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Speaker 1: Every day a week ago. Clicks up the Breakfast Club.

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Speaker 2: You don't finished for y'all done warning, everybody's the j

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Speaker 2: n V.

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Speaker 3: Just hilarious, Charlamagne the gud. We are the Breakfast Club.

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Speaker 3: We got some special guest joining us today.

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Speaker 4: Indeed, you got the bread and Judy the Weight.

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Speaker 3: Love Goes a guide to building a beautiful and everlasting relationship.

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Speaker 1: They are here.

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Speaker 3: Good morning, guys, Good morning.

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Speaker 5: It's called this ship out here. It's no dirty supposed

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Speaker 5: to be.

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Speaker 1: The first day?

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Speaker 2: Is that birthday?

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Speaker 5: Looking at us like that.

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Speaker 3: Question and it's all plowing it and moving it around,

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Speaker 3: and he gets a little dirty.

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Speaker 2: I'm sorry, how y'all New Orleans?

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Speaker 1: You know, I love to.

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Speaker 3: See y'all together, right, because some people have a relationship

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Speaker 3: online and they just show the love online, right, But

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Speaker 3: to see y'all behind the scenes and see how together

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Speaker 3: when no cameras are they and how lovely.

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Speaker 1: Double y'all still all with each other.

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Speaker 3: So we were at Jingle Boll Atlanta and the Brat

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Speaker 3: was performing and behind the stage, y'all just couldn't keet

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Speaker 3: you keep your hands off each other, pumping dancing on

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Speaker 3: each other.

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Speaker 1: I said, I love this.

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Speaker 3: How was the relationship still so fresh like that, y'all

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Speaker 3: still feel like your newly weded era.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, we just like to have fun.

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Speaker 6: Man, life presents enough bullshit, you know what I'm saying

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Speaker 6: in the world today, So we just like to have fun.

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Speaker 6: She got me making videos and stuff.

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Speaker 5: That she hated that.

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Speaker 2: I'm getting into it. I'm getting better, but that engagement.

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Speaker 7: Be high and nothing on social media. You got to

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Speaker 7: give him a little tinkleed trick, you know.

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Speaker 5: Give him a little.

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Speaker 3: How did you crack the brat when it comes? And

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Speaker 3: came to that because the brat is usually tough exterior.

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Speaker 3: She ain't haffing around, she ain't with the social media,

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Speaker 3: and you got her doing dances.

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Speaker 7: So well, I tell how you to find need you tomorrow.

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Speaker 7: I need you for like thirty minutes, and I don't

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Speaker 7: tell her what we're doing or nothing. Right before it's

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Speaker 7: time to shoot, I said, okay, this is an example,

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Speaker 7: and she she be aggravated, but she she kind of

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Speaker 7: do it. And as long as we can do it

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Speaker 7: in one or two takes, she with it. But when

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Speaker 7: it's two, three, four, she outed though.

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Speaker 4: How did y'all protect the private parts of y'all relationship

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Speaker 4: while writing this book.

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Speaker 2: She what private part.

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Speaker 5: We kind of just let it all out.

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Speaker 6: Whatever we talked about, we went deep into it and

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Speaker 6: just talked about it for real, for real, like whatever happened,

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Speaker 6: that's what happened. You know, we protected the name of

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Speaker 6: the people or whatever, but it's our lives and it's

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Speaker 6: our situation. So everything that happened in those stories we

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Speaker 6: told is what happened.

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Speaker 5: Absolutely. Now.

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Speaker 7: One thing that I was surprised about, though, I was

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Speaker 7: she talked about our sex lives like so openly.

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Speaker 1: And candidly.

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Speaker 7: And because she does it, she's real timid, shy when

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Speaker 7: it especially when it comes to stuff like that.

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Speaker 5: I was like, so you're gonna tell them all of this?

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Speaker 5: And she just.

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Speaker 1: Said, Okay, how did y'all meet? Because we know.

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Speaker 3: Duper entrepreneur from New Orleans, right, that's the first time

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Speaker 3: we met you the brad of course Atlanta hip hop Legends, Shotown, Shottown,

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Speaker 3: Shottown to Atlanta.

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Speaker 1: Now how did y'all meet?

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Speaker 2: Well, she was doing this.

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Speaker 6: I was doing promo for Miracle Drops for Kaleidoscope for

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Speaker 6: the company, and that happened through like a makeup artist

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Speaker 6: blah blah blah. But I had never met her, but

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Speaker 6: the first time I initially saw her, she was on

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Speaker 6: Instagram and I was going through some crazy shit and

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Speaker 6: I saw this lady and she had this message, and

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Speaker 6: the message just drew me in and I was like,

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Speaker 6: oh my god, it like really helped my soul feel better.

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Speaker 2: I was like, who is this lady?

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Speaker 6: She had gray hair, and I was like okay, So

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Speaker 6: I started following her fast forward. She was on a tour,

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Speaker 6: Judy dropping knowledge tour or whatever. So I was like, okay,

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Speaker 6: I was coming from somewhere and I landed in Atlanta

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Speaker 6: and I was back in Atlanta. I was like, you

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Speaker 6: know what, I'm gonna stop by there and check her out.

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Speaker 6: Because I had never met her, so I was like, okay,

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Speaker 6: I pull up.

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Speaker 2: To this place.

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Speaker 6: It's like five ten thousand people at the mother fucking conventions.

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Speaker 6: I could cuss right at a convention center, and I'm like, uh, okay.

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Speaker 6: I definitely didn't expect that because I was coming from

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Speaker 6: the airport. I wasn't ready to see people have to

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Speaker 6: in there, so I asked her people, you know, could

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Speaker 6: they get her. I'm standing there t twenty thirty forty

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Speaker 6: five minutes waiting on this lady to come through the

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Speaker 6: crowd because she's signing autographs.

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Speaker 2: And taking pictures. I'm like, well, I'm the brad.

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Speaker 6: I'm not finna be standing up here all monk if

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Speaker 6: they waiting on this lady, right. So I'm like, okay,

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Speaker 6: so I'm being patient cause you know, I do work

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Speaker 6: for her. I do do some promo and stuff for it.

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Speaker 6: So I just really wanted to meet her. So she

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Speaker 6: finally made it to me, and she was like, hey,

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Speaker 6: how you doing. You know, we talked, we hugged for

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Speaker 6: a second, and I was like, man, it's so crazy

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Speaker 6: how I was like, let's link later, you know what

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Speaker 6: I'm saying, because obviously we can't having no conversation right here.

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Speaker 6: But when I meant by let's link later, it's let

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Speaker 6: you some more promo videos. Let's you know, let's side whatever.

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Speaker 2: I really did not what I heard, I don't even know.

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Speaker 2: So I didn't even know she liked women. I didn't

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Speaker 2: even know any of that. You know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 2: I didn't, Yeah, so go ahead us, so well, she.

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Speaker 5: Let's clear it up.

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Speaker 7: I didn't know that she was there, nor did I

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Speaker 7: know she was coming, nor did I know she was waiting.

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Speaker 5: She talked to my team. So when I finally got to.

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Speaker 7: Her and I was like, oh, hey girl, because she

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Speaker 7: had been in my comments, she had been on my

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Speaker 5: Was like, oh she friendly.

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Speaker 7: So then when she said less THNK later, I said,

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Speaker 7: oh she friendly friend, you know. So she told me

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Speaker 7: to meet her at Social Death later on, and I did.

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Speaker 7: I went to the studio and it was just me

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Speaker 7: by myself. She was like, where's your team?

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Speaker 6: Yeah, this luddy pulled up, hopped out the car by

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Speaker 6: guess anything she we was gonna be tight because the

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Speaker 6: way her body is made. But she had a long,

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Speaker 6: draping ponytail. She had a jewelry on.

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Speaker 2: I was like, where is you going?

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Speaker 6: You could have been coming to a studio with a

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Speaker 6: What's the camera people? And she was like, I can't

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Speaker 6: by myself and I was like, but I was not

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Speaker 6: like coming on to her and I didn't wasn't flirting

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Speaker 6: or saying come lets link link.

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Speaker 2: Then she pulled up to the studio. I was like, oh, ship,

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Speaker 2: this is But when we was in the.

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Speaker 6: Studio we was just talking. I still had no idea.

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Speaker 6: I'm still dumbfounded. I still had no idea. We was

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Speaker 6: talking about all the ship we the ship we liked,

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Speaker 6: and the things that.

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Speaker 5: We were interested in. What I'm interested in you? Yes?

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Speaker 2: So it fucked me up.

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Speaker 6: I wasn't used to that. You know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 6: I just wasn't used to that, like out of the blue.

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Speaker 6: I had no Usually I have some type of inkland

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Speaker 6: or some type of idea. I didn't know ship. So

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Speaker 6: when she said it fucked me up. I was like,

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Speaker 5: Who?

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Speaker 4: Man?

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Speaker 6: And she was like, I'm interested in you and it

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Speaker 6: First of all my swag left. I was nauseous, I

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Speaker 6: had butterflies. I felt like I was gonna be sick.

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Speaker 6: Then I tried to light a blunt. I was like, okay,

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Speaker 6: your blunt Like that, I lit the blunt. Motherfucking cherry

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Speaker 6: fell on the couch. Damn couldn't even smoke the blunt.

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Speaker 5: I said, damn.

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Speaker 6: Okay, So I'm gonna give me some Hennessy, got me

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Speaker 6: some Henessy. You know, I'm like just trying to keep

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Speaker 5: You know what.

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Speaker 6: I was nervous as drink the Hennessy ship poured all

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Speaker 6: I thought it was cute.

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Speaker 7: I thought that she you know, it was like it

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Speaker 7: was cute that she was shy, and she was. But

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Speaker 7: then let's get to the next part. When you had

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Speaker 7: me come in to Atlanta two three times and you

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Speaker 2: Me, oh wow.

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Speaker 7: First of all, she was the person you were able

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Speaker 7: to talk to her become about three o'clockish she would

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Speaker 2: And after three o'clockish something like that.

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Speaker 6: Exaggerated, Oh my god. Actually, my phone staying on silent

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Speaker 6: Ricky smiling kind of like taught us to because I

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Speaker 6: used to be hooked on my phone like worse than

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Speaker 6: he was like, y'all got to learn how to put

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Speaker 6: at it, until I did all the things I needed

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Speaker 6: to do at home, unwound and all that.

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Speaker 2: But she was like, well, I can't to Atlanta, and

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Speaker 2: you ghosted me. Out of maybe ten times that might

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Speaker 2: have happened three out of it.

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Speaker 7: Imagine you fly, you get your ass up from your house,

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Speaker 7: you get in the car, you walk through the airport,

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Speaker 7: you check the bag, you boored the flight, you land

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Speaker 7: where you're going, you.

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Speaker 2: Check in her air y'allag you put.

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Speaker 7: The suitcase up, and then you text and say, hey,

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Speaker 7: you know what time whatever, And that's nothing.

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Speaker 5: Then she don't respond back until I'm back in New Orleans.

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Speaker 5: And that happened.

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Speaker 7: You heard her take three times the radio.

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Speaker 6: She did all that airplane and bagging, pack your bags

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Speaker 6: and all that.

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Speaker 2: She was flying back and forth to Atlanta anyway.

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Speaker 5: No, but she was. I flew those times.

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Speaker 2: For you because she was doing the celebrity thing with

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Speaker 2: the with the promotion.

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Speaker 3: She goes, why you said, you know, let me get

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Speaker 7: But then at some point I was like, I don't

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Speaker 5: She wouldn't just have me keep coming out here for

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Speaker 8: But we linked up.

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Speaker 6: We met up a few times. We met up a

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Speaker 6: few times. You act like that happened every single.

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Speaker 9: In Atlanta, out of town.

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Speaker 1: Get that to a New Orleans, she said, come to

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Speaker 4: Normans and ask the question, did you argue about this?

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Speaker 2: Because I have my I feel about it?

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Speaker 7: And I say, still feels to this day that because

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Speaker 2: I wasn't ghost to her.

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Speaker 6: I had some ship to clean up, you know what

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Speaker 7: Still lost me though she still but that had had

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Speaker 6: But how did I know that I didn't want to

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Speaker 8: So how did you get her back? How did you?

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Speaker 8: Because you left, you moved on? How you moved on?

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Speaker 6: I'm looking at Instagram. I go to her page. It's

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Speaker 2: I'm like, what the fuck is going on? A nigga nigga?

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Speaker 2: You see like niggas and bitches. Oh I did too,

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Speaker 6: So anyway, so I'm looking at the page and I'm like, damn.

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Speaker 5: I'm like, damn.

