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Speaker 1: Today, we're talking about one of the biggest blowouts between

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Speaker 1: myself and Luanne. The Miami trip with the Real Housewives

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Speaker 1: of New York becomes the Luanne Show. For this episode,

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Speaker 1: I really wanted to get content creator and TikTok sensation

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Speaker 1: Griffin Johnson's take. He is from a different generation watching

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Speaker 1: think about this circus? For context, Griffin was nine years

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Speaker 1: I was really curious to get his generation's perspective on

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Speaker 1: And in our conversation, I'm sharing behind the scenes stories

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Speaker 1: that I've never shared before. Is life really a cabaret

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Speaker 1: or is it a cabernet? Let's find out. Well, Griffin

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Speaker 1: it You're at my bar at my house and this

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Speaker 1: is my dream place to do the podcast. And I'm

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Speaker 1: only here in the summer now for the most part,

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Speaker 1: I don't get here as much, particularly for work, and

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Speaker 1: this feels it feels right. This is it. This feels right.

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Speaker 1: I want to describe to people how we met before

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Speaker 1: we embark on this Crazy Housewives review discussion. So my

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Speaker 1: recollection of meeting you is having you on the podcast.

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Speaker 1: There was something about you that was very um, gracious, earnest,

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Speaker 1: unlikely ways with other business people, and you were trying

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Speaker 1: You would succeeded in social media undeniably, and we're making

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Speaker 1: living at it very young. Well you know, decades before

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Speaker 1: for something else. That's what that's my perspective now and

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Speaker 1: looking at it. Yeah, I mean, so I did start

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Speaker 1: which is how we kind of initially met. You understand

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Speaker 1: public kind of gets like someone doesn't call you a celebrity,

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Speaker 1: They're like, oh, you are a TikTok star. TikTok your

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Speaker 1: you know, TikTok kind of has its own lane, um,

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Speaker 1: which I feel like, you know, reality TV sort of

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Speaker 1: there's a few lanes. It's like entrepreneurs and like movies

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Speaker 1: and um, you know, not a lot of people understand

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Speaker 1: Uh And that's kind of unique and I feel like

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Speaker 1: I don't know, it's like you understand me more than

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Speaker 1: you you are I've said to you respectfully. You are young,

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Speaker 1: and there's no way that you can have the institutional

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Speaker 1: I'm thinking about what you're saying. So for me, I've

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Speaker 1: done the quote unquote rents where people take me seriously

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Speaker 1: But you're trying to ride two horses at the same time.

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Speaker 1: then you'll decide whether you want to leave that. That's

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Speaker 1: it seems like, but the TikTok's that the people want

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Speaker 1: You were asking me advice about something different, and you

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Speaker 1: And I have never and I don't. I don't even

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Speaker 1: totally different space. I could say it's because of my daughter,

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Speaker 1: but I don't think it really was. I think you're

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Speaker 1: very unique, You're very smart, you're very honest. I think

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Speaker 1: And I'm showing off hoochie bags and facials and all

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Speaker 1: my mom is watching. Well, yeah right, your mom and

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Speaker 1: a dramatic show of four. It's like Entourage for women,

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Speaker 1: hair for anything that. I would just ask, what's cabaret?

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Speaker 1: the poster, It was like a nightclub party kind of right,

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Speaker 1: But what does it feel? It was like a little

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Speaker 1: I do relief work. It's why. And it's a problem.

424
00:22:02,880 --> 00:22:05,280
Speaker 1: I'm not that close to land. I'm not that close

425
00:22:05,280 --> 00:22:07,480
Speaker 1: to her, but for some reason, if I hear something's

426
00:22:07,480 --> 00:22:09,959
Speaker 1: going wrong with someone, I'm like, I like, I go,

427
00:22:10,840 --> 00:22:12,520
Speaker 1: and I got and I went over to her house

428
00:22:12,520 --> 00:22:17,440
Speaker 1: and I saw how crazy Yes, so I spent This

429
00:22:17,520 --> 00:22:19,320
Speaker 1: was right before we were going to do the reunion,

430
00:22:19,359 --> 00:22:22,480
Speaker 1: which is like a very crazy experience. Of hours and

431
00:22:22,520 --> 00:22:24,840
Speaker 1: hours of reviewing the season. It's tiring, and you want

432
00:22:24,840 --> 00:22:26,600
Speaker 1: to like it's like the big Game, it's a super

433
00:22:26,600 --> 00:22:28,919
Speaker 1: Bowl of housewives. You want to you want to rest

434
00:22:28,960 --> 00:22:32,840
Speaker 1: and hydrate prior and after all kiddings that. So instead

435
00:22:32,840 --> 00:22:37,119
Speaker 1: of hydrating before and after, I didn't intervene invention at

436
00:22:37,160 --> 00:22:39,159
Speaker 1: Luan's house like a full fledge. We're gonna get her

437
00:22:39,200 --> 00:22:42,000
Speaker 1: to a facility. I got Bravo to pay for the facility.

438
00:22:42,040 --> 00:22:44,720
Speaker 1: I called them, They said, I have the receipt. They said,

439
00:22:44,760 --> 00:22:46,480
Speaker 1: we're not paying for that now. And I'm like, really,

440
00:22:46,960 --> 00:22:49,000
Speaker 1: you you you have to fucking pay for like I

441
00:22:49,119 --> 00:22:52,000
Speaker 1: really got them to me for They agreed. I also

442
00:22:52,080 --> 00:22:55,720
Speaker 1: got them to agree to pay her for the reunion

443
00:22:55,760 --> 00:22:57,440
Speaker 1: because I knew that she'd show up and do something

444
00:22:57,480 --> 00:23:00,159
Speaker 1: harmful to herself or someone else. I said, you have

445
00:23:00,200 --> 00:23:02,240
Speaker 1: to agree that you'll pay her for the reunion even

446
00:23:02,240 --> 00:23:03,879
Speaker 1: if she doesn't go, because she's gonna go to rehab.

447
00:23:04,560 --> 00:23:06,680
Speaker 1: So I got them Why am I getting involved in that?

448
00:23:06,720 --> 00:23:10,280
Speaker 1: It's not my business and I don't know why because

449
00:23:10,280 --> 00:23:12,400
Speaker 1: I have a problem. You've seen me do it for you,

450
00:23:12,400 --> 00:23:14,399
Speaker 1: you know how I am. So I I like getting

451
00:23:14,440 --> 00:23:17,159
Speaker 1: involved in stuff. To help people. So I I got

452
00:23:17,240 --> 00:23:21,320
Speaker 1: Bravo to agree to pay Luan for the housewives reunion

453
00:23:21,440 --> 00:23:22,760
Speaker 1: when we all have to go there and get our

454
00:23:22,800 --> 00:23:26,440
Speaker 1: asses beaten. She stayed at home and I got them

455
00:23:26,440 --> 00:23:29,000
Speaker 1: to pay for her to go to rehab. So then

456
00:23:29,040 --> 00:23:32,479
Speaker 1: when you see that final scene, she left rehab early.

457
00:23:34,200 --> 00:23:36,400
Speaker 1: She left rehab early and was calling all the friends

458
00:23:36,400 --> 00:23:38,280
Speaker 1: because she got really addicted to all of us helping

459
00:23:38,280 --> 00:23:40,159
Speaker 1: her to being team Luan. And we had group chats

460
00:23:40,160 --> 00:23:42,560
Speaker 1: and she was like, can you please return this pillow?

461
00:23:42,560 --> 00:23:45,119
Speaker 1: Can you please return like and Barbara was the number

462
00:23:45,200 --> 00:23:49,359
Speaker 1: one minion. And that weekend the reason I say that,

463
00:23:49,400 --> 00:23:51,240
Speaker 1: I got two lawyers on a Sunday to come to

464
00:23:51,320 --> 00:23:54,320
Speaker 1: LUN's house to get her to sign that Barbara could

465
00:23:54,359 --> 00:23:57,520
Speaker 1: have power of attorney because she was making bad decisions

466
00:23:57,520 --> 00:23:59,280
Speaker 1: with her money and she wanted to buy this crazy

467
00:23:59,320 --> 00:24:02,560
Speaker 1: six seven million at our house. So I we intervened,

468
00:24:02,800 --> 00:24:04,320
Speaker 1: and Barbara and I were at her house. We've had

469
00:24:04,359 --> 00:24:06,399
Speaker 1: two lawyers there. I'm not good friends at bar but

470
00:24:06,480 --> 00:24:08,359
Speaker 1: I like bar But but she will she will confirm

471
00:24:08,520 --> 00:24:10,760
Speaker 1: everything I've said. Everybody will always confirm because I am

472
00:24:10,760 --> 00:24:13,119
Speaker 1: a person that everything I ever say, I have re seats,

473
00:24:13,200 --> 00:24:15,199
Speaker 1: and I have other people that saw it, So the

474
00:24:15,280 --> 00:24:18,080
Speaker 1: two lawyers came over. That's what led us into. So

475
00:24:18,119 --> 00:24:21,160
Speaker 1: when she's frolicking to swim in the ocean and looking

476
00:24:21,200 --> 00:24:24,320
Speaker 1: at her poster and being so selfish with everybody, I

477
00:24:24,359 --> 00:24:27,399
Speaker 1: fucking popped off. So we'll get there. That's crazy because

478
00:24:27,400 --> 00:24:30,679
Speaker 1: she seems pretty level like headed on the show. She's like,

479
00:24:30,800 --> 00:24:33,680
Speaker 1: it's kind of I don't know the theme of it

