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Speaker 1: This is from Lena on Steve Barvey FM. Lena says,

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Speaker 1: my family held a secret from me for years, and

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Speaker 1: when I started getting serious with my boyfriend, they sprung

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Speaker 1: it on me. When I first met this guy that

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Speaker 1: I want to marry, my dad set it up and

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Speaker 1: paid the guy to take me out. He even gave

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Speaker 1: him a prepaid AMEX gift card to pay for the date.

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Speaker 1: I had just gotten out of a bad relationship and

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Speaker 1: my dad really wanted me to move on. They never

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Speaker 1: expected me to fall for the guy, but since I

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Speaker 1: started talking about marrying him, they're now hating on him.

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Speaker 1: They called him a loser because he took my dad's

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Speaker 1: money in the beginning. My boyfriend said, it's all true,

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Speaker 1: but that was back then. But he's been with me

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Speaker 1: for almost three years, so that proves that he loves me.

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Speaker 1: I'm mad at everybody that I know right now, and

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Speaker 1: I just want to be happy.

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Speaker 2: What do I do.

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Speaker 1: Is my boyfriend a bum?

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Speaker 2: Wow?

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Speaker 3: No, he's not a bum. He was a bum when

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Speaker 3: he first started, though, But your daddy is a bum too,

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Speaker 3: because he had no business jumping in the middle he did.

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Speaker 3: He had no business jumping in the middle of this

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Speaker 3: trying to put a ban on something. You got to

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Speaker 3: let your child go through whatever they going through right now,

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Speaker 3: your daddy, now, your daddy probably there, want to pay

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Speaker 3: the man to lead. He didn't paid him to come in.

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Speaker 3: I don't want to pay him lead. Yeah, daddy needs

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Speaker 3: to sit his ass down somewhere. He doing way too much.

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Speaker 3: If you love this man and he loved you, trying

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Speaker 3: to go ahead. You know you're talking and ready to love. Okay.

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Speaker 3: If you love this man and he love you, all right,

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Speaker 3: then we may have a match, all right, But your daddy.

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Speaker 3: Don't listen to your daddy at all. Wow, that was

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Speaker 3: really good advice.

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Speaker 2: I'm shocked.

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Speaker 3: And if and if daddy acts right, we might let

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Speaker 3: him walk us down the aisle. But don't say a

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Speaker 3: damn thing, Daddy, don't say nothing.

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Speaker 2: That was really good man, You actually trying to do

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Speaker 2: the right thing.

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Speaker 3: Timmy, That that's so what you I mean? Oh, y'all

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Speaker 3: want Thomas a Timmy? Which one?

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Speaker 2: You just did it?

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Speaker 1: What we want? Where we pay you for us?

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Speaker 3: This shot?

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Speaker 2: This completely different from Thomas. Okay, they're paying people to

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Speaker 2: date you. How unattractive is this? Okay? That's all I know.

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Speaker 1: I don't they They walking over money to get somebody

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Speaker 1: to go out with you.

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Speaker 2: How unattractive is this? You know what that? Why not?

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Speaker 2: Tommy gave you all the right answer, But.

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Speaker 3: This is me we junr and your defense. I thought

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Speaker 3: that I was gonna say that you did that, but

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Speaker 3: I didn't say on.

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Speaker 2: This show, I'm gonna say it. You just you just

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Speaker 2: you've just been ugly. Wait a minute, they paying, they're paying.

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Speaker 2: Hold on, they they ain't just paying. They buying gift

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Speaker 2: cards for your lad. They do it a lot. You're

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Speaker 2: gonna go to the rest with a gift card to

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Speaker 2: take my daughter out? That that? Okay? You you it's

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Speaker 2: something really going on here. No, no want to marry you? Okay,

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Speaker 2: he want to marry you. Well, in the beginning, they

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Speaker 2: paid me to take you out.

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Speaker 3: Let it go? Do okay? Say that?

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Speaker 2: Did she just say she got a bad relationship? Did

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Speaker 2: you just say that too?

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Speaker 3: Yes?

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Speaker 2: Why did he lead to.

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Speaker 1: Okay, we're gonna move on. Please we do have time

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Speaker 1: for another one. This is from Eileen and Tyler. That

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Speaker 1: was another name Eileen. The other day I called my

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Speaker 1: husband four times in a row and he couldn't answer

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Speaker 1: his phone. He said he was in the bathroom at work. Well,

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Speaker 1: last night he went to home depot and was there

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Speaker 1: for three hours. He said he didn't hear his phone

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Speaker 1: ringing because it's loud in there. He has his earpiece

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Speaker 1: in at all times, and when he's home, he constantly

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Speaker 1: is staring at his phone.

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Speaker 3: Why is it that every.

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Speaker 1: Time he's away from home he can't hear his phone

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Speaker 1: or he's busy doing something. What if I had any

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Speaker 1: emergency and I really need him, why can't he pick

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Speaker 1: up because.

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Speaker 3: He's doing someby you already see what's going on here.

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Speaker 3: He ain't in the bathroom. Ain't nobody that concipated like that,

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Speaker 3: Ain't nothing but listen. Ain't nobody that backed up? You

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Speaker 3: don't call it four times and they can't pick up.

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Speaker 3: Ain't nobody that bagged up that they can't get on

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Speaker 3: this food?

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Speaker 1: That is.

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Speaker 3: Okay? At least tell you why, baby, My stomach ain't

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Speaker 3: doing right right now. I gotta call you right back.

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Speaker 3: He ain't even picking up on. Ain't nobody that messed

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Speaker 3: up in the stomach? Okay? Your man got somebody else

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Speaker 3: and they meeting at home depot and they over there

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Speaker 3: in the garden section. I'm just telling you that's what

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Speaker 3: they're doing.

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Speaker 1: Not the patio garden section coming up.

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Speaker 2: That's twenty minutes after the hour.

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Speaker 1: We'll have more of this ignorant show right after this.

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Speaker 3: Meet me by the mulch, meet me right by the

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Speaker 3: much

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