WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Microwaved Salad Guy 0:00:00.030 --> 0:00:02.570 Hey, we're doing a brand new episode for you today. 0:00:02.590 --> 0:00:04.830 I feel like I say the same thing every time, 0:00:04.870 --> 0:00:06.670 but I am very grateful. 0:00:06.730 --> 0:00:09.780 Thanks for being here. I mean, I do feel that way, though. 0:00:09.800 --> 0:00:12.140 You know, it's sincere. I just don't want people to 0:00:12.180 --> 0:00:15.840 feel like it's insincere, not insincere. Why not un? Why 0:00:15.900 --> 0:00:17.700 is it in? Okay, see, maybe we should just stick 0:00:17.720 --> 0:00:20.560 to the usual. This is what happens when you go... Okay. 0:00:20.980 --> 0:00:21.320 All right. 0:00:21.460 --> 0:00:24.600 I'd say off script, but there's no script. It's just 0:00:24.640 --> 0:00:29.070 my robot head. What do we got in comments? Someone said... 0:00:30.320 --> 0:00:34.710 I don't know if I can read this name. Zewakalemphilin. Okay. 0:00:34.729 --> 0:00:35.450 Definitely right. 0:00:35.729 --> 0:00:38.650 Said, has Ashton ever done a voiceover for a cartoon show? 0:00:39.170 --> 0:00:40.770 I can't remember the name of the show, but it's 0:00:40.790 --> 0:00:44.170 got a creepy raccoon-like animal that's friends with a bird-like 0:00:44.250 --> 0:00:46.870 creature that looks like an ostrich. I watched this a 0:00:46.950 --> 0:00:49.410 few years ago, and every time I hear Ashton's voice, 0:00:49.650 --> 0:00:50.909 I'm reminded of the show. 0:00:51.010 --> 0:00:51.809 Okay. 0:00:52.490 --> 0:00:54.450 No, I have not, but I feel like I should 0:00:54.490 --> 0:00:56.370 get royalties from this just because. 0:00:56.070 --> 0:00:57.790 You brought it up. We need to find out what 0:00:57.830 --> 0:00:58.450 it is first. 0:00:58.690 --> 0:01:00.670 Why would you be a dirty little raccoon if you 0:01:00.690 --> 0:01:02.310 were an animated animal? 0:01:02.800 --> 0:01:04.560 That just fits. He's not wrong. 0:01:04.610 --> 0:01:05.540 Yeah. 0:01:05.940 --> 0:01:07.060 Little trash bandit. 0:01:07.080 --> 0:01:08.580 Little trash bandit, yeah. 0:01:08.620 --> 0:01:08.780 Yeah. 0:01:09.220 --> 0:01:11.160 All right, let's get to it. Your new episode starts 0:01:11.220 --> 0:01:11.580 right now. 0:01:11.680 --> 0:01:13.040 Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning. 0:01:13.080 --> 0:01:14.600 Second date update. 0:01:15.819 --> 0:01:17.740 We do a lot of dating stuff on this show. 0:01:17.760 --> 0:01:18.160 Yeah. 0:01:18.220 --> 0:01:21.759 A lot of studies about dating and building attraction. And 0:01:21.800 --> 0:01:25.050 I know one says don't shower for a month. to 0:01:25.090 --> 0:01:28.620 let your natural pheromones give off an intoxicating musk. 0:01:29.580 --> 0:01:29.860 Ew! 0:01:29.980 --> 0:01:31.340 Evan's on toxic. 0:01:31.420 --> 0:01:34.640 Yeah. It's one way to try and lure someone in. 0:01:34.860 --> 0:01:39.350 We've also heard... Fear can actually help heighten romantic attraction 0:01:39.390 --> 0:01:40.170 between two people. 0:01:40.230 --> 0:01:41.690 Oh, yeah. Like trauma bonding. 0:01:42.050 --> 0:01:47.270 Yeah. I was thinking more watching a scary movie together. 0:01:47.430 --> 0:01:49.210 I was like, get in a car crash together. 