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Speaker 6: So finally, after maybe seven months, eight months, I don't

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Speaker 2: Like, oh, I'll see him, I'll see him. Damn there

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Speaker 6: He wasn't going there, he wasn't on there, and she

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Speaker 2: I'm like, yep, that nigga gone. Nigga, it's gone.

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Speaker 6: This time for me to shoot my shot. So I

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Speaker 2: How you been? She had blocked me.

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Speaker 6: You hadn't blocked me because the nigga had seen our conversations,

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Speaker 4: You know you said love changed you. So what parts

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Speaker 6: Oh my god, Like I'm way more vulnerable now, like

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Speaker 6: I cry more, you know, growing up in Chicago, having

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Speaker 2: You you don't.

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Speaker 6: You don't cry, you don't show weak, you don't show vulnerability.

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Speaker 6: Because you show week, then people take advantage of you more.

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Speaker 6: They see you sweat, they go in harder. That's how

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Speaker 6: that it's okay to cry and express yourself.

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Speaker 2: Like when we was.

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Speaker 6: Doing Brad Love's Judy, I really didn't want motherfuckers to

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Speaker 6: see me have an argument with her because I had

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Speaker 6: never did that like on TV, and I definitely didn't

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Speaker 6: want motherfuckers to see me cry. Like I'm a motherfucking rapper.

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Speaker 6: I talk about shooting people in my songs and talk

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Speaker 2: I'm like, I'm never gonna be able to sell another record.

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Speaker 6: But anyway, we had an argument and I was like, no,

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Speaker 6: make the cameras leave, put the motherfuckers out. She was like, no,

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Speaker 6: we had an argument for real. We're gonna resolve it

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Speaker 6: for real right here on camera. And I'm like, oh

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Speaker 6: my god. So when he was talking, I ended up

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Speaker 6: this is Finna just ruin my whole life. But it

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Speaker 6: just taught me that it's okay to be vulnerable. It's

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Speaker 6: okay I'm human. It's okay to have feelings, it's okay

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Speaker 4: Do either one of y'all think y'all were in love

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Speaker 4: before each other, like real love now that y'all have

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Speaker 5: A good question.

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Speaker 2: What's you about to say?

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Speaker 6: Because when we were dating that had got back together,

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Speaker 6: she had moved to Atlanta. She had a condo in Atlanta,

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Speaker 6: and I was like, I had sat down next to her.

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Speaker 6: I was like, you know what, let me just tell her.

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Speaker 2: I was like, I think I think I'm in love

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Speaker 2: with you, Like I think I'm like falling in love

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Speaker 2: with you. I think I like love you.

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Speaker 6: She and then she was like, I know I love you.

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Speaker 6: So she's trying to tell me she said it first.

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Speaker 6: I said it first, But.

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Speaker 8: You're saying you felt it first, but you didn't speak

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Speaker 2: She lied, I felt it. I felt it first.

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Speaker 1: I didn't even say that.

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Speaker 5: She just said, that's.

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Speaker 2: Can you think you felt it before me.

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Speaker 5: I don't know. I don't know why you felt it.

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Speaker 5: But his question is, do you feel like you ever

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Speaker 5: had that you were in love prior to now, like

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Speaker 5: or do you feel like I did think.

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Speaker 6: So Before I thought I was in love. All the

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Speaker 6: little relationships you get in, you'd be like, oh, I'm

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Speaker 2: I loved him, I love him.

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Speaker 6: But until I got this right here, I ain't ever

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Speaker 6: know what love was for real in real life, like

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Speaker 6: the way that she loves me. I've never felt anything

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Speaker 6: like it in my whole life, in my whole relationship,

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Speaker 6: in any relationship. So I'm very grateful for that. That's

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Speaker 6: what made me be like, I want nobody else, this

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Speaker 2: This is the real feeling right here. I had never

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Speaker 8: That's amazing.

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Speaker 7: I don't I think I care for people deeply prior,

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Speaker 7: but I think this. I think our love taught me

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Speaker 7: how to take two steps back and try to learn

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Speaker 7: the person and learn their love language, and learn you know,

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Speaker 7: how to stick it out and how to do the

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Speaker 7: tough things, and and and to also know that it's

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Speaker 7: not always peaches and cream, you know, And I think

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Speaker 7: I was I'm happy that I didn't, you know, like

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Speaker 7: give up on it because you know, they had some

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Speaker 7: shitty shit that happens.

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Speaker 9: What did you both had to unlearn to be able

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Speaker 9: to be in this marriage or to be you know,

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Speaker 7: I had to I'm a gift giver, right like, and

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Speaker 7: she likes acts of service, so I'm like, let me

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Speaker 7: do this big extravagant thing. I've checked the box, so

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Speaker 7: you know I've done it. But she she don't give

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Speaker 7: a fuck how much it costs. She don't care if

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Speaker 7: it costs a dollar, if it cast some she don't

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Speaker 7: give a funk about that.

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Speaker 5: She cares about time. She would prefer time.

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Speaker 7: Like the thing that we did recently, like it really

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Speaker 7: moved her was I set up the movie theater and

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Speaker 7: we put some paliss like, I put some pillows on

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Speaker 7: the floor, put some blankets on the floor, and it

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Speaker 7: was me, her and our.

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Speaker 2: Baby, and she just absolutely loved that.

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Speaker 7: She don't give a fuck if I do all of

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Speaker 7: this extravagant ship and have all of the decoor and

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Speaker 7: have the private violinly, she don't give a ship about

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Speaker 7: none of that.

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Speaker 5: She just wanted to you care.

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Speaker 2: She want the time, She.

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Speaker 5: Want my phone down she wants, you know.

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Speaker 1: But I know why that.

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Speaker 3: That's because she's an artist and she's been on the

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Speaker 3: road since she was young. So now it's like, you

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Speaker 3: just want the time. Even now, me and Schala Man

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Speaker 3: talk about all the time, I just want to be

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Speaker 3: home with.

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Speaker 1: The family, do this all the time. I would say

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Speaker 1: that with the.

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Speaker 3: Family that means the most of anything else. Money doesn't matter,

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Speaker 3: just that time is everything.

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Speaker 2: I don't know. I don't know if we.

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Speaker 9: Have a toxic in the previous relationships. What's something that

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Speaker 9: you notice that this relationship.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, like she tell me.

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Speaker 7: All the time, ooh you know, like I'm so much

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Speaker 7: better now, like like because that so sometimes I might

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Speaker 7: have an inappropriate tone.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, watch your tones. That tone, that tone when she

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Speaker 6: talks there, So I bring my tone down, and Lord knows,

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Speaker 6: it took a long time to be able to do

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Speaker 6: that because I'm a shytown bitch, and.

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Speaker 2: I'd be like, motherfucker, what do the fuck you think

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Speaker 2: you're talking to?

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Speaker 5: Nigga?

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Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying orleans actions.

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Speaker 6: So when her voice goes up, I be like, babe,

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Speaker 6: can you please bring your voice down?

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Speaker 2: You're yelling.

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Speaker 6: If both of us start yelling it's gonna be a

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Speaker 6: problem in here, so let's not do that, you know

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Speaker 6: what I'm saying, And she'll bring it down a little bit,

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Speaker 6: then she'll go back up, and then she'd walk the

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Speaker 6: fuck out, So then this shit ain't resolved.

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Speaker 2: Whatever is fussing.

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Speaker 6: About is not resolved. I hate that, and she can

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Speaker 6: go do some other ship and be all right. I

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Speaker 6: don't like that. I like to get a resolved because

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Speaker 6: I don't like to go to bed mad. I think

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Speaker 6: it's tomorrow. I was not promised, and I think we

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Speaker 6: need to fix it. But she will go walk off

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Speaker 6: and take some time and then go doing something, Go

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Speaker 6: start doing something for like colitis, Go but some other

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Speaker 6: ship and then put my little shit to the side

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Speaker 6: while I'm still sitting over here upset, you know what

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Speaker 6: I'm saying. But she doesn't start doing some other ship.

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Speaker 6: So that's something we're still working on.

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Speaker 1: Because she I.

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Speaker 5: Prefer to dieest. She I prefer to dieest.

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Speaker 7: And then not only that, I don't want to I

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00:18:24,840 --> 00:18:28,359
Speaker 7: don't want to talk to somebody when I'm angry because

445
00:18:28,440 --> 00:18:30,520
Speaker 7: I know, I know I could say something that cuts

446
00:18:30,600 --> 00:18:33,359
Speaker 7: deep that I don't mean. My brain goes automatically to

447
00:18:33,560 --> 00:18:35,480
Speaker 7: you know how Carate said, go to hell, I.

448
00:18:35,480 --> 00:18:36,160
Speaker 1: Go under hell.

449
00:18:36,280 --> 00:18:39,480
Speaker 7: So and I and I don't ever want to be

450
00:18:39,520 --> 00:18:41,600
Speaker 7: in that situation where I have. I've also been in

451
00:18:41,600 --> 00:18:44,080
Speaker 7: a relationship where I hit somebody first and MISS don't

452
00:18:44,080 --> 00:18:45,439
Speaker 7: know how to fight, so I don't even know why

453
00:18:45,480 --> 00:18:46,679
Speaker 7: he forgot a black eye everything.

454
00:18:49,880 --> 00:18:50,439
Speaker 2: I'm serious.

455
00:18:50,760 --> 00:18:54,600
Speaker 7: I understand how to contain my anger and how to

456
00:18:54,640 --> 00:18:57,000
Speaker 7: contain stuff, so I just walk away from a situation.

457
00:18:57,119 --> 00:18:59,080
Speaker 7: And I've learned how to compartmentalize, like I put it

458
00:18:59,119 --> 00:19:01,520
Speaker 7: to the side, digest it, and try to talk.

459
00:19:01,400 --> 00:19:02,040
Speaker 5: About it later.

460
00:19:02,119 --> 00:19:03,560
Speaker 8: How has motherhood helped with that?

461
00:19:03,600 --> 00:19:03,760
Speaker 1: Though?

462
00:19:04,520 --> 00:19:08,000
Speaker 6: Oh my god, motherhood is everything. I love, love, love

463
00:19:08,080 --> 00:19:08,960
Speaker 6: love being a mother.

464
00:19:09,280 --> 00:19:09,919
Speaker 2: I love it.

465
00:19:09,920 --> 00:19:12,960
Speaker 6: It's my everything, Like, oh my goodness, it is the

466
00:19:13,000 --> 00:19:14,800
Speaker 6: best thing that's ever happened to me. And I'm so

467
00:19:14,840 --> 00:19:18,119
Speaker 6: blessed that God allowed me to have and carrie a

468
00:19:18,280 --> 00:19:22,560
Speaker 6: child at my age. I think motherhood has brought us

469
00:19:22,560 --> 00:19:26,080
Speaker 6: closer because she's a mother of three old grown children already,

470
00:19:26,359 --> 00:19:30,800
Speaker 6: say older children already, Like, she knows a lot of stuff,

471
00:19:30,800 --> 00:19:33,280
Speaker 6: but she lets me lead when it comes to our sons.

472
00:19:33,320 --> 00:19:36,360
Speaker 6: So I love it, Oh my god, And it's brought

473
00:19:36,440 --> 00:19:39,280
Speaker 6: us closer. It brings us closer, It makes our bond stronger.

474
00:19:39,440 --> 00:19:44,000
Speaker 9: Thing. You are so in love with your son. Yeah,

475
00:19:44,080 --> 00:19:45,920
Speaker 9: did you ever see kids for yourself?

476
00:19:46,000 --> 00:19:48,760
Speaker 2: No, I ain't see no kids. I ain't want to

477
00:19:48,760 --> 00:19:49,320
Speaker 2: be married.

478
00:19:49,359 --> 00:19:51,879
Speaker 6: I ain't see no kids because and you know, I

479
00:19:51,880 --> 00:19:54,680
Speaker 6: grew up in church, so two women wasn't getting married

480
00:19:54,880 --> 00:19:55,680
Speaker 6: growing up in church.

481
00:19:55,760 --> 00:19:56,760
Speaker 2: That just wasn't happening.

482
00:19:56,880 --> 00:19:59,080
Speaker 6: So and it wasn't never no nigga that I was

483
00:19:59,119 --> 00:20:00,640
Speaker 6: so in love with that, I was like, oh, I'm

484
00:20:00,640 --> 00:20:02,800
Speaker 6: gonna marry him. So I just thought it wasn't in

485
00:20:02,840 --> 00:20:05,119
Speaker 6: the cards for me. I thought marriage or children was

486
00:20:05,160 --> 00:20:05,520
Speaker 6: not in.

487
00:20:05,480 --> 00:20:07,359
Speaker 2: The cards for me. And I was cool with that.

