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Speaker 1: Have I ever been left waiting by the phone?

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Speaker 2: It's the Fred Show. Hey Maya, good morning, welcome to

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Speaker 2: the program. How are you.

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Speaker 3: I'm doing all right? How are you?

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Speaker 2: We're doing okay as well. Thanks for calling and being

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Speaker 2: part of waiting by the phone. So we're trying to

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Speaker 2: figure out what you may have been ghosted by this

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Speaker 2: guy named Tom. So tell us about Tom. You know,

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Speaker 2: how did you guys meet? We want to know about

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Speaker 2: any dates that you've been on, and then where things

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Speaker 2: are now?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, so we we met on a dating app.

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Speaker 1: And is there any other way? Is there any other way? People?

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Speaker 2: Don't you don't you don't you know we can't be

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Speaker 2: walking up to people in the wild, we can't do it.

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Speaker 2: But yeah, so you met on the app. Then what Yeah,

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Speaker 2: he asked.

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Speaker 3: For my number. We ended up going out and it

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Speaker 3: felt like a perfect first day, so that we had

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Speaker 3: so much in common, like there was never a dull moment.

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Speaker 3: We even ended up leaving having like inside jokes would

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Speaker 3: be at the end of the night. So it really

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Speaker 3: couldn't have couldn't have gone better after.

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Speaker 1: Just one date. You don't say.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and so you know I know that we have fun.

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Speaker 3: We were talking a bunch after the date and then suddenly,

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Speaker 3: without a trigger, seemingly, he goes silent. So I my

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Speaker 3: first thought is that there's another girl in the picture.

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Speaker 1: So okay, all right, because I would.

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Speaker 3: Like to know it's very strange.

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Speaker 2: Well, what happens sometimes is people go on the date

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Speaker 2: and then they never hear from the person again. But

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Speaker 2: you're saying you went on the date, and you even

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Speaker 2: communicate it after the date, and.

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Speaker 1: Then he goes exactly exactly.

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Speaker 2: Okay, all right, Well that's where we can and we're

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Speaker 2: gonna call this guy Tom see if we can get

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Speaker 2: him on the phone and ask these questions for you,

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Speaker 2: And you're welcome and jump in at some point after

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Speaker 2: we get you the info.

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Speaker 1: But the hope is that we can.

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Speaker 2: Figure out what's going on and then straighten everything out

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Speaker 2: and set you guys up on another date that we

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Speaker 2: pay for.

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Speaker 3: So good, that'd be awesome.

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Speaker 2: All right, good, I'm gonna play one song back in

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Speaker 2: like two minutes. Stay right there, Maya, Let's see what's

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Speaker 2: going on? Part two of Waiting on a phone right

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Speaker 2: Hey Maya. Yeah, all right, welcome back. Let's call Tom.

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Speaker 2: You guys met on one of the dating apps. You

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Speaker 2: had a great time on your date, you went out,

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Speaker 2: you're you know, by the end of it, you're making

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Speaker 2: inside jokes.

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Speaker 1: The communication was really good.

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Speaker 2: You even talked a little bit after the date, uh,

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Speaker 2: you know, texted or called or whatever. But then he's

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Speaker 2: gone missing. So it wasn't like he ghosted you immediately

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Speaker 2: after the date. He talked a little bit, but then

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Speaker 2: he ghosted, and that's confusing. You want to know why?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, exactly.

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Speaker 1: All right, let's call him now. Good luck, Maya.

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Speaker 3: Thanks?

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Speaker 2: Hi?

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Speaker 1: Is this Tom? Yeah? This is hey Tom. Good morning.

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Speaker 1: My name is Fred.

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Speaker 2: I'm calling from the Fred Show, the Morning radio Show,

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Speaker 2: and I have to tell you that we are on

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Speaker 2: the radio right now, and I would need your permission

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Speaker 2: to continue with the calls. That okay if we chatt

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Speaker 2: for just a second.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's fine, Okay, Well, thank you so much. I'll

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Speaker 1: get right to it.

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Speaker 2: We're calling on behalf of a woman named Maya who

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Speaker 2: says that she met you on one of the dating apps.

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Speaker 1: And you guys recently went on a date. Do you

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Speaker 1: remember meeting her?

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Speaker 4: Yeah? Yeah, I couldn't forget her.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you couldn't forget her. All right.

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Speaker 2: Well, here's what we know is that she reached out

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Speaker 2: to us and said that you guys had chatted on

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Speaker 2: the app and then you went on a date that

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Speaker 2: she thought went really well, and that you chat a

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Speaker 2: little bit after the date too, and then you disappeared.

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Speaker 2: So what's your version of events?

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Speaker 1: What happened?

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Speaker 4: You know, Yeah, she's fun, she's cool. You know, we

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Speaker 4: had a good date. But I think just after the

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Speaker 4: date our communication just got a little intense.

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Speaker 2: So okay, what does that mean? So what happened? Everything

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Speaker 2: was great throughout the date. Leaving the date, you felt good,

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Speaker 2: and then something happened in the communication.

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Speaker 1: What does that mean?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: I mean you know, so, yeah, we had a good date,

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Speaker 4: we had fun. You know, we kind of messaged and

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Speaker 4: talked about maybe meeting up in the future, and she

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Speaker 4: started sending you know, text messages and videos and memes

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Speaker 4: and tiktoks and which is you know cool. I do

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Speaker 4: the apps and all that, and I have social media,

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Speaker 4: but it was just excessive.