0:01:49.550 --> 0:01:53.360 Either one could bring you together. We should get robbed together. 0:01:53.450 --> 0:01:56.860 And while all of those ideas sound super fun, it's 0:01:56.920 --> 0:02:00.660 not nearly as effective as what most dating experts agree 0:02:01.120 --> 0:02:02.700 is just proximity. 0:02:03.320 --> 0:02:03.880 What do you mean? 0:02:04.020 --> 0:02:08.310 Being close to somebody physically, staying in their hemisphere, being 0:02:08.340 --> 0:02:11.510 in their surroundings, get noticed is one of the easiest 0:02:11.570 --> 0:02:12.470 ways to build attraction. 0:02:12.490 --> 0:02:14.609 I feel like you're just saying that it's making me claustrophobic, 0:02:14.650 --> 0:02:15.160 but okay. 0:02:15.180 --> 0:02:17.040 Why did you scoot your chair closer to me when 0:02:17.100 --> 0:02:17.680 I said it, though? 0:02:17.740 --> 0:02:18.160 I did it. 0:02:18.180 --> 0:02:18.959 That was a little weird. 0:02:19.220 --> 0:02:21.840 Yeah. That'd be so funny. 0:02:22.200 --> 0:02:25.490 Proximity is what happened for our listener, Eric, and how 0:02:25.610 --> 0:02:28.429 he met a woman recently. So, Eric, welcome to the show. 0:02:28.450 --> 0:02:30.030 Hey, guys. How's it going? 0:02:30.050 --> 0:02:30.530 Hey, Eric. 0:02:30.570 --> 0:02:32.250 Did you sit in her lap at the bar? Is 0:02:32.310 --> 0:02:33.870 that how you guys met? 0:02:33.970 --> 0:02:35.049 Not quite. No. 0:02:35.380 --> 0:02:35.620 No? 0:02:35.690 --> 0:02:37.840 How did you get proximity with this lady? 0:02:38.440 --> 0:02:43.370 So we work together in the same office. We're not 0:02:43.510 --> 0:02:47.899 seated in the same cubicle. She's down a ways, but 0:02:47.960 --> 0:02:51.579 I can steer. Okay. So I would see when she 0:02:51.639 --> 0:02:56.399 gets up to go to the break room. It would 0:02:56.419 --> 0:02:58.520 be my cue for when I go to the break 0:02:58.580 --> 0:02:59.400 room too, right? 0:02:59.940 --> 0:03:02.530 It's like the pencil sharpener in the elementary school all 0:03:02.600 --> 0:03:03.730 over again. 0:03:03.810 --> 0:03:04.209 Oh, yeah. 0:03:04.370 --> 0:03:07.389 Anytime you had a new shirt, immediately pencils, all of 0:03:07.430 --> 0:03:09.090 them getting sharpened. Hold on a second. For all the 0:03:09.130 --> 0:03:11.709 kids listening, you used to have to have wooden pencils 0:03:11.750 --> 0:03:14.570 in school that you would have to physically sharpen like 0:03:14.620 --> 0:03:15.100 a grinder. 0:03:15.180 --> 0:03:17.040 Yeah, and if your crush went up to the sharpener, 0:03:17.100 --> 0:03:17.590 you'd go too. 0:03:17.680 --> 0:03:20.680 Yes, okay. Now that the history lesson is over, back 0:03:20.740 --> 0:03:23.360 to the dating thing. Do you know, what's this woman's name? 0:03:24.160 --> 0:03:25.299 Her name is Regina. 0:03:25.850 --> 0:03:26.290 Okay. 0:03:26.650 --> 0:03:29.549 And I didn't have a pencil to sharpen, but I 0:03:29.590 --> 0:03:31.560 had to have some reason to be in the break 0:03:31.570 --> 0:03:32.940 room at the same time as her. 0:03:33.080 --> 0:03:35.000 God, you're drinking so much coffee. Am I right? 