WEBVTT - Get To Know Your Pelvic Floor

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<v Speaker 1>Hi, everybody, and welcome back to Katie's crib. In this episode,

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<v Speaker 1>you guys, we are going to talk about the pelvic floor.

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<v Speaker 1>What is even happening down there? I sure as hell

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<v Speaker 1>don't know. We spend so much time worrying about the baby,

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<v Speaker 1>but what about us? What about the moms? So we

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<v Speaker 1>have two guests today who are going to help break

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<v Speaker 1>down what every new mom needs to know about the

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<v Speaker 1>pelvic floor post birth. First, we're gonna be talking to

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<v Speaker 1>Stephanie Prendergast. She is a physical therapist and the co

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<v Speaker 1>founder of the Pelvic Health and Rehabilitation Center. And then

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna be talking to Pria Campbell Sarrago. She is

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<v Speaker 1>a birth doula and a pelvic floor specialist who takes

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<v Speaker 1>more of a holistic and embodied approach to pelvic floor rehab.

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<v Speaker 1>So let's get started, you guys. We are on the

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<v Speaker 1>topic of the pelvic floor, which I have slowly begin

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<v Speaker 1>to realize that the reason I was most excited about

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<v Speaker 1>recording this episode about this topic is that it's just

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<v Speaker 1>secretly my way of talking talking about my own pelvic

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<v Speaker 1>floor what's going on? Because maybe I've been a little

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<v Speaker 1>bit scared to make an appointment and see what's going on. Stephanie,

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<v Speaker 1>I am so happy you're here. You are, I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>you are one of the tops of this situation and

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<v Speaker 1>I am so excited to meet you and talk about

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<v Speaker 1>my pelvic floor. But also I'm sure this will be

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<v Speaker 1>super helpful to our listeners. So welcome, Stephanie prendor Gast.

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<v Speaker 1>Did I say your last name correctly? You did? And think, Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>we're so happy to be here. Um, tell us a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit about yourself. So I my background is I'm

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<v Speaker 1>a physical therapist, but for since two thousand and one,

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<v Speaker 1>I've been specializing in publvic floor disorders and so in

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<v Speaker 1>relevance to this podcast, we deal with a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>women during pregnancy to try to optimize their public floor

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<v Speaker 1>for delivery, make them more comfortable, as well as help

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<v Speaker 1>you see women during pregnancy and before too. We do.

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<v Speaker 1>We do, and in recent years people are coming in

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<v Speaker 1>more to get a better or control of their public

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<v Speaker 1>floor muscles before birth. But historically it used to be

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<v Speaker 1>that women would come in with complaints if they had

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<v Speaker 1>pelvic girdle pain or incontinence or some sort of pain

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<v Speaker 1>issue may have led them to PETE before. But now

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<v Speaker 1>that women are becoming more informed. We also can help

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<v Speaker 1>women prepare themselves, have the confidence they need to go

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<v Speaker 1>into labor and delivery knowing their body is as ready

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<v Speaker 1>for it as it can be. Oh my, I mean literally,

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<v Speaker 1>why did I not go to you before having a baby.

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<v Speaker 1>This is insane because I mean, before I had a baby,

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<v Speaker 1>I was the person who would like sneeze and if

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<v Speaker 1>it caught me off, guarden, I had a super full bladder,

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<v Speaker 1>like a liate little bit of Mike about And I

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<v Speaker 1>know a lot of friends that are in the same boat. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>and we don't really talk about it much. Um. So

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<v Speaker 1>can you tell us about the Pelvic Health and Rehabilitation Center. Yes. So,

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<v Speaker 1>we have been a company since two thousand and six.

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<v Speaker 1>We have four offices in the Bay Area. I practice

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<v Speaker 1>in our Los Angeles location, and we also have two

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<v Speaker 1>offices on the East Coast in New England. We specialize

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<v Speaker 1>in men, women and children, try and gender, all sexes,

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<v Speaker 1>all ages. These problems can start affecting people in their

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<v Speaker 1>teenage years or in the pediatric years with bedwetting and constipation,

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<v Speaker 1>and continue all the way through menopause. So we're happy

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<v Speaker 1>to specialize in solely these disorders and treat everybody across

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<v Speaker 1>the lifespan. WHOA, Okay, tell us a little bit about

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<v Speaker 1>what the pelvic floor muscles do, Like, let's let's talk

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<v Speaker 1>about the pelic floor muscles, like what they do normally,

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<v Speaker 1>and then what do they do during pregnancy and maybe labor? Great,

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<v Speaker 1>so they most people don't even know they have the

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<v Speaker 1>pelvic floor. The muscles run from your pubic bone to

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<v Speaker 1>your tailbone, and they're responsible for kind of a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of big deals. They help us maintain continents, urinary and

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<v Speaker 1>bell as well as the let us evacuate urine stool.

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<v Speaker 1>They're responsible for sexual function, for orgasm and for keeping

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<v Speaker 1>our orgasms are orgasms keeping our organs supported, so they

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<v Speaker 1>also spans supported to Okay, like why it's like, why

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<v Speaker 1>am I in the gym working so hard on my

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<v Speaker 1>biceps and I'm not in this gym like working so

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<v Speaker 1>hard on these pelviic floor muscles that do all the

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<v Speaker 1>things you just described. That's a great question. Most women,

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<v Speaker 1>until you've had a baby, don't necessarily need to strengthen

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<v Speaker 1>their public floor muscles because they are always under some

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<v Speaker 1>sort of tone. It's one of the only muscles in

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<v Speaker 1>the body innervated by a nerve that has autonomic function,

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<v Speaker 1>meaning you don't have to think about it most of

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<v Speaker 1>the time. You're not going to leak if you sneeze

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<v Speaker 1>because you have reef. It's just holding it and it's

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<v Speaker 1>holding in your organ like it just does it. So

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<v Speaker 1>it is big myths in Cosmo and these other magazines

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<v Speaker 1>that suggest younger women should be doing kegles to improve

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<v Speaker 1>their orgasm. That it's simply not true. What right you guys,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm running out the door. I'm wait a second. Wait.

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<v Speaker 1>That is not true. Regular activity often strengthens our public

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<v Speaker 1>floor muscles. From day to day activities. There's always some

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<v Speaker 1>tone and in younger women and women who have not

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<v Speaker 1>given birth, most of the time they do not need

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<v Speaker 1>to strengthen their pelvic floors. When you do have a

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<v Speaker 1>baby and you basically run a marathon with your pelvis

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<v Speaker 1>all those hours that you're in labor pushing the baby

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<v Speaker 1>through the pelvic floor, now the muscles are lengthened, their weakened.

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<v Speaker 1>There may actually be neuropathy then. Sorry, when you when

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<v Speaker 1>you're trying to push the baby through the second stage

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<v Speaker 1>of labor, there's a lot of tension both on the

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<v Speaker 1>pelvic floor muscles and also the pudendal nerve that innervates them,

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<v Speaker 1>and in certain cases there can be transient issues with

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<v Speaker 1>the pudendal nerves. Sometimes it can be more serious than that,

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<v Speaker 1>depending on what has happened during the birth. But if

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<v Speaker 1>you think about it, of course you need rehabilitation after

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<v Speaker 1>going through everything that. It's like you would do physical

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<v Speaker 1>therapy if you got your angle. You're doing physical therapy

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<v Speaker 1>if you have any sort And this is even bigger,

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<v Speaker 1>and yet we're supposed to just like carry on folks.

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<v Speaker 1>No wow, um, so I think you started to hit

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<v Speaker 1>on this a little bit. But so having a baby,

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<v Speaker 1>I guess in my terms Katie's terms, pelvic floor just

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<v Speaker 1>gets blown out. But even if you don't give birth vaginally,

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<v Speaker 1>like because what I'm learning is that the pelvic floor

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<v Speaker 1>has held up additional weight for ten months, which makes

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<v Speaker 1>it also exhausted. This is true, so regardless of the

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<v Speaker 1>method of delivery, the pelvic floor is involved in a

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<v Speaker 1>number of changes that happened during pregnancy period. But it's

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<v Speaker 1>so surprisingly resilient it just often needs a little bit

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<v Speaker 1>or I should say, women would function better with more

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<v Speaker 1>appropriate rehab after to just help get things more normalized

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<v Speaker 1>after the changes that happen. Is this, like does insurance

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<v Speaker 1>cover this? Like? It does? It is just in the

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<v Speaker 1>last month that the American College of Obstetrics and Gynecology

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<v Speaker 1>is acknowledging that maternal postparm care in the United States

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<v Speaker 1>is last in line of all industrialized countries. We were

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<v Speaker 1>given one six week postpartum checkups it to check for

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<v Speaker 1>postparm depress and make sure you don't have an infection,

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<v Speaker 1>make sure your uterus is returned to normal, and that's it,

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<v Speaker 1>see you later. So finally they're acknowledging the fourth trimester

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<v Speaker 1>needs to be more comprehensive than that. Women need more

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<v Speaker 1>visits and we've been given and that are covered by insurance,

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<v Speaker 1>Like we need more visits for physical health obviously, mental

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<v Speaker 1>chickens for postpartum um wowze. That most physicians, unfortunately have

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<v Speaker 1>been paid one lump sum for pregnancy and delivery and

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<v Speaker 1>that includes one postpartum visit and has not included any

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<v Speaker 1>additional visits that a mother may need if it had

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<v Speaker 1>anything to do with her birth. So that's an interesting

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<v Speaker 1>thing that I just it's like I've just got punched

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<v Speaker 1>in the gut and it makes perfect sense because you guys,

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<v Speaker 1>like you know, when you right before you have the baby,

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<v Speaker 1>you're in your obie's office all the time getting these

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<v Speaker 1>stress tests, they're monitoring the heart, they're monitoring your health

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<v Speaker 1>all stuff. And then as soon as the baby's out,

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<v Speaker 1>it's like it's like the biggest breakups ever. And it's

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<v Speaker 1>in no way she formed like my obie's faults. She's

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<v Speaker 1>just like great things so much like I'll see you

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<v Speaker 1>in six weeks and you're like, wait, well, we'll wait, wait,

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<v Speaker 1>wait what I'm sitting on a doughnut and I'm in

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<v Speaker 1>a diaper, Like, hold up a second, I'm super confused,

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<v Speaker 1>And most women feel that way. And the recent survey,

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<v Speaker 1>the majority of women feel like their concerns that their

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<v Speaker 1>care was not adequately addressed during that six week visit,

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<v Speaker 1>and most people felt like they were kind of floundering,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean rightfully so. In other countries, and as early

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<v Speaker 1>as five women were required in countries like France to

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<v Speaker 1>have ten postpartum pelic floor physical therapy visits required. And

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<v Speaker 1>this is because insurance companies have been in the way

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<v Speaker 1>and dictating coverage. In the United States, That's exactly why.

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<v Speaker 1>Because other countries understand the impact that the birth and

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<v Speaker 1>then the support that mothers need is greater than what

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<v Speaker 1>we've been given so far. So hopefully we're on the

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<v Speaker 1>cusp of change. So you think maybe this this you

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<v Speaker 1>we admit that there's something called forth trimester could maybe

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<v Speaker 1>lead us on a path towards maybe better care. It's

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<v Speaker 1>supposed to set the guidelines for all O, B G

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<v Speaker 1>l N s and the standard of kare in America. Now,

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<v Speaker 1>whether insurance companies decide that they're going to pay for

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<v Speaker 1>or not, it is going to be interesting because it's

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<v Speaker 1>being strongly suggested that they do great. Um. So when

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<v Speaker 1>do women typically come to see you? Is it? Are

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<v Speaker 1>most of your clients patients postpartum? Are they in the majority?

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<v Speaker 1>I would assume well, in our practice, we actually see

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<v Speaker 1>a wide range of things. What's interesting about this is

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<v Speaker 1>because public floor physical therapy historically has not been included

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<v Speaker 1>in the standard of postpartum care. Many women find us

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<v Speaker 1>on their own when something's wrong. They have stress and continents,

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<v Speaker 1>they have severe vaginal pain, they have rectal pain, urinary

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<v Speaker 1>urgency frequency, they can evacuate their stools, they can't orgasm,

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<v Speaker 1>and they're furious why didn't my doctor tell me? Is

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<v Speaker 1>what happens now in more recent years, with the presence

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<v Speaker 1>of social media and things like that, many women are

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<v Speaker 1>finding out that they should be going to public floor

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<v Speaker 1>pt even if they're not noticing immediately to bother some

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<v Speaker 1>symptoms that I mentioned. I'm definitely going like next week,

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<v Speaker 1>what's available because obviously think about what what pregnancy and

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<v Speaker 1>birth entials. This is a no brainer. But it just

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<v Speaker 1>hasn't been standard of care until now. No, it's really

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<v Speaker 1>never made so much sense to me. Like you say,

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<v Speaker 1>if you ever had a sprained ankle, you would go

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<v Speaker 1>to the doctor and go to all the visits you'd

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<v Speaker 1>need until you know your dislocated shoulder was back or

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<v Speaker 1>whatever it was needed. And how um so, can you

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<v Speaker 1>take us through a little bit what what happens in

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<v Speaker 1>the first appointment with you? Yes, and I hope you

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<v Speaker 1>will't be nervous when you come to see me, making

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<v Speaker 1>me go way better. So we take a history. We

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<v Speaker 1>also want to hear what your urinary vale sexual function

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<v Speaker 1>was like before pregnancy, because there can also be factors

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<v Speaker 1>that may have influenced your delivery and things that are

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<v Speaker 1>influencing your rehab. Now, um we do a manual examination

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<v Speaker 1>that includes looking at the abdominal area for what's called

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<v Speaker 1>a diastesis wrecked i A. Many women associate that with

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<v Speaker 1>mommy tummy, which is when the muscles separate naturally due

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<v Speaker 1>to the advancing pregnancy. Sometimes they reduce on their own,

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<v Speaker 1>sometimes they don't. It's important because not only for esthetic reasons,

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<v Speaker 1>but it will impair woman's ability to have optimal pelvic

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<v Speaker 1>floor muscle function if her abdominal wall is not intact.

