of pictures, printed out a bunch of pictures,

646
00:35:13,040 --> 00:35:16,200
Speaker 1: put him underneath all the seeds at the wedding. Oh

647
00:35:16,239 --> 00:35:17,560
Speaker 1: my god, this is worse than the story I was

648
00:35:17,600 --> 00:35:19,680
Speaker 1: gonna say. And then as he was about to say

649
00:35:19,719 --> 00:35:21,560
Speaker 1: I do he called her out. I think they had

650
00:35:21,600 --> 00:35:24,719
Speaker 1: a projector screen or something and boom, and he said, like,

651
00:35:24,760 --> 00:35:29,560
Speaker 1: look under your seats um, she's you know whatever, YadA YadA, YadA,

652
00:35:29,880 --> 00:35:35,200
Speaker 1: and then you know, YadA YadA over sex me. Is

653
00:35:35,200 --> 00:35:40,120
Speaker 1: that a sign? Fold quarter? And and he walked out,

654
00:35:41,920 --> 00:35:44,600
Speaker 1: So the story dropped. The story that I heard was

655
00:35:44,719 --> 00:35:49,800
Speaker 1: very similar. When the bride was supposed to read her vows,

656
00:35:50,280 --> 00:35:53,719
Speaker 1: she ended up reading text messages between the groom and

657
00:35:53,760 --> 00:36:00,680
Speaker 1: the mistress. Such an expensive way of right, call out.

658
00:36:01,080 --> 00:36:04,319
Speaker 1: We're still having dinner afterwards, like they said that they did.

659
00:36:04,440 --> 00:36:07,720
Speaker 1: They win partied afterwards, like they took advantage of it. Yeah,

660
00:36:07,840 --> 00:36:10,520
Speaker 1: I mean you have to. I mean you only live once,

661
00:36:10,600 --> 00:36:15,960
Speaker 1: so yeah, find out your spouse is cheating. Just do

662
00:36:16,080 --> 00:36:18,560
Speaker 1: it at the wedding. Suppose about the wedding. That's like

663
00:36:18,600 --> 00:36:24,480
Speaker 1: a whole crazy stuff. Guys. Well, Joe Kindnell, thank you

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Speaker 1: for joining us, of course, on this very special four

665
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Speaker 1: weddings in a fuerial episode in the Almost Say podcast.

666
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Speaker 1: Yes and Joe, before you go, we heard something really

667
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Speaker 1: cool that you're doing. Oh yeah, I have a clothing

668
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Speaker 1: line that I will be dropping August first. It's called

669
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Speaker 1: Frown Clothing. You can follow us on Instagram at Frown Clothing.

670
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Speaker 1: So frown we are doing the word frown upside down

671
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Speaker 1: and we have partnered with a charity called Smile Train

672
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Speaker 1: that fixes cleft lip. So it's incredible. Yeah, and we

673
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Speaker 1: have hoodies and t shirts and we're going to drop

674
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Speaker 1: a bunch of different and we're spreading smiles. Yes, and

675
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Speaker 1: they can little positivity in this negative social media world totally.

676
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Speaker 1: And I'm assuming everybody can find that on your Instagram

677
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Speaker 1: and you can definitely find that on my Instagram and

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Speaker 1: on our Instagram at Frown Clothing. Why was cliff Lips

679
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Speaker 1: a thing for you? Because it went it just went

680
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Speaker 1: hand in hand with what we were trying to with

681
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Speaker 1: just yeah, with smiling and it works. And Smile Trains

682
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Speaker 1: their toes. Stay tuned, guys, August first or seven. I

686
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Speaker 1: know you guys are gonna watch Four Weddings in the

687
00:37:43,360 --> 00:37:46,360
Speaker 1: Funeral after this podcast because you've just heard it talked

688
00:37:46,360 --> 00:37:49,080
Speaker 1: about too much for you not to just break your

689
00:37:49,239 --> 00:37:52,360
Speaker 1: curiosity and click on it when you see it on Hulu.

690
00:37:52,520 --> 00:37:56,880
Speaker 1: It's under their original series relationships are forged and broken.

691
00:37:57,080 --> 00:38:03,320
Speaker 1: Political scandals are exposed. London social life lampooned, love affairs

692
00:38:03,360 --> 00:38:06,440
Speaker 1: ignited in DAWs and of course there are four weddings

693
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Speaker 1: and a funeral. Of course, Duffy has a secret crush

694
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Speaker 1: on Maya and Craig is trying to help a secret crush.

695
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Speaker 1: Have I ever had a secret crush? I feel like

696
00:38:17,920 --> 00:38:19,880
Speaker 1: all of my crushes in high school or secret. I

697
00:38:19,920 --> 00:38:22,000
Speaker 1: never told my friends about them. What about you, babe?

698
00:38:22,040 --> 00:38:24,080
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, we talked about this on a podcast a

699
00:38:24,080 --> 00:38:26,560
Speaker 1: while ago, about a crush you had in high school

700
00:38:26,560 --> 00:38:27,880
Speaker 1: but you never had the guts to tell him that

701
00:38:27,920 --> 00:38:30,480
Speaker 1: you actually liked them. No, that was in grad school.

702
00:38:31,320 --> 00:38:33,160
Speaker 1: Oh well, for me, it was a high school girl.

703
00:38:33,600 --> 00:38:35,799
Speaker 1: Then you did this episode before We're Together. Yeah. I

704
00:38:35,800 --> 00:38:37,640
Speaker 1: sent her flowers on Valentine's Day. I don't know if

705
00:38:37,680 --> 00:38:39,359
Speaker 1: you guys remember that in high school you were able

706
00:38:39,400 --> 00:38:42,920
Speaker 1: to like send little chocolates or flowers to like somebody's

707
00:38:42,960 --> 00:38:45,640
Speaker 1: home room desk. I did that, and then I didn't

708
00:38:45,640 --> 00:38:47,440
Speaker 1: have the guts tell her I liked her, And I

709
00:38:47,520 --> 00:38:49,600
Speaker 1: was like, oh, I just I just wanted you to

710
00:38:49,719 --> 00:38:52,040
Speaker 1: have a good day. You're just such a cute little

711
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Speaker 1: produced by Mindy Kaling, premiering July thirty one, only on Hulu.

714
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Speaker 1: Hey guys, we are joined now by Heather Martin from

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Speaker 1: Colton season. I'm sorry, but you were notoriously known for

716
00:39:14,520 --> 00:39:17,839
Speaker 1: having your first kiss with Carlton. So now I got

717
00:39:17,840 --> 00:39:22,680
Speaker 1: to ask, how do you feel about couples practicing their

718
00:39:22,719 --> 00:39:26,400
Speaker 1: wedding altar kiss? Practicing it? Don't you feel like you

719
00:39:26,480 --> 00:39:29,160
Speaker 1: need to practice it? We're getting up. They've never heard

720
00:39:29,160 --> 00:39:33,279
Speaker 1: of that my entire life. I'm getting married a little while. Um,

721
00:39:33,560 --> 00:39:35,359
Speaker 1: what are you talking about, babe? We were talking about

722
00:39:35,400 --> 00:39:37,880
Speaker 1: how you better not pick me up there. That was

723
00:39:37,920 --> 00:39:41,120
Speaker 1: a joke. Of course, I'm not gonna he does. Now

724
00:39:41,160 --> 00:39:43,319
Speaker 1: we joke. Now he pecks me in real life and

725
00:39:43,320 --> 00:39:48,200
Speaker 1: he goes, okay, let's go Wait. Is that a thing

726
00:39:48,280 --> 00:39:52,520
Speaker 1: to practice? Yeah? Never heard of that. I think Actuley's

727
00:39:52,600 --> 00:39:54,880
Speaker 1: making this up. I want to make sure that we

728
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Speaker 1: have like a tasteful romantic kiss. What is that entail? Like?

729
00:39:59,120 --> 00:40:03,440
Speaker 1: What is it tasteful? A real lip lock but no tongue. Okay,

730
00:40:03,480 --> 00:40:06,879
Speaker 1: that's fine, do we need to practice like we've done

731
00:40:06,920 --> 00:40:10,400
Speaker 1: that a million times? I mean timing how long it

732
00:40:10,400 --> 00:40:14,160
Speaker 1: will be? You wanted to be absolutely perfect? Is that

733
00:40:14,239 --> 00:40:16,880
Speaker 1: you're saying? I think it should be. I think we

734
00:40:16,920 --> 00:40:20,279
Speaker 1: should be rehearsed, like once or twice. I've never thought

735
00:40:20,320 --> 00:40:24,000
Speaker 1: about that ever. I just thought kissing was kissing. Whatever

736
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Speaker 1: it feels right in the moment, babe. If a peck

737
00:40:25,880 --> 00:40:27,600
Speaker 1: feels right, I think I think we should just do it.

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Speaker 1: There's a couple of things that I tell Jared. If

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Speaker 1: he were to do on our wedding peck me at

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00:40:33,600 --> 00:40:36,640
Speaker 1: the altar and then put too much gel in his hair,

741
00:40:36,840 --> 00:40:41,440
Speaker 1: I'd be like, Okay, I'm mad, Good Lord in Heaven,

742
00:40:42,000 --> 00:40:43,680
Speaker 1: would you rather have? Would you rather have a peck

743
00:40:43,960 --> 00:40:47,040
Speaker 1: or like him? Like go at it? Like at it?

744
00:40:47,120 --> 00:40:53,479
Speaker 1: Of course? Yeah, head, you'd rather you'd rather at the alter?

745
00:40:53,800 --> 00:40:57,160
Speaker 1: Could you imagine seeing a bride and groom or any

746
00:40:57,200 --> 00:41:01,200
Speaker 1: couple up there just give a peck as if they

747
00:41:01,200 --> 00:41:05,160
Speaker 1: don't passionately love each other on the on their wedding day,

748
00:41:05,320 --> 00:41:09,759
Speaker 1: I'd rather see like tongue saliva. I think it pec too.

