Speaker 1: Hi.
Speaker 2: I am Kate Hudson and my name is Oliver Hudson.
Speaker 3: We wanted to do something that highlighted our.
Speaker 2: Relationship and what it's like to be siblings. We are
Speaker 2: a sibling raivalry.
Speaker 3: No, no, sibling. You don't do that with your mouth.
Speaker 2: Revelry.
Speaker 3: That's good. I'm excited. I really wanted to do more,
Speaker 3: more of us because I.
Speaker 2: Feel it's what they demand. I mean, we don't, it's
Speaker 2: just what they want.
Speaker 3: I feel like it's like sometimes when we're doing the interviews,
Speaker 3: there's like all these things I want to start talking about,
Speaker 3: and then we never get to. I know, sometimes I
Speaker 3: feel like we need intermittent ladies.
Speaker 2: I'm in New York City right now here in LA
Speaker 2: I'm doing whatever I'm doing here, but I'm in the
Speaker 2: iHeart studios as you can sort of fun. It's great.
Speaker 2: It's like it's like a game changer. I feel we
Speaker 2: need a studio. Yeah, it's just fun to sit here.
Speaker 2: There's a thing you feel important kind of you know,
Speaker 2: it's just it feels good. Everything.
Speaker 3: I like it. I like it.
Speaker 2: We got to figure this out.
Speaker 3: I know, we got to get our space.
Speaker 2: We got to get the space.
Speaker 3: We almost got our space, and then and then all
Speaker 3: the things happen. Yeah, and I hadn't signed it, and
Speaker 3: I don't know what to do now I think I
Speaker 3: don't know. I got to figure it all out. But
Speaker 3: that's for another episode of sibling revelry right now.
Speaker 2: This is this is different. This is going to be
Speaker 2: a very very different episode.
Speaker 3: Yeah, we're gonna these questions. I book, we're you know there.
Speaker 3: It's like sort of a Q and.
Speaker 2: A Yeah, this is good.
Speaker 3: Okay, Kate, what do you look up to about Oliver
Speaker 3: that he doesn't even know? Well, I'm I'm kind of
Speaker 3: a talkative person. We tell each other everything.
Speaker 2: You know. But but I mean, it's not that you
Speaker 2: don't know it. But you know your perseverance, your fearlessness,
Speaker 2: your fire, your your you know your inability, your your
Speaker 2: inability to sort of get put down. You fucking charge forward.
Speaker 2: You don't give a fuck about what people think about
Speaker 2: how they feel about you. That's what I admire. That's
Speaker 2: what I wish I had more of. Oh, so I told.
Speaker 3: I know, I know, but we're going to repeat it.
Speaker 3: I love Oliver. I love what you want to answer
Speaker 3: for me.
Speaker 2: I know what it is. I think. Okay, what uh
Speaker 2: my exceptional parents.
Speaker 3: I think you're a great parent, and I think, I mean,
Speaker 3: I have some notes, like.
Speaker 2: The way the way I the way I use my words,
Speaker 2: my articulation, my ability to sort of just be off
Speaker 2: the cuff always. I know you.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I love all that, and I look up to
Speaker 3: me for that. I love, and I think looking up
Speaker 3: to is different.
Speaker 2: I admired lately.
Speaker 3: I lately feel that one of the things I look
Speaker 3: up to with you is how you've been able to
Speaker 3: take on sort of a peace maker type of role
Speaker 3: in certain familial moments where you're able to be kind
Speaker 3: of a rock for people to talk to without commiserating.
Speaker 2: Yes, that's so interesting, she just new, Like I keep
Speaker 2: going because I just listen and absorb it, you know.
Speaker 3: Unless you're drunk, because they're having some drunk moments that
Speaker 3: I'm like, Oliver, shut up. But as a whole I
Speaker 3: love that you there's when you're you kind of listen
Speaker 3: without judgment and you do give great advice without feeling
Speaker 3: like it needs to be taken. Yeah, you know, and yeah,
Speaker 3: I get that peacemaker is a good for that.
