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Speaker 1: Welcome to We Talk Back Podcast, the production of iHeartRadio

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Speaker 1: and the Black Effect Network Talk.

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Speaker 2: We're just two unapologetically black women with an opinion to talks.

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Speaker 1: What's up, y'all with your girl a j Holiday?

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Speaker 2: What's up? Tam Bam y'all's official Tam Bam. I love

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Speaker 2: y'all so so so very much. How you doing, girl?

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Speaker 1: I am doing okay? It is today?

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Speaker 2: What it is?

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Speaker 1: It is today?

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Speaker 2: And then wake.

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Speaker 1: I went to the gym this morning. Musty per usual.

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Speaker 1: About to say, what's a new girl, I'm bea taking

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Speaker 1: shout as soon as we're done, but yeah, I'm good

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Speaker 1: today chat.

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Speaker 2: I went to New York over the weekend and I

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Speaker 2: got my stuff, so I'm no longer New Yorker. A

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Speaker 2: good had a good with seven eight months run.

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Speaker 1: You're out of there. Yeah, stuff smell like New York. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I guess now you go to your grandmama house. Grandma

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Speaker 1: house gotta smell to it. That's how New York smell

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Speaker 1: like old mothball and football.

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Speaker 2: They do have that old smell to it. I like

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Speaker 2: it though. Moved. Yeah, so now trying to figure out

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Speaker 2: where to nickt you know, just being like a GYPSYID. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: trying to find where I feel most at home. But

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Speaker 2: I think it's in the South, So we'll see where

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Speaker 2: that lands me. Maybe Atlanta. I don't know who.

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Speaker 1: I Atlanta got some shit going on that my energy

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Speaker 1: be two dreams when I go to Atlanta.

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Speaker 2: You don't like Atlanta? Where you like Charleston?

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Speaker 1: I really, I mean that's why I moved back home.

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Speaker 1: There's really no place in Atlanta in America like I

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Speaker 1: want to live at. Like I feel like my next

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Speaker 1: move is gonna be out this goddamn country. Yeah, okay,

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Speaker 1: I'm ready to get the fuck out of here. So

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Speaker 1: I ain't really no place. I mean, as long as

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Speaker 1: you got a airport, you can get to where you

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Speaker 1: want to go at So really doesn't matter where you

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Speaker 1: live at. The only other thing I consider is like

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Speaker 1: cost of living, business taxes, Like where is that the

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Speaker 1: cheapest at? Do I want to move to Houston? I

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Speaker 1: would like to move to Texas. Texas might be already.

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Speaker 2: I like Texas.

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Speaker 1: I like it, Yeah, I like and Dallas but it

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Speaker 1: just whatever at this point. And my my weekend was

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Speaker 1: very chill, relaxed. Sunday finally wasn't raining, and then I

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Speaker 1: just still stayed in the house all day on Sunday hiberning.

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Speaker 1: So yeah, I ain't do much this weekend. Tjmax Marshall's.

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Speaker 2: I got to meet Taylor's baby. Oh oh, oh my god,

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Speaker 2: I know he gorgeous. He is so gorgeous. He looked

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Speaker 2: like a doll. It took everything for me not to

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Speaker 2: punch them in their face and run out with their child.

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Speaker 2: Like I just wanted to steal the baby so bad.

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Speaker 2: Oh like, oh like, I don't even really like I

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Speaker 2: love babies and all that, but holding this baby made

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Speaker 2: me want a baby, like and I was like, oh

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Speaker 2: my god, like I don't I typically don't feel like that.

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Speaker 2: I'd be like, oh, cute baby, I love this baby,

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Speaker 2: give it back. But I did not want to give

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Speaker 2: their baby back.

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Speaker 1: Is he crying? Is he a good baby?

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Speaker 2: You a good baby? Is sweet baby? Oh he's just

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Speaker 2: staring up into my eyes like do you love me? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: That that baby is definitely perfect, man.

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Speaker 2: Oh goodness, so perfect. Got long eyelashes, already six weeks old,

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Speaker 2: with long, pretty eyelashes, those cutest little, tiny little features.

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Speaker 1: Oh boy's always got the good features though, men, Like,

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Speaker 1: how do you get to have these nice, thick ass

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Speaker 1: eyebrows and lashes in curly edges. Jealous.

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Speaker 2: I wanted to steal that baby so bad, but I

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Speaker 2: knew I would go to jail and.

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Speaker 1: Go make your own. Go get your own, beggar.

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Speaker 2: Boy, Right, that's what I gotta do.

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Speaker 1: Let's get me sing, okay, y'all. Pro tennis player Sasha

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Speaker 1: Vicary is it Vickery? Vickery says she requires a thousand

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Speaker 1: dollars deposit to take her out on a date, as

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Speaker 1: she just competed for a spot in the US Open

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Speaker 1: this week. So this is an American tennis player, Sasha Vickory.

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Speaker 1: She's thirty, So she made headlines this week not for

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Speaker 1: only competing in the US Open qualifiers, but also for

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Speaker 1: candidly discussing her unusual dating policy. So during Instagram q

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Speaker 1: and a victory reviews, she requires one thousand dollars pre

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Speaker 1: date deposit, citing past negative experiences, she said, and this

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Speaker 1: is quote, says, I no longer day for free due

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Speaker 1: to the behavior of men, she said, later posting proof

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Speaker 1: of receiving such a payment. So people people spend in

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Speaker 1: the bag to take her out. Y'all want to do it?

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Speaker 1: For jay z in it. Oh no, they want, they

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Speaker 1: want fifty thousand order or dinner for jay Z. Did

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Speaker 1: you see doctor Umar trying to sell dates for five hundred?

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Speaker 1: He like shit, I got half the price for Chris

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Speaker 1: Brown for five hundred dollars. We could go on a date.

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Speaker 1: Talk to how far he's really They call him the

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Speaker 1: panhandling princess, Prince, the pan handling prince, you know, some

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Speaker 1: shit like that, but it says the Florida Bourne athlete,

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Speaker 1: who reached the career high ranking of number seventy three

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Speaker 1: and twenty eighteen, also defended her use of OnlyFans, calling

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Speaker 1: it the easiest money I've ever made. Her rep clarify

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Speaker 1: that while she shared suggestive content, she does not post

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Speaker 1: nudity or sexual acts and join the platform during recard

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Speaker 1: from an injury. Vickory, daughter of Guyanese immigrants and twenty

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Speaker 1: thirteen USTA Junior national champion, won her opening qualifying match

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Speaker 1: but was eliminated by Germany's Elia Sadel on Thursday. So yeah,

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Speaker 1: she charged, she's charging one thousand dollars deposit. I ain't mad,

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Speaker 1: me neither. And if the men are really willing to

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Speaker 1: pay for it, like who complaining?

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Speaker 2: Who complaining? For real, Well, Hickory Dickery doc Sasha Vickery

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Speaker 2: on the clock.

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Speaker 3: And I mean Chris Brown charged a twelve hundred okay, right,

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Speaker 3: but you don't even get a date with him, no,

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Speaker 3: which brings me to my next topic.

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Speaker 1: You get dick on your butt.

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Speaker 2: Right. So a woman says her boyfriend broke up with

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Speaker 2: her after her meat and greet picture with Chris Brown. So,

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Speaker 2: all right, this picture, y'all is really cute. They're hugged

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Speaker 2: up like kind of like a prom picture. I mean,

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Speaker 2: it don't look bad. It don't look bad. Don't like, no,

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Speaker 2: it doesn't. It was kind of innocent. But it says,

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Speaker 2: my boyfriend broke up with me because I allowed Chris

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Speaker 2: Brown Brown to hold my waist during the meet and greet.

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Speaker 2: After the picture went viral, my boyfriend immediately broke up

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Speaker 2: with me. He told me Chris Brown was too close

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Speaker 2: to me and I shouldn't have allowed him to hold

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Speaker 2: me like that. But I don't care. I will trade

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Speaker 2: my boyfriend for a meet and greet with Chris Brown

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Speaker 2: one hundred more times.

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Speaker 1: She said, and I'll do it again. I had that

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Speaker 1: meet on her back. Her boyfriend ain't like that shit

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Speaker 1: because he'd be seeing that damn that dance and how

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Speaker 1: that should be jumping.

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Speaker 2: I think every relationship should be allowed one celebrity crush

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Speaker 2: that if they ever got the chance to fuck, they

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Speaker 2: could no. Ah mean if my mom, if you ever

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Speaker 2: get close to your celebrity crush, is she gonna let

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Speaker 2: you do it? My boy? Because let me tell you happen.

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Speaker 1: You don't let him do it. But but let Itrew's

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Speaker 1: album come through or some ship like that. Them nigga's

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Speaker 1: gonna be mad as hell in men's mind, there's no

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Speaker 1: reason why you can't get that man, you know what

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Speaker 1: I'm saying, Like in their minds, like we got access

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Speaker 1: to everybody if you wanted to, Like.

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Speaker 2: We got to her kids. And it's probably right. And

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Speaker 2: that's why it's horror, my boy, because when it's my

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Speaker 2: third I'm probably gonna weird.

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Speaker 1: But how are you mad? Because like it's a celebrity.

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Speaker 1: She can't what's in a lifetime oftentime? Why you want

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Speaker 1: to make a big fuss. She needs to get rid

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Speaker 1: of him anyway, because he's probably jealous. Chris Brown Dick

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Speaker 1: wasn't on his back.

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Speaker 2: And it was probably just boys liked look at your

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Speaker 2: girl boy exactly.

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Speaker 1: That's all that ship was about doing a boy what

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Speaker 1: your homeboys.

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Speaker 2: Said, ego, it's ego. So she did, right, I mean

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Speaker 2: we broke up with her, and it was for the

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Speaker 2: best because you shouldn't really care that much.

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Speaker 1: You shouldn't and I mean she went viral. Also that

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Speaker 1: y'all could have used that as an opportunity to go

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Speaker 1: do some other shit like great business, start selling some products,

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Speaker 1: I don't know something, but instead you just became a

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Speaker 1: hater overnight.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. Over, I'm pretty sure, I say, some worst pictures

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Speaker 2: with Chris Brown.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, he just is taking like a garter belt off

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Speaker 1: one girl for ever. Not a garter belt. What is

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Speaker 1: the thing thinking your thigh? Is that a garter belt?

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Speaker 2: Right?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, he was just sliding one down. Somebody said it

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Speaker 1: was panties and I'm like, that's a garter belt. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: what's the problem.

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Speaker 2: What is the problem. It's just all relax a little bit,

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Speaker 2: all right.

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Speaker 1: So study shows that women need forty seven minutes forty

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Speaker 1: seven minutes of unbody a tension a day from their

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Speaker 1: man to feel happy and fulfilled in their relationship. Research

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Speaker 1: shows I don't know if these articles be real or not,

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Speaker 1: but they always fun. And this is on black Billionaire's

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Speaker 1: underscore Instagram. It says, fellas, you may be forty seven

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Speaker 1: they says, fellas what this is? Definitely who the fuck

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Speaker 1: wrote this? I'm gonna read how it says though, fellas,

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Speaker 1: you may be forty minutes of daily attention away. Oh

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Speaker 1: that does make sense. Daily attention away from keeping your

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Speaker 1: women happy and fulfilling your relationship. In the fast paced

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Speaker 1: world of modern relationships, emotional connection is more important than ever.

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Speaker 1: According to fightings inspired by renowned relationship expert expert doctor

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Speaker 1: John Gottman and studies published in Psychology Today, Pubman and

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Speaker 1: very well mined, women thrive in relationships where they receive

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Speaker 1: at least forty seven minutes of undivided attention each day

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Speaker 1: each day from their partners. This is just about being

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Speaker 1: in the same room or watching TV together. It's about intentional,

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Speaker 1: focused time spent, listening, sharing, and being emotionally present. Research

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Speaker 1: shows that when women feel seen and heard, their sense

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Speaker 1: of fulfillment and a relationship increases significantly, boosting overall happiness

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Speaker 1: and emotional security. Doctor Gotman, known for his ability to

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Speaker 1: predict relationship success with remarkable accuracy, has long emphasized the

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Speaker 1: importance of daily rituals of connection, small but meaningful moments

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Speaker 1: like checking in, emotionally sharing stories, or simply enjoying uninterrupted conversation.

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Speaker 1: When couples make time for these moments, they build a

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Speaker 1: stronger emotional foundation. The forty seven minute mark might seem

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Speaker 1: oddly specific, but it highlights the critical need for quality

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Speaker 1: over quantity. Just under an hour of focused attention a

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Speaker 1: day can lead to better communications, stronger intimacy, and increase

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Speaker 1: satisfaction on both sides. And the waiter bitch is smiling

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Speaker 1: at me across the camera. She's about to say, girl.

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Speaker 2: You read that good, and then I might think about that,

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Speaker 2: but you did. You did good. Though I'm probably you

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Speaker 2: look out. It only took five years for you to

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Speaker 2: be and not like you. What is happening girl? You

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Speaker 2: know what's happening? Soundly?

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Speaker 1: Don't my brain be moving faster than my damn mouth

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Speaker 1: a lot of times or the other way around. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: that's what be happening.

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Speaker 2: But no, why I was smiling is because I was

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Speaker 2: just thinking about Like was forty six minutes and the

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Speaker 2: bitch was like, I'm still sad, you know, I feel

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Speaker 2: long fulfilled and then after forty seven minutes, bitches was like, yeah,

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Speaker 2: Yeah. So there's that what we're talking about today.

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Speaker 2: You know? First he was like take your glasses off?

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Speaker 1: All right, y'all so black, don't crack, but it do cost.