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<v Speaker 1>These muscles work together. How do you know the percentage

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<v Speaker 1>of women that that happens to. So there's a wide

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<v Speaker 1>range in the literature from thirty to Sometimes it reduces,

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<v Speaker 1>sometimes it doesn't, And how people measure it has kind

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<v Speaker 1>of been varied, and so the study show it's kind

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<v Speaker 1>of a wide range. And again some people it closes naturally,

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<v Speaker 1>some people it doesn't. If it doesn't, it can be

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<v Speaker 1>associated with stress and continents pro lapse and back pain

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<v Speaker 1>later in life. So it is important to address it

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<v Speaker 1>even if you don't realize it's there. We also will

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<v Speaker 1>examine the other muscles of the pelvic girdle. Typically the

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<v Speaker 1>muscles of your hip widened to allow the baby to

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<v Speaker 1>come out there maybe what do you mean examine, So

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<v Speaker 1>we will manually examine them to see their length, their strength,

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<v Speaker 1>if they're tender, and the same thing. Internally. We need

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<v Speaker 1>to know if you could contract your muscles, if you

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<v Speaker 1>can relax them, relax them, if there's pain, if there's

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<v Speaker 1>been an episiotomy, pain at the C section scar, and

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<v Speaker 1>basically making sure the muscles can functionization what do you

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<v Speaker 1>put in there to see So we don't use the speculum.

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<v Speaker 1>We use a single gloved lubricated finger, and we also

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<v Speaker 1>use that as feedback to help the mother figure out

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<v Speaker 1>where her muscles are in space, because it's kind of

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<v Speaker 1>like a big black box too many people, and often

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<v Speaker 1>in the postpartum period it can be what I call

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<v Speaker 1>a hybrid where some muscles are tight and some are overstretched,

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<v Speaker 1>and we've got to really do specific things to help

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<v Speaker 1>get that functioning again as a unit. WHOA. So you're

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<v Speaker 1>literally laying on the table with someone's finger in your vagina,

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<v Speaker 1>a gloved lubricated finger in vagina, and then you go

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<v Speaker 1>through exercises and you try to really help someone feel

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<v Speaker 1>inside themselves like different areas of the vagina and and

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<v Speaker 1>strengthen it like do reps almost like like a workout.

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<v Speaker 1>And it's interesting because the majority of women, just two

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<v Speaker 1>are told to cagel actually do them incorrectly and in

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<v Speaker 1>a way that could make things worse. So, my god,

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<v Speaker 1>you guys am literally losing my mind right now. We

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<v Speaker 1>need to help fix that. What this is? This is

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<v Speaker 1>just completely blowing my mind. Um. So, how is physical

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<v Speaker 1>therapy different from how a doctor might address pelvic floor disorder?

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<v Speaker 1>So it's interesting because most kynecologists will tell you that

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<v Speaker 1>they had very little pelvic floor training in medical school,

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<v Speaker 1>and that is shocking since they have to push right

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<v Speaker 1>through those muscles to get to the cervix and the

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<v Speaker 1>eiterus and all the things that are important. So a

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<v Speaker 1>physical therapist is going to more specifically examine each of

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<v Speaker 1>the muscles and different areas of the pelvic floor, the

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<v Speaker 1>prudental nerve and tissue. So when doctors come into play,

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<v Speaker 1>usually when things are more dire, and will hear pelic

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<v Speaker 1>ladder specialist or prolapsed rectum or wait what did you

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<v Speaker 1>just say? So they're considered surgeons for a pelvic floor

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<v Speaker 1>reconstruction and is that a surgery that you have to

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<v Speaker 1>be put out for? Yes, you have to go under anesthesia.

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<v Speaker 1>If there is significant bladder prolapse, uterine prolapse rectal, it

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<v Speaker 1>may require surgical reconstruction. Usually this is something that happens

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<v Speaker 1>later in life that could be prevented if we put

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<v Speaker 1>the pelvic floor muscles back. I think some of the

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<v Speaker 1>older women in my family though, I've heard yeah, like

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<v Speaker 1>things just falling out and meeting his direct means and

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<v Speaker 1>things like that, and so possibly had they done pelvic

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<v Speaker 1>floor work earlier on, that might not have been the case.

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<v Speaker 1>Because the one risk factor for pelvic organ prolapse later

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<v Speaker 1>in life his childbirth. Who see you, guys, this is

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<v Speaker 1>it's like you're not even here. This is just my

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<v Speaker 1>appointment with Stephanie Prendergast. So, uh, you see all sorts

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<v Speaker 1>of patients and clients. Um, how are issues facing pregnant

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<v Speaker 1>and postpartum women different? Are they the same? Like when

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<v Speaker 1>you see a woman who might be about to get pregnant,

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<v Speaker 1>or woman who is pregnant, or a woman who is

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<v Speaker 1>post pregnancy, um, what how do you treat them differently?

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<v Speaker 1>So if pregnancy, we want to optimize their public floor

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<v Speaker 1>muscle function, give them the confidence that they're ready to

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<v Speaker 1>go into labor. And delivery and just help support the

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<v Speaker 1>birth that they want, prepare them with things that maybe

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<v Speaker 1>feel different after so when it does happen, it's not alarming.

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<v Speaker 1>And basically provide education to the pregnant woman when they

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<v Speaker 1>can get in and that can vary from six weeks

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<v Speaker 1>to five years postpartum about doing public floor physical therapy afterwards. Again,

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<v Speaker 1>if there's more acute issues that happen during delivery, like

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<v Speaker 1>women are in retention or they can't pee on their

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<v Speaker 1>own um significant medical things, and we can help sooner

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<v Speaker 1>rather than later in the postpartum period, but ideally after

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<v Speaker 1>the six week check up with the o B which

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<v Speaker 1>is now three weeks um. Women once cleared, can start

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<v Speaker 1>physical therapy that soon. My observation is they're overwhelmed with

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<v Speaker 1>the baby, especially first time moms. Just know we're there

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<v Speaker 1>when they're ready. Um. I think it's hard when they

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<v Speaker 1>need weekly appointments and we're telling them more to do

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<v Speaker 1>when obviously they have to care for another human. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and their weekly appointments are their first you know, they're

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<v Speaker 1>with their pediatrician and it's all about the baby. And

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<v Speaker 1>chaotic one are the different types of pelvic pain and

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<v Speaker 1>disorders that you treat. I think you've listed all of them,

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<v Speaker 1>but in case we missed any real fun sounding ones.

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<v Speaker 1>So pregnancy related. I mean, it's astounding because at eighteen months,

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<v Speaker 1>in a very large study, there was still sixty of

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<v Speaker 1>women who had painful intercourse, regardless of their method of delivery.

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<v Speaker 1>So that's that's telling of what happens with post baby

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<v Speaker 1>women were still in pain having sex. That's just a nightmare,

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<v Speaker 1>and we have to help all those women. That's not okay.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not down with that high percentage. And so even

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<v Speaker 1>if there's non obstetric related disorders, we do treat a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of painful intercourse. People can have provoked or unprovoked

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<v Speaker 1>vaginal pain, clural issues, interlabial itching, rectal problems, urinary urgency.

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<v Speaker 1>Frequency feels like it's an infection, when in fact it's

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<v Speaker 1>the muscle. So you feel like you have a U

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<v Speaker 1>T I or something and you don't something else going on,

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<v Speaker 1>often the cold floor, WHOA, what's the labia one? So

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<v Speaker 1>interlabial itching is a common symptom that women can get

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<v Speaker 1>or what's called unprovoked or provoked full of adinia, so

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<v Speaker 1>women can have pain in that area. Also unrelated to childbirth,

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<v Speaker 1>but childbirth can also provoke some of these changes that

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<v Speaker 1>do need treatment. How do you how does some of

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<v Speaker 1>the prolapse bladder or uterus or rectum, like can it

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<v Speaker 1>be fixed through physical therapy or does everyone end up

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<v Speaker 1>having to have surgery? Or do you recommend if someone

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<v Speaker 1>might have had a prolapse after baby one but they

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<v Speaker 1>plan on having another baby, like what do you do?

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<v Speaker 1>Good questions? So it can vary, And there's multiple factors

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<v Speaker 1>that affect prolapse, including genetics, weight, other metabolic things, diabetes

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<v Speaker 1>and whatnot. But the pelvic floor is a big one

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<v Speaker 1>and that's the one we can control. And so if

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<v Speaker 1>somebody has impaired public floor muscle function and core function together,

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<v Speaker 1>it's not just about the public floor um, they will

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<v Speaker 1>be more likely to develop pro lapse as time goes

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<v Speaker 1>on because the muscles provide some support to those organs,

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<v Speaker 1>But so do the ligaments. And again we can't control

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<v Speaker 1>the ligaments. That's our genetic composition, but we can improve

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<v Speaker 1>our public floor muscle function to kind of take up

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<v Speaker 1>the slack of gravity of natural age related changes, etcetera.

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<v Speaker 1>If a woman does have pro lapse immediately postpartum, it

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<v Speaker 1>is not advised to have surgery until they are done

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<v Speaker 1>having children, and so depending on the severity of it,

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<v Speaker 1>like they skip. They score prolapse one to three, four

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<v Speaker 1>and the most oversimplified version of this um categories one

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<v Speaker 1>and two. It can be helped with physical therapy Categories

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<v Speaker 1>three and for mean that organs are coming towards the

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<v Speaker 1>opening of the vagina or out of the vagina itself,

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<v Speaker 1>and those are almost always a surgical situation, but can

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<v Speaker 1>still benefit from getting as rehabbed as possible before and

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<v Speaker 1>also addressing your function after, just like with any other

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<v Speaker 1>surgery and any other part of the body, you want

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<v Speaker 1>to go into that as prepared as possible. I have

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<v Speaker 1>a friend who had a prolapse, who has a prolapse

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<v Speaker 1>bladder and and wants to have another baby, and she's

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<v Speaker 1>been she did a lot of physical therapy, but was

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<v Speaker 1>also putting around with like maybe a diaphragm or putting

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<v Speaker 1>something up there that could hold her stuff in until

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, is that a thing. It's called a pessary. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>And so those are the classes. Over the counter now,

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<v Speaker 1>poise makes am almost like a super tampon called the Impressive,

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<v Speaker 1>which you can purchase over the counter that can help

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<v Speaker 1>provide some support if it's a minor prolapse um and

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<v Speaker 1>then a medical device called a passery is something that

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<v Speaker 1>you're a gynecologist or euro gynecologists can fit to help

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<v Speaker 1>provide support to the organs. Once you take it out,

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<v Speaker 1>the organs are going to come back down, but they

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<v Speaker 1>can provide a basis of support while people are trying

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<v Speaker 1>to either delay surgery or do other things in life.

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<v Speaker 1>This is a really stupid question, but like, if you're

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<v Speaker 1>having a pro lapse and your bladders like out, which

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<v Speaker 1>I have another friend that that was the case, isn't

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<v Speaker 1>there major risk of infection or like like if your

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<v Speaker 1>bladders just hanging out of your vagina hole, like how

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<v Speaker 1>on like a cotton underwear is that dangerous. I've been

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<v Speaker 1>doing this for eighteen years and I still don't think.

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<v Speaker 1>I think the same way you do. I see every

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<v Speaker 1>time I see a uterus on my table, I'm like

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<v Speaker 1>that you see a uterus on your table, Yes, this

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<v Speaker 1>happened that I'm literally losing it doesn't look like that's okay,

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<v Speaker 1>but apparently it's kind of okay. I don't know. She's like,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sitting on my bladder literally like I have a

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<v Speaker 1>friend that it's coming out of for vagina. Really, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>having a baby is so sucking crazy, Like this is crazy, like'

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<v Speaker 1>literally having a conversation about carrying your bladder around outside

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<v Speaker 1>your body. But like so that is that is the thing,

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<v Speaker 1>and it and it's okay. It doesn't cause as much

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<v Speaker 1>risk of infections as you would think. And even still

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<v Speaker 1>I think it just does not look okay to me.

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<v Speaker 1>And so usually we do advise that women wow sempressory

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<v Speaker 1>and work with their doctors about surgical intervention. What are

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<v Speaker 1>some of the telltale signs that women might be facing

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<v Speaker 1>post baby That would be like, okay, you you should

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<v Speaker 1>go see you if you can't. Leaking urine is never

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<v Speaker 1>normal but extreme you guys, yes, so if you maybe

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<v Speaker 1>I think everybody should be evaluated. But I mean things

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<v Speaker 1>like leaking normal leaking your may not be bothers them,

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<v Speaker 1>but that's indicative that there's something wrong opposite. End urinary urgency, frequency,

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<v Speaker 1>diminished orgasm, painful sex, difficulty with bowel movements. All of

0:21:58.960 --> 0:22:02.600
<v Speaker 1>those factors um can be addressed and not to mention

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<v Speaker 1>the more simple things like hip pain and back pain

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<v Speaker 1>and you know, sciatica. Some of the normal things. I

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<v Speaker 1>feel like we haven't even covered. But those are things

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<v Speaker 1>you guys cover. Two Yes, because psiotic. I didn't have

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<v Speaker 1>that a lot during my pregnancy, but I heard about

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<v Speaker 1>it constantly from all the women in my like yoga

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<v Speaker 1>class or in my swim club, Like that is a

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<v Speaker 1>big trigger thing that a lot of women. It's like

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<v Speaker 1>very debilitating, yes, because your publvic muscles start to get

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<v Speaker 1>tighter as your ligaments loosen, and sometimes I can push

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<v Speaker 1>on your sciatic nerve, causing symptoms down the leg and

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<v Speaker 1>it's very painful and you can lose some motor control.

