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Speaker 2: We love you guys so much.

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Speaker 3: Thanks forever.

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Speaker 1: Oh hi guys, hello in Sydney, Washington. We haven't set

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Speaker 2: I know, I was caught off guard. I didn't know

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Speaker 2: that we were recording.

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Speaker 4: I was just running my mouth about how loud it

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Speaker 4: is in the studio. Okay, I could have stayed home

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Speaker 4: for this, I mean we could.

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Speaker 2: We could cut that out. Now, leave that in there.

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Speaker 2: Please leave it in.

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Speaker 3: Leave it until people are in the moment and they

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Speaker 3: know like.

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Speaker 2: They're here with us. It's not sound proof obviously.

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Speaker 4: Hey guys, shout out to everybody who's still listening, because honestly,

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Speaker 4: who are you.

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Speaker 1: We really really appreciate your support. Really, you're doing a

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Speaker 1: lot for the community.

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Speaker 4: Somebody who listens to the podcast came to see me

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Speaker 4: before on Monday and uh got.

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Speaker 3: Me some fries. So really, I'm just grateful for that.

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Speaker 4: Yes, anytime I'm out and you guys come see me,

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Speaker 4: please feed me because a lot of y'all have come

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Speaker 4: out to see me and then you just you hug

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Speaker 4: me in your leave and who wants that? I mean,

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Speaker 4: not enough, it's disrespectful. I mean, if you met Beyonce,

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Speaker 4: wouldn't you take Beionce to lunch?

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Speaker 1: And you definitely should take her out because it's her birthday,

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Speaker 1: My birthday.

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Speaker 4: September twenty third, So uh, Sydney, Planda's a prize party

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Speaker 4: for me at the studio. There are bird and ernie hats.

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Speaker 4: They're Sessame street hats. Yes there What are these things that.

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Speaker 2: You blow into?

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Speaker 1: It was supposed to be a little little whistle things,

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Speaker 1: but obviously there's a there's no whistle city sucks.

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Speaker 2: I walked in.

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Speaker 4: It looked like you had a capri son straw and

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Speaker 4: you know she's still drinking that hood juice.

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Speaker 5: No.

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Speaker 1: Yes, So we have cake and ice cream and I

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Speaker 1: just want my friend the thickest for her birthday.

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Speaker 3: Thank you so much for her to get me thick.

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Speaker 4: Oh, that truly greatest gift that you can give me,

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Speaker 4: trying to do it like fifteen pounds.

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Speaker 2: Just eat the whole damn cake.

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Speaker 1: You know what, eat the cake anime? Yes, and I'm

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Speaker 1: gonna do what I can with my mouth. Yes, So

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Speaker 1: give her presents. Venmo her, what's your vemo?

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Speaker 3: It's Marie Foston. Yes, if you know how to spell, if.

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Speaker 1: You know how to spell, if you know how to spell,

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Speaker 1: I'll take your money.

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Speaker 4: If you know how to spell, Marie spelled M A

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Speaker 4: R I E. Because people keep spelling it with a

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Speaker 4: y oh or they spell it the right way, and

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Speaker 4: they call me Mary, which we all know is a

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Speaker 4: fat white lady.

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Speaker 2: Please stop.

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Speaker 3: Do we know skinny black girl's name Mary?

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Speaker 5: No?

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Speaker 2: Actually I don't.

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Speaker 4: I feel like if it's a white woman named married,

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Speaker 4: she's fat, and if it's a black girl named married,

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Speaker 4: she can't read. So neither of those things. So I'm

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Speaker 4: skinny and I can read. So it's just Marie.

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Speaker 2: We just lost thirty listeners from that.

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Speaker 4: I don't know fat white women listen to this, and

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Speaker 4: don't know illiterate people listen to this. It's a bunch

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Speaker 4: of skinny gays that are well read.

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Speaker 2: Marie. It's her birthday, so please excuse her.

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Speaker 1: No, you know you was getting this, okay. Also, Also,

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Speaker 1: if you see her in the subway. Please swipe her,

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Speaker 1: give her a slag.

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Speaker 2: My card is unlimited for the month. It's fine.

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Speaker 4: I paid one hundred and twenty one dollars for this card.

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Speaker 4: That it should not be that much. But you know,

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Speaker 4: says Sis the voice. What's going on?

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Speaker 3: Oh my god, do you hear it?

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Speaker 2: It's gone.

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Speaker 3: It's around that time.

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Speaker 4: It's around that time where I lose my voice again,

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Speaker 4: that bronchitis.

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Speaker 3: Thank you so much.

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Speaker 4: Time for like, you know, like a sexy birthday terenade

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Speaker 4: at my party tomorrow.

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Speaker 2: I'm excited about it. Oh my god, happy birthday.

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Speaker 3: Wow, Tony Braxton sounds great.

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Speaker 2: I think you so much.

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Speaker 1: Yes, if Tony Braxton had bronchitis, if Tony Braxton had

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Speaker 3: Sydney. What's going on with you? You still out the

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Speaker 2: I do? Okay, I do? And we're doing sunglasses inside?

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Speaker 2: I was like, let me put my sun glasses on.

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Speaker 3: You want to talk about it? We got some glasses on.

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Speaker 3: But what's wrong with your eyes?

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Speaker 2: You know you just have late nights. I have allergies.

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Speaker 2: You got pink eye?

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Speaker 2: You are a grown ass women and you don't have

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Speaker 1: I got glackoma and cataracts in my eyes.

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Speaker 2: You forgot your lashes? Anyone? Yes?

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Speaker 1: You know when the glue gets in the like center,

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Speaker 1: Thank you fix the edges because you know, when we're

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Speaker 3: You know, you just shampoo and condition your scalp.

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Speaker 2: And you're saying blank. People don't think that we stayed

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Speaker 4: I travel, I feel like I should be somewhere cute. Yes,

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Speaker 2: Back to the room. Has that ever happened?

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Speaker 5: No?

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Speaker 2: It what if it's about.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I've never brought anybody back to the hotel that

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Speaker 3: For incidental.

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Speaker 4: Yes, Listen, when you got to hotels and they asked

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Speaker 4: for your card for incidental, you'd be like, actually, I.

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Speaker 3: For incidental. It's like, well, what you mean, nothing gonna happen,

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Speaker 1: And you talk about your expertise first, let's okay, sure

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Speaker 4: This week I feel like I was an expert at

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Speaker 4: being patient. Yeah, which is that you know, that's not

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Speaker 4: that ain't me. It's not my truth, that's not my ministry.

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Speaker 4: And so last week Sydney and I went to a

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Speaker 3: Yes, which is like, I guess a big deal.

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Speaker 4: It is to like he took us to like a

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Speaker 3: And so we went. We got Sydney or her lobster.

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Speaker 2: It was crazy.

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Speaker 4: She didn't eat the lobster. She rude, it's so bad. Well,

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Speaker 4: we told you was gonna be bad.

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Speaker 2: And then as a Haitian woman, you were like.

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Speaker 1: You're going to just wait because all this food, because lobsters,

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Speaker 1: it's so much work.

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Speaker 4: Very little payoff, right like, and they didn't give us

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Speaker 2: So he was like, they treat me better as I'm

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Speaker 3: They give me. They give me the sauce.

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Speaker 4: You're eating, well, you're eating imitation lobster with the swool.

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Speaker 4: It's showy, is good, you know, like that that white

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Speaker 2: People swear its crab. It's so fucking good. It tastes

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Speaker 3: Tastes like a diabetes and high blood prushure.

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Speaker 2: It gives me, it gives me good. I don't know,

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Speaker 2: it's just it's so good for me.

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Speaker 3: No, it's bad for you. That's why your eyes look

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Speaker 4: Shut up and so uh so we went back to

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Speaker 3: Like, Oh, it's gonna be so funny.

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Speaker 2: We're gonna have a good time blah. And I was

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Speaker 2: I was it was not fun for me.

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Speaker 1: I was like talking about like dicks and like pain,

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Speaker 3: I was talking about stuff that I don't even normally

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Speaker 4: And Sidney was like the ambiyonds of the restaurant, and

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Speaker 4: I was like, oh my god, this is gonna be

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Speaker 2: It's gonna be awful.

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Speaker 4: She was like the food was delicious, and I was

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Speaker 4: like what, Like, oh my god, I was like, and

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Speaker 4: she like gave it like a real restaurant review, which

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Speaker 4: is not what they wanted, right, They wanted us to

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Speaker 4: just like he's heard the podcast before. He was like,

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Speaker 4: you guys, yell are rude, yell, are funny?

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Speaker 2: Just talk about food.

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Speaker 3: Yes, I'm feuedal beforehand. If it comes up, it comes up.

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Speaker 4: And Sydney was like, so by the book that I

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Speaker 4: call you about it this.

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Speaker 1: Weekend, and okay, I was like, so we're just gonna

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Speaker 1: handle it on the on the podcast, wait for my expertise.

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Speaker 2: You hear me talking.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, But when we were leaving, the dude was a

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Speaker 4: his editor, the editor in chief, had eater left it.

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Speaker 4: And then I started to listening to it this morning

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Speaker 4: and it was cool, and I was like, Okay, well,

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Speaker 4: So you see, this is that's why I'm an expert

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Speaker 4: being pai chill.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Sidney, what were you an expert in this week? Hmmm?

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Speaker 3: I'm just are you stunned? Are you flabraed?

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Speaker 2: So I guess I was an expert in you know,

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Speaker 3: Being good people this week. Honestly and truly, you.

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Speaker 2: Gotta be there even when you can't be there for yourself.

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Speaker 2: But I'm not that petty, like you know what I mean.

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Speaker 4: Like sometimes it makes you feel good because you can

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Speaker 3: Absolutely, maybe that's just me my patient skills.

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Speaker 3: Also Sydney.

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Speaker 2: She's very Maria Jason, thank you so much.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, which is why I think I like this person.

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Speaker 1: Also she's funny, so funny she was. She went to

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Speaker 4: Two Less Lonely Girls justin Bieber based justin bieber Bays

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Speaker 1: I haven't heard it, but if I heard great things

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Speaker 5: Okay, first of all, it's it is about Justin Bieber,

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Speaker 5: but we stalk Justin Bieber. Okay, it's not like this

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Speaker 2: Okay, you feel like that was the flaw in it? Listen,

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Speaker 3: Okay, well, defend his current look his hair, and I.

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Speaker 5: Can't you know what, I can't defend that exactly.

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Speaker 5: He has been famous since he was like eight years old.

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Speaker 1: No, dude, we know the fact that you're able to

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Speaker 1: stalk him. You stopped him even though he looks homeless. Yeah,

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Speaker 5: You can't hide money, he knows, like a young kid Rock,

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Speaker 2: My name is dude, Biber. I don't even I've never

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Speaker 3: I used to watch t RL.

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Speaker 2: I literally never did Rose by your eyebrows. I know

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Speaker 5: In my life, never in my life. Okay, First of all,

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Speaker 5: I didn't know I was coming on here to get roasted.

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Speaker 2: Oh, I don't know why you didn't think that you

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Speaker 5: Second second, I just need a little piece of butter

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Speaker 4: The ice cream because I don't want it to melt

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Speaker 3: And also you've done like roast battles here in the city.

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Speaker 2: How so a ROAs is so done with those right?

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Speaker 4: Listen a roast battle when they put two comics against

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Speaker 3: To each other.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, you just go back and forth with jokes, just

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Speaker 2: It's a very formal roast. It it is a very

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Speaker 1: You sit down and you think about these jokes about

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Speaker 5: Well that's the problem with unfunny people. But this is

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Speaker 2: So it has to be funnier than it is me because.

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Speaker 4: You'll be talking about people family members dying and people's

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Speaker 3: It's like crazy, they all roast each other.

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Speaker 4: You're really saying stuff that you know about the other

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Speaker 2: I don't know a lot of people. I just ask them,

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Speaker 5: Think I would tell you about my harp girl by

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Speaker 3: I'll be like, none of it, nothing, none of it.

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Speaker 5: I'm a wait outside but that's why you wouldn't sign

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Speaker 2: You know, like the people that sign up for this

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Speaker 3: They have asked me and Sydney to roast each other

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Speaker 2: And I'm sure I said, I don't need to.

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Speaker 2: We really don't.

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Speaker 1: We see each other enough. We don't need to be

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Speaker 1: guys can see Sidney. None of my business, you guys.

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Speaker 2: I have seen the roasts.

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Speaker 5: I know for a fact that you guys have seen

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Speaker 2: I don't even like.

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Speaker 5: This is the greatest moment of my life. So I

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Speaker 1: Yeah, if somebody that I don't like is getting thoroughly roasted,

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Speaker 1: it's beautiful. Wait, what was one of the jokes that

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Speaker 3: So loud, so messy, Marie, It's good.

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Speaker 2: It was fun. It was a fun one.

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Speaker 2: But is that how you channel some of your anger? Yes, battles?

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Speaker 4: Now, what does a young, well to do white woman

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Speaker 3: Because you well to do.

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Speaker 4: Well, did you look like you had a racketball club

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Speaker 2: I really do? I really?

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Speaker 1: Do you look like you shop at I don't know rag?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you know, it's uh, it's I don't know. I

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Speaker 5: When I really like focusing on it, I'm like, I

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Speaker 2: I was a kid.

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Speaker 3: Do you have angry parents?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, my dad he's a he's a real mean he's

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Speaker 5: a mean guy. What's he's like, okay, so he is

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Speaker 3: Mom and some flowers here.

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Speaker 5: My mom's a painter and my dad's a lawyer. And

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Speaker 5: He didn't know what to do.

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Speaker 5: We were all supposed to be men, and he just

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Speaker 5: failed miserably each time. Right, so he never created a

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Speaker 2: You fell asleep. I can't believe you fell asleep? Was

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Speaker 5: He goes, well, maybe you know, he's like he's from Texas.

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Speaker 5: He's like, well, you know, maybe if it was a

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Speaker 5: I just like that is you know, looking back at that,

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Speaker 1: Your dad would have got along with my mom because

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Speaker 1: I was like all I needed was my mom to

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Speaker 1: be like, no, let me take off.

450
00:18:20,320 --> 00:18:21,560
Speaker 2: I'm not losing my hours.

451
00:18:22,080 --> 00:18:24,640
Speaker 1: I know, She's like, now you can't eat next week

452
00:18:24,680 --> 00:18:25,840
Speaker 1: because we don't have money for it.

453
00:18:26,080 --> 00:18:29,680
Speaker 2: I could whole off dry ass voice.

454
00:18:29,800 --> 00:18:32,160
Speaker 5: I mean, being a parent is a pain in the ass,

455
00:18:32,240 --> 00:18:35,760
Speaker 5: you know. I feel like if I wish that I

456
00:18:35,800 --> 00:18:38,520
Speaker 5: had been an adult, like adult me had heard my

457
00:18:38,600 --> 00:18:40,439
Speaker 5: dad say that, because I would have cracked up, you

458
00:18:40,440 --> 00:18:43,000
Speaker 5: know what I mean, Because the funniest part about it

459
00:18:43,080 --> 00:18:47,080
Speaker 5: was I wrote the fucking play. So I'm like, he's like, well,

460
00:18:47,119 --> 00:18:49,360
Speaker 5: maybe if it was a better play, if or maybe

461
00:18:49,359 --> 00:18:50,920
Speaker 5: I wouldn't have fallen asleep if it was a better play.

462
00:18:50,960 --> 00:18:52,720
Speaker 2: I'm like, I wrote, did he know that you wrote

463
00:18:52,720 --> 00:18:55,800
Speaker 2: the play? Apparently not? And I was like, Dad, I

464
00:18:55,880 --> 00:18:58,680
Speaker 2: was like, I wrote the play. And he goes, well,

465
00:18:58,720 --> 00:19:00,320
Speaker 2: you're not fucking Shakespeare. I don't know.

466
00:19:01,440 --> 00:19:05,280
Speaker 1: That sounds fantastic, but it's hilarious, terrible, He's terrible.

467
00:19:05,720 --> 00:19:08,480
Speaker 5: But he's also like, as a comic, I'm like, that's

468
00:19:08,520 --> 00:19:11,280
Speaker 5: the reason I became a comic, Like, that's my sense

469
00:19:11,280 --> 00:19:11,760
Speaker 5: of humor.

470
00:19:11,960 --> 00:19:14,080
Speaker 2: You know you need it though, Sometimes you need a

471
00:19:14,080 --> 00:19:16,399
Speaker 2: little bit of that. You just steer you in the

472
00:19:16,440 --> 00:19:19,800
Speaker 2: direction like, hey, maybe plays ain't for me. Yes, maybe

473
00:19:19,840 --> 00:19:22,040
Speaker 2: I'm not good. Maybe that's not my lane. But I

474
00:19:22,280 --> 00:19:22,960
Speaker 2: do something else.

475
00:19:23,040 --> 00:19:25,680
Speaker 3: Maybe that's not my lane, that's.

476
00:19:25,560 --> 00:19:29,199
Speaker 2: Not what I should do. Yeah. My dad was, you know,

477
00:19:29,400 --> 00:19:30,919
Speaker 2: he was always like, you're very funny.

478
00:19:30,920 --> 00:19:33,479
Speaker 5: You should do you should do comedy, He's like, and

479
00:19:33,560 --> 00:19:35,600
Speaker 5: I was like, I'm a I'm a serious actress. Yeah,

480
00:19:35,720 --> 00:19:38,560
Speaker 5: he was like, uh, all right, well nobody likes theater,

481
00:19:39,040 --> 00:19:40,760
Speaker 5: That's what he said to me. He's like, nobody wants

482
00:19:40,800 --> 00:19:42,520
Speaker 5: to That's why they have Mattinees, because nobody wants to

483
00:19:42,520 --> 00:19:43,880
Speaker 5: waste their whole night out of theater.

484
00:19:43,960 --> 00:19:46,439
Speaker 2: Oh my god, Yes, I want to hang out with you.

485
00:19:46,640 --> 00:19:48,360
Speaker 2: Can he get on the past? I know? I want

486
00:19:48,440 --> 00:19:51,760
Speaker 2: him to be James Baker, James Baker, James We got

487
00:19:51,800 --> 00:19:52,920
Speaker 2: some time James Baker.

488
00:19:52,920 --> 00:19:54,679
Speaker 1: It seemed like he might say the N word on

489
00:19:54,720 --> 00:19:58,120
Speaker 1: the Weekend Texas he's from.

