WEBVTT - This One’s for the Fans 0:00:05.480 --> 0:00:05.560 Hi. 0:00:05.559 --> 0:00:08.320 I am Kate Hudson and my name is Oliver Hudson. 0:00:08.480 --> 0:00:11.160 We wanted to do something that highlighted our. 0:00:11.080 --> 0:00:19.440 Relationship and what it's like to be siblings. We are 0:00:19.680 --> 0:00:21.000 a sibling raivalry. 0:00:21.720 --> 0:00:26.960 No, no, sibling. You don't do that with your mouth. 0:00:30.920 --> 0:00:31.960 Revelry. 0:00:33.640 --> 0:00:42.360 That's good. I'm excited. I really wanted to do more, 0:00:42.440 --> 0:00:44.840 more of us because I. 0:00:44.800 --> 0:00:48.200 Feel it's what they demand. I mean, we don't, it's 0:00:48.240 --> 0:00:49.160 just what they want. 0:00:51.920 --> 0:00:56.000 I feel like it's like sometimes when we're doing the interviews, 0:00:56.080 --> 0:00:58.240 there's like all these things I want to start talking about, 0:00:58.240 --> 0:01:01.000 and then we never get to. I know, sometimes I 0:01:01.000 --> 0:01:02.760 feel like we need intermittent ladies. 0:01:02.840 --> 0:01:04.360 I'm in New York City right now here in LA 0:01:04.560 --> 0:01:06.560 I'm doing whatever I'm doing here, but I'm in the 0:01:06.600 --> 0:01:10.360 iHeart studios as you can sort of fun. It's great. 0:01:10.680 --> 0:01:13.720 It's like it's like a game changer. I feel we 0:01:13.760 --> 0:01:16.479 need a studio. Yeah, it's just fun to sit here. 0:01:16.520 --> 0:01:19.720 There's a thing you feel important kind of you know, 0:01:20.720 --> 0:01:22.520 it's just it feels good. Everything. 0:01:22.640 --> 0:01:24.480 I like it. I like it. 0:01:24.520 --> 0:01:25.559 We got to figure this out. 0:01:26.080 --> 0:01:27.480 I know, we got to get our space. 0:01:27.800 --> 0:01:28.759 We got to get the space. 0:01:29.040 --> 0:01:31.880 We almost got our space, and then and then all 0:01:31.920 --> 0:01:36.120 the things happen. Yeah, and I hadn't signed it, and 0:01:36.240 --> 0:01:38.360 I don't know what to do now I think I 0:01:38.760 --> 0:01:41.280 don't know. I got to figure it all out. But 0:01:41.400 --> 0:01:46.280 that's for another episode of sibling revelry right now. 0:01:46.319 --> 0:01:48.600 This is this is different. This is going to be 0:01:48.640 --> 0:01:50.080 a very very different episode. 0:01:50.840 --> 0:01:54.720 Yeah, we're gonna these questions. I book, we're you know there. 0:01:54.720 --> 0:01:55.800 It's like sort of a Q and. 0:01:55.800 --> 0:01:58.640 A Yeah, this is good. 0:01:59.280 --> 0:02:04.520 Okay, Kate, what do you look up to about Oliver 0:02:04.640 --> 0:02:09.360 that he doesn't even know? Well, I'm I'm kind of 0:02:09.400 --> 0:02:13.040 a talkative person. We tell each other everything. 0:02:13.919 --> 0:02:17.120 You know. But but I mean, it's not that you 0:02:17.120 --> 0:02:21.120 don't know it. But you know your perseverance, your fearlessness, 0:02:21.160 --> 0:02:26.519 your fire, your your you know your inability, your your 0:02:26.560 --> 0:02:30.480 inability to sort of get put down. You fucking charge forward. 0:02:30.680 --> 0:02:32.560 You don't give a fuck about what people think about 0:02:33.160 --> 0:02:35.280 how they feel about you. That's what I admire. That's 0:02:35.280 --> 0:02:39.760 what I wish I had more of. Oh, so I told. 0:02:41.160 --> 0:02:43.040 I know, I know, but we're going to repeat it. 0:02:43.560 --> 0:02:53.760 I love Oliver. I love what you want to answer 0:02:53.760 --> 0:02:54.040 for me. 0:02:54.160 --> 0:02:57.720 I know what it is. I think. Okay, what uh 0:02:58.600 --> 0:02:59.880 my exceptional parents. 