Speaker 2: I love that here's a good one. Here's a good one.
Speaker 2: Because I'm going to be dealing with this soon and
Speaker 2: you have insight into it. So firstus, Kate, how do
Speaker 2: you cope with a kid going off to college? And
Speaker 2: then Oliver, do you feel ready for this?
Speaker 3: Oh? Are you going to start crying?
Speaker 2: Yes? Well I'll go first because thought about this. You know,
Speaker 2: he has his room, he's a year away from it,
Speaker 2: and you know we all are upstairs and pretty tight quarters,
Speaker 2: were all kind of near and near each other. And
Speaker 2: you know, first of all, dropping him off is going
Speaker 2: to be insane, or watching him drive off to college
Speaker 2: or whatever it is. But then the residual effect of
Speaker 2: it is just the room, walking past the room knowing
Speaker 2: that he's now not in there anymore. It's going to
Speaker 2: be really really bad. Like I'm trying not to cry
Speaker 2: right now, so I can't even I might demo here.
Speaker 3: May get your fishing tackle room, you know, like like, oh,
Speaker 3: you know this is what it is.
Speaker 2: Actually you're gonna come home for Thanksgiving break? Like what
Speaker 2: the fuck?
Speaker 1: Dad?
Speaker 2: I'm like, you're in the garage, buddy. Sorry, couldn't take it.
Speaker 2: I needed to.
Speaker 3: I needed to insert the other thing I love.
Speaker 2: Yes, and so this so it's not gonna be good.
Speaker 2: It's not gonna be good for me. I know, I'm
Speaker 2: gonna be excited for him, you know, but it's it's
Speaker 2: gonna be devastating, devastating. I feel like you were you
Speaker 2: were you were all right?
Speaker 3: I was, it was fine. Yeah, Like to me, I
Speaker 3: was like, I think also because he went to New York. Yes, uh,
Speaker 3: he's living in New York. I'm there all the time.
Speaker 3: It doesn't feel like he's in like, you know, the
Speaker 3: middle of Nutworth to take two or three planes in
Speaker 3: the car for five hours to get there. I feel like.
Speaker 3: And I also like, I don't know, I'm so I
Speaker 3: get so excited for my kids to live their life
Speaker 3: and and and have that experience. So for me with Ryder,
Speaker 3: I was like, this is gonna be so fun.
Speaker 2: Did you think you would be devastated and and and
Speaker 2: you were like, wow, I'm more excited for him than
Speaker 2: I am. Sad, And I didn't realize that that's how
Speaker 2: I would feel, because now I'm thinking, maybe that's going
Speaker 2: to happen to me.
Speaker 3: I think for me, Rider holds a very specific energy
Speaker 3: in the house that is humorous and full of energy,
Speaker 3: and he's incredibly intelligent and outspoken with his idea is
Speaker 3: point of view. And my thing was is I knew
Speaker 3: that once I dropped him off and once we went
Speaker 3: through that there would be mornings that I'd miss him there,
Speaker 3: and like that was the big thing for me. It
Speaker 3: was like I remember making my coffee and that was
Speaker 3: the one cry, a big cry I had. I was
Speaker 3: like making my coffee and like Bing came down and
Speaker 3: Ronnie and Danny and they were all like in like
Speaker 3: a really bad mood, and I was like, in this
Speaker 3: really like good mood, and I realized that Ryder has that. Yeah,
Speaker 3: I mean Ronnie does too, But it was like, where's
Speaker 3: where's the balance? I'm missing my my big guy, my boy,
Speaker 3: you can come down and like it's change this energy point.
Speaker 2: It's a great point. You don't realize how important each
Speaker 2: piece of energy is in your family until one is gone. Yeah,
Speaker 2: and how that can be disruptive, you know. And then
Speaker 2: you then you find the balance again. But you know,
Speaker 2: so used to it all being there.