488
00:20:07,400 --> 00:20:12,000
Speaker 6: I was just content with living life highway and I

489
00:20:12,040 --> 00:20:14,919
Speaker 6: wasn't looking for love like that. And that's when she

490
00:20:15,000 --> 00:20:18,439
Speaker 6: ended up talking about some i'm I'm interested or whatever,

491
00:20:18,520 --> 00:20:20,320
Speaker 6: and then it grew from there, don't do that.

492
00:20:20,680 --> 00:20:21,760
Speaker 1: I was pregnancy for you.

493
00:20:22,240 --> 00:20:22,879
Speaker 8: It was good.

494
00:20:23,080 --> 00:20:23,560
Speaker 5: It was good.

495
00:20:23,600 --> 00:20:26,880
Speaker 6: I didn't have like, no pains, I didn't have no cravings.

496
00:20:27,359 --> 00:20:29,639
Speaker 6: I didn't have I didn't go into labor. I had

497
00:20:29,640 --> 00:20:32,719
Speaker 6: a c section. Uh, the only thing I had some

498
00:20:32,760 --> 00:20:36,240
Speaker 6: carpal tunnel. My ankle swelled up a little bit, and

499
00:20:36,600 --> 00:20:38,680
Speaker 6: I really didn't have a bad pregnancy at all.

500
00:20:39,000 --> 00:20:40,960
Speaker 8: You know, it wasn't fat enoughing.

501
00:20:41,200 --> 00:20:48,160
Speaker 6: Nothing that happened. I was like, what kind of because

502
00:20:48,160 --> 00:20:51,359
Speaker 6: I was older or something. I don't know, but I

503
00:20:51,359 --> 00:20:52,320
Speaker 6: didn't and I'm grateful.

504
00:20:52,320 --> 00:20:53,600
Speaker 1: I saw you with the.

505
00:20:53,640 --> 00:20:55,400
Speaker 4: Custom jersey with the baby.

506
00:20:56,240 --> 00:21:01,720
Speaker 5: Was that you?

507
00:21:02,440 --> 00:21:05,119
Speaker 7: It was a idea And okay, I'll take two steps

508
00:21:05,160 --> 00:21:07,159
Speaker 7: back and say it might not have been the best choice.

509
00:21:07,200 --> 00:21:08,479
Speaker 5: I mean, it was all over everywhere.

510
00:21:08,560 --> 00:21:09,119
Speaker 1: I thought it was.

511
00:21:11,320 --> 00:21:16,679
Speaker 6: Chicago Bulls, it was you know, Michael Georgia a couple. Yes,

512
00:21:16,720 --> 00:21:17,600
Speaker 6: absolutely so.

513
00:21:18,040 --> 00:21:19,320
Speaker 1: That a lot of her clothes, a lot of.

514
00:21:22,280 --> 00:21:25,879
Speaker 6: That was my very last performance. Doctor Jackie was like,

515
00:21:25,920 --> 00:21:28,160
Speaker 6: you can't go nowhere else. This is your last performance

516
00:21:28,160 --> 00:21:30,199
Speaker 6: and you shouldn't do this one. So she wanted to

517
00:21:30,240 --> 00:21:32,159
Speaker 6: make it like super duper special because that was the

518
00:21:32,200 --> 00:21:34,720
Speaker 6: last time I could fly or perform before it had

519
00:21:34,760 --> 00:21:35,320
Speaker 6: the baby.

520
00:21:35,800 --> 00:21:37,080
Speaker 4: I want to go back to what y'all talking about

521
00:21:37,080 --> 00:21:38,760
Speaker 4: when y're talking about just having a little conflicts, like

522
00:21:38,800 --> 00:21:40,440
Speaker 4: how do you handle conflict.

523
00:21:40,040 --> 00:21:43,040
Speaker 1: Now versus when y'all first got together, like in.

524
00:21:43,080 --> 00:21:46,240
Speaker 2: The beginning of We're still a work in progress.

525
00:21:46,760 --> 00:21:49,080
Speaker 6: She still will walk the funk away when we when

526
00:21:49,119 --> 00:21:51,840
Speaker 6: we have a disagreement and I still would be wanting

527
00:21:51,840 --> 00:21:55,119
Speaker 6: to fix it. Sometimes we fix it, and sometimes we

528
00:21:55,200 --> 00:21:57,480
Speaker 6: go to sleep and were sleeping on the edge of

529
00:21:57,480 --> 00:21:57,840
Speaker 6: the bed.

530
00:21:58,000 --> 00:22:00,520
Speaker 2: So you know, it's we still a work in progress.

531
00:22:00,520 --> 00:22:02,480
Speaker 7: I think it's better than it was though, because before

532
00:22:02,560 --> 00:22:05,840
Speaker 7: it just would be the yucky feeling like it would

533
00:22:05,840 --> 00:22:07,520
Speaker 7: be yuky like we would talk about it, but then

534
00:22:07,560 --> 00:22:09,439
Speaker 7: talking that's another thing that happened. We talked about it,

535
00:22:09,440 --> 00:22:12,639
Speaker 7: but talking about it didn't get to resolve. I feel

536
00:22:12,640 --> 00:22:15,160
Speaker 7: like now that I've learned how you are, you've learned

537
00:22:15,200 --> 00:22:18,080
Speaker 7: how to how I am, I think we've been able to.

538
00:22:18,440 --> 00:22:20,399
Speaker 6: Yeah, we just don't be mad in the middle of

539
00:22:20,440 --> 00:22:23,600
Speaker 6: the day, like, but it's still be there until we

540
00:22:23,680 --> 00:22:26,440
Speaker 6: decide to talk about it. We just learned how to

541
00:22:26,640 --> 00:22:28,200
Speaker 6: keep doing stuff throughout the day.

542
00:22:28,160 --> 00:22:31,040
Speaker 7: Right, But even the disagreements, I think it's almost like

543
00:22:31,160 --> 00:22:35,000
Speaker 7: kind of how y'all listen. We was in our mommy

544
00:22:35,000 --> 00:22:37,639
Speaker 7: and me room and our son, I think he tripped

545
00:22:37,640 --> 00:22:38,440
Speaker 7: over something else.

546
00:22:38,560 --> 00:22:40,159
Speaker 5: She's in the bathroom right there.

547
00:22:40,240 --> 00:22:41,960
Speaker 2: She's like, what you did to my son?

548
00:22:42,880 --> 00:22:44,159
Speaker 5: What did I do?

549
00:22:46,200 --> 00:22:49,760
Speaker 7: And I know, but in that moment, instead of choosing

550
00:22:49,800 --> 00:22:54,840
Speaker 7: to be like, bitch, you realize that our child. I

551
00:22:54,880 --> 00:22:56,800
Speaker 7: had to I had to take two steps back and like,

552
00:22:56,880 --> 00:22:59,119
Speaker 7: you know, she's the new mom this whatever. I was like,

553
00:22:59,480 --> 00:23:03,000
Speaker 7: that's beautiful. He tripped over that team right there. So

554
00:23:03,080 --> 00:23:07,000
Speaker 7: I think it's just you know, being intentional about considering

555
00:23:07,240 --> 00:23:09,160
Speaker 7: where the person is coming from at the time.

556
00:23:09,359 --> 00:23:11,320
Speaker 5: You know that you approach with hostility.

557
00:23:11,520 --> 00:23:12,240
Speaker 1: I do that too bad.

558
00:23:12,840 --> 00:23:15,600
Speaker 4: I'd be like, don't talk to my daughters like that.

559
00:23:15,760 --> 00:23:18,359
Speaker 1: I was wondering, you say you let her lead with

560
00:23:18,760 --> 00:23:19,240
Speaker 1: the baby.

561
00:23:19,400 --> 00:23:21,960
Speaker 3: Why because you've been you've done it before, you know

562
00:23:22,040 --> 00:23:22,800
Speaker 3: the mistakes, you know that.

563
00:23:22,840 --> 00:23:25,880
Speaker 1: Why why you let her leave? I want her.

564
00:23:25,800 --> 00:23:28,480
Speaker 7: To continue to have a great experience as a mom.

565
00:23:28,960 --> 00:23:31,879
Speaker 7: I don't want her to feel like she's making bad decisions.

566
00:23:31,960 --> 00:23:33,639
Speaker 7: I want her to make a decision based off of

567
00:23:33,640 --> 00:23:36,280
Speaker 7: her feelings, because your gut instink is always good. I

568
00:23:36,280 --> 00:23:38,760
Speaker 7: feel like oftentimes when you have the opinion first, like

569
00:23:39,080 --> 00:23:42,200
Speaker 7: the thing that she does in our relationship, whatever I.

570
00:23:42,160 --> 00:23:43,560
Speaker 5: Want you know we're doing.

571
00:23:43,760 --> 00:23:50,399
Speaker 2: I hate when you say that ship because coming to what, I.

572
00:23:50,400 --> 00:23:51,399
Speaker 5: Don't care what it is.

573
00:23:51,520 --> 00:23:54,320
Speaker 7: I don't care if it's we buying a car, we're

574
00:23:54,320 --> 00:23:56,719
Speaker 7: buying a house where we go to eat. It's whatever

575
00:23:56,840 --> 00:23:59,480
Speaker 7: I want, and so I wanted to make sure that

576
00:23:59,520 --> 00:24:03,280
Speaker 7: in this that's specifically how she wants it. Now, if

577
00:24:03,320 --> 00:24:07,000
Speaker 7: it's something that I felt like, beautiful, he not supposed

578
00:24:07,000 --> 00:24:09,560
Speaker 7: to have this much juice during the day, I will

579
00:24:09,600 --> 00:24:12,440
Speaker 7: have a conversation with her that, hey, I think we

580
00:24:12,480 --> 00:24:14,920
Speaker 7: should probably look at how much juicy he's drinking. Maybe

581
00:24:14,920 --> 00:24:16,560
Speaker 7: maybe we should, you know, maybe you should look it

582
00:24:16,640 --> 00:24:18,439
Speaker 7: up and see what's the intake, or asks the doctor.

583
00:24:18,440 --> 00:24:19,640
Speaker 5: But I'm not going to be like, you.

584
00:24:19,600 --> 00:24:21,800
Speaker 1: Know, gotcha, hold on?

585
00:24:22,320 --> 00:24:24,639
Speaker 4: What does marriage look like for you two? On the

586
00:24:24,800 --> 00:24:28,840
Speaker 4: days when love feels more like work than anything.

587
00:24:28,520 --> 00:24:31,920
Speaker 6: Else, shit, that's a lot of days it just looked

588
00:24:31,960 --> 00:24:34,879
Speaker 6: like work that day. You know, she's on the computer

589
00:24:34,960 --> 00:24:38,479
Speaker 6: and the phone twenty four to seven and well and

590
00:24:38,520 --> 00:24:41,360
Speaker 6: then sometimes you know, in between there we do we

591
00:24:41,520 --> 00:24:43,439
Speaker 6: get to spend time with our son, but then I

592
00:24:43,520 --> 00:24:45,320
Speaker 6: have to make calls and then I have to work,

593
00:24:45,400 --> 00:24:48,280
Speaker 6: So it just be work, you know. And at the

594
00:24:48,359 --> 00:24:50,399
Speaker 6: end of the day or nighttime, when we get to

595
00:24:50,840 --> 00:24:53,159
Speaker 6: you know, pillow talk and our son is sleep. You know,

596
00:24:53,640 --> 00:24:55,679
Speaker 6: we spend time with each other then, but other than that,

597
00:24:55,840 --> 00:24:57,879
Speaker 6: work is work. You gotta get the work done. You

598
00:24:57,880 --> 00:24:59,600
Speaker 6: got to pay the bills and get shit done.

599
00:25:00,760 --> 00:25:02,960
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, how does sexy time work? Right? So because

600
00:25:02,960 --> 00:25:04,159
Speaker 1: you got to keep it sex, you got to keep

601
00:25:04,160 --> 00:25:04,560
Speaker 1: it spicy.

602
00:25:04,560 --> 00:25:08,320
Speaker 2: But we have we have yeah, we have.

603
00:25:08,359 --> 00:25:10,840
Speaker 6: Date nights and then we have the nighttime when he sleep,

604
00:25:10,880 --> 00:25:12,679
Speaker 6: and we have any time when he sleep.

605
00:25:12,760 --> 00:25:15,199
Speaker 7: Intentional stuff like it was one time I tried to

606
00:25:15,240 --> 00:25:15,840
Speaker 7: role play with her.

607
00:25:15,920 --> 00:25:17,119
Speaker 5: She was so fucking lost.

608
00:25:17,200 --> 00:25:18,520
Speaker 2: She was, so I.

609
00:25:18,440 --> 00:25:25,359
Speaker 5: Text her I was a stripper and then I really liked.