0:03:36.440 --> 0:03:39.470 I had to microwave. I had to microwave some food, right? Oh, 0:03:39.480 --> 0:03:42.020 there you go. And so I would use the time 0:03:42.080 --> 0:03:45.640 to talk to her. Okay. But one time she caught 0:03:45.700 --> 0:03:49.000 me because the only thing I had was my salad. 0:03:49.830 --> 0:03:52.390 So I just put the whole thing in the microwave. Oh. Oh. 0:03:53.750 --> 0:03:54.170 Okay. 0:03:54.410 --> 0:03:55.780 Did she call you out for it? 0:03:56.050 --> 0:03:58.580 She did. And I had to, I had to admit it. 0:04:00.070 --> 0:04:03.720 And you know, she said, well, you could just ask 0:04:03.780 --> 0:04:10.020 me out instead. So I was feeling good. I said, 0:04:10.060 --> 0:04:12.240 all right, how about we go out on a real 0:04:12.280 --> 0:04:16.160 date 24 hours from now here in the break room. What? 0:04:16.300 --> 0:04:17.980 In the break room? 0:04:18.000 --> 0:04:21.580 Dude, you just dropped the ball so hard. I've got 0:04:21.620 --> 0:04:23.669 a second salad I could heat up for you if 0:04:23.710 --> 0:04:24.630 you want some. 0:04:24.770 --> 0:04:25.989 What are you talking about? 0:04:26.110 --> 0:04:28.950 I figured we could prep. I could bring flowers and 0:04:29.010 --> 0:04:33.250 food and we'd just have a date in the break room. Look, 0:04:33.390 --> 0:04:36.370 I thought it was a unique idea. I thought she 0:04:36.390 --> 0:04:37.210 would be into it. 0:04:38.440 --> 0:04:40.250 Guess what? HR wouldn't be into it. 0:04:41.560 --> 0:04:44.779 What did she think of the date inside of the office? 0:04:45.250 --> 0:04:48.470 Well, she agreed at first, but then we were emailing 0:04:48.490 --> 0:04:51.190 and she was like, I don't know if this is 0:04:51.210 --> 0:04:53.450 such a good idea. You know, other people are going 0:04:53.470 --> 0:04:54.630 to be in the break room. Yeah. 0:04:55.180 --> 0:04:55.860 What is done? 0:04:57.000 --> 0:04:57.979 Watching it happen. 0:04:58.240 --> 0:04:58.520 Yeah. 0:04:58.560 --> 0:05:01.680 Yeah. So instead we decided to go out to lunch. 0:05:02.100 --> 0:05:04.180 It's a really good place that I like. It's this 0:05:04.550 --> 0:05:06.869 Greek Vietnamese fusion place. 0:05:09.600 --> 0:05:11.100 That's an interesting comment. 0:05:11.200 --> 0:05:12.960 It's a unique place. 0:05:13.480 --> 0:05:20.230 She got the tzatziki bun bowl. Yum. I got banh 0:05:20.270 --> 0:05:23.169 mi souvlaki with the grilled pork. I was going to say, 0:05:23.190 --> 0:05:24.409 at least it's grilled. 0:05:24.450 --> 0:05:25.370 Like, that's kind of nice. 0:05:25.670 --> 0:05:27.010 I'm not against that second one. 0:05:27.110 --> 0:05:29.260 I can't even picture what it looks like, though. It 0:05:29.279 --> 0:05:31.000 just sounds really wet. Are you dipping in pho or 0:05:31.120 --> 0:05:32.040 are you dipping in tzatziki? 0:05:32.080 --> 0:05:34.880 Okay, we are concentrating on the wrong thing. It doesn't 0:05:34.920 --> 0:05:36.000 matter what he was eating. 0:05:36.220 --> 0:05:38.200 But, you know, I mean, we got along. We got 0:05:38.240 --> 0:05:40.790 to know each other better, like, outside of work. Okay. 0:05:41.000 --> 0:05:42.289 Was there like a highlight? 0:05:42.560 --> 0:05:44.610 There was a moment. I don't know if I would 0:05:44.650 --> 0:05:49.150 consider it a highlight. It was a little embarrassing. So 0:05:49.589 --> 0:05:54.490 we're eating, right? And I noticed that her bra strap 0:05:54.930 --> 0:05:57.430 was showing like it had kind of fallen down, you know? 0:05:57.450 --> 0:05:58.890 Off her shoulder? 