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Speaker 1: Hi.

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Speaker 2: I am Kate Hudson and my name is Oliver Hudson.

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Speaker 3: We wanted to do something that highlighted our.

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Speaker 2: Relationship and what it's like to be siblings. We are

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Speaker 2: a sibling raivalry.

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Speaker 3: No, no, sibling. You don't do that with your mouth.

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Speaker 2: Revelry.

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Speaker 3: That's good. I'm excited. I really wanted to do more,

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Speaker 3: more of us because I.

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Speaker 2: Feel it's what they demand. I mean, we don't, it's

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Speaker 2: just what they want.

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Speaker 3: I feel like it's like sometimes when we're doing the interviews,

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Speaker 3: there's like all these things I want to start talking about,

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Speaker 3: and then we never get to. I know, sometimes I

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Speaker 3: feel like we need intermittent ladies.

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Speaker 2: I'm in New York City right now here in LA

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Speaker 2: I'm doing whatever I'm doing here, but I'm in the

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Speaker 2: iHeart studios as you can sort of fun. It's great.

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Speaker 2: It's like it's like a game changer. I feel we

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Speaker 2: need a studio. Yeah, it's just fun to sit here.

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Speaker 2: There's a thing you feel important kind of you know,

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Speaker 2: it's just it feels good. Everything.

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Speaker 3: I like it. I like it.

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Speaker 2: We got to figure this out.

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Speaker 3: I know, we got to get our space.

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Speaker 2: We got to get the space.

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Speaker 3: We almost got our space, and then and then all

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Speaker 3: the things happen. Yeah, and I hadn't signed it, and

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Speaker 3: I don't know what to do now I think I

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Speaker 3: don't know. I got to figure it all out. But

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Speaker 3: that's for another episode of sibling revelry right now.

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Speaker 2: This is this is different. This is going to be

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Speaker 2: a very very different episode.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, we're gonna these questions. I book, we're you know there.

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Speaker 3: It's like sort of a Q and.

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Speaker 2: A Yeah, this is good.

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Speaker 3: Okay, Kate, what do you look up to about Oliver

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Speaker 3: that he doesn't even know? Well, I'm I'm kind of

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Speaker 3: a talkative person. We tell each other everything.

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Speaker 2: You know. But but I mean, it's not that you

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Speaker 2: don't know it. But you know your perseverance, your fearlessness,

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Speaker 2: your fire, your your you know your inability, your your

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Speaker 2: inability to sort of get put down. You fucking charge forward.

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Speaker 2: You don't give a fuck about what people think about

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Speaker 2: how they feel about you. That's what I admire. That's

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Speaker 2: what I wish I had more of. Oh, so I told.

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Speaker 3: I know, I know, but we're going to repeat it.

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Speaker 3: I love Oliver. I love what you want to answer

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Speaker 3: for me.

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Speaker 2: I know what it is. I think. Okay, what uh

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Speaker 2: my exceptional parents.

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Speaker 3: I think you're a great parent, and I think, I mean,

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Speaker 3: I have some notes, like.

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Speaker 2: The way the way I the way I use my words,

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Speaker 2: my articulation, my ability to sort of just be off

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Speaker 2: the cuff always. I know you.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I love all that, and I look up to

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Speaker 3: me for that. I love, and I think looking up

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Speaker 3: to is different.

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Speaker 2: I admired lately.

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Speaker 3: I lately feel that one of the things I look

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Speaker 3: up to with you is how you've been able to

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Speaker 3: take on sort of a peace maker type of role

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Speaker 3: in certain familial moments where you're able to be kind

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Speaker 3: of a rock for people to talk to without commiserating.

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Speaker 2: Yes, that's so interesting, she just new, Like I keep

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Speaker 2: going because I just listen and absorb it, you know.

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Speaker 3: Unless you're drunk, because they're having some drunk moments that

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Speaker 3: I'm like, Oliver, shut up. But as a whole I

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Speaker 3: love that you there's when you're you kind of listen

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Speaker 3: without judgment and you do give great advice without feeling

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Speaker 3: like it needs to be taken. Yeah, you know, and yeah,

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Speaker 3: I get that peacemaker is a good for that.

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Speaker 2: I love that here's a good one. Here's a good one.

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Speaker 2: Because I'm going to be dealing with this soon and

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Speaker 2: you have insight into it. So firstus, Kate, how do

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Speaker 2: you cope with a kid going off to college? And

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Speaker 2: then Oliver, do you feel ready for this?

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Speaker 3: Oh? Are you going to start crying?

