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Speaker 1: Subject Should I tell him what his daddy showed me?

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Speaker 1: Stephen Shirley. My husband and I met in the seventh

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Speaker 1: grade and I have loved him since then. We got

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Speaker 1: married when we were twenty two years old, and we

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Speaker 1: have two grown children. His parents are like my parents

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Speaker 1: and vice versa. His mom is staying with us for

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Speaker 1: a while because my father in law was going through

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Speaker 1: her personal things and he started following her. When she

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Speaker 1: found out, she called us with a sob story and

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Speaker 1: my husband sided with her. I immediately gave my father

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Speaker 1: in law the ben of the doubt because his wife

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Speaker 1: is very dominant and he lets her run all over him.

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Speaker 1: My husband always takes his mom's side, and he got

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Speaker 1: upset with me when I asked him to hear his

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Speaker 1: dad out.

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Speaker 2: My father in law is very hurt that his son

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Speaker 2: isn't talking to him.

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Speaker 1: He called me and asked if he could come by

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Speaker 1: the house and show me something. While my husband and

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Speaker 1: his mom were at church Sunday morning, he came by

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Speaker 1: and had evidence on his phone that his wife was

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Speaker 1: cheating on him. He had a video of her in

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Speaker 1: her car straddling another man on the passenger side. The

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Speaker 1: video isn't clear, but I believe it's her by the

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Speaker 1: bad wigs.

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Speaker 3: She had on.

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Speaker 1: If my husband sees this, he will flip out. I'm

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Speaker 1: not sure he'll be more mad at his dad for

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Speaker 1: capturing the video, or if he'll be disgusted that his

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Speaker 1: mom betrayed.

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Speaker 2: His dad like that.

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Speaker 1: I have no idea where his head is these days,

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Speaker 1: but I know he doesn't play about his mama. I

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Speaker 1: told him that he needs to talk to his dad,

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Speaker 1: but he's being stubborn. Should I tell him what his

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Speaker 1: dad showed me? Would that help the situation? I don't

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Speaker 1: think that's going to help the situation. Only thing that

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Speaker 1: I think is going to help you and your situation

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Speaker 1: is that you get out of it.

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Speaker 2: You get out of this.

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Speaker 1: I know they kind of brought you in when his

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Speaker 1: mom moved into your house and his dad asked you

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Speaker 1: over there, but no, you need to stay out of this.

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Speaker 1: The fact that you're already in it so deep is

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Speaker 1: beyond me. You are messing up your own marriage by

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Speaker 1: being all up in theirs. Your husband has picked aside.

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Speaker 1: Like you said, that's not right either, because he should

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Speaker 1: hear his dad's side. If anybody is going to tell

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Speaker 1: him about his mom and this other man, it should

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Speaker 1: be his dad. Your husband got mad at you for

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Speaker 1: even suggesting that you talk to that you hear his

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Speaker 1: that he hear his dad out.

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Speaker 2: The two of you as a unit should be encouraging.

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Speaker 1: His mom to go back home and for them to

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Speaker 1: work it out. All Your father in law did follow

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Speaker 1: her and go through her things, and that's a lot,

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Speaker 1: I know, but he saw her cheating. He saw her

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Speaker 1: straddling another man, which is crazy. I mean, some men

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Speaker 1: would have done much worse than go through their things

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Speaker 1: and followed their wives. This is still not your business, though,

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Speaker 1: and it's not too late to back away from it.

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Speaker 1: If you were to say anything to your husband about

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Speaker 1: his mom being in your home, he could turn on

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Speaker 1: you again. And this is why you don't shouldn't want

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Speaker 1: any part of this. The only thing you should be

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Speaker 1: doing is telling your in laws that you love and

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Speaker 1: support them. You want them to work it out. Let

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Speaker 1: them figure it out by themselves.

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Speaker 4: Steve, this's a full blown mess right here. Should I

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Speaker 4: tell him what his daddy showed me? And I was

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Speaker 4: waiting on something else, so I got a little thrown

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Speaker 4: for a loopo, quite a little bit of surprise here,

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Speaker 4: thought daddy had showed someone else, but no, Daddy was

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Speaker 4: out here flashing evidence. Are you known your husband since

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Speaker 4: she was in the seventh grade, You've been knowing his

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Speaker 4: parents obviously the whole time.