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<v Speaker 1>So it's important to address it for the women like me.

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<v Speaker 1>While that singing continence is like, oh yeah, whatever. Like

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<v Speaker 1>I was saying, I was on a I think I

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<v Speaker 1>was at a holiday party and I got a little

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<v Speaker 1>drunk and I was jumping up and down on a

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<v Speaker 1>dance floor and every single time I jumped and landed,

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<v Speaker 1>like a little bit of bee came out. And I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, that's totally fine. I just had a baby.

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<v Speaker 1>For those of us that are in a similar boat

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<v Speaker 1>where you would think that's normal, you're saying that's not normal,

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<v Speaker 1>not normal, but very common. Oh but can't we just

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<v Speaker 1>pretend it's normal so that I don't have to address

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<v Speaker 1>it and I can just live and denial that everything

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<v Speaker 1>is fine. We'll think about it this way. What if

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<v Speaker 1>it continues to get worse? You're you're so right, and

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<v Speaker 1>that's why we're doing an episode about this. Guys, you're

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<v Speaker 1>going through a visit with me um so and also

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<v Speaker 1>you would say similarly, anyone, thank god, this is not me.

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<v Speaker 1>But people who are having pain during sex, even a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit of pain that is not normal as well? Correct?

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<v Speaker 1>What are the kind of pains that women complain about

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<v Speaker 1>during sex? Is it like a sharp like? Is it

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<v Speaker 1>a burning sharp? What? What are we looking for here?

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<v Speaker 1>Often it's often entry pain, which is like insertional pain

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<v Speaker 1>for women. Either can be issues neuromas, things that the

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<v Speaker 1>episiotomy scar, but also the second thing that's very important,

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<v Speaker 1>and we catch it in pulvic floor pt is. The

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<v Speaker 1>doctors will often provide you with estras or a topical

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<v Speaker 1>hormone to put on that bolvar vestibule air you a

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<v Speaker 1>postpartum and many women actually don't use it. But if

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<v Speaker 1>you continue to breastfeed, and you do breastfeed, then basically

0:24:07.119 --> 0:24:10.200
<v Speaker 1>that tissue is essentially in menopause, and it will become

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<v Speaker 1>frail and atrophied, and that topical is prescribed for a reason.

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<v Speaker 1>But as one of my patients said, I couldn't even

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<v Speaker 1>mean eat boloney when I was pregnant. Why would I

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<v Speaker 1>think I could put on a hormone? Good question, good point.

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<v Speaker 1>But they do prescribe that for a reason, and often

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<v Speaker 1>women are a little worried about it or they don't

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<v Speaker 1>totally understand why they're getting it. But it's important to

0:24:29.640 --> 0:24:32.600
<v Speaker 1>know that those tissues will respond to the lack of

0:24:32.840 --> 0:24:35.760
<v Speaker 1>estrogen that's happening that allows a woman to breastfeed, and

0:24:35.800 --> 0:24:37.760
<v Speaker 1>so that can be a major leading clause of pain

0:24:37.840 --> 0:24:42.439
<v Speaker 1>within our course is drying and dryness. This is what

0:24:42.520 --> 0:24:45.200
<v Speaker 1>I heard mostly from just friends. We were all breastfeeding

0:24:45.280 --> 0:24:47.400
<v Speaker 1>and and yeah, that was the room where I heard

0:24:47.400 --> 0:24:49.120
<v Speaker 1>from most friends. Was like, oh, yeah, good luck, you're

0:24:49.160 --> 0:24:51.320
<v Speaker 1>never getting wet. And I was like what. And they're

0:24:51.320 --> 0:24:53.840
<v Speaker 1>just like your bodies in a metopausal state when you're breastfeeding,

0:24:53.840 --> 0:24:57.840
<v Speaker 1>and so your body doesn't lubricate itself like it would

0:24:58.480 --> 0:25:01.160
<v Speaker 1>or used to, And I think can be exercised visit.

0:25:01.200 --> 0:25:03.160
<v Speaker 1>You may not talk to your doctor about that you're

0:25:03.160 --> 0:25:05.880
<v Speaker 1>thinking about a million other things. But ask your people

0:25:05.880 --> 0:25:08.520
<v Speaker 1>should ask their doctors, and now it's safe to use,

0:25:08.600 --> 0:25:13.000
<v Speaker 1>and then that can help during that breastfeeding period. Very interesting,

0:25:13.760 --> 0:25:17.399
<v Speaker 1>So tell me the exercises that you, I don't know

0:25:17.560 --> 0:25:20.359
<v Speaker 1>would like when people come and see you and you

0:25:20.680 --> 0:25:24.560
<v Speaker 1>evaluate how they're doing. Then is it just tons of

0:25:24.600 --> 0:25:27.600
<v Speaker 1>homework and daily practice? But is it now that we

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<v Speaker 1>do kegles like I know we talked about eegles earlier,

0:25:29.720 --> 0:25:31.720
<v Speaker 1>but would that be something you would suggest once someone

0:25:31.800 --> 0:25:34.199
<v Speaker 1>learns how to do it correctly with you? They it is,

0:25:34.280 --> 0:25:36.840
<v Speaker 1>but it's not just the kegle in isolation. We want

0:25:36.880 --> 0:25:39.119
<v Speaker 1>to make sure women can control the pelvic floor muscles.

0:25:39.160 --> 0:25:42.160
<v Speaker 1>But then we actually are giving more individualized exercise based

0:25:42.160 --> 0:25:45.639
<v Speaker 1>on their entire core and so some people have a

0:25:45.720 --> 0:25:49.560
<v Speaker 1>strong transverse abdominance, other people don't, and so it's about

0:25:49.680 --> 0:25:53.159
<v Speaker 1>lengthening all the muscles that are too tight and strengthening

0:25:53.240 --> 0:25:56.760
<v Speaker 1>and a coordinated, correct contraction of the core muscles together,

0:25:56.800 --> 0:26:00.280
<v Speaker 1>which includes a pelvic floor. Especially in Los angele. Most

0:26:00.280 --> 0:26:02.280
<v Speaker 1>people are active, and so what we want to do

0:26:02.400 --> 0:26:07.480
<v Speaker 1>is incorporate specific exercises into their regular routines so they're

0:26:07.520 --> 0:26:10.320
<v Speaker 1>not having to do with two in fifteen minutes is

0:26:10.400 --> 0:26:12.600
<v Speaker 1>too much for some women. And so it may be

0:26:13.240 --> 0:26:15.320
<v Speaker 1>doing a kegal when you're getting on and off the toilet,

0:26:15.359 --> 0:26:17.040
<v Speaker 1>or when you're bending down to pick up your baby

0:26:17.040 --> 0:26:19.679
<v Speaker 1>and standing up like things that you're doing already. We

0:26:19.720 --> 0:26:23.119
<v Speaker 1>want to teach you how to incorporate safer biomechanics and

0:26:23.200 --> 0:26:27.240
<v Speaker 1>proper neuromuscular motor control. I was always told you P

0:26:28.000 --> 0:26:31.000
<v Speaker 1>and then who tell these things I have learned from

0:26:31.040 --> 0:26:33.320
<v Speaker 1>their moms? Is like so insane? But like you P

0:26:33.720 --> 0:26:37.240
<v Speaker 1>and then just stop your P two or three times

0:26:37.320 --> 0:26:40.840
<v Speaker 1>during a P session? Is that what is my face doing?

0:26:42.240 --> 0:26:45.080
<v Speaker 1>Her face is looking at me like she is completely horrified.

0:26:45.520 --> 0:26:49.680
<v Speaker 1>That is one way that I think inexperienced people told

0:26:49.680 --> 0:26:52.440
<v Speaker 1>people how to kegal. That's not correct. You should never

0:26:52.440 --> 0:26:55.119
<v Speaker 1>stop your hurine stream. It can lead to bladder infections.

0:26:55.160 --> 0:26:56.919
<v Speaker 1>Then you need to be on antibiotics, and you get

0:26:56.920 --> 0:26:59.320
<v Speaker 1>a yeast infection, and now you've got bolvar pain. You

0:26:59.320 --> 0:27:03.119
<v Speaker 1>don't want to do at There's other ways that told

0:27:03.119 --> 0:27:05.320
<v Speaker 1>me that I don't know, but it was a rumor

0:27:05.400 --> 0:27:06.960
<v Speaker 1>that I was doing for a little bit. It is

0:27:07.080 --> 0:27:10.679
<v Speaker 1>definitely a popular rumor, So that is not it. What

0:27:10.800 --> 0:27:13.480
<v Speaker 1>are the exercises that women can do on their own

0:27:13.480 --> 0:27:15.760
<v Speaker 1>to help their pelvic floor pain and are there any

0:27:15.800 --> 0:27:19.639
<v Speaker 1>products or aid other than the possibly for some people

0:27:19.680 --> 0:27:22.680
<v Speaker 1>the lotion that you talked about. Yes, that's a that's

0:27:22.680 --> 0:27:25.560
<v Speaker 1>a prescription, prescription what you need. Um. I think there's

0:27:25.560 --> 0:27:27.199
<v Speaker 1>a device out there that I personally I am a

0:27:27.240 --> 0:27:30.480
<v Speaker 1>huge fan of. It's called the elv Yes, I just

0:27:30.880 --> 0:27:34.360
<v Speaker 1>got it, guys. It came in a Mother's Day like

0:27:34.880 --> 0:27:38.240
<v Speaker 1>swag bag that I got and I will report back

0:27:38.400 --> 0:27:41.080
<v Speaker 1>to you guys. It looks like a little vibrator thingy

0:27:41.160 --> 0:27:43.560
<v Speaker 1>it does that goes in and what happens and and

0:27:43.600 --> 0:27:46.080
<v Speaker 1>also what's interesting about it is it connects to your

0:27:46.119 --> 0:27:50.280
<v Speaker 1>phone and it will basically I'm gonna start playing video

0:27:50.359 --> 0:27:53.560
<v Speaker 1>games with your heelvet floor muscles using your elving on

0:27:53.600 --> 0:27:55.440
<v Speaker 1>your phone. And what I like about it is it

0:27:55.520 --> 0:27:58.119
<v Speaker 1>confirms that you're doing it properly, which is the number

0:27:58.119 --> 0:28:01.520
<v Speaker 1>one reason why women don't do UK goals is because

0:28:01.520 --> 0:28:03.399
<v Speaker 1>they're not even sure if they're doing them properly. It

0:28:03.440 --> 0:28:06.440
<v Speaker 1>will reinforce it you are. It will measure your strength,

0:28:06.520 --> 0:28:09.640
<v Speaker 1>how fast you are, your control, and it will remind

0:28:09.680 --> 0:28:11.679
<v Speaker 1>you that you need to do this over time, and

0:28:11.720 --> 0:28:14.480
<v Speaker 1>you can actually document your progress. And so what you'll

0:28:14.480 --> 0:28:16.679
<v Speaker 1>see with that is that you can also tell that

0:28:16.720 --> 0:28:19.680
<v Speaker 1>your muscles are improving, your symptoms should be going down.

0:28:20.359 --> 0:28:22.679
<v Speaker 1>And I think for a home tool that's really useful,

0:28:23.119 --> 0:28:25.760
<v Speaker 1>So the LV And then and then also I got

0:28:25.800 --> 0:28:27.800
<v Speaker 1>from a friend the Yoni egg. What it is? This

0:28:28.080 --> 0:28:32.080
<v Speaker 1>like whatever? Okay, So Stephanie's face is like, well, you

0:28:32.160 --> 0:28:35.320
<v Speaker 1>don't need to hold a weight in your vagina for

0:28:35.440 --> 0:28:38.800
<v Speaker 1>it to improve. It's really about neuromuscular control with your

0:28:38.800 --> 0:28:42.360
<v Speaker 1>other muscles, and the idea of just squeezing independently around

0:28:42.360 --> 0:28:45.480
<v Speaker 1>a weight for a period of time is questionable, and

0:28:45.600 --> 0:28:49.240
<v Speaker 1>so is the cleanliness of that is there's been some

0:28:49.320 --> 0:28:53.760
<v Speaker 1>debate about if it can actually promote or not. I

0:28:53.760 --> 0:28:56.040
<v Speaker 1>have not tried the Yoni egg, but I have one

0:28:56.120 --> 0:28:59.560
<v Speaker 1>next to my bedside. I think it's pink um. I

0:28:59.600 --> 0:29:02.600
<v Speaker 1>have to it. How do women feel about Like, see,

0:29:02.600 --> 0:29:04.840
<v Speaker 1>I'm going to try to avoid this and not come

0:29:04.840 --> 0:29:06.880
<v Speaker 1>to you because I'm going to be super embarrassed that

0:29:06.920 --> 0:29:09.360
<v Speaker 1>I have to go and like have some person's finger

0:29:09.400 --> 0:29:12.480
<v Speaker 1>in my vagina and like do exercises? How do you talk?

0:29:12.720 --> 0:29:16.280
<v Speaker 1>Or yeah, like make women feel comfortable. Is it the

0:29:16.320 --> 0:29:18.080
<v Speaker 1>kind of thing like once you get started, it's just

0:29:18.120 --> 0:29:20.239
<v Speaker 1>not a big deal and women don't care or like

0:29:20.520 --> 0:29:22.440
<v Speaker 1>or is it a really big hang up for some?