490
00:19:59,480 --> 00:20:02,080
Speaker 2: You might say, well, I'll sipping on an old fashioned.

491
00:20:02,119 --> 00:20:03,680
Speaker 5: I've never heard him say it, but you know what,

492
00:20:03,840 --> 00:20:04,920
Speaker 5: I'm not gonna say.

493
00:20:05,200 --> 00:20:07,040
Speaker 1: That's how y'all do you like? Well, he's never been

494
00:20:07,119 --> 00:20:09,159
Speaker 1: racist in front of not in front of me.

495
00:20:09,280 --> 00:20:10,720
Speaker 3: I can't confirmed.

496
00:20:11,240 --> 00:20:13,520
Speaker 2: Tonight whatever happens in his car.

497
00:20:14,320 --> 00:20:15,880
Speaker 4: James seems like one of those people that like when

498
00:20:15,880 --> 00:20:17,840
Speaker 4: he sees like somebody who's down on their luck or

499
00:20:17,840 --> 00:20:20,040
Speaker 4: like a homeless he just says thoughts and prayers.

500
00:20:21,040 --> 00:20:21,200
Speaker 2: Oh.

501
00:20:21,240 --> 00:20:23,240
Speaker 5: He is definitely one of those puts no money in

502
00:20:23,240 --> 00:20:25,800
Speaker 5: the cup, definitely one of those.

503
00:20:25,880 --> 00:20:29,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, so you had that anger from a kid. Yeah.

504
00:20:29,520 --> 00:20:32,200
Speaker 5: Also, my mom's really southern, you know, so she didn't.

505
00:20:32,240 --> 00:20:34,480
Speaker 5: She would never admit that she was angry. She'd always

506
00:20:34,520 --> 00:20:37,080
Speaker 5: be like, no, I'm just sad, and that you to

507
00:20:37,280 --> 00:20:39,800
Speaker 5: piss him off. Yeah, because it's like, don't say your

508
00:20:39,800 --> 00:20:41,160
Speaker 5: fucking side, just say you're pissed.

509
00:20:41,240 --> 00:20:44,080
Speaker 1: But what are sad and angry have to do? Like

510
00:20:44,119 --> 00:20:45,399
Speaker 1: they have nothing in common to me?

511
00:20:46,080 --> 00:20:47,919
Speaker 4: Like I feel like I'm quiet when i'm sad, and

512
00:20:47,920 --> 00:20:49,080
Speaker 4: I'm loud when i'm angry.

513
00:20:49,080 --> 00:20:52,159
Speaker 1: Well, sometimes you're sad that you're angry. You're like, and

514
00:20:52,200 --> 00:20:54,520
Speaker 1: you can't pinpoint why you're angry.

515
00:20:54,840 --> 00:20:56,880
Speaker 2: That can make you sad. You're like, what the fuck

516
00:20:56,920 --> 00:20:58,119
Speaker 2: am I so mad about it?

517
00:20:58,280 --> 00:21:02,000
Speaker 5: I can't always point why I'm angry. I can't pinpoint

518
00:21:02,000 --> 00:21:04,840
Speaker 5: why I'm sad anger always I can find a.

519
00:21:04,840 --> 00:21:06,760
Speaker 2: Direct source, you know what I mean?

520
00:21:06,840 --> 00:21:09,159
Speaker 5: Because if you get angry, something set you off, and

521
00:21:09,200 --> 00:21:10,480
Speaker 5: it's always pretty obvious.

522
00:21:10,560 --> 00:21:11,959
Speaker 2: But no, no, no, no, I will tell you this.

523
00:21:12,320 --> 00:21:15,240
Speaker 1: When you angry about stuff, you think it's about one thing,

524
00:21:15,320 --> 00:21:17,080
Speaker 1: but it's it's about something that happened like.

525
00:21:17,000 --> 00:21:19,159
Speaker 2: Two weeks ago, right, that happens too.

526
00:21:19,280 --> 00:21:22,439
Speaker 1: Sometimes it's the snowball effect that you're like layering noim.

527
00:21:22,400 --> 00:21:24,000
Speaker 5: But Here's the thing is, this is why I'm an

528
00:21:24,040 --> 00:21:27,200
Speaker 5: expert at anger is because the second that I feel angry,

529
00:21:27,680 --> 00:21:30,040
Speaker 5: I say it in them, like I don't have a

530
00:21:30,080 --> 00:21:32,160
Speaker 5: way to be like, oh, let me just hold onto

531
00:21:32,200 --> 00:21:33,360
Speaker 5: this for a second.

532
00:21:33,359 --> 00:21:35,680
Speaker 2: You know what I mean? Like I'll just say, Okay,

533
00:21:35,680 --> 00:21:37,439
Speaker 2: well this is pissing me off. You nip it in

534
00:21:37,480 --> 00:21:37,919
Speaker 2: the button.

535
00:21:37,960 --> 00:21:40,280
Speaker 5: Yeah, and that way, the next time I see the person,

536
00:21:40,920 --> 00:21:43,359
Speaker 5: you know, their outfit won't annoy me?

537
00:21:44,560 --> 00:21:46,320
Speaker 2: That make you angry for my outfit?

538
00:21:46,520 --> 00:21:46,800
Speaker 5: Yeah?

539
00:21:46,880 --> 00:21:51,639
Speaker 3: You ever not like somebody and everything about them? You smile.

540
00:21:51,760 --> 00:21:54,360
Speaker 5: There's one guy in New York. I'm not gonna say

541
00:21:54,359 --> 00:21:57,119
Speaker 5: his name. I hate the shape of his fucking head

542
00:21:57,760 --> 00:22:00,400
Speaker 5: because I because so much of what he's done has

543
00:22:00,400 --> 00:22:03,560
Speaker 5: pissed me off so many times that I can't even now.

544
00:22:03,640 --> 00:22:05,040
Speaker 5: He'll walk in a room and I'm like, this guy

545
00:22:05,119 --> 00:22:09,240
Speaker 5: with his fucking mouth, like I just can't even I can't.

546
00:22:09,480 --> 00:22:12,680
Speaker 5: I can't why I can't even say that because it

547
00:22:12,680 --> 00:22:15,560
Speaker 5: would give it away, But like, I just I can't,

548
00:22:16,400 --> 00:22:18,560
Speaker 5: you know what I mean? Yeah, right now, it's not

549
00:22:18,600 --> 00:22:21,320
Speaker 5: even Yeah, it's just like the way that he talks,

550
00:22:22,000 --> 00:22:22,600
Speaker 5: do you know what I mean?

551
00:22:22,680 --> 00:22:24,520
Speaker 2: He's one of those people that just he's one of

552
00:22:24,560 --> 00:22:27,960
Speaker 2: these people that just always has something to fucking says

553
00:22:28,240 --> 00:22:31,840
Speaker 2: on Facebook. Were we talking about this person earlier?

554
00:22:32,200 --> 00:22:34,760
Speaker 5: No, but that person pisses me off just because self

555
00:22:34,760 --> 00:22:35,800
Speaker 5: pity is disgusting.

556
00:22:35,920 --> 00:22:37,240
Speaker 2: Okay, talk about that.

557
00:22:37,400 --> 00:22:39,879
Speaker 5: Those people like on Facebook. They'll be like, oh, I

558
00:22:39,920 --> 00:22:41,040
Speaker 5: don't have any friends.

559
00:22:41,119 --> 00:22:44,400
Speaker 6: I'm just like, oh god, oh yeah, there's this guy adult.

560
00:22:44,520 --> 00:22:46,000
Speaker 3: There's a guy on Facebook, and.

561
00:22:45,920 --> 00:22:50,439
Speaker 1: He'll put like if I hit read more, yeah, and

562
00:22:50,440 --> 00:22:53,679
Speaker 1: then if another page pops open, yeah, that's that you

563
00:22:53,720 --> 00:22:54,400
Speaker 1: wrote too much.

564
00:22:54,680 --> 00:22:56,919
Speaker 2: You wrote too much, and I was a read more person.

565
00:22:57,640 --> 00:22:58,359
Speaker 2: That too much.

566
00:22:58,560 --> 00:23:00,679
Speaker 1: I mean, you don't even read. Don't You'll make us

567
00:23:00,720 --> 00:23:02,360
Speaker 1: read a lot on your status it I.

568
00:23:02,359 --> 00:23:06,240
Speaker 2: Do read said, they will just like it. She won't

569
00:23:06,240 --> 00:23:11,159
Speaker 2: read the whole thing, but she'll like it. I support you.

570
00:23:12,480 --> 00:23:17,680
Speaker 2: I blindly support you. It's like it's just so obvious. Yeah,

571
00:23:17,760 --> 00:23:18,920
Speaker 2: oh yeah, you're.

572
00:23:19,119 --> 00:23:19,960
Speaker 3: When you get mad.

573
00:23:20,000 --> 00:23:22,119
Speaker 2: I know you so when you get met.

574
00:23:22,160 --> 00:23:23,640
Speaker 4: But like, if I get met, I'm not jumping on

575
00:23:23,680 --> 00:23:25,640
Speaker 4: social media to type about it.

576
00:23:25,720 --> 00:23:27,800
Speaker 5: Like if I'm mad, I'll type about it, and so yeah,

577
00:23:27,840 --> 00:23:30,800
Speaker 5: I'll just be like, you know, I won't be specific.

578
00:23:30,920 --> 00:23:34,720
Speaker 5: I try not to be specific, but yeah, there's sometimes

579
00:23:34,800 --> 00:23:37,240
Speaker 5: I'll just be like I can't, I can't.

580
00:23:39,320 --> 00:23:42,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, But sometimes that's the thing. People are such idiots,

581
00:23:42,600 --> 00:23:45,719
Speaker 2: you know what I mean. People are such morons, especially

582
00:23:45,800 --> 00:23:48,919
Speaker 2: now eighteen, people just getting dumber and dumb, just dumber

583
00:23:48,960 --> 00:23:49,479
Speaker 2: and dumber.

584
00:23:49,680 --> 00:23:53,520
Speaker 5: I honestly, there's not a single person that I even

585
00:23:53,560 --> 00:23:57,040
Speaker 5: if I agree with the overall, cause that this person

586
00:23:57,119 --> 00:23:59,480
Speaker 5: has the way that they go about it annoys me, you.

587
00:23:59,440 --> 00:23:59,920
Speaker 2: Know what I mean.

588
00:24:00,440 --> 00:24:03,119
Speaker 5: There are people that are so fucking devoted to like

589
00:24:03,640 --> 00:24:07,679
Speaker 5: one specific cause that I just go like you, I'm like,

590
00:24:07,800 --> 00:24:11,520
Speaker 5: you're setting yourself up for such failure, especially now because

591
00:24:11,560 --> 00:24:14,639
Speaker 5: people are so you know, they'll be like, I'm such

592
00:24:14,640 --> 00:24:17,000
Speaker 5: a feminist, and I'm like, okay, but if you ever

593
00:24:17,040 --> 00:24:19,560
Speaker 5: fucked up in the past, if you are without sin,

594
00:24:20,359 --> 00:24:23,520
Speaker 5: then fine, but like, if you ever fucked up in

595
00:24:23,520 --> 00:24:27,280
Speaker 5: the past, you are setting yourself up for some fucked

596
00:24:27,359 --> 00:24:30,119
Speaker 5: up shit to happen, and everyone is gonna turn on you.

597
00:24:30,320 --> 00:24:33,000
Speaker 4: Crazy how It's like, especially in like a Hollywood and

598
00:24:33,119 --> 00:24:35,439
Speaker 4: entertainment right now, the stuff that people did in like

599
00:24:35,560 --> 00:24:39,159
Speaker 4: nineteen ninety two in like a basement, it's coming in

600
00:24:39,280 --> 00:24:40,640
Speaker 4: light like people and.

601
00:24:40,600 --> 00:24:42,800
Speaker 3: They didn't have phones back then to document everything.

602
00:24:43,040 --> 00:24:45,240
Speaker 2: I don't want to know how people remember. How do

603
00:24:45,320 --> 00:24:48,000
Speaker 2: you have the memory? I know I can't remember what

604
00:24:48,080 --> 00:24:48,919
Speaker 2: happened last week.

605
00:24:49,160 --> 00:24:51,320
Speaker 4: From what I had on yesterday, and I put it

606
00:24:51,359 --> 00:24:54,000
Speaker 4: on my ashy as me either. Yeah, Like it's just

607
00:24:54,040 --> 00:24:57,480
Speaker 4: it's crazy to me, especially for like kids, the kids

608
00:24:57,520 --> 00:24:59,600
Speaker 4: that are growing up now, they're never gonna be able

609
00:24:59,600 --> 00:25:02,680
Speaker 4: to lie about anything, right because everything that they do

610
00:25:02,880 --> 00:25:05,000
Speaker 4: is all of a social media it is, and it's

611
00:25:05,040 --> 00:25:08,199
Speaker 4: like they're digging into People can delete tweets and then

612
00:25:08,240 --> 00:25:10,560
Speaker 4: get jobs, and then they'll find them deleted tweets and

613
00:25:10,560 --> 00:25:12,440
Speaker 4: be like, well you called Mexican.

614
00:25:12,560 --> 00:25:15,520
Speaker 2: Wait, you can delete tweets and people find them. Yeah,

615
00:25:16,280 --> 00:25:19,720
Speaker 2: they like live somewhere Sydney's about to go on a strike.

616
00:25:19,960 --> 00:25:22,680
Speaker 1: No, I no, I'd rather I don't really delete my tweets.

617
00:25:22,720 --> 00:25:25,879
Speaker 1: I know they're I can't even say retarding, but yeah.

618
00:25:25,920 --> 00:25:27,359
Speaker 2: I know that they're done.

619
00:25:26,760 --> 00:25:29,800
Speaker 1: And I live in my I lean into the dumb

620
00:25:30,160 --> 00:25:31,919
Speaker 1: and I'm like, this is what it is, yeah, but

621
00:25:31,960 --> 00:25:33,600
Speaker 1: I don't really say anything like that.

622
00:25:33,800 --> 00:25:34,159
Speaker 2: Racist.

623
00:25:36,040 --> 00:25:39,560
Speaker 5: That's the thing though, is like comedians right, Like comedians

624
00:25:39,600 --> 00:25:42,199
Speaker 5: are now being held at this like up this standard

625
00:25:42,400 --> 00:25:48,520
Speaker 5: because we're pandering to whatever side we think will agree

626
00:25:48,560 --> 00:25:49,320
Speaker 5: with us.

627
00:25:49,359 --> 00:25:51,640
Speaker 2: Instead of just focusing on being fucking funny.

628
00:25:51,960 --> 00:25:52,879
Speaker 3: Yeah, but that's the thing too.

629
00:25:52,920 --> 00:25:54,840
Speaker 4: You say the word comedian and it's like, look, it's

630
00:25:54,880 --> 00:25:57,360
Speaker 4: a lot of people at the level that we're at currently,

631
00:25:57,600 --> 00:26:01,000
Speaker 4: and you know, levels above us that do comedy and

632
00:26:01,160 --> 00:26:03,280
Speaker 4: they do it because they saw Bill Bird do it

633
00:26:03,400 --> 00:26:05,480
Speaker 4: or Luisy K do it and he said the N word,

634
00:26:05,600 --> 00:26:07,600
Speaker 4: so like, I'm also gonna say it. And it's like,

635
00:26:07,920 --> 00:26:11,480
Speaker 4: you're not that funny, You're not that funny, You're you're

636
00:26:11,600 --> 00:26:14,640
Speaker 4: not funny. You just want to jump up and say

637
00:26:14,680 --> 00:26:16,560
Speaker 4: the N word in front of people to be like

638
00:26:16,920 --> 00:26:19,000
Speaker 4: because the stuff that they're saying is not new, it's

639
00:26:19,000 --> 00:26:21,720
Speaker 4: not original. It's nothing creative or funny or that or

640
00:26:21,800 --> 00:26:23,400
Speaker 4: that makes you think that. Like a dude a few

641
00:26:23,480 --> 00:26:26,040
Speaker 4: years ago came to a comedy show at a bar

642
00:26:26,480 --> 00:26:30,399
Speaker 4: with a KKKR and he was like, it's because he

643
00:26:30,520 --> 00:26:33,640
Speaker 4: was roasting some a black dude and in his roast

644
00:26:33,680 --> 00:26:34,840
Speaker 4: he was gonna throw his hood.

645
00:26:34,680 --> 00:26:36,560
Speaker 1: On and there was a few people, there were no

646
00:26:36,600 --> 00:26:38,760
Speaker 1: there were actually people who supported him like.

647
00:26:38,640 --> 00:26:39,880
Speaker 2: Oh, this is comedy.

648
00:26:40,119 --> 00:26:41,960
Speaker 1: I was like, if this is your comedy, you need

649
00:26:42,000 --> 00:26:43,879
Speaker 1: to fall down all the flights of stairs.

650
00:26:44,000 --> 00:26:46,440
Speaker 2: Yeah, you know what the problem is is Louis c.

651
00:26:46,600 --> 00:26:49,400
Speaker 5: K did that joke about uh, he did a joke

652
00:26:49,400 --> 00:26:52,600
Speaker 5: about the N word, and he was the first white

653
00:26:52,600 --> 00:26:57,280
Speaker 5: guy that ever first of all, like went there, right.

654
00:26:56,640 --> 00:27:00,280
Speaker 2: And I'm sure it was the first well I saw

655
00:27:00,480 --> 00:27:01,080
Speaker 2: the first.

656
00:27:00,960 --> 00:27:03,040
Speaker 5: Like icmic that ever was able to like make an

657
00:27:03,119 --> 00:27:06,120
Speaker 5: N word like an intelligent like use the N word

658
00:27:06,119 --> 00:27:08,960
Speaker 5: in a joke that was perceived to be really intelligent.

659
00:27:09,119 --> 00:27:11,000
Speaker 2: Right, it was an intelligent joke.

