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Speaker 2: We stand a life ruining king. Implode that marriage. That's

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Speaker 1: The setting a high volume independent tire shop in northern

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Speaker 2: We'll call him j Oh.

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Speaker 1: Aggrieved parties basically everyone that worked there at the time,

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Speaker 1: but mainly myself and the receptionist will call her Ruth.

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Speaker 2: The backstory, so.

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Speaker 1: Jay had been the GM of one two three Tire

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Speaker 1: since he got the previous GM fired in two thousand

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Speaker 1: and four. Nice yikes, man, And this guy's already a

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Speaker 1: piece of work, and the other guy fired to reclaim

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Speaker 1: the throne. This is like Game of Thrones, but for tires.

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Speaker 1: Game of tires, Game of tires, the ring of power.

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Speaker 1: He was and is a complete narcissist who believed he

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Speaker 1: God help you. Over the years, Jay had done a

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Speaker 1: number of illegal things. For example, he was always very

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Speaker 1: physical with his employees, and I think that goes like

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Speaker 1: two ways. Actually, one time he was wrestling with another salesman.

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Speaker 1: I'm just imagining these like wrestling bouts in the office.

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Speaker 1: This was commonplace and unavoidable if you valued your job.

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Speaker 2: Is how you get pro.

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Speaker 1: All right, boss, let's throw it down the ree It's like, oh,

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Speaker 2: Last one living gets it.

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Speaker 1: So he was wrestling this other salesman we'll call him Paul,

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Speaker 1: and Paul took a bad fall and broke his knee.

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Speaker 1: call him Blue, Jay immediately clocked Paul out and told

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Speaker 1: like the guy would have to use his own insurance

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Speaker 1: into the company insurance, and so he's like saving face.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.

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Speaker 1: Paul did as he was told and kept his job,

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Speaker 1: but his knee was never the same. Oh my god,

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Speaker 1: this is sad, and he ended up addicted the opioids.

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Speaker 1: Jay's actions, Oh god, damn, Jay, you're just ruined in

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Speaker 1: lives left and right, all from these wrestling matches. Jay

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Speaker 1: also had an affinity for the ladies. Now I must

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Speaker 1: mention here that Jay is an ultra conservative Christian father

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Speaker 3: Eleven my god, Jay, geez, and he's still trying to

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Speaker 2: This god she got, you know, you spread your seat enough.

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Speaker 1: Maybe it's time to like focus on wrestling your employees

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Speaker 2: Yeah, we need to wrestle his member down. Yeah, we

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Speaker 1: Maybe like his true calling is like the MMA or

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Speaker 2: That's what we need him at. He needs to be

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Speaker 2: wrestling professionally. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: He believes that a woman's place is uneducated, barefoot, pregnant,

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Speaker 1: How dare you?

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Speaker 2: That is the devil's shoes, sir.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, unless thus it's like one of those like China

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Speaker 1: shoes from like the eighteen hundreds where they like break

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Speaker 1: That being said, several female receptionists came and went over

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Speaker 1: the money and begrudgingly accepted the regular sexual harassments. Oh

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Speaker 2: God.

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Speaker 1: When he wasn't behaving inappropriately with every lady that walked

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Speaker 2: This is the worst boss I've ever heard of.

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Speaker 1: I know.

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Speaker 2: It's like a malevolent of Michael Scott.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, yeah, if Michael Scott was actually evil.

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Speaker 1: Want to leave early on a slow day, wrestle the

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Speaker 1: If the big guy isn't in that day, buy him

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Speaker 1: the revenge foreshadowing It was the summer of twenty twelve

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Speaker 2: Why why this guy?

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Speaker 1: If this thing out of your control happens, your life

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Speaker 3: I keep thinking, he's like, Wow, this guy is awful,

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Speaker 3: but he keeps upping the ante.

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Speaker 2: He's so good credit being bad. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Ruth was going through divorce and he was trying to

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Speaker 1: one evening that Jay's ultra conservative values must be shared

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Speaker 1: I created a throwaway email and got him a bill

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Speaker 1: me later subscription to Hustler magazine, Playboy, and Benthouse the trifecta.

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Speaker 3: I love I love how he's just deciding, like I

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Speaker 1: Yeah, just make sure and take this batula And are

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Speaker 1: last several years? And that was that? But several years?

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Speaker 1: like and he it's like so obvious. And also it

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Speaker 1: The next morning, Lou called j to his office and

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Speaker 1: in another one two three tire location an hour away

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Speaker 1: until the end of the year. Beginning in twenty thirteen.

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Speaker 1: Jay would need to find other employment. Jay was also,

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Speaker 1: I think it's probably like there was probably some contract thing,

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Speaker 1: Also, the location that Jay was relocated to added an

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Speaker 1: I suspected that Lou also encourage Jay to reconcile with

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Speaker 2: I don't know how I could get more, but let's

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Speaker 1: So Jay ended his employment with one two three Tire

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Speaker 1: in January of twenty thirteen and never suspected any involvement

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Speaker 3: That is crazy that he got away with it and

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Speaker 2: Yeah, because it aimed if he's reaching out to yes,

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Speaker 1: He went to work for another tire store, this one

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Speaker 3: Also, like, if he had gotten away with with all

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Speaker 3: I know, and he has no idea big yikes.

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Speaker 3: Also if this person like like Jay, if Jay ever

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Speaker 1: Yeah, the three magazines. I mean, how many people work

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Speaker 3: please do the like Beyonce. You know where they go

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Speaker 3: and they find people, Go do that and then report

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Speaker 3: back to us in the comments and let.

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Speaker 2: Us let us know. We want to track these people down. Yeah,