0:29:22.720 --> 0:29:26.640
<v Speaker 1>Like I say, more often than not, it's not. I mean,

0:29:26.760 --> 0:29:30.560
<v Speaker 1>so many moms have already been through so much. We're

0:29:30.640 --> 0:29:33.360
<v Speaker 1>not that different and we're not in big gyms. I mean,

0:29:33.400 --> 0:29:35.600
<v Speaker 1>in particularly in our clinic, everyone is in a private

0:29:35.600 --> 0:29:39.120
<v Speaker 1>treatment room. Um. I think hopefully that from the moment

0:29:39.160 --> 0:29:42.560
<v Speaker 1>people call, our staff knows people are calling with sensitive issues,

0:29:42.600 --> 0:29:45.680
<v Speaker 1>and so from the beginning, hopefully the education process starts

0:29:46.160 --> 0:29:48.840
<v Speaker 1>to make people feel more comfortable. But it's really helpful

0:29:48.880 --> 0:29:51.240
<v Speaker 1>to know that you do feel nervous. And my question

0:29:51.280 --> 0:29:53.120
<v Speaker 1>for you would be what can we do to make

0:29:53.160 --> 0:29:55.680
<v Speaker 1>it easier? Thanks? Definitely, Well, I think I just have

0:29:55.800 --> 0:29:58.320
<v Speaker 1>to bite the bullet and like do it, and I

0:29:58.360 --> 0:30:01.320
<v Speaker 1>also have to kind of change my you know, what

0:30:01.400 --> 0:30:03.440
<v Speaker 1>I think is so interesting about this work is that

0:30:04.200 --> 0:30:06.840
<v Speaker 1>you know, we're raised your vagina is your your private part.

0:30:06.920 --> 0:30:11.920
<v Speaker 1>It's like really like you know, sensitive and brings up

0:30:11.960 --> 0:30:15.360
<v Speaker 1>a lot of different feelings. So to come at it

0:30:15.400 --> 0:30:18.760
<v Speaker 1>at a more kind of physical therapy way, which is like, no,

0:30:18.840 --> 0:30:22.320
<v Speaker 1>this is a muscle that you need to take care of,

0:30:22.560 --> 0:30:25.480
<v Speaker 1>like the other muscles in my body. Um, you know,

0:30:25.520 --> 0:30:28.640
<v Speaker 1>I was all about when I was pregnant, Like you know,

0:30:28.720 --> 0:30:31.520
<v Speaker 1>I was all about doing a million squats because I

0:30:31.560 --> 0:30:33.400
<v Speaker 1>had heard that, like my legs were going to be

0:30:33.480 --> 0:30:36.760
<v Speaker 1>so important during labor because they're my strongest mulse as

0:30:36.760 --> 0:30:38.640
<v Speaker 1>I've got and I'm going to be pushing like crazy.

0:30:38.680 --> 0:30:40.480
<v Speaker 1>And it didn't even occur to me once that my

0:30:40.520 --> 0:30:43.680
<v Speaker 1>pelvic floor was something that was going to take such

0:30:43.720 --> 0:30:46.160
<v Speaker 1>a hit and was going to be something that let

0:30:46.280 --> 0:30:48.640
<v Speaker 1>needed to be worked on. But yeah, I think it's

0:30:48.640 --> 0:30:50.120
<v Speaker 1>like putting on my big girl pants and I just

0:30:50.160 --> 0:30:52.680
<v Speaker 1>have to go. And after a minute, I'll tell you guys,

0:30:52.680 --> 0:30:54.200
<v Speaker 1>and I'll be like, it was so not a big

0:30:54.200 --> 0:30:57.720
<v Speaker 1>deal if it makes you feel any better. All the

0:30:57.760 --> 0:31:00.640
<v Speaker 1>people that are pelvic floor physical therapist, how do you

0:31:00.680 --> 0:31:04.320
<v Speaker 1>think we learn on each other? Right, So, every time

0:31:04.360 --> 0:31:06.880
<v Speaker 1>we hire a new employee, guess whose hands are in

0:31:06.960 --> 0:31:10.480
<v Speaker 1>my public floor? Really yes, So hopefully that will ease

0:31:10.520 --> 0:31:12.360
<v Speaker 1>it a little bit because we've all been through it

0:31:12.520 --> 0:31:16.200
<v Speaker 1>and that's how they learn. And so and what's crazy

0:31:16.360 --> 0:31:18.880
<v Speaker 1>really not that big a yeah? And also every single

0:31:18.920 --> 0:31:21.520
<v Speaker 1>thing I felt with pregnancy you thought was a big

0:31:21.520 --> 0:31:23.720
<v Speaker 1>deal and then wasn't. Like I remember when someone was like,

0:31:24.040 --> 0:31:26.480
<v Speaker 1>you have to get an internal exam and me being like,

0:31:26.520 --> 0:31:28.719
<v Speaker 1>oh my god, this is gonna be so terrible, and

0:31:28.760 --> 0:31:30.160
<v Speaker 1>they did, and I was like, Oh, that wasn't that bad.

0:31:30.400 --> 0:31:32.040
<v Speaker 1>You know, it's almost so much bigger in my brain

0:31:32.120 --> 0:31:35.040
<v Speaker 1>than when I do it. It's just not let's do

0:31:35.200 --> 0:31:38.400
<v Speaker 1>some advice to expecting mothers that aren't having any issues,

0:31:38.480 --> 0:31:40.480
<v Speaker 1>and let's talk, and then let's give some advice to

0:31:40.480 --> 0:31:44.400
<v Speaker 1>women who are having issues. So the expecting mothers, I think,

0:31:44.600 --> 0:31:48.000
<v Speaker 1>just knowing this information, they may not feel normal at

0:31:48.040 --> 0:31:50.240
<v Speaker 1>that six week check up or now three weeks, and

0:31:50.280 --> 0:31:53.320
<v Speaker 1>that's typical. Their bodies go through a lot, both with

0:31:53.360 --> 0:31:56.520
<v Speaker 1>pregnancy and delivery, and regardless of the time that they

0:31:56.520 --> 0:31:58.560
<v Speaker 1>do come in. Once they do, I think that they

0:31:58.560 --> 0:32:00.760
<v Speaker 1>can learn enough to make sure or that they are

0:32:00.800 --> 0:32:02.880
<v Speaker 1>taking care of themselves for the rest of their lifespan

0:32:03.000 --> 0:32:06.720
<v Speaker 1>and just addressing issues that may arise very treatable. We

0:32:06.760 --> 0:32:09.800
<v Speaker 1>try to make it functional, easily integrated into your life

0:32:09.800 --> 0:32:12.000
<v Speaker 1>as it already is. We don't want to give you

0:32:12.040 --> 0:32:14.040
<v Speaker 1>one more thing that's going to make you feel incompetent.

0:32:14.080 --> 0:32:16.240
<v Speaker 1>And the one thing mom say often is that they

0:32:16.280 --> 0:32:18.600
<v Speaker 1>just don't feel like, you know, they're doing as well

0:32:18.680 --> 0:32:21.400
<v Speaker 1>enough job as they can. So our roles to set

0:32:21.520 --> 0:32:24.920
<v Speaker 1>new moms up for success. This is like so mind

0:32:24.960 --> 0:32:29.120
<v Speaker 1>blowingly helpful. I can't even thank you enough for being here.

0:32:29.200 --> 0:32:31.560
<v Speaker 1>And I'm going to keep all of you listeners have

0:32:32.000 --> 0:32:35.200
<v Speaker 1>like so updated on my pelvic floor health in case

0:32:35.240 --> 0:32:40.800
<v Speaker 1>you're interested in care. Thank you all my heart for

0:32:40.920 --> 0:32:50.200
<v Speaker 1>being here and for being on Katie's Grip. Hello, Korea, Hello,

0:32:50.760 --> 0:32:52.560
<v Speaker 1>thank you so much for coming on the show. Thank

0:32:52.600 --> 0:32:55.880
<v Speaker 1>you for having This is, guys, my selfish attempt of

0:32:56.000 --> 0:32:58.680
<v Speaker 1>just getting to hang out with Priya and ask her

0:32:58.720 --> 0:33:02.000
<v Speaker 1>all the personal questions I want ask about my pelvic floor.

0:33:02.520 --> 0:33:06.480
<v Speaker 1>I'm so fascinated by this subject because the pelvic floor

0:33:06.680 --> 0:33:10.600
<v Speaker 1>is like a whole thing that I never thought about before.

0:33:10.600 --> 0:33:14.760
<v Speaker 1>It just got completely wrecked during childbirth. What is having

0:33:14.760 --> 0:33:16.560
<v Speaker 1>a baby due to the pelvic floor muscles? Where do

0:33:16.640 --> 0:33:25.520
<v Speaker 1>they go so during besides bye bye, besides totally different? Um. Yeah,

0:33:25.600 --> 0:33:28.200
<v Speaker 1>So the pelvic floor muscles, as you can imagine, they're

0:33:28.200 --> 0:33:30.360
<v Speaker 1>holding the weight of your tors so they're holding the

0:33:30.360 --> 0:33:32.400
<v Speaker 1>weight of your organs. So when you have a baby

0:33:32.400 --> 0:33:38.400
<v Speaker 1>growing inside, they start to receive more weight from the baby. Um.

0:33:38.400 --> 0:33:39.960
<v Speaker 1>So some of the things that can happen is the

0:33:39.960 --> 0:33:43.720
<v Speaker 1>pelvic floor muscles can stretch out, um which is what

0:33:43.880 --> 0:33:47.000
<v Speaker 1>causes you know, when people have pelvic floor weakness from

0:33:47.080 --> 0:33:50.400
<v Speaker 1>them stretching out. And that can happen from the pregnancy.

0:33:50.440 --> 0:33:53.200
<v Speaker 1>So even people who have c sections can have weakened

0:33:53.200 --> 0:33:58.760
<v Speaker 1>pelvic floor muscles. Interesting, even if they didn't give birth vaginally,

0:33:58.920 --> 0:34:01.120
<v Speaker 1>your pelvic floor muscles and still be kind of blown

0:34:01.120 --> 0:34:05.400
<v Speaker 1>out because you've been carrying around in some cases pound

0:34:05.400 --> 0:34:08.480
<v Speaker 1>baby exactly, plus all the extra weight from your just

0:34:08.760 --> 0:34:11.279
<v Speaker 1>gaining weight, gaining weight, all the extra fluids in your

0:34:11.280 --> 0:34:14.480
<v Speaker 1>body from pregnancy. Um, So they can stretch out. They

0:34:14.480 --> 0:34:18.880
<v Speaker 1>can also overtighten. Why can they overtighten? They'll get strong,

0:34:19.040 --> 0:34:21.440
<v Speaker 1>they'll like tighten to try and hold more of the weight.

0:34:22.239 --> 0:34:25.759
<v Speaker 1>I don't know if you experience like tight glutes pregnancy,

0:34:25.880 --> 0:34:27.640
<v Speaker 1>So that's the same kind of thing. The glutes are

0:34:27.680 --> 0:34:32.480
<v Speaker 1>also holding the weight of your torso um so muscles

0:34:32.480 --> 0:34:35.080
<v Speaker 1>will try and respond to the extra weight by tightening.

0:34:35.400 --> 0:34:39.879
<v Speaker 1>So yeah, and there can actually be i um like

0:34:40.160 --> 0:34:42.799
<v Speaker 1>what would be called like a muscle spasm which is

0:34:42.840 --> 0:34:46.400
<v Speaker 1>basically where the muscle can't relax where it's overtight. That

0:34:46.440 --> 0:34:50.640
<v Speaker 1>can happen to your pelvic floor. Yeah, oh why yeah,

0:34:50.800 --> 0:34:53.920
<v Speaker 1>but that would also even though the muscles are holding

0:34:53.920 --> 0:34:56.239
<v Speaker 1>in are tight, it could come across. You could still

0:34:56.239 --> 0:34:59.560
<v Speaker 1>be experiencing a pelvic floor weakness because if you think

0:34:59.560 --> 0:35:03.719
<v Speaker 1>of like a scar tissue, scar tissue doesn't move, it's

0:35:03.760 --> 0:35:07.280
<v Speaker 1>almost like it's like a spasm where it's overly tight tissue,

0:35:07.480 --> 0:35:10.360
<v Speaker 1>and there's usually weakness in a place where they're scarring.

0:35:10.760 --> 0:35:13.719
<v Speaker 1>So most people deal with incontinence in regards to the

0:35:13.760 --> 0:35:17.960
<v Speaker 1>pelvic floor. That could also be UM pain with sex,

0:35:18.680 --> 0:35:21.720
<v Speaker 1>so pain with intercourse, and that would be from the overtightening,

0:35:22.239 --> 0:35:26.000
<v Speaker 1>and that could both be UM. That could both be

0:35:26.280 --> 0:35:30.200
<v Speaker 1>from the actual physicality of holding the weight and then

0:35:30.239 --> 0:35:34.120
<v Speaker 1>the muscles overly tightening. It could also be holding emotional trauma.

0:35:34.360 --> 0:35:38.239
<v Speaker 1>So as we all know, birth is a very intense experience,

0:35:38.280 --> 0:35:41.520
<v Speaker 1>whether you have a c section or you know, pregnancy

0:35:41.520 --> 0:35:44.880
<v Speaker 1>in and of itself is intense, So the tightening could

0:35:44.920 --> 0:35:46.880
<v Speaker 1>also be or the pain could also be from an

0:35:46.920 --> 0:35:52.200
<v Speaker 1>emotional holding on. Whoa, yeah, so that's why I can't

0:35:52.200 --> 0:35:54.239
<v Speaker 1>wait to hear about how you treat all this up?