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Speaker 3: His parents is like your parents, Your parents like his parents.

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Speaker 4: His mom is staying with y'all now because your father

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Speaker 4: in law was going through her personal things and he

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Speaker 4: started following her. And when she found out, she called

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Speaker 4: us with a sob story and my husband side with her. Now,

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Speaker 4: I don't know what the mama said, but I can

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Speaker 4: promise you it wasn't the truth. So and she know

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Speaker 4: that the boy is a mama's boy. So let me

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Speaker 4: call my son and get him on my side, So

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Speaker 4: now she's staying with them. And then you gave the

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Speaker 4: father in law the benefit of the doubt because his

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Speaker 4: wife is very dominant and he lets her run over him.

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Speaker 4: Now that's I believe to be true, because later on

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Speaker 4: he let her run over her him again and did

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Speaker 4: nothing but take a damn video. I tell you how

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Speaker 4: I feel about that in a minute. Anyway, my husband

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Speaker 4: always sides with his mom, and he got upset when

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Speaker 3: Hear his dad out. Just hear your father out.

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Speaker 4: And then your father in law is hurt that his

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Speaker 4: son ain't talking to him, so he called me to

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Speaker 4: ask me he can come over and show me something

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Speaker 4: while my husband and his mama wear at church. This

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Speaker 4: is mama bought stuff right here. Your wife ain't in church.

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Speaker 4: You going to church with your mama? Ain't nothing wrong

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Speaker 4: with that? Love.

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Speaker 3: I wish I could go to church with my mama again,

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Speaker 3: I promise you I do, I really really do. But

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Speaker 3: I can't.

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Speaker 4: And so I ain't mad at him for going church

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Speaker 4: with his mama. But they went to church together. Now

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Speaker 4: the father he ain't going down there because he ain't

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Speaker 4: sitting up in there with this mess. Because he got

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Speaker 4: this video. He had a video of her in her

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Speaker 4: car car he and that helping pay fork straddling another

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Speaker 4: man on the passenger side. The video isn't clear but ive,

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Speaker 4: but I believe it's heard by the bad.

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Speaker 3: Wigs she had on. See she wear bad wigs. You

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Speaker 3: know that's her.

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Speaker 4: She wear bad wigs. If my husband sees this, he

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Speaker 4: will flip out. First of all, let me tell you this.

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Speaker 4: I know the video blurry because old people don't know

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Speaker 4: how to do videos. They don't wipe, they leaves off.

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Speaker 4: They just take the picture. But how he over there

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Speaker 4: taking videos. I'm gonna tell you right now, this video

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Speaker 4: right here, when we come back, I'm gonna tell you

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Speaker 4: what this video will actually be when we come back.

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Speaker 4: All right, I'll tell you that.

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Speaker 1: Hang on, Steve, We'll have part two of your response

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Speaker 1: coming up at twenty three minutes after the hour today

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Speaker 1: Strawberry letter, subject Should I tell him?

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Speaker 2: What is Daddy showed me? We'll get back into it

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Speaker 2: right after this. You're listening Morning show.

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Speaker 1: All right, Come on, Steve, let's recap today's Strawberry letter.

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Speaker 1: The subject should I tell him? What is Daddy show?

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Speaker 4: Well, this lady had been with her husband a long time,

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Speaker 4: been knowing the father and the mother since they was kids.

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Speaker 4: The mother recently moved in with him because her and

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Speaker 4: her father in law, her and her husband fell out.

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Speaker 4: She called the boy up, the mama's boy. This girl's

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Speaker 4: husband told him some sad, sob story. So she living

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Speaker 3: Now.

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Speaker 4: When a wife moved out of the house, something something

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Speaker 4: jumped off. You can believe that some of them jumped

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Speaker 4: off and he didn't move out. See if it was him,

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Speaker 4: he usually got to get out. So something jumped off

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Speaker 4: for her to have to move. But anyway, you gave

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Speaker 4: the father the benefit of doubt because he's a nice guy,

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Speaker 4: and you say she's dominant and she runs over him.