480
00:24:33,800 --> 00:24:37,440
Speaker 1: is she's selfish, right, because you're seeing a person who

481
00:24:37,440 --> 00:24:40,600
Speaker 1: went to rehab and is now the expert of rehab

482
00:24:42,240 --> 00:24:45,080
Speaker 1: her you know, I'm coming out. That's what that is,

483
00:24:45,119 --> 00:24:47,760
Speaker 1: you know. So this is the pre show, this is

484
00:24:47,800 --> 00:24:52,159
Speaker 1: what happened before. Yeah, So so the audience knows that

485
00:24:52,240 --> 00:24:55,640
Speaker 1: I fucking popped off because but the audience wasn't here

486
00:24:55,680 --> 00:24:58,560
Speaker 1: that weekend seeing me at her house. The cameras would

487
00:24:58,560 --> 00:24:59,760
Speaker 1: have loved to pull up and watch me do an

488
00:24:59,760 --> 00:25:01,320
Speaker 1: inter mentioned, but I was not. I was in my

489
00:25:01,359 --> 00:25:04,000
Speaker 1: real life in the Hampton's and bad for her. But

490
00:25:04,160 --> 00:25:06,879
Speaker 1: that's what really happened, and the show and the producers

491
00:25:06,880 --> 00:25:11,000
Speaker 1: know what really happened, so they at least I guess

492
00:25:11,359 --> 00:25:13,240
Speaker 1: they didn't incorporate that. But I guess we discussed it

493
00:25:13,280 --> 00:25:17,520
Speaker 1: at the reunion, which do rewives reunions too? Anyway, Okay,

494
00:25:17,560 --> 00:25:19,480
Speaker 1: so let's start at the beginning. I just wanted to

495
00:25:19,480 --> 00:25:21,440
Speaker 1: give some color. No one knows most of that story,

496
00:25:21,440 --> 00:25:35,800
Speaker 1: I don't think. Okay, So we're in Miami at this

497
00:25:35,800 --> 00:25:38,159
Speaker 1: This is New York though, right this is was it

498
00:25:38,240 --> 00:25:41,320
Speaker 1: Housewives in New York but it was in Miami? Now

499
00:25:41,400 --> 00:25:43,600
Speaker 1: this is all New York. Oh, it's Real Housewives. It was.

500
00:25:43,640 --> 00:25:46,080
Speaker 1: The trips are where all the ship happens. So this

501
00:25:46,160 --> 00:25:48,320
Speaker 1: is Real Housewives in New York, but it's taking place

502
00:25:48,320 --> 00:25:52,680
Speaker 1: in Miami. I was so confused. Exactly all right, Yes,

503
00:25:52,920 --> 00:25:57,720
Speaker 1: the trips are what production really wants because you do

504
00:25:57,800 --> 00:26:00,080
Speaker 1: a whole season build up of what's going on, and

505
00:26:00,160 --> 00:26:04,240
Speaker 1: then you put everybody together because like a vacation, so

506
00:26:04,280 --> 00:26:06,600
Speaker 1: you're like ready to go out and have fun and rage,

507
00:26:06,720 --> 00:26:09,800
Speaker 1: but you're trapped your vacation in a hamster Hamster have

508
00:26:09,920 --> 00:26:15,120
Speaker 1: a trail, like you're like you can leave on orchestrated visits.

509
00:26:15,160 --> 00:26:17,600
Speaker 1: You're insane asylum when we get to go out and

510
00:26:17,640 --> 00:26:21,679
Speaker 1: do activities that are shot and so it's funny because

511
00:26:22,160 --> 00:26:24,479
Speaker 1: Ramona the one do you know who Ramona is Ramona

512
00:26:24,560 --> 00:26:26,800
Speaker 1: is the one who, um, it was like, you get

513
00:26:26,840 --> 00:26:27,960
Speaker 1: to go on a date. Why don't I get to

514
00:26:28,000 --> 00:26:30,800
Speaker 1: go on a date? Who was like, just describe what

515
00:26:30,880 --> 00:26:33,000
Speaker 1: she looks like. She had like a fringe dress and

516
00:26:33,040 --> 00:26:35,159
Speaker 1: she's blonde, and she waited for the lamb when we

517
00:26:35,200 --> 00:26:37,760
Speaker 1: went out to the right. Yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, Okay.

518
00:26:37,760 --> 00:26:41,720
Speaker 1: So that's Ramona. She's classic, she's iconic. She's like the

519
00:26:41,800 --> 00:26:44,800
Speaker 1: shorter hair, right, she's the shorter hair. And she just

520
00:26:44,880 --> 00:26:47,199
Speaker 1: will elbow anybody out of the way to get a

521
00:26:47,240 --> 00:26:49,199
Speaker 1: man or get what. She would get the room, get

522
00:26:49,240 --> 00:26:53,080
Speaker 1: the biggest room. Ruthless. That's ruthless Ramona. Yes, yes, she's

523
00:26:53,160 --> 00:26:56,360
Speaker 1: ruthless Ramona. Yes, ruthless Ramona has made that up. But

524
00:26:56,560 --> 00:26:59,560
Speaker 1: the thing about Ramona is she's a woman who she

525
00:26:59,640 --> 00:27:04,320
Speaker 1: always brings the drama but doesn't kill the party. Like

526
00:27:04,320 --> 00:27:08,120
Speaker 1: there's someone who will bring the drama, right, she'll bring

527
00:27:08,160 --> 00:27:12,680
Speaker 1: the drama and like everyone, I mean, she'll say something

528
00:27:12,720 --> 00:27:17,760
Speaker 1: completely wrong. She's the apologizer, but she bounces right back

529
00:27:18,119 --> 00:27:25,040
Speaker 1: and you just she's just she's a good ingredients. She's

530
00:27:25,080 --> 00:27:28,160
Speaker 1: that fucking pepper that's in the back. Yeah. I don't

531
00:27:28,200 --> 00:27:29,880
Speaker 1: even know what to call that. I would just say

532
00:27:29,880 --> 00:27:33,240
Speaker 1: that the pot she's really she's really good to get

533
00:27:33,240 --> 00:27:36,200
Speaker 1: everyone fired up and then back and out. She'll back out,

534
00:27:36,280 --> 00:27:41,760
Speaker 1: she'll get back. So that's Ramona. So we go on

535
00:27:41,800 --> 00:27:45,040
Speaker 1: the trips because they want us to be concentrated and

536
00:27:45,080 --> 00:27:47,040
Speaker 1: they want all the issues to come out and pop

537
00:27:47,080 --> 00:27:49,399
Speaker 1: to the top. Of course, they want it all to

538
00:27:49,480 --> 00:27:52,600
Speaker 1: come out. Everything we've been bubbling all season. This is

539
00:27:52,640 --> 00:27:55,800
Speaker 1: when it all bubbles up, pops off the top. Then

540
00:27:55,840 --> 00:27:57,840
Speaker 1: you come back and then you do that reunion later

541
00:27:58,040 --> 00:28:00,359
Speaker 1: and then like rehash it all out and to calm

542
00:28:00,400 --> 00:28:02,120
Speaker 1: it down so we could do another season next year

543
00:28:02,119 --> 00:28:05,920
Speaker 1: and do the same thing all over again. Okay, yeah, yeah, yeah.

544
00:28:06,000 --> 00:28:10,320
Speaker 1: So now we're in Miami and we're all um sitting

545
00:28:10,359 --> 00:28:15,479
Speaker 1: around because the night before Sonya has smashed a table

546
00:28:15,520 --> 00:28:19,320
Speaker 1: with her foot. I like her. She's funny. Why do

547
00:28:19,359 --> 00:28:21,439
Speaker 1: you like her? She just doesn't give it like, she

548
00:28:21,560 --> 00:28:23,919
Speaker 1: just doesn't give a ship. She just does whatever she

549
00:28:23,960 --> 00:28:26,840
Speaker 1: wants to do. And uh, I don't know. I think

550
00:28:26,880 --> 00:28:29,439
Speaker 1: she's like a fun character, like a fun character in

551
00:28:29,480 --> 00:28:33,320
Speaker 1: Puzzle Piece. Yes, she's just a good time time. That's

552
00:28:33,320 --> 00:28:35,800
Speaker 1: why she is. She's a good time. Yeah, you like right, Okay,

553
00:28:35,840 --> 00:28:38,240
Speaker 1: that's funny. Yeah, and she's got a sweetness to her

554
00:28:38,280 --> 00:28:41,160
Speaker 1: though now, Yeah, like she seemed like the least evil,

555
00:28:42,600 --> 00:28:45,120
Speaker 1: Like a lot of them are like okay, they're playing chess,

556
00:28:45,200 --> 00:28:47,440
Speaker 1: and like they have intentions to do something to get

557
00:28:47,480 --> 00:28:49,880
Speaker 1: on top of Like I really think she was just

558
00:28:49,920 --> 00:28:52,840
Speaker 1: there for a good time, That's exactly. And did you

559
00:28:52,880 --> 00:28:56,440
Speaker 1: think that her um that there was validity in her

560
00:28:56,720 --> 00:29:02,280
Speaker 1: emotional outburst post a meeting. I mean, yeah, she's kind

561
00:29:02,320 --> 00:29:06,720
Speaker 1: of a mess, but like, I don't know, I think

562
00:29:06,720 --> 00:29:08,960
Speaker 1: I understand what she's saying because I'm not a very

563
00:29:08,960 --> 00:29:11,600
Speaker 1: emotional person. I feel like I can kind of relate

564
00:29:11,640 --> 00:29:13,720
Speaker 1: with her where it's like she doesn't want to talk

565
00:29:13,760 --> 00:29:16,360
Speaker 1: about what's wrong with her. She would rather just like

566
00:29:16,840 --> 00:29:19,440
Speaker 1: subtly fix her without speaking to me one about it.

