WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Glad You Didn't Die

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, we got a brand new episode for you today

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<v Speaker 1>on your second Day podcast. Thanks for being here.

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<v Speaker 2>We do need to reflect on our podcast last week.

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<v Speaker 1>The episode what was it called Love at First height?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>The two tall people?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah what six six wasn't tall?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>For her basically, Yeah, dude, it's just wild. Where is

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<v Speaker 1>she choosing these? I don't know finding them? What a

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<v Speaker 1>niche thing?

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<v Speaker 3>You have to date basketball players around the world?

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<v Speaker 6>Yes?

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<v Speaker 1>And what are people saying in the comments?

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<v Speaker 7>Joe said, inflation getting so bad?

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<v Speaker 1>Six six.

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<v Speaker 7>Said, sorry, I can't imagine this mindset because my type

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<v Speaker 7>is actually shorter guys that are around my height.

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<v Speaker 1>That's right, you're getting I've always been a medium guy,

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<v Speaker 1>So shorter guys. I'm with her.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, you know, imagine the coffin size. They need to

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<v Speaker 7>be buried. Where was your head at?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, anyway, talking about it?

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<v Speaker 3>Do you have to buy you?

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<v Speaker 1>He's done on comments, done on comments. Okay, here we go.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's get to your brand new episode.

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<v Speaker 2>It starts right now, Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning

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<v Speaker 2>Second date updates.

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<v Speaker 3>A little behind the scenes secret here.

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<v Speaker 8>When we do these second date updates, it's Brook and

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<v Speaker 8>Jeffrey in the Morning our producer takes a lot of

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<v Speaker 8>time to coordinate these calls with the listeners.

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<v Speaker 2>Is that a secret, because I'm pretty sure anyone that

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<v Speaker 2>meets him he complains about it.

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<v Speaker 8>He's very, very stressed out. Yes, because he's trying to

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<v Speaker 8>help these people.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, and don't know how much work.

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<v Speaker 3>This is today's caller.

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<v Speaker 8>His name is Charles, has been booked six different times

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<v Speaker 8>to do this over the past two weeks, has not

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<v Speaker 8>answered the phone for five of them.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, from a weird numbers he requested this.

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<v Speaker 8>Yeah, he scheduled these calls and he wasn't answering.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe we know why he's not getting a second date.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 8>Maybe, But he's finally on the phone with us on

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<v Speaker 8>the sixth try.

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<v Speaker 3>Wow, at least he was. Hopefully he hasn't hung up already. Charles,

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<v Speaker 3>Are you still there?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah? I've just had second thoughts about during this more

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<v Speaker 4>than once, but today I just felt like I finally

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<v Speaker 4>had the courage to go through with it.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, And.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm guessing this has been the same person all six

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<v Speaker 2>times we've tried.

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<v Speaker 4>To call you, right, good question, it's the same girl. Okay,

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<v Speaker 4>Thank's Maggie.

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<v Speaker 1>And at this point, how long ago. Did you meet her.

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<v Speaker 4>It's been probably three weeks.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay.

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<v Speaker 4>I was with a buddy who was getting a tattoo

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<v Speaker 4>and she was the tattoo artist.

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<v Speaker 1>There is something real sexy about tattoo artists.

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<v Speaker 4>So I was in the waiting area and I could

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<v Speaker 4>see her do her work for like half an hour,

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<v Speaker 4>and she was so beautiful.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, did you have any interaction with her? Did you

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<v Speaker 2>just stare at her.

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<v Speaker 3>With your mouth open, just.

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<v Speaker 1>No direction? You talked to her?

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<v Speaker 4>Sorry, I was just thinking about Maggie.

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<v Speaker 8>You sent him right back to that moment, watching her

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<v Speaker 8>work her magic on his arm.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, So after they were done, I'm I'm kind of

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<v Speaker 4>a shy person, but I asked her out by writing

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<v Speaker 4>my phone number on the back of my buddy's receipt

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<v Speaker 4>with a message that said I think you're cute, but

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<v Speaker 4>I spelt you're you are that.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, it was you and not your friend.

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<v Speaker 3>That was a strong move.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh that's a good point, Alexis because it was on

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<v Speaker 1>your friend's receipt.

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<v Speaker 3>Actually that's yeah, yeah, I think about that.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, but I gave it to her, so I was

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<v Speaker 4>hoping she knew it was for me.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, Okay, did she contact you?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, she texted me and she agreed to get dinner together.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, wow, okay, so she saw something she liked too.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, that you are.

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<v Speaker 1>They turned it on they met him.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh well whatever, it was good work.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, what were you feeling going into the state.

