1 00:00:02,560 --> 00:00:06,560 Speaker 1: Two Teas in a Pod with Teddy Mellencamp and Tamra Jeedge. 2 00:00:21,880 --> 00:00:24,759 Speaker 2: Hi, guys, welcome to another episode of Two Teas in 3 00:00:24,800 --> 00:00:27,720 Speaker 2: a Pod with myself, Teddy Mellencamp and. 4 00:00:27,880 --> 00:00:29,560 Speaker 1: Hey, I'm Rika Jane. 5 00:00:30,040 --> 00:00:34,040 Speaker 2: And we are here to recap Real Housewives Orange County 6 00:00:34,560 --> 00:00:37,760 Speaker 2: Season eighteen, episode fifteen. 7 00:00:37,880 --> 00:00:40,360 Speaker 1: I am having such a good time, Teddy, I'm telling you, 8 00:00:40,479 --> 00:00:43,080 Speaker 1: I was giggling and cackling the entire time. 9 00:00:43,120 --> 00:00:45,040 Speaker 2: Well, you know who's not having a good time? 10 00:00:45,400 --> 00:00:49,159 Speaker 1: Shannon or Tamera or jin Or or Heather. I mean 11 00:00:49,200 --> 00:00:51,639 Speaker 1: you could name any one of them. None of them 12 00:00:51,640 --> 00:00:52,520 Speaker 1: are having a good time. 13 00:00:52,720 --> 00:00:54,400 Speaker 2: Well, I think Emily might be having a good No, 14 00:00:54,480 --> 00:00:55,080 Speaker 2: she's cool. 15 00:00:55,200 --> 00:00:57,080 Speaker 1: That was That's exactly what I was thinking. I was like, 16 00:00:57,120 --> 00:00:59,640 Speaker 1: Emily is like the calm constant. 17 00:01:00,440 --> 00:01:03,680 Speaker 2: I mean she has her little impulses. 18 00:01:03,960 --> 00:01:06,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, but it's not bad, Like it's nothing to do. 19 00:01:06,280 --> 00:01:07,360 Speaker 2: It's all recoverable. 20 00:01:07,720 --> 00:01:11,200 Speaker 1: Absolutely. I just love the way. I remember I told 21 00:01:11,200 --> 00:01:13,200 Speaker 1: you that side fights were going to be breaking out. 22 00:01:13,319 --> 00:01:16,600 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, it happened, and it's glorious. 23 00:01:16,720 --> 00:01:20,920 Speaker 2: No, it's given us a whole new like, so much 24 00:01:20,920 --> 00:01:25,280 Speaker 2: more to digest because everybody now it's and this is 25 00:01:25,400 --> 00:01:27,520 Speaker 2: kind of what happens. As you get towards the end 26 00:01:27,560 --> 00:01:31,840 Speaker 2: of the season, you are over it. You are over it. 27 00:01:32,160 --> 00:01:34,399 Speaker 2: You no longer have patience for the people that you're 28 00:01:34,440 --> 00:01:37,600 Speaker 2: spending all of your time. No, because you have to remember, 29 00:01:37,720 --> 00:01:40,640 Speaker 2: we're seeing one thing, you know, it seems like one 30 00:01:40,680 --> 00:01:42,880 Speaker 2: thing a day, but really these women are seeing each 31 00:01:42,880 --> 00:01:47,080 Speaker 2: other three four times a day, having the same conversations. 32 00:01:47,240 --> 00:01:50,360 Speaker 1: Yes, and in uncomfortable situations, which is why you get 33 00:01:50,400 --> 00:01:53,480 Speaker 1: the reactions you do. Because it's cold, it's wet, you're tired, 34 00:01:53,560 --> 00:01:55,440 Speaker 1: you're you know, you're hungry. 35 00:01:55,720 --> 00:01:59,800 Speaker 2: Katie tells Tamra that she doesn't understand why Shannon can't 36 00:01:59,840 --> 00:02:05,320 Speaker 2: just sit and talk instead, she gets super emotional. Katie 37 00:02:05,320 --> 00:02:08,200 Speaker 2: doesn't get why Shannon would get plastic surgery if she 38 00:02:08,280 --> 00:02:11,760 Speaker 2: was struggling financially to make herself feel better. 39 00:02:11,840 --> 00:02:16,480 Speaker 1: How about this, There is no wrong time for plastic surgery. 40 00:02:16,800 --> 00:02:17,320 Speaker 3: Katie. 41 00:02:17,680 --> 00:02:19,400 Speaker 2: Check in with us in ten years. 42 00:02:19,160 --> 00:02:21,760 Speaker 1: Katie, one day you will understand. 43 00:02:22,040 --> 00:02:26,280 Speaker 2: Yeah, Katie, I just saw you at you need it. 44 00:02:27,960 --> 00:02:31,880 Speaker 2: Oh my god, here's my doctor's info. You could do 45 00:02:31,919 --> 00:02:38,000 Speaker 2: it for a post. Let's teddy. No, Katie does not 46 00:02:38,200 --> 00:02:42,520 Speaker 2: need anything. Nobody really needs anything. But if you want something. 47 00:02:42,360 --> 00:02:43,680 Speaker 1: And you make yourself happy. 48 00:02:43,720 --> 00:02:44,480 Speaker 2: This is your life. 49 00:02:44,520 --> 00:02:46,440 Speaker 1: If that's what you want to do with your body, 50 00:02:46,720 --> 00:02:47,760 Speaker 1: you're entitled to do so. 51 00:02:47,919 --> 00:02:50,160 Speaker 2: But also, I gotta be honest, I don't really give 52 00:02:50,200 --> 00:02:53,440 Speaker 2: a shit, and it's not my problem how somebody spends 53 00:02:53,480 --> 00:02:55,240 Speaker 2: their money if they're struggling. 54 00:02:54,800 --> 00:02:56,840 Speaker 1: Like I'd okay, I was gonna say this was a 55 00:02:56,880 --> 00:03:01,080 Speaker 1: big topic in both shows, but this one specifically. We 56 00:03:01,120 --> 00:03:04,520 Speaker 1: have the dress, we have the plastic surgery. It's like, 57 00:03:05,400 --> 00:03:07,640 Speaker 1: you know, who are unless you're writing the check for 58 00:03:07,680 --> 00:03:10,200 Speaker 1: these women's lives, who cares what they do with their money? 59 00:03:10,240 --> 00:03:11,680 Speaker 2: Would they go flat out bro? 60 00:03:11,880 --> 00:03:14,720 Speaker 1: It does not. It's not going to impact your life 61 00:03:14,760 --> 00:03:16,399 Speaker 1: at all. I promise you. 62 00:03:16,520 --> 00:03:20,560 Speaker 2: I remember us having a conversation with somebody in Beverly 63 00:03:20,600 --> 00:03:24,000 Speaker 2: Hills and this doesn't ruining. This is years ago after 64 00:03:24,200 --> 00:03:28,080 Speaker 2: a robbery where we said maybe toned down wearing the 65 00:03:28,200 --> 00:03:31,600 Speaker 2: labels just because people are going to come after you 66 00:03:31,639 --> 00:03:33,920 Speaker 2: more if they see it. That I think is the 67 00:03:33,960 --> 00:03:38,680 Speaker 2: conversation you can have because it's not about financially how 68 00:03:38,800 --> 00:03:40,960 Speaker 2: much somebody has, but it's about the world we're living 69 00:03:40,960 --> 00:03:41,520 Speaker 2: in right now. 70 00:03:41,560 --> 00:03:43,240 Speaker 1: Well, that is a well I was going to say, 71 00:03:43,560 --> 00:03:46,120 Speaker 1: you're allowed to wear whatever you want and buy whatever 72 00:03:46,160 --> 00:03:49,680 Speaker 1: you want. But the crime part of it is that's 73 00:03:49,720 --> 00:03:50,640 Speaker 1: a different conversation. 74 00:03:50,760 --> 00:03:53,520 Speaker 2: That's what I'm saying. There's a room for that conversation 75 00:03:53,840 --> 00:03:57,920 Speaker 2: if it's done with love and like a little bit 76 00:03:57,960 --> 00:04:00,840 Speaker 2: of like we're looking out for you and this or. 77 00:04:00,920 --> 00:04:03,120 Speaker 1: But I think you have to pick and choose. Well, 78 00:04:03,240 --> 00:04:05,760 Speaker 1: this is like, look, if we're going to comment on 79 00:04:05,800 --> 00:04:08,960 Speaker 1: the city we live in with just Los Angeles, where 80 00:04:09,000 --> 00:04:12,280 Speaker 1: everybody's rolex is getting snatched off, where every house is 81 00:04:12,320 --> 00:04:15,200 Speaker 1: getting broken into no matter where, whether it's bel Air, 82 00:04:15,720 --> 00:04:20,159 Speaker 1: you know, Beverly Hills, whatever, that's like. Now you're impinging 83 00:04:20,160 --> 00:04:22,400 Speaker 1: on people's lifestyles. You can feel like you can't even 84 00:04:22,440 --> 00:04:25,839 Speaker 1: wear something that you worked hard to pay for. That's 85 00:04:25,880 --> 00:04:27,120 Speaker 1: not cool, you know. 86 00:04:27,279 --> 00:04:32,760 Speaker 2: But I also think it's hard when the women keep 87 00:04:32,800 --> 00:04:36,279 Speaker 2: talking about living beyond their financial means, when we all 88 00:04:36,320 --> 00:04:38,440 Speaker 2: know that they're also being paid to be on the 89 00:04:38,560 --> 00:04:40,440 Speaker 2: show and to look a certain way, you have. 90 00:04:40,440 --> 00:04:42,240 Speaker 1: To look a certain way if you called it in 91 00:04:42,320 --> 00:04:45,520 Speaker 1: and if I looked on Beverly Hills the way I 92 00:04:45,600 --> 00:04:49,479 Speaker 1: want to look, which is you've all seen the paparazzi pictures. 93 00:04:49,520 --> 00:04:52,599 Speaker 1: That's me, but guess what, not on camera? 