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Speaker 1: Hey, everyone, welcome to a bonus episode of I Saw

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Speaker 1: What You Did. My name is Millie to Jericho of

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Speaker 1: Danielle Henderson, and we're already giggling up. I know we

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Speaker 1: were giggling before we press record, so.

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Speaker 2: And I've I've already sent you several all caps text

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Speaker 2: messages this morning.

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Speaker 1: Okay, come out.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, we summer nineteenth.

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Speaker 1: Okay, here, here's here's my thing. Okay, so y'all listen

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Speaker 1: to the episode that we did about Trouble without a

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Speaker 1: Cause and Last Picture Show in where we discussed how

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Speaker 1: Danielle and I are could cough as fuck if Trump wins. Okay,

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Speaker 1: I can't even say it. Okay. There was a moment

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Speaker 1: where I made a call, like a very public call

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Speaker 1: for shitty little vampires to contact the podcast. Okay. Now,

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Speaker 1: we got quite a few, quite a few entries for

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Speaker 1: the shitty little vampire, and I have to say a

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Speaker 1: lot of them were not shitty little vampires.

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Speaker 2: A million was.

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Speaker 3: Literally like not goth enough to have these entries question

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Speaker 3: whether or not you are a little vampire, let alone

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Speaker 3: a shitty little vampire if you've got like outdoor gear on,

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Speaker 3: because that's the thing vampires do.

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Speaker 1: Not go outside like that. They do not they don't

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Speaker 1: participate in extreme sports. Don't y'all know this? Do you

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Speaker 1: remember what a vampire is? Like, let's remember, like what

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Speaker 1: vampires are. They have usually have like dye black hair,

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Speaker 1: really really dark like Box from CBS, like the darkest

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Speaker 1: dark hair you can get. I mentioned crushed velvet. I've mentioned,

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Speaker 1: you know, I don't really like long fingernails, but a

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Speaker 1: lot of them have long fingernails, and like those rings

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Speaker 1: that have like a bird's skull that goes over the

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Speaker 1: noth Oh my god, you know, like Peter Jewelry long hair.

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Speaker 1: Filed teeth, Danielle, you mentioned that in the text teeth

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Speaker 1: or filed.

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Speaker 2: We were coming up with rules for what a shitty

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Speaker 2: little vampire was to each other because I'm like, maybe

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Speaker 2: you need to be more specific about what your definition

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Speaker 2: of a shitty little vampire. So yeah, like file file

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Speaker 2: one or two teeth. You know those eye teeth like

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Speaker 2: file them down like commit really commit ghost white like

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Speaker 2: ghost where you can see veins.

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Speaker 1: Like let's remember, people come on, like, let's remember what

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Speaker 1: a shitty little vampire could be? And I said shitty

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Speaker 1: little vampire, because I don't think if you're like on

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Speaker 1: the short side, I love it. I love a short

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Speaker 1: vampire king like whatever. Like like, I just shocked that

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Speaker 1: people were sending us being like I'm a shitty vampire,

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Speaker 1: and I'm like, are.

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Speaker 2: You you know what I'm talking about?

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Speaker 1: Daniel was like, I think they're misunderstanding the assignment. I

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Speaker 1: was like, I know, I know.

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Speaker 2: That if you are hydrated, you're not a shitty little vampire.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god. Absolutely not have mister Burns crinkle like

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Speaker 1: if you're curled up like mister Burns from the Simpsons, Like,

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Speaker 1: come on.

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Speaker 2: Give me some part of your body. Has to have

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Speaker 2: creepy skin, like dry, wrinkly, like little creepy skin where

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Speaker 2: to drop of water. Just sallow. We're looking for sallow. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: like like parched. I want someone who looks parched.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. Stringy hair like ye, long, stringy, long hair.

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Speaker 2: Don't. We don't want these modern listates. Let's just say that,

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Speaker 2: no modern listats. If you watch.

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Speaker 1: Queena, if you watch Queena the Damned, and you and

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Speaker 1: you saw that version of the stat the woodstock ninety nine.

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Speaker 1: Lstat I'm not talking about you, Like, we're talking about

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Speaker 1: anything new. So I mean, I feel bad because I'm like,

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Speaker 1: thanks for responding to my request, But yeah, I think

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Speaker 1: I was talking about something a little different.

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Speaker 2: But well we've given some further instructions now, so shitty

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Speaker 2: little vampires activate. And this is also the thing, shitty

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Speaker 2: little vampires probably don't have Internet.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, they either don't have internet or they were the

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Speaker 1: it's either or. I mean, honestly, when it comes down

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Speaker 2: The attitude of a raven knuckle ring is what we're looking.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, like we're we're gonna We've got a movie

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Speaker 1: coming up on our schedule that is probably as close

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Speaker 2: If you if you have a phone of yourself smiling

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Speaker 1: And most importantly, you're gonna want to have to create

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Speaker 1: really boils down to is that that's really like you

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Speaker 1: know what I mean? You gotta be like, who are

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Speaker 2: A lot of shitty little vampire applicants have families that

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Speaker 2: little world with Millie. If you got kids, you gotta

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Speaker 2: leave them kids.

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Speaker 1: We have to go underground, like if you've got people,

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Speaker 1: if you've got to, if you already got a partner, Listen,

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Speaker 1: I'm not Polly. I don't do it like that. Like

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Speaker 1: it's like, if we're gonna create blood art, you gotta

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Speaker 1: so crazy. I can't do this truly gonna this is

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Speaker 1: what we're like literally making a casting call right now

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Speaker 2: Billy's planned Billy an Underworld takeover. You cannot bring children

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Speaker 2: to an underworld takeover. She's gonna be making art with blood.

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Speaker 2: They're gonna be pewter candles, candle holders everywhere asbestos will

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Speaker 2: be part of the part of the plan, whether you

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Speaker 2: like it or not. Think Lost Boys, you think they're like,

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Speaker 2: listen to what we said during Lost Boys, they're living

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Speaker 2: in filth. They're living in underground filth, old cars as beds. Yeah, like,

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Speaker 2: come on, y'all, you know what a she little vampire is.

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Speaker 1: I know. And I was gonna say it's gonna be

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Speaker 1: But by by the time thirty comes around, it's like, yeah,

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Speaker 2: You need to have gray hair. Let's put it that way. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: I don't remember the age I was when I got

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Speaker 1: Actually at that time I felt like being gray was

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, with a little shock of gray hair, a

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Speaker 2: So I was I'm gonna be a salt and pepper

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Speaker 1: I think that's my issue, is that I either want

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Speaker 2: But I've started getting gray eyelashes, like some of my

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Speaker 2: And so I'm like, all right, my whole head is

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Speaker 1: Have you had a gray ear hair yet? I haven't.