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<v Speaker 4>I was excited. I was a little nervous, and I

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<v Speaker 4>picked a restaurant that was close to her apartment to

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<v Speaker 4>make her feel like I was thinking about her.

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<v Speaker 2>That's good to tell you where her apartment was, Thank you, jose.

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<v Speaker 3>How did you know where she lived?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, it was by the tattoo shops and she said

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<v Speaker 4>she kind of lives close to there.

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<v Speaker 3>So okay, that's good. A vague comment.

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<v Speaker 1>That's good. Okay. So what was it like you meet

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<v Speaker 1>her and what happens?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, so I picked her up, and I think there

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<v Speaker 4>was a miscommunication about the time, so I ended up

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<v Speaker 4>being a little late by like I don't know, fifteen minutes,

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<v Speaker 4>but it was fine, fifteen minutes late.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, the world already anyways.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, yeah, all right, she comes out and we walked

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<v Speaker 4>to the restaurant together, and you know, there's like really

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<v Speaker 4>loud restaurants with everybody talking. Yeah, well this was just

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<v Speaker 4>not that it was really quiet, so people could hear

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<v Speaker 4>a lot.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh no, the opposite. I hate that.

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<v Speaker 2>Ye did that make were you like Alexis? Did that

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<v Speaker 2>make you uncomfortable?

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<v Speaker 4>It kind of did, because she was just even prettier

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<v Speaker 4>than the first time I saw her. And there were

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<v Speaker 4>times where I just caught myself just staring at her

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<v Speaker 4>and then there was a silence, and then I was

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<v Speaker 4>only a couple of feet away and I just had

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<v Speaker 4>to snap out of it.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it sounds like you that trance mode often.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, Okay, let's start calling her now because I feel

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<v Speaker 2>like there's gonna be a lot more positive.

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<v Speaker 8>I think we need to do like an alarm sound

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<v Speaker 8>to get his attention back.

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<v Speaker 4>So sorry, sorry, I needed myself.

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<v Speaker 8>Yeah, Charles, Okay, so there are times you're in the

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<v Speaker 8>restaurant you were so enamored by her stunning beauty that

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<v Speaker 8>you didn't even have words.

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<v Speaker 3>You were just staring at her.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>So, I don't know if I may have come across

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<v Speaker 4>as a boring person, which sucks, but maybe that's why

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<v Speaker 4>she hasn't answered. And I mean, I'm sure she meets

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<v Speaker 4>a lot of cool guys that come into the tatch

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<v Speaker 4>to your shop.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, but I bet, I bet you're right.

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<v Speaker 2>I bet she gets asked out a lot, but I

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<v Speaker 2>bet she doesn't say yes very often.

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<v Speaker 8>Yeah, those are like tattooed muscle guys aren't writing you

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<v Speaker 8>are on their receipts like you do.

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<v Speaker 7>Bro, that's cute friends receipt it's not their own.

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<v Speaker 3>He didn't exactly.

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<v Speaker 8>Yeah, you're unique, and I bet she appreciates that. So

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<v Speaker 8>tell us how the day ended.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, the most embarrassing part was the walk back to

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<v Speaker 4>her apartment. I was kind of looking at her and

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<v Speaker 4>I almost got hit by a car and oh what honked?

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<v Speaker 4>Really loud? They honked so loud.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, trying to startle you to get out of the way.

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<v Speaker 1>You didn't get hit.

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<v Speaker 4>No, no, Well, the last thing she said to me

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<v Speaker 4>was I'm glad you didn't die, which I thought was

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<v Speaker 4>kind of sweet.

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<v Speaker 8>Oh yeah, it's better than I wish you had died.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, so it's better than that.

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<v Speaker 1>Dang it that car missed.

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<v Speaker 8>So maybe it's not the way that you wanted the

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<v Speaker 8>date to go when you envisioned it in your head.

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<v Speaker 3>But there's a chance we can save this.

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<v Speaker 1>You're probably not.

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<v Speaker 2>A boring guy, right, You got lots of cool stuff

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<v Speaker 2>going on in your life.

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<v Speaker 4>You got quirks, yeah, period.

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<v Speaker 3>I believe that.

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<v Speaker 8>So to think about it, let's call Maggie here in

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<v Speaker 8>a minute and show her just how exciting and cool

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<v Speaker 8>and awesome of the person you really are.

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<v Speaker 1>Boring people don't call radio stations.

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<v Speaker 3>No on the cream of the crop the coolest people.

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<v Speaker 8>So we're gonna come back, call Maggie and try to

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<v Speaker 8>get you your second date update right after this.