0:35:55.719 --> 0:35:58.120
<v Speaker 1>So would you say that there are women who are

0:35:58.160 --> 0:36:01.000
<v Speaker 1>maybe more at risk for a pelvic floor disorder post

0:36:01.080 --> 0:36:06.080
<v Speaker 1>birth than others? Like why do some women have? I mean,

0:36:06.320 --> 0:36:08.280
<v Speaker 1>like you said, I think you've already listed and continents

0:36:08.280 --> 0:36:12.279
<v Speaker 1>can happen because of emotional trauma and how you hold

0:36:12.280 --> 0:36:15.120
<v Speaker 1>the baby and if you're tight or loose. But are

0:36:15.160 --> 0:36:19.120
<v Speaker 1>there any preventative measures that women can take that would

0:36:19.719 --> 0:36:23.160
<v Speaker 1>have the outcome be different or maybe better? Yeah, I

0:36:23.200 --> 0:36:27.080
<v Speaker 1>feel like the best thing is to exercise, you know,

0:36:27.160 --> 0:36:30.800
<v Speaker 1>like weight bearing exercises are really good, Squats are really good.

0:36:30.960 --> 0:36:33.720
<v Speaker 1>I'd say in general, people who have a more active

0:36:33.760 --> 0:36:37.719
<v Speaker 1>lifestyle before they get pregnant or even during pregnancy, have

0:36:37.800 --> 0:36:42.120
<v Speaker 1>a better chance of, um not having as many problems,

0:36:42.239 --> 0:36:46.319
<v Speaker 1>but also being able to bounce back more like their

0:36:46.360 --> 0:36:50.640
<v Speaker 1>body is already kind of accustomed to working out and exercising,

0:36:50.719 --> 0:36:53.319
<v Speaker 1>so it's easier to kind of get back into that. Um.

0:36:54.400 --> 0:36:57.319
<v Speaker 1>It's a lot of points for working out, but it

0:36:57.400 --> 0:37:01.839
<v Speaker 1>doesn't necessarily guarantee it. Like I've had clients before who

0:37:02.120 --> 0:37:05.239
<v Speaker 1>are super in shape, who are really into exercise and

0:37:05.280 --> 0:37:08.880
<v Speaker 1>still have issues afterwards. So you know, it depends a

0:37:08.880 --> 0:37:12.960
<v Speaker 1>lot on also how the labor went. Um. You know

0:37:13.080 --> 0:37:16.160
<v Speaker 1>sometimes if if you if you have to push and

0:37:16.200 --> 0:37:18.479
<v Speaker 1>like get the baby out really fast, that could cause

0:37:18.560 --> 0:37:24.319
<v Speaker 1>some both trauma in the body and also more physical damage. Um.

0:37:24.440 --> 0:37:26.279
<v Speaker 1>So that would be an example of like someone could

0:37:26.280 --> 0:37:29.680
<v Speaker 1>be in really good shape but still have a problem.

0:37:29.719 --> 0:37:31.960
<v Speaker 1>So it's kind of like birth where it's there's no

0:37:32.040 --> 0:37:35.480
<v Speaker 1>really any guarantee, right, but you know, having a healthy

0:37:35.960 --> 0:37:39.239
<v Speaker 1>lifestyle that's healthy and active is gonna you're gonna have

0:37:39.280 --> 0:37:42.960
<v Speaker 1>better chances. I think we've all heard about kegel exercises

0:37:43.000 --> 0:37:47.239
<v Speaker 1>like our whole life. I mean, I love like, I've

0:37:47.719 --> 0:37:50.640
<v Speaker 1>definitely been in classes though, prenative classes where women were

0:37:50.680 --> 0:37:52.239
<v Speaker 1>like I have to admit, like I don't even know

0:37:52.280 --> 0:37:55.560
<v Speaker 1>what the hell that is or how to do it. Um,

0:37:55.760 --> 0:37:58.319
<v Speaker 1>just explain for people who are listening what a key

0:37:58.360 --> 0:38:03.160
<v Speaker 1>goal is. Sure. Um, So they're part of the pelvic

0:38:03.200 --> 0:38:06.879
<v Speaker 1>floor as the vaginal canal, which is where you have intercourse,

0:38:07.080 --> 0:38:11.560
<v Speaker 1>and so there's muscles their circular muscles um, inside of

0:38:11.560 --> 0:38:15.640
<v Speaker 1>the vagina. So a keegel is a traditional keegel would

0:38:15.680 --> 0:38:18.919
<v Speaker 1>be squeezing that muscle and releasing it. What about those

0:38:18.920 --> 0:38:22.719
<v Speaker 1>eggs that people all, yeah, Yon eggs, the Yoni eggs. Yeah,

0:38:22.840 --> 0:38:25.480
<v Speaker 1>you like put an egg of different sizes depending on

0:38:25.520 --> 0:38:29.799
<v Speaker 1>how ripped and strong your vagina is, and you put

0:38:29.840 --> 0:38:32.560
<v Speaker 1>the egg up there and you can hold onto it.

0:38:32.640 --> 0:38:35.680
<v Speaker 1>Oh wait, wasn't this in that movie Fifty Shades of Gray?

0:38:35.760 --> 0:38:38.120
<v Speaker 1>Doesn't she have to like he insert something and like

0:38:38.120 --> 0:38:40.319
<v Speaker 1>walk around with it in dinner? I don't remember something

0:38:40.320 --> 0:38:42.120
<v Speaker 1>like that. I'm pretty sure it was like, Yon, can

0:38:42.120 --> 0:38:44.240
<v Speaker 1>you explain what that is and doesn't actually work? Should

0:38:44.239 --> 0:38:46.040
<v Speaker 1>I be doing that and it will help it? Not

0:38:46.160 --> 0:38:48.440
<v Speaker 1>even tell me? Yeah? Well, I wanted to say with

0:38:48.520 --> 0:38:52.000
<v Speaker 1>the yes you can. The Yoni eggs are good. I

0:38:52.120 --> 0:38:53.359
<v Speaker 1>need to get it up there and it's gonna get

0:38:53.360 --> 0:38:56.839
<v Speaker 1>lost forever. Okay. Then there are ones that have holes

0:38:56.840 --> 0:38:59.240
<v Speaker 1>in the bottom and you can thread like um strength

0:38:59.640 --> 0:39:01.960
<v Speaker 1>tamper it, or you can stread thread like a piece

0:39:01.960 --> 0:39:03.879
<v Speaker 1>of floss or something like that. Yeah, so you could

0:39:03.880 --> 0:39:10.560
<v Speaker 1>pull it out missing make it hang out. Um so, yeah,

0:39:10.600 --> 0:39:12.400
<v Speaker 1>the Yoni eggs are really good. One of the reasons

0:39:12.400 --> 0:39:14.680
<v Speaker 1>they're good is because, like you're saying, she had to

0:39:14.680 --> 0:39:16.640
<v Speaker 1>walk around with it, you can walk around with it

0:39:16.960 --> 0:39:19.960
<v Speaker 1>and your muscles are going to be grabbing onto it

0:39:20.000 --> 0:39:22.279
<v Speaker 1>without you having to think about it. So that's one

0:39:22.280 --> 0:39:26.359
<v Speaker 1>thing that's good about the Yoni eggs um, whereas so

0:39:26.480 --> 0:39:28.759
<v Speaker 1>the I think the reason why people have such a

0:39:28.760 --> 0:39:30.759
<v Speaker 1>hard time with the key GOLs is because it's not

0:39:30.880 --> 0:39:33.320
<v Speaker 1>that you know, you can say like, oh yeah, squeeze

0:39:33.320 --> 0:39:37.000
<v Speaker 1>your vagina, but most people, the pelvic floor is such

0:39:37.080 --> 0:39:41.520
<v Speaker 1>a it's like a whole landscape world of its own um.

0:39:41.560 --> 0:39:42.920
<v Speaker 1>Which is some of the work that I do. I

0:39:43.000 --> 0:39:46.480
<v Speaker 1>take people more deeply into being able to not just

0:39:46.520 --> 0:39:48.319
<v Speaker 1>squeeze your vagina and let it go, but to be

0:39:48.360 --> 0:39:51.719
<v Speaker 1>able to to feel muscles in different parts of the

0:39:51.760 --> 0:39:55.799
<v Speaker 1>pelvic floor, which I call pelvic floor mapping, and it's

0:39:55.920 --> 0:39:58.240
<v Speaker 1>every you know, every place that you're able to find,

0:39:58.320 --> 0:40:01.120
<v Speaker 1>it's a different it gives kind of different feeling through

0:40:01.160 --> 0:40:05.640
<v Speaker 1>your body. So and it's you have to take people

0:40:05.680 --> 0:40:09.800
<v Speaker 1>into a very deep like it's a it's a strange

0:40:09.840 --> 0:40:12.960
<v Speaker 1>place to feel. It's not just like it's not just

0:40:13.000 --> 0:40:16.560
<v Speaker 1>like feel your elbow. You know, it's really deep in there,

0:40:16.600 --> 0:40:21.359
<v Speaker 1>and people don't usually spend time thinking about it feeling it.

0:40:21.840 --> 0:40:23.799
<v Speaker 1>And on top of it, there's tons of people have

0:40:23.880 --> 0:40:27.319
<v Speaker 1>tons of shame around that area, you know, shame, embarrassment,

0:40:27.600 --> 0:40:32.000
<v Speaker 1>or whatever. Luck people store all sorts of stress feeling

0:40:32.160 --> 0:40:34.760
<v Speaker 1>stress in the area, so it's a it's a difficult

0:40:34.760 --> 0:40:37.719
<v Speaker 1>place for people to go, which is why you know

0:40:37.760 --> 0:40:39.719
<v Speaker 1>when someone just says, like do a key goals? Like

0:40:40.480 --> 0:40:43.320
<v Speaker 1>what is that? Like? You can't just oh, let me

0:40:43.480 --> 0:40:45.879
<v Speaker 1>just move my a lot about the work you do?

0:40:46.000 --> 0:40:48.680
<v Speaker 1>Which is you do? How would you phrase it? Is it?

0:40:48.760 --> 0:40:51.920
<v Speaker 1>Is it it's a holistic approach to pelvic floor health

0:40:52.160 --> 0:40:56.120
<v Speaker 1>or yeah, yeah, I would say it's an embodied approach.

0:40:56.440 --> 0:41:00.640
<v Speaker 1>It's a it's a mindful approach. So at what point

0:41:00.640 --> 0:41:03.200
<v Speaker 1>does a woman make an appointment to see you? Generally speaking? Like,

0:41:03.239 --> 0:41:04.960
<v Speaker 1>do most blumen come to see you when it's too

0:41:05.080 --> 0:41:08.440
<v Speaker 1>late or no? I mean I have women who I

0:41:08.480 --> 0:41:10.600
<v Speaker 1>work with who are like in their fifties and sixties

0:41:10.640 --> 0:41:13.640
<v Speaker 1>and even you know, Um, but most people come to

0:41:13.719 --> 0:41:18.120
<v Speaker 1>me sometime in they're like early postpartum time. Um. I've

0:41:18.160 --> 0:41:20.280
<v Speaker 1>had someone come to me four days after their labor,

0:41:21.040 --> 0:41:24.440
<v Speaker 1>which is fine. Um, this woman in particular was like

0:41:24.480 --> 0:41:27.880
<v Speaker 1>the worst incontinents case I've seen where she had to

0:41:27.880 --> 0:41:30.960
<v Speaker 1>wear diapers, Like every time she stood up, it was

0:41:31.680 --> 0:41:35.879
<v Speaker 1>just he and she. She's gotten it back, She's gotten

0:41:35.920 --> 0:41:40.439
<v Speaker 1>it back. I worked with her regularly for maybe three

0:41:40.520 --> 0:41:44.480
<v Speaker 1>or four months, and she was like back to wearing

0:41:44.800 --> 0:41:48.680
<v Speaker 1>a thong. So what would happen, for example, at a

0:41:48.719 --> 0:41:51.480
<v Speaker 1>first appointment? Take me through like her story? Like what

0:41:51.520 --> 0:41:54.560
<v Speaker 1>do you do when you see a first appointment, you know,

0:41:55.360 --> 0:41:57.360
<v Speaker 1>someone who has never been to you before? Like, yeah,

0:41:57.560 --> 0:41:59.520
<v Speaker 1>I do an intake so I find out kind of

0:41:59.560 --> 0:42:03.360
<v Speaker 1>what they're story was? What are their issues? Um? I

0:42:03.400 --> 0:42:09.920
<v Speaker 1>asked questions to find out whether there's um overtightness or weakness. UM.

0:42:10.000 --> 0:42:13.640
<v Speaker 1>So like painful sex, if someone's having painful sex or

0:42:13.800 --> 0:42:18.160
<v Speaker 1>just pain in general, Um, I would you know, diagnose

0:42:18.200 --> 0:42:20.239
<v Speaker 1>them more in that they're overly tight and they need

0:42:20.280 --> 0:42:24.120
<v Speaker 1>help with the relaxation side of things. Um. If someone's

0:42:24.160 --> 0:42:27.319
<v Speaker 1>having issues with incontinence or any kind of like back

0:42:27.400 --> 0:42:30.200
<v Speaker 1>or hip pain, then they're going to need more loose

0:42:30.280 --> 0:42:33.680
<v Speaker 1>strengthening side. And then what would you do for either?