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Speaker 2: What is it? Is? It? Skincare. What is it? I

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Speaker 1: Because it costs money for upkeep, you know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 1: So that's really what this episode is about, Like how

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Speaker 1: And I'm probably like averaging once a year. I've only

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Speaker 2: Well, no, you don't want it so tight that you

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so how much is that?

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Speaker 1: I hate it so hard on ourselves, man, So I'm

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Speaker 2: Now, you know who don't be cracking either. The Asian girlies.

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Speaker 1: They have that age that Asian Cosmetics is like right,

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Speaker 2: But I'm seeing like now, I'm seeing chemical pills that

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Speaker 2: looks crazy. That's really vasive.

435
00:24:14,480 --> 00:24:22,280
Speaker 1: Yeah it's cray z mmm. But so's it's being pretty

436
00:24:22,320 --> 00:24:24,640
Speaker 1: making us broke, you know what I'm saying, Like, especially

437
00:24:24,640 --> 00:24:27,000
Speaker 1: with the social media area and people who are actually

438
00:24:27,040 --> 00:24:30,359
Speaker 1: trying to look like they're the filters. You know, to

439
00:24:30,480 --> 00:24:35,720
Speaker 1: what ends are people spending to look perfect online?

440
00:24:37,840 --> 00:24:39,960
Speaker 2: Well, that's the thing with these filters. You ain't got

441
00:24:39,960 --> 00:24:42,320
Speaker 2: to spend no money. At this point, you ain't got

442
00:24:42,400 --> 00:24:44,320
Speaker 2: to spend no money. You just ain't gonna look like

443
00:24:44,359 --> 00:24:48,240
Speaker 2: you're filtered in real life, you know, that's so you

444
00:24:48,280 --> 00:24:53,040
Speaker 2: don't have China. Yeah, but people are trying to do that.

445
00:24:52,520 --> 00:24:56,320
Speaker 2: That ship gets it very expensive, even if it when

446
00:24:56,320 --> 00:25:00,480
Speaker 2: it comes down to like just skincare products, not like

447
00:25:00,560 --> 00:25:04,920
Speaker 2: actual procedures, but like their products are high too. Exactly,

448
00:25:05,280 --> 00:25:07,720
Speaker 2: I'll be going to Trader Joe's and getting their skincare shit.

449
00:25:08,600 --> 00:25:10,440
Speaker 1: I like their You think is it organic?

450
00:25:10,760 --> 00:25:13,960
Speaker 2: Mm hmm, it's stuff. I like their stuff. So I

451
00:25:14,080 --> 00:25:19,040
Speaker 2: go get their their toner. I get their jail face

452
00:25:19,119 --> 00:25:23,080
Speaker 2: moisturizer and a face wash right out of Trader Joe's,

453
00:25:23,280 --> 00:25:26,760
Speaker 2: some nacho, some salsa, and some skincare right out of

454
00:25:26,800 --> 00:25:27,439
Speaker 2: Trader Joe's.

455
00:25:27,960 --> 00:25:31,960
Speaker 1: So aside from like cosmetic type products, like tell me

456
00:25:31,960 --> 00:25:35,240
Speaker 1: about the time you like actually like splurreged super splurged

457
00:25:36,080 --> 00:25:38,919
Speaker 1: on an outfit or sounding like that for an event,

458
00:25:39,800 --> 00:25:42,800
Speaker 1: And how much did you spend oko fat shoes now

459
00:25:42,840 --> 00:25:44,800
Speaker 1: all the things.

460
00:25:45,200 --> 00:25:48,399
Speaker 2: I this was many many many years ago, so I

461
00:25:48,440 --> 00:25:52,119
Speaker 2: didn't even have the money to be spending. But I

462
00:25:52,160 --> 00:25:54,639
Speaker 2: was going to Miami. I mean I was in my

463
00:25:54,880 --> 00:25:58,439
Speaker 2: like twenties at this time, y'all. I was going to

464
00:25:58,480 --> 00:26:01,000
Speaker 2: Miami and I want and we were going to live.

465
00:26:01,080 --> 00:26:02,840
Speaker 2: And I was like, I gotta be a Babbage when

466
00:26:02,840 --> 00:26:06,440
Speaker 2: I'm going to live. So I it was this website

467
00:26:06,480 --> 00:26:08,000
Speaker 2: where you could rent designer clothes.

468
00:26:08,000 --> 00:26:13,919
Speaker 1: Wrong, rent the one runway way yep.

469
00:26:13,680 --> 00:26:16,200
Speaker 2: Rent the runway, and I got these cute dress. I

470
00:26:16,240 --> 00:26:19,480
Speaker 2: can't remember who the designer was, but I probably spent

471
00:26:19,600 --> 00:26:23,760
Speaker 2: like two hundred dollars to rent it. But then I

472
00:26:23,800 --> 00:26:27,639
Speaker 2: got in a fight in the club and they ripped

473
00:26:27,640 --> 00:26:32,280
Speaker 2: all the sequence off my dress, so I couldn't return

474
00:26:32,320 --> 00:26:34,440
Speaker 2: it like that. I had to pay for the dress

475
00:26:34,480 --> 00:26:38,720
Speaker 2: and it was two thousand dollars. Two thousand dollars dress,

476
00:26:39,119 --> 00:26:41,600
Speaker 2: So I mean, I guess that's a splurge. I didn't

477
00:26:41,880 --> 00:26:50,800
Speaker 2: intend to splurge. Them bitches ripped me out my dress.

478
00:26:51,359 --> 00:26:55,240
Speaker 2: That was definitely a splurge on clothes. And then I

479
00:26:55,320 --> 00:27:01,560
Speaker 2: went to like in twenty sixteen, I went to Sonabella

480
00:27:01,680 --> 00:27:06,040
Speaker 2: to get my back fat removed. Don't go to Sonobella, y'all.

481
00:27:06,320 --> 00:27:10,400
Speaker 2: I can't unless you like really fat. It ain't for

482
00:27:10,440 --> 00:27:13,360
Speaker 2: you because I feel like my back I came out

483
00:27:13,359 --> 00:27:14,639
Speaker 2: with the same back I went in with.

484
00:27:17,720 --> 00:27:19,480
Speaker 1: I even well, one of my friends she went to

485
00:27:19,520 --> 00:27:22,359
Speaker 1: Sonabella and she is not super big either, but she

486
00:27:22,440 --> 00:27:25,720
Speaker 1: got a fat back like and when I tell you,

487
00:27:25,800 --> 00:27:27,840
Speaker 1: none of that shit went away exactly.

488
00:27:27,920 --> 00:27:30,160
Speaker 2: I don't know what they're doing. Like so when people

489
00:27:30,240 --> 00:27:35,639
Speaker 2: like do you have have you had plastic surgery? No? Right?

490
00:27:37,240 --> 00:27:39,920
Speaker 2: Or it didn't work because that looked the same fucking

491
00:27:39,920 --> 00:27:41,720
Speaker 2: way I did before came out.

492
00:27:42,440 --> 00:27:47,600
Speaker 1: So but does Sonobella like offer like non evasive lipol.

493
00:27:47,720 --> 00:27:50,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, So it's not like yeah, because they don't put

494
00:27:50,000 --> 00:27:53,359
Speaker 2: you to sleep. It's kind of like freezing the fat

495
00:27:53,720 --> 00:27:54,919
Speaker 2: McDonald's of LiPo.

496
00:27:56,080 --> 00:27:58,919
Speaker 1: Huh is it like freezing the fat or what are

497
00:27:58,920 --> 00:27:59,320
Speaker 1: they doing?

498
00:27:59,480 --> 00:28:01,359
Speaker 2: No? I don't know what the fuck they doing. I

499
00:28:01,400 --> 00:28:03,440
Speaker 2: wish I would a little bit like more smart about

500
00:28:03,520 --> 00:28:06,960
Speaker 2: how it went about playing for surgery, because it was

501
00:28:07,000 --> 00:28:10,359
Speaker 2: a waste of money. They give you a bunch of

502
00:28:10,480 --> 00:28:14,080
Speaker 2: drugs that make you sleepy, and they put some numb

503
00:28:14,160 --> 00:28:17,679
Speaker 2: and agent inside your back and then they just like

504
00:28:18,240 --> 00:28:20,480
Speaker 2: I think that gave me a back massage, and then.

505
00:28:22,920 --> 00:28:25,040
Speaker 1: It was back there with one of the little dough

506
00:28:25,160 --> 00:28:28,120
Speaker 1: rollers just rolling your shit out.

507
00:28:29,600 --> 00:28:32,200
Speaker 2: And that was it. That's really what I think happened.

508
00:28:32,960 --> 00:28:34,960
Speaker 2: The drugs that give you make you kind of sleepy

509
00:28:35,080 --> 00:28:38,520
Speaker 2: and not like coherent for real, and I just really

510
00:28:38,560 --> 00:28:40,320
Speaker 2: think that that's what they did they just was that

511
00:28:40,440 --> 00:28:43,560
Speaker 2: they're playing on my back, rubbing it, smacking it, playing

512
00:28:43,600 --> 00:28:47,200
Speaker 2: on your top, and then that was it. What about you?

513
00:28:49,680 --> 00:28:52,480
Speaker 1: I don't think I've ever spent like an astronomical amount

514
00:28:52,520 --> 00:28:54,280
Speaker 1: of money. First of all, I feel like I can

515
00:28:54,320 --> 00:28:57,040
Speaker 1: make I'm gonna make the things look good no matter

516
00:28:57,120 --> 00:28:59,960
Speaker 1: what it is, right, So it's not not you can

517
00:29:00,160 --> 00:29:03,640
Speaker 1: some really nice pieces and not spend a whole bunch

518
00:29:03,680 --> 00:29:06,720
Speaker 1: of money. So I think probably the most, like maybe

519
00:29:06,760 --> 00:29:11,360
Speaker 1: on some shoes possibly, but like on just full a

520
00:29:11,440 --> 00:29:13,920
Speaker 1: thousand dollar max. If I got to really go to

521
00:29:13,960 --> 00:29:16,400
Speaker 1: an event or something like that, I'm probably not spending

522
00:29:16,400 --> 00:29:18,920
Speaker 1: over a thousand dollars like I'm You're gonna get a

523
00:29:18,920 --> 00:29:21,520
Speaker 1: good dress, might be three hundred and something dollars some shoes.

524
00:29:21,920 --> 00:29:24,040
Speaker 1: I'm not going to get my makeup done. I'm doing

525
00:29:24,040 --> 00:29:26,840
Speaker 1: that shit myself. I have followed Tam up multiple times.

526
00:29:28,240 --> 00:29:31,320
Speaker 2: You will though, I've seen you pay for makeup. Yeah.

527
00:29:31,440 --> 00:29:33,040
Speaker 1: Now I was about to say, like, yeah, I have

528
00:29:33,200 --> 00:29:37,040
Speaker 1: followed you up multiple times and paid for makeup, and

529
00:29:37,120 --> 00:29:39,400
Speaker 1: every time I'm like, I could have did this shit,

530
00:29:39,960 --> 00:29:43,160
Speaker 1: or this is too much shit. I can't wait to

531
00:29:43,320 --> 00:29:45,800
Speaker 1: wash my face. I don't like it. It's just too much,

532
00:29:45,800 --> 00:29:47,520
Speaker 1: and then you gotta wash off one hundred and fifty

533
00:29:47,520 --> 00:29:48,920
Speaker 1: dollars worth of product.

534
00:29:49,240 --> 00:29:50,840
Speaker 2: Let me tell you what time I got some biggest

535
00:29:50,920 --> 00:29:55,000
Speaker 2: utization on right, yep, last time I was in Atlanta,

536
00:29:55,080 --> 00:29:59,160
Speaker 2: I went and got my makeup done for I can't remember.

537
00:29:59,200 --> 00:30:02,239
Speaker 2: I think it was the No, I didn't do it

538
00:30:02,240 --> 00:30:05,280
Speaker 2: for the festival. I can't remember. But I could not

539
00:30:05,440 --> 00:30:10,640
Speaker 2: even pay for my service because I could not open

540
00:30:10,960 --> 00:30:13,440
Speaker 2: up my banking with my face.

541
00:30:13,480 --> 00:30:16,800
Speaker 1: I D no, you did you did get your makeup done?

542
00:30:16,800 --> 00:30:21,680
Speaker 1: Because remember I had to pay for it.

543
00:30:19,640 --> 00:30:26,240
Speaker 2: I could not get to my bank. It did not

544
00:30:26,320 --> 00:30:29,160
Speaker 2: recognize me. It kept saying, I do know that, ain't you? Bitch?

545
00:30:29,160 --> 00:30:31,920
Speaker 2: Who is this? And the first thing I told her

546
00:30:32,040 --> 00:30:33,560
Speaker 2: is like, I don't like a lot of makeup because

547
00:30:33,600 --> 00:30:35,160
Speaker 2: I want to look like myself.

548
00:30:35,640 --> 00:30:37,480
Speaker 1: Right, I not cast get ready?

549
00:30:37,800 --> 00:30:39,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, I couldn't even get into my bank.

550
00:30:44,480 --> 00:30:46,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, because the makeup girlies don't know how to do

551
00:30:46,840 --> 00:30:48,760
Speaker 1: a light beat. I don't think, like if you go

552
00:30:48,840 --> 00:30:52,120
Speaker 1: get makeup, they automatically assume, like even when you say

553
00:30:52,200 --> 00:30:57,000
Speaker 1: light beat, it's gonna be like face full of makeup,

554
00:30:57,040 --> 00:31:00,600
Speaker 1: like it's your wedding day or something. And even then,

555
00:31:01,080 --> 00:31:02,280
Speaker 1: I guess that's.