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Speaker 4: So but the son don't want to have nothing to

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Speaker 4: do with it. And your husband always takes his mom's

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Speaker 4: side because he a mama's boy. And then he got

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Speaker 4: upset when you asked him to hear his father out. Now,

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Speaker 4: my father in law is very hurt that his son

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Speaker 4: isn't talking to him. He called me and asked me

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Speaker 4: if he come by the house, show me something while

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Speaker 4: my husband was at church with the mama. But he

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Speaker 4: get over to the house and he had evidence on

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Speaker 4: his phone that his wife was cheating on him. He

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Speaker 4: had a video of her in her car, that's a

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Speaker 4: car that they making payments on, straddling another man on

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Speaker 4: the passenger side. The video isn't clear, but I believe

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Speaker 4: it's her by the bad wigs she had on who

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Speaker 4: car was it?

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Speaker 3: It's her.

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Speaker 4: And she wear bad wigs. Now she's straddling this dude

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Speaker 4: in the car. Now, if your husband sees it, he

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Speaker 4: gonna flip out. Now, I'm not sure if he'll be

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Speaker 4: more mad at his dad for capturing the video, or

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Speaker 4: if he'll be disgusted that his portrayed his dad like that.

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Speaker 4: He gonna be, he gonna be. He gonna be really

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Speaker 4: upset that his mom did this. Don't know, boy, want

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Speaker 4: to see his mama straddling another man. It's gonna it,

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Speaker 3: I can't tell you the hurt that this boy would

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Speaker 4: The husband obviously is weak and she is dominant over him,

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Speaker 4: like you said, because he took this video. I'm gonna

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Speaker 4: tell you right now, all this video is is if

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Speaker 4: I had it, is evidence. This would be exhibit A

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Speaker 4: that they video that car gonna have yellow tape all around,

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Speaker 4: because it's no way I'm taking a picture on my

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Speaker 4: girl straddling a dude in a car I'm paying for,

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Speaker 4: and then I keep the video.

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Speaker 2: No no, no, no, no, no no no.

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Speaker 4: Why are you laid back in that car seat getting straddled?

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Speaker 4: You gonna look up and two people gonna be on

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Speaker 4: top of you. Yeah, we are all gonna be in

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Speaker 4: father because, like you say, she dominating over him and

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Speaker 4: he just showing this right here.

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Speaker 3: I told him, you know, okay, let me go back.

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Speaker 4: You don't know if he'll be mad at his dad

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Speaker 4: for Captain video, if he'll be disgusting that his mom

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Speaker 4: portrayed his dad like that. I have no idea where

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Speaker 4: his head at these days, but I do know he

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Speaker 4: don't play about his mama. I told him he needs

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Speaker 4: to talk to his dad, but he's being stubborn. Should

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Speaker 4: I tell him what his dad showed me with that

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Speaker 4: help the situation? Hell, now ain't gonna help the situation,

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Speaker 4: because guess what now, he already mad at his daddy.

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Speaker 4: He gonna be mad as his dadaddy and his mama.

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Speaker 4: And I don't know, I don't know how the hurt

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Speaker 4: gonna be when you find out your mama trick it.

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Speaker 4: That's a hard when the swadden your mama dog. So

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Speaker 4: do I think you know you should uh tell him no?

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Speaker 4: And the reason that Daddy showed you this cause he

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Speaker 4: want his son back. He don't want to lose relationship

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Speaker 4: you this part, Mama knows she in that video. She

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Speaker 4: know that's her mmm, that's her wig, that's her car.

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Speaker 3: How does she know she not?

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Speaker 4: And and she knocked that real view mare off. You

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Speaker 4: It's herd once again, the video for me with nothing

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Speaker 4: tape around his car right here. The dude in my

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Speaker 4: So now you shouldn't show it to your son, and

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Speaker 4: that should be up to his father, not you. If

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Speaker 4: let that be on him. You c You can't stay

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