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Speaker 1: It is time to ask the clo. This is from

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Speaker 1: Malcolm in Brooklyn Colo. Malcolm writes, my wife and I

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Speaker 1: had a bad blowout because I hung out with her

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Speaker 1: ex and we ended up on some pictures together. She

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Speaker 1: hates him, so I'm supposed to hate him, but he's

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Speaker 1: a cool guy. We were in a group setting. So

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Speaker 1: was I wrong for kicking it with him?

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Speaker 2: Absolutely?

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Speaker 3: Absolutely, one hundred percent wrong, one hundred percent wrong.

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Speaker 2: Let me ask you something, though. All you gotta do

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Speaker 2: is reverse it.

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Speaker 3: Suppose your wife was somewhere kicking it with the X,

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Speaker 3: her ex, your wife, and he's a great guy. Now

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Speaker 3: I remember, how happy would you be? And they just

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Speaker 3: up in these pictures kicking it?

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Speaker 2: Exes is out.

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Speaker 3: Don't come over here, don't mean, don't bring them up.

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Speaker 3: I don't want to hear.

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Speaker 4: No here he he's a cool guy, Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Here cool got what dog? What's wrong with you? Dog?

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Speaker 2: What's wrong with you?

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Speaker 1: Now?

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Speaker 3: Dog?

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Speaker 2: I ain't that's yeah, man.

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Speaker 4: You wrong?

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Speaker 2: She hates him.

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Speaker 3: He obviously she has some unfond memories some things he

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Speaker 3: did to her and she didn't forgive them, which coach

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Speaker 3: caused the divorce. And now you cool with him?

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Speaker 1: No?

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Speaker 3: Man? Hey, man, you you don't know, You don't know

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Speaker 3: what the problem is. You might want to check into

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Speaker 3: why she's so mad, because if there was any type

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Speaker 3: of abuse of any kind, and you over there laughing

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Speaker 3: with the dude, you you are lying.

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Speaker 4: You should be hearing that too.

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Speaker 2: No, dog, that's all it is.

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Speaker 3: If you if you do something to somebody I love,

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Speaker 3: and I hear about it, and I wasn't in your life,

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Speaker 3: then when I see you, I'm slapping you.

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Speaker 4: And yeah, absolutely love and support her, all right.

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Speaker 1: Moving on to Sandra Anne Sandra Anne in Houston. Sandra

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Speaker 1: Ann writes, I didn't. I don't tell my husband everywhere

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Speaker 1: I go in a day, and I'm sure he doesn't

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Speaker 1: tell me every stop he makes. He had started calling

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Speaker 1: me to ask where I am and what I'm doing

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Speaker 1: more than he used to. Should I do the same

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Speaker 1: thing to him so he'll stop it.

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Speaker 2: Oh, now you gotta understand what's going Okay, Come on,

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Speaker 2: where you at? What you're doing?

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Speaker 3: Sometimes you gotta know where the bus is at, that's right.

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Speaker 3: Sometimes you just gotta keep a try. It's like a tracker.

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Speaker 4: Tell the truth.

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Speaker 2: Let me tell ay where you at? Okay, that's eight

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Speaker 2: miles away?

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Speaker 3: All right, what you're doing. I'm getting my hair done.

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Speaker 3: That's three hours.

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Speaker 2: Okay, cool, all have a great day. Yeah.

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Speaker 3: So now if you reverse it on him, nah, problem.

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Speaker 2: Now we can see what's going on, so you know.

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Speaker 1: But you're not gonna say just say what it could be.

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Speaker 1: You're just gonna hint at it.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you know, because you don't know. You know, he

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Speaker 3: just could be insecure. He could actually suspect you of cheating.

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Speaker 4: But is he though? You don't know that.

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Speaker 3: I just these are the two scenarios. Look, you know,

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Speaker 3: just say it just out of no where? Hey, where

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Speaker 3: you at?

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Speaker 2: What you doing? How long you're gonna be? What you

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Speaker 2: You don't know how to ask? You know, how to

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Speaker 2: get that information? Get a tracker?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, there you go. All right, here we go next.