556
00:31:02,760 --> 00:31:05,360
Speaker 2: That people be going for because I remember one time

557
00:31:05,400 --> 00:31:07,160
Speaker 2: we went and I was like, gosh, this is a

558
00:31:07,160 --> 00:31:09,680
Speaker 2: lot of makeup. But by the time it's set, I

559
00:31:09,720 --> 00:31:11,800
Speaker 2: was like, Okay, this looks nice. You know, this does

560
00:31:11,840 --> 00:31:15,280
Speaker 2: look nice, but I just like my.

561
00:31:15,240 --> 00:31:18,960
Speaker 1: Side out that hmm, right out the chair, you'd be

562
00:31:19,000 --> 00:31:21,080
Speaker 1: looking like somebody else. But it does set, but it

563
00:31:21,120 --> 00:31:24,520
Speaker 1: takes like an hour for it to like look like

564
00:31:24,520 --> 00:31:26,240
Speaker 1: it's supposed to look right.

565
00:31:26,720 --> 00:31:28,880
Speaker 2: So I'm not a big makeup earlier like that. I

566
00:31:28,880 --> 00:31:34,160
Speaker 2: love makeup, but not just too much. Good grief and

567
00:31:34,160 --> 00:31:38,920
Speaker 2: that shit is so.

568
00:31:36,880 --> 00:31:38,880
Speaker 1: So what about the girls who get all the nails

569
00:31:38,920 --> 00:31:40,760
Speaker 1: that cry cause you get your nails done. I don't

570
00:31:40,760 --> 00:31:42,920
Speaker 1: even get my nails done. So how much y'all people

571
00:31:43,000 --> 00:31:47,200
Speaker 1: paying for like the bedazzle nails like a Cardi B nail.

572
00:31:47,680 --> 00:31:49,560
Speaker 2: Oh, I don't even know. I don't go that far.

573
00:31:50,040 --> 00:31:52,200
Speaker 2: Just give me some polish, that's all. I don't do

574
00:31:52,240 --> 00:31:54,840
Speaker 2: a whole bunch of designs and stuffs and stones and

575
00:31:54,840 --> 00:31:57,600
Speaker 2: shit because I don't have time for that order money.

576
00:31:57,640 --> 00:31:59,520
Speaker 2: I know they be paying like up words of almost

577
00:31:59,560 --> 00:32:03,960
Speaker 2: a hundred fifty hundred and seventy five dollars for they nails.

578
00:32:05,120 --> 00:32:07,400
Speaker 2: I'll be paying my twenty five dollars.

579
00:32:07,560 --> 00:32:10,800
Speaker 1: Huh, twenty five dollars was a full set back.

580
00:32:10,600 --> 00:32:15,880
Speaker 2: In the ready. No seventy dollars easy, easy.

581
00:32:15,960 --> 00:32:19,280
Speaker 1: You look what pedicure. Your pedicure is like forty dollars

582
00:32:19,320 --> 00:32:21,520
Speaker 1: now plus a tip? Fifty dollars plus a tip.

583
00:32:22,400 --> 00:32:25,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, plus more than that. My feet, my refeet, I

584
00:32:25,080 --> 00:32:27,600
Speaker 2: need more. I need the whole shebang.

585
00:32:27,960 --> 00:32:29,000
Speaker 1: Not buy refeet.

586
00:32:30,280 --> 00:32:32,680
Speaker 2: It's just the left foot, the right foot, normal, right

587
00:32:32,720 --> 00:32:36,360
Speaker 2: that left foot, Like I go to this girl that

588
00:32:36,360 --> 00:32:38,400
Speaker 2: ain't Tiffany the foot surgeon for my feet.

589
00:32:39,120 --> 00:32:43,560
Speaker 1: I need to serious shout out to Tiffany.

590
00:32:43,680 --> 00:32:46,680
Speaker 2: Shout out the Tiffany what she do?

591
00:32:48,400 --> 00:32:49,800
Speaker 1: So do we is this stuff?

592
00:32:49,840 --> 00:32:49,920
Speaker 2: Like?

593
00:32:50,080 --> 00:32:52,040
Speaker 1: Is it self care or self sabotage?

594
00:32:52,120 --> 00:32:52,239
Speaker 2: Like?

595
00:32:52,320 --> 00:32:54,280
Speaker 1: Are we doing too much? I know the men hate

596
00:32:54,280 --> 00:32:56,720
Speaker 1: the weave, right, I just be like, it's a whole disclaimer.

597
00:32:56,760 --> 00:32:59,360
Speaker 1: When I start talking to somebody, like, listen, you met

598
00:32:59,360 --> 00:33:02,080
Speaker 1: me with this weed. I always wear weave.

599
00:33:02,280 --> 00:33:02,960
Speaker 2: Don't kind of.

600
00:33:03,120 --> 00:33:08,040
Speaker 1: Harass me a year from now, Like, baby, when you're

601
00:33:08,040 --> 00:33:09,640
Speaker 1: gonna let me fuck you with your natural?

602
00:33:10,120 --> 00:33:10,400
Speaker 2: Never?

603
00:33:12,760 --> 00:33:14,600
Speaker 1: I mean you have fucked me with the natural, but

604
00:33:14,640 --> 00:33:17,800
Speaker 1: it's under a bonnet. Okay, do you let me see

605
00:33:17,800 --> 00:33:22,400
Speaker 1: your hair? He probably could have had a would have

606
00:33:22,400 --> 00:33:24,280
Speaker 1: had the opportunity to see it if he would have

607
00:33:24,320 --> 00:33:27,640
Speaker 1: just walked in the bathroom at some point. But no,

608
00:33:27,680 --> 00:33:29,280
Speaker 1: I'd be putting on a bonnet if I don't have

609
00:33:29,320 --> 00:33:31,280
Speaker 1: my way going. I don't just be walking around with

610
00:33:31,360 --> 00:33:34,040
Speaker 1: my fucking braids. Do you have hair pretty?

611
00:33:35,280 --> 00:33:35,480
Speaker 2: No?

612
00:33:35,560 --> 00:33:38,680
Speaker 1: I don't. It's just nothing though. It's not like my

613
00:33:38,720 --> 00:33:40,880
Speaker 1: hair is in style. You know, even if with natural

614
00:33:40,920 --> 00:33:43,240
Speaker 1: hair you can just you know, do two strand twists

615
00:33:43,320 --> 00:33:44,840
Speaker 1: or something like that to make it look cute. It's

616
00:33:45,440 --> 00:33:48,960
Speaker 1: fucking dry and breid it down. What am I showing?

617
00:33:49,640 --> 00:33:50,000
Speaker 2: Yeah?

618
00:33:50,000 --> 00:33:52,760
Speaker 1: So no, it's not insecurity. Maybe if I actually did

619
00:33:52,760 --> 00:33:55,480
Speaker 1: the hair, then it would be cool, but it's not

620
00:33:55,640 --> 00:33:58,240
Speaker 1: done like in nine times out of ten, Like these

621
00:33:58,280 --> 00:34:01,880
Speaker 1: braids underneath this fucking wig look crazy. Yeah, And I

622
00:34:01,880 --> 00:34:04,560
Speaker 1: feel like women need to keep something. I need to

623
00:34:04,640 --> 00:34:08,080
Speaker 1: keep something to myself, the illusion, right, you have to

624
00:34:08,200 --> 00:34:10,240
Speaker 1: style and experience.

625
00:34:11,640 --> 00:34:14,240
Speaker 2: Passing that out ahead?

626
00:34:14,600 --> 00:34:19,680
Speaker 1: Sorry what you say because it'd be hidden?

627
00:34:22,840 --> 00:34:23,760
Speaker 2: Go ahead? What were you saying?

628
00:34:25,040 --> 00:34:27,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, like you gotta keep something to yourself, you know,

629
00:34:27,880 --> 00:34:30,000
Speaker 1: Like I don't think that men should wash their women

630
00:34:30,239 --> 00:34:32,120
Speaker 1: get dressed. I don't think so. I don't think you

631
00:34:32,120 --> 00:34:33,960
Speaker 1: should see me putting my makeup. I want to doing

632
00:34:33,960 --> 00:34:37,120
Speaker 1: all the things, putting my magic together. I don't think

633
00:34:37,160 --> 00:34:37,960
Speaker 1: it's your business.

634
00:34:38,360 --> 00:34:40,240
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's why I don't do too much walking around

635
00:34:40,239 --> 00:34:43,879
Speaker 2: like naked. I stay covered up, like you only get

636
00:34:43,920 --> 00:34:46,399
Speaker 2: to really see me naked until it's until you get

637
00:34:46,400 --> 00:34:47,200
Speaker 2: to see me naked.

638
00:34:48,719 --> 00:34:51,400
Speaker 1: I'm a naked person. I'd be walking like I hate clothes.

639
00:34:51,680 --> 00:34:53,319
Speaker 1: As soon as I hit the door, I'm taking all

640
00:34:53,320 --> 00:34:55,600
Speaker 1: my clothes off. Can you just be walking around here

641
00:34:55,640 --> 00:34:58,000
Speaker 1: all the time, Yes, I do. I come from a

642
00:34:58,040 --> 00:35:01,720
Speaker 1: naked family. Like even the fun boys like niggas be naked.

643
00:35:02,280 --> 00:35:04,759
Speaker 2: I'd be naked, but when I'm with a man, I

644
00:35:04,840 --> 00:35:08,120
Speaker 2: be covered up because this is this is your price,

645
00:35:08,680 --> 00:35:10,440
Speaker 2: this is your surprise. You don't get to see it,

646
00:35:10,480 --> 00:35:11,640
Speaker 2: just all willy lilly.

647
00:35:12,840 --> 00:35:20,319
Speaker 1: Willy nilly. So I think it's I mean, I think

648
00:35:20,360 --> 00:35:22,960
Speaker 1: it's it's self love. I don't think it's you're sabotaging

649
00:35:23,520 --> 00:35:26,480
Speaker 1: in any type of way. I believe that you know,

650
00:35:26,920 --> 00:35:30,319
Speaker 1: we should do whatever makes us feel good. Right, So

651
00:35:30,440 --> 00:35:33,600
Speaker 1: if and and men should be okay with their woman

652
00:35:35,360 --> 00:35:38,360
Speaker 1: make them feel good, Yeah, Yeah, my ex for example,

653
00:35:38,400 --> 00:35:41,280
Speaker 1: he would always complain and then say he just wants

654
00:35:41,360 --> 00:35:45,520
Speaker 1: me to be comfortable. I am comfortable. I am not

655
00:35:45,600 --> 00:35:48,359
Speaker 1: the one complaining about the fucking weave. There's some ship

656
00:35:48,400 --> 00:35:50,600
Speaker 1: that you'd be doing. I could very well complain about

657
00:35:50,920 --> 00:35:53,080
Speaker 1: some things that you waste money on. I can complain

658
00:35:53,080 --> 00:35:57,440
Speaker 1: about like so you under the guys of control, right,

659
00:35:57,480 --> 00:36:00,600
Speaker 1: that's control, but under the guys of just wanted me

660
00:36:00,719 --> 00:36:04,200
Speaker 1: to be comfortable, you're really making me uncomfortable. And now

661
00:36:04,239 --> 00:36:06,440
Speaker 1: I got to have a whole argument with you about

662
00:36:06,680 --> 00:36:09,960
Speaker 1: fucking weave. The point the one time this nigga called

663
00:36:10,000 --> 00:36:13,440
Speaker 1: his mom, and his mom was like, you're asking the

664
00:36:13,480 --> 00:36:19,560
Speaker 1: wrong person. I wear wigs right, because essentially he was

665
00:36:19,560 --> 00:36:22,920
Speaker 1: trying to say I wasn't me. I wouldn't be me

666
00:36:23,080 --> 00:36:25,120
Speaker 1: without the weave. And yes, I am talking about the

667
00:36:25,160 --> 00:36:28,000
Speaker 1: nigga who cut my wig up one time, okay, because

668
00:36:28,040 --> 00:36:30,239
Speaker 1: he thought he was removing some swag from me, and

669
00:36:30,280 --> 00:36:32,640
Speaker 1: I just went and fucking sewed me up another one.

670
00:36:33,400 --> 00:36:36,200
Speaker 1: I got so much weave, I can open the shop

671
00:36:36,280 --> 00:36:41,240
Speaker 1: right now. But yeah, he thought he was like taking

672
00:36:41,280 --> 00:36:44,480
Speaker 1: some swag away. No, I'm still mean with it, and

673
00:36:44,520 --> 00:36:47,680
Speaker 1: I still treat you good with or without weaves. So

674
00:36:47,760 --> 00:36:49,040
Speaker 1: what are we talking about.

675
00:36:49,200 --> 00:36:51,120
Speaker 2: I don't like when niggas be like spray paint in

676
00:36:51,160 --> 00:36:55,920
Speaker 2: their beer. I don't like that. But if that makes

677
00:36:55,920 --> 00:36:57,880
Speaker 2: you feel good, then who am I to tell you

678
00:36:57,920 --> 00:37:02,120
Speaker 2: not to do that? You know, but maybe let me

679
00:37:02,200 --> 00:37:04,640
Speaker 2: paint like I will even do the color for you, baby,

680
00:37:04,680 --> 00:37:09,399
Speaker 2: don't put that like that hard line paint line. That's

681
00:37:09,440 --> 00:37:11,480
Speaker 2: what I don't like. I don't mind you coloring it.

682
00:37:11,560 --> 00:37:14,279
Speaker 2: That's fine, do that, But that hard paint line be

683
00:37:14,360 --> 00:37:15,839
Speaker 2: making me real upset.