94 00:04:53,320 --> 00:04:56,400 Speaker 2: Guess what and if we are for if you are 95 00:04:56,520 --> 00:04:59,080 Speaker 2: forced to do on camera, you know, because Erica has 96 00:04:59,120 --> 00:05:01,880 Speaker 2: the big shades, Yeah, you could, like you see this 97 00:05:02,000 --> 00:05:04,279 Speaker 2: much of your face like it's just and it's not 98 00:05:04,320 --> 00:05:07,719 Speaker 2: because you're not beautiful without makeup. It's just this is what. 99 00:05:07,839 --> 00:05:11,400 Speaker 1: Well, my expectation is, Yeah, the expectation of the show, 100 00:05:11,520 --> 00:05:14,960 Speaker 1: the expectation of the viewers, the expectation like you place 101 00:05:15,040 --> 00:05:17,440 Speaker 1: on yourself. It's kind of a whole thing. And I 102 00:05:17,480 --> 00:05:20,159 Speaker 1: know that look is it real? Yeah, it's real? Is 103 00:05:20,240 --> 00:05:23,039 Speaker 1: my skin was my skin barrier broken and my face 104 00:05:23,160 --> 00:05:25,080 Speaker 1: was inflamed and I didn't feel comfortable. 105 00:05:25,320 --> 00:05:26,640 Speaker 2: Yeah? Did you see it? Yeah? 106 00:05:26,680 --> 00:05:28,560 Speaker 1: Did you watch bet On all on Blonde and see 107 00:05:28,640 --> 00:05:30,839 Speaker 1: me with no makeup on at the worst time in 108 00:05:30,880 --> 00:05:31,200 Speaker 1: my life? 109 00:05:31,440 --> 00:05:33,160 Speaker 2: Yeah? I did it. Yeah. I would have. 110 00:05:33,120 --> 00:05:36,680 Speaker 1: Preferred to maybe have something better, some powder on my face, 111 00:05:36,720 --> 00:05:37,719 Speaker 1: but it didn't work out that way. 112 00:05:37,800 --> 00:05:41,200 Speaker 2: Yeah, and sometimes it doesn't. But I say, nothing is 113 00:05:41,200 --> 00:05:44,080 Speaker 2: more relaxing than a spa treatment. Talking about your friend, 114 00:05:44,160 --> 00:05:46,080 Speaker 2: I thought about our spa treatment realm. 115 00:05:47,160 --> 00:05:48,039 Speaker 1: I was so hungover. 116 00:05:49,080 --> 00:05:53,280 Speaker 2: I mean, it's just spa treatments on these shows in general, 117 00:05:53,600 --> 00:05:57,960 Speaker 2: unless it's a foot massage. I like, yeah, they're not relaxing. 118 00:05:58,480 --> 00:06:03,600 Speaker 1: Well, look, the one thing that's wonderful about being on 119 00:06:03,640 --> 00:06:07,160 Speaker 1: a show like Orange County or Beverly Hills like we were, 120 00:06:07,240 --> 00:06:08,800 Speaker 1: so we get to go and do all of these 121 00:06:08,800 --> 00:06:12,359 Speaker 1: cool things in all these beautiful places that, having been. 122 00:06:12,200 --> 00:06:13,760 Speaker 2: Said, you don't get to enjoy them. 123 00:06:14,760 --> 00:06:18,240 Speaker 1: We don't get to enjoy them like you would if 124 00:06:18,279 --> 00:06:22,839 Speaker 1: you weren't involved in, you know, telling a story. And 125 00:06:23,400 --> 00:06:26,080 Speaker 1: so it's almost like I remember you and I being 126 00:06:26,120 --> 00:06:30,440 Speaker 1: at the girlon Spot and I mean, no, it wasn't 127 00:06:30,600 --> 00:06:33,480 Speaker 1: that wasn't girlng We were in Rome. Gosh what spot? 128 00:06:33,680 --> 00:06:35,920 Speaker 1: But anyway, it was beautiful and we couldn't we couldn't 129 00:06:36,040 --> 00:06:36,720 Speaker 1: enjoy one moment. 130 00:06:36,920 --> 00:06:38,760 Speaker 2: We couldn't enjoy one moment of it, and no one 131 00:06:38,800 --> 00:06:40,560 Speaker 2: else didn't make me enjoy one moment of it when 132 00:06:40,600 --> 00:06:42,919 Speaker 2: they took a picture of my face and then blew 133 00:06:42,960 --> 00:06:47,760 Speaker 2: it up like every single poor like, uh, thank you, yes, thanks, 134 00:06:47,839 --> 00:06:51,839 Speaker 2: we really appreciate that, thank you for that. But then 135 00:06:52,040 --> 00:06:55,039 Speaker 2: we start to see things unraveled a little bit. 136 00:06:55,920 --> 00:06:56,760 Speaker 1: It's so good. 137 00:06:57,560 --> 00:07:01,000 Speaker 2: Gina tells Jen that Shannon showed her the with Alexis 138 00:07:01,040 --> 00:07:05,120 Speaker 2: from twenty eighteen about her and Jim suing Shannon and Tamra. 139 00:07:06,400 --> 00:07:09,960 Speaker 2: Gina can't believe Tarma knows Shannon is telling the truth, 140 00:07:10,240 --> 00:07:11,480 Speaker 2: but A tacks her for lying. 141 00:07:11,880 --> 00:07:15,200 Speaker 1: Ooh see, because there's ten years of backstory or more 142 00:07:15,320 --> 00:07:18,440 Speaker 1: that you don't take into consideration at that point and. 143 00:07:18,760 --> 00:07:22,600 Speaker 2: At this point have helped me because my memory isn't 144 00:07:22,640 --> 00:07:27,120 Speaker 2: great on this. Do we know that Tamra and Shannon 145 00:07:27,160 --> 00:07:30,560 Speaker 2: have spoken about this since those original texts? Because I 146 00:07:30,600 --> 00:07:33,800 Speaker 2: don't imagine Tamara has text from twenty seventeen. 147 00:07:33,920 --> 00:07:36,400 Speaker 1: That's what I was thinking. If Shannon has them, I'm 148 00:07:36,400 --> 00:07:38,920 Speaker 1: sure she had them. I'm sure Tama had them at 149 00:07:38,920 --> 00:07:41,680 Speaker 1: one point also too, if you're asking me something about 150 00:07:41,760 --> 00:07:44,280 Speaker 1: six years ago, I may or may not. Yeah, but 151 00:07:44,520 --> 00:07:45,280 Speaker 1: which part right? 152 00:07:45,440 --> 00:07:47,000 Speaker 2: I would have to check with one of you guys, 153 00:07:47,000 --> 00:07:49,960 Speaker 2: like we will send sometimes texts and be like hey. 154 00:07:50,080 --> 00:07:53,480 Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, but if you show someone okay, So, if 155 00:07:53,520 --> 00:07:58,040 Speaker 1: Tamra doesn't have the text from Alexis right from twenty eighteen, yeah, 156 00:07:58,080 --> 00:08:02,600 Speaker 1: twenty eighteen. Only Shannon got the text because Alexis had 157 00:08:02,600 --> 00:08:05,680 Speaker 1: Shannon's number, I could see where Tama would forget it. 158 00:08:06,040 --> 00:08:08,360 Speaker 1: The exact verbiage of what was said. 159 00:08:08,400 --> 00:08:12,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, but I also am confused why Alexis had Shannon's 160 00:08:12,840 --> 00:08:16,920 Speaker 2: number but not Tamra's when Alexis and Tarma were on 161 00:08:16,960 --> 00:08:20,120 Speaker 2: the show for many years together and Shannon and Alexis 162 00:08:20,160 --> 00:08:20,880 Speaker 2: were never. 163 00:08:21,040 --> 00:08:26,160 Speaker 1: Well, you know, sometimes people don't have each other's numbers. 164 00:08:26,640 --> 00:08:29,120 Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean sometimes people change their numbers. That's right. 165 00:08:30,680 --> 00:08:34,240 Speaker 2: But can we talk a minute about how fans wanted 166 00:08:34,280 --> 00:08:38,760 Speaker 2: Gina fired and now she's the central force between everyone 167 00:08:38,760 --> 00:08:41,600 Speaker 2: and the women's she's really good, she does a great job. 168 00:08:41,760 --> 00:08:44,920 Speaker 2: She's doing a good job, doing a good job. Then 169 00:08:45,120 --> 00:08:47,840 Speaker 2: Shannon said she made it. Okay, this is this is 170 00:08:47,880 --> 00:08:48,520 Speaker 2: where it gets. 171 00:08:48,800 --> 00:08:51,520 Speaker 1: This is where I get bogged down into the minutia 172 00:08:51,720 --> 00:08:54,920 Speaker 1: of what happened, and here here we go, Okay, you're 173 00:08:54,960 --> 00:08:55,720 Speaker 1: really good at this. 174 00:08:55,920 --> 00:08:58,080 Speaker 2: Well I wouldn't say I'm really good at this, but 175 00:08:58,200 --> 00:09:01,120 Speaker 2: at this point, I'm starting to get a exhausted by 176 00:09:01,160 --> 00:09:02,160 Speaker 2: this conversation. 177 00:09:02,280 --> 00:09:04,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's and it's okay. 178 00:09:04,520 --> 00:09:07,360 Speaker 2: But Shannon said she made it clear to Heather and 179 00:09:07,440 --> 00:09:10,320 Speaker 2: so Noma that she wanted the conversation to stay between. 180 00:09:10,160 --> 00:09:12,280 Speaker 1: Them, and they flashed back by and that is true. 181 00:09:12,520 --> 00:09:13,360 Speaker 2: She did say that. 182 00:09:13,440 --> 00:09:15,400 Speaker 1: She did say that, and Heather said, okay, I will 183 00:09:15,400 --> 00:09:17,239 Speaker 1: not bring it to the group to the group. 184 00:09:17,000 --> 00:09:19,600 Speaker 2: Which is code for I'm not going to share it 185 00:09:19,600 --> 00:09:22,000 Speaker 2: with other people on camera, even though you're sharing it 186 00:09:22,000 --> 00:09:24,760 Speaker 2: with me on care right. But in that same token, 187 00:09:24,840 --> 00:09:27,360 Speaker 2: once you say it on camera, it's already freaking out there. 188 00:09:27,360 --> 00:09:28,560 Speaker 2: So you can play both sides. 