749
00:41:09,840 --> 00:41:12,080
Speaker 1: I think of peck too. Know what peck is like?

750
00:41:12,120 --> 00:41:15,000
Speaker 1: Do they like each other. When I watch wedding shows

751
00:41:16,080 --> 00:41:20,560
Speaker 1: like wedding docuseries, I always say I have seen some sloppy,

752
00:41:20,640 --> 00:41:23,440
Speaker 1: gross kisses at the I'll say that that's not that's

753
00:41:23,480 --> 00:41:25,920
Speaker 1: not appealing. No one likes it. No one likes it.

754
00:41:26,120 --> 00:41:28,160
Speaker 1: Nobody likes But peck is true. You do think, like,

755
00:41:28,280 --> 00:41:30,360
Speaker 1: do they actually like it? Yeah, it's like, come on, guys,

756
00:41:30,360 --> 00:41:32,799
Speaker 1: it's your wedding day. I know you're getting married, but

757
00:41:32,840 --> 00:41:35,560
Speaker 1: at the end of the day, let's show some emotion

758
00:41:35,640 --> 00:41:39,200
Speaker 1: and passion here. Anyway, Heather, you were on Colton season.

759
00:41:39,239 --> 00:41:40,800
Speaker 1: What are you up to now? Have you? Have you

760
00:41:40,880 --> 00:41:45,680
Speaker 1: kissed anybody else? She hasn't. Everyone asked me that feels no,

761
00:41:45,840 --> 00:41:48,239
Speaker 1: I have not. I have not. I asked her this

762
00:41:48,320 --> 00:41:53,080
Speaker 1: a couple of weeks ago. Yeah, well, one, it's it's

763
00:41:53,120 --> 00:41:56,160
Speaker 1: obviously your choice. It has to be. You are a striking,

764
00:41:56,600 --> 00:42:00,400
Speaker 1: beautiful woman. It's true. I'm saying that be nice to

765
00:42:00,400 --> 00:42:04,400
Speaker 1: actually don't kill me like, it's true. It's true. It's

766
00:42:04,400 --> 00:42:07,279
Speaker 1: always like this weird thing now that because I like

767
00:42:07,400 --> 00:42:13,200
Speaker 1: to compliment everybody, but it's weird as a complimenting. Alright, great, perfect,

768
00:42:13,680 --> 00:42:15,160
Speaker 1: as long as you know if you were feel weird

769
00:42:15,360 --> 00:42:19,959
Speaker 1: me complimenting anyone. It depends on how you he does.

770
00:42:20,080 --> 00:42:24,400
Speaker 1: He doesn't like because there'll be times we're watching the

771
00:42:24,440 --> 00:42:29,720
Speaker 1: Bachelorette and somebody will say like, oh, that guy is sexy,

772
00:42:29,960 --> 00:42:31,840
Speaker 1: and I should be like, I know he is sexy,

773
00:42:32,200 --> 00:42:34,480
Speaker 1: and it's like you're not allowed to say sexy about

774
00:42:34,520 --> 00:42:38,400
Speaker 1: any other man. Sometimes I feel like I've just like

775
00:42:38,440 --> 00:42:40,799
Speaker 1: slipped out things like when we're with our like you know,

776
00:42:40,880 --> 00:42:43,000
Speaker 1: bachelor friends, like I think I've said to like Ben

777
00:42:43,000 --> 00:42:45,239
Speaker 1: and and like you look great, it looks so good,

778
00:42:45,360 --> 00:42:47,919
Speaker 1: you look so good today, looks awesome, your hair looks nice.

779
00:42:48,200 --> 00:42:51,200
Speaker 1: And I can see she doesn't say your hair looks nice.

780
00:42:51,239 --> 00:42:53,759
Speaker 1: You always you always like compliment their looks or how

781
00:42:53,800 --> 00:42:56,839
Speaker 1: good looking they are. And it's like, alright, ash settled back.

782
00:42:58,200 --> 00:43:02,120
Speaker 1: You like get a compliment thing, compliments to a certain extent,

783
00:43:02,160 --> 00:43:04,640
Speaker 1: I think every person, a lot of people feel the

784
00:43:04,640 --> 00:43:07,160
Speaker 1: way I do. Now we're in a relationship and you're like,

785
00:43:07,160 --> 00:43:08,960
Speaker 1: all right, sudden, you know, take it back a little bit.

786
00:43:09,040 --> 00:43:11,279
Speaker 1: But I feel like, actually, is though you kind of

787
00:43:11,280 --> 00:43:16,400
Speaker 1: compliment everyone in general. Right Well, I think Ashley and

788
00:43:16,400 --> 00:43:18,719
Speaker 1: I have actually talked about this. We both at that

789
00:43:19,360 --> 00:43:22,160
Speaker 1: we both make people feel good, but really telling them

790
00:43:22,200 --> 00:43:24,160
Speaker 1: about like what we find very apeeling about that. But

791
00:43:24,200 --> 00:43:28,680
Speaker 1: I think Ashley as God used to call me a

792
00:43:28,719 --> 00:43:33,400
Speaker 1: flurgent on the show Alerty Virgin. That was what the producers.

793
00:43:34,320 --> 00:43:37,920
Speaker 1: You're very flirty and you're also it's gonna sound I

794
00:43:37,960 --> 00:43:41,120
Speaker 1: hope this doesn't sound bad. You're kind of a fan girl. Yeah,

795
00:43:41,160 --> 00:43:44,960
Speaker 1: that's not so bad at all. But when being a fan,

796
00:43:45,040 --> 00:43:48,080
Speaker 1: but when you see someone who you view as you know,

797
00:43:49,000 --> 00:43:52,719
Speaker 1: very good looking boy band or whatever, you know your

798
00:43:52,840 --> 00:43:57,160
Speaker 1: type is you and you end up fan girling over

799
00:43:57,239 --> 00:44:01,560
Speaker 1: them and it's not like my role as host, I know,

800
00:44:02,520 --> 00:44:04,640
Speaker 1: but I remember it caused it. I'm not even gonna lie.

801
00:44:04,680 --> 00:44:06,600
Speaker 1: It caused issues in our relationship. Early on. There was

802
00:44:06,600 --> 00:44:08,560
Speaker 1: a couple of moments where he was like, I got

803
00:44:08,920 --> 00:44:10,799
Speaker 1: you look at him and it's like, I know, it's

804
00:44:11,160 --> 00:44:13,239
Speaker 1: I know, nothing would ever happen. It's not it's not

805
00:44:13,400 --> 00:44:15,400
Speaker 1: that I think that you would cheat on me or

806
00:44:15,440 --> 00:44:18,960
Speaker 1: anything like that. It's more imagine if I looked at

807
00:44:19,000 --> 00:44:21,280
Speaker 1: a woman the way you look at some guys. See

808
00:44:21,360 --> 00:44:24,839
Speaker 1: I argued this with Jared. I think when guys look

809
00:44:24,880 --> 00:44:27,960
Speaker 1: at girls and like they like think about their appearance.

810
00:44:28,520 --> 00:44:30,920
Speaker 1: When guys talk about a girl's appearance, it's more like,

811
00:44:31,320 --> 00:44:34,200
Speaker 1: Oh she's hot, I'd like to bang her. With girls

812
00:44:34,600 --> 00:44:36,960
Speaker 1: it's like, oh he's hot, I want to look at him.

813
00:44:37,360 --> 00:44:42,920
Speaker 1: I agree, I totally it's not We're not as sexually

814
00:44:42,960 --> 00:44:47,040
Speaker 1: oriented when it comes to like visuals. We need like

815
00:44:47,360 --> 00:44:50,719
Speaker 1: a lot more to be like sexually attractive. So if

816
00:44:50,840 --> 00:44:52,640
Speaker 1: I looked at a girl the way that you look

817
00:44:52,680 --> 00:44:55,480
Speaker 1: at some guys, and I know that it's not any like.

818
00:44:55,600 --> 00:44:58,040
Speaker 1: I know you love me and you find me very attractive.

819
00:44:58,160 --> 00:45:00,920
Speaker 1: I tell you that you're the hottest person every single day.

820
00:45:01,080 --> 00:45:04,759
Speaker 1: I know, and you're so supportive and so um you

821
00:45:04,840 --> 00:45:07,759
Speaker 1: hype me up all the time, and I love you

822
00:45:07,760 --> 00:45:10,879
Speaker 1: about that. But if I looked at girls the way

823
00:45:10,960 --> 00:45:13,640
Speaker 1: sometimes you look at guys, just in terms of that

824
00:45:13,640 --> 00:45:19,840
Speaker 1: that awe you, you would you would, you would kill me.

825
00:45:20,239 --> 00:45:22,600
Speaker 1: I do think it's a double standard, though, because girls

826
00:45:22,600 --> 00:45:26,600
Speaker 1: do that all the time, Like actors, musicians, girls who

827
00:45:26,600 --> 00:45:30,479
Speaker 1: are married and so happily married can just go off

828
00:45:30,560 --> 00:45:33,120
Speaker 1: about like how much they have like a crush or

829
00:45:33,200 --> 00:45:37,440
Speaker 1: like their fan girling over somebody. But it's a double standard.

830
00:45:37,520 --> 00:45:41,120
Speaker 1: But I think there is a certain innocence to our

831
00:45:41,200 --> 00:45:44,759
Speaker 1: crushes that guys don't happen. It does feel different. It

832
00:45:45,080 --> 00:45:47,000
Speaker 1: totally is a double standard, Like it totally is, but

833
00:45:47,040 --> 00:45:51,839
Speaker 1: there's something different about it. There really is. There really is.

834
00:45:52,440 --> 00:45:55,800
Speaker 1: It's two against one right standards, though, this is his

835
00:45:55,920 --> 00:46:00,280
Speaker 1: biggest thing in life, double standards in any uh, acid

836
00:46:00,320 --> 00:46:03,799
Speaker 1: of life, whether it's you know, towards women or towards men.