610
00:25:25,280 --> 00:25:27,840
Speaker 7: Strippers anyway, that kind of probably was anyway. So I

611
00:25:27,880 --> 00:25:29,359
Speaker 7: text her and I said, I'm about to text you

612
00:25:29,400 --> 00:25:31,560
Speaker 7: as somebody else. She was like, and I was like,

613
00:25:31,600 --> 00:25:33,720
Speaker 7: I had a great time last night. Maybe we could

614
00:25:33,800 --> 00:25:36,920
Speaker 7: link up at a hotel later in the week.

615
00:25:37,160 --> 00:25:38,360
Speaker 2: And she's like, what what.

616
00:25:38,320 --> 00:25:40,440
Speaker 5: Are you talking about? But eventually she got it right.

617
00:25:40,880 --> 00:25:41,560
Speaker 2: So I set up.

618
00:25:41,600 --> 00:25:43,760
Speaker 7: I set up the hotel, Like there was this hotel

619
00:25:43,760 --> 00:25:45,280
Speaker 7: I used to go to all the time when I

620
00:25:45,400 --> 00:25:46,960
Speaker 7: used to come down here. So I set up something

621
00:25:46,960 --> 00:25:49,600
Speaker 7: at the hotel, had the you know, the roses and all.

622
00:25:49,480 --> 00:25:50,000
Speaker 5: The rest of that.

623
00:25:50,440 --> 00:25:53,320
Speaker 7: I prepare a little dance and she got in the

624
00:25:53,440 --> 00:25:55,280
Speaker 7: room and she didn't even let me do the dance.

625
00:25:55,720 --> 00:25:56,800
Speaker 2: I had that thing.

626
00:26:00,160 --> 00:26:01,560
Speaker 5: I could have did the one two.

627
00:26:01,880 --> 00:26:03,919
Speaker 6: I didn't know it was supposed to be a dance,

628
00:26:04,080 --> 00:26:07,200
Speaker 6: And I poured me a little liquor.

629
00:26:10,160 --> 00:26:13,000
Speaker 7: Camera like so she could take pictures and do all

630
00:26:13,000 --> 00:26:13,760
Speaker 7: the things.

631
00:26:13,520 --> 00:26:15,560
Speaker 6: I saw that I didn't know there was supposed to

632
00:26:15,560 --> 00:26:20,840
Speaker 6: be like a schedule. No, but she had on some

633
00:26:20,920 --> 00:26:24,760
Speaker 6: fly ash it. I was like, dang, the heels, the

634
00:26:24,800 --> 00:26:27,920
Speaker 6: fish nets, the lingerada I had.

635
00:26:28,040 --> 00:26:31,600
Speaker 5: I had the stuff to feed her. Ain't none of that?

636
00:26:32,160 --> 00:26:33,919
Speaker 2: Boards and all kinds of ship. I grabbed some of

637
00:26:33,960 --> 00:26:34,760
Speaker 2: them grapes.

638
00:26:34,440 --> 00:26:37,639
Speaker 4: And it was like, what do you think it's one

639
00:26:37,680 --> 00:26:41,720
Speaker 4: misconception about your relationship that the book finally, Oh.

640
00:26:41,560 --> 00:26:43,240
Speaker 2: That's oh, that's a good question.

641
00:26:44,920 --> 00:26:50,320
Speaker 1: I don't know.

642
00:26:48,200 --> 00:26:49,520
Speaker 2: What's any misconception.

643
00:26:49,640 --> 00:26:54,159
Speaker 5: Though they think I run ship, they do sound like.

644
00:26:57,880 --> 00:27:01,240
Speaker 2: A little bit let her have her way. I like that,

645
00:27:01,400 --> 00:27:02,320
Speaker 2: you know. I like that.

646
00:27:02,359 --> 00:27:04,920
Speaker 6: In every relationship I've had, I've pretty much ran shit,

647
00:27:05,040 --> 00:27:07,240
Speaker 6: and I like for her to run shit. I think

648
00:27:07,280 --> 00:27:09,840
Speaker 6: it's absolutely cute. And I love the fact that she's

649
00:27:09,880 --> 00:27:13,639
Speaker 6: such a boss that she can run shit. Yeah, and

650
00:27:13,680 --> 00:27:16,080
Speaker 6: I ask her everything, like I need her advice forever.

651
00:27:16,160 --> 00:27:18,760
Speaker 6: She does run shit pretty much ask her. I ask

652
00:27:18,840 --> 00:27:22,119
Speaker 6: her advice for everything. She know how to handle money

653
00:27:22,160 --> 00:27:24,000
Speaker 6: better than me. So I asked, what should I do

654
00:27:24,040 --> 00:27:24,840
Speaker 6: with X y Z?

655
00:27:25,440 --> 00:27:27,960
Speaker 2: You know? So, yeah, that that is absolutely right.

656
00:27:28,280 --> 00:27:30,280
Speaker 6: She do run ship, but I let her run shit,

657
00:27:30,960 --> 00:27:32,960
Speaker 6: I you know, and I like that. I don't want

658
00:27:32,960 --> 00:27:34,840
Speaker 6: her to do anything in the fucking house. I don't

659
00:27:34,840 --> 00:27:36,720
Speaker 6: want her to wash her dish. I don't want her

660
00:27:36,800 --> 00:27:38,760
Speaker 6: to have to cook, but she loves to cook. I

661
00:27:38,800 --> 00:27:40,359
Speaker 6: don't want to have to her to wash clothes. I

662
00:27:40,359 --> 00:27:41,200
Speaker 6: don't want her to do ship.

663
00:27:41,320 --> 00:27:42,000
Speaker 2: I do all that.

664
00:27:42,080 --> 00:27:45,680
Speaker 6: I love what you're doing that ship man. I love

665
00:27:45,680 --> 00:27:49,920
Speaker 6: a good turkey burger. I love I love Uh, what's

666
00:27:50,000 --> 00:27:53,240
Speaker 6: what's my ship? I love salmon Patty's. Oh, I love

667
00:27:53,280 --> 00:27:53,959
Speaker 6: salmon Patty's.

668
00:27:54,000 --> 00:27:56,040
Speaker 2: Yeah. I make I make quite a few things, you

669
00:27:56,119 --> 00:27:56,680
Speaker 2: know what I'm saying.

670
00:27:57,680 --> 00:28:01,080
Speaker 6: My grandfather was a chef before passed away, and both

671
00:28:01,080 --> 00:28:02,919
Speaker 6: of my grandmothers could really cook a lot. But my

672
00:28:02,960 --> 00:28:05,760
Speaker 6: wife cooks too. But I don't be one her to

673
00:28:05,840 --> 00:28:07,639
Speaker 6: have to do nothing. She does so much work, and

674
00:28:07,680 --> 00:28:10,720
Speaker 6: she'd be so busy and consumed with the business and

675
00:28:10,760 --> 00:28:13,760
Speaker 6: having to run that. Like, I don't ever want a business.

676
00:28:13,880 --> 00:28:16,240
Speaker 6: I don't ever want to be the CEO of a business.

677
00:28:17,600 --> 00:28:19,600
Speaker 6: I see the things she has to go through, and

678
00:28:19,640 --> 00:28:22,359
Speaker 6: the ship is it's a lot. You know, when you

679
00:28:22,400 --> 00:28:24,159
Speaker 6: have a lot of different people working for you and

680
00:28:24,240 --> 00:28:26,879
Speaker 6: one thing falls, sure it falls on you and you

681
00:28:27,000 --> 00:28:28,800
Speaker 6: have to know how to do that thing as well.

682
00:28:28,840 --> 00:28:31,040
Speaker 6: So she got to know how to do a million things.

683
00:28:31,480 --> 00:28:33,600
Speaker 6: Make sure the money right, make sure the people doing

684
00:28:33,600 --> 00:28:36,399
Speaker 6: what they doing, make sure that the bottles are right.

685
00:28:36,480 --> 00:28:38,400
Speaker 6: She got to sniff the products and smell it and

686
00:28:38,440 --> 00:28:42,720
Speaker 6: make sure it is so much and it's a lot.

687
00:28:42,840 --> 00:28:46,360
Speaker 9: So I will say, I'm very proud of you, jack man,

688
00:28:48,120 --> 00:28:51,280
Speaker 9: like you have built your business from the ground up

689
00:28:51,360 --> 00:28:53,240
Speaker 9: and been doing this for years and years.

690
00:28:53,400 --> 00:28:56,360
Speaker 8: My niece was one of your what would you call.

691
00:28:56,280 --> 00:28:56,440
Speaker 7: It in.

692
00:28:58,520 --> 00:29:01,560
Speaker 6: For lot of school man. So I just and she

693
00:29:01,640 --> 00:29:03,560
Speaker 6: started that ship from her phone. That's why I can't

694
00:29:03,600 --> 00:29:06,360
Speaker 6: say shit about her phone, her phone on her computer,

695
00:29:06,520 --> 00:29:09,360
Speaker 6: like she has to be on those things to run

696
00:29:09,400 --> 00:29:10,080
Speaker 6: the business.

697
00:29:10,240 --> 00:29:13,960
Speaker 2: So yeah, she she had getting the flowers.

698
00:29:13,960 --> 00:29:17,240
Speaker 6: Don't give it now.

699
00:29:18,320 --> 00:29:19,239
Speaker 1: She hates it.

700
00:29:19,440 --> 00:29:25,120
Speaker 2: She hates it. She don't know how to take it.

701
00:29:26,360 --> 00:29:28,400
Speaker 6: I tell her all the time, like when you sit

702
00:29:28,520 --> 00:29:30,479
Speaker 6: back and look at the things that you do, the

703
00:29:30,480 --> 00:29:32,280
Speaker 6: things that you've done, the things that you do.

704
00:29:33,760 --> 00:29:35,800
Speaker 8: People like, why are you like that? Though?

705
00:29:35,920 --> 00:29:39,040
Speaker 9: What about like why don't you like accepting your flowers?

706
00:29:39,040 --> 00:29:41,240
Speaker 9: Why don't you like when the spotlight is on you?

707
00:29:41,480 --> 00:29:45,440
Speaker 9: Obviously you know, giving you recognition.

708
00:29:46,520 --> 00:29:49,320
Speaker 7: I feel like a big part of my purpose here

709
00:29:50,920 --> 00:29:52,800
Speaker 7: on the world, it's like to give to other people.

710
00:29:52,840 --> 00:29:55,280
Speaker 7: So it's just hard to receive. So as a person

711
00:29:55,320 --> 00:29:58,040
Speaker 7: that's a natural giver and enjoys giving and not just

712
00:29:58,080 --> 00:30:01,680
Speaker 7: saying it like I enjoy giving, it's hard to receive

713
00:30:01,800 --> 00:30:03,080
Speaker 7: because that's I.

714
00:30:02,960 --> 00:30:05,960
Speaker 5: Enjoy the other side of it. I enjoy giving. Compliment.

715
00:30:06,160 --> 00:30:09,160
Speaker 9: Has that ever affected y'all marriage or your relationship prior

716
00:30:09,240 --> 00:30:11,959
Speaker 9: or getting married that she doesn't she's not open to receiving.

717
00:30:12,320 --> 00:30:14,479
Speaker 7: I had to learn how to with her. I had

718
00:30:14,520 --> 00:30:16,800
Speaker 7: to learn how to receive better with her.

719
00:30:17,240 --> 00:30:18,200
Speaker 5: But she had to do the same.

720
00:30:18,320 --> 00:30:18,480
Speaker 7: Yeah.

721
00:30:20,400 --> 00:30:20,640
Speaker 5: Yeah.

722
00:30:20,640 --> 00:30:23,480
Speaker 6: When we was first dating and whatever, I was at

723
00:30:23,760 --> 00:30:26,720
Speaker 6: the studio recording with JD and all of a sudden,

724
00:30:26,720 --> 00:30:29,960
Speaker 6: here comes her assistant with like fifteen Fendy.

725
00:30:29,600 --> 00:30:33,160
Speaker 2: Bags and I'm like, where are they going with that stuff?

726
00:30:33,440 --> 00:30:35,840
Speaker 6: And it was all for me and I made them

727
00:30:35,880 --> 00:30:38,280
Speaker 6: take it all back, like I was like, damn, I

728
00:30:38,280 --> 00:30:39,520
Speaker 6: don't all I want is you.

729
00:30:40,120 --> 00:30:42,680
Speaker 2: I don't need a fendy bag, a backpack, a jacket,

730
00:30:42,680 --> 00:30:45,000
Speaker 2: a shoe. I don't need shit. All I want is you.

731
00:30:45,360 --> 00:30:47,200
Speaker 2: And I think to make her happy, I kept a

732
00:30:47,240 --> 00:30:49,040
Speaker 2: pair of shades and that was it.