Speaker 3: And it wasn't like it was just like a moment
Speaker 3: and then and then like you said, it's like it's
Speaker 3: just and then you realize when your kids go away,
Speaker 3: You're like, oh my god, they're going to go away
Speaker 3: and it's like crazy, and then you're like they're just
Speaker 3: they're all the time like you. They come home and
Speaker 3: then I mean even the other day, I was like, mom,
Speaker 3: I've got like, you know, two more semesters left. And
Speaker 3: then like you know, I think I'm gonna, you know,
Speaker 3: come back to l A. And and then he was
Speaker 3: talking about what he was gonna do for like his
Speaker 3: room and stuff, and I was like, are you planning
Speaker 3: on moving back into the house hold on? So that's
Speaker 3: gonna be a whole other thing, which is when he
Speaker 3: actually moves out of his childhood home, it doesn't come
Speaker 3: back there.
Speaker 2: And wait, how many more semesters he only has? Two?
Speaker 3: Well, yeah he's got he's a junior. Oh so I
Speaker 3: got two more? Yeah, ones, he finishes this semester. Crazy.
Speaker 3: So but I think you're going to be it's going
Speaker 3: to be easier than you think. I think Rio is
Speaker 3: going to be the big one.
Speaker 2: Oh god, well that's the last one too.
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's just going to be like, oh, I know,
Speaker 3: I almost have to have another kid just so that.
Speaker 2: No, I know, just so yeah, just.
Speaker 3: I'll be so old by that time i'll have a grandchild.
Speaker 3: I'll just be like listen. This is fine because now
Speaker 3: I'm a grandma, so I've just it's got all the grand.
Speaker 2: It's gonna be fun to be a grandparent.
Speaker 3: I know.
Speaker 2: I kind of weirdly can't wait to make what I can.
Speaker 3: Oliver often talks about not having a career like you.
Speaker 3: How do you feel about that? I mean, I think
Speaker 3: it's funny.
Speaker 2: I think feel nothing.
Speaker 3: I feel nothing about it.
Speaker 2: Well, yeah, I think, I mean it kind of goes.
Speaker 2: I feel like I'm fourteen, which is all of you
Speaker 2: have an amazing acting career. Why are you so hard
Speaker 2: on yourself? You know?
Speaker 3: I mean, I am, well, amazing is a very nice
Speaker 3: kind word. I want to whoever this fan is, which
Speaker 3: I don't have.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I just I'm not not really that hard on myself.
Speaker 2: It's a lot of self deprecation, you know. I mean,
Speaker 2: there's a lot of humor behind it. But I do
Speaker 2: have to remind myself how lucky I am, you know,
Speaker 2: and that I have had an amazing career and it's
Speaker 2: just starting. My fucking my production company is called slow
Speaker 2: Burn because that's what I am. So when I'm eighty seven,
Speaker 2: you guys, just.
Speaker 3: Wait, You're gonna it's gonna be your biggest year.
Speaker 2: Oh, I'll be remaking Cocoon.
Speaker 3: I think it's part of just your sense of humor really,
Speaker 3: like yes, you know and and and like you know
Speaker 3: your your comedy. It's sort of yeah, yeah, it's like
Speaker 3: I loved when Tony Robbins said, like you really love
Speaker 3: to hold onto that trophy. Oh, I know it was
Speaker 3: my favorite because it was so it's so you want
Speaker 3: to Robin saying it is.
Speaker 2: Like yeah, but I wonder if it hurts my progress
Speaker 2: even though I'm having fun, because absolutely probably because you
Speaker 2: just keep ingraining that into your brain, even though.
Speaker 3: You tell yourself. What you tell yourself is what ends
Speaker 3: up being the the what how you like motivate, how
Speaker 3: it moves I think, I mean, I.
Speaker 2: I'll probably never stop though, because it's always gets a
Speaker 2: good chuckle.