0:05:59.670 --> 0:06:04.729 Her hands were all covered in tzatziki sauce. So I 0:06:04.750 --> 0:06:07.170 just reached over and just kind of pushed it back 0:06:07.190 --> 0:06:08.410 up for her over her shoulder. 0:06:09.390 --> 0:06:10.650 That makes me so uncomfortable. 0:06:10.710 --> 0:06:12.450 I was just, I was, I was trying to be 0:06:12.510 --> 0:06:14.630 helpful and not make a big deal out of it. 0:06:14.890 --> 0:06:17.010 And I could see it as like your opportunity to 0:06:17.060 --> 0:06:22.380 kind of like reach out and touch her a little. 0:06:23.200 --> 0:06:24.440 Bit. 0:06:24.580 --> 0:06:26.880 What was her reaction when you put her bra back 0:06:27.040 --> 0:06:28.760 on for her? Did she appreciate that? 0:06:29.140 --> 0:06:32.080 Well, she kind of stopped eating and she looked at 0:06:32.140 --> 0:06:37.890 me funny and she was like, thanks. Okay. We kind 0:06:37.950 --> 0:06:42.060 of brushed off past that, and after lunch, we drove 0:06:42.100 --> 0:06:45.360 back to the parking garage, and there was a moment 0:06:45.700 --> 0:06:49.330 where I thought maybe something was going to happen, right? Oh. Oh. 0:06:50.130 --> 0:06:52.730 Lunch date in the parking. 0:06:53.450 --> 0:06:54.130 Lot? 0:06:54.230 --> 0:06:55.960 I'm hoping you're reading this right. 0:06:56.040 --> 0:06:58.679 He just touched her bra, bro. Obviously. Okay. 0:06:59.060 --> 0:07:07.100 Well, the problem was our breath was not great. They 0:07:07.160 --> 0:07:13.110 had mints, but they were like these fish mints. Yeah, 0:07:13.170 --> 0:07:15.730 I guess that's a thing. So we did not kiss. 0:07:16.030 --> 0:07:16.590 Probably good. 0:07:17.230 --> 0:07:19.210 You have to go back to the office after all 0:07:19.230 --> 0:07:19.610 of this. 0:07:19.710 --> 0:07:22.710 What is the vibe when you guys both go back 0:07:22.730 --> 0:07:23.630 to your cubicles? 0:07:24.010 --> 0:07:29.150 Well, now that she knows my trick of going into 0:07:29.190 --> 0:07:31.820 the break room with her, I can't do that, obviously. 0:07:31.840 --> 0:07:32.500 Oh, you can't. 0:07:33.060 --> 0:07:36.300 So I really don't know, you guys. I really don't know, 0:07:36.540 --> 0:07:37.480 and I need help. 0:07:38.250 --> 0:07:40.920 It sounds like you've definitely lost the romantic momentum that 0:07:40.960 --> 0:07:42.060 you had gained early on. 0:07:42.100 --> 0:07:42.760 Yeah, I think so. 0:07:42.800 --> 0:07:44.520 Can we pinpoint why? 0:07:44.740 --> 0:07:45.380 Yeah. 0:07:45.440 --> 0:07:49.520 Hopefully it's not everything. It couldn't be the bras touching. 0:07:49.540 --> 0:07:50.700 The choice of restaurant. 0:07:50.720 --> 0:07:52.840 The attempt at a break room date. 0:07:52.920 --> 0:07:54.860 Just the lunch date to begin with. 0:07:54.920 --> 0:07:58.300 There's a lot of layers. There's got to be something else. 0:07:58.420 --> 0:08:01.860 Something else that's holding her back from seeing you one 0:08:01.900 --> 0:08:04.140 more time. We'll give her a call when we come 0:08:04.200 --> 0:08:07.020 back and do your second date update right after this. 0:08:07.060 --> 0:08:07.380 Hold on. 0:08:07.790 --> 0:08:09.290 Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning. 0:08:09.350 --> 0:08:10.670 Second date update. 