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Speaker 2: I'm just asking no, no, or I have had a

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Speaker 1: I'm I've had a gray eyebrow hair, and I was

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Speaker 2: So but you need to have it to be part

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Speaker 2: of the Shitty Little Vampire crew. Oh So, wherever the

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Speaker 2: think we've weighed it down. I think we've mapped out

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Speaker 1: We absolutely have. And so now if you do write

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Speaker 2: Here's the question I have for you. Do shitty little

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Speaker 2: vampires wear crocs? No, so you can't even be part

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Speaker 1: Look, here's my thing. I didn't ever told anybody that

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Speaker 1: I was a shitty little vampire. I was simply gonna

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Speaker 1: this couple is basically me being angry like downward Spiral

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Speaker 2: Gotcha. Okay, that is the clarity we also need. That

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Speaker 2: is a clarity we also need.

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Speaker 1: However, I have to say I don't even think intense

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Speaker 1: I could be wrong. There's probably goths lining up to

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Speaker 1: at gmail dot com. Who are saying listen, I got

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Speaker 1: crocs and I wear gibbits and I'm goth. So but

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Speaker 2: Like this is specific to you. These are rules for you.

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Speaker 2: You do not have to get upset with us if

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Speaker 2: the rules do not apply. These are Milli's rules for herself,

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Speaker 2: for her shitty little vampire underground coupling experience.

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Speaker 1: Right, Like, I personally believe that. You know, if you

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Speaker 1: watched the first if you were at the first Lollapalooza

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Speaker 1: and you saw Nightish Nails perform and all of their

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Speaker 2: Do you have a pair of leather gloves that go

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Speaker 2: All right, We're gonna read your emails now is.

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Speaker 1: That you're going first?

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Speaker 2: from Sabrina, who uses she her pronouns Hi Millian. Danielle.

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Speaker 2: I felt compelled to write in after listening to today's episodes,

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Speaker 2: embrace vulnerability, which is something I'm working on in therapy. Uugh, Millie,

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Speaker 2: By the way, I just turned forty four, and I

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Speaker 1: A lot of swapping out of partners in this one.

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Speaker 1: This isn't insanely easy.

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Speaker 2: Pretty solid, pretty solid answers. I am fucking Charlie's dad.

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Speaker 1: Nah, Like, are you just gonna straddle him in that

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Speaker 2: or night of his life, probably day. He's a nightfucker anymore.

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Speaker 2: I'm fucking Charlie's dad. Why not? Oh my god, my mind.

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Speaker 2: I am going to marry Wayne? Why because he's always

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Speaker 2: hanging out with Garth out of my house, out of

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Speaker 2: Basement doing that fucking show stay down there with your

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Speaker 1: Like that's I. I wasn't even able to bring him

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Speaker 1: Yeah great. I actually, for some reason, I thought you'd

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Speaker 2: to Brita A great FMK, thank you for emailing. Millie

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Speaker 2: is done for the day.

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Speaker 1: Oh I am I'm flushed down a toilet. I don't

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Speaker 1: I would just what a dark place? Dark place? All right?

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Speaker 1: We have a voicemails.

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Speaker 4: I'm Millie and Danielle. My name is Emily and I

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Speaker 4: my son, and they both really love movies. Would watch

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Speaker 4: it won't disappear off the earth. I could always watch

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Speaker 4: it again. What do you all think? Is it rude

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Speaker 2: Really love you both.

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Speaker 1: Bye.

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Speaker 2: Absolutely fantastic question, Emily.

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Speaker 1: Yes, oh my god, what's your opinion on this?

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Speaker 2: I have instant opinions and they are all in Emily's favor.

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Speaker 2: With your family, do whatever the fuck you want. You

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Speaker 2: If you haven't picked the movie, if you're not sharing

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Speaker 2: also think maybe this is just their thing. Maybe this

433
00:26:35,400 --> 00:26:37,520
Speaker 2: is just your partner and your son, like, maybe this

434
00:26:37,640 --> 00:26:40,399
Speaker 2: is just their thing that they do together. And if

435
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Speaker 2: they don't want you to be on your phone and

436
00:26:42,040 --> 00:26:45,560
Speaker 2: you're not really interested or invested in the film, go

437
00:26:45,600 --> 00:26:48,600
Speaker 2: do something else. Go be on your phone watching something

438
00:26:48,640 --> 00:26:50,560
Speaker 2: else in another room, or on your computer or on

439
00:26:50,560 --> 00:26:52,760
Speaker 2: your phone or whatever. I think that it's okay if

440
00:26:52,800 --> 00:26:55,400
Speaker 2: it's just their thing, but if you want to be included,

441
00:26:55,760 --> 00:26:58,720
Speaker 2: another compromise possibly is give it a shot. Be like,

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Speaker 2: all right, I'm going to watch the first half hour

443
00:27:00,480 --> 00:27:02,679
Speaker 2: of this movie. If I'm really not feeling it. I

444
00:27:02,720 --> 00:27:04,240
Speaker 2: love you, guys, I want to spend time with you,

445
00:27:04,280 --> 00:27:05,920
Speaker 2: but I'm gonna be on my phone for a little bit,

446
00:27:06,359 --> 00:27:09,600
Speaker 2: like use Nearly's ninety ten percentage or whatever, but at

447
00:27:09,640 --> 00:27:14,879
Speaker 2: least try it. I think that, Yeah, whenever I'm watching

448
00:27:14,920 --> 00:27:19,159
Speaker 2: something brand new, I always pay full attention. If it's

449
00:27:19,200 --> 00:27:21,520
Speaker 2: something that i'm watching again and again or I've seen before,

450
00:27:22,119 --> 00:27:24,160
Speaker 2: I'll be on my phone playing a game, no problem.

451
00:27:24,760 --> 00:27:27,439
Speaker 2: And if people are over, I'm not on my phone.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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00:27:28,000 --> 00:27:29,479
Speaker 2: So, but I think in the you know, it's it's

454
00:27:29,480 --> 00:27:31,080
Speaker 2: your family, it's the comfort of your own home. And

455
00:27:31,080 --> 00:27:35,520
Speaker 2: if you're saying that film helps you relax, then I

456
00:27:35,520 --> 00:27:37,480
Speaker 2: think there has to be some kind of compromise there

457
00:27:37,480 --> 00:27:37,920
Speaker 2: for y'all.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, to be completely honest with you, I've

459
00:27:41,520 --> 00:27:43,440
Speaker 1: been on my phone during movies, like I've gone over

460
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Speaker 1: to my friend's houses to watch movies. But here's the thing.

461
00:27:47,520 --> 00:27:50,600
Speaker 1: I never like, I didn't weigh in on the title.

462
00:27:51,440 --> 00:27:52,760
Speaker 2: Yeah you know what I mean.