Speaker 3: I think I think too, that you should like redo
Speaker 3: the artists way, because I feel like you've had this
Speaker 3: great career and you act and all that stuff. But
Speaker 3: but really again, I'm just I know our our fans
Speaker 3: and our listeners have heard me say this a million times,
Speaker 3: but like you're not doing the thing you're supposed to
Speaker 3: be doing, which is writing, creating and directing.
Speaker 2: But you need to write, you know what I need
Speaker 2: for that.
Speaker 3: Because you're such a good writer. So it's like it's
Speaker 3: like it's like having like your big you're the person
Speaker 3: who knows this so well, that is your sibling who's like, oh,
Speaker 3: you're just you gotta write.
Speaker 2: I've talked to Zoe Winkler about finding some a doctor
Speaker 2: who does adult ADHD diagnoses, because I want to know
Speaker 2: because I guarantee I I want to do it because
Speaker 2: I know that I must have it in somewhere one
Speaker 2: way or another. I can just feel it once I
Speaker 2: can be diagnosed. There some fucking vivants or whatever's going
Speaker 2: to be right for my body. I think I might
Speaker 2: be after the races because there's so much that holds
Speaker 2: me back, that feels count So what vivances helps with that?
Speaker 2: Everyone here because everyone takes Viavance. All the producers are
Speaker 2: sitting right in front of me and they're like, ohance,
Speaker 2: Like everyone takes vivance. Aaron has vi avance. Aaron takes
Speaker 2: vi Avance at like six am when she wants to
Speaker 2: get shit done, and it's unbelievable. She's like a different
Speaker 2: human being.
Speaker 3: Is it speed?
Speaker 2: No?
Speaker 3: No?
Speaker 2: So adderall is more speedy This is more slower release.
Speaker 2: You know, it's for ADHD and and other things, but
Speaker 2: it's much cleaner. You know, I took one once and
Speaker 2: it didn't vibe with my body, my chemistry will This
Speaker 2: was years ago, but I want to figure out my
Speaker 2: ADHD because I think if I do, you know, I can,
Speaker 2: I'll take off right. It's not it's not it's not
Speaker 2: lack of talent that's stopping me. It's not the lack
Speaker 2: of belief. It's honestly just this physical or this brick
Speaker 2: wall that I hit, like I can't do it anymore.
Speaker 2: Move on.
Speaker 3: The rider sent me I think it's I wonder if
Speaker 3: it's a genetic thing, you know. A wrider sent me
Speaker 3: this really hilarious. There's this I of course it's in
Speaker 3: my algorithm, the ADHD.
Speaker 2: It's insane.
Speaker 3: It's it's so funny. There's this meme of this person walking.
Speaker 1: In with all these like kind of like like this
Speaker 1: like like costume on and it's almost like something our
Speaker 1: brother would have done when he was a kid.
Speaker 3: It's like something from Thailand, like a Thaie prince or something,
Speaker 3: and it's just totally ornate. And the meme is like me,
Speaker 3: when I do closet clean out like an eighty h
Speaker 3: deer when they do classic clean out.
Speaker 4: And it's it's me like I can't focus, Like I
Speaker 4: I will and then it's all the same stuff like
Speaker 4: I will be like, you know what I'm going to
Speaker 4: I am going to do jewelry and I will get
Speaker 4: like I will buy the melter, I will get the
Speaker 4: I will get the things and every.
Speaker 3: Like like I haven't opened my little jewelry setup. I
Speaker 3: was like, it's I can't and then I and then
Speaker 3: I'll get back into it and I'm like I'm going
Speaker 3: to do it, and then it's all over my office
Speaker 3: and then I leave it and then I'm done with
Speaker 3: a tag.
Speaker 2: On it from two thousand and five because I was like,
Speaker 2: I'm going to become a spear fisherman. I have I
Speaker 2: have like I have barbecue sauces and fucking things because
Speaker 2: like I was going to be a pitmaster. At one point,
Speaker 2: I was going to can. I was going to can
Speaker 2: and sell it on Etsy.