660
00:27:11,480 --> 00:27:14,760
Speaker 5: And then everybody that saw that went, oh, if I

661
00:27:14,920 --> 00:27:18,560
Speaker 5: do that, then I might be perceived as the intelligent,

662
00:27:19,080 --> 00:27:21,960
Speaker 5: you know, edgy comic. And it's like you have to

663
00:27:22,000 --> 00:27:25,280
Speaker 5: be Norm MacDonald said something about this in an interview

664
00:27:25,480 --> 00:27:28,439
Speaker 5: like last week where he was like yeah, yeah, but

665
00:27:28,640 --> 00:27:31,359
Speaker 5: this was a different interview. He was like, you have

666
00:27:31,400 --> 00:27:35,080
Speaker 5: to be a master at something before you can be subversive,

667
00:27:36,040 --> 00:27:39,160
Speaker 5: and like, you know what I'm saying, Like Picasso learned

668
00:27:39,160 --> 00:27:41,760
Speaker 5: how to draw a perfect fucking circle before he was

669
00:27:41,800 --> 00:27:44,639
Speaker 5: able to turn the circle into like seventeen squares and

670
00:27:44,680 --> 00:27:46,720
Speaker 5: make it, you know what I'm saying. So it's like

671
00:27:47,720 --> 00:27:49,680
Speaker 5: you have these comics that are like two years in

672
00:27:50,680 --> 00:27:53,840
Speaker 5: and they're trying to do these jokes with two years

673
00:27:53,920 --> 00:27:57,520
Speaker 5: of skill under their belt and it's a disastrous.

674
00:27:57,720 --> 00:28:00,359
Speaker 4: But Colin, if you don't get a raggedy as face

675
00:28:00,359 --> 00:28:03,400
Speaker 4: out myffet, like, it's crazy. The stuff that people say

676
00:28:03,400 --> 00:28:05,600
Speaker 4: that they think right, is exactly that, Like, oh, I've

677
00:28:05,600 --> 00:28:07,160
Speaker 4: been doing it for two years, that's that's time.

678
00:28:07,280 --> 00:28:09,879
Speaker 1: But it's like, but how do you master five minutes

679
00:28:09,920 --> 00:28:13,520
Speaker 1: about yourself before you talk about the world. Right? If

680
00:28:13,520 --> 00:28:16,920
Speaker 1: you can't make your own personal situations funny, how can

681
00:28:16,960 --> 00:28:19,000
Speaker 1: I trust that you can talk about racism?

682
00:28:19,119 --> 00:28:22,720
Speaker 5: Right? Some people don't talk about themselves on stage, you

683
00:28:22,760 --> 00:28:24,400
Speaker 5: know what I mean, they'll just talk about they don't

684
00:28:24,440 --> 00:28:25,040
Speaker 5: they don't want to.

685
00:28:25,080 --> 00:28:27,760
Speaker 2: That's not what they do, which I understand. Yeah, and I.

686
00:28:27,680 --> 00:28:31,639
Speaker 5: Also think that people should be allowed to make the dumb,

687
00:28:31,680 --> 00:28:33,960
Speaker 5: fucking mistakes that you make when you're trying to learn

688
00:28:34,000 --> 00:28:34,640
Speaker 5: to be funny.

689
00:28:34,720 --> 00:28:36,439
Speaker 4: Yeah, but a lot of these people that are jumping

690
00:28:36,480 --> 00:28:39,760
Speaker 4: on stage and they're like and then the nigger okay

691
00:28:39,800 --> 00:28:41,760
Speaker 4: said like the people A lot of those people they

692
00:28:41,760 --> 00:28:43,000
Speaker 4: don't do comedy for that long.

693
00:28:43,240 --> 00:28:43,840
Speaker 2: No, they don't.

694
00:28:43,880 --> 00:28:46,840
Speaker 5: That's because because it like they they're just cast off.

695
00:28:46,920 --> 00:28:49,680
Speaker 5: It's like there there's a weeding out system that happens.

696
00:28:49,720 --> 00:28:52,240
Speaker 5: But also they suck at it.

697
00:28:52,280 --> 00:28:54,719
Speaker 1: That's not like a mistake, Like you should know that

698
00:28:54,840 --> 00:28:57,880
Speaker 1: people have been doing that for so long that why

699
00:28:57,920 --> 00:28:59,080
Speaker 1: would you even go there?

700
00:28:59,160 --> 00:29:01,360
Speaker 4: Because not worth it because everyone thinks that they're the

701
00:29:01,480 --> 00:29:03,320
Speaker 4: smartest and funniest person.

702
00:29:04,480 --> 00:29:05,920
Speaker 2: And then they teach themselves.

703
00:29:06,040 --> 00:29:09,480
Speaker 5: They go, oh, oh, I don't I'm not good enough

704
00:29:09,720 --> 00:29:13,000
Speaker 5: to make this joke and this isn't even a joke,

705
00:29:13,040 --> 00:29:14,840
Speaker 5: you know what I'm saying. There were like when I

706
00:29:14,840 --> 00:29:16,600
Speaker 5: went on stage in the beginning, my chair is like

707
00:29:17,520 --> 00:29:17,960
Speaker 5: I can't.

708
00:29:19,400 --> 00:29:20,360
Speaker 2: I'm like, is this.

709
00:29:21,800 --> 00:29:21,880
Speaker 7: Me?

710
00:29:22,040 --> 00:29:26,400
Speaker 2: Am I doing this with? Who's doing this with their mind? Oh?

711
00:29:26,520 --> 00:29:29,800
Speaker 2: That makes me feel thin? I don't know, I just

712
00:29:29,840 --> 00:29:33,880
Speaker 2: feel like, you know, there's I forget where I was going.

713
00:29:35,280 --> 00:29:37,240
Speaker 5: Oh yeah, I made some you know, the jokes I

714
00:29:37,240 --> 00:29:40,240
Speaker 5: would make. I was like I was an idiot, you know.

715
00:29:40,480 --> 00:29:42,840
Speaker 5: Like there's times when I walked away from stage and

716
00:29:42,840 --> 00:29:44,960
Speaker 5: I'd be like, oh my god, like just feeling so

717
00:29:45,120 --> 00:29:47,200
Speaker 5: ashamed of like what I said, because I was trying

718
00:29:47,200 --> 00:29:49,560
Speaker 5: to make something work, you know what I mean, And

719
00:29:49,720 --> 00:29:52,720
Speaker 5: I didn't know how to like formulate the thought I

720
00:29:52,800 --> 00:29:55,120
Speaker 5: wasn't good enough for the joke, you know.

721
00:29:55,520 --> 00:29:57,480
Speaker 2: But those you could go back and you can go

722
00:29:57,520 --> 00:29:58,719
Speaker 2: back to those jokes and fix it.

723
00:29:58,800 --> 00:30:01,840
Speaker 5: And you can fix it, but you gotta be That's

724
00:30:01,840 --> 00:30:04,040
Speaker 5: why we have open mics. We gotta be allowed to

725
00:30:04,240 --> 00:30:08,440
Speaker 5: just go Okay, you suck, but whatever.

726
00:30:08,640 --> 00:30:11,520
Speaker 2: Man, if you needed to try that, Like yeah, but

727
00:30:11,560 --> 00:30:12,240
Speaker 2: that's one thing.

728
00:30:12,360 --> 00:30:14,840
Speaker 1: Now, Like you can't even you can't even go to

729
00:30:14,920 --> 00:30:18,440
Speaker 1: an open mic with somebody without somebody like Instagram and

730
00:30:18,520 --> 00:30:19,320
Speaker 1: it or like.

731
00:30:19,600 --> 00:30:22,600
Speaker 2: Take an Instagram in an open mind, be surprised. So

732
00:30:22,680 --> 00:30:25,200
Speaker 2: many people, so many people, so many people.

733
00:30:25,360 --> 00:30:27,680
Speaker 1: They're like, I'm gonna go live at the mic, at

734
00:30:27,720 --> 00:30:30,520
Speaker 1: the mic, at the live, go live.

735
00:30:30,640 --> 00:30:33,600
Speaker 4: Can we talk about people go live at like concerts

736
00:30:33,600 --> 00:30:34,040
Speaker 4: and stuff?

737
00:30:34,880 --> 00:30:37,240
Speaker 3: Oh my god, I saw this girl. She went live.

738
00:30:37,320 --> 00:30:39,200
Speaker 3: She was at a concert, had the phone up.

739
00:30:39,320 --> 00:30:41,600
Speaker 4: No one was watching the live, but it was up

740
00:30:41,600 --> 00:30:44,120
Speaker 4: for so many songs, and it was like, no one

741
00:30:44,200 --> 00:30:46,240
Speaker 4: wants to watch your grainy pham coverage.

742
00:30:47,200 --> 00:30:51,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, get out, get out of my life.

743
00:30:51,920 --> 00:30:54,600
Speaker 1: It's like, why are why are we going If you're

744
00:30:54,640 --> 00:30:57,720
Speaker 1: around people and you're having a good time with the people,

745
00:30:57,800 --> 00:30:58,920
Speaker 1: why are you going live?

746
00:30:59,240 --> 00:31:01,360
Speaker 3: You gotta show people that you're having a better time.

747
00:31:01,480 --> 00:31:04,000
Speaker 5: The only time that it's appropriate to go live is

748
00:31:04,000 --> 00:31:06,880
Speaker 5: when you're walking alone down the street and you want

749
00:31:06,960 --> 00:31:09,920
Speaker 5: someone to talk to and nobody wants to watch that

750
00:31:10,000 --> 00:31:10,560
Speaker 5: ship either.

751
00:31:11,600 --> 00:31:13,680
Speaker 2: They haven't made that on lawn on SVU. That's a

752
00:31:13,800 --> 00:31:14,920
Speaker 2: that's an episode right there.

753
00:31:15,080 --> 00:31:19,040
Speaker 1: Now he's going down the alley, yeah, and she's going

754
00:31:19,120 --> 00:31:20,280
Speaker 1: live and then all of.

755
00:31:20,280 --> 00:31:23,640
Speaker 2: A sudden somebody attacked her and her followers saw the man.

756
00:31:23,920 --> 00:31:26,600
Speaker 2: Just see the scrolling up. What happened? Are you okay?

757
00:31:26,760 --> 00:31:27,000
Speaker 5: Wait?

758
00:31:27,200 --> 00:31:29,880
Speaker 4: Are alleys still a thing? I feel like I've never

759
00:31:29,920 --> 00:31:31,200
Speaker 4: seen alleys in New York City.

760
00:31:31,280 --> 00:31:32,040
Speaker 2: Alleys are a thing.

761
00:31:32,440 --> 00:31:33,680
Speaker 3: They're in like California.

762
00:31:33,840 --> 00:31:34,520
Speaker 2: In Boston.

763
00:31:35,760 --> 00:31:37,360
Speaker 3: Yea, where are the New York alleys?

764
00:31:37,480 --> 00:31:39,640
Speaker 2: I feel like, not that many?

765
00:31:38,960 --> 00:31:41,080
Speaker 3: And the buildings all touch.

766
00:31:41,160 --> 00:31:44,280
Speaker 2: Yeah they do. There's no room. Where is this alley?

767
00:31:44,600 --> 00:31:49,120
Speaker 4: Like people are like stealing people's shoes and like people actually.

768
00:31:48,760 --> 00:31:53,640
Speaker 1: The alley that Sarah, Jessica Parker Carrie got robbed in

769
00:31:53,960 --> 00:31:55,400
Speaker 1: is it's still an alley.

770
00:31:55,360 --> 00:31:57,720
Speaker 3: And so so yes, that's the all I was thinking about.

771
00:31:57,760 --> 00:31:58,640
Speaker 3: I just I've never I.

772
00:31:58,560 --> 00:31:59,320
Speaker 2: Know what you're talking about.

773
00:31:59,320 --> 00:32:03,720
Speaker 1: I'll show you or it's I'm not going to We're

774
00:32:03,760 --> 00:32:04,760
Speaker 1: together and I'll go live.

775
00:32:05,760 --> 00:32:17,160
Speaker 5: You guys should go live in an alley.

776
00:32:15,160 --> 00:32:17,080
Speaker 4: So did you spend time. Can we talk about you,

777
00:32:17,160 --> 00:32:19,000
Speaker 4: like as a kid, were you an angry baby?

778
00:32:19,440 --> 00:32:22,960
Speaker 2: Yeah? I was. I was an angry baby. I was. Uh.

779
00:32:23,360 --> 00:32:26,760
Speaker 5: There's pictures of me holding books that like trying to

780
00:32:26,800 --> 00:32:29,360
Speaker 5: read and making a fist and like scowling.

781
00:32:29,440 --> 00:32:34,320
Speaker 2: I was constantly scowling. I don't like I needed botox

782
00:32:34,320 --> 00:32:36,600
Speaker 2: by the time I was five. I had. I had

783
00:32:36,640 --> 00:32:38,680
Speaker 2: fucking lines in my forehead by the time I was

784
00:32:38,680 --> 00:32:40,800
Speaker 2: five years old, because I just yeah, I was just

785
00:32:41,760 --> 00:32:47,440
Speaker 2: all the time. I don't remember. I remember every like

786
00:32:48,120 --> 00:32:50,400
Speaker 2: what is it childhood? Like video? You know what I mean?

787
00:32:50,440 --> 00:32:53,120
Speaker 5: When your parents would so h there was recordings of me,

788
00:32:53,160 --> 00:32:56,000
Speaker 5: and it's always just like my sisters, like playing in

789
00:32:56,040 --> 00:32:59,080
Speaker 5: a pool and then me just sitting there just staring

790
00:32:59,200 --> 00:32:59,720
Speaker 5: into space.

791
00:33:00,120 --> 00:33:04,120
Speaker 2: Baby, no, it would I'd be like ten. It's basically

792
00:33:04,120 --> 00:33:04,520
Speaker 2: my tire.

793
00:33:04,800 --> 00:33:06,360
Speaker 3: You the baby or you the middle kids.

794
00:33:06,640 --> 00:33:07,280
Speaker 2: I was the oldest.

795
00:33:07,560 --> 00:33:08,360
Speaker 3: Oh damn, dude, you.

796
00:33:08,760 --> 00:33:11,200
Speaker 1: Don't want your sisters to have a good time in

797
00:33:11,200 --> 00:33:13,240
Speaker 1: the pool. But that sound like an older like the

798
00:33:13,800 --> 00:33:18,200
Speaker 1: first Yeah, girl, maybe my brother was the oldest, and

799
00:33:18,280 --> 00:33:20,920
Speaker 1: he is and has always been the one that cared

800
00:33:20,920 --> 00:33:22,320
Speaker 1: the least, like he was never mad.

801
00:33:22,560 --> 00:33:26,080
Speaker 3: My sister was the baby, and she was always Yeah. Yeah,

802
00:33:26,080 --> 00:33:26,760
Speaker 3: she's still angry.

803
00:33:26,840 --> 00:33:31,280
Speaker 4: That's why she works out now she's now, she's angry

804
00:33:31,400 --> 00:33:35,360
Speaker 4: and buff and that don't that, don't go, doesn't impress

805
00:33:35,400 --> 00:33:38,160
Speaker 4: the me. I'm not worried about it.

806
00:33:38,320 --> 00:33:41,600
Speaker 2: Did you get into any fights as a kid? Yes,

807
00:33:41,800 --> 00:33:42,440
Speaker 2: I used to.

808
00:33:42,600 --> 00:33:45,680
Speaker 5: Okay, so I threw a rock at the window of

809
00:33:45,680 --> 00:33:48,760
Speaker 5: my kindergarten classroom. What yeah, I broke the window of

810
00:33:48,800 --> 00:33:53,640
Speaker 5: my kindergarten classroom because oh this is embarrassing.

811
00:33:53,680 --> 00:33:56,280
Speaker 2: So I was a fat kid and baby was a

812
00:33:56,320 --> 00:33:58,640
Speaker 2: fat kid. Well that's the reason to be angry. Oh yeah,

813
00:33:59,600 --> 00:34:00,000
Speaker 2: oh yeah.

814
00:34:00,120 --> 00:34:02,120
Speaker 4: Kids don't know they're fat when they're babies. No, we

815
00:34:02,200 --> 00:34:05,120
Speaker 4: know when you're when you're like five six, you know

816
00:34:05,160 --> 00:34:05,680
Speaker 4: that you're fat.

817
00:34:05,800 --> 00:34:07,640
Speaker 2: You're a woman and you're a fat five year old.

818
00:34:07,680 --> 00:34:09,600
Speaker 2: You know? Really, yes, I don't know.

819
00:34:10,120 --> 00:34:11,960
Speaker 3: The world will let you know.

820
00:34:12,000 --> 00:34:13,600
Speaker 1: Well, it depends on what kind of family you have,

821
00:34:13,719 --> 00:34:15,520
Speaker 1: because some family twight.

822
00:34:15,440 --> 00:34:17,480
Speaker 5: Family from the South, they're gonna let you know if

823
00:34:17,480 --> 00:34:20,160
Speaker 5: you feel like they're all fat. Oh there's I mean

824
00:34:20,239 --> 00:34:22,280
Speaker 5: they are, but they'll tell you if you are because

825
00:34:22,280 --> 00:34:23,319
Speaker 5: they don't expect you to be.

826
00:34:23,440 --> 00:34:25,680
Speaker 2: They'll be like, you're You're supposed to be thin, you

827
00:34:25,760 --> 00:34:27,440
Speaker 2: know what I mean? And it's like, well, what about you?

828
00:34:27,440 --> 00:34:30,360
Speaker 2: You've got diabetes. You know you lost your foot on Thursday.

829
00:34:30,560 --> 00:34:31,239
Speaker 2: Oh my god.

830
00:34:31,520 --> 00:34:33,840
Speaker 1: You know I think we hit the fat quota. We

831
00:34:33,880 --> 00:34:36,600
Speaker 1: can't say anymore on the podcast City Please.

832
00:34:37,200 --> 00:34:41,200
Speaker 2: Fat Fat about her fat? True? I was fat.

833
00:34:41,239 --> 00:34:43,279
Speaker 4: You're like, we can't say fat no more. I feel like,

834
00:34:43,280 --> 00:34:47,719
Speaker 4: do you need a moment? No around the studio. We

835
00:34:47,800 --> 00:34:50,400
Speaker 4: will not wait for you.

836
00:34:50,800 --> 00:34:52,839
Speaker 1: I just so you are a fat kid, and because

837
00:34:52,880 --> 00:34:54,320
Speaker 1: of that you throw a rock at the window.

838
00:34:54,480 --> 00:34:56,320
Speaker 5: No. So this kid, you know how you used to

839
00:34:56,400 --> 00:34:58,480
Speaker 5: like run after dude's for to get them to kiss

840
00:34:58,520 --> 00:34:59,360
Speaker 5: you on the playground.