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<v Speaker 1>Broke and Jeffrey in the morning. Second date update.

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<v Speaker 8>Quick recap if you're just joining us because I don't

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<v Speaker 8>want to lose Charles again like we have multiple times

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<v Speaker 8>in the past. Is he met a tattoo artist named Maggie,

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<v Speaker 8>asked her out to a restaurant, and picked her up

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<v Speaker 8>at her apartment a little bit late, but it was okay,

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<v Speaker 8>according to him.

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<v Speaker 1>So I have a theory that he's spaced out in

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<v Speaker 1>traffic a couple times.

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<v Speaker 2>I didn't think about that, but that's probably why I

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<v Speaker 2>almost got hit by a car.

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<v Speaker 8>Yeah, and it went through like four cycles before he

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<v Speaker 8>finally decided to go on green. But the awkward part,

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<v Speaker 8>he says, aside from the moments when he just caught

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<v Speaker 8>himself staring at her was when he almost got hit

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<v Speaker 8>by a car on the walk home.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that's the one. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 8>And the last words that she told him before they

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<v Speaker 8>went separate ways was well, I'm glad you didn't die.

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<v Speaker 3>Mm, which is kind of sweet, I mean, endearing. So

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<v Speaker 3>it's been three weeks since that date.

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<v Speaker 2>And that's because he hasn't answered our producer's call to

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<v Speaker 2>come on this show.

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<v Speaker 8>This call is two weeks in the making, and the

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<v Speaker 8>longer we wait, the more awkward this is going to be.

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<v Speaker 3>So we better just make this call. Charles, are you

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<v Speaker 3>still on the phone?

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<v Speaker 4>First of all, yeah, I just I hope I didn't

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<v Speaker 4>blow it.

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<v Speaker 1>It's okay if you did. That's our job is to

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<v Speaker 1>give you another shot.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, yeah, I hope.

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<v Speaker 3>So so let's do this. I'm going to down the

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<v Speaker 3>number right now. Here we go. Hello, Hey, Maggie, is

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<v Speaker 3>this Maggie?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah? Who's this?

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<v Speaker 3>Okay?

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<v Speaker 1>Really aggressive? Jeff Sorry I realized, Maggie.

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<v Speaker 8>Sorry I realized I was screaming. No, this is a

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<v Speaker 8>radio show. We're called Brook and Jeffrey in the morning.

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<v Speaker 3>Hi, Maggie, good morning.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, I'm sorry.

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<v Speaker 4>Why are you calling me?

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<v Speaker 8>We've actually been waiting two weeks to make this call.

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<v Speaker 8>Believe it or not, it sounds worse.

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<v Speaker 1>It's not your fault.

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<v Speaker 8>Yeah, it's from a listener that you went on a

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<v Speaker 8>date with a guy named Charles.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh oh oh okay, I'm sorry.

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<v Speaker 4>This is a little weird.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, yeah, we know, I get back.

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<v Speaker 2>Do you remember Charles because you went out three weeks

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<v Speaker 2>ago it's been a minute.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, I remember him?

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<v Speaker 4>What is im?

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<v Speaker 8>Why is that?

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<v Speaker 4>What does it have to do with you guys calling me?

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<v Speaker 8>So what we're doing now is called a second date update,

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<v Speaker 8>trying to help Charles figure out if there's a chance.

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<v Speaker 3>That maybe the two of you could see each.

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<v Speaker 8>Other again, or if not, if there was something he

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<v Speaker 8>did wrong on the date that made you lose interest.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, that's a good pivot, because that was a weird pause.

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<v Speaker 5>It wasn't like one thing, it was just it was,

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<v Speaker 5>honestly just kind of a weird date. Okay, okay, Yeah, Like,

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<v Speaker 5>for example, he was supposed to pick me up from

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<v Speaker 5>my apartment, and like we agreed on a time and

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<v Speaker 5>I was like waiting there, it's like he's five minutes,

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<v Speaker 5>Like he's fifteen minutes late. I look outside my window

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<v Speaker 5>and he's just like standing outside on the sidewalk.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh wait, he's there the whole time.

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<v Speaker 5>I don't know how long he was there, but it

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<v Speaker 5>like he was just waiting outside, like he hadn't like

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<v Speaker 5>texted or said hey I'm here or anything. So finally

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<v Speaker 5>I called him and I was like, hey, are you here?

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<v Speaker 5>And he says, yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe you outside, like right when he got.