733
00:30:49,600 --> 00:30:51,440
Speaker 8: And then that made you fell more in love with her.

734
00:30:51,920 --> 00:30:53,720
Speaker 5: Yeah, because every time she tried to get me something back,

735
00:30:53,760 --> 00:30:55,640
Speaker 5: I wanted to tend it. I wanted to up it.

736
00:30:55,720 --> 00:30:57,680
Speaker 2: I wanted to Oh, you don't want that, and as

737
00:30:57,720 --> 00:30:58,920
Speaker 2: you know, she upset.

738
00:31:00,040 --> 00:31:01,440
Speaker 4: Why do you feel like everything you had to give

739
00:31:01,560 --> 00:31:02,040
Speaker 4: was material?

740
00:31:02,520 --> 00:31:04,200
Speaker 5: I don't just justarily feel like that.

741
00:31:04,320 --> 00:31:06,920
Speaker 7: But if I'm going doing something for myself, I'm gonna

742
00:31:06,960 --> 00:31:08,280
Speaker 7: make sure to do it for you as well. If

743
00:31:08,280 --> 00:31:11,240
Speaker 7: they if they were already out getting something for me,

744
00:31:11,760 --> 00:31:14,479
Speaker 7: grab ten things for her. So that's that's what it was.

745
00:31:14,520 --> 00:31:16,440
Speaker 7: And I wanted to surprise her with something. I wanted

746
00:31:16,480 --> 00:31:17,520
Speaker 7: her to feel special.

747
00:31:17,520 --> 00:31:19,760
Speaker 5: I want to you know. Yeah, So I don't think.

748
00:31:19,560 --> 00:31:22,840
Speaker 7: That everything gotta be material, But it's just if I'm

749
00:31:22,880 --> 00:31:24,440
Speaker 7: doing something, you.

750
00:31:24,400 --> 00:31:28,840
Speaker 9: Know, not to go back back because it's about y'all now,

751
00:31:28,880 --> 00:31:31,360
Speaker 9: But have you ever been in a relationship where somebody

752
00:31:31,360 --> 00:31:32,400
Speaker 9: has taken advantage of that?

753
00:31:32,840 --> 00:31:34,720
Speaker 5: She and I think that's why she's like that because

754
00:31:34,760 --> 00:31:39,080
Speaker 5: she knows that. Yeah, yes, but I don't.

755
00:31:39,120 --> 00:31:41,440
Speaker 7: But I'm not gonna say it's a trauma because I

756
00:31:41,480 --> 00:31:43,840
Speaker 7: feel like anything that I've ever getten God has blessed

757
00:31:43,840 --> 00:31:44,880
Speaker 7: me with one hundred times.

758
00:31:44,960 --> 00:31:46,640
Speaker 5: No, So whatever the person then.

759
00:31:46,560 --> 00:31:50,719
Speaker 6: Did, She's so sweet and people don't take advantage and

760
00:31:50,760 --> 00:31:51,360
Speaker 6: I hate it.

761
00:31:52,040 --> 00:31:55,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, and even to this day, there's people to take advantage.

762
00:31:55,360 --> 00:31:58,800
Speaker 6: But I can't say shit because she runs a business

763
00:31:58,880 --> 00:32:00,640
Speaker 6: and I have to just that's what I had to

764
00:32:00,720 --> 00:32:03,040
Speaker 6: learn to fall back and just be quiet. But that

765
00:32:03,080 --> 00:32:05,920
Speaker 6: shit is hard when you see and you know somebody

766
00:32:06,000 --> 00:32:08,200
Speaker 6: fucking over your wife, or they taking advantage of it,

767
00:32:08,320 --> 00:32:10,680
Speaker 6: or they doing shit thing's supposed to do. Man, you

768
00:32:10,720 --> 00:32:12,720
Speaker 6: want to go bop their ass like you want to

769
00:32:12,720 --> 00:32:18,080
Speaker 6: be like I don't. I don't, I don't say anything.

770
00:32:18,280 --> 00:32:22,200
Speaker 6: I'm so much better with that. I smile at motherfucker's

771
00:32:22,200 --> 00:32:23,800
Speaker 6: faces that I know them fucked you over.

772
00:32:23,880 --> 00:32:24,800
Speaker 5: And that's very.

773
00:32:24,640 --> 00:32:26,880
Speaker 2: Hard for me, very hard.

774
00:32:28,360 --> 00:32:30,480
Speaker 9: I got females. Somebody mean to ask you to b

775
00:32:30,680 --> 00:32:35,320
Speaker 9: they crazy. Do you consider yourself a humble stud? No,

776
00:32:36,480 --> 00:32:38,520
Speaker 9: I am not a stud.

777
00:32:39,240 --> 00:32:44,280
Speaker 6: I love fingernails, I love makeup, I love panty and

778
00:32:44,360 --> 00:32:49,200
Speaker 6: brasets lace pretty laperla like I. You know, I'm not

779
00:32:49,280 --> 00:32:51,640
Speaker 6: a stud, but I don't have a problem with studds.

780
00:32:51,680 --> 00:32:53,960
Speaker 6: I got a lot of stud friends and shout out

781
00:32:54,000 --> 00:32:55,120
Speaker 6: to the studs of America.

782
00:32:55,240 --> 00:32:57,440
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying, but that is not who

783
00:32:57,480 --> 00:32:59,520
Speaker 2: I am. Okay, you know, don't I don't put a

784
00:32:59,600 --> 00:33:00,800
Speaker 2: label on myself here.

785
00:33:01,280 --> 00:33:04,040
Speaker 1: You know, I wanted to ask one question. This has

786
00:33:04,120 --> 00:33:05,760
Speaker 1: nothing to do with a relationship me neither. I want

787
00:33:05,760 --> 00:33:06,280
Speaker 1: to talk hip up.

788
00:33:06,280 --> 00:33:06,960
Speaker 5: Okay, let's go.

789
00:33:07,040 --> 00:33:09,840
Speaker 1: I have a question. JD was here and he talks

790
00:33:09,840 --> 00:33:14,720
Speaker 1: about the time you almost got him killed when you

791
00:33:14,760 --> 00:33:15,840
Speaker 1: kidnapped Mariah call.

792
00:33:20,960 --> 00:33:21,200
Speaker 5: No.

793
00:33:22,000 --> 00:33:22,200
Speaker 1: You know.

794
00:33:22,360 --> 00:33:23,520
Speaker 2: He took us to her house.

795
00:33:23,960 --> 00:33:27,080
Speaker 6: I think we were filming a video and uh or

796
00:33:27,120 --> 00:33:28,760
Speaker 6: either we just went maybe.

797
00:33:28,560 --> 00:33:31,040
Speaker 2: I think we were filming. I can't remember, but we

798
00:33:31,080 --> 00:33:32,120
Speaker 2: went there a few times.

799
00:33:33,080 --> 00:33:35,120
Speaker 6: When she came out, I think this was my first

800
00:33:35,160 --> 00:33:38,200
Speaker 6: time meeting her. We was hanging out. She was super cool.

801
00:33:38,480 --> 00:33:41,600
Speaker 6: We instantly had chemistry and jail and we was laughing

802
00:33:41,600 --> 00:33:44,360
Speaker 6: about ship, cracking jokes on people like it was just

803
00:33:44,400 --> 00:33:46,600
Speaker 6: like we had knew each other forever. So she was

804
00:33:46,640 --> 00:33:48,800
Speaker 6: showing me around the house and she was telling me

805
00:33:49,240 --> 00:33:52,040
Speaker 6: because in some rooms, like the closet. In certain places

806
00:33:52,080 --> 00:33:54,479
Speaker 6: they had microphones in the wall. So she would tell me,

807
00:33:54,840 --> 00:33:56,440
Speaker 6: you know, when it's a good time to talk about

808
00:33:56,440 --> 00:33:58,880
Speaker 6: shit and when it was not or whatever. So you know,

809
00:33:59,040 --> 00:34:01,960
Speaker 6: she showed me her car and it was like fifteen

810
00:34:02,000 --> 00:34:04,360
Speaker 6: cars in the garage. No mind you, I ain't never

811
00:34:04,400 --> 00:34:06,240
Speaker 6: seen this type of shit before. I just been to

812
00:34:06,320 --> 00:34:08,920
Speaker 6: JD House and seen his riches. I ain't seen shit else.

813
00:34:08,920 --> 00:34:10,719
Speaker 6: So I'm at Maria's house, who lived next door to

814
00:34:10,800 --> 00:34:12,800
Speaker 6: Ralph Lauren with Tommy Mottola.

815
00:34:12,880 --> 00:34:13,479
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying.

816
00:34:13,520 --> 00:34:16,280
Speaker 6: I'm like, so she had a fleet of fucking cars

817
00:34:16,320 --> 00:34:19,280
Speaker 6: in the garage and I'm like, whose cars is these?

818
00:34:19,640 --> 00:34:22,920
Speaker 2: She was like day mine. I said, well, bitch less good.

819
00:34:23,600 --> 00:34:26,040
Speaker 6: I said, what's sneer here? And she was like, there's

820
00:34:26,040 --> 00:34:27,680
Speaker 6: a burger king up. She was like, let's go get

821
00:34:27,680 --> 00:34:28,280
Speaker 6: some fries.

822
00:34:28,640 --> 00:34:29,640
Speaker 2: So we get in the car.

823
00:34:30,080 --> 00:34:31,200
Speaker 1: Car now I.

824
00:34:31,160 --> 00:34:32,600
Speaker 6: Think it was a cad like it was like a

825
00:34:32,640 --> 00:34:36,520
Speaker 6: pink old old school pink catlle. Everything was shined up

826
00:34:36,560 --> 00:34:39,719
Speaker 6: in brand new, no scratches, it was just clean. I

827
00:34:39,880 --> 00:34:42,239
Speaker 6: was like, oh my god, in heaven. So we get

828
00:34:42,320 --> 00:34:45,319
Speaker 6: to out. She ain't never told me she don't drive

829
00:34:45,440 --> 00:34:48,400
Speaker 6: or she never took the she never really drove the cars. Tommy,

830
00:34:48,400 --> 00:34:50,799
Speaker 6: I guess just bought him for So they just sit there.

831
00:34:51,160 --> 00:34:54,000
Speaker 6: So we in the car, we riding, she driving, I'm chilling.

832
00:34:54,080 --> 00:34:56,400
Speaker 6: I'm like, yes, I'm having a good time. We playing music,

833
00:34:56,640 --> 00:34:59,279
Speaker 6: and then all of a sudden, my phone started blowing up.

834
00:34:59,320 --> 00:35:01,440
Speaker 6: I think we had the Skytales or something back then,

835
00:35:01,719 --> 00:35:04,520
Speaker 6: and JD was like, get back here right now, Brad.

836
00:35:04,840 --> 00:35:06,360
Speaker 2: I don't know what y'all doing, but you need to

837
00:35:06,400 --> 00:35:08,080
Speaker 2: get back here. They need you back right now.

838
00:35:08,120 --> 00:35:10,320
Speaker 5: I'm like, nigga, no, we're.

839
00:35:10,120 --> 00:35:12,520
Speaker 6: Going to Burkene on the street. What is wrong with you?

840
00:35:12,719 --> 00:35:15,120
Speaker 6: We're going a mile up the street to Burger King.

841
00:35:15,239 --> 00:35:16,920
Speaker 6: So I didn't want to see you, nigga. When I

842
00:35:16,920 --> 00:35:19,160
Speaker 6: get back, he kept blowing me up like Brett, No,

843
00:35:19,200 --> 00:35:19,880
Speaker 6: you don't understand.

844
00:35:19,920 --> 00:35:20,839
Speaker 2: I need you to get back.

845
00:35:21,160 --> 00:35:23,840
Speaker 6: I didn't know they had the guns out where JD

846
00:35:24,080 --> 00:35:27,759
Speaker 6: was at making him tell me to get her back here.

847
00:35:27,920 --> 00:35:30,879
Speaker 2: I'm like, it ain't mean it was gone. Mariah wanted

848
00:35:30,920 --> 00:35:33,440
Speaker 2: to go to She want that drove. So, yeah, that's

849
00:35:33,440 --> 00:35:38,839
Speaker 2: what happened. It's Tommy, Tommy Motola.

850
00:35:39,200 --> 00:35:40,960
Speaker 6: The thought they were kidnapping, right, So did y'all get

851
00:35:40,960 --> 00:35:42,719
Speaker 6: to bur kN Yeah, we got to Burke King and

852
00:35:42,760 --> 00:35:45,200
Speaker 6: got them fries. But when we came back, they took

853
00:35:45,200 --> 00:35:46,920
Speaker 6: her away and I was like, oh my god, I

854
00:35:46,920 --> 00:35:49,800
Speaker 6: feel like like she was in trouble like Tommy Mottola.