Speaker 3: Yeah, no, I know, actually cannon could be a fun I.
Speaker 2: Can because I have a ton of yellow fintuna that
Speaker 2: I need to like can.
Speaker 3: Oh that I'll do that with you. I have all
Speaker 3: the stuff.
Speaker 2: Well I asked for that for Christmas, and You're like,
Speaker 2: I already have one, and I'm like, Kate, I don't,
Speaker 2: but I'm glad you have one. I don't because I
Speaker 2: wanted to get a you know, one of those canning things.
Speaker 3: Oh it's so funny, but that is sort of like
Speaker 3: and it's Oliver and I for everyone that we we
Speaker 3: laugh because we go we love books and we go
Speaker 3: into bookstars and literally like all I want to do
Speaker 3: is buy a new book and read it like in
Speaker 3: like a week and it just sits. Yeah, it takes
Speaker 3: it sometimes takes me a year to read a book,
Speaker 3: which I've changed. But and so here's what I was
Speaker 3: going to say. Okay, before you go take you know
Speaker 3: the speedy outerall or the slow burn vibe, that vivacious
Speaker 3: whatever it's called. Five anti, I did this thing where
Speaker 3: I started to just structure my day differently, and and
Speaker 3: I added the things that I just really wanted to accomplish.
Speaker 3: So for instance, when I wake up, when I wake up,
Speaker 3: I read for twenty minutes.
Speaker 2: Wow, right when I wake up.
Speaker 3: Right, when I wake up, I wake up early, I
Speaker 3: kind of spin. I don't go on my phone. I
Speaker 3: set I do this thing on insight timer where I
Speaker 3: play like beautiful like flute music and I read for
Speaker 3: twenty minutes. I've set my timer in bed, I set
Speaker 3: my timer and I read either like it depends what
Speaker 3: I'm feeling. If I'm really into like a book i'm reading,
Speaker 3: I'll just read that book. But I usually like to
Speaker 3: read something kind of like more motivating, like a self
Speaker 3: help type of book or something in the morning, and
Speaker 3: then I'll do the same thing in the afternoon. I
Speaker 3: set my thing before I go to bed, and I'll
Speaker 3: do twenty minutes of my book fiction book that I'm
Speaker 3: reading before I.
Speaker 2: Go to bed.
Speaker 3: And I've been reading so much more.
Speaker 2: Can you go over the twenty if you're into it? Yeah?
Speaker 3: Right, yeah, yeah, if I'm into it, I'll keep going. Yes,
Speaker 3: But I make myself almost as like a meditation, do
Speaker 3: the twenty minutes of reading a day.
Speaker 2: Yes, And.
Speaker 3: That it's also like you don't realize it when you
Speaker 3: do it. I really truly believe that it sharpens your brain.
Speaker 3: Like it makes me feel like my vocabulary is better,
Speaker 3: my thoughts come together better, I finish my sentences more clearly.
Speaker 2: Yeah. One, I completely agree, And it just it just
Speaker 2: you know, awakens your imagination, which we don't get to
Speaker 2: do very much when we daydream. Yeah, but that book,
Speaker 2: you know, brings pictures to life in everything sort of
Speaker 2: starts to percolate and all of a sudden, I'm in Venice,
Speaker 2: Italy and this is happening. Oh my god.
Speaker 3: Right now I'm endorsed at England and in the twenties
Speaker 3: and it's the best. Oh yeah, I'm reading this book
Speaker 3: right now. I've read so much.
Speaker 2: I'm listening to Jerry Weintraub's book, which is amazing.
Speaker 3: Really.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's just because he narrates it, so it's his voice,
Speaker 2: it's just his life, his career. It's it's incredible. He's
Speaker 2: incredible life. But I don't mind the audio stuff. But
Speaker 2: for certain things, I like paper. I like to read
Speaker 2: a book.