567
00:29:19,480 --> 00:29:23,040
Speaker 1: Like she doesn't want to acknowledge that she has an issue.

568
00:29:23,080 --> 00:29:24,719
Speaker 1: She doesn't want to speak about it because she's like

569
00:29:24,920 --> 00:29:27,400
Speaker 1: I feel like I'm my own worst critic, and when

570
00:29:27,440 --> 00:29:30,280
Speaker 1: people tell me I'm doing something wrong that I already

571
00:29:30,280 --> 00:29:33,480
Speaker 1: know i'm doing wrong, I get really insecure about it. Interesting,

572
00:29:33,560 --> 00:29:35,440
Speaker 1: So I feel like when she went to that, I

573
00:29:35,520 --> 00:29:38,479
Speaker 1: understand what she's saying. Maybe I can relate with her,

574
00:29:38,480 --> 00:29:40,360
Speaker 1: and that's why I liked her so much. But like

575
00:29:40,840 --> 00:29:42,880
Speaker 1: she didn't want to sit there and speak to people.

576
00:29:43,400 --> 00:29:45,479
Speaker 1: She kind of blamed it on them being like lesser,

577
00:29:45,800 --> 00:29:49,440
Speaker 1: Like she feels like they have way bigger problems than me,

578
00:29:49,480 --> 00:29:51,680
Speaker 1: and like I feel like an outcast. But really I

579
00:29:51,720 --> 00:29:54,360
Speaker 1: think she just felt silly to sit there and she

580
00:29:54,480 --> 00:29:59,120
Speaker 1: was embarrassed. Interesting, but wow, that was good. Yeah, that's

581
00:29:59,120 --> 00:30:02,200
Speaker 1: what I took away in that. Interesting. Okay. And so

582
00:30:02,360 --> 00:30:07,200
Speaker 1: Barbara who wanted to leave? She's been the ride or

583
00:30:07,280 --> 00:30:09,640
Speaker 1: die for Luan. She sort of wouldn't be on the show.

584
00:30:09,800 --> 00:30:11,880
Speaker 1: She's like, the minion is that the spray tan one?

585
00:30:12,040 --> 00:30:15,960
Speaker 1: I want to get? That bothered me so Badan she

586
00:30:16,040 --> 00:30:19,240
Speaker 1: sprayed on the bed. I bothered me too. It hurt

587
00:30:19,280 --> 00:30:23,200
Speaker 1: my feelings, was going crazy. It's like a white bedframe.

588
00:30:23,360 --> 00:30:28,560
Speaker 1: She's like, I gotta get that bronch, Barbie Tane, what

589
00:30:28,560 --> 00:30:30,480
Speaker 1: do you do? No? It bothers me so much too.

590
00:30:30,840 --> 00:30:32,920
Speaker 1: But by the way, spray Tan, and as you know,

591
00:30:33,280 --> 00:30:39,600
Speaker 1: I am a beauty influencer obviously, obviously, Um I don't

592
00:30:39,720 --> 00:30:43,840
Speaker 1: sunk around spray tan. Yeah, your hands and on your

593
00:30:43,920 --> 00:30:46,360
Speaker 1: knuckles and your knuckles are like orange so you've seen

594
00:30:46,400 --> 00:30:48,880
Speaker 1: girls with of course, like trauma, are you kidding me?

595
00:30:49,040 --> 00:30:51,520
Speaker 1: Like high school problem? And then cheap spray tan. It's

596
00:30:51,520 --> 00:30:53,800
Speaker 1: like their knuckles are orange. How much of a turnout

597
00:30:53,800 --> 00:30:55,240
Speaker 1: and turn off is that? I mean it looks like

598
00:30:55,280 --> 00:30:57,880
Speaker 1: they just fisted a bag of Cheetos. Like it doesn't

599
00:30:57,880 --> 00:31:00,520
Speaker 1: get any worse than that, Like you can't get it

600
00:31:00,560 --> 00:31:03,800
Speaker 1: off they're going to they work from doesn't And I

601
00:31:03,840 --> 00:31:08,520
Speaker 1: thought you used a mitt and you're like like she's

602
00:31:08,560 --> 00:31:13,560
Speaker 1: just going like only I couldn't believe it. I was.

603
00:31:13,800 --> 00:31:16,080
Speaker 1: I was baffled. That was that was a low point.

604
00:31:16,200 --> 00:31:22,680
Speaker 1: You can't get an even spray How do you know that?

605
00:31:23,040 --> 00:31:25,880
Speaker 1: There's just no way. Have you ever spray painted something?

606
00:31:26,640 --> 00:31:29,680
Speaker 1: There's layers to that ship sto and like if you

607
00:31:29,720 --> 00:31:33,440
Speaker 1: can't do layers, well it wouldn't work on any planet.

608
00:31:33,600 --> 00:31:36,040
Speaker 1: So how would you spray tan? I mean there's like

609
00:31:36,480 --> 00:31:39,520
Speaker 1: mits I would want, Like if I were going to

610
00:31:39,600 --> 00:31:41,040
Speaker 1: do something, I would want to have it where I

611
00:31:41,080 --> 00:31:43,920
Speaker 1: could lather it on perfectly, Like I want something I

612
00:31:43,960 --> 00:31:46,360
Speaker 1: can like, But where do you live in your life?

613
00:31:46,440 --> 00:31:49,000
Speaker 1: Like you're going out that night, how do you touch anything?

614
00:31:49,000 --> 00:31:51,680
Speaker 1: How do you like sit on anywhere? Like it would

615
00:31:51,760 --> 00:31:54,640
Speaker 1: dry within like ten minutes. It does, does it? I

616
00:31:54,640 --> 00:31:56,960
Speaker 1: thought it like lives one night. This is a true story.

617
00:31:57,280 --> 00:32:00,360
Speaker 1: I was in Vegas for this event, just pay event,

618
00:32:01,080 --> 00:32:03,920
Speaker 1: and Chloe Kardashian, her fucking spray tan got all over

619
00:32:04,000 --> 00:32:08,560
Speaker 1: me and the couch, and yeah, it was like control

620
00:32:08,640 --> 00:32:13,200
Speaker 1: your spray tan, like control you tan, give your tan

621
00:32:13,280 --> 00:32:17,240
Speaker 1: to yourself. By the way, that was before she was

622
00:32:17,440 --> 00:32:19,400
Speaker 1: as big as she has. Now. Imagine how major I'd

623
00:32:19,440 --> 00:32:20,960
Speaker 1: be if I sold on eBay and I dressed the

624
00:32:21,000 --> 00:32:25,000
Speaker 1: Chloe Kardashian tainted with her tan. I mean, yeah, I

625
00:32:25,000 --> 00:32:27,240
Speaker 1: don't have that. I get rid of everything. Okay, So

626
00:32:27,280 --> 00:32:30,600
Speaker 1: all right, so we're talking about um, I told you

627
00:32:30,640 --> 00:32:33,480
Speaker 1: I didn't come to play. I have like you do?

628
00:32:33,520 --> 00:32:37,080
Speaker 1: You understand an you analyze? So would you think of

629
00:32:37,160 --> 00:32:40,479
Speaker 1: Tinsley the girl? So the girl. There's a little comment

630
00:32:40,640 --> 00:32:42,240
Speaker 1: that Drenda makes, and I don't know if it was

631
00:32:42,280 --> 00:32:45,600
Speaker 1: in this episode or the next one, where Drenda's talking

632
00:32:45,600 --> 00:32:48,920
Speaker 1: about all Tinsley's fancy outfit. Because Tinsley had a very

633
00:32:49,040 --> 00:32:52,160
Speaker 1: rich boyfriend, She's broken up with him during this episode.

634
00:32:52,480 --> 00:32:54,560
Speaker 1: But the reason why I'm trying to set her up

635
00:32:54,680 --> 00:32:56,960
Speaker 1: is because I'm trying to get her off the former.

636
00:32:57,320 --> 00:32:58,800
Speaker 1: She's the one that one on the first date with

637
00:32:58,840 --> 00:33:02,160
Speaker 1: the guy and she was saying the most ridiculous ship. Yes,

638
00:33:02,760 --> 00:33:05,480
Speaker 1: she was with a rich guy that she actually met

639
00:33:05,520 --> 00:33:09,000
Speaker 1: on the show through another cast mate, and I'm sort

640
00:33:09,040 --> 00:33:11,920
Speaker 1: of giving you the fastward. We think that they're broken up,

641
00:33:13,160 --> 00:33:15,160
Speaker 1: but there are signs that they might not be, because

642
00:33:15,160 --> 00:33:17,440
Speaker 1: she's still like buying all these really expensive bags and

643
00:33:17,560 --> 00:33:21,360
Speaker 1: dresses and we all know what like that. You don't

644
00:33:21,400 --> 00:33:24,320
Speaker 1: got it like that. So we're wondering. Dorenda's wondering how

645
00:33:24,360 --> 00:33:27,280
Speaker 1: she's popping tags every night, and so that's like a

646
00:33:27,360 --> 00:33:31,480
Speaker 1: sub plot that like, that's a subplot going on. But

647
00:33:31,640 --> 00:33:32,920
Speaker 1: I want to, you know how, you want to keep

648
00:33:32,920 --> 00:33:34,960
Speaker 1: the person off the guy they were with, and like

649
00:33:35,000 --> 00:33:37,320
Speaker 1: you just want to entertain them and get them set up.