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Speaker 2: Yes? Well I'll go first because thought about this. You know,

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Speaker 2: he has his room, he's a year away from it,

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Speaker 2: and you know we all are upstairs and pretty tight quarters,

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Speaker 2: were all kind of near and near each other. And

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Speaker 2: you know, first of all, dropping him off is going

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Speaker 2: be really really bad. Like I'm trying not to cry

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Speaker 2: right now, so I can't even I might demo here.

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Speaker 3: May get your fishing tackle room, you know, like like, oh,

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Speaker 3: you know this is what it is.

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Speaker 2: Actually you're gonna come home for Thanksgiving break? Like what

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Speaker 2: the fuck?

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Speaker 1: Dad?

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Speaker 2: I'm like, you're in the garage, buddy. Sorry, couldn't take it.

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Speaker 2: I needed to.

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Speaker 3: I needed to insert the other thing I love.

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Speaker 2: Yes, and so this so it's not gonna be good.

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Speaker 2: It's not gonna be good for me. I know, I'm

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Speaker 2: gonna be excited for him, you know, but it's it's

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Speaker 2: gonna be devastating, devastating. I feel like you were you

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Speaker 2: were you were all right?

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Speaker 3: I was, it was fine. Yeah, Like to me, I

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Speaker 3: he's living in New York. I'm there all the time.

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Speaker 3: It doesn't feel like he's in like, you know, the

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Speaker 3: And I also like, I don't know, I'm so I

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Speaker 3: get so excited for my kids to live their life

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Speaker 3: and and and have that experience. So for me with Ryder,

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Speaker 3: I was like, this is gonna be so fun.

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Speaker 2: Did you think you would be devastated and and and

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Speaker 2: you were like, wow, I'm more excited for him than

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Speaker 2: I am. Sad, And I didn't realize that that's how

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Speaker 3: I think for me, Rider holds a very specific energy

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Speaker 3: and he's incredibly intelligent and outspoken with his idea is

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Speaker 3: and like that was the big thing for me. It

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Speaker 3: Ronnie and Danny and they were all like in like

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Speaker 3: I mean Ronnie does too, But it was like, where's

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Speaker 3: you can come down and like it's change this energy point.

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Speaker 2: It's a great point. You don't realize how important each

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Speaker 2: piece of energy is in your family until one is gone. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: and how that can be disruptive, you know. And then

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Speaker 2: you then you find the balance again. But you know,

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Speaker 2: so used to it all being there.

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Speaker 3: And it wasn't like it was just like a moment

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Speaker 3: You're like, oh my god, they're going to go away

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Speaker 3: and it's like crazy, and then you're like they're just

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Speaker 3: then I mean even the other day, I was like, mom,

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Speaker 2: And wait, how many more semesters he only has? Two?

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Speaker 3: Well, yeah he's got he's a junior. Oh so I

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Speaker 3: got two more? Yeah, ones, he finishes this semester. Crazy.

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Speaker 3: So but I think you're going to be it's going

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Speaker 3: to be easier than you think. I think Rio is

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Speaker 2: Oh god, well that's the last one too.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that's just going to be like, oh, I know,

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Speaker 3: I almost have to have another kid just so that.

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Speaker 2: No, I know, just so yeah, just.

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Speaker 3: I'll be so old by that time i'll have a grandchild.

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Speaker 3: I'll just be like listen. This is fine because now

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Speaker 3: I'm a grandma, so I've just it's got all the grand.

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Speaker 2: It's gonna be fun to be a grandparent.

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Speaker 3: I know.

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Speaker 2: I kind of weirdly can't wait to make what I can.

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Speaker 3: Oliver often talks about not having a career like you.

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Speaker 3: How do you feel about that? I mean, I think

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Speaker 2: I think feel nothing.

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Speaker 2: Well, yeah, I think, I mean it kind of goes.

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Speaker 2: I feel like I'm fourteen, which is all of you

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Speaker 2: have an amazing acting career. Why are you so hard

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Speaker 3: I mean, I am, well, amazing is a very nice

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I just I'm not not really that hard on myself.

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Speaker 2: It's a lot of self deprecation, you know. I mean,

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Speaker 2: there's a lot of humor behind it. But I do

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Speaker 2: and that I have had an amazing career and it's

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Speaker 2: just starting. My fucking my production company is called slow

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Speaker 2: Burn because that's what I am. So when I'm eighty seven,

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Speaker 2: you guys, just.

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Speaker 3: Wait, You're gonna it's gonna be your biggest year.

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Speaker 2: Oh, I'll be remaking Cocoon.

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Speaker 3: I think it's part of just your sense of humor really,

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Speaker 3: I loved when Tony Robbins said, like you really love

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Speaker 3: to Robin saying it is.