684
00:37:17,120 --> 00:37:21,719
Speaker 1: Called anxiety a little bit mm hmm, break that anxiety

685
00:37:21,719 --> 00:37:27,400
Speaker 1: a little bit, break that line up the fuck. So

686
00:37:27,480 --> 00:37:29,279
Speaker 1: let's do like a little let's go over like a

687
00:37:29,760 --> 00:37:32,800
Speaker 1: budget of some sort, like how much people be spending,

688
00:37:32,840 --> 00:37:35,279
Speaker 1: like the high end, and maybe we could do like

689
00:37:35,360 --> 00:37:38,400
Speaker 1: a budget low wind to try to help some of

690
00:37:38,440 --> 00:37:41,120
Speaker 1: the listeners. And most of the most of our listeners

691
00:37:41,160 --> 00:37:45,880
Speaker 1: are younger women, right, And you don't.

692
00:37:45,680 --> 00:37:48,040
Speaker 2: Got to do much younger women. It's half and half.

693
00:37:48,040 --> 00:37:54,040
Speaker 2: It's women younger and in the middle. Right yeah probably

694
00:37:54,040 --> 00:37:56,399
Speaker 2: your age, Yeah, your age too.

695
00:38:05,040 --> 00:38:06,520
Speaker 1: So I just want to back it up a little bit,

696
00:38:06,600 --> 00:38:09,719
Speaker 1: right because I know I mentioned like, was it like

697
00:38:09,840 --> 00:38:16,640
Speaker 1: self love or are we self sabotaging spending all this

698
00:38:16,719 --> 00:38:19,360
Speaker 1: fucking money on things and stuff and keeping out with

699
00:38:19,400 --> 00:38:22,880
Speaker 1: the joneses and keeping out with the trends? What do

700
00:38:22,920 --> 00:38:24,759
Speaker 1: you think? Do you think it's self love?

701
00:38:24,920 --> 00:38:29,680
Speaker 2: It's a little bit of both, honestly, because when you

702
00:38:29,719 --> 00:38:32,600
Speaker 2: look good, you feel good. You know, absolutely, when you

703
00:38:32,719 --> 00:38:34,920
Speaker 2: got on some new shit, your hair is all leg

704
00:38:35,080 --> 00:38:38,120
Speaker 2: you feel nice, you feel good inside. I don't know

705
00:38:38,160 --> 00:38:43,880
Speaker 2: if our self worth is attached to our outer appearance,

706
00:38:44,000 --> 00:38:48,480
Speaker 2: but maybe so a little bit. So. I mean that's

707
00:38:48,480 --> 00:38:51,799
Speaker 2: self love to me. But at the same time, if

708
00:38:51,840 --> 00:38:57,439
Speaker 2: you eating ramen noodles to get your hair done, that's

709
00:38:57,440 --> 00:38:59,960
Speaker 2: not self love. You putting that portion into your body,

710
00:39:00,920 --> 00:39:02,399
Speaker 2: you know, and you.

711
00:39:02,640 --> 00:39:03,279
Speaker 1: Look like money.

712
00:39:03,440 --> 00:39:08,080
Speaker 2: You sacrifice in your health to look good. It's people

713
00:39:08,520 --> 00:39:11,600
Speaker 2: who don't have a side tooth, but hair is laid

714
00:39:12,719 --> 00:39:13,160
Speaker 2: like that.

715
00:39:15,640 --> 00:39:18,719
Speaker 1: I lean more towards I understand like it is kind

716
00:39:18,760 --> 00:39:20,880
Speaker 1: of both. But I think when I think about the

717
00:39:20,920 --> 00:39:24,000
Speaker 1: black community and our culture, it is self sabotage because

718
00:39:24,080 --> 00:39:27,279
Speaker 1: niggas will wear the money instead of actually having it.

719
00:39:28,120 --> 00:39:32,160
Speaker 1: You know, people will be spending a last damn dollar

720
00:39:32,520 --> 00:39:34,920
Speaker 1: on some shit and ain't paid a light bill. Your

721
00:39:35,000 --> 00:39:38,600
Speaker 1: lights off because we know black people are the number

722
00:39:38,600 --> 00:39:42,680
Speaker 1: one consumers around the world. Okay, we're gonna buy some shit.

723
00:39:42,719 --> 00:39:47,800
Speaker 1: Everybody markets to us. We move culture, we move style, fashion,

724
00:39:47,920 --> 00:39:52,200
Speaker 1: all that stuff absolutely so they expect us to buy. Meanwhile,

725
00:39:52,239 --> 00:39:54,680
Speaker 1: we put all our money out. We don't have much

726
00:39:54,680 --> 00:39:58,480
Speaker 1: coming in, right, And I know for a fact that

727
00:39:58,520 --> 00:40:02,279
Speaker 1: if a depression hits Mo, bitches is still going to

728
00:40:02,360 --> 00:40:05,840
Speaker 1: TAM's vanity they get their hair done right, it don't

729
00:40:05,840 --> 00:40:09,120
Speaker 1: even matter. So as a black woman, like the beauty

730
00:40:09,160 --> 00:40:11,400
Speaker 1: industry is the number one industry you should be in

731
00:40:11,480 --> 00:40:14,200
Speaker 1: because bitches don't have a dime left, but they're gonna

732
00:40:14,239 --> 00:40:19,799
Speaker 1: barter some Kucie or something to get there. So I

733
00:40:19,920 --> 00:40:22,600
Speaker 1: lean more towards it being a little bit self sabotaged.

734
00:40:22,680 --> 00:40:24,920
Speaker 1: I mean, like, I just feel like other races of

735
00:40:24,960 --> 00:40:27,520
Speaker 1: people can show up for real, like truly their true

736
00:40:27,600 --> 00:40:30,439
Speaker 1: authentic self and an example of this. And I hate

737
00:40:30,440 --> 00:40:32,879
Speaker 1: that my ex par I be listening to this shit

738
00:40:32,920 --> 00:40:36,719
Speaker 1: and be like bitch fucking But when I met him,

739
00:40:38,080 --> 00:40:40,800
Speaker 1: it would be like an equivalent in comparison to pictures

740
00:40:40,840 --> 00:40:42,680
Speaker 1: he would show me of him and how he had

741
00:40:42,719 --> 00:40:45,839
Speaker 1: like the gold teeth and all the things. It would

742
00:40:45,840 --> 00:40:51,520
Speaker 1: be like a a Gucci mane like three sixty right,

743
00:40:51,800 --> 00:40:55,760
Speaker 1: completely different person. And he was in the hood, hustling

744
00:40:55,880 --> 00:40:59,759
Speaker 1: in the streets like he had to. Always super smart though,

745
00:41:00,080 --> 00:41:03,920
Speaker 1: always an intellectual, but because of his environment, he couldn't

746
00:41:03,920 --> 00:41:06,120
Speaker 1: even show that part in him. This nigga liked to

747
00:41:06,120 --> 00:41:08,960
Speaker 1: make his own clothes. Like when I met him, he

748
00:41:09,000 --> 00:41:11,200
Speaker 1: had some crazy ass ban Dana shit on it, some

749
00:41:11,320 --> 00:41:13,920
Speaker 1: tank top he had sewed up hisself on the sewing machine,

750
00:41:14,040 --> 00:41:17,759
Speaker 1: Like that is the real hymn. Some shit he didn't

751
00:41:17,760 --> 00:41:20,080
Speaker 1: even have to go spend two three hundred dollars on,

752
00:41:20,280 --> 00:41:22,520
Speaker 1: Like that's really what he liked, but he was trying

753
00:41:22,560 --> 00:41:26,600
Speaker 1: to to he mastered it. Because of his environment, he

754
00:41:26,600 --> 00:41:28,560
Speaker 1: couldn't show how smart he was. He couln't show how

755
00:41:28,600 --> 00:41:31,520
Speaker 1: creative he was, you know, because we think everything is

756
00:41:31,520 --> 00:41:35,279
Speaker 1: whack and lame, like even like the glow up with

757
00:41:35,320 --> 00:41:37,560
Speaker 1: the white men when they get with black women, Like

758
00:41:37,600 --> 00:41:39,759
Speaker 1: the glow up is that that's a real thing. And

759
00:41:39,760 --> 00:41:41,440
Speaker 1: I don't know they got anything to do with clothes

760
00:41:41,560 --> 00:41:43,480
Speaker 1: or just the energy of us, right, it could be

761
00:41:43,560 --> 00:41:46,880
Speaker 1: both a little combination of both, but they look like

762
00:41:46,920 --> 00:41:49,120
Speaker 1: they spending more money on clothes once they get with

763
00:41:49,160 --> 00:41:50,040
Speaker 1: a black woman.

764
00:41:50,160 --> 00:41:54,520
Speaker 2: Right, But I think we culturally, not just black, but

765
00:41:55,040 --> 00:42:01,600
Speaker 2: even in Africa, like we've always been very aesthetic pleasing. Yeah,

766
00:42:01,640 --> 00:42:05,320
Speaker 2: like that's part of who we are, you know. I

767
00:42:05,360 --> 00:42:08,319
Speaker 2: went and did some research during a break, and I

768
00:42:08,360 --> 00:42:12,920
Speaker 2: found that the black in twenty twenty four, the black

769
00:42:12,960 --> 00:42:18,319
Speaker 2: consumers spent over nine point point four billion dollars on

770
00:42:18,400 --> 00:42:23,680
Speaker 2: beauty products, and it was expected ten point two billion

771
00:42:23,840 --> 00:42:26,960
Speaker 2: last year. I couldn't find last year's numbers, but in

772
00:42:27,239 --> 00:42:31,799
Speaker 2: two point three billion went to hair, cosmetic and nail

773
00:42:31,800 --> 00:42:35,919
Speaker 2: grooming one point nine billion, facial skincare one point one

774
00:42:36,000 --> 00:42:39,920
Speaker 2: billion dollars and in body one point two billion dollars,

775
00:42:40,280 --> 00:42:44,799
Speaker 2: in fragrance one point five billion dollars. And we are

776
00:42:44,920 --> 00:42:49,680
Speaker 2: the greatest spenders in the country, even though we make

777
00:42:49,800 --> 00:42:51,000
Speaker 2: up a fraction of it.

778
00:42:52,160 --> 00:42:56,360
Speaker 1: Right, So Bobo's always been lean, but we would stress

779
00:42:56,440 --> 00:42:59,520
Speaker 1: our parents out, not even realized they couldn't even afford

780
00:42:59,520 --> 00:43:02,400
Speaker 1: that bult that bullshit, right, stressing your parents out for

781
00:43:02,520 --> 00:43:05,319
Speaker 1: Jordan's and not my mama because she ain't give a fuck. Girl.

782
00:43:05,320 --> 00:43:07,200
Speaker 1: I ain't getting no name brad sneakers for real until

783
00:43:07,200 --> 00:43:10,080
Speaker 1: I started buying them in high school. I gets some

784
00:43:10,120 --> 00:43:13,360
Speaker 1: regulized nikes and that's it. But you know, and we

785
00:43:13,440 --> 00:43:17,320
Speaker 1: grew up in a house though, so her priorities was intact.

786
00:43:17,320 --> 00:43:19,799
Speaker 1: Bit motherfuckers was growing up in the hood, had all

787
00:43:19,800 --> 00:43:23,560
Speaker 1: of shit right, all the j's every time they came out.

788
00:43:23,760 --> 00:43:27,160
Speaker 2: But some people, in their defense, they feel like they're

789
00:43:27,280 --> 00:43:29,360
Speaker 2: never going to be able to have that stuff, like

790
00:43:29,480 --> 00:43:32,759
Speaker 2: the big home, the big cars. The greatest thing they

791
00:43:32,840 --> 00:43:37,520
Speaker 2: have is the outward appearance of their esthetic. So they're

792
00:43:37,520 --> 00:43:40,200
Speaker 2: gonna pour into that because the house seems just outside

793
00:43:40,239 --> 00:43:42,359
Speaker 2: of what they will ever be able to get. But

794
00:43:42,400 --> 00:43:45,600
Speaker 2: I can look good, you know, I can drive a

795
00:43:45,680 --> 00:43:48,839
Speaker 2: nice car, and I can look good every day, you know,

796
00:43:49,000 --> 00:43:50,920
Speaker 2: And that's probably as far as I can go.

797
00:43:52,640 --> 00:43:55,520
Speaker 1: But that's not true generally. Yeah, it's not true. But

798
00:43:55,680 --> 00:43:59,480
Speaker 1: I understand the limiting mindset, right, the lack of mentality.

799
00:43:59,800 --> 00:44:04,239
Speaker 1: And I think our generation millennials in particular, the way

800
00:44:04,280 --> 00:44:07,000
Speaker 1: we be sending these kids to school and to prom like,

801
00:44:07,560 --> 00:44:10,000
Speaker 1: how are they going to keep up with that as adults?

802
00:44:10,360 --> 00:44:12,760
Speaker 1: Like what the fuck was thinking about getting a Gucci

803
00:44:12,760 --> 00:44:13,640
Speaker 1: bag in high school?

804
00:44:14,320 --> 00:44:14,960
Speaker 2: Right? Like?

805
00:44:15,280 --> 00:44:19,439
Speaker 1: These little kids want like real bags and parents are

806
00:44:19,520 --> 00:44:21,759
Speaker 1: affording these things. I don't know where they getting the

807
00:44:21,760 --> 00:44:23,920
Speaker 1: money from is it a real bag, is a canal street?

808
00:44:24,440 --> 00:44:27,080
Speaker 1: But I got a homegirl who daughter got like a

809
00:44:28,000 --> 00:44:34,000
Speaker 1: little Gucci bag to start school and goddamn elementary school.