855
00:35:50,360 --> 00:35:50,560
Speaker 7: It was.

856
00:35:50,680 --> 00:35:52,680
Speaker 6: She was really like a princess in the castle, Like

857
00:35:52,760 --> 00:35:55,120
Speaker 6: it was like on Shrek when the prince at Fiona

858
00:35:55,200 --> 00:35:57,960
Speaker 6: was in the castle and could not you know. And honestly,

859
00:35:57,960 --> 00:36:00,880
Speaker 6: when we was in the house, anytime she would laugh,

860
00:36:01,440 --> 00:36:03,319
Speaker 6: anytime she would look like she was having fun.

861
00:36:03,360 --> 00:36:05,680
Speaker 2: Security to come get her like it was.

862
00:36:05,840 --> 00:36:06,200
Speaker 5: It was.

863
00:36:06,400 --> 00:36:09,640
Speaker 6: It was a horrible but good experience for me. But

864
00:36:09,760 --> 00:36:13,279
Speaker 6: I hated seeing her like that. But I think in

865
00:36:13,320 --> 00:36:15,080
Speaker 6: a lot of ways when we talked and stuff, she

866
00:36:15,120 --> 00:36:17,800
Speaker 6: got to vent and express herself. We both are aries.

867
00:36:18,160 --> 00:36:20,160
Speaker 6: We both are eternally twelve, you know what I'm saying.

868
00:36:20,160 --> 00:36:22,600
Speaker 6: We started to go she started to send the helicopter

869
00:36:22,640 --> 00:36:24,279
Speaker 6: and stuff, and we to go to Disney World and

870
00:36:24,320 --> 00:36:26,880
Speaker 6: just fly one ride, one ride and come back. Just

871
00:36:26,920 --> 00:36:30,160
Speaker 6: took like relax and stuff. Like she was really like

872
00:36:30,360 --> 00:36:31,879
Speaker 6: trapped in that relationship and.

873
00:36:31,840 --> 00:36:36,640
Speaker 2: It was horrible, Like I had Yeah, we ate the Yeah,

874
00:36:36,680 --> 00:36:37,279
Speaker 2: on the way back.

875
00:36:40,200 --> 00:36:42,400
Speaker 4: Now, when people say that Brat was the first female

876
00:36:42,440 --> 00:36:46,160
Speaker 4: rapper to gold platinum, what part of that achievement do

877
00:36:46,200 --> 00:36:48,200
Speaker 4: you feel still doesn't get fully respected.

878
00:36:49,400 --> 00:36:52,759
Speaker 2: I think I stopped caring, Charlemagne. Uh, it is what

879
00:36:52,840 --> 00:36:55,600
Speaker 2: it is. That's what I did. That is who I am.

880
00:36:55,680 --> 00:36:56,800
Speaker 2: It can't be changed.

881
00:36:57,320 --> 00:36:59,960
Speaker 6: Uh, nobody else can be the first female rapper to

882
00:37:00,040 --> 00:37:02,400
Speaker 6: ever sell a million records solo. Salton Pepper was the

883
00:37:02,400 --> 00:37:06,120
Speaker 6: first group. And I stopped caring about it a long

884
00:37:06,160 --> 00:37:10,080
Speaker 6: time ago, because, Yeah, but what I'm gonna do everywhere

885
00:37:10,080 --> 00:37:13,800
Speaker 6: I go ask for respect or ask that nobody forgets that.

886
00:37:13,760 --> 00:37:16,120
Speaker 2: Motherfuckers forget and it is what it is.

887
00:37:16,160 --> 00:37:18,239
Speaker 6: And I'm not gonna, you know, wear it on a

888
00:37:18,280 --> 00:37:20,600
Speaker 6: T shirt every day, like I know what I did,

889
00:37:20,680 --> 00:37:23,239
Speaker 6: and if people know, they know, and if they don't,

890
00:37:23,280 --> 00:37:25,520
Speaker 6: they don't. Like, there's nothing I could do about people

891
00:37:25,600 --> 00:37:29,400
Speaker 6: not respecting that. People don't have respect these days anymore.

892
00:37:29,440 --> 00:37:32,160
Speaker 6: That's not a thing that happens like it used to.

893
00:37:32,239 --> 00:37:33,759
Speaker 3: That's a bother you at all, Because a lot of

894
00:37:33,800 --> 00:37:36,080
Speaker 3: times when they mentioned female MC's, I feel like they

895
00:37:36,120 --> 00:37:37,160
Speaker 3: don't mention a brad enough.

896
00:37:38,239 --> 00:37:40,680
Speaker 2: They probably don't, but it don't bother me. It don't

897
00:37:40,680 --> 00:37:41,120
Speaker 2: bother me.

898
00:37:41,239 --> 00:37:43,120
Speaker 6: Like I'll see some stuff and I'd be like, oh,

899
00:37:43,120 --> 00:37:45,120
Speaker 6: they ain't put me in that, But I don't be

900
00:37:45,280 --> 00:37:46,880
Speaker 6: like mad or offended.

901
00:37:47,320 --> 00:37:48,239
Speaker 2: It is what it is.

902
00:37:48,440 --> 00:37:48,680
Speaker 5: You know.

903
00:37:49,280 --> 00:37:51,520
Speaker 6: People didn't know that and respect me and love and

904
00:37:51,560 --> 00:37:54,440
Speaker 6: appreciate what I did. They love respect me and appreciate

905
00:37:54,480 --> 00:37:57,040
Speaker 6: what I did. But those that don't fuck them, they

906
00:37:57,120 --> 00:37:58,879
Speaker 6: can look at it in the history books or find

907
00:37:58,880 --> 00:38:01,960
Speaker 6: out when they hear it, because it's there, It'll be

908
00:38:02,000 --> 00:38:02,560
Speaker 6: there forever.

909
00:38:03,120 --> 00:38:05,560
Speaker 4: You also helped make space for like women who didn't

910
00:38:05,600 --> 00:38:09,440
Speaker 4: fit the industry's idea I guess of feminine. Do you

911
00:38:09,440 --> 00:38:10,279
Speaker 4: feel acknowledged for that?

912
00:38:10,680 --> 00:38:10,799
Speaker 5: Uh?

913
00:38:11,000 --> 00:38:13,600
Speaker 2: Nope. I don't really feel acknowledged for anything.

914
00:38:13,680 --> 00:38:14,080
Speaker 5: I know.

915
00:38:15,480 --> 00:38:18,040
Speaker 6: When I came when I was coming out as a

916
00:38:18,160 --> 00:38:21,000
Speaker 6: as a rapper EMC Light, I looked up the MC

917
00:38:21,160 --> 00:38:24,200
Speaker 6: Light because I saw myself and her and you know

918
00:38:25,840 --> 00:38:28,279
Speaker 6: cha and all EMC Light songs. I just wanted to

919
00:38:28,280 --> 00:38:30,680
Speaker 6: be like EMC Light. And then Mony Love came along

920
00:38:30,920 --> 00:38:33,400
Speaker 6: and she rapped fast and we rapped fast in Chicago

921
00:38:33,440 --> 00:38:36,200
Speaker 6: because of Twister, like Twister was my Twister is my

922
00:38:36,320 --> 00:38:39,640
Speaker 6: number one goat in my opinion. I grew up wanting

923
00:38:39,719 --> 00:38:41,239
Speaker 6: to be twisted. He was in a Guinness Book of

924
00:38:41,239 --> 00:38:44,120
Speaker 6: World Records. He rapped fast, so I pattered my style

925
00:38:44,200 --> 00:38:46,480
Speaker 6: after Twister, and then when Snoop came out, I fell

926
00:38:46,520 --> 00:38:48,399
Speaker 6: in love with Snoop, and then it was the whole

927
00:38:48,400 --> 00:38:50,440
Speaker 6: Funkadelic thing. And then when me and JD got in

928
00:38:50,440 --> 00:38:52,760
Speaker 6: the studio we did funct the five.

929
00:38:53,239 --> 00:38:54,840
Speaker 1: I always wanted to know I was working with big

930
00:38:55,239 --> 00:38:56,200
Speaker 1: Man Man.

931
00:38:56,239 --> 00:38:58,400
Speaker 2: Biggie was everything he was.

932
00:38:58,440 --> 00:39:01,200
Speaker 6: He was a big old teddy bear, big old teddy bear,

933
00:39:01,280 --> 00:39:04,799
Speaker 6: smoked this back out, just was sweet to everybody. Had

934
00:39:04,920 --> 00:39:08,920
Speaker 6: plenty bitches they talking about. He talking about black, nasty motherfucker.

935
00:39:08,920 --> 00:39:12,120
Speaker 2: Them bitches love some Biggie. Biggie had some holes. I'd

936
00:39:12,120 --> 00:39:14,120
Speaker 2: be like, damn, Biggy, how you get that one?

937
00:39:14,560 --> 00:39:16,480
Speaker 6: You know what I'm saying. And when we was in

938
00:39:16,520 --> 00:39:19,160
Speaker 6: the studio, I had never seen somebody not write their

939
00:39:19,280 --> 00:39:22,399
Speaker 6: lyrics down. That was the first time I had saw that.

940
00:39:23,239 --> 00:39:25,239
Speaker 6: Cause we was doing the B side the song. I

941
00:39:25,239 --> 00:39:27,360
Speaker 6: got with Biggie and we said JD's and I was

942
00:39:27,360 --> 00:39:29,200
Speaker 6: writing my LIGs. I'm like, I'm finna beat this nigga.

943
00:39:29,200 --> 00:39:31,520
Speaker 6: I'm writing my licks. I'm almost done. He's sitting there smoking.

944
00:39:31,520 --> 00:39:33,399
Speaker 6: He ain't gonna be We're gonna be waiting on him.

945
00:39:33,640 --> 00:39:35,440
Speaker 6: So when I was almost finished, I was like, Big Yo,

946
00:39:35,480 --> 00:39:36,880
Speaker 6: what's up where your verse at?

947
00:39:37,080 --> 00:39:39,200
Speaker 2: She's like, oh, I'm done. I said, Nigga, you ain't

948
00:39:39,200 --> 00:39:41,240
Speaker 2: even write it down. You ain't got no penn in pages.

949
00:39:41,280 --> 00:39:42,080
Speaker 2: Like no, I'm done.

950
00:39:42,239 --> 00:39:44,000
Speaker 6: I said, you ain't done. You just saying that you're

951
00:39:44,040 --> 00:39:46,000
Speaker 6: trying to put some pressure on me. He went in

952
00:39:46,080 --> 00:39:48,479
Speaker 6: the studio in the booth and laid his verse down,

953
00:39:48,920 --> 00:39:51,719
Speaker 6: and I was pissed, like, ah, nigga, you really how

954
00:39:51,760 --> 00:39:54,680
Speaker 6: you memorized that you smoked two pounds of weed just

955
00:39:54,760 --> 00:39:57,359
Speaker 6: now and you memorized that and went in the boof

956
00:39:57,360 --> 00:39:58,960
Speaker 6: and did it. So that was one of the amazing

957
00:39:58,960 --> 00:40:01,680
Speaker 6: things about him, besides his heart, Like Biggie was a

958
00:40:01,719 --> 00:40:04,560
Speaker 6: really really good dude and wanted to help everybody.

959
00:40:04,640 --> 00:40:05,799
Speaker 1: How did y'all his people?

960
00:40:05,800 --> 00:40:08,160
Speaker 4: Because I even I even heard I think jay Z

961
00:40:08,239 --> 00:40:10,200
Speaker 4: a while ago was seeing how Big wanted everybody to

962
00:40:10,200 --> 00:40:12,879
Speaker 4: move there Atlanta. And it's like he used to play

963
00:40:12,920 --> 00:40:15,400
Speaker 4: you and JD real close y'all in each other's videos,

964
00:40:15,400 --> 00:40:17,960
Speaker 4: even when I were on songs together, Like how'd y'all

965
00:40:17,960 --> 00:40:19,959
Speaker 4: become such cool people through JD.

966
00:40:20,760 --> 00:40:23,960
Speaker 6: Through JD uh, I think when he was working on

967
00:40:24,080 --> 00:40:26,800
Speaker 6: the remix for uh was it? It was a remix

968
00:40:26,840 --> 00:40:29,480
Speaker 6: for Juicy, I think, and on the remix that's my

969
00:40:29,600 --> 00:40:32,359
Speaker 6: voice saying true because JD did the remix or whatever.

970
00:40:32,440 --> 00:40:36,000
Speaker 2: So Ever, since then, me and Big just was just cool.