0:03:02.120 --> 0:03:05.880 I think you're a great parent, and I think, I mean, 0:03:05.919 --> 0:03:08.720 I have some notes, like. 0:03:08.880 --> 0:03:12.240 The way the way I the way I use my words, 0:03:12.639 --> 0:03:16.839 my articulation, my ability to sort of just be off 0:03:16.840 --> 0:03:18.799 the cuff always. I know you. 0:03:19.120 --> 0:03:21.640 Yeah, I love all that, and I look up to 0:03:21.680 --> 0:03:27.480 me for that. I love, and I think looking up 0:03:27.520 --> 0:03:29.520 to is different. 0:03:29.600 --> 0:03:31.520 I admired lately. 0:03:32.560 --> 0:03:35.839 I lately feel that one of the things I look 0:03:35.920 --> 0:03:39.400 up to with you is how you've been able to 0:03:39.480 --> 0:03:47.320 take on sort of a peace maker type of role 0:03:48.200 --> 0:03:54.520 in certain familial moments where you're able to be kind 0:03:54.520 --> 0:03:58.400 of a rock for people to talk to without commiserating. 0:03:58.520 --> 0:04:01.360 Yes, that's so interesting, she just new, Like I keep 0:04:01.400 --> 0:04:08.760 going because I just listen and absorb it, you know. 0:04:09.160 --> 0:04:12.640 Unless you're drunk, because they're having some drunk moments that 0:04:12.920 --> 0:04:19.839 I'm like, Oliver, shut up. But as a whole I 0:04:19.880 --> 0:04:24.560 love that you there's when you're you kind of listen 0:04:24.680 --> 0:04:31.799 without judgment and you do give great advice without feeling 0:04:31.920 --> 0:04:37.640 like it needs to be taken. Yeah, you know, and yeah, 0:04:37.800 --> 0:04:43.560 I get that peacemaker is a good for that. 0:04:44.360 --> 0:04:46.640 I love that here's a good one. Here's a good one. 0:04:46.680 --> 0:04:48.280 Because I'm going to be dealing with this soon and 0:04:48.600 --> 0:04:51.760 you have insight into it. So firstus, Kate, how do 0:04:51.839 --> 0:04:54.000 you cope with a kid going off to college? And 0:04:54.000 --> 0:04:55.680 then Oliver, do you feel ready for this? 0:04:56.480 --> 0:04:58.360 Oh? Are you going to start crying? 0:04:58.480 --> 0:05:01.120 Yes? Well I'll go first because thought about this. You know, 0:05:01.200 --> 0:05:04.880 he has his room, he's a year away from it, 0:05:05.880 --> 0:05:08.760 and you know we all are upstairs and pretty tight quarters, 0:05:08.760 --> 0:05:11.600 were all kind of near and near each other. And 0:05:12.920 --> 0:05:14.719 you know, first of all, dropping him off is going 0:05:14.800 --> 0:05:17.760 to be insane, or watching him drive off to college 0:05:17.800 --> 0:05:21.520 or whatever it is. But then the residual effect of 0:05:21.560 --> 0:05:25.679 it is just the room, walking past the room knowing 0:05:25.720 --> 0:05:28.800 that he's now not in there anymore. It's going to 0:05:28.920 --> 0:05:32.040 be really really bad. Like I'm trying not to cry 0:05:32.120 --> 0:05:37.800 right now, so I can't even I might demo here. 0:05:39.600 --> 0:05:43.640 May get your fishing tackle room, you know, like like, oh, 0:05:43.720 --> 0:05:44.719 you know this is what it is. 0:05:44.839 --> 0:05:48.760 Actually you're gonna come home for Thanksgiving break? Like what 0:05:48.800 --> 0:05:49.160 the fuck? 0:05:49.279 --> 0:05:49.479 Dad? 0:05:49.560 --> 0:05:54.160 I'm like, you're in the garage, buddy. Sorry, couldn't take it. 0:05:54.760 --> 0:05:55.359 I needed to. 0:05:55.720 --> 0:05:58.120 I needed to insert the other thing I love. 0:05:58.400 --> 0:06:01.800 Yes, and so this so it's not gonna be good. 0:06:01.839 --> 0:06:04.680 It's not gonna be good for me. I know, I'm 0:06:04.680 --> 0:06:07.240 gonna be excited for him, you know, but it's it's 0:06:07.279 --> 0:06:13.039 gonna be devastating, devastating. I feel like you were you 0:06:13.080 --> 0:06:14.280 were you were all right? 