189 00:09:28,920 --> 00:09:32,720 Speaker 1: You can like, but you also but you wouldn't because 190 00:09:32,720 --> 00:09:36,040 Speaker 1: you have the the time. You know what I'm saying. 191 00:09:36,040 --> 00:09:38,320 Speaker 1: You have time for it to come out later, So 192 00:09:38,480 --> 00:09:40,240 Speaker 1: it's right, That's how I would do it. 193 00:09:40,520 --> 00:09:42,880 Speaker 2: But then Heather says, this is what happened last year. 194 00:09:43,000 --> 00:09:44,920 Speaker 2: Shannon already put it out there. 195 00:09:46,040 --> 00:09:49,480 Speaker 1: That's true too. Yeah, that's true too. And sometimes when 196 00:09:49,480 --> 00:09:52,800 Speaker 1: you're shooting these shows, you have to remember some things 197 00:09:52,880 --> 00:09:56,160 Speaker 1: have already been discussed and are possibly out in the press. 198 00:09:56,240 --> 00:09:59,880 Speaker 1: So am I saying it? No, it's already been said. 199 00:10:00,160 --> 00:10:03,640 Speaker 2: Yeah, And I think that you know, at this point, 200 00:10:03,679 --> 00:10:07,200 Speaker 2: Shannon is correct. She chose the wrong person to share 201 00:10:07,240 --> 00:10:12,560 Speaker 2: that information with. Possibly, I do I think that Heather 202 00:10:13,080 --> 00:10:18,040 Speaker 2: was doing something that nine out of Otherton Housewives wouldn't. No, No, 203 00:10:18,760 --> 00:10:23,079 Speaker 2: But I also wonder why she chose I've never seen 204 00:10:23,320 --> 00:10:26,440 Speaker 2: Heather and Shannon be super close, Like why that would 205 00:10:26,440 --> 00:10:27,840 Speaker 2: be the person she can find it in. 206 00:10:28,520 --> 00:10:33,319 Speaker 1: You never know why someone tells someone that's kind of 207 00:10:34,559 --> 00:10:36,600 Speaker 1: you just don't know. I mean, you would hope that 208 00:10:36,640 --> 00:10:38,800 Speaker 1: it was genuine. Hey, I felt like I could really 209 00:10:38,800 --> 00:10:41,679 Speaker 1: tell you this, but it maybe it wasn't. 210 00:10:41,480 --> 00:10:45,360 Speaker 2: Or maybe you're stuck and you don't feel close to anyone. 211 00:10:45,600 --> 00:10:47,520 Speaker 2: That's what I'm saying below hanging fruit. 212 00:10:47,640 --> 00:10:49,959 Speaker 1: Well, you pick somebody that's neutral enough to where it's 213 00:10:49,960 --> 00:10:52,560 Speaker 1: not going to blow up in your face but surprise. 214 00:10:52,400 --> 00:10:56,120 Speaker 2: Surprise, or someone that normally doesn't cause drama, right but 215 00:10:56,520 --> 00:10:59,520 Speaker 2: today they did. Today they did. Heather says if she 216 00:10:59,600 --> 00:11:05,440 Speaker 2: pays John, it all dies away. Shannon Shannon grabs a 217 00:11:05,480 --> 00:11:08,480 Speaker 2: notebook page with expenses with John during their first six 218 00:11:08,520 --> 00:11:09,640 Speaker 2: months of their relationship. 219 00:11:09,640 --> 00:11:12,600 Speaker 1: I have to stop you. Have you ever taken notes 220 00:11:12,800 --> 00:11:16,080 Speaker 1: on expenses of a boyfriend or something of somebody that 221 00:11:16,120 --> 00:11:21,080 Speaker 1: you were dating? No, and I have never done that, 222 00:11:23,520 --> 00:11:25,800 Speaker 1: But I want to know, like, like, what kind of 223 00:11:25,800 --> 00:11:29,319 Speaker 1: relationship do you think you're having if you're keeping score already? 224 00:11:29,480 --> 00:11:31,120 Speaker 2: Well, I don't know. When I was younger, I had 225 00:11:31,120 --> 00:11:33,760 Speaker 2: a little Kate Spade notebook and I would write guys' 226 00:11:33,840 --> 00:11:35,760 Speaker 2: names in it, and then they would have an asterisk 227 00:11:35,760 --> 00:11:40,440 Speaker 2: by what how far we went? That's completely different. 228 00:11:40,440 --> 00:11:48,559 Speaker 1: We're talking finances starmys kids. I'm scar means, oh my god, 229 00:11:49,160 --> 00:11:52,680 Speaker 1: dry hump, Oh god, I haven't done that in a while. 230 00:11:53,559 --> 00:11:57,280 Speaker 2: You mean you haven't gotten a chippy. Chippy is like 231 00:11:57,280 --> 00:11:59,480 Speaker 2: because you dry hump and then it hurts your pelvic 232 00:11:59,520 --> 00:12:01,400 Speaker 2: bone and then you feel like you chipped your pelvis 233 00:12:01,440 --> 00:12:02,040 Speaker 2: the next day. 234 00:12:02,280 --> 00:12:04,400 Speaker 1: I did not know this. Well, I usually just get 235 00:12:04,440 --> 00:12:05,040 Speaker 1: the dick. 236 00:12:17,160 --> 00:12:21,160 Speaker 2: AnyWho she has gone through. But my question is did 237 00:12:21,200 --> 00:12:22,920 Speaker 2: she write it down each time, like. 238 00:12:22,840 --> 00:12:25,400 Speaker 1: Well, that's what it looks like, or or did she 239 00:12:25,559 --> 00:12:27,680 Speaker 1: go back in her I mean, that's what I'm saying. 240 00:12:27,720 --> 00:12:29,840 Speaker 1: Do you write it down like I took John to 241 00:12:29,920 --> 00:12:32,760 Speaker 1: dinner tonight and it was five hundred dollars and then 242 00:12:33,600 --> 00:12:36,040 Speaker 1: or did you just recollect? Did you recall all of 243 00:12:36,080 --> 00:12:38,439 Speaker 1: these expenses and write them down on notebook paper? 244 00:12:39,000 --> 00:12:42,000 Speaker 2: I mean, I don't even need to see an Excel 245 00:12:42,040 --> 00:12:45,120 Speaker 2: like well an at least put it on one page. 246 00:12:45,240 --> 00:12:47,040 Speaker 1: Well, yes, and it looked like it was all rather 247 00:12:47,280 --> 00:12:50,160 Speaker 1: like you know, like scraps. Here's the thing. If I 248 00:12:50,360 --> 00:12:53,600 Speaker 1: have to date a man and put our meals or 249 00:12:53,600 --> 00:12:55,920 Speaker 1: something on Excel, I'm not dating you like, that's not 250 00:12:56,040 --> 00:12:58,600 Speaker 1: part of the deal. Well, I also that takes all 251 00:12:58,640 --> 00:13:01,680 Speaker 1: the romance I want. Somebody can feel comfortable with it. 252 00:13:01,760 --> 00:13:04,440 Speaker 1: I feel good with not somebody where. And today you 253 00:13:04,600 --> 00:13:08,240 Speaker 1: had a burger and fries, and then I don't want 254 00:13:08,280 --> 00:13:12,560 Speaker 1: that one drink? Right, and so here's your uber ride. 255 00:13:12,800 --> 00:13:15,360 Speaker 1: You took a comfort or an ex. 256 00:13:15,520 --> 00:13:17,280 Speaker 2: You know what? No, who else does these kind of 257 00:13:17,320 --> 00:13:20,120 Speaker 2: things that really bugs me. I'm not naming a specific person, 258 00:13:20,200 --> 00:13:22,720 Speaker 2: but there are people that you all go. There's five 259 00:13:22,760 --> 00:13:24,360 Speaker 2: of you that go, I don't like that. And then 260 00:13:24,360 --> 00:13:26,640 Speaker 2: one person's like, I only had one drink and you 261 00:13:26,760 --> 00:13:29,240 Speaker 2: had two, So let's maybe you leave the tip. 262 00:13:29,280 --> 00:13:31,400 Speaker 1: I'm like, go, fuck all, you know how I like 263 00:13:31,440 --> 00:13:33,440 Speaker 1: how we do it or not? I have it this time, 264 00:13:33,840 --> 00:13:36,320 Speaker 1: You get it next time, Renna has it, next time, 265 00:13:37,080 --> 00:13:38,720 Speaker 1: the next time, de he gets it the next time. 266 00:13:38,840 --> 00:13:41,679 Speaker 1: Like that to me is where do we want to go? Okay, 267 00:13:41,679 --> 00:13:44,640 Speaker 1: well I'll go here. That is fair and that all working. 268 00:13:44,679 --> 00:13:47,080 Speaker 1: We have enough split the fucking check. 269 00:13:47,000 --> 00:13:49,640 Speaker 2: And if you must split it like I can't. 270 00:13:49,679 --> 00:13:52,160 Speaker 1: Also when you're younger, not as I'm too old to 271 00:13:52,160 --> 00:13:53,160 Speaker 1: be split in check. No. 272 00:13:53,520 --> 00:13:55,439 Speaker 2: It brings me back to like when I worked at 273 00:13:55,440 --> 00:13:58,400 Speaker 2: mister Chow and Cia in the mailroom, and I'd be like, well, 274 00:13:58,480 --> 00:14:01,680 Speaker 2: I can't go to dinner tonight if we're because because 275 00:14:01,720 --> 00:14:05,600 Speaker 2: I don't have anything. I have enough money I could, 276 00:14:05,840 --> 00:14:08,040 Speaker 2: I could buy two drinks for the after party, but 277 00:14:08,080 --> 00:14:08,480 Speaker 2: I can't. 278 00:14:08,520 --> 00:14:11,840 Speaker 1: I can't have a meal. Yes, I cannot have a meal. 279 00:14:12,000 --> 00:14:16,600 Speaker 2: But it also like, you know, I think, you know, 280 00:14:16,760 --> 00:14:20,040 Speaker 2: going into a relationship with somebody if they're not financially 281 00:14:20,080 --> 00:14:23,080 Speaker 2: paying the first couple times a man, Yes, that you're 282 00:14:23,120 --> 00:14:25,080 Speaker 2: doing that, and then you're accepting that. 283 00:14:25,160 --> 00:14:27,800 Speaker 1: Okay, I agree with that. If you go down this 284 00:14:27,920 --> 00:14:31,800 Speaker 1: road okay, once twice maybe something. But when you see 285 00:14:31,840 --> 00:14:34,880 Speaker 1: a distinct pattern and you choose to keep going down 286 00:14:34,880 --> 00:14:37,760 Speaker 1: that road, then you've accepted that behavior and that's the 287 00:14:37,800 --> 00:14:38,840 Speaker 1: way it is, and. 288 00:14:38,800 --> 00:14:40,720 Speaker 2: Then you have to stop taking note about it. And 289 00:14:40,760 --> 00:14:43,440 Speaker 2: it's not gonna Sadly, it's not gonna be tipped for tat. 290 00:14:43,560 --> 00:14:46,240 Speaker 2: I paid sixty thousand in our first six months of 291 00:14:46,240 --> 00:14:49,160 Speaker 2: our relationship. Now you need to pay seventy thousand for 292 00:14:49,320 --> 00:14:52,360 Speaker 2: my neck. Like it doesn't it just doesn't work like that, No, 293 00:14:54,040 --> 00:14:56,520 Speaker 2: But I also want to be like, who does your 294 00:14:56,640 --> 00:14:59,160 Speaker 2: like taxes and stuff like somebody could have at least 295 00:14:59,200 --> 00:15:01,120 Speaker 2: given you just a one sheet. 