837
00:46:03,880 --> 00:46:06,120
Speaker 1: I'm not saying what I do is right, but I

838
00:46:06,160 --> 00:46:08,840
Speaker 1: know that what I do is very innocent. Oh, I

839
00:46:08,920 --> 00:46:11,839
Speaker 1: know it is too. It's just more of of course,

840
00:46:12,200 --> 00:46:14,000
Speaker 1: you know, as as any person, if you saw your

841
00:46:14,000 --> 00:46:17,800
Speaker 1: significant other kind of like in awe of somebody else's looks,

842
00:46:18,400 --> 00:46:20,560
Speaker 1: you would be like, wow, this feels like cracky and

843
00:46:20,600 --> 00:46:22,440
Speaker 1: feel like it can't feel good. Yeah, and it's not

844
00:46:22,480 --> 00:46:25,880
Speaker 1: anything intentional. Also, yesterday we were watching Once upon a

845
00:46:25,920 --> 00:46:29,640
Speaker 1: Time in Hollywood. I was drooling over Margaret Robbie than Leo.

846
00:46:29,800 --> 00:46:31,759
Speaker 1: Like I was like, oh my god, her face, her face,

847
00:46:31,800 --> 00:46:34,200
Speaker 1: her face totally. But I do that with guys all

848
00:46:34,200 --> 00:46:37,560
Speaker 1: the time. Yeah, Like I drool over Tom Brady. But

849
00:46:37,640 --> 00:46:41,799
Speaker 1: it's not just the drool over guys more than girls though,

850
00:46:41,920 --> 00:46:44,480
Speaker 1: I know, actually, you know, it's really funny. This is

851
00:46:44,560 --> 00:46:47,239
Speaker 1: kind of a small story so I'm a big Rob

852
00:46:47,280 --> 00:46:53,319
Speaker 1: Thomas fan. We were, we've become friendly. Long story, we

853
00:46:53,320 --> 00:46:55,320
Speaker 1: were hanging out with him before his last concert in

854
00:46:55,360 --> 00:46:58,840
Speaker 1: Boston and he he looked at Ashley and me and

855
00:46:58,880 --> 00:47:00,800
Speaker 1: he's like, you know, the more I get to know Jared,

856
00:47:01,120 --> 00:47:04,400
Speaker 1: the more I realized that all his like crushes are guys.

857
00:47:05,200 --> 00:47:09,440
Speaker 1: And then he was like, but he's like, but he's like,

858
00:47:09,440 --> 00:47:11,680
Speaker 1: but I totally get that because when I think about it,

859
00:47:11,760 --> 00:47:15,359
Speaker 1: all my crushes are guys too, because a guy, it's like,

860
00:47:16,719 --> 00:47:20,040
Speaker 1: you know, obviously something like Margot Robbie is stunning and beautiful,

861
00:47:20,520 --> 00:47:22,600
Speaker 1: but if you're asking, like who would I rather meet

862
00:47:22,719 --> 00:47:27,680
Speaker 1: Margot Robbie or Tom Brady or even like Margot Robbie

863
00:47:27,760 --> 00:47:30,680
Speaker 1: or leon Nodo DiCaprio, it's not even a question. I

864
00:47:30,719 --> 00:47:33,440
Speaker 1: want to meet Leo every day of the week. And

865
00:47:35,440 --> 00:47:36,880
Speaker 1: you know, and I don't know. That's just like my

866
00:47:36,920 --> 00:47:39,000
Speaker 1: way of thinking because I'm like, I think it's also

867
00:47:39,040 --> 00:47:41,040
Speaker 1: like because I want to be like that. Yeah, you

868
00:47:41,040 --> 00:47:42,520
Speaker 1: want to be like that, you know, and you already

869
00:47:42,520 --> 00:47:44,680
Speaker 1: have your girl, so like, what's the point. That's what

870
00:47:44,760 --> 00:47:49,680
Speaker 1: we're also saying to Rob Thomas. We're one our hall passes.

871
00:47:49,760 --> 00:47:52,959
Speaker 1: We can't have all passes because they're too attainable, which

872
00:47:53,000 --> 00:47:55,680
Speaker 1: is understood too attainable, too attainable, like we could just

873
00:47:55,719 --> 00:47:59,560
Speaker 1: casually run into them on the street, or like we're

874
00:47:59,600 --> 00:48:01,640
Speaker 1: one to re of separation from them, you know what

875
00:48:01,719 --> 00:48:04,040
Speaker 1: I mean. It's like not even funny anymore, because she

876
00:48:04,160 --> 00:48:06,279
Speaker 1: told me who's your hall pass? Again? I think Joe

877
00:48:06,360 --> 00:48:13,080
Speaker 1: Jonas is my number one hall pass Milo. So every

878
00:48:13,120 --> 00:48:17,320
Speaker 1: girl in the world fund raising their hands about Joe

879
00:48:17,360 --> 00:48:21,239
Speaker 1: and Milo. I obviously have Joe, Milo and Jared not

880
00:48:21,360 --> 00:48:24,600
Speaker 1: to mention that I just saw a trailer for a

881
00:48:24,640 --> 00:48:29,480
Speaker 1: dog movie that's coming out starring Milo was good and

882
00:48:30,560 --> 00:48:33,440
Speaker 1: if there wasn't just enough women in the world that

883
00:48:33,480 --> 00:48:37,040
Speaker 1: will go see that movie. Um, but it's it's interesting

884
00:48:37,160 --> 00:48:41,560
Speaker 1: because like that could have we know someone who knows him,

885
00:48:41,800 --> 00:48:45,200
Speaker 1: you know, and it's like, no, that that could we

886
00:48:45,200 --> 00:48:47,879
Speaker 1: could easily just meet him and then a should be like, well,

887
00:48:47,880 --> 00:48:51,239
Speaker 1: that's my hall pass, you said it said. So then

888
00:48:51,280 --> 00:48:54,040
Speaker 1: when this when we start having this hall pass conversation,

889
00:48:54,080 --> 00:48:56,760
Speaker 1: which originated like a year ago when we first got engaged,

890
00:48:57,000 --> 00:49:00,000
Speaker 1: I was like, let's not use the hardword hall pass.

891
00:49:00,160 --> 00:49:04,160
Speaker 1: That would infer Yeah, that we wanted to like, bang

892
00:49:04,400 --> 00:49:06,840
Speaker 1: for sure. That's not like a like I have a

893
00:49:06,840 --> 00:49:09,080
Speaker 1: celebrity crush. I'm like, these are my celebrity crushes that

894
00:49:09,160 --> 00:49:13,160
Speaker 1: they're not hall passes. But I just say that with Leo,

895
00:49:13,760 --> 00:49:15,919
Speaker 1: I think you'd almost want me to get with Leo.

896
00:49:18,320 --> 00:49:20,399
Speaker 1: I see if people missing true the other time, because

897
00:49:20,400 --> 00:49:23,680
Speaker 1: when I talk about like someone like Brady, they're like, oh,

898
00:49:23,880 --> 00:49:26,719
Speaker 1: you would, you would totally make out Brady, And it's

899
00:49:26,719 --> 00:49:29,759
Speaker 1: like you personally you know me, you know, because they're like, oh,

900
00:49:29,880 --> 00:49:33,319
Speaker 1: you love him. It's like one there's different types of love,

901
00:49:33,920 --> 00:49:36,200
Speaker 1: you know. The way I love my parents is not

902
00:49:36,239 --> 00:49:38,600
Speaker 1: the same way I love my Ashley way as I

903
00:49:38,640 --> 00:49:42,440
Speaker 1: loved Tom Brady. Yes, I agree, um, but it's so

904
00:49:42,560 --> 00:49:44,600
Speaker 1: I forget where I was going with this. You know,

905
00:49:44,719 --> 00:49:48,719
Speaker 1: we're going with all of it. I don't know, wouldn't no, not,

906
00:49:48,840 --> 00:49:51,359
Speaker 1: there's anything wrong with that, the opportunity he should make

907
00:49:51,360 --> 00:49:56,480
Speaker 1: out with I would like to yeah, you know, okay, uh,

908
00:49:56,680 --> 00:49:58,200
Speaker 1: like I said that there's anything wrong with that. People

909
00:49:58,239 --> 00:49:59,759
Speaker 1: want to make out Tom Brady. I totally get it.

910
00:49:59,760 --> 00:50:02,560
Speaker 1: It's just not my preference. I want to grab a

911
00:50:02,600 --> 00:50:04,640
Speaker 1: beer with Brady, even though he doesn't drink beer. I

912
00:50:04,640 --> 00:50:06,800
Speaker 1: don't think because he's you know, health, he does. I

913
00:50:06,800 --> 00:50:09,120
Speaker 1: think he does. He chucked the beer Murmber that time,

914
00:50:09,160 --> 00:50:13,040
Speaker 1: like somebody's into the story. It was not Stephen Colbert. Okay,

915
00:50:13,120 --> 00:50:14,960
Speaker 1: and where you did the He chugged the beer in

916
00:50:15,000 --> 00:50:20,560
Speaker 1: like half a second. Anyway, Wow, we really off topic, Heather,

917
00:50:20,640 --> 00:50:25,280
Speaker 1: who are your celebrity crushes? We can arrange your next kiss.

918
00:50:25,640 --> 00:50:28,839
Speaker 1: Since these are all like one degree of separations, we

919
00:50:28,880 --> 00:50:31,960
Speaker 1: can try to arrange this. That's such a big question.