463
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Speaker 1: So so basically what in my case, I'm just sort

464
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Speaker 1: of like, if I'm just along for the ride, it

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Speaker 1: whatever the fuck y'all want to watch, I have no

466
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Speaker 1: opinion on it. Then if I am not into it

467
00:28:04,960 --> 00:28:06,959
Speaker 1: and I pull my phone out, I feel like, Okay,

468
00:28:07,080 --> 00:28:10,040
Speaker 1: that's fine. But if I'm like, yes, we should watch this,

469
00:28:10,320 --> 00:28:13,440
Speaker 1: I've waited on the selection and then I'm on my phone,

470
00:28:13,440 --> 00:28:16,000
Speaker 1: I feel like that's a little bullshit. But that's that's

471
00:28:16,080 --> 00:28:18,760
Speaker 1: just me. I mean, I'm I have my own opinions.

472
00:28:18,800 --> 00:28:22,280
Speaker 1: But that's this is such a good question because yeah, yeah,

473
00:28:22,320 --> 00:28:25,520
Speaker 1: people have been people have This is a sensitive topic.

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00:28:25,560 --> 00:28:29,240
Speaker 1: People get really upset sometimes when they feel like they're

475
00:28:29,240 --> 00:28:32,680
Speaker 1: trying to show you this like thing and then if

476
00:28:32,720 --> 00:28:36,359
Speaker 1: you don't pay attention. I've been in that position, so

477
00:28:36,400 --> 00:28:38,000
Speaker 1: it's like, you know, I don't know, but you got

478
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Speaker 1: to feel it for sure.

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Speaker 2: That's why I think there could be a I will

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Speaker 2: give it a shot for thirty minutes or an hour

481
00:28:45,600 --> 00:28:47,520
Speaker 2: or whatever. It is, like if they're trying to bring

482
00:28:47,600 --> 00:28:50,760
Speaker 2: you into an experience, then yeah, definitely pay attention and

483
00:28:50,840 --> 00:28:53,160
Speaker 2: try it for as long as you can stand it.

484
00:28:53,600 --> 00:28:55,360
Speaker 2: But yeah, I think i'd like to hear what I

485
00:28:55,360 --> 00:28:57,520
Speaker 2: don't know. I'm kind of interested what our listeners think

486
00:28:57,560 --> 00:29:01,240
Speaker 2: because I think it's a very contentious topic as well.

487
00:29:02,040 --> 00:29:05,560
Speaker 2: But my general to ease this all out, my general

488
00:29:05,640 --> 00:29:07,600
Speaker 2: rule is if I'm alone, I do whatever I want

489
00:29:07,640 --> 00:29:10,160
Speaker 2: when I'm watching movies. If I'm watching movies with people,

490
00:29:10,280 --> 00:29:12,920
Speaker 2: all devices are away and I pay attention to the

491
00:29:12,960 --> 00:29:14,640
Speaker 2: experience and I'm having with somebody.

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Speaker 1: Else, yeah, good, good, good good.

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Speaker 2: I don't have a family, though, I don't have anyone

494
00:29:20,280 --> 00:29:23,280
Speaker 2: else in my face all day, so I.

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Speaker 1: Know, I was like, yeah, usually I'm watching movies alone

496
00:29:26,400 --> 00:29:30,280
Speaker 1: all the time, so I don't I'm not even affected normally.

497
00:29:30,920 --> 00:29:33,080
Speaker 1: So we have this Why don't you read this next

498
00:29:33,080 --> 00:29:35,720
Speaker 1: one because it feels like it's all about you.

499
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Speaker 2: So the subject of our next email is gas Station,

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Speaker 2: Buttered Hard Rolls and Summer Camp Movies. Hey ladies, longtime listener,

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00:29:45,760 --> 00:29:48,200
Speaker 2: first time writing in. I grew up in Michigan and

502
00:29:48,240 --> 00:29:51,880
Speaker 2: currently live in Colorado, but love Stuart's gas Station, which

503
00:29:51,880 --> 00:29:54,680
Speaker 2: seems to only be in New York. I spent my

504
00:29:54,760 --> 00:29:57,480
Speaker 2: childhood going to summer camp in upstate New York and

505
00:29:57,600 --> 00:30:01,440
Speaker 2: became a loyalist of Stuart's root beer fl My kids

506
00:30:01,480 --> 00:30:04,240
Speaker 2: now go to the same camp and we will always

507
00:30:04,280 --> 00:30:07,000
Speaker 2: stop for a root beer float while in town. This

508
00:30:07,160 --> 00:30:10,600
Speaker 2: time I glanced and saw a buttered hard role by

509
00:30:10,640 --> 00:30:14,960
Speaker 2: the cash register. Normally I'm creeped out by gas station food,

510
00:30:15,320 --> 00:30:17,880
Speaker 2: but after hearing Danielle preach the way of the gas

511
00:30:17,920 --> 00:30:22,600
Speaker 2: station buttered roll, I picked one up. It was fucking delicious.

512
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Speaker 2: I would like to thank Danielle for bringing awareness to

513
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Speaker 2: this and to the person who gave that role the

514
00:30:28,000 --> 00:30:31,080
Speaker 2: generous slab of butter. In the spirit of summer camp.

515
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Speaker 2: What are your favorite summer camp movies? Mine is Meatballs

516
00:30:35,240 --> 00:30:37,160
Speaker 2: As a kid of the eighties, You bet your ass

517
00:30:37,160 --> 00:30:40,720
Speaker 2: we watched it at camp for movie night. Totally appropriate

518
00:30:40,760 --> 00:30:44,280
Speaker 2: for kids. Bill Murray talking about Sexual Awareness Week is

519
00:30:44,280 --> 00:30:47,520
Speaker 2: burned into my ten year old psyche forever love the show.

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00:30:47,800 --> 00:30:50,440
Speaker 2: Love you both, Emily, and I'm guessing it's a different

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Speaker 2: Emily than the Emily that just send us a voicemail.

522
00:30:53,320 --> 00:30:55,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think we have many Emily's that listen to

523
00:30:55,520 --> 00:30:56,600
Speaker 1: this podcast.

524
00:30:57,040 --> 00:30:59,320
Speaker 2: But listen, there's a lot of things that I think

525
00:30:59,360 --> 00:31:03,800
Speaker 2: I take for grants in my life, and I that

526
00:31:03,920 --> 00:31:05,680
Speaker 2: I there are a lot of things that I thought

527
00:31:05,720 --> 00:31:11,960
Speaker 2: were just public knowledge, including the buttered roll. But it's

528
00:31:12,000 --> 00:31:15,640
Speaker 2: a regional delicacy that I'm happy to bring awareness to.

529
00:31:17,000 --> 00:31:22,680
Speaker 1: I am so happy that people love this thing just

530
00:31:22,720 --> 00:31:25,640
Speaker 1: as much as you do. Like, the buttered role is

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Speaker 1: essentially your three eleven if you think about it, like

532
00:31:28,640 --> 00:31:31,040
Speaker 1: I love that you love them so much. I've never

533
00:31:31,120 --> 00:31:33,640
Speaker 1: had one, and I'm dying to have one.