296 00:15:01,400 --> 00:15:04,680 Speaker 1: Well, yeah, like, hey, you spent this much money, but 297 00:15:04,760 --> 00:15:05,800 Speaker 1: also how much. 298 00:15:05,640 --> 00:15:08,720 Speaker 2: Money do you think Shannon would have spent without John? 299 00:15:09,760 --> 00:15:12,080 Speaker 2: You know, like, I don't know what it's all in 300 00:15:12,320 --> 00:15:14,640 Speaker 2: meal tab or is this she did she go through 301 00:15:14,680 --> 00:15:15,160 Speaker 2: each meal? 302 00:15:15,280 --> 00:15:20,280 Speaker 1: You had her go off and I had fish. 303 00:15:20,400 --> 00:15:23,720 Speaker 2: Yeah. So anyways, then Gina tells Jen that she heard 304 00:15:23,800 --> 00:15:26,080 Speaker 2: chatter about Jen's dress from the teapot. 305 00:15:26,120 --> 00:15:28,640 Speaker 1: I feel bad for Jen in this moment. I just do. 306 00:15:29,320 --> 00:15:30,840 Speaker 2: I don't know why. I just do. 307 00:15:31,000 --> 00:15:34,560 Speaker 1: Let the fucking girl wear whatever dress she wants. You, guys, 308 00:15:34,640 --> 00:15:38,320 Speaker 1: if she goes broke, if she marries this man, that's 309 00:15:38,480 --> 00:15:39,440 Speaker 1: on her, y'all. 310 00:15:40,000 --> 00:15:44,600 Speaker 2: She's making these choices. And clearly you can tell when 311 00:15:44,720 --> 00:15:48,080 Speaker 2: Jen is talking, she's not a hundred and this This 312 00:15:48,160 --> 00:15:50,440 Speaker 2: is not a dig I myself am not one hundred 313 00:15:50,480 --> 00:15:53,480 Speaker 2: percent confident all of the time. That is human nature. 314 00:15:53,480 --> 00:15:56,200 Speaker 1: I feel it too, But I can feel feel her 315 00:15:56,480 --> 00:15:59,920 Speaker 1: her energy feeling just so yeah, like she. 316 00:16:00,240 --> 00:16:04,120 Speaker 2: Feels she I don't think we've gotten to see the 317 00:16:04,160 --> 00:16:07,600 Speaker 2: real Gin yet until maybe it's trying to come out. 318 00:16:08,000 --> 00:16:08,720 Speaker 2: And I liked that. 319 00:16:08,960 --> 00:16:13,240 Speaker 4: Yeah, but I think she's always stifled herself. She seems 320 00:16:13,240 --> 00:16:16,960 Speaker 4: like a sweet girl woman. Excuse me, And I feel 321 00:16:17,040 --> 00:16:19,320 Speaker 4: like she's put a lot of people ahead of herself. 322 00:16:19,760 --> 00:16:20,520 Speaker 2: Yeah that makes sense. 323 00:16:20,640 --> 00:16:25,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, well, and she looked cute in her dress. And 324 00:16:25,080 --> 00:16:27,440 Speaker 1: you know what, honey, if you want to buy live 325 00:16:27,480 --> 00:16:28,120 Speaker 1: your life. 326 00:16:27,960 --> 00:16:30,560 Speaker 2: Know what her dress reminded me of. Tell me Ji's 327 00:16:30,640 --> 00:16:31,760 Speaker 2: room from Buka to Beppo. 328 00:16:33,240 --> 00:16:34,520 Speaker 1: You know what next? 329 00:16:34,760 --> 00:16:36,160 Speaker 2: Next? Whatever? This is? 330 00:16:37,200 --> 00:16:42,240 Speaker 1: Okay, you know what? Uh, Katie, not the Lemit, the 331 00:16:42,720 --> 00:16:50,520 Speaker 1: Capri Room. 332 00:16:46,600 --> 00:16:55,440 Speaker 2: I'm shower in a living room with Brandy Glanville showing off. 333 00:16:55,480 --> 00:17:01,840 Speaker 2: It's a dream for the Capri Room. Sometimes I drive 334 00:17:01,880 --> 00:17:09,760 Speaker 2: by there and I think, I see it's there. Oh God, 335 00:17:09,840 --> 00:17:20,280 Speaker 2: bless that. And then all the baby things hanging. I 336 00:17:20,359 --> 00:17:22,560 Speaker 2: love that. I was like, we're gonna do your baby 337 00:17:22,600 --> 00:17:25,800 Speaker 2: shower and Elpa stay and I'm like yes. And then 338 00:17:25,800 --> 00:17:30,119 Speaker 2: I had a surprise and booking a fucking puppo surprise. 339 00:17:30,400 --> 00:17:32,639 Speaker 1: I was like, it was a real surprise, and I 340 00:17:32,720 --> 00:17:34,600 Speaker 1: wore a pink wig and everything. 341 00:17:37,480 --> 00:17:41,680 Speaker 2: We're like, excuse me, can you pass them onto row sticks? 342 00:17:41,960 --> 00:17:44,199 Speaker 2: You know what's bad? As your friends were there, but 343 00:17:44,240 --> 00:17:46,600 Speaker 2: we couldn't talk to them. We kicked them out. 344 00:17:47,080 --> 00:17:50,800 Speaker 1: We couldn't talk to Teddy's friends because we had important bist. 345 00:17:53,240 --> 00:17:56,480 Speaker 2: Sorry, guys, Brandy's here, Can you all leave? Can you 346 00:17:56,520 --> 00:17:56,960 Speaker 2: all leave? 347 00:17:58,040 --> 00:18:01,439 Speaker 1: Parties over? Thanks for coming to the Capri room for 348 00:18:01,600 --> 00:18:08,240 Speaker 1: Teddy's shower, which was supposed to be an ill pestia. 349 00:18:08,760 --> 00:18:11,119 Speaker 2: Half of my friends couldn't even come to like, we 350 00:18:11,280 --> 00:18:13,600 Speaker 2: love you, but we're not going to Booga to bubbo 351 00:18:13,680 --> 00:18:19,240 Speaker 2: at eight a Tuesday on camera to see you. This 352 00:18:19,480 --> 00:18:24,720 Speaker 2: is a night baby shower. Anyway we do at the Cariom. 353 00:18:25,320 --> 00:18:28,680 Speaker 1: Fucking I cannot lives that. 354 00:18:28,800 --> 00:18:31,359 Speaker 2: Katie tells Tamra that Jen called her the morning of 355 00:18:31,400 --> 00:18:35,520 Speaker 2: the tea party and was debating returning the dress. Jen 356 00:18:35,640 --> 00:18:38,040 Speaker 2: called Ryan and he said, I love I love the 357 00:18:38,080 --> 00:18:40,879 Speaker 2: attention to detail here. She could get multiple uses out 358 00:18:40,880 --> 00:18:45,400 Speaker 2: of it, sho cousins, brothers, sisters, graduation. 359 00:18:46,600 --> 00:18:48,560 Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, Like, I'll be honest with you, guys. 360 00:18:48,720 --> 00:18:51,399 Speaker 1: If I buy something and it's a hefty ticket, I'm like, 361 00:18:51,520 --> 00:18:54,000 Speaker 1: you know what, not only can I wear this on 362 00:18:54,040 --> 00:18:56,320 Speaker 1: the show, but I'm gonna wear it here and I'm 363 00:18:56,320 --> 00:18:57,880 Speaker 1: gonna wear it there and I'm gonna sell. 364 00:18:58,080 --> 00:19:00,480 Speaker 2: But you're lying to yourself because you're not going to 365 00:19:00,960 --> 00:19:06,080 Speaker 2: do damn it, I'm going to I think like, I'm like, oh, 366 00:19:06,280 --> 00:19:08,600 Speaker 2: you know what, I'm going to get multiple use you do. 367 00:19:09,119 --> 00:19:11,879 Speaker 2: I've seen you do it. Well. What ends up happening, 368 00:19:11,920 --> 00:19:14,480 Speaker 2: which does make me feel good is then I loan 369 00:19:14,560 --> 00:19:16,879 Speaker 2: it to somebody else and then it gives me like 370 00:19:16,960 --> 00:19:20,359 Speaker 2: a little bit of of course, relief from the guilt. 