920
00:50:32,880 --> 00:50:34,919
Speaker 1: So much there's nobody that comes to mind, like even

921
00:50:34,960 --> 00:50:36,960
Speaker 1: just like a few names that you're like, oh, that person,

922
00:50:37,000 --> 00:50:39,919
Speaker 1: this person, like since like forever, like since Cinderella story,

923
00:50:39,920 --> 00:50:46,000
Speaker 1: Like Chad Michael Murray is a fantastic better than Chad

924
00:50:46,000 --> 00:50:50,719
Speaker 1: Michael Murray. Isn't there somebody Hill? He doesn't look that

925
00:50:50,840 --> 00:50:52,680
Speaker 1: much like they're both very attractive men. But I don't

926
00:50:52,680 --> 00:50:56,279
Speaker 1: think John Paul Jones looks too much. Like she's saying, no,

927
00:50:56,520 --> 00:50:59,560
Speaker 1: you have got to watch Injury Hill. Oh my gosh,

928
00:51:00,040 --> 00:51:03,279
Speaker 1: you would actually like and I cannot will watching it

929
00:51:03,360 --> 00:51:05,600
Speaker 1: that that Chad Michael Murray was the hottest person in

930
00:51:05,640 --> 00:51:08,560
Speaker 1: the entire world. I think so. I really enjoyed checkle

931
00:51:09,120 --> 00:51:15,520
Speaker 1: Chackle Chad Michael Murray in House of Wax. No, but yeah,

932
00:51:15,560 --> 00:51:19,799
Speaker 1: of course you haven't. Obviously, Paris Hilton's in there, Parris Hillen,

933
00:51:19,800 --> 00:51:21,759
Speaker 1: there's a couple of people. I can't remember. What else

934
00:51:21,760 --> 00:51:23,520
Speaker 1: do I know Chad Michael Murray from because I know

935
00:51:23,520 --> 00:51:30,320
Speaker 1: he's from Cinderella Story, but he's Freaky Friday. Freaky Friday. Yeah,

936
00:51:30,360 --> 00:51:32,840
Speaker 1: that's where I know him from. Jam is a great

937
00:51:32,880 --> 00:51:36,640
Speaker 1: celebrity crush. He's just like, yeah, he's a good one,

938
00:51:37,000 --> 00:51:42,239
Speaker 1: all right, So he's married. He's married. Take a single

939
00:51:42,280 --> 00:51:47,160
Speaker 1: crash and we'll have our emailers call in with connections.

940
00:51:47,320 --> 00:51:49,680
Speaker 1: But really, Amy is just connected to everyone saying it.

941
00:51:50,080 --> 00:51:51,680
Speaker 1: I should have come up with this song before. Are

942
00:51:51,680 --> 00:51:53,759
Speaker 1: you like a nineties heart throb girl? Are you kind

943
00:51:53,760 --> 00:52:01,880
Speaker 1: of like three old? Holy crap, I'm old. She's like

944
00:52:01,920 --> 00:52:03,960
Speaker 1: almost a decade younger than us. Who's all right? What

945
00:52:04,000 --> 00:52:09,719
Speaker 1: about Justin Timberlake? I like Justin Timberlake, but he wasn't

946
00:52:09,760 --> 00:52:13,880
Speaker 1: like my ultimate Like when I was a sophomore in

947
00:52:13,960 --> 00:52:17,120
Speaker 1: high school, I kissed Harry Styles on the cheek and

948
00:52:17,160 --> 00:52:19,560
Speaker 1: it was the best day in my entire life. So

949
00:52:19,680 --> 00:52:26,560
Speaker 1: you should say that's yeah, I met him. I stalked

950
00:52:26,640 --> 00:52:28,840
Speaker 1: him to a golf course, like I heard my friend

951
00:52:28,880 --> 00:52:31,279
Speaker 1: was golfing and I heard he was there, and I

952
00:52:31,360 --> 00:52:33,640
Speaker 1: literally like we had a math final the next day,

953
00:52:33,640 --> 00:52:35,120
Speaker 1: and I was like, I do not care. I stalked

954
00:52:35,160 --> 00:52:37,719
Speaker 1: into the golf course, got the picture, kissed him on

955
00:52:37,719 --> 00:52:39,759
Speaker 1: the cheeks, my friend. I think it's the same in

956
00:52:39,800 --> 00:52:42,040
Speaker 1: my life, like literally still to this day, like I

957
00:52:42,080 --> 00:52:48,560
Speaker 1: will like the feeling of oh yeah, it was great

958
00:52:48,600 --> 00:52:52,080
Speaker 1: and he was right super nice. Well he was like

959
00:52:52,120 --> 00:52:54,640
Speaker 1: trying to run away from everyone, but like I found him,

960
00:52:54,640 --> 00:52:57,040
Speaker 1: Like I was like, I was going, I found him.

961
00:52:57,040 --> 00:52:58,360
Speaker 1: No one else call a picture except me and my

962
00:52:58,400 --> 00:53:01,320
Speaker 1: friend and we just like stalked into a scar. That's amazing.

963
00:53:01,360 --> 00:53:02,960
Speaker 1: It was an amazing How do you feel about his

964
00:53:03,680 --> 00:53:09,160
Speaker 1: casting as Prince Eric. It's not officially. I don't think

965
00:53:09,800 --> 00:53:12,919
Speaker 1: Lauren called me like shrinking that it was. That's here too. Yeah,

966
00:53:14,040 --> 00:53:17,680
Speaker 1: I heard about it officially yet because I went I

967
00:53:17,719 --> 00:53:19,640
Speaker 1: looked it up when Lauren called, and I don't think

968
00:53:19,680 --> 00:53:22,759
Speaker 1: it's officially had great. He was great park If you

969
00:53:22,760 --> 00:53:26,080
Speaker 1: guys saw that, I didn't see it. Yeah, he can act.

970
00:53:27,719 --> 00:53:30,600
Speaker 1: I think that was his name. Did a great job

971
00:53:30,760 --> 00:53:41,560
Speaker 1: as Elton John in rocket Man. But still yeah, but

972
00:53:41,680 --> 00:53:44,879
Speaker 1: I still think Harry could have really killed that role choke. Okay, well,

973
00:53:44,920 --> 00:53:46,920
Speaker 1: we are going on and on and on. Thank you

974
00:53:47,000 --> 00:53:50,000
Speaker 1: so much for joining us than for that was great.

975
00:53:50,040 --> 00:53:54,640
Speaker 1: Thanks you, Thanks you guys. Thanks for I know you

976
00:53:54,719 --> 00:53:57,399
Speaker 1: guys are probably missing Ben very much. You're like, Wow,

977
00:53:57,480 --> 00:54:00,480
Speaker 1: Ashley really needs Ben to hold this podcast out. Well,

978
00:54:00,640 --> 00:54:04,120
Speaker 1: that's a busy man. He's been in Switzerland, Okay, He's

979
00:54:04,200 --> 00:54:06,760
Speaker 1: has these companies to run, and now he has something

980
00:54:06,760 --> 00:54:09,279
Speaker 1: else on this plate. It is The Bachelor Live on

981
00:54:09,520 --> 00:54:12,479
Speaker 1: Stage and he is the host of this live tour.

982
00:54:12,800 --> 00:54:16,280
Speaker 1: They're hitting up a bunch of cities, um all throughout

983
00:54:16,320 --> 00:54:19,279
Speaker 1: the country. It's gonna be kind of like a game

984
00:54:19,320 --> 00:54:22,640
Speaker 1: show and Ben is hosting the whole shebang. You can

985
00:54:22,680 --> 00:54:26,680
Speaker 1: go get more information at Bachelor Live on Stage dot com.

986
00:54:27,120 --> 00:54:30,200
Speaker 1: Four Weddings and a Funeral is a new Hulu original

987
00:54:30,280 --> 00:54:33,640
Speaker 1: series focusing on the lives of four college friends and

988
00:54:33,840 --> 00:54:38,040
Speaker 1: their different relationship and career crisis. One of the main characters, Craig,

989
00:54:38,160 --> 00:54:41,120
Speaker 1: has a girlfriend named Zara, who is an outsider to

990
00:54:41,520 --> 00:54:46,080
Speaker 1: the college friend group. Actually, you've ever been an outsider?

991
00:54:46,080 --> 00:54:47,759
Speaker 1: I feel like you've always been an outsider. What do

992
00:54:47,800 --> 00:54:50,920
Speaker 1: you mean? What do you mean? Because I always like

993
00:54:50,920 --> 00:54:53,960
Speaker 1: embraced myself fullheartedly. I don't think. I don't think. I

994
00:54:54,000 --> 00:54:57,960
Speaker 1: don't remember stories of you having Really I don't have

995
00:54:58,000 --> 00:55:02,040
Speaker 1: a friend high school group. I have, well, an outsider Jared.

996
00:55:02,360 --> 00:55:04,439
Speaker 1: I it's called somebody who had a lot of friends

997
00:55:04,440 --> 00:55:06,800
Speaker 1: and different groups. I never had like a core group.

998
00:55:06,880 --> 00:55:09,440
Speaker 1: Now I know. It was really sad, and I think

999
00:55:09,440 --> 00:55:11,840
Speaker 1: that's why I love the Bachelor family so much, because

1000
00:55:11,840 --> 00:55:13,359
Speaker 1: it's like my first group of friends. We can all

1001
00:55:13,400 --> 00:55:15,160
Speaker 1: hang together and like we all relate to each other

1002
00:55:15,200 --> 00:55:18,080
Speaker 1: and we all get along. Because other than that, I've

1003
00:55:18,120 --> 00:55:19,759
Speaker 1: always just had like my friend here, my friend here,

1004
00:55:19,800 --> 00:55:21,239
Speaker 1: my friend here, my friend here, and my friend here.

1005
00:55:21,440 --> 00:55:23,040
Speaker 1: I think you can probably relate to this coming from

1006
00:55:23,080 --> 00:55:25,319
Speaker 1: the Bachelor, just like I was. I guess have you

1007
00:55:25,360 --> 00:55:30,600
Speaker 1: ever had do you ever disliked a friend's friend? Friends? Friends?