0:42:33.880 --> 0:42:36.279
<v Speaker 1>Like what are the techniques during a session with you

0:42:36.320 --> 0:42:39.200
<v Speaker 1>where people are what would you do for a tight

0:42:39.280 --> 0:42:42.880
<v Speaker 1>case versus a loose um? For I mean a lot

0:42:42.920 --> 0:42:46.680
<v Speaker 1>of the exercises are similar because I emphasize both the

0:42:47.000 --> 0:42:51.920
<v Speaker 1>squeezing the tightening of the muscles and the relaxation. Um.

0:42:52.080 --> 0:42:54.520
<v Speaker 1>But with someone who is overly tight, I might just

0:42:54.600 --> 0:42:57.839
<v Speaker 1>focus on the relaxation side, so I wouldn't bring them

0:42:57.880 --> 0:43:03.759
<v Speaker 1>into the contraction contracting the muscles until maybe later on. Um.

0:43:03.800 --> 0:43:06.200
<v Speaker 1>Sometimes you know, it's like when you work out and

0:43:06.200 --> 0:43:09.600
<v Speaker 1>then after words you're able to rest more. So sometimes

0:43:09.600 --> 0:43:12.120
<v Speaker 1>even with the tight, with the people who are overly tight,

0:43:12.239 --> 0:43:14.759
<v Speaker 1>it's like, okay, well, I'm gonna work with the with

0:43:14.800 --> 0:43:17.760
<v Speaker 1>the contracting of the muscles, just so that you're able

0:43:17.800 --> 0:43:20.080
<v Speaker 1>to feel the other side, which would be the letting go.

0:43:20.680 --> 0:43:22.680
<v Speaker 1>But when you say, like work on it, what does

0:43:22.680 --> 0:43:25.319
<v Speaker 1>that mean? They're like laying on a table. So how

0:43:25.400 --> 0:43:29.000
<v Speaker 1>people lay down? Um, I always start people laying down

0:43:29.040 --> 0:43:33.000
<v Speaker 1>because it's easier to feel when you're doing less. So

0:43:33.040 --> 0:43:35.480
<v Speaker 1>if you think about, um, you know, you're like rushing

0:43:35.520 --> 0:43:37.359
<v Speaker 1>to get out of the house and like you're more

0:43:37.400 --> 0:43:42.280
<v Speaker 1>likely to drop things and stub your toe or forget something,

0:43:42.440 --> 0:43:47.800
<v Speaker 1>forget something. But when you start overly doing or overly working,

0:43:47.960 --> 0:43:51.560
<v Speaker 1>you're not as aware and you can't feel yourself as much.

0:43:52.280 --> 0:43:54.040
<v Speaker 1>You know, you might like hit your hand on the

0:43:54.040 --> 0:43:57.040
<v Speaker 1>wall or you know. Um, So it's the same thing

0:43:57.080 --> 0:44:00.160
<v Speaker 1>with our body is the more you can let go

0:44:00.640 --> 0:44:03.960
<v Speaker 1>and do less. The more you can feel inside of

0:44:04.000 --> 0:44:07.080
<v Speaker 1>your body, which is one of the you know, if

0:44:07.120 --> 0:44:09.640
<v Speaker 1>you can feel an area of your body, you can work,

0:44:09.880 --> 0:44:11.799
<v Speaker 1>you can learn to use the muscle in the area

0:44:11.840 --> 0:44:15.600
<v Speaker 1>of your body. So you have them laid down and

0:44:15.640 --> 0:44:21.200
<v Speaker 1>then um, it's different exercises, but I first always guide

0:44:21.200 --> 0:44:26.680
<v Speaker 1>people into a state of relaxation and feeling their breath. Again,

0:44:26.800 --> 0:44:29.480
<v Speaker 1>like with the where you can feel your breath in

0:44:29.480 --> 0:44:32.520
<v Speaker 1>your body, you can also feel more, especially in our

0:44:32.560 --> 0:44:34.320
<v Speaker 1>torso I mean it's like, well, yeah, I can feel

0:44:34.320 --> 0:44:36.279
<v Speaker 1>my toe or whatever, and I don't necessarily I'm not

0:44:36.280 --> 0:44:39.359
<v Speaker 1>necessarily breathing into my toe right now, But like in

0:44:39.520 --> 0:44:42.680
<v Speaker 1>the belly and in the pelvis, particularly, if I can

0:44:42.719 --> 0:44:46.080
<v Speaker 1>get people to start breathing into that area and feeling

0:44:46.080 --> 0:44:49.320
<v Speaker 1>their breath in that area, then there's a heightened sensing

0:44:49.880 --> 0:44:52.560
<v Speaker 1>and a heightened awareness, which then means that they have

0:44:52.640 --> 0:44:57.440
<v Speaker 1>more access to those muscles, both relaxing them and contracting

0:44:57.480 --> 0:45:00.880
<v Speaker 1>them working them. So what do you do that's different

0:45:01.000 --> 0:45:03.879
<v Speaker 1>is different from a traditional physical therapist. So I take

0:45:03.920 --> 0:45:07.400
<v Speaker 1>people more into a meditative um being able to guide

0:45:07.440 --> 0:45:12.480
<v Speaker 1>themselves in feeling and sensing and working their muscles. From

0:45:12.480 --> 0:45:16.680
<v Speaker 1>a place of embodiment. Do they do like reps? Like

0:45:17.000 --> 0:45:20.520
<v Speaker 1>you're literally like counting how many times? I don't count.

0:45:20.760 --> 0:45:25.440
<v Speaker 1>I usually will with different people. I'll do it until

0:45:25.480 --> 0:45:31.400
<v Speaker 1>I sense that they're um getting it, So repeat, repeat, repeat,

0:45:31.480 --> 0:45:33.920
<v Speaker 1>until I can feel that their body is actually getting

0:45:34.560 --> 0:45:36.440
<v Speaker 1>what's happening. I also do a lot of verbal check

0:45:36.520 --> 0:45:38.360
<v Speaker 1>in because it's such a like, you know, I can't

0:45:38.440 --> 0:45:41.600
<v Speaker 1>see their pelvic floor working, So I be like, okay,

0:45:41.600 --> 0:45:44.840
<v Speaker 1>I'll ask part you know, how did that feel? What?

0:45:45.040 --> 0:45:48.640
<v Speaker 1>Like what were you able to feel? Um? Does do

0:45:48.680 --> 0:45:51.640
<v Speaker 1>you feel your muscles? Also? You know cues in the

0:45:51.680 --> 0:45:53.600
<v Speaker 1>body of like did you feel any warmth? Do you

0:45:53.600 --> 0:45:55.879
<v Speaker 1>feel tingling? Do you feel a lot of times when

0:45:55.880 --> 0:45:58.040
<v Speaker 1>people use their muscles, it's just like a feeling of

0:45:58.080 --> 0:46:01.759
<v Speaker 1>spaciousness in that area. Um, But I don't know if

0:46:01.760 --> 0:46:03.560
<v Speaker 1>you experienced this after birth, but a lot of women

0:46:03.640 --> 0:46:06.960
<v Speaker 1>have like really no sensation down here, like kind of

0:46:07.000 --> 0:46:10.440
<v Speaker 1>a loss of or like almost like an empty feeling. Oh,

0:46:10.480 --> 0:46:13.200
<v Speaker 1>I don't even like I wasn't even alive, like I

0:46:13.280 --> 0:46:17.800
<v Speaker 1>just I mean, I was like in a diaper, uh

0:46:18.160 --> 0:46:21.879
<v Speaker 1>spring witch hazel on my vagina, Like I don't even know,

0:46:22.080 --> 0:46:24.360
<v Speaker 1>Like and I was waddling around and I was sitting

0:46:24.400 --> 0:46:27.640
<v Speaker 1>on like a doughnut, like it was horrible, and like

0:46:27.840 --> 0:46:31.360
<v Speaker 1>nobody told me. I mean maybe they did it. I

0:46:31.400 --> 0:46:34.160
<v Speaker 1>just didn't listen, but like, oh my god. All I

0:46:34.160 --> 0:46:37.279
<v Speaker 1>can remember is I had given birth. And it was

0:46:37.320 --> 0:46:39.040
<v Speaker 1>like maybe an hour later we had had the Golden

0:46:39.080 --> 0:46:41.239
<v Speaker 1>hour at theaters where I had like skin to skin

0:46:41.320 --> 0:46:43.000
<v Speaker 1>time with my son and my husband did and then

0:46:43.000 --> 0:46:47.040
<v Speaker 1>this lovely nurse like came and stood me up and

0:46:47.239 --> 0:46:50.279
<v Speaker 1>started walking me over to the toilet, and I just

0:46:50.280 --> 0:46:52.719
<v Speaker 1>started peeing all over the floor like I didn't even

0:46:52.719 --> 0:46:54.279
<v Speaker 1>make it there. She was like, wait, wait, wait, we

0:46:54.320 --> 0:46:56.200
<v Speaker 1>have to put in like a bucket thing or something.

0:46:56.280 --> 0:46:59.680
<v Speaker 1>And I didn't make it there. I just started peeing everywhere. Um,

0:46:59.800 --> 0:47:01.239
<v Speaker 1>and that's what I was like, oh my and I

0:47:01.239 --> 0:47:03.360
<v Speaker 1>couldn't feel anything. And I don't know if that was

0:47:03.400 --> 0:47:06.760
<v Speaker 1>the a dural or whatever it was, but I couldn't

0:47:06.800 --> 0:47:09.719
<v Speaker 1>feel anything. And I and then you are. And then

0:47:09.760 --> 0:47:11.560
<v Speaker 1>I continued being on the toilet and then this lovely

0:47:11.719 --> 0:47:14.760
<v Speaker 1>lady just started spraying down my private parts with water

0:47:15.000 --> 0:47:21.200
<v Speaker 1>because you can't wipe, and I was like, what's your name? So, yeah,

0:47:22.640 --> 0:47:24.759
<v Speaker 1>how long do you typically work? With a patient like

0:47:24.800 --> 0:47:27.640
<v Speaker 1>how long I mean you said you're your worst case,

0:47:27.680 --> 0:47:29.839
<v Speaker 1>like in four months you could even see some sort

0:47:29.880 --> 0:47:32.960
<v Speaker 1>of And how often were you seeing this person? Like

0:47:33.080 --> 0:47:35.160
<v Speaker 1>how often is it once a week? Because it will

0:47:35.160 --> 0:47:38.359
<v Speaker 1>see people once a week? Yeah, I do, UM, I

0:47:38.440 --> 0:47:42.480
<v Speaker 1>have I do have people who I see twice a week. Um.

0:47:42.520 --> 0:47:44.759
<v Speaker 1>A lot more improvement happens when I see people twice

0:47:44.800 --> 0:47:47.279
<v Speaker 1>a week. Yeah. But I find, you know, with the

0:47:47.280 --> 0:47:54.040
<v Speaker 1>postpartum schedule and you know everything, it's for people once

0:47:54.080 --> 0:47:56.520
<v Speaker 1>a week even sometimes once a week. It's really difficult

0:47:56.560 --> 0:48:00.480
<v Speaker 1>with you know, breastfeeding and everything. So UM, I recommend

0:48:00.480 --> 0:48:02.719
<v Speaker 1>twice a week if you really want to get you know,

0:48:02.760 --> 0:48:05.160
<v Speaker 1>because also it's hard to practice things on your own,

0:48:05.760 --> 0:48:09.280
<v Speaker 1>anything like any kind of discipline. With doing a new practice,

0:48:09.360 --> 0:48:11.799
<v Speaker 1>I find it's difficult without having someone they're telling you

0:48:11.840 --> 0:48:13.880
<v Speaker 1>what to do and holding the space for you. But

0:48:14.000 --> 0:48:17.359
<v Speaker 1>how long there is an appointment and then there's going

0:48:17.400 --> 0:48:19.239
<v Speaker 1>to be check in time like okay, what's going on?

0:48:19.280 --> 0:48:21.880
<v Speaker 1>What did you do last week? What are you anything

0:48:21.920 --> 0:48:24.760
<v Speaker 1>that's changed? You know? Um? And then time for practicing

0:48:24.760 --> 0:48:27.719
<v Speaker 1>and doing repetitions, and then based on where your progress is,

0:48:27.760 --> 0:48:31.440
<v Speaker 1>I'll add more. Um, you know, more exercises. How did

0:48:31.440 --> 0:48:35.400
<v Speaker 1>you get into this? Like what this is? So? Like?

0:48:35.480 --> 0:48:40.239
<v Speaker 1>How did you get here? Um? I kind of don't

0:48:40.280 --> 0:48:45.040
<v Speaker 1>even really know. No, I am did you have your

0:48:45.040 --> 0:48:50.360
<v Speaker 1>own public floor? No? No? Um, so I let's see

0:48:50.400 --> 0:48:54.960
<v Speaker 1>my whole life. I've been very embodied, very into my body,

0:48:55.280 --> 0:48:59.040
<v Speaker 1>feeling my body. I've always been a dancer and um,

0:48:59.200 --> 0:49:01.960
<v Speaker 1>when I moved to l A, I was intensity studying

0:49:02.360 --> 0:49:06.560
<v Speaker 1>yoga and tantra um not the kind of like tontra

0:49:06.640 --> 0:49:08.799
<v Speaker 1>that you think of, like you know, it's like a

0:49:08.800 --> 0:49:15.040
<v Speaker 1>class about having sex. But that's exactly where learn to

0:49:15.120 --> 0:49:18.000
<v Speaker 1>have really good sex now. But it does come with

0:49:18.040 --> 0:49:20.560
<v Speaker 1>pelvic floor health, doesn't it. It It does. That's the benefit

0:49:20.560 --> 0:49:23.280
<v Speaker 1>of the pelvis. If I go around with a Yoni

0:49:23.360 --> 0:49:27.000
<v Speaker 1>egg and my pelvic floor muscles get really strong, like

0:49:27.000 --> 0:49:30.080
<v Speaker 1>I'm going to have better orgasms? Is that just fact? Yeah?