971
00:40:36,040 --> 00:40:39,279
Speaker 6: We instantly clicked him and JD instantly clicked and we

972
00:40:39,360 --> 00:40:41,680
Speaker 6: all just hung out and stay friends, checked on.

973
00:40:41,680 --> 00:40:44,520
Speaker 2: Each other, visited each other, looked out for each.

974
00:40:44,360 --> 00:40:47,000
Speaker 6: Other, you know, smoked all the time, whether it was

975
00:40:47,000 --> 00:40:49,160
Speaker 6: in New York A La La or Atlanta.

976
00:40:49,320 --> 00:40:52,080
Speaker 2: Like just cool people, good people.

977
00:40:52,160 --> 00:40:54,239
Speaker 4: The reason I think you should get more credit for,

978
00:40:54,360 --> 00:40:56,720
Speaker 4: you know, being the first solo rapper to go platinum

979
00:40:56,719 --> 00:40:59,200
Speaker 4: as a woman is because you were authentic in.

980
00:40:59,160 --> 00:41:02,120
Speaker 1: An era that they would tell us wasn't ready for it.

981
00:41:02,400 --> 00:41:05,120
Speaker 4: Like everything that they said you, I guess shouldn't be

982
00:41:05,120 --> 00:41:08,719
Speaker 4: as a woman rapper, you were, and you got rewarded for.

983
00:41:09,120 --> 00:41:11,279
Speaker 6: Even JD told me, don't expect to you know, only

984
00:41:11,320 --> 00:41:14,440
Speaker 6: expect the go go because female rappers pretty much go go.

985
00:41:14,719 --> 00:41:15,839
Speaker 2: So it shocked both of us.

986
00:41:15,800 --> 00:41:18,720
Speaker 6: When I went platinum, But you know, I was just grateful.

987
00:41:18,800 --> 00:41:21,440
Speaker 6: I didn't even really care about accolades. I just wanted

988
00:41:21,440 --> 00:41:22,120
Speaker 6: the world.

989
00:41:21,840 --> 00:41:22,920
Speaker 2: To know me. You know.

990
00:41:22,960 --> 00:41:25,120
Speaker 6: I wanted to do videos and be on TV and

991
00:41:25,120 --> 00:41:27,360
Speaker 6: be famous and be able to take care of my

992
00:41:27,480 --> 00:41:30,040
Speaker 6: grandmother's you know, which I got a chance to do

993
00:41:30,080 --> 00:41:30,960
Speaker 6: before they passed.

994
00:41:30,960 --> 00:41:32,000
Speaker 2: So that's all I wanted.

995
00:41:32,080 --> 00:41:33,399
Speaker 1: How when you were JD so tight?

996
00:41:33,440 --> 00:41:33,680
Speaker 2: Still?

997
00:41:33,719 --> 00:41:37,160
Speaker 3: Like you always see that type of business relationship always

998
00:41:37,200 --> 00:41:39,440
Speaker 3: mess up, but you're always still like big sister to

999
00:41:39,640 --> 00:41:41,080
Speaker 3: any of the artists on that label.

1000
00:41:41,160 --> 00:41:42,080
Speaker 1: How were y'all still tight?

1001
00:41:42,400 --> 00:41:42,560
Speaker 8: Man?

1002
00:41:42,640 --> 00:41:42,920
Speaker 2: JD?

1003
00:41:43,120 --> 00:41:45,840
Speaker 6: Never He's always looked out for me and always genuinely

1004
00:41:45,880 --> 00:41:47,520
Speaker 6: loved me. He ain't never tried to cross me. He

1005
00:41:47,560 --> 00:41:50,160
Speaker 6: ain't never did no sneaky shit. He never had no

1006
00:41:50,640 --> 00:41:55,920
Speaker 6: parties that got me in trouble or no shit like that.

1007
00:41:56,200 --> 00:41:58,800
Speaker 6: Hedn't even let me go to the parties. He always

1008
00:41:58,880 --> 00:42:01,120
Speaker 6: like looked out. Like when I first came around, he

1009
00:42:01,160 --> 00:42:03,160
Speaker 6: didn't want me even going to the club or hanging

1010
00:42:03,200 --> 00:42:05,200
Speaker 6: out or nothing. He just wanted me to work. And

1011
00:42:05,239 --> 00:42:08,120
Speaker 6: he taught me a valuable lesson example the song give

1012
00:42:08,160 --> 00:42:11,200
Speaker 6: It to You. I wanted to go out that night.

1013
00:42:11,280 --> 00:42:12,520
Speaker 2: I wanted to go to Magic.

1014
00:42:12,239 --> 00:42:14,319
Speaker 6: City I had from Chicago. I used to go to

1015
00:42:14,360 --> 00:42:15,799
Speaker 6: go on the strip clubs. I wanted to see some

1016
00:42:15,840 --> 00:42:18,400
Speaker 6: bitches and throw some money in the ass, some shrimp

1017
00:42:18,440 --> 00:42:20,360
Speaker 6: and all that good shit. So I go out to

1018
00:42:20,360 --> 00:42:23,120
Speaker 6: the club. I come back him and Chris Kelly rest

1019
00:42:23,160 --> 00:42:26,319
Speaker 6: his soul from Criss Cross. They had wrote give It

1020
00:42:26,360 --> 00:42:29,000
Speaker 6: to You, and I was so fucking mad because it

1021
00:42:29,080 --> 00:42:31,920
Speaker 6: was such a hit and I could not I couldn't

1022
00:42:32,000 --> 00:42:35,080
Speaker 6: change nothing. And that taught me stay your ass in

1023
00:42:35,239 --> 00:42:37,880
Speaker 6: and work, do not go out. So JD has a

1024
00:42:37,920 --> 00:42:41,040
Speaker 6: way of teaching you valuable lessons about the things that

1025
00:42:41,080 --> 00:42:43,720
Speaker 6: he does, and I really appreciate that, and I'm grateful

1026
00:42:43,719 --> 00:42:45,960
Speaker 6: for that. He's always looked out for me and been

1027
00:42:46,040 --> 00:42:48,640
Speaker 6: like the best big brother I could ever have. And

1028
00:42:48,680 --> 00:42:51,120
Speaker 6: still today, I don't make decisions in the industry or

1029
00:42:51,120 --> 00:42:53,759
Speaker 6: anything that I do without asking him, without.

1030
00:42:53,480 --> 00:42:54,520
Speaker 2: Running it past him.

1031
00:42:54,719 --> 00:42:56,399
Speaker 6: We don't get to see each other that much because

1032
00:42:56,440 --> 00:42:59,160
Speaker 6: I've been mommying and stuff and he been super busy.

1033
00:42:59,239 --> 00:43:01,560
Speaker 6: But I love that, nigga. We text each other every

1034
00:43:01,600 --> 00:43:03,920
Speaker 6: single day, We check on each other. We tell each

1035
00:43:03,960 --> 00:43:06,880
Speaker 6: other I love you every single day. Same with Mariah.

1036
00:43:06,920 --> 00:43:09,360
Speaker 6: Like I just think it's important to let your friends

1037
00:43:09,440 --> 00:43:11,600
Speaker 6: know how you feel about them. Like I said, tomorrow's

1038
00:43:11,640 --> 00:43:13,719
Speaker 6: and I promised, And you want to make sure that

1039
00:43:13,840 --> 00:43:16,040
Speaker 6: you give love to those who love you and who

1040
00:43:16,040 --> 00:43:16,600
Speaker 6: support you.

1041
00:43:16,760 --> 00:43:18,360
Speaker 8: So that's why you don't like strip clubs.

1042
00:43:18,640 --> 00:43:20,600
Speaker 9: Huh, that's why you don't like strip clubs because the

1043
00:43:20,600 --> 00:43:22,000
Speaker 9: first time you went you missed.

1044
00:43:22,200 --> 00:43:25,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, yep, yeah, how you did with Bow? Seen you

1045
00:43:25,440 --> 00:43:26,640
Speaker 1: yell at Bow wow a couple of times?

1046
00:43:26,800 --> 00:43:31,239
Speaker 6: She like, you know, Bow, he be doing his own thing,

1047
00:43:31,400 --> 00:43:34,319
Speaker 6: Like Bow is just a different type of character. I

1048
00:43:34,360 --> 00:43:36,560
Speaker 6: love him to death, but when he fall by the wayside,

1049
00:43:36,560 --> 00:43:38,719
Speaker 6: I gotta get in his ass. And that's just the

1050
00:43:38,760 --> 00:43:40,799
Speaker 6: bottom line. Like if he do something crazy and I'd

1051
00:43:40,840 --> 00:43:42,319
Speaker 6: be like, nigga, what the fuck is you doing?

1052
00:43:42,400 --> 00:43:43,839
Speaker 2: Like, we're not doing that. Don't do that.

1053
00:43:44,080 --> 00:43:46,520
Speaker 6: When him and JD go at it, I don't like it.

1054
00:43:46,560 --> 00:43:48,719
Speaker 6: I don't like it because without JD, none of us

1055
00:43:48,760 --> 00:43:51,680
Speaker 6: would be where we are. If JD didn't sign us

1056
00:43:51,680 --> 00:43:53,640
Speaker 6: and put us on so so death and put his

1057
00:43:53,840 --> 00:43:56,200
Speaker 6: energy into us, we would not be here. So when

1058
00:43:56,239 --> 00:43:58,319
Speaker 6: he gets into it with JD, I don't like it.

1059
00:43:58,440 --> 00:44:00,160
Speaker 6: I don't give a fuck. If they like father and

1060
00:44:00,239 --> 00:44:02,440
Speaker 6: son and all of that, that's all fine, but don't

1061
00:44:02,480 --> 00:44:04,959
Speaker 6: disrespect him, like, don't do that.

1062
00:44:04,920 --> 00:44:07,719
Speaker 2: Because he's the reason you are where you are now.

1063
00:44:07,719 --> 00:44:10,279
Speaker 6: You might've got somewhere with Snoop, but Snoop brought you

1064
00:44:10,360 --> 00:44:13,919
Speaker 6: to JD, which means he trusted JD with with you.

1065
00:44:14,360 --> 00:44:16,680
Speaker 6: So I just feel like he should never disrespect him.

1066
00:44:16,719 --> 00:44:19,000
Speaker 6: And when he crosses that line, it pisses me off

1067
00:44:19,200 --> 00:44:21,560
Speaker 6: and I gotta tell him, or when he does something stupid,

1068
00:44:21,920 --> 00:44:24,239
Speaker 6: I gotta tell him. I'm that girl that's gonna tell him.

1069
00:44:24,239 --> 00:44:26,440
Speaker 6: I'm not the one that's gonna be like, it's okay

1070
00:44:26,560 --> 00:44:27,640
Speaker 6: bout no, that's not me.

1071
00:44:27,880 --> 00:44:30,000
Speaker 8: And I love that because it still comes from a

1072
00:44:30,040 --> 00:44:30,719
Speaker 8: place of love.

1073
00:44:30,880 --> 00:44:31,799
Speaker 5: Yeah, I love him.

1074
00:44:31,800 --> 00:44:33,680
Speaker 9: The planet didn't turn around and let you know you

1075
00:44:33,719 --> 00:44:35,319
Speaker 9: love him because even on the show, I think it

1076
00:44:35,360 --> 00:44:38,279
Speaker 9: was growing up hip hop, always getting his ass when

1077
00:44:38,600 --> 00:44:41,440
Speaker 9: hell have his little tempotantrums and everybody else around him

1078
00:44:41,480 --> 00:44:43,440
Speaker 9: be no, it's okay, here go with the brat.

1079
00:44:43,440 --> 00:44:46,400
Speaker 8: Look just shit together. Yeah, I love him, respect that.

1080
00:44:46,800 --> 00:44:49,560
Speaker 4: It's this version of the brat with Judy, the version

1081
00:44:49,560 --> 00:44:51,479
Speaker 4: of you that the world didn't get to see because

1082
00:44:51,520 --> 00:44:52,520
Speaker 4: the times weren't ready.

1083
00:44:52,960 --> 00:44:57,000
Speaker 6: Absolutely absolutely, you know, like I said, I wasn't trying

1084
00:44:57,000 --> 00:44:59,480
Speaker 6: to be vulnerable back then. I was just gonna be

1085
00:44:59,560 --> 00:45:01,840
Speaker 6: the person I rapped about, and that was like my

1086
00:45:01,920 --> 00:45:04,640
Speaker 6: alter ego, the Chicago bitch that to fuck you up,

1087
00:45:04,880 --> 00:45:08,040
Speaker 6: the Chicago bitch that grew up defending myself. That's who

1088
00:45:08,120 --> 00:45:10,640
Speaker 6: I rapped about being. That's who the brat is, you

1089
00:45:10,640 --> 00:45:13,319
Speaker 6: know what I'm saying. But with My Beautiful, it's just like,

1090
00:45:13,360 --> 00:45:15,160
Speaker 6: you know, since I had my son, I just feel

1091
00:45:15,160 --> 00:45:17,680
Speaker 6: like my heart is just cracked open, Like I just

1092
00:45:17,760 --> 00:45:19,279
Speaker 6: you know, I can cry at the drop of a dime.