841
00:35:00,120 --> 00:35:04,359
Speaker 2: Was in kindergarten. Yeah, you were fast. So yeah, I

842
00:35:04,400 --> 00:35:06,880
Speaker 2: was masturbating by the time I was like eight. Wow,

843
00:35:07,680 --> 00:35:10,960
Speaker 2: that's another podcast. What did you know what you were doing? No,

844
00:35:11,080 --> 00:35:11,960
Speaker 2: I didn't know what I was doing.

845
00:35:12,040 --> 00:35:14,479
Speaker 5: I was just rubbing my ship against everything in the house,

846
00:35:14,480 --> 00:35:15,560
Speaker 5: doing horrible things.

847
00:35:15,480 --> 00:35:18,360
Speaker 3: Like a dog dragging your vagina cross.

848
00:35:18,920 --> 00:35:21,720
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's exactly how I get off to this day.

849
00:35:22,000 --> 00:35:23,680
Speaker 2: This clip is gonna haunt you, girl.

850
00:35:24,520 --> 00:35:27,560
Speaker 1: We're gonna kick this and post this totally fine on

851
00:35:27,600 --> 00:35:31,800
Speaker 1: the loop. It's totally fine, run back, run back, even.

852
00:35:31,640 --> 00:35:32,600
Speaker 2: Nothing to be a shame.

853
00:35:32,640 --> 00:35:34,640
Speaker 4: We're gonna put music behind it, and we're gonna chop

854
00:35:34,640 --> 00:35:36,480
Speaker 4: it together and make it the theme to the Unofficial

855
00:35:36,480 --> 00:35:50,720
Speaker 4: Express O, rubbing it on everything. Okay, So what happened

856
00:35:50,760 --> 00:35:51,400
Speaker 4: to this window?

857
00:35:51,719 --> 00:35:51,919
Speaker 2: So?

858
00:35:52,280 --> 00:35:54,480
Speaker 5: Uh so this kid promised he would kiss me if

859
00:35:54,520 --> 00:35:56,279
Speaker 5: I could chase him, you know what I mean. And

860
00:35:56,719 --> 00:35:59,279
Speaker 5: he's like, uh, I couldn't fucking catch up to him.

861
00:35:59,280 --> 00:36:01,560
Speaker 5: So he was like, if you throw this rock against

862
00:36:01,560 --> 00:36:03,960
Speaker 5: the window, then I'll kiss you. But I had too

863
00:36:04,040 --> 00:36:05,920
Speaker 5: much anger in me and I and I threw the

864
00:36:06,000 --> 00:36:08,640
Speaker 5: rock and I broke the whole fucking window, and I

865
00:36:08,640 --> 00:36:11,000
Speaker 5: got sent into the principal's office and he still never

866
00:36:11,080 --> 00:36:13,640
Speaker 5: kissed me to this day. Was his name Matthew Silver

867
00:36:13,719 --> 00:36:18,320
Speaker 5: And if you did just so you know, Matthew, I'll

868
00:36:18,360 --> 00:36:21,799
Speaker 5: never fucking forget it. You made a promise, we had

869
00:36:21,840 --> 00:36:24,799
Speaker 5: an agreement, and you renigged renigged.

870
00:36:24,880 --> 00:36:25,160
Speaker 2: Joe.

871
00:36:25,200 --> 00:36:27,920
Speaker 1: Can you google this guy? I'm gonna can we get

872
00:36:27,960 --> 00:36:28,320
Speaker 1: a picture?

873
00:36:28,400 --> 00:36:30,360
Speaker 5: Can we post see if we can find I've actually

874
00:36:30,400 --> 00:36:33,719
Speaker 5: tried to find him on Facebook, Like this motherfucker just

875
00:36:33,760 --> 00:36:38,319
Speaker 5: like an Italian level of just hatred for this guy.

876
00:36:39,440 --> 00:36:40,880
Speaker 2: So Citney.

877
00:36:40,920 --> 00:36:41,879
Speaker 3: Were you ever in a fight?

878
00:36:42,160 --> 00:36:42,279
Speaker 2: Uh?

879
00:36:42,840 --> 00:36:46,560
Speaker 3: In elementary school or primary school, A lot of.

880
00:36:46,560 --> 00:36:49,640
Speaker 1: People picked on me, so I didn't really give him fights.

881
00:36:49,880 --> 00:36:53,520
Speaker 1: I feel like I fought with my cousins a lot.

882
00:36:53,880 --> 00:36:56,120
Speaker 1: I would get in arguments with my family. Then I

883
00:36:56,120 --> 00:36:59,480
Speaker 1: would go to school and just all of the picking on.

884
00:36:59,560 --> 00:37:01,359
Speaker 2: I'm like, I'm not. I don't want to say too much.

885
00:37:01,640 --> 00:37:03,680
Speaker 2: I don't want to have a problem. Yeah. Really as

886
00:37:03,719 --> 00:37:07,400
Speaker 2: a I feel like children don't care. Yeah, like I

887
00:37:07,520 --> 00:37:10,400
Speaker 2: would fight with anybody. My first day of school, I

888
00:37:10,400 --> 00:37:11,080
Speaker 2: got into a fight.

889
00:37:11,200 --> 00:37:13,919
Speaker 1: And by fight, I mean I smashed a toy car

890
00:37:14,239 --> 00:37:16,719
Speaker 1: into this kid's head because he was playing with a

891
00:37:16,760 --> 00:37:18,080
Speaker 1: toy that I thought was mine.

892
00:37:18,239 --> 00:37:23,120
Speaker 2: That's beautiful. That's beautiful. I think that's great. Is it beautiful?

893
00:37:23,239 --> 00:37:23,600
Speaker 2: It is?

894
00:37:23,640 --> 00:37:23,960
Speaker 5: His thing?

895
00:37:24,000 --> 00:37:24,880
Speaker 3: Was Terrence Chang?

896
00:37:25,000 --> 00:37:29,920
Speaker 2: Hey, Terrence, remember everybody's first and lastin.

897
00:37:29,920 --> 00:37:30,480
Speaker 3: I remember that.

898
00:37:30,520 --> 00:37:31,880
Speaker 2: I remember the people that wronged you.

899
00:37:32,000 --> 00:37:33,960
Speaker 3: Okay, I mean I wronged him.

900
00:37:34,040 --> 00:37:37,160
Speaker 2: But you know, Terrence graduated with like honors or whatever.

901
00:37:37,200 --> 00:37:37,719
Speaker 2: How you doing?

902
00:37:37,880 --> 00:37:41,000
Speaker 3: But you know what, I don't know, check in ter

903
00:37:41,680 --> 00:37:42,719
Speaker 3: That's fine, aunt.

904
00:37:43,360 --> 00:37:45,239
Speaker 4: But I remember that because my mother likes to tell

905
00:37:45,239 --> 00:37:46,839
Speaker 4: me that story, like every once in a while.

906
00:37:46,920 --> 00:37:47,960
Speaker 2: She Remember when you.

907
00:37:48,000 --> 00:37:50,600
Speaker 4: Hear that, boy, you've always had that attitude, remember, and

908
00:37:50,600 --> 00:37:52,640
Speaker 4: it's like shut up, like everybody in here is angry.

909
00:37:52,760 --> 00:37:55,480
Speaker 5: Yeah, dude, I mean I poured milk on all over

910
00:37:55,520 --> 00:37:56,560
Speaker 5: this guy's head once.

911
00:37:57,000 --> 00:37:59,319
Speaker 2: Uh, because he said I was like big boned or

912
00:37:59,320 --> 00:38:01,880
Speaker 2: something yet but you were big bone I was.

913
00:38:01,960 --> 00:38:04,319
Speaker 5: But you know what, and you know what's fucked about that?

914
00:38:04,920 --> 00:38:07,839
Speaker 5: I poured milk on his head and then I had

915
00:38:07,880 --> 00:38:10,360
Speaker 5: to write him the apology. Even though he called me fat,

916
00:38:10,480 --> 00:38:12,440
Speaker 5: I was like, wait a second, I still to this

917
00:38:12,560 --> 00:38:16,239
Speaker 5: day don't believe. I'm like, he deserved what I did.

918
00:38:16,360 --> 00:38:17,000
Speaker 3: What was his name?

919
00:38:17,360 --> 00:38:18,640
Speaker 2: Yusuf harden Boom what.

920
00:38:19,480 --> 00:38:21,560
Speaker 3: It's crazy that you remember these names.

921
00:38:21,600 --> 00:38:24,960
Speaker 2: But I will say, it's all about the reaction.

922
00:38:25,239 --> 00:38:28,880
Speaker 1: If somebody wrongs you and you react to it, then

923
00:38:29,120 --> 00:38:31,160
Speaker 1: that depends on if you're going to get away with

924
00:38:31,200 --> 00:38:31,560
Speaker 1: it or not.

925
00:38:31,640 --> 00:38:33,080
Speaker 2: If you would have just if I don't do anything,

926
00:38:33,120 --> 00:38:35,240
Speaker 2: of course I'm gonna get away with it. That's dumb.

927
00:38:35,480 --> 00:38:37,920
Speaker 4: Yeah, but it's how you do it, because, yeah, if

928
00:38:37,920 --> 00:38:39,480
Speaker 4: you're trying to get back at somebody and you want

929
00:38:39,480 --> 00:38:40,600
Speaker 4: to get away with it, you got to be smart

930
00:38:40,640 --> 00:38:41,319
Speaker 4: about how you do it.

931
00:38:41,360 --> 00:38:43,200
Speaker 2: See that was My problem for a long time is

932
00:38:43,239 --> 00:38:45,440
Speaker 2: I didn't know. I had no timing, you know what

933
00:38:45,440 --> 00:38:45,719
Speaker 2: I mean.

934
00:38:46,080 --> 00:38:49,600
Speaker 5: I would do it immediately whenever second it pissed me off.

935
00:38:49,640 --> 00:38:52,080
Speaker 2: It was just like I was. It was, and people

936
00:38:52,080 --> 00:38:55,160
Speaker 2: were like Jesus Christ. That escalated quickly, Sidney, I'm.

937
00:38:55,080 --> 00:38:57,359
Speaker 4: Sure you've done something mean to somebody that you don't

938
00:38:57,400 --> 00:38:58,440
Speaker 4: want to tell us me.

939
00:38:58,680 --> 00:38:59,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, what's the meanest?

940
00:38:59,640 --> 00:39:02,080
Speaker 4: You never like cut the back of somebody's hair, or

941
00:39:02,160 --> 00:39:04,440
Speaker 4: like laid fun of somebody behind their back.

942
00:39:04,320 --> 00:39:10,600
Speaker 3: Like come on, somebody's I mean, no, I don't remember.

943
00:39:11,080 --> 00:39:13,680
Speaker 1: I've told this story so many times. I got I

944
00:39:13,719 --> 00:39:14,400
Speaker 1: got pregnant.

945
00:39:14,680 --> 00:39:17,839
Speaker 2: Oh my god. I had two men at the same

946
00:39:17,920 --> 00:39:18,760
Speaker 2: damn time.

947
00:39:18,640 --> 00:39:23,640
Speaker 1: Two men, and one of them gave me money for

948
00:39:23,840 --> 00:39:25,799
Speaker 1: you know what, and I took that money and bought

949
00:39:25,800 --> 00:39:27,759
Speaker 1: an iPad and then did what I had to do.

950
00:39:30,520 --> 00:39:33,319
Speaker 2: Sorry, thank you. Wow, you can't you can't let me live,

951
00:39:34,120 --> 00:39:34,880
Speaker 2: I said, iPad.

952
00:39:34,880 --> 00:39:36,600
Speaker 3: I'm like, dude, that's too current. Like that means it

953
00:39:36,600 --> 00:39:37,360
Speaker 3: happened recently.

954
00:39:37,520 --> 00:39:39,880
Speaker 1: It was a nano and it was like, wow, Sis,

955
00:39:39,880 --> 00:39:41,239
Speaker 1: and then you do. I did what I had to

956
00:39:41,239 --> 00:39:43,040
Speaker 1: do on my mother's insurance, and then she found out.

957
00:39:43,040 --> 00:39:45,720
Speaker 1: She's like what is this anesthesiologist?

958
00:39:45,840 --> 00:39:48,160
Speaker 4: I was like, no, Sydney. I mean, that story is

959
00:39:48,239 --> 00:39:50,279
Speaker 4: hilarious whether you shared it again. But I meant like,

960
00:39:50,320 --> 00:39:52,400
Speaker 4: what's the meanest thing you ever done with somebody? Is

961
00:39:52,440 --> 00:39:54,640
Speaker 4: the meaning to tell somebody you are the father and

962
00:39:54,680 --> 00:39:55,520
Speaker 4: you're not, and.

963
00:39:55,440 --> 00:39:58,720
Speaker 2: Then you just put ninety songs on a shuffle.

964
00:39:59,600 --> 00:40:01,200
Speaker 1: Every time my plate and someone I was like, that

965
00:40:01,280 --> 00:40:03,040
Speaker 1: sounds like me not having a baby.

966
00:40:03,760 --> 00:40:06,000
Speaker 2: You know what, that's not mean, That's just.

967
00:40:08,120 --> 00:40:08,480
Speaker 3: Wow.

968
00:40:08,800 --> 00:40:11,319
Speaker 2: I can't believe I said that. Yeah, so what song?

969
00:40:11,440 --> 00:40:13,719
Speaker 3: What song do you think about? When you do you

970
00:40:13,760 --> 00:40:14,600
Speaker 3: tie to that memory?

971
00:40:14,600 --> 00:40:19,760
Speaker 2: It was usher Okay.

972
00:40:19,800 --> 00:40:25,160
Speaker 4: Now, whenever I hear that last my homies, whenever I

973
00:40:25,200 --> 00:40:27,359
Speaker 4: hear that song, whenever you hear that song, I want

974
00:40:27,400 --> 00:40:30,120
Speaker 4: you to think of Sydney not having a baby.

975
00:40:30,800 --> 00:40:32,160
Speaker 2: Sydney's not pregnant.

976
00:40:32,880 --> 00:40:33,120
Speaker 5: God.

977
00:40:33,400 --> 00:40:38,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, Like I feel like me being angry. I always like,

978
00:40:38,920 --> 00:40:40,520
Speaker 1: try to count to ten.

979
00:40:40,800 --> 00:40:41,520
Speaker 3: Does that work?

980
00:40:41,760 --> 00:40:43,840
Speaker 2: That doesn't mean does it work?

981
00:40:43,920 --> 00:40:46,320
Speaker 5: You know what? The only thing that works is yelling.

982
00:40:47,080 --> 00:40:48,960
Speaker 5: That's the only thing that works when you need to

983
00:40:48,960 --> 00:40:49,520
Speaker 5: get your anger.

984
00:40:49,640 --> 00:40:53,319
Speaker 1: I'm so angry that I'm stop myself and then just

985
00:40:53,360 --> 00:40:54,160
Speaker 1: start counting.

986
00:40:54,960 --> 00:40:56,200
Speaker 2: That's a tactic you can't.

987
00:40:56,280 --> 00:40:58,279
Speaker 5: You can't be that angry if you're count right, if

988
00:40:58,280 --> 00:40:59,600
Speaker 5: you think to count, you're not angry.

989
00:40:59,600 --> 00:41:01,920
Speaker 3: I can't do that and I'm just counting back.

990
00:41:01,920 --> 00:41:05,480
Speaker 1: I think it's just like working in the hospitality for

991
00:41:05,520 --> 00:41:09,400
Speaker 1: so long the industry, like you can't always pop off,

992
00:41:10,080 --> 00:41:13,000
Speaker 1: especially if like you're making a lot of money and

993
00:41:13,040 --> 00:41:15,040
Speaker 1: my bills is dependent on it. It's a lot of

994
00:41:15,080 --> 00:41:18,240
Speaker 1: times where you gotta hold your tongue and you better count,

995
00:41:18,600 --> 00:41:20,879
Speaker 1: and you better take a shot of patron and then

996
00:41:20,920 --> 00:41:21,919
Speaker 1: you go curse that mother.

997
00:41:22,000 --> 00:41:25,439
Speaker 2: Look, see, this is why they sign that check after

998
00:41:25,480 --> 00:41:26,880
Speaker 2: they give you that percent.

999
00:41:27,000 --> 00:41:28,840
Speaker 1: You know what, let me tell you how I feel

1000
00:41:29,480 --> 00:41:32,160
Speaker 1: and then they have American Express and they cancel everything.

1001
00:41:32,239 --> 00:41:35,600
Speaker 2: So, yeah, that has happened, yeah to you. Yes I have.

1002
00:41:36,080 --> 00:41:38,080
Speaker 1: I've definitely waited for everything to be signed off, and

1003
00:41:38,160 --> 00:41:40,160
Speaker 1: right before they leave, I let them know how I

1004
00:41:40,200 --> 00:41:44,240
Speaker 1: really feel, and they'll call in and cancel the charge.

1005
00:41:44,920 --> 00:41:47,239
Speaker 2: Oh and they won't even be like, oh the food

1006
00:41:47,320 --> 00:41:47,560
Speaker 2: was bad.

1007
00:41:47,560 --> 00:41:49,080
Speaker 1: They'll be like, I didn't have a good time there,

1008
00:41:49,120 --> 00:41:53,360
Speaker 1: and American Express will will say sure, okay, and we'll.

1009
00:41:53,239 --> 00:41:55,760
Speaker 2: Take it off. That's why American Express is the best

1010
00:41:56,120 --> 00:41:56,839
Speaker 2: credit card to have.

1011
00:41:56,920 --> 00:41:58,759
Speaker 4: Yeah, but a lot of places don't take MX because

1012
00:41:58,760 --> 00:42:01,960
Speaker 4: they know that they like cost the most or something

1013
00:42:02,600 --> 00:42:03,360
Speaker 4: for like businesses.

1014
00:42:03,440 --> 00:42:06,720
Speaker 2: Yea to have it, but good to know, Yes you should.

1015
00:42:06,880 --> 00:42:09,440
Speaker 3: When I get some money, oh, my ex and a

1016
00:42:09,480 --> 00:42:09,960
Speaker 3: credit card.