0:06:15.640 --> 0:06:18.440 I was, it was fine. Yeah, Like to me, I 0:06:18.560 --> 0:06:22.400 was like, I think also because he went to New York. Yes, uh, 0:06:22.600 --> 0:06:24.920 he's living in New York. I'm there all the time. 0:06:25.960 --> 0:06:29.080 It doesn't feel like he's in like, you know, the 0:06:29.120 --> 0:06:31.840 middle of Nutworth to take two or three planes in 0:06:31.880 --> 0:06:37.400 the car for five hours to get there. I feel like. 0:06:37.720 --> 0:06:41.080 And I also like, I don't know, I'm so I 0:06:41.120 --> 0:06:45.920 get so excited for my kids to live their life 0:06:47.240 --> 0:06:53.000 and and and have that experience. So for me with Ryder, 0:06:53.600 --> 0:06:55.200 I was like, this is gonna be so fun. 0:06:55.240 --> 0:06:58.839 Did you think you would be devastated and and and 0:06:58.880 --> 0:07:01.360 you were like, wow, I'm more excited for him than 0:07:01.400 --> 0:07:04.200 I am. Sad, And I didn't realize that that's how 0:07:04.200 --> 0:07:07.080 I would feel, because now I'm thinking, maybe that's going 0:07:07.120 --> 0:07:07.839 to happen to me. 0:07:08.960 --> 0:07:12.720 I think for me, Rider holds a very specific energy 0:07:12.720 --> 0:07:16.600 in the house that is humorous and full of energy, 0:07:17.480 --> 0:07:24.560 and he's incredibly intelligent and outspoken with his idea is 0:07:25.560 --> 0:07:29.520 point of view. And my thing was is I knew 0:07:29.560 --> 0:07:31.320 that once I dropped him off and once we went 0:07:31.360 --> 0:07:35.240 through that there would be mornings that I'd miss him there, 0:07:35.720 --> 0:07:37.880 and like that was the big thing for me. It 0:07:37.920 --> 0:07:42.440 was like I remember making my coffee and that was 0:07:42.480 --> 0:07:44.600 the one cry, a big cry I had. I was 0:07:44.640 --> 0:07:47.720 like making my coffee and like Bing came down and 0:07:48.560 --> 0:07:53.720 Ronnie and Danny and they were all like in like 0:07:53.800 --> 0:07:56.200 a really bad mood, and I was like, in this 0:07:56.280 --> 0:08:00.920 really like good mood, and I realized that Ryder has that. Yeah, 0:08:01.080 --> 0:08:04.400 I mean Ronnie does too, But it was like, where's 0:08:05.960 --> 0:08:11.160 where's the balance? I'm missing my my big guy, my boy, 0:08:11.240 --> 0:08:14.320 you can come down and like it's change this energy point. 0:08:14.400 --> 0:08:17.240 It's a great point. You don't realize how important each 0:08:17.320 --> 0:08:21.040 piece of energy is in your family until one is gone. Yeah, 0:08:21.080 --> 0:08:23.840 and how that can be disruptive, you know. And then 0:08:23.920 --> 0:08:26.240 you then you find the balance again. But you know, 0:08:26.760 --> 0:08:28.720 so used to it all being there. 0:08:28.840 --> 0:08:31.200 And it wasn't like it was just like a moment 0:08:31.360 --> 0:08:33.160 and then and then like you said, it's like it's 0:08:33.240 --> 0:08:35.240 just and then you realize when your kids go away, 0:08:35.240 --> 0:08:36.560 You're like, oh my god, they're going to go away 0:08:36.559 --> 0:08:39.480 and it's like crazy, and then you're like they're just 0:08:39.559 --> 0:08:42.760 they're all the time like you. They come home and 0:08:42.800 --> 0:08:46.040 then I mean even the other day, I was like, mom, 0:08:46.080 --> 0:08:48.240 I've got like, you know, two more semesters left. And 0:08:48.240 --> 0:08:51.080 then like you know, I think I'm gonna, you know, 0:08:51.160 --> 0:08:56.360 come back to l A. And and then he was 0:08:56.360 --> 0:08:57.840 talking about what he was gonna do for like his 0:08:57.920 --> 0:09:01.760 room and stuff, and I was like, are you planning 0:09:01.760 --> 0:09:08.079 on moving back into the house hold on? So that's 0:09:08.120 --> 0:09:10.560 gonna be a whole other thing, which is when he 0:09:10.640 --> 0:09:14.960 actually moves out of his childhood home, it doesn't come 0:09:15.000 --> 0:09:15.400 back there. 