0:49:30.160 --> 0:49:31.840
<v Speaker 1>Well the thing is so if you think about what

0:49:31.880 --> 0:49:36.120
<v Speaker 1>I've got here, it's true. Yeah, I mean definitely for sure, Yes,

0:49:36.239 --> 0:49:38.560
<v Speaker 1>for sure. I mean I've had people who you know,

0:49:38.600 --> 0:49:40.680
<v Speaker 1>I'm working with them on other things like in continents

0:49:40.680 --> 0:49:42.319
<v Speaker 1>and also and they're like, oh my god, I was

0:49:42.360 --> 0:49:44.319
<v Speaker 1>so not interested in having sex with my husband. And

0:49:44.320 --> 0:49:47.239
<v Speaker 1>then like we had the best sex ever, like you know,

0:49:47.400 --> 0:49:50.280
<v Speaker 1>so it happens, it's so collected. Okay. So that reason

0:49:50.400 --> 0:49:54.120
<v Speaker 1>being is that you're bringing by doing the exercises, you're

0:49:54.120 --> 0:49:58.000
<v Speaker 1>bringing more blood flow into your pelvic floor, into your vagina,

0:49:58.480 --> 0:50:03.319
<v Speaker 1>and so basically rectile tissue, like when tissue becomes erectile,

0:50:03.520 --> 0:50:06.279
<v Speaker 1>either the cltterest the clarter ist becomes erect or the

0:50:06.280 --> 0:50:10.279
<v Speaker 1>penis obviously there's more sensation in that area erectile. All

0:50:10.320 --> 0:50:12.600
<v Speaker 1>that is is there's more blood in the tissue. The

0:50:12.600 --> 0:50:17.320
<v Speaker 1>tissue gets erect from blood flow. So if you're having more,

0:50:17.480 --> 0:50:22.520
<v Speaker 1>if you're able to circulated are, then you're going to

0:50:22.680 --> 0:50:27.440
<v Speaker 1>have more exactly. So Okay, you studied, Okay, back it up,

0:50:29.760 --> 0:50:33.520
<v Speaker 1>we're not talking about tantra sex. What are we talking about? UM?

0:50:33.560 --> 0:50:38.359
<v Speaker 1>Talking about traditional like very tantras are really it's one

0:50:38.400 --> 0:50:42.480
<v Speaker 1>of the first religions from South India and so the

0:50:42.680 --> 0:50:47.799
<v Speaker 1>very old old practices which are based in UM. I mean,

0:50:47.800 --> 0:50:51.600
<v Speaker 1>obviously it makes your connection with another person or your

0:50:51.600 --> 0:50:54.960
<v Speaker 1>sexual connection with another person better, but the focus of

0:50:55.000 --> 0:50:59.120
<v Speaker 1>it being to learn how to circulate energy in your body. UM,

0:50:59.600 --> 0:51:04.080
<v Speaker 1>how did become that you specifically moved into pelvic floor.

0:51:05.000 --> 0:51:08.000
<v Speaker 1>So while I was doing that training, which I went

0:51:08.040 --> 0:51:10.799
<v Speaker 1>to India twice for and studied up you know, the

0:51:10.840 --> 0:51:13.439
<v Speaker 1>ostram with the guru and you know, learn all these

0:51:13.480 --> 0:51:16.840
<v Speaker 1>exercises that are you know, learned a lot of learned

0:51:16.880 --> 0:51:20.680
<v Speaker 1>exercises for doing UM basically what someone might call what

0:51:20.800 --> 0:51:23.279
<v Speaker 1>I what are my version of a keegel, but they're

0:51:23.360 --> 0:51:27.160
<v Speaker 1>much deeper and more deeply sensed, so not just like squeeze,

0:51:27.200 --> 0:51:30.200
<v Speaker 1>really squeeze realized, like not really thinking about it, but

0:51:30.320 --> 0:51:34.480
<v Speaker 1>really using the breath UM in coordination with the squeezing

0:51:34.520 --> 0:51:38.080
<v Speaker 1>and finding the different parts of the pelvic floor UM.

0:51:38.160 --> 0:51:40.960
<v Speaker 1>And so in conjunction, what I was doing at the

0:51:41.000 --> 0:51:43.920
<v Speaker 1>same time was I did a dula training UM, so

0:51:43.960 --> 0:51:48.080
<v Speaker 1>I started assisting women through childbirth. This is such a

0:51:48.360 --> 0:51:52.960
<v Speaker 1>I feel like one of the many topics that women

0:51:53.080 --> 0:51:57.960
<v Speaker 1>feel like embarrassed, ashamed, UM, uncomfortable to talk about A.

0:51:58.040 --> 0:52:00.880
<v Speaker 1>Is there any advice that you have for women and

0:52:00.920 --> 0:52:03.600
<v Speaker 1>how to talk about this stuff and how tom I'm

0:52:03.640 --> 0:52:06.880
<v Speaker 1>assuming it's all connected like that if you feel shamed,

0:52:06.880 --> 0:52:09.120
<v Speaker 1>you're probably it's going to be a harder road to

0:52:09.280 --> 0:52:13.319
<v Speaker 1>get better, because it's sounding like the holistic approaches that

0:52:13.360 --> 0:52:15.960
<v Speaker 1>it's all super connected. Is there any advice that you

0:52:16.000 --> 0:52:22.279
<v Speaker 1>would give to women who are struggling with incontinents who

0:52:22.760 --> 0:52:25.720
<v Speaker 1>may not even have babies yet, or struggling and haven't

0:52:25.719 --> 0:52:30.360
<v Speaker 1>seek out help. The biggest thing would just fed to

0:52:30.440 --> 0:52:34.360
<v Speaker 1>know that you're not alone and that it's very common.

0:52:35.000 --> 0:52:38.120
<v Speaker 1>And yeah, I mean, if you're having a hard time

0:52:38.760 --> 0:52:42.840
<v Speaker 1>talking about it, I would say, like, find another woman

0:52:43.040 --> 0:52:48.360
<v Speaker 1>friends to share with about first, just so like you know,

0:52:48.440 --> 0:52:51.040
<v Speaker 1>I think that for men because they don't usually I mean,

0:52:51.080 --> 0:52:53.880
<v Speaker 1>some men do have pelvic floor issues. That's definitely not

0:52:54.560 --> 0:52:58.120
<v Speaker 1>un you know, unseen, but I think women experience it

0:52:58.200 --> 0:53:01.920
<v Speaker 1>more more regularly, sure, And so finding a close friend

0:53:01.920 --> 0:53:03.880
<v Speaker 1>that you can talk to about it just to start

0:53:04.520 --> 0:53:08.280
<v Speaker 1>kind of sharing and getting it. You know, sharing helps

0:53:08.320 --> 0:53:10.760
<v Speaker 1>so much, being able to talk and have someone listen.

0:53:10.880 --> 0:53:15.600
<v Speaker 1>Do you find so much mental Like you said, the

0:53:16.040 --> 0:53:18.680
<v Speaker 1>shame part that it can be super connected and that's

0:53:18.680 --> 0:53:20.520
<v Speaker 1>why you have to get them to a meditative state

0:53:20.680 --> 0:53:23.279
<v Speaker 1>is a lot. What you do is sort of therapy

0:53:23.440 --> 0:53:26.400
<v Speaker 1>sometimes I do. It depends on the degree of openness

0:53:26.400 --> 0:53:29.200
<v Speaker 1>that the person has. I do find that people who

0:53:29.760 --> 0:53:35.879
<v Speaker 1>um can share more about what's going on will heal more.

0:53:36.000 --> 0:53:39.680
<v Speaker 1>Quickly because it's like every it is so connected, and

0:53:39.719 --> 0:53:43.840
<v Speaker 1>so if you are kind of putting your physical symptoms

0:53:43.880 --> 0:53:49.640
<v Speaker 1>separate from your emotional experience, um, it's like you're you're

0:53:49.680 --> 0:53:53.360
<v Speaker 1>more disconnected inside of yourself, Like you're kind of creating

0:53:53.400 --> 0:53:57.239
<v Speaker 1>a disjointedness and so not that you have to be like,

0:53:57.280 --> 0:53:59.399
<v Speaker 1>oh my god, I'm having these issues because I had

0:53:59.440 --> 0:54:01.480
<v Speaker 1>this feeling. You know, you don't have to like over

0:54:01.600 --> 0:54:05.359
<v Speaker 1>dramatize it, but UM, I find that if people are

0:54:05.480 --> 0:54:09.400
<v Speaker 1>more comfortable just like, oh, yeah, this is being honest

0:54:09.440 --> 0:54:11.880
<v Speaker 1>with themselves, like this was my experience, or this is

0:54:11.880 --> 0:54:14.239
<v Speaker 1>how I'm feeling, or I'm feeling horrible about this, or

0:54:14.280 --> 0:54:17.799
<v Speaker 1>I feel really regretful that this happened, or you know

0:54:17.880 --> 0:54:20.640
<v Speaker 1>that that you're going to have an easier time healing

0:54:20.719 --> 0:54:26.719
<v Speaker 1>because you're not bottling everything up inside. Yeah, what are

0:54:26.760 --> 0:54:30.680
<v Speaker 1>the exercises that you recommend people doing? So I always

0:54:30.719 --> 0:54:33.240
<v Speaker 1>work with the first thing I always work with people

0:54:33.239 --> 0:54:37.080
<v Speaker 1>on is breathing into their belly and learning how to

0:54:37.160 --> 0:54:42.080
<v Speaker 1>do uh what I call belly breathing or diaforgmatic breathing. UM.

0:54:42.200 --> 0:54:44.719
<v Speaker 1>So people breathe up into their chests and do very

0:54:44.760 --> 0:54:48.280
<v Speaker 1>shallow breathing. So I first teach people how to breathe

0:54:48.280 --> 0:54:52.880
<v Speaker 1>into their bellies and then use their abdominal muscles to exhale,

0:54:52.960 --> 0:54:55.560
<v Speaker 1>to like press their breath out. So you're both using

0:54:55.560 --> 0:54:59.800
<v Speaker 1>the abdominal muscles. You're also strengthening the diaphragm um with

0:55:00.080 --> 0:55:03.680
<v Speaker 1>just a muscle that's the primary muscle for your breathing

0:55:04.560 --> 0:55:08.560
<v Speaker 1>sits right underneath your rib cage. Um. You start there,

0:55:08.719 --> 0:55:13.160
<v Speaker 1>start there, and that exercise because you're using your abdominals

0:55:13.160 --> 0:55:17.839
<v Speaker 1>to exhale and really working up towards strongly using your

0:55:17.840 --> 0:55:22.680
<v Speaker 1>abdominals to exhale um, those muscles get strong. The abdominals

0:55:22.719 --> 0:55:26.200
<v Speaker 1>get strong without doing sit ups, So when you have diathesis,

0:55:26.320 --> 0:55:28.480
<v Speaker 1>you don't want to do sit ups or any kind

0:55:28.480 --> 0:55:33.320
<v Speaker 1>of crunches. It makes the separation worse. UM. So by

0:55:33.440 --> 0:55:39.680
<v Speaker 1>using the valley to breathe, you're you're strengthening the abdominal wall,

0:55:39.760 --> 0:55:43.840
<v Speaker 1>the transverse abdominous muscles um, which helps bring the rectus

0:55:43.840 --> 0:55:46.719
<v Speaker 1>abdominus closer or the six pack muscles closer together to

0:55:46.760 --> 0:55:50.480
<v Speaker 1>heal the game. By doing that breathing, you're you know

0:55:50.520 --> 0:55:53.640
<v Speaker 1>a lot of times right after labor, even if someone's

0:55:53.680 --> 0:55:56.759
<v Speaker 1>had a baby years before um. A lot of times

0:55:56.800 --> 0:55:59.480
<v Speaker 1>people can't feel their breath, like kind of pass their ribs.

0:56:00.120 --> 0:56:02.720
<v Speaker 1>So I start by helping people get their breath lower

0:56:02.760 --> 0:56:04.600
<v Speaker 1>and lower and lower until they can start to feel

0:56:04.640 --> 0:56:07.239
<v Speaker 1>their breath and they're actually in their pelvis or in

0:56:07.239 --> 0:56:11.280
<v Speaker 1>the pelvic floor. Whoa. And then once you can feel

0:56:11.280 --> 0:56:14.560
<v Speaker 1>that kind of expansion, so I think again of the jellyfish,

0:56:14.760 --> 0:56:17.799
<v Speaker 1>the expansion of the breath and the pelvic floor. Then

0:56:17.800 --> 0:56:22.000
<v Speaker 1>from there, it's like when you exhale without even contracting,

0:56:22.160 --> 0:56:24.040
<v Speaker 1>like you could try it right now, when you exhale,

0:56:24.520 --> 0:56:28.240
<v Speaker 1>you generally feel kind of like everything sinks or comes

0:56:28.280 --> 0:56:33.080
<v Speaker 1>closer together. Ye. Yeah, and that's the beginning of a contraction.

0:56:33.480 --> 0:56:37.440
<v Speaker 1>So contract actually means to squeeze, right, you do gentle

0:56:37.520 --> 0:56:40.719
<v Speaker 1>like breathing, opening up your pelvic floor, and then as

0:56:40.800 --> 0:56:44.279
<v Speaker 1>you exhale, you let all the breath go, including down there,

0:56:44.320 --> 0:56:46.560
<v Speaker 1>so then it comes and starts to come back together.