650
00:33:37,360 --> 00:33:38,720
Speaker 1: So I wanted to set her up with someone because

651
00:33:38,760 --> 00:33:41,080
Speaker 1: I'm thinking she's really broken up with him. I don't

652
00:33:41,160 --> 00:33:44,640
Speaker 1: realize that I think that that that she might be

653
00:33:44,760 --> 00:33:48,400
Speaker 1: still with himself. So you thought they were completely split,

654
00:33:48,760 --> 00:33:51,040
Speaker 1: and turns out maybe she wasn't. Well we later find

655
00:33:51,080 --> 00:33:52,680
Speaker 1: out they got back together. We don't think there was

656
00:33:53,000 --> 00:33:55,640
Speaker 1: And the popping tags and the things that she were

657
00:33:55,640 --> 00:33:57,680
Speaker 1: buying were like sort of a sign that they might

658
00:33:57,720 --> 00:34:00,280
Speaker 1: still be together. So that's why Dorenda was meant name

659
00:34:00,320 --> 00:34:02,600
Speaker 1: her outfit and then she was all these outfits. So

660
00:34:02,640 --> 00:34:04,800
Speaker 1: I set her up with this guy. What did you

661
00:34:04,800 --> 00:34:06,160
Speaker 1: think of what she was saying on the first day?

662
00:34:06,600 --> 00:34:10,080
Speaker 1: She didn't know she was miked at the date. Man,

663
00:34:10,239 --> 00:34:14,600
Speaker 1: you guys did her dirty. I mean she has brutal game. Sorry,

664
00:34:14,680 --> 00:34:18,360
Speaker 1: like I mean it was nuts, like what she was

665
00:34:18,400 --> 00:34:20,120
Speaker 1: like the first thing she asked him, I think was

666
00:34:20,160 --> 00:34:26,080
Speaker 1: how old he was. I think he was like sixty, right,

667
00:34:26,200 --> 00:34:28,280
Speaker 1: and then she was like talking about like she didn't

668
00:34:28,280 --> 00:34:30,680
Speaker 1: know if she wanted to have kids or more kids,

669
00:34:31,160 --> 00:34:33,799
Speaker 1: and like just the worst things ever you could say,

670
00:34:33,880 --> 00:34:36,040
Speaker 1: Like if I had a girl and start of telling

671
00:34:36,040 --> 00:34:38,239
Speaker 1: me about how she wanted another kid or something, I'd

672
00:34:38,239 --> 00:34:42,279
Speaker 1: be like, gone, but don't discuss. So what are the

673
00:34:42,320 --> 00:34:45,640
Speaker 1: things you shouldn't discuss? In the first five she did

674
00:34:45,800 --> 00:34:48,160
Speaker 1: like saw some up with like a nice little kiss

675
00:34:48,160 --> 00:34:49,960
Speaker 1: and stuff. Though, so I'm sure he was loving it.

676
00:34:50,719 --> 00:34:54,560
Speaker 1: M she's like an attractive, attractive gal. I mean he's sixty.

677
00:34:54,600 --> 00:34:56,640
Speaker 1: I mean I'm sure he was like I'll go back,

678
00:34:56,680 --> 00:34:59,200
Speaker 1: screw It'll be a good time, but this was not

679
00:34:59,280 --> 00:35:02,400
Speaker 1: an ideal first date. Um, but what did you think

680
00:35:02,400 --> 00:35:04,400
Speaker 1: about the fact that she said she was a kissing slut?

681
00:35:05,040 --> 00:35:08,120
Speaker 1: What does that mean? I love that. I feel like

682
00:35:08,320 --> 00:35:11,680
Speaker 1: I feel like our generation judges less if it was

683
00:35:11,719 --> 00:35:14,480
Speaker 1: my mom, I mean, And it was like I'm trying

684
00:35:14,520 --> 00:35:16,360
Speaker 1: to think if I had a daughter, I would have

685
00:35:16,360 --> 00:35:19,680
Speaker 1: a meltdown, like I would hate that said as she

686
00:35:19,680 --> 00:35:22,239
Speaker 1: said she was a kissing slut. Yeah, I mean at

687
00:35:22,320 --> 00:35:24,680
Speaker 1: least she said a kissing slut. So she was like

688
00:35:24,680 --> 00:35:26,640
Speaker 1: trying to say, like I'm not a sled I'm just

689
00:35:26,680 --> 00:35:28,960
Speaker 1: a kissing right, But doesn't that mean like you saw

690
00:35:29,040 --> 00:35:32,000
Speaker 1: one mouse and a really twelve on to the four floorboards,

691
00:35:32,440 --> 00:35:35,200
Speaker 1: how many kissing bodies do you have? Like that's how

692
00:35:35,239 --> 00:35:39,319
Speaker 1: she is, like, I've kissed, but I've only gone bed

693
00:35:39,360 --> 00:35:45,160
Speaker 1: with three. So your generation no problem. You meet a girl,

694
00:35:45,280 --> 00:35:48,319
Speaker 1: no problem, sleep together first date, Like you're not judging her,

695
00:35:48,360 --> 00:35:50,240
Speaker 1: It's fine, it doesn't matter. You like her, you're connecting,

696
00:35:50,239 --> 00:35:51,640
Speaker 1: your calling her the next day or there was a

697
00:35:51,680 --> 00:35:56,360
Speaker 1: little there was a little rust. It really just opains

698
00:35:56,719 --> 00:35:59,439
Speaker 1: like percentage. We gotta do some numbers. Isn't that go ahead?

699
00:35:59,560 --> 00:36:02,359
Speaker 1: I'll give you. I'll be real, I'll keep it over here,

700
00:36:02,400 --> 00:36:06,719
Speaker 1: you're gonna keep it. I'm pretty picky for the most part,

701
00:36:06,800 --> 00:36:10,359
Speaker 1: Like I'm I'm pretty picky about that. So usually for me,

702
00:36:10,560 --> 00:36:12,640
Speaker 1: like if I hooked up with a girl on the

703
00:36:12,680 --> 00:36:15,440
Speaker 1: first night, I probably see something in her that like

704
00:36:15,520 --> 00:36:18,239
Speaker 1: would make me believe that there's potential to have a

705
00:36:18,280 --> 00:36:21,759
Speaker 1: relationship or something. Hold on, what is hooked up me?

706
00:36:22,040 --> 00:36:23,640
Speaker 1: If I hooked up with a girl on the first night,

707
00:36:23,800 --> 00:36:26,040
Speaker 1: that's sleeping together. Yeah, you like you sleep with them.

708
00:36:26,120 --> 00:36:27,920
Speaker 1: So saying I hooked up with her doesn't mean I

709
00:36:27,960 --> 00:36:31,000
Speaker 1: made out with her. No. Whenever I say I hook up,

710
00:36:31,040 --> 00:36:33,760
Speaker 1: I mean like we had sex. It's getting serious, Okay,

711
00:36:33,960 --> 00:36:36,680
Speaker 1: got it. I didn't know that anyways. If I hooked

712
00:36:36,760 --> 00:36:38,680
Speaker 1: up with a girl, it's because like, yeah, it's sex

713
00:36:38,680 --> 00:36:42,440
Speaker 1: with her, So I would say, I don't know. It

714
00:36:42,480 --> 00:36:45,239
Speaker 1: depends some guys, Like don't don't get me wrong, there's

715
00:36:45,280 --> 00:36:47,440
Speaker 1: girls I see like you're attracted them for whatever reason,

716
00:36:47,560 --> 00:36:51,560
Speaker 1: Like I don't like judge, But like if I up

717
00:36:51,560 --> 00:36:54,840
Speaker 1: with the girl, it's like tongue Like I'm just saying

718
00:36:54,880 --> 00:36:58,200
Speaker 1: like like a tongue tattoo or like just some crazy

719
00:36:58,320 --> 00:37:00,880
Speaker 1: shit like like in the moment when you're drunk, it

720
00:37:00,960 --> 00:37:03,719
Speaker 1: was kind of hot. But then like and they say

721
00:37:03,760 --> 00:37:06,200
Speaker 1: you like, I never even want to think about the

722
00:37:06,200 --> 00:37:09,879
Speaker 1: fact that I had says with you like no. Um,

723
00:37:09,960 --> 00:37:13,400
Speaker 1: so I would say, but it's not a deal breaker

724
00:37:13,520 --> 00:37:17,319
Speaker 1: at all. No, no, no, no no. Like I've like

725
00:37:17,760 --> 00:37:20,160
Speaker 1: I've had girls that I've dated and I like hooked

726
00:37:20,200 --> 00:37:22,360
Speaker 1: up with them on like maybe the second date for

727
00:37:22,440 --> 00:37:25,719
Speaker 1: the first time you've been together. Yeah, Like, it doesn't really.