0:09:15.400 --> 0:09:17.880 And wait, how many more semesters he only has? Two? 0:09:18.840 --> 0:09:21.640 Well, yeah he's got he's a junior. Oh so I 0:09:22.640 --> 0:09:28.240 got two more? Yeah, ones, he finishes this semester. Crazy. 0:09:28.360 --> 0:09:32.200 So but I think you're going to be it's going 0:09:32.280 --> 0:09:35.679 to be easier than you think. I think Rio is 0:09:35.720 --> 0:09:36.760 going to be the big one. 0:09:37.720 --> 0:09:39.920 Oh god, well that's the last one too. 0:09:40.520 --> 0:09:46.880 Yeah, that's just going to be like, oh, I know, 0:09:47.040 --> 0:09:48.959 I almost have to have another kid just so that. 0:09:49.120 --> 0:09:53.280 No, I know, just so yeah, just. 0:09:53.320 --> 0:09:56.040 I'll be so old by that time i'll have a grandchild. 0:09:56.400 --> 0:09:58.960 I'll just be like listen. This is fine because now 0:09:58.960 --> 0:10:01.199 I'm a grandma, so I've just it's got all the grand. 0:10:01.760 --> 0:10:03.440 It's gonna be fun to be a grandparent. 0:10:04.200 --> 0:10:04.480 I know. 0:10:04.640 --> 0:10:09.319 I kind of weirdly can't wait to make what I can. 0:10:17.440 --> 0:10:20.080 Oliver often talks about not having a career like you. 0:10:20.200 --> 0:10:25.560 How do you feel about that? I mean, I think 0:10:25.600 --> 0:10:26.200 it's funny. 0:10:29.320 --> 0:10:31.720 I think feel nothing. 0:10:32.480 --> 0:10:34.280 I feel nothing about it. 0:10:36.080 --> 0:10:38.959 Well, yeah, I think, I mean it kind of goes. 0:10:39.080 --> 0:10:41.600 I feel like I'm fourteen, which is all of you 0:10:41.600 --> 0:10:43.840 have an amazing acting career. Why are you so hard 0:10:43.880 --> 0:10:44.880 on yourself? You know? 0:10:44.960 --> 0:10:48.160 I mean, I am, well, amazing is a very nice 0:10:48.480 --> 0:10:53.800 kind word. I want to whoever this fan is, which 0:10:53.960 --> 0:10:54.320 I don't have. 0:10:56.360 --> 0:11:02.640 Yeah, I just I'm not not really that hard on myself. 0:11:02.760 --> 0:11:05.760 It's a lot of self deprecation, you know. I mean, 0:11:06.000 --> 0:11:08.640 there's a lot of humor behind it. But I do 0:11:08.720 --> 0:11:10.760 have to remind myself how lucky I am, you know, 0:11:11.200 --> 0:11:14.280 and that I have had an amazing career and it's 0:11:14.360 --> 0:11:17.720 just starting. My fucking my production company is called slow 0:11:17.760 --> 0:11:21.160 Burn because that's what I am. So when I'm eighty seven, 0:11:22.200 --> 0:11:22.720 you guys, just. 0:11:22.760 --> 0:11:25.520 Wait, You're gonna it's gonna be your biggest year. 0:11:25.640 --> 0:11:27.240 Oh, I'll be remaking Cocoon. 0:11:28.440 --> 0:11:30.840 I think it's part of just your sense of humor really, 0:11:30.960 --> 0:11:35.440 like yes, you know and and and like you know 0:11:35.480 --> 0:11:38.400 your your comedy. It's sort of yeah, yeah, it's like 0:11:38.480 --> 0:11:41.160 I loved when Tony Robbins said, like you really love 0:11:41.200 --> 0:11:43.960 to hold onto that trophy. Oh, I know it was 0:11:44.000 --> 0:11:47.400 my favorite because it was so it's so you want 0:11:47.400 --> 0:11:48.679 to Robin saying it is. 0:11:48.640 --> 0:11:51.520 Like yeah, but I wonder if it hurts my progress 0:11:51.640 --> 0:11:54.920 even though I'm having fun, because absolutely probably because you 0:11:55.040 --> 0:11:57.640 just keep ingraining that into your brain, even though. 