Speaker 3: Yeah, you know, well, and then you realize that, like
Speaker 3: this is just the dev yes, and so like you
Speaker 3: have to shut it off and you only use the
Speaker 3: things that's the tool. I say this, I mean my
Speaker 3: phone and and like I always use this thing called
Speaker 3: Speechify to read. Bastard. That's the other thing I've been
Speaker 3: telling you to read.
Speaker 2: I know, I got it, I have it, and you should.
Speaker 3: Do it because it for for for those of us
Speaker 3: who need to help with focus, it's so awesome, Like
Speaker 3: you can you can even do it through your Kindle
Speaker 3: now on it so you can have your book on
Speaker 3: your Kindle and you can go to Speechify and it
Speaker 3: it highlights and helps you read and so you can
Speaker 3: do it audio and do it visually and downloaded.
Speaker 2: I I just haven't used it, so like you know, no,
Speaker 2: I know it's Scheduling for me is huge. Like I
Speaker 2: when I'm when I'm in my schedule mode and I've
Speaker 2: got my calendar and you just feel so accomplished. You
Speaker 2: finish the day, You're like, yeah, did it.
Speaker 3: The next day you're just like.
Speaker 2: Right, got it. I went too far with scheduling where
Speaker 2: I'm looking at my calendar and it's like ten fifteen
Speaker 2: to like ten eighteen, like brush your teeth and then
Speaker 2: like ten twenty three, like if you're feeling a bowel movement,
Speaker 2: don't be afraid of it. You know, it was like
Speaker 2: it was two scheduled where I'm like, wait, what am
Speaker 2: I doing? You know, so, but I do need to
Speaker 2: do that. I do need to do that.
Speaker 3: But I think that if you do that with writing,
Speaker 3: if you do, like if you wake up in the
Speaker 3: morning and you write or for you you make it
Speaker 3: kind of like an hour out of your day. You're
Speaker 3: just like, yeah, you know, they also have this thing
Speaker 3: needed this research on twenty five minutes and five minutes.
Speaker 3: Have you seen heard that like this one too? So
Speaker 3: twenty five minutes in focused energy on one thing. Set
Speaker 3: your timer and then get up, walk around for five minutes,
Speaker 3: don't think about it, don't do anything else, smart, go
Speaker 3: make a coffee, don't get on your phone, just do
Speaker 3: other things for five minutes, and then when that timer
Speaker 3: goes up, you can go back to focusing in on
Speaker 3: the thing that you're doing. So if you do that
Speaker 3: for like an hour, you know, you do four sets
Speaker 3: of that. You're like, I'm gonna do an hour writing.
Speaker 3: Set your twenty five minute clocks.
Speaker 2: That's good.
Speaker 3: Yeah, that I found.
Speaker 2: Really, Yeah, that's good. I'm gonna try these. What do
Speaker 2: you do when your kids ask for something you can
Speaker 2: afford but don't think it's appropriate appropriate? What does that mean?
Speaker 2: Meaning like a range rover? Oh my god, I just
Speaker 2: say fucking crazy, get a job. Yeah, but honestly answer
Speaker 2: that question, Here's what I did my kid wanted a
Speaker 2: certain car, and I was like, dude, no, But then
Speaker 2: I took the car that I got when I was
Speaker 2: a kid, which was a Honda Prelude, wasn't flashy. I
Speaker 2: looked at the sticker price back in the day was
Speaker 2: seventeen thousand dollars, and I then sort of googled inflation
Speaker 2: on seventeen from nineteen ninety, you know, three till now,
Speaker 2: so it's about forty forty five thousand. That seventeen is
Speaker 2: now about forty five thousand. So I said, okay, here's
Speaker 2: here's what you can spend anything over that you're going
Speaker 2: to have to pay for it. And Wilder did and
Speaker 2: he got the car that he wanted, and he worked
Speaker 2: at James Purse for a year and you know, paid
Speaker 2: basically his insurance and was able to sort of get
Speaker 2: the car that he wanted with work. Now that being said,
Speaker 2: he does not work at James First anymore, and I'm
Speaker 2: still paying bills that I probably shouldn't pay. So it
Speaker 2: was there. The idea was there. At worked for a year,
Speaker 2: he paid for his car for a year, and you know,
Speaker 2: now I'm probably I'm taking taking it over.