371 00:19:20,440 --> 00:19:23,440 Speaker 1: But you know, I think she can wear the dress again, 372 00:19:23,720 --> 00:19:26,359 Speaker 1: and you can wear it at the wedding and you 373 00:19:26,400 --> 00:19:28,320 Speaker 1: can wear it real life, and you know what, it's 374 00:19:28,400 --> 00:19:30,400 Speaker 1: cute on you wear the fucking dress and don't let 375 00:19:30,400 --> 00:19:31,760 Speaker 1: them tell you you can't wear it. 376 00:19:31,880 --> 00:19:35,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, but then Tarma is confused by what's going on 377 00:19:35,119 --> 00:19:37,919 Speaker 2: with Ryan. In the past, Jen and Ryan would go 378 00:19:37,920 --> 00:19:43,119 Speaker 2: on private planes to gamble, and now they're going to 379 00:19:43,320 --> 00:19:46,560 Speaker 2: Bahamas allegedly and then Vegas. And I don't know much 380 00:19:46,600 --> 00:19:50,200 Speaker 2: about gambling, you know, I don't gamble. Yeah, even though, 381 00:19:50,240 --> 00:19:54,200 Speaker 2: thank you Pachanga, I'll be staying there this weekend, I am. 382 00:19:54,280 --> 00:19:58,240 Speaker 2: I'm going to Slate's horse show. And yeah, they want 383 00:19:58,240 --> 00:20:00,960 Speaker 2: to learn to play black jet. You know, with my eleven, 384 00:20:01,040 --> 00:20:04,000 Speaker 2: you're so cheap. She won't lose twenty bucks. I know, 385 00:20:06,080 --> 00:20:07,320 Speaker 2: she just won't do it. 386 00:20:07,400 --> 00:20:09,640 Speaker 1: Guys, you know, like you know how you could set 387 00:20:09,640 --> 00:20:12,159 Speaker 1: aside a little gambling budget, like one hundred dollars. She 388 00:20:12,160 --> 00:20:12,639 Speaker 1: won't do it. 389 00:20:12,720 --> 00:20:16,399 Speaker 2: No, absolutely, The loss of control of my finances is 390 00:20:16,440 --> 00:20:17,000 Speaker 2: a big deal. 391 00:20:17,160 --> 00:20:19,480 Speaker 1: Over. I'm like, okay, well I'll carve out a little 392 00:20:19,560 --> 00:20:23,200 Speaker 1: something just to play have a good time this one. No, no, 393 00:20:23,200 --> 00:20:23,800 Speaker 1: no no. 394 00:20:24,240 --> 00:20:26,119 Speaker 2: Also, I don't like losing. And if I'm not going 395 00:20:26,160 --> 00:20:26,919 Speaker 2: to be good at. 396 00:20:26,800 --> 00:20:29,199 Speaker 1: Something, well, it's not that you always have to go 397 00:20:29,240 --> 00:20:32,199 Speaker 1: into gambling knowing that the house has the advantage. So 398 00:20:32,200 --> 00:20:33,960 Speaker 1: you're already if you if you say I have one 399 00:20:34,000 --> 00:20:36,919 Speaker 1: hundred dollars, you already have resigned yourself to say this 400 00:20:37,000 --> 00:20:39,320 Speaker 1: either turns into something or I had a nice time 401 00:20:39,760 --> 00:20:40,360 Speaker 1: and that's it. 402 00:20:40,640 --> 00:20:42,840 Speaker 2: Well I can do that if it's like sushi. 403 00:20:42,400 --> 00:20:45,920 Speaker 1: And right exactly and good right, listen, some people love 404 00:20:45,960 --> 00:20:46,439 Speaker 1: the chase. 405 00:20:46,640 --> 00:20:49,640 Speaker 2: You're not one of them. Ben, Gina says the whole 406 00:20:49,680 --> 00:20:51,400 Speaker 2: mammogram thing she doesn't get. 407 00:20:51,640 --> 00:20:54,000 Speaker 1: But hold on, how does she not get it? I 408 00:20:54,040 --> 00:20:56,080 Speaker 1: was going to say the exact same thing. You know, 409 00:20:56,359 --> 00:20:58,560 Speaker 1: Heather was the one that said, oh no, Gina brought uh, 410 00:20:58,560 --> 00:20:59,399 Speaker 1: I haven't had a mammogram. 411 00:20:59,520 --> 00:21:00,399 Speaker 2: Oh I'll go with you. 412 00:21:01,240 --> 00:21:03,719 Speaker 1: Do you not remember Heather saying, oh, I'll go with you. 413 00:21:03,960 --> 00:21:06,800 Speaker 1: I'll set it. She set it up and nobody and 414 00:21:06,880 --> 00:21:09,800 Speaker 1: actually she got the worst results, and nobody even comforted her. 415 00:21:09,840 --> 00:21:12,120 Speaker 1: No one even asked, no one even asked. They were all, 416 00:21:12,440 --> 00:21:15,480 Speaker 1: you know, well they got to ask everybody, like it's 417 00:21:16,000 --> 00:21:20,880 Speaker 1: that's just it's just human nature to check. 418 00:21:20,760 --> 00:21:23,320 Speaker 2: In to check in on somebody. If we both go 419 00:21:23,400 --> 00:21:26,160 Speaker 2: in to get a skin check, right, and you're not like, Teddy, 420 00:21:26,160 --> 00:21:27,560 Speaker 2: how did it go? And I tell you? And then 421 00:21:27,560 --> 00:21:30,760 Speaker 2: I'm like, anyways, yeah, right, And I know that, you know, 422 00:21:31,920 --> 00:21:34,919 Speaker 2: especially when you do these things together. But then Gina 423 00:21:34,960 --> 00:21:37,919 Speaker 2: brings up Heather's comment about Gina's house on Watch What 424 00:21:38,000 --> 00:21:41,399 Speaker 2: Happens Live and not defending her, and Heather says she 425 00:21:41,480 --> 00:21:43,359 Speaker 2: should have told her. This upset her. I feel like 426 00:21:43,400 --> 00:21:47,040 Speaker 2: more all of the story is Heather's richer than everybody. 427 00:21:48,119 --> 00:21:51,040 Speaker 1: Yes, Heather's wealthier than all of you. So just that's 428 00:21:51,080 --> 00:21:51,639 Speaker 1: the way it is. 429 00:21:51,920 --> 00:21:54,240 Speaker 2: And she's going to let you know from time to time. 430 00:21:55,160 --> 00:21:57,119 Speaker 2: So what, but you should still check in on how 431 00:21:57,119 --> 00:21:58,080 Speaker 2: her mammogram went. 432 00:21:58,359 --> 00:22:05,440 Speaker 1: Even if she's listen, wealthear wealthy look. Money doesn't take 433 00:22:05,480 --> 00:22:09,760 Speaker 1: that pain of uncertainty away. Money does not take away fear. 434 00:22:10,000 --> 00:22:13,040 Speaker 1: Money does not take away panic. Money. You know, there's 435 00:22:13,080 --> 00:22:15,960 Speaker 1: a lot of things that money does help, but it 436 00:22:16,000 --> 00:22:16,920 Speaker 1: doesn't solve everything. 437 00:22:17,000 --> 00:22:19,199 Speaker 2: It can't help medical. 438 00:22:18,880 --> 00:22:22,600 Speaker 1: No, it really can't. And anyway, No, you might get 439 00:22:22,720 --> 00:22:23,920 Speaker 1: better medical. 440 00:22:23,480 --> 00:22:28,000 Speaker 2: Treatmentment, but the fear that's surrounding is not a diagnosis 441 00:22:28,080 --> 00:22:31,280 Speaker 2: does not change. No, it does not. Then Jin confronts 442 00:22:31,320 --> 00:22:34,720 Speaker 2: Heather and asks her if her dress I can't even 443 00:22:34,760 --> 00:22:36,960 Speaker 2: just talking about again. Jen confronts Heather, and. 444 00:22:36,880 --> 00:22:39,479 Speaker 1: She's only getting six thousand. The dress was too I 445 00:22:39,560 --> 00:22:40,480 Speaker 1: was worried about you. 446 00:22:42,080 --> 00:22:45,000 Speaker 2: I was so I mean, Heather, at this point, just 447 00:22:45,040 --> 00:22:47,320 Speaker 2: say I was being a shady asshole. Just say you know, 448 00:22:47,400 --> 00:22:50,560 Speaker 2: I was wondering how you could afford it, yeah, or 449 00:22:50,800 --> 00:22:55,000 Speaker 2: just say like you know what I think until you 450 00:22:55,040 --> 00:22:57,440 Speaker 2: make more money, like I don't even I don't even 451 00:22:57,480 --> 00:22:58,600 Speaker 2: know what she should have said. 452 00:22:58,800 --> 00:23:01,119 Speaker 1: But saying that I was worried about you, yeah, is 453 00:23:01,160 --> 00:23:03,880 Speaker 1: not what it's I mean, it's cute, but it's not true. 454 00:23:04,000 --> 00:23:07,000 Speaker 2: You may need to curate like a better, more believable. 455 00:23:07,240 --> 00:23:12,000 Speaker 2: Like nobody ship talks because they're worried because they want to. 456 00:23:12,560 --> 00:23:13,840 Speaker 2: You should talk because we're. 457 00:23:13,880 --> 00:23:16,800 Speaker 1: You only got five grand that dresses too? What are 458 00:23:16,840 --> 00:23:18,160 Speaker 1: you going to do with the rest? 459 00:23:18,480 --> 00:23:22,000 Speaker 2: Are you eighty seven kids? And right? Are you sure 460 00:23:22,000 --> 00:23:22,760 Speaker 2: that's where you want to do? 461 00:23:22,880 --> 00:23:26,200 Speaker 1: I'm just asking, you know, I'm just checking in, Teddy. 462 00:23:26,400 --> 00:23:28,440 Speaker 2: Would you like Shannon to do your books? She's got 463 00:23:28,440 --> 00:23:29,640 Speaker 2: some Nope, spiral. 464 00:23:30,000 --> 00:23:35,439 Speaker 1: Very interesting way of accounting for very specific things. I 465 00:23:35,560 --> 00:23:36,880 Speaker 1: had a steak. 466 00:23:36,840 --> 00:23:42,320 Speaker 2: Jeout dollar dress can be worn again. 467 00:23:42,600 --> 00:23:45,120 Speaker 1: At the Caprie Room. 468 00:23:45,280 --> 00:23:47,080 Speaker 2: Jen, you want to meet us at the Capri Room. 469 00:23:47,400 --> 00:23:49,399 Speaker 2: You can wear the dress, then I'll change into it. 470 00:23:49,440 --> 00:23:50,280 Speaker 2: We'll both take pics. 471 00:23:50,640 --> 00:23:55,119 Speaker 1: Yes, sure, it looks probably cute on you too. You 472 00:23:55,119 --> 00:23:56,760 Speaker 1: know what, then you know what you can do? Honey, 473 00:23:56,840 --> 00:23:59,280 Speaker 1: put that dress on consignment. I'm sure there's somewhere out 474 00:23:59,320 --> 00:24:01,399 Speaker 1: there in oc make some money back on the dress. 