1008
00:55:30,640 --> 00:55:33,160
Speaker 1: Like you're close with a friend and you're like, I

1009
00:55:33,200 --> 00:55:36,600
Speaker 1: love you, but then they always bring another friend around

1010
00:55:36,840 --> 00:55:38,880
Speaker 1: that you have to hang out with because they're friends,

1011
00:55:38,880 --> 00:55:41,480
Speaker 1: but you don't like them. Gonna be honest, because nobody's

1012
00:55:41,520 --> 00:55:44,000
Speaker 1: sticking out. I'm going to say, now, no, even in

1013
00:55:44,040 --> 00:55:46,560
Speaker 1: the Bachelor world, I feel like, that's a given the

1014
00:55:46,600 --> 00:55:51,400
Speaker 1: bachelor world, I like almost everyone. Well, that's very you're

1015
00:55:51,400 --> 00:55:53,719
Speaker 1: a very sweet person. Now you can catch all the

1016
00:55:53,800 --> 00:55:56,520
Speaker 1: drama and Four Weddings and a Funeral, a new rom

1017
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Speaker 1: com series produced by Mindy Kaling, premiering Live thirty one

1018
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Speaker 1: only on Hulu. Okay, guys, we are joined by Crystal,

1019
00:56:08,600 --> 00:56:13,160
Speaker 1: who's become really like a regular on this podcast, like

1020
00:56:13,280 --> 00:56:17,880
Speaker 1: she's been on maybe three of the past six episodes.

1021
00:56:17,960 --> 00:56:20,600
Speaker 1: I feel like, but I have a great question that

1022
00:56:20,680 --> 00:56:23,760
Speaker 1: I want to concentrate on with our segment with Grissel,

1023
00:56:23,920 --> 00:56:26,320
Speaker 1: because she just got married, and because we're about to

1024
00:56:26,360 --> 00:56:29,000
Speaker 1: get married, and because this has been something that Jared

1025
00:56:29,000 --> 00:56:32,960
Speaker 1: and I have bickered about when going to other people's weddings.

1026
00:56:33,719 --> 00:56:37,680
Speaker 1: A question, and we asked the Instagram audience this a

1027
00:56:37,680 --> 00:56:42,240
Speaker 1: couple of months ago. Do how much do you give

1028
00:56:42,719 --> 00:56:45,440
Speaker 1: a couple? How much do you give a couple of

1029
00:56:45,440 --> 00:56:47,840
Speaker 1: your giving money, so so you're like, you're giving money

1030
00:56:47,880 --> 00:56:49,960
Speaker 1: at a wedding as a gift. How much do you

1031
00:56:50,000 --> 00:56:52,640
Speaker 1: give person person to per couple? Do you even do

1032
00:56:52,680 --> 00:56:55,200
Speaker 1: it by per per person? I'm so confused by this

1033
00:56:55,200 --> 00:56:56,919
Speaker 1: because we went to a wedding a couple of months ago,

1034
00:56:57,520 --> 00:57:00,120
Speaker 1: not yours, but somebody else's wedding. We went to, well

1035
00:57:00,320 --> 00:57:03,000
Speaker 1: just quite beautiful. But we went to another wedding before that,

1036
00:57:03,040 --> 00:57:04,799
Speaker 1: a couple of months ago, and I was like, oh,

1037
00:57:04,840 --> 00:57:06,960
Speaker 1: we should give this amount. Actually was like are you

1038
00:57:07,640 --> 00:57:09,960
Speaker 1: saying it? Was like, Jared, how cheap are you? That's

1039
00:57:10,000 --> 00:57:11,960
Speaker 1: so embarrassing? And I was like, what are you talking

1040
00:57:12,000 --> 00:57:16,920
Speaker 1: about a little more than that? I say that it

1041
00:57:16,960 --> 00:57:21,200
Speaker 1: should be too, about two hundred a couple and about

1042
00:57:21,200 --> 00:57:24,520
Speaker 1: a hundred dollars per individual. You know. I think it's

1043
00:57:24,560 --> 00:57:28,800
Speaker 1: so interesting because when you when you buy gifts, you're

1044
00:57:28,920 --> 00:57:31,480
Speaker 1: you're buying the gifts, and I would spend probably at

1045
00:57:31,520 --> 00:57:36,720
Speaker 1: least a couple hundred dollars individually. Um, when it's money,

1046
00:57:36,760 --> 00:57:40,800
Speaker 1: it's so different because it's such a different category, isn't it?

1047
00:57:40,880 --> 00:57:44,920
Speaker 1: And I actually haven't I are we gonna figure out

1048
00:57:44,880 --> 00:57:46,640
Speaker 1: how much money I'm giving to you at your wedding.

1049
00:57:47,360 --> 00:57:49,880
Speaker 1: We don't want anything. This is very this isn't this

1050
00:57:49,920 --> 00:57:54,160
Speaker 1: is perfect. Don't give anything perfect. I'm being honest because

1051
00:57:54,280 --> 00:57:56,360
Speaker 1: so many of our guests actually gets mad at me

1052
00:57:56,400 --> 00:57:58,320
Speaker 1: every time I say this, But I really don't want

1053
00:57:58,360 --> 00:58:00,600
Speaker 1: that many gifts, just because I know asked, was gonna

1054
00:58:00,600 --> 00:58:03,640
Speaker 1: slap me, but I feel bad for everybody who has

1055
00:58:03,680 --> 00:58:05,960
Speaker 1: to pay money to fly out, get a hotel. It's

1056
00:58:06,000 --> 00:58:09,440
Speaker 1: not cheap, and so the gift is kind of secondary

1057
00:58:09,480 --> 00:58:12,160
Speaker 1: the most important things we want people there, Yeah, but

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00:58:12,280 --> 00:58:15,520
Speaker 1: it is. It is nice to give. And I think

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00:58:15,560 --> 00:58:18,479
Speaker 1: that Chris and I asked for We didn't really ask

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00:58:18,600 --> 00:58:21,240
Speaker 1: for um a lot of presents. We asked for money

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00:58:21,240 --> 00:58:25,360
Speaker 1: towards like our honey, little Honey fun. And I really

1062
00:58:25,400 --> 00:58:27,920
Speaker 1: enjoyed that because we actually got to create experiences. And

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00:58:27,960 --> 00:58:29,400
Speaker 1: I know, like when it comes to money, I think

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00:58:29,400 --> 00:58:33,600
Speaker 1: that it's interesting, but I think minimum a hundred dollars

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00:58:33,600 --> 00:58:36,720
Speaker 1: a person. Yeah, I think so too. And it seemed

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00:58:36,760 --> 00:58:40,640
Speaker 1: like Instagram was I said with Instagram the Instagram I

1067
00:58:40,640 --> 00:58:43,880
Speaker 1: said around a hundred or around two hundred, and most

1068
00:58:43,880 --> 00:58:47,680
Speaker 1: people said around two hundred. Jared expected he thought like

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00:58:47,760 --> 00:58:54,000
Speaker 1: the norm was like less than seventy five. You thought

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00:58:54,000 --> 00:58:56,640
Speaker 1: it was around seventy five. Well, I never I never

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00:58:56,720 --> 00:59:00,240
Speaker 1: even quantified it as per person. I was just like,

1072
00:59:00,560 --> 00:59:03,320
Speaker 1: here's money for the couple. I never was like, oh,

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00:59:03,360 --> 00:59:06,640
Speaker 1: I gotta spend at least seventy bucks per personal jaredy. Yes,

1074
00:59:06,840 --> 00:59:09,640
Speaker 1: they at their tables, their plates that they like your

1075
00:59:09,800 --> 00:59:13,720
Speaker 1: your dinner cost them at least fifty dollars usually, I know,

1076
00:59:13,960 --> 00:59:16,280
Speaker 1: So it's so crazy. Like um years ago, when I

1077
00:59:16,280 --> 00:59:18,240
Speaker 1: first started going to weddings and have like my friends

1078
00:59:18,280 --> 00:59:21,120
Speaker 1: that started getting married, I remember sitting down with her

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00:59:21,280 --> 00:59:24,240
Speaker 1: and my friend Ashley and going over She's like, yeah,

1080
00:59:24,280 --> 00:59:26,800
Speaker 1: it's like a hundred and fift dollars ahead, and I

1081
00:59:26,840 --> 00:59:30,960
Speaker 1: was like, wait, what what And she's like and was

1082
00:59:31,000 --> 00:59:33,760
Speaker 1: complaining about like people not r s v P or

1083
00:59:34,040 --> 00:59:36,320
Speaker 1: people wanting to bring plus the ones that were like

1084
00:59:36,360 --> 00:59:40,120
Speaker 1: in serious relationships. And I never seen it from that

1085
00:59:40,400 --> 00:59:43,080
Speaker 1: bridal perspective before, but I was like, oh my gosh,

1086
00:59:43,280 --> 00:59:47,480
Speaker 1: there's so much, so much that goes into having guests there.

1087
00:59:47,920 --> 00:59:53,680
Speaker 1: So y'all rs v P to the way shop according

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00:59:53,760 --> 00:59:56,640
Speaker 1: to what the registry of what the Brennan grum we're

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00:59:56,680 --> 01:00:02,120
Speaker 1: asking for. And I would say, I personally like doing gifts,

1090
01:00:02,200 --> 01:00:06,960
Speaker 1: even if it's just like experiences, so like, but you

1091
01:00:06,960 --> 01:00:09,000
Speaker 1: can probably expect from me as like a little note

1092
01:00:09,120 --> 01:00:11,760
Speaker 1: that says what this money will be, because it's like

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01:00:11,800 --> 01:00:18,440
Speaker 1: an experience and I like having like that little quantifiable contribution. No,

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01:00:18,640 --> 01:00:20,960
Speaker 1: I liked your registry because it was. It was like

1095
01:00:21,000 --> 01:00:23,040
Speaker 1: money for the honeymoon, money for this, and it was

1096
01:00:23,120 --> 01:00:28,040
Speaker 1: like airline uber food out of this kind of restaurant.