0:11:57.720 --> 0:12:01.640 You tell yourself. What you tell yourself is what ends 0:12:01.720 --> 0:12:07.439 up being the the what how you like motivate, how 0:12:07.440 --> 0:12:11.959 it moves I think, I mean, I. 0:12:10.559 --> 0:12:13.080 I'll probably never stop though, because it's always gets a 0:12:13.120 --> 0:12:13.880 good chuckle. 0:12:15.920 --> 0:12:21.840 I think I think too, that you should like redo 0:12:21.880 --> 0:12:24.760 the artists way, because I feel like you've had this 0:12:24.800 --> 0:12:27.480 great career and you act and all that stuff. But 0:12:27.480 --> 0:12:31.240 but really again, I'm just I know our our fans 0:12:31.360 --> 0:12:35.000 and our listeners have heard me say this a million times, 0:12:35.040 --> 0:12:37.800 but like you're not doing the thing you're supposed to 0:12:37.880 --> 0:12:43.199 be doing, which is writing, creating and directing. 0:12:43.320 --> 0:12:46.960 But you need to write, you know what I need 0:12:47.000 --> 0:12:47.280 for that. 0:12:47.720 --> 0:12:51.160 Because you're such a good writer. So it's like it's 0:12:51.160 --> 0:12:55.360 like it's like having like your big you're the person 0:12:55.400 --> 0:13:00.200 who knows this so well, that is your sibling who's like, oh, 0:13:00.400 --> 0:13:01.840 you're just you gotta write. 0:13:01.920 --> 0:13:06.240 I've talked to Zoe Winkler about finding some a doctor 0:13:06.400 --> 0:13:10.480 who does adult ADHD diagnoses, because I want to know 0:13:10.720 --> 0:13:14.840 because I guarantee I I want to do it because 0:13:14.880 --> 0:13:17.400 I know that I must have it in somewhere one 0:13:17.400 --> 0:13:20.880 way or another. I can just feel it once I 0:13:20.920 --> 0:13:24.520 can be diagnosed. There some fucking vivants or whatever's going 0:13:24.559 --> 0:13:26.240 to be right for my body. I think I might 0:13:26.240 --> 0:13:29.360 be after the races because there's so much that holds 0:13:29.400 --> 0:13:36.319 me back, that feels count So what vivances helps with that? 0:13:37.040 --> 0:13:40.120 Everyone here because everyone takes Viavance. All the producers are 0:13:40.120 --> 0:13:43.679 sitting right in front of me and they're like, ohance, 0:13:43.960 --> 0:13:48.280 Like everyone takes vivance. Aaron has vi avance. Aaron takes 0:13:48.320 --> 0:13:49.959 vi Avance at like six am when she wants to 0:13:49.960 --> 0:13:53.280 get shit done, and it's unbelievable. She's like a different 0:13:53.320 --> 0:13:53.800 human being. 0:13:54.880 --> 0:13:55.640 Is it speed? 0:13:56.120 --> 0:13:57.520 No? 0:13:57.520 --> 0:13:57.600 No? 0:13:57.960 --> 0:14:01.559 So adderall is more speedy This is more slower release. 0:14:01.880 --> 0:14:04.880 You know, it's for ADHD and and other things, but 0:14:05.400 --> 0:14:09.280 it's much cleaner. You know, I took one once and 0:14:09.480 --> 0:14:13.280 it didn't vibe with my body, my chemistry will This 0:14:13.440 --> 0:14:16.240 was years ago, but I want to figure out my 0:14:16.320 --> 0:14:20.400 ADHD because I think if I do, you know, I can, 0:14:20.480 --> 0:14:23.680 I'll take off right. It's not it's not it's not 0:14:23.880 --> 0:14:26.280 lack of talent that's stopping me. It's not the lack 0:14:26.320 --> 0:14:30.320 of belief. It's honestly just this physical or this brick 0:14:30.400 --> 0:14:32.680 wall that I hit, like I can't do it anymore. 