0:08:12.250 --> 0:08:14.140 It's Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning. And if you're 0:08:14.160 --> 0:08:19.180 just joining us, really interesting in-person date we just heard about. 0:08:19.220 --> 0:08:19.540 Yeah. 0:08:19.640 --> 0:08:22.520 Our listener, Eric, asked out a woman from his workplace. 0:08:22.540 --> 0:08:23.820 Always risky. 0:08:23.900 --> 0:08:28.080 Her name's Regina. And thankfully, they did not end up 0:08:28.120 --> 0:08:31.990 doing their first idea, which was a candlelight lunch in 0:08:32.030 --> 0:08:33.210 their office break room. 0:08:33.530 --> 0:08:35.290 Okay, I don't know that it was their idea. I 0:08:35.330 --> 0:08:37.310 think it was definitely his. 0:08:37.350 --> 0:08:40.150 It was brought up and agreed upon, but they thought 0:08:40.210 --> 0:08:44.900 more of it and scrapped it for a Greek-Vietnamese fusion place. 0:08:45.240 --> 0:08:47.880 Which we're all dying to try now. With fish mints 0:08:48.080 --> 0:08:51.280 to complement it at the end of the meal. So 0:08:51.460 --> 0:08:55.330 they got to know each other. And maybe the only non-highlight, 0:08:55.530 --> 0:08:58.970 according to Eric, was he adjusted her bra for her 0:08:59.050 --> 0:08:59.790 during lunch. 0:08:59.910 --> 0:09:01.530 Not the cups, you guys, just the strap. 0:09:01.590 --> 0:09:06.219 The strap. Because her fingers were covered in tzatziki sauce, 0:09:06.700 --> 0:09:08.040 and she couldn't do it herself. 0:09:08.059 --> 0:09:08.860 But she didn't ask him. 0:09:08.880 --> 0:09:12.040 He just did it. Reached over the table. Not even 0:09:12.100 --> 0:09:15.900 making this up. And now he's wondering... why he's not 0:09:15.940 --> 0:09:17.540 getting a chance for another date. 0:09:17.580 --> 0:09:20.400 I will say, to your credit, she was very into 0:09:20.450 --> 0:09:23.210 the idea of you asking her out. So it's interesting 0:09:23.270 --> 0:09:25.949 to me that she wouldn't give you another shot. You know, 0:09:25.970 --> 0:09:28.370 like everybody can have a date, one date, go bad, 0:09:28.429 --> 0:09:29.490 especially a lunch date. 0:09:29.790 --> 0:09:32.640 Yeah. Like I said, it went well. There were a 0:09:32.700 --> 0:09:35.459 couple of hiccups, but I think overall it was a 0:09:35.500 --> 0:09:36.020 good date. 0:09:36.400 --> 0:09:38.420 It's interesting hearing that recap. 0:09:40.440 --> 0:09:42.859 Well, we're trying to move forward from this. We'll move 0:09:43.000 --> 0:09:45.970 on from the fish mints and the Vietnamese style. And 0:09:46.000 --> 0:09:48.810 we're going to get you hopefully another date with Regina here. 0:09:48.830 --> 0:09:50.350 I'm going to dial her number right now. Let's see 0:09:50.390 --> 0:09:51.000 if she picks up. 0:09:51.370 --> 0:09:51.730 Thank you. 0:09:52.210 --> 0:09:52.550 All right, man. 0:09:52.570 --> 0:09:53.390 Here we go. 0:10:02.240 --> 0:10:02.620 Hello? 0:10:02.630 --> 0:10:04.500 Hey, is this Regina? 0:10:05.940 --> 0:10:06.939 Yeah, speaking. 