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Speaker 2: Like yeah, but I wonder if it hurts my progress

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Speaker 2: even though I'm having fun, because absolutely probably because you

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Speaker 2: just keep ingraining that into your brain, even though.

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Speaker 3: You tell yourself. What you tell yourself is what ends

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Speaker 3: up being the the what how you like motivate, how

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Speaker 3: it moves I think, I mean, I.

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Speaker 2: I'll probably never stop though, because it's always gets a

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Speaker 3: I think I think too, that you should like redo

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Speaker 3: the artists way, because I feel like you've had this

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Speaker 3: great career and you act and all that stuff. But

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Speaker 3: but really again, I'm just I know our our fans

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Speaker 3: and our listeners have heard me say this a million times,

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Speaker 3: but like you're not doing the thing you're supposed to

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Speaker 3: be doing, which is writing, creating and directing.

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Speaker 2: But you need to write, you know what I need

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Speaker 2: for that.

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Speaker 3: Because you're such a good writer. So it's like it's

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Speaker 3: I mean, and we're in like it's such a different

438
00:24:58,680 --> 00:25:02,600
Speaker 3: weird bubble, like you know these kids, Like I just

439
00:25:02,600 --> 00:25:05,320
Speaker 3: just look around. These kids have like everything, and even

440
00:25:05,359 --> 00:25:09,080
Speaker 3: though we have the means to be generous with our children,

441
00:25:09,200 --> 00:25:15,560
Speaker 3: I need it. That being said, Bing is like I

442
00:25:15,600 --> 00:25:20,280
Speaker 3: don't know where he gets the money. Bing is like

443
00:25:20,320 --> 00:25:23,360
Speaker 3: this money guy, Like he's like, I'm like, where did

444
00:25:23,400 --> 00:25:25,520
Speaker 3: you get that ring? Honey's like I bought it. I'm like,

445
00:25:25,560 --> 00:25:27,240
Speaker 3: with what money is? Like the money that I have

446
00:25:27,359 --> 00:25:28,399
Speaker 3: been investing in.

447
00:25:29,920 --> 00:25:30,960
Speaker 2: Stocks and stocks.

448
00:25:31,200 --> 00:25:34,200
Speaker 3: It's so funny because you see, like all your kids

449
00:25:34,200 --> 00:25:38,320
Speaker 3: have a very different relationship to money and to things

450
00:25:38,320 --> 00:25:42,040
Speaker 3: material things. It's like they're all my all my kids

451
00:25:42,080 --> 00:25:43,040
Speaker 3: have a very don't.

452
00:25:42,880 --> 00:25:45,600
Speaker 2: You do you find that? Oh yeah, well so it's

453
00:25:45,600 --> 00:25:48,919
Speaker 2: it's TikTok, it's it's social media. They all look the same,

454
00:25:49,040 --> 00:25:50,960
Speaker 2: they all wear the same things, they all have the

455
00:25:51,000 --> 00:25:53,800
Speaker 2: same hair, the same clones, the sameeness, the same that.

456
00:25:54,359 --> 00:25:56,560
Speaker 2: It's all the same, you know. I mean, it's it's

457
00:25:56,600 --> 00:26:00,560
Speaker 2: the it's the chrome heart stuff, it's the acne jeans,

458
00:26:00,680 --> 00:26:03,760
Speaker 2: Acne club. And they're all billions of dollars. I'm like,

459
00:26:03,840 --> 00:26:06,760
Speaker 2: whoa you guys. But at the same time, my kids

460
00:26:06,800 --> 00:26:10,399
Speaker 2: love to thrift as well. They're into the whole thrifting world.

461
00:26:10,480 --> 00:26:12,320
Speaker 3: No, but what I'm saying is that all of their

462
00:26:12,400 --> 00:26:16,719
Speaker 3: relationship to money is different. Like being Being has this

463
00:26:16,880 --> 00:26:20,159
Speaker 3: real like save mentality, but he also loves to be

464
00:26:20,960 --> 00:26:23,200
Speaker 3: like he loves to save his money and then he

465
00:26:23,280 --> 00:26:27,080
Speaker 3: loves to spend it on the things that he really wants.

466
00:26:27,280 --> 00:26:29,520
Speaker 2: Yes, yeah, that's where whereas.

467
00:26:29,400 --> 00:26:34,000
Speaker 3: Rider has a terrible relationship with money. I'm like, what

468
00:26:34,040 --> 00:26:38,520
Speaker 3: are you doing? Oh god, it's why did you buy?