810
00:44:34,640 --> 00:44:38,399
Speaker 1: What is happening. I know, you get some little hand

811
00:44:38,400 --> 00:44:40,279
Speaker 1: me down, you get my little hand me down shit.

812
00:44:40,360 --> 00:44:42,759
Speaker 1: But no, I'm not going to buy your brand new

813
00:44:42,920 --> 00:44:45,520
Speaker 1: anything for that type of money. It just doesn't make

814
00:44:45,560 --> 00:44:46,000
Speaker 1: sense to me.

815
00:44:48,080 --> 00:44:49,799
Speaker 2: I just don't have it because I would do it.

816
00:44:49,880 --> 00:44:52,120
Speaker 2: I know I would do it, you would do it.

817
00:44:52,160 --> 00:44:55,040
Speaker 1: I mean, okay, I took I.

818
00:44:55,000 --> 00:44:58,080
Speaker 2: Had this diamond bracelet that this guy brought me and

819
00:44:58,120 --> 00:45:00,919
Speaker 2: it was expensive bracelet, but needed to get some links

820
00:45:00,960 --> 00:45:03,719
Speaker 2: taken out because it didn't fit my wrists and tall.

821
00:45:03,760 --> 00:45:07,200
Speaker 2: I went to put them diamonds in my god baby ear, Okay,

822
00:45:07,680 --> 00:45:10,680
Speaker 2: and I do it, And I know it was expensive.

823
00:45:11,600 --> 00:45:14,799
Speaker 2: So I know that I'm the type that will trick

824
00:45:14,840 --> 00:45:18,359
Speaker 2: off on some kids. I ain't gonna lie. I will Yeah, I'm.

825
00:45:18,280 --> 00:45:20,359
Speaker 1: Not buying no Gucci bags and shit for for kids

826
00:45:20,360 --> 00:45:22,879
Speaker 1: to lose kids. I mean, now, this little girl who

827
00:45:22,880 --> 00:45:25,400
Speaker 1: I'm talking about, like she's at the age now where

828
00:45:25,440 --> 00:45:29,239
Speaker 1: like she likes fashion. You know, she's maybe fifth grade

829
00:45:29,320 --> 00:45:31,040
Speaker 1: or something like that. So if that's what they're into

830
00:45:32,040 --> 00:45:33,960
Speaker 1: and they know exactly what it is, like you ask

831
00:45:34,040 --> 00:45:35,960
Speaker 1: them what they want for Christmas and that's the actual

832
00:45:36,000 --> 00:45:37,720
Speaker 1: thing on their list, a Gucci bag.

833
00:45:38,200 --> 00:45:40,960
Speaker 2: Right. It's probably because of their parents. You know their

834
00:45:41,000 --> 00:45:44,200
Speaker 2: mom is into that kind of thing. But what I

835
00:45:44,280 --> 00:45:48,239
Speaker 2: don't like is when parents buy kids expensive stuff and

836
00:45:48,280 --> 00:45:51,879
Speaker 2: then get mad at them for ruining it. Like, man,

837
00:45:51,880 --> 00:45:54,799
Speaker 2: if you're willing to pay for this stuff, remember your

838
00:45:54,880 --> 00:45:56,719
Speaker 2: kids still gets to be a kid. You know.

839
00:45:57,520 --> 00:45:59,640
Speaker 1: I send this girl whipping her baby.

840
00:45:59,360 --> 00:46:03,000
Speaker 2: Because he was squiffing up his shoes. He is three

841
00:46:03,320 --> 00:46:06,640
Speaker 2: years Oh, if you don't want exactly some shoes, get

842
00:46:06,719 --> 00:46:12,000
Speaker 2: him some little pokemons or something, you know like that,

843
00:46:12,040 --> 00:46:14,480
Speaker 2: if it matters that much, it's too small to be

844
00:46:14,920 --> 00:46:16,279
Speaker 2: especially spanking him for that.

845
00:46:17,600 --> 00:46:19,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, Like, kids are gonna be kids. That's why you

846
00:46:19,520 --> 00:46:22,359
Speaker 1: should buy them bullshit. Okay, until they actually know what

847
00:46:22,400 --> 00:46:24,439
Speaker 1: it is and then they understand the value of things

848
00:46:24,440 --> 00:46:27,120
Speaker 1: and they can take care of it. But you can't

849
00:46:27,160 --> 00:46:30,359
Speaker 1: expect a kid to walk on water because that's your

850
00:46:30,360 --> 00:46:33,560
Speaker 1: big grown ass dude, because you like cherish these sneakers

851
00:46:33,600 --> 00:46:36,520
Speaker 1: and these things. You know what I'm saying. Over a

852
00:46:36,640 --> 00:46:41,680
Speaker 1: nice home, right, you know what I'm saying.

853
00:46:41,520 --> 00:46:44,040
Speaker 2: And then people really don't be I mean, you get

854
00:46:44,040 --> 00:46:45,840
Speaker 2: that stuff and they feel good for a while, and

855
00:46:45,880 --> 00:46:48,000
Speaker 2: then you be fucking it. My best friend got a

856
00:46:48,040 --> 00:46:52,120
Speaker 2: Burken for her birthday last year, that expensive bag, and

857
00:46:52,160 --> 00:46:53,719
Speaker 2: it was a dirty diaper in there.

858
00:46:53,760 --> 00:47:00,840
Speaker 1: The other day, I was like, oh my god, because

859
00:47:00,840 --> 00:47:03,839
Speaker 1: it's just a bag. Yeah, at that point, like it's

860
00:47:03,880 --> 00:47:05,239
Speaker 1: just I got it out.

861
00:47:08,120 --> 00:47:11,439
Speaker 2: I was like, oh my god, some snacks down in there,

862
00:47:11,480 --> 00:47:14,000
Speaker 2: like children's gonna be But you know, it's just a

863
00:47:14,080 --> 00:47:15,359
Speaker 2: bag at the end of the day.

864
00:47:15,480 --> 00:47:20,959
Speaker 1: So shit, it's a diaper bag. And them bags ain't

865
00:47:20,960 --> 00:47:24,840
Speaker 1: even that damn Q. It's so many more like nicer,

866
00:47:25,040 --> 00:47:27,080
Speaker 1: like lower end. I don't even want to call it

867
00:47:27,160 --> 00:47:31,360
Speaker 1: lower end, because bitch, what what what makes something designer?

868
00:47:31,560 --> 00:47:33,840
Speaker 2: It's not what I'm saying. It's about the mental status

869
00:47:33,840 --> 00:47:36,520
Speaker 2: that we give these things, not the actual thing most

870
00:47:36,520 --> 00:47:37,280
Speaker 2: of the time.

871
00:47:37,480 --> 00:47:40,479
Speaker 1: Not the actual value of it, right, because it don't

872
00:47:40,480 --> 00:47:42,000
Speaker 1: cost nothing to make a lot of this shit.

873
00:47:42,440 --> 00:47:44,880
Speaker 2: I was looking at somebody posted yesterday are the cars

874
00:47:44,920 --> 00:47:47,359
Speaker 2: that we used to be driving in the earth like

875
00:47:47,440 --> 00:47:50,640
Speaker 2: not us guys, And they had, like you remember the cars,

876
00:47:50,640 --> 00:47:54,960
Speaker 2: the fruit loops, the Cinnamon House, Crush the eminem like

877
00:47:55,000 --> 00:47:57,719
Speaker 2: they will put all these brands on their cars and

878
00:47:57,800 --> 00:48:02,279
Speaker 2: design the car around that brand. That shit was hideous.

879
00:48:02,560 --> 00:48:04,480
Speaker 1: I was like, you, opinion, did you get a check

880
00:48:04,560 --> 00:48:04,880
Speaker 1: from it?

881
00:48:05,120 --> 00:48:07,520
Speaker 2: No, nobody, none of those They got all that free

882
00:48:07,520 --> 00:48:10,600
Speaker 2: advertisement from your stupid ass. But who decided that that

883
00:48:10,680 --> 00:48:13,400
Speaker 2: was the shit? Somebody decided that was a look, and

884
00:48:13,440 --> 00:48:16,319
Speaker 2: then the mental consciousness around it decided that that was

885
00:48:16,360 --> 00:48:18,960
Speaker 2: what you needed to do to have a nice country

886
00:48:19,000 --> 00:48:21,640
Speaker 2: ass car, and then that's what you did.

887
00:48:22,239 --> 00:48:27,200
Speaker 1: You know, Yeah, I don't know, man. I think we,

888
00:48:27,360 --> 00:48:29,160
Speaker 1: I think black people as a whole, we got to

889
00:48:29,280 --> 00:48:35,279
Speaker 1: like re calibrate. And it's yeah, because I just I

890
00:48:35,480 --> 00:48:38,680
Speaker 1: prefer a nice home over stuff, you.

891
00:48:38,640 --> 00:48:39,200
Speaker 2: Know what I'm saying.

892
00:48:39,239 --> 00:48:41,360
Speaker 1: Like right now, I want a brand new car, and

893
00:48:41,400 --> 00:48:44,080
Speaker 1: I could go get one, but I do not want

894
00:48:44,080 --> 00:48:48,200
Speaker 1: a car payment, Like right now, the interest rates on

895
00:48:48,239 --> 00:48:52,040
Speaker 1: the loans, the insurance I my car, y'all, Why the

896
00:48:52,080 --> 00:48:54,200
Speaker 1: fuck am I paying like two hundred and fifty dollars

897
00:48:54,239 --> 00:48:56,480
Speaker 1: a month for car insurance? I don't even understand it.

898
00:48:56,800 --> 00:48:59,200
Speaker 1: You'll have a brand new car, you know what I'm saying.

899
00:48:59,239 --> 00:49:02,080
Speaker 1: So I even if I I want to be if

900
00:49:02,080 --> 00:49:04,040
Speaker 1: I can't buy a cash I don't want it, so

901
00:49:04,080 --> 00:49:06,560
Speaker 1: I keep it. I feel like it's gonna be some

902
00:49:06,640 --> 00:49:09,680
Speaker 1: old ass lady, right, some old ass couple go and

903
00:49:09,800 --> 00:49:16,120
Speaker 1: drop day fucking brand new Mercedes AMG sixty three on

904
00:49:16,400 --> 00:49:19,160
Speaker 1: a car, guru, and it's gonna be for me for

905
00:49:19,239 --> 00:49:21,480
Speaker 1: twenty five thousand dollars, and I'm gonna go slap them

906
00:49:21,480 --> 00:49:23,800
Speaker 1: in the face with a bag and drive off in

907
00:49:23,840 --> 00:49:25,840
Speaker 1: the car. That's what I just think is going to

908
00:49:25,880 --> 00:49:27,920
Speaker 1: happen for me, because that's what the fuck is going

909
00:49:27,960 --> 00:49:30,040
Speaker 1: to have to happen, because I do not believe in

910
00:49:30,080 --> 00:49:34,200
Speaker 1: paying fifteen a month for a car and insurance. That's

911
00:49:34,239 --> 00:49:34,880
Speaker 1: crazy to me.

912
00:49:35,320 --> 00:49:35,880
Speaker 2: I don't pay that.

913
00:49:36,040 --> 00:49:37,520
Speaker 1: I'll buy a cash car forever.

914
00:49:38,120 --> 00:49:40,560
Speaker 2: I do pay it a lot, but not that much,

915
00:49:41,280 --> 00:49:41,880
Speaker 2: not that a.

916
00:49:41,880 --> 00:49:44,919
Speaker 1: Lot of people for what I want, You're gonna pay

917
00:49:44,920 --> 00:49:47,040
Speaker 1: by two thousand dollars a month for it, And that's like,

918
00:49:47,360 --> 00:49:48,080
Speaker 1: that's nuts.

919
00:49:48,320 --> 00:49:51,320
Speaker 2: No, I'm not playing nuts, not one. I got to

920
00:49:51,400 --> 00:49:53,479
Speaker 2: do everything by myself. If I lived in a dual

921
00:49:53,520 --> 00:49:57,280
Speaker 2: income house, I still wouldn't want to pay two thousand dollars.

922
00:49:57,080 --> 00:49:59,080
Speaker 1: Of me in the car, But because I would be

923
00:49:59,120 --> 00:50:00,840
Speaker 1: thinking about what else I I can do with that money,

924
00:50:00,880 --> 00:50:03,360
Speaker 1: Like that's vacation, you know what I'm saying.

925
00:50:03,160 --> 00:50:05,359
Speaker 2: Well, maybe it's because we don't have a lot of money. People.

926
00:50:05,400 --> 00:50:10,360
Speaker 2: It's probably somebody listening to us, Like two thousand dollars

927
00:50:10,360 --> 00:50:12,680
Speaker 2: a month, that's nothing. These girls are poor.

928
00:50:13,560 --> 00:50:17,200
Speaker 1: You know, hey, look more power to you, because even

929
00:50:17,280 --> 00:50:20,400
Speaker 1: when I get this super duper bag, I still am not.

930
00:50:20,520 --> 00:50:23,080
Speaker 1: I don't like paying a lot to live. And what

931
00:50:23,120 --> 00:50:25,600
Speaker 1: people need to realize is that rich people really don't

932
00:50:25,600 --> 00:50:28,080
Speaker 1: spend money. Okay, they get a lot of free shit.

933
00:50:28,280 --> 00:50:32,080
Speaker 1: Yeah they do, especially if you're an influencer online, like

934
00:50:32,120 --> 00:50:34,640
Speaker 1: you will get all your free clothes. They don't spend money.