0:10:06.960 --> 0:10:07.440 Who's this? 0:10:07.820 --> 0:10:11.100 Hey, Regina. This is Jeff from a radio show called 0:10:11.140 --> 0:10:12.319 Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning. 0:10:12.400 --> 0:10:12.880 Hey, Regina. 0:10:12.900 --> 0:10:15.160 Yes, the Jeff. You're speaking to him. 0:10:15.620 --> 0:10:17.560 I knew that was going to be your follow-up question. 0:10:17.660 --> 0:10:18.660 Is this the Jeff? 0:10:18.720 --> 0:10:19.060 Okay. 0:10:20.370 --> 0:10:21.130 She's not laughing. 0:10:21.350 --> 0:10:21.790 Okay. 0:10:21.910 --> 0:10:24.000 That's fine. So I don't know if you've heard of 0:10:24.050 --> 0:10:26.860 our show, but we do kind of a popular segment here. 0:10:26.900 --> 0:10:28.480 It's called a second date update. 0:10:29.780 --> 0:10:30.199 Okay. 0:10:30.220 --> 0:10:31.380 Okay. 0:10:31.679 --> 0:10:33.600 I'm going to move faster based on your tone here. 0:10:33.640 --> 0:10:35.660 So basically we're trying to help out a listener of 0:10:35.800 --> 0:10:38.320 ours that you went out with one time, a really 0:10:38.380 --> 0:10:39.920 nice guy. His name was Eric. 0:10:40.360 --> 0:10:41.820 You probably know him from work. 0:10:42.350 --> 0:10:42.610 Maybe. 0:10:42.900 --> 0:10:43.380 Yeah. 0:10:43.490 --> 0:10:45.330 Wait, he, he called you guys. 0:10:45.610 --> 0:10:48.810 Yeah. Because we heard you two went out and had, 0:10:49.280 --> 0:10:50.490 A lunch date. A lunch date. 0:10:50.570 --> 0:10:50.760 Yep. 0:10:50.970 --> 0:10:55.650 Very fun, interesting time, according to Eric. And the vibes 0:10:55.730 --> 0:11:00.070 that he's getting now afterwards seem to be much colder 0:11:00.350 --> 0:11:00.870 than before. 0:11:01.270 --> 0:11:02.250 Is he reading that right? 0:11:03.490 --> 0:11:03.730 Yes. 0:11:04.730 --> 0:11:05.630 Okay. 0:11:05.710 --> 0:11:07.350 Yes. He is. Okay. 0:11:07.470 --> 0:11:10.950 He thought the date went pretty well. He did think 0:11:10.990 --> 0:11:13.489 it went well, but he also acknowledges maybe there were 0:11:13.610 --> 0:11:14.990 some strange moments. 0:11:15.070 --> 0:11:15.750 Some low points. 0:11:15.950 --> 0:11:18.670 That he's willing to fess up to. Okay. 0:11:19.420 --> 0:11:21.230 With your bra strap? Do you just want to say it? 0:11:21.250 --> 0:11:23.189 I mean, I don't know how much I can say. 0:11:23.210 --> 0:11:24.190 It makes us uncomfortable. 0:11:24.210 --> 0:11:26.110 Regina, do you know what we're talking about? The bra 0:11:26.130 --> 0:11:27.630 strap moment. Was that a moment for you? 0:11:28.790 --> 0:11:29.150 Yeah. 0:11:29.170 --> 0:11:30.630 And it was not a moment for me, but yes, 0:11:30.710 --> 0:11:32.330 I know what you were talking about. 0:11:32.550 --> 0:11:35.700 He explained it to me. So I'm like, okay, cool. 0:11:35.720 --> 0:11:36.439 Like I understand. 0:11:36.480 --> 0:11:40.880 Like I personally would never have done that, but I understand. 0:11:41.000 --> 0:11:41.280 Right. 0:11:41.420 --> 0:11:44.140 All right. So that, that is not the reason things 0:11:44.179 --> 0:11:44.780 have gotten cold. 0:11:45.740 --> 0:11:45.920 No. 0:11:46.360 --> 0:11:48.940 Okay, that's good. So, well, we're trying to figure out 0:11:49.160 --> 0:11:53.189 what the other reason might be because Eric is kind 0:11:53.230 --> 0:11:53.870 of clueless. 