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01:00:28,080 --> 01:00:29,680
Speaker 1: I thought that was pretty thoughtful and pretty cool. What

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01:00:29,720 --> 01:00:32,640
Speaker 1: are you guys doing? We have a crame Barrel registry,

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01:00:32,800 --> 01:00:35,800
Speaker 1: and then we also have like a honeymoon or we

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01:00:35,840 --> 01:00:37,800
Speaker 1: have like a house fund. We're calling it our house

1101
01:00:37,840 --> 01:00:41,480
Speaker 1: fund because we always spend so much time together watching

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01:00:41,640 --> 01:00:44,000
Speaker 1: h G t V and dreaming about our ideal house,

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01:00:44,160 --> 01:00:48,440
Speaker 1: dreaming that I feel like everything we do is like, Okay,

1104
01:00:48,440 --> 01:00:50,240
Speaker 1: this is going to go to our house one day. Yeah.

1105
01:00:50,320 --> 01:00:52,920
Speaker 1: I mean every kind of like penny we save, it's like,

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01:00:52,960 --> 01:00:54,760
Speaker 1: all right, this is going. Where is that house going

1107
01:00:54,800 --> 01:00:59,680
Speaker 1: to be? That's a great question. In Rhode Island somewhere

1108
01:01:00,280 --> 01:01:04,640
Speaker 1: probably just l A. It's so expensive. Dollar doesn't go far.

1109
01:01:06,240 --> 01:01:07,640
Speaker 1: You don't get your you know, the bank for the

1110
01:01:07,640 --> 01:01:09,920
Speaker 1: book out here, and it sucks. It's just like why

1111
01:01:09,920 --> 01:01:13,600
Speaker 1: would I pay for a house over here? It's like, yeah,

1112
01:01:13,800 --> 01:01:17,280
Speaker 1: here's a two thousand square foot house, two bedrooms, one

1113
01:01:17,320 --> 01:01:19,480
Speaker 1: and a half path, two million dollars and it's like

1114
01:01:19,880 --> 01:01:24,040
Speaker 1: what I know? I was looking. I was my first

1115
01:01:24,040 --> 01:01:25,800
Speaker 1: team out of California in two thousand twelve. I was

1116
01:01:25,800 --> 01:01:30,440
Speaker 1: looking on zello just for fun. I get afford anything

1117
01:01:30,480 --> 01:01:34,040
Speaker 1: because I was like a server. But I saw in

1118
01:01:34,200 --> 01:01:39,640
Speaker 1: studio city four hundred and fifty square feet foot studio

1119
01:01:40,280 --> 01:01:44,520
Speaker 1: nine hundred dollars, and I was like, I'm coming from

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01:01:44,520 --> 01:01:47,200
Speaker 1: like Montana, Idaho, And I was like, is this what

1121
01:01:47,240 --> 01:01:49,440
Speaker 1: it is out here? You just turned right back around

1122
01:01:50,480 --> 01:01:52,680
Speaker 1: back of the hound coort. How long do you work

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01:01:52,680 --> 01:01:55,320
Speaker 1: in the hospitality industry for? I worked in food and

1124
01:01:55,360 --> 01:01:58,720
Speaker 1: beverage for twelve years high five. Yeah, I'm a little

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01:01:58,760 --> 01:02:02,720
Speaker 1: closer to thirteen. I worked in it for. My first

1126
01:02:02,840 --> 01:02:09,640
Speaker 1: job was fifteen bussing at Cellos Cellos and Warwick, Rhode

1127
01:02:09,640 --> 01:02:13,040
Speaker 1: Island was a bussing now it was like a hometown,

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01:02:13,480 --> 01:02:17,720
Speaker 1: like family five h Yeah. We went to Cellos on

1129
01:02:17,720 --> 01:02:20,760
Speaker 1: the water, different water. Yeah, it was different one. But anyway,

1130
01:02:20,840 --> 01:02:25,400
Speaker 1: I've worked for god eleven eleven twelve years in the hospital.

1131
01:02:26,680 --> 01:02:29,400
Speaker 1: But I know you treat everybody so well, and you're

1132
01:02:29,400 --> 01:02:31,400
Speaker 1: so personalble with everybody, and you can tell that you

1133
01:02:31,400 --> 01:02:33,720
Speaker 1: have a background working with people. And I've always said

1134
01:02:34,920 --> 01:02:38,360
Speaker 1: everybody it should be a college course to work in

1135
01:02:38,400 --> 01:02:41,640
Speaker 1: the food industry or any type of hospitality hotel, because

1136
01:02:41,760 --> 01:02:45,520
Speaker 1: dealing with people teaches you how to deal with people,

1137
01:02:45,640 --> 01:02:48,480
Speaker 1: how to just how to be a nice person, you know,

1138
01:02:48,720 --> 01:02:51,840
Speaker 1: to look at somebody in the eyes, to respond to somebody,

1139
01:02:51,960 --> 01:02:55,800
Speaker 1: I think, even just to speak respectfully, even to just

1140
01:02:56,200 --> 01:02:59,000
Speaker 1: I know, as a server, there are many many moments

1141
01:02:59,120 --> 01:03:02,800
Speaker 1: where I just felt so degraded taking someone's order and

1142
01:03:02,840 --> 01:03:05,680
Speaker 1: I'm like, I'm trying to serve your family, lady, like

1143
01:03:05,760 --> 01:03:08,360
Speaker 1: your kids are screaming, I'm here like helping out. I

1144
01:03:08,440 --> 01:03:11,120
Speaker 1: was bartending to after the show at times, and it

1145
01:03:11,240 --> 01:03:13,919
Speaker 1: was the worst feeling ever because so many times people

1146
01:03:13,920 --> 01:03:17,320
Speaker 1: would come in and they would be like, oh my god,

1147
01:03:17,440 --> 01:03:20,959
Speaker 1: you're Jared from The Bachelor. What the hell? Like they'd

1148
01:03:20,960 --> 01:03:22,520
Speaker 1: be like, oh my god, I'm so excited to meet you,

1149
01:03:22,560 --> 01:03:25,440
Speaker 1: because if you're on TV, they immediately assume that you

1150
01:03:25,480 --> 01:03:28,760
Speaker 1: have fame and fortune. And it was just sometimes really

1151
01:03:29,120 --> 01:03:31,800
Speaker 1: difficult because then I'd be like, no, I'm bartending here,

1152
01:03:31,840 --> 01:03:34,160
Speaker 1: like can I get something to drink? And it was

1153
01:03:34,200 --> 01:03:37,440
Speaker 1: just like this weird, surreal moment I think for them

1154
01:03:37,480 --> 01:03:39,960
Speaker 1: because they were like, oh my god. I thought, like,

1155
01:03:40,000 --> 01:03:41,600
Speaker 1: what are you doing here? You were on TV, and

1156
01:03:41,600 --> 01:03:43,880
Speaker 1: it's like that's not how reality TV. Works, you know,

1157
01:03:44,440 --> 01:03:50,960
Speaker 1: and so yeah whenever, uh, sometimes I remember not to

1158
01:03:51,040 --> 01:03:53,080
Speaker 1: be weird. I would get numbers all the time. It

1159
01:03:53,160 --> 01:03:56,160
Speaker 1: was just like that. But when he was working in

1160
01:03:56,360 --> 01:03:59,440
Speaker 1: l A, when we first like started dating, and he

1161
01:03:59,640 --> 01:04:02,840
Speaker 1: was bar attending because he really just wanted to bartend.

1162
01:04:03,240 --> 01:04:06,480
Speaker 1: I wanted to work. Yeah, he wanted to work to

1163
01:04:06,600 --> 01:04:10,120
Speaker 1: go and like to have a structure. Tuesday. I used

1164
01:04:10,120 --> 01:04:11,640
Speaker 1: to like pick him up and I'd be like, did

1165
01:04:11,640 --> 01:04:13,600
Speaker 1: you get any Never did anybody hit on you? I

1166
01:04:13,640 --> 01:04:17,800
Speaker 1: love my guy getting hit on my I like knowing

1167
01:04:17,840 --> 01:04:21,920
Speaker 1: that I have something that other people want. But you

1168
01:04:21,960 --> 01:04:26,160
Speaker 1: didn't have him at that No, I did know. Yeah,

1169
01:04:26,440 --> 01:04:28,600
Speaker 1: Oh so when did you quit bartending? No, like he

1170
01:04:28,640 --> 01:04:31,480
Speaker 1: came back to it for a while. I stopped in

1171
01:04:31,600 --> 01:04:36,680
Speaker 1: like May. I think mayor mayor June. Probably June last year. Yeah,

1172
01:04:36,800 --> 01:04:39,840
Speaker 1: just about a year ago. But it just everything kind

1173
01:04:39,840 --> 01:04:41,840
Speaker 1: of picked up and everything was so busy and it

1174
01:04:41,920 --> 01:04:44,640
Speaker 1: was just impossible. It's like, oh, I can work next

1175
01:04:44,640 --> 01:04:47,680
Speaker 1: Sunday and next Tuesday, and it was you know, can

1176
01:04:47,720 --> 01:04:51,200
Speaker 1: I ask how did it feel to put in your resignation? Oh,

1177
01:04:51,240 --> 01:04:54,000
Speaker 1: I've quit a few jobs. Uh it's always the worst.

1178
01:04:54,000 --> 01:04:56,480
Speaker 1: I've gotten better at it. As I've done it more often,

1179
01:04:56,560 --> 01:04:58,680
Speaker 1: and then you realize that it's not I think personal.

1180
01:04:58,760 --> 01:05:01,280
Speaker 1: It's just I've never a quit a job because I've

1181
01:05:01,320 --> 01:05:04,480
Speaker 1: hated the job, you know, I've always quit because there

1182
01:05:04,560 --> 01:05:06,800
Speaker 1: was either a better opportunity or I had to leave

1183
01:05:06,920 --> 01:05:09,680
Speaker 1: or something along those lines. So I don't think I've

1184
01:05:09,680 --> 01:05:11,640
Speaker 1: ever really had that experience of be like, I hate

1185
01:05:11,680 --> 01:05:14,280
Speaker 1: this place, I'm quitting. It's always been I have a

1186
01:05:14,320 --> 01:05:17,960
Speaker 1: better opportunity or I just can't fit it in my schedule.