935
00:50:34,880 --> 00:50:39,399
Speaker 1: We are the consumers. The middle class and below are

936
00:50:39,480 --> 00:50:41,759
Speaker 1: really the people who are consuming the most is not

937
00:50:42,040 --> 00:50:45,960
Speaker 1: rich people. And I even hate to see like people

938
00:50:45,960 --> 00:50:49,840
Speaker 1: always like to compare like how flashy people be in

939
00:50:49,840 --> 00:50:53,239
Speaker 1: comparison to how flashy like a billionaire these billionaires be

940
00:50:53,320 --> 00:50:56,839
Speaker 1: having on three thousand dollars T shirts. Right, it's because

941
00:50:56,880 --> 00:50:59,279
Speaker 1: it doesn't have a label on it doesn't mean it's

942
00:50:59,320 --> 00:51:02,560
Speaker 1: not cost a lot, right. You see, Black people could

943
00:51:02,320 --> 00:51:08,680
Speaker 1: tend to be labor labor label wars sometimes, right, But

944
00:51:08,680 --> 00:51:11,239
Speaker 1: white folks they have they little things that cost a

945
00:51:11,280 --> 00:51:13,800
Speaker 1: lot of money that may just not have a label

946
00:51:13,840 --> 00:51:14,040
Speaker 1: on it.

947
00:51:14,080 --> 00:51:16,200
Speaker 2: I don't remember. Many many many years ago, o Cho

948
00:51:16,280 --> 00:51:18,560
Speaker 2: Sinko said to me, like, I get used the diamonds

949
00:51:18,560 --> 00:51:20,919
Speaker 2: out of Claires. Oh, let me tell you that part

950
00:51:20,960 --> 00:51:24,440
Speaker 2: out this guy said to me, because and I was

951
00:51:24,480 --> 00:51:27,399
Speaker 2: like Claire's. He's like mine from Claire's. He's like, because

952
00:51:27,440 --> 00:51:29,799
Speaker 2: people are gonna think they real because I'm me.

953
00:51:30,040 --> 00:51:36,560
Speaker 1: Exactly exactly exactly. Yeah, So when your reputation precedes you,

954
00:51:36,560 --> 00:51:38,160
Speaker 1: you can pull up with some fake shit on it.

955
00:51:38,160 --> 00:51:40,000
Speaker 1: Ain't nobody gonna question it, right.

956
00:51:41,520 --> 00:51:43,680
Speaker 2: But that ain't gonna work for me. Baby, These gonna

957
00:51:43,719 --> 00:51:48,120
Speaker 2: look like Claire's unless you upgrade my whole life. Now

958
00:51:48,280 --> 00:51:50,680
Speaker 2: just another bitch with Claire earing zone. Please stop?

959
00:51:51,800 --> 00:51:54,080
Speaker 1: Where was this? I think this is that du ball day.

960
00:51:54,640 --> 00:51:57,400
Speaker 1: The bitches is walking around with the diamond tester on.

961
00:51:57,520 --> 00:52:02,600
Speaker 1: These dudes man testing niggas gold teeth. They was testing

962
00:52:02,640 --> 00:52:05,319
Speaker 1: their chains and shit. I'm like, why why black people

963
00:52:05,320 --> 00:52:06,719
Speaker 1: got to embarrass each other like that?

964
00:52:06,920 --> 00:52:07,120
Speaker 2: Right?

965
00:52:08,120 --> 00:52:10,359
Speaker 1: Like it looks nice, So what if it's really fake?

966
00:52:10,400 --> 00:52:15,680
Speaker 1: It looks nice, right, move around, like just be so

967
00:52:15,880 --> 00:52:18,400
Speaker 1: hard on each other when it comes to aesthetics.

968
00:52:18,440 --> 00:52:24,120
Speaker 2: Asthetics, yeah, very hard. I was watching this video today.

969
00:52:25,239 --> 00:52:29,360
Speaker 2: It was Nelly for Toto and she's gotten older and

970
00:52:29,400 --> 00:52:32,680
Speaker 2: she's put on some weight, you know, and there were

971
00:52:32,840 --> 00:52:36,279
Speaker 2: nick and a sick yeah she thicks, And it was

972
00:52:36,440 --> 00:52:40,160
Speaker 2: men in the comments like just tearing her up and

973
00:52:40,360 --> 00:52:43,760
Speaker 2: like just saying all the nastiest, meanest shit about her body.

974
00:52:44,040 --> 00:52:46,480
Speaker 2: And then when you would go to their page, I

975
00:52:46,520 --> 00:52:49,000
Speaker 2: would just I just took about fifteen minutes out of

976
00:52:49,000 --> 00:52:52,760
Speaker 2: my life to read them down, like read.

977
00:52:52,600 --> 00:52:55,800
Speaker 1: Them you're good for that shit, that shit messing.

978
00:52:56,000 --> 00:52:59,359
Speaker 2: Ooh ooh. That makes me so angry because how dare

979
00:52:59,400 --> 00:53:04,440
Speaker 2: you over there with dirty fingernails, balding head, fucking stomach

980
00:53:04,520 --> 00:53:09,800
Speaker 2: hanging over your pants, cracks showing uh, dusty rusty ass

981
00:53:10,320 --> 00:53:14,080
Speaker 2: got the nerve to talk about this woman because she

982
00:53:14,120 --> 00:53:18,400
Speaker 2: put on way and look at you the fuck. That

983
00:53:18,440 --> 00:53:20,640
Speaker 2: shit pissed me so bad. And I will go and

984
00:53:20,680 --> 00:53:23,760
Speaker 2: look at your pictures and then read you down because

985
00:53:23,800 --> 00:53:26,200
Speaker 2: you deserve it.

986
00:53:28,280 --> 00:53:33,560
Speaker 1: That's just like recently Charlamagne on Brian Idiots, they were

987
00:53:33,600 --> 00:53:38,000
Speaker 1: talking about what's uh, what's Monica's ex husband name? The

988
00:53:38,040 --> 00:53:39,560
Speaker 1: basketball player girl?

989
00:53:39,600 --> 00:53:40,880
Speaker 2: I don't know. I don't be keeping up with the

990
00:53:41,000 --> 00:53:42,239
Speaker 2: people marriage. Right.

991
00:53:42,320 --> 00:53:45,960
Speaker 1: So recently he was on not he wasn't on, but

992
00:53:46,000 --> 00:53:48,680
Speaker 1: they had a clip he was recently on somebody's podcast

993
00:53:49,239 --> 00:53:51,560
Speaker 1: and he basically was saying, like, you need to get

994
00:53:51,600 --> 00:53:57,279
Speaker 1: you a man need to get paw peers. Yeah, said

995
00:53:57,280 --> 00:53:59,120
Speaker 1: that men need to men need to get them like

996
00:53:59,120 --> 00:54:02,240
Speaker 1: a strong five six to seven. Don't be getting these nines,

997
00:54:02,520 --> 00:54:05,680
Speaker 1: eight nines and tens because you know, basically the eight

998
00:54:05,800 --> 00:54:09,040
Speaker 1: nines and tens know they're worth and attacks or right,

999
00:54:09,080 --> 00:54:11,879
Speaker 1: So get you a strong five six seven who want

1000
00:54:11,880 --> 00:54:14,320
Speaker 1: to put some elbow, grease and muscle in there with you?

1001
00:54:14,520 --> 00:54:19,319
Speaker 1: Some bullshit? Basically, y'all want somebody that y'all can tower over, right,

1002
00:54:19,920 --> 00:54:22,560
Speaker 1: y'all want a bitch with self esteem issues and all

1003
00:54:22,600 --> 00:54:25,640
Speaker 1: these things, right. And I commented on that post and

1004
00:54:25,680 --> 00:54:27,799
Speaker 1: I said, you know, all I said was men are

1005
00:54:27,920 --> 00:54:33,359
Speaker 1: way more shallow than women. That's all I said. So

1006
00:54:33,400 --> 00:54:35,680
Speaker 1: of course you're want to get the attacks and it's

1007
00:54:35,719 --> 00:54:39,080
Speaker 1: just the truth because men are way more they're visual creatures, right,

1008
00:54:39,600 --> 00:54:43,799
Speaker 1: So a three and if we're going to put people

1009
00:54:43,800 --> 00:54:45,400
Speaker 1: on the scale, which I don't like doing shit like

1010
00:54:45,440 --> 00:54:47,440
Speaker 1: that because you know it's beauty is in the eye

1011
00:54:47,480 --> 00:54:50,080
Speaker 1: of the of the beholder, right, So if a man

1012
00:54:50,200 --> 00:54:53,399
Speaker 1: is a three, he still thinks he deserves a ten.

1013
00:54:53,719 --> 00:54:58,040
Speaker 1: So that's why you see these threes commenting on Nelly's

1014
00:54:58,040 --> 00:55:01,120
Speaker 1: for tato because in their mind they still should have

1015
00:55:01,239 --> 00:55:05,000
Speaker 1: access to smash on the eight nines and tens. How

1016
00:55:05,120 --> 00:55:07,760
Speaker 1: dare you not give me no pussy? And that's mental,

1017
00:55:09,200 --> 00:55:12,600
Speaker 1: that is crazy. So women, we find men attractive for

1018
00:55:12,640 --> 00:55:16,600
Speaker 1: different reasons outside of just aesthetics. For men, it's straight

1019
00:55:16,680 --> 00:55:20,359
Speaker 1: up how you look right, And a lot of men

1020
00:55:20,440 --> 00:55:23,640
Speaker 1: are with women that they don't find aesthetically a please

1021
00:55:23,680 --> 00:55:26,360
Speaker 1: and they really don't even like you. They really think

1022
00:55:26,440 --> 00:55:29,360
Speaker 1: that they're supposed to have somebody else. Their their finances

1023
00:55:29,400 --> 00:55:32,080
Speaker 1: probably just don't afford them to get the woman they

1024
00:55:32,080 --> 00:55:34,560
Speaker 1: think they're supposed to have. But even if you get

1025
00:55:34,560 --> 00:55:36,480
Speaker 1: the money, sir, you're probably still going to be lean.

1026
00:55:37,040 --> 00:55:39,880
Speaker 1: I remembers that part. I remember this guy saying. We

1027
00:55:39,920 --> 00:55:42,760
Speaker 1: were all sitting around a table in a bar talking

1028
00:55:43,480 --> 00:55:47,600
Speaker 1: and he said he compared his wife to a good Honda.

1029
00:55:47,960 --> 00:55:48,920
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, you said that.

1030
00:55:49,200 --> 00:55:52,759
Speaker 2: I'll never forget that shit. I will never. I was appalled.

1031
00:55:54,120 --> 00:55:57,960
Speaker 2: And was she there table? I think she went to

1032
00:55:58,000 --> 00:56:01,040
Speaker 2: the bar to get another round or something like that.

1033
00:56:01,040 --> 00:56:02,600
Speaker 1: That's fucked up right there. Why are you a woman

1034
00:56:02,640 --> 00:56:04,880
Speaker 1: going to get the drinks right? Well, I think we

1035
00:56:04,920 --> 00:56:06,920
Speaker 1: all took turns getting rounds it with. I'm like, no,

1036
00:56:07,000 --> 00:56:10,640
Speaker 1: big dem, I don't know him saying some shit like that,

1037
00:56:10,920 --> 00:56:13,040
Speaker 1: but I feel like he really be mistreating her.

1038
00:56:13,320 --> 00:56:17,319
Speaker 2: Oh whether or not they divorced eventually, but good, I

1039
00:56:17,320 --> 00:56:20,520
Speaker 2: couldn't believe that, Like, please, God, don't ever send me

1040
00:56:20,520 --> 00:56:23,280
Speaker 2: in love like that where the man considers me a

1041
00:56:23,360 --> 00:56:27,000
Speaker 2: reliable Honda Cord and nothing's wrong with my Honda Cord. Girl,

1042
00:56:27,040 --> 00:56:28,480
Speaker 2: is if you're driving the Honda, I want you to

1043
00:56:28,480 --> 00:56:30,880
Speaker 2: hear this to think your car is less than because

1044
00:56:30,880 --> 00:56:34,799
Speaker 2: it is not. They are nice cars, but if you're

1045
00:56:34,920 --> 00:56:38,080
Speaker 2: using it as a comparison to what you your mate,

1046
00:56:38,640 --> 00:56:41,960
Speaker 2: it just seems like insulting very much.

1047
00:56:41,960 --> 00:56:46,399
Speaker 1: So, yes, a reliable Honda. That means you can dry

1048
00:56:46,480 --> 00:56:50,080
Speaker 1: that motherfucker what Tuna say, Treatah said, we treating niggas

1049
00:56:50,160 --> 00:56:52,840
Speaker 1: like rental cars, dogging them out with no dog gas.

1050
00:56:52,880 --> 00:56:55,319
Speaker 1: Nothing you could talk about. So he just he just

1051
00:56:55,320 --> 00:56:57,480
Speaker 1: gonna run through his fucking wife and she try just

1052
00:56:58,120 --> 00:57:00,279
Speaker 1: be there, still working, because you know, you can put

1053
00:57:00,280 --> 00:57:02,839
Speaker 1: about two hundred thousand miles on a Honda.

1054
00:57:02,680 --> 00:57:08,000
Speaker 2: Right, the good card. I mean, they're good, reliable.