0:11:54.650 --> 0:11:57.190 Okay, so, I mean, obviously he told you about our date. 0:11:57.230 --> 0:11:59.630 Did he tell you, like, everything? 0:12:00.110 --> 0:12:02.670 Well, that was the big highlight he mentioned was the 0:12:02.710 --> 0:12:03.790 bra strap incident. 0:12:04.470 --> 0:12:07.150 Hmm, okay. So, well, I will tell you guys, um. 0:12:08.960 --> 0:12:12.359 As we were driving back from the restaurant, he's. 0:12:12.120 --> 0:12:13.900 Like, oh, we have some time to kill. 0:12:13.960 --> 0:12:15.100 Like before we have to go back to. 0:12:15.020 --> 0:12:17.569 Work, let's, you know, like make up money from what 0:12:17.610 --> 0:12:18.610 I spent on lunch. 0:12:18.750 --> 0:12:20.490 And I'm just like, what? 0:12:20.530 --> 0:12:21.189 Make up money? 0:12:21.590 --> 0:12:22.130 What does that mean? 0:12:22.270 --> 0:12:26.069 Yeah. So before I could even ask him, he whipped. 0:12:25.910 --> 0:12:29.660 Out his phone and signed into Uber and was like, oh, 0:12:29.700 --> 0:12:31.260 this is perfect. This is right here. 0:12:31.340 --> 0:12:32.819 We can just do this quick drive. 0:12:32.860 --> 0:12:33.960 Wait, wait, wait. 0:12:34.140 --> 0:12:35.160 He's calling an Uber? 0:12:35.340 --> 0:12:35.720 No, no. 0:12:35.880 --> 0:12:37.660 He is going to be the Uber. 0:12:38.179 --> 0:12:38.250 Oh. 0:12:38.790 --> 0:12:41.930 Yeah, he's going to be the Uber driver. With you 0:12:42.010 --> 0:12:42.929 in the car with him? 0:12:43.390 --> 0:12:45.670 Yeah, so we did pick up this older guy and 0:12:45.710 --> 0:12:46.510 we brought. 0:12:46.370 --> 0:12:48.170 Him to the mall. And so I'm like, this is 0:12:48.240 --> 0:12:49.960 so weird. Like, this is so awkward. 0:12:50.440 --> 0:12:52.440 But I'm like, you know, like, I do like him. 0:12:52.480 --> 0:12:54.040 So like, let me talk to him. So I was 0:12:54.059 --> 0:12:55.840 trying to talk and he looks at me and goes, 0:12:57.160 --> 0:12:58.420 he requested no talking. 0:12:58.440 --> 0:12:58.500 Oh. 0:13:01.080 --> 0:13:05.300 Oh my God. Somebody shushed you in the Uber? 0:13:05.340 --> 0:13:08.050 He shushed me, like with his finger to his lips 0:13:08.110 --> 0:13:08.350 and went. 0:13:09.690 --> 0:13:12.429 Oh, God. Okay. That makes things a little bit more 0:13:12.470 --> 0:13:13.070 clear for us. 0:13:13.290 --> 0:13:14.310 Well, I don't know. 0:13:14.410 --> 0:13:16.610 I mean, is that really a reason not to go 0:13:16.710 --> 0:13:17.770 out with somebody again? 0:13:18.080 --> 0:13:19.199 You already met at work. 0:13:19.250 --> 0:13:21.740 What's the difference between you're at work together and now 0:13:21.780 --> 0:13:23.900 you're just at a different job together, you know? 0:13:24.200 --> 0:13:26.599 No, because one, I signed up for my other job. 0:13:26.660 --> 0:13:29.820 I never signed up to be a co-Uber driver person. 0:13:30.160 --> 0:13:32.220 And also, he shushed me like a child. 0:13:32.320 --> 0:13:33.470 Okay, that was a problem. 0:13:33.540 --> 0:13:33.679 Okay. 0:13:34.570 --> 0:13:36.870 Well, I'm not going to shush you right now, Regina, 0:13:36.890 --> 0:13:38.089 but I am going to tell you to be quiet 0:13:38.130 --> 0:13:38.670 for a second. 