534
00:31:33,680 --> 00:31:35,640
Speaker 2: Like I talk about it, you are a couple of

535
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Speaker 2: weeks away. You are a couple of weeks away from

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00:31:37,800 --> 00:31:38,200
Speaker 2: having one.

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00:31:38,840 --> 00:31:41,680
Speaker 1: Absolutely no, that is gonna be Like the minute you

538
00:31:41,720 --> 00:31:43,880
Speaker 1: pick me up at the airport, we are driving to

539
00:31:44,000 --> 00:31:46,080
Speaker 1: some gas station. I'm fucking going.

540
00:31:45,920 --> 00:31:50,240
Speaker 2: Ham gas station, dunkin Donuts. This is the the hit,

541
00:31:50,480 --> 00:31:54,600
Speaker 2: the morning hit. Yeah, when I know, I'm setting myself

542
00:31:54,640 --> 00:31:57,080
Speaker 2: up for a good fucking day, I'm getting a buttered

543
00:31:57,160 --> 00:31:58,120
Speaker 2: roll in a dunk.

544
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Speaker 1: You're gonna see my ass on my Instagram account eating

545
00:32:01,440 --> 00:32:04,640
Speaker 1: this thing. Just know when it's when it happens, it's

546
00:32:04,680 --> 00:32:05,840
Speaker 1: going to be very public.

547
00:32:06,000 --> 00:32:08,640
Speaker 2: I'm going to record it the way people record their

548
00:32:08,680 --> 00:32:12,120
Speaker 2: first child's birthday. Cake, like that's how I'm going to

549
00:32:12,160 --> 00:32:15,520
Speaker 2: record it. Yeah, of course, like like a gender reveal party.

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00:32:16,480 --> 00:32:19,360
Speaker 1: Have you been to a Stuart's gas station?

551
00:32:20,040 --> 00:32:24,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, Stuart's is I didn't realize they were New York specific,

552
00:32:24,160 --> 00:32:27,120
Speaker 2: but I think they are also a regional thing. I've

553
00:32:27,160 --> 00:32:31,680
Speaker 2: seen Stuart's SODA's and other places I've lived, and they're

554
00:32:31,720 --> 00:32:36,880
Speaker 2: the kind of the same brand. But yeah, they're gas stations. Yeah,

555
00:32:36,920 --> 00:32:38,520
Speaker 2: to my knowledge, I mean, because they had the same

556
00:32:38,560 --> 00:32:43,560
Speaker 2: logo and everything, but they definitely it's when you're getting

557
00:32:43,560 --> 00:32:45,400
Speaker 2: it right from the source, like fresh from the tap,

558
00:32:45,480 --> 00:32:49,240
Speaker 2: root beer, nothing like it. And they're kind of like

559
00:32:49,320 --> 00:32:53,760
Speaker 2: old timey shops, like a little old timey cutie. They're

560
00:32:53,800 --> 00:32:56,600
Speaker 2: they're you know, they're newer, they build new ones and stuff,

561
00:32:56,600 --> 00:32:58,000
Speaker 2: but they're kind of like, you know, no, they just

562
00:32:58,000 --> 00:32:59,280
Speaker 2: have a vibe to them where you can find some

563
00:32:59,320 --> 00:33:01,320
Speaker 2: Grandma candy there if you need it. If you haven't

564
00:33:01,320 --> 00:33:03,120
Speaker 2: seen a Necho Wafer since the eighties, go to a

565
00:33:03,160 --> 00:33:04,120
Speaker 2: Stewart you'll see him.

566
00:33:04,640 --> 00:33:07,720
Speaker 1: Yeah. It's kind of like a cracker barrel, but not

567
00:33:08,320 --> 00:33:09,080
Speaker 1: a restaurant.

568
00:33:09,440 --> 00:33:11,240
Speaker 2: Yeah, like a gas station cracker barrel.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Okay, because I was wondering I was like, because

570
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Speaker 1: I've seen Stuart SODA's and I was like, I don't know,

571
00:33:16,800 --> 00:33:21,760
Speaker 1: maybe that's the same place controversial opinion. I am not

572
00:33:21,960 --> 00:33:23,120
Speaker 1: really into root beer.

573
00:33:24,000 --> 00:33:27,680
Speaker 2: Ooh, that's all right, birch beer. Have you try to

574
00:33:27,680 --> 00:33:31,120
Speaker 2: birch No, you don't like any of them, none of

575
00:33:31,120 --> 00:33:32,000
Speaker 2: them tree beers.

576
00:33:33,240 --> 00:33:36,240
Speaker 1: I like gin, I like ginger beer. Is that does

577
00:33:36,280 --> 00:33:36,800
Speaker 1: that count?

578
00:33:37,800 --> 00:33:40,360
Speaker 2: Like I love say family ish, I think.

579
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Speaker 1: I love a Moscow mule. If you're wondering, I mean

580
00:33:44,040 --> 00:33:48,120
Speaker 1: a fucking love of Moscow mule. Honestly, maybe too much.

581
00:33:49,560 --> 00:33:53,600
Speaker 1: But yeah, I'm not really into root beer, uh, even

582
00:33:53,640 --> 00:33:59,880
Speaker 1: if you put ice cream in it. But I respect, Yeah,

583
00:34:00,160 --> 00:34:01,840
Speaker 1: I respect the fun out of people who love root

584
00:34:01,840 --> 00:34:05,160
Speaker 1: beer and these buttered rolls. I love that you're vindicated

585
00:34:06,480 --> 00:34:12,840
Speaker 1: about these roles. Now, as for summer camp films, what

586
00:34:12,840 --> 00:34:13,759
Speaker 1: what's your take on this?

587
00:34:14,400 --> 00:34:16,560
Speaker 2: You know, I don't. I don't have personal experience with

588
00:34:16,600 --> 00:34:19,120
Speaker 2: summer camp. So the summer camp movie never really hit

589
00:34:19,160 --> 00:34:23,920
Speaker 2: me as hard, but they were very prevalent in the eighties. Yeah,

590
00:34:23,960 --> 00:34:27,839
Speaker 2: and I remember things like like Creep Show and All

591
00:34:27,840 --> 00:34:29,440
Speaker 2: the Summer. All the summer camp movies that I can

592
00:34:29,520 --> 00:34:35,640
Speaker 2: remember watching were very camp or very horror based. Yeah,

593
00:34:36,080 --> 00:34:41,040
Speaker 2: so sleepway camp like you know, yeah, like that, But

594
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Speaker 2: I don't have like a favorite favorite.

595
00:34:43,840 --> 00:34:47,560
Speaker 1: Yeah. Oh mine is definitely Little Darlings, which we've talked

596
00:34:47,560 --> 00:34:50,760
Speaker 1: about on the show before. Sleep Away Camp is probably

597
00:34:50,760 --> 00:34:55,480
Speaker 1: my second favorite. But yeah, I mean, honestly, like it's

598
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Speaker 1: it's funny now that you say that. Do people even

599
00:34:57,880 --> 00:35:00,920
Speaker 1: really send their kids to sleep away camp anymore? It's

600
00:35:01,000 --> 00:35:04,200
Speaker 1: usually just like day camps and shit, right, that's a

601
00:35:04,200 --> 00:35:04,720
Speaker 1: good question.