Speaker 3: You know, I I yeah, I'm the opposite. I kind
Speaker 3: of am like really strict about weird things like that,
Speaker 3: and so like Rider, you know, when he got his
Speaker 3: first car, I wasn't gonna buy him anything. I was like,
Speaker 3: I'll help you with a payment with like a scheduling
Speaker 3: payment that's up to a certain amount. If it's over
Speaker 3: this amount, Like I'm not doing it. You have to
Speaker 3: do it, and I'm not. I won't. I won't pay
Speaker 3: for it. So we kind of had to look at
Speaker 3: his savings and then kind of work backwards. Yeah, but
Speaker 3: I'm really like I just think that except like for Christmas,
Speaker 3: Like I love spoiling my kids at Christmas.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's your first car, the first car. I don't
Speaker 2: get him this first car, I know, but yes.
Speaker 3: But but like I love spoiling kids a Chris Like,
Speaker 3: I just I just think kids need. Like there's this
Speaker 3: I mean, and we're in like it's such a different
Speaker 3: weird bubble, like you know these kids, Like I just
Speaker 3: just look around. These kids have like everything, and even
Speaker 3: though we have the means to be generous with our children,
Speaker 3: I need it. That being said, Bing is like I
Speaker 3: don't know where he gets the money. Bing is like
Speaker 3: this money guy, Like he's like, I'm like, where did
Speaker 3: you get that ring? Honey's like I bought it. I'm like,
Speaker 3: with what money is? Like the money that I have
Speaker 3: been investing in.
Speaker 2: Stocks and stocks.
Speaker 3: It's so funny because you see, like all your kids
Speaker 3: have a very different relationship to money and to things
Speaker 3: material things. It's like they're all my all my kids
Speaker 3: have a very don't.
Speaker 2: You do you find that? Oh yeah, well so it's
Speaker 2: it's TikTok, it's it's social media. They all look the same,
Speaker 2: they all wear the same things, they all have the
Speaker 2: same hair, the same clones, the sameeness, the same that.
Speaker 2: It's all the same, you know. I mean, it's it's
Speaker 2: the it's the chrome heart stuff, it's the acne jeans,
Speaker 2: Acne club. And they're all billions of dollars. I'm like,
Speaker 2: whoa you guys. But at the same time, my kids
Speaker 2: love to thrift as well. They're into the whole thrifting world.
Speaker 3: No, but what I'm saying is that all of their
Speaker 3: relationship to money is different. Like being Being has this
Speaker 3: real like save mentality, but he also loves to be
Speaker 3: like he loves to save his money and then he
Speaker 3: loves to spend it on the things that he really wants.
Speaker 2: Yes, yeah, that's where whereas.
Speaker 3: Rider has a terrible relationship with money. I'm like, what
Speaker 3: are you doing? Oh god, it's why did you buy?
Speaker 3: Why did you go to that restaurant? You can't afford it?
Speaker 3: You're in college. And he's like, I just really wanted.
Speaker 2: To the wagon. Being in body are the same being
Speaker 2: a body? Well? Yeah, done? For like a month, he
Speaker 2: saves all of his money, like he saves it, and
Speaker 2: Wilder just rips through it. I'm like, I'm much was
Speaker 2: that he goes four dollars sweatpants. I'm like, what four
Speaker 2: hundred dollars sweatpants? And he's running through all of his
Speaker 2: his his savings. You know this with this you know
Speaker 2: movie that he's doing, it's making some some dough, but
Speaker 2: I am not letting him happen.
Speaker 3: Well, I just I think that it just relates. Like
Speaker 3: that's how you can kind of I think it's like
Speaker 3: across the board, it doesn't matter where you are, what
Speaker 3: you come from. Like kids, relationship to money oh yeah,
Speaker 3: yeah is very It very much mirrors who they are
Speaker 3: as people, you know, just like their.
