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Speaker 1: Have I ever been left waiting by the phone. It's

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Speaker 1: the Fred Show, Tara, Good morning, Welcome to the show.

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Speaker 1: Hi guys, glad you're here. Let's hear about this dude

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Speaker 1: who you went out with. His name is Robert. You

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Speaker 1: met on the dating app Hinge, so you match and

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Speaker 1: then fill us in from there.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so we matched. We had great conversations and then

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Speaker 2: we actually went out to a couple of different restaurants.

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Speaker 2: One of the conversations we had when we were chatting

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Speaker 2: was about how I love food.

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Speaker 3: I'm huge foodie.

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Speaker 2: I love finding new restaurants, and he was like, I

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Speaker 2: have the best new restaurants to go to, which I

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Speaker 2: thought was really cool. And he took me out to

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Speaker 2: this really great place our first night, and it was

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Speaker 2: the place I had never been.

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Speaker 3: I was shocked. So we had a lot in common.

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Speaker 2: He loves, like I said, you love food, and we

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Speaker 2: just like kind of have a lot of things similar.

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Speaker 3: So I don't know.

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Speaker 2: It was just a great, amazing date and we talked

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Speaker 2: and talked all night, and then we had a second date,

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Speaker 2: which was also amazing, and then after that, I just

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Speaker 2: I haven't heard from him. So I'm a little confused

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Speaker 2: because I thought the first two dates were.

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Speaker 1: So great dated people before who were like really into

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Speaker 1: keeping up with new restaurants that are opening, And I

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Speaker 1: respect it because I get so lazy about where I

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Speaker 1: I know it's going to be good every time. Like,

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Speaker 1: I want to be happy. And the thing that makes

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Speaker 1: me the most like frustrated about that is if you

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Speaker 1: go to a new restaurant's not good and then he's like,

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Speaker 1: I could we could have gone to the place I

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Speaker 1: know is good.

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Speaker 3: I'm the new place girl. I love it.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, so that's cool that you guys have that in

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Speaker 1: it sounds like it was a match on a lot

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Speaker 1: of levels. Except this guy's ghosting you now, and you

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Speaker 1: want to know why. So we'll call Robert. We'll see

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Speaker 1: if we can get him on the phone. We'll ask

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Speaker 1: he's not communicating, and hopefully we can straighten things out

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Speaker 1: and set you guys up on another date that we

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Speaker 1: pay for.

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Speaker 3: All right, Okay, that sounds great.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna play one song, come back and do it.

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Speaker 1: Can you hang on? Yeah, let's see what's going on.

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Speaker 1: Part two of Waiting at the Phone next in two

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Speaker 1: minutes on The Fred Show. We're commercial free, by the way,

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Speaker 1: for the next forty five minutes. It's the Fred Show.

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Speaker 1: Good morning, thanks for having us on the radio. On

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Speaker 1: the iHeart app seven hundred bucks with show by Shelley.

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Speaker 1: That's coming up the Entertainer Report as well, Tara, Yes,

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Speaker 1: welcome back. Yeah, Hi, let's call Robert. You guys met

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Speaker 1: on Hinge, went on a couple of dates, tried some

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Speaker 1: word amazing, right, you said these dates were amazing.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean truly incredible.

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Speaker 1: All right, So you had a good time, except after

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Speaker 1: not reaching out for a third date, nothing, He's ghosting

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Speaker 1: Let's call him now, good luck. Hello, He's just Robert.

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Speaker 1: Robert Hey, good morning Fred from the Fred's Show. The

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Speaker 1: whole crew is here. We started to bother, but I

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Speaker 3: Sure?

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Speaker 1: I know it's weird, it is. I know it's a

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Speaker 1: taking a call. We're calling on behalf of this lady Tara,

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Speaker 1: who you met on HNS. You guys went on two dates.

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Speaker 1: You remember Tara?

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Speaker 3: Yes? I remember Tara?

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Speaker 1: Okay, So what's going on with her? Because she called

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Speaker 1: She wants some closure. So why aren't you calling her?

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Speaker 1: She is very attractive, she's very hot, but I have

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Speaker 1: all this stuff that I had to do on both days.

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Speaker 1: What did you have to do? Uh?

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Speaker 2: Well, Jarah, if you know what a TikToker is.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, we're regually familiar with TikTokers. Yeah, so she's on

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Speaker 1: many times I brought this? Yeah? Yeah, and let me guess,

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Speaker 1: You were the photographer, You were the videographer. I was, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I was a vieographer. I'm telling you. I see these

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Speaker 1: I hate the day of my line. I went to

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Speaker 1: It's like, but what about the other person, Like, are

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Speaker 1: that was the deal? Like I'm feeling I'm talking on

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Speaker 1: But also not only that, but we're having dinner and

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Speaker 1: she gets the perfect shot yea food? Yeah yeah, and

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Speaker 1: by the way, paid for this food? You I did?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, like an idiot like me?

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Speaker 1: Wrong, Tara's here, Let me bring Terry and Tara. I mean,

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Speaker 1: if you're going to go on look, if you want

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Speaker 1: like I respect it, but you can't take people on

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Speaker 1: I mean basically, they're they're the crew, they're the they're

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Speaker 3: No, not at all. That is ridiculous. I feel like my.

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Speaker 2: Page is filled with people who I mean, I would

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Speaker 3: That's no fun thing to do.

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Speaker 1: I'm not knocking the content. Like, maybe you have great content.

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Speaker 1: Maybe you can monetize it and that's awesome, but then

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Speaker 1: you have any expectation when somebody takes you on a

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Speaker 1: I buying you dinner? I don't. I don't want to

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Speaker 1: be there for that. I think you're speaking what I'm thinking.

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Speaker 1: I agree with you.

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Speaker 2: I'm really authentic on my TikTok, and.

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Speaker 3: I just I'm not going to I don't really curate situation.

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Speaker 2: So I was on a date. It was really great lighting.

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Speaker 2: I just asked him to help me out. I mean

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Speaker 3: And I honestly thought it was a great bonding thing.

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Speaker 2: And if he's something I'm going to date going forward,

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Speaker 2: I want to know that he enjoys.

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Speaker 1: He's going to be as well. Camera holder. Yeah, I

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Speaker 1: mean that's every relationship, every relationship the guy because everything one,

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Speaker 1: that's all that's taken away from the get to know

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Speaker 1: Thank you, I mean, and I've got a free meal.

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Speaker 2: I get I can appreciate people that you know, can

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Speaker 1: But I would pay any.

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Speaker 1: I would just want to go out and have a

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Speaker 1: and that's it.

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Speaker 2: Well, that video actually got ninety seven likes, so the.

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Speaker 3: Joke is on you.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, a lot of a lot of engagement there, a

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Speaker 1: I think you, honestly, I think you're out here. You're

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Speaker 1: Good luck for you. Good luck to both of you.

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Speaker 1: Robert not going. I don't even have to ask, there

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Speaker 1: won't be a third date. And Tara, good luck with

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