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00:35:04,760 --> 00:35:08,799
Speaker 2: I mean, there are definitely some that maybe you'll go

603
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Speaker 2: for a week or two, but it's not like a

604
00:35:10,200 --> 00:35:13,399
Speaker 2: whole summer long experience to my knowledge, I think it's

605
00:35:13,440 --> 00:35:18,320
Speaker 2: just been like a much shorter time time frame.

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00:35:18,680 --> 00:35:23,120
Speaker 1: Now, yeah, my nephews went to like stem camp this summer,

607
00:35:23,760 --> 00:35:25,719
Speaker 1: I know, but it was a day thing, so they

608
00:35:25,840 --> 00:35:27,560
Speaker 1: go all day and then my sister would pick them up.

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Speaker 1: And then I kept thinking, I don't even know if

610
00:35:29,440 --> 00:35:31,759
Speaker 1: my sister would let my like she doesn't let her

611
00:35:31,840 --> 00:35:35,880
Speaker 1: kids go spend the night pretty much. Ever, so the

612
00:35:36,360 --> 00:35:40,280
Speaker 1: idea that they got a camp for two months would

613
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Speaker 1: be out of the question.

614
00:35:42,440 --> 00:35:48,120
Speaker 2: But our generation couldn't wait to get rid of children

615
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Speaker 2: for as long as possible.

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00:35:49,640 --> 00:35:52,840
Speaker 1: Oh, I yes, that is exactly what my point is.

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Speaker 1: I think ultimately is that kids of the eighties, and

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Speaker 1: I mean the idea that there's a proliferation of some

619
00:36:00,200 --> 00:36:02,520
Speaker 1: camp movies in the eighties is because eighties parents were

620
00:36:02,520 --> 00:36:06,400
Speaker 1: like fucking get rid of them, like give them to

621
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Speaker 1: the Poultergeist. If not that, send them to send him

622
00:36:10,239 --> 00:36:11,200
Speaker 1: to Sleepway Camp.

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Speaker 2: Those are your options in the summer summer camp Poltergeist.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, we're trying to go on toward Bob Seeker. We

625
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Speaker 1: don't need these kids around. Emily incredible email. Thank you

626
00:36:25,719 --> 00:36:26,960
Speaker 1: so much and.

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Speaker 2: I'm glad you got your buttered role experience. Come on

628
00:36:29,000 --> 00:36:31,520
Speaker 2: back to New York next summer and stock.

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Speaker 1: Up absolutely all right, So our next email is called

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Speaker 1: too Many Things and a Question and it was written

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Speaker 1: by Steph in Ottawa using she her l pronouns Hi.

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Speaker 3: All.

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Speaker 1: was something I didn't know I needed. Thank you for

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Speaker 1: sharing yourself with your listeners. In your most recent episode,

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Speaker 1: Crack Open a Party Gay, you talked about the movies

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Speaker 1: you loved in middle school and how important that phase

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Speaker 1: of life can be. My husband and I do movie

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Speaker 1: nights at least one time a week, and we are

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Speaker 1: in a eighties slash nineties nostalgia phase right now. This

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Speaker 1: has been thinking about who I looked up to in

644
00:37:21,000 --> 00:37:25,600
Speaker 1: movies growing up. I distinctly remember watching Crocodile Dundee and

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Speaker 1: Upon a rewatch, I realized she was sleeping with her editor,

649
00:37:39,480 --> 00:37:42,400
Speaker 1: her dad owned the paper she worked for, and she

650
00:37:42,560 --> 00:37:44,920
Speaker 1: was mostly a damsel in the stress in the outback.

651
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Speaker 1: For Buck's sake, my question for you, who is a

652
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Speaker 1: character or movie that fell from grace for you after

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Speaker 1: a rewatch? Most of our rewatches are great. We recently

654
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Speaker 1: watched Buffy the Vampire Slayer in honor of the late

655
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Speaker 1: Old Sutherland Rip Canadian King and Laconic OAF and it

656
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Speaker 1: made my preteen heart very happy. All the best, Steph

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Speaker 1: in Ottawa. PS. Danielle, I just finished your book and

658
00:38:12,400 --> 00:38:15,400
Speaker 1: could not put it down. Thank you for sharing your

659
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Speaker 1: story and your vulnerability in both your book and on

660
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Speaker 1: the pod pps Millie, you are the fucking coolest and

661
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Speaker 1: so I worried an ax murderer does hold up?

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Speaker 2: Aw, Steph. This is a great email and a great

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Speaker 2: question that I don't really have an answer for. This

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Speaker 2: is not an easy one for me to answer, but

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Speaker 2: I think Milly has an answer about. I mean, I

666
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Speaker 2: just is a character or a movie that fell from

667
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Speaker 2: grace after a rewatch, I.

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Speaker 1: Feel like this podcast is a rolling diary of characters

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Speaker 1: that have fallen through grace. I mean I can think

670
00:38:46,239 --> 00:38:53,800
Speaker 1: of JD from Heather's Yeah, Ethan Hawk from Reality Bites,

671
00:38:53,880 --> 00:38:56,400
Speaker 1: Reality Bites, like who else that have we talked about?

672
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Speaker 1: Being like, actually that person sucked many many things, I think,

673
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Speaker 1: But I mean, this is just such a boring ultimately

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Speaker 1: a boring answer, But I just kept thinking about Jenny

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Speaker 1: from Forrest Gump. I feel like the tide really turned

676
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Speaker 1: on her. Don't you think, like.

677
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Speaker 2: In what way she died? Of aids for Jenny?

678
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Speaker 1: Because Okay, Jenny had a lot of problems, but she

679
00:39:28,800 --> 00:39:31,480
Speaker 1: was also really selfish and she played with Forrest Gump's

680
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Speaker 1: heart and I think that's a lot a lot of

681
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Speaker 1: people were thinking, is that she was using Forrest Gump

682
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Speaker 1: as like a place to run too after her life

683
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Speaker 1: went to shit. And maybe that's not fair for Forrest

684
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Speaker 1: Gump because he loved her so much.

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Speaker 2: She also kept that kid from him for a very

686
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Speaker 2: long time.

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Speaker 1: M H self just said selfish.

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Speaker 2: And again, don't get those email fingers going. I'm not

689
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Speaker 2: saying anyone who doesn't tell someone about their child is selfish.

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Speaker 2: I'm saying Jenny is selfish because Forrest Gump loved the

691
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Speaker 2: shit out of her and was always there for her,

692
00:40:13,040 --> 00:40:15,480
Speaker 2: and there was genuinely no reason for her to not

693
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Speaker 2: tell him he had a kid, right.