475 00:24:01,480 --> 00:24:01,600 Speaker 3: Oh. 476 00:24:01,640 --> 00:24:04,320 Speaker 2: They've already gotten into a lot of conversations about selling 477 00:24:04,359 --> 00:24:07,080 Speaker 2: clothes out of the garage though, and buying fake clothes. 478 00:24:07,200 --> 00:24:10,520 Speaker 1: This is she She was accused of buying fake clothes. 479 00:24:10,640 --> 00:24:13,199 Speaker 1: I have a I have a story to tell. So 480 00:24:13,240 --> 00:24:15,600 Speaker 1: I'm friends with these designers. I'm not gonna say who 481 00:24:15,640 --> 00:24:18,359 Speaker 1: they are, but they're really cool and they're very wealthy, 482 00:24:19,160 --> 00:24:21,600 Speaker 1: and we like you know, have lunch whenever they're in 483 00:24:21,640 --> 00:24:23,800 Speaker 1: town from Europe. And you know what they said to me. 484 00:24:24,200 --> 00:24:26,600 Speaker 1: You know a lot of women wear fakes things on 485 00:24:26,680 --> 00:24:28,919 Speaker 1: these shows. And I was like really, and they're like, 486 00:24:28,960 --> 00:24:31,480 Speaker 1: you know, because we can tell. And I was like, well, 487 00:24:31,480 --> 00:24:34,399 Speaker 1: it's not me. You're like, it's not me, and they 488 00:24:34,400 --> 00:24:36,800 Speaker 1: were like no, no, no, but they can tell. Like 489 00:24:36,920 --> 00:24:38,960 Speaker 1: just say, you know, if you think you're pulling one off, 490 00:24:39,119 --> 00:24:39,439 Speaker 1: you're not. 491 00:24:39,840 --> 00:24:42,760 Speaker 2: You're not pulling one off. And also if it's gonna be. 492 00:24:42,800 --> 00:24:45,960 Speaker 1: Fake, like I am, okay, just say you got it 493 00:24:46,040 --> 00:24:47,760 Speaker 1: on dh gate and keep it pushing. 494 00:24:47,960 --> 00:24:50,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, I got it on dh Yes said I got 495 00:24:50,480 --> 00:24:54,080 Speaker 2: a dupe. I got dupe sunglasses from Amazon. Tap my 496 00:24:54,200 --> 00:24:56,639 Speaker 2: link on LTK and make me some money. Do you 497 00:24:56,680 --> 00:24:59,800 Speaker 2: have one on ltk? Oh? I do? Do you not? 498 00:25:00,200 --> 00:25:02,480 Speaker 1: You know what is going on with me? 499 00:25:02,760 --> 00:25:10,000 Speaker 2: Get yourself together? I'm sorry, gather yourself I shall god. 500 00:25:10,520 --> 00:25:13,200 Speaker 2: Shannon brings up the text from Alexis to Tamara. Shannon 501 00:25:13,240 --> 00:25:15,840 Speaker 2: tells Tamara she has a big ego, and Tama says 502 00:25:15,840 --> 00:25:17,879 Speaker 2: she's not the one with such a big ego that 503 00:25:17,960 --> 00:25:21,120 Speaker 2: she wouldn't pay seventy five thousand because she doesn't want 504 00:25:21,119 --> 00:25:24,280 Speaker 2: to look bad. Tamara raises her hand in Shannon's face 505 00:25:24,720 --> 00:25:27,080 Speaker 2: oh and says she is done. I know, not once, 506 00:25:27,119 --> 00:25:31,399 Speaker 2: but twice. I'm done. I'm done. I'm done. Yeah. 507 00:25:31,440 --> 00:25:34,640 Speaker 1: Too much, too much, too much, too much, too much 508 00:25:34,640 --> 00:25:39,320 Speaker 1: from Tamara. We love Tamar because she's spicy. And what 509 00:25:39,440 --> 00:25:42,320 Speaker 1: happens is when you go past the mark. Yeah, you 510 00:25:42,400 --> 00:25:44,199 Speaker 1: get when you go past the mark, you know you've 511 00:25:44,280 --> 00:25:46,800 Speaker 1: hit your mark. When you keep doing that, then it 512 00:25:46,840 --> 00:25:49,000 Speaker 1: turns from spicy and sassy to. 513 00:25:50,800 --> 00:25:54,280 Speaker 2: Because then it's hard because even though a lot of 514 00:25:54,280 --> 00:25:58,359 Speaker 2: what she might be saying could be accurate, it's lost 515 00:25:58,359 --> 00:25:59,080 Speaker 2: in the tone. 516 00:25:59,160 --> 00:26:03,280 Speaker 1: Well, now it comes about her in this case, Tamra, 517 00:26:03,480 --> 00:26:07,119 Speaker 1: instead of what she said, yeah, and that that's the problem. 518 00:26:07,520 --> 00:26:12,159 Speaker 2: But then this is all At this point, you're like, 519 00:26:12,720 --> 00:26:15,200 Speaker 2: this is why I hate when it's somebody's trip, because 520 00:26:15,240 --> 00:26:17,399 Speaker 2: now Shannon gets to keep saying this is my trip, 521 00:26:17,480 --> 00:26:22,239 Speaker 2: this is my birthday, and then everybody's going after everybody. 522 00:26:22,440 --> 00:26:23,680 Speaker 1: But it is fun for me to watch. 523 00:26:23,680 --> 00:26:26,719 Speaker 2: I'm But then they then all of the other ladies 524 00:26:26,720 --> 00:26:29,720 Speaker 2: that are in relationships thought it would be a good idea. 525 00:26:29,520 --> 00:26:32,160 Speaker 1: Well, I hold on before you say this, to call 526 00:26:32,200 --> 00:26:35,240 Speaker 1: their spouses. If we were on Beverly Hills. We wouldn't 527 00:26:35,240 --> 00:26:37,280 Speaker 1: have anybody to call. We're all single. 528 00:26:37,400 --> 00:26:39,800 Speaker 2: Who would you text me? Maybe? 529 00:26:40,160 --> 00:26:43,200 Speaker 1: I mean, I mean I have a you know I might. 530 00:26:43,880 --> 00:26:45,840 Speaker 2: I'm naked. I excuse me? 531 00:26:45,880 --> 00:26:46,080 Speaker 1: Like this? 532 00:26:46,200 --> 00:26:48,359 Speaker 2: Shut up? I join? 533 00:26:48,680 --> 00:27:11,160 Speaker 3: Do you draw only fans. 534 00:27:02,280 --> 00:27:05,919 Speaker 2: Anyways? They right? I am naked, Eddie says. All of 535 00:27:05,920 --> 00:27:09,439 Speaker 2: the husbands are significant other's responses. Eddie says in class, 536 00:27:09,480 --> 00:27:11,960 Speaker 2: if you'd like to use your imagination, I love him. 537 00:27:12,040 --> 00:27:12,560 Speaker 1: He's sweet. 538 00:27:12,840 --> 00:27:14,800 Speaker 2: And Bryan, this was so cute. Is this for me? 539 00:27:14,880 --> 00:27:16,040 Speaker 2: Or did you meet someone at the bar? 540 00:27:17,200 --> 00:27:21,119 Speaker 1: Laugh? That was very clever, Ryan, very cute. Katie's husband's 541 00:27:21,160 --> 00:27:22,960 Speaker 1: on the golf course, Tom, are you with me? 542 00:27:23,720 --> 00:27:26,080 Speaker 2: Are you going to respond? And I can't. I can't. 543 00:27:26,119 --> 00:27:28,320 Speaker 1: We can't have your phone on the golf course. Everybody 544 00:27:28,359 --> 00:27:29,879 Speaker 1: knows that you're not allowed to have your phone. You 545 00:27:29,920 --> 00:27:30,879 Speaker 1: get kicked out of the club. 546 00:27:31,240 --> 00:27:33,840 Speaker 2: So, but Katie, go ahead and let us know if 547 00:27:33,840 --> 00:27:35,760 Speaker 2: he ever responded, and what did he say? 548 00:27:36,280 --> 00:27:38,639 Speaker 1: This is also cute. Travis, give me fifteen seconds. I 549 00:27:38,680 --> 00:27:39,920 Speaker 1: will probably finish. 550 00:27:39,960 --> 00:27:43,200 Speaker 2: Just as quickly. I just want to expectation. 551 00:27:43,320 --> 00:27:44,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's really cute. 552 00:27:44,680 --> 00:27:47,160 Speaker 2: I like a funny response. Then Emily says, the game 553 00:27:47,280 --> 00:27:48,640 Speaker 2: was not made to make. 554 00:27:49,000 --> 00:27:51,160 Speaker 1: Come on, nobody was trying to make Shannon feel bad. 555 00:27:51,200 --> 00:27:53,639 Speaker 1: It is no big deal. I mean, come on, if 556 00:27:53,680 --> 00:27:56,320 Speaker 1: you're getting upset over that after all these other things. Really, 557 00:27:57,359 --> 00:28:00,560 Speaker 1: And then somebody said, text Archie the Dog. 558 00:28:01,040 --> 00:28:01,919 Speaker 2: But you know what, I want to. 559 00:28:01,920 --> 00:28:03,639 Speaker 1: Text Thiago because he was my best friend. 560 00:28:04,520 --> 00:28:06,360 Speaker 2: You're like, I want him to text back, right? 561 00:28:06,400 --> 00:28:08,600 Speaker 1: I do I give anything for Thiago to text back 562 00:28:08,680 --> 00:28:09,119 Speaker 1: right now? 563 00:28:09,280 --> 00:28:12,600 Speaker 2: Well, if I texted Edwin I was, he'd probably respond, 564 00:28:12,680 --> 00:28:13,679 Speaker 2: we'll put some clothes on. 565 00:28:13,840 --> 00:28:16,480 Speaker 1: Oh no, ed Way to drop the ball. 566 00:28:17,920 --> 00:28:20,359 Speaker 2: No, he would probably like it, but I probably would 567 00:28:20,400 --> 00:28:22,640 Speaker 2: decent news no, rat. 568 00:28:23,160 --> 00:28:25,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, why are you morally opposed? 