1055
00:57:07,600 --> 00:57:11,640
Speaker 1: Good bitch ladies. Don't let don't let these dudes trick

1056
00:57:11,719 --> 00:57:19,240
Speaker 1: you like that man, like don't listen, No, okay, hold on,

1057
00:57:19,320 --> 00:57:21,040
Speaker 1: I want to play a quick game, right quick though,

1058
00:57:21,520 --> 00:57:26,240
Speaker 1: sh you know, whenever we record again, like visuals. I

1059
00:57:26,480 --> 00:57:28,760
Speaker 1: got a little website. I want you to take this

1060
00:57:28,800 --> 00:57:31,360
Speaker 1: little test on. Were gonna both take the test. I

1061
00:57:31,400 --> 00:57:34,640
Speaker 1: won't tell you exactly what it's along the lines of this,

1062
00:57:34,880 --> 00:57:38,520
Speaker 1: right or it's like how delusion are women? Really? It's

1063
00:57:39,720 --> 00:57:43,439
Speaker 1: but would you spend or save?

1064
00:57:43,800 --> 00:57:44,040
Speaker 2: Game?

1065
00:57:44,240 --> 00:57:48,320
Speaker 1: Basically? So are you going to spend nine hundred dollars

1066
00:57:48,320 --> 00:57:52,320
Speaker 1: on a designer purse or three months worth their groceries?

1067
00:57:54,600 --> 00:57:56,200
Speaker 1: I don't want to choose. If I gotta choose, I

1068
00:57:56,480 --> 00:57:59,280
Speaker 1: can't do this, Like why we gotta choose?

1069
00:57:59,560 --> 00:58:01,880
Speaker 2: That's why I'm I'm saying, like what it depends on

1070
00:58:01,920 --> 00:58:03,800
Speaker 2: what's going on in my life? You know, Like.

1071
00:58:04,640 --> 00:58:09,439
Speaker 1: Because grandmama, my grandmama, my grandmama sick.

1072
00:58:09,920 --> 00:58:12,840
Speaker 2: Right, it's grandma sick and she needs some money because

1073
00:58:13,000 --> 00:58:14,800
Speaker 2: I want a bag and I want food? Like why

1074
00:58:14,840 --> 00:58:16,640
Speaker 2: I got to choose? Right?

1075
00:58:18,520 --> 00:58:20,000
Speaker 1: But it's online.

1076
00:58:20,680 --> 00:58:23,120
Speaker 2: If I don't have no food, obviously I'm gonna get food.

1077
00:58:23,320 --> 00:58:26,680
Speaker 1: You know that's not obvious though, because it's a lot

1078
00:58:26,680 --> 00:58:28,280
Speaker 1: of people if they got some shit to do, they

1079
00:58:28,320 --> 00:58:30,640
Speaker 1: might fuck around, don't eat for the week to look

1080
00:58:30,720 --> 00:58:32,200
Speaker 1: like somebody on the weekend.

1081
00:58:32,320 --> 00:58:34,440
Speaker 2: Right and say I'm fasting, bitch, you're broke.

1082
00:58:39,800 --> 00:58:43,600
Speaker 1: Three hundred dollars sneakers versus emergency savings fund.

1083
00:58:45,320 --> 00:58:47,600
Speaker 2: If I don't have any emergency savings, then I'm gonna

1084
00:58:47,640 --> 00:58:50,360
Speaker 2: put the money in the fun But if I got something,

1085
00:58:50,440 --> 00:58:52,280
Speaker 2: I'm getting me some shoes. I need some.

1086
00:58:52,200 --> 00:58:55,120
Speaker 1: Shoes, right. I won't say this is really for us,

1087
00:58:55,160 --> 00:58:58,200
Speaker 1: because I think we might be a little bit more.

1088
00:58:59,120 --> 00:58:59,880
Speaker 2: We're older.

1089
00:59:00,760 --> 00:59:04,880
Speaker 1: Yeah, like, because did you didn't have health care?

1090
00:59:05,480 --> 00:59:08,480
Speaker 2: Right now, I'm gonna eat.

1091
00:59:10,560 --> 00:59:13,360
Speaker 1: One hundred and fifty dollars on lashes versus gas for

1092
00:59:13,440 --> 00:59:13,840
Speaker 1: the month.

1093
00:59:15,600 --> 00:59:17,680
Speaker 2: I listen, I don't believe in paying for lashes. I

1094
00:59:17,720 --> 00:59:20,840
Speaker 2: done have so many bad lash experiences. Look as stupid

1095
00:59:20,920 --> 00:59:23,640
Speaker 2: as fucking can't get that ship off my face because

1096
00:59:23,680 --> 00:59:26,000
Speaker 2: I got really curly lashes. And I tell that girl,

1097
00:59:26,080 --> 00:59:28,800
Speaker 2: please don't put a curly lash on because it'll just

1098
00:59:28,960 --> 00:59:32,640
Speaker 2: roll back into my eye and you your eyes closed

1099
00:59:32,680 --> 00:59:35,600
Speaker 2: so you can't see what the fuck is happening. So

1100
00:59:35,640 --> 00:59:37,320
Speaker 2: when I opened my eyes and I looked in that

1101
00:59:37,360 --> 00:59:41,080
Speaker 2: fucking mirror and cup care on my face, look at

1102
00:59:41,080 --> 00:59:45,240
Speaker 2: God damn stupid, and then I had to ground immediately

1103
00:59:45,280 --> 00:59:47,840
Speaker 2: after he was looking at me stupid, I was looking

1104
00:59:47,880 --> 00:59:49,800
Speaker 2: at him stupid. I was like, I'm not paying for this.

1105
00:59:51,000 --> 00:59:54,640
Speaker 2: I's looking though, So I'm gonna get the gas every time,

1106
00:59:54,680 --> 00:59:56,560
Speaker 2: and I'm gonna put on a stripe the clusters that

1107
00:59:56,640 --> 00:59:59,200
Speaker 2: go underneath. They're cheaper and they look just as good.

1108
00:59:59,320 --> 01:00:00,160
Speaker 2: So there, mm.

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01:00:01,200 --> 01:00:04,080
Speaker 1: I like, like, I got a really good like list

1110
01:00:04,160 --> 01:00:08,640
Speaker 1: of good lashes from Amazon, like somebody keeping rotation heavily

1111
01:00:09,040 --> 01:00:13,880
Speaker 1: that looked like, you know, they look good like individuals. Yeah,

1112
01:00:13,960 --> 01:00:17,640
Speaker 1: it looks like men clashes. So I don't know, but

1113
01:00:17,760 --> 01:00:21,680
Speaker 1: there's nothing like you just always look done with a

1114
01:00:21,760 --> 01:00:24,600
Speaker 1: lash on, though, there's something about just having that last

1115
01:00:24,640 --> 01:00:27,160
Speaker 1: you wake up in the morning. But then another thing

1116
01:00:27,320 --> 01:00:29,600
Speaker 1: is I always feel like I cannot wash my face

1117
01:00:29,640 --> 01:00:32,640
Speaker 1: good with them lashes on. Yeah, because you're gonna wash

1118
01:00:32,640 --> 01:00:33,360
Speaker 1: them off, you.

1119
01:00:33,320 --> 01:00:35,600
Speaker 2: Gotta wash around them. And I just like going like

1120
01:00:35,680 --> 01:00:37,840
Speaker 2: this is you know, just like scrubbing my face and

1121
01:00:37,880 --> 01:00:40,880
Speaker 2: you can't do that with the lash. So what's next, bitch,

1122
01:00:40,880 --> 01:00:42,600
Speaker 2: because I'm gonna go with the gas.

1123
01:00:43,880 --> 01:00:49,600
Speaker 1: That was the last so basic bullshit, Like why anybody

1124
01:00:49,600 --> 01:00:52,720
Speaker 1: would like buy some shit instead of eating. I don't know.

1125
01:00:53,240 --> 01:00:54,520
Speaker 1: I just don't. I don't know.

1126
01:00:54,720 --> 01:00:56,320
Speaker 2: And you looked at that game and thought it was

1127
01:00:56,440 --> 01:00:57,640
Speaker 2: fun because.

1128
01:01:00,640 --> 01:01:05,320
Speaker 1: But there's some people listening right now who not even

1129
01:01:05,400 --> 01:01:07,720
Speaker 1: listening right now, this is in my life. I begin

1130
01:01:07,840 --> 01:01:10,520
Speaker 1: text messages I don't know, just because I don't have kids.

1131
01:01:10,520 --> 01:01:13,080
Speaker 1: People think I got all this excess money, and I'm

1132
01:01:13,080 --> 01:01:17,880
Speaker 1: here to tell y'all ps a, I do not. Okay, there,

1133
01:01:17,960 --> 01:01:20,600
Speaker 1: I like spending money on house shit on me first

1134
01:01:20,640 --> 01:01:23,640
Speaker 1: of all, on me, oh me, Yeah. So now I

1135
01:01:24,240 --> 01:01:27,680
Speaker 1: get these text messages for like real money, and I'm like,

1136
01:01:27,960 --> 01:01:30,880
Speaker 1: what what about me? Like what am I showing anybody

1137
01:01:30,960 --> 01:01:33,480
Speaker 1: to make them think that I can just give this

1138
01:01:33,520 --> 01:01:35,280
Speaker 1: out this month and not have to worry about it?

1139
01:01:35,360 --> 01:01:37,800
Speaker 2: I don't. Yeah. I don't like people who you see

1140
01:01:37,840 --> 01:01:42,280
Speaker 2: them living in excess and then asking to borrow shit.

1141
01:01:42,480 --> 01:01:46,560
Speaker 2: That's my exactly. It's like, oh, using me to supplicate supplement.

1142
01:01:46,640 --> 01:01:48,640
Speaker 2: They want to borrow my money to do the ship

1143
01:01:48,720 --> 01:01:51,080
Speaker 2: you should have done with yours that I don't like.

1144
01:01:52,120 --> 01:01:55,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, and that's what be happening because you see how

1145
01:01:55,200 --> 01:01:58,920
Speaker 1: they be moving and then argument.

1146
01:01:58,960 --> 01:02:02,640
Speaker 2: Like they very very flashy, and then one of their

1147
01:02:02,680 --> 01:02:04,920
Speaker 2: parents died and then they made a go fund me

1148
01:02:05,080 --> 01:02:11,080
Speaker 2: to pay for it. And I'm like, really, because y'all

1149
01:02:11,560 --> 01:02:15,440
Speaker 2: the way y'all live and buy expensive things and clothes

1150
01:02:15,560 --> 01:02:19,920
Speaker 2: and designer everything, and all these lavish vacations and now

1151
01:02:20,000 --> 01:02:22,840
Speaker 2: y'all can't afford to bury your parent is crazy.

1152
01:02:22,960 --> 01:02:24,880
Speaker 1: Nobody had life insurance.

1153
01:02:24,640 --> 01:02:29,560
Speaker 2: Right, Like, it's weird. You got to tell someone in

1154
01:02:29,640 --> 01:02:31,480
Speaker 2: Bags Beach because I don't know what to tell.

1155
01:02:31,800 --> 01:02:34,040
Speaker 1: And that's the thing in the black community, like we

1156
01:02:34,200 --> 01:02:36,960
Speaker 1: buying all the stuff and don't have life insurance on it, right,

1157
01:02:37,960 --> 01:02:39,360
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. Like you can get a

1158
01:02:39,400 --> 01:02:43,000
Speaker 1: real cheap policy on a young, healthy person, right, Ladies,

1159
01:02:43,040 --> 01:02:46,040
Speaker 1: you got baby daddies, put some life insurance on them, niggas.

1160
01:02:46,080 --> 01:02:47,920
Speaker 1: At least you get something in death.

1161
01:02:47,880 --> 01:02:49,920
Speaker 2: Right and something don't get nothing in life.

1162
01:02:50,320 --> 01:02:53,160
Speaker 1: Hopefully it ain't soon and early in his life, but

1163
01:02:53,200 --> 01:02:55,920
Speaker 1: at some point you're going to get paid back for

1164
01:02:56,000 --> 01:02:58,240
Speaker 1: the heartache.

1165
01:02:57,640 --> 01:03:02,200
Speaker 2: Right, So okay, you got anything else to add? Because

1166
01:03:02,200 --> 01:03:03,120
Speaker 2: I got a dumbitch story.

1167
01:03:03,200 --> 01:03:05,880
Speaker 1: No, no, that's it, and I want I did want

1168
01:03:05,880 --> 01:03:07,400
Speaker 1: to go through like a little budget thing.

1169
01:03:07,640 --> 01:03:09,959
Speaker 2: But yeah, well go ahead, because that's probably the best

1170
01:03:09,960 --> 01:03:13,400
Speaker 2: information that they would get from this today.

1171
01:03:14,600 --> 01:03:16,960
Speaker 1: It is not really even a budget for real. It's like,

1172
01:03:18,520 --> 01:03:20,440
Speaker 1: I don't know, is this time that you be spending

1173
01:03:20,440 --> 01:03:22,760
Speaker 1: on shit? Wag install two hundred and fifty.

1174
01:03:22,800 --> 01:03:24,360
Speaker 2: I feel like this morning, Oh no, you just gonna

1175
01:03:24,360 --> 01:03:26,400
Speaker 2: talk about how much bitch is spending though. I'm about

1176
01:03:26,440 --> 01:03:29,440
Speaker 2: to do the dumb dist story. They know how, you know,

1177
01:03:29,520 --> 01:03:30,720
Speaker 2: they fucking up, Bunny up.