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Speaker 1: I'm just saying I feel like I feel like I've

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Speaker 1: perhaps been in a Forrest Gump scenario where I've given

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Speaker 1: endless amounts of time, energy and care to someone who

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Speaker 1: ultimately was just passing through a lot of times. And

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Speaker 1: that's on me. I'll and maybe Forrest Gump did have

699
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Speaker 1: a moment where he was like, I'm culpable in my

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Speaker 1: own misery here, Like, let's get serious, I don't have

701
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Speaker 1: to open the fucking door whenever she rolls through town.

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Speaker 2: I don't think he could formulate that thought process. I

703
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Speaker 2: don't think he lived his life that way.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I think he was.

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Speaker 2: He was all heart and he didn't judge super positive,

706
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Speaker 2: super open, and she knew that and took advantage of that.

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Speaker 1: Here's what I would say if I had been Forrest

708
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Speaker 1: in our nation's capital, go to that black panther party

709
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Speaker 1: and realizing that she was basically dating some scumbag and

710
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Speaker 1: she didn't want she didn't want you know, me and

711
00:41:23,600 --> 00:41:26,480
Speaker 1: what we had in our history, and she like she

712
00:41:26,680 --> 00:41:29,640
Speaker 1: just could never connect on the fact that he was

713
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Speaker 1: the best dude to her, and then she just like

714
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Speaker 1: kind of flauded that shit in his face in Washington, DC.

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Speaker 1: I'm like, listen, I would have dropped her ass. Then

716
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Speaker 1: I would have left, like go on your hippie bus,

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00:41:44,640 --> 00:41:50,279
Speaker 1: like get away from me, like honestly, like and she

718
00:41:50,440 --> 00:41:53,280
Speaker 1: wasn't even on heroin at that moment. She was probably

719
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Speaker 1: just smoking a lot of weight. I don't know, am

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Speaker 1: I being too harsh on Jenny.

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Speaker 2: There? There is there such a thing. This is your opinion.

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Speaker 1: Well, but you know as well, when I first watched

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Speaker 1: the first like twenty five times I watched the movie

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Speaker 1: in the nineties, I was like, I don't know, I

725
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Speaker 1: kind of thought, oh, you know, this is just such

726
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Speaker 1: a like a they're gonna end up together and she's

727
00:42:19,719 --> 00:42:23,080
Speaker 1: just messed up, but she understands that he's her person.

728
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Speaker 1: And now I'm just like, I don't know, like, yeah,

729
00:42:27,120 --> 00:42:29,760
Speaker 1: this is maybe this, you know, just the years talking,

730
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Speaker 1: but I was I was upset with her.

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Speaker 2: I There's always been something that bothered me about how

732
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Speaker 2: their love story was framed. And I think we hit it.

733
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Speaker 2: I think this this hits the nail on the head

734
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Speaker 2: that she was taking advantage of him and she fell

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Speaker 2: from grace for me, after I watched it enough times

736
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Speaker 2: to realize that that that and this is also again

737
00:42:50,360 --> 00:42:54,400
Speaker 2: the film is told through a mail lens. Yeah, so

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Speaker 2: it's not surprising to me that they would make this

739
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Speaker 2: fucked up pixie sixties hippie girl, yes, be kind of

740
00:43:04,719 --> 00:43:09,800
Speaker 2: lacking emotionally, so that they could use that to bump

741
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Speaker 2: up the humanity of Forrest Gump, which in my opinion,

742
00:43:12,800 --> 00:43:14,920
Speaker 2: they did not need to do. I think he was

743
00:43:14,960 --> 00:43:17,080
Speaker 2: already a character full of, like you said, heart and

744
00:43:17,120 --> 00:43:20,759
Speaker 2: wonder and grace and love. Yeah, but to put her

745
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Speaker 2: in his life and then make her so diabolical to

746
00:43:25,120 --> 00:43:29,680
Speaker 2: him seems very male lens shit that we're looking at.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I just I mean, I love Forest Gump's

748
00:43:36,000 --> 00:43:39,399
Speaker 1: ability to take someone back over and over and over

749
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Speaker 1: again after they've completely like just fucked off.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but I don't know.

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Speaker 1: To me, I just am like, what's her angle? Like?

752
00:43:47,760 --> 00:43:49,400
Speaker 1: She just I mean, I get her angle is that

753
00:43:49,440 --> 00:43:51,640
Speaker 1: she needs to go find herself and she doesn't need

754
00:43:52,120 --> 00:43:54,240
Speaker 1: to be booed up when she's like trying to figure

755
00:43:54,480 --> 00:43:58,080
Speaker 1: out her own shit. She comes from trauma. Yes, it's awful,

756
00:43:58,120 --> 00:44:00,680
Speaker 1: but I just I don't know. Again, maybe that is

757
00:44:00,760 --> 00:44:03,600
Speaker 1: because the men Will involved, the story ended up being

758
00:44:04,640 --> 00:44:07,400
Speaker 1: a little less complicated than it. Maybe I don't know.

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00:44:07,480 --> 00:44:10,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think I think she I think she does

760
00:44:10,080 --> 00:44:13,080
Speaker 2: fall from grace after a few rewatches, but I think

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Speaker 2: that if the movie were more generous to her story throughout,

762
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Speaker 2: she wouldn't have had that fall from grace. I think

763
00:44:20,120 --> 00:44:22,520
Speaker 2: that if it was if it was amplified more, I

764
00:44:22,560 --> 00:44:24,719
Speaker 2: think that it's and I haven't seen it in a while,

765
00:44:24,719 --> 00:44:26,080
Speaker 2: but I think it was clear to me and watching

766
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Speaker 2: it that they had a deep connection that she was

767
00:44:30,880 --> 00:44:33,319
Speaker 2: aware of and maybe didn't always know how to act on,

768
00:44:33,480 --> 00:44:36,840
Speaker 2: possibly because of her trauma, possibly because of you know,

769
00:44:36,880 --> 00:44:39,880
Speaker 2: other shit. But I still think she treated him like

770
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Speaker 2: a real, real fucker.

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Speaker 1: Man. Yeah, now I've walked, I've walked all the way

772
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Speaker 1: through a Fall from Grace to like justice for Jenny. No,

773
00:44:52,400 --> 00:44:53,600
Speaker 1: what am I thinking right now?

774
00:44:53,760 --> 00:44:57,400
Speaker 2: Stay stay on fall from Grace? Say stay the course,

775
00:44:58,440 --> 00:45:02,880
Speaker 2: Stay the course. You made a compelling argument, and again

776
00:45:03,480 --> 00:45:05,399
Speaker 2: let us know your thoughts on it. But I think

777
00:45:05,480 --> 00:45:08,399
Speaker 2: that I can absolutely get there with you if there

778
00:45:08,440 --> 00:45:11,319
Speaker 2: is a fall from Grace, because Jenny was not a

779
00:45:11,360 --> 00:45:14,920
Speaker 2: fully realized character. Unfortunately, if you got three hours to

780
00:45:14,960 --> 00:45:17,439
Speaker 2: show far As Gump going all over the fucking world,

781
00:45:17,520 --> 00:45:19,520
Speaker 2: you can't take twenty minutes of that to show Jenny

782
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Speaker 2: going through a little emotional Yes.