728
00:37:25,880 --> 00:37:28,600
Speaker 1: It also matters if you're feeling it's so strongly, then no,

729
00:37:28,719 --> 00:37:31,000
Speaker 1: it's unavoidable and it's enjoyable. You're not gonna judge something

730
00:37:31,040 --> 00:37:33,120
Speaker 1: like I mean not only that, but it's like if

731
00:37:33,120 --> 00:37:35,959
Speaker 1: you get with them, it's like or if you start

732
00:37:36,040 --> 00:37:38,360
Speaker 1: dating them, it's like whatever, You're gonna wait and do

733
00:37:38,440 --> 00:37:40,560
Speaker 1: the same thing. It's like it's going to happen. It's

734
00:37:40,600 --> 00:37:45,000
Speaker 1: gravity Okay, Yeah, I get I get why it doesn't

735
00:37:45,000 --> 00:37:48,280
Speaker 1: work as much because obviously I'm not marrying those girls,

736
00:37:48,320 --> 00:37:51,680
Speaker 1: like I dated them for a while. Why is that obvious? Um,

737
00:37:51,719 --> 00:37:54,279
Speaker 1: I would say it's obvious for the fact that, like

738
00:37:54,600 --> 00:37:57,200
Speaker 1: I think if you wait in the I don't know,

739
00:37:57,239 --> 00:37:59,719
Speaker 1: it's just a respect thing that's what I'm trying to say,

740
00:37:59,719 --> 00:38:04,120
Speaker 1: I feel the odds of you marrying someone that you

741
00:38:04,160 --> 00:38:06,560
Speaker 1: sleep with on the first night. Sometimes it just happens

742
00:38:06,560 --> 00:38:08,160
Speaker 1: like you might find a really hot girl and you

743
00:38:08,160 --> 00:38:10,640
Speaker 1: guys have really good chemistry and you got way too drunk.

744
00:38:10,880 --> 00:38:13,000
Speaker 1: But that's that's not that's life, but that's the odds

745
00:38:13,040 --> 00:38:14,799
Speaker 1: that you're marrying that person. Salim, is what you're saying,

746
00:38:14,800 --> 00:38:17,560
Speaker 1: I'd say it would lower it yet. Okay, So what

747
00:38:17,800 --> 00:38:22,239
Speaker 1: my audience is, you know, my age women, moms, etcetera.

748
00:38:22,360 --> 00:38:26,520
Speaker 1: For the most part, what percentage of young women are

749
00:38:26,560 --> 00:38:29,560
Speaker 1: sleeping with men on the first date? I wouldn't say

750
00:38:29,600 --> 00:38:32,719
Speaker 1: first first is pretty strong. Like random hookups. I would

751
00:38:32,760 --> 00:38:36,040
Speaker 1: say most girls by the time she's my age three

752
00:38:36,040 --> 00:38:40,000
Speaker 1: has probably had anywhere from like three to eight or

753
00:38:40,080 --> 00:38:43,000
Speaker 1: nine hookups. Hook up is sex to random like a

754
00:38:43,080 --> 00:38:45,200
Speaker 1: first night like call what we called it one night

755
00:38:45,280 --> 00:38:48,200
Speaker 1: stand in my day. So yeah, I would say it's

756
00:38:48,280 --> 00:38:50,799
Speaker 1: leans closer to the three I said eight, because there's

757
00:38:50,800 --> 00:38:53,879
Speaker 1: something but a random and r H. And I would

758
00:38:53,920 --> 00:38:57,239
Speaker 1: say most girls you is an r H. You is

759
00:38:57,280 --> 00:39:00,640
Speaker 1: a is a one night stand? Yeah, I mean some

760
00:39:00,680 --> 00:39:03,399
Speaker 1: girls like me never, I never, But I would say

761
00:39:03,440 --> 00:39:07,720
Speaker 1: like at least one, but most likely like two or three. Okay,

762
00:39:07,840 --> 00:39:11,680
Speaker 1: so the kissing slut. She said things on the first date,

763
00:39:12,280 --> 00:39:15,040
Speaker 1: and then she came in and did you see the

764
00:39:15,120 --> 00:39:18,720
Speaker 1: hypocrisy in the fact that she was slurring? But Luanne

765
00:39:18,840 --> 00:39:21,319
Speaker 1: is now in the holder than that position. I saw.

766
00:39:21,560 --> 00:39:25,040
Speaker 1: That's when you got really heated. That's that's where I

767
00:39:25,120 --> 00:39:27,080
Speaker 1: was like, I'm not gonna lie. I was kind of

768
00:39:27,080 --> 00:39:29,319
Speaker 1: like playing games on my phone and listening and like

769
00:39:29,400 --> 00:39:34,800
Speaker 1: kind of watching, and then when that happened, I was like, oh,

770
00:39:35,760 --> 00:39:37,840
Speaker 1: I heard her slur of the words. I didn't understand

771
00:39:37,840 --> 00:39:40,120
Speaker 1: why you were that mad, But now that you told

772
00:39:40,160 --> 00:39:43,120
Speaker 1: me the story that you helped her, well, she's now

773
00:39:43,160 --> 00:39:45,759
Speaker 1: the expert on being sober when she was just in

774
00:39:45,800 --> 00:39:48,480
Speaker 1: a field and in lingerie having to be you called

775
00:39:48,520 --> 00:39:51,799
Speaker 1: her out to which is crazy the idea what you're

776
00:39:51,840 --> 00:39:53,960
Speaker 1: talking about. Was like, holy shit, Well what did you

777
00:39:54,000 --> 00:39:56,400
Speaker 1: think must have happened? Well, when it really got heated

778
00:39:56,480 --> 00:39:59,640
Speaker 1: when you mentioned how you were like essentially helping her

779
00:39:59,680 --> 00:40:04,680
Speaker 1: from embarrassing her children, and I was like, damn, that's

780
00:40:04,719 --> 00:40:08,360
Speaker 1: like mama bear like fighting words usually. So that was

781
00:40:08,400 --> 00:40:11,520
Speaker 1: the craziest part of that. Interesting you thought me saying

782
00:40:11,560 --> 00:40:13,279
Speaker 1: to her, so your kids wouldn't find out. That was

783
00:40:13,320 --> 00:40:15,239
Speaker 1: the day in the backyard with the lawyers and like

784
00:40:15,440 --> 00:40:18,799
Speaker 1: the intervention. Oh yeah, if my if like I think

785
00:40:18,800 --> 00:40:20,800
Speaker 1: I'm saying I would that to me is like I

786
00:40:20,840 --> 00:40:24,720
Speaker 1: didn't even notice that. I'm just thinking, like, if someone

787
00:40:24,800 --> 00:40:27,759
Speaker 1: ever says something about like a mom's kids, that's when

788
00:40:27,760 --> 00:40:30,840
Speaker 1: I'm like, just that's whenever you're really trying to flip

789
00:40:30,880 --> 00:40:33,360
Speaker 1: the switch, you know, I just like the switch. You

790
00:40:33,440 --> 00:40:36,880
Speaker 1: flipped the switch? Really, yeah, you've you've lit the burner.

791
00:40:36,960 --> 00:40:40,319
Speaker 1: It's on it's on fire. But did you believe me? Yeah?

792
00:40:40,600 --> 00:40:43,480
Speaker 1: I will say she stayed pretty calm and collective. You

793
00:40:43,520 --> 00:40:45,640
Speaker 1: like it. You're allowed to think on the villain. By

794
00:40:45,640 --> 00:40:47,480
Speaker 1: the way, I'm happy to be the villain. No, no, no no,

795
00:40:47,719 --> 00:40:51,000
Speaker 1: I think she was being an asshole. But also I'm

796
00:40:51,040 --> 00:40:53,239
Speaker 1: kind of an emotional list Like, I'm not very good

797
00:40:53,239 --> 00:40:57,040
Speaker 1: with emotions, so I understand people like her better. But

798
00:40:57,200 --> 00:40:59,959
Speaker 1: you were right. But you're saying, who gives a ship

799
00:41:00,080 --> 00:41:01,839
Speaker 1: took a swim in the ocean a bunch of way,

800
00:41:03,160 --> 00:41:05,919
Speaker 1: you know, like fuck you like you know whatever? Well,

801
00:41:06,000 --> 00:41:08,879
Speaker 1: she listened. We were all in turks and cacos one time,

802
00:41:09,160 --> 00:41:12,040
Speaker 1: and she brought home to guys and no one knew

803
00:41:12,000 --> 00:41:14,319
Speaker 1: who they were, and she put a good at front on.

804
00:41:14,480 --> 00:41:17,680
Speaker 1: By the way, yes this episode was a front. Yes,

805
00:41:17,960 --> 00:41:20,600
Speaker 1: but she's brought guys home to the house and just

806
00:41:20,719 --> 00:41:22,799
Speaker 1: left them in the house in like another room. And

807
00:41:22,800 --> 00:41:24,239
Speaker 1: one of the other girls woke up and saw a

808
00:41:24,239 --> 00:41:31,320
Speaker 1: strange guy and just be cool. But as a guy,

809
00:41:31,520 --> 00:41:34,480
Speaker 1: you see, like, who gives a ship? Guy? I understand

810
00:41:34,800 --> 00:41:40,239
Speaker 1: Louin's perspective more because I'm like, whatever, who cares? But yeah,

811
00:41:40,320 --> 00:41:43,160
Speaker 1: you you you let her have it for sure. I

812
00:41:43,160 --> 00:41:45,239
Speaker 1: think you won the argument. Do you think life is

813
00:41:45,239 --> 00:41:47,040
Speaker 1: a cabaret? You don't really know what a cabarets. You

814
00:41:47,080 --> 00:41:49,279
Speaker 1: can't make a good life is not a cabaret. I

815
00:41:49,320 --> 00:41:52,640
Speaker 1: wish it was. Sometimes you do, yeah, from time to time,

816
00:41:52,719 --> 00:41:55,080
Speaker 1: Like I go through periods. You know, you've had like

817
00:41:55,160 --> 00:41:58,080
Speaker 1: wild periods. You want life to be a cabaret, yes,

818
00:41:58,320 --> 00:41:59,880
Speaker 1: and it gets kind of wild and then you're like,

819
00:42:00,040 --> 00:42:03,160
Speaker 1: WHOA life is not a cabarette. You can make that.