1017
00:42:10,520 --> 00:42:12,920
Speaker 1: My ex, he would go to night clubs, buy bottles,

1018
00:42:13,239 --> 00:42:16,400
Speaker 1: leave without signing, and then call American Express the next day.

1019
00:42:16,480 --> 00:42:16,680
Speaker 5: Y'all.

1020
00:42:16,680 --> 00:42:21,520
Speaker 1: I wasn't there, that was not me. Cancel that please,

1021
00:42:21,600 --> 00:42:23,440
Speaker 1: and the American Express would be like, okay, yeah, but

1022
00:42:23,480 --> 00:42:25,680
Speaker 1: how many times can you do that BEFOREX is like.

1023
00:42:31,800 --> 00:42:32,120
Speaker 2: Yours.

1024
00:42:34,080 --> 00:42:36,480
Speaker 1: We were at the club and we saw you get

1025
00:42:36,520 --> 00:42:40,360
Speaker 1: several bottles with flares. Well, he was so short you

1026
00:42:40,400 --> 00:42:42,360
Speaker 1: couldn't see him on the damn y But he's not

1027
00:42:42,400 --> 00:42:43,040
Speaker 1: bringing the bottles.

1028
00:42:43,040 --> 00:42:46,000
Speaker 3: It's the women are bringing. You're bringing the bottles, right,

1029
00:42:46,520 --> 00:42:47,360
Speaker 3: That's crazy.

1030
00:42:47,520 --> 00:42:48,200
Speaker 2: It's so funny.

1031
00:42:48,200 --> 00:42:51,080
Speaker 1: But yeah, being in hospitality and just serving people for

1032
00:42:51,120 --> 00:42:53,400
Speaker 1: so long, you have to you have to hold your tongue.

1033
00:42:53,520 --> 00:42:57,880
Speaker 2: That's why I'm not the anger management. I don't manage it.

1034
00:42:58,760 --> 00:43:00,600
Speaker 2: Are you angry in relationship to ships?

1035
00:43:01,320 --> 00:43:01,400
Speaker 5: No?

1036
00:43:01,719 --> 00:43:03,560
Speaker 3: Orships?

1037
00:43:03,760 --> 00:43:07,680
Speaker 5: No, it's weird in my relationships and like personal relationships,

1038
00:43:07,719 --> 00:43:11,160
Speaker 5: I don't. I don't really get angry at the at

1039
00:43:11,160 --> 00:43:13,440
Speaker 5: the men that I'm with, I don't. I will call

1040
00:43:13,520 --> 00:43:17,800
Speaker 5: up a girlfriend and be like this motherfucker, oh uh

1041
00:43:18,160 --> 00:43:23,280
Speaker 5: needs needs something like like I'll just be like they're retarded.

1042
00:43:23,360 --> 00:43:24,800
Speaker 2: I can't, I can't be with this person.

1043
00:43:24,960 --> 00:43:27,560
Speaker 3: But what happens when you when you can't do that?

1044
00:43:27,560 --> 00:43:27,919
Speaker 3: We happened?

1045
00:43:27,920 --> 00:43:29,680
Speaker 2: Sorry if you're and you heard that joke?

1046
00:43:32,000 --> 00:43:36,239
Speaker 3: Fat what happens when you're like you blow up?

1047
00:43:36,280 --> 00:43:37,560
Speaker 4: Have you ever blown up when a dude and you

1048
00:43:37,600 --> 00:43:39,360
Speaker 4: just feel like if it like, I just don't, we

1049
00:43:39,400 --> 00:43:39,799
Speaker 4: don't need to.

1050
00:43:39,800 --> 00:43:44,200
Speaker 5: Be Yeah, there's been a couple of relationships that were dark,

1051
00:43:44,520 --> 00:43:45,120
Speaker 5: you know what I mean.

1052
00:43:45,239 --> 00:43:50,439
Speaker 2: There's been a few of those like oh god, I'm

1053
00:43:50,480 --> 00:43:53,239
Speaker 2: trying to think. There was a dude that I was with.

1054
00:43:53,360 --> 00:43:58,480
Speaker 5: That I he but he was really the abusive one.

1055
00:43:58,520 --> 00:44:00,879
Speaker 2: So it was kind of like, you know what I mean, truth,

1056
00:44:00,960 --> 00:44:02,239
Speaker 2: he kind of dreve he can't.

1057
00:44:02,280 --> 00:44:03,840
Speaker 5: He kind of drove me to that point where I

1058
00:44:03,880 --> 00:44:06,680
Speaker 5: was like I'd be like, Okay, well, i I'm like moving,

1059
00:44:06,800 --> 00:44:07,839
Speaker 5: you know what i mean. And then I'd be like

1060
00:44:08,120 --> 00:44:10,279
Speaker 5: packing up my ship leaving the house that I was

1061
00:44:10,320 --> 00:44:12,560
Speaker 5: fucking paying for what you know what I'm saying, Like

1062
00:44:12,600 --> 00:44:14,719
Speaker 5: I would be paying the rent he was just like

1063
00:44:14,800 --> 00:44:15,319
Speaker 5: staying there.

1064
00:44:15,360 --> 00:44:17,400
Speaker 2: He was a fucking alcoholic, you know. And I'd be

1065
00:44:17,440 --> 00:44:18,600
Speaker 2: walking out the door and he'd be like, you're a

1066
00:44:18,600 --> 00:44:19,080
Speaker 2: fucking slut.

1067
00:44:19,120 --> 00:44:20,520
Speaker 5: And then I'd come back in and I just like

1068
00:44:20,920 --> 00:44:23,600
Speaker 5: throw start throwing ship at him, you know, and then.

1069
00:44:23,440 --> 00:44:25,319
Speaker 1: You started unpacking your stuff. You're like, well, if you're

1070
00:44:25,320 --> 00:44:26,680
Speaker 1: gonna call me a sled, I'm staying now.

1071
00:44:27,400 --> 00:44:29,120
Speaker 5: No, not even I was like, I just wanted to

1072
00:44:29,120 --> 00:44:31,000
Speaker 5: come back because he called me a sled to throw

1073
00:44:31,040 --> 00:44:32,839
Speaker 5: shit at him, and then and then I walked out,

1074
00:44:32,840 --> 00:44:33,359
Speaker 5: you know what I mean.

1075
00:44:34,160 --> 00:44:35,520
Speaker 2: So there were times when I.

1076
00:44:35,520 --> 00:44:36,799
Speaker 3: Was never thrown anything at a man.

1077
00:44:36,840 --> 00:44:38,239
Speaker 1: I feel like I see that in like movies and

1078
00:44:38,320 --> 00:44:40,279
Speaker 1: music videos all the time, But I've never thrown if

1079
00:44:40,320 --> 00:44:43,560
Speaker 1: you get mad at late or a glass of wine, no,

1080
00:44:43,680 --> 00:44:45,680
Speaker 1: nothing like that in a man's face. No.

1081
00:44:45,880 --> 00:44:46,680
Speaker 2: Oh, I used to.

1082
00:44:46,760 --> 00:44:50,279
Speaker 5: I threw a glass of wine once love him top.

1083
00:44:51,040 --> 00:44:53,880
Speaker 5: This was this, Yeah, I was very drunk. This was

1084
00:44:53,880 --> 00:44:54,880
Speaker 5: at my dad's wedding.

1085
00:44:55,480 --> 00:44:58,360
Speaker 2: Wow, at a wedding, at James wedding, at my dad's wedding.

1086
00:44:58,400 --> 00:44:59,160
Speaker 2: That's wow. Rude.

1087
00:44:59,400 --> 00:44:59,560
Speaker 3: Yeah.

1088
00:45:00,120 --> 00:45:02,200
Speaker 5: You know what's really disrespectful is I thought that I'd

1089
00:45:02,200 --> 00:45:03,640
Speaker 5: thrown it at my sister.

1090
00:45:04,880 --> 00:45:07,080
Speaker 2: And then I found us years later.

1091
00:45:07,200 --> 00:45:08,440
Speaker 5: I was like, I was like, I don't know why

1092
00:45:08,480 --> 00:45:10,200
Speaker 5: this sister's being such a bitch to me, Like I

1093
00:45:10,280 --> 00:45:12,040
Speaker 5: you know what I mean, Like I didn't even I

1094
00:45:12,080 --> 00:45:14,560
Speaker 5: did nothing to her. And my other sister was like,

1095
00:45:14,600 --> 00:45:16,279
Speaker 5: you threw a glass of wine at her head at

1096
00:45:16,360 --> 00:45:17,359
Speaker 5: dad's wedding, and I was like.

1097
00:45:17,400 --> 00:45:18,120
Speaker 2: I thought that was you.

1098
00:45:18,440 --> 00:45:20,480
Speaker 5: So I didn't even know who i'd thrown it at.

1099
00:45:21,040 --> 00:45:22,239
Speaker 5: I was just going off.

1100
00:45:22,640 --> 00:45:24,839
Speaker 2: But what is that's okay for that to happen. It's

1101
00:45:24,880 --> 00:45:26,760
Speaker 2: just always that's.

1102
00:45:26,640 --> 00:45:29,160
Speaker 1: Really not okay for that.

1103
00:45:29,160 --> 00:45:30,680
Speaker 2: It's not okay for that to happen.

1104
00:45:30,880 --> 00:45:32,320
Speaker 3: How many times has your dad been married?

1105
00:45:35,280 --> 00:45:37,840
Speaker 2: Yeah? Just my mom and the and the other woman,

1106
00:45:39,200 --> 00:45:43,239
Speaker 2: the woman who's wedding you ruined? Oh god, okay, but

1107
00:45:43,400 --> 00:45:45,520
Speaker 2: you've been you've been with your man for how long?

1108
00:45:46,560 --> 00:45:49,799
Speaker 2: Five years? Five years? What's the worst fight you've had?

1109
00:45:50,800 --> 00:45:54,000
Speaker 2: Worst fight we've ever had? Uh? So I had to

1110
00:45:54,520 --> 00:45:57,239
Speaker 2: I had to leave town for a little while. I

1111
00:45:57,320 --> 00:45:59,920
Speaker 2: came back. The house was dirty, and I was like, listen,

1112
00:46:01,080 --> 00:46:03,959
Speaker 2: I love you, and I was like trying so hard

1113
00:46:04,000 --> 00:46:05,839
Speaker 2: to keep it together. How long are you going for

1114
00:46:06,480 --> 00:46:08,839
Speaker 2: a week? Okay? Oh that's a long time to fuck

1115
00:46:08,880 --> 00:46:09,440
Speaker 2: some shit up.

1116
00:46:09,480 --> 00:46:13,160
Speaker 1: Man, you put one thing down and it's like fifty

1117
00:46:13,239 --> 00:46:13,919
Speaker 1: thousand things.

1118
00:46:15,120 --> 00:46:16,920
Speaker 3: You should have had him give you a card for incidental.

1119
00:46:17,120 --> 00:46:17,879
Speaker 2: I mean, I for real.

1120
00:46:18,000 --> 00:46:19,759
Speaker 5: I was like, this is I came home and I

1121
00:46:19,800 --> 00:46:22,279
Speaker 5: was like, this looks like we're nineteen, you know what

1122
00:46:22,320 --> 00:46:22,600
Speaker 5: I mean?

1123
00:46:22,640 --> 00:46:24,400
Speaker 2: Like, this looks like the apartment of a nineteen your

1124
00:46:24,480 --> 00:46:25,000
Speaker 2: frat house.

1125
00:46:25,160 --> 00:46:27,840
Speaker 5: Yeah, And I was like, I just like texted and

1126
00:46:27,880 --> 00:46:29,759
Speaker 5: I was like, I just need you to know that

1127
00:46:30,080 --> 00:46:31,719
Speaker 5: I really need the place to be clean. I just

1128
00:46:31,719 --> 00:46:34,560
Speaker 5: wanted to look like we're in our thirties. That's all

1129
00:46:34,600 --> 00:46:37,360
Speaker 5: I asked, you know. And I think, which is not crazy,

1130
00:46:37,400 --> 00:46:38,600
Speaker 5: which is not crazy.

1131
00:46:38,280 --> 00:46:40,319
Speaker 3: Which is something that it should look like if you're

1132
00:46:40,320 --> 00:46:40,920
Speaker 3: in your thirties.

1133
00:46:41,360 --> 00:46:46,560
Speaker 5: Yeah, but you know, like men and they So he

1134
00:46:47,200 --> 00:46:49,560
Speaker 5: called me that and he was like, oh, this is

1135
00:46:49,640 --> 00:46:51,640
Speaker 5: like all you ever do is like tell me I'm

1136
00:46:51,640 --> 00:46:54,360
Speaker 5: not doing shit, tell me you're always trying to fucking

1137
00:46:54,719 --> 00:46:55,160
Speaker 5: nag me.

1138
00:46:55,200 --> 00:46:57,200
Speaker 3: And I was like, it's like, my house is dirty.

1139
00:46:57,239 --> 00:46:57,880
Speaker 3: I literally was.

1140
00:46:57,880 --> 00:47:01,120
Speaker 2: Like, my house looks like shit. I'm not blind, Like

1141
00:47:01,200 --> 00:47:01,600
Speaker 2: I can't.

1142
00:47:01,640 --> 00:47:03,200
Speaker 5: I'm not gonna go back on this and be like, oh,

1143
00:47:03,239 --> 00:47:06,040
Speaker 5: maybe I'm being unreasonable, like this is a fucking basic

1144
00:47:06,120 --> 00:47:07,840
Speaker 5: thing that I'm asking for. And I was like, and

1145
00:47:07,880 --> 00:47:10,600
Speaker 5: if you need somebody who is going to need less

1146
00:47:10,640 --> 00:47:13,600
Speaker 5: from you, please go out and fucking find them, Like

1147
00:47:13,640 --> 00:47:15,520
Speaker 5: I was like, please, you.

1148
00:47:15,480 --> 00:47:16,520
Speaker 2: Sound triggered right now.

1149
00:47:16,960 --> 00:47:19,880
Speaker 5: No to day to this day, I'm like, I cannot

1150
00:47:20,520 --> 00:47:23,600
Speaker 5: fucking stand up when dudes are like, oh, yeah, you

1151
00:47:23,640 --> 00:47:26,120
Speaker 5: ask this so much, and I'm like, I'm not asking

1152
00:47:26,160 --> 00:47:26,640
Speaker 5: for so much.

1153
00:47:26,680 --> 00:47:28,680
Speaker 3: This is basic level, entry level.

1154
00:47:28,920 --> 00:47:30,880
Speaker 2: Yes, so you live here too, you should.

1155
00:47:30,920 --> 00:47:33,279
Speaker 4: You don't want spider webs exactly, face when you wake

1156
00:47:33,360 --> 00:47:33,960
Speaker 4: up at a.

1157
00:47:33,960 --> 00:47:36,200
Speaker 2: Certain point you go, do you respect yourself? Like what?

1158
00:47:36,360 --> 00:47:39,839
Speaker 1: Also I'm saying no, it's a man.

1159
00:47:39,960 --> 00:47:42,200
Speaker 4: But also like not all men are like that, you

1160
00:47:42,200 --> 00:47:44,239
Speaker 4: know what I mean? Like some men like they they

1161
00:47:44,280 --> 00:47:46,680
Speaker 4: won't even ever see a mess. They're just like stepping

1162
00:47:46,719 --> 00:47:49,320
Speaker 4: over like beer cans, and they got like a hoarder

1163
00:47:49,400 --> 00:47:51,160
Speaker 4: house and they're like, this is just the way my

1164
00:47:51,160 --> 00:47:52,560
Speaker 4: house looks like they don't see it.

1165
00:47:52,560 --> 00:47:55,200
Speaker 2: But they don't see it, And I'm like that is crazy.

1166
00:47:55,280 --> 00:47:57,560
Speaker 5: It makes me insane, Like when I come home to

1167
00:47:57,600 --> 00:48:02,440
Speaker 5: a dirty house, I'm I lose it O C D. No.

1168
00:48:03,360 --> 00:48:06,359
Speaker 4: I feel like everything that you're saying people who are

1169
00:48:06,400 --> 00:48:07,880
Speaker 4: like clean clean, you o c D.

1170
00:48:08,440 --> 00:48:09,839
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm like, you haven't.

1171
00:48:09,840 --> 00:48:12,440
Speaker 5: I When people say you have OCD, it sounds like

1172
00:48:12,480 --> 00:48:15,839
Speaker 5: a compliment to me. That's it's like, yes, absolutely, I'm

1173
00:48:15,840 --> 00:48:17,960
Speaker 5: a clean person. I like ship to be organized.

1174
00:48:18,360 --> 00:48:18,760
Speaker 2: I don't.

1175
00:48:18,840 --> 00:48:21,320
Speaker 5: I don't want I'm holding on by a fucking thread.

1176
00:48:21,400 --> 00:48:23,160
Speaker 5: I just want my apartment to look nice.

1177
00:48:23,239 --> 00:48:25,719
Speaker 2: Yeah, you know what I mean. Low key, I feel

1178
00:48:25,719 --> 00:48:26,440
Speaker 2: like i'm OCD.

1179
00:48:26,560 --> 00:48:29,200
Speaker 4: I like things to be clean, yes, like my kitchen

1180
00:48:29,200 --> 00:48:30,520
Speaker 4: to be clean, and like my bathroom to be clean.

1181
00:48:30,560 --> 00:48:32,600
Speaker 3: And you're not eating in my bed like that. That's

1182
00:48:32,640 --> 00:48:33,760
Speaker 3: grow crumbs.

1183
00:48:33,760 --> 00:48:38,760
Speaker 1: That that used to kill me when I was staying

1184
00:48:38,800 --> 00:48:39,760
Speaker 1: with my ex.

1185
00:48:40,640 --> 00:48:41,720
Speaker 2: Crumbs all the time.

1186
00:48:41,880 --> 00:48:43,640
Speaker 3: But whose crumbs your crumbs?

1187
00:48:43,840 --> 00:48:46,640
Speaker 2: See, we couldn't figure out who.

1188
00:48:46,080 --> 00:48:48,920
Speaker 4: It was community crumbs because you're talking and I'm like sitting,

1189
00:48:48,920 --> 00:48:50,120
Speaker 4: they were probably your.

1190
00:48:50,000 --> 00:48:52,560
Speaker 2: Crumb No I anymore.

1191
00:48:52,640 --> 00:48:55,719
Speaker 3: But when you were with your we're trying to.