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Speaker 1: Also I hold space for people who are just shitty. Yeah,

784
00:45:26,880 --> 00:45:30,359
Speaker 1: like people can just be shitty, Like they can have

785
00:45:30,480 --> 00:45:34,719
Speaker 1: like bad histories and not work on themselves and just

786
00:45:34,800 --> 00:45:35,719
Speaker 1: treat people like shit.

787
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Speaker 2: And that is a most most people on this planet unfortunately. Yeah,

788
00:45:41,320 --> 00:45:45,640
Speaker 2: all right, Well we've walked Jenny to Ottawa God in

789
00:45:45,719 --> 00:45:46,600
Speaker 2: a Fall from Grace.

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Speaker 1: I caught a psychoanalysis profile of Jenny from Forrest Gump.

791
00:45:51,800 --> 00:45:52,279
Speaker 1: I love it.

792
00:45:52,480 --> 00:45:54,320
Speaker 2: Let's get that essay in the next book.

793
00:45:55,080 --> 00:45:58,880
Speaker 1: That's right, Well, we have one more email, and if

794
00:45:58,920 --> 00:45:59,480
Speaker 1: you'll read it.

795
00:45:59,520 --> 00:46:02,560
Speaker 2: I'll be so I would love to read this. So

796
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Speaker 2: the emails subject is hosted my first film fest, thanks

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Speaker 2: to you. And this is from Kad who uses shi

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00:46:10,320 --> 00:46:13,880
Speaker 2: the pronouns Hi friends. I just got home from hosting

799
00:46:13,920 --> 00:46:17,759
Speaker 2: my first film fest. I have loved film for as

800
00:46:17,840 --> 00:46:21,400
Speaker 2: long as I can remember. It's always been my hyperfixation

801
00:46:21,640 --> 00:46:24,560
Speaker 2: and something you can't shut me up about. I was

802
00:46:24,600 --> 00:46:27,040
Speaker 2: so excited when I heard Karen and Georgia first promote

803
00:46:27,080 --> 00:46:30,120
Speaker 2: y'all's podcast in whatever the fuck year that was. I

804
00:46:30,200 --> 00:46:32,239
Speaker 2: was so stoked to hear two women of color cut

805
00:46:32,320 --> 00:46:34,879
Speaker 2: up about films and having me bust into ugly ass

806
00:46:34,880 --> 00:46:37,880
Speaker 2: giggles so hard. Y'all showed me that there was a

807
00:46:37,920 --> 00:46:40,440
Speaker 2: future in this passion for someone like me, and I

808
00:46:40,480 --> 00:46:43,080
Speaker 2: went back to school as a ninth grade dropout, now

809
00:46:43,120 --> 00:46:46,080
Speaker 2: in my thirties and am now on the tail end

810
00:46:46,239 --> 00:46:50,400
Speaker 2: of a degree in my school's radio, television and film program.

811
00:46:51,239 --> 00:46:53,279
Speaker 2: I produced and shot a film about the history of

812
00:46:53,320 --> 00:46:55,720
Speaker 2: one of my city's oldest gay bars for a project

813
00:46:55,800 --> 00:46:59,120
Speaker 2: in video production, and me and my buddy decided to

814
00:46:59,120 --> 00:47:02,160
Speaker 2: build a miniqu were film fest of shorts around it

815
00:47:02,280 --> 00:47:05,759
Speaker 2: for Pride. There were suggested donations at the door and

816
00:47:05,800 --> 00:47:08,560
Speaker 2: we ended up making a stack for a local nonprofit

817
00:47:08,600 --> 00:47:13,520
Speaker 2: that supports homeless LGBTQ plus youth in that area. I

818
00:47:13,560 --> 00:47:16,480
Speaker 2: feel I've found my path helping tell people's stories and

819
00:47:16,520 --> 00:47:19,560
Speaker 2: building and giving back to my community, a community that

820
00:47:19,600 --> 00:47:22,960
Speaker 2: has given me everything. Shelter, a shoulder to cry on,

821
00:47:23,600 --> 00:47:29,160
Speaker 2: food to eat, family, joy, love, education, and endless entertainment.

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00:47:29,680 --> 00:47:31,400
Speaker 2: I just want to say that I'm grateful to the

823
00:47:31,440 --> 00:47:34,520
Speaker 2: two of you for showing me away to exist and

824
00:47:34,600 --> 00:47:38,399
Speaker 2: participate in film as a woman. Also, thank you both

825
00:47:38,400 --> 00:47:40,960
Speaker 2: for writing books, and thank you Danielle for sharing your

826
00:47:41,000 --> 00:47:44,560
Speaker 2: life with us through Ugly Cry. My inner child healed

827
00:47:44,600 --> 00:47:48,040
Speaker 2: a bit. We're planning on doing another fest for Halloween,

828
00:47:48,280 --> 00:47:52,960
Speaker 2: but gay obviously any suggestions. Thanks from a weird girl

829
00:47:53,040 --> 00:47:55,680
Speaker 2: in South Texas, and I hope to see y'all live

830
00:47:55,719 --> 00:48:02,440
Speaker 2: one day. KD. This warms my heart so much. And

831
00:48:02,560 --> 00:48:07,399
Speaker 2: after we just spent the last hour being fools, no,

832
00:48:08,560 --> 00:48:11,279
Speaker 2: I'm like, do we deserve this credit? KD? This is

833
00:48:11,360 --> 00:48:15,319
Speaker 2: all you. You have done something so monumental, and I'm

834
00:48:15,360 --> 00:48:17,759
Speaker 2: so proud of you. This is this is huge. Every

835
00:48:17,800 --> 00:48:21,520
Speaker 2: step that you've taken to find your place and to

836
00:48:21,560 --> 00:48:26,800
Speaker 2: find yourself has led you to something so beautiful and

837
00:48:26,840 --> 00:48:28,920
Speaker 2: that also manages to give back, and I think that

838
00:48:28,920 --> 00:48:32,279
Speaker 2: that is truly a gorgeous way to live life. And

839
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Speaker 2: I'm very proud of you.