820
00:42:03,440 --> 00:42:07,360
Speaker 1: You could make that popular TikTok facts because all the

821
00:42:07,440 --> 00:42:09,839
Speaker 1: stupid stuff that comes on TikTok is throwbacks, like I'll

822
00:42:09,840 --> 00:42:12,239
Speaker 1: watch you guys doing dances of ship. That was our

823
00:42:12,320 --> 00:42:14,200
Speaker 1: songs from the roller Rinking eight great, and you guys

824
00:42:14,200 --> 00:42:16,960
Speaker 1: think you're also fucking cool and so like, it's just

825
00:42:17,040 --> 00:42:19,960
Speaker 1: like so stupid that something like you or some one

826
00:42:20,000 --> 00:42:21,839
Speaker 1: of these dumb dumps could end up doing a dance

827
00:42:21,920 --> 00:42:24,160
Speaker 1: or saying life is not a cabaret. And all these

828
00:42:24,200 --> 00:42:26,239
Speaker 1: young people like Britain comes into my house and she's

829
00:42:26,280 --> 00:42:28,400
Speaker 1: saying life is not a cabaret, not because of me,

830
00:42:28,480 --> 00:42:30,319
Speaker 1: not because of the housewives, but because you did some

831
00:42:31,120 --> 00:42:33,920
Speaker 1: my money, don't jiggle dance to life is not a cabaret.

832
00:42:34,239 --> 00:42:37,239
Speaker 1: And they all fucking think it's real. That ticktok to me,

833
00:42:37,320 --> 00:42:40,120
Speaker 1: That literally is ticktok to me. All the old throwbacks

834
00:42:41,760 --> 00:42:44,600
Speaker 1: and I think it's gonna be a long long time.

835
00:42:44,640 --> 00:42:46,719
Speaker 1: That's a song from the fucking seventies and you all

836
00:42:46,800 --> 00:42:49,239
Speaker 1: made so cool now from Elton John and you all

837
00:42:49,320 --> 00:42:52,520
Speaker 1: think you're so He's a beast. So I'm just saying,

838
00:42:52,560 --> 00:43:06,200
Speaker 1: it's like, that's an old person's song. What's interesting though,

839
00:43:06,239 --> 00:43:09,080
Speaker 1: and not it's a weird thing to be successful on

840
00:43:09,239 --> 00:43:13,880
Speaker 1: television and reality television. Um, you gotta you gotta go

841
00:43:13,880 --> 00:43:15,719
Speaker 1: with a fish are where the action is, you know

842
00:43:15,719 --> 00:43:17,600
Speaker 1: what I mean? I came on that trip. I was

843
00:43:17,640 --> 00:43:19,560
Speaker 1: known that there's a comment at the m where I said, well,

844
00:43:19,640 --> 00:43:21,320
Speaker 1: I'm always the last to come in the first to

845
00:43:21,400 --> 00:43:23,560
Speaker 1: leave because because of my daughter. When I went back

846
00:43:23,600 --> 00:43:25,279
Speaker 1: to house, I was and no one knows this. I

847
00:43:25,320 --> 00:43:27,520
Speaker 1: had a very special deal. Is said I'm only coming back.

848
00:43:27,560 --> 00:43:29,640
Speaker 1: They came back and they threw money at me, and

849
00:43:29,640 --> 00:43:33,520
Speaker 1: I said, I'm only coming back, but I need these parameters.

850
00:43:33,520 --> 00:43:36,560
Speaker 1: And it's not because I'll give a thousand percent when

851
00:43:36,560 --> 00:43:38,200
Speaker 1: I'm there. I don't want to work less than anyone else,

852
00:43:38,200 --> 00:43:40,840
Speaker 1: but I have my daughter, and back then, my custody

853
00:43:40,840 --> 00:43:45,600
Speaker 1: situation was very stringent, my kids, my life. So I

854
00:43:45,640 --> 00:43:47,680
Speaker 1: had to have the schedule be like, if they decide

855
00:43:47,680 --> 00:43:49,480
Speaker 1: for the whole cast when the trip is, I'm not

856
00:43:49,520 --> 00:43:51,799
Speaker 1: going to change because of my custody schedule. But there

857
00:43:51,800 --> 00:43:53,400
Speaker 1: would be a situation where they'd have to do it

858
00:43:53,440 --> 00:43:55,440
Speaker 1: on these days. They're like, guys, I've got to come

859
00:43:55,440 --> 00:43:56,840
Speaker 1: of day late and leave a day early, and the

860
00:43:56,840 --> 00:44:00,040
Speaker 1: producers would freak out and I would just have do

861
00:44:00,160 --> 00:44:03,080
Speaker 1: it that way. But when I came, I would come correct,

862
00:44:03,440 --> 00:44:06,640
Speaker 1: not missing a goddamn scene, threading everything together, going into

863
00:44:06,680 --> 00:44:09,359
Speaker 1: every room, connecting everybody, Like there's a lot that goes

864
00:44:09,400 --> 00:44:12,520
Speaker 1: on underneath that no one sees where I was just

865
00:44:12,560 --> 00:44:15,319
Speaker 1: always making sure that, like story was moving forward. So

866
00:44:15,400 --> 00:44:19,200
Speaker 1: while I'm it's all a thousand percent real, I'm still

867
00:44:19,280 --> 00:44:22,280
Speaker 1: aware that me laying around talking about a sample sale

868
00:44:22,280 --> 00:44:24,680
Speaker 1: in the meatpacking district is not going to move the

869
00:44:24,760 --> 00:44:27,480
Speaker 1: number like you need to be. You know, the audience

870
00:44:27,520 --> 00:44:30,520
Speaker 1: has what they want to talk about here about, understand,

871
00:44:30,680 --> 00:44:33,319
Speaker 1: so you gotta move the traffic. So I was really

872
00:44:34,040 --> 00:44:35,640
Speaker 1: good at that, and that's why you see a lot

873
00:44:35,680 --> 00:44:38,440
Speaker 1: of the scenes and times that I'm in like things

874
00:44:38,480 --> 00:44:40,759
Speaker 1: pop off because it pretty would say we cut out

875
00:44:40,760 --> 00:44:42,640
Speaker 1: the whole first day, We use nothing from that day

876
00:44:42,640 --> 00:44:44,360
Speaker 1: and the day you left, we didn't include any of

877
00:44:44,400 --> 00:44:46,840
Speaker 1: it because that's just I'm a meat kind of person

878
00:44:46,920 --> 00:44:49,400
Speaker 1: and I'm like four play. I don't need after a cigarette.

879
00:44:49,600 --> 00:44:51,879
Speaker 1: I need what are we doing? Let's fucking get it now.

880
00:44:52,400 --> 00:44:55,239
Speaker 1: So that's just how I am. So the trips are

881
00:44:55,239 --> 00:44:57,360
Speaker 1: when it's really that was a five day trip. I

882
00:44:57,400 --> 00:44:59,440
Speaker 1: was only there three days, but like you see, I

883
00:44:59,520 --> 00:45:01,399
Speaker 1: get there, we're talking about so and yeah, and what's

884
00:45:01,440 --> 00:45:03,759
Speaker 1: her situation and her drinking and what happened with the

885
00:45:03,840 --> 00:45:06,479
Speaker 1: Land and what's happening with Barbara, Like, if you think

886
00:45:06,520 --> 00:45:10,160
Speaker 1: about it and you see that, I'm like and a

887
00:45:10,200 --> 00:45:12,799
Speaker 1: lot of it navigating it. Tinsley Like, so I was saying,

888
00:45:12,800 --> 00:45:16,080
Speaker 1: you're a therapist, I asked if they I mean, I'm

889
00:45:16,120 --> 00:45:18,880
Speaker 1: not joking. It was crazy and and sometimes I'm tempting.

890
00:45:18,880 --> 00:45:20,920
Speaker 1: I'm never really tempted to go back because of the rents,

891
00:45:21,360 --> 00:45:23,399
Speaker 1: but sometimes you want to just get on the field.

892
00:45:23,440 --> 00:45:26,080
Speaker 1: They're like, come on, guys, the funk because the show

893
00:45:26,120 --> 00:45:29,080
Speaker 1: is really different now. But so what I was getting

894
00:45:29,080 --> 00:45:32,160
Speaker 1: at is when you're there, though, you're like on this

895
00:45:32,280 --> 00:45:36,200
Speaker 1: adrenaline and you're almost like alcohol thirsty. You're just your

896
00:45:36,239 --> 00:45:38,279
Speaker 1: body is moving in a different way and you just

897
00:45:38,640 --> 00:45:42,040
Speaker 1: want a drink because you're excited. It's sort of like

898
00:45:42,320 --> 00:45:45,160
Speaker 1: get you're excited where you know you're not. It's never

899
00:45:45,320 --> 00:45:48,239
Speaker 1: fifth feed you too. It's like I understand like they

900
00:45:48,239 --> 00:45:50,680
Speaker 1: are setting you up to say something and do something

901
00:45:50,719 --> 00:45:52,759
Speaker 1: on camera, like that's what they want. Well, they would

902
00:45:52,800 --> 00:45:55,920
Speaker 1: love that, but it's whenever they say that they're pushing

903
00:45:55,920 --> 00:45:58,520
Speaker 1: people to drink on The Bachelor, the Housewives or anything,

904
00:45:58,560 --> 00:46:01,880
Speaker 1: they have alcohol there. They don't need to push you.

905
00:46:02,280 --> 00:46:05,560
Speaker 1: Just you pretty get you're in your bed, drink your profit.