0:14:32.840 --> 0:14:33.160 Move on. 0:14:38.440 --> 0:14:41.160 The rider sent me I think it's I wonder if 0:14:41.160 --> 0:14:43.920 it's a genetic thing, you know. A wrider sent me 0:14:44.000 --> 0:14:48.120 this really hilarious. There's this I of course it's in 0:14:48.160 --> 0:14:49.800 my algorithm, the ADHD. 0:14:50.280 --> 0:14:50.920 It's insane. 0:14:51.000 --> 0:14:57.080 It's it's so funny. There's this meme of this person walking. 0:14:56.720 --> 0:14:59.360 In with all these like kind of like like this 0:14:59.640 --> 0:15:06.360 like like costume on and it's almost like something our 0:15:06.400 --> 0:15:07.720 brother would have done when he was a kid. 0:15:07.840 --> 0:15:11.040 It's like something from Thailand, like a Thaie prince or something, 0:15:11.080 --> 0:15:15.000 and it's just totally ornate. And the meme is like me, 0:15:15.160 --> 0:15:17.400 when I do closet clean out like an eighty h 0:15:17.480 --> 0:15:19.760 deer when they do classic clean out. 0:15:20.280 --> 0:15:25.880 And it's it's me like I can't focus, Like I 0:15:25.880 --> 0:15:29.080 I will and then it's all the same stuff like 0:15:29.520 --> 0:15:31.640 I will be like, you know what I'm going to 0:15:32.560 --> 0:15:36.400 I am going to do jewelry and I will get 0:15:36.440 --> 0:15:40.320 like I will buy the melter, I will get the 0:15:40.920 --> 0:15:43.119 I will get the things and every. 0:15:42.960 --> 0:15:51.560 Like like I haven't opened my little jewelry setup. I 0:15:51.800 --> 0:15:54.920 was like, it's I can't and then I and then 0:15:54.920 --> 0:15:56.520 I'll get back into it and I'm like I'm going 0:15:56.560 --> 0:15:58.640 to do it, and then it's all over my office 0:15:58.840 --> 0:16:00.680 and then I leave it and then I'm done with 0:16:00.720 --> 0:16:01.479 a tag. 0:16:01.320 --> 0:16:04.120 On it from two thousand and five because I was like, 0:16:04.160 --> 0:16:07.640 I'm going to become a spear fisherman. I have I 0:16:07.720 --> 0:16:13.760 have like I have barbecue sauces and fucking things because 0:16:13.800 --> 0:16:15.920 like I was going to be a pitmaster. At one point, 0:16:16.280 --> 0:16:18.200 I was going to can. I was going to can 0:16:18.320 --> 0:16:19.280 and sell it on Etsy. 0:16:19.720 --> 0:16:24.720 Yeah, no, I know, actually cannon could be a fun I. 0:16:24.960 --> 0:16:27.200 Can because I have a ton of yellow fintuna that 0:16:27.280 --> 0:16:29.040 I need to like can. 0:16:29.160 --> 0:16:31.520 Oh that I'll do that with you. I have all 0:16:31.560 --> 0:16:31.960 the stuff. 0:16:32.040 --> 0:16:33.960 Well I asked for that for Christmas, and You're like, 0:16:34.000 --> 0:16:36.200 I already have one, and I'm like, Kate, I don't, 0:16:36.280 --> 0:16:39.520 but I'm glad you have one. I don't because I 0:16:39.560 --> 0:16:42.840 wanted to get a you know, one of those canning things. 0:16:42.920 --> 0:16:45.600 Oh it's so funny, but that is sort of like 0:16:46.440 --> 0:16:49.360 and it's Oliver and I for everyone that we we 0:16:49.480 --> 0:16:52.000 laugh because we go we love books and we go 0:16:52.040 --> 0:16:55.760 into bookstars and literally like all I want to do 0:16:55.840 --> 0:16:57.920 is buy a new book and read it like in 0:16:58.000 --> 0:17:02.160 like a week and it just sits. Yeah, it takes 0:17:02.280 --> 0:17:04.520 it sometimes takes me a year to read a book, 0:17:06.160 --> 0:17:08.320 which I've changed. But and so here's what I was 0:17:08.320 --> 0:17:11.680 going to say. Okay, before you go take you know 0:17:11.920 --> 0:17:16.080 the speedy outerall or the slow burn vibe, that vivacious 0:17:16.320 --> 0:17:30.320 whatever it's called. Five anti, I did this thing where 0:17:30.400 --> 0:17:34.959 I started to just structure my day differently, and and 0:17:35.000 --> 0:17:38.320 I added the things that I just really wanted to accomplish. 