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Speaker 2: My mom would add like a saying to it. My

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Speaker 2: As Aaron likes to say, I'm I'm in an ear.

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Speaker 1: Everything's irritating to me today and I don't want to

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Speaker 1: Yes, we're having a pathway through this podcast.

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Speaker 2: Work in my house for Aaron and Jared.

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Speaker 1: In the NFL season, in the books, and plenty other

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