906
00:46:05,600 --> 00:46:07,200
Speaker 1: It's like getting ready and you're just like, give me

907
00:46:07,239 --> 00:46:09,239
Speaker 1: a drink. It's cute. We have a solo cup. Like

908
00:46:09,719 --> 00:46:12,120
Speaker 1: you just feel different. It's like you feel different when

909
00:46:12,120 --> 00:46:13,719
Speaker 1: you're watching the super Bowl than when you do just

910
00:46:13,760 --> 00:46:16,480
Speaker 1: sitting around and your back you're doing nothing, Like it's

911
00:46:16,480 --> 00:46:18,480
Speaker 1: the vibe. So when you're shooting in the house, I

912
00:46:18,560 --> 00:46:19,839
Speaker 1: just sure give me. I don't know, have a drink.

913
00:46:19,880 --> 00:46:22,040
Speaker 1: You want drink, will have a drink. Let's have a drink. Drink.

914
00:46:24,200 --> 00:46:27,080
Speaker 1: You're getting attention, you want it. But then when you

915
00:46:27,160 --> 00:46:29,560
Speaker 1: combine that with the cameras and then like you say

916
00:46:29,640 --> 00:46:32,080
Speaker 1: one thing that like out of the corner of your

917
00:46:32,080 --> 00:46:34,240
Speaker 1: eye lash you think might have been like a skew

918
00:46:34,320 --> 00:46:36,960
Speaker 1: that you shouldn't have said, you're in your fucking head.

919
00:46:37,280 --> 00:46:39,600
Speaker 1: And then you're like, if you're like Ramona, you don't care.

920
00:46:40,000 --> 00:46:44,319
Speaker 1: You've literally demolished a whole race with one comment. And

921
00:46:44,360 --> 00:46:46,120
Speaker 1: you get the next drink and you forget you just

922
00:46:46,160 --> 00:46:48,319
Speaker 1: said it. And I if I said one thing that

923
00:46:48,480 --> 00:46:50,279
Speaker 1: like I felt bad about or I said wrong in

924
00:46:50,320 --> 00:46:52,680
Speaker 1: my mind, I'd be like, whoa dude. I'd think about

925
00:46:52,719 --> 00:46:55,440
Speaker 1: it for two months. But alcohol just like adds to

926
00:46:55,480 --> 00:46:59,200
Speaker 1: that whole crazy soup of ship you'll say, and stuff

927
00:46:59,239 --> 00:47:02,719
Speaker 1: that will pop off, and it's just it's concentrated. So

928
00:47:04,040 --> 00:47:07,480
Speaker 1: you're talking to people about their drinking, which intellectual you know,

929
00:47:07,640 --> 00:47:10,279
Speaker 1: could be way worse because of doing the show. Like

930
00:47:10,320 --> 00:47:12,840
Speaker 1: I don't think like Sonya and you know what I'm saying,

931
00:47:13,040 --> 00:47:15,600
Speaker 1: that's yeah, that's hard. It's like it's like a cycle.

932
00:47:15,680 --> 00:47:19,680
Speaker 1: It's like finding yourself and like then losing yourself and

933
00:47:19,680 --> 00:47:22,040
Speaker 1: then trying to find it. A game I've never thought

934
00:47:22,040 --> 00:47:23,520
Speaker 1: of that, I've never heard about it. I think you're

935
00:47:23,560 --> 00:47:27,040
Speaker 1: spot on because in your twenties that's when people you're

936
00:47:27,160 --> 00:47:29,240
Speaker 1: going you want to tell other people, God, you're fucking

937
00:47:29,239 --> 00:47:30,719
Speaker 1: doing the wrong thing, Like what are you doing? Like

938
00:47:30,760 --> 00:47:32,800
Speaker 1: you're watching people. Make sure you're a little bit different,

939
00:47:32,800 --> 00:47:35,240
Speaker 1: by the way, because you have a unique career and everything,

940
00:47:35,320 --> 00:47:37,960
Speaker 1: but like, no, but you and your friends, you're watching

941
00:47:37,960 --> 00:47:40,680
Speaker 1: people who have the world on a platter, and you're

942
00:47:40,719 --> 00:47:43,279
Speaker 1: watching them fuck it up and do stupid things. And

943
00:47:43,320 --> 00:47:46,080
Speaker 1: I'm saying, yes, that can happen at all ages. But

944
00:47:46,440 --> 00:47:50,840
Speaker 1: when you have women that no longer have the same responsibility,

945
00:47:51,440 --> 00:47:55,719
Speaker 1: no longer have the same hotness. There's a desperation that

946
00:47:55,800 --> 00:47:59,840
Speaker 1: comes in no longer have the same opportunity. I'm going

947
00:47:59,880 --> 00:48:02,160
Speaker 1: to go meet a guy on my twenties and pretty whatever.

948
00:48:02,160 --> 00:48:05,000
Speaker 1: I live in New York City. There's a desperation that happens.

949
00:48:05,040 --> 00:48:07,160
Speaker 1: And I feel like when you're when people are younger,

950
00:48:07,239 --> 00:48:09,680
Speaker 1: you watch young kids like drink too much, do stupid

951
00:48:09,680 --> 00:48:12,799
Speaker 1: things not thinking. I was just thinking about the other day.

952
00:48:12,840 --> 00:48:14,520
Speaker 1: I said this with one of my buddies. I'm like,

953
00:48:14,800 --> 00:48:16,719
Speaker 1: even when we were in college, all of your friends

954
00:48:16,760 --> 00:48:19,000
Speaker 1: are in one spot, Like you know, like I can't

955
00:48:19,000 --> 00:48:20,960
Speaker 1: even go back anymore and see a lot of my

956
00:48:21,040 --> 00:48:23,919
Speaker 1: friends from college because it's like ones over here, one's

957
00:48:23,960 --> 00:48:27,359
Speaker 1: over there, one's here, and like, you know, you kind

958
00:48:27,360 --> 00:48:30,160
Speaker 1: of take it for granted. And I think whenever you're older,

959
00:48:30,200 --> 00:48:32,440
Speaker 1: you realize that, so then you even have that on

960
00:48:32,560 --> 00:48:35,960
Speaker 1: top of it too, because like I took it for granted,

961
00:48:36,440 --> 00:48:38,879
Speaker 1: I can't go back. I don't look as good. And

962
00:48:39,560 --> 00:48:41,239
Speaker 1: you know, a lot of the guys that are my

963
00:48:41,280 --> 00:48:43,719
Speaker 1: age and now have families and kids. You can't just

964
00:48:43,719 --> 00:48:46,960
Speaker 1: go on tender and swipe and find a bunch of attractive,

965
00:48:47,120 --> 00:48:50,640
Speaker 1: successful single you know, men that are your age, So

966
00:48:51,000 --> 00:48:54,840
Speaker 1: it just makes everything so much crazier. That's interesting. Age.

967
00:48:54,920 --> 00:48:56,879
Speaker 1: There's a lot here about age. I think it hits

968
00:48:56,920 --> 00:49:01,319
Speaker 1: girls harder too than guys. What getting getting older being relevant? Yeah,

969
00:49:01,480 --> 00:49:04,480
Speaker 1: just like just feeling kind of like old and washed

970
00:49:04,600 --> 00:49:07,200
Speaker 1: up and board. Well, I'll tell you what's interesting about

971
00:49:07,200 --> 00:49:09,000
Speaker 1: the housewives. One day you and I will talk about,

972
00:49:09,040 --> 00:49:11,719
Speaker 1: like all the scandals and all the arrests there have been.

973
00:49:11,840 --> 00:49:14,560
Speaker 1: There's two topics. One no, I know you don't know

974
00:49:14,560 --> 00:49:18,640
Speaker 1: about any of this, but one Um many of the

975
00:49:18,640 --> 00:49:24,400
Speaker 1: housewives used to be blank Like Camille Grammar was married

976
00:49:24,480 --> 00:49:26,640
Speaker 1: to Kelsey Grammer, the guy who made all that money

977
00:49:26,719 --> 00:49:30,160
Speaker 1: from Frank okay Frazier. So it was a big show,

978
00:49:30,239 --> 00:49:32,800
Speaker 1: like as big as Friends or you are massive, really

979
00:49:32,920 --> 00:49:35,520
Speaker 1: rich like all this like Seinfeld type money. So she

980
00:49:35,640 --> 00:49:38,120
Speaker 1: was married to him. Then he got with another younger woman.

981
00:49:38,360 --> 00:49:42,440
Speaker 1: Now she's a housewife. Luanne, the woman who Um was

982
00:49:42,440 --> 00:49:46,040
Speaker 1: on the cabaret poster, she was married to account She

983
00:49:46,120 --> 00:49:48,160
Speaker 1: had a royal title because her husband was part of

984
00:49:48,200 --> 00:49:50,120
Speaker 1: the family that gave the Statue of Liberty for the

985
00:49:50,200 --> 00:49:53,520
Speaker 1: French like real ship. So that's his family. She was

986
00:49:53,600 --> 00:49:56,239
Speaker 1: married to him. She used to be accountess. She kept

987
00:49:56,239 --> 00:49:58,600
Speaker 1: the title. But she used to be married to account

988
00:49:59,000 --> 00:50:01,560
Speaker 1: Sonya the one you like that reminds you of yourself.

989
00:50:01,600 --> 00:50:03,360
Speaker 1: She used to be married to a member of the

990
00:50:03,440 --> 00:50:06,760
Speaker 1: JP Morgan family. So she talks about the Morgan letters

991
00:50:06,760 --> 00:50:08,880
Speaker 1: and going to the Morgan She used to be married.