1192
00:48:58,600 --> 00:48:58,920
Speaker 2: Dust.

1193
00:49:01,520 --> 00:49:04,160
Speaker 1: But yeah, I mean you've been in a relationship for

1194
00:49:04,200 --> 00:49:06,279
Speaker 1: so long, and you have friendship for so long, you

1195
00:49:06,280 --> 00:49:08,000
Speaker 1: definitely have to hold back your anger.

1196
00:49:08,239 --> 00:49:09,919
Speaker 2: You definitely have to. No, you don't.

1197
00:49:10,680 --> 00:49:12,080
Speaker 3: When I'm in a relationship for a long time, I

1198
00:49:12,080 --> 00:49:13,440
Speaker 3: can be as me as I want to be.

1199
00:49:13,680 --> 00:49:15,960
Speaker 5: Yeah, you don't have to hold back your anger like

1200
00:49:16,000 --> 00:49:18,480
Speaker 5: you don't. You Also, you can have your anger without

1201
00:49:18,480 --> 00:49:20,879
Speaker 5: like being your anger, you know what I mean.

1202
00:49:20,920 --> 00:49:23,399
Speaker 2: Like you can you can tell somebody like come through,

1203
00:49:24,320 --> 00:49:24,919
Speaker 2: you know what I mean.

1204
00:49:25,080 --> 00:49:27,920
Speaker 5: You can tell somebody like, look, I'm I'm so mad

1205
00:49:28,000 --> 00:49:30,839
Speaker 5: right now that I can't find the words for how

1206
00:49:30,920 --> 00:49:34,200
Speaker 5: much I hate you and just like say that in

1207
00:49:34,200 --> 00:49:35,919
Speaker 5: a in a s you know what I mean.

1208
00:49:36,320 --> 00:49:37,759
Speaker 3: But that's a real lifetime movie of you.

1209
00:49:38,120 --> 00:49:40,719
Speaker 2: Loo, I can't explain. I can't. It's beyond the reach

1210
00:49:40,719 --> 00:49:42,920
Speaker 2: of words how much you annoy me right now? Like

1211
00:49:43,000 --> 00:49:44,160
Speaker 2: that's you know what I mean.

1212
00:49:44,280 --> 00:49:46,719
Speaker 4: If you're talking to somebody who's not as angry as you,

1213
00:49:47,080 --> 00:49:49,640
Speaker 4: that'll go fine. If you're talking to somebody who's also angry,

1214
00:49:49,719 --> 00:49:51,880
Speaker 4: that's not gonna go. Well yeah, somebody who's all you're

1215
00:49:51,880 --> 00:49:52,640
Speaker 4: gonna do is bump hi.

1216
00:49:52,880 --> 00:49:53,840
Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah.

1217
00:49:53,840 --> 00:49:56,880
Speaker 5: So then you have to be the person that's like, uh,

1218
00:49:57,000 --> 00:49:58,120
Speaker 5: that sees things.

1219
00:49:57,880 --> 00:50:00,680
Speaker 2: For for what they actually are. And here's you need

1220
00:50:00,719 --> 00:50:02,680
Speaker 2: a rational person in an argument. Yeah.

1221
00:50:02,719 --> 00:50:05,200
Speaker 5: And here's the thing is, I don't find myself getting

1222
00:50:05,239 --> 00:50:08,360
Speaker 5: angry unless it's about something rational and that's like the

1223
00:50:08,440 --> 00:50:11,120
Speaker 5: benefit of I think my anger.

1224
00:50:11,120 --> 00:50:11,799
Speaker 3: Die for you.

1225
00:50:12,640 --> 00:50:14,600
Speaker 2: I don't. Well, I don't like everything you met about

1226
00:50:14,680 --> 00:50:19,560
Speaker 2: is rational. You're right, I'm wrong. Well, Like, here's the thing,

1227
00:50:19,640 --> 00:50:21,680
Speaker 2: is like if it's not like my sister.

1228
00:50:21,480 --> 00:50:22,960
Speaker 5: Texted me the other the other day that she was

1229
00:50:23,000 --> 00:50:25,160
Speaker 5: going out to dinner with my friend, right, and I

1230
00:50:25,200 --> 00:50:27,440
Speaker 5: was like, that's my fucking friend, you know what I mean?

1231
00:50:27,680 --> 00:50:29,480
Speaker 2: Like I immediately got so mad.

1232
00:50:29,600 --> 00:50:31,200
Speaker 5: And then I was like, hold on, Like you don't

1233
00:50:31,320 --> 00:50:34,800
Speaker 5: own like you don't have ownership over people.

1234
00:50:35,760 --> 00:50:36,120
Speaker 2: No, you do.

1235
00:50:36,440 --> 00:50:40,000
Speaker 3: What's between your sister and your friend five years?

1236
00:50:40,080 --> 00:50:40,279
Speaker 1: Yeah?

1237
00:50:40,280 --> 00:50:42,640
Speaker 2: No, they shouldn't hanging out. That's your friend at all, that's.

1238
00:50:42,560 --> 00:50:45,160
Speaker 1: Your Why wait, why hang it out? I want to

1239
00:50:45,200 --> 00:50:48,239
Speaker 1: know what was y'all doing? Y'all celebrating without me? Was

1240
00:50:48,320 --> 00:50:49,640
Speaker 1: y'all doing something without me?

1241
00:50:49,760 --> 00:50:51,560
Speaker 5: I'm like, I'm on a plane on the way back

1242
00:50:51,560 --> 00:50:53,680
Speaker 5: from La. I can't be there to hang out. They

1243
00:50:53,680 --> 00:50:54,879
Speaker 5: didn't ask me to hang out.

1244
00:50:55,080 --> 00:50:58,799
Speaker 2: Why would they? Because they know I'm in La hang No,

1245
00:50:59,000 --> 00:50:59,719
Speaker 2: they why would that?

1246
00:51:00,040 --> 00:51:00,760
Speaker 3: That's your permission?

1247
00:51:00,880 --> 00:51:03,080
Speaker 4: Yea, Honestly, why are we like that about our for

1248
00:51:03,200 --> 00:51:05,120
Speaker 4: certain friends, like certain people you don't care about. But

1249
00:51:05,160 --> 00:51:06,800
Speaker 4: like if somebody hangs out with your other friend, or

1250
00:51:06,840 --> 00:51:08,840
Speaker 4: two of your friends hang out that you introduced to

1251
00:51:08,880 --> 00:51:10,200
Speaker 4: each other and you see him chilling.

1252
00:51:11,120 --> 00:51:13,880
Speaker 3: What's happening? He Yeah, Like it's not real friendship.

1253
00:51:13,960 --> 00:51:16,600
Speaker 5: But I don't think them ever makes sense because you

1254
00:51:16,680 --> 00:51:18,640
Speaker 5: don't have ownership over a person.

1255
00:51:18,680 --> 00:51:20,600
Speaker 2: You got to just let people be and let people

1256
00:51:20,680 --> 00:51:22,080
Speaker 2: do what they want to do. That's it.

1257
00:51:22,640 --> 00:51:24,680
Speaker 5: That's like, you can't get mad about that. If you

1258
00:51:24,719 --> 00:51:27,000
Speaker 5: are mad about it, it's fine, but it's about something else.

1259
00:51:27,000 --> 00:51:29,600
Speaker 5: It's not about them hanging out, you know what I mean.

1260
00:51:29,680 --> 00:51:31,200
Speaker 5: It's about you feeling insecure.

1261
00:51:31,760 --> 00:51:32,880
Speaker 3: And that's I don't like.

1262
00:51:32,920 --> 00:51:33,920
Speaker 2: That word at all. Damn.

1263
00:51:34,040 --> 00:51:38,319
Speaker 3: That's studying therapy at.

1264
00:51:40,440 --> 00:51:43,000
Speaker 2: I've just been in therapy for so long. I might

1265
00:51:43,040 --> 00:51:44,080
Speaker 2: as well have a fucking degree.

1266
00:51:44,160 --> 00:51:46,320
Speaker 3: What made you go to therapy? Like start going?

1267
00:51:48,400 --> 00:51:51,960
Speaker 2: I don't. I was just unhappy. I was just really unhappy,

1268
00:51:52,120 --> 00:51:53,760
Speaker 2: you know what I mean. When you're when your whole

1269
00:51:53,800 --> 00:51:56,640
Speaker 2: life is just like you're like, I'm disappointed in myself.

1270
00:51:57,000 --> 00:51:59,480
Speaker 1: Oh that's disappointed is a word that white people like

1271
00:51:59,520 --> 00:52:02,160
Speaker 1: to use, and that means like real, like it's really

1272
00:52:02,239 --> 00:52:02,960
Speaker 1: upsetting for y'all.

1273
00:52:03,120 --> 00:52:05,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, but like I'm disappointed in you you disappointed in me?

1274
00:52:06,239 --> 00:52:07,280
Speaker 2: Does it hurt your feelings?

1275
00:52:07,560 --> 00:52:11,960
Speaker 4: I mean not really, I'm not disappointed. I'm not disappointed

1276
00:52:11,960 --> 00:52:13,560
Speaker 4: in what I'm saying. If I said that to you,

1277
00:52:13,600 --> 00:52:15,799
Speaker 4: would you like, would you like?

1278
00:52:15,880 --> 00:52:16,279
Speaker 2: You know? How?

1279
00:52:16,280 --> 00:52:16,839
Speaker 3: Like on TV?

1280
00:52:16,920 --> 00:52:19,200
Speaker 2: White moms will be like, I'm not mad, I'm just disappointed.

1281
00:52:19,560 --> 00:52:22,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, disappointed means a lot when it's coming from somebody

1282
00:52:22,000 --> 00:52:22,560
Speaker 1: you look up to.

1283
00:52:23,040 --> 00:52:23,839
Speaker 2: That hurts hard.

1284
00:52:23,920 --> 00:52:26,560
Speaker 1: That hurts harder, Yeah than saying like, fuck you, I

1285
00:52:26,600 --> 00:52:29,359
Speaker 1: don't like you. Saying disappointed. Disappointed is like it's a

1286
00:52:29,400 --> 00:52:33,359
Speaker 1: real emotion. That means you I let you down and

1287
00:52:33,400 --> 00:52:36,719
Speaker 1: you're feeling it, and you care that I let you down.

1288
00:52:37,280 --> 00:52:37,840
Speaker 2: You care you.

1289
00:52:37,880 --> 00:52:39,840
Speaker 4: Disappointed affects you the same way it affects us. But

1290
00:52:39,880 --> 00:52:42,640
Speaker 4: I'm assuming the word it does.

1291
00:52:42,880 --> 00:52:46,239
Speaker 1: You can see it her disappointed in a long time

1292
00:52:46,280 --> 00:52:47,560
Speaker 1: because people don't be telling me that.

1293
00:52:47,560 --> 00:52:49,440
Speaker 2: They'll be like, I'm just disappointed. I ain't gonna tell

1294
00:52:49,440 --> 00:52:49,719
Speaker 2: her though.

1295
00:52:52,080 --> 00:52:54,919
Speaker 3: She don't need to know that she really let me down.

1296
00:52:54,960 --> 00:52:55,920
Speaker 2: Girl, you dropped the.

1297
00:52:55,880 --> 00:52:56,640
Speaker 3: Ball on that.

1298
00:52:56,800 --> 00:53:01,480
Speaker 2: I really needed that thirty dollars. That's disappointed.

1299
00:53:03,000 --> 00:53:03,920
Speaker 3: That you have friends that.

1300
00:53:06,280 --> 00:53:10,560
Speaker 2: So disappointed and how much money you needed.

1301
00:53:10,560 --> 00:53:14,200
Speaker 4: Thirty dollars have you ever been angry at work that

1302
00:53:14,239 --> 00:53:16,480
Speaker 4: you like, blew up and got fired for it or

1303
00:53:16,560 --> 00:53:18,120
Speaker 4: you got.

1304
00:53:16,800 --> 00:53:20,840
Speaker 2: A yes, yes, I remember I was. I was a waitress.

1305
00:53:20,920 --> 00:53:22,600
Speaker 2: This is why I can't be in the service industry.

1306
00:53:23,280 --> 00:53:27,600
Speaker 2: I was a waitress and I walked I remember walking

1307
00:53:27,640 --> 00:53:29,920
Speaker 2: into work one day. I tried to throw these people

1308
00:53:29,960 --> 00:53:33,400
Speaker 2: out for talking to me in a disrespectful way.

1309
00:53:33,960 --> 00:53:35,080
Speaker 3: But what did they say?

1310
00:53:35,239 --> 00:53:36,000
Speaker 2: I don't remember.

1311
00:53:36,160 --> 00:53:38,640
Speaker 1: You can't remember, but I do remember that it was

1312
00:53:38,640 --> 00:53:39,680
Speaker 1: disrespect I don't remember.

1313
00:53:39,680 --> 00:53:41,439
Speaker 2: I don't even think. I don't think it was even

1314
00:53:41,440 --> 00:53:42,200
Speaker 2: that disrespectful.

1315
00:53:42,200 --> 00:53:44,120
Speaker 5: I think I was just like, my feelings were hurt

1316
00:53:44,120 --> 00:53:46,080
Speaker 5: by how dismissive they were.

1317
00:53:46,360 --> 00:53:47,440
Speaker 2: Like I remember walking up.

1318
00:53:47,440 --> 00:53:49,560
Speaker 5: I didn't know how being a waitress worked, like, I

1319
00:53:49,560 --> 00:53:52,080
Speaker 5: didn't know you go there to be disrespected, you know,

1320
00:53:52,640 --> 00:53:55,759
Speaker 5: bas that is what a service job is, you know

1321
00:53:56,320 --> 00:53:58,279
Speaker 5: that was I did not know that. I just thought,

1322
00:53:58,440 --> 00:54:00,000
Speaker 5: you know, you were going to be a fun waitress.

1323
00:54:00,480 --> 00:54:05,640
Speaker 5: I was always watching the fucking coyote Ugly. Yeah, I'm

1324
00:54:05,640 --> 00:54:07,799
Speaker 5: gonna be the neighborhood waitress. Everybody's gonna love me.

1325
00:54:07,920 --> 00:54:10,560
Speaker 2: No. I loved in there and I was like, hey, guys.

1326
00:54:10,280 --> 00:54:12,600
Speaker 5: How you doing, And they they did I just have

1327
00:54:12,640 --> 00:54:13,839
Speaker 5: like sort of an accent when I.

1328
00:54:13,760 --> 00:54:17,080
Speaker 2: Said that, where were you working? Maybe? Uh?

1329
00:54:17,560 --> 00:54:23,440
Speaker 5: I was a Don Giovanni's pizza place in Yes, how.

1330
00:54:23,280 --> 00:54:24,480
Speaker 3: Did you get a job like that?

1331
00:54:24,600 --> 00:54:32,480
Speaker 2: It's always dudes that are not from yeah, United States? Yeah, immigrants.

1332
00:54:32,480 --> 00:54:34,880
Speaker 3: Well, there was a lot of green guards at Don Giovanni.

1333
00:54:35,040 --> 00:54:35,279
Speaker 2: Listen.

1334
00:54:35,400 --> 00:54:37,600
Speaker 5: There was a long period of time where I did

1335
00:54:37,640 --> 00:54:38,840
Speaker 5: not have any ID.

1336
00:54:39,360 --> 00:54:41,560
Speaker 2: Uh where I just did not have ID. You were

1337
00:54:41,760 --> 00:54:45,759
Speaker 2: an illegal, No, I was just I was just Uh.

1338
00:54:46,040 --> 00:54:48,239
Speaker 5: I was just an alcoholic and I couldn't find I

1339
00:54:48,280 --> 00:54:49,400
Speaker 5: couldn't get myself to go to.

1340
00:54:49,440 --> 00:54:52,640
Speaker 1: The d m V and like together, let me find out,

1341
00:54:52,680 --> 00:54:56,280
Speaker 1: you're not Anglo Saxon and you're Venezuelan.

1342
00:54:57,560 --> 00:55:00,600
Speaker 2: From South America. Love and bleaching.

1343
00:55:03,680 --> 00:55:06,680
Speaker 4: I see it, Marie, I see it. She rolled her

1344
00:55:06,680 --> 00:55:11,719
Speaker 4: ours earlier. You were working at a pizza place. I was,

1345
00:55:12,000 --> 00:55:13,960
Speaker 4: And I didn't like the way people talk to you

1346
00:55:14,040 --> 00:55:15,439
Speaker 4: at the pizza pizza bath.

1347
00:55:15,560 --> 00:55:17,759
Speaker 3: Yeah, you're not allowed to.

1348
00:55:17,719 --> 00:55:19,600
Speaker 2: Be No, I wasn't. Listen.

1349
00:55:19,800 --> 00:55:21,479
Speaker 5: There was a long period of time in my life

1350
00:55:21,480 --> 00:55:25,200
Speaker 5: where I could qualify as like certifiably insane because I

1351
00:55:25,280 --> 00:55:27,319
Speaker 5: drank so much and because my ego is all over

1352
00:55:27,360 --> 00:55:29,000
Speaker 5: the place, my mood swings were all over the place.

1353
00:55:29,360 --> 00:55:32,120
Speaker 5: I didn't know what and was, you know what I mean.

1354
00:55:32,160 --> 00:55:34,240
Speaker 5: And then I quld drinking and all this shit stopped

1355
00:55:34,239 --> 00:55:34,879
Speaker 5: happening in my life.

1356
00:55:34,920 --> 00:55:36,279
Speaker 2: And I was like, oh that was meal and you

1357
00:55:36,280 --> 00:55:38,240
Speaker 2: were like oh, I was like, oh, that was my fault,

1358
00:55:38,520 --> 00:55:39,799
Speaker 2: which is.

1359
00:55:39,760 --> 00:55:43,720
Speaker 1: Crazy, But because when I was drinking, I was not angry.

1360
00:55:44,120 --> 00:55:46,920
Speaker 1: I wasn't I don't really care. And now that I'm sober,

1361
00:55:47,000 --> 00:55:51,960
Speaker 1: I care about everything. Everything is fucking annoying or stressful.