1178
01:03:30,760 --> 01:03:35,840
Speaker 1: We gotta tell them like before, like before we get

1179
01:03:35,880 --> 01:03:38,680
Speaker 1: into the dumbest story. Y'all just noticed that our whole ship,

1180
01:03:39,000 --> 01:03:41,480
Speaker 1: the whole economy is about to change. You better start

1181
01:03:41,480 --> 01:03:44,600
Speaker 1: saving it money. Yeah, that that is really the gist

1182
01:03:44,680 --> 01:03:48,439
Speaker 1: of it's conversation. Save your fucking money. Stop spending money

1183
01:03:48,440 --> 01:03:51,040
Speaker 1: on bullshit. Stop eating out all the time. Like the

1184
01:03:51,080 --> 01:03:53,720
Speaker 1: restaurants can't cook better than me. I'm always disappointed when

1185
01:03:53,760 --> 01:03:57,600
Speaker 1: I go eat out. I be pissed every fucking time. Okay,

1186
01:03:57,800 --> 01:04:01,120
Speaker 1: I took my uh people's out of his birthday. The

1187
01:04:01,160 --> 01:04:04,200
Speaker 1: bill was almost like three hundred and fifty dollars or something.

1188
01:04:04,240 --> 01:04:07,000
Speaker 1: Like that he didn't like his steak. He didn't like

1189
01:04:07,040 --> 01:04:09,760
Speaker 1: his food. So that that bothers me because I know

1190
01:04:09,840 --> 01:04:11,600
Speaker 1: I could have cooked a bomb ass steak at the house.

1191
01:04:12,920 --> 01:04:15,200
Speaker 1: It gets steaked in head, I mean eggs.

1192
01:04:15,480 --> 01:04:20,439
Speaker 2: No, you said it right, hour, go ahead, all right,

1193
01:04:20,520 --> 01:04:23,440
Speaker 2: this number story is from sig. I ain't gonna say

1194
01:04:23,480 --> 01:04:25,040
Speaker 2: your dad. You thought I was gonna say your dad.

1195
01:04:25,080 --> 01:04:30,440
Speaker 2: Man here, all right, she said, keep my name confidenttional.

1196
01:04:30,520 --> 01:04:31,520
Speaker 2: I don't know these bitches, d.

1197
01:04:31,640 --> 01:04:33,520
Speaker 1: Give my name your motherfucker moum.

1198
01:04:34,200 --> 01:04:37,160
Speaker 2: Okay. So hey, ladies, let me just start by saying

1199
01:04:37,200 --> 01:04:39,840
Speaker 2: I absolutely love your podcast. I've been listening for a

1200
01:04:39,920 --> 01:04:42,600
Speaker 2: little over a year now, but literally went back and

1201
01:04:42,640 --> 01:04:45,720
Speaker 2: listened to every episode we talked to Your Girl. Only

1202
01:04:45,800 --> 01:04:49,200
Speaker 2: reason I even listened to podcasts Now, I'll be bored

1203
01:04:49,240 --> 01:04:52,520
Speaker 2: waiting until Thursday for a new episode. Lol. Thank you friend,

1204
01:04:52,640 --> 01:04:53,439
Speaker 2: We love you too.

1205
01:04:53,960 --> 01:04:55,120
Speaker 1: Homegirl, Home Girl.

1206
01:04:55,280 --> 01:04:57,600
Speaker 2: All right, let's get to the dirt. I remember when

1207
01:04:57,640 --> 01:05:00,680
Speaker 2: I was in my early twenties. I'm at thirty now.

1208
01:05:01,200 --> 01:05:04,200
Speaker 2: I was very infatuated with this young lady. I had

1209
01:05:04,240 --> 01:05:06,360
Speaker 2: been Facebook friends with her for years, and I was

1210
01:05:06,440 --> 01:05:09,880
Speaker 2: just so interested in the life she portrayed. I ended

1211
01:05:09,920 --> 01:05:12,520
Speaker 2: up running into her at a party of a mutual friend,

1212
01:05:12,800 --> 01:05:15,480
Speaker 2: and we actually hit it off. We hung out a

1213
01:05:15,560 --> 01:05:18,560
Speaker 2: few more times with friends until she finally agreed to

1214
01:05:18,640 --> 01:05:21,640
Speaker 2: let me take her out. We went out. She insisted

1215
01:05:21,680 --> 01:05:24,160
Speaker 2: on picking me up. We had a great time. By

1216
01:05:24,160 --> 01:05:27,000
Speaker 2: the end of the day we were being followed. The

1217
01:05:27,080 --> 01:05:30,520
Speaker 2: repo man came and took her car. I wasn't approved

1218
01:05:30,520 --> 01:05:32,960
Speaker 2: about it or anything. We went out again, We had

1219
01:05:33,000 --> 01:05:36,040
Speaker 2: sex once, and I bought her a new car. She

1220
01:05:36,120 --> 01:05:39,080
Speaker 2: stopped seeing me soon after I bought her the car. Standing,

1221
01:05:39,080 --> 01:05:42,560
Speaker 2: I was goddamn is bye bitch's car? Right? Standing? I

1222
01:05:42,680 --> 01:05:45,480
Speaker 2: was two dollar but had gotten into a relationship with

1223
01:05:45,520 --> 01:05:50,640
Speaker 2: a mutual mutual friend I met through her. I met

1224
01:05:50,680 --> 01:05:57,720
Speaker 2: her through So the girl got into a relationship with

1225
01:05:58,880 --> 01:06:05,160
Speaker 2: a mutual friend that this person met through the girl.

1226
01:06:06,040 --> 01:06:08,360
Speaker 1: Okay, I get it. Yeah.

1227
01:06:08,400 --> 01:06:10,880
Speaker 2: So after all that, I continue to be friends with her,

1228
01:06:11,160 --> 01:06:14,760
Speaker 2: giving her money now and then. And I'm the godmother

1229
01:06:14,840 --> 01:06:18,480
Speaker 2: of her daughter. I'm a super simp bitch, but I

1230
01:06:18,520 --> 01:06:20,200
Speaker 2: love my god baby. Lo ol.

1231
01:06:22,040 --> 01:06:24,720
Speaker 1: Girl, that's your god baby.

1232
01:06:24,760 --> 01:06:28,040
Speaker 2: Now, yep, that's her god baby. She got a baby.

1233
01:06:28,080 --> 01:06:31,440
Speaker 2: I guess the girl got with a man. And I

1234
01:06:31,440 --> 01:06:33,640
Speaker 2: asked her to be the godmother. Yeah, because you simping

1235
01:06:33,720 --> 01:06:37,120
Speaker 2: you buying chip? Yes, you a god bo nice? Yeah

1236
01:06:37,160 --> 01:06:40,200
Speaker 2: cause nice. I need a car, Listen, I want one

1237
01:06:40,200 --> 01:06:42,400
Speaker 2: of them twelve hundred dollars month cars that AJ was

1238
01:06:42,440 --> 01:06:43,760
Speaker 2: talking about. Can you give me one?

1239
01:06:43,880 --> 01:06:52,000
Speaker 1: Bitch said, you're giving out cars running Bitch, like, what right?

1240
01:06:52,920 --> 01:06:55,000
Speaker 1: Let me find out. Let me find out. The ladies

1241
01:06:55,040 --> 01:06:58,600
Speaker 1: be simpling the biggest tricks. Let me women are the

1242
01:06:58,640 --> 01:07:00,640
Speaker 1: biggest tricks. That's why I don't want to stand what

1243
01:07:00,720 --> 01:07:03,040
Speaker 1: men be talking about. Like and first of all, the

1244
01:07:03,080 --> 01:07:06,120
Speaker 1: real gold diggers trick first. Obviously, I don't mind spending

1245
01:07:06,160 --> 01:07:08,520
Speaker 1: money on the dude. I don't espectually.

1246
01:07:08,640 --> 01:07:11,240
Speaker 2: I like about ways to buy you ship, Yes, and

1247
01:07:11,280 --> 01:07:12,280
Speaker 2: I want to see you and ship.

1248
01:07:12,360 --> 01:07:14,840
Speaker 1: I want to smell you a certain way, absolutely, like

1249
01:07:14,960 --> 01:07:17,200
Speaker 1: I want to the same way men be wanting to

1250
01:07:17,200 --> 01:07:19,919
Speaker 1: make your life easier when they actually love you. That's

1251
01:07:19,960 --> 01:07:23,120
Speaker 1: exactly how women come through for men, or women can

1252
01:07:23,600 --> 01:07:28,720
Speaker 1: come through for you, exactly. Bitch, go ahead and get

1253
01:07:28,720 --> 01:07:29,480
Speaker 1: you a girlfriend.

1254
01:07:29,520 --> 01:07:32,320
Speaker 2: Girl just came through an email because I slid to

1255
01:07:32,360 --> 01:07:35,840
Speaker 2: your das if you buy cards. Bitch, Hey, friends, I

1256
01:07:35,880 --> 01:07:36,400
Speaker 2: love you.

1257
01:07:37,760 --> 01:07:40,360
Speaker 1: She ain't trying to be no motherfucking friend. She probably

1258
01:07:40,360 --> 01:07:42,280
Speaker 1: fuck with niggas now, and she's like, man, these bitches

1259
01:07:42,320 --> 01:07:46,080
Speaker 1: be using people right. She went to man to man,

1260
01:07:46,160 --> 01:07:48,600
Speaker 1: I wonder you're fucking with men now?

1261
01:07:48,720 --> 01:07:51,920
Speaker 2: Let us know, right, come back to the other side.

1262
01:07:52,520 --> 01:07:54,640
Speaker 2: It's rough over here too, though, bitch, I ain't gonna

1263
01:07:54,640 --> 01:07:57,120
Speaker 2: hold you if you ain't came, just know it's rough

1264
01:07:57,160 --> 01:08:01,920
Speaker 2: over here. What's your last list? Everywhere?

1265
01:08:02,800 --> 01:08:04,920
Speaker 1: I think I already pretty much gave it right. Get

1266
01:08:05,000 --> 01:08:08,120
Speaker 1: y'all some fucking life assurance. Stop spending money on bullshit.

1267
01:08:08,600 --> 01:08:13,920
Speaker 1: Get y'all some cryptocurrency. Okay, I think our financial I

1268
01:08:14,000 --> 01:08:16,799
Speaker 1: work in the financial sector, so I could tell y'all

1269
01:08:17,320 --> 01:08:20,320
Speaker 1: firsthand shit about to be different. By twenty thirty, it's

1270
01:08:20,360 --> 01:08:23,040
Speaker 1: gonna look a whole lot different. And this year, damn

1271
01:08:23,040 --> 01:08:25,560
Speaker 1: there over with so definitely setting us up for the

1272
01:08:25,600 --> 01:08:29,080
Speaker 1: okie doke. If you think you're gonna keep putting money

1273
01:08:29,120 --> 01:08:31,280
Speaker 1: under your mattress, that ain't gonna work. We're gonna be

1274
01:08:31,280 --> 01:08:33,719
Speaker 1: wiping our ass on twenties. Okay.

1275
01:08:34,320 --> 01:08:39,120
Speaker 2: So okay, My thing is, you know, do the things

1276
01:08:39,120 --> 01:08:44,200
Speaker 2: that definitely make you feel beautiful, but have balance. Don't

1277
01:08:44,200 --> 01:08:49,120
Speaker 2: blow all your money on frivolous things. Don't blow all

1278
01:08:49,160 --> 01:08:53,080
Speaker 2: your money on a Chloe belt. You don't need that belt.

1279
01:08:53,160 --> 01:08:55,639
Speaker 2: You can get just a regular chain bilt and then

1280
01:08:55,920 --> 01:08:58,280
Speaker 2: you know, and then get something else that you know

1281
01:08:58,880 --> 01:09:01,559
Speaker 2: makes you feel good, and then save some It's gotta

1282
01:09:01,600 --> 01:09:05,080
Speaker 2: be some balance. That's all I'm saying, you know. So

1283
01:09:05,200 --> 01:09:07,360
Speaker 2: that's what I because I don't say like, don't go

1284
01:09:07,439 --> 01:09:10,200
Speaker 2: around here walking around looking crazy because AJ said save

1285
01:09:10,240 --> 01:09:12,320
Speaker 2: your money. I still want you to look nice.

1286
01:09:12,920 --> 01:09:16,559
Speaker 1: Now you can look nice fashion over, don't put cotton

1287
01:09:16,560 --> 01:09:18,479
Speaker 1: in it. Don't buy all that polyester.

1288
01:09:18,040 --> 01:09:20,120
Speaker 2: Bull say boom.

1289
01:09:20,320 --> 01:09:22,160
Speaker 1: You can get some nice stuff uf of fashion Over.

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Speaker 1: You just gotta tell them what type of material you're

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Speaker 1: looking for it. That's how I shop a fashion over.

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Speaker 1: I put cotton or linen. Everything else is polyester, and

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Speaker 1: I'm in a lot of the high end designer stuff

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Speaker 1: be polyester too.

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Speaker 2: So you just got the good stuffs, not even it'll come.

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Speaker 2: It's like the bitch on the picture look nice and

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Speaker 2: then it come to you and looking like some shit.

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Speaker 2: You could have bought out the hairstore and.

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Speaker 1: They be having irregular shit, Like I gotta jump suit

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Speaker 1: in there right now. One leg a longer than the other.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. So That's why I'm just like go and Revolve.

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Speaker 2: I like Revolve.

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Speaker 1: I love Revolved. I got so much shit in my man.

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Speaker 1: I got like a million dollars worth of shit in

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Speaker 1: my little You need to have a yards.

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Speaker 2: Hell, That's what I keep saying. I need to have, Like,

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Speaker 2: I just need to find a way to sell all this.

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Speaker 2: It's so much shit with tags on it. I can't

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Speaker 2: even feel. I don't go nowhere for it. Like I

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Speaker 2: just need to sell a haus shmark that I thought

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Speaker 2: would be cute on me and then you look up

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Speaker 2: woy about that. That's not for me, and sty'll be

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Speaker 2: changing anyway. We're getting off on the tangent, y'all. We

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Speaker 2: say your ship so we can go bitch.

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