0:17:38.400 --> 0:17:43.320 So for instance, when I wake up, when I wake up, 0:17:43.720 --> 0:17:46.080 I read for twenty minutes. 0:17:46.280 --> 0:17:47.640 Wow, right when I wake up. 0:17:48.160 --> 0:17:50.560 Right, when I wake up, I wake up early, I 0:17:50.640 --> 0:17:53.920 kind of spin. I don't go on my phone. I 0:17:53.960 --> 0:17:56.439 set I do this thing on insight timer where I 0:17:56.480 --> 0:18:00.760 play like beautiful like flute music and I read for 0:18:00.880 --> 0:18:05.680 twenty minutes. I've set my timer in bed, I set 0:18:05.720 --> 0:18:08.879 my timer and I read either like it depends what 0:18:08.920 --> 0:18:11.440 I'm feeling. If I'm really into like a book i'm reading, 0:18:11.480 --> 0:18:13.520 I'll just read that book. But I usually like to 0:18:13.560 --> 0:18:17.520 read something kind of like more motivating, like a self 0:18:17.520 --> 0:18:20.720 help type of book or something in the morning, and 0:18:20.760 --> 0:18:23.159 then I'll do the same thing in the afternoon. I 0:18:23.280 --> 0:18:26.200 set my thing before I go to bed, and I'll 0:18:26.200 --> 0:18:29.760 do twenty minutes of my book fiction book that I'm 0:18:29.760 --> 0:18:30.960 reading before I. 0:18:30.920 --> 0:18:31.360 Go to bed. 0:18:32.080 --> 0:18:35.560 And I've been reading so much more. 0:18:35.640 --> 0:18:38.399 Can you go over the twenty if you're into it? Yeah? 0:18:38.480 --> 0:18:41.480 Right, yeah, yeah, if I'm into it, I'll keep going. Yes, 0:18:41.640 --> 0:18:45.280 But I make myself almost as like a meditation, do 0:18:45.440 --> 0:18:47.000 the twenty minutes of reading a day. 0:18:47.240 --> 0:18:47.639 Yes, And. 0:18:49.400 --> 0:18:53.439 That it's also like you don't realize it when you 0:18:53.480 --> 0:18:57.920 do it. I really truly believe that it sharpens your brain. 0:18:58.400 --> 0:19:02.080 Like it makes me feel like my vocabulary is better, 0:19:02.359 --> 0:19:06.520 my thoughts come together better, I finish my sentences more clearly. 0:19:06.640 --> 0:19:10.240 Yeah. One, I completely agree, And it just it just 0:19:11.280 --> 0:19:14.159 you know, awakens your imagination, which we don't get to 0:19:14.240 --> 0:19:17.560 do very much when we daydream. Yeah, but that book, 0:19:18.160 --> 0:19:22.399 you know, brings pictures to life in everything sort of 0:19:22.840 --> 0:19:25.480 starts to percolate and all of a sudden, I'm in Venice, 0:19:25.480 --> 0:19:27.480 Italy and this is happening. Oh my god. 0:19:27.640 --> 0:19:31.639 Right now I'm endorsed at England and in the twenties 0:19:31.800 --> 0:19:34.560 and it's the best. Oh yeah, I'm reading this book 0:19:34.640 --> 0:19:35.840 right now. I've read so much. 0:19:35.880 --> 0:19:39.520 I'm listening to Jerry Weintraub's book, which is amazing. 0:19:39.560 --> 0:19:39.879 Really. 0:19:40.119 --> 0:19:43.679 Yeah, it's just because he narrates it, so it's his voice, 0:19:43.680 --> 0:19:46.880 it's just his life, his career. It's it's incredible. He's 0:19:46.960 --> 0:19:51.440 incredible life. But I don't mind the audio stuff. But 0:19:51.600 --> 0:19:54.720 for certain things, I like paper. I like to read 0:19:54.760 --> 0:19:55.199 a book. 0:19:55.440 --> 0:19:58.159 Yeah, you know, well, and then you realize that, like 0:19:58.760 --> 0:20:02.439 this is just the dev yes, and so like you 0:20:02.640 --> 0:20:04.760 have to shut it off and you only use the 0:20:04.800 --> 0:20:07.040 things that's the tool. I say this, I mean my 0:20:07.080 --> 0:20:10.280 phone and and like I always use this thing called 0:20:10.440 --> 0:20:13.199 Speechify to read. Bastard. That's the other thing I've been 0:20:13.200 --> 0:20:14.040 telling you to read. 0:20:14.440 --> 0:20:17.920 I know, I got it, I have it, and you should. 