1362
00:55:52,520 --> 00:55:55,000
Speaker 1: My feelings are hers. So it's just it's all that

1363
00:55:55,080 --> 00:55:58,479
Speaker 1: built up. I was taken so much as a drunk that, yeah,

1364
00:55:58,560 --> 00:56:01,120
Speaker 1: that I'm sober, I'm like, oh I got I gotta

1365
00:56:01,160 --> 00:56:04,040
Speaker 1: get Yeah, I got to kick something, right.

1366
00:56:04,600 --> 00:56:09,000
Speaker 5: I mean, here's the thing, Like I don't know. I'm like, dude,

1367
00:56:09,000 --> 00:56:10,799
Speaker 5: did I care or did I not care? You know,

1368
00:56:10,840 --> 00:56:12,680
Speaker 5: It's like you're you're so drunk, you don't really feel

1369
00:56:12,680 --> 00:56:14,160
Speaker 5: it whatever you're going through, but.

1370
00:56:14,239 --> 00:56:17,480
Speaker 2: You do, uh, you do act like you feel it.

1371
00:56:17,560 --> 00:56:21,440
Speaker 5: Like I remember, Sydney, I remember a lot of tears,

1372
00:56:21,960 --> 00:56:24,719
Speaker 5: Like talking to you remember like I remember a lot

1373
00:56:24,719 --> 00:56:27,600
Speaker 5: of tears. So you were feeling shit, but it was

1374
00:56:27,680 --> 00:56:30,240
Speaker 5: like it was just like not. It was like after

1375
00:56:30,280 --> 00:56:31,680
Speaker 5: the fact, you know what I mean, it was to

1376
00:56:31,719 --> 00:56:34,560
Speaker 5: come out of it, and you're like, oh God Jesus Christ,

1377
00:56:35,200 --> 00:56:37,120
Speaker 5: you know, and I've been there, and I was like,

1378
00:56:38,040 --> 00:56:39,560
Speaker 5: you know, now that I'm sober, I'm like, I still

1379
00:56:39,600 --> 00:56:42,200
Speaker 5: care about everything, but it's just like learning the ship,

1380
00:56:42,360 --> 00:56:45,160
Speaker 5: but learning the difference between something that you should give

1381
00:56:45,200 --> 00:56:47,239
Speaker 5: a shit about and something that you should really just

1382
00:56:47,239 --> 00:56:47,680
Speaker 5: put away.

1383
00:56:47,719 --> 00:56:49,799
Speaker 2: I feel like there's also something that happens as you

1384
00:56:49,840 --> 00:56:52,600
Speaker 2: get older though, too. For sure, as you age, you're like,

1385
00:56:52,640 --> 00:56:54,080
Speaker 2: you know what, I don't really care about this.

1386
00:56:54,160 --> 00:56:55,680
Speaker 3: I don't need this in my life, Like, I don't

1387
00:56:55,719 --> 00:56:56,560
Speaker 3: have time to deal with this.

1388
00:56:56,840 --> 00:56:58,839
Speaker 5: Yes, have you ever had like a friend, you know,

1389
00:56:58,880 --> 00:57:00,759
Speaker 5: like as you're growing older, you have a friend who

1390
00:57:00,800 --> 00:57:03,200
Speaker 5: disappoints you, and you go, you know, I unders I

1391
00:57:03,200 --> 00:57:04,399
Speaker 5: don't need that friend that much.

1392
00:57:06,120 --> 00:57:07,359
Speaker 2: I do that all the time now.

1393
00:57:07,560 --> 00:57:10,920
Speaker 5: I just like, I don't feel like making the effort

1394
00:57:10,960 --> 00:57:13,120
Speaker 5: to try to fix this. And you know, I got

1395
00:57:13,160 --> 00:57:17,000
Speaker 5: my friends. I don't need new people. I was looking

1396
00:57:17,000 --> 00:57:21,720
Speaker 5: at cutting back, you know, I'm over staffed anyway.

1397
00:57:21,880 --> 00:57:24,160
Speaker 3: The Christmas card list was getting too long.

1398
00:57:24,360 --> 00:57:26,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, there's too many people to keep up with.

1399
00:57:27,120 --> 00:57:29,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, and then you look at the months and you're like, well,

1400
00:57:29,080 --> 00:57:32,720
Speaker 1: there's there's three birthdays in October. One of them got

1401
00:57:32,720 --> 00:57:35,880
Speaker 1: to go the friend at the end of up you

1402
00:57:35,920 --> 00:57:38,080
Speaker 1: gotta go say Halloween.

1403
00:57:38,240 --> 00:57:39,760
Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't have time.

1404
00:57:39,920 --> 00:57:43,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, there's like three birthdays in February and mine's At first,

1405
00:57:43,560 --> 00:57:45,280
Speaker 1: it's like, well I still gott to be their friend

1406
00:57:45,360 --> 00:57:47,240
Speaker 1: until after my birthday.

1407
00:57:47,520 --> 00:57:48,640
Speaker 3: Well, good thing your birthdays.

1408
00:57:48,640 --> 00:57:51,720
Speaker 1: On the second, I just hold on to them. Yeah yeah,

1409
00:57:51,760 --> 00:57:53,160
Speaker 1: I was like, well the birthday party got to be

1410
00:57:54,800 --> 00:57:57,200
Speaker 1: I know she's gonna bring that good old apple pie.

1411
00:57:57,400 --> 00:57:58,720
Speaker 2: So this is.

1412
00:57:58,720 --> 00:58:00,680
Speaker 5: Why I don't have birthdays, because I don't want to

1413
00:58:01,280 --> 00:58:04,600
Speaker 5: overwhelm my friends. Also because I don't want to face

1414
00:58:04,840 --> 00:58:07,320
Speaker 5: the rejection in case people don't show up.

1415
00:58:08,000 --> 00:58:10,760
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's rough tomorrow, and it's like, oh, go come,

1416
00:58:11,240 --> 00:58:13,680
Speaker 2: it's so scary. This looks like is anybody going to

1417
00:58:13,720 --> 00:58:13,960
Speaker 2: go it?

1418
00:58:14,080 --> 00:58:17,480
Speaker 1: Meanwhile, last year, back at the ranch, packed to the brim,

1419
00:58:17,920 --> 00:58:20,080
Speaker 1: random people that I was like, I've never seen you ever,

1420
00:58:20,160 --> 00:58:20,720
Speaker 1: who are you?

1421
00:58:20,760 --> 00:58:23,840
Speaker 2: And that's Marie's friend from like twenty years ago.

1422
00:58:23,920 --> 00:58:26,960
Speaker 4: I'm sure, Okay, I'm sure, yeah sure from high school

1423
00:58:26,960 --> 00:58:28,040
Speaker 4: on college camp is crazy.

1424
00:58:28,040 --> 00:58:29,600
Speaker 2: I was like, oh, it's so it's me I don't

1425
00:58:29,640 --> 00:58:33,520
Speaker 2: know okay. On the new one, Yeah, they're looking at

1426
00:58:33,560 --> 00:58:34,720
Speaker 2: you like we don't know you.

1427
00:58:34,960 --> 00:58:36,000
Speaker 3: Yeah they were.

1428
00:58:35,760 --> 00:58:38,040
Speaker 2: They were actually really nice. They're like, hey, I see

1429
00:58:38,040 --> 00:58:40,480
Speaker 2: pictures of you all the time. Oh I should probably

1430
00:58:40,520 --> 00:58:41,840
Speaker 2: be nicer. You're right rude?

1431
00:58:41,960 --> 00:58:44,320
Speaker 3: See that route route?

1432
00:58:44,640 --> 00:58:46,760
Speaker 2: Do you people show up that are supposed to anyway?

1433
00:58:46,840 --> 00:58:47,080
Speaker 1: Yeah?

1434
00:58:47,200 --> 00:58:47,400
Speaker 2: Yeah?

1435
00:58:47,400 --> 00:58:48,880
Speaker 3: And the people who aren't supposed to be like, well,

1436
00:58:49,080 --> 00:58:51,200
Speaker 3: how did you get here? Who gave you the door code?

1437
00:58:51,480 --> 00:58:53,480
Speaker 2: How do you treat those people? Do you get angry?

1438
00:58:53,600 --> 00:58:55,160
Speaker 2: Do those people would piss me off?

1439
00:58:55,240 --> 00:58:55,400
Speaker 5: Right?

1440
00:58:55,480 --> 00:58:57,560
Speaker 2: Like the people that show up? Oh my god? What

1441
00:58:57,600 --> 00:59:02,840
Speaker 2: if they bring something like bottle? Uh or like a

1442
00:59:02,880 --> 00:59:05,120
Speaker 2: piece of cake? If they bring something, then great, you

1443
00:59:05,120 --> 00:59:05,600
Speaker 2: know what I mean?

1444
00:59:06,320 --> 00:59:10,120
Speaker 5: Like, Okay, Reggie came to fucking Emmy party the other night,

1445
00:59:10,160 --> 00:59:11,880
Speaker 5: which Reggie Conquest.

1446
00:59:11,960 --> 00:59:15,760
Speaker 2: Okay, what Amy party? It wasn't really an Emmy party.

1447
00:59:15,760 --> 00:59:17,520
Speaker 2: It was like an Emmy you see how bit just

1448
00:59:17,600 --> 00:59:21,040
Speaker 2: slide back. I didn't invite you. It wasn't really it was

1449
00:59:21,040 --> 00:59:21,640
Speaker 2: a hangout.

1450
00:59:21,680 --> 00:59:23,880
Speaker 5: It wasn't at my place. It was last minute, it

1451
00:59:23,920 --> 00:59:26,360
Speaker 5: wasn't at my place. And but it was Reggie's idea

1452
00:59:26,680 --> 00:59:30,720
Speaker 5: to have this, like get together at Macaulla's, right, Okay,

1453
00:59:30,840 --> 00:59:34,480
Speaker 5: so he he like set this whole thing up, shows

1454
00:59:34,560 --> 00:59:38,040
Speaker 5: up three hours late, like asks if he can bring

1455
00:59:38,160 --> 00:59:41,880
Speaker 5: like uh plates and cups and everybody already fucking ate

1456
00:59:42,200 --> 00:59:42,760
Speaker 5: you know what I mean?

1457
00:59:42,880 --> 00:59:45,200
Speaker 2: That kind of ship. If if that was my place,

1458
00:59:45,280 --> 00:59:46,760
Speaker 2: I'd be furious.

1459
00:59:47,360 --> 00:59:49,760
Speaker 1: He suggested her house and then didn't bring anything, and

1460
00:59:49,760 --> 00:59:51,080
Speaker 1: then didn't bring anything, and and.

1461
00:59:51,000 --> 00:59:52,120
Speaker 3: Then got there three hours later.

1462
00:59:52,160 --> 00:59:55,360
Speaker 2: Yes, so she hid the pot roast before.

1463
00:59:55,080 --> 00:59:59,400
Speaker 5: He got there so that he couldn't have any It

1464
00:59:59,440 --> 01:00:00,000
Speaker 5: was beautiful.

1465
01:00:00,160 --> 01:00:02,360
Speaker 2: That feels like something Reggie would do though.

1466
01:00:02,480 --> 01:00:04,360
Speaker 4: Yeah, of course, also, how long are the Emmys? That

1467
01:00:04,400 --> 01:00:08,360
Speaker 4: he was three hours late? The Emmys is three hours late, right,

1468
01:00:08,520 --> 01:00:09,640
Speaker 4: So what you know?

1469
01:00:09,680 --> 01:00:10,080
Speaker 2: I don't know?

1470
01:00:10,280 --> 01:00:11,120
Speaker 3: Was the pot roads cute?

1471
01:00:11,120 --> 01:00:12,760
Speaker 5: That was a good Did you guys watch the Emm's

1472
01:00:12,760 --> 01:00:13,280
Speaker 5: by the way, that.

1473
01:00:13,240 --> 01:00:13,800
Speaker 2: Made me angry?

1474
01:00:13,880 --> 01:00:16,400
Speaker 3: I haven't watched the Emmys and I don't watch work shows.

1475
01:00:16,520 --> 01:00:17,480
Speaker 2: Nah, I couldn't.

1476
01:00:17,640 --> 01:00:20,000
Speaker 3: I was why what what made you angry about it?

1477
01:00:20,080 --> 01:00:20,960
Speaker 2: Just the hosts?

1478
01:00:21,760 --> 01:00:24,880
Speaker 5: No, no, just everything about it. I was just like

1479
01:00:24,960 --> 01:00:27,280
Speaker 5: I thought, actually that Chay and Colin did a good job.

1480
01:00:28,480 --> 01:00:31,840
Speaker 5: I just feel like it was so the kind of

1481
01:00:31,920 --> 01:00:34,080
Speaker 5: laughter that if I don't know if you guys have

1482
01:00:34,080 --> 01:00:36,720
Speaker 5: ever done like a corporate gig where people can't laugh

1483
01:00:36,760 --> 01:00:38,640
Speaker 5: in front of their coworkers. Oh yeah, that's what the

1484
01:00:38,640 --> 01:00:41,400
Speaker 5: Emmys felt like, you know what I mean. They it

1485
01:00:41,480 --> 01:00:45,200
Speaker 5: all just felt like them being like, but those jokes

1486
01:00:45,200 --> 01:00:46,200
Speaker 5: weren't for them.

1487
01:00:46,640 --> 01:00:48,480
Speaker 2: I know, they were really playing to the people at home,

1488
01:00:48,560 --> 01:00:52,080
Speaker 2: which is perfect, right, they're smart. Yeah, maybe what Michelle

1489
01:00:52,080 --> 01:00:52,800
Speaker 2: Wolf did.

1490
01:00:52,760 --> 01:00:55,280
Speaker 5: But then everybody on Twitter is like just following whatever

1491
01:00:55,280 --> 01:00:57,040
Speaker 5: the Emmy audience did, you know what I mean, They

1492
01:00:57,080 --> 01:00:58,680
Speaker 5: were just like, Oh, I can't do this.

1493
01:00:58,840 --> 01:00:59,760
Speaker 2: I can't listen to this.

1494
01:00:59,800 --> 01:01:03,120
Speaker 5: I'm so uncomfortable because like nobody can think for themselves.

1495
01:01:03,120 --> 01:01:06,760
Speaker 4: Every joke is not for everybody, right, and them corporate

1496
01:01:06,800 --> 01:01:09,200
Speaker 4: gigs be real rough. One of the roughest shows that

1497
01:01:09,240 --> 01:01:11,600
Speaker 4: I've ever done. And I just remembered because I suppressed it.

1498
01:01:12,000 --> 01:01:16,000
Speaker 2: I did because I tried to completely.

1499
01:01:15,400 --> 01:01:17,120
Speaker 3: Forgot until you said that, and I was like, oh, yeah,

1500
01:01:17,320 --> 01:01:18,280
Speaker 3: one of my worst shows.

1501
01:01:18,720 --> 01:01:19,000
Speaker 2: Wash.

1502
01:01:19,200 --> 01:01:21,880
Speaker 1: You know how Walgreens has like the red Nose Day, yes,

1503
01:01:22,160 --> 01:01:24,200
Speaker 1: to like raise money for children or something. Yeah, you

1504
01:01:24,240 --> 01:01:27,640
Speaker 1: told me about that, but she was like, Marie, when

1505
01:01:27,680 --> 01:01:29,840
Speaker 1: you said that, I was like, I think you probably

1506
01:01:29,920 --> 01:01:31,640
Speaker 1: think that you didn't do, but you said people can

1507
01:01:31,640 --> 01:01:32,280
Speaker 1: were coming up to.

1508
01:01:32,240 --> 01:01:34,200
Speaker 2: You and tell you later. But in the moment when

1509
01:01:34,200 --> 01:01:35,760
Speaker 2: I'm on stage and no one. First of all, they

1510
01:01:35,760 --> 01:01:36,160
Speaker 2: showed a.

1511
01:01:36,120 --> 01:01:38,880
Speaker 1: Sad ass video of Julia Roberts with like children that

1512
01:01:38,920 --> 01:01:40,600
Speaker 1: had not eaten and were dying.

1513
01:01:41,560 --> 01:01:44,120
Speaker 3: And then they're like, next Marie Foston doing company, and.

1514
01:01:44,080 --> 01:01:47,360
Speaker 1: It was like, you got to say that from sad

1515
01:01:47,400 --> 01:01:50,480
Speaker 1: Aaron Brockovich to this, uh huh. And I went on

1516
01:01:50,520 --> 01:01:52,160
Speaker 1: stage and you know, it was a bunch of like

1517
01:01:52,320 --> 01:01:54,800
Speaker 1: old white dudes in there with like pinstripe suits or whatever.

1518
01:01:54,880 --> 01:01:56,600
Speaker 1: And I was like, look at all this money in here,

1519
01:01:56,680 --> 01:01:59,600
Speaker 1: and they nobody left. And then everything I said after that,

1520
01:01:59,600 --> 01:02:01,880
Speaker 1: they were just like waiting for me to finish. And

1521
01:02:01,920 --> 01:02:03,800
Speaker 1: I don't know how much time I was supposed to do,

1522
01:02:03,920 --> 01:02:10,200
Speaker 1: but I wrapped myself up. I was like, well, the

1523
01:02:10,240 --> 01:02:12,280
Speaker 1: open block on Rose, so I'm gonna just go over there,

1524
01:02:12,360 --> 01:02:15,120
Speaker 1: and they were like no, and uh, you know, I.

1525
01:02:15,120 --> 01:02:16,320
Speaker 2: Got paid for it. You got paid.

1526
01:02:16,440 --> 01:02:18,520
Speaker 4: That's all that I went on stage, which I love

1527
01:02:18,600 --> 01:02:21,640
Speaker 4: that fact. Yeah, I envelope with the cash in it, yeah,

1528
01:02:21,680 --> 01:02:23,080
Speaker 4: but I love that it.

1529
01:02:23,080 --> 01:02:25,600
Speaker 3: Was such a rough, corporate little gig for the kids.

1530
01:02:25,760 --> 01:02:27,919
Speaker 2: But I did it, you know, for the kids for sure. Yeah,

1531
01:02:29,600 --> 01:02:32,200
Speaker 2: for the kids. But Julia Roberts wasn't there. Yeah, but

1532
01:02:32,200 --> 01:02:34,760
Speaker 2: you got you got paid. She probably got paid to.

1533
01:02:35,320 --> 01:02:37,520
Speaker 1: But the people who come to those things, they're not

1534
01:02:37,560 --> 01:02:39,040
Speaker 1: trying to laugh anyway, like.