569 00:28:25,240 --> 00:28:28,000 Speaker 2: No, I'm not morally opposed. I just like I feel 570 00:28:28,720 --> 00:28:31,000 Speaker 2: as though if it got out there, if I thought 571 00:28:31,040 --> 00:28:33,240 Speaker 2: that it was a quality nude that's what I was 572 00:28:33,280 --> 00:28:35,240 Speaker 2: going to say, then I maybe would do it. Like 573 00:28:35,240 --> 00:28:37,840 Speaker 2: I mean, I was nude on a billboard in New 574 00:28:37,920 --> 00:28:40,520 Speaker 2: York for the melanoma reason. It's not that I'm opposed 575 00:28:40,520 --> 00:28:41,120 Speaker 2: to being news. 576 00:28:41,160 --> 00:28:42,520 Speaker 1: You just want the right look. 577 00:28:42,880 --> 00:28:44,840 Speaker 2: Yeah, I just don't want to be thrown. I've seen 578 00:28:44,880 --> 00:28:47,480 Speaker 2: some really unfortunate raw. 579 00:28:47,600 --> 00:28:50,280 Speaker 1: Very sort of yeah, and I just don't want my 580 00:28:50,480 --> 00:28:51,440 Speaker 1: picture getting out there. 581 00:28:51,520 --> 00:28:52,239 Speaker 2: I agree with that. 582 00:28:52,320 --> 00:28:54,160 Speaker 1: I think if you're gonna do that, it needs to 583 00:28:54,200 --> 00:28:56,680 Speaker 1: be smooth and pretty and you feel good about it. 584 00:28:56,880 --> 00:29:00,760 Speaker 2: Then Shannon reads a text from tam Off to Jen 585 00:29:00,840 --> 00:29:04,360 Speaker 2: from twenty twenty two. Someone sent Tamra's stuff about Ryan, 586 00:29:04,440 --> 00:29:07,240 Speaker 2: and tamer said, I'm asking my friend's husband if he 587 00:29:07,280 --> 00:29:10,600 Speaker 2: can do a background check. She then texted evidence of 588 00:29:10,680 --> 00:29:14,280 Speaker 2: the background check. Jen says it's weird and obsessive, and 589 00:29:14,400 --> 00:29:16,960 Speaker 2: Jen says she uses their lives to make her life 590 00:29:17,000 --> 00:29:19,640 Speaker 2: relevant since it's boring. Jen would rather have a little 591 00:29:19,680 --> 00:29:21,600 Speaker 2: bank account, kids who love her, and a man who 592 00:29:21,640 --> 00:29:26,040 Speaker 2: supports her than Tarama's life. First question, this isn't in 593 00:29:26,160 --> 00:29:29,120 Speaker 2: defense of Tamra, but why is Shannon bringing something up 594 00:29:29,360 --> 00:29:30,480 Speaker 2: text from two years ago? 595 00:29:30,600 --> 00:29:33,320 Speaker 1: Well, it's clearer that Shannon and Tamor are at each 596 00:29:33,360 --> 00:29:37,720 Speaker 1: other's throats, it gets worse, and that's you know, this 597 00:29:37,760 --> 00:29:40,120 Speaker 1: is where the friendship starts to unravel. And also too, 598 00:29:40,160 --> 00:29:42,840 Speaker 1: when you've been on a show, you have a certain 599 00:29:42,880 --> 00:29:46,320 Speaker 1: amount of trust with your castmates or your friends, and 600 00:29:46,360 --> 00:29:49,800 Speaker 1: then you start to see that ship away, and that 601 00:29:49,960 --> 00:29:50,800 Speaker 1: is something that's. 602 00:29:50,560 --> 00:29:52,360 Speaker 2: Like, why are you doing this right? 603 00:29:52,440 --> 00:29:54,960 Speaker 1: I would really have to wonder, why is this happening? 604 00:29:55,200 --> 00:29:57,560 Speaker 2: I mean, I guess that's when you're at like complete 605 00:29:57,640 --> 00:30:00,720 Speaker 2: wits end. But I think, I mean, I was only 606 00:30:00,760 --> 00:30:03,720 Speaker 2: on three years, but I think I had a after 607 00:30:03,800 --> 00:30:06,600 Speaker 2: my first year, I had a pretty good gathering on 608 00:30:06,640 --> 00:30:10,480 Speaker 2: the people. I could tell who my secrets to sure 609 00:30:10,920 --> 00:30:11,680 Speaker 2: and who I. 610 00:30:11,840 --> 00:30:14,000 Speaker 1: Well, I'm sure it look as long as they've been 611 00:30:14,000 --> 00:30:18,560 Speaker 1: on Orange County together, they know a lot about each other, 612 00:30:18,920 --> 00:30:21,840 Speaker 1: Tamra and Shannon. That's why this fight going in is 613 00:30:21,960 --> 00:30:24,760 Speaker 1: really interesting to me, because you can I can't, and 614 00:30:24,800 --> 00:30:28,640 Speaker 1: I'm sure you can too, see all of the unsaid things. 615 00:30:29,280 --> 00:30:32,720 Speaker 1: I can feel them all because when you're watching these shows, 616 00:30:32,760 --> 00:30:36,080 Speaker 1: you guys can assume, but we know what's not being said. 617 00:30:36,200 --> 00:30:38,840 Speaker 2: Yeah, what's not being said? And people are often I mean, 618 00:30:38,880 --> 00:30:40,680 Speaker 2: I gotta be really honest. A friend of mine the 619 00:30:40,720 --> 00:30:47,840 Speaker 2: other day texted me that her boyfriend was texting somebody else, 620 00:30:48,120 --> 00:30:51,000 Speaker 2: and I said, she goes, I don't know who it is. 621 00:30:51,040 --> 00:30:53,680 Speaker 2: And I said, well, what's the phone number? Did you 622 00:30:53,800 --> 00:30:56,560 Speaker 2: offer your services? I did, and I found out the 623 00:30:56,600 --> 00:30:58,160 Speaker 2: answer in fifteen seconds. 624 00:30:58,520 --> 00:30:59,400 Speaker 1: Was it a bad answer? 625 00:30:59,480 --> 00:31:01,680 Speaker 2: I had to pay one dollar ninety nine cents for it, 626 00:31:01,720 --> 00:31:04,160 Speaker 2: but I found out who it was. So I don't 627 00:31:04,160 --> 00:31:05,920 Speaker 2: know if that means that I'm an asshole, but like, 628 00:31:05,960 --> 00:31:10,840 Speaker 2: I'm happy. So if Jen and Tamra were friends or 629 00:31:11,240 --> 00:31:13,960 Speaker 2: whatever it may be, you want to get somebody away 630 00:31:13,960 --> 00:31:16,880 Speaker 2: from a bad guy, I'm not opposed to it, spending 631 00:31:16,920 --> 00:31:20,240 Speaker 2: a dollar ninety nine to do a little check either way, 632 00:31:20,360 --> 00:31:23,000 Speaker 2: I think, you know what, we would be silly to 633 00:31:23,040 --> 00:31:26,680 Speaker 2: think that both Tamra and Shannon weren't both discussing. 634 00:31:26,880 --> 00:31:29,440 Speaker 1: They're both doing it. They're both discussing it, and we 635 00:31:29,520 --> 00:31:32,720 Speaker 1: all know it. The audience knows it, the girls know it, 636 00:31:33,160 --> 00:31:38,840 Speaker 1: they know it. It's it's what happens on these shows. Unfortunately. 637 00:31:39,120 --> 00:31:40,959 Speaker 1: I will say this. I want to say one thing 638 00:31:40,960 --> 00:31:43,120 Speaker 1: about that. It's to a level of degree as to 639 00:31:43,160 --> 00:31:45,440 Speaker 1: who you're dealing with and how much you need to know. 640 00:31:45,680 --> 00:31:47,640 Speaker 1: You think you need to know about someone. 641 00:31:47,520 --> 00:31:50,360 Speaker 2: Right, And most of the time, like on Beverly Hills 642 00:31:50,360 --> 00:31:53,640 Speaker 2: for example, that may be talked about, but then nobody 643 00:31:54,080 --> 00:31:58,000 Speaker 2: actually really carries it out. Yeah. See, they go a 644 00:31:58,040 --> 00:31:59,240 Speaker 2: little bit more ham and I. 645 00:31:59,520 --> 00:32:02,560 Speaker 1: Say that they do. It's a it's a tougher crowd 646 00:32:02,600 --> 00:32:03,680 Speaker 1: down in Orange County. 647 00:32:03,760 --> 00:32:09,120 Speaker 2: Yeah, and I think a lot of them have I 648 00:32:09,160 --> 00:32:12,360 Speaker 2: think in Beverly Hills there's a certain level of like, well, 649 00:32:12,360 --> 00:32:15,000 Speaker 2: I think professionalism you're trying to uphold. 650 00:32:15,080 --> 00:32:17,720 Speaker 1: Of course, you know why, because their consequences outside of it. 651 00:32:17,840 --> 00:32:21,400 Speaker 2: Yeah. But then yeah, these women don't play like that. Yeah. No, 652 00:32:21,400 --> 00:32:24,200 Speaker 2: they're like, fuck, this is it, this is our money maker. 653 00:32:24,240 --> 00:32:25,120 Speaker 2: We're going for it. 654 00:32:25,360 --> 00:32:28,240 Speaker 1: In Beverly Hills. You know, you're thinking about a lot 655 00:32:28,280 --> 00:32:29,440 Speaker 1: of different things at one time. 656 00:32:29,640 --> 00:32:34,000 Speaker 2: In Beverly Hills, we think twice before texting about background checks. 657 00:32:34,040 --> 00:32:39,480 Speaker 2: We speak in persons, right, pick up the phone. Then 658 00:32:39,680 --> 00:32:42,440 Speaker 2: Jen knocks on Tarmra's door and confronts her about doing 659 00:32:42,440 --> 00:32:45,960 Speaker 2: the background I love it, I love it. I love 660 00:32:46,000 --> 00:32:46,640 Speaker 2: to see Jen. 661 00:32:46,920 --> 00:32:49,440 Speaker 1: I love to see her like this, her abs, which 662 00:32:49,480 --> 00:32:51,440 Speaker 1: I was noticing before someone said anything. By the way, 663 00:32:51,480 --> 00:32:54,760 Speaker 1: your abs look great. You look adorable, and I was 664 00:32:54,800 --> 00:32:56,520 Speaker 1: so happy to see you stick up for yourself, Jen, 665 00:32:56,600 --> 00:32:56,920 Speaker 1: Good for you. 666 00:32:57,360 --> 00:33:05,400 Speaker 2: Yeah. And then Tamra says she clapsed because tam well, 667 00:33:05,560 --> 00:33:08,520 Speaker 2: I have a passive aggressive tid. It's very passive aggressive. 