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<v Speaker 5>Even when I was like, hey, you didn't tell me

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<v Speaker 5>that you're here, and his response was, well, I was

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<v Speaker 5>just hoping you'd see me.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, it's kind of funny. Going up the doors is

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<v Speaker 1>like answering phones. I hate it. Okay, yeah, but honestly.

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<v Speaker 8>The bottom line is you did eventually go outside and

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<v Speaker 8>meet him and go out on the date.

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<v Speaker 4>We know that appened.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 5>I went down and you know, we walked to the

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<v Speaker 5>restaurant and he, you know, he was really polite. He

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<v Speaker 5>asked me a question. I answered his question, and then

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<v Speaker 5>it was just like silence. Yeah, And I was like,

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<v Speaker 5>I literally was like, do I need to reboot this guy?

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<v Speaker 5>What is going on?

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<v Speaker 8>Or maybe it was something about the question and the

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<v Speaker 8>answer that really threw him for a loop.

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<v Speaker 5>He said, what color are your eyes?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh?

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<v Speaker 1>Looking at you?

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<v Speaker 5>It just was like an immediate conversation stopper. It's like

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<v Speaker 5>I didn't want to be like what color yours? Because

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<v Speaker 5>I looked at him.

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<v Speaker 3>Conversation chemistry.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, you know, like it's the very beginning of the day.

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<v Speaker 2>He's a shy guy, which you had to have gotten

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<v Speaker 2>that vibe before you even said yes to him, right,

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<v Speaker 2>So yeah.

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<v Speaker 5>I got quiet, But again I'm like giving him a chance.

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<v Speaker 5>We get to the restaurant and like sit down, and

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<v Speaker 5>the first thing he tells the waitress is like she

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<v Speaker 5>comes to the table and he just immediately starts apologizing

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<v Speaker 5>for like taking up space.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh I'm sorry, Like I'm sorry, we're here.

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<v Speaker 8>Does the air cost money because I'll happily pay to

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<v Speaker 8>breathe the same air?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah. Yeah, And I don't mind shy, but it's like

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<v Speaker 5>no confidence is a little hard for me.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 8>Well, sometimes they say, like the best relationships are when

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<v Speaker 8>you can just sit in total silence and say nothing

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<v Speaker 8>to each other.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 5>The keyword there is comfortable silent.

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<v Speaker 3>I hear you.

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<v Speaker 8>You don't want him to be silent, and we're not

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<v Speaker 8>going to let him be silent anymore because he has

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<v Speaker 8>been quietly listening in on.

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<v Speaker 3>This phone call I do need to let you know.

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<v Speaker 3>Wait yeah, yeah, waiting to talk to you.

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<v Speaker 5>Are you serious?

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I am.

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<v Speaker 5>Wow, feeling a little set up here.

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<v Speaker 1>Sorry about that, but that's just I would do something

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<v Speaker 1>like that.

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<v Speaker 3>No, I'm the shy.

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<v Speaker 8>Boy, Charles, Charles is the masculine guy.

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<v Speaker 6>Go ahead, Charles, all right, Charles answered, I'm I'm I'm

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<v Speaker 6>really am.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm really sorry about this whole thing. I just couldn't

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<v Speaker 4>do it myself, and so I I will say, I

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<v Speaker 4>only apologize for the space thing because we were two

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<v Speaker 4>people taking up before person table.

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<v Speaker 2>Something that okay there.

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<v Speaker 5>But the restaurant it was literally half empty.

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<v Speaker 8>So yeah, probably because they were looking in they're like,

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<v Speaker 8>oh wow, that table that they're sitting.

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<v Speaker 3>At, that guy's got energy. He's gonna need space. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>I can't go in there.

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<v Speaker 5>I just thought it was a little weird. And then

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<v Speaker 5>like you asked the waitress if they outsourced their napkins.

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<v Speaker 5>It just it felt like you were like trying not

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<v Speaker 5>to talk to me. Uh.

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<v Speaker 4>I was just trying to make small talk and and.

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<v Speaker 1>He's not very good at it.

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<v Speaker 8>Yeah, but I think she's saying, if you're going to

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<v Speaker 8>make small talk, maybe make small talk with the person

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<v Speaker 8>you're on a date with, not with the waitress.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh yeah, I just I felt like we're trying to

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<v Speaker 5>like look at anything else at me or talk.

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<v Speaker 4>To anybody else with me.

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<v Speaker 5>Hello.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, like this is kind of what I'm talking about.

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<v Speaker 1>Was such a good description.

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<v Speaker 3>Unplug and plug him back in.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I don't know. I think you're so beautiful that

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<v Speaker 4>sometimes I just find myself staring and earlier when the

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<v Speaker 4>radio people were asking me questions about you, I just

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<v Speaker 4>kind of zoned out because I was thinking about you

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<v Speaker 4>and your beauty and me being with you and.