0:56:46.600 --> 0:56:49.200
<v Speaker 1>And then once you can start to feel the everything

0:56:49.280 --> 0:56:52.400
<v Speaker 1>kind of coming closer, oh, that's the beginning of the contraction.

0:56:52.480 --> 0:56:56.000
<v Speaker 1>So then from there begin to squeeze, and you want

0:56:56.040 --> 0:56:59.640
<v Speaker 1>to hold that squeeze through your whole exhale, and that's

0:57:00.560 --> 0:57:03.239
<v Speaker 1>doing it right now, guys doing it right now. So

0:57:03.360 --> 0:57:06.799
<v Speaker 1>learning to um doing these kinds of exercise, and you know,

0:57:06.840 --> 0:57:08.680
<v Speaker 1>and that's kind of the basic. Then I'll work with

0:57:08.719 --> 0:57:11.840
<v Speaker 1>different areas of pelvis, so more in the back muscles

0:57:11.840 --> 0:57:14.839
<v Speaker 1>of the pelvic floor, the vaginal muscles, and then up

0:57:14.840 --> 0:57:16.600
<v Speaker 1>in the front by the pubic bone or around like

0:57:16.640 --> 0:57:19.040
<v Speaker 1>the clutters, because they're all different, and yet here we

0:57:19.080 --> 0:57:21.560
<v Speaker 1>are like I can't feel the difference, really, you know

0:57:21.600 --> 0:57:23.360
<v Speaker 1>what I mean? For me, I'm I'm definitely one of

0:57:23.400 --> 0:57:26.000
<v Speaker 1>those cases of a person who's like, oh, it's just squeeze, release, squeeze,

0:57:26.160 --> 0:57:29.800
<v Speaker 1>you know, like it's not like varying areas of stuff

0:57:29.840 --> 0:57:33.480
<v Speaker 1>down there. You know. I just got my first period

0:57:33.600 --> 0:57:38.560
<v Speaker 1>back after having a baby, which because I've been breastfeeding,

0:57:38.600 --> 0:57:40.440
<v Speaker 1>your body goes into a menopausal state and you don't

0:57:40.480 --> 0:57:42.120
<v Speaker 1>get your period for a long time. So I'll be's

0:57:42.120 --> 0:57:44.520
<v Speaker 1>almost eight months and I just got my first period.

0:57:44.560 --> 0:57:45.960
<v Speaker 1>So it was my first time I ever like using

0:57:45.960 --> 0:57:49.760
<v Speaker 1>a tampon um, which I was so scared to do

0:57:49.880 --> 0:57:54.360
<v Speaker 1>because my group of mom girls, um my swim club,

0:57:54.880 --> 0:57:57.520
<v Speaker 1>they all are there, my group of mommies, and they

0:57:57.560 --> 0:57:59.120
<v Speaker 1>were all saying, oh God, wait till you get your

0:57:59.160 --> 0:58:02.800
<v Speaker 1>first period, it is not fun. And they allowed them

0:58:02.800 --> 0:58:05.000
<v Speaker 1>had already gotten it, so I was like ready and

0:58:05.080 --> 0:58:07.320
<v Speaker 1>I got it. And I have to say the tampon

0:58:07.480 --> 0:58:10.320
<v Speaker 1>was fine, but I do think something might be happening

0:58:10.320 --> 0:58:12.720
<v Speaker 1>in the pelvic floor because I was walking around with

0:58:12.760 --> 0:58:15.120
<v Speaker 1>it and it was like kind of falling out and

0:58:15.160 --> 0:58:18.560
<v Speaker 1>I've never had that happen before. Is that a thing?

0:58:19.400 --> 0:58:24.760
<v Speaker 1>I mean, yeah, great, Like I remember walking like halfway

0:58:24.800 --> 0:58:26.120
<v Speaker 1>down the street and being like, oh my god, I

0:58:26.120 --> 0:58:27.760
<v Speaker 1>think my tampon is like halfway out, and I know,

0:58:27.880 --> 0:58:30.600
<v Speaker 1>like I put it in really well. But so is

0:58:30.640 --> 0:58:33.080
<v Speaker 1>that a case of like your pelvic floor muscles are

0:58:33.120 --> 0:58:37.320
<v Speaker 1>not able to hold up because of the trauma, stretched out,

0:58:37.760 --> 0:58:40.600
<v Speaker 1>not necessarily from the trauma, but they're some more stretched

0:58:40.640 --> 0:58:43.840
<v Speaker 1>out and they're not like holding squeezing it. Except when

0:58:43.840 --> 0:58:45.360
<v Speaker 1>I have sex with my husband he says it feels

0:58:45.400 --> 0:58:48.200
<v Speaker 1>the same. I'm just going on records saying, well, that's great,

0:58:49.480 --> 0:58:54.080
<v Speaker 1>And I asked the vagina is a mystery, you guys,

0:58:55.400 --> 0:59:00.720
<v Speaker 1>It is really insane, Like I don't so, but what

0:59:00.760 --> 0:59:03.400
<v Speaker 1>you could try is, have you ever heard of the

0:59:03.520 --> 0:59:07.720
<v Speaker 1>Diva cup? Explain this to me. So it's a little

0:59:07.800 --> 0:59:11.520
<v Speaker 1>like silicon cup that you put up there period, right,

0:59:11.640 --> 0:59:14.720
<v Speaker 1>So it's like round, like you know, maybe like an

0:59:14.720 --> 0:59:18.080
<v Speaker 1>inch diameter, and you fold it in half and hold

0:59:18.120 --> 0:59:20.760
<v Speaker 1>it again and then you vagina and you make sure

0:59:20.800 --> 0:59:23.680
<v Speaker 1>there's like a section so that it's you know, um.

0:59:23.720 --> 0:59:26.600
<v Speaker 1>And they have different sizes, so they have a size

0:59:26.640 --> 0:59:29.400
<v Speaker 1>for um before you've had a baby and then for

0:59:29.480 --> 0:59:30.840
<v Speaker 1>after you've had a baby. And the one that for

0:59:31.000 --> 0:59:33.840
<v Speaker 1>after you had a baby is bigger because the vagina

0:59:35.160 --> 0:59:38.280
<v Speaker 1>is bigger. I don't know, maybe maybe, And and you know,

0:59:38.400 --> 0:59:40.840
<v Speaker 1>it is a vaginal canal, so there's different parts of it.

0:59:40.880 --> 0:59:43.360
<v Speaker 1>There's the opening, there's the middle, there's the backup by

0:59:43.360 --> 0:59:46.840
<v Speaker 1>your cervix. Maybe Adams just trying to be so well no,

0:59:47.000 --> 0:59:49.840
<v Speaker 1>I mean it could be it could be more. It

0:59:49.840 --> 0:59:52.640
<v Speaker 1>could be more open or tight in different parts of

0:59:52.640 --> 0:59:55.360
<v Speaker 1>the vagina. And maybe that's what he's feeling, and that

0:59:55.520 --> 0:59:58.200
<v Speaker 1>maybe like more the opening of your vagina. Everyone's loving

0:59:58.240 --> 1:00:01.280
<v Speaker 1>this diva cup. Yeah, so you put it up there

1:00:01.320 --> 1:00:05.919
<v Speaker 1>and it holds your period. And then do people who

1:00:05.960 --> 1:00:07.640
<v Speaker 1>come to see you are some of them in pain

1:00:07.680 --> 1:00:11.080
<v Speaker 1>when they have to insert tampons? Is that? Oh my god?

1:00:11.240 --> 1:00:14.080
<v Speaker 1>Being a girl is so insane. I mean, I'm sorry

1:00:14.080 --> 1:00:16.800
<v Speaker 1>for the few men that you also see that have problems,

1:00:16.840 --> 1:00:20.919
<v Speaker 1>but it sounds like it's mostly women, and it's just yeah,

1:00:20.960 --> 1:00:24.520
<v Speaker 1>it's like it is insane. Yes, Like I can't tell

1:00:24.560 --> 1:00:27.680
<v Speaker 1>you how many times it happens to me now where

1:00:27.720 --> 1:00:30.640
<v Speaker 1>I if I feel a sneeze coming on and I

1:00:30.680 --> 1:00:33.360
<v Speaker 1>haven't emptied my bladder in like a little bit of

1:00:33.560 --> 1:00:35.720
<v Speaker 1>you know, like I p every one or two hours whatever,

1:00:35.800 --> 1:00:39.120
<v Speaker 1>But like if I if it's you know, been three

1:00:39.160 --> 1:00:40.800
<v Speaker 1>or four hours, I'm gone to bathman I sneeze, Like,

1:00:40.840 --> 1:00:43.240
<v Speaker 1>I definitely p a little bit and I definitely have

1:00:43.240 --> 1:00:47.200
<v Speaker 1>to go change my underwear. Like what a bummer. And

1:00:47.200 --> 1:00:48.680
<v Speaker 1>I'm not even and I think I want to have

1:00:48.720 --> 1:00:52.040
<v Speaker 1>another kid maybe, so like what, oh, that's a good question.

1:00:52.120 --> 1:00:56.040
<v Speaker 1>Is it worth getting it back before you're thinking about

1:00:56.040 --> 1:00:57.760
<v Speaker 1>having another baby or is it just like blow the

1:00:57.760 --> 1:01:00.200
<v Speaker 1>whole thing out and come see you later. It's kind

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<v Speaker 1>of you know, it's kind of like for the women

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<v Speaker 1>who are more physically fit, they're going to have an

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<v Speaker 1>easier time afterwards. So it's the same thing you want

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<v Speaker 1>to work to get it. I mean, unless you're having kids,

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<v Speaker 1>like right off the after the other, it's better if

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<v Speaker 1>you work on strengthening before you have another baby. Um.

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<v Speaker 1>Generally it's more difficult after a second baby. It's just

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<v Speaker 1>you know, more stretching more. So it's better if you

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<v Speaker 1>can do some work on it before having a second baby.

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<v Speaker 1>So fascinating. Are there other things that you recommend besides

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<v Speaker 1>the Yoni egg that like? Um, I tell people to

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<v Speaker 1>practice so with the you know, we'll work with the

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<v Speaker 1>different areas of the pelvic floor, but when we're working

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<v Speaker 1>with the vaginal canal, I work with feeling being able

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<v Speaker 1>to squeeze in the different parts of the vaginal canal,

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<v Speaker 1>which for most people is really really difficult to feel. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>the opening okay, by your cervix, you know, it's it's challenging.

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<v Speaker 1>And so what I tell people to do is to

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<v Speaker 1>get some kind of a dildo or like a wand

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<v Speaker 1>they have really nice you know, like you get like

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<v Speaker 1>a crystal want you know, so to you is that

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<v Speaker 1>just insert it and then squeeze against that to be

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<v Speaker 1>able to feel the different like, okay, now I'm squeezing

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<v Speaker 1>this wand towards the top. Now I'm squeezing it towards

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<v Speaker 1>the bottom, and is there even a middle? Good Lord,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean exactly, and people can do that, yes, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean that's how I started learning all this stuff

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<v Speaker 1>because that was what that was one of my that

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<v Speaker 1>was one of my country yoga exercises. So um yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>And the reason being it's like, you know, you can

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<v Speaker 1>do air push ups right, or you can do like

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<v Speaker 1>a push up against the wall or the floor, and

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<v Speaker 1>you're going to feel your muscles a lot more when

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<v Speaker 1>you have that resistance suppress against the same thing inside

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<v Speaker 1>of your vagina, which is even even if you're not

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<v Speaker 1>working on trying to find the different locations, even just

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<v Speaker 1>to field the squeeze, that's going to help. And you're like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>I can feel my vagina squeezing because I can feel

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<v Speaker 1>it pushing against something. Yeah, so that helps build your

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<v Speaker 1>muscles strong, like you're going to have a little bit

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<v Speaker 1>quicker of a of access rate with that. So that's

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<v Speaker 1>one of the things I tell people to do. There's

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<v Speaker 1>also um the LVY. It looks kind of like a

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<v Speaker 1>unique I mean, it's not like a stone, but it's

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<v Speaker 1>around thing that you put inside and it has an

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<v Speaker 1>app where you can test, like it'll test like your

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<v Speaker 1>strength level. Is there any other things you want to

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<v Speaker 1>touch upon or yeah, I mean, I would say, just

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<v Speaker 1>started talking about it with your friends, like, just get

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<v Speaker 1>the conversation going. And because we are not alone. You're

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<v Speaker 1>not alone and you know it, and and there was

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of women don't even know yet that there's

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<v Speaker 1>people that they can see and exercises that they can do.

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<v Speaker 1>And if your girlfriend hasn't experiences, she's not, I'm sure

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<v Speaker 1>she'd be interested or probably knows other people. So I

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<v Speaker 1>would just encourage everyone to start talking about it and sharing.

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<v Speaker 1>And the more you talk, the more you know, the

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<v Speaker 1>more that collectively people can get help and heal and

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<v Speaker 1>not have to live their lives paying in their pants. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>having pains and enjoying sex more, enjoying sax feeling actually

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<v Speaker 1>you know, just helps with connectivity to yourself feeling more.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, you put so much energy into your baby,

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<v Speaker 1>it's like it's a it's huge self care and giving

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<v Speaker 1>your own body attention that your body really craves and needs.

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<v Speaker 1>So amazing. Thank you so much, thank you. That's all

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<v Speaker 1>we've got for you for this episode. I can't wait

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<v Speaker 1>for you guys to hear what's next. Thanks for listening

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