1187
01:05:17,960 --> 01:05:20,760
Speaker 1: And that's what happened with so for me, mom was different.

1188
01:05:21,120 --> 01:05:23,520
Speaker 1: My first job was actually as a dishwasher at a

1189
01:05:23,560 --> 01:05:28,760
Speaker 1: truck stop, and I used to walk two miles each way,

1190
01:05:34,000 --> 01:05:38,600
Speaker 1: back when chocolate used to cossa nickel. I know, I walk.

1191
01:05:38,800 --> 01:05:42,640
Speaker 1: I walked two miles to school. You kids, you kids

1192
01:05:42,640 --> 01:05:45,680
Speaker 1: are so ungrateful and well. And then at one point

1193
01:05:45,920 --> 01:05:48,680
Speaker 1: the school bus would like drop me off in school

1194
01:05:48,720 --> 01:05:51,520
Speaker 1: in high school, like my freshman year, you know, I

1195
01:05:51,640 --> 01:05:53,760
Speaker 1: was hustling. That I grew u with a single mom

1196
01:05:54,160 --> 01:05:57,360
Speaker 1: who really couldn't ever ever provide. I remember on the

1197
01:05:57,360 --> 01:05:59,720
Speaker 1: batch I talked about in third grade, I bought myself

1198
01:05:59,760 --> 01:06:03,320
Speaker 1: a further my bed because mine had holes. My mom

1199
01:06:03,320 --> 01:06:06,280
Speaker 1: like wouldn't couldn't afford it. And as I said about

1200
01:06:06,320 --> 01:06:08,520
Speaker 1: my Birthday money and my Christmas money, and while my

1201
01:06:08,520 --> 01:06:10,400
Speaker 1: ceilings are out buying candy a bot like it's a

1202
01:06:10,440 --> 01:06:13,280
Speaker 1: beautiful comforter with like floral on it, which is now

1203
01:06:13,320 --> 01:06:16,560
Speaker 1: all like hideous, But I was like so proud. I've

1204
01:06:16,560 --> 01:06:20,080
Speaker 1: always had this like ethic to just really know that

1205
01:06:20,240 --> 01:06:22,320
Speaker 1: it's going to be me out there, like me like

1206
01:06:22,680 --> 01:06:25,480
Speaker 1: providing for myself. And I really cared that ethic throughout,

1207
01:06:26,040 --> 01:06:28,760
Speaker 1: you know, my entire life because of that. So when

1208
01:06:28,800 --> 01:06:32,120
Speaker 1: I quit bartending, I remember I would stand there and

1209
01:06:32,120 --> 01:06:35,600
Speaker 1: I would be bartending like my last year, and I

1210
01:06:35,720 --> 01:06:37,480
Speaker 1: just I would like pull out the little receipt and

1211
01:06:37,560 --> 01:06:39,120
Speaker 1: like at that extra paper, and I would pull out

1212
01:06:39,120 --> 01:06:41,720
Speaker 1: a little customer pad and started writing down like my

1213
01:06:41,840 --> 01:06:44,800
Speaker 1: mission statement of like my job, my career, like my

1214
01:06:44,920 --> 01:06:46,320
Speaker 1: dreams and what I was going to do and all

1215
01:06:46,320 --> 01:06:48,240
Speaker 1: the steps I was going to take, and I would

1216
01:06:48,280 --> 01:06:51,080
Speaker 1: just be like so connected with it and know that

1217
01:06:51,200 --> 01:06:53,480
Speaker 1: like when I was there, granted, I was so grateful

1218
01:06:53,880 --> 01:06:55,919
Speaker 1: to be working, to be making money, and I really

1219
01:06:56,000 --> 01:07:00,000
Speaker 1: enjoyed um, bartending was really really fun. But I knew

1220
01:07:00,040 --> 01:07:02,400
Speaker 1: that I wasn't living my potential and so pardon me

1221
01:07:02,480 --> 01:07:05,600
Speaker 1: was just really like held back and feelings just you know,

1222
01:07:06,120 --> 01:07:10,160
Speaker 1: like a flower that just couldn't blossom as long as

1223
01:07:10,160 --> 01:07:13,880
Speaker 1: they stayed safe. And so when I quit um also

1224
01:07:13,920 --> 01:07:16,120
Speaker 1: my mom barked for twenty five years and I got

1225
01:07:16,120 --> 01:07:19,120
Speaker 1: to see her just never really go after her dreams

1226
01:07:19,120 --> 01:07:21,600
Speaker 1: and it was really hard to see that. So that

1227
01:07:21,680 --> 01:07:23,560
Speaker 1: was a huge fear for me, was that I would

1228
01:07:23,600 --> 01:07:26,200
Speaker 1: never amount to anything else. I would only be that

1229
01:07:26,240 --> 01:07:28,360
Speaker 1: I would only play it safe in the world and

1230
01:07:28,400 --> 01:07:32,520
Speaker 1: my dreams would go like uncovered, like or it's still covered.

1231
01:07:33,080 --> 01:07:35,600
Speaker 1: And so for me to quit, it was this huge,

1232
01:07:36,240 --> 01:07:38,320
Speaker 1: huge moment for me, and Gat I like quit too,

1233
01:07:38,920 --> 01:07:42,600
Speaker 1: go make venimum wage as a fitness instructor. But for me,

1234
01:07:42,640 --> 01:07:45,080
Speaker 1: it was it wasn't the job. It was just that

1235
01:07:45,480 --> 01:07:48,120
Speaker 1: the expression of the soul and the work I was

1236
01:07:48,160 --> 01:07:50,560
Speaker 1: doing and contributing out to the world. Yeah, going after

1237
01:07:50,640 --> 01:07:51,960
Speaker 1: what you want. I'm going to tell a quick story

1238
01:07:51,960 --> 01:07:55,840
Speaker 1: and Ashley's definitely gonna hate me for this, and I apologize. Well,

1239
01:07:55,880 --> 01:07:58,400
Speaker 1: there's a great story that I've heard that I repeated

1240
01:07:58,440 --> 01:08:00,720
Speaker 1: actually many times, that Jim care he talks about and

1241
01:08:00,720 --> 01:08:03,240
Speaker 1: he talks about his father, He says, my father was

1242
01:08:03,280 --> 01:08:05,400
Speaker 1: the funniest guy, funnier than me. Could have been a

1243
01:08:05,440 --> 01:08:09,800
Speaker 1: great comedian, but he was scared because that seemed out

1244
01:08:09,800 --> 01:08:12,720
Speaker 1: of possibility, and so he took a safe job as

1245
01:08:12,760 --> 01:08:15,200
Speaker 1: an accountant. And when Jim Carey was thirteen years old,

1246
01:08:15,240 --> 01:08:17,160
Speaker 1: his father got fired from that job and they had

1247
01:08:17,160 --> 01:08:19,759
Speaker 1: to do whatever they had to do to survive, and

1248
01:08:19,920 --> 01:08:22,000
Speaker 1: he learned a lot of great lessons, not the least

1249
01:08:22,000 --> 01:08:25,240
Speaker 1: of which was that you can fail at what you

1250
01:08:25,360 --> 01:08:27,200
Speaker 1: don't want to do, so you might as well go

1251
01:08:27,280 --> 01:08:31,439
Speaker 1: after what you love. And that's a line that's always

1252
01:08:31,439 --> 01:08:33,760
Speaker 1: stuck with me. And it's something that I preach and

1253
01:08:33,760 --> 01:08:37,240
Speaker 1: I don't practice. Don't practice. It's it's you know because

1254
01:08:37,280 --> 01:08:39,760
Speaker 1: it is hard because you do have this idea of

1255
01:08:39,800 --> 01:08:43,840
Speaker 1: taking these safe jobs because it looks like it's, you

1256
01:08:43,880 --> 01:08:48,200
Speaker 1: know it, there's stability there and security there, um, but

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Speaker 1: there really isn't. There's no such thing as a safe job.

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Speaker 1: And um, so I I give you a lot of

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Speaker 1: credit for kind of being able to get out of

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Speaker 1: your own way and go after the things you want,

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Speaker 1: because especially coming from your background, and I think I

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01:09:03,520 --> 01:09:05,120
Speaker 1: can relate a little bit. You see a lot of

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01:09:05,120 --> 01:09:07,720
Speaker 1: your friends, there are so much potential and there's and

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01:09:07,760 --> 01:09:09,360
Speaker 1: there's so many things that they want to do, and

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Speaker 1: then all of a sudden, fifteen years go by and

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Speaker 1: they're still bartending. And there's nothing wrong with that at all.

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Speaker 1: I was a lifelong bartender, but I think that there's

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Speaker 1: a lot of people that wish they could do more

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Speaker 1: and just all of a sudden they fall into this

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Speaker 1: comfort zone and then years go by and it's like,

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Speaker 1: holy crap. I mean, it's scary to take chances. It's

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Speaker 1: really scary. And I think that I feel so grateful

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01:09:30,320 --> 01:09:32,920
Speaker 1: for going on the show The Bachelor, because I mean,

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01:09:33,120 --> 01:09:35,880
Speaker 1: for everyone that we've met in our Bachelor family, I

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01:09:35,880 --> 01:09:38,120
Speaker 1: mean like we all just said yes to a crazy

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01:09:38,160 --> 01:09:41,720
Speaker 1: opportunity that was so out of the norm, and we

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01:09:41,800 --> 01:09:44,479
Speaker 1: just went into it. I mean like surrendered into it.