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<v Speaker 5>That, I mean, that's very sweet. I guess I think

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<v Speaker 5>I'm just I don't normally meet guys like you.

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<v Speaker 1>That's not a bad thing.

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<v Speaker 4>Thanks, if you didn't have to say that.

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<v Speaker 8>I feel like we've reached the point in this really

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<v Speaker 8>riveting conversation for me to jump in real quick and

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<v Speaker 8>ask if Maggie you'd be interested in going out on

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<v Speaker 8>another date.

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<v Speaker 3>With Charles, and if you were, we would pay for it.

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<v Speaker 5>Look, I think Charles that you're very sweet, very nice.

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<v Speaker 5>I don't really think our person analities are very aligned,

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<v Speaker 5>Like I just I think we're really different. But I

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<v Speaker 5>do think you're a nice guy, and I do have

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<v Speaker 5>a younger sisters single. She's very cute. She's way more

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<v Speaker 5>introverted than me. You guys might be like a better match.

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<v Speaker 1>That's a cute idea.

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<v Speaker 8>What do you think about that, Charles going out with

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<v Speaker 8>Maggie's younger cute sister.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, but don't you think that would be awkward?

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<v Speaker 1>It wouldn't award. I don't think she thinks that, not

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<v Speaker 1>for me.

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<v Speaker 5>I don't know how would it be awkward for you?

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<v Speaker 4>Like I Thanksgiving, I'm just staring at you all through dinner.

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<v Speaker 1>No, No, you're the one that's making it weird. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it's stop staring.

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<v Speaker 5>Well, she does look like me, so hopefully you're staring

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<v Speaker 5>at her. And Thanksgiving is a long ways away, so you.

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<v Speaker 1>Know she's given you a lot of grace this.

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<v Speaker 4>Uh uh okay, Okay, all.

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<v Speaker 8>Right, okay, So I think we're paying a date now

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<v Speaker 8>for Charles to go out with Maggie's younger sisters.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, more introverted sister, hopefully.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh my god, Charles, I will do this for you.

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<v Speaker 5>But this is like one chance, okay.

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<v Speaker 1>And you can't wait three weeks to call her?

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Follow up?

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, I can do it.

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<v Speaker 1>You can do it, okay, Okay, and you're excited.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm excited, all right, all right in a bad way.

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<v Speaker 3>But does he kind of suck energy out of the room?

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<v Speaker 1>Good way of that?

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<v Speaker 4>I'm just thinking, I just think a lot.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, yeah, that's my back because I never think so.

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<v Speaker 1>That's probably why you are literally the opposite of Hosy.

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<v Speaker 4>You are. Thank you so much, Brook and Jeffrey in

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<v Speaker 4>the morning.

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<v Speaker 3>You know what, that call was two weeks in the making.

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<v Speaker 8>We went through a lot of ups and downs, probably

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<v Speaker 8>more downs than ups, if we're being honest. But at

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<v Speaker 8>the end of the day, I think we should all

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<v Speaker 8>be proud of Charles.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, it took him a lot to fester up the

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<v Speaker 3>confidence just to call up.

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<v Speaker 2>He's getting a lot of dates, by the way, with

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<v Speaker 2>attractive women.

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<v Speaker 8>But he's he's clearly a guy who's not comfortable speaking

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<v Speaker 8>to people one on one.

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<v Speaker 3>Let alone on a national radio show. But he took

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<v Speaker 3>a risk.

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<v Speaker 8>He put himself out there for this, and what do

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<v Speaker 8>you know, it paid off. He got a secondary date

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<v Speaker 8>with the girl's sister.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, imagine just put it out there. I don't know

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<v Speaker 2>if I could go through that again. If the second

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<v Speaker 2>date with the sister doesn't work out.

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<v Speaker 1>Probably.

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<v Speaker 3>Imagine both of them.

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<v Speaker 2>I know.

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<v Speaker 3>I am the opposite.

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<v Speaker 8>I hope we do a second date update with him

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<v Speaker 8>in another three weeks to get back with Maggie's sister.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, and it's just the both of them saying nothing.

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<v Speaker 3>We're going to edit it down.

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<v Speaker 8>That is my dream. But you know what, if you're

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<v Speaker 8>a good or bad talker, however you talk.

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<v Speaker 1>Take it for sure.

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<v Speaker 3>We yes, we're not bicky. Email the show.

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<v Speaker 8>wherever you get them at Brooke and Jeffrey