1093
00:45:19,320 --> 00:45:21,760
Speaker 6: I'll watch a movie and fucking cry. Watch The Notebook

1094
00:45:21,800 --> 00:45:23,959
Speaker 6: the other day, bitchtar Crime. Seen the movie ten times,

1095
00:45:24,000 --> 00:45:27,920
Speaker 6: but I still cry, Like, yeah, so this is the

1096
00:45:28,760 --> 00:45:32,279
Speaker 6: chante you know that the world does not know. And

1097
00:45:32,320 --> 00:45:35,080
Speaker 6: I think that's awesome that I had that to save. Plus,

1098
00:45:35,080 --> 00:45:36,840
Speaker 6: the bitch was in the closet for so long, you know,

1099
00:45:37,320 --> 00:45:37,799
Speaker 6: I had a.

1100
00:45:37,760 --> 00:45:39,760
Speaker 2: Lot that was hidden anyway.

1101
00:45:39,920 --> 00:45:43,279
Speaker 6: So when it comes to love and relationships and vulnerability,

1102
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Speaker 6: I owe that all to My Beautiful for bringing that out.

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Speaker 3: How difficult was it to do morning radio because you

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00:45:49,200 --> 00:45:51,200
Speaker 3: probably one of the first artists that said, you know what,

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00:45:51,560 --> 00:45:53,160
Speaker 3: I'm gonna put rapping to the side for a little

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00:45:53,160 --> 00:45:54,399
Speaker 3: bit and start doing the media side.

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Speaker 1: How difficult was that.

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00:45:55,320 --> 00:45:58,200
Speaker 2: It wasn't difficult at all. Like I really enjoy it.

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00:45:58,320 --> 00:46:01,600
Speaker 6: I really enjoy it, Like I just get to talk,

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00:46:01,960 --> 00:46:04,400
Speaker 6: Like we just sit here and fucking talk and make money.

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00:46:05,680 --> 00:46:08,319
Speaker 6: And it's so natural. You know, some people can't do it,

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00:46:08,360 --> 00:46:10,520
Speaker 6: but we can do it. We're blessed to, you know,

1113
00:46:10,840 --> 00:46:13,080
Speaker 6: to have the talent to do it, and it's so

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00:46:13,200 --> 00:46:15,839
Speaker 6: easy for us. So it was it was easy because

1115
00:46:15,840 --> 00:46:18,200
Speaker 6: every time I used to go to Ricky Smiley and

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00:46:18,640 --> 00:46:20,520
Speaker 6: do like drops and stuff and I would just knock

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00:46:20,560 --> 00:46:22,120
Speaker 6: it out. They would be like, damn, have you ever

1118
00:46:22,120 --> 00:46:24,680
Speaker 6: thought about doing radio? And I'm like, no, I haven't,

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00:46:24,920 --> 00:46:26,400
Speaker 6: but you know, he was like, you should come in,

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00:46:26,520 --> 00:46:28,680
Speaker 6: you know, and we gonna see it about you getting in.

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Speaker 2: So I was like, okay. So when I did it,

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00:46:30,520 --> 00:46:32,319
Speaker 2: it was easy, and it's a blessing. I've been doing

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00:46:32,400 --> 00:46:34,960
Speaker 2: it for like ten fifteen years now, and it's just

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00:46:35,000 --> 00:46:36,040
Speaker 2: so easy, so easy.

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Speaker 3: I heard a frank that they try to do on you, right,

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00:46:39,480 --> 00:46:42,080
Speaker 3: And the prank was it was Brad had a day off, right,

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00:46:42,600 --> 00:46:44,960
Speaker 3: and Ricky Smiley and the crew will call her every

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00:46:45,000 --> 00:46:46,359
Speaker 3: five minutes and ask her for something.

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Speaker 1: And it got to the point at the third time,

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00:46:48,239 --> 00:46:51,040
Speaker 1: it was like, yo, your mother fucking stopped. It was like,

1131
00:46:51,080 --> 00:46:53,400
Speaker 1: you tell it wasn't scripted. You would have to go

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00:46:53,400 --> 00:46:55,160
Speaker 1: to HR after that. The way she cuts me out bad.

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00:46:55,200 --> 00:46:57,800
Speaker 6: But I was trying not to the first few times

1134
00:46:57,840 --> 00:46:59,399
Speaker 6: I was, you know, I tried to keep my cool

1135
00:46:59,400 --> 00:47:02,120
Speaker 6: because I'm like, okay, maybe they need something that's worked.

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00:47:02,800 --> 00:47:04,879
Speaker 6: Then after a while it's like, mother, why the fuck

1137
00:47:04,920 --> 00:47:06,040
Speaker 6: do y'all keep calling me?

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00:47:06,120 --> 00:47:06,800
Speaker 5: I'll be back.

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00:47:07,200 --> 00:47:09,799
Speaker 2: Let mean the fuck alone. Today, it's my off day, yo.

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Speaker 1: Crazy.

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00:47:12,920 --> 00:47:23,680
Speaker 4: I loved when when the Brad was hitting on Wendy.

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00:47:18,600 --> 00:47:27,840
Speaker 2: You already know well we did our interview.

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00:47:27,880 --> 00:47:29,719
Speaker 6: She tried to say I hit on her, and I

1144
00:47:29,760 --> 00:47:33,440
Speaker 6: had to be like, bitch, no, I love you. You're

1145
00:47:33,440 --> 00:47:36,000
Speaker 6: a nice person, you cool, but you are not the

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00:47:36,040 --> 00:47:38,000
Speaker 6: type of bitch I would holler at.

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00:47:38,680 --> 00:47:40,480
Speaker 2: I was trying to figure out the way to nicely

1148
00:47:40,520 --> 00:47:42,799
Speaker 2: put her down, like I don't don't do that.

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00:47:43,560 --> 00:47:44,400
Speaker 5: I never tried to.

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00:47:44,600 --> 00:47:46,279
Speaker 2: She's telling about she had receipts. I said, I got

1151
00:47:46,280 --> 00:47:48,160
Speaker 2: the same phone, bitch that I've been had for years.

1152
00:47:48,200 --> 00:47:50,880
Speaker 2: I got receipts too. I'll show you we can compare,

1153
00:47:50,920 --> 00:47:52,799
Speaker 2: because I ain't you her ship like that for me.

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00:47:52,880 --> 00:47:54,080
Speaker 2: I never tried to holler.

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00:47:54,160 --> 00:47:57,160
Speaker 9: Where was this like back in the day.

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00:47:58,680 --> 00:48:00,640
Speaker 6: Yeah, she interviewed me talking abou I tried to holler

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00:48:00,680 --> 00:48:02,440
Speaker 6: at I'm like, bitch, no, I didn't.

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00:48:02,440 --> 00:48:06,720
Speaker 2: You was nothing to do that, christ.

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Speaker 4: If readers can take just one truth away from the

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00:48:10,239 --> 00:48:11,440
Speaker 4: way love goes, what do you.

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00:48:11,360 --> 00:48:11,759
Speaker 1: Hope it is?

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00:48:13,280 --> 00:48:16,840
Speaker 5: Go ahead, beautiful? Oh shit, I'm sorry that.

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00:48:20,440 --> 00:48:23,239
Speaker 7: It's never too late for love and not to give

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00:48:23,320 --> 00:48:25,920
Speaker 7: up on it, and it finds you when you stop

1165
00:48:26,000 --> 00:48:26,719
Speaker 7: looking for it.

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00:48:28,840 --> 00:48:29,520
Speaker 5: That's what I think.

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00:48:29,800 --> 00:48:35,000
Speaker 9: Okay, h Judy is so cold from over here. That

1168
00:48:35,080 --> 00:48:37,120
Speaker 9: girl was like, listen, it's cold as hell in here.

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00:48:37,400 --> 00:48:40,239
Speaker 5: I said that when I know I don't understand how

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Speaker 5: y'all live in snow.

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Speaker 6: I think they should take away that communication is very important. Uh,

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00:48:48,480 --> 00:48:51,359
Speaker 6: if you got situations in the beginning of the relationship,

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00:48:51,400 --> 00:48:55,279
Speaker 6: tell them, motherfuckers, keep be transparent in the beginning. You

1174
00:48:55,320 --> 00:48:56,840
Speaker 6: know what I'm saying, Because that was a mistake that

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00:48:56,880 --> 00:48:59,439
Speaker 6: I made that I could have lost what I have now.

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Speaker 6: So I don't want anybody to ever lose the opportunity

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Speaker 6: by lying or not coming clean in the beginning, and

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00:49:05,640 --> 00:49:08,160
Speaker 6: give that person a choice to decide if they still

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00:49:08,160 --> 00:49:09,480
Speaker 6: want to wait for you or not, because if they

1180
00:49:09,560 --> 00:49:11,239
Speaker 6: really fucking with you and if it's meant to be,

1181
00:49:11,360 --> 00:49:14,520
Speaker 6: they will so and what else.

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00:49:18,040 --> 00:49:20,040
Speaker 2: Make your bitch come eleven times.

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00:49:22,239 --> 00:49:26,640
Speaker 4: And one time hold on now eleven times win and

1184
00:49:26,120 --> 00:49:27,920
Speaker 4: one session in one session?

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00:49:28,120 --> 00:49:32,240
Speaker 5: Yeah yeah, okay, make.

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00:49:35,280 --> 00:49:36,000
Speaker 1: It for ten years?

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00:49:36,520 --> 00:49:43,840
Speaker 3: Ten years my wife when I was sixteen. Yeah, but

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00:49:45,000 --> 00:49:46,640
Speaker 3: we met when we were sixteen, so she was my

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00:49:47,000 --> 00:49:48,799
Speaker 3: number one. Right, So when we used to watch thing

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00:49:48,880 --> 00:49:51,000
Speaker 3: about sex, I never had the birds and bees conversation.

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00:49:51,680 --> 00:49:55,760
Speaker 1: I don't know, I don't know. Eleven times learn happened.

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00:49:55,760 --> 00:49:57,359
Speaker 3: I would watch porn, right, and when you watch porn,

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00:49:57,360 --> 00:49:59,400
Speaker 3: you see bang bang bang bang bang, right, And I

1194
00:49:59,400 --> 00:50:02,200
Speaker 3: could not make cut reach orgasm from sex from the mouth. Yes,

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Speaker 3: So it took me a while until we started learning

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Speaker 3: our bodies and we started having a conversation. But that

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Speaker 3: was when I was sixteen, and it wasn't ten years.

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Speaker 8: That's fair.

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Speaker 7: The crazy part is she loves she's a giver, so

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Speaker 7: she loves to give. I'm talking she will, she will

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Speaker 7: because you can't just back to back.

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Speaker 5: You got to do it. Then give me some minutes, right,

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Speaker 5: and then we could start again.

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Speaker 7: Not that I'm thinking about this, did you want the

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Speaker 7: world to know how your skills or something.

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00:50:33,280 --> 00:50:33,360
Speaker 1: Like.

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Speaker 5: You put this in the.

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Speaker 6: Book because we were talking about it. We was talking

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00:50:36,880 --> 00:50:39,200
Speaker 6: about sex, and that is like, well I only did

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Speaker 6: that once.

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Speaker 5: It was no toy.

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Speaker 7: I won't tell you be fucked up though, but at

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Speaker 7: the end of the day, you be fucked up because

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Speaker 7: that you don't want to.

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Speaker 1: You don't walk right.

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Speaker 7: But I think it's unfair because she doesn't. She doesn't

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Speaker 7: give me the opportunity to do that to her, like

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Speaker 7: the one she's over with one good one, but she

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00:51:08,000 --> 00:51:08,360
Speaker 7: makes me.

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Speaker 5: I'm talking, she will fall as good.

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00:51:12,760 --> 00:51:13,920
Speaker 1: That should have been your name.

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Speaker 3: Ladies and gentlemen, The Way Love Goes a Guide to

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Speaker 3: building a beautiful and everlasting relationship. To Bratt and Judy,

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Speaker 3: thank you so much for joining us. Thank you for

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Speaker 3: having us at the Breakfast Club.

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Speaker 4: Good morning, woke Up, Wake you up, Wake Up, program

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