840
00:48:34,480 --> 00:48:39,239
Speaker 1: Yeah, oh my gosh, this is such a nice email. Honestly,

841
00:48:39,680 --> 00:48:42,879
Speaker 1: like I do think, oh my god, we spent an

842
00:48:42,920 --> 00:48:48,640
Speaker 1: hour being absolute idiots and then this email comes to

843
00:48:48,640 --> 00:48:54,720
Speaker 1: town and is like very heartwarming, very sweet. It's awesome, Like, dude,

844
00:48:54,719 --> 00:48:57,360
Speaker 1: this is like why I want to do anything in life,

845
00:48:57,440 --> 00:49:00,960
Speaker 1: is that I'm hoping that, like, you know, other people

846
00:49:01,360 --> 00:49:05,640
Speaker 1: get into this world, especially people who are shut out

847
00:49:05,719 --> 00:49:08,719
Speaker 1: of this world, of this film world, Like fuck it,

848
00:49:08,880 --> 00:49:12,280
Speaker 1: like let's work together, Like come on, Like I'm tired

849
00:49:12,320 --> 00:49:15,680
Speaker 1: of it being just for the fucking boys, and I'm

850
00:49:15,760 --> 00:49:20,319
Speaker 1: just tired of it being for the fucking like tis

851
00:49:20,400 --> 00:49:23,360
Speaker 1: set white rich guys, you know what I mean. And

852
00:49:23,360 --> 00:49:27,239
Speaker 1: it's just like we should be doing exactly this, and

853
00:49:27,360 --> 00:49:30,120
Speaker 1: it's like all it takes, honestly, like in order to

854
00:49:30,200 --> 00:49:33,719
Speaker 1: like get just get something going in your community, in

855
00:49:33,760 --> 00:49:38,280
Speaker 1: your town amongst your friends, like get your friends together

856
00:49:38,520 --> 00:49:40,799
Speaker 1: to talk about movies. It's like the easiest thing to do,

857
00:49:40,920 --> 00:49:47,440
Speaker 1: and at some point that grows and that you know,

858
00:49:47,520 --> 00:49:50,120
Speaker 1: that means that at some point there are more people

859
00:49:50,280 --> 00:49:54,000
Speaker 1: at screenings, there are more people weighing in on films online,

860
00:49:54,440 --> 00:49:57,799
Speaker 1: there are more people that become professional critics and professional filmmakers.

861
00:49:58,040 --> 00:50:00,279
Speaker 1: And that's how you change things, is that you just

862
00:50:00,320 --> 00:50:03,840
Speaker 1: start with like really really small things and you you know,

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Speaker 1: at some point the fucking snowball gets bigger and bigger

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Speaker 1: and bigger, and then we take the shit over, thank you,

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Speaker 1: and the world becomes better.

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Speaker 2: So I love that plan. I love that plan, and

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Speaker 2: I completely agree. And Katie asked us, uh, they're planning

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Speaker 2: to do another film fest for Halloween, but gay obviously

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Speaker 2: and asked any suggestions. So I don't know if that's

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Speaker 2: a suggestion for what films to show or how to

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Speaker 2: put together a Halloween themed fest, but I would say

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Speaker 2: if you're doing if you're not doing shorts, then any

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Speaker 2: John Waters film would fit in. Yeah, but also put

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Speaker 2: out the call to other communities. When we had Drea

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Speaker 2: on the podcast a few episodes back, if you go

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Speaker 2: and listen a few episodes back, she gave a lot

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Speaker 2: of great pointers for being in the film fest community,

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Speaker 2: which she's been in for you know, decades. At this point,

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Speaker 2: and you can reach out to her directly. You know,

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Speaker 2: she she gave for info. She's around. But you can definitely,

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Speaker 2: you know, reach out a little bit and find if

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Speaker 2: you're looking for films. There are people who can help

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Speaker 2: you find films if you're looking for you know, how

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Speaker 2: to actually make the festival a little bit bigger or

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Speaker 2: show longer form. Reach out to people who are already

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Speaker 2: doing film festivals and just say, hey, I'm starting something

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Speaker 2: new and it's a great community of people who and

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Speaker 2: there are great people in it, like Drea who'd be

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Speaker 2: able to help you out more specifically.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. Plus, I mean honestly, like there are so many

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Speaker 1: gay Halloween movies, Like it feels like every Halloween movie

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Speaker 1: is gay, Like every horror movie has is queer coded.

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Speaker 1: This I'm just thinking like the second Night M're Old

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Speaker 1: on Street movie, or like I saw the TV Globe,

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Speaker 1: which just came out recently, you know, just stuff like

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Speaker 1: I don't know, like I feel like horror is a

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Speaker 1: very gay genre and I feel like you will have

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Speaker 1: no problem finding stuff, so and that's exciting. The Chucky movie, yes,

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Speaker 1: you know, like, yeah, keep us posted, let us know

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Speaker 1: what you end up programming. If that happens so.

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Speaker 2: But very very proud of you, KD. This is this

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00:52:06,400 --> 00:52:09,640
Speaker 2: is monumentally huge for us to be part a small

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Speaker 2: part of this big thing that you've done for yourself.

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Speaker 1: Absolutely, thank you for writing so good. Okay, now I'm

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Speaker 1: feeling all warm and fuzzy, and I guess we have

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Speaker 1: to fucking end this podcast.

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Speaker 2: Finally, if you listen this far, salute because this wasn't

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Speaker 2: all over the bat bonus.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, this was nitro fueled. This is crazy. If you

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Speaker 1: want to email us, we are of course at I

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Speaker 1: saw what you did pot at gmail dot com and

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Speaker 1: uh we have a po box too though. If you

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Speaker 1: want to send us handwritten letters. I swear to god

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Speaker 1: we we we tease everybody say that we're going to

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Speaker 1: like crack open the physical mail because it is wild.

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Speaker 1: We are going to do that on the next bonus.

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Speaker 1: We have to do it in the next one.

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Speaker 2: It comes to you. You just got to say the

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Speaker 2: word okay, scan the chat or just send them, send

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Speaker 2: them to me, send them to me in a box.

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Speaker 1: I'll do it.

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Speaker 2: If it's coming from you. I don't want anyone else

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Speaker 1: But yeah, no, well I'll definitely scan and put in

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Speaker 1: the slack or something. Well, we'll figure it out, but

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Speaker 1: we'll do it for sure. Yeah. Uh.

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Speaker 2: And you can also find us on our social media.

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Speaker 5: Uh.

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Speaker 2: and please record it in a quiet space.

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Speaker 1: That's right, And there's still March available. If you go

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Speaker 2: There are new bonus episodes just like this one that

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Speaker 1: Absolutely all right, Danielle, as always a fucking pleasure doing

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Speaker 1: this podcast with you.

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Speaker 2: Thank you so much. This was a blast, and I

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Speaker 2: just I feel like I've known you so deeply, so

945
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Speaker 2: much more deeply now. We covered a lot, We did,

946
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Speaker 2: covered a lot of ground. Just that Mike Myers FMK

947
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Speaker 2: brought me so much closer.

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Speaker 1: God, had I known you wanted to like have a

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Speaker 1: romp in the sack with an old crusty Scottish guy.

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Speaker 2: Again, again again again.

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Speaker 5: Note bye, This has been an exactly right production.

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Speaker 2: Our senior producer is Casey O'Brien. Episode mixing and theme

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Speaker 2: music by Tom Bryfogel, artwork by Garrett Ross. Our executive

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