469
00:26:38,720 --> 00:26:41,399
Speaker 3: Why did you go to that restaurant? You can't afford it?

470
00:26:41,440 --> 00:26:45,040
Speaker 3: You're in college. And he's like, I just really wanted.

471
00:26:44,720 --> 00:26:48,400
Speaker 2: To the wagon. Being in body are the same being

472
00:26:48,720 --> 00:26:53,760
Speaker 2: a body? Well? Yeah, done? For like a month, he

473
00:26:53,840 --> 00:26:56,560
Speaker 2: saves all of his money, like he saves it, and

474
00:26:56,680 --> 00:27:00,359
Speaker 2: Wilder just rips through it. I'm like, I'm much was

475
00:27:00,359 --> 00:27:03,959
Speaker 2: that he goes four dollars sweatpants. I'm like, what four

476
00:27:04,040 --> 00:27:07,640
Speaker 2: hundred dollars sweatpants? And he's running through all of his

477
00:27:07,640 --> 00:27:11,560
Speaker 2: his his savings. You know this with this you know

478
00:27:11,680 --> 00:27:14,159
Speaker 2: movie that he's doing, it's making some some dough, but

479
00:27:15,200 --> 00:27:16,600
Speaker 2: I am not letting him happen.

480
00:27:17,040 --> 00:27:19,560
Speaker 3: Well, I just I think that it just relates. Like

481
00:27:19,640 --> 00:27:21,439
Speaker 3: that's how you can kind of I think it's like

482
00:27:21,560 --> 00:27:24,520
Speaker 3: across the board, it doesn't matter where you are, what

483
00:27:24,680 --> 00:27:28,359
Speaker 3: you come from. Like kids, relationship to money oh yeah,

484
00:27:27,960 --> 00:27:32,320
Speaker 3: yeah is very It very much mirrors who they are

485
00:27:32,320 --> 00:27:34,280
Speaker 3: as people, you know, just like their.

486
00:27:34,200 --> 00:27:36,720
Speaker 2: Personal character without a doubt.

487
00:27:36,840 --> 00:27:39,160
Speaker 3: And then it's like your job as a parent, depending

488
00:27:39,160 --> 00:27:41,880
Speaker 3: on how you are, I guess, because like I sometimes

489
00:27:41,880 --> 00:27:46,360
Speaker 3: think about parents, you know, other parents, Like I have friends,

490
00:27:46,400 --> 00:27:53,560
Speaker 3: like a really funny friend who you know, their relationship,

491
00:27:53,640 --> 00:27:56,520
Speaker 3: their relationship to money is so different the white the

492
00:27:56,600 --> 00:28:00,800
Speaker 3: husband and the wife that it's like causes like so

493
00:28:01,000 --> 00:28:04,600
Speaker 3: much turmoil and so and like that's just what their

494
00:28:04,680 --> 00:28:05,440
Speaker 3: kids are gonna see.

495
00:28:05,520 --> 00:28:06,320
Speaker 2: It's going to be like.

496
00:28:06,359 --> 00:28:08,159
Speaker 3: And then they're gonna have one kid that's gonna grow

497
00:28:08,280 --> 00:28:10,840
Speaker 3: up and be like, you know what, my dad never

498
00:28:10,880 --> 00:28:14,760
Speaker 3: bought us a thing, and and now I just, yeah,

499
00:28:14,880 --> 00:28:17,000
Speaker 3: I spend my money. I'm gonna spend all of that.

500
00:28:17,280 --> 00:28:17,520
Speaker 1: You know.

501
00:28:17,880 --> 00:28:21,600
Speaker 2: It's like yeah, wild, there's more like me, and body

502
00:28:21,720 --> 00:28:24,639
Speaker 2: is more like Aaron. Aaron's very frugal, like all of

503
00:28:24,800 --> 00:28:27,760
Speaker 2: she shops at Target, and you know, she tailors her

504
00:28:27,760 --> 00:28:29,720
Speaker 2: clothes to make them look great. Everyone's like, what do

505
00:28:29,760 --> 00:28:32,280
Speaker 2: you where'd you get that? She's like fucking Target, you know.

506
00:28:32,320 --> 00:28:35,640
Speaker 2: And I'm out there just like fucking just spending money

507
00:28:35,680 --> 00:28:39,360
Speaker 2: that I don't have, you know, even even even even

508
00:28:39,400 --> 00:28:42,480
Speaker 2: doing this movie, I'm gonna spend more twenty thousand dollars

509
00:28:42,600 --> 00:28:45,760
Speaker 2: on a better house because I just want I want

510
00:28:45,800 --> 00:28:49,360
Speaker 2: something like cozy comfortable, and I'm like, it's I'm just

511
00:28:49,440 --> 00:28:52,160
Speaker 2: gonna take part of my paycheck and spend it on that.