992
00:50:08,960 --> 00:50:13,839
Speaker 1: So there's a lot of yes, yes, yes, so so so.

993
00:50:13,960 --> 00:50:15,520
Speaker 1: One of the girls on Beverly Hills right now, her

994
00:50:15,560 --> 00:50:17,480
Speaker 1: name is Erica Jane. She's in the news every day

995
00:50:17,520 --> 00:50:21,120
Speaker 1: for this whole crazy scandal, but she was married to

996
00:50:21,160 --> 00:50:24,200
Speaker 1: a guy who was a big, famous, rich lawyer. It

997
00:50:24,320 --> 00:50:26,400
Speaker 1: all got just kind of taken down because it's all scam,

998
00:50:26,480 --> 00:50:30,160
Speaker 1: but like she was the wife of this big major lawyer.

999
00:50:30,160 --> 00:50:32,680
Speaker 1: It's a it's a big thing. It's a thread throughout

1000
00:50:32,880 --> 00:50:35,319
Speaker 1: all of the Housewatch people that either used to be

1001
00:50:35,400 --> 00:50:38,759
Speaker 1: something or used to be married to something. So that

1002
00:50:38,920 --> 00:50:41,560
Speaker 1: was their peak. Now they got their second chance at

1003
00:50:41,560 --> 00:50:43,000
Speaker 1: a peak. Is now they're famous on their own and

1004
00:50:44,200 --> 00:50:48,640
Speaker 1: didn't have that, not the the only one. Denise Richards

1005
00:50:48,680 --> 00:50:51,480
Speaker 1: was a bond girl and she was married to Charlie

1006
00:50:51,480 --> 00:50:53,840
Speaker 1: Sheen and she you know, she's beautiful and was in

1007
00:50:53,880 --> 00:50:56,040
Speaker 1: all these amazing movies and then now she's a Housewife.

1008
00:50:56,040 --> 00:50:59,160
Speaker 1: That's not quite the same. So yeah, many of them,

1009
00:50:59,200 --> 00:51:01,360
Speaker 1: it's like Dancing with the Stars where they were really

1010
00:51:01,400 --> 00:51:04,879
Speaker 1: famous or at the peak of something, and then later

1011
00:51:04,960 --> 00:51:10,160
Speaker 1: they it's interesting, and no I was. I was like

1012
00:51:10,239 --> 00:51:12,520
Speaker 1: Lisa rinna Is on Beverly Hills. She was an actors.

1013
00:51:12,520 --> 00:51:14,839
Speaker 1: She was married to Harry Hamlin. That's like, really, oh,

1014
00:51:14,880 --> 00:51:16,600
Speaker 1: she is married to Harry Hamlin. He used to be

1015
00:51:16,640 --> 00:51:19,120
Speaker 1: like a big time actor and she you know, she

1016
00:51:19,280 --> 00:51:21,440
Speaker 1: now has had a revival of her career because Beverly

1017
00:51:21,520 --> 00:51:25,359
Speaker 1: Hills is a little more um elevated and less. It's

1018
00:51:25,360 --> 00:51:28,200
Speaker 1: tragic in a different way, but many of these people

1019
00:51:28,640 --> 00:51:31,480
Speaker 1: had a lot of relevance in a different way and

1020
00:51:31,520 --> 00:51:34,560
Speaker 1: now this revived that for them. So they were married,

1021
00:51:34,640 --> 00:51:36,480
Speaker 1: they got to Dorinda's a girl. She was married to

1022
00:51:36,480 --> 00:51:39,360
Speaker 1: a wealthy guy. He knew the Clinton's, he worked in politics.

1023
00:51:39,640 --> 00:51:41,480
Speaker 1: Then you know, he passed away and you're sort of

1024
00:51:41,480 --> 00:51:43,440
Speaker 1: just like living your life. Your your kids are older,

1025
00:51:43,480 --> 00:51:45,640
Speaker 1: like you said, and like, now what am I doing?

1026
00:51:45,719 --> 00:51:49,040
Speaker 1: While the Housewives comes along and loves that loves that

1027
00:51:49,040 --> 00:51:52,680
Speaker 1: show because they give all of it and they still

1028
00:51:52,680 --> 00:51:57,200
Speaker 1: have that like desperation and they get newfound fame again.

1029
00:51:57,840 --> 00:52:01,879
Speaker 1: So they get to be even more they weren't. It's

1030
00:52:01,920 --> 00:52:05,920
Speaker 1: personal fame, it's not fame adjacent. So but then people

1031
00:52:06,000 --> 00:52:09,480
Speaker 1: want on this show so badly that there's other side ship.

1032
00:52:09,560 --> 00:52:11,200
Speaker 1: So that's one bucket I just told you about I

1033
00:52:11,280 --> 00:52:15,200
Speaker 1: used to be. Then there's this thing so I wasn't that.

1034
00:52:15,280 --> 00:52:17,880
Speaker 1: I was just a broke girl trying to be something

1035
00:52:18,200 --> 00:52:20,520
Speaker 1: on the other side. I wasn't this either. For some

1036
00:52:20,800 --> 00:52:22,360
Speaker 1: I was always saying I broke. I was, and I

1037
00:52:22,360 --> 00:52:24,359
Speaker 1: was in my key apartment. I was honest about it.

1038
00:52:24,800 --> 00:52:28,000
Speaker 1: There's this thing where because the audience seems to want

1039
00:52:28,000 --> 00:52:30,240
Speaker 1: to look at Rich or because Bravo wants to show

1040
00:52:30,360 --> 00:52:32,920
Speaker 1: rich there's a lot of all show and no go.

1041
00:52:33,360 --> 00:52:35,239
Speaker 1: So there are people who go on and they just

1042
00:52:35,280 --> 00:52:37,239
Speaker 1: can't help. But they have to show a Ferrari. They

1043
00:52:37,320 --> 00:52:39,680
Speaker 1: can't help it. They don't haven't seen all these cautionary

1044
00:52:39,680 --> 00:52:41,279
Speaker 1: tales I'm going to tell you about. But they have

1045
00:52:41,320 --> 00:52:43,600
Speaker 1: to drive a Ferrari. In many cases it's rented or

1046
00:52:43,680 --> 00:52:47,440
Speaker 1: least or some bullshit. So in one scene of Jersey

1047
00:52:47,440 --> 00:52:50,359
Speaker 1: Housewives in the beginning, the woman is paying she's with

1048
00:52:50,360 --> 00:52:53,000
Speaker 1: this guy. They're like Italian Jersey, and she's a big

1049
00:52:53,080 --> 00:52:56,200
Speaker 1: character and they're paying in all cash. She's we're doing

1050
00:52:56,200 --> 00:52:58,160
Speaker 1: my my, my house, and she's paying in all cash

1051
00:52:58,160 --> 00:53:00,560
Speaker 1: for all this furniture, like a hundred back to pay

1052
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Speaker 1: for all this furniture and jersey for this new house

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Speaker 1: she's doing. Cut to. Her husband gets caught, caught for

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Speaker 1: tax evasion. She signed all the paperwork. She didn't know.

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Speaker 1: They both go to jail. Another story, salahis this is

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00:53:13,680 --> 00:53:16,879
Speaker 1: the this is Washington d C. We'll have the real

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Speaker 1: Housewives of d C. They all over the news. They

1058
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Speaker 1: were on the Real House as a d C who

1059
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Speaker 1: all over the news broke into the fucking White House

1060
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Speaker 1: for a White House dinner. They crashed like wedding crashers.

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Speaker 1: But at the White House they arrested, arrested. Luanne in

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Speaker 1: Palm Beach doing whatever in a hotel room, ends up

1063
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Speaker 1: in the wrong room, doing crazy shit, verbally abused as

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Speaker 1: a police officer. She gets arrested. Okay, um, just recently

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Speaker 1: a girl Jen Shaw. I don't know who she is

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Speaker 1: and I've never watched the show, but she's in Salt

1067
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Speaker 1: Lake City. I guess she was doing like illegal Ponzi

1068
00:53:50,719 --> 00:53:53,640
Speaker 1: schemes over the phone, like getting money from people. I

1069
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Speaker 1: didn't see this, so I can't speak directly on it.

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Speaker 1: She just got arrested. Erica Jay and the one I

1071
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Speaker 1: just told you married to this guy. He was involved

1072
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Speaker 1: in this very famous case that the movie Aaron Brockovich

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Speaker 1: was was based on, and she was living this life.

1074
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Speaker 1: And she's on the show saying, I spent fifty thousand

1075
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Speaker 1: a month on my glam. It's expensive to be me.

1076
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Speaker 1: She has a song, she's got money, bows in her hair,

1077
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Speaker 1: she's hot, she's all rich, she's got stylish's flying fucking

1078
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Speaker 1: hair and makeup to duby, she's the richest bitch. They

1079
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Speaker 1: all are trying to be like her. She's wearing latex

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Speaker 1: et cetera. Her husband gets caught. So I'm saying, there's

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Speaker 1: a thread on this show where there's all these criminals

1082
00:54:31,840 --> 00:54:33,920
Speaker 1: and all these people that must show how rich they

1083
00:54:33,960 --> 00:54:36,280
Speaker 1: are and then they end up getting arrested. It's fucking

1084
00:54:36,320 --> 00:54:38,319
Speaker 1: crazy and it's rampant, and I haven't even told you

1085
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Speaker 1: all of it, told you maybe half. That's the show

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Speaker 1: I was, that's the franchise, everything, that's that's where seasons

1087
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Speaker 1: comes from. That's what we're watching. So okay, got it? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: First episode. I feel like it was a good started though. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: it was a solid one.