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Speaker 2: Well what do you mean like like NonStop basically like

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Speaker 2: it was. It was just non stop texting, but a

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Speaker 2: lot of it was kind of jug like content and

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Speaker 2: not necessarily yeah to tell you anything.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, it wasn't even really us anymore. It was just

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Speaker 4: you know, she's just sending me funny you know memes

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Speaker 4: and videos and tiktoks and all that, and like it

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Speaker 4: was just it was to the point where I couldn't

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Speaker 4: keep up with all of it, and there wasn't even

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Speaker 4: anything about our relationship or you know, talking, and it

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Speaker 4: just got too much for me, and I, you know,

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Speaker 4: I had to back out.

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Speaker 2: So she's like, look at this guy falling, ha ha ha,

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Speaker 2: And You're like, I'm in the middle of a meeting, Like,

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Speaker 2: I guess that's.

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Speaker 4: To do exactly. Yeah, I'm at work and I'm getting

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Speaker 4: thirty messages of just funny you know, cat meme.

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Speaker 1: I'm not even a cat person.

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Speaker 2: Okay, So it became a little bit excessive. Now, you

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Speaker 2: probably could have just said, hey, hey, you know what,

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Speaker 2: like I'd love to talk to you later or hang

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Speaker 2: out a gimmick like I don't I can't really respond

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Speaker 2: to all of this or something. I mean, maybe there's

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Speaker 2: there's a way to I mean, do we have to

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Speaker 2: just eliminate this person because of that?

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Speaker 4: I did, but I think she got lost in all

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Speaker 4: the messages I said, like, hey, I'm at work, you know,

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Speaker 4: I'll talk to you later. And I think she missed

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Speaker 4: it because of how many she sent.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Maya, did you did you miss the part between

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Speaker 2: the cat videos of him saying, Hey, I can't respond

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Speaker 2: to all this like it's a little bit much. Did

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Speaker 2: you miss I'm sorry I forgot to mention that Maya's here.

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Speaker 2: I'm so forgetful Tom Maya.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I just like I just sent him stuff that

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Speaker 3: I thought would be funny, and he's annoyed, like okay,

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Speaker 3: air rude, Like what the heck?

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Speaker 2: I mean, Tom, this is personally curated content just for you.

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Speaker 1: This is me and Paulina, yes, Glitter and Rufeo and

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Speaker 1: me and Kaylen.

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Speaker 2: But I will say Rufo does get a little bit

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Speaker 2: offended when I don't acknowledge the stuff that he has

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Speaker 2: sent to me. I get more offended when I send

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Speaker 2: you something I think it's hilarious, you don't see it.

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Speaker 1: Two days later you send me the same thing I

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Speaker 2: Doesn't that mean that we both have the same sensibility

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Speaker 2: and we.

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Speaker 1: Know each other. Well see the video the first time.

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Speaker 2: So you're so upset that I wouldn't go and read

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Speaker 2: all of your messages first, But I just I just

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Speaker 2: watched the videos first. But I thought of you, and

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Speaker 2: you thought of me. It's serendipitous. Yeah, okay, you know

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Speaker 2: what time, I'm starting to understand what.

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Speaker 2: I mean, Maya looks so he feels like the communication

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Speaker 2: got a little bit crazy. Like it's like, okay, I

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Speaker 2: got I can't follow all this. I don't have time.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, all right, I don't know, kind of rude.

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Speaker 1: Oh, I was just like.

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Speaker 3: Trying to make I was just trying to make a

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Speaker 3: connection and be funny and yeah, and he's like annoyed

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Speaker 3: by my okay whatever.

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Speaker 1: All right.

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Speaker 2: Well, look so Tom, if if Maya word has sort

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Speaker 2: of pumped the brakes on the on all the texting,

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Speaker 2: then would you consider another date with her?

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Speaker 4: Honestly, I don't know. I mean it was nice, she's cool,

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Speaker 4: but I don't know if it's gonna work.

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Speaker 1: Wow.

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Speaker 4: Also, hey, by the way, none of the videos sent

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Speaker 4: me were actually funny, So now.

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Speaker 1: See how that is. That's a that's not very nice.

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Speaker 2: However, I will say, if someone's sending me a bunch

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Speaker 2: of like cheeseball stuff all day and I'm not cheeseball,

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Speaker 2: which I'm not on purpose, then I might be like,

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Speaker 2: do we even have the same sense of humor?

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Speaker 3: Now?

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Speaker 1: I don't know that.

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Speaker 2: I would not go out with you again if I

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Speaker 2: thought we had a great date. But I don't know.

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Speaker 1: He says, you're not funny? Yeah, whatever, man, what we're

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Speaker 1: gonna say, ruvil, that's a relationship, and you get into

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Speaker 1: a relationship.

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Speaker 2: That's all it is, is texting funny memes and videos

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Speaker 2: with each other all day.

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Speaker 1: Oh can't wait up? Okay, Well, if that's all it is,

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Speaker 1: that I'm dating Jason and I'm dating all of you,

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Speaker 1: which I kind of am, so whatever.

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Speaker 2: All right, Look so Tom's not interested in my I

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Speaker 2: don't think you are anymore either, So look, I'm sorry

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Speaker 2: it didn't work out.

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Speaker 1: Guys. Best of luck to both of you.

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Speaker 4: Thank you so much. Thank you.