512
00:28:52,720 --> 00:28:55,840
Speaker 2: I just you know, yeah, I gotta I gotta go.

513
00:28:55,920 --> 00:29:00,160
Speaker 2: But let's do one more because okay quick? So who

514
00:29:00,160 --> 00:29:03,000
Speaker 2: would you cast to play you in a biopic about

515
00:29:03,000 --> 00:29:06,920
Speaker 2: your life? Oh well, I'm still like in it, but

516
00:29:06,960 --> 00:29:10,320
Speaker 2: like but like just like, no, you are.

517
00:29:10,400 --> 00:29:12,600
Speaker 3: Like early twenties, think twenties.

518
00:29:12,880 --> 00:29:19,000
Speaker 2: I'm gonna go with twenties Fastbender. I'm going Michael Fast.

519
00:29:19,120 --> 00:29:23,480
Speaker 3: Of course. I still have that snapchat like a while

520
00:29:23,480 --> 00:29:28,280
Speaker 3: ago from you at at Jamie and and Nico's wedding

521
00:29:28,400 --> 00:29:31,360
Speaker 3: where you were like trying to be fast but you

522
00:29:31,400 --> 00:29:32,200
Speaker 3: were like doing.

523
00:29:32,000 --> 00:29:37,000
Speaker 2: A fast Oh funny, He's just cool.

524
00:29:38,200 --> 00:29:40,960
Speaker 3: Fastener is a good one. I like that, yeah, even

525
00:29:41,000 --> 00:29:42,160
Speaker 3: though I.

526
00:29:42,040 --> 00:29:44,120
Speaker 2: Mean I think he's I don't know if he's is

527
00:29:44,160 --> 00:29:44,680
Speaker 2: he funny?

528
00:29:45,080 --> 00:29:49,040
Speaker 3: You know, he's very funny. He's Yeah, you guys would

529
00:29:49,040 --> 00:29:49,800
Speaker 3: be like best friend.

530
00:29:49,880 --> 00:29:58,400
Speaker 2: I'm going Fastbender cast. You know, just he's brad. What

531
00:29:58,440 --> 00:29:59,360
Speaker 2: do you mean? Fine?

532
00:29:59,680 --> 00:30:00,480
Speaker 1: No? Bad?

533
00:30:00,600 --> 00:30:02,400
Speaker 3: That was bad? Past? Better is a better call?

534
00:30:02,560 --> 00:30:03,040
Speaker 2: Goslin?

535
00:30:04,440 --> 00:30:08,120
Speaker 3: Nope, okay, No, he's funnier and handsomer.

536
00:30:09,680 --> 00:30:12,760
Speaker 2: Yeah that's true. Ken, I don't know he's got a

537
00:30:12,760 --> 00:30:13,840
Speaker 2: different kind of handsome.

538
00:30:14,760 --> 00:30:16,640
Speaker 3: Who would you cast? Who would who would?

539
00:30:16,640 --> 00:30:22,880
Speaker 2: I like Drew Drew, like Blanchette.

540
00:30:22,360 --> 00:30:28,600
Speaker 3: Like Blanchett, very interesting. I actually love that woman so much.

541
00:30:29,600 --> 00:30:31,520
Speaker 3: She's like one of the coolest chicks.

542
00:30:32,280 --> 00:30:34,200
Speaker 2: That's what I'm saying. And that's why I feel like

543
00:30:34,200 --> 00:30:37,320
Speaker 2: it's you because yes, she's English whatever, but she plays.

544
00:30:38,360 --> 00:30:40,160
Speaker 2: She's cool and she can do an you know what

545
00:30:40,200 --> 00:30:41,760
Speaker 2: I mean, she could, she could do it.

546
00:30:42,280 --> 00:30:47,040
Speaker 3: She's just you know, she's all Allie. That makes me

547
00:30:47,120 --> 00:30:55,760
Speaker 3: feel good. Thinks Herchett is me. That makes me happy.

548
00:30:56,760 --> 00:30:58,240
Speaker 3: That means you think I'm cool.

549
00:30:59,160 --> 00:31:03,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think you're cool. Yes, finally, Well let's end

550
00:31:03,160 --> 00:31:04,760
Speaker 2: on that because I gotta go catch a plane.

551
00:31:05,400 --> 00:31:06,800
Speaker 3: I love you, have a safe trip. I'll see you

552
00:31:06,800 --> 00:31:11,280
Speaker 3: when you get home. Okay,