0:20:17.600 --> 0:20:20.440 Do it because it for for for those of us 0:20:20.440 --> 0:20:26.720 who need to help with focus, it's so awesome, Like 0:20:27.320 --> 0:20:29.320 you can you can even do it through your Kindle 0:20:29.359 --> 0:20:30.960 now on it so you can have your book on 0:20:31.000 --> 0:20:33.000 your Kindle and you can go to Speechify and it 0:20:33.960 --> 0:20:37.720 it highlights and helps you read and so you can 0:20:37.760 --> 0:20:41.119 do it audio and do it visually and downloaded. 0:20:41.119 --> 0:20:45.960 I I just haven't used it, so like you know, no, 0:20:46.080 --> 0:20:48.720 I know it's Scheduling for me is huge. Like I 0:20:48.760 --> 0:20:50.800 when I'm when I'm in my schedule mode and I've 0:20:50.800 --> 0:20:53.560 got my calendar and you just feel so accomplished. You 0:20:53.560 --> 0:20:56.879 finish the day, You're like, yeah, did it. 0:20:59.640 --> 0:21:01.040 The next day you're just like. 0:21:01.119 --> 0:21:05.680 Right, got it. I went too far with scheduling where 0:21:05.720 --> 0:21:08.440 I'm looking at my calendar and it's like ten fifteen 0:21:08.520 --> 0:21:10.800 to like ten eighteen, like brush your teeth and then 0:21:10.880 --> 0:21:13.959 like ten twenty three, like if you're feeling a bowel movement, 0:21:14.119 --> 0:21:17.879 don't be afraid of it. You know, it was like 0:21:18.560 --> 0:21:20.479 it was two scheduled where I'm like, wait, what am 0:21:20.480 --> 0:21:23.280 I doing? You know, so, but I do need to 0:21:23.320 --> 0:21:24.879 do that. I do need to do that. 0:21:25.040 --> 0:21:26.760 But I think that if you do that with writing, 0:21:26.960 --> 0:21:29.040 if you do, like if you wake up in the 0:21:29.080 --> 0:21:31.879 morning and you write or for you you make it 0:21:31.960 --> 0:21:34.560 kind of like an hour out of your day. You're 0:21:34.640 --> 0:21:37.920 just like, yeah, you know, they also have this thing 0:21:38.000 --> 0:21:41.159 needed this research on twenty five minutes and five minutes. 0:21:41.440 --> 0:21:43.920 Have you seen heard that like this one too? So 0:21:44.000 --> 0:21:49.320 twenty five minutes in focused energy on one thing. Set 0:21:49.359 --> 0:21:53.800 your timer and then get up, walk around for five minutes, 0:21:53.920 --> 0:21:56.600 don't think about it, don't do anything else, smart, go 0:21:56.720 --> 0:22:00.320 make a coffee, don't get on your phone, just do 0:22:00.440 --> 0:22:04.320 other things for five minutes, and then when that timer 0:22:04.359 --> 0:22:06.359 goes up, you can go back to focusing in on 0:22:06.400 --> 0:22:07.959 the thing that you're doing. So if you do that 0:22:08.000 --> 0:22:12.800 for like an hour, you know, you do four sets 0:22:12.800 --> 0:22:14.919 of that. You're like, I'm gonna do an hour writing. 0:22:15.119 --> 0:22:16.840 Set your twenty five minute clocks. 0:22:17.800 --> 0:22:18.320 That's good. 0:22:19.040 --> 0:22:20.120 Yeah, that I found. 0:22:19.960 --> 0:22:32.520 Really, Yeah, that's good. I'm gonna try these. What do 0:22:32.560 --> 0:22:34.560 you do when your kids ask for something you can 0:22:34.640 --> 0:22:39.920 afford but don't think it's appropriate appropriate? What does that mean? 0:22:40.000 --> 0:22:44.199 Meaning like a range rover? Oh my god, I just 0:22:44.200 --> 0:22:49.880 say fucking crazy, get a job. Yeah, but honestly answer 0:22:49.920 --> 0:22:52.879