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Speaker 4: Andrew and Andrew and dover.

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Speaker 2: Were you think?

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Speaker 1: Andrew says, uh, I have a friends with benefits relationship

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Speaker 1: with a lady I met online.

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Speaker 4: Every two or three weeks.

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Speaker 1: She's asking me if we can be more than friends,

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Speaker 1: and she cooks for me and buys me things. How

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Speaker 1: do I keep a friendly sexual relationship with her? Is

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Speaker 1: that possible?

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Speaker 4: He wants to know?

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Speaker 2: Andrew and dope, Well, yeah, if that's all it's gonna be.

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Speaker 3: But I'm telling you what she wants, and she's saying

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Speaker 3: what she wants. But you got to stay the course,

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Speaker 3: you know. But you're gonna have to get into why

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Speaker 3: in a minute. And why is oh, well he got somebody.

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Speaker 1: Oh oh, which is why he only has the friends

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Speaker 1: with benefits with her.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, he's not gonna commit to her somebody else.

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Speaker 3: Is all saying, Yeah, okay, this this easy. Men ain't

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Speaker 3: that complicated, y'all.

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Speaker 1: But he still wants to have sex with her on

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Speaker 1: the side. Yeah, nothing more permanent. Okay, Well, is he

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Speaker 1: gonna stop taking the gifts and stuff and eating her food?

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Speaker 2: That's the that's all of them.

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Speaker 3: All the benefits. She got too big of a package.

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Speaker 3: So you can you see see you donet gave too

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Speaker 3: much without getting enough. Agreed.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, all right, Last one, Steve, last one. This is

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Speaker 1: from Panina in Charlotte, Banina, right, Mike, Panina, Panina.

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Speaker 2: I don't know no Panina. You know any Panica.

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Speaker 4: I don't, I don't.

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Speaker 2: Probably probably live in the Salvado go here.

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Speaker 4: She lives in Charlotte. Okay, she's from Charlotte, and by well,

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Speaker 4: well you know the door random.

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Speaker 3: I can't get it, Bina, go ahead here. You know

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Speaker 3: I've been black sixty eight years. I don't know a

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Speaker 3: black person named Panela. I mean whatever, Pinata, whatever her

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Speaker 1: And Charlotte writes, my neighbor speeds through the neighborhood. I

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Speaker 1: sent an email about it to our h o A.

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Speaker 1: The h o A sent the neighbor my email and

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Speaker 1: she stopped speaking to me. My husband said that I

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Speaker 1: am messy. What's the purpose of an h o A

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Speaker 1: if we can't complain?

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Speaker 2: You ain't the ho AO? But she why are you

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Speaker 2: all in this here? Well?

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Speaker 3: And guess what she's still speeding? What you're telling it for?

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Speaker 3: See you at h o A neighborhood block watch? Two

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Speaker 3: different things. Now what you want to be? You want

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Speaker 3: to head of the you want to be hered a

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Speaker 3: block watch or you want to be the homeowner's associated.

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Speaker 3: Make sure everybody grass cut, make sure everybody mailbox two feet.

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Speaker 2: From the curve. Everybody got decorating stuff.

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Speaker 1: She doesn't want to get hit or you know, yahhood,

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Speaker 1: this is this is not right, beating through the neighborhood.

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Speaker 4: What do you speaking?

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Speaker 2: What's her name again? Say her name again?

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Speaker 4: Panina? What they have to do with it.

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Speaker 2: And Charlotte kids is farty? What kids is Farty? That's

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Speaker 2: a old that's an old name from all you know.

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Speaker 1: But she's with somebody's kids, yes, or someone or direct

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Speaker 1: someone's car.

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Speaker 4: There's so much she can do speeding through the neighborhood.

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Speaker 3: I tell you right now, with a name like that,

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Speaker 3: I would not be writing in on the radio.

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Speaker 4: Leave her name over, I like Banina, think you all right?

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Speaker 4: Thank you, Celo.

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Speaker 2: Not really listen your pretty name, but it pretty name.

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Speaker 2: Be on a plane.

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Speaker 4: Keep on you're listening. Hardy Morning Show