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01:09:44,840 --> 01:09:48,120
Speaker 1: And it's taken us on this river of opportunities and

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01:09:48,520 --> 01:09:51,080
Speaker 1: either you pull over because it's too tumultuous for you

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01:09:51,120 --> 01:09:53,280
Speaker 1: to handle, or you can just continue to write it

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01:09:53,880 --> 01:09:57,599
Speaker 1: and then you learn the attitude that you want when

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Speaker 1: you're on the river, Like is it hard, is it,

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01:10:00,760 --> 01:10:03,840
Speaker 1: you know, uncomfortable, or is it like an exciting adventure?

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01:10:04,320 --> 01:10:06,919
Speaker 1: And you can't wait to see what's around the bent totally.

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Speaker 1: And I remember before we went on the show. I'm sorry,

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Speaker 1: now I'm on a tangent. I'm sorry. Actually we're rapping, Okay,

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01:10:12,560 --> 01:10:14,680
Speaker 1: I'm not. I love the conversation. I just want to

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Speaker 1: say one last thing because it's along the same lines

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Speaker 1: that you were talking about when deciding going on the

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Speaker 1: show or not. And I remember having a moment to

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01:10:21,760 --> 01:10:24,280
Speaker 1: myself thinking why would I not go on the show,

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01:10:24,320 --> 01:10:26,799
Speaker 1: And it was because I was scared. I was scared

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01:10:27,000 --> 01:10:30,320
Speaker 1: of what people would think of me. And it brought

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01:10:30,320 --> 01:10:34,680
Speaker 1: me back to another quote, which was, um, people make

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01:10:34,720 --> 01:10:37,080
Speaker 1: decisions based out of fear all the time, and they

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01:10:37,120 --> 01:10:41,080
Speaker 1: disguised it as practicality. And I knew that if I

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01:10:41,160 --> 01:10:43,880
Speaker 1: didn't do the show, it was because I was making excuses,

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01:10:43,960 --> 01:10:46,000
Speaker 1: and it was really because I was scared. And so

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01:10:46,040 --> 01:10:47,280
Speaker 1: I ended up going on the show and it worked

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01:10:47,320 --> 01:10:50,160
Speaker 1: out well because now I'm engaged. Your only real real

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01:10:50,400 --> 01:10:53,479
Speaker 1: risk in life, that's the tragic risk all the time.

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01:10:55,800 --> 01:10:58,519
Speaker 1: I don't take them all, but I take some risk.

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01:10:58,800 --> 01:11:00,720
Speaker 1: Was the last risk you took? I mean, I'm in

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01:11:00,840 --> 01:11:12,880
Speaker 1: l a okay, that's a fair We're together He's going

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01:11:12,920 --> 01:11:17,720
Speaker 1: to be a big risk. That's awesome. Um, well, I

1306
01:11:17,760 --> 01:11:21,000
Speaker 1: want to take this opportunity to just call out to

1307
01:11:21,080 --> 01:11:26,599
Speaker 1: make Jared feel very awkward. I he his dream is

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01:11:26,880 --> 01:11:30,840
Speaker 1: to work in movies and this is like his next

1309
01:11:30,920 --> 01:11:33,280
Speaker 1: big This is like a leap that he would love

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01:11:33,320 --> 01:11:35,320
Speaker 1: to take, but has no idea how to get into

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01:11:35,560 --> 01:11:37,600
Speaker 1: where this. So I want to know if any of

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01:11:37,600 --> 01:11:40,719
Speaker 1: our listeners want to email Ben and Ashley at iHeart

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01:11:40,800 --> 01:11:43,639
Speaker 1: media dot com and just let us know if there's

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01:11:43,640 --> 01:11:46,760
Speaker 1: any opportunities at any movie studios or anything where Jared

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01:11:46,880 --> 01:11:50,360
Speaker 1: ind involved himself further in the movie industry. And he's

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01:11:50,360 --> 01:11:52,640
Speaker 1: looking at me with a total judgment right now. But no,

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01:11:52,840 --> 01:11:54,560
Speaker 1: we all have the three of us have this conversation

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01:11:54,560 --> 01:11:58,080
Speaker 1: the other night, and we were talking about Jared living

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01:11:58,080 --> 01:12:02,080
Speaker 1: on his dreams and owning it and being unapologetic about it.

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01:12:02,520 --> 01:12:06,920
Speaker 1: Tell us, right here, right now, your dream own it.

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01:12:07,360 --> 01:12:14,080
Speaker 1: I want to go home. Tell us you gotta go

1322
01:12:15,520 --> 01:12:18,840
Speaker 1: out there, you're putting it out there. I don't know,

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Speaker 1: I don't know. I'm sure I agree to produced, direct,

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01:12:25,240 --> 01:12:28,200
Speaker 1: act any of that. Yeah. I just loved films. I

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Speaker 1: love the idea of creating a story from scratch. And

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Speaker 1: creating a world and characters and uh and really telling

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01:12:35,280 --> 01:12:37,799
Speaker 1: a compelling story. And so that's why I love movies

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01:12:38,040 --> 01:12:41,760
Speaker 1: and I love the There's just it's the uh, the

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01:12:41,840 --> 01:12:45,160
Speaker 1: creative side of it that really uh gets me. Anyway,

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Speaker 1: we don't have to talk about this. We're talking about

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Speaker 1: four weddings in a funeral. That's what we're talking If

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Speaker 1: you guys have any jobs out there, good lord, it's

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Speaker 1: Ben and Ashley at iHeartMedia dot com. Anyway, way to

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Speaker 1: wrap it, um, I also just wanted to throw in

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Speaker 1: there some things that I felt about gifts for weddings.

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Speaker 1: I think it also has to do with how far

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Speaker 1: and how much you travel to go to the wedding.

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Speaker 1: I think it has to do with how close you

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01:13:11,120 --> 01:13:14,120
Speaker 1: are to the couple. Yeah, there's all different factors in there.

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01:13:14,160 --> 01:13:16,479
Speaker 1: Like Jared and I went to this wedding in Nashville.

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01:13:16,600 --> 01:13:19,960
Speaker 1: We spent so much money to get there. Well you know,

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01:13:20,720 --> 01:13:24,000
Speaker 1: and yours. It's a nice friend of yours, but like

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01:13:24,040 --> 01:13:26,519
Speaker 1: we definitely wouldn't have We didn't give as much as

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Speaker 1: we normally would have because it was such an expense.

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01:13:29,200 --> 01:13:31,920
Speaker 1: I think, yeah, of course, and everybody has a factor then,

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01:13:31,960 --> 01:13:33,920
Speaker 1: which is why I want people to factor in when

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01:13:33,920 --> 01:13:35,519
Speaker 1: they come to our wedding. Yeah, totally, no, no no, no,

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Speaker 1: I feel the exact same way for people who are

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Speaker 1: coming in from like flights, coming in from like flights. Yes,

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01:13:46,160 --> 01:13:48,080
Speaker 1: So if you're coming in for one of our flights

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Speaker 1: or you're just gonna watch Four Weddings in the Funeral

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01:13:50,160 --> 01:13:53,439
Speaker 1: At Home on Your Couch is the new Hulu original

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Speaker 1: series that focuses on the lives of four college friends

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Speaker 1: and their different relationship and career crises. In the premier,

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Speaker 1: the friends gather for a wedding that is filled with

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Speaker 1: drama and surprises. Maya messes up at Ainslie's wedding. Why

1357
01:14:07,560 --> 01:14:09,639
Speaker 1: do you want to expected? Things always happen at weddings.

1358
01:14:09,680 --> 01:14:12,799
Speaker 1: There's always something our wedding planners like, all these horrible

1359
01:14:12,800 --> 01:14:14,680
Speaker 1: things are going to happen, and you're not even going

1360
01:14:14,720 --> 01:14:16,599
Speaker 1: to know about them because I'm going to take care

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01:14:16,600 --> 01:14:19,760
Speaker 1: of it completely, and then I'll tell you the next

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01:14:19,800 --> 01:14:24,760
Speaker 1: day what happened. Yeah, do you still want to you

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01:14:24,880 --> 01:14:30,400
Speaker 1: he wants to kill me for but no? Continue? All right, Well,

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01:14:30,600 --> 01:14:32,760
Speaker 1: I will make sure to inform you guys of the

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Speaker 1: all the crazies that happened behind the scenes. At our wedding.

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Speaker 1: But for right now, you can catch all the drama

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Speaker 1: in Four Weddings and a Funeral, a new rom com

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Speaker 1: series produced by Mindy Kaling, premiering July thirty one, only

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Speaker 1: on Hulu. Alright, guys, well, thank you for joining me

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Speaker 1: for this extended podcast, a very very long one that

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01:14:55,560 --> 01:14:57,240
Speaker 1: I thought was going to be a short beat. But

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Speaker 1: it was so good because everybody loves to talking about

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01:14:59,479 --> 01:15:03,400
Speaker 1: weddings so much. Thanks to my co host, to my

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01:15:03,600 --> 01:15:10,040
Speaker 1: future husband of course, my almost husband down the final

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01:15:10,439 --> 01:15:14,760
Speaker 1: cultry life is the best. You're going to love it.

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01:15:14,800 --> 01:15:17,280
Speaker 1: And for people who say it doesn't feel any different,

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01:15:17,840 --> 01:15:22,000
Speaker 1: they're wrong. It feels like it feels so freaking awesome.

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01:15:25,479 --> 01:15:28,960
Speaker 1: Thanks Crystal. Alright, guys, thank you so much again for

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01:15:29,160 --> 01:15:33,360
Speaker 1: feedback on anything we talked about today. Please email Benn

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01:15:33,360 --> 01:15:36,759
Speaker 1: and Ashley at I heart media dot com. And until

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01:15:36,800 --> 01:15:40,240
Speaker 1: next time, I've been Ashley, I've been Jared, and I've

1382
01:15:40,240 --> 01:15:44,879
Speaker 1: been Crystal Ulu. Follow the Benn and Ashley I Almost

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Speaker 1: Famous podcast on I heart Radio or subscribe wherever you

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