Speaker 2: Personal character without a doubt.
Speaker 3: And then it's like your job as a parent, depending
Speaker 3: on how you are, I guess, because like I sometimes
Speaker 3: think about parents, you know, other parents, Like I have friends,
Speaker 3: like a really funny friend who you know, their relationship,
Speaker 3: their relationship to money is so different the white the
Speaker 3: husband and the wife that it's like causes like so
Speaker 3: much turmoil and so and like that's just what their
Speaker 3: kids are gonna see.
Speaker 2: It's going to be like.
Speaker 3: And then they're gonna have one kid that's gonna grow
Speaker 3: up and be like, you know what, my dad never
Speaker 3: bought us a thing, and and now I just, yeah,
Speaker 3: I spend my money. I'm gonna spend all of that.
Speaker 1: You know.
Speaker 2: It's like yeah, wild, there's more like me, and body
Speaker 2: is more like Aaron. Aaron's very frugal, like all of
Speaker 2: she shops at Target, and you know, she tailors her
Speaker 2: clothes to make them look great. Everyone's like, what do
Speaker 2: you where'd you get that? She's like fucking Target, you know.
Speaker 2: And I'm out there just like fucking just spending money
Speaker 2: that I don't have, you know, even even even even
Speaker 2: doing this movie, I'm gonna spend more twenty thousand dollars
Speaker 2: on a better house because I just want I want
Speaker 2: something like cozy comfortable, and I'm like, it's I'm just
Speaker 2: gonna take part of my paycheck and spend it on that.
Speaker 2: I just you know, yeah, I gotta I gotta go.
Speaker 2: But let's do one more because okay quick? So who
Speaker 2: would you cast to play you in a biopic about
Speaker 2: your life? Oh well, I'm still like in it, but
Speaker 2: like but like just like, no, you are.
Speaker 3: Like early twenties, think twenties.
Speaker 2: I'm gonna go with twenties Fastbender. I'm going Michael Fast.
Speaker 3: Of course. I still have that snapchat like a while
Speaker 3: ago from you at at Jamie and and Nico's wedding
Speaker 3: where you were like trying to be fast but you
Speaker 3: were like doing.
Speaker 2: A fast Oh funny, He's just cool.
Speaker 3: Fastener is a good one. I like that, yeah, even
Speaker 3: though I.
Speaker 2: Mean I think he's I don't know if he's is
Speaker 2: he funny?
Speaker 3: You know, he's very funny. He's Yeah, you guys would
Speaker 3: be like best friend.
Speaker 2: I'm going Fastbender cast. You know, just he's brad. What
Speaker 2: do you mean? Fine?
Speaker 1: No? Bad?
Speaker 3: That was bad? Past? Better is a better call?
Speaker 2: Goslin?
Speaker 3: Nope, okay, No, he's funnier and handsomer.
Speaker 2: Yeah that's true. Ken, I don't know he's got a
Speaker 2: different kind of handsome.
Speaker 3: Who would you cast? Who would who would?
Speaker 2: I like Drew Drew, like Blanchette.
Speaker 3: Like Blanchett, very interesting. I actually love that woman so much.
Speaker 3: She's like one of the coolest chicks.
Speaker 2: That's what I'm saying. And that's why I feel like
Speaker 2: it's you because yes, she's English whatever, but she plays.
Speaker 2: She's cool and she can do an you know what
Speaker 2: I mean, she could, she could do it.
Speaker 3: She's just you know, she's all Allie. That makes me
Speaker 3: feel good. Thinks Herchett is me. That makes me happy.
Speaker 3: That means you think I'm cool.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think you're cool. Yes, finally, Well let's end
Speaker 2: on that because I gotta go catch a plane.
Speaker 3: I love you, have a safe trip. I'll see you
Speaker 3: when you get home. Okay,