0:13:38.690 --> 0:13:38.790 Okay. 0:13:38.980 --> 0:13:41.740 While we bring Eric on the other phone line, because 0:13:42.000 --> 0:13:43.920 he's been listening to this call the entire time. 0:13:44.660 --> 0:13:45.480 Are you kidding me? 0:13:46.220 --> 0:13:46.900 No, I'm not. 0:13:48.160 --> 0:13:50.750 Eric. I. Hey, Regina. 0:13:52.290 --> 0:13:53.069 Hi, Eric. 0:13:53.150 --> 0:13:55.109 You better not be in an Uber right now, dude. 0:13:55.210 --> 0:13:58.410 Eric. No, I'm not working right now. 0:13:58.429 --> 0:14:02.069 Yeah, you missed a pretty important detail from the drive 0:14:02.150 --> 0:14:03.510 from the restaurant back to work. 0:14:04.320 --> 0:14:07.079 But to me, it just made sense. I mean, I 0:14:07.140 --> 0:14:09.679 checked on the app. It was literally on the way. 0:14:09.700 --> 0:14:13.059 So it was like, why wouldn't we make a little 0:14:13.080 --> 0:14:15.059 bit of extra money on the way back? 0:14:15.160 --> 0:14:17.980 Dude, I'm with him. That sounds great to me. 0:14:18.440 --> 0:14:21.080 Brooke, this is not your talking portion. 0:14:21.620 --> 0:14:23.420 But like Regina, can't you see? 0:14:23.780 --> 0:14:24.920 It occurs to me now. 0:14:25.650 --> 0:14:28.920 That I don't think I asked you first. 0:14:28.940 --> 0:14:33.240 Oh. Would it have helped if he had asked you 0:14:33.280 --> 0:14:35.060 permission to do an Uber ride? 0:14:35.100 --> 0:14:36.920 I mean, I would... I would have said, let me 0:14:36.960 --> 0:14:39.060 get out because I don't want to. 0:14:38.880 --> 0:14:40.020 Be like, I could have, cause no. 0:14:40.300 --> 0:14:42.490 Cause also my thing is, it just seemed like he 0:14:42.510 --> 0:14:44.810 was just focused on him and what he wanted. And 0:14:44.870 --> 0:14:46.090 you were like, well, I need this. 0:14:46.730 --> 0:14:47.410 I'm going to do this. 0:14:47.530 --> 0:14:50.250 And you're going to be my hostage for however long. 0:14:50.530 --> 0:14:52.930 I think you're missing the point, Regina. You heard Eric. 0:14:52.950 --> 0:14:55.400 He just fell on his sword. He apologized. He wishes 0:14:55.640 --> 0:14:58.080 he would have asked you first. He knows that's a mistake. 0:14:58.240 --> 0:15:01.620 Locking the doors was a bad idea. 0:15:01.640 --> 0:15:04.620 You guys know the worst, the worst part. He only 0:15:04.660 --> 0:15:08.400 gave me a $ 3 tip. Oh, I know. 0:15:08.590 --> 0:15:11.810 You complained about it the whole way back to the office. 0:15:11.870 --> 0:15:14.450 That's going to pay for maybe pita bread. 0:15:14.530 --> 0:15:15.370 Maybe. 0:15:15.410 --> 0:15:18.230 So are you saying maybe the drive wasn't worth it? 0:15:19.670 --> 0:15:24.610 I mean, I did not mean to upset her. And 0:15:25.110 --> 0:15:31.110 now the shushing... definitely also looks bad, but I'm working 0:15:31.250 --> 0:15:35.930 and the guy requested silence and I had to like, 0:15:36.380 --> 0:15:38.660 I was just the quickest way I could convey that 0:15:38.720 --> 0:15:39.120 to her. 0:15:39.340 --> 0:15:41.500 Isn't the silence like when you request it, it's just 0:15:41.540 --> 0:15:42.740 you don't want to be talked to? 0:15:42.960 --> 0:15:43.200 Yeah. 0:15:43.220 --> 0:15:46.120 Like, because my Uber drivers are always on the phone. Always. Yeah, 0:15:46.300 --> 0:15:48.430 that's I don't like, yeah, do you? 0:15:48.610 --> 0:15:51.450