1535
01:02:39,040 --> 01:02:40,640
Speaker 3: You're yeah, they're there for like work.

1536
01:02:40,760 --> 01:02:43,800
Speaker 2: You don't know why they fucking get comics for this

1537
01:02:43,920 --> 01:02:46,360
Speaker 2: ship this kind of shiit save you're not we can't

1538
01:02:46,400 --> 01:02:48,040
Speaker 2: say I can't not only that.

1539
01:02:48,320 --> 01:02:51,920
Speaker 5: Most of us don't give a fuck about anything but ourselves.

1540
01:02:52,000 --> 01:02:54,240
Speaker 3: Yeah right, just because she with a harp to play

1541
01:02:54,240 --> 01:02:56,760
Speaker 3: for thirty minutes. Yeah, and then like donate get the.

1542
01:02:56,760 --> 01:02:58,840
Speaker 5: Kind of artist that gives a ship about other people,

1543
01:02:59,120 --> 01:03:01,320
Speaker 5: you know what I mean out the art form.

1544
01:03:01,560 --> 01:03:04,760
Speaker 1: Get a one legged spoken word person.

1545
01:03:05,040 --> 01:03:11,360
Speaker 3: Yes, like to be like the kids, yes, yes, yes, I.

1546
01:03:11,240 --> 01:03:14,640
Speaker 2: Mean they need money. The guys got one leg. They

1547
01:03:14,640 --> 01:03:17,080
Speaker 2: wanted to be like my friend did. The places that

1548
01:03:17,120 --> 01:03:18,160
Speaker 2: they do comedy is so weird.

1549
01:03:18,200 --> 01:03:21,040
Speaker 4: My friend was at a sex party and they were

1550
01:03:21,080 --> 01:03:23,160
Speaker 4: like we they hired a comedian and.

1551
01:03:23,120 --> 01:03:25,000
Speaker 1: They're like, you know, they get people in the move

1552
01:03:25,080 --> 01:03:27,520
Speaker 1: and it was like, what don't want to dicks out?

1553
01:03:27,640 --> 01:03:29,240
Speaker 3: And people got on collars, wait in here.

1554
01:03:29,280 --> 01:03:30,600
Speaker 2: I'm sorry what she.

1555
01:03:30,880 --> 01:03:33,560
Speaker 4: Did comedy at a sex party. They were like, we

1556
01:03:33,600 --> 01:03:35,160
Speaker 4: want they wanted somebody to warm up.

1557
01:03:35,440 --> 01:03:38,480
Speaker 2: That's how you know the sex party is trashed.

1558
01:03:38,800 --> 01:03:40,960
Speaker 3: Like I was there, sis, I went to the party.

1559
01:03:40,720 --> 01:03:41,120
Speaker 2: Just to see.

1560
01:03:41,160 --> 01:03:43,120
Speaker 1: They were like, okay, so the cold cuts are not

1561
01:03:43,240 --> 01:03:45,040
Speaker 1: gonna cut it, so we gotta.

1562
01:03:44,760 --> 01:03:48,240
Speaker 3: Get some comedy. Comedy it was.

1563
01:03:48,280 --> 01:03:48,760
Speaker 2: It was a lot.

1564
01:03:48,920 --> 01:03:49,720
Speaker 3: That's a great show.

1565
01:03:49,760 --> 01:03:51,280
Speaker 2: Actually, a lot of.

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01:03:51,280 --> 01:03:54,280
Speaker 4: People were like it was like like like like a

1567
01:03:54,360 --> 01:03:56,680
Speaker 4: comic con for like people who want to have sex

1568
01:03:56,800 --> 01:03:58,400
Speaker 4: in a like a warehouse place.

1569
01:03:58,520 --> 01:04:02,240
Speaker 5: That's what most swinger parties are is just like hideously ugly.

1570
01:04:02,280 --> 01:04:04,200
Speaker 2: People got a lot of swingers party set.

1571
01:04:04,320 --> 01:04:07,240
Speaker 1: No I went to one, so you so the right

1572
01:04:07,280 --> 01:04:08,240
Speaker 1: side of you is ugly.

1573
01:04:08,640 --> 01:04:10,640
Speaker 5: I went to one. So I went to one and listen,

1574
01:04:10,680 --> 01:04:12,320
Speaker 5: this was on me. This was my fault because I

1575
01:04:12,360 --> 01:04:17,200
Speaker 5: went to a swingers party with Seaton at like I

1576
01:04:17,280 --> 01:04:18,600
Speaker 5: think it was in January. It was one of the

1577
01:04:18,600 --> 01:04:21,800
Speaker 5: coldest days of the year. If people are trudging out

1578
01:04:21,800 --> 01:04:25,480
Speaker 5: in the snow to fuck at when it's six degrees.

1579
01:04:25,120 --> 01:04:28,360
Speaker 2: Out, those people are crazy are.

1580
01:04:28,360 --> 01:04:33,320
Speaker 5: Very lonely, Okay, I mean that's a very lonely type

1581
01:04:33,320 --> 01:04:33,760
Speaker 5: of person.

1582
01:04:33,840 --> 01:04:35,800
Speaker 1: I want to know the person who got there first,

1583
01:04:35,960 --> 01:04:39,760
Speaker 1: like yo, no, no, no, what about the committee that was like,

1584
01:04:39,800 --> 01:04:42,280
Speaker 1: we still we can't cancel this our deposits.

1585
01:04:42,440 --> 01:04:45,360
Speaker 2: It was the worst thing. I walked in there.

1586
01:04:46,120 --> 01:04:48,040
Speaker 5: I knew it was over before it even started because

1587
01:04:48,080 --> 01:04:50,160
Speaker 5: I walked in there and I took off my coat.

1588
01:04:50,360 --> 01:04:56,080
Speaker 5: Wore I remember what I wore. You might as well, Like,

1589
01:04:56,120 --> 01:04:58,920
Speaker 5: I think I came from a spot. You He was like,

1590
01:04:58,960 --> 01:05:00,160
Speaker 5: do you want to go to like check the OU.

1591
01:05:00,280 --> 01:05:01,880
Speaker 5: I was like sure, So I came from like a

1592
01:05:01,880 --> 01:05:04,280
Speaker 5: spot to meet him. I take off my coat. It

1593
01:05:04,360 --> 01:05:06,360
Speaker 5: drops on the ground and I went, oh and I

1594
01:05:06,800 --> 01:05:08,280
Speaker 5: had just been in a comedy club.

1595
01:05:09,240 --> 01:05:10,640
Speaker 3: So did they have carpet?

1596
01:05:10,800 --> 01:05:10,960
Speaker 2: You know?

1597
01:05:11,520 --> 01:05:16,000
Speaker 1: Yes, they had a six carpet.

1598
01:05:14,960 --> 01:05:18,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, you had GE's on your coat and everything was

1599
01:05:18,240 --> 01:05:20,680
Speaker 2: I was like, I was like, just get it, just

1600
01:05:20,760 --> 01:05:21,440
Speaker 2: keep my coat.

1601
01:05:21,480 --> 01:05:22,880
Speaker 3: Oh yeah. I didn't take any of my things off.

1602
01:05:22,920 --> 01:05:24,800
Speaker 4: But there was food at the sex party that I

1603
01:05:24,840 --> 01:05:26,600
Speaker 4: was at, and no one else was eating except me.

1604
01:05:26,720 --> 01:05:28,640
Speaker 2: That's the other day. I don't know why they have food.

1605
01:05:28,640 --> 01:05:30,000
Speaker 2: Why do they food at a sex party.

1606
01:05:30,160 --> 01:05:32,800
Speaker 1: There's one person that's like, you know, I can't really funk.

1607
01:05:32,840 --> 01:05:39,680
Speaker 2: I just literally I'm here. I'm here for the cheese.

1608
01:05:41,000 --> 01:05:45,480
Speaker 1: I'm like, this disgusting you anything at the Swinger party,

1609
01:05:46,320 --> 01:05:48,720
Speaker 1: he was on an empty stomach looking at terrible dick.

1610
01:05:49,360 --> 01:05:52,880
Speaker 2: That ain't my scene, that's not my lane. Literally me,

1611
01:05:53,080 --> 01:05:55,280
Speaker 2: we itto got six months to recover from that night.

1612
01:05:55,600 --> 01:05:57,560
Speaker 2: So how long did you guys stay at the Swingers party?

1613
01:05:57,680 --> 01:05:59,280
Speaker 2: I mean probably we walked.

1614
01:05:59,520 --> 01:06:02,360
Speaker 5: We walked around it and like looked around it and

1615
01:06:02,400 --> 01:06:04,480
Speaker 5: we were just like joking with each other for a while.

1616
01:06:04,840 --> 01:06:11,280
Speaker 6: We'll drinks in the You guys have to I mean honestly,

1617
01:06:11,320 --> 01:06:13,760
Speaker 6: you have to go because it is the most hideous,

1618
01:06:13,800 --> 01:06:16,800
Speaker 6: Like it was like the place where they it was

1619
01:06:17,280 --> 01:06:18,200
Speaker 6: ground zero for.

1620
01:06:18,160 --> 01:06:20,640
Speaker 2: Pink eye, you know what I mean, Like it was,

1621
01:06:21,320 --> 01:06:22,160
Speaker 2: oh yeah, and.

1622
01:06:22,240 --> 01:06:24,240
Speaker 3: You walked in and immediately took your coat off.

1623
01:06:24,280 --> 01:06:27,120
Speaker 5: I would have just would you have to you have

1624
01:06:27,200 --> 01:06:29,640
Speaker 5: to take off your stuff because people rob you.

1625
01:06:29,960 --> 01:06:31,480
Speaker 2: I think that's what I was thinking. I was like,

1626
01:06:31,560 --> 01:06:33,440
Speaker 2: this is the kind of place where people will rob you.

1627
01:06:33,560 --> 01:06:34,720
Speaker 3: Where was the sex party?

1628
01:06:35,320 --> 01:06:38,480
Speaker 2: I don't borrow this, son.

1629
01:06:38,400 --> 01:06:40,920
Speaker 3: Like you were in the Bronx Dude, Like, where were you?

1630
01:06:40,920 --> 01:06:41,120
Speaker 6: No?

1631
01:06:41,160 --> 01:06:44,600
Speaker 1: But it's like it was I can't go to a

1632
01:06:44,640 --> 01:06:47,600
Speaker 1: sex party, especially with Marie because Marie were like, don't

1633
01:06:47,600 --> 01:06:50,880
Speaker 1: look and then and he's like she.

1634
01:06:50,800 --> 01:06:53,520
Speaker 3: Turned, you know when you're like look over there, let's

1635
01:06:53,680 --> 01:06:54,600
Speaker 3: don't don't, don't do.

1636
01:06:54,560 --> 01:06:59,080
Speaker 1: And then you took the one like where yes, his

1637
01:06:59,360 --> 01:07:09,080
Speaker 1: arms like yarms, yo, he's missing one where.

1638
01:07:09,000 --> 01:07:12,040
Speaker 3: His balls that's sitting She's rude.

1639
01:07:12,240 --> 01:07:13,160
Speaker 2: That's so funny.

1640
01:07:13,600 --> 01:07:15,880
Speaker 5: There was literally a couple that I remember because there

1641
01:07:15,880 --> 01:07:18,960
Speaker 5: were several floors and each floor was like supposed to

1642
01:07:18,960 --> 01:07:22,240
Speaker 5: get kinkier, but the ceilings would get lower, so people

1643
01:07:22,360 --> 01:07:24,720
Speaker 5: just look bigger and bigger as you went up on

1644
01:07:24,760 --> 01:07:28,080
Speaker 5: the floors. So it was Alice in Wonderland, Alice in Wonderland,

1645
01:07:28,080 --> 01:07:30,800
Speaker 5: where you just like walked into somebody's asshole at the end,

1646
01:07:30,960 --> 01:07:36,320
Speaker 5: like it was like the most disastrous ship I've ever seen.

1647
01:07:36,360 --> 01:07:38,720
Speaker 5: I could count the rings around a woman's asshole. By

1648
01:07:38,720 --> 01:07:42,080
Speaker 5: the end of this ring, this woman's dead. I mean

1649
01:07:42,240 --> 01:07:43,880
Speaker 5: she must have been very old.

1650
01:07:44,200 --> 01:07:48,600
Speaker 2: She must have been very old, old mother Hubbard. Rings

1651
01:07:48,640 --> 01:07:49,440
Speaker 2: around the asshole.

1652
01:07:50,640 --> 01:07:51,360
Speaker 3: Anybody.

1653
01:07:51,920 --> 01:07:55,200
Speaker 2: I think it's good to express your anger freely.

1654
01:07:55,760 --> 01:07:58,400
Speaker 3: You throw that rock in that window with that person's.

1655
01:07:58,000 --> 01:08:01,760
Speaker 5: Face, listen. That was in the beginning of my anger career. Okay,

1656
01:08:01,840 --> 01:08:04,480
Speaker 5: you don't throw you don't throw shit at people now,

1657
01:08:05,480 --> 01:08:09,280
Speaker 5: but you should yell. You can yell, and you can

1658
01:08:09,320 --> 01:08:11,880
Speaker 5: say I'm very fucking angry right now. And you don't

1659
01:08:11,880 --> 01:08:14,720
Speaker 5: have to you know, you don't have to say anything

1660
01:08:14,760 --> 01:08:15,760
Speaker 5: about the person's character.

1661
01:08:15,760 --> 01:08:17,800
Speaker 2: You could just say how angry you are. Rose. That

1662
01:08:17,880 --> 01:08:20,439
Speaker 2: was literally the whitest thing you said. I am very

1663
01:08:20,479 --> 01:08:24,520
Speaker 2: fucking That was my voice when I was a nanny

1664
01:08:24,800 --> 01:08:25,120
Speaker 2: that show.

1665
01:08:25,360 --> 01:08:26,920
Speaker 3: When you be asking this, speak to manage me, you

1666
01:08:27,000 --> 01:08:28,720
Speaker 3: be like, look, I'm very any.

1667
01:08:28,400 --> 01:08:29,479
Speaker 2: Speak to the manager.

1668
01:08:29,640 --> 01:08:32,680
Speaker 1: I'm very disappointed. I'm so disappointed.

1669
01:08:33,280 --> 01:08:36,799
Speaker 2: I have never experienced anything like this. The clam chowder

1670
01:08:37,040 --> 01:08:41,280
Speaker 2: really disappointed me. White people chowder?

1671
01:08:41,479 --> 01:08:44,200
Speaker 3: Is that like clam soup? Yeah, that's nasty.

1672
01:08:44,360 --> 01:08:46,840
Speaker 2: I don't know anybody that orders claims Sydney.

1673
01:08:46,880 --> 01:08:48,200
Speaker 3: Does you heard you just said it's good.

1674
01:08:48,280 --> 01:08:48,679
Speaker 2: It's good.

1675
01:08:49,200 --> 01:08:51,200
Speaker 1: There's the one from New York, and then there's one

1676
01:08:51,280 --> 01:08:54,120
Speaker 1: from New England. The New England is the white one.

1677
01:08:54,439 --> 01:08:56,000
Speaker 1: I'm both pretty white to me, says.

1678
01:08:56,200 --> 01:09:01,200
Speaker 2: New England's probaly Wider producer Joe. It's white, right, Okay,

1679
01:09:01,320 --> 01:09:03,320
Speaker 2: of course that's gross.

1680
01:09:03,320 --> 01:09:04,719
Speaker 3: Be learned that you like clam chowder.

1681
01:09:05,000 --> 01:09:05,320
Speaker 2: I do.

1682
01:09:05,600 --> 01:09:09,439
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie and you get the little the cookie. No,

1683
01:09:09,479 --> 01:09:12,120
Speaker 1: not the crackers, the little clam cracker.

1684
01:09:12,479 --> 01:09:14,160
Speaker 2: So good, so gross, so young.

1685
01:09:14,439 --> 01:09:17,559
Speaker 5: Yeah, it literally makes me make an ugly face whatever

1686
01:09:18,040 --> 01:09:18,559
Speaker 5: the thought of it.

1687
01:09:18,640 --> 01:09:21,479
Speaker 3: I mean, my face doesn't do ugly things, but you know, basically, yeah.

1688
01:09:21,439 --> 01:09:25,200
Speaker 2: Right, it's trying. I can see Marie trying to look ugly.

1689
01:09:25,280 --> 01:09:27,920
Speaker 4: Thank you so much, Rosebud. Where can people listening catch

1690
01:09:27,960 --> 01:09:29,080
Speaker 4: you going on?

1691
01:09:29,320 --> 01:09:29,840
Speaker 2: Oh god?

1692
01:09:30,400 --> 01:09:33,559
Speaker 5: You can catch me on Twitter and Instagram at Rosebud Baker.

1693
01:09:34,840 --> 01:09:38,000
Speaker 2: I will be when is this coming out tomorrow? Tomorrow?

1694
01:09:38,040 --> 01:09:39,360
Speaker 3: You know, we don't be prepared for these things.

1695
01:09:39,360 --> 01:09:41,639
Speaker 5: All right, Well then I will be at the Village

1696
01:09:41,680 --> 01:09:43,960
Speaker 5: Underground next week. All my show dates stuff like that

1697
01:09:44,040 --> 01:09:45,960
Speaker 5: is on my website at rosebud Baker dot com.

1698
01:09:46,120 --> 01:09:47,439
Speaker 3: Your real name is Rosebud.

1699
01:09:48,600 --> 01:09:50,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, no, that's a lie.

1700
01:09:50,560 --> 01:09:51,920
Speaker 3: She said he's Venezuelan.

1701
01:09:52,080 --> 01:09:54,600
Speaker 2: So it's actually.

1702
01:10:00,120 --> 01:10:04,840
Speaker 1: That's a good talk Yelanda Baker. H what Yolanda Baker?

1703
01:10:04,840 --> 01:10:06,400
Speaker 1: That sounds like a talk show. Send him taking my

1704
01:10:06,479 --> 01:10:06,920
Speaker 1: headphones off?

1705
01:10:10,360 --> 01:10:10,839
Speaker 2: Forever.

1706
01:10:13,720 --> 01:10:17,240
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1707
01:10:17,240 --> 01:10:22,600
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01:10:22,720 --> 01:10:26,840
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01:10:26,880 --> 01:10:31,480
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01:10:31,760 --> 01:10:34,599
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