668 00:33:08,600 --> 00:33:12,120 Speaker 1: Tama was being very passive aggressive and very sort of like, okay, 669 00:33:12,240 --> 00:33:13,120 Speaker 1: here you go, kiddo. 670 00:33:13,640 --> 00:33:16,960 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's like the day four the trip you're over 671 00:33:17,040 --> 00:33:17,880 Speaker 2: it you're done. 672 00:33:18,360 --> 00:33:21,040 Speaker 1: I saw someone who's very experienced, was very experienced, and 673 00:33:21,080 --> 00:33:24,000 Speaker 1: I loved Heather. Wait, Heather's glam went from wet to 674 00:33:24,120 --> 00:33:26,200 Speaker 1: like almost completely blown dry. I don't know if you 675 00:33:26,280 --> 00:33:26,640 Speaker 1: noticed it. 676 00:33:26,680 --> 00:33:28,840 Speaker 2: I did because I was thinking, this fight has gone 677 00:33:28,840 --> 00:33:30,320 Speaker 2: on for a long time. 678 00:33:31,600 --> 00:33:35,200 Speaker 1: And but then Heather's Heather's head was wet, and then 679 00:33:35,240 --> 00:33:38,240 Speaker 1: Heather's blow dry was completely done and like. 680 00:33:38,680 --> 00:33:40,960 Speaker 2: And then I kept thinking, you know, Tamara is so 681 00:33:41,120 --> 00:33:44,280 Speaker 2: probably annoyed that they came in while her lips were 682 00:33:44,320 --> 00:33:46,600 Speaker 2: still the same color as her, like she was early, 683 00:33:46,800 --> 00:33:52,120 Speaker 2: and her makeup artists had to stop. It's really good. 684 00:33:52,240 --> 00:33:55,160 Speaker 2: I was like, this is but this is why Why 685 00:33:55,200 --> 00:33:57,520 Speaker 2: do people get so mad at a scene like this 686 00:33:57,560 --> 00:33:59,360 Speaker 2: when this is what we watched for. 687 00:33:59,800 --> 00:34:02,600 Speaker 1: This is what's really happening. If you want authenticity, this 688 00:34:02,680 --> 00:34:04,640 Speaker 1: is what's happening. Yes, I'm trying to get ready for 689 00:34:04,640 --> 00:34:07,040 Speaker 1: the rest of the day. Someone busts in my room 690 00:34:07,120 --> 00:34:09,479 Speaker 1: starts cussing me out, and I look and say, yeah, 691 00:34:09,560 --> 00:34:12,640 Speaker 1: and you know it is what it is. Then, by 692 00:34:12,640 --> 00:34:15,479 Speaker 1: the way, everybody had glam, So I'm so tired. Don't 693 00:34:15,520 --> 00:34:16,640 Speaker 1: talk to me about Glenn. 694 00:34:16,520 --> 00:34:18,880 Speaker 2: But I have to say, you're to blame for that. 695 00:34:19,160 --> 00:34:22,360 Speaker 2: Yeah whatever, you know what you were though, because before 696 00:34:22,600 --> 00:34:23,919 Speaker 2: you no one did it. 697 00:34:24,000 --> 00:34:27,479 Speaker 1: Yeah, but I that's fine. I take full credit for 698 00:34:27,680 --> 00:34:30,960 Speaker 1: raising the bar. I said what I said as a. 699 00:34:30,960 --> 00:34:31,399 Speaker 2: Matter of fact. 700 00:34:31,400 --> 00:34:32,399 Speaker 1: Any Cohen said it too. 701 00:34:33,239 --> 00:34:34,440 Speaker 2: I know, I know. 702 00:34:35,360 --> 00:34:38,080 Speaker 1: Mm hmmm, step your pussy up if you want to 703 00:34:38,120 --> 00:34:38,640 Speaker 1: fuck with me. 704 00:34:39,560 --> 00:34:42,000 Speaker 2: Well here's the problem. Now we all go broke buying 705 00:34:42,000 --> 00:34:44,400 Speaker 2: Buka to Beppo dresses, trying to level up with it. 706 00:34:44,480 --> 00:34:49,200 Speaker 1: But you don't have to buy full designer all the time. 707 00:34:49,360 --> 00:34:50,120 Speaker 1: Even I don't do that. 708 00:34:50,160 --> 00:34:53,520 Speaker 2: But I think here's the problem. Not everyone likes that. 709 00:34:53,719 --> 00:34:58,120 Speaker 2: Well no, not everyone has the ability to create looks 710 00:34:58,400 --> 00:35:00,720 Speaker 2: and I what I don't like is watch a housewife 711 00:35:01,120 --> 00:35:06,480 Speaker 2: like myself trying to create a persona that I don't 712 00:35:06,600 --> 00:35:09,800 Speaker 2: naturally have. That is something you thrive on. You love it. 713 00:35:09,760 --> 00:35:13,200 Speaker 1: It's artistic, like it was who I was before I 714 00:35:13,280 --> 00:35:16,440 Speaker 1: joined the show, right, but now every housewife is trying 715 00:35:16,480 --> 00:35:19,920 Speaker 1: to do it. Well, you know what I said. Well, 716 00:35:19,920 --> 00:35:22,279 Speaker 1: how I think of it is everybody needs to find 717 00:35:22,320 --> 00:35:25,560 Speaker 1: how they feel comfortable. If you feel comfortable that way, 718 00:35:25,640 --> 00:35:29,239 Speaker 1: and you you really are embracing whatever way you want 719 00:35:29,280 --> 00:35:31,919 Speaker 1: to express yourself, do that. This is how I choose 720 00:35:31,920 --> 00:35:32,120 Speaker 1: to do. 721 00:35:32,239 --> 00:35:36,319 Speaker 2: Yeah, but you did set the bar well not I 722 00:35:36,360 --> 00:35:40,319 Speaker 2: hate to give a compliment, but you did. But up yeah, 723 00:35:40,920 --> 00:35:44,320 Speaker 2: slip out. Sometimes Jen tells Heather that the only reason 724 00:35:44,360 --> 00:35:48,080 Speaker 2: Tarmor is friends with Heather is because she is in 725 00:35:48,239 --> 00:35:49,600 Speaker 2: front of her right now. 726 00:35:50,560 --> 00:35:54,439 Speaker 1: I'm sure that Tamra knows who Heather is and Heather 727 00:35:54,520 --> 00:35:57,240 Speaker 1: knows who Tamor is. So Gina is not actually giving 728 00:35:57,600 --> 00:35:59,799 Speaker 1: Pearls a wisdom here whatever. 729 00:36:00,239 --> 00:36:02,040 Speaker 2: See, that's not much I can Yeah, you're like, I know, 730 00:36:02,600 --> 00:36:06,359 Speaker 2: but we in this moment, I do think we have 731 00:36:06,440 --> 00:36:08,960 Speaker 2: to bring levity to the fact that we're talking about 732 00:36:09,040 --> 00:36:12,480 Speaker 2: two text messages, one that happened in twenty eighteen and 733 00:36:12,520 --> 00:36:15,160 Speaker 2: one that happened two years ago, and that's what these 734 00:36:15,200 --> 00:36:16,959 Speaker 2: women are having to go off of right now. 735 00:36:17,040 --> 00:36:19,640 Speaker 1: And it's but it's fascinating to me. I don't know. 736 00:36:19,680 --> 00:36:21,399 Speaker 1: I'm having a good time on this trip so far. 737 00:36:21,760 --> 00:36:23,640 Speaker 2: Something that I do want to say about the pod 738 00:36:23,760 --> 00:36:28,000 Speaker 2: regardless is yes, some of the women on all of 739 00:36:28,040 --> 00:36:32,440 Speaker 2: the different franchise franchises are my friends, so of course 740 00:36:32,520 --> 00:36:35,480 Speaker 2: I'm going to be biased. But that is why there's 741 00:36:35,560 --> 00:36:38,000 Speaker 2: another person on the pod with me to give their 742 00:36:38,040 --> 00:36:40,800 Speaker 2: opinions as well. Yes, and that's why you're watching, to 743 00:36:41,000 --> 00:36:42,200 Speaker 2: take your own opinions and. 744 00:36:42,160 --> 00:36:44,160 Speaker 1: Their own opinions right, and then you can come in 745 00:36:44,200 --> 00:36:45,520 Speaker 1: the comments and argue yeah. 746 00:36:45,640 --> 00:36:48,160 Speaker 2: And who doesn't have a friend that's going to have 747 00:36:48,200 --> 00:36:50,880 Speaker 2: their back in some capacity even when they are wrong. 748 00:36:50,719 --> 00:36:52,600 Speaker 1: Even when they are wrong. The thing is that I 749 00:36:52,640 --> 00:36:55,120 Speaker 1: think people just want to be like, hey, I didn't 750 00:36:55,160 --> 00:36:55,759 Speaker 1: agree with that. 751 00:36:55,920 --> 00:36:56,880 Speaker 2: And you know what we all do. 752 00:36:57,200 --> 00:36:59,879 Speaker 1: All of our friends make decisions that you're like. 753 00:37:00,040 --> 00:37:03,440 Speaker 2: Mhm, yeah, and you see it and you're like shit, 754 00:37:03,800 --> 00:37:07,000 Speaker 2: But they know it too. Sometimes they pretend they don't 755 00:37:07,000 --> 00:37:09,879 Speaker 2: know it, but everybody knows that. We see ourselves. 756 00:37:10,239 --> 00:37:13,880 Speaker 1: Well, we do. Definitely, you and I these worriers, I 757 00:37:13,920 --> 00:37:15,719 Speaker 1: don't know. I don't want to say everybody else is 758 00:37:15,760 --> 00:37:17,600 Speaker 1: self aware. I'm not going to give that through it. 759 00:37:17,800 --> 00:37:19,759 Speaker 2: Listen, let's not throw that out there. Let's not throw 760 00:37:19,800 --> 00:37:22,319 Speaker 2: that out there. Wait till you see us. Yeah. Well, 761 00:37:22,400 --> 00:37:24,640 Speaker 2: thank you guys for tuning in to another episode of 762 00:37:24,680 --> 00:37:28,279 Speaker 2: to Teas and a Pod with myself and Erica. I 763 00:37:28,400 --> 00:37:34,280